The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

In this re-release of a very special episode Susan Guthrie, Esq., talks with TEDX phenomenom and Best-Selling Author, Jill Sherer Murray, about "Big Wild Love," her best-selling book that takes up where the TEDx stopped and shares Jill's journey and secret sauce for finding your own Big Wild Love and Letting Go of whatever it is that is holding you back forever! If you are one of the over 4 million viewers of Jill Sherer Murray's TEDx Talk, "The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go" then you already know the power of her message and how letting go of a long-term but ultimately unfulfilling relationship led her to become truly unstoppable in love and in life! The only downside to the TEDx? It's only 18 minutes long! But now, Jill has just released her instant best-seller, "Big Wild Love: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go" that goes well beyond just the power of letting go, and actually reveals the secret of how to actually DO IT! We are held back by so many things in our lives, failing relationships, dead-end jobs, toxic friendships, and more, but letting go often seems impossible. This episode is here to show you that letting go is VERY POSSIBLE, and the key to doing so is finding your own BIG WILD LOVE! Find out what Jill means by this and learn to the step to move forward in this very special episode! GET A COPY OF THE BOOK: Jill is giving away THREE copies of the book in honor of this re-release. Listen to the end and find out how to win your copy! More about this week's VERY SPECIAL GUEST: JILL SHERER MURRAY is a TEDx speaker, influencer, author, coach, and founder of Let Go For It®, helping individuals let go for a better life and businesses let go for better results. She’s an award-winning journalist and communications leader who can trace her success in career, love life, and more to letting go. Her TEDx talk, “The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go” has been viewed by millions and she recently released Big Wild Love: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go in response to the many all over the globe who’ve reached out to her for advice after seeing her TEDx Talk. Jill studied improv at Second City in Chicago, wrote a popular blog called “Diary of a Writer in Mid-Life Crisis”, and let go of just about everything to put her weight in Shape Magazine as part of a year-long assignment to document her weight loss journey. You can reach Jill at [email protected] Follow her on Instagram: @letgoforit Get Jill's Book: https://amzn.to/3HZTnbo Don't forget to leave a REVIEW FOR THE BOOK ONCE YOU HAVE READ IT!! You can do that here: https://www.amazon.com/review/create-review/edit?ie=UTF8&channel=glance-detail&asin=1631528521 MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

In this week's episode, Susan Guthrie is joined by Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski, who is helping people to do divorce in different ways that include, group coaching, mediation, and other innovative approaches so that your divorce is a perfect fit for your family! So often when people are facing divorce they assume that the process unfolds in the same, unpleasant and adversarial way for all couples. You know, the "Kramer vs. Kramer" and "War of the Roses" kind of way but that is anything but true! Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski is a leading innovator in the field of divorce and with her many years of experience in the field, she is creating new and innovative ways for people to move through the process so that people can curate the divorce that will will best for them and for their family. She discusses her brand new group coaching and mediation course as well as other though-provoking insights into how YOU can DO DIVORCE DIFFERENT! GET LESA'S SPECIAL COURSE on "How to Prepare for a Difficult Conversation" FREE to Listeners of Divorce & Beyond! Just use coupon code KOSKILAW-SUSANGUTHRIE on the website here: Lesa Koski brings extensive experience to the complex area of Mediation. In truth Lesa Koski Mediates wherever she shows up. She is fully equipped with the communication skills that bring a taste of peace to the nastiest discrepancies. Lesa’s mission is to offer compassionate, complete, competent services while making her life such that it blesses humankind. This mission is palpable when you shake Lesa’s hand. Clients love working with Lesa because she is trustworthy and capable. Above all Lesa Koski is a brilliant communicator, bar none. Listen to Lesa's Podcast "Doing Divorce Different" here: https://anchor.fm/lesa-koski/episodes/Welcome-to-the-Doing-Divorce-Different-Podcast-e13ajgf Contact Attorney Lesa Koski: Website https://www.familyandcivilmediation.com/ Social Media Handles Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/koskilaw/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mediationspecialists1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesakoski/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/LesaKoski ************************************************************************************ MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** Get Kate Anthony's Ultimate Divorce Survival Program! (use CODE "SUSAN" and get $50 off!!!) THE DIVORCE SURVIVAL PROGRAM WILL HELP YOU: Process the emotional fallout of your divorce so you don’t go into mediation bitter or resentful Understand the difference between litigation, mediation and Collaborative Divorce – and identify which is right for you Tell your husband you want a divorce in a way that doesn’t keep you stuck in a circular conversation for the next three months Tell your kids you’re getting a divorce in a way that won’t completely break them Understand how your divorce will imp

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Dr. Debi Silber, the Founder of the Post-Betrayal Transformation Institute is back to visit with Host, Susan Guthrie, and she is here to help you break free from the victim mentality that can accompany the betrayal of a loved one, including adultery and financial infidelity. Dr. Debi is a holistic psychologist whose ground-breaking research on the topic of betrayal and recovery led her to identify the four stages of betrayal and create a program to help people move beyond the pain and heal so that they can thrive and be happy again. Unfortunately, many people find themselves stuck in Stage 2 of the process, dwelling in the victim role, the hurt, anger and rage. There are many valid reasons to remain in this space but they will keep you from moving forward and beyond the betrayal to live a healthy and happy life. In this episode, Dr. Debi outlines the four stages of the process and shares tips and insights into the "whys" and "hows" of healing and learning to trust again. She herself has been down the path and healed and that in and of itself is a story worth listening to this episode for! As a VERY SPECIAL GIFT for listeners of Divorce & Beyond, Dr. Debi is giving away THREE of HER BEST-SELLING BOOKS to one very lucky person. Just listen to the episode all the way to the end to learn how to win! Contact Dr. Debi: www.pbtinstitute.com Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InspireEmpowerTransform Twitter: https://twitter.com/DebiSilber Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debisilber/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debisilber/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/debisilber Get Dr. Debi's Books: Get the Trust Again book and bonuses: https://thepbtinstitute.com/trustagain/ The Unshakable Woman: https://amzn.to/3DlJzFK The Unshakable Woman-The Workbook: https://amzn.to/3qCXJi8 New book: From Hardened to Healed: The Effortless Path to Release Resistance, Get Unstuck, and Create a Life You Love: https://amzn.to/321sFhX MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THIS WEEK'S SPECIAL GUEST: DR. DEBI SILBER Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of the #1 bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis and her newest book: Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Confidence and Happiness. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award-winning speaker, coach and author dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most. ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ***********

On this week's episode, Host Susan Guthrie is joined by top family law attorney, Holly Davis, to discuss the fascinating celebrity divorce of Ben and Julianna Zobrist, which has been playing out for months in the media with allegations of fraud. Susan and Holly unpack the claims and bring a dose of reality into the conversation to help you to understand the role of fraud in divorce. Former Chicago Cubs pitcher, Ben Zobrist has been very vocal in his allegations and claims of fraud in his divorce proceeding but is any of it true and if it is, what effect does it actually have on the divorce? Top family law attorney, Holly Davis discussed the facts of the case and what the legal effect of Ben's position is when it comes to a final judgment from the court. It is not unusual for a disgruntled spouse to cast aspersions on their ex, but is it just legal positioning or will it actually affect the outcome and sway the judge in court? Find out in this fascinating episode! Some of the topics we discuss: Judges are supposed to be neutral, but will facts like this tend to push them to one party's side? How can an allegation of fraud play out in a divorce case? Does it become a separate case, or do the two legal cases become combined? How would a finding of fraud manifest in a final divorce decree? How commonly does fraud come up in divorce cases? Does having an affair increase the risk of being accused of fraud in a divorce proceeding? Can Zobrist make any other claims, like "mental anguish"? More information About This Week's Special Guest: Holly Davis Holly R. Davis is a founding partner of Kirker Davis LLP. An accomplished and nationally-recognized family law trial attorney with over ten years’ experience, her legal practice focuses on high asset divorce, business and professional divorce, custody matters, and complex litigation. With a strong professional reputation for her litigation and courtroom skills, Holly has successfully handled cases ranging from multi-million–and even billion dollar—estates, to divorces involving family businesses and young professionals. Her core business philosophy is based on fidelity to the practice of law and a commitment to client service. It’s a perspective which has yielded significant success, particularly in her time as founding partner at one of the most well known personal injury & family law firms in Austin. The success of their business practices, based on creative and innovative approaches to the profession, have changed the way family law firms operate in Central Texas, an impact which will last for years to come. Also noteworthy: Holly amassed this record of professional accomplishment all before the age of 35, with the support of her family. Contact Holly Davis: W: https://www.kirkerdavis.com Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/kirkerdavis GET A COPY OF HOLLY'S FREE E-BOOK HERE: https://www.kirkerdavis.com/ebook/ ********************** MEET THE CREATOR AND HOST OF DIVORCE & BEYOND® SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ. is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! DTOUR.LIFE dtour.life is an easy to navigate system that finally brings much needed technology to an inefficient system. Spouses and family law professionals can now collect the endless data, manage the piles of documents, explore various settlements, detail budgets and most importantly, collaborate with the entire team with a single click. And we built this from the ground up with industry best practices and the most advanced security and encryption technology available. Be sure to check it out today! 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November marks the start of Family Court Awareness Month and in this week's episode, Susan Guthrie is joined by Tina Swithin, the driving force behind the movement and the founder of One Mom's Battle, which grew out of her epic 10-year divorce battle with her narcissistic ex-husband. Family Courts are challenged in so many ways with overworked judges and staff, limited support and resources and a public dealing with high emotion and financial strain. When you add high conflict into the mix, it can truly be a perfect storm for disaster and Tina Swithin know this all too well. Her decade long struggle through the family courts with her divorce and post-divorce custody issues with her narcissistic ex, gave her insights and an understanding of the system, and it's shortcomings and failures, that not many people experience. Tina ultimately was able to represent herself in court and to terminate her exes parental rights, in an effort to protect her children and she is passionate about sharing her wisdom and experience with others. Tina wrote her book, Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom's Battle, which is now a website, program and community, to help those who need help as they navigate the broken family court system. She also was the driving force behind establishing Family Court Awareness Month, intended to bring awareness to the shortcomings of the family law court system and spark conversation and change for the benefit of the children involved. In this episode, Tina covers her top questions to ask yourself to prepare to divorce a narcissist and protect your kids - don't miss it! ********************** More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Tina Swithin is the author of Divorcing a Narcissist (series), founder of One Mom’s Battle and the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Tina Swithin continues to champion children’s rights through her family court advocacy. Tina is working to raise awareness of the issues in the family court system and to educate the general public on post separation abuse and narcissistic abuse. Tina is remarried and resides in San Luis Obispo, California with her husband and two daughters. Contact Tina Divorce: Website www.onemomsbattle.com Social Media Handles https://www.facebook.com/onemomsbattle IG: @onemomsbattle Twitter: @onemomsbattle LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinaswithin/ GET TINA'S BOOKS: https://amzn.to/3pT54tD ************************************************************************************ MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** Get Kate Anthony's Ultimate Divorce Survival Program! (use CODE "SUSAN" and get $50 off!!!) THE DIVORCE SURVIVAL PROGRAM WILL HELP YOU: Process the emotional fallout of your divorce so you don’t go into mediation bitter or resentful Understand the difference between litigation, mediation and Collaborative

In this first ever SOLO episode Host, Susan Guthrie, dives into what can be the scariest holiday of the year for kids and co-parents alike . . . Halloween! Although some other holidays can cause a ruckus as parents navigate the new territory of sharing time with their kids, the idea of missing the trick-or-treating and costume experience can be especially emotional for parents. Although many times the default is alternating the years between parents, there are other options that Susan shares in this episode that can make the experience more fun for all and much less scary for your kids! Be sure to check this one out before you head out the door for all that candy! ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** Get Kate Anthony's Ultimate Divorce Survival Program! (use CODE "SUSAN" and get $50 off!!!) THE DIVORCE SURVIVAL PROGRAM WILL HELP YOU: Process the emotional fallout of your divorce so you don’t go into mediation bitter or resentful Understand the difference between litigation, mediation and Collaborative Divorce – and identify which is right for you Tell your husband you want a divorce in a way that doesn’t keep you stuck in a circular conversation for the next three months Tell your kids you’re getting a divorce in a way that won’t completely break them Understand how your divorce will impact your friends and family — and what conversations are appropriate to have with each Create appropriate and healthy boundaries with your ex Learn about dating after divorce and how that will affect you, your kids, and yes, your ex and more! All in a self-paced, self-guided program, housed on a password-protected e-learning platform for your privacy and security. 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In this episode Host, Susan Guthrie, chats with two of the co-founders of Vesta Divorce, Deanna Coyle and Samantha Vona, about the importance of finding and building the correct team of professionals to support you through your divorce One of the most common memories people share about their divorce is just how very ALONE they felt as they went through the process. Indeed, the process can be very isolating and that feeling alone will make what is already difficult even harder to get through. Both Deanna Coyle and Samantha Vona have experienced that sense of loneliness that divorce can bring in their own lives and it led them to join forces to create Vesta Divorce, an essential resource and place to find your trusted team. They have built a better way to navigate the divorce process by providing direct access to what you need through complimentary events and concierge services, vetted, expert professionals, and a compassionate community of support. Come and listen in and we promise, you won't feel alone anymore! To schedule your Complimentary Consultation with Vesta Concierge: https://calendly.com/deannacoyle ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guests: Deanna Coyle is Co-Founder, Concierge Manager, and Leader of Ancillary Professionals. As a mother who has gone through a long and financially and emotionally draining divorce, Deanna understands how isolating and frustrating the divorce process can be. Her challenging divorce led her to create divorce programs that educate, empower, and guide people in navigating the crucial decisions and considerations during and after divorce. In 2015, Deanna left her successful financial planning business to work exclusively on creating Vesta. Deanna helps Vesta’s clients connect with experienced and caring professionals in the areas of divorce and self-care that best suit their needs. She is dedicated to transforming the divorce process by helping people avoid courtroom battles and the resulting anger, resentment, and hurt that affect all involved. She is focused on the emotional, financial, and physical health and well-being of both parents and children. Samantha Vona is a Co-Founder of Vesta. As a child of divorce at the age of three, Samantha watched not only her parents but many other family members get divorced over her lifetime. Samantha is passionate about helping families make informed decisions instead of emotionally driven decisions. She enjoys speaking with parents about her experience, and how she turned part of her identity into a focus to help others during what can be a difficult life transition. With a background in finance and trained as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), she is especially passionate about making sure people understand their financial options in divorce and beyond. Samantha understands the value of a team approach to help clients make decisions that positively impact themselves and their families. VESTA: A NEW VISION FOR DIVORCE At Vesta, we have built a better way for people to navigate the divorce process by providing consolidated access to expert guidance, professional counseling (emotional, legal, financial), and a community of support. Our localized Hubs in Arizona, California, Colorado, Illinois, Massachusetts, New York, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, and South Carolina offer no-cost events, concierge services, and vetted professionals from the range of services needed during divorce, including legal, financial, real estate, wellness, and mortgage specialists. In addition to expert one-on-one services, our professionals collaborate to provide a consolidated system of comprehensive, supportive care. Contact Vesta Divorce: Website www.vestadivorce.com Social Media Handles https://www.facebook.com/VestaDivorce https://www.linkedin.com/company/vesta-redefining-divorce/mycompany/?viewAsMember=true https://www.instagram.com/vestadivorce https://twitter.com/vestadivorce ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. **************************************************

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month and this week host Susan Guthrie speaks with Attorney Uswah Khan who has helped scores of victims of abuse obtain restraining orders in order protect themselves, and their children, from suffering further at the hands of their abusers. On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States. During one year, this equates to more than 10 million women and men. Restraining orders offer one of the few tools that a victim has to try to protect themselves from ongoing abuse but getting a restraining order can be scary, confusing and complicated. To make matters worse, many victims cannot afford to retain an attorney to help them navigate the court process making it even more difficult to apply for relief. Attorney Uswah Khan has spent the past few years representing and assisting victims of domestic violence as the staff attorney at The Center for Family Justice in Connecticut. In this episode, Uswah demystifies the process of obtaining a restraining order and walks you through the steps so that you are empowered to get the protection that you, and your children, need. This episode truly will save lives! If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic or intimate partner violence please contact The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or Text "START" to 88788 For more information on the Family Justice Center Alliance, which develops and supports Family Justice Centers that help survivors and their children find the services they need in ONE place visit: https://www.familyjusticecenter.org About this week's special guest: Attorney Uswah Khan has been practicing family law in the State of CT for over 18 years. Most recently, she served as staff attorney at a Family Justice Center assisting victims of domestic violence. For the past 9 years, she has run her own practice engaging in private divorce mediations and a family law litigation. Additionally, she was a Hearing Officer for Special Education, for the Connecticut State Department of Education. She received her B.A. from Columbia University, Barnard College, a J.D. from Pace University School of Law, and an MBA from the University of Connecticut School of Business. She is also admitted to the U.S. District Court, District of Connecticut in 2005, and to the United States Supreme Court in 2018. ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Fayr is the ONLY co-parenting app that Susan recommends because Fayr is everything you need to co-parent in one app. Fayr's fresh, easy to use interface allows co-parents to effortlessly communicate, create a shared calendar, keep track of expenses, prepare legal documents and more. Most importantly, it allows you to experience co-parenting in a totally new way: simply, inexpensively, transparently, and fairly. Subscribe at BEFAYR.com and then download FAYR from the APP STORE or GOOGLE PLAY Go to FAYR.com for more details. Use the discount code “SUSANG18” to receive 20% off! ***************************************************************************************************G Get Kate Anthony's Ultimate Divorce Survival Program! (use CODE "SUSAN" and get $50 off!!!) THE DIVORCE SURVIVAL PROGRAM WILL HELP YOU: Process the emotional fallout of your divorce so you don’t go into mediation bitter or resentful Understand the difference between litigation, mediation and Collaborative Divorce – and identify which is right for you Tell your husband you want a divorce in a way that doesn’t keep you stuck in a circular conversation for the next three months Tell your kids you’re getting a divorce in a way that won’t completely break them Understand how your divorce will impact your friends and family — and what conversations are appropriate to have with each Create appropriate and healthy boundaries with your ex Learn about dating after divorce and how that will affect you, your kids, and yes, your ex and more! 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We have been focusing on the kids lately with our episodes but we hear you, you still have questions so I brought in Super-Star Coach, Wendy Sterling, to address your questions about the sticky issues of co-parenting in this very special BONUS EPISODE! There is nothing better than getting advice from someone who has been there and done that combined with expert training and Wendy Sterling has it all. Wendy has been through a difficult transition to co-parenting with her ex as he remarried, had another child and chose to parent in a very different style than in her household. It was really tough but they got through it all and today have a better relationship than in the "last few years they were married!" How did she do it? Well Wendy shares her top advice including parallel parenting, getting your priorities straight and how to manage communication with that difficult ex. This is the stuff you need to hear to get yourself, and your kids, unstuck from the quicksand of co-parenting! For even more help with co-parenting, Wendy is holding one of her famous summits on October 22, 2021 which will be held online and registration is FREE! Wendy will be joined by six top experts in the area of children and co-parenting for this Co-Parenting Summit. For more information and to REGISTER go to www.coparentingsummit.com More about this Bonus Episode Special Guest: As one of the worlds top and in demand Divorce expert Wendy Sterling helps women who are having trouble moving forward and tired of feeling stuck, pain, fear, resentment, anger and guilt to find joy, self-worth and freedom as a result of various life transitions by guiding them through her 5-Step Divorce Rehab Proprietary Program to push them forward in creating a confident life full of joy, peace forgiveness and acceptance. Wendy is a Certified Professional Co-Active Life Coach (CPCC), a Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS), an Advanced ThetaHealer and the host of The Divorced Woman’s Guide Podcast. She is a speaker, an author as well a guest writer on Medium, Hello Divorce and The Divorced Girl Smiling. Whether speaking in front of virtual audiences or on stages speaking to entrepreneurs, business executives, legal professionals, or financial experts, Wendy’s bold, tough loving approach and ability to awaken her audience’s senses to start living their best life is unparalleled. Her mission to change the conversation around life transitions from shame to empowerment has impacted lives around the world. ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. AND MUCH MORE - REGISTER NOW! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure

In this week's episode, Host Susan Guthrie is joined by Child Specialist, Kathleen Zumpano, who is an expert and pioneer in techniques and methods for safely bringing the voices of children into the divorce process. Divorce professionals the world over shudder at the thought of children being put in the middle of their parents' divorces. We have nightmares about that question, "Which parent do you want to live with?" so for ages the prevailing wisdom has been to keep the children as far from the courtroom and professionals as possible, but then aren't they somewhat lost in the process? Kathleen Zumpano, MA, LMFT believes passionately that the voices of children should be heard when divorce affects truly every aspect of their lives - BUT IT MUST DONE SAFELY! Kathleen specializes in child-inclusive mediation, which includes individual, private meetings with the children, to ensure that feedback given to parents includes the child's own experiences and feelings. She shares important insights and information on this child centered process that will open your mind, and your heart, to the possibilities! This is a very important episode for all parents going through divorce AND the professionals who assist them! SPECIAL GIFT: To download copies of Kathleen's FREE resource on “The Voice of the Child” and “A Child’s Experience” visit her website at www.kathleenzumpano.com! FOR DIVORCE PROFESSIONALS: Kathleen will be holding a special workshop on The Voice of the Child: Bringing the Voices of Children into the Divorce Process on October 21, 2021 - JOIN US! This workshop will introduce participants to the best practices of incorporating a child’s voice into divorce proceedings to improve outcomes for families and without putting children in the middle. There are prevailing international protocols for working with children, this workshop will provide an overview of research, as well as introduce participants to tools for screening parents, determining the level of involvement of the child, how information is elicited and how to prepare parents to hear feedback and information regarding their child/ren. Find out more and Register HERE: https://mostenguthrie.com/voice-of-the-child ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Kathleen Zumpano, MA, MFT is a former marriage and family therapist, who currently works as a child specialist, family mediator and divorce coach. She has dedicated more than 15 years to helping families transition in a child-focused way. Her specialties are high-conflict and complex dynamics including resist and refuse as well as children under the age of five. She has a private practice physically based in Portland, Oregon, but helps families across the country with online services. Kathleen is a contributing author in Mosten and Cordover’s 2018 ABA Published book Building Successful Collaborative Law Practice (2018). Kathleen authored a chapter on use of child specialists in collaborative law. She is also a co-author of “Commentary on Interdisciplinary Teamwork in Family Law” published in the July 2018 Issue of the Family Court Review. Contact Kathleen Zumpano: Website www.kathleenzumpano.com Social Media Handles Instagram - @kathleenzumpano ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get

In this very special 100th episode of Divorce & Beyond, Host Susan Guthrie is joined by the CEO of The High Conflict Institute, Megan Hunter, to help tackle one of the most difficult issues in divorce: trying to co-parent with a narcissist or other high conflict person. Divorce is hard under the best of circumstances, but for most people, it will come to an end and their lives will smooth out and they will go forward with their lives and even co-parent peacefully for the most part, but then there are the high conflict cases. The ones where your ex tries to turn the kids against you, drags you back to court every other week and continues to cause chaos and havoc in your life no matter how long ago the divorce was finalized. How do you survive that High-Conflict Co-Parenting paradigm and more importantly, how do you help your kids through it all? Megan Hunter, the CEO of The High Conflict Institute with Co-Founder, Bill Eddy, is here to help with her book: The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide! Megan shares invaluable advice and practical strategies on ways to manage your anger, stress, fear and worry as you continue to have to maintain a co-parenting relationship with a narcissist or other high conflict person. Listen to this episode and you WILL have HOPE and a game-plan for the future! As a special offer for this 100th episode, Susan is giving away a copy of Megan's book, The High Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide! Want to enter? Just send an email to [email protected] with a short statement of why you listen to Divorce & Beyond and we will pick a winner in the second week of October! ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Megan Hunter is The High Conflict Institute's co-founder, Chief Executive Officer and Vice President. As an expert on high conflict disputes and complicated relationships, she has facilitated hundreds of seminars across the U.S. and in seven countries. She provides dynamic keynote presentations based on the concept. She has over 13 years of experience as the Family Law Specialist with the Arizona Supreme Court, and Child Support Manager of the Dawes County Attorney’s Office in Nebraska. She is the founder and publisher of Unhooked Books and has written five books on high conflict situations and people in dating, in the workplace, in the church, at home. Contact Megan Hunter: Website www.highconflictinstitute.com www.unhookedmedia.com Social Media Handles @highconflictinstitute - Instagram GET THE BOOK! "The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide" here: https://amzn.to/39DtwWH ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help

One of our favorite guests, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, The Divorce Doctor, returns to talk with Host, Susan Guthrie about the long, drawn out experience of the pandemic we are living through and how that relates to your seemingly never-ending divorce process. Believe it or not, there are startling parallels between the two and Dr. Elizabeth shares some sanity saving tips on how to cope with both! Our favorite therapist returns to help us cope with the ongoing, and seemingly never-ending, pandemic and because they are related in so many ways, with the stress of your never-ending divorce too! Think about it, the disappointment, fear, exhaustion and on-going trauma are so similar with both and the good news is, so are the coping strategies! Dr. Elizabeth shares concrete steps you can take to cope with any ongoing trauma in your life. Make today the day you feel just a little bit better (or a lot!) by listening to this episode! * * * * * * * * * Dr. Elizabeth has been incredibly generous with her time and expertise for the listeners of Divorce & Beyond! Check out all of her other episodes here: To Listen to Episode #135 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Divorce Doctor is in the House: Dealing with the Emotions of Divorce" just click here: Episode #135 (THE #1 EPISODE ON DIVORCE & BEYOND EVER!) To listen to Episode #141 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Perfect Storm: What You Need to Know About Anxiety, Depression, Divorce and COVID," just click here: Episode #141 To listen to Episode 147 with Dr. Elizabeth, "TOXIC MASCULINITY: The Untold Cost For Men AND Women," just click here: Episode #147 To listen to Episode #151 with Dr. Elizabeth, "How to Survive the Holidays" just click here: Episode #151 To listen to Episode #161 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The End of Kim & Kanye: The Devastating Effect of Mental Health Struggles on Relationships" just click here: Episode #161 To listen to Episode #169 with Dr. Elizabeth, "One Year of Covid: Dealing with Difficult Anniversaries with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, "The Divorce Doctor" just click here Episode #169 To listen to Episode #174 with Dr. Elizabeth, "Light on the Other Side of Divorce from Dr. Elizabeth Cohen" just click here Episode #174 ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14 week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents and adults. Contact Dr. Elizabeth: Website drelizabethcohen.com Social Media Handles @thedivorcedoctor - Instagram The Divorce Doctor- Facebook Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/ GET HER BEST-SELLING BOOK "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON! You can also purchase the book on the "Beyond Reading" page of the divorceandbeyondpod.com website which has links to ALL of Susan's recommended reading! Dr. Elizabeth's PODCAST - The Divorce Doctor Podcast Susan's episode shares her personal journey through divorce - be sure to listen! https://drelizabethcohen.com/2021/03/12/susan-guthrie-what-happens-when-a-divorce-lawyer-gets-divorced/ ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking dur

This week host Susan Guthrie talks with the amazing Kate Anthony, Host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, who is here to help you with a comprehensive program she has developed to be your one-stop educational resource for your divorce that incorporates your favorite guest experts, like Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, Attorney Eric Broder, Dating Expert Bela Gandhi and many more! Susan will be participating as well and The Divorce Course will be the place where you can come to not only learn what you need to know about divorce, but to also do the work you need to do to get through the process! In today's episode you will get a sneak peek from Kate with some sage advice from her in the areas of her expertise: Communication during and after divorce, including some important tips for telling your spouse it is coming; Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries - how to set them and how to keep them; and The importance of understanding what is and what is NOT your f'ing job! Kate is the master communicator and as one of the top divorce coaches and experts in the country, she know how important it is that you have access to the best information from experts who have the knowledge you need and the skill needed to make it as accessible as possible for you. The Divorce Course, coming at the beginning of October, 2021, will be everything you need to survive your divorce, and more! You can sign up for advance notice of The Divorce Course availability at www.kateanthony.com About this week's special guest: KATE ANTHONY: Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son (whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband), their two dogs, and a handful of fish. Find out more about The Divorce Course, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and Kate's Coaching Services at www.kateanthony.com Follow Kate on Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram/thedivorcesurvivalguide Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourdivorcesurvivalguide Listen to Kate's other Divorce & Beyond episodes: "Is it Time to Say Goodbye or Time to Say 'Let's Try?'" "Alimony: Why You Want It and Why It's Not All That Part Two" ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Fayr is the ONLY co-parenting app that Susan recommends because Fayr is everything you need to co-parent in one app. Fayr's fresh, easy to use interface allows co-parents to effortlessly communicate, create a shared calendar, keep track of expenses, prepare legal documents and more. Most importantly, it allows you to experience co-parenting in a totally new way: simply, inexpensively, transparently, and fairly. Subscribe at BEFAYR.com and then download FAYR from the APP STORE or GOOGLE PLAY Go to FAYR.com for more details. Use the discount code “SUSANG18” to receive 20% off! *************************************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY C

This week host, Susan Guthrie, is joined by the woman who is changing the divorce process for couples and families forever! Erin Levine, Founder and CEO of legal tech phenom, HelloDivorce is here to give you the FYI on DIY Divorce! The statistics on traditional litigated divorces are staggering: Recent national statistics suggest that a majority of divorce and separation cases (72%) involve at least one self-represented party. Divorces that go to trial on two or more issues cost, on average, $23,300. The average hourly rate for a divorce attorney is $270. The average total cost of legal fees was $11,300 per spouse when a full-scope divorce attorney was involved. Divorces take, on average, between 12 and 18 months to finalize. Is it any wonder that most people going through divorce do not want to, or cannot afford to, hire attorneys? In fact, there are a number of reasons why people choose a more Do It Yourself approach to the process and this week's guest, the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine, is here to give you the FYI on DIY Divorce so that you can take charge of the process yourself and know when and where to go if you need help! Erin is the leading expert on elawyering and online divorce in the country and she and Hello Divorce are here to support you as you face the legalities, and myriad other details, of divorce. About this week's special guest: ERIN LEVINE: Erin’s innovative, disruptive approach to how Americans interact with the law make her both a loved and feared force in the legal world. With her groundbreaking divorce navigator platform, she’s revolutionizing the broken divorce process, making it affordable and available to everyone. Erin’s access to justice work has been recognized by the legal industry and beyond, with awards and recognition from the likes of Women Founders Network, Forbes, Entrepreneur, and the American Bar Association. And though she’s been a sought-after family law attorney for more than 16 years, she vows to never practice law again. Find out more about Hello Divorce at www.hellodivorce.com Follow Hello Divorce on Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram/hellodivorce Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hellodivorce Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/hellodivorce Visit the website: www.hellodivorce.com Book a FREE 15 minute consultation with Hello Divorce: https://hellodivorce.com/our-process/book-your-15-minute-strategy-call/ ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Fayr is the ONLY co-parenting app that Susan recommends because Fayr is everything you need to co-parent in one app. Fayr's fresh, easy to use interface allows co-parents to effortlessly communicate, create a shared calendar, keep track of expenses, prepare legal documents and more. Most importantly, it allows you to experience co-parenting in a totally new way: simply, inexpensively, transparently, and fairly. Subscribe at BEFAYR.com and then download FAYR from the APP STORE or GOOGLE PLAY Go to FAYR.com for more details. Use the discount code “SUSANG18” to receive 20% off! *************************************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. AND MUCH MORE - REGISTER NOW! *******************************************

The Awesome Women of exExperts, T.H. Irwin and Jessica Klingbaum, join Host, Susan Guthrie this week to share their collective thoughts and wisdom on divorce because as they say, "they've been there so they get it!" For so many people the divorce process is like a firehose of information that is just overwhelming and confusing. It is a rush of information to learn, decisions to be made and emotions to be managed and you have no way of knowing who or what to believe or listen to. My guests this week, T.H. Irwin and Jessica Klingbaum, get it. They really do, because they have been there (boy, have they been there) and they want to pay it forward by helping you. This episode is the onramp to express lane on the highway that is divorce so hit play and take charge of your journey now! T.H. and Jessica also share the details on their personal and intertwined divorce journeys and let me just say, after 30 plus years as a divorce attorney, I thought I had heard it all - I HAD NOT! Tune in to hear their story and to find out what the "it" of divorce is! About this week's special guests: ABOUT JESSICA Jessica Klingbaum holds a BA from Brandeis University and a Masters in Broadcast Journalism from New York University. She is an Emmy-nominated former TV producer for national networks, including CBS, FOX, and CNBC. She co-founded exEXPERTS in 2020 with a mission to educate, support, and empower women like herself who have been affected by divorce. Originally from Cherry Hill, NJ, Jessica has called NYC her home for more than twenty years and currently resides in the West Village with her two children. She is an eternal optimist who loves fashion, gummy bears, and spending quality time with friends and family. ABOUT T.H. T.H. Irwin began her career at a boutique market research firm in NYC and after earning her Masters Degree in Marketing from Fordham Graduate School of Business, she went to advance her career at Arthur Andersen Consulting. After her separation, she pivoted and discovered her talent for creating community-driven media events. In her role as Director of Experiential Events for USA Today, she scaled hyper-local, original events to a national level. In 2020 she co-founded exEXPERTS, a free online resource to help women of all ages navigate their divorce - a community she wishes she'd had during her own divorce journey more than a decade ago. She loves adventure and the outdoors which she proved on a Kilimanjaro climb, her non-profit work with organizations like the Center for Hope & Safety and United Breast Cancer Foundation, and nurturing her mind and body on a daily basis. She lives in Bergen County with her amazing boyfriend, children and dog Daisy. Find out more about exExperts at www.exexperts.com! Listen to Divorce, etc. with Jessica and T.H. here: https://exexperts.com/thepodcast/ Follow exExperts on Social: https://www.facebook.com/exExperts https://www.instagram.com/exEXPERTS/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZhug0U2OaOzQvgjiU4n8Vg ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. For

Celeb Divorce Attorney, Christopher Melcher, joins Host, Susan Guthrie this week to discuss the ongoing courtroom and personal drama that is unfolding in the Britney Spears Conservatorship matter. From her public "melt-down" to the current courtroom drama, the world has watched the ongoing drama of Britney Spears' legal issues with fascination for 13 years. As the current legal challenges to her father's ongoing role as her conservator in the face of allegations of gross abuse of that position, the media reports are a constant barrage of information and mis-information. This week's guest, Attorney Christopher Melcher, has done the homework and is here to give an accurate legal view of the many failings of the court system and those who took advantage of the very person the system was supposed to protect, Britney Spears. This is a fascinating look behind the scenes of #FreeBritney Movement and a cautionary tale of the havoc that greed and incompetence can wreak in the lives of the vulnerable. More about this week's special guest: Christopher Melzer, Esq. A-list celebrities, executives, trust beneficiaries and tech company founders across California turn to Christopher for assistance protecting their most valuable assets in high stakes divorces. With deep experience in complex family law litigation and premarital agreements, he provides tactical representation in the most challenging family law disputes. He understands the need to keep sensitive family matters private, having represented noteworthy clients in the largest divorce cases in California. Frequently, he is hired by other family lawyers as a consultant, expert, or co-counsel on significant divorce cases in California. You can contact Christopher and find out more about him at www.walzermelcher.com Check out Christopher's YouTube Channel for more insights into celebrity divorce news: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2QZfGKdU4C4 ********************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. For an exclusive $50 off your device and to download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. AND MUCH MORE - REGISTER NOW! *******************************

This week on The Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, Jackie Pilossoph, Founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, chats with with Host, Susan Guthrie® about the top 8 reasons that your ex is being such a jerk and what you can do to deal with it! One of the most perplexing parts of getting divorced can be the complete change in personality that your ex seems to undergo during the process. That person that promised to love you and who was your partner in life and parenting suddenly becomes the biggest jerk on the planet. Why? How? What to do? As we always say, knowledge is power so in this episode, Jackie Pilossoph, founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, shares with you the top 8 reasons why your ex is behaving so poorly. Your insight into the underpinnings of their nastiness can help you to reduce, circumvent or at least understand their actions and that, in turn, will help you to transcend the conflict and move your divorce forward! More information About This Week's Special Guest: Jackie Pilossoph Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, a website, podcast and app. Jackie, who went through a divorce several years ago, is a former TV and newspaper journalist who spent 8 years writing her syndicated weekly column, Love Essentially for the Pioneer Press/Chicago Tribune. Contact Jackie Pilossoph: W: www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com Instagram: @divorced_girl_smiling Facebook: @divorcedgirlsmiling ********************** MEET THE CREATOR AND HOST OF DIVORCE & BEYOND® SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ. is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! DTOUR.LIFE dtour.life is an easy to navigate system that finally brings much needed technology to an inefficient system. Spouses and family law professionals can now collect the endless data, manage the piles of documents, explore various settlements, detail budgets and most importantly, collaborate with the entire team with a single click. And we built this from the ground up with industry best practices and the most advanced security and encryption technology available. Be sure to check it out today! SPECIAL OFFER: Sign up for the FREE TRIAL here: https://www.dtour.life/sign-up and then use special code "SUSAN20" to receive 20% off the cost of a subscription! ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorce

This week on The Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, Leading Family Law Attorney, Lauren Hunt visits to discuss with Host, Susan Guthrie® everything you need to know to pick the right attorney for your divorce case! There are few decisions in divorce as important as choosing your attorney who will be your guide, advisor and advocate through the process. The common knee jerk reaction is to search far and wide for the "shark, bulldog or barracuda" attorney. We think we need the biggest, baddest lawyer out there to protect us, but is this true? Is a down and dirty fighter what we truly want and need? Attorney Lauren Hunt joins Susan to talk about what you should be looking for in choosing your attorney. Lauren covers topics such as: What questions to ask a prospective attorney; Where to find the best attorney prospects; How to read those Google and Yelp reviews; What the MOST important quality in a divorce attorney is that you should be searching for; What to do if you hired the wrong attorney; AND MUCH MORE! Before you run out and hire that shark be sure to listen to this episode - it will save you a lot of time, money and heartache! Get Lauren's FREE DIVORCE GUIDE for Listeners of Divorce & Beyond® https://mailchi.mp/laurenhuntesq/divorce-guide More information About This Week's Special Guest: Lauren Hunt Lauren is an Attorney / Mediator in New York State and has practiced exclusively in the field of Family / Matrimonial Law for over a decade. As a child of divorce, she intimately understands how divorce impacts a family and works hard to mitigate those impacts. She has been named to the Super Lawyers list from 2014-2021 and has received several other awards in recognition of her professionalism and advocacy in the areas of Family and Matrimonial Law. She is very involved in her local community where you can find her sitting on a variety of committees or volunteering her time for a local dog rescue. Her greatest treasure in life, though, is her family. In her downtime, she can be found exploring a new hiking trail with her husband and son, cooking up big Sunday breakfasts, and dancing to “Baby Shark” for the millionth time with her son – Jack. Contact Lauren Hunt: W: www.laurenhuntesq.com E: [email protected] Instagram: @laurenhuntesq ********************** MEET THE CREATOR AND HOST OF DIVORCE & BEYOND® SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ. is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! DTOUR.LIFE dtour.life is an easy to navigate system that finally brings much needed technology to an inefficient system. Spouses and family law professionals can now collect the endless data, manage the piles of documents, explore various settlements, detail budgets and most importantly, collaborate with the entire team with a single click. And we built this from the ground up with industry best practices and the most advanced security and encryption technology available. Be sure to check it out today! SPECIAL OFFER: Sign up for the FREE TRIAL here: https://www.dtour.life/sign-up and then use special code "SUSAN20" to receive 20% off the cost of a subscription! ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show pleas

In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with the leading high conflict divorce expert in the world, Attorney, Mediator and Therapist, Bill Eddy, who recently released the updated version of his seminal book, Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline, authored with Randi Kreger (Stop Walking on Eggshells). Are you divorcing someone who is making the process as difficult and drawn out as they possible can? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? Then you need the NEW and updated version of Bill Eddy's groundbreaking book, Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline! Bill returns to Divorce & Beyond to help you understand what you are dealing with and how to best protect yourself, and your children, when caught up in the emotional storm of divorce with a high conflict personality. Get your copy of Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline here: https://amzn.to/3C22aGH More about this week's very special guest: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Co-Founder | Chief Innovation Officer San Diego, California Bill Eddy is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, andAr Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries. Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books! https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/ Listen to Bill's other episode, "Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Co-Parent" on Divorce & Beyond here: https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-q3hpd-f87a79 ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. For an exclusive $50 off your device and to download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY

In Part Two of this special two-part episode, Susan Guthrie continues her conversaiton with leading family law attorney Beth McCormack, who helps to demystify the roles of Guardian ad Litems and Attorneys for the Children in contested custody cases. Divorce is hard enough but when parenting and custody issues are contested, things get much more complicated and crowded! You will often find that you have more professionals appointed in your case such as a GAL or Attorney for the Child. In fact, sometimes you may have both but what exactly do they do? How do they help your children and how do you work with them? Attorney Beth McCormack, one of the leading attorneys in the country who is often appointed by the court in the role of a GAL or AMC explains the reasons why the court may appoint these professionals in your case, what the important differences between the roles are and importantly, Beth preps you to help you get ready to work with the professionals in your case. There is so much important information in this episode, we broke it into a special two-part series so that we could make sure you are ready for your GAL or AMC and that there is no need for OMG! More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Beth F. McCormack focuses on highly complex family law matters with vast experience in complex litigation, as well as mediation and collaborative law. Beth also represents children, when appointed by the court, which makes her unparalleled in her ability to navigate complex parenting issues. Beth appreciates the sensitivity surrounding high net-worth, high-profile, and child-related matters, with each requiring a very different skill set. Ms. McCormack’s practice is founded on compassion and empathy. She sees it as her responsibility to be aware of each person’s needs, seeking the most appropriate solution for each client. Ms. McCormack’s vast family law experience enables her to handle and settle complex and sophisticated issues many families face. She is an unwavering advocate for the best interests of children, and easily navigates families through the highly emotional nature of any divorce. As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond. Ms. McCormack has a monthly column in the Chicago Daily Law Bulletin, where she educates other lawyers on best practices and writes for many other publications as well. Follow Beth on Instagram at @bethfmccormack Get in touch with Beth McCormack: W: https://www.beermannlaw.com E: [email protected] T: 312-621-9700 ********************************************************************** Listen to Beth's prior episode on Divorce & Beyond: Lessons From a Billion Dollar Divorce Attorney *********************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to

In this special two-part episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with leading family law attorney Beth McCormack, who helps to demystify the roles of Guardian ad Litems and Attorneys for the Children in contested custody cases. Divorce is hard enough but when parenting and custody issues are contested, things get much more complicated and crowded! You will often find that you have more professionals appointed in your case such as a GAL or Attorney for the Child. In fact, sometimes you may have both but what exactly do they do? How do they help your children and how do you work with them? Attorney Beth McCormack, one of the leading attorneys in the country who is often appointed by the court in the role of a GAL or AMC explains the reasons why the court may appoint these professionals in your case, what the important differences between the roles are and importantly, Beth preps you to help you get ready to work with the professionals in your case. There is so much important information in this episode, we broke it into a special two-part series so that we could make sure you are ready for your GAL or AMC and that there is no need for OMG! More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Beth F. McCormack focuses on highly complex family law matters with vast experience in complex litigation, as well as mediation and collaborative law. Beth also represents children, when appointed by the court, which makes her unparalleled in her ability to navigate complex parenting issues. Beth appreciates the sensitivity surrounding high net-worth, high-profile, and child-related matters, with each requiring a very different skill set. Ms. McCormack’s practice is founded on compassion and empathy. She sees it as her responsibility to be aware of each person’s needs, seeking the most appropriate solution for each client. Ms. McCormack’s vast family law experience enables her to handle and settle complex and sophisticated issues many families face. She is an unwavering advocate for the best interests of children, and easily navigates families through the highly emotional nature of any divorce. As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond. Ms. McCormack has a monthly column in the Chicago Daily Law Bulletin, where she educates other lawyers on best practices and writes for many other publications as well. Follow Beth on Instagram at @bethfmccormack Get in touch with Beth McCormack: W: https://www.beermannlaw.com E: [email protected] T: 312-621-9700 ********************************************************************** Listen to Beth's prior episode on Divorce & Beyond: Lessons From a Billion Dollar Divorce Attorney *********************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renownded as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids

Bela Gandhi, America's Favorite Dating Expert returns to Divorce & Beyond to chat with Susan Guthrie, about the pros and cons of rekindling a romance with an old flame and what to look for before you light that match! The world has watched with fascination as Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck recently reunited 19 years after they ended their very public romance and engagement. Bennifer 2.0 has the tabloids and the public around the world watching their every move and their second time around has been raising the question for many of whether or not it is a good idea to get back with an ex. Lucky for us, Bela Gandhi, Founder of the Smart Dating Academy and darling of morning television such as GMA and Today, is here to share her top green flags and red flags to be on alert for in deciding whether that old love is ready for another spin around the block! Bela takes us through the many reasons why an old flame may be so appealing, and importantly, what you need to think through to be sure that love will survive the second time around. Before you look up that old boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook, listen to this episode! More information about Bela: Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!" Bela has been connecting people all of her life. Prior to founding the Smart Dating Academy, Bela worked for 12 years as a top global executive for Akzo Nobel, a large multinational corporation. Bela has two degrees from The University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (Finance & German), and has been happily married for 20 years with 2 children. You can find out more about Bela, her date coaching services and her FREE GIFT the 7 Clues You are in a Relationship with a Narcissist Quiz at www.smartdatingacademy.com. Follow Bela on Instagram @smartdatingacademy and be sure to join her on Thursday nights at 7pm ET for her famous Instagram Lives! ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! DTOUR.LIFE dtour.life is an easy to navigate system that finally brings much needed technology to an inefficient system. Spouses and family law professionals can now collect the endless data, manage the piles of documents, explore various settlements, detail budgets and most importantly, collaborate with the entire team with a single click. And we built this from the ground up with industry best practices and the most advanced security and encryption technology available. Be sure to check it out today! SPECIAL OFFER: Sign up for the FREE TRIAL here: https://www.dtour.life/sign-up and then use special code "SUSAN20" to receive 20% off the cost of a subscription! ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the p

In this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with Therapists, Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg, authors of "Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce," about the effects of parental divorce on adult children, and how the negative repurcussions can be minimized. It is no secret that gray divorce is on the rise world-wide. In fact, divorce among those who have been married for 30 years or more or who are divorcing later in life, is one of the largest segments of those who are divorcing today. Much has been written about the unique difficulties faced by those who divorce close to or during retirement and after long-term marriages, but there is a forgotten segment of people who are deeply impacted by the divorce - the adult children whose parents are going through a gray divorce. Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg, both family therapists, collaborative professionals and mediators, have done a deep dive into this topic with years of personal experience with patients and families as well as a great deal of research which they have distilled into a ground-breaking new book, "Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce." It is easy to believe that children who are adults, perhaps with families of their own, will have little to no impact when their parents divorce but the reverse is actually true. Carol and Bruce provide guidance for parents, children and even therapists in their book and this episode provides insights and tips into this growing paradigm! To enter to win one of 5 FREE Audible copies of the book, please send an email to Carol Hughes at [email protected] and mention "Divorce & Beyond!" More Information About This Week's Special Guests: Dr. Carol Hughes holds her doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology, achieving both summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa honors. She is also a two-time Fulbright Scholar. Board certified hypnotherapist, and EMDR therapist. A California licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and family-focused divorce professional, she works with children, adolescents, and adults in her private practice in Laguna Hills, California. As a therapist, co-parenting and child specialist, divorce coach, and mediator, she has assisted hundreds of families experiencing separation and divorce. In 2003, Carol was a co-founder of Collaborative Divorce Solutions of Orange County. In 2011, Collaborative Practice California honored Carol with the Eureka Award that recognizes those who have made significant contributions and demonstrated an abiding dedication to establishing and sustaining Collaborative Practice in California. Carol is the co-author of Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce, published by Rowman and Littlefield Publishing Company. Carol's Websites: https://www.divorcepeacemaking.com/ https://www.drcarolhughes.com/ Bruce R. Fredenburg, M.S., LMFT, Co-author of Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce helps families solve painful problems that they are struggling with and have not been able to solve on their own. He is a California-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist board certified in clinical hypnosis. He created and taught parenting classes for adoptive and foster parents. Trained and experienced in chronic pain management, trauma, addictions, mediation, and collaborative divorce, Bruce helps families as a therapist, divorce coach, child and co-parenting specialist, and mediator in his practice in Laguna Hills, California. Bruce creates and presents training programs for corporations, government agencies, schools, and professional. Author of Audio Learning Self-Help Programs Anxiety Solution, Sleep Solution, Take the Pain Out of Change and Men and Women: How to Understand Each Other. Bruce has presented multiple times at California’s annual statewide conference for collaborative professionals, and to the International Association of Collaborative Professionals annual Forum. In 2018 Bruce was chosen by Collaborative Practice California to receive the Eureka Award which recognizes and honors "those who have made significant contributions and demonstrated an abiding dedication to establishing and sustaining Collaborative Practice in California.” Bruce's Websites: https://www.orangecountydivorcecoach.com/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/bruce-r-fredenburg-laguna-hills-ca/803083 Social Media Handles @graydivorce - Instagram ********************************************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST! SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life chan

In this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with leading family law attorney and author, Ashley Nicole Russell about how her experience of as a child of a toxic divorce turned her into a tireless crusader to help families restructure through the process with dignity, privacy and self-determination without ever having to go to court. Ashley Nicole Russell says she had a fairly normal childhood, at least that is, until her parents' vicious divorce and never-ending cycle of conflict "cut the roots out from under her." Today, Ashley Nicole no longer has a relationship with her parents, at least not right now, but her experience has made her a leader in the world of family law. Collaborative divorce is yet another method for couples to utilize when going through a divorce. The collaborative process is predicated upon compiling a curated integrative team to support the family and to help forge a new path forward for all. A principal concept of a collaborative divorce, is that no one need go to court at all and that all issues be resolved cooperatively. Hear more from Ashley Nicole Russell in this episode and find out from one of the leading collaborative attorneys in the country why you and your family should not HESITATE to COLLABORATE! More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Ashley-Nicole Russell, Esq. is an award-winning family law attorney, author, podcaster, and speaker who is changing the way divorce is perceived around the world. As a child of divorce and divorcee, she brings a unique, relatable, and personal understanding to family law. Her law firm, AN|R Law, was the first collaborative law practice in Greenville, North Carolina with additional offices in Raleigh and Beaufort. Ashley-Nicole is known globally as an expert in divorce culture, conflict resolution, and shared parenting. To learn more about her work, visit her on social media @ANRLaw and online at www.ANRLaw.com Social Media Handles @anrlaw - Instagram Get more information on Ashley Nicole's book: The Cure for Divorce Culture: Repairing the Damage Within a Lost Class of People ********************************************************************** Listen to Susan on Ashley Nicole's Podcast, Divorce, Healthy! *********************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. For an exclusive $50 off your device and to download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan *************************************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. AND MUCH MORE - REGISTER NOW! **********************************************************************

In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, "The Divorce Doctor" returns to speak with Host, Susan Guthrie about the challenges and psychological issues raised as we move forward into a world opening up after the extended trauma of the pandemic. These issues can, in many ways, mirror the struggles many face in life after divorce. Dr. Elizabeth shares insights to help you understand not only the effects of the traumas but also gives you effective tips and tools to help you manage your re-entry! More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14 week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents and adults. Contact Dr. Elizabeth: Website drelizabethcohen.com Social Media Handles @thedivorcedoctor - Instagram The Divorce Doctor- Facebook Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/ Get Dr. Elizabeth's Best-Selling Book "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce" on AMAZON GET THE BOOK! ***Order Dr. Elizabeth's upcoming book, "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON ********************************************************************** Dr. Elizabeth's NEW PODCAST - The Divorce Doctor Podcast Susan was recently a guest on The Divorce Doctor Podcast - Check it out! https://drelizabethcohen.com/2021/03/12/susan-guthrie-what-happens-when-a-divorce-lawyer-gets-divorced/ ************************************************************************* ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. AND MUCH MORE - REGISTER NOW! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with the leading high conflict divorce expert in the world, Attorney, Mediator and Therapist, Bill Eddy, who shares tips and insights from his new book, Mediating High Conflict Disputes, which flips the long held belief that you have to litigate these cases on it's head! For years it has been the industry belief that divorces involving one or more high conflict people cannot be mediated and that litigation is the only way forward. In fact, Bill Eddy, the world's leading expert on high conflict divorce, thought this was true himself but after 40 years as a therapist, attorney and mediator he now knows better. Bill has determined that high conflict divorces CAN be mediated moreover, they SHOULD be mediated rather than litigated. In his latest book, Mediating High Conflict Disputes, Bill sets out his revolutionary methods for mediating with high conflict parties in a book that will help both mediation professionals as well as those facing the divorce process. Bill's effective method for mediating high conflict disputes involves flipping some long-standing mediation norms upside down but his methods work and are a lifeline for those who want to end the ongoing conflict cycle of a high conflict litigated divorce. This episode will change the way you approach high conflict divorce forever! Be sure to listen today! Get your copy of "Mediating High Conflict Disputes" here: https://amzn.to/3gF4nPF More about this week's very special guest: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Co-Founder | Chief Innovation Officer San Diego, California Bill Eddy is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, and Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries. Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books! https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/ Listen to Bill's other episode, "Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Co-Parent" on Divorce & Beyond here: https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-q3hpd-f87a79 ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** CHECK OUT THE NEW RESOURCE PAGE ON THE WEBSITE WITH DIVORCE & BEYOND RECOMMENDED READING! Remember, knowledge is power and we have the books that will help educate you and support you in all areas of divorce including finance, parenting, healing, conflict resolution and MORE! Check it out now on the website: www.divorceandbeyondpod.com/beyond-reading *************************************** JOIN US IN THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. AND MUCH MORE - REGISTER NOW! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the sho

In this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with Storey Jones, Founder of dtour.life, an innovative and easy to use platform that helps you tame the chaos and overwhelm of the life detour called divorce! Storey Jones went through her own 7-year divorce ordeal several years ago and she came out of it with one certainty and that was that "no one should have to go through what she went through in her divorce!" Storey has spent the years in between examining the obstacles that she faced and focused on creating a technology solution to address each one and so, dtour.life was born. In this episode, Storey walks us through those divorce obstacles and how you can tackle them! To Receive the Special Offer on a dtour.life subscription for listeners, sign up for your membership here: dtour.life and use code "SUSAN20" for 20% OFF! More information about this week's Special Guest, Storey Jones: Been there. Done that. Survived and thrived. In 1998 Storey Jones married a technology entrepreneur. By 2001 his company had executed a successful IPO and then an accounting scandal brought everything crashing down leaving her in a highly complex seven-year legal quagmire that included every unimaginable financial and emotional challenge including a protracted high-conflict divorce and custody battle. Though she lost everything including her home, possessions, savings & retirement, she gained a purpose. She recognized the glaring chasm between the human experience of divorce and the legal system; she developed a new business model as a divorce consultant to assist men and women in becoming far more informed, prepared and supported as they navigate their own unique processes. She also worked closely with divorce legal teams to help their clients be better prepared participants in their own divorce. After well over a decade as a divorce consultant in the San Francisco Bay area, Storey has now leveraged that experience to build the first holistic end-to-end platform for divorce to bring innovation and technology to an outdated system. She is determined to change the experience by providing education and smart efficiency with expansive day-to-day tools that are designed so both clients and professionals can seamlessly work on and understand the same financial and other case-related data. dtour.life is designed from the ground up to fundamentally redefine this life transition for both spouses and professionals. Prior to founding Lemon Tree Advisors and dtour.life, Storey was president of Addis, a bay area brand strategy and design firm where for 13 years she was integral to its growth and vision. Storey has a B.A. from Colgate University. Follow dtour.life on Instagram: @dtourlife ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you

In Part Two of this Special Two Part Episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of the soon to be released (June 10th) book, Available: A Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends which will make you laugh and make you cry and most importantly, will give you hope! Laura Friedman Williams truly thought she had the perfect marriage of 27 years. The perfect family and the perfect life and then one night, by the glow of the light from her husband's cell phone, it all came crashing down as she faced the truth that her husband was in love with someone else. Suddenly she faced a life that included a future that was unknown but also a rewriting of her own history of the marriage she thought she had versus the marriage she now faced. Laura set out to redefine her life, explore her sexuality and found herself along the way and she shares it all, and I do mean all, with us in her first novel, Available, launching June 10, 2021. In Part One, Laura and Susan delve into some of the deeper topics of the betrayal and pain of an unepected divorce but here in Part Two we get to the "fun stuff" and Laura shares some of the lighter and sexier moments along the way. You definitely don't want to miss this so listen today! WANT TO WIN A .pdf copy of the book? Just go to Instagram, follow @divorceandbeyond and @laurafriedmanwilliams and repost or share any post about the episode tagging those accounts. More information about This week's Special Guest, Laura Friedman Williams: Laura Friedman Williamsis a native New Yorker whose writing credits consist of countless PTA newsletters and program notes for talent shows and school auctions, as well as ghostwritten bar mitzvah speeches for many of her friends. Her wit and wisdom have not yet made it to a larger audience, but her years spent raising children and running events at her children’s schools have kept her writing steady and sharp. She credits her degree in English from Washington University and the ten formative years she spent in book publishing – first in Subsidiary Rights at Warner Books (now Grand Central Publishing) and then at Henry Holt & Company, then as a book scout and finally as a literary agent – for giving her a deep love and respect for the written word. She credits the break-up of her marriage for finally giving her the subject matter about which she both needed and wanted to write. She lives in downtown Manhattan with her three children. GET THE BOOK here: https://amzn.to/34R5qVN Follow Laura on social media: Twitter: @LauraFWinNYC Insta: LauraFriedmanWilliams FB: LauraFriedmanWilliams ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & B

In Part One of this Special Two Part Episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of the soon to be released (June 10th) book, Available: A Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends which will make you laugh and make you cry and most importantly, will give you hope! Laura Friedman Williams truly thought she had the perfect marriage of 27 years. The perfect family and the perfect life and then one night, by the glow of the light from her husband's cell phone, it all came crashing down as she faced the truth that her husband was in love with someone else. Suddenly she faced a life that included a future that was unknown but also a rewriting of her own history of the marriage she thought she had versus the marriage she now faced. Laura set out to redefine her life, explore her sexuality and found herself along the way and she shares it all, and I do mean all, with us in her first novel, Available, launching June 10, 2021. Think Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big divorcing after almost three decades and three kids and be prepared to laugh, cry and feel inspired. This is THAT book. In fact, it's so great, we are making this a Special Two-Part episode with Part Two launching on Thurday, June 10th the day the book launches! At one point Laura asks, "is this too much?" and you will anwer, "No, it's just enough! WANT TO WIN A .pdf copy of the book before it comes out? Just go to Instagram, follow @divorceandbeyond and @laurafriedmanwilliams and repost or share any post about the episode tagging those accounts. Winner to be announced on Wednesday, June 9, 2021! More information about This week's Special Guest, Laura Friedman Williams: Laura Friedman Williamsis a native New Yorker whose writing credits consist of countless PTA newsletters and program notes for talent shows and school auctions, as well as ghostwritten bar mitzvah speeches for many of her friends. Her wit and wisdom have not yet made it to a larger audience, but her years spent raising children and running events at her children’s schools have kept her writing steady and sharp. She credits her degree in English from Washington University and the ten formative years she spent in book publishing – first in Subsidiary Rights at Warner Books (now Grand Central Publishing) and then at Henry Holt & Company, then as a book scout and finally as a literary agent – for giving her a deep love and respect for the written word. She credits the break-up of her marriage for finally giving her the subject matter about which she both needed and wanted to write. She lives in downtown Manhattan with her three children. GET THE BOOK here: https://amzn.to/34R5qVN Follow Laura on social media: Twitter: @LauraFWinNYC Insta: LauraFriedmanWilliams FB: LauraFriedmanWilliams ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram

In this episode Susan Guthrie speaks with new friend, Andrea Hipps, a Certified Divorce Coach and Author, about her innovative and truly effective approach to moving through the pain of your divorce in order to find your future and to create a healthy two address home for your children. There are few experiences in life that can involve more pain than divorce and many people have great difficulty in moving past that pain, and some never do. Andrea Hipps understands that pain. She experienced it herself years ago when she divorced and and found a way to face that pain and work with it based upon a questions a friend asked her. That question started out with "What would it be like . . ." and although Andrea's initial reaction when the friend asked her was 'Hell no!', she eventually came to see that that "what if" held the key to breaking the cycle of pain and creating a new and wonderful future. If you can't imagine how you are going to co-parent with your ex, this episode is truly a must for you because embedded in the question you must ask yourself, is the key to creating an asset based future for your reconstructed family. A future where your children can thrive in what Andrea calls a "two address home." In this episode you will hear: What the key to breaking your life open is. How her Husband's "Proclamation of Disconnection" led to Andrea's own inward journey. What an Asset Based Approach to the future looks like and how it benefits you and YOUR KIDS! Why mediators start your process with a discussion of what you want for your children (insider secret from Susan) How finding some genuine "yesses" about your ex will help you create that "two address home" and MUCH MORE! More information about This week's Special Guest, Andrea Hipps: Andrea Hipps, LBSW is a Certified Divorce Coach® who helps parents all along the divorce continuum resolve their divorce debris and create beautiful two-address families for their kids. She's the author of the internationally bestselling book “The Best Worst Time of Your Life: Four Practices to Get You Through the Pain of Divorce” which outlines the four practices you need to create wholeness and healing for you and your kids before, during, and after divorce. As a regular contributor to our nation’s divorce recovery conversation, she's been featured on NBC, ABC, FOX and the CW discussing how we can do divorce better for the sake of ourselves and our families. Her website is: https://www.andreahippsdivorcecoach.com/ where you can purchase her book, “The Best Worst Time of Your Life: Four Practices to Get You Through the Pain of Divorce” for only $10 inclusive of shipping, by mentioning "BEYOND" Follow Andrea on Instagram for great tips, advice and MORE! https://www.instagram.com/andreahippsdivorcecoach/ ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit

In this episode Susan Guthrie sits down for Part Two of a special two-part episode with friend and fellow divorce attorney/mediator, Kimberly Cook, one of the top divorce professionals in Chicago, who shares what you need to know in order to have a successful divorce mediation process! Divorce mediation truly is a better way to move through the divorce process for many couples but that doesn't mean that it is easy or that you don't have to do any work. In fact, there are several ways that you can maximize the potential of a postive divorce mediation experience and leading mediator and attorney, Kimberly Cook breaks it down into her Top Do's and Don'ts based on what she knows will help you to get through the process and reach an agreement that will last. In fact, she had so many incredible tips that we had to make it a special two-part episode to fit them all in! Part One debuted on Monday so if you haven't listened yet, be sure to do so. We don't want you to miss a thing! More information about This week's Special Guest, Kimberly Cook Kimberly A. Cook is the founder and principal mediator of Dovetail Conflict Resolution. For almost two decades, Kimberly maintained a distinguished legal career as an esteemed litigator at one of the country’s premier divorce and family law firms representing high profile clients. She is known for guiding her clients through complex family law matters including prenuptial agreements, divorce, parenting matters, property allocation, child and spousal support. As a mediator, Kimberly approaches every case with consideration of the unique circumstances which give rise to disputes and provides guidance to help individuals navigate through an issue while giving them the resolution tools to move forward. Kimberly earned her B.A. from Spelman College and her law degree from The Catholic University of America. In addition to her work as a mediator, she shares her legal experience with the community as a speaker, mentor, and as the host of her podcast, GrownGirl Divorce. Her website is www.dovetailcr.com Follow Kim on Instagram for great tips: https://www.instagram.com/dovetailresolution https://www.instagram.com/growngirldivorce/ Contact Kim at: [email protected] ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

In this episode Susan Guthrie sits down for a special two-part episode with friend and fellow divorce attorney/mediator, Kimberly Cook, one of the top divorce professionals in Chicago, who shares what you need to know in order to have a successful divorce mediation process! Divorce mediation truly is a better way to move through the divorce process for many couples but that doesn't mean that it is easy or that you don't have to do any work. In fact, there are several ways that you can maximize the potential of a postive divorce mediation experience and leading mediator and attorney, Kimberly Cook breaks it down into her Top Do's and Don'ts based on what she knows will help you to get through the process and reach an agreement that will last. In fact, she had so many incredible tips that we had to make it a special two-part episode to fit them all in! Part Two will air on Thursday morning so you don't have to wait a week to get all of your Do's and Don'ts for a Successful Mediation. More information about This week's Special Guest, Kimberly Cook Kimberly A. Cook is the founder and principal mediator of Dovetail Conflict Resolution. For almost two decades, Kimberly maintained a distinguished legal career as an esteemed litigator at one of the country’s premier divorce and family law firms representing high profile clients. She is known for guiding her clients through complex family law matters including prenuptial agreements, divorce, parenting matters, property allocation, child and spousal support. As a mediator, Kimberly approaches every case with consideration of the unique circumstances which give rise to disputes and provides guidance to help individuals navigate through an issue while giving them the resolution tools to move forward. Kimberly earned her B.A. from Spelman College and her law degree from The Catholic University of America. In addition to her work as a mediator, she shares her legal experience with the community as a speaker, mentor, and as the host of her podcast, GrownGirl Divorce. Her website is www.dovetailcr.com Follow Kim on Instagram for great tips: https://www.instagram.com/dovetailresolution https://www.instagram.com/growngirldivorce/ Contact Kim at: [email protected] ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

In this episode Susan Guthrie talks with Lili Vasileff, one of the Leading Divorce Financial Professionals in the Country and author of three books on the subject, about the reinvigorated topic of Grey Divorce, as highlighted by the recent spate of high profile billionaire divorces. The fact is, they can afford to get divorced, but for those of more modest means, Lili points out the many financial pitfalls, and strategies to avoid or minimize them, for those divorcing later in life! The news has been full of reports about some high profile, ultra high net worth divorces in recent months, most recently that of Bill and Melinda Gates who have been married for 27 years. In fact, the later years or "grey divorce" is the most common age group getting divorced these days! According to the most recent data from the U.S. Census Bureau, divorce rates were highest (about 43%) among both sexes, aged 55 to 64. This is more than just an interesting little tidbit of information if you are in this demographic and getting divorced as the finanancial ramifications of getting divorced when you are older can have serious and long-lasting effects and mistakes made during the divorce process can be catastrophic. As Lili and Susan say, "In divorce, there are no do-overs!" The key take-aways are: get professional help if you can, educate yourself and take charge of your own financial destiny. Lili is passionate about financial literacy and this episode will help you to see why - be sure to listen! More information about This week's Special Guest, Lili Vasileff: Lili A. Vasileff is a fee only Certified Financial Planner (CFP®), Master Analyst in Financial Forensics (MAFF™) specializing in Matrimonial Litigation, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®), and President of Wealth Protection Management based in Greenwich, CT. She is a trained mediator, collaborative financial specialist, and qualified litigation expert. She trains divorce professionals in the Collaborative process and presents on financial topics regularly at the New York City Bar Association. She is a nationally recognized expert practitioner, speaker, writer, and author of three books: “Money & Divorce: The Essential Roadmap to Mastering Financial Decisions” published by the American Bar Association; and “The Ultimate Divorce Organizer, The Complete Interactive Guide to Achieving the Best Legal, Financial and Personal Divorce”, and “The Divorce Planner Checklist”. Lili is the co-president of the national Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP). Her awards include the prestigious 2013 Pioneering Award for outstanding public advocacy and leadership in the field of divorce financial planning, the Women’s Choice Award as a highly recommended Financial Advisor by Women for Women; CEO Today 2018 Business Woman of the Year Award; Five Star Wealth Manager Award for last 12 years, the Best Wealth Protection Manager 2019 - Northeast USA and Recognized Leader in Divorce Finance 2019 by Wealth & Money Management, and Marquis Who’s Who Albert Nelson Lifetime Achievement Award. Her website is www.wealthprotectionmanagement.com. Follow Lili on Instagram for great tips: https://www.instagram.com/moneyanddivorce Contact Lili: T: 203-622-4911 E: [email protected] ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! *********************************************************

In this episode Susan Guthrie talks with Professional Organizer and Founder of Divorce Rx, Michelle Sarao, about how the truly transformative power of getting your life organized can transform the divorce experience for both you, and more importantly, for your kids! Michelle Sarao has years of experience as an educator and a professional organizer, but her own divorce helped her to see how the process of organizing your life, from environment to logistics, can magically take the overwhelm of divorce and turn it into peace and order for both you and your children! We understand that it is all coming at you fast and furious during divorce, and Michelle realized that it can feel just like one more thing to do when we talk about getting organized, but she breaks it down, and is available to help, so you don't have to do it all alone or at one time. This episode is chock full of tips, pointers and ideas for getting your act together during divorce, that I promise you have not thought of, so do it for your kids, and take a listen to this episode! More information about This week's Special Guest, Michelle Sarao and Divorce Rx: Michelle Sarao is the founder of Divorce Rx, a unique brand of professional organizing that focuses on the needs of divorcing and divorced families. She combines her professional background as an educator and organizer with her personal background as a child of divorce and divorced mother of 3 to help families organize their homes and lives when transitioning from one home to two. Michelle passionately believes that when children are in an environment that is organized and calm this translates into a feeling of predictability and safety at a time when they need it most. Her passion for her work stems from the desire to help parents show up for themselves and their children during divorce, in a way that makes them proud. First and foremost, Michelle believes in the importance of meeting her clients where they are, listening to their pain points and finding out what is keeping them up at night. She then works with them to create solid action plans to move them forward in a gentle and consistent way. There are several ways that Michelle works with families to ensure that the transition is as seamless as possible. Her signature program - The Divorce Toolkit is an 8 week virtual program focusing on 4 main categories every 2 weeks - the physical space, academics, health and social lives. She can also provide the 8 week program in 2 concentrated half days for those who are in a time-sensitive situation or just prefer everything upfront. In addition, Michelle offers a Power Hour to target one main issue and provide actionable steps to take and listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast can sign up for a 1/2 price Power Hour just by mentioning the show! Follow Michelle and Divorce Rx on Instagram for great tips: https://www.instagram.com/divorce_rx ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthr

On this week's episode of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie gets together with friend and colleague, Top Attorney, Mediator and Best-Selling Author, Gabrielle Hartley, to get her top tips for getting your divorce moving and DONE! It’s hard enough to go through a divorce but that difficulty is compounded when your divorce drags on and on. Why is it taking so long? This is a common lament from those stuck in the never-ending limbo of their divorce. Susan is joined by Gabrielle Hartley, known in the divorce world as “The Closer,” who helps couples get through their divorce in a speedy fashion with her “Blitz Mediation Method!” Gabrielle shares her top tips to held you identify what is holding you back from the finish line, and how you can move that needle forward to BE DONE! She even shares the one magic word that can get you past impasse when your spouse is being unreasonable. This is THE EPISODE for you if you want to know “why your divorce is taking so long?!” More information about Gabrielle: Gabrielle Hartley, Esq., is a leading online mediator and family law attorney known for keeping 99% of her cases at the settlement table. She is the author of Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate which received a glowing recommendation from Gwyneth Paltrow and People Magazine. Before opening her full-service online mediation and professional training center, Gabrielle clerked in matrimonial court in NYC where she resolved HUNDREDS of high conflict divorces. She is a sought-after expert in the positive divorce space in media outlets such as The New York Times, The New York Post, U.S. News and World Report, has been interviewed on dozens of podcasts and is a regular guest on NBC Mass Appeal. Gabrielle serves on many committees within the ABA Dispute Resolution Section including serving as Vice Chair of Membership Marketing, co-chair of the ABA Mediation Access to Justice Week 2020, and co-chair of the DR Just Resolutions Mediation Edition. She is also on the Western MA Mediation and Collaborative Dispute Resolution Steering Committee. Gabrielle trains divorce professionals in the Better Apart Method Online. In addition to offering training for professionals, she maintains a private mediation practice and is of counsel to Lisa Zeiderman's law firm in Westchester and NYC. *** For Divorce Professionals who would like to uplevel their practice and take Gabrielle's training, contact her at [email protected] and mention "Divorce & Beyond" to receive 10% off the cost! *** You can find out more about Gabrielle on her website at www.gabriellehartley.com. Follow Gabrielle on Instagram @gabriellehartleyesq and be sure to check out her Better Apart Blog at www.gabriellehartley.com/betterapartblog ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** ********************************************* THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! DTOUR.LIFE dtour.life is an easy to navigate system that finally brings much needed technology to an inefficient system. Spouses and family law professionals can now collect the endless data, manage the piles of documents, explore various settlements, detail budgets and most importantly, collaborate with the entire team with a single click. And we built this from the ground up with industry best practices and the most advanced security and encryption technology available. Be sure to check it out today! SPECIAL OFFER: Sign up for the FREE TRIAL here: https://www.dtour.life/sign-up and then use special code "SUSAN20" to receive 20% off the cost of a subscription! FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan

On this week's episode of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie speaks with Coach and Author, Paulette Gloria Rigo, Founder of the Better Divorce Academy and Co-Host of the Thriving Through Chaos Project Podcast about her brand new book and program, The Better Divorce Blueprint. Divorce feels like such an overwhelm as you try to navigate the unfamiliar process, the emotional upheaval and all the massive practical changes that come at you and your family throughout. Paulette Gloria Rigo, mediator, coach, speaker, host and author, knows these feelings all too well as she is the survivor of a monumental divorce that took over 8 1/2 years to finalize. In fact, her own journey, along with all the mistakes that she admits were made, is central to her passion for helping people to find a better path through the experience. To that end, she has created her newly launched Better Divorce Blueprint. If you have ever built a house or other structure, you know just how central to the process the blueprints are and Paulette's Better Divorce Blueprint will provide the same structure for you while you separate and move through the legal process. She shares some of her top tips from the Blueprint to get you started in this episode so be sure to listen! More information about Paulette: PAULETTE RIGO is a Credentialed Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach, Trauma-Informed Recovery Coach, Career Transition Specialist, Book Writing Coach, Speaker, Host and Author. Her new soon to release "Better Divorce Blueprint" the Book, Planner, Course and No Matter What card deck, Thriving in Chaos Project Podcast, Best Life Ever Private Island Retreats and Better Divorce Academy are tools she created and utilizes to help her clients create an optimal divorce experience and the new life chapter they deserve and desire. It is Paulette’s personal 8.5 year litigated and appellant experience and expertise that makes her so skilled in allowing her clients to stay in control, stay out of court (if possible) maintain their dignity, create the right team of professionals from the early stage of contemplation to the necessary final steps of healing using practical tools, inspiration and a proven wellness model. You can find out more about Paulette and her many projects on her website at www.betterdivorceacademy.com. Follow Paulette on Instagram @betterdivorceacademy and be sure to join her with Ilyssa Panitz on Wednesday and Sunday nights on Clubhouse for "All Things Divorce!" ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** ********************************************* THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! DTOUR.LIFE dtour.life is an easy to navigate system that finally brings much needed technology to an inefficient system. Spouses and family law professionals can now collect the endless data, manage the piles of documents, explore various settlements, detail budgets and most importantly, collaborate with the entire team with a single click. And we built this from the ground up with industry best practices and the most advanced security and encryption technology available. Be sure to check it out today! SPECIAL OFFER: Sign up for the FREE TRIAL here: https://www.dtour.life/sign-up and then use special code "SUSAN20" to receive 20% off the cost of a subscription! FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook Susan on Instagram Susan on Twitter Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter If you want to see the video version o

In this very special episode marking the launch of her book, Light on the Other Side of Divorce, Susan Guthrie speaks with author, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and discusses the story behind the story of the book and the how-to's for the essential journey to healing after divorce. After years of experience and insights gained in helping her clients through recovery after divorce, clinical psychologist, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, aptly named "The Divorce Doctor," now combines that expertise with her own personal journey through divorce, to create the guide she wished for during her own experience. Light on the Other Side of Divorce: Discovering the New You, provides you with all the tools that you need to heal and recover so that you can find the joy in your new life and future. In Light on the Other Side of Divorce, you will learn about: Tools for handling self-defeating thoughts and stopping self-doubt State-of the art therapeutic approaches to managing fear, overwhelm, and deprivation Active strategies to make lasting positive changes and see result Based upon Dr. Elizabeth's popular Afterglow Program, the books makes her proven methods for healing accessible to all. Listen to the episode to hear more about the book and about Elizabeth and Susan's own journeys to finding the Light on the Other Side of Divorce! Dr. Elizabeth will be joining Susan again for more episodes soon so here is your opportunity to ask her anything! Send an email to [email protected] and take advantage of your opportunity to ASK "THE DIVORCE DOCTOR" ANYTHING! To Listen to Episode #135 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Divorce Doctor is in the House: Dealing with the Emotions of Divorce" just click here: Episode #135 (THE #1 EPISODE ON DIVORCE & BEYOND EVER!) To listen to Episode #141 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Perfect Storm: What You Need to Know About Anxiety, Depression, Divorce and COVID," just click here: Episode #141 To listen to Episode 147 with Dr. Elizabeth, "TOXIC MASCULINITY: The Untold Cost For Men AND Women," just click here: Episode #147 To listen to Episode #151 with Dr. Elizabeth, "How to Survive the Holidays" just click here: Episode #151 To listen to Episode #161 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The End of Kim & Kanye: The Devastating Effect of Mental Health Struggles on Relationships" just click here: Episode #161 To listen to Episode #169 with Dr. Elizabeth, "One Year of Covid: Dealing with Difficult Anniversaries" just click here: Episode #169 ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14 week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents and adults. Contact Dr. Elizabeth: Website drelizabethcohen.com Social Media Handles @thedivorcedoctor - Instagram The Divorce Doctor- Facebook Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/ BOOK AVAILABLE ON APRIL 20! Order Dr. Elizabeth's upcoming book, "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce" on AMAZON GET THE BOOK! ***Order Dr. Elizabeth's upcoming book, "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON ********************************************************************** Dr. Elizabeth's NEW PODCAST - The Divorce Doctor Podcast Susan was recently a guest on The Divorce Doctor Podcast - Check it out! https://drelizabethcohen.com/2021/03/12/susan-guthrie-what-happens-when-a-divorce-lawyer-gets-divorced/ ************************************************************************* Join us for Doing Divorce Differently on April 21st! You can find more information and RECEIVE A SPECIAL 10% DISCOUNT for listeners of Divorce & Beyond by clicking here: https://hopin.com/events/doing-divorce-differently-seminar?code=9GTHTPaAO73XCoS8GlAvGgwJf Videos will be avaiable for purchase after the event at www.doingdivorcedifferently.com ******************************************************************************** Join Dr. Elizabeth and Susan for the virtual book event at Shakespeare & Co. in NYC on Thursday, April 22, 2021 at 6:30 pm ET. You can access tickets here: https://shop.shakeandco.com/light-other-side-divorce-dr-elizabeth-cohen ********************** ABOUT OUR HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and informa

In this episode Susan Guthrie chats with CEO and Entrepreneur Hilary DeCesare, Founder of The ReLaunch Co., who shares her proven formula for relaunching your life after divorce (or any setback)! Hilary DeCesare has been through her own difficult divorce, health scares, sudden family losses, cross-country moves and more and has managed to successfully relaunch her life, her career, her health and more time and again and she is here to help you do the same. Hilary is one-of the most sought-after speakers at conferences nationwide and she works with top executives and others to help them transform their lives and careers and will help you do the same with her proven ReLaunch Method! The secret is in moving from Blame to Shame to Owning the Game and by the end of the episode you will be ready for your fabulous RELAUNCH! In this episode you will learn: Why Hilary believes it is important to Fail Upwards rather than Forward; How the Three "H's" are critical as you move through the process to relaunch; What the one key is to sucessfully relaunch; The meaning behind BUGS and how to Blast them; and MUCH MORE! If you are tired and feeling lost, overwhelmed and STUCK after your divorce or other difficult life transition, this is it - It's GO TIME! Listen now! More information about This week's Special Guest, Hilary DeCesare: Hilary DeCesare is an award-winning entrepreneur, Transformational Coach, CEO of The ReLaunch Co., featured speaker in the Silicon Valley and conferences nationwide, as well as a relentless philanthropist. She's made it her commitment to help women fire up possibilities mid-life, taking a time most try to bypass and instead turn it into a time to focus on inspiring business ventures, have clarity in relationships, and instill how YOU are ultimately the creator of your purpose aligned lifestyle and the life you live. Having faced several setbacks herself, she has a unique foundational process in The ReLaunch Effect and The Make Money Method, which provides the step by step to go from stuck on autopilot to transform into a powerhouse of possibility in every area of your life. Get more information on Hilary's MasterClass at: https://www.therelaunchco.com Follow Hilary and The ReLaunch Co. on Social: https://www.instagram.com/therelaunchco/ https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo https://www.facebook.com/groups/232280334811612 https://www.linkedin.com/in/hilarydecesare/ ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you li

In this episode Susan Guthrie talks with divorce journalist, Ilyssa Panitz, author of the insanely popular series of articles in Authority Magazine from Medium.com entitled, "The 5 Things You Need to Know to Survive and Thrive During and After Your Divorce!" Ilyssa has interviewed hundreds of the top divorce professionals in the country and in this episode she shares HER top 5 tips to help YOU! When you are facing divorce so often it feels overwhelming and incredibly scary and we just want someone who has been there and who knows how to help to tell you what to do. This is that episode for you! Ilyssa Panitz, took her twenty years of experience as a celebrity interviewer (wait until you hear a short list of just who she has interviewed in the episode!) and decided to help those facing divorce by interviewing divorce experts and sharing their wisdom with those that need it. Ilyssa knows just what to ask having been there herself and she knows what you need to know. Some highlights from the episode: Find out who was Ilyssa's favorite celebrity interview out of the hundreds that she has done; Learn why a divorce can be the do-over we all need; Discover the healing and empowerment that can come from a new "nest;" Hear how you can use your own reporting skills to manage your divorce; and Be encouraged by Dorothy's journey in the Land of Oz; and MUCH MORE! Ilyssa has done all the research and interviews for you and now you can reqp the benefits. Be sure to listen today! More information about This week's Special Guest: Ilyssa Panitz is a Divorce Journalist/Columnist. Ilyssa writes a daily column on “Authority Magazine” on Medium called, “5 Things You Need to Know How to Survive and Thrive During & After A Divorce.” Ilyssa also serves as the Content/Editorial Producer for The National Association of Divorce Professionals and is the Co-Host of “All Things Divorce” on Clubhouse every Wednesday & Sunday evenings. During the course of her career, Ilyssa has worked at: CNN, MSNBC, 1010 WINS Radio in NY, WCBS-AM, New York-1 News, Westwood One, Star Magazine, Closer Magazine, and Meredith Publishing. Among some of the big news events Ilyssa covered include: The Tony Awards, The MTV Movie Awards, the Television Network Upfronts, the 2012 Summer Olympic Games in London, The September 11th Attacks on America, The NBA Finals and the 1994/1995 Major League Baseball Strike. Ilyssa is best known for producing hundreds of Celebrity “At Home” photo shoots and sitting-down with some of the biggest names in Hollywood for "exclusive" one-on-one interviews. Follow Ilyssa on social media: Instagram: @ilyssapanitz Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ilyssa.panitzlipschultz Twitter: @ilyssapanitz ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @Di

In this episode Susan Guthrie chats with Rachel Graham, whose new TEDx is focused on helpingyou to unlock your lockbox of secrets so that you can live a better life! Not all secrets are bad, but so often they can make us sick - literally! When we are hiding things from those around us or even from ourselves, we can manifest that stress as anxiety, illness, depression and more which can lead to mental health issues, addiction and broken relationships. The devestating effect of what we keep locked away, often brings more misery to our lives, and Rachel Graham knows this all too well as the Founder of Healing Springs Ranch, an in-patient addiction and recovery center. Her experiences with patients as well as the cost of secrets in her own life, led her to create her popular TEDx talk focused on helping you to unlock your lockbox of secrets. Some highlights from the episode: Why secrets often result in physical illness and mental health issues; The intersection of shame and secrets with divorce; How there can be many kinds of infidelity in relationships and how they all stem from secrets; Rachel's own secret that she reveals in her TEDx; How you can release those secrets from your own lockbox; and MUCH MORE! The average person has 13 secrets, 5 of which they have never told to anyone so if you are ready to start letting some of your secret's go, this is the episode for you! WATCH RACHEL'S NEW TEDx HERE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yatDKSHQRJ4 More information about This week's Special Guest: Rachel H. Graham, the CEO and founder of Evolve and Transform is a business entrepreneur, leadership and development coach, and an empowering optimist. Having gone through her own personal journey as a family member of a loved one who struggled with unresolved trauma, mental health, and addiction, she saw the need and opportunity to educate people, business leaders, students, and professionals to remove the stigma around addiction and compulsive behaviors. While encouraging individuals to find their meaning and purpose in life through their skills and individual experiences. As a result of this personal crisis, she co-founded and currently serves in the capacity of CEO for both Healing Springs Ranch, a residential 28-bed treatment facility for addiction, and Life Works Wellness, a start-up wellness digital platform. Much of what she learned in executive development provides a strong foundation for teaching not only addiction recovery but the overall health and wellness of every individual. Get more information at: https://www.healingspringsranch.com and https://www.evolveandtransform.me Follow Rachel on social media: https://www.facebook.com/evolveandtransform/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-graham-62629b1b/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdBBV9PGBBCK_PWELt4CrbA?view_as=subscriber https://www.instagram.com/evolve_and_transform_llc/ ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthriees

In this episode Susan Guthrie chats with Summer Mulder, who co-hosts the Everything Always Podcast with her husband, Mike, with tips and insights for successfully blending your families! In the United States today, there are more step-families or blended families than there are "original" families which means that melding families together is a common experience for the majority these days. That doesn't mean that it is easy and Summer and Mike Mulder have managed to positively bring their two families together and they share their experience on their podcast, Everything Always. Summer joins Susan to discuss what worked for them as they combined their lives, their kids and their homes so that you can find support and help as you do the same! Some highlights from the episode: Why they waited several years before getting married and how that helped their process; What impact age and personality differences between their kids had on their journey; How family meetings were instrumental in helping them work through the bumps along the way; The one practice that put a positive spin on their discussions; and MUCH MORE! If your family is one of the more than 30,000,000 that has children living in step or bonus-families, then this is the episode for you! More information about This week's Special Guest, Summer Mulder, and her podcast, Everything, Always: We're Mike and Summer! We’ve been together for twelve years, married for three of those! We created this community because we know first hand how hard it is to co-parent, step-parent and deal with the many challenges and issues that come up when it comes to blending your family. We get it! We’re here to support you and offer insight and tips on what has worked for us and what hasn’t! Our goal is to help you become more connected with your family because while it ain’t easy, it sure is rewarding. Get more information at: https://www.everythingalways.co/ Follow Everything Always on Instagram: @everythingalwayco ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST AR

In this episode, Susan Guthrie visits again with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, "The Divorce Doctor," to help you deal with the passing of one year since Covid appeared in our world. This anniversary, and so many others, can be distressing in many ways, especially when we are in the throes of a difficult time like divorce. One year ago we were just hearing about this new strain of "flu" that had been discovered and was rapidly spreading with no known cure. Words like "pandemic" and "quarantine" soon became part of the nightly news feed and our dinner table conversation. Then we went into lockdown and the world will never be the same. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen returns to the show to help us to understand the significance of anniversaries and the trauma we may feel as emotions are awakened and memories and loss can flood us. With her usual deeply personal insights, Dr. Elizabeth will help make you aware of the pain and give you actionable tips for managing your feelings. Don't go through the anniversary alone. Dr. Elizabeth will be joining Susan again for more episodes soon so here is your opportunity to ask her anything! Send an email to [email protected] and take advantage of your opportunity to ASK "THE DIVORCE DOCTOR" ANYTHING! To Listen to Episode #135 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Divorce Doctor is in the House: Dealing with the Emotions of Divorce" just click here: Episode #135 (THE #1 EPISODE ON DIVORCE & BEYOND EVER!) To listen to Episode #141 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Perfect Storm: What You Need to Know About Anxiety, Depression, Divorce and COVID," just click here: Episode #141 To listen to Episode 147 with Dr. Elizabeth, "TOXIC MASCULINITY: The Untold Cost For Men AND Women," just click here: Episode #147 To listen to Episode #151 with Dr. Elizabeth, "How to Survive the Holidays" just click here: Episode #151 To listen to Episode #161 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The End of Kim & Kanye: The Devastating Effect of Mental Health Struggles on Relationships" just click here: Episode #161 ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14 week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents and adults. Contact Dr. Elizabeth: Website drelizabethcohen.com Social Media Handles @thedivorcedoctor - Instagram The Divorce Doctor- Facebook Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/ SPECIAL OFFER! ***Pre-Order Dr. Elizabeth's upcoming book, "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON Dr. Elizabeth's NEW PODCAST - The Divorce Doctor Podcast Susan's episode just dropped - be sure to listen! https://drelizabethcohen.com/2021/03/12/susan-guthrie-what-happens-when-a-divorce-lawyer-gets-divorced/ ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see th

In this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with Author, Speaker and Activist, Emma Johnson, the Founder of Wealthy Single Mommy, about the highly charged topic of fully equal shared parenting and why it needs to become the norm in families. There are few topics that raise more emotion among parents than the issue of shared parenting time or 50/50 parenting. When parents separate, they must work out a plan that involves their children being raised in two households and often they find they have very different ideas of what is best for their kids. Enter Emma Johnson, Founder of Wealthy Single Mommy and Moms for Shared Parenting, who is a leading activist in the equal parenting movement who is here to challenge the long-held societal norms that we hold so close. The belief that children are best served when they are mostly with their mother and less with their father is still deeply embedded in many parents hearts and minds as they negotiate their parenting time. Emma recently conducted a Single Mom and Income Survey which mined data from thousands of single mothers and other sources which shows that, among other key take-aways, kids do best when they are with their parents equally and the only way to close the gender pay gap is to have equally shared parenting responsiblity between the genders. This is a fascinating discussion of so many key points that counter the societal norms of parenting, equality and gender roles. This episode is a must listen for everyone, not just parents going through divorce, and Emma Johnson is the voice of change that we all need to hear! More information about this week's Special Guest: Emma Johnson is a journalist, activist, and the creator of WealthySingleMommy.com, the largest single mom community in the world. A divorced mother of two who was herself raised by a single mother, Emma is the author of The Kickass Single Mom (Penguin), which was named by the New York Post as a “Smart, Must-Read.” Emma has been quoted on single motherhood and gender equality in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, NPR, The Doctors and hundreds of other outlets. Emma launched the activist group Moms for Shared Parenting as a call for policy and cultural change to focus on the benefits for children, women, men, feminism and our society when parents share equally in raising children. She has spoken about single motherhood and gender equality at the United Nations and Google. Get the Book: Read the white paper survey: single_mom_income_time_FINAL.pdf - Lumin Pdf See the video: Mom's for Shared Parenting ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SU

In this episode Susan Guthrie partners with friend and colleague, Evan Schein, leading NYC Divorce Litigator, to walk you through everything you need to know about depositions in divorce cases! When you are trying to gather all of the information that you need in a divorce case, one tool in an attorney's toolbox is to take depositions, but what are you facing if your attorney is taking a deposition, or even more importantly, if YOU are being deposed? Top divorce litigator, Evan Schein, treats you like one of his own clients and shares with you all the critical information that you need to be prepared if depositions are going to happen in your case! Some highlights from the episode: The what, where, when and why of depositions in divorce cases; Where depositions fit in the process of discovery; Why you need to do a cost/benefit analysis when deciding to take depositions; How to prepare for your deposition; How depositions can help settle your case; Evan and Susan's Top 3 Tips for depositions; and MUCH MORE! Sometimes you need to ask the questions and get the answers or are facing those questions under oath yourself so don't miss out on this critical episode so you know what you need to know! More information about This week's Special Guest: Evan Schein, Esq. Evan is a New York City-based divorce and family law attorney, partner and the Head of Litigation at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP. During his career, Evan has litigated high-conflict custody cases and high-net worth complex financial matters involving hedge funds, businesses, real estate, sports, entertainment and more. He has helped clients find post-divorce happiness and build successful financial lives, advocated to protect children and fought for the rights of victims of domestic violence. Evan is the host of the podcast, Schein On, where he and his featured guests gives an inside and unfiltered look into the world of marriage, money, divorce and more. Get more information at: https://www.berkbot.com/ Email Evan: [email protected] Follow Evan Schein on Instagram: @evan_schein ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ****************************************************

In this special two-part episode Susan Guthrie speaks with the Founders of My Divorce Solution, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, who identify the top 5 financial roadblocks in divorce and give you the actionable steps and information that you need to plow right through them to financial success in your case! In Part Two, Catherine and Karen build upon the steps they outlined in Part One, so if you have not yet listened to the first episode, we highly encourage you to do so. You can listen here: To bring the episode home, you will learn: How to identify the many OPTIONS that you have financially in a divorce. The ways you can curate your settlement to help you in your new future. Why knowing all the options is so critical to being able to effectively negotiate. How COMPROMISE is the key to reaching the settlement that works for you! When divorce is on the horizon, the fear around finances often stems from the unknown. This episode is antidote to that fear so be sure to listen to Part One and Part Two today! More information about Karen Chellew, Catherine Shanahan and My Divorce Solution: Catherine Shanahan, CDFA After 25 years in the financial industry, having raised five children and endured her own experience with divorce, Catherine became a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), trained Mediator and Daily Money Manager(PDMM). Catherine is collaboratively trained and was a member of the Bucks County Collaborative Law Group. She is a member of the American Association of Daily Money Managers (AADMM) the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts, and the Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP). Catherine is fully dedicated to helping clients understand and navigate all aspects of divorce including planning a secure financial future post-divorce. Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison For over 30 years, Karen has worked in the legal field as a paralegal and business manager. During her career, she served as an affiliated member of the Pennsylvania Bar Association and President Elect of the ALA (Association of Legal Administrators). Karen now serves clients and the professional team in her role as legal liaison. She is also a certified QDRO Administrator, Founder and President of Sisters U Foundation, and an Auditor of East Rockhill Township. As the mom of three children and one granddaughter, Karen is extremely passionate about helping women in all that she does. My Divorce Solution Through their professional and personal experiences, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan have created a unique and comprehensive process that greets divorce in a whole new way – a way that empowers those who experience this major life transition. Our mission is simple: to help people move through the divorce process with financial clarity and confidence so they can make the rest of their lives the best of their lives. The MDS Financial Portrait™ is a compilation of data and financial records utilizing the family’s key and supporting documentation. The MDS Financial Portrait provides a clear neutral snapshot of the family’s marital and non-marital estate for purposes of determining alimony, child support, and the division of assets and liabilities. This comprehensive Portrait can then be used by divorce professionals as verification of marital/non-marital assets, and the blueprint when considering various scenarios, alternatives and the resulting implications of any financial decisions. Our services, specialties and certifications help individuals and couples develop a transparent and comprehensive financial plan that will optimize the outcome of their divorce. We meet with couples in our virtual office so we can assist you no matter where you live! Get more information at: www.mydivorcesolution.com Follow My Divorce Solution on Instagram: @mydivorcesolution ***GET THE MY DIVORCE SOLUTION DIVORCE U ONLINE PROGRAM*** FREE FOR LISTENERS OF DIVORCE & BEYOND THROUGH MARCH 27, 2021 WITH CODE "DIVORCEANDBEYOND" ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** ********************************************* THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! 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In this special two-part episode Susan Guthrie speaks with the Founders of My Divorce Solution, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, who identify the top 5 financial roadblocks in divorce and give you the actionable steps and information that you need to plow right through them to financial success in your case! In Part One you will learn: Why ACCESS is the initial difficulty that you may face and why it is so critical. Where you can get financial documents if you can't get them from your spouse. How to break down the COMPONENTS of your finances so that everything is clear. The different INTERPRETATIONS that can impact financial information and who can help you. How these roadblocks might impact a 401(K) as an example to make things clear. AND much more CRITICAL information that you need to know! When divorce is on the horizon, the fear around finances often stems from the unknown. This episode is antidote to that fear so be sure to listen to Part One today and tune in on Thursday for Part Two! More information about Karen Chellew, Catherine Shanahan and My Divorce Solution: Catherine Shanahan, CDFA After 25 years in the financial industry, having raised five children and endured her own experience with divorce, Catherine became a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), trained Mediator and Daily Money Manager(PDMM). Catherine is collaboratively trained and was a member of the Bucks County Collaborative Law Group. She is a member of the American Association of Daily Money Managers (AADMM) the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts, and the Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP). Catherine is fully dedicated to helping clients understand and navigate all aspects of divorce including planning a secure financial future post-divorce. Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison For over 30 years, Karen has worked in the legal field as a paralegal and business manager. During her career, she served as an affiliated member of the Pennsylvania Bar Association and President Elect of the ALA (Association of Legal Administrators). Karen now serves clients and the professional team in her role as legal liaison. She is also a certified QDRO Administrator, Founder and President of Sisters U Foundation, and an Auditor of East Rockhill Township. As the mom of three children and one granddaughter, Karen is extremely passionate about helping women in all that she does. My Divorce Solution Through their professional and personal experiences, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan have created a unique and comprehensive process that greets divorce in a whole new way – a way that empowers those who experience this major life transition. Our mission is simple: to help people move through the divorce process with financial clarity and confidence so they can make the rest of their lives the best of their lives. The MDS Financial Portrait™ is a compilation of data and financial records utilizing the family’s key and supporting documentation. The MDS Financial Portrait provides a clear neutral snapshot of the family’s marital and non-marital estate for purposes of determining alimony, child support, and the division of assets and liabilities. This comprehensive Portrait can then be used by divorce professionals as verification of marital/non-marital assets, and the blueprint when considering various scenarios, alternatives and the resulting implications of any financial decisions. Our services, specialties and certifications help individuals and couples develop a transparent and comprehensive financial plan that will optimize the outcome of their divorce. We meet with couples in our virtual office so we can assist you no matter where you live! Get more information at: www.mydivorcesolution.com Follow My Divorce Solution on Instagram: @mydivorcesolution ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR! 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In this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with podcast host, coach and author, Karen Millon, about the universal human experience of trauma, both large and small, and the need to heal so we can live our best lives. "Trauma is one of the biggest equalizers" says Karen Millon, this week's guest on the podcast. Everyone, no matter how blessed they are, suffers from traumas in life. There are small "t" traumas and Large "T" traumas, but they all add up and they all require healing in order for us to lead happy and healthy lives. It probably comes as no surprise that divorce qualifies as a Large "T" trauma and couple that with the other traumas encountered in any well-lived life, it becomes imperative to find help to heal. That's where Karen steps in as an expert in the variety of healing modalities available to us. As a Healing Coach she can help you on your healing journey and where additional expert help is needed, Karen can help match you with the right modality and provider. In this episode Karen walks you through: How much of our trauma starts in childhood, no matter how "perfect" that childhood was. The reality of trauma responses and how they manifest in our lives. What the first key step is in healing. Different healing therapies such as EMDR, somatic experiencing and more. Why you have to go back to a trauma to break free from it. How her journey to healing, and that of her first husband, helped them to have "An Amazing Divorce" which led to her new book. It truly is never to early to start healing so tune in to this episode today and start your journey! ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Karen Millon is a Colombian-born and Canadian-raised entrepreneur and personal development advocate. Ms. Millon holds a degree in Business Administration from the University of Western Ontario. And while business is her professional venue, her passion is healing and wellness. Healing was the cornerstone of her Amazing Divorce, a book that she wrote and is coming out in the fall of 2020 so when Millon realized that the subject of healing in general wasn’t garnering as much national discussion as other, more niche forms of trauma and recovery, she funneled her business skills into a high-level media platform devoted to the subject of recovering from any and all forms of trauma. Her brand and her business operate as a liaison between healing and trauma experts and the uninitiated. Millon’s HEALIN podcast features weekly dialogues with professional therapists, nutritionists and other well-being professionals. Visit www.healin.net for more information on Karen Millon's Healin. Contact Karen: Website www.healin.net Social Media Handles Instagram @healinwithkaren Listen to Karen's Podcast: Healin GET KAREN'S BOOK! An Amazing Divorce: What You Can Do for Yourself, Each Other and For the Children to Achieve it by Karen Millon ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. Susan is also the Co-Founder, along with legal legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten of the Mosten Guthrie Academy for Mediation and Collaborative Law Training and her Learn to Mediate Online Training(TM) Program has helped more than 17,000 professionals to transition their dispute resolution practice online! ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would lik

In this episode, Susan Guthrie chats with Dr. Anna Cabeca, "The Girlfriend Doctor," who delves into the intricasies of our bodies on stress and how we can best manage it's devastating effects on our physiology so that we can function and feel so much better! You've seen her on The Today Show, Good Morning America and in the pages of People and now she's here on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast to help you get that stress under control! Dr. Anna Cabeca, a/k/a "The Girlfriend Doctor" is a triple board certified doctor, best-selling author and speaker who is , considered a leading expert on integrative and restorative medicine anti-aging, and body-mind-spirit health and wellness. In this episode Dr. Anna shares: The difference between chronic stress and acute stress and why you might be suffering from both right now. The amazing benefits of oxytocin and why we crave it so much. What happens when we are flooded with cortisol, the stress hormone. What happens to our feelings of connection and our ability to reason when our hormones are out of whack. What you can do with food, supplements, wellness and more to bring your body back in balance. AND SO MUCH MORE! Divorce and relationship issues are just a few of the major stressors that we are dealing with today. The Pandemic, the economy, the polarized political climate and so many other factors are constantly flooding us with stress so it's no wonder if you feel burnt out and unable to cope. Dr. Anna is here to help and believe me, you will feel better just from listening to her so tune in now! FOR THE MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY: Dr. Anna stayed on and we created a special video episode for you that is going to help you GET YOUR SEXY BACK! Head on over to the Members Only Page on the website (www.divorceandbeyondpod.com) and check it out! If you are not yet a member, you can sign up on the website for only $10/month and get access to the video and all the other member benefits. Check it out now! ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Dr. Anna Cabeca is a triple-board-certified OB-GYN who helps women take charge of their health and wellness by arming them with the information, insights, products and programs that empower them to live happier, healthier lives. Throughout her decades-long career, Dr. Anna has worked with thousands of women one-on-one to help them understand and improve their health and manage their hormones. She is committed to supporting women so that they can thrive physically, emotionally, sexually and even spiritually as they go through the natural, inevitable and BEAUTIFUL life shift of menopause. Contact Dr. Anna: Website www.dranna.com Social Media Handles @thegirlfrienddoctor - Instagram TheGirlfriend Doctor Show - YouTube GET DOCTOR ANNA'S BOOKS! The Hormone Fix The Keto Green 16 Visit Dr. Anna's Store on Amazon ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. Susan is also the Co-Founder, along with legal legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten of the Mosten Guthrie Academy for Mediation and Collaborative Law Training and her Learn to Mediate Online Training(TM) Program has helped more than 17,000 professionals to transition their dispute resolution practice online! ***************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR!! SOBERLINK: As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. SPECIAL OFFER: For a limited time, get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing [email protected] and mentioning Divorce and Beyond. ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! 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In our first-ever BONUS CROSSOVER EPISODE, Susan Guthrie and Kate Anthony of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast pair up to discuss the thorny issue of alimony. Susan has the legal point of view and Kate has the personal experience as a recipient of spousal support. They combine forces to bring you all the ups, downs and inside story on one of the most difficult issues in any divorce. If you haven't listened to Part 1 of this discussion, be sure to head on over to The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and listen before you dive in to Part 2 here on Divorce & Beyond. You can find Part 1 here: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/everything-you-need-to-know-about-support-with-susan-guthrie-esq--part-1 While you are there, don't forget to check out Kate's archive of amazing epsiodes (you will find a couple of episode with Susan there) and subscribe so you add her to your rotation! You can also check out Kate's hugely popular prior episode: "Is it Time to Say Goodbye or Time to Say Let's Try" here: https://divorceandbeyond.podbean.com/e/is-it-time-tosay-goodbye-ortimeto-say-lets-try-with-thecreator-of-theshould-istayor-shouldi-goprogram-kate-anthony-onthedivorcebeyond-podcastwithsusan/ For Divorce & Beyond MEMBERS ONLY: As we discuss in the episode, Kate will be returning soon for a special LIVE event where you can Ask Kate Anything so let us know what you want to hear from her! [email protected] More on our Special Guest, Kate Anthony: Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son (whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband), their two dogs, and a handful of fish. You can find out more about Kate and her services and programs at www.kateanthony.com where you can also access her FREE "Should You Stay or Should You Go Quiz" for immediate results in your inbox! It's the perfect complement to the information in the episode! Follow Kate on social media: Instagram: @thedivorcesurvivalguide Facebook: @CoachKateAnthony ******************************************************************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.d

In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie visits again with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, "The Divorce Doctor," to discuss many ways that mental health issues can negatively affect our relationships and how that plays out in divorce. For the past several months the tabloid covers at the grocery checkout have been filled with headlines predicting the imminent divorce of "Kimye" a/k/a Kim Kardashian West and Kanye West. These headlines follow on the heels of numerous stories and articles highlighting the many ups and downs of relationship that has seemed to be challenged in the face of Kanye West's struggles with bi-polar disorder. His many highs and lows have played out in the public eye and have highlighted the often swept under rug challenges couples face when one, or both, are dealing with mental health issues. Our favorite psychologist, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen returns with a compassionate but pragmatic discussion of the difficulties that people face when they or a loved one are challenged by mental health issues. In this episode Dr. Elizabeth shares: How additional stressors, such as divorce or relationship issues, can impact mental health. Why treatment is not a sign of weakness. What she means by "we need to honor hope." Why falling in love makes us so vulnerable. How to deal with a partner who may be suicidal. AND SO MUCH MORE! Statistics say that marriages where one of the partners is struggling with mental health issues are 2x more likely to end in divorce and when the mental health issue is a bi-polar dianosis, the couple is 95% more likely to divorce. This is an issue that will affect you or someone you love and it's time to shine a light on these mental health challenges so listen to this episode today! Dr. Elizabeth will be joining Susan again for more episodes soon so here is your opportunity to ask her anything! Send an email to [email protected] and take advantage of your opportunity to ASK "THE DIVORCE DOCTOR" ANYTHING! To Listen to Episode #135 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Divorce Doctor is in the House: Dealing with the Emotions of Divorce" just click here: Episode #135 (THE #1 EPISODE ON DIVORCE & BEYOND EVER!) To listen to Episode #141 with Dr. Elizabeth, "The Perfect Storm: What You Need to Know About Anxiety, Depression, Divorce and COVID," just click here: Episode #141 To listen to Episode 147 with Dr. Elizabeth, "TOXIC MASCULINITY: The Untold Cost For Men AND Women," just click here: Episode #147 To listen to Episode #151 with Dr. Elizabeth, "How to Survive the Holidays" just click here: Episode #151 ************************************************ More Information About This Week's Special Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14 week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents and adults. Contact Dr. Elizabeth: Website drelizabethcohen.com Social Media Handles @thedivorcedoctor - Instagram The Divorce Doctor- Facebook Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/ SPECIAL OFFER! ***Pre-Order Dr. Elizabeth's upcoming book, "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON Dr. Elizabeth's NEW PODCAST - The Divorce Doctor Podcast COMING SOON!!! ********************** SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com. ***************************************************************************** ********************************************* THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY IS LIVE!! Subscribe now for only $10 per month and take your Divorce & Beyond experience BEYOND!! D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including: Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others. SUBSCRIBE HERE! ***************************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected]