Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Marion -- all the way from France! Marion is a school teacher, who got divorced 10 years ago, and has dated several men over the years since her split. Now, she's dating an amazing guy she really likes and can see a future with, but there are a few red flags and she needs some advice on. This guy just got out of his marriage and Marion is worried that she's his rebound. Kim discusses how men respond to break ups and Marion's family and dating history might be impacting her decision to stay in this relationship. Kim also uncovers some key issues from her childhood that have crept up in her dating life consistently. Listen as Kim provides Marion with some tangible steps to help her determine whether this guy truly has the qualities she wants in a partner, or if she's blinded by what she hopes he will be. When you're ready to uncover why you're choosing the same people over and over, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session, just like Marion's with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

One day you and your guy are texting back and forth and then, suddenly - you never hear from him again. On this week's episode Kim talks all about ghosting, why men do it, how to recognize the signs, and how to deal with the aftermath. You'll learn there are only a few reasons why men disappear without notice and almost all of them disqualify these men from being good partners for you. Kim breaks down how to stop focusing on why he stopped communicating and instead focus on how not to take it personally and move on. This is an empowering look on how you can deal with this bad dating behavior and move on confidently without getting stuck wondering, what if? And, if you want to connect with an incredible community of women who are all transforming their love lives from the outside in, join Kim's private Love Makeover Insiders Facebook Group HERE: https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you're on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you're more likely to try something you wouldn't normally, because hey, you're on vacation right? When you apply that logic to your dating life, you open yourself up to love. After you listen and you realize you need a vacation, contact Kim about an exclusive retreat coming up that you will want to know about! http://bit.ly/2shKDJ5

Fear manifests itself in so many ways in relationships. There's the fear of intimacy, the fear of abandonment, the fear of being alone and countless others. This week Kim talks to Melanie Curtis - author, speaker and fierce life coach, about how to take a leap of faith and crush your fears! Melanie has been skydiving more than 10,000 times - something that would terrify most of us - but that means she's a pro at facing scary things head on and pushing through no matter what. Kim and Melanie discuss the fact that inspiration means nothing without the action to back it up. Melanie shares her process on how to confront fear by acknowledging it exists, drilling down to the core of that fear and determining if it's is real or imagined. Kim and Melanie talk through how important it is to normalize our fears through validation and most of all, focus on solutions. This conversation will show you that you are capable of conquering your fears in relationships, because it's all about building social and emotional skills. If you want help conquering your fears in the dating world, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Dena, who's having trouble trusting the men she dates. This episode is all about how to trust others, without giving away your power. Dena is struggling with some ghosts of her past - two divorces and an experience with infidelity. She embodies the role of "giver" in all areas of her life and has attracted men who are "takers". In the past, she's fallen victim to dynamics where men take advantage of her giving nature and she lacks the tools to set boundaries, ask for what she wants and not lower her standards in order to please the other person. This coaching session is a great lesson on how you can build your self-confidence and trust your own value. Kim gives some great tips about how and when to lower your guard and allow yourself to be vulnerable in order to open yourself up to new opportunities. If you're ready and willing to step in a new direction in your love life, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session, just like Dena's with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

This week Kim interviews Benjamin Ritter, host of the Live for Yourself podcast. Ben is a leader in public health and an executive and personal consultant with a focus in dating and relationships. Benjamin and Kim talk about their personal experiences with BIG, life-altering changes. Kim deep dives into the topic of how states of change can alter your perspective and that practice should be encouraged. Ben and Kim discuss that when you're not truly living for yourself, it feels like the world is acting on you, instead of you making conscious choices to live in alignment with your goals and priorities. Ben gives some concrete action steps towards reprogramming your training so that you can align your values, your goals and your actions. This conversation focuses on our stressors, their causes and how to use those things as fuel to change ourselves for the better. If you're ready to make a MAJOR change in your life and even induce your own break state, sign up for a FREE breakthrough session with Kim HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Have you ever dated a narcissist? Well if you have, you're not alone! This week, Kim discusses how to spot narcissists from a mile away and how to avoid them! If you're on a date with a suspected narcissist, Kim shares some great tips on how to weed them out. Here's the thing, if you're a natural caregiver, you're more inclined to be accommodating and give in to their selfish needs. Kim talks about how to check your own behavior to make sure you're not allowing someone to take your power away. You do have the power to stop attracting narcissists and this episode will show you how to get off this negative track. If you've had a history of lopsided relationships and are looking to make a shift in your love life, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Easter, who's struggling to feel recognized and appreciated at work. Although Easter currently has a loving relationship with a supportive partner, Kim dovetails into how patterns at work relate to relationships and social confidence in your life overall. Kim and Easter talk through Easter's upbringing in a socially isolated, strict religious household and how that experience directly impacts her experience at work. Easter has gone through some big transformations in her life that helped her move on from a bad marriage and break programming from her background she wanted to release. Kim helps her identify what she did to move forward from her childhood and marriage and apply that to her career. Kim gives Easter some specific strategies to break through her patterns and help her identify and envision what she truly wants for her professional life. If you're interested in having a FREE breakthrough session like Easter's, Sign up HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for your own today!

Kim talks with Vedic Astrologer and Relationship Coach, Carol Allen about what goes into attracting a relationship that will last. Vedic astrology is an old Indian system that is said to be much more predictive of your love life than your run of the mill magazine horoscope. Kim and Carol have a lively and personal conversation about getting confident and clear on what you want in a relationship, alignment and missed connections with soulmates. Carol and Kim mind-meld on astrology and psychology, and talk through how our past is deeply connected to our future. Find out how negative experiences from the past might be interfering with your relationships now and ways you can be powerful enough to change possible outcomes. Discover how being committed to getting clear on what you want and where you're at in your life is essential to attracting the kind of relationship you want. And if you're looking to get clear on your love goals, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

It's never too late to find love! This week Kim dispells the myth that you can't find love after 40. You can! You know the old tropes, "There are no good men out there!" and "All women are crazy!" Neither of these are true and your belief in them is holding you back from dating successfully. If you're having trouble believing that you are capable of dating after 40, this episode is the first step to shifting your perspective. Kim gives some great tips for pushing yourself to get back out there. Once we hit 40, we tend to narrow our view of what's possible for ourselves...but that's a mistake. Dating after 40 can be better than ever! Kim explains how dating later in life can be fun, invigorating, and rewarding - especially if you allow yourself to be open to new experiences, new people and hopefully, a new relationship. And, if you're looking to jumpstart your dating plan, join Love Makeover Insiders, Kim's FREE private Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

Back by popular demand, Kim has an candid conversation with friend of the show, Jordan Harbinger. Jordan opens up to Kim about his experience leaving Art of Charm and creating his new show, The Jordan Harbinger Show. Kim talks through how big changes in our lives can feel just like a major breakup. When something that consumes a huge part of your life is suddenly gone, whether it's a job, or a relationship, it can feel like part of your identity has been taken away. Hindsight is 20/20, and now that some time has passed, Jordan's had the chance to reflect and process his feelings. Kim and Jordan uncover some actionable tips on how to recover from a breakup without breaking down, how to create a fresh start, how to find your own identity again and how to prioritize working on yourself instead of dwelling on the past. Progress happens when you allow yourself to feel your emotional pain, but breakthroughs are solidified when you push through that pain and commit to moving forward. So, if you're looking for help working through something in your life, sign up for a breakthrough session with Kim today! Just click the link here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

On this week's coaching episode, Kim does a deep dive with Melissa about how ghosts from the past can haunt new relationships. Melissa is in a new relationship with a great guy and things are going well. But...she can't shake off the anxiety that bubbles up when she doesn't hear from him. In fact, 24 hours without a text is causing her to feel like the relationship is ending! Kim talks through some emotional patterns that originated in Melissa's family with her father and helps her discover for the first time how these patterns have triggered anxiety with her new guy. Kim discusses the source of Melissa's fear of abandonment and how the subconscious mind can bring these issues to the forefront, even in a happy, loving relationship. Many of us, just like Melissa, have feared that a guy might suddenly lose interest in us, ghost us, or move on without closure. So don't miss Kim's tips for boosting your self-esteem, getting to know how your new beau shows affection, and how to deal with the source of your fears head on. This conversation is the epitome of an emotional breakthrough! If you're ready to take the first step in uncovering what's blocking you from finding love in your life, join Kim's FREE private Love Makeover Insider's Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love lives from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

This week, Kim discusses the emotional and physical responses to breakups that make us feel unsexy, unconfident and totally alone. And who better to discuss how to regain your spark, than dating expert and creator of Sexy Confidence, Adam LoDolce! Adam and Kim have a lively discussion in how committing to action is essential for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. When you're stuck in a post-breakup rut, the practice of creating new habits is essential. Adam gives some great tips on how to move past rejection by first healing through rediscovering your personal identity. Kim and Adam agree that confidence is defined as exposure and experience. If you're not feeling sexy and confident in your dating life, listen to this fun conversation that will help you boost your love life. Kim knows as well as anyone that breakups can feel like a major loss or even a death, but these tips will help you see the light and realize that you can get your sexy back! If you're looking for a community to support you in getting your mojo back, join Kim's Love Makeover Insider's Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life from the outside in! https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

On this week's show, Kim talks through all the ways you could be holding yourself back from finding your next relationship. Whether you need a push to get out of the house to meet new people and expose yourself to the energy of the opposite sex, or you need to practice feeling flirty and sexy with a new outfit - Kim has you covered. This episode takes a deep dive into reclaiming your power and shows you that you can make positive choices that will lead you to the love you want! Kim shares useful tips on how to find the courage to change your routine, meet new people and feel confident in yourself while taking a proactive approach to dating. If you need an extra boost, join Kim's exclusive Love Makeover Insiders Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life from the outside in https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

This week Kim interviews the unstoppable Bill Wooditch - a sales expert, speaker and best-selling author. Kim talks to Bill about how he motivated himself to change through his journey, how he was able to direct his focus and push through when failure seemed like the only option. They talk about how to identify and use both internal and external motivators to propel out of your comfort zone and towards what you want. This empowering conversation will help you realize that your past is simply a condition, but it doesn't have to determine your future. For starters, not bringing your past to the table (especially on the first date), always show up as your best self (hint: it's all about the outfit) and finally, be authentic, caring and LISTEN! This is a fun conversation you won't want to miss. If you are looking for a little external motivation to get out there and show up as your best self, sign up HERE: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a breakthrough session with Kim today! Also join her private Love Makeover Insiders Facebook group for women committed to transforming their love life inside & out https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

This week a powerful and emotional live coaching episode with Kim's client, Anne. She's mastered the art of getting guys to the first date, but when it comes to securing the second one, she's stumped! Kim uncovers the REAL reasons why Anne can't get past the first encounter and why she can't find chemistry with any guy she meets. And it's not what you might think! Here Kim helps Anne face some surprising and revealing truths. Anne learns that when you gain clarity about what you want, and you express that intention directly, you begin attracting the kind of partners that match that intention. There are some juicy tips in how to get past fears and create connections upon first impression. If you are tired of feeling burnt out with dating and are interested in having your own breakthrough session either on air or off…sign up and book a time to talk with Kim HERE https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Does the thought of trying to curate the perfect online dating profile sound worse than a root canal? If so, don't worry…you are not alone! This week, Kim's got you covered as she takes you through the Dos and Don'ts of Virtual Dating. You'll learn simple tips on how to create an attention grabbing profile that will impress your next match. Kim talks about how to make a positive and lasting first impression. And, she'll walk you through how to engage in an online conversation so you don't come off like a robot in a business meeting. Remember, your online profile doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be all about you. And, if you're looking to revamp your online profile and love life schedule a FREE breakthrough session with Kim and find out what is preventing you from finding love https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

This week, every question you've ever had about how to maximize return on your online dating profile answered. Kim interviews Julie Spira, America's top online dating expert and digital matchmaker. Julie has spent her career mastering online dating from the early days of chatrooms, to the explosion of dating apps on the market today. No matter what platform you're using, if you're building your profile online, you won't want to miss her tips! Julie and Kim discuss what kind of pictures will catch your next date's attention and what to avoid. Plus, they discuss how integrating questions directly into your profile are foolproof conversation starters. If you're ready to update your dating profile, look no further. And, if you need a new outfit perfect for your next profile picture, be sure to grab Kim's FREE body type guide for men https://bl394-9b4f27.pages.infusionsoft.net/ and women https://bl394-8b8478.pages.infusionsoft.net/ to learn what clothes work for you and not against you!

Are you interested in just having fun, growing into a relationship, or something else? It's up to you! This week on Coaching with Kim you will learn how to tell if you're sending the right signals and how to determine your pacing in a new relationship. In this episode, you'll meet Sue -- she got married when she was 20 and divorced 31 years later. Now she's single, revamping her wardrobe, putting herself out there on dating apps and seeing a few new guys. Along with finding her voice in her newly single role, Sue is trying to strike the right balance with her flirting style. Kim helps Sue understand how getting clear on what she wants is essential to be able to send the right signals. If you're like Sue and have recently gotten out of a long relationship or marriage, it's all too easy to fall back into old patterns. Kim shares some tips on how to resist the urge to dive back into another relationship and take the opportunity to casually date new, different people. Kim also helps her talk about expressing her needs and wants confidently. And don't forget, if you want to put these skills to the test - sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Stop being a shapeshifter and find the real you! This week, Kim talks about shapeshifting, or the ability to morph into what others want to see in order to be liked or praised. You may have recognized this phenomenon in others, or yourself. While shapeshifting can be a positive (it comes with incredible sales skills!), but it's impossible to maintain balanced relationships when one person is hiding who they really are. Kim goes through how to detect if you or your date is shapeshifting, how to express your needs outside your script and how to date for yourself! These tips will show you how to talk about what you love, what you stand for and what makes you tick without overdoing it or being needy. And, if you spot a shapeshifter in your life, this episode will teach you how to call them out and encourage them to express their authentic self. Don't forget, if you want to put these skills to the test - sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Kim and former shy guy Myke Macapinlac, founder of Social Confidence Mastery, discuss how the right outfit and little confidence can change everything for you. Myke is a lifestyle entrepreneur and social dynamic specialist who helps shy guys become socially confident. This week, Kim and Myke talk about how the clothing you wear impacts your world. And ladies you'll LOVE hearing a man's perspective on this. You'll hear some great tips on building self-assurance and how clothes can be a vehicle to help you feel attractive every day. Myke talks about how loving yourself, having a fulfilling lifestyle, dressing well and having rewarding friendships all come before finding lasting love in your life. If you're doubting whether this system actually works - it is scientifically proven that your outfit can put you in a different psychological state! Plus, if you need help getting a date to be in that relationship sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat! April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

This week on Coaching with Kim: a man's perspective! Kim talks with Stephen, a guy who's navigating his way through the casual dating space. Right now, he's trying to figure out how to balance diving in too deep too soon and taking it slow with the women he's seen recently. Stephen grew up in a family that wasn't super emotionally open. Kim talks through how this has likely manifested itself in his adult relationships. And, he highlights a major point about flirting that all the ladies listening should take note of. Finally, this episode is a great reminder that you are not responsible for other people's feelings as long as you express yourself in a truthful, respectful way. And, if you think Kim could help you work through something you're struggling with in your love life send an email to [email protected] for a chance to be featured on an episode of Coaching With Kim! OR if you need help feeling confident and sexy to attract the right man...sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

It's that time of year again - stores are overflowing with heart shaped boxes of chocolate, teddy bears and bouquets of roses. Don't panic! The Valentine's Day frenzy doesn't have to make you feel insecure, lonely, or unsexy. Remember, feeling sexy is all about how you view yourself... and it's all up to you. In this week's episode, Kim gives some important tips about how you can feel and look sexy every single day. Embrace your feminine side, buy a new dress, throw on a pair of heels, or make a Pinterest board of sexy selfies! Kim shares some great strategies to empower you to feel good and love yourself as you are right now. Make sure to check out seltzerstyle.com and download her FREE sexy body shape guide to find out how to flatter your figure every day of the week. And, if you're looking to a fun weekend getaway to put these skills into practice, sign up for Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Dr. Ish Major has been decoding the way men think and act in dating and relationships for his entire career. A board-certified psychiatrist and resident relationship expert on WEtv's Marriage Bootcamp, Dr. Ish has obviously seen his share of broken relationships! In today's episode, Kim and Ish discuss how men and women both assume they know exactly what the opposite sex wants - and nothing could be further from the truth! Ish shares some incredible tips on how to avoid making assumptions on your next date or in your current relationship. Here's a hint - say exactly what you want up front. These two break down some key differences in how men and women process and communicate information, why men and women lie and tell you how to set expectations for your partner. And, if you're in a relationship RIGHT NOW that needs some major TLC, sign up for Dr. Ish's Relationship Rescue and Recovery Boot Camp! https://drishmajor.mykajabi.com/a/7334/Rhe6FYYL or if you need help getting a date to be in that relationship sign up for Kim's Dating Makeover Retreat April 12-15 http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y

Do people accuse you of being "too nice?" This week is all about getting over that "nice syndrome" so many of us suffer from. And no, this doesn't mean you being aloof or hurtful to people! It means, learning to express your needs and wants confidently without having to tiptoe around people you worry may disagree with you. Kim discusses how getting over your "nice syndrome" can help foster better friendships, improve professional interactions, and of course, attract dates. Plus, she talks about how to spot a narcissist from a mile away, gives some specific tips for how to express your needs without making the other person get defensive and how reciprocity is a huge common denominator in fulfilling partnerships. And, if you're looking for a fun weekend getaway to put these skills into practice, check out Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y April 12-15!

This week, Kim talks to a matchmaking heavy hitter, CEO of eHarmony, Grant Langston. Grant has been with eHarmony since the beginning and has racked up a TON of knowledge and useful tips . He breaks down some of eHarmony's research on the science of compatibility and discusses what happy couples have in common that unhappy couples don't. Kim talks through understanding and recognizing every type of chemistry you may have with a love interest, whether it's intellectual, emotional, physical or spiritual. This conversation will show you that it's possible to break your bad dating habits and give you useful tips on how to tell if your partner can build a long-term, fulfilling relationship. Plus, if you're looking for a quick getaway to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's Dating & Makeover Retreat: http://bit.ly/2D9IL7Y April 12-15

We've made it out of the holiday season and we're on to the New Year! It's always good to reflect on the past, but sometimes we get stuck thinking about our challenges and get too negative. This year, ditch those negative emotions and say, "Out with the old, in with the new!" If you're still mulling over your New Years resolutions, start here. Get rid of those old clothes that have been weighing you down and pick up something fun, flirty and new. And while you're at it, toss the friends that are bringing toxic energy into your life. This is the time of year to assess your professional goals and recalibrate. Kim gives you tips on how to find the motivation inside and outside yourself to make these BIG changes happen. Plus, if you're looking for a quick getaway to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat: http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!

On this week's episode of Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Sandy about confidently expressing your needs and wants. Sandy talks about her childhood, where she grew up learning to prioritize the needs of others due to her mother's cancer diagnoses. Like many people do, she carried this behavior on into adulthood and discovered that when it comes to romantic relationships - solely prioritizing the needs of a partner hasn't lead to a stable long term relationship. Kim talks through the process of identifying how you feel, determining what you want and finally, how to express that to your partner. And, if you're looking for a quick getaway to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's Dating and Makeover Retreat https://www.myretreatsunlimited.com/dating-makeover-retreat-2/

This week, Kim interviews Empowerment Strategist and host of the Fit 2 Love Podcast, JJ Flizanes. Kim and JJ discuss body image and the myths we tell ourselves that trap us into feeling insecure. JJ shares some useful tips for thinking about food and cravings, shifting your mindset towards awareness, and recognizing the power you hold internally to help you change your life. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!

Welcome to the latest installment of Coaching with Kim! This week, Kim coaches Carol, a client with a demanding career and a busy social life. They discuss Carol's pattern of choosing men who are emotionally unavailable - and being able to distinguish that trait before getting too emotionally involved. Kim talks through Carol's fears surrounding being open and vulnerable. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!

Come out of your shell this holiday season to meet someone special! This week Kim talks about how to add some sparkle to your holiday wardrobe and turn up the volume on your flirt game. During this time of year, there's a holiday party or event every other day, so accept every invitation you get or, throw your own event and get out of your comfort zone. The holidays don't have to induce dread! Shake it up this season and pull out these tips and tricks to make a new connection. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!

Just in time for the onslaught of holiday parties - this week, Kim interviews body language expert, Lisa Mitchell. This season is all about mixing, mingling and celebrating and what better way to step up your game at cocktail hour with some practical body language tips to improve your social interactions. Clueing into body language cues and non verbal communication are essential skills to enhancing your self confidence in dating and in life! Gain your own super powers of communication and connection by listening to this episode. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim's upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs beginning January 8!

We've all had the experience of looking in the mirror and picking out all the aspects of our bodies that we hate. In this week's episode, you'll hear from Kim directly about a few actionable tips you can take right now to makeover your body image for the better! Learning to focus on the features of your body that you love can give you confidence in how you carry yourself and is the first step to a true body image mindset shift. And don't forget to check out Kim's upcoming Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp starting Jan 8. Spaces are limited! http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs

It's time for another round of coaching with Kim! In this week's episode, Kim talks to Jae about how to initiate conversations, open up emotionally and getting comfortable with being vulnerable sooner. You'll hear Kim role play with Jae live how to use her secret Social Engagement Formula to do that. Yes, it's about meeting someone you connect with, but it's also about allowing yourself to express your ideas and feelings in order to make that deeper connection. To put these skills to the test and learn the art of connection, check out Kim's upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp http://bit.ly/2AbH6Qs

Breakups. We've all had them - and even if you know it's the right move, it's never easy. Kim discusses and advises about breakups, among other relationship issues with former TV's Married At First Sight expert, Rachel DeAlto. Rachel, a fellow relationship expert, motivational speaker and TV personality gets personal about her own breakup and how she's handled the aftermath.

Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you're on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you're more likely to try something you wouldn't normally, because hey, you're on vacation right? When you apply that logic to your dating life, you open yourself up to love. After you listen and you realize you need a vacation, contact Kim about an exclusive retreat coming up that you will want to know about! http://bit.ly/2shKDJ5

Let's face it, first time social interactions can be… awkward and sometimes difficult. Social dynamics expert, entrepreneur and host of the Art of Charm podcast, Jordan Harbinger knows better than anyone how to overcome those jitters. On this week's episode, Kim and Jordan reminisce about the awkward situation when they first met, and how their personal journeys have taught them what they know about dating and social communication. Great tips and discussion around using various conversational tricks, being persuasive and making connections in an authentic way. You won't want to miss this one!

After coming out of a long-term relationship, or even a marriage, it can feel like you're not only learning to date again, but you're also getting to know yourself as a single person again. This week, Kim talks about how dating yourself, celebrating yourself, and getting to know who you are, separate from your ex-partner, is crucial to feeling sexy in your singlehood.

Today is the first episode of Charisma Quotient's new segment: Coaching With Kim. Kim brings her client Holley on the line to do some laser focused coaching on everything from how to be a busy woman and still date, to holding your ground while remaining feminine. And there are some surprising realizations Holley makes about how her past is connected to her current struggles.

Dating online is like pulling the lever on the slot machine - it's so addictive because you never know what you're going to get. And, that's not necessarily a bad thing. When you have access to all the millions of fish in the sea, take advantage of it and date someone you would normally never choose! This week, Kim talks about the benefits of diversifying your online dating portfolio, stepping outside of your comfort zone and new ways to discover what you're missing in your dating life.

This week, Kim interviews fellow midwesterner, Dr. Terri Orbuch Ph.D., also known as "The Love Doctor" about how to keep love alive for years. She's a professor at the University of Michigan, her work has been featured in every major publication, and she's been the director of an NIH study following 373 couples for nearly 3 decades. Needless to say, Dr. Terri knows what she's talking about when it comes to maintaining strong, healthy, long-term relationships.

Did you know that the definition of "flirting" is "to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, for amusement rather than with serious intention"? This episode is all about challenging yourself to flirt for fun without fear! Who hasn't had anxiety over walking up to a cute guy at a bar and striking up a conversation? Kim breaks down how to let loose, throw caution to the wind and get your flirt on.

Today's episode is all about getting in touch with where you are in your dating cycle. Are you ready for a rebound? Are you looking for a serious, stable relationship? Are you just interested in meeting new people and exploring? It's sometimes harder to figure out than you think - but it's so important! Kim talks about how to identify what phase you're in and how to be aware of what your dating needs are based on your phase.

In this episode, Kim interviews Brian Howie, the host of the Great Love Debate show. These two have known each other for years - way back before Brian knew what size shirt he should be wearing. Kim and Brian talk about learning to listen, building self-confidence with style and who really has it worse in the dating world - men or women?

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient, hosted by dating and relationship expert Kimberly Seltzer! Her personal journey, moving from Chicago to L.A., going through a divorce and transitioning back into singlehood, showed her that confidence cannot always come from within you. She had to learn to transform her style, her attitude and ultimately, herself. This show proves that it's possible to change your life from the outside, in. Learn all the style and dating secrets Kim has taught hundreds of clients, with the Charisma Quotient.