Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Let's face it, first time social interactions can be… awkward and sometimes difficult. Social dynamics expert, entrepreneur and host of the Art of Charm podcast, Jordan Harbinger knows better than anyone how to overcome those jitters. On this week's episode, Kim and Jordan reminisce about the awkward situation when they first met, and how their personal journeys have taught them what they know about dating and social communication. Great tips and discussion around using various conversational tricks, being persuasive and making connections in an authentic way. You won't want to miss this one!

After coming out of a long-term relationship, or even a marriage, it can feel like you're not only learning to date again, but you're also getting to know yourself as a single person again. This week, Kim talks about how dating yourself, celebrating yourself, and getting to know who you are, separate from your ex-partner, is crucial to feeling sexy in your singlehood.

Today is the first episode of Charisma Quotient's new segment: Coaching With Kim. Kim brings her client Holley on the line to do some laser focused coaching on everything from how to be a busy woman and still date, to holding your ground while remaining feminine. And there are some surprising realizations Holley makes about how her past is connected to her current struggles.

Dating online is like pulling the lever on the slot machine - it's so addictive because you never know what you're going to get. And, that's not necessarily a bad thing. When you have access to all the millions of fish in the sea, take advantage of it and date someone you would normally never choose! This week, Kim talks about the benefits of diversifying your online dating portfolio, stepping outside of your comfort zone and new ways to discover what you're missing in your dating life.

This week, Kim interviews fellow midwesterner, Dr. Terri Orbuch Ph.D., also known as "The Love Doctor" about how to keep love alive for years. She's a professor at the University of Michigan, her work has been featured in every major publication, and she's been the director of an NIH study following 373 couples for nearly 3 decades. Needless to say, Dr. Terri knows what she's talking about when it comes to maintaining strong, healthy, long-term relationships.

Did you know that the definition of "flirting" is "to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, for amusement rather than with serious intention"? This episode is all about challenging yourself to flirt for fun without fear! Who hasn't had anxiety over walking up to a cute guy at a bar and striking up a conversation? Kim breaks down how to let loose, throw caution to the wind and get your flirt on.

Today's episode is all about getting in touch with where you are in your dating cycle. Are you ready for a rebound? Are you looking for a serious, stable relationship? Are you just interested in meeting new people and exploring? It's sometimes harder to figure out than you think - but it's so important! Kim talks about how to identify what phase you're in and how to be aware of what your dating needs are based on your phase.

In this episode, Kim interviews Brian Howie, the host of the Great Love Debate show. These two have known each other for years - way back before Brian knew what size shirt he should be wearing. Kim and Brian talk about learning to listen, building self-confidence with style and who really has it worse in the dating world - men or women?

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient, hosted by dating and relationship expert Kimberly Seltzer! Her personal journey, moving from Chicago to L.A., going through a divorce and transitioning back into singlehood, showed her that confidence cannot always come from within you. She had to learn to transform her style, her attitude and ultimately, herself. This show proves that it's possible to change your life from the outside, in. Learn all the style and dating secrets Kim has taught hundreds of clients, with the Charisma Quotient.