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In the second part of my series on autistic burnout, I move from personal reflection to practical strategies. This episode is all about helping you, as neurodivergent mums, prevent burnout before it takes over – both for yourself and your children.***If you missed it, be sure to listen to Part 1 “Realising Autistic Burnout: A Personal Story for Neurodivergent Mums” on Apple Podcast or Spotify***We know how easy it is to keep pushing ourselves until there’s nothing left, especially when we’re balancing family, work, and life’s everyday demands. In this episode, I cover: How difficulty in recognising internal signals like hunger, fatigue, and emotions can lead to burnoutWhy some days we’re on top of it all, and other days even the basics feel impossibleThe emotional toll of autistic burnout – it’s so much more than just feeling “tired”Learning to plan around what actually works for you as a neurodivergent familySelf-care strategies that don’t feel overwhelming – finding small moments of rest and joy throughout your dayTeaching our children to recognise and respect their own needs so they don’t fall into the same burnout cycles we’ve struggled withThis episode offers real, actionable advice to help you prevent burnout and create healthier patterns for yourself and your family.BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this first part of my two-part series on autistic burnout, I’m sharing how I came to realise the impact of burnout on my life – something that had been affecting me for years without my knowing. From reflecting on childhood conditioning to understanding how societal pressures pushed me into burnout, I unpack the key moments that shaped my experience. I also share why this realisation was life-changing for me and why I’m passionate about helping other neurodivergent women and girls avoid the same struggles. I talk about: How the realisation of autistic burnout changed my life Reflections on growing up in a world where “doing your best” meant pushing through exhaustion for external praise and validation How societal expectations shaped my default settings of people-pleasing and pushing myself beyond my limits Why I believe so many women feel the same way and how I hope sharing my experience validates yours too 💡 For more support, check out the Mindfulness & Neurodivergent Burnout Kit — packed with scripts, planning tools, and real-life strategies to help you implement what we talk about in this episode. It won’t fix the system, but it will help you survive it without burning out. This episode is for anyone who feels like they’ve been running on empty, not realising the toll it’s taking. It’s about recognising the early signs and validating your experience, so you can stop the burnout cycle before it starts. Listen [HERE] to Part 2 - “Preventing Autistic Burnout: Practical Tips for Neurodivergent Mums and Their Children” BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTS If you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here! CONNECT WITH ME... If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format. FOLLOW FOR MORE... I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content. - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums - Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/ - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus - YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1w LEAVE ME A REVIEW Your review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE? If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/ Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/ Mentioned in this episode: Body & Mind Online A dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care. Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I’m joined by Claire Britton, an ADHDer, mum of two, and paediatric Occupational Therapist. Together, we dive into the often confusing and frustrating world of executive function. You know the feeling - struggling to keep it all together, constantly questioning why everything feels so hard. We’re breaking down what executive function really is, why ADHD mums feel like they’re always on the back foot, and how we can start managing the daily chaos with more compassion and less overwhelm.Key Takeaways: Claire’s “Admin Team” Analogy: Claire describes executive function as your brain’s “admin team,” and for ADHD mums, that team is often understaffed and struggling to keep up. It’s not failure - your brain is simply overworked and needs help.The Real Mental Load of Motherhood: ADHD mums carry an unseen, exhausting weight that goes far beyond school lunches and appointments. If you’ve ever ended your day feeling burnt out and wondering why you can’t do it all, this is for you - you’re not lazy, just carrying more than most can imagine.Practical Strategies for Mums Who’ve Tried Everything: Claire shares real tips like body doubling, habit stacking, and visual schedules - simple yet powerful survival tools for ADHD brains trying to stay on track.Medication, Self-Compassion, and Letting Go of Guilt: From Claire's personal perspective, she shares how medication can create mental breathing room, allowing you to manage more effectively, while self-compassion is key to releasing the guilt that so many ADHD mums carry. Why This Episode is a Must-Listen:This episode is a lifeline for mums feeling overwhelmed and like they're not measuring up, offering practical tools, a deeper understanding of your ADHD brain, and most importantly, the reminder that you are not alone in this journey.Resources Mentioned:Follow Claire on Instagram: @neuroinclusion.auLearn more about Claire's work at Neuroinclusion: https://www.neuroinclusion.com.au/ Related Episode: Episode with Lael Stone on Building Resilience in a Neurodiverse Family:  Apple | SpotifyBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/Mentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I’m joined by internationally recognised experts in autism, Professor Tony Atwood and Dr. Michelle Garnett, to explore the often misunderstood condition known as Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). Together, we dive into what PDA really is, how it differs from Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), and what it means for neurodivergent children and their families.Key Takeaways:Understanding PDA vs ODD: Discover the critical differences between PDA and ODD. Tony and Michelle explain how PDA is rooted in anxiety and a need for control, rather than oppositional behavior. If your child’s refusal feels irrational or emotionally charged, it could be PDA, not ODD.Why Neurotypical Parenting Methods Don’t Work: Traditional approaches like rewards and punishments often fail when dealing with PDA. Learn why neurotypical parenting methods can damage relationships and what strategies work better for children with PDA.Real-Life Examples You Can Relate To: From the anxiety behind refusing simple tasks like brushing teeth or getting dressed to avoiding even activities they love, Tony and Michelle share real-life examples that will resonate with any parent navigating these challenges.Support That Works: We discuss the importance of creating a safe and flexible environment for your child, reducing their anxiety, and building a relationship based on understanding and cooperation.This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever struggled with a child who refuses simple tasks, even when they want to do them. Tony and Michelle’s insights will not only validate your experience but also offer hope and actionable strategies for managing PDA in a way that nurtures your relationship and reduces anxiety for your child.Resources Mentioned: Season 2, Episode 5: What Every Mum Needs to Hear from Top Autism Expert with Prof Tony Attwood: Listen on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyTony & Michelle's Course on PDA: Learn more hereConnect with Tony & Michelle on Instagram hereBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, I’m sharing 6 practical tips that have helped me reduce stress and create a calmer, more connected home as a neurodivergent mum. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the daily chaos or struggled to find a balance between parenting and navigating ADHD, this episode is for you. These strategies aren’t about perfection - they’re about finding what works for you and your family to bring a little more peace and ease into your days.Key Takeaways:How to set up simple, consistent routines to make mornings less stressful and reduce daily friction.Why natural consequences can be a powerful tool for teaching responsibility without constant power struggles.Tips for managing big emotions with empathy, fostering stronger connections between you and your child.The importance of setting clear, consistent rules to create a sense of stability and harmony at home.Ways to involve your kids in problem-solving, helping them build independence and giving you more breathing room.Proactive strategies to stay ahead of potential conflicts, making your home feel more peaceful and supportive.Don’t Miss an Episode!Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, so you never miss an episode. If you found this helpful, please leave a review - your feedback helps us reach more neurodivergent mums looking for support and connection.BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/Mentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane is pleased to welcome back Tanya Hicks from Neurodivergent Empowered! Tanya is a neurodivergent woman and mum who brings a wealth of experience across many fields, from national management to neurodivergent-affirming therapy. She founded Neurodivergent Empowered to meet a real need in our community, creating a space that exclusively hires neurodivergent team members. Through her work, Tanya helps neurodivergent children, teens, and adults embrace their unique selves, build confidence, and find genuine happiness.**Trigger warning, this episode discusses sensitive topics, including sexual assault and domestic violence**Key Takeaways from this Episode:Discover how early societal pressures cause neurodivergent women to disassociate, increasing vulnerability in relationships.Learn why interpreting social and romantic cues is challenging for neurodivergent women, often leading to misunderstandings and harm.Uncover how financial dependency and social isolation trap neurodivergent women in unhealthy relationships and explore ways to break free.Get practical strategies to help neurodivergent children and teens build confidence, find their voice, and thrive.Understand the importance of a supportive community where neurodivergent individuals can feel safe and valued.Be inspired to challenge societal norms and advocate for greater inclusivity and acceptance.Find reassurance in stories of solidarity, knowing there’s a community that understands and supports you.Gain actionable advice for helping neurodivergent children trust their instincts, speak up, and build resilience.Links and References:Listen to Tanya's previous episode on masking: Apple | SpotifyLearn more about Tanya's work at Neurodivergent Empowered: https://www.neurodivergentempowered.com/  Episode with Emma Rose Parson on problem solving and self-advocacy:  Apple | SpotifyBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, I’m getting honest about what it’s like raising my own little “antagonist” – you know, kids who just can’t help but push everyone’s buttons, whether it’s poking their siblings, pushing boundaries, or always looking for that reaction. With an ADHD brain that’s always craving excitement, these kids often engage in “accidentally on purpose” disruptions to stir the pot.Key Topics CoveredI’m sharing my personal stories (get ready for a laugh) and insights on understanding these behaviours and how to redirect that energy into something positive, like using "restarts" to hit reset and help create a calmer, happier home.My favourite strategies for getting through those tough days, with practical tips to manage the chaos and turn things around when they’re spiralling out of control.How to dodge sibling blow-ups and build stronger connections by staying ahead of their tricks and finding ways to keep them engaged in good ways.Why leading with love and compassion (even when it’s tough) can transform the vibe in your home, and how small shifts in how we handle things can make a big difference.If you’re wrangling your own “stirrer” or just need a bit of solidarity on this wild ride of parenting neurodivergent kids, this one’s for you!Links Mentioned:Check out my chat with Dr Justin Coulson about ADHD, iPads, and morning routines on Apple Podcasts or on SpotifyFind out more about our family psychologist at Body and Mind OnlineBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodivergent #antagonist #adhdtips #parentingstrategies #ADHDers #adhdpodcastMentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane chats with Alison Balson, a Family Dynamics & Neurodiversity Strategist, who offers her expert advice on navigating life in a neurodivergent family. With insights drawn from her experience as a former teacher, childcare centre owner, and mum of four neurodivergent children, Alison shares practical strategies for fostering a thriving, inclusive family environment.Key Topics Covered:What it means to have "twice exceptional" children who are both gifted and face challenges like ADHD, autism, dyslexia, or dysgraphia - and how to support their unique needs.Alison's approach to creating a supportive family environment that respects and nurtures each member's neurodivergent traits.Practical strategies for balancing the dual spectrum of giftedness and challenges, communicating with schools, understanding educational needs, and finding the right support.Tips for maintaining routines, setting boundaries, and using external accountability to manage daily life and reduce stress in neurodivergent families.Insights on navigating multiple therapies and support services through the NDIS (National Disability Insurance Scheme) and advocating for what truly benefits your family.The importance of parental growth and self-care to maintain balance and well-being while raising neurodivergent children, and how small shifts in mindset can make a big impact.Connect with Alison:Follow Alison on Instagram @theincrementalshift or visit her website at theincrementalshift.comBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, I explore the complex relationship between PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) and neurodivergence, including ADHD, autism, depression, and PTSD. Learn what PMDD is, how it differs from PMS, and why it disproportionately affects neurodivergent individuals.Bonus Free Resource: Download my free 14-page guide Is It More Than PMS? Understanding PMDD which includes a checklist to help you identify if your symptoms are PMDD or PMS. Download here.Key Topics Covered:The key symptoms that impact daily life - such as mood swings, anxiety, and physical discomfort.Current treatment options like SSRIs, contraceptive pills, lifestyle changes, and naturopathy, with my honest take on their effectiveness.Practical tips on tracking your cycle, planning around challenging days, and setting boundaries with family and friends, based on my personal experiences managing PMDD.The importance of awareness and community support for those navigating the storm of PMDD.PMDD isn’t just about feeling a bit off; it’s about those days when you wonder if you’re losing your mind, feel like packing up and leaving, or even question if you can keep going. These feelings are valid, real, and often tied directly to hormonal changes.If you’ve been feeling like your symptoms go way beyond regular PMS, you’re not alone. It’s not “just in your head,” and there are ways to manage it. Understanding what PMDD is, how it shows up, and why it tends to impact neurodivergent people more can help you start navigating this challenging part of your cycle.Research: I discuss insights from the National Autistic Society on how hormonal changes, such as menstruation and menopause, impact autistic individuals.BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, I discuss a hot topic that affects so many women: PMS and ADHD. If you’ve ever felt like your ADHD symptoms become a chaotic mess during certain times of the month, you’re not alone. Hormonal fluctuations can significantly impact mood, focus, and productivity, and we’re here to help you make sense of it all.Additional Free Resource: Download my free guide on PMS and ADHD: Making Sense of the Chaos for practical tips, insights, and tools to help you navigate the impact of PMDD on neurodivergent symptoms. Download here.Key Topics Covered:Learn how hormonal changes throughout your menstrual cycle can intensify ADHD symptoms like irritability, forgetfulness, and impulsivity.Discover the benefits of tracking your menstrual cycle to identify patterns in your symptoms and understand how hormonal shifts affect your mood and executive function.Get actionable tips on how to adjust your daily activities, work schedule, and self-care practices based on your hormonal fluctuations.Explore ways to manage those challenging days when ADHD symptoms spike before your period, including setting boundaries, communicating with loved ones, and planning ahead.This episode is all about recognising and validating your experiences with PMS and ADHD. Understand that you’re not alone in feeling this way and that your fluctuating symptoms are a genuine part of your experience.If you’re tired of feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or out of control every month, this episode offers validation, examples, and a clearer understanding of how to navigate the rollercoaster of ADHD and PMS. It’s about learning to recognise your patterns and finding reassurance that your experiences are real and valid.Resources Mentioned: Season 1, Episode 43 - PMS and ADHD with Kylie Smart: For a deeper dive into PMS and ADHD, including supplement treatment options.BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH MEIf you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MOREI post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane is joined by Monique Mitchelson, a clinical psychologist specialising in autism, ADHD, trauma, chronic illness, and pain. Monique, co-director of Divergent Futures and co-host of the Neurodivergent Woman Podcast, shares her experiences of late diagnosis and the reality of self-advocacy for autistic and ADHD adults.Key Topics Covered: The need for neurodiversity-affirming care and shifting away from outdated practicesPractical ways to support children with different brain types in schools and at homeDestigmatising medication and fostering self-acceptance for ADHD and autismReal-life examples of how Monique navigates life as an autistic and ADHD adultInsights into creating supportive environments for neurodivergent individualsIf you want to understand what it means to be neuro-affirming or how to support yourself or your loved ones, this episode is a must-listen. It provides practical advice, real-life examples, and a clear understanding of why neurodiversity-affirming practices are crucial - not just for autistic and ADHD individuals but for fostering a more inclusive and supportive environment for all.Resources MentionedMonique's Book: The Neurodivergent Skills Workbook for Autism and ADHD available on Amazon and AudibleNeurodivergent Woman Podcast co-hosted by Monique: listen on Apple and SpotifyThe Brain Forest by Sandhya MenonConnect with MoniqueVisit Divergent Futures for training and consulting opportunities with MoniqueFollow Monique on Instagram @neurodivergent_women_podcast or @moniquemitchelson.nd.psych  for updates and insightsBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH THE ADHD MUMS COMMUNITYJoin our Facebook group community to connect with other mums who get it. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format. Click here to join the ADHD Mums community. FOLLOW FOR MORE CONTENTStay updated with insights, tips, and stories about navigating life as an ADHD mum. Follow me on social media for more:- Instagram for daily insight and help - Facebook - TikTok for short, engaging videos - YouTube for video podcast interviews LEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/Mentioned in this episode:Body & Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, I take you on a personal journey, sharing my experiences of living with undiagnosed ADHD while juggling the demands of motherhood. Key Topics Covered:Life Before Diagnosis: I open up about the chaotic mornings, constant overwhelm, and the never-ending feeling of being behind. From missing library days to forgetting crucial school events, I share the realities of trying to manage a household and kids without understanding why everything felt so hard.The Turning Point: Discover how the challenges of managing my children's school and daily routines eventually led me to seek a diagnosis. I talk about the impact of finally understanding my brain and how it has renewed my confidence in being a mum.ADHD and Motherhood: The episode delves into how ADHD can affect every aspect of life, especially for mums. I discuss the unique challenges of managing both personal and family responsibilities, the struggle with imposter syndrome, and the importance of self-care.This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the struggles many mums face when living with undiagnosed ADHD. It’s a reminder that you’re not alone and that understanding your ADHD can be the key to thriving in both motherhood and life.Resources Mentioned:ADHD Pre-Diagnosis Workbook: Available now on my website, this workbook is designed to help you confidently navigate the diagnostic process. This resource provides practical advice, step-by-step instructions, and insights into how ADHD presents in women, helping you prepare for your diagnosis appointment.Related Podcast Episodes:Season 1, Episode 35: Do You Have ADHD or Is This Mum Life?Season 1, Episode 38: My Diagnosis Journey with Jasmine Meek (Part 1)If this episode resonated with you, I encourage you to explore the resources mentioned and, most importantly, to take the time to care for yourself. Putting your oxygen mask on first isn’t selfish - it’s essential for your well-being and your family’s success.Join our ADHD Mums Podcast Facebook Community to connect with other mums who understand the unique challenges of ADHD, share your experiences, and find support.Research:**Note some of these statistics are based on US figures, primarily because Australian research into ADHD is still a developing area**The Prevalence and Correlates of Adult ADHD in the United States: Results From the National Comorbidity Survey Replicationhttps://psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/ajp.2006.163.4.716BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane welcomes back Dr Jacinta Thomson, a beloved guest and Clinical Psychologist whose previous episodes on ADHD diagnosis and the distinctions between Autism and ADHD have resonated deeply with listeners. This time, Jacinta brings a unique idea to the table - an exploration of the shared language that has developed within the ADHD community.Key topics covered include:Jacinta quizzes Jane on ADHD-related terms like 'dopamining,' 'internest,' and 'side quests,' showcasing how language captures the daily experiences and challenges of ADHD. 35 minutes in: Jacinta offers her perspective on why many in the neurodivergent community prefer identity-first language (e.g., "I am autistic") and the importance of respecting individual preferences in how people choose to describe their experiences.The episode delves into the ongoing conversation around finding a name for ADHD that more accurately reflects its characteristics. Jane and Jacinta discuss the complexities and varied opinions on this topic.This episode offers a thoughtful discussion on how language shapes our understanding of ADHD, with Jacinta guiding the conversation through her unique perspective. While the episode includes light-hearted moments, the focus remains on providing valuable insights into how ADHD is perceived and communicated.Previous episodes with Dr Jacinta Thomson: How to get a diagnosis in Australia? Part 1. Interview with Dr Jacinta Thomson  How to get a diagnosis in Australia? Part 2. Interview with Dr Jacinta ThomsonIs Overwhelmed Mum Syndrome real? with Dr Jacinta ThomsonUnique Differences of ADHD and Autism in Women with Dr. Jacinta ThomsonFor further discussion and support, join our ADHD Mums Facebook GroupIf you'd like to know more about Dr Jacinta Thomson check her out here: www.timetountangle.com.au/BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane dives into the complexities and frustrations of the ADHD diagnosis process with Dena Robertson, a 39-year-old widow and single mum of two girls. Dena shares her distressing journey through the assessment and diagnosis of ADHD - both for herself and her daughter, Ruby - highlighting the significant challenges they faced along the way.**Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including self-harm and the loss of a loved one.**Key topics covered include:Dena’s experience of being medically gaslit for years, with her symptoms dismissed as anxiety, depression, or stress, and the profound impact this had on her mental health and self-esteem.The emotional toll of advocating for yourself and your children in a system that often dismisses neurodivergent women and girls.The stark differences between Dena’s own ADHD assessment process and the struggle to get Ruby diagnosed.The ongoing challenges of finding the right support.Strategies for pushing through frustration and seeking the right diagnosis and treatment, particularly for neurodivergent girls who often present differently than boys.The conversation underscores the importance of persistence and proactivity in navigating the ADHD diagnosis process. If you’re navigating this journey or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights, empathy, and a sense of camaraderie in the shared struggles of the neurodivergent community.If you’d like to connect with Dena or learn more about navigating the ADHD diagnosis process, join the ADHD Mums Facebook Group.BOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group. Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. Find more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity Mentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane interviews Dr Justin Coulson, one of Australia's most trusted parenting experts and the co-host of Channel 9's Parental Guidance. Dr Coulson is also the founder of Happy Families and has a PhD in psychology from the University of Wollongong. He shares his lived experience with neurodivergence, offering valuable insights into the challenges of parenting ADHD children.Key topics covered include:The pros and cons of using iPads as a morning motivator for ADHD kids.Justin’s personal strategies for managing ADHD traits and avoiding burnout.The importance of structure and routine in neurodivergent families.The benefits of unstructured outdoor play for building resilience and self-regulation.How to navigate the highs and lows of neurodivergence in both parenting and personal life.**Setting your morning up starts at 13 minutes in****iPads before school starts at 15 minutes in**The conversation highlights the importance of understanding your child’s needs and creating supportive environments to make parenting a bit easier.If you’d like to know more about Dr Justin Coulson and Happy Families, visit https://www.happyfamilies.com.auBOOK IN WITH JANE'S RECOMMENDED THERAPISTSIf you're looking to connect with a parenting specialist or psychologist for expert advice on parenting, please check out www.adhdmums.com.au/services. Your journey to more confident and supported parenting starts here!CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #neurodiversity #justincoulson #screentime #parentingadviceMentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane interviews Lindsay Keating who is an ADHD Mum who has battled for over 20 years with Anorexia. **Trigger warning, this episode discusses Anorexia Nervosa**Jane and Lindsay tackles common misconceptions about eating disorders, specifically the tendency to minimise them as mere attention-seeking behaviors. The discussion emphasises that dismissing these signs can be harmful, and instead suggests giving the affected individuals the attention they may need. The conversation underscores the importance of taking such signs seriously, as each person's experience with an eating disorder is unique.If you'd like to know more about Lindsay and Nature Moves visit https://www.naturemoves.com.au/CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #masking #podcast #neurodiversity #sensoryoverload #mumlifeMentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane is joined by Tanya Hicks, a neurodivergent woman and founder of Neurodivergent Empowered. Tanya shares her journey with ADHD and autism, discussing the challenges of masking and the importance of authenticity. They explore societal pressures, the joy of pursuing passions, and the need for supportive environments for neurodivergent individuals. Tanya emphasizes the significance of creating safe spaces where people can unmask and be their true selves, without criticism or judgement. The episode highlights the impact of long-term masking on mental health and the importance of seeking support.If you'd like to know more about Tanya and Neurodivergent Empowered visit https://www.neurodivergentempowered.com/CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or Autism? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/#adhd #adhdparenting #adhdmums #adhdkids #adhdteen #adhdawareness #adhddiagnosis #masking #podcast #neurodiversity #sensoryoverload #mumlifeMentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of ADHD Mums, join for a deep dive into finding the right practitioner for yourself or your children. Covering essential criteria for practitioners, including professional development, individualised approaches, and neuroaffirming training. The discussion also focuses on the importance of using positive, inclusive language and understanding neurodivergent needs. Additionally, the episode explores societal shifts towards neurodiversity and practical advice for advocating for children's best interests in various settings. Jane introduces Body and Mind Online, a Telehealth service offering specialised, neuroaffirming care.**Six Ways to Identify Neuroaffirming Practitioners starts at 24 minutes in** **Introducing Body and Mind Online Services starts 35 minutes in**Show NotesCheck out more about Body Mind Online here:www.adhdmums.com.au/servicesPrevious Episodes listed:Essential Information for PBS with Renee Del La CruzMy Top Take Aways Over the Past Year with Jane McFaddenCONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or are Autistic? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/Research Listed:https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/professional-practice/overlooked-and-overwhelmed-the-impact-of-early-neuGudjonsson, G.H., Sigurdsson, J.F., Bragason, O.O., Newton, A.K. and Einarsson, E. (2008), “Interrogative suggestibility, compliance and false confessions among prisoners and their relationship with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) symptoms”, Psychological Medicine, Vol. 38 No. 7, pp. 1037–1044.https://doitprofiler.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Rationale-for-a-person-centred-approach-to-screening-for-ND-in-prisons-January-2023-Kirby.pdfMentioned in this episode:Body and Mind OnlineA dedicated team of neuro-affirming psychologists, occupational therapists, counsellors, and speech pathologists that you can trust and who have been specifically trained to support your family's journey with compassion, expertise, and individualised care.Body & Mind OnlineSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jane interviews Nikki Johnson, an HR consultant and ADHD mum diagnosed at 45 years of age. Nikki shares her personal journey with ADHD, discussing the challenges of disclosing ADHD in the workplace, legal protections, and the potential risks and benefits. Nikki explores her struggles with time management, impulsivity, RSD, and the impact of ADHD on her career and personal life. She shares about how important the environment of the workplace is regarding true inclusivity and the flexibility to accommodate the changes needed. The conversation emphasises the importance of open communication, advocating for neurodiversity, and seeking support, aiming to provide understanding and guidance for other mothers facing similar challenges.CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected]. EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or Autism? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane interviews Leonie Dawson, an ADHD mum, bestselling author, and entrepreneur from the Sunshine Coast. Leonie shares her experiences with ADHD and autism, discussing her late diagnosis and how these traits have influenced her life and business success. She highlights her work-life balance strategies, managing a thriving business while working only ten hours a week. Emphasising the importance of setting boundaries to prevent burnout, Leonie offers insights into maintaining mental and physical health, and shares practical advice for neurodivergent individuals balancing work and family life.Interested in Leonie's courses? Visit https://leoniedawson.com/CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected] . EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or Autism? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week Jane interviews Rebecca Torpie, an occupational therapist and ADHD mum, discussing the challenges of sensory overload in both parenting & children. They explore how sensory processing affects daily life, emphasising the importance of understanding individual sensory profiles. Jane shares her personal struggles with constant interruptions and the overwhelming demands of motherhood. Rebecca offers insights into creating a "sensory diet" and practical strategies for managing sensory overload. The conversation highlights the need for self-care, communication, and support to create a balanced and fulfilling family life.Want to know more about Sensory Overload? Visit Rebecca's website https://www.sensorysmartkidsot.com/CONNECT WITH ME...If you’ve got a question or want to connect with other ADHD mums, we’ve got a whole community on our Facebook group - Click here to join and post your question. Don’t worry if it’s been asked before! I love to answer everyone in a group format.https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/FOLLOW FOR MORE...I post more content, insights and help on my social media accounts. Follow along for more ADHD mum content.- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhd_mums- Facebook: https://facebook.com/100091850469503/- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhdmumsaus- YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCB0uYIHpFKFo6AdhQQaBr1wLEAVE ME A REVIEWYour review means the world to me! Your thoughts really help others discover my content that I genuinely (and passionately) hope could make a difference in their lives. Your support creates a ripple effect of spreading my show around and hopefully reaching the right people (especially Mum’s who may be at their wit’s end). WANT TO COLLABORATE?If you’re enquiring about a collaboration or speaking engagement – please email [email protected] . EXTRA RESOURCES: Still not sure if you have ADHD or Autism? Get access to my recommended self tests as a guide to whether you should go for an assessment or not. https://adhdmums.com.au/self-tests/Can I access the NDIS? Use this link to get a free guide to the NDIS to start you on your journey. https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/768431/114109386760128004/shareFind more answers, resources and guides on my website at https://adhdmums.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of ADHD Mums features a deep, insightful conversation with the renowned Autistic and ADHD clinical psychologist, researcher, and advocate, Marie Camin. Jane and Marie dive into a variety of topics including the importance of neurodiverse representation, the challenges of autistic burnout and ADHD, and the intricate dance of balancing motherhood with neurodivergent traits. The discussion moves towards personal experiences with imposter syndrome and the journey to embracing an autism diagnosis. Marie emphasises the importance of diverse representation within the autistic community and the challenges of going public with her diagnosis. They discuss the controversial approach of Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) and both Marie and Jane's passionate stance against it, favouring more affirming practices. Marie recounts her early interests in psychology, struggles with undiagnosed neurodivergent traits, and significant challenges in school leading to autistic burnout. The episode covers the unique social dynamics for neurodivergent individuals, including in parenting and professional environments. Jane and Marie discuss the often-overlooked experiences of neurodivergent mothers, including competing sensory and emotional needs between parent and child. Marie wraps up with an empowering message about trusting one’s instincts and experiences, especially when navigating life as a neurodivergent individual. Links & Resources Marie Cannon's Professional Website: https://www.mariecamin.com/ - The AS Detect App for Early Autism Identification AS early detection app- Conversation Piece Co-authored by Marie on Early Autism Identification https://www.latrobe.edu.au/news/articles/2022/opinion/discussing-autism-diagnosis-with-kidsSarah Hendrickx channel on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwhwVRXUWw_gi8jjFAbcNxqiU39ajUVB_Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review this episode on your favorite podcast platform. Share it with friends and family who might benefit from these insights! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of ADHD Mums, we welcome back Lucy, a super mum juggling life with ADHD, three neurodivergent kids, and the challenges of motherhood. Lucy shares her experience of building a successful business, studying nursing, and managing her family's daily routines, including the stress-inducing school mornings. Lucy and Jane delve right into hyperactive ADHD Mum life when hyper focus takes over and you don't know what is just a passing fad and what is real. The conversation delves into the emotional and physical toll of parenting, the impact of ADHD, and the societal expectations of mothers. Lucy's candid reflections emphasize the importance of resilience, support, and the shared struggles many parents face.If you loved this episode it is the 3rd part in the Untold Struggles of Motherhood series.Part 1 is here with Sarah Part 2 is here with Kaitlyn FaulknerIf you liked Lucy and want to hear her other episodes they are here:Lucy's Episode on #Mumlife Study hereLucy's Episode on building her successful business with three small children hereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane invites Renee Dela Cruz to discuss the changing the perception around Positive Behaviour Support (PBS), emphasizing its importance and the impact it can have when approached correctly. Renee shares her insights on how PBS is misunderstood and provides a more empathetic and effective perspective on understanding and addressing behaviors.Key Points:Understanding PBS: Changing the lens on PBS, its roots in applied behavioural analysis and misconceptions around it.Toolkit Approach: Viewing PBS as a toolkit to understand and address distressing behaviours by understanding the individual’s environment and triggers.Empathy and Empowerment: The importance of empathy, understanding, and empowerment in creating effective Behaviour Support Plans under NDIS.Misconceptions about Behaviour: Challenging the idea that behaviours are merely choices and instead highlighting them as responses to distress.Family Focused: Using PBS to help families understand and support their loved ones better, rather than just controlling or managing behaviours.If you'd like to connect with Renee here is her website:https://www.themindspot.com.au/aboutSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I'm joined by Rodney Whyte, a highly experienced pharmacist specializing in the effects of medications on pregnancy, breastfeeding, pediatrics, and women's health. We dive deep into a topic that's close to the hearts of many of our listeners: ADHD medication and its impact during pregnancy and breastfeeding.We tackle your burning questions head-on:Is it safe to take ADHD medication during pregnancy? Rodney shares the latest research findings and dispels some common myths. Remember, every pregnancy is unique, and it's crucial to have an open and honest conversation with your doctor to weigh the potential benefits and risks for you and your baby.What about breastfeeding? This is where things get a bit more complex. We discuss the information provided by the Infant Risk Center and emphasize the importance of consulting with your healthcare provider, especially considering the age and health of your little one.To medicate or not to medicate? We understand that this is a deeply personal decision. Rodney and I stress the importance of taking an individualized approach, factoring in your specific medication, health history, and the potential impact on both you and your baby.Prioritizing your well-being as a Mum. It's easy to forget about ourselves when we're caring for a new life, but your mental and emotional health matters. If ADHD medication is a vital part of managing your symptoms and functioning well, don't hesitate to talk to your doctor. This episode is packed with valuable insights and resources for all you incredible ADHD mums out there who are navigating pregnancy and breastfeeding. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Reach out to your medical team for personalised guidance, and don't forget to connect with our supportive community of fellow mums. We're all in this together!The Facebook community is here**This podcast episode is not to replace individual advice, and is general education only**Rodney mentions www.infantrisk.com and https://www.jeanhailes.org.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane has Millie Carr joining for this episode on diagnosis. She is a passionate neurodivergent educator, coach and now published Author, who writes children's books about diagnosis. Recently diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 35, Millie was inspired to tell her story and spread the word to young girls. In this episode, we delve into the significance of early intervention, the need for open dialogue about neurodiversity, and the crucial role teachers play in identifying and supporting neurodivergent students.Episode Highlights:Why the Need for DiagnosisNegative Impact on Self-PerceptionLong-Term Implications for Adult LifeBuilding Understanding and AcceptanceHow to Disclose the Diagnosis to a ChildCheck out Millie's previous episodes below:Highly Camoflauged and masked ADHD in the classroomThe Neurodiverse ClassroomCheck out Millie Carr's books on ADHD at https://milliecarrbooks.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane welcomes Emma Rose Parsons from Spectrum House in Melbourne. Emma, a psychologist and fellow ADHD Mum shares insights into building resilience in children while managing the urge to act as a problem-solver. This episode dives deep into practical strategies for teaching children to cope with challenging situations, the importance of feeling safe for resilience-building, and discusses the nuances of navigating neurodivergent children's needs in various environments. **Key Topics** - Definition and components of resilience - Building resilience in both children and adults - The impact of environment and perceived safety on resilience - Distinguishing between harmful challenges and positive resilience-building opportunities - Strategies for helping children navigate and overcome challenges - Balancing compliance and respect in parenting - Dealing with sensory preferences and other neurodivergent needs - The importance of allowing children to experience safe failure - Addressing bullying and creating supportive school environments - Parenting approaches to resilience in neurodivergent children **Disclaimer, this is general advice only and must be used in conjunction with your own medical team**Check out Emma at https://emmarosepsychologist.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm joined by Joe Peters, a husband and father who's discovered a whole new perspective on ADHD within his family.Trust me, you won't want to miss Joe's incredible story of supporting his wife through her recent ADHD diagnosis. He'll reveal the challenges, the breakthroughs, and the incredible growth they've experienced together.Joe will be opening up about his own "aha" moments when he started to recognize ADHD traits not just in his wife, but also within their family. It's a raw and honest conversation about empathy, taking responsibility, and becoming a better husband.So, don't miss out on this invaluable conversation! Tune in to the full episode to gain a deeper understanding of their shared journey and discover how you can navigate the world of ADHD with love, support, and understanding. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Biggest guest I've ever interviewed as I nervously welcome Professor Tony Atwood, a true pioneer in the field of Autism, for an intimate and revealing conversation about the complexities of understanding and diagnosing neurodiversity in children, with a particular emphasis on the often-overlooked experience by those who internalise rather than externalise (often experienced by girls and women). Tony shares his unparalleled expertise on how professionals can become more attuned to the subtle signs of neurodiversity that may be masked or internalised, ensuring that no child slips through the cracks. We delve into the critical importance of thorough preparation and documentation in achieving a successful assessment, and explore potential groundbreaking changes to the DSM criteria that could revolutionise the way we diagnose and support neurodivergent individuals.Don't miss this rare opportunity to gain invaluable insights from Tony's unique dual perspective as both a seasoned clinician and a compassionate parent. This promises to be a conversation that will leave you informed, empowered, and inspired to create a more inclusive and understanding world for all children.I highly recommend all Dr Tony Attwood's courses - he runs Attwood and Garnett Events. Dr Michelle Garnett was unfortunately unwell the day of the interview and she is the second half of this incredible educational company. https://attwoodandgarnettevents.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Just tuned in to the latest ADHD Mums episode? It's a real gem! Jane McFadden had a fantastic chat with parenting expert Gen Muir about the ups and downs of raising neurodivergent kids. If you're looking for some honest, down-to-earth advice and strategies, this is the episode for you.Gen gets what it's like to be a parent in the trenches – she shares from both her personal experiences and her professional expertise. So if you're feeling overwhelmed with sibling squabbles (especially if you have neurodiverse kids), Gen's got some amazing tips on how to bring some peace and harmony back into your home. She's all about building strong, loving family connections, even when things get a little chaotic.Don't miss out on this heartwarming and super helpful episode!Gen's website is hereand her IG handle Connected Parenting is hereGen’s House Rules1. We don't each other or ourselves2. We don't damage things or property 3. We don't call people names/unkind words4. If someone is showing signs that they are not okay or they say stop we stop and check on them.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode I reflect on my experiences shared over the past year in the ADHD Mums podcast, I am reminded of the challenges and success faced by neurodiverse families like mine. Throughout the episodes, I have emphasized the importance of neuro affirming approaches, acceptance, and understanding for individuals with ADHD and Autism. My journey has been marked by insights into the NDIS process, therapy fatigue, and the impact of medication on behavior and family dynamics.One key takeaway from my podcast journey is the significance of self-awareness, compassion, and individualized approaches in supporting neurodiverse individuals and families. I have learned to trust my instincts, prioritize self-care, and seek professionals who align with my values and beliefs. Through sharing personal experiences and insights, I aim to empower other parents navigating similar challenges.As I continue to explore topics such as advocating for children with ADHD, navigating school environments, and promoting self-care, I hope to provide a safe space for discussions and reflections on neurodiversity. My journey with the podcast has been enlightening, challenging, and ultimately rewarding, and I look forward to continuing to share my learnings and insights with the ADHD Mums community.Resources: The Untold Struggles of Motherhood (Part 2) with Kaitlyn FaulknerAdvocating for your child’s success at school with Tania WaringADHD and Parenting with Sharon CollinsHigh Camouflaging ADHD and ASD with Millie CarrTherapy FatigueAddiction and ADHD (Food and Alcohol) with Fiona McIntyreMedication and Psychiatrist episodeUnique Differences of ADHD and Autism in Women with Dr. Jacinta ThomsonThe Episode That Led Jane to Choose Homeschooling with Nicki FarrellLife as an Inattentive Mum with Bessie CampbellFrom Skeptic to Advocate: Medication for Children with Jane McFadden See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of ADHD Mums features Ceri Sanford, an ADHD compassion coach who shares her journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and how she embraces her neurodiversity. Ceri discusses the challenges and humorous mishaps she faced while attempting to schedule the interview, highlighting common ADHD traits like forgetfulness and lack of attention to detail. She delves into the importance of compassion towards oneself, particularly for those with ADHD, and provides insights on navigating life's daily challenges without succumbing to shame or unrealistic standards. Ceri also talks about her educational background, her decision to pivot her career towards helping people with ADHD, and the conception of her Compassion Project and aimed at fostering a more compassionate and understanding relationship with ADHD. The conversation emphasizes self-awareness, the importance of making life adjustments that cater to ADHD needs, and advocating for a realistic portrayal of ADHD and motherhood on social media. The episode wraps up with Ceri encouraging listeners to embrace their ADHD challenges with compassion and understanding.Check out Ceri on her below website:https://www.cerisandford.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

**Trigger warning: there is discussion of a child disclosing suicidal tendencies**This episode of the ADHD Mums Podcast features a heartfelt and enlightening conversation with Alana Mannix about the complexities of co-parenting children with additional needs, particularly in the face of diagnosis disagreements. Jane and Alana delve into their personal experiences with ADHD, the importance of seeking documented evidence and working collaboratively with schools, and the challenges of navigating relationships with ex-partners who may not be on the same page regarding their children's needs. Key Highlights: -Alana shares the challenges she faced in getting a diagnosis for her children due to disagreements with her ex-partner. - The importance of documented evidence from schools and medical professionals in supporting children’s needs. - Strategies for effective communication with ex-partners, including keeping communication open and factual, and inviting them to participate in medical appointments. - Personal insights into managing ADHD as adults and parents, including medication experiences and the impact of ADHD on daily life and decision-making. - The role of supportive communities and professional advice in navigating the journey of parenting neurodiverse children in a co-parenting setting. The discussion also covers the broader implications of diagnosis and acceptance within families, offering valuable advice and solidarity to parents facing similar struggles.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of ADHD Mums features a conversation with Bessie Campbell, a typical Aussie Mum ADHDer who shares her journey of being late-diagnosed with a combined presentation of ADHD, Autism and complex PTSD. Bessie, a mother and a professional in social services, discusses the challenges of managing ADHD inattentiveness, incorporating rigorous systems to stay organized, and the identity crisis following her diagnosis. The conversation touches upon the intersectionality of autism, ADHD, and complex PTSD in Bessie's life, highlighting struggles with identity, motherhood, and the exhaustive effort required to maintain semblances of organization. Additionally, they delve into the societal perceptions of Autism and ADHD, discussing the implications of labelling these conditions as disorders versus differences.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is back with ALL the questions she gets in her DMs - why did she change her mind on medicating her kids? Jane discusses her personal experience with medication/paeds and her children and also discusses the WHY, WHY did she change her mind?HighlightsWhat was the process to medicate a child?Why do you do it?Does that mean your child is short and won't eat food?Why give a child a stimulant who is hyperactive?Do these meds make children lose their personality?What side effects are there and what benefits are there?What does the research say on ADHD and outcomes of children who are medicated or not medicated?Will ADHD change my child's brain so they function better in the future?* This isn't an expert point of view, it is a personal experience, everyone should seek medical advice or see their treating prescribing for their professional opinion when varying their medication****If you loved this episode and want to go ahead and get a diagnosis for yourself or your children - check out www.adhdmums.com.au/resources for downloadable guides on paediatricians and psychiatrists**Previous episode on Medication and Psychiatrists here:https://open.spotify.com/episode/2BgE5R09fJG4bXqf2QJL0R?si=3U0vo4k9QcKXA6r9QHCjwgCredit to Dr Andrew Huberman, there is research from him in this podcast episode. Check him out at the Huberman lab. Credit also to Dr. Daniel Armin from Armin Clinics See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of the ADHD Mums Podcast features a candid conversation with Kaitlyn Faulkner from @holding_mama, who shares her personal experiences with ADHD, autism, and motherhood, living in rural New South Wales. Kaitlyn discusses the challenges and joys of parenting three boys with neurodivergent traits, managing impulsivity and the need for routine, and her journey to a dual diagnosis of ADHD and autism facilitated by telehealth options during the pandemic. The episode also touches on the importance of breaking stigmas surrounding neurodivergence, embracing one's identity to model self-acceptance for children, and the struggle with guilt and expectations in motherhood. Kaitlyn and Jane explore the complexities of finding balance, seeking support, and the reality that many mothers experience far more struggles than joy in their motherhood journey. Kaitlyn lists Panda as a resource - check it out hereand Dr Sophie Brock check her out hereIf you'd like to follow Kaitlyn her IG is here where she shows her journey openly and honestly. It's a great page. If you loved this type of theme, check out 'The Untold Struggles of Motherhood' (Part 1) with a different guest story here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode Jane interviews Nicki Farrell from The Wildlings Forest School which delves into the intricacies of non-traditional education paths, starting with a Jane's journey from public and private schooling to homeschooling due to bullying and a lack of support in the classrooms. It highlights the emotional and societal challenges of homeschooling, discussing with Nikki how the current education system doesn't offer flexibility, individualisation, and a broad range of learning opportunities. The conversation then shifts to cover childhood ambitions within the scope of neurodiversity, emphasising the importance of passion-led learning and catering to autistic children's interests to boost their confidence and emotional well-being.Nicki and Jane question traditional schooling in the age of technology and AI, and advocates for a more personalised approach to education that values individual needs and interests over conformity. The overall message is that we need to look into educational choices that prioritise mental health, individual growth, and the breaking down of stigmas surrounding neurodiversity.Check out Nicki and the Wildling Forest school hereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of the ADHD Mums Podcast features an engaging interview with AuDHD Mum Eliza Harris, where Jane and Eliza delve into the unique challenges and experiences of neurodivergent females, especially focusing on the nuances of ADHD and autism diagnoses in girls. Through personal stories and insights, they explore the impact of societal expectations, the struggle for a timely diagnosis, and the power of advocacy and understanding in navigating motherhood and life as neurodivergent individuals. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of ADHD Mums, host Jane welcomes back Psychologist Jessica Burgess to discuss the benefits and misconceptions of hypnotherapy for individuals with ADHD and their families. They explore how hypnotherapy can address issues such as anxiety, emotional regulation, and motherhood challenges, including 'mum guilt'. The conversation delves into how hypnotherapy can help reprogram subconscious beliefs, improve focus, and offer strategies for dealing with daily stresses. Jessica also shares personal insights and practical tips for incorporating hypnotherapy into daily routines and how it can be a tool for positive change not only for individuals but for their children as well.Highlights01:31 Demystifying Hypnosis: How It Works and Its Benefits07:28 Exploring Hypnotherapy for ADHD and Its Potential Benefits16:24 Addressing Trauma with Hypnotherapy: A Deep Dive21:19 Personal Experiences and Myths Around Hypnotherapy23:52 Who Should Consider Hypnotherapy?25:22 Unlocking the Power of Hypnosis: Benefits and Personal Growth27:08 Transforming Parenting: Hypnosis for Moms29:37 Hypnosis for ADHD: Real-life Applications and Success Stories30:00 The Hypnotherapy Process: What to Expect32:38 Finding the Right Hypnotherapist: Tips and Advice33:46 Exploring the Emotional Roots of Physical Illness Through Hypnosis41:18 Self-Hypnosis: A Practical Guide for Everyday Empowerment41:18 Incorporating Hypnosis in Children's Lives for Positive Change42:26 Concluding Thoughts: Accessibility and Personal Journeys in HypnotherapyCheck out more on Jess Burgess here:https://www.mypeacefulmind.com.au/Jess's other episodes on ADHD Mum's are listed here:Relationships and ADHD hereHigh Performance Women and ADHD hereAnxiety and ADHD hereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane is joined by Ange as they explore the theme of perfectionism and its relationship with ADHD. They share personal experiences, starting with a humorous account of their chaotic mornings, highlighting the imperfect aspects of their lives. Ange, an ADHD coach, reflects on her perfectionist tendencies, rooted in childhood, where she would tear out entire pages if not perfect.  Ange delves into her ADHD diagnosis at 35, sharing the challenges she faced in transitioning from one-on-one client work to leadership roles. The conversation navigates through various dimensions of perfectionism, discussing its impact on tasks, work, and self-worth. Both Jane and Ange emphasise the connection between perfectionism and shame, exploring how negative feedback and societal expectations contribute to this mindset. They discuss the difficulty of breaking the cycle and the importance of self-compassion, self-discovery, and courage in the recovery process. Ange highlights the need for individuals to recognise their values, strengths, and preferences, encouraging authenticity. Ange shares a coaching example where challenging ingrained beliefs about laundry allowed a client to reclaim her Wednesdays. This episode sheds light on the complexity of perfectionism, its intersection with ADHD, and the steps toward recovery and self-acceptance.Find out more about Angie here:⁠https://angenennie.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane interviews Jessica Burgess, Psychologist on this expert view on Relationships (romantic) and ADHD. HighlightsJane talks about how she is hyperactive ADHD and her husband has self diagnosed inattentive ADHD and how that can create friction. Jess talks about her relationships and how these have worked over the last few yearsJane and Jess talk about dividing house tasks and the balance/battle on time. Jess talks about little known reasons that ADHD can impact relationships. How we can take responsibility for our symptoms and how they effect relationshipsJess explains how inattentive ADHD can look calm on the outside but the person will be hit with anxiety at some point. Jess and Jane discuss how to communicate frustration in a way that's productive and helpful rather than creating conflict. You can listen to Jess' other episodes here:Anxiety and ADHDhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/17xW5V9PKkyncYUAnjVH1I?si=qk-_ko1yS9-vDUN6nkPJ7AHigh performance and ADHDhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/7sJmg4cjhe8mlme12KDITG?si=OIOMIWK5SRO2l7Rfm6qR-gSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is joined by Jasmine Meek - the Bayside Doula who was denied a diagnosis last episode and left in a very precarious position mental health wise. We follow on her journey, what did she do after her last appointment and how is she feeling now?HighlightsIs Jasmine currently medicated?Did she go back to her GP and/or another psychiatrist?How has this impacted her life?What was the process like and how is she going?First two parts of the story are here:1. Preparing for a Diagnosis Appointment https://open.spotify.com/episode/4lmaXn1P2UcKrMyK4RTFGo?si=yFUj3RhMQyewIK0_Cw2XOQ2. Denied a Diagnosis https://open.spotify.com/episode/3cDxOMa2Zq3TbUxM8fyTLQ?si=tCNL8m7UQxKrMVfGd5j5ugCheck out Jasmine's website and information about her business here as a doula in Brisbane. https://www.thebaysidedoula.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane welcomes Dr. Jacinta Thomson, a clinical psychologist with expertise in ADHD and autism, for a discussion on the intersection of these neurodivergences. Jacinta introduces the complexity of distinguishing between ADHD and autism, emphasising the unique challenges faced by individuals who may exhibit traits of both conditions. Jane and Jacinta delve into the outdated stereotypes associated with autism and how these perceptions can hinder accurate recognition.Jacinta sheds light on the DSM criteria for autism, highlighting differences in relating to others, communication, and interacting with the environment, and advocates for a neuroaffirming approach, emphasising identity-first language to acknowledge that neurodivergent conditions are intrinsic parts of an individual's identity. The conversation touches on how neurodivergent brains process information, sensory sensitivities, and the need for routine. The discussion takes a personal turn as Jane shares her experience with a friend's autism diagnosis and the nuances of social interactions. Jacinta explains the subtle ways ADHD and autism traits may manifest in social settings, exploring the challenges of non-verbal communication, understanding implied meanings, and navigating sensory overload. The conversation highlights the importance of recognising the individualised nature of these neurodivergences and tailoring support accordingly, fostering a deeper understanding of the complexities involved.If you'd like to know more about Dr Jacinta Thomson check her out here: www.timetountangle.com.au/Disclaimer from Dr Jacinta ThomsonIt is crucial to note that the information shared in the following episode is for general educational and informational purposes only. The content presented here is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any condition, and may not fully capture the nuances of your experience. This conversation does not constitute medical or psychiatric advice and is not a therapeutic session. It should not be relied upon as a substitute for personalised guidance from your treating health practitioner.If you or someone you know is seeking assistance or clarification regarding ADHD or Autism, we strongly encourage you to consult with a qualified healthcare professional who can provide tailored advice based on a thorough assessment of your specific circumstances.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane is joined by Shantelle Poynter! Jane and Shantelle explore the popularity of Shantelle’s previous episodes, touching on topics like self-hatred, ADHD, and relationships. The engaging banter between Jane and Shantelle sets the tone for a candid and relatable conversation about the challenges and triumphs of being an ADHD mom.Jane and Shantelle delve into the theme of "mum experiences," reflecting on the concept of "mum fails" and how the term may not accurately capture the essence of parenting mishaps. They share personal anecdotes, highlighting the humorous side of neurodivergent experiences, including an amusing yet potentially serious incident involving Shantelle leaving her car running for four hours in a busy shopping centre.If you'd like to hear Shantelle's other episodes here they are:Self Hatred and ADHDhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/5aI7T0w0WtdrbZjYn0S1Az?si=ff1074f491684d72Relationships and ADHDhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1sP3yrwjEDE3SYlTYhmQrA?si=xmIISazqRfGhl9DEQc_FKgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane welcomes Lael Stone, an educator, TEDx speaker, author, and parenting counsellor, to discuss raising emotionally intelligent children in neurodiverse families. Lael's extensive background in working with families for over 20 years, especially in the realm of birth education, postnatal trauma counselling, and parenting education, makes her a valuable resource for this topic.Jane and Lael dive into a conversation about the challenges parents face in maintaining emotional intelligence in neurodiverse families. Lael emphasises the importance of self-compassion, acknowledging the difficulties of parenting in today's stressful environment, and the need to release judgment and self-criticism. The discussion touches on permissive parenting and the struggle parents face in setting boundaries, especially in neurodiverse families where emotional regulation can be challenging. Lael advocates for building a tolerance for handling children's big feelings and the significance of modelling healthy ways to express and move emotions. Jane and Lael also explore the concept of self-care for parents, acknowledging the difficulty of finding time for oneself. Lael suggests embracing micro-moments of self-care throughout the day, involving children in these moments, and redefining self-care beyond traditional expectations. The conversation highlights the importance of creating supportive communities and breaking the myth of perfect parenting, aiming for a realistic and compassionate approach.Check out more about Lael Stone here:https://laelstone.com.au/ (I love her book!)Follow Jane on @adhdmums on IGJoin Jane in her community FB group called ADHD Mum's in Australia - Podcast here:https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is joined by Tania Waring, a lawyer and advocate/care coordinator mum of three neurodiverse boys. Tania is very experienced in advocacy for her children to get what they need at school. Tania has also completed her honours in Psychology and is passionate about inclusive education and improving outcomes for children in the schooling system. Jane and Tania share personal experiences and highlight the need for more understanding and support from educators, as well as emphasising the importance of normalising these experiences and finding hope through the stories of others who have faced similar challenges. HighlightsWhat should you do if you find your classroom teacher doesn't match your child's personality?How to handle teacher parent meetingsWhat can you do to get the best resultDoes the squeaky wheel really get the oil?How does allocation work?What can we do at home to make it easier on our kids?Check out Tania’s melt down episode herehttps://open.spotify.com/episode/7IdNqpCHo8IFLWAJ9axEFC?si=glZJspt5RLGpxSVknytqLgand Tania's episode on Boys and the Australian School Systemhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/0os4ZsrjXEY9yTyWJqmf6M?si=GmkIpm5zRKu8GlmBe6HZBQHere is the book I mentioned I LOVED:All the pieces of me by Libby ScottSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane is joined by guest, Matilda Boseley who recently released the book 'The Year I Met My Brain.' Matilda was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult and she shares her tumultuous journey and the inspiration behind writing a guide based on her personal experiences. Jane and Matilda navigate the unique challenges of completing a project with an ADHD brain, and discuss the unexpected support Matilda received from her partner. The conversation delves into the gender dynamics of ADHD, illuminating how societal expectations shape the experience differently for men and women. Matilda sheds light on the challenges faced by women in managing the mental load and the intersection of ADHD with gender roles and norms. They explore broader implications beyond individual experiences, offering valuable insights into the complexities of ADHD. Matilda passionately critiques the hurdles in accessing proper ADHD diagnosis and treatment, highlighting the societal expectations contributing to the struggle. Jane and Matilda reflect on the resilience cultivated while navigating life with ADHD, emphasising the importance of embracing imperfections.  Thank you for listening! Make sure to check out Matilda’s book, ‘The Year I Met My Brain’, and leave a 5-star review if you enjoyed this episode!Order Matilda's book here:⁠https://www.penguin.com.au/authors/matilda-boseleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane is joined by Tammie to discuss her journey of receiving a late-stage ADHD diagnosis at the age of 40.Tammie shares her experiences with different medications, highlighting the positive impact of Dexamphetamine and the challenges she faced with Vyvanse, as well as how Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) became instrumental in managing her ADHD-related struggles.Tammie shares on how Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria has impacted her life and how she manages it day to day.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Mums Podcast, Jane introduces Fiona McIntyre from Face Your Flaws Coaching, an expert on addiction and ADHD. Fiona, a life coach with over 20 years of experience, was diagnosed with ADHD at 47 and has successfully overcome addiction challenges. She shares her personal journey of losing 35 kilos and embarking on a sober lifestyle after 30 years of binge drinking. Fiona, a mother of two neurodivergent children, emphasises that a diagnosis is not an identity and is passionate about helping others facing alcohol, weight loss, and ADHD management challenges.Jane and Fiona delve into the complexities of addiction, specifically focusing on food and alcohol, which they believe are prevalent challenges for ADHD mums. Fiona discusses her struggles with binge eating and binge drinking, highlighting the connection between ADHD, dopamine deficiency, and the pursuit of substances that provide a dopamine hit. Fiona emphasises the importance of addressing emotional issues, trauma, and self-esteem concerns that often underlie addictive behaviours.Fiona speaks about her ADHD diagnosis journey, her experience with medication, and the role of self-beliefs in triggering addictive responses. Fiona advocates for narrative therapy to challenge and reframe the stories individuals tell themselves about their addiction. They explore alternatives to traditional support groups like AA, suggesting individualised approaches such as alcohol coaching, online communities, and personalised strategies tailored to each person's unique situation.Fiona shares her motivational mantra, "I love myself enough to stay sober," and stresses the significance of understanding and challenging the narratives one creates around addiction. She concludes by encouraging individuals to seek support, embrace their personal strengths, and recognise that lapses are a normal part of the recovery process.Find out more about Fiona here:⁠https://www.faceyourflawscoaching.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of The ADHD Moms Podcast, Jane is joined by Jess Bevan, a member of the ADHD mom community, as a guest to discuss strategies for managing ADHD without medication. The episode is particularly helpful for those who choose not to medicate or face medical conditions that prevent them from using medication. Jess, a mother of two, shares her personal experience of being diagnosed with ADHD in her twenties and her journey of finding strategies to cope without medication. Having studied psychology and worked with vulnerable moms and families, Jess emphasises the importance of incorporating creative and fun approaches to movement into daily routines.Jane shares her recent experience of discovering a significant heart condition, leading to the need to stop ADHD medication. This revelation sparks a conversation with Jess about strategies for ADHD management, especially for individuals and parents who choose not to medicate or face challenges with medication. Jess highlights the significance of incorporating movement into daily routines, making it enjoyable, especially for kids and suggests activities like dance parties, movement brain breaks, and using movement cards to engage children in fun physical activities. The conversation delves into the challenges and triumphs of parenting with ADHD and finding strategies that work for both parents and children.Despite Jess's personal decision not to use medication due to past adverse experiences, the episode aims to provide valuable insights and strategies for those navigating ADHD without medication. The focus is on creating a lifestyle change by making movement enjoyable and incorporating creative approaches to daily activities. ---Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.