ADHD Mums

Jane interviews Millie Car from Millie Carr Books. Millie has ADHD, three neurodiverse children and is a primary school teacher in Melbourne.Highlights- Millie talks about proactively setting up the classroom for neurodiverse learning from day one, let's not wait for something to happen, let's get ahead of it. - This is great for diagnosed kids, pre-diagnosis kids or undetected kids by just NOT expecting all kids to act neurotypical.- Can we cater to multiple diagnosis' with one approach ie. small changes in the classroom can make a big difference. - Expectations on parents vs expectation on teachers.- Home work expectations - can we all just do the bare minimum please?- The changes to inclusion being implemented in Australia.- Millie talks passionately about creating a culture of accepting all different students, how can we change the culture in schools?- Teachers need time set aside for professional development for ADHD, ASD and neurodiversities. We can't expect them to just know.- Jane calls for an overhaul of the education system (yet again). - Millie discusses the teacher shortage and Jane discusses how it feels to be a parent where it feels the principal is always on the teacher's side.- Jane loses her shit and gets on the high horse and regrets some of her wording about schooling system and the mental health crisis in our youngpeople. - Primary vs secondary education and how inclusion works.- Millie and Jane discuss how yelling at neurodiverse kids just doesn't work.- Why have we moved forward with inclusion in the workforce but not in schools?- Are we getting to a place now that we know the system isn't working but we don't know what to do differently?- Millie gives advice on how she personally would pick a school for her child, what to look for, what to avoid. - Millie and Jane discuss private vs public (controversial topics lol)Check out Millie Carr's books on ADHD at https://milliecarrbooks.com/--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is joined by Jasmine Meek - the Bayside Doula who is just about to meet a Psychiatrist to discuss a possible ADHD diagnosis. Jasmine is married with two kids and is a post partum doula. ADHD Mum's plans to follow Jasmine through the lead up to the appointment (this episode) plus catch up after the appointment and see if Jasmine is diagnosed with ADHD, then follow along the medication journey. Highlights- What led up to Jasmine seeking a diagnosis?- What was it about Motherhood that impacted her so heavily that she saw herself as possibly having ADHD?- What steps did Jasmine take to get the referral/psychiatrist appointment and how long did that take?- How a possible ADHD diagnosis has impacted Jasmine's life - particularly growing up as a child and teenager.- How self esteem plays a role in her adult life.- Transitioning from school to uni.- What Jasmine is preparing in her appointment lead up - how can you really unpack this yourself to get clearbefore the psychiatrist appointment - How can Jasmine be clear on camouflaging in female ADHD and scaffolding with her Psychiatrist.- How does ADHD effect the relationship with her husband - time blindness.- Jasmine was diagnosed with anxiety and given medication - 12 months post partum. - Jasmine and Jane discuss why it is we can't remember what day library is - every single bloody week.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is joined by Tania Waring, a lawyer and advocate/care coordinator Mum of three neurodiverse boys. Tania has also completed her honours in Psychology and has just applied for a scholarship to begin her doctorate in the use of co-regulation to prevent and minimise meltdowns in the classroom. Tania is very passionate about inclusive education and improving outcomes for children with ADHD and autism.Highlights- What is a melt down?- How is a melt down different to a tantrum?- What to do in a melt down?- Parenting styles - what if one parent wants to try an approach to the other?- What does a melt down feel like for a child?- Anxiety from the parents - can feel like you are walking on egg shells.- Can you prevent a melt down and how can you do that?- Jane shares about her two boys and their melt downs which require the 'replaying.'- The toll on the parents- Toll on the siblings and how can we prevent resentment.- Jane asks the big question - 'Why are we seeing the melt downs happen now, did corporal punishment work before?Tania shares her final message. 'Have Hope, Be Kind'--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane interviews Tamara and Shanelle from Motherhood a Beautiful Nightmare. Highlights- We discuss why women take on the mental load of housework, child care and all household duties even if they have ADHD?- Should we stage a protest? -Tamara wonders whether she should have just let her husband do her daughter's make up for the dance concert?- Why do we prepare for armageddon if we are going away for the weekend and our husband is taking over?- Shanelle talks Brene Brown and her speculation that the split will never be 50/50. Each partnership is different. - Jane recounts how her and her hubby divided up the duties when she went back to work. - How can we more often ask ourselves questions about why are we feeling frustrated or angry?- No one talks about self care - that's like giving sip of water to a dehydrated person in the desert. Mum's need way more than a massage one time. - Jane shares she has previously always felt like she 'fails at therapy' because she couldn't do any of the interventions. - Tamara and Shanelle don't have ADHD but wonder if we can celebrate the similarities of us all being people and raise awareness of inclusion instead of seeing the differences.Gottman Method for Coupleshttps://www.gottman.com/about/the-gottman-method/You can check MABN out on:https://motherhoodabeautifulnightmare.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane interviews Shantelle Poynter (her most regular guest) on self hatred and ADHD. Highlights- Why is there self hatred and shame within so many adults with ADHD, particularly those who were late diagnosed?- If there is a huge amount of undiagnosed women with ADHD out there, are they all walking around with shame, guilt and self hatredand if that's the case - that might be related to addiction, eating disorders, depression and anxiety. - Is the opposite of addiction - connection? - Self hatred and our kids - how can we teach them to value themselves?- Friendship pyramid theory for our kids, when to share secrets and private information and when not to share. - Do we put pressure on ourselves to behave like neurotypical people with neurotypical children - Jane took her kids to Australia Zoo in school hols - why did she do that? She backed it up with an orthodontist appointment after that. Is this lack of compassion we feel for ourselves because of self hatred?- Shantelle discusses how she is setting up her next weekend away completely differently to what she has ever done before and is hoping she will have crackedthe code on how to holiday with kids. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane interviews Michele Toner who has been supporting people with ADHD since 1995 and she was the first ADHD coach ever in Australia in 2003. Michele has now mentored over 100 ADHD coaches and promotes ADHD Awareness. Michele was awarded an OAM in 2021 for her work in ADHD.Highlights- How did Michele begin in this industry?- What training is involved with ADHD coaching?- How does it differ from Psychologists?- How do you pick a good ADHD coach?- Adult diagnosis and that journey and how it relates to ADHD coaching. - Can the NDIS fund ADHD coaching?- Sometimes the smallest achievements for ADHD people are really hard. ie. getting to work on time. - Self esteem and ADHD - ongoing dialogue about what we aren't good at from ourselves and others. - The validation that someone needs when they are considering going to get a diagnosis - How can we make the world more inclusive? Jane shares taking her kids to Australia Zoo which ended in security comingas her 4 x year melted down in the canteen because the customer service person poured his drink into a cup. - Does parenting cause ADHD or does ADHD make parenting very difficult?- Michele shares about how it felt receiving an OAM. - How can we encourage people to be more inclusive?- Family coaching with an ADHD coaching- What would Michele say to someone who has just been diagnosed as an adult?Directory on how to find a ADHD coach as below:https://www.adhdcoachesaustralasia.online  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are my kids the loudest kids in the world? Or can I just not cope with the noise.Jane interviews Deanna Reynolds, an ADHD Mum with two children on the Sunshine Coast who is studying to be a teacher. Deanna was diagnosed with ADHD earlier this year after advocating for herself for years and battling misdiagnosis that she was NOT just 'anxious'or a 'tired Mum.' Highlights- What is sensory overload?- How does it impact Mothers?- How does Deanna cope with burnout/sensory overload in her relationship with her husband. - How has the awareness of Sensory Overload and ADHD impacted the understanding of herself. - How does Deanna cope with having a small 18 month old child and the constant whinging/talking and crying. - What strategies can we use to prevent or reduce the sensory overload as it's happening.- Deanna's severe and debilitating anxiety attacks and how she can prevent them now knowing her diagnosis. - Deanna is managing severe anxiety attacks with lifestyle changes and preventative measures - she isn't able to receivemedication yet - Jane plans to follow her back up after she receives medication to see if it helps or not. - The spoon theory - such a great take on ADHD and sensory overload--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Not sure how people can enjoy school holidays?- Jane talks on the the hit of depression as she rode her bike to the park with her son after 3 + weeks with kids at home.- The huge melt down her son had at kindy over a ripped painting- Jane applies to NDIS for funding and goes through adding ADHD as a secondary diagnosis- Jane talks on how she sees labelling as positive to get NDIS funding and awareness in your parenting even if you don't communicate it to children. - What do you do for Grandparents day with no grandparents for kids?- Jane's experience of Vyvance and how it helps with her anxiety and rage- Jane's loved Vyvance then lost it about 2 days in- Jane's last family holiday Noosa and what a disaster that turned out to be.- Jane didn't actually ask her husband to help with school holidays then was pissed off when he didn'thelp out.- Influenza hit the house and in the recovery phase the ADHD from not doing anything for weeks hit hard- Jane reaches out and asks for some help, what do you do in your school holidays? What works? Please if you have some tips send me a VM and I'll play it next episode or send me a DM. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/message--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is back with Dr. Jacinta Thomson with Overwhelmed Mum Syndrome and whether it is real or not?- What are the key areas that create this?- How does executive function dysfunction impact this?--> Jacinta gives a great example on just simply buying 3 x things from supermarket and how that can go wrong- How does sensory overload create the perfect storm?- What are some of the tips/strategies that we can use to reduce the impact on ourselves.Check out more about Jacinta Thomson here:https://timetountangle.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane's back with one of her favourite guests Shantelle to discuss relationships and ADHD. Shantelle is a neurodiverse Mother of two neurodiverse children who is a nurse in Brisbane. Highlights include:-       Knowledge is power – the awareness of diagnosis is so important for ourselves and our children.-       Shame that we carry in our lives “Stop talking!” “You’re too loud or too much”-       Why do we people please instead of asking for what we need in relationships.-       Should we disclose to our children ‘labels’ – does it combat self hatred – is it better for kids to know, would we have preferred to know?-       Do we people please because we are so grateful to have a friend?-       Compliance at school = more responsibility at school. But can our girls handle it?-       If you put extra curricular activites or opportuntiies in front ADHD females/girls we will DO IT but at our own expense. -       Are ADHD females so far behind socially that we grow up late, how can we navigate friendship without learning the basics?-       All the assumed knowledge of social situations that ADHD females are supposed to learn as teenagers but some of us come into marriage or mid 30s still having no idea of how to navigate social situations.-       Boys get diagnosed more often and earlier so they have more chances to learn to regulate emotions than girls.-       Do we get so emotional because we can’t regulate our emotions so we cry or yell instead of being assertive?-       Thrill of new relationships, new jobs – starting again so often! Then we miss the chance to navigate conflict in friendships and partnerships.-       How do we say no to unreasonable things?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is joined by Deanna Reynolds, an ADHD Tutor and student teacher. Deanna has ADHD herself, lives on the Sunshine Coast with her husband (teacher) and her two kids. They discuss the difficulties kids face in the classroom when learning the same material as other neurotypical kids. - The impact the classroom has on self esteem for children.- The reason people with ADHD share with their own personal stories rather than just listening.- Irrelevant thoughts in kids, why kids come off as 'unfocused' - when actually their sharing makes complete sense to them and actually shows themtrying to understand.- How can we create more confidence in our children to ask teachers for help when they don't understand. - Therapy and ADHD Tutors can be expensive, time consuming and draining. How do we find the best solution for our children?- What can we do as parents to help our children in the classroom?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane talks about the pressures that parents feel to do many early intervention therapies on their kids, which comes rightat the same time as the diagnosis does. The overwhelm and indecision about what is the best thing to do for your kids which often comes at the same time as the physical demands on parents are the highest (kids under 7).- Jane discusses how she spent 50min + with a psychologist to discover she can only see one sibling.- Jane talks about her experience taking just two kids to the podiatrist and what taking ADHD kids to appointments really looks like.(Thanks old love in the corner for your judgemental face). - How can we balance therapies and fun? Our children need and deserve the same opportunity to play sport and relax- How can we work and drive our children around to these services every day of the week?- Jane discusses how she engaged a Psychologist to do a parenting plan for each child so she can learn the skills to help her kidsregulate their emotions. - Jane also talks about getting her 4 year old to sleep in his own bed YES!! Products mentioned are Jett Proof and compression sheets for sensory regulation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane is joined by Tania Waring, a lawyer and advocate/care coordinator mum of three neurodiverse boys. Tania is very experienced in advocacy for her children to get what they need at school. Tania has also completed her honours in Psychology and is passionate about inclusive education and improving outcomes for children in the schooling system. Jane and Tania share personal experiences and highlight the need for more understanding and support from educators, as well as emphasising the importance of normalising these experiences and finding hope through the stories of others who have faced similar challenges. Tania also provides us with an insight into her passion of creating change within the school system to create a more inclusive environment and reduce the impact that schools have on children’s self-esteem. *This episode specialises more in the externalising presentation of ADHD/ASD - which is seen more in boys than girls, but can occur in both genders. Where these kids are seen as 'disruptive' or 'problems.' * Episode Highlights:Þ   Common challenges faced by families with children who have ADHD and autismÞ   Pushing through the grief and adjustment required when realising that the school experience may be different from what was imaginedÞ   The lack of accommodations and understanding within the Australian school systemÞ   The detrimental effects of segregating children with learning differences and the perpetuation of negative attitudes towards differencesÞ   Highlighting the issue of gatekeeping and suspensions in schools, especially for children with ADHD and autismÞ   The pressure and lack of resources on teachers, which can lead to reactive responses and neglecting certain studentsÞ   A discussion around schools being focused on managing students rather than providing adequate support, and gathering evidence to justify suspensions and expulsionsÞ   Highlighting how change can occur when and where adults reflect on their actions and hold themselves accountable where appropriate within a child’s meltdown  If you found value in this episode, make sure to leave a review and reach out to Jane with a voice message here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/message--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jane discusses her personal experience with medication and psychiatrists and answers FAQ:- How do I access medication quickly?- Should I see a psychologist or a psychiatrist what is the difference?- I can't get into a psychiatrist - should I see a Telehealth one?- What is the difference between a Telehealth psychiatrist and an in person one?- What is this going to cost me?- Can I get Medicare rebates?- I have medication but I don't know if its working?- If I'm hyperactive why would I take a stimulant?- What medication should I ask for?**This episode only exists because of the huge waitlist to get into see a psychiatrist and how difficult it is to get reviewed by anyhealth professional on ADHD medication. This isn't an expert point of view, it is a personal experience, everyone should seek medical advice or see their treating prescribing for their professional opinion when varying their medication****www.someone.health/ is a resource you can go to if you need speedy professional opinion**--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A LOT of listeners have been asking for a 'Day in a Life of an ADHD Mum' however I haven't had anyone keen as yet.I've gone through a few days of my life to shine a light on inattention and how it presents in full families of inattention.- Jane talks openly about her severe depression in her teenage years and how that has lead to her wanting to raise awareness about what ADHD looks like in young girls, if they can get the right treatment and medication perhaps it will change the incidencein suicide in teenage girls. - Jane talks about a friend's inattention who under pressure couldn't find her keys in a very inopportune moment- ADHD Mum's have not just a bad day, they have a series of unfortunate events every single day.- Jane either has 150 tampons or none and then immediately loses the box she just bought.- We only had eggs to eat and had no gas bottle for 4 days. - One of my kids lost his hat for the colour run in under 12 hours (10 of those he was asleep).- Mum guilt and school holidays. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I was supposed to be interviewing Shantelle but we became instant friends and went OFF TOPIC hardcore.Part 2 in the Coffee chats with Shantelle- I'd go to Part 1 first. Topics covered:- Are ADHD Mum's the WORST at self care? and why is that?- Who created all the expectations on families to have dinner with their kids every night as a family and how bloody hard is that to do.- We can create a safe haven for our kids to come home to after experiencing a world unfriendly to neurodivergent people. - If we had of known about our diagnosis earlier, would we have natured ourselves or squashed ourselves? are we just TOO MUCH?- Is ADHD hyper focus a super power or is it like a were wolf where it only comes out when the stars align, moon is full, wind is blowing right. The rest of the time ADHD is an absolute pest. - Is there any group of people that looks after themselves LESS than ADHD Mums?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I was supposed to be interviewing Shantelle on misdiagnosis but we went OFF TOPIC hardcore. I've kept the audio because it's a rant about Mum life that I have with friends at pick up/drop off. Topics covered:- Shantelle's GP was blown aware on her disclosure of the self hatred that comes to ADHD.- Why is it that when a Mum goes to the GP or seeks help she is just told she has post natal depressionrather than tested for anything else?- Should we overhaul the Australian education system?- Why is the process to get medication for ADHD so bloody unfriendly to ADHD people - Shantelle's misdiagnosis story and how anti depressants didn't work for her. - Should we medicate our kids? (Jane and Shantelle's personal opinions)- Meeting ourselves and our kids where we are at THAT day - not where society thinks we should be**I wasn't planning on publishing this audio so Shantelle and I have been swearing like sailors throughoutand when thinking about medication you should always consult your treating professional**--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Rose Callaghan, ADHD Ambassador and Australian Comedian - the first person I have interviewed who was diagnosed with ADHD BEFORE getting pregnant. Check out her complex ride as I interview her on:- Multiple psychiatrist visits to get a muddy answer on meds and pregnancy.- Multiple psychiatrist visits to get a even muddier answer on meds and breastfeeding.(But don't worry there's a study on rats and meth)- How C-sections are the only operation when you are then handed a baby and told to prioritise that over your own recovery.- We get feminist on how unfair the gender roles are- We get agro about misdiagnosis of teenage girls, wrong medication, wrong therapy. - Rose has been considering doing a podcast for a long time but realises the commitment. Jane realises she probably should have thought about thecommitment before she started hers LOL. *We both swear and also talk openly about medicating children in our uneducated opinion - any listeners should get medical advice*Check out Rose's website at http://rosecallaghan.com/--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane interviews regular Aussie Mum Jenny on her traumatic past and the complex web of trauma and ADHD. Jenny talks about her past and how she only began exploring it after she became a Mum and how that has impacted her parenting and children. We also discuss Neurofeedback therapy and EMDR therapy.*This podcast doesn't recommend any types of therapies, we just discuss our experiences - you should always discuss treatment options with your GP*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Life feels like I've gotten on a one way rollercoaster to hell half the time and I can't get off. Where's the eject button?All my life I've been either speeding on a highway or my car is still trapped in the garage. Where'sthe balance?Angie Nennie has ADHD, is a mother of two and a professional ADHD coach we discuss:- Why is parenting so incredibly bloody boring but also so tiring?- What ADHD Mum friendly activities you can do with your child and actually have a good time?- If and how much our children are developmentally behind all the other children- Are ADHD children just 'harder' than other peoples?- The surge of diagnosis of ADHD in Mother's and Angie's view on why that is. - The spoon theory- Angie's personal experience with burnout and how she turned it around. - How Angie shares the mental load with her husband. - What strategies and tools we can use right now to try prevent burnoutIf you'd like to work with Angie then please reach out to her here:(Angie does a complimentary first session) and she is available for NDIS clients as well as private. https://angenennie.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane and Jenny share their stories advocating for their daughters in the Australian school system. Both in public and private schools. What works, what doesn't and why the system fails our little girls. We cover everything from the over worked teachers under fire from parents, principals and the kids, the ratio of teachers aides in schools and how each school gets a different amount of funding. Is the Australian school system flawed at its core? Jenny talks about her 10 year old girl being given academic awards at school whilst having a complete mental health breakdown at home and how no one believed her it was happening. Thankfully this episode finishes on a positive note that Jenny's daughter has had a full recovery and how Jenny helped her overcome it. *Trigger warning, Jenny does briefly mention suicide ideation of her daughter* (However there is a happy ending)--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane McFadden interviews Dr. Jacinta Thompson who is a clinical psychologist and has a PhD in clinical neuropsychology. Jacinta speaks about her own experience with misdiagnosis, where she was wrongly diagnosed with narcolepsy when really she had ADHD/ASD. We talk about what services/therapies we can receive in Australia through Medicare/NDIS and private health funds and what you CAN do to help yourself if you are not yet able to receive a diagnosis. For more information or a session with Dr. Jacinta Thomson. Please go to www.timetountangle.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane McFadden tackles WHY we keep hearing, "Nah, you don't have ADHD," and where masks come into play. Lots of personal examples on masks such as: school pick up, driving and general directions and working in a canteen. If you have have no idea if you've been masking, or what it is and if you have been doing it then this is the episode for you. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode Jane McFadden explores how we as mothers can recognise ADHD in our daughters and help break the stigma that the symptoms only exist in boys. Let's discuss and explore what the symptoms look like and educate those around us. This is the ONLY way to stop the misdiagnosis of females with ADHD from continuing on and to help our girls get the same opportunities for therapy, medication and recognition as the boys. Let's share this episode with our friends and family. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane McFadden takes her own advice on 'Is ADHD just an excuse?' and deals with a conflict situation by acknowledging her ADHD in a work situation. She then shame spirals through most of the week and struggles to move forward. However ADHD Mum's are nothing but resilient and we will continue on - this episode is to highlight - you are not alone in this. We all feel this, let's break down the stigma and talk about it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode Jane McFadden talks on the topic "Why do I seem to prioritise the wrong task?' She explores the reasons why our brains will delay, avoid or distract us from making decisions or doing boring but important tasks. Jane also discusses strategies we can use in our daily life to help us make decisions, prioritise and be more productive. Let's drop the negative self talk around this and get started. To send in feedback please go to: https://linktr.ee/adhdmums--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ADHD MUMS podcast is a safe place where Aussie Mums with relatable stories can discuss their struggles with ADHD, motherhood and life. In this episode Jane McFadden interviews Dr. Jacinta Thomson who is a clinical psychologist and has a PhD in clinical neuropsychology. Jacinta concisely and clearly maps out the pathways available for adults to be diagnosed with ADHD in Australia. Jacinta is also an Australian mother to two children under four years old who has been diagnosed with both ADHD and ASD and speaks from her own perspective as well as a professional one. Jacinta is very passionate about supporting adults from their early stages of querying their neurodivergence to providing formal diagnostic evaluations and reports, and supporting them through strengths-based therapy and coaching programs to pursue their most meaningful lives.  She has a special interest in supporting adults with ADHD and ASD, and especially women and people with more “internalising” or “high-masking” subtypes. For more information or a session with Jacinta. Please go to www.timetountangle.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ADHD MUMS podcast is a safe place where Aussie Mums with relatable stories can discuss their struggles with ADHD, motherhood and life. In this episode Jane McFadden talks on the popular topic that is hitting the ADHD Mum's inbox, "Am I just making excuses, or do I really have ADHD?" She explores the myth that ADHD is a set of excuses that people use for their children or for themselves. As well as how ADHD Mums can take back their own power, take responsibility for their symptoms and make changes to live the best life possible. **Jane also tells half a story about how she almost fostered a cat and its 6 kittens from a local shelter last time she was on holidays as her impulsive brain was bored by not working and spending time with her kids **--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ADHD MUMS podcast is a safe place where Aussie Mums with relatable stories can discuss their struggles with ADHD, motherhood and life. In this episode Jane McFadden interviews Lucy Holister on how she possibly manages with three children, FIFO husband and her university degree. Key discussion point is if anybody actually understand how much time and energy is exerted between 6-9am and why studying at night time is just not a possibility. When then does Lucy study and how she gets it done - powerhouse house Mum right here! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane McFadden interviews Lucy Holister on her hyperfocus after having her first child and how she turned this into a large scale business. Whilst hyperfocus can have such positive and negative consequences, this episode is an uplifting and funny listen. **I want to acknowledge that I'm still learning how to podcast and edit - so please be patient as each episode I'm learning how best to record to minimise interruption and background noise**--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode Jane McFadden interviews Lucy Holister on her life with several misdiagnosis' until she suspected her child had ADHD and finally got diagnosed. How Lucy balances it all and what strategies she uses to help her with three children and a FIFO husband. We also discuss how we can as Mothers impact the world to be more friendly to those people who are neurodiverse. **I want to acknowledge that I'm still learning how to podcast and edit - so please be patient as each episode I'm learning how best to record to minimise interruption and background noise**--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ADHD MUMS podcast is a safe place where real people with real stories can discuss their struggles with ADHD, motherhood and life. In this episode Jane McFadden interviews Katie Underwood on whether the world is ready to accept that women and girls can have ADHD too. Katie discusses her misdiagnosis which took 36 years to be correctly diagnosed with ADHD and what strategies and tools she is using to thrive with ADHD four years on. Jane and Katie also discuss if life would have been different if she was correctly diagnosed earlier.  **Trigger warning, suicide ideation is briefly mentioned in this episode**FEEDBACK FORM - WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE OF?https://3awx68zk9ox.typeform.com/to/Vg8Y3ByL Katie speaks about using Focus Mate as a body doubling tool to keep her on task. The link is below but please know this podcast is not monetised or sponsored in anyway. This is provided only for your convenience.https://www.focusmate.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ADHD MUMS podcast is a safe place where real people with real stories can discuss their struggles with ADHD, motherhood, and life. In this episode, host Jane McFadden talks about the growing awareness of ADHD in women, particularly mothers, and the challenges they face in their daily lives. Jane shares her story of being diagnosed with ADHD in her mid-thirties after experiencing severe burnout and feeling overwhelmed. Research has shown that ADHD symptoms can present differently in women than in men, and many women with ADHD may have gone undiagnosed or misdiagnosed in the past. The demands of motherhood can exacerbate the symptoms of ADHD, and as awareness grows, more women are seeking diagnosis and treatment. Join us today… FEEDBACK FORM - WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE OF? https://3awx68zk9ox.typeform.com/to/Vg8Y3ByL --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jane-mcfadden/messageSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.