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Game Episode: Midlife Myths—Busted (with Sara Preston)

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Intermittent fasting isn't just a one-size-fits-all approach; it works differently for women compared to men, and that's one of the key takeaways from our chat today. We dive into the nuances of how factors like hormones, stress, and lifestyle play a significant role in weight management, especially for women over 40. It's not merely about the number on the scale, but rather how your body composition can shift, leaving you looking and feeling different even if the scale doesn't budge. Consistency is the name of the game—it beats intensity any day, and we explore how making this a lifestyle rather than a sprint can lead to sustainable results. So, if you've been feeling like giving up too soon, remember: sometimes the real magic happens when you least expect it, and we're here to cheer you on for the long haul! Navigating the world of health and wellness can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack, especially for women over 40. Our recent discussion unpacks the realities of intermittent fasting, addressing a common misconception: that it works the same for everyone. While men may experience rapid results, the complexities of a woman's body — with its unique hormonal fluctuations and metabolic changes — often mean a different path to success. We emphasize that consistency is key; it's not about punishing workouts or extreme diets, but rather about adopting sustainable lifestyle changes. As we dive into the nitty-gritty of body composition, we highlight that weight isn't the sole indicator of progress. The scale can lie—five pounds of fat versus five pounds of muscle can look drastically different. So, we suggest focusing on how clothes fit and how one feels, which can be far more empowering than just a number. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that health is a marathon, not a sprint, and that real change takes time and patience, especially in midlife. The conversation takes a playful turn as we engage in a game debunking various myths around fitness and nutrition. For instance, the idea that aging means carbs automatically turn into fat is swiftly dismissed. Instead, we advocate for a balanced view of carbohydrates, recognizing their vital role in energy and muscle building. Moreover, we tackle the myth that one must work harder as they age; rather, we argue for smarter training techniques that prioritize muscle maintenance and overall wellness. The episode is peppered with practical advice, such as ensuring adequate protein intake in midlife to mitigate muscle loss, and we stress the importance of listening to one's body—after all, everyone's journey is unique. Together, we explore how to sustain motivation and instill accountability, reminding listeners that community support is invaluable. In this episode, we also take a closer look at cortisol and its impact on our bodies, especially during times of stress. Understanding how stress hormones interact with our fitness routines can help listeners navigate their health journeys more effectively. We emphasize the importance of stretching, warm-ups, and mobility work to prevent injuries — because let's face it, nobody wants to be sidelined by a preventable issue. By the end of our chat, the core message resonates: it's not about perfection, but about finding what works for you and sticking with it. As we encourage our listeners to embrace their unique paths, we remind them that true health is about feeling good in your skin, not just looking good. So grab a friend, stay accountable, and let's make health a lifestyle choice that lasts.Takeaways:Intermittent fasting produces similar results for women and men, but hormonal differences require tailored approaches.The number on the scale doesn't always reflect progress; body composition changes can be significant despite weight staying the same.A consistent approach to fitness and nutrition, especially for women over 40, yields better long-term results than short bursts of intensity.It's crucial to remember that health and fitness are lifelong journeys—there's no finish line, just a lifestyle to embrace.As we age, prioritizing protein intake becomes essential for muscle maintenance and overall health; it's not just about calories.Finding enjoyable and sustainable habits is key; accountability can make all the difference in sticking with your health goals.

Jan 22, 202615 min

S1 Ep 37Why Your Old Fitness Rules Fail After 40 (And What Actually Works Now) with Sara Preston

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Today, we dive deep into the world of health and wellness for women navigating the glorious chaos of midlife. Our guest, Sara Preston, a menopause-certified fitness and nutrition coach, shares invaluable insights on how to truly nourish our bodies while embracing the changes that come with age. We tackle the often confusing relationship between hormones, nutrition, and fitness, aiming to shed light on why traditional approaches might be leaving us feeling frustrated and stuck. It's all about working smarter, not harder, and finding joy in the process—because feeling good is addictive! So grab your favorite beverage, settle in, and let’s get ready to empower ourselves with practical tools and strategies you can start using today.Takeaways:The birth control pill, while common for many women, has long-term implications that we didn't fully understand at the time, highlighting the need for greater awareness and education about women's health choices.As we age, our bodies respond differently to alcohol, making it harder to enjoy it without consequences, which is frustrating but a common experience for many women in their 40s and beyond.Strength training is essential for women over 40, not only for muscle retention and fat loss but also for building resilience against the stressors of life, emphasizing the importance of working smarter, not harder.Nutrition should focus on whole foods and adequate protein intake, allowing for a balance that nourishes the body, especially during midlife when hormonal changes can complicate weight management and overall health.

Jan 20, 20261h 25m

Game Episode: Her Answers Surprised Me | Dr. Emma Jones (Game Episode)

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We dive right into the heart of the matter: recognizing when we've lost ourselves, a realization that often hits us on one of those seemingly mundane Tuesdays when we ask, "What am I even doing here?" The conversation flows from the signs of burnout to the surprisingly simple antidote—like giving ourselves a bedtime! Yes, you heard that right; bedtime isn’t just for kids anymore. As we unravel the layers of midlife, it becomes clear that our biggest hurdle isn't about finding ourselves again, but rather returning to the essence of who we really are, buried under the clutter of daily life. Join us as we explore these poignant truths, sprinkle in a bit of wit, and remind ourselves that the journey back to ease and authenticity starts with small, manageable shifts that can truly transform our lives. The journey through midlife can often feel like a maze filled with unexpected dead ends and unforeseen detours, especially for women who juggle multiple roles and responsibilities. During this episode, the speakers explore the poignant moment when realization strikes: the feeling of losing oneself amid the whirlwind of daily life. They tap into the often unspoken truth that this loss of identity can occur in the quietest of moments, resonating with anyone who has ever found themselves wondering, 'What am I doing here?' This shared experience becomes a launching point for a deeper conversation about the weight of societal expectations and the pressure to perform, which can lead to burnout if left unchecked. The hosts introduce the idea that 2026 is the 'year of ease', a concept that serves as both a mantra and a practical goal. They emphasize the importance of intentionality in navigating life’s challenges, encouraging listeners to seek out ease even when faced with adversity. This refreshing perspective highlights the necessity of small, actionable changes, such as establishing a consistent bedtime, which is presented as a surprisingly effective antidote to burnout. Their witty banter and relatable anecdotes create an engaging atmosphere, making the discussion not just informative but also entertaining. It’s a reminder that self-care doesn’t have to be complicated; sometimes, it simply requires a commitment to prioritizing oneself amidst the chaos. As the conversation unfolds, the speakers delve into broader themes of guilt, shame, and the pursuit of authenticity. They challenge the notion that midlife is about rediscovering oneself, instead framing it as a return to one’s core identity, obscured by the layers of external pressures. This idea resonates deeply, encouraging listeners to shed the guilt associated with unmet expectations and to instead focus on what truly matters to them. By the end of the episode, the hosts leave their audience with a sense of empowerment, inviting them to embrace their unique journeys with humor and honesty, and to remember that the path back to oneself is not only possible but also profoundly rewarding.Takeaways:Women often realize they've lost themselves during mundane moments, like a random Tuesday.Establishing a consistent bedtime for adults can significantly improve overall well-being and rest.In 2026, we should strive to find ease within the challenges that life throws our way.The common lie that burned-out women believe is that things must always be this way.Recognizing guilt as a signal rather than a shaming mechanism can lead to self-awareness and growth.Midlife is less about rediscovery and more about returning to the authentic self that's always been present.

Jan 15, 20269 min

S1 Ep 36Burnout or Breakthrough? The Midlife Wake-Up Call You Didn't See Coming with Dr. Emma Jones

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The conversation today dives deep into the pressing issue of self-care, particularly the guilt many women feel about prioritizing their own needs, especially in midlife. Dr. Emma Jones brings a refreshing perspective, challenging the notion that we must sacrifice our well-being for others, highlighting that neglecting self-care can lead to burnout or worse. We explore how societal expectations often set an impossible standard of "having it all," and the necessity of defining what "it all" truly means for ourselves. Emma’s insights encourage us to embrace small, meaningful changes instead of drastic overhauls, fostering a sustainable approach to self-care. Join us as we unravel the complexities of burnout, the importance of self-permission, and how to reclaim our lives without guilt—because, let’s face it, we all deserve a little "me time."

Jan 13, 20261h 23m

Game Episode: All Things Megaformer: Early Mornings, Dream Clients & Real Talk with Sebastian Lagree

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Join us as we dive into the pulse of the fitness world with our riveting discussion on the latest legree moves and the art of keeping workouts engaging. Today, we play the Megaformer Lightning Round, where we share our favorite and most challenging exercises, revealing the love-hate relationship many have with the runner's lunge. Ever wondered who our dream celebrity client would be? Spoiler alert: it’s none other than Arnold Schwarzenegger, a nod to our admiration for the golden era of bodybuilding. We also tackle workout trends that should be left in the past, and I can’t help but chuckle at the absurdity of some fads. So grab your headphones, get cozy, and let’s chat about fitness, fun, and everything in between!A lively exchange unfolds as our hosts delve into the intriguing world of fitness, specifically focusing on the Legree method and its unique Megaformer. The conversation takes on a playful tone as one host introduces a game called the Megaformer Lightning Round, prompting spontaneous and candid reflections on various aspects of their fitness journeys. From favorite exercises to clients' love-hate relationships with certain moves, the dialogue flows with a blend of humor and insight. The highlights include a deep dive into the floating series, a challenging yet rewarding aspect of the Legree method, and a lighthearted discussion about the most dreaded exercises in the studio. The hosts' chemistry shines through as they share personal anecdotes and expert opinions, creating an engaging atmosphere that keeps listeners hooked.What sets this episode apart is the candid exploration of celebrity culture in fitness. One host expresses a dream to train Arnold Schwarzenegger, reminiscing about how iconic figures like him inspired their fitness paths. This moment not only humanizes the conversation but also underscores the profound impact of iconic personalities in shaping fitness trends. The discussion cleverly bridges the gap between fitness and pop culture, offering listeners a unique perspective on how celebrity influence intertwines with workout regimens. With doses of humor and relatable insights, the episode invites listeners to reflect on their fitness aspirations and the cultural icons that motivate them.As the episode progresses, the conversation takes a more introspective turn, addressing personal challenges and guilty pleasures post-workout. One host reveals a penchant for chocolate shakes, providing a relatable touch that resonates with anyone who enjoys a post-exercise treat. This discussion transitions into a broader examination of work-life balance, early morning routines, and the importance of mental health in the fitness industry. The hosts emphasize the significance of finding joy and relaxation amidst the hustle of fitness training, encouraging listeners to embrace their own wellness journeys with humor and authenticity. Overall, this episode is a rich tapestry of fitness insights, celebrity musings, and personal reflections, making it a delightful listen for anyone interested in the world of health and wellness.Takeaways:The Megaformer Lightning Round game was a fun way to explore favorite exercises, showcasing the dynamic nature of the Legree Method.Clients often have a love-hate relationship with the runner's lunge, particularly when it's held for an extended period during workouts.The dream celebrity client for trainers often leads to discussions about fitness journeys and nostalgic influences from icons like Arnold Schwarzenegger.We delved into workout trends we wish would vanish, highlighting the absurdity of certain fads, like shake weights, in a humorous light.The importance of sleep and relaxation routines, including the use of natural aids like cannabis for better recovery and rest, was shared in a candid manner.House music serves as a universal motivational tool for workouts, showing how rhythm influences fitness and energy levels during training sessions.Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Jan 8, 20268 min

S1 Ep 35The Midlife Playbook: Hormones, Health, and Longevity with Dr. Amy Killen

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In this episode of The Iconic Midlife, Roxy sits down with physician and regenerative medicine expert Dr. Amy Killen for a smart, honest conversation about women’s health in midlife — without fear tactics, trends, or one-size-fits-all answers.Dr. Killen breaks down what women actually need to know about hormones, sexual health, skincare, longevity, and wellness — and why there is no single “magic fix.” From hormone testing and libido to brain health, sun protection, and consistency over perfection, this episode is about informed choices, realistic expectations, and reclaiming agency over your health.This is a grounded, empowering listen for women who want clarity — not chaos — when it comes to midlife health.In this episode, we cover:Why there is no “one thing” that fixes midlife healthThe basics every woman should know about hormone testingSexual health, desire, and why the brain matters mostSkincare, sun protection, and realistic expectationsWhy consistency beats intensity every timeWhat most doctors aren’t trained to discuss — and why that matters🎧 New episodes of The Iconic Midlife drop weekly on Tuesdays and Thursdays.Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Jan 6, 20261h 0m

Sleep Debt: Can We Ever Pay It Back? with Dr. Michael Breus

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You can’t make up for lost sleep, and that’s the cold, hard truth we’ve unraveled in this episode. We dive deep into the myths and realities surrounding sleep, tackling everything from the infamous eight-hour myth to the surprising truths about melatonin and blue light. With a mix of personal anecdotes and expert insights, we explore how our sleep patterns shift, especially for those of us navigating the wild world of midlife. Plus, we sprinkle in some light-hearted games to keep things lively while we bust those sleep-related myths wide open. So grab your favorite cozy blanket and settle in, because we’re about to uncover what it really takes to catch those elusive Zs!This episode embarks on a journey through the often misunderstood realm of sleep, tackling the plethora of myths that cloud our understanding of this essential human need. The hosts set the stage with a relatable narrative about the struggles of new parenthood, where sleep becomes a rare currency. They humorously recount their own sleepless nights, creating a sense of camaraderie with listeners who have faced similar challenges. The discussion quickly pivots to debunking the myth that one can 'make up' for lost sleep, emphasizing that while we may long for those extra hours, the reality is that our bodies are not designed to repay sleep debt. Instead, they suggest a more flexible approach to sleep duration, citing research that indicates a range of seven to nine hours may be optimal for most, a revelation that encourages listeners to rethink their nightly routines.As the conversation deepens, the hosts explore the role of various aids in achieving restful sleep. They approach the topic of melatonin with caution, warning against its overuse and the potential for negative interactions with medications. The dialogue takes a humorous turn as they dissect the effects of alcohol and cannabis on sleep, highlighting the importance of moderation. They delve into cannabis's complexities, discussing how the balance of THC and CBD can influence sleep quality, and advocating for a thoughtful approach to its use. This segment is rich with insights, delivered in an engaging manner that blends scientific discussion with light-hearted banter, making the material accessible and enjoyable.The episode concludes with a lively game segment designed to distinguish between sleep myths and must-dos, keeping listeners engaged while reinforcing the core messages discussed. The hosts leave their audience with a sense of hope, asserting that midlife insomnia is not an insurmountable challenge. They advocate for cognitive behavioral therapy as a viable solution, emphasizing that with the right strategies, individuals can reclaim their sleep without resorting to medication. This episode is a treasure trove of knowledge, humor, and practical advice for anyone seeking to improve their sleep quality and overall well-being.Takeaways: The idea that you can make up for lost sleep is a total myth, folks. Most parents lose a staggering amount of sleep in the first few years of raising kids. Believe it or not, melatonin might not be the sleep savior you think it is. Cannabis can help with sleep, but the THC content matters more than you might realize. Quality of sleep should take precedence over the quantity, so prioritize restful nights. Midlife insomnia isn't just something you have to endure; there are effective methods to tackle it. Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Jan 1, 20267 min

S1 Ep 34Owning My Truth: Chely Wright on Fear, Faith, and Finally Being Free

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In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Chely Wright joins The Iconic Midlife to talk about what it really means to own your truth — even when it’s terrifying.Chely opens up about the years she spent living in fear, carrying secrets, and navigating the pressure to stay silent in order to survive. She reflects on the moment she decided she was done with whispers — and why telling the truth publicly wasn’t just brave, but necessary.Together, Roxy and Chely explore:Why fear keeps so many women small — especially in midlifeThe difference between faith and religion, and how faith carried Chely through her hardest momentsWhat happens when you stop caring what people think — and why that freedom often comes later in lifeThe quiet grief of hiding who you are, and the power of finally being seenWhy telling your story can change not just your life, but someone else’sThis episode is a reminder that growth doesn’t always look graceful — sometimes it looks like choosing yourself, out loud.If you’ve ever felt like you were waiting for permission to live honestly, this conversation is for you.Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Dec 30, 20251h 22m

The Midlife Manifesto: Real Talk, Red Flags, and Reclaiming Power with Cynthia Bailey and Dana Hill-Robinson

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In this Midlife Manifesto game episode, I’m joined by Cynthia Bailey and Dana Hill-Robinson for a candid, no-holds-barred conversation about the rules we’re done following — and the power we’re reclaiming in midlife.Through rapid-fire prompts, honest confessions, and plenty of laughs, we unpack red flags we no longer ignore, truths we wish we’d learned sooner, and what it really means to stop performing and start living on our own terms.This episode is about clarity, confidence, and choosing yourself — without apology.Consider this your permission slip to rewrite the rules.Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Dec 25, 20259 min

S1 Ep 33Friendship After 40: The Real Deal on Women’s Bonds with Tracy Tutor

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Friendship in midlife isn’t about reading between the lines — it’s about telling the truth.In this episode, Roxy sits down with real estate mogul, bestselling author, and longtime friend Tracy Tutor for an unfiltered conversation about what female friendship actually looks like after 40. From outgrowing relationships to learning how to ask for support, Tracy doesn’t sugarcoat the realities of connection, loneliness, and emotional honesty in midlife.They talk about why expecting friends to “just know” how you feel doesn’t work, how shame and silence quietly erode relationships, and why community is more than a buzzword — it’s essential. With sharp insight, humor, and heart, Tracy reminds us that meaningful friendships require clarity, communication, and a willingness to show up as you are.If you’ve ever felt disconnected, misunderstood, or unsure how friendships are supposed to evolve in this chapter — this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.In this episode, you’ll hear:Why friendships after 40 require direct communication, not mind-readingHow loneliness impacts women in midlife — and why community matters more than everLetting go of outdated expectations and shame-based narrativesThe difference between long history and true alignmentWhy honesty is the foundation of lasting connection🎧 Listen now and revisit one of the most honest conversations on midlife friendship.Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Dec 23, 20251h 19m

Game Time: Cue the Spotlight: Red Carpet Mishaps, Live TV Chaos & Thinking on Your Feet with Samantha Harris

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What really happens when the cameras are rolling?In this game-style episode, Roxy is joined by TV host Samantha Harris for a fun, behind-the-scenes look at life on camera. From red carpet wardrobe malfunctions and unexpected co-host moments to live-TV mishaps you definitely don’t see on air, this episode is all about thinking fast, rolling with it, and laughing through the chaos.In this game episode of The Iconic Midlife, Roxy sits down with longtime TV host Samantha Harris for a rapid-fire, behind-the-scenes conversation about what really happens when you’re live on camera.From favorite celebrity interviews and red carpet mishaps to wardrobe malfunctions, off-the-rails co-hosts, and those moments where you realize—too late—that there might be spinach in your teeth, nothing is off limits.This episode covers:The most memorable celebrity interviewsHow to handle wardrobe malfunctions in real timeWhat to do when a co-host goes completely rogueLive TV moments you can’t prepare forWhy thinking fast matters more than being perfectIt’s fun, unfiltered, and full of the kind of stories you only hear once the cameras stop rolling—or when you’re brave enough to admit them.Connect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Dec 18, 20257 min

S1 Ep 32Letting Go of the Good Girl: Shame, Self-Compassion, and Midlife Growth with Annalie Howling

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What if the version of you that kept the peace, followed the rules, and carried everyone else… isn’t the version you’re meant to be anymore?In this powerful and deeply resonant conversation with Unapologetic author, Annalie Howling, we unpack one of the most persistent midlife patterns women struggle to release: the “good girl” narrative — and the shame that comes with outgrowing it.This episode is about what happens when you evolve in a direction that no longer fits your old roles, relationships, or expectations. When softness is mistaken for weakness. When power feels like a dirty word. And when self-judgment quietly replaces self-trust.Together, we explore:Why shame is so deeply embedded in how women experience midlifeThe emotional cost of caretaking everyone except yourselfWhat it really means to outgrow people, identities, and relationshipsWhy softness is not something to fix — it’s a strengthHow self-compassion becomes the antidote to shameThis is not a conversation about becoming louder, tougher, or more “empowered.”It’s about becoming clearer, kinder, and more honest with yourself.If you’ve ever felt pressure to disappear until you’re “better,” smaller, healed, or perfect — this episode is for you.What We Talk AboutLetting go of the “good girl / bad girl” binaryShame-based narratives women inherit — and how they show up in midlifeWhy power doesn’t have to look aggressive to be realThe freedom that comes with releasing outdated expectationsSelf-compassion as a daily practice, not a buzzwordWhy This Episode Still MattersSome conversations don’t expire — they deepen.This is one of those episodes women return to when they’re navigating growth, transition, or the quiet realization that their life no longer fits the rules they were raised with.Listen If You’re…Feeling like you’ve outgrown parts of your life but don’t know what comes nextTired of carrying shame that no longer belongs to youNavigating midlife with more honesty — and less performanceReady to trade self-criticism for self-trustConnect + Continue the Conversation💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife perspective delivered straight to your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to reframe midlife on their terms.New full episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes on Thursdays.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube📲 Let’s ConnectSocial Media: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Dec 16, 20251h 1m

Game Time: Say It Without Saying It with Sasha Alexander

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Get ready for one of the most fun and revealing bonus games we’ve ever played on The Iconic Midlife. Sasha Alexander takes on our “Say It Without Saying It” fill-in-the-blank game, and the answers are equal parts surprising, honest, funny, and deeply relatable.From midlife truths to friendships, identity shifts, confidence, and everything we think but rarely say out loud, Sasha doesn’t hold back. This quick-hit bonus episode gives you a lighter, playful side of Sasha—while still delivering the kind of real talk our audience loves.If you enjoyed her full episode, this bonus game is the perfect companion. Short, juicy, and guaranteed to make you smile.💌 Join the Inner Circle:https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614Bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife inspo in your inbox.The Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms.New episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes drop every Thursday.Tap “Follow”, rate, and comment wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss a moment.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?si=0df021ef6f5b4532Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning📲 Let’s ConnectInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiconicmidlifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theiconicmidlifeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/The-Iconic-Midlife-61572430341428/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theiconicmidlifeHost: https://www.instagram.com/redcarpetroxy

Dec 11, 202513 min

S1 Ep 31From Hollywood to Reinvention: Sasha Alexander on Midlife Power, Identity & What’s Next

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From Hollywood stardom to the deeply personal reinvention that midlife demands, Sasha Alexander opens up in a way you’ve never heard before.In this conversation, Sasha and Roxy go far beyond the usual Hollywood narrative. They get real about the quiet identity shifts that sneak up on women in their 40s and 50s—the career pivots, the friendship shake-ups, the hormone changes, the moments when your old life simply doesn’t fit anymore.Sasha shares what it’s really like to rebuild your sense of purpose after decades in the entertainment world, how she’s navigating midlife transitions with honesty and curiosity, and why this chapter has opened up an entirely new definition of power for her.Whether you’re rethinking your career, redefining your relationships, or reclaiming parts of yourself that got lost along the way, this episode will make you feel seen, grounded, and a little more fearless about what comes next.In This Episode:The unexpected identity shifts of midlifeLetting go of old labels and rolesNavigating evolving friendshipsHow hormones and health changes influence energy, confidence, and clarityThe emotional landscape of reinventionWhy “what’s next” doesn’t have to be scary—it can be expansiveSasha’s real talk on ambition, womanhood, and starting fresh in your 40s and 50sEpisode TakeawaysReinvention isn’t a crisis—it’s an awakeningMidlife power looks different than your 20s or 30s (and that’s a good thing)Friendship changes aren’t failures—they’re evolutionYou’re allowed to shift, re-evaluate, and choose differentlyThere’s no expiration date on ambition or identity💌 Join the Inner Circle:https://the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning.kit.com/3433416614Bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife inspo in your inbox.The Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms.New episodes every Tuesday. Bonus game episodes drop every Thursday.Tap “Follow”, rate, and comment wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss a moment.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?si=0df021ef6f5b4532Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning📲 Let’s ConnectInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiconicmidlifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theiconicmidlifeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/The-Iconic-Midlife-61572430341428/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theiconicmidlifeHost: https://www.instagram.com/redcarpetroxy

Dec 9, 20251h 18m

Game Time: Fertility Fact or Fiction: Dr. Ghadir Answers the Myths Women Over 40 Hear Most

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Fertility is one of the most confusing and myth-filled topics women over 40 face — so in this game episode, we’re cutting straight through the noise. Dr. Shahin Ghadir joins me for a rapid-fire round of Fertility Fact or Fiction, where he breaks down the biggest misconceptions about egg freezing, age, hormones, IVF, and what’s actually possible in midlife.From whether freezing your eggs guarantees a future pregnancy to the truth about age, embryo quality, and the surprising myths that still circulate in the media, Dr. Ghadir brings clarity and evidence to questions so many women are afraid to ask.This is a quick, sharp, no-nonsense episode designed to give you real answers — and help you feel informed, empowered, and grounded in facts rather than fear.

Dec 4, 20256 min

S1 Ep 30Your Fertility After 40: Myths, Misunderstandings, and Realities with Dr. Shahin Ghadir

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Navigating fertility in midlife is complicated — and too often, women are left sifting through myths, fear-based headlines, and outdated statistics. This week, I’m joined by Dr. Shahin Ghadir, one of the leading fertility specialists in the country, for a clear, unfiltered look at what’s actually possible after 40.We get into the real numbers, the current science, and the emotional weight of making decisions about your reproductive future at this stage of life. From egg freezing and embryo quality to donor options, hormones, and the truths the media gets wrong, Dr. Ghadir breaks down what every midlife woman deserves to know — without shame, stigma, or sugarcoating.If you’ve ever wondered whether you still have options, what your odds really are, or how to make empowered decisions about your body, this conversation will give you clarity, context, and the information you should have been handed years ago.Knowledge is power — and this episode puts it back in your hands.

Dec 2, 202554 min

Game Time: Red Flags & Green Lights: Navigating Midlife Dating Games with Renee Rouleau

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Midlife dating: thrilling, awkward, confusing—and occasionally hilarious. In this special holiday game drop, celebrity skincare expert Renée Rouleau plays Red Flag, Green Light, where we unpack everything from early Venmo requests to living with your mom. What’s forgivable, what’s flaky, and what’s a hard no? Expect spicy scenarios, honest takes, and plenty of laughter as we navigate the wild world of midlife dating—one red flag at a time.Whether you're single, coupled, or somewhere in between, this one's pure fun.👉 Listen now on Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, or anywhere you get your podcasts.📲 the-iconic-midlife-with.captivate.fmSocial media: @theiconicmidlife | @redcarpetroxy

Nov 27, 202512 min

S1 Ep 29Stress-Free Hosting in Midlife: Lora Peterson’s Guide to Parties That Feel Like You

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If the words “host a party” send you into a spiral of panic, perfectionism, or Pinterest overwhelm—you’re not alone. In this episode of The Iconic Midlife, style-savvy hospitality expert Lora Peterson shows us how to ditch the pressure and throw gatherings that actually feel good.We’re talking painted front doors, mismatched glasses, and making room for joy—not judgment. Lora shares how midlife is the best time to embrace your authentic self, including how you entertain. Whether you're planning Thanksgiving dinner or a casual Friday hang, this is your permission slip to simplify and reconnect with the fun of hosting.📝 Free Download: 5 Power Moves Every Midlife Woman Should Be Making This high-impact worksheet is your shortcut to owning your next chapter—on your terms. 📥 Grab your free worksheet ​here​⚡ Need more energy, fewer symptoms, and a better night’s sleep? I'm obsessed with Hop Box, a women-founded supplement brand designed for our midlife needs. 💊 Use code ROXY for 10% off sitewide. 🛍️ ​Shop Hop Box now​💌 Join the Inner Circle: Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife inspo in your inbox? 👉 ​Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter​🎧 Listen & Follow New episodes every Tuesday + bonus drops on Thursdays. Tap “Follow” so you never miss a moment. 📲 ​Apple​ | ​Spotify​ | ​Amazon​ | ​YouTubeSocial media: @theiconicmidlife | @redcarpetroxy

Nov 25, 20251h 16m

Game Time: Sleep Myth or Must-Do: The Sleep Doctor Calls Out What Actually Works in Midlife

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In this fast, fun Sleep Myth or Must-Do game episode, world-renowned Sleep Doctor Dr. Michael Breus breaks down the most common sleep myths midlife women hear every day — and reveals which ones are actually wrecking your nights.We get into the truth about 3AM wake-ups, “catching up” on lost sleep, whether eight hours is really the gold standard, how hormones change everything after 40, and the daily habits that help (or totally backfire). Dr. Breus sorts fact from fiction with sharp, science-backed answers that are easy to understand — and even easier to put into practice.If you want clearer nights, better energy, and a deeper understanding of what really works for midlife sleep, this episode gives you quick wins, surprising truths, and eye-opening corrections you won’t hear anywhere else.Think you know how sleep really works in midlife? In this myth-busting game, the Sleep Doctor sets the record straight. We cover:• Why midlife women wake at 1–3AM — and how to stop the cycle• Whether you can “catch up” on lost sleep (the truth hurts)• The real ideal sleep range for women over 40• What actually affects REM and deep sleep• The daily habits and routines that improve sleep — and the ones that sabotage it• The biggest myths women take as fact (and why they don’t hold up)This game episode is fast, fun, and packed with science-backed clarity to help you finally understand your sleep — and reclaim your nights.• You can’t “make up” lost sleep later — the body doesn’t work that way.• Most midlife women don’t need eight hours; 6.5–7.5 hours can be optimal depending on chronotype.• Hormones in perimenopause and menopause significantly change sleep quality and timing.• Caffeine and alcohol hit women harder after 40 and can disrupt REM and deep sleep.• Mis-timed sleep routines (too much screen time, inconsistent bed/wake times) matter more than people think.• Simple daily habits — hydration, light exposure, timing, nervous system regulation — make the biggest difference.• Sleep myths spread online often harm midlife women more than help them.

Nov 20, 20257 min

S1 Ep 28Why Midlife Women Can’t Sleep: The Sleep Doctor’s Fix for the 3AM Wakeup Cycle with Dr. Michael Breus

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Understanding why your sleep falls apart in midlife isn’t just about melatonin or “getting older”—it’s about biology, hormones, and your chronotype finally demanding to be heard. In this episode, world-renowned Sleep Doctor Dr. Michael Breus breaks down the real reasons so many women over 40 struggle with 1–3AM wake ups, racing thoughts, exhaustion, and “wired-tired” nights.We get into the science of sleep disruption during perimenopause and menopause, how caffeine and alcohol actually hit your system after 40, why hydration plays a bigger role than anyone tells you, and how simple daily shifts can improve your sleep quality by 20–30% in just three weeks.Dr. Breus also reveals the surprising connection between chronotypes, intimacy, and your best time of day for sex — plus how aligning your schedule with your biology can boost energy, metabolism, and mood.This episode is packed with real, actionable strategies you can use tonight. If you’ve been feeling exhausted, wired, or wide-awake at 3AM… you are not crazy — your body’s talking. And today, we decode exactly what it’s trying to say.Why midlife hormones disrupt the 1–3AM sleep cycle — and how to reset it.How understanding your chronotype can transform your sleep and your intimacy.The real impact of caffeine and alcohol after 40 (it’s not what you were told).The hydration mistake almost every woman makes that wrecks sleep quality.How to improve sleep by 20–30% in three weeks using Dr. Breus’ step-by-step method.Why “wired-tired” is a biological response — not a personality flaw.When to seek support for sleep apnea in perimenopause and menopause.The nervous system techniques (including 4–7–8 breathing) proven to calm 3AM wake-ups.Links referenced in this episode:chronoquiz.comorionupgradedformulas.com

Nov 18, 20251h 2m

Game Time: From Perfectionism to Progress: Small Moves for a Big Life with Andrea Leigh Rogers

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What if you didn’t need a complete overhaul to change your life—just 10 intentional minutes a day? In this inspiring and practical episode, wellness expert and Xtend Barre founder Andrea Leigh Rogers returns for a rapid-fire game that busts myths, reveals her surprising non-negotiables, and shares the tiny daily moves that changed her body, mindset, and midlife outlook.We talk:the productivity lie every woman over 40 needs to ditchwhat "energy before intensity" really looks likeand why the pursuit of perfection is keeping you stuck.This one’s a must-listen if you’re craving a healthier, more purposeful midlife—with way less pressure.🎧 Subscribe, share, and tag us with your favorite takeaway.Takeaways: Energy trumps mere talent; it's the enthusiasm and drive that truly lead to success. Embrace the different seasons of life; evolution doesn't require a complete overhaul, just a new rhythm. Momentum is key in achieving our goals; motivation can be fickle, but consistency pays off. Perfectionism is a trap; instead of striving for perfection, focus on being a regulated and present individual. Understanding your personal values can clarify what truly matters to you in life and decision-making. Midlife isn't a comeback; it's about arriving at a deeper understanding of oneself and one's journey.

Nov 13, 20257 min

S1 Ep 27From Chaos to Clarity: How to Transform Your Life in 10 Minutes a Day with Andrea Leigh Rogers

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What if you could shift your mindset, boost your energy, and completely reframe your day in just ten minutes? Wellness expert and author Andrea Leigh Rogers joins The Iconic Midlife to share her signature micro-habit method that’s helping women over 40 ditch the burnout cycle and reclaim control of their lives—without overhauling everything.We dive into:How small, consistent shifts unlock massive transformationThe “identity before action” philosophy that sticksWhy midlife is the best time to rewrite your storyTools to help you get grounded, energized, and clear—fastAndrea doesn’t believe in hustle culture. She believes in harmony—and she’s showing us how to create it on our own terms.💫 Tap play for a radically achievable reset. You deserve a life that feels aligned.Takeaways: In today's fast-paced world, we often confuse busyness with productivity, forgetting that true purpose lies in meaningful actions rather than frantic schedules. As we age, nurturing genuine friendships becomes essential; it's not about quantity but the quality of connections that truly fuels us. The philosophy of 'small moves' emphasizes that significant life changes can stem from consistent, manageable actions rather than overwhelming overhauls. Consistency, rather than intensity, is the key to lasting change; even just ten minutes of daily movement can yield profound results over time. Breath work and movement are crucial tools for maintaining mental and emotional health, serving as foundational practices for a balanced life. Navigating personal challenges while building a career can be tough, but embracing every experience as part of your journey empowers growth and resilience.

Nov 11, 202543 min

Game Episode: Behind the Shade: Housewives, Hustle & the Midlife Game with Cynthia Bailey & Dana Hill-Robinson

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What happens when a Real Housewife and a powerhouse attorney sit down for The Iconic Midlife Manifesto Game?Cynthia Bailey and Dana Hill-Robinson are here—and they are not holding back. From navigating narcissists to chasing peace over drama, they’re dishing the truths, throwing a little shade, and revealing what really matters in midlife.Expect laughter, lessons, and one very spicy round of “Iconic or Insane?”🎧 Hit play to hear their bold takes on dating, confidence, boundaries, and what they'd tell their younger selves.➕ Follow the show for more smart, unfiltered midlife moments.📲 Connect with us on all social platforms @theiconicmidlife and @redcarpetroxy💌 Want more? Join the Inner Circle newsletter and get exclusive updates, iconic inspo, and behind-the-scenes tea.

Nov 6, 20259 min

S1 Ep 26Cynthia Bailey Unfiltered: Fame, Friendship & Reinventing Herself at Every Age

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Real Housewives of Atlanta star Cynthia Bailey and Dana Hill-Robinson join us today, diving deep into the art of reinvention and the beauty of midlife. The heart of our conversation revolves around the power of self-acceptance, as both ladies reflect on their journeys through friendship, business, and the challenges of aging in the public eye. We discuss everything from the importance of maintaining personal peace in a chaotic industry to how they've navigated their careers while staying true to themselves. With candid stories about their pasts, including some unforgettable New York nights, they remind us that midlife isn’t about slowing down but rather about blossoming into our most authentic selves. So grab your headphones and join us as we explore the vibrant and unapologetic journey of these two iconic women!Takeaways: The journey of reinvention is crucial, especially for women in midlife, as it empowers us to embrace new opportunities while shedding societal expectations. Maintaining authentic friendships requires mutual respect, understanding, and the ability to give each other space without guilt, especially as life becomes busier. Navigating aging can be daunting, but with the right mindset and self-care practices, we can embrace our beauty and worth at every stage of life. Social media has transformed the way we document our lives, but sometimes it's a blessing to have lived before it, allowing for more genuine, unfiltered memories. Finding balance in life often means prioritizing our own well-being over the demands of others; learning to say 'no' is a powerful tool for self-care. Humor and vulnerability can coexist beautifully, as sharing our most awkward or emotional moments with friends helps to foster deeper connections.

Nov 4, 20251h 4m

Game Time: Love, Lust or Let's Not: The Game That's Sizzling Up Our Podcast

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We dive into the intriguing concept of scheduling intimacy, exploring how planning sexy time can actually spice things up in a busy relationship. It’s not just about marking a date on the calendar; it’s about creating a framework that highlights the importance of connection amidst the chaos of life. Our conversation takes a turn toward playful games, where we dish out our opinions on whether certain topics fall under "Love, Lust, or Let's Not," offering a light-hearted yet insightful take on relationship dynamics. We also chat about the role of toys in the bedroom, revealing how they can enhance pleasure and communication between partners—because, let’s face it, learning what works for you is key to a satisfying love life. So grab your favorite beverage, and join us for a delightful blend of banter, wisdom, and maybe a few laughs as we navigate the ups and downs of love, lust, and everything in between.Navigating the complexities of intimacy in long-term relationships is no small feat, and this episode offers a candid look at how scheduling sexual encounters can serve as a powerful tool for couples. The hosts discuss the importance of prioritizing time for intimacy amidst busy lives, likening it to a commitment that fosters connection and excitement. Speaker A provides a vivid imagery of planning romantic outings, turning what could be seen as mundane into a delightful adventure. This perspective invites listeners to rethink how they view intimacy, suggesting that intentionality can lead to deeper connections and more fulfilling experiences.The conversation takes a thoughtful turn as the hosts consider how intimacy can be impacted by conflicts within a relationship. Speaker C shares insights about the varying responses couples have to post-fight intimacy, stressing that understanding each other's emotional needs is crucial. This segment highlights the importance of communication—not just in avoiding arguments, but in finding ways to reconnect after tensions arise. The hosts encourage listeners to foster an environment where open dialogue can flourish, emphasizing that every couple has their unique dynamic when it comes to navigating conflict and intimacy.As the podcast wraps up, the playful game 'Love, Lust, or Let's Not' introduces a fun and engaging way to discuss desires and boundaries within relationships. The hosts share their views on a range of topics, from scheduling sex to the incorporation of toys and role play, all while maintaining a humorous and light-hearted tone. This playful engagement serves as a reminder that intimacy doesn’t have to be serious all the time; rather, it can be a space for exploration and fun. By the end of the episode, listeners are left with a sense of empowerment, armed with insights and laughter to enhance their own intimate experiences.Takeaways: Scheduling intimate moments is crucial for busy couples and can add fun to relationships, almost like a playful checklist. The game of 'Love, Lust or Let's Not' allows for a light-hearted exploration of relationship dynamics and preferences. Understanding the science behind pleasure can enhance sexual experiences, making vibrators a valuable tool in intimate relationships. Communication around sexual needs is essential; discussing the use of toys can foster intimacy rather than insecurity. Role play can be a fantastic way to keep the spark alive in long-term relationships, adding creativity and excitement. Fighting isn't the end of the world; navigating through conflicts can actually strengthen relationships if done right.

Oct 30, 20259 min

S1 Ep 25The New Female Desire Playbook: Intimacy, Identity & Power After 40

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Midlife isn’t the fading of desire — it’s the refinement of it.In this elevated, emotional, and deeply honest conversation, we explore how intimacy evolves when women step into their power, self-worth, and self-knowledge in midlife.This episode goes beyond hormones and “sex talk.”We’re talking about:Desire as identity, not obligationSensual confidence after 40Intimacy that meets your standards — not your conditioningThe psychology of feeling chosen vs. choosing yourselfWhy midlife women don't lose libido — we lose tolerance for the mediocreReclaiming pleasure on your termsBecause this era isn’t about shrinking, apologizing, or dimming.It’s about owning desire without shame, shrinking, or compromise.If you’re re-learning who you are, what you want, and what intimacy truly feels like now — you're in the right place.✨ Hit follow, share with a friend, and step into your power era.This week’s episode is brought to you by pH-D Feminine Health—because vaginal health shouldn’t be taboo. From holistic boric acid suppositories to clinically backed wellness products, pH-D is helping women take charge of their bodies without shame or stigma. Visit www.phdfemininehealth.com for more information.

Oct 28, 20251h 23m

Game Time: Red Flags and Green Lights: Navigating Midlife Dating Like a Pro

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We dive headfirst into the whimsical world of midlife dating, where the stakes are high and the rules seem to change with every date. The main highlight? We play a cheeky game called "Red Flag, Green Light," dissecting various dating scenarios and determining whether they signal a potential winner or a hard pass. Think of it as a guide through the murky waters of romance, where we tackle everything from a guy who’s never been married to one who asks for your Venmo on the first date. Along the way, we sprinkle in some wisdom about the nuances of relationships, reminding ourselves that every situation is as unique as a fingerprint. So, grab your headphones and get ready for a blend of fun and insightful banter that might just help you navigate your own midlife dating escapades!Takeaways: This episode dives deep into the complexities of midlife dating, addressing the nuances of relationships and the various red flags to watch out for. We explore the idea that individuals often have different communication styles that can lead to misunderstandings in romantic relationships. Playing games like 'Red Flag, Green Light' provides a fun framework to discuss serious dating concerns while keeping the conversation light-hearted and engaging. The hosts emphasize the importance of assessing character over superficial traits when evaluating potential partners in midlife dating scenarios. Listeners are encouraged to be open-minded and understanding about the quirks and habits of their partners, recognizing that not all behaviors indicate red flags. The discussion reinforces the notion that not all relationships will fit perfectly, and that's okay; it's all about finding the right match for oneself.

Oct 23, 202512 min

S1 Ep 24From Widowhood to Love Again: Renee Rouleau on Dating Smarter After Loss

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Renee Rouleau's journey from heartbreak to reinvention takes center stage as she candidly shares her experiences of navigating the tumultuous waters of dating after losing her husband. In this episode, we dive deep into the lessons learned along the way, emphasizing that the love of your life might just be hidden in your contacts or through someone you know. With a refreshing mix of strategy and vulnerability, Renee reveals how she approached dating like a business, turning what could have been a daunting task into a manageable adventure. We explore the importance of understanding one another's needs in relationships, and she offers practical, relatable advice for anyone stepping back into the dating scene. So, whether you're just starting to dip your toes back into romance or looking for a boost of confidence, this conversation is packed with insights and encouragement to help you embrace your next chapter with open arms.Takeaways: In midlife dating, it's vital to stay open-minded and embrace new experiences, as these can lead to unexpected connections. Utilizing your personal network can be a game-changer in finding love; the right person might just be a text away. Trusting your gut is crucial; intuition often reveals red flags in dating that our minds may overlook. A successful relationship requires continuous effort and communication to thrive, so don't take your partner for granted. This week’s episode is brought to you by pH-D Feminine Health—because vaginal health shouldn’t be taboo. From holistic boric acid suppositories to clinically backed wellness products, pH-D is helping women take charge of their bodies without shame or stigma. Visit www.phdfemininehealth.com for more information.

Oct 21, 20251h 6m

Game Time: Glow Up or Pass? with Renée Rouleau

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Get ready to glow up, because we’re diving deep into the skincare game with our latest episode! We’re throwing around some hot takes on trends and treatments that are either a skincare savior or a total flop. From the eyebrow-raising concept of slugging with Vaseline (spoiler: hard pass!) to the surprisingly beneficial monthly micro-needling sessions, we’re breaking it all down with a mix of sass and science. We chat about everything from DIY dermaplaning to the merits of oral collagen—because who doesn’t want to know if those gummy bears are doing us any good? So, grab your favorite face mask and settle in, because this episode is packed with insights and a dash of witty banter you won’t want to miss!Takeaways: The 'Glow up or no thanks' game highlights modern skincare trends and personal preferences. Slugging with Vaseline received a unanimous hard pass due to pore-clogging concerns. Monthly micro needling can be beneficial but should be tailored to individual skin types. Facial gua sha and ice facials are celebrated for their circulation-boosting benefits. Oral collagen supplements are deemed harmless, but their effectiveness remains debatable and context-dependent. Hydroquinone for hyperpigmentation is a contentious topic, requiring careful consideration of usage and duration.

Oct 16, 20254 min

S1 Ep 23The Ultimate Midlife Skincare Toolkit: Renée Rouleau on What Actually Works

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Toss your makeup, throw it out! If you’ve been clinging to those lipsticks and eye pencils like a life raft, it’s time for a refresh. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the mysteries of midlife skincare with celebrity esthetician Renée Rouleau, who brings her no-nonsense expertise and behind-the-scenes beauty secrets straight to the mic.From the woes of collagen loss to adult acne flare-ups, from peptides and exosomes to at-home tools that actually work, this is your go-to guide for feeling confident in your skin at any age. Whether you’re dealing with dryness, breakouts, or just want to make smarter choices about your routine, Renée breaks it all down — with zero gatekeeping.So grab your matcha or your retinol (or both), and let’s glow through midlife together.Takeaways: It's time to toss the makeup that you've had for years; change is essential for fresh looks. Understanding your skin type is crucial for effective skincare, and ignorance won't yield results. Embracing change in hairstyling and makeup can rejuvenate your appearance and confidence significantly. Adult acne is on the rise, especially among women in midlife, so tailored skincare is key. Links referenced in this episode:reneerouleau.comThis week’s episode is brought to you by pH-D Feminine Health—because vaginal health shouldn’t be taboo. From holistic boric acid suppositories to clinically backed wellness products, pH-D is helping women take charge of their bodies without shame or stigma. Visit www.phdfemininehealth.com for more information. Mentioned in this episode:Sponsored by pH-D Feminine HealthThis episode is brought to you in partnership with pH-D Feminine Health — the #1 doctor-recommended brand of boric acid vaginal suppositories. We believe feminine wellness shouldn't be taboo, whispered about, or shrouded in shame. That's why we’re thrilled to partner with a brand committed to helping women feel confident, empowered, and in control of their health—especially in midlife. Explore pH-D’s full line of holistic products for odor control, balance, and daily confidence at https://www.phdfemininehealth.com.

Oct 14, 20251h 11m

Game Time: Cue the Spotlight: Laughing Through Red Carpet Blunders with TV Host Samantha Harris

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Get ready to dive into the glamorous yet unpredictable world of red carpets and celebrity encounters! In this episode, we play a fun lightning round game called "Cue the Spotlight," where the stakes are hilariously high—would you rather face a wardrobe malfunction at the Oscars or strut your stuff in a look your stylist swears is fabulous but you secretly loathe? As we share stories from our time in the entertainment trenches, you'll hear about the whirlwind of live mics, award shows, and those unforgettable moments that come with being in the spotlight. With clever banter and a sprinkle of nostalgia, we explore what it’s really like to interview Hollywood legends versus the ever-chatty reality stars, and we even spill some tea on a wild motorcycle ride with none other than Tom Cruise. So, kick back, grab your metaphorical popcorn, and join us as we navigate the dazzling chaos of celebrity life with a wink and a nod!A sense of nostalgia and humor permeates this episode as we reflect on the iconic moments in entertainment that have shaped our hosts' careers and lives. The cleverly crafted game 'Cue the Spotlight' serves as a perfect vehicle for revealing not just the glitz of Hollywood, but also the personal stories and behind-the-scenes realities that often go untold. As they tackle prompts that force them to choose between hilarious hypotheticals—like the infamous spinach-in-teeth debacle or the thrill of a live interview with a legendary actor—we are reminded of the human side of fame and the little quirks that make life entertaining. The episode becomes a delightful tapestry of anecdotes that intertwine personal history with professional milestones. Our hosts discuss the duality of their roles: the glamorous public personas and the authentic individuals who experience the highs and lows of live entertainment. We hear about the pressures of the industry, the joy of connecting with audiences, and the bittersweet moments of reflecting on past glories while embracing the present. With each story, they invite us to join in on the laughter while also recognizing the depth of their experiences, culminating in a powerful reminder that whether on the red carpet or at home in sweats, the essence of who we are remains unchanged. The episode closes on a note of empowerment, celebrating the journey of midlife and the notion that we are all navigating our paths with grace, humor, and authenticity.Takeaways: Navigating the unpredictable waters of live entertainment can lead to unexpected, yet memorable moments, showcasing the importance of adaptability. The juxtaposition between the allure of celebrity interviews and the everyday realities of life highlights the glamorous yet challenging nature of the entertainment industry. Sharing personal anecdotes about encounters with stars like Tom Cruise offers a glimpse into the human side of fame, blending excitement with relatable experiences. The playful banter surrounding wardrobe malfunctions on the red carpet serves as a reminder that even in high-pressure situations, humor can be a saving grace.

Oct 9, 20257 min

S1 Ep 22From Red Carpet to Resilience: TV Host Samantha Harris’ on Surviving Breast Cancer, Healing, Menopause, and Hope

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Samantha Harris, a two-time breast cancer survivor, opens up about her unexpected journey through diagnosis and healing, revealing that even after a clear mammogram, life can throw curveballs when you least expect it. At just 40 years old, she faced a shocking reality that many women are beginning to experience more frequently—being diagnosed with cancer at a younger age. In this candid conversation, we explore the importance of tuning into our bodies, taking control of our health, and embracing the privilege of aging. Samantha shares her personal mantra of “control what you can control and worry when you have to worry,” which has helped her navigate everything from cancer to the chaos of motherhood and life itself. With a blend of humor and heartfelt honesty, we dive into wellness, reinvention, and the powerful role of intuition in a world that often insists everything is fine, encouraging all women to prioritize their health and wellbeing.A profound journey unfolds as we dive into the life of Samantha Harris, a woman whose radiant charm on screen belied a tumultuous reality. At the height of her success, a shocking breast cancer diagnosis shattered her world, an experience that no amount of Hollywood sparkle could prepare her for. With a clear mammogram just before her 40th birthday, it was a cruel twist of fate that only 11 days later, she discovered a lump that was initially dismissed by multiple doctors. This narrative is not just about a battle with illness; it's about resilience, the power of intuition, and the quest for self-advocacy in a medical landscape that often overlooks the voices of women. As we listen, we learn not just about the diagnosis but also about the emotional upheaval that ensued—how Samantha navigated the murky waters of fear, motherhood, and the looming shadow of loss, having lost her father to cancer at a young age. With raw honesty, she shares her tools for coping, emphasizing the importance of knowing our bodies, managing stress, and embracing the privilege of aging. This conversation is a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the necessity of supporting one another through life's unpredictable challenges.Takeaways: Samantha Harris shares her shocking experience of being diagnosed with breast cancer just days after a clear mammogram, highlighting the importance of listening to your body. In midlife, it's crucial for women to take control of their health, embracing wellness through nutrition, exercise, and stress management, as discussed in this enlightening episode. The conversation emphasizes that aging should be viewed as a privilege, encouraging listeners to cherish every moment and prioritize their health for the future. Samantha reveals her journey as a two-time breast cancer survivor and how she redefined her life, focusing on living vibrantly and sharing her knowledge with other women. The podcast discusses the significance of self-awareness in recognizing health changes and the proactive steps women can take to manage their health effectively. Samantha's story serves as a powerful reminder of resilience, inspiring listeners to take bold actions toward better health and well-being, regardless of their current circumstances. This week’s episode is brought to you by pH-D Feminine Health—because vaginal health shouldn’t be taboo. From holistic boric acid suppositories to clinically backed wellness products, pH-D is helping women take charge of their bodies without shame or stigma. Visit www.phdfemininehealth.com for more info. Mentioned in this episode:Sponsored by pH-D Feminine HealthThis episode is brought to you in partnership with pH-D Feminine Health — the #1 doctor-recommended brand of boric acid vaginal suppositories. We believe feminine wellness shouldn't be taboo, whispered about, or shrouded in shame. That's why we’re thrilled to partner with a brand committed to helping women feel confident, empowered, and in control of their health—especially in midlife. Explore pH-D’s full line of holistic products for odor control, balance, and daily confidence at https://www.phdfemininehealth.com.

Oct 7, 202539 min

Game Time: Midlife Myth-Busting: Bone Health, The Pill Hangover & What to Eat Now with Elizabeth Katzman

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Today, we’re diving into the fascinating world of midlife health myths and must-know truths that every woman should hear during perimenopause. From bone density to hormone shifts, we tackle the outdated advice that’s still circulating—and what actually works now.Is calcium really king for bone health? (Spoiler: not exactly.) What role do weight training, vitamin D, and K2 play? We also decode the misunderstood “pill hangover” and what it means for your symptoms now—even years later.Functional nutritionist Elizabeth Katzman walks us through what to eat for hormone support, which supplements are essential, and why your lab results may not tell the whole story.So grab your favorite beverage, kick back, and let’s bust the myths and rewrite the midlife wellness playbook—together.In this enlightening episode of the podcast, the hosts take listeners on a journey through the often-misunderstood realms of midlife health, engaging in a game aptly named "Myth or Must Know: Midlife Edition." This dynamic format allows for a lively examination of prevalent health myths, starting with the widely held belief that calcium supplements are the cornerstone of maintaining bone health. The hosts reveal, with a mix of humor and insight, that these supplements are not the panacea they are marketed to be and can even lead to complications like arterial calcification. Instead, they advocate for a more holistic approach that includes micronized calcium, along with the powerful duo of vitamins D and K, to truly support bone integrity. As the episode progresses, the conversation delves into the complexities of hormonal health, dismantling the notion that normal lab results equate to balanced hormones. The hosts stress the importance of recognizing the individual variability in hormonal responses, noting that what feels optimal for one person may not hold true for another. This exploration is not only informative but also liberating, as it empowers listeners to embrace their unique health journeys without falling prey to generic health advice.Moreover, the podcast highlights the significant interplay between gut health and hormonal balance, elucidating how our digestive systems impact estrogen processing. The hosts provide practical tips for maintaining gut health, emphasizing that regular bowel movements are essential for eliminating excess estrogen and preventing symptoms of dominance. With a blend of wit and wisdom, this episode equips listeners with critical knowledge, encouraging them to advocate for their health and wellbeing through informed choices. It's a refreshing reminder that while midlife may bring challenges, it also offers opportunities for empowerment and growth.

Oct 2, 202510 min

S1 Ep 20The Pill Hangover, Bone Health, and What to Eat in Perimenopause with Elizabeth Katzman

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We’re diving into a conversation every midlife woman needs to hear—because it’s not just about the so-called pill hangover or that mystery fatigue you can’t shake.Functional nutrition expert Elizabeth Katzman breaks down what’s really going on with your energy, anxiety, hormones, and bone health—and what to do about it. From how to spot nutrient depletion and rebuild bone density to the real reasons you're not bouncing back like you used to, Elizabeth shares evidence-based, actionable strategies to support your body through perimenopause and beyond.We also talk:What to eat in midlife (and what to skip)Supplements that actually workBirth control’s long tail of side effectsThe surprising symptoms of hormone imbalanceHow to advocate for yourself with your doctor✨ This episode is your functional health reset—backed by science and built for bold midlife.Don’t forget to…Subscribe, rate, and comment on your favorite podcast app—it helps more women find the show!🎧 Listen now:• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?_reload_cause=banner-auto-reload• Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning📲 Follow for more midlife real talk:• IG: @theiconicmidlife• TikTok: @theiconicmidlife• Host: @redcarpetroxy

Sep 30, 20251h 10m

Game Time: From Wine to Psychedelics: Are Moms Trading One Buzz for Another?

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We're diving deep into the fascinating world of microdosing in this episode, where we explore how more moms are turning to this trend for anxiety relief and overall wellness. As we unravel the complexities, we tackle whether mushroom-infused products are the new “mommy wine culture” or simply a passing fad. With a witty game of "Shroom or Zoom," we dissect the buzz surrounding microdosing and its implications for everything from parenting to personal retreats. Our conversation gets super real as we consider the potential for psilocybin to enhance empathy and creativity, especially in navigating the wild ride of motherhood. So grab your favorite comfy chair and join us as we share insights, challenge norms, and maybe even convince you that a little fungi could be just what the doctor ordered!The episode presents a captivating discussion on the transformative power of microdosing within the context of modern motherhood, framed through a witty and engaging format. The speakers initiate a rapid-fire game of 'Shroom or Zoom', which cleverly juxtaposes various wellness trends against the backdrop of traditional coping mechanisms, such as the infamous mommy wine culture. This playful approach allows for a deep exploration of the cultural implications of microdosing, particularly among mothers who are increasingly seeking alternatives to alcohol for managing stress and anxiety. They argue that microdosing represents a significant shift towards conscious living, moving away from mere escapism towards a more integrated and embodied experience of motherhood.Throughout the episode, the banter remains light-hearted, yet the underlying themes are profoundly impactful. The speakers discuss how microdosing may enhance empathy and connection with one's children, suggesting that it can foster a more compassionate parenting style. They delve into the science behind these claims, balancing humor with skepticism, as they navigate the murky waters of wellness trends. Moreover, the conversation hints at the growing trend of psychedelic retreats that are beginning to cater to mothers, suggesting a shift towards more holistic forms of self-care that prioritize emotional well-being over conventional nightlife escapades.The episode closes with a thoughtful reflection on the future of psilocybin in mainstream wellness culture, pondering the implications of big brands flirting with mushroom-infused products. The speakers leave listeners with a sense of anticipation about the potential for these practices to reshape not only individual lives but also the broader cultural narrative surrounding motherhood and mental health.Takeaways: The trend of microdosing among moms is not just a fad; it's an emerging lifestyle shift. Mushroom chocolate bars are being compared to the traditional mommy wine culture, but it's a different vibe entirely. Microdosing is gaining traction for perimenopause relief, but we should question the science behind it. There’s an intriguing rise in mommy microdose movements, transforming playdates into conscious gatherings. Empathy and patience may increase with microdosing, leading to better parenting experiences. The mainstreaming of mushrooms in wellness products is on the horizon, pending legal developments.

Sep 25, 20254 min

S1 Ep 19Microdosing Mushrooms for Moms: Breaking Taboos, Healing, and Rewriting Wellness with Moms on Mushrooms founder Tracey Tee

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Can microdosing mushrooms help moms feel more connected, creative, and alive? Tracey Tee thinks so—and she's not alone.In this episode of The Iconic Midlife, Roxy sits down with Tracey Tee, founder of Moms on Mushrooms and a bold voice in the modern psychedelics movement. From raising happy kids to reclaiming emotional health, Tracey shares how microdosing psilocybin is helping women break through burnout and rewrite their own wellness stories.We unpack the cultural taboos around motherhood, mushrooms, and midlife reinvention—and dive into Tracey’s personal journey from skeptic to advocate. You’ll hear how microdosing may shift your nervous system, soften your inner critic, and even change the way you parent.If you’ve ever wondered whether mushrooms might be the missing piece to feeling like yourself again, this conversation will open your mind—and maybe your heart.Microdosing psilocybin may help moms feel more grounded, present, and emotionally balanced—without the side effects of wine or wellness culture burnout.Many women are quietly trading alcohol for microdosing—and finding more creativity, connection, and mental clarity in the process.The stigma around psychedelics is fading as more mothers openly share how mushrooms have helped them heal, regulate, and reconnect.Tracey Tee’s personal journey—from skeptic to advocate—shows how microdosing can shift parenting, relationships, and nervous system regulation.Embracing psychedelics in midlife isn’t about “escaping”—it’s about rewriting wellness on your own terms.When women reclaim their narrative around motherhood, medicine, and mental health, everyone benefits—including the next generation.Links referenced in this episode:momsonmushrooms.com

Sep 23, 20251h 4m

Game Time with Sebastien Lagree: Guilty Pleasures, Mega Moves & Fitness Hot Takes

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Time to put Sebastien Lagree in the hot seat.In this bonus episode, we play a fast-paced game of The Megaformer Lightning Round—and Sebastien doesn’t hold back.He dishes on:The Lagree moves clients secretly hate (and why)The one fitness trend he wants gone foreverWhy "shake waves" are not the vibeUnexpected guilty pleasures that keep him going (hint: it’s not a protein shake)If you’ve ever been on a megaformer—or just love watching fitness pros get a little uncomfortable—this one’s for you.🎧 Hit play for a bold, funny, and unfiltered peek into the mind of the man who’s reshaping how we train in midlife.

Sep 18, 20258 min

S1 Ep 18Why You’ve Been Lied to About Fitness: Sebastien Lagree on Midlife Strength, Fat Loss & the Real Burn

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Think you need to lift heavy to get results in midlife? Think again.Fitness innovator Sebastien Lagree joins The Iconic Midlife to bust some of the biggest myths women over 40 have been sold—from fat loss lies to the burnout loop of overtraining.We talk about:The truth about strength training vs. movementWhy less weight can actually deliver more resultsHow the Lagree method ignited a global fitness empireThe mental health side of exercise no one’s talking aboutWhy your midlife fitness strategy shouldn’t look like your 20s hustleSebastien doesn’t hold back—and neither do we. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overtrained, or overwhelmed by fitness culture, this is the game-changer you’ve been waiting for.💬 Ready to stop chasing burnout and start training smarter? Hit play.🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?si=c1cb15d3eab14869&nd=1&dlsi=34e6d5e31b154956&_reload_cause=banner-auto-reloadAmazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning

Sep 16, 20251h 12m

Game Time: Midlife Myth or Total Truth? Found at 40's Chrissi Harrison Gets Real About Sex, Reinvention & Starting Over

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Is sex really better after 40? Do women need to be fully healed before starting over?In this bonus game episode, Found at 40 creator Chrissi Harrison plays Midlife Myth or Total Truth, weighing in on the biggest beliefs about women, aging, identity, and reinvention.From friendship breakups to the pressure of “finding your calling,” nothing’s off-limits. It’s bold, fast, and very real.🎯 Topics include:Whether sex actually gets better after 40Why women over 40 start more businesses than menIf caring less what people think is inevitable—or a mythWhat healing really requires before you start againWhether midlife is your second act—or the end of your first💬 Play along with us: Myth or Truth? Drop your hot takes in the DM's.📲 Let’s connect:IG: @theiconicmidlifeTikTok: @theiconicmidlifeYouTube: @theiconicmidlifeHost: @redcarpetroxy

Sep 11, 20254 min

S1 Ep 17Found at 40: Losing Friends, Letting Go, and Finally Becoming Myself with Found at 40's Chrissi Harris

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What if turning 40 wasn’t a crisis—but a calling?In this episode, Found at 40 creator Chrissi Harrison shares the story behind her midlife awakening—and the unraveling it took to get there. From walking away from the life she was told to want, to navigating the heartbreak of friendship breakups, Chrissi reveals what it really means to choose yourself at 40.We talk about guilt, reinvention, divorce, identity shifts, and how living on autopilot finally stopped serving her. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that looks fine on the outside but feels like a costume, this conversation is your permission slip to rewrite the script.✨ Pull up a chair—because midlife doesn’t have to mean losing yourself. It might just mean finally being found.

Sep 9, 202557 min

S1 Ep 16Julia Haart from My Unorthodox Life: From Divorce Court to Catwalks—Reinventing Life After 50 With Power and Fearlessness

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Julia Haart, star of Netflix’s My Unorthodox Life, has never played by the rules—and midlife is no exception. From breaking free of her ultra-Orthodox upbringing to running a global fashion empire, Julia’s story is a masterclass in bold reinvention.In this episode of The Iconic Midlife, we explore:Reinventing life after 50 and what it really takes to start overBehind the scenes of My Unorthodox Life and how it shaped her journeyDivorce, family dynamics, and learning to own your voice in midlifeConfidence, fashion, and unapologetic living as her ultimate superpowers✨ If you’ve ever felt stuck, silenced, or ready for your next chapter, Julia’s story proves it’s never too late to live boldly.🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning/id1817484587Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FRDzq3AalXaqfpfWq7dlm?si=c1cb15d3eab14869&nd=1&dlsi=34e6d5e31b154956&_reload_cause=banner-auto-reloadAmazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ff905ad8-332f-430e-a040-ce1ba5047483/the-iconic-midlife-with-roxy-manning

Sep 2, 20251h 17m

S1 Ep 15Celebrity plastic surgeon Dr. Marc Mani on Facelifts, Beauty, and the New Rules of Aging in Hollywood

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What does it really take to look—and feel—iconic at midlife?Celebrity plastic surgeon Dr. Marc Mani joins Roxy to talk about everything from facelifts to filler fatigue, beauty standards in Hollywood, and what women over 40 actually need to know about aging, rejuvenation, and self-confidence.Inside the episode:The real reason Hollywood faces look so natural (and why yours can too)Facelifts vs. fillers: what’s in, what’s out, and what’s nextHow midlife women are redefining beauty on their own termsNavigating self-image, pressure, and choosing you over trendsWhat Marc tells his A-list clients about “timeless” beautyThis is an unfiltered conversation about power, perception, and self-ownership in a world obsessed with youth.💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife inspo in your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms.New episodes every Tuesday.Tap “Follow” so you never miss a moment.🎙️ Listen on:Apple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon Music📲 Let’s Connect• Instagram: @theiconicmidlife• TikTok: @theiconicmidlife• Facebook: The Iconic Midlife• YouTube: The Iconic Midlife• Host: @RedCarpetRoxy💌 Get exclusive updates: Join the Email List☕ Support the show: Buy Me a Coffee

Aug 26, 20251h 4m

S1 Ep 14The Science of Aging—and Why Most Doctors Get It Wrong | Dr. Amy Killen on Hormones, Peptides & Sex at Midlife

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Most doctors don’t talk about peptides. Or sex. Or what really happens to women’s bodies in midlife.But Dr. Amy Killen does—and in this episode of The Iconic Midlife, she’s pulling back the curtain on everything your OB/GYN probably skipped.We get into the juicy science behind:Why so many doctors still mismanage women’s midlife healthHow peptides and regenerative therapies are changing the gameWhat hormone replacement should look like in 2025The truth about libido, vaginal health, and sex in your 40s, 50s, and beyondWhat anti-aging actually means—and why it’s not about looking 25 againHost Roxy Manning leads the conversation with wit, boldness, and zero apologies. If you're done being dismissed and ready to take control of your body, your pleasure, and your future—this episode is a must-listen.🎧 Full podcast episode: https://the-iconic-midlife-with.captivate.fm💬 Drop a comment if your doctor ever brushed off your symptoms—we want to hear your story.👇 Subscribe for weekly episodes featuring bold midlife voices redefining what it means to be iconic: https://the-iconic-midlife-with.captivate.fm💌 Join the Inner Circle: https://the-iconic-midlife-with.captivate.fmWant bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife inspo in your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter: https://the-iconic-midlife-with.captivate.fm🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms.New episodes every Tuesday.🎙️ Listen on:Apple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon Music📲 Let’s Connect• Instagram: @theiconicmidlife• TikTok: @theiconicmidlife• Facebook: The Iconic Midlife• YouTube: The Iconic Midlife• Host: @RedCarpetRoxy💌 Get exclusive updates: Join the Email List: https://the-iconic-midlife-with.captivate.fm☕ Support the show: Buy Me a Coffee: buymeacoffee.com/theiconicmidlifeGet 10% off site wide on Dr. Killen's Hop (Human Optimization Project) Box supplements by using the code: ROXY and using this link: https://hopbox.life/ROXY#DrAmyKillen #TheIconicMidlife #MidlifeSex #Peptides #HormoneTherapy #HRT #LongevityMedicine #WomensHealth #BiohackingMidlife #RoxyManning

Aug 19, 20251h 0m

S1 Ep 13Emmy nominee Wendi McLendon-Covey on Reinvention, Risk-Taking & Owning Midlife

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Being the one who brings laughter to the room is a unique gift, and in this episode, we dive deep into the superpower of humor with the brilliantly candid Wendi McLendon-Covey. Known for her iconic roles in shows like "The Goldbergs" and films like "Bridesmaids," Wendi shares her journey as a late bloomer in Hollywood, reminding us that it’s not about where you start, but where you finish. We chat about the absurdities of Hollywood's age obsession, the quirky chaos of improv, and the emotional rollercoaster of animal rescue, all while emphasizing the importance of being unapologetically yourself. Wendy’s wit and wisdom shine as she reflects on life, success, and the beauty of embracing your true self at any age. So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s explore the fabulous world of midlife with a sprinkle of humor and a lot of heart!Takeaways: Making everyone laugh is a unique gift and a superpower that not everyone possesses, highlighting the importance of humor in our lives. The journey of a late bloomer, like Wendi, teaches us that success is not about when you start, but where you finish in life. It's crucial to recognize that our past failures and trial-and-error experiences shape our growth and resilience in the face of future challenges. Hollywood often struggles with its outdated views on age, but as we age, we discover that there's no expiration date on creativity and success. 💌 Join the Inner Circle:Want bold guests, unfiltered stories, and iconic midlife inspo in your inbox?👉 Subscribe to The Iconic Midlife newsletter🎧 Listen & FollowThe Iconic Midlife is where smart, stylish women over 40 come to rebrand midlife on their terms.New episodes every Tuesday.Tap “Follow” so you never miss a moment.🎙️ Listen on:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music📲 Let’s ConnectInstagram: @theiconicmidlifeTikTok: @theiconicmidlifeFacebook: The Iconic MidlifeYouTube: The Iconic MidlifeHost: @RedCarpetRoxy📩 Get exclusive updates: Join the Email List☕ Support the show: Buy Me a CoffeeSponsor:Kava Spritz is a delicious functional mocktail is made with calming ingredients like Kava and Ashwagandha that help lower cortisol and give you a buzz you can actually feel—with zero regrets the next morning.Head to FOCL.com and use code ROXY to get 25% off your Kava Spritz.

Aug 12, 20251h 20m

S1 Ep 12The Truth About Red Wine, Heart Health & Midlife Women | Dr. Suzanne Steinbaum

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Are you navigating the sometimes stormy seas of menopause and wondering how it impacts your heart health? This episode dives deep into the connection between menopause, hot flashes, and the often-overlooked risk of heart disease. We chat with Dr. Suzanne Steinbaum, a leading cardiologist specializing in women’s heart health, who sheds light on the silent symptoms of heart disease that many women are unaware of. We'll uncover essential questions to ask your doctor, the importance of personalized health strategies, and how hormonal changes can affect your cardiovascular wellness. Plus, we tackle the tricky topic of lifestyle choices, from diet to stress management, and how they play pivotal roles in maintaining heart health as we age. Buckle up for an enlightening conversation that’ll leave you feeling empowered and ready to take charge of your health!Takeaways: Understanding menopause is crucial, as hot flashes significantly increase heart disease risk for women. Many women remain unaware that heart disease is their primary health threat, often prioritizing breast cancer instead. The Mediterranean diet consistently shows promise in reducing cardiovascular risks, making it a worthy lifestyle choice. It's vital for women to advocate for their health, particularly in understanding symptoms and their risks during menopause. Education and self-advocacy are key to navigating women's healthcare, especially regarding heart health discussions with doctors. Research indicates that 70% of women may experience some form of heart disease, emphasizing the importance of awareness and prevention. Companies mentioned in this episode: Vinia Adesso

Aug 5, 20251h 18m

S1 Ep 11The Truth About “Manopause,” Aging, and Reinventing Yourself | Ted Gibson & Jason Backe

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Does manopause exist? That’s the burning question we dive into today, as we explore the often-overlooked experiences men face as they age. We’ve got beauty legends Ted Gibson and Jason Bakke in the house, who are not just hair wizards but also navigating the complexities of midlife with style and grace. They share their insights on confidence, identity, and the beauty of starting afresh, proving that midlife is not the end of the road but rather a thrilling new chapter. As they introduce their innovative mushroom-based wellness line, we discuss the importance of self-care and the role of supplements in maintaining our youthful glow—inside and out. So grab your headphones, settle in, and let’s get into the real talk about aging fabulously while keeping it fun and fierce!Takeaways: The concept of 'manopause' is a real discussion, as men face various changes in midlife that often go unacknowledged, similar to women during menopause. It's crucial to embrace change in midlife; both personal and professional reinventions can lead to fulfilling new paths and perspectives. Aging should be celebrated, not feared, as it brings wisdom and experiences that enrich our lives and relationships, redefining beauty at every stage. Building community is essential as we age; whether through work, volunteering, or social engagements, connections foster support and growth during life's transitions. Incorporating wellness practices, like the use of adaptogens and mushrooms, can significantly improve mental clarity and overall health as we navigate life's changes. The dynamics of working with a partner can be harmonious when roles are clearly defined, allowing for both collaboration and individual expression. Links referenced in this episode:[email protected]

Jul 29, 20251h 18m

S1 Ep 10Breaking the Silence on Vaginal Health | Deeannah Seymour on The Iconic Midlife

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Navigating the often taboo terrain of vaginal health, this episode takes us on a candid journey with Dee Seymour, the fearless founder of PhD Feminine Health. Right off the bat, we tackle the notion that discussing our bodies openly, especially terms like “vagina,” shouldn’t come with a side of shame or awkwardness. Dee shares her mission to shatter decades of misinformation surrounding feminine health, revealing how 30% of her website visitors are men, which speaks volumes about the shared responsibility in these conversations. We dive deep into the science of vaginal health, shedding light on topics from pH balance to menopause, while dispelling myths that have long silenced women. With humor and honesty, we explore the need for women to become their own health advocates and the importance of having frank discussions about our bodies—because, let’s face it, midlife isn’t the time to whisper; it’s time to shout!Navigating the often murky waters of feminine health and wellness is not for the faint-hearted, but in this enlightening episode, we dive deep with Dee Seymour, the trailblazing founder of PhD Feminine Health. Our chat kicks off with a spirited discussion about the challenges of marketing products related to women's health, particularly when it comes to using the word 'vagina'. It’s a word that seems to send social media into a tizzy, resulting in a world where euphemisms like 'hoo-ha' become the norm. But as Dee passionately points out, this is not just about semantics; it’s about breaking down the stigma surrounding feminine health and empowering women to take control of their bodies. With a billboard in Times Square proudly proclaiming the word 'vagina', we celebrate a bold step in normalizing these conversations.But we don’t stop there. Dee shares her personal journey from a corporate career to launching a brand that challenges decades of misinformation about vaginal health. With a background in pharmaceuticals, she has witnessed firsthand the devastating effects of poor feminine health education. Our conversation meanders through various topics including the importance of boric acid in feminine hygiene, the misconceptions surrounding menopause, and the necessity for women to advocate for their own health. We discuss how hormonal fluctuations can wreak havoc on vaginal pH, often leading to confusion and shame about natural bodily changes. By debunking myths and providing straightforward health advice, Dee encourages women to embrace their bodies, recognize what’s normal, and seek help when something feels off.As we wrap up, the underlying message resonates loud and clear: it’s time to stop whispering about our bodies. Dee’s mission to foster open discussions about vaginal health is not just a personal crusade but a revolutionary movement in women’s health. This episode is a call to action for all women to educate themselves, support one another, and embrace their health journeys without shame. So grab your headphones and join us for this engaging, insightful conversation that’s long overdue and absolutely essential.Takeaways: In a world where vagina is still considered a 'bad word', our podcast highlights the importance of open discussions about women's health, breaking the stigma and educating individuals on vaginal health. We learned that 30% of website visitors to PhD Feminine Health are men, showcasing that both genders are impacted by vaginal health issues, and that conversations about these topics can strengthen relationships. The journey through menopause isn't a transitional phase but a lifelong experience; understanding this can empower women to seek the right help and support throughout their lives. The narrative around women's health is changing, as more brands like PhD are stepping into the limelight to provide science-backed solutions that address long-overlooked issues faced by women everywhere. Our podcast emphasizes the necessity for women to advocate for their own health, encouraging listeners to seek healthcare providers who truly listen and address their concerns. It's vital for women to understand their bodies better, as many don't even know the difference between their vagina and vulva, emphasizing the need for education and normalization of conversations around female anatomy. Companies mentioned in this episode: PhD Feminine Health Target CVS Kaiser Harvard American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology CDC Kate Somerville Cosmetics Red Carpet Roxy meta

Jul 22, 20251h 0m

S1 Ep 9Shannon Watts on Midlife, Motherhood, and Becoming a Reluctant Activist

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If you’re wondering how one woman’s voice can spark a national movement, you’re in for a treat with our chat featuring Shannon Watts, the powerhouse behind Moms Demand Action. We dive into the heart of activism, exploring how Shannon transformed her outrage over gun violence into a grassroots juggernaut with over 10 million supporters. This episode isn’t just about politics; it's a vibrant conversation on courage, community, and the importance of women finding their voice, especially in midlife. Shannon shares her insights from her new book, "Fired Up," which serves as both a manifesto and a toolkit for any woman ready to reclaim her power and pursue her passions unapologetically. So, grab a comfy seat and a highlighter—this episode is packed with wisdom that’ll stick with you long after you hit pause!>> Shannon Watts, the founder of Moms Demand Action, embodies the power of one woman's voice—transforming outrage into action after the Sandy Hook tragedy. She candidly shares her journey from a stay-at-home mom to a national activist, highlighting how midlife can be a catalyst for change both personally and politically. In a compelling conversation, Watts emphasizes the importance of community, courage, and the often-overlooked virtues of vulnerability. The episode dives deep into the struggles of asking for help and the societal pressures that discourage women from pursuing their desires. We explore the idea of a 'virtuous circle,' where one woman’s bravery inspires another, creating a ripple effect of empowerment. Watts draws on her experiences and the wisdom of women she interviewed for her book, "Fired Up," to discuss how women can reclaim their narratives and live authentically, despite the myriad challenges they face. The discussion serves as a clarion call for women everywhere to embrace their power and advocate for change, not just for themselves but for future generations, reinforcing the notion that it’s never too late to ignite one’s passion and purpose.>> The conversation shifts focus to the emotional landscape of activism, where Watts delves into the realities of burnout and the necessity of finding sustainability in one’s work. She shares insights from her own experiences, detailing the emotional toll of activism and the strategies she employed to navigate through the toughest times. The dialogue touches on the importance of celebrating small victories and finding one’s tribe—those supportive networks that keep us grounded and motivated. Watts discusses how therapy played a crucial role in her journey, revealing that even in moments of perceived emptiness, there lies a wealth of untapped emotions and experiences waiting to be shared. This candid exploration serves as a reminder that vulnerability can be a strength, and reaching out for help is not a sign of weakness but rather an act of bravery. This episode resonates deeply, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own journeys and the ways in which they can support each other in their quests for justice and personal fulfillment.>> The podcast culminates with a powerful discussion on legacy and the impact of women’s empowerment movements. Watts articulates her vision for a world where women are no longer on the menu but are firmly seated at the table. She emphasizes the need for women to step into leadership roles, whether in politics or community organizations. The conversation highlights the generational shifts in activism, with a focus on how younger generations can learn from the experiences of those who came before them while also pushing for the rapid change they seek. Watts encourages listeners to embrace their potential, reminding them that life is a continuous journey of self-discovery and growth. The episode leaves us with a sense of urgency and hope, urging every woman to ask herself, "What do I want?" as she navigates her own path. With humor, honesty, and a fierce commitment to change, Watts inspires us to live iconically and fearlessly, igniting the flames of our passions and purpose.Takeaways: The saying goes, if you don't have a seat at the table, you're probably on the menu, which highlights the urgency of women's representation in decision-making spaces. Women are often taught to fulfill obligations rather than desires, which can stifle their audacity and potential for action in their communities. Courage is contagious; when one person dares to act, it inspires others to do the same, creating a virtuous cycle of empowerment among women. Finding your people and feeling like you are winning are crucial to sustaining your drive and passion in activism and personal endeavors. Companies mentioned in this episode: Moms Demand Action Emerge America Firestarter University

Jul 15, 20251h 0m

S1 Ep 8Power Without Apology with Annalie Howling: What Happens When You Finally Stop Shrinking

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I sat down with performance coach and bestselling author Annalie Howling, who’s spent years helping women stop shrinking and start owning their power—without apology.Drawing from her book Unapologetic, Annalie unpacks how shame often shows up in midlife as perfectionism, people-pleasing, and an internalized fear of power. Many women are conditioned to believe that being “too much” is wrong—and that success must come without desire, anger, ambition, or edge.This episode explores:How shame masks itself in daily behaviorsThe danger of “shoulds” and how to rewrite your personal rulebookThe antidote to shame (hint: it starts with self-compassion)Why reclaiming your power isn’t selfish—it’s survivalIf you’ve ever felt like you’re too much, not enough, or constantly at war with who you should be, this is your call to step out of the box—and into your bold, unfiltered, unapologetic self.

Jul 8, 20251h 1m

S1 Ep 7Chely Wright on Coming Out, Starting Over, and Thriving in Midlife

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Chely Wright, the groundbreaking country music star, joins us today to share her powerful journey of coming out and reclaiming her narrative. As the first major country artist to publicly embrace her truth, Chely reflects on the fear and courage it took to break barriers in a genre not known for its acceptance. We delve into the significance of owning one’s identity, the impact of faith, and how maturity has shifted her perspective on authenticity. Our conversation touches on the challenges faced during her journey, as well as the importance of supporting those who are still navigating their own paths. Get ready for an inspiring discussion filled with wisdom, laughter, and the refreshing reminder that midlife is about embracing who we truly are and living out loud.Takeaways: Chely Wright's courageous decision to come out as a gay country artist in 2010 was a pivotal moment that challenged societal norms and inspired many, showcasing the power of living authentically. The conversation highlights the importance of mental health advocacy, with Chely sharing her personal struggles and how therapy played a crucial role in her journey toward self-acceptance and empowerment. Midlife is portrayed not as a crisis, but as an opportunity for growth and reinvention, encouraging listeners to embrace change and pursue their passions without fear of judgment. She also opens up about her career pivot into working as the SVP of Corporate Social Responsibility at ISS, and how her country music career prepared her for this transition. Chely's insights on parenting emphasize the value of open communication with children, particularly in fostering environments where kids feel safe to share their feelings and experiences. Companies mentioned in this episode: Oprah Ellen DeGeneres Iss Vanguard Music Hoffman Institute ISS

Jul 1, 20251h 22m