The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with Susan Guthrie, Esq.

“We’ve been living like roommates for years.” Does this sound familiar? This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes best-selling author and master relationship coach Sharon Pope! Sharon shares her divorce alternative, which focuses on moving out of relationship limbo to create the 2.0 version of your desired marriage! Sharon Pope is a Relationship Expert, certified Master Life Coach, seven-time #1 international bestselling author, and the host of the podcast The Loving Truth. She is the relationship coach if you struggle in a lonely and disconnected marriage, seeking confidence and clarity to fix your marriage or move forward without regret. You’ll hear: The biggest reason marriages struggle today “Relationships are living, breathing things; we must re-evaluate and evolve as we move through them.” Creating the 2.0 version of your marriage: what exactly is the 2.0 version of your marriage, and why is it an alternative to divorce The most effective relationship tools begin with working on yourself Communication: How can we improve how we communicate with our partners? **************************************** About this week's special guest: Sharon Pope Sharon Pope is a Relationship Expert, certified Master Life Coach, seven-time #1 international bestselling author, and the host of the podcast The Loving Truth. She is the relationship coach for you if you are struggling in a lonely and disconnected marriage, seeking confidence and clarity so you can either fix your marriage or move forward without regret. Through her coaching and programs she has helped hundreds of thousands of women get the confidence and clarity they need to either fix their marriage or move forward without regret. Her bestselling book, Stay or Go: How to Find the Confidence & Clarity You Need to Either Fix the Struggles in Your Marriage or Move Forward without Regret, has sold more than 300,000 copies. Sharon lives in Florida with the loves of her life, her husband, Derrick, and their two pups, Leo and Luna. Sharon’s website: https://sharonpope.com/ Sharon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonpopecoach/ When Marriage Needs An Answer book: https://stayorgobook.com/ **************************************** Resources mentioned in this episode: Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus! Why Audible? Because we know that sometimes, you don’t want a book on display for everyone to see. Whether for privacy or convenience, listening to books, like podcasts, is a great solution. And that's where Audible shines! Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.' Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device! Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free! **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it

On Divorce and Beyond, Susan Guthrie welcomes Fiona Kong, founder of Home Sweet Homes Journal! Explore the transformative power of Home Sweet Homes as Fiona shares her personal story and the innovative features of the journal. In this episode, you’ll also hear how this journal empowers families to navigate through divorce and beyond with grace, resilience, and hope, one shared narrative at a time. Whether you choose to use the journal or not, the power of this simple exercise can transform your child's (and YOUR) experience of divorce and BEYOND! You’ll hear: Fiona shares about Home Sweet Homes Journal and how it provides a seamless channel for co-parents and their children to communicate effectively, fostering understanding and cooperation through times of transition. Engaging in shared activities such as journaling catalyzes the bond between parents and children, fostering trust, and empathy Fiona answers, “Can the journal work when only one co-parent engages in the activity?” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Fiona King Fiona Kong is a single mompreneur who turned adversity into opportunity. Following her separation and job loss in 2019, Founder of Home Sweet Homes Journal during the pandemic to support co-parented children, including her own son. It was through processing her own childhood trauma that Fiona recognized the importance of emotional support for children and created journals containing what she needed as a child. The Home Sweet Homes coparenting journal and All About Me, by Us journal (made for any family dynamics), are fostering healthier future generations by emphasizing emotional intelligence, communication, and parent-child connection. Listeners: Use code "DBPODCAST" to get a free gift with a journal purchase Home Sweet Homes: https://www.homesweethomesjournal.com/products/home-sweet-homes-journal-planner All About Us Journal: https://www.homesweethomesjournal.com/products/all-about-me-by-us-made-for-any-family Fiona on TikTok @homesweethomesjournal **************************************** Resources mentioned in this episode: Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus! Why Audible? Because we know that sometimes, you don’t want a book on display for everyone to see. Whether for privacy or convenience, listening to books, like podcasts, is a great solution. And that's where Audible shines! Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.' Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device! Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free! **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

Karlee Holden joins Susan Guthrie for a deeply personal and insightful discussion of uncovering, exploring, and healing the trauma bonds that shape us. Karlee is a Trauma Practitioner, helping people with their trauma and mental and physical health for twenty years. Karlee explains that healing from trauma is not just talking about your problems; it's unwinding the fight-flight response from the nervous system and the body by developing boundaries. In this episode, Susan and Karlee discuss the importance of establishing boundaries, understanding unhealthy relationships and family patterns, and ultimately unwinding what has been holding us back from being our truest selves. You’ll hear: Why ignoring trauma only perpetuates its effects and leads to more stress. Setting healthy boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. “Healthy boundaries are essential for our mental and emotional well-being." How to cultivate awareness of your emotions and triggers, and practice self-regulation to manage stress and anxiety. "Focus on what you can control. You can't control the external circumstances, but you can control your responses, behaviors, and self-care practices." Seek support. You can seek support from therapists, counselors, or support groups when dealing with trauma and emotional challenges. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Karlee Holden Karlee Holden is the Author of the Can You Please Talk To My...Book Series. She is a Trauma Practitioner, helping people with their trauma and mental and physical health for twenty years. Karlee’s passion is to share what she wishes she had known at the height of her trauma and all she has learned. Karlee’s books: Can you please talk to my trauma: https://amzn.to/4bTp8lc Can you please talk to my girlfriend: https://amzn.to/3Tl6E64 Karlee’s website: https://www.karleeholden.com/ Karlee on Instagram: http://instagram.com/Karlee.holden Karlee on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/karleeholdenpodcast **************************************** Resources mentioned in this episode: Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus! Why Audible? Because we know that sometimes, you don’t want a book on display for everyone to see. Whether for privacy or convenience, listening to books, like podcasts, is a great solution. And that's where Audible shines! Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.' Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device! Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free! **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with

Susan Guthrie welcomes one of the world’s best-known divorce attorneys, Laura Wasser, to Divorce & Beyond! In this episode, Laura shares her insights into the #1 cause of divorce, why prenup conversations matter, how divorce is and needs to evolve, and the future of the process. The conversation is an enlightening one, so don’t miss a moment! Laura Wasser is an LA-based attorney specializing in California Family Law. She attended the University of California, Berkeley, and earned a law degree from Loyola Law School. She has two young sons and resides in Malibu, California. You’ll hear: Laura’s thoughts on the leading cause of divorce “Divorce is the great equalizer.” Critical topics couples should discuss to avoid future disputes A significant part of a divorce attorney's duty is to resolve issues Future of Divorce Proceedings: With Laura’s role at Divorce.com, she shares what she sees as the future of divorce evolving **************************************** About this week's special guest: Laura Wasser Laura Wasser is an LA-based attorney specializing in California Family Law. She attended the University of California, Berkeley, and earned a law degree from Loyola Law School. She has two young sons and resides in Malibu, California. She has been named one of the California Daily Journal’s Top 100 Lawyers and Southern California’s Top 50 Women Attorneys every year for the last 10 years (2012-2022). In June 2008, Laura received the Harriet Buhai Center for Family Law Zephyr M. Ramsey Award. In 2011, she was the recipient of the Century City Chamber of Commerce Women of Achievement Award. In 2013 St. Martin’s Press published and released Laura’s book “It Doesn’t Have to Be That Way: How to Divorce Without Destroying Your Family or Bankrupting Yourself.” Laura received the Brady Center Advocate Award and was honored by A Place Called Home at their 2016 Gala For The Children. In 2019 Laura received the Justice award from the Los Angeles Center for Law and Justice. She has made it her mission to change the face of divorce by serving as the Chief of Divorce Evolution with Divorce.com an online divorce platform which gives divorcing couples an accessible and affordable resource to dissolve their marriage in all 50 states. Laura believes that by simplifying the divorce process online and sharing her vast experience in family law with her audience, couples are empowered to reclaim control over their own destinies. Visit Divorce.com for divorce resources and information. It Doesn’t Have to Be That Way: How to Divorce Without Destroying Your Family or Bankrupting Yourself Laura previously on Divorce and Beyond: A Conversation with Celebrity Divorce Attorney Laura Wasser **************************************** Resources mentioned in this episode: Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus! Why Audible? Because we know that sometimes, you don’t want a book on display for everyone to see. Whether for privacy or convenience, listening to books, like podcasts, is a great solution. And that's where Audible shines! Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.' Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device! Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free! **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently pa

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie has a refreshing conversation about divorce, shedding light on its evolving perception in American culture. With guest April Rubin, a breaking news reporter for Axios, they explore Rubin's insightful article, Divorce in America gets a glow up. Through statistics and anecdotes, they unpack the emerging trend of divorce parties, the normalization of divorce in society, and its positive impact on individuals. Join Susan and April as they celebrate the notion that divorce can be a transformative opportunity rather than a societal stigma, offering hope and inspiration to those navigating post-divorce life. **************************************** About this week's special guest: April Rubin April Rubin is a breaking news and general assignment reporter at Axios. Divorce in America gets a glow up, April Rubin **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HEADSPACE Hello, Divorce & Beyond family! We've teamed up with Headspace to guide you towards better mental health. With Headspace's meditation, mindfulness tools, and mental health support, you're set for a happier, healthier you. Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

In this episode of Divorce and Beyond with host Susan Guthrie, we're joined by the amazing Bela Gandhi, a leading relationship expert. Bela shares essential insights on sustainable, loving relationships as we wind down the peak dating season and approach Valentine's Day. Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating after divorce or seeking to enhance your current relationship, Bela offers invaluable advice and strategies for building lasting relationships. Discovering that perfect match can be akin to finding the lid to your pot. Bela’s insights will illuminate the path forward, empowering you to create meaningful connections and lasting love. Topics and Golden Nuggets: The four horsemen of conflict and how they can be predictive of divorce What makes a relationship have longevity: turning toward each other instead of turning away Self-awareness can help communication between partners: “Understand yourself and your irritants, then be able to acknowledge and communicate those [to your partner] and have coping strategies too.” How to counter predictive outcomes of divorce or a breakup “Lust is nature’s way of tricking you into attachments.” “Think about all the people who truly love you in your life. And know that number one, you are loved. And number two, you are loved by many people. Bathe in that this Valentine's Day.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Bela Gandhi Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert. SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love. Bela is a sought-after correspondent and works with all major networks including Good Morning America, Steve Harvey, NBC, Harry Connick Junior, Kelly Clarkson, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more. Smart Dating Academy: http://www.smartdatingacademy.com Smart Dating Academy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/ **************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Listen to Divorce and Beyond’s Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes of 2023! These episodes have been a beacon of support and guidance for many, and now, you can easily access them, too! Ready to be inspired? Just head over to https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/top-episodes to listen to these transformative episodes. Don't miss out on these empowering discussions!" Researchers who have studied over 40,000 couples can predict divorce with 94% accuracy, largely based on this communication error | Fortune Well **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus! Why Audible? Because we know that sometimes, you don’t want a book on display for everyone to see. Whether for privacy or convenience, listening to books, like podcasts, is a great solution. And that's where Audible shines! Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.' Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device! Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what yo

Susan Guthrie welcomes back favorite parenting expert Christina McGhee to explore the prevalent "Disney Dads and Marvel Moms" paradigm and its impact on co-parenting dynamics. Christina shares valuable insights on overcoming the competitive mindset to prioritize the well-being of children amidst co-parenting challenges. Join Susan Guthrie and Christina McGhee as they delve into the intricacies of co-parenting relationships, providing listeners with valuable tools to transcend competition and cultivate environments conducive to the emotional well-being of children. Topics and Golden Nuggets: Thoughtful advice for unpacking the emotional baggage of co-parenting How co-parenting competition undermines family bonds Real-life examples of co-parenting competition and how it affects children Practical strategies for co-parents caught in the grip of competition Addressing competition and insecurities introduced by co-parent significant others **************************************** About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee Christina McGhee, MSW is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author. While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents have the ability to be a child's absolute best resource when families change. Throughout her career, she has educated both parents and professionals on how to minimize the impact of divorce on children. In her book, PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids, Christina offers parents useful strategies for dealing with the “real-life” everyday challenges of coparenting. One of her core beliefs is that divorce doesn’t make you a bad parent, it makes you a parent going through a bad time. Because she is passionate about helping parents get through that bad time, Christina also maintains an active coaching practice that allows her to work with Moms and Dads all over the world. Most recently, Christina launched an online program, Coparenting with Purpose. Designed to provide moms and dads with an easy, convenient way to access critical information, it’s filled with practical tools and solutions for managing the most common coparenting problems. Additionally, she has contributed to several other media projects as a featured expert, a content consultant, and a writer/producer. Currently, she serves as a consulting producer and subject matter expert for the documentaries SPLIT: A film for kids and their parents and Split UP: The Teen Years, two compelling films that let kids know they’re not alone and normalize the many feelings and experiences children and teens encounter when parents part. Over the years, she has been featured on television, radio, podcasts, and in print around the US and abroad. A few places you may have seen her are TODAY Parents, the BBC, The Times, and Parents Magazine. Married for over twenty-seven years, Christina and her husband live outside of Houston, Texas. As a mom of four (two bonus and two bio) children, she has acquired extensive on-the-job training as a chauffeur, negotiator, short-order cook, scheduler extraordinaire, and finder of all things lost. To find out more, check her out at divorceandchildren.com Co-Parenting Specialist Certification Training Program with Christina McGhee: https://divorceandchildren.com/co-parenting-specialist-training/ Christina’s book Parenting Apart, Christina McGhee Christina on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren Christina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceandchildren/ Christina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinamcghee **************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Listen to Divorce and Beyond’s Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes of 2023! These episodes have been a beacon of support and guidance for many, and now, you can easily access them, too! Ready to be inspired? Just head over to https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/top-episodes to listen to these transformative episodes. Don't miss out on these empowering discussions!" **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus! Why Audible? Because we know that sometimes, you don’t want a book on display for everyone to see. Whether for privacy or convenience, listening to books, like podcasts, is a great solution. And that's where Audible shines! Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.' Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device! Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explo

Navigating the early stages of divorce or contemplating it can be daunting. Financial concerns often loom large, adding to the overwhelm and confusion. Financial Professional Heather Locus joins Divorce & Beyond to address these fears head-on this week. Susan and Heather share invaluable insights on protecting your money and starting your divorce on the right financial footing! Their conversation emphasizes the necessity of proactivity, organization, and knowledge, particularly concerning financial aspects, throughout the divorce process. Topics and Golden Nuggets: Why pausing and considering discernment counseling before contacting an attorney can lead to a faster and less costly divorce. Despite initial fear, learning about finances during divorce can be empowering and manageable. Heather offers a golden nugget by offering advice about setting up a separate email for divorce communication, exploring mortgage options early Understanding changes in tax laws regarding alimony and other tax-saving strategies can optimize financial outcomes Checking credit reports can help you spot outstanding debts or any joint accounts opened without your knowledge. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Heather Locus, CPA, CFP, CDFA Heather founded the National Divorce Practice Group at Corient to help divorcing individuals consciously navigate their divorce’s emotional and business aspects. From hiring the right fit attorney through their SettleSmart™ analysis, then implementing the divorce decree and auditing it annually, Heather ensures you have the resources you need to start your next chapter on a firm footing. Heather founded our Women’s Service Team in 2006 to help female executives and business owners, widows, and women transitioning through divorce. After going through her own divorce in 2011, she realized how much more we could do to support divorcing women and men with a practice dedicated to serving their unique needs. Heather is driven by deep empathy to help divorcing individuals have clarity and confidence in finalizing their divorce. A Forbes “America’s Top Women Advisor,” Heather is a nine-time “Five Star Wealth Manager” according to Chicago magazine, was named an “Influential Women in Business” by The Business Ledger, a “Top 200 Wealth Advisor Mom” by Working Mother, and an InvestmentNews “Woman to Watch.” Heather is an author of two books on divorce and has contributed to leading publications, including The Wall Street Journal, Crain’s Chicago Business, Family Lawyer Magazine, and Divorce Magazine on multiple topics. She is a CPA, CFP® practitioner, and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) professional and has completed intensive executive coaching and divorce mediation training. Heather loves learning from her teenage son and daughter and working with organizations she is passionate about, including After School Matters, The Lilac Tree, Between Friends, and Make-A-Wish Foundation. Contact Heather:l [email protected]. Financial Issues in Divorce: A Client Handbook: Heather's latest book written for the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys. Listen to Heather's prior episode of Divorce & Beyond: 5 Smart Strategies to Save Money in Your Divorce with Leading Divorce Financial Professional, Heather Locus Negotiating Your Financial Future: Key Factors to Consider with Leading Divorce Financial Professional Heather Locus **************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Listen to Divorce and Beyond’s Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes of 2023! These episodes have been a beacon of support and guidance for many, and now, you can easily access them, too! Ready to be inspired? Just head over to https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/top-episodes to listen to these transformative episodes. Don't miss out on these empowering discussions!" **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CRE

This week, Susan is joined by Divorce Coach Kelly Myers, shedding light on the immediate benefits a divorce coach can bring to your journey. In this episode, Kelly and Susan delve into the crucial aspect of 'what now' when divorce is on the horizon. Gain valuable insights on how a divorce coach can clarify and guide you through the journey. Join Susan and Kelly as they explore the transformative power of divorce coaching in this episode filled with valuable topics and golden nuggets for anyone navigating the complex terrain of divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets: How a divorce coach can help bring clarity about your decision to divorce Selecting the right divorce coach for you: things to consider and questions to ask The role of divorce coaching in dealing with fear Curating your very own divorce team Why it is important to get out of unproductive communication cycles and get on a better path **************************************** About this week's special guest: Kelly Myers Kelly Myers is a dedicated professional with extensive training in divorce coaching, mediation, and co-parenting. With a passion for helping individuals navigate the challenges of divorce and separation, Kelly has established herself as a trusted advisor and advocate for countless individuals and families. Her expertise lies in providing invaluable guidance, emotional support, and practical solutions during what is often a tumultuous and emotionally charged period. Kelly is a Certified Divorce Coach, mediator, and co-parenting specialist. She received her mediation training through Northwestern University, the Harvard Program on Negotiation and the acclaimed Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly has also been trained by Bill Eddy in High Conflict Mediation and as a New Ways for Families Coach. She is passionate in her advocation of developing balanced co-parenting strategies to build harmony within the new family dynamic and is a part of the Co-Parenting Specialist Certification training team at Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly’s a graduate of the University of San Diego and earned her paralegal certificate from USD’s ABA approved paralegal program. Kelly believes that helping people navigate the divorce process through managing their emotions, creating a divorce support team, and getting clarity around positions and interests, allows people to use their divorce to build a strong foundation for their future. Kelly's website: https://firststepsdivorce.com/ Kelly on Instagram: http://instagram.com/firststeps_divorce **************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Listen to Divorce and Beyond’s Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes of 2023! These episodes have been a beacon of support and guidance for many, and now, you can easily access them, too! Ready to be inspired? Just head over to https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/top-episodes to listen to these transformative episodes. Don't miss out on these empowering discussions!" Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Ex with Bill Eddy **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and

Susan Guthrie welcomes Aurisha Smolarski to Divorce & Beyond! Aurisha shares tips and insights on using attachment theory and styles to find a cooperative way to co-parent during and after your divorce. Tune in to hear why it’s the best approach for your kids! Aurisha Smolarski, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified co-parenting coach, mediator, and mother with a clinical practice in Los Angeles, CA. She is the author of Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Two Homes. She specializes in working with co-parents, couples, and individuals. Topics and Golden Nuggets: You can change the dynamics of a relationship just by how you engage with it. Why doing a mindset shift can help you prioritize your child and their needs to get on “team kiddo.” The basis for cooperation co-parenting is understanding attachment theory/styles When you operate as a co-parenting team, your child feels safe and secure and simply be a kid. It only takes one parent to create a secure relationship with your child. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Aurisha Smolarski, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified co-parenting coach, mediator, and mother with a clinical practice in Los Angeles, CA. She is the author of Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Two Homes. She specializes in working with co-parents, couples, and individuals. As a co-parent herself, she is very familiar with the challenges faced by parents raising kids in two households. For over ten years, she has drawn on attachment theory and other modalities to help clients move from conflict to cooperation, make child-centered agreements, and create a secure co-parenting two-home family system. She lives with her 12-year-old daughter and sees clients both virtually and in person. Website: https://www.aurishasmolarski.com/ Aurisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cooperativecoparenting/ Aurisha on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cooperativecoparenting Cooperative Coparenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Tow Homes **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ******************************************************************* THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her

As we kick off the new year, we dive into a unique phenomenon that January brings to the forefront of the divorce landscape - the "Divorce Month" trend. While resolutions are in the air, so is a notable surge in divorce filings, with studies revealing a 33% increase from January to March. In this episode, Susan takes us through the early stages of divorce, exploring the immediate aftermath of the pivotal moment when individuals ask themselves, "What now?" As a seasoned divorce attorney with over 30 years of experience, Susan shares her insights and advice on navigating this challenging journey. Join us throughout the month as we unravel the reasons behind the “Divorce Month” trend, answer your burning questions, and support the emotional and practical challenges that arise during this significant life transition. Golden Nuggets and Topics: Understanding some of the reasons January has been dubbed "Divorce Month," one such reason includes New Year’s resolutions, which often involve self-reflection and reevaluating priorities, leading some to confront the truth about their marriage. Why it is important to give yourself the grace of space, whether you have finally made the ultimate decision or been informed that divorce is in your future, it is important to DO NOTHING except get your feet back under you. Navigating the Emotional Landscape: “Divorce is a grief process.” Practical Steps and Preparation: Gathering key documents and creating a parenting. **************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Insights from “The D Word” with Kate Anthony The Divorce Survival Guide Moms Moving On Visit The Divorce and Beyond Website for more resources and information **************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ******************************************************************* THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and informati

Kate Anthony returns to The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie. In this episode, Kate helps answer people's questions when deciding whether to stay or go. Tune in to hear insights from her new book – The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage. Can your marriage be saved? Should you stay together for your kids? Kate answers these questions so much more in this insightful and eye-opening episode for anyone who wants to take control of their lives, either by ending or repairing their marriage. Topics and Golden Nuggets from this episode: “Abuse is not a relationship or communication problem. It’s an abuser’s problem. Nothing you say or do can change that.” If your life isn’t bad, why are you so unhappy? Why you should NOT stay married for your kids. What does a healthy relationship even look like? “Healthy relationships should have curiosity.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Kate Anthony Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions. Kate is trained in various coaching modalities with two of the top coach training organizations in the world. Additionally, Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Victim’s Advocate by the state of California, as a Co-Parenting Specialist by the Mosten Guthrie Academy, and as a High Conflict Divorce Coach by Tina Swithin’s High Conflict Divorce Coaching Certification Program. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients worldwide. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband. Website: http://www.kateanthony.com Book: https://kateanthony.com/dword/ Kate on Instagram Kate's Facebook page Kate’s Facebook group Kate on TikTok ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Over one million people get divorced in the United States every year. However, divorce can be a complex and expensive process, especially if you have to hire a lawyer. That's where Hello Divorce comes in. Hello Divorce is an online divorce platform that makes it easy and affordable to get a divorce yourself. With Hello Divorce, you can complete the entire divorce process online, in your own home, and at your own pace. Hello Divorce offers a variety of features to help you get through your divorce, including: Easy-to-use online forms and guides A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support And more! If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hello Divorce. It's the best way to get a divorce without breaking the bank. The founder of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine, is a friend of mine, and I admire her and what she has created with Hello Divorce so much – this platform is the change we need in the divorce industry. You can hear Erin explain more in her episode on the podcast entitled “The FYI on DIY Divorce.” Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ******************************************************************* THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as o

Our Special Double Episode Continues! Last week marked the premiere of Part One in our special year-end two-part episode series, featuring Christopher Melcher discussing lessons learned from high-profile divorces. In this week's continuation, Christopher and Susan offer valuable insights for navigating divorce. We strongly recommend tuning in to catch up if you missed last week's Part One. Christopher shares noteworthy takeaways from recent celebrity cases, providing practical advice to enhance your divorce experience. In Part Two, Susan and Christopher talk about several of the cases you've been reading about lately in the news, always with the idea of pulling out those golden nuggets that will help you have a better divorce. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Christopher C. Melcher Christopher C. Melcher, CFLS, is a Fellow of the AAML, specializing in complex family law litigation focusing on premarital agreements. He also handles appeals of family law judgments and writ proceedings. His clients include celebrities, tech founders, and executives of public companies. He has presented over 200 continuing legal education programs and published books and articles on family law. Website: http://www.walzermelcher.com Christopher on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ccmelcher/ Christopher on X: https://twitter.com/CA_Divorce ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ******************************************************************* THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! 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Special Double Episode! What can celebrity splits teach us about divorce? Host Susan Guthrie is joined by the insightful Attorney Christopher Melcher in this two-part series, where they answer that question and delve into the invaluable lessons from celebrity splits that resonate for non-famous couples navigating divorce. In Part One, Susan and Christopher unveil essential tips for anyone going through or considering a divorce. Discover the significance of choosing an attorney who prioritizes communication before diving into paperwork and gain critical insights that will reshape your divorce journey. Golden Nuggets and Topics Include: Strategic Legal Guidance: Learn why it's crucial to collaborate with an attorney who communicates effectively before making any legal moves. Celeb Insights: Explore the myth of quick celebrity divorces and unravel every individual's power in choosing the pace of their divorce settlement. The art of messaging your split to family and friends Listen to Part One this week, and mark your calendars for a December 25th with Divorce & Beyond! **************************************** About this week's special guest: Christopher C. Melcher Christopher C. Melcher, CFLS, is a Fellow of the AAML, specializing in complex family law litigation focusing on premarital agreements. He also handles appeals of family law judgments and writ proceedings. His clients include celebrities, tech founders, and executives of public companies. He has presented over 200 continuing legal education programs and published books and articles on family law. Website: http://www.walzermelcher.com Christopher on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ccmelcher/ Christopher on X: https://twitter.com/CA_Divorce ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ******************************************************************* THE MAKE MONEY MEDIATING PODCAST As we navigate the complexities of divorce and beyond together, I've noticed how many are not just seeking personal growth but are also passionate entrepreneurs and business-minded individuals. That's why I want to introduce you to my other podcast – 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast.' On 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast,' we dive deep into business and entrepreneurship. I share insights and strategies on how to thrive in your professional life, especially if you're interested in mediation. Each episode is packed with tips, stories, and some wisdom to help you grow your business and make an impact. If you love 'Divorce and Beyond' and want to expand your business acumen or explore the mediation world, 'The Make Money Mediating Podcast' is your next must-listen. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips

In this episode of Divorce & Beyond, host Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Beverly Price. She shares invaluable tips and insights on effectively communicating your abuse story in court. Beverly and Susan explore the intricacies of discussing domestic violence in court, offering practical advice on articulating your story and navigating the legal landscape. Discover the keys to crafting a powerful victim impact statement and why meticulous preparation is critical. Whether you're preparing to share your experience about or supporting someone who is, this episode equips you with the tools to navigate the challenging terrain of the legal system while ensuring your voice is heard. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Record-keeping of abuse should include factual information that can be used in court and help a judge recognize the pattern of abuse. Communication of information is the key. Ensure your victim statement addresses these group areas: emotional, physical, financial, and impact on other relationships. Why it is essential to find proper support from professionals, including assistance from a trauma-informed therapist We acknowledge a significant difference between what a victim wants to communicate and what they should communicate. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Beverly Price Beverly Price, MBA, of Her Empowered Divorce, with her 30+ years’ divorce coaching experience has helped thousands of women by providing knowledge, support, and insight to empower those going through the divorce process before, during and after across the US. Her process includes extensive preparation, role play, legal and financial education, emotional management, communication skills, self-awareness, and support. Beverly is also the host of the Her Empowered Divorce Podcast, Her Empowered Divorce and Divorce Coalition Live Radio and TV Shows. She has a personal history with divorce, co-parenting, domestic violence, multiple marriages, being a single working mother and more. Beverly is also the creator of the Divorce Coalition and along with co-founders Susan Guthrie and Kate Anthony, has created a group of top podcast hosts, bloggers, and divorce professionals to bring understanding, healing, and resilience to the forefront, ending the cycle of abuse one survivor at a time. Comprehensive Divorce Checklist: https://herempowereddivorce.com/divorcechecklist Beverly’s Website: https://herempowereddivorce.com/ The Divorce Coalition: http://www.divorcecoalition.com/ Beverly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/her_empowered_divorce/ Beverly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverly-price Her Empowered Divorce Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/herempowereddivorcetribe ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond. We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources. Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today! Episode 106 & 107 of Her Empowered Divorce podcast features Larry and Joni Jones about the Emotional and Legal Preparation for DV Court. Breaking the Cycle of Shame and Divorce with Beverly Price Domestic Violence Training: Bridging the Gap in Divorce Law with Kate Anthony ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Over one million people get divorced in the United States every year. However, divorce can be a complex and expensive process, especially if you have to hire a lawyer. That's where Hello Divorce comes in. Hello Divorce is an online divorce platform that makes it easy and affordable to get a divorce yourself. With Hello Divorce, you can complete the entire divorce process online, in your own home, and at your own pace. Hello Divorce offers a variety of features to help you get through your divorce, including: Easy-to-use online forms and guides A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support And more! If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hello Divorce. It's the best way to get a divorce without breaking the bank. The founder of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine, is a friend of mine, and I admire her and what she has created with Hello Divorce so much – this platform is the change we need in the divorce industry. You can hear Erin explain more in her episode on the podcast entitled “The FYI on DIY Divorce.” Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info *******

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, Susan welcomes Professor Kelly Browe Olson. Kelly shares actionable tips on navigating both the “new normal” of the divorce process AND the REAL new normal of life after divorce. Key takeaways include the importance of filtering advice amidst the influx of opinions, the role of professionals in facilitating challenging conversations and boundaries, and the crucial aspect of emotional intelligence during divorce. Professor Kelly Browe Olson also shares practical insights on improving emotional intelligence and encourages strategic thinking about one's current situation and future aspirations. Join us as we delve into the complexities of divorce with expert guidance for adapting to the ever-changing landscape of your beyond. Topics and Golden Nuggets includ Your new normal will include opinions and advice from third parties; therefore, even well-meaning, it is important to filter the information and form your opinions. A professional can give you the tools to have hard conversations, create boundaries, and divorce your way. Emotional intelligence (EI) and divorce: EI is essential when going through a divorce; consider how you can be emotionally intelligent around your children, friends, family, and ex while still honoring your emotions. Plus, Kelly shares how to improve your emotional intelligence. “Thinking about where you are now and where you want to be is important.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Kelly Browe Olson Kelly Browe Olson is an Associate Professor and the Mediation Clinic Director at UA Little Rock Bowen School of Law. She teaches Family Law, ADR, Domestic Violence and Mediation and Family Mediation courses. She oversees a state-wide Special Education mediation project and mediates family dissolution cases. She is a frequent speaker and trainer, educating judges, lawyers, and others about dispute resolution, communication, emotional intelligence, family, and children’s legal issues. She is currently co-editing a book on Family Dispute Resolution for Oxford University Press. She serves on the Arkansas Parent Counsel and Access to Justice Commissions and on the Family Court Review and the ABA Dispute Resolution Magazine editorial boards. She trains and consults for the Arkansas ADR Commission. Professor Browe Olson has a University of Michigan J.D., and an LL.M. in ChildLaw from the Loyola University Chicago. She was awarded the Bowen Faculty Excellence Public Service Award in 2004 and 2013. Email: [email protected] ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond. We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources. Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today! The Impact of Divorce on Kids: Insights from the New Film, Split Up: The Teen Years with Christina McGhee and Ellen Bruno The Map to Conscious Parenting with NY Times Best-Selling Author, Dr. Shefali The Emotional Lives of Teenagers - Lisa DeMour, Ph.D. ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Over one million people get divorced in the United States every year. However, divorce can be a complex and expensive process, especially if you have to hire a lawyer. That's where Hello Divorce comes in. Hello Divorce is an online divorce platform that makes it easy and affordable to get a divorce yourself. With Hello Divorce, you can complete the entire divorce process online, in your own home, and at your own pace. Hello Divorce offers a variety of features to help you get through your divorce, including: Easy-to-use online forms and guides A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support And more! If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hello Divorce. It's the best way to get a divorce without breaking the bank. The founder of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine, is a friend of mine, and I admire her and what she has created with Hello Divorce so much – this platform is the change we need in the divorce industry. You can hear Erin explain more in her episode on the podcast entitled “The FYI on DIY Divorce.” Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top fa

Welcome to a special episode of Divorce and Beyond!! Airing right after Thanksgiving and just before Giving Tuesday 2023 on November 28th, we're revisiting a powerful episode titled "Sharing is Caring: How Philanthropy Can Help You Heal." In this replay, Susan Guthrie speaks with Caren Yanis, a philanthropy Sherpa, and former Oprah Winfrey Foundation Executive Director. Together, they explore the transformative power of giving, delving into how it can guide us through challenging times, including the complexities of divorce. This is a heartfelt conversation about how philanthropy intersects with divorce, families, the future, and beyond. Caren, now the principal of Croland Consulting, shares insights on building a culture of purpose and legacy for families, athletes, and celebrities. Let this episode inspire you to embrace the spirit of generosity on Giving Tuesday. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Divorce is a prime time to do something outward-focused with your children, such as giving. Philanthropy can help you heal from the trauma of a difficult divorce Engaging in the arts and using the arts to help other people is a fabulous way to elevate everybody **************************************** About this week's special guest: Caren Yanis Caren is the principal of Croland Consulting, a philanthropic advisory group that guides families, athletes, and celebrities in building a culture of purpose and legacy. She was Executive Director of the Oprah Winfrey Foundation and Oprah’s Angel Network, (2000-2009) the height of the Oprah Winfrey Show. She went on to become President of Crown Family Philanthropies in Chicago. Caren's focus is on deepening intergenerational engagement and social impact using a variety of assets and strategies. Keynotes, podcasts, and panel discussions have included Family Business Magazine’s Legacy and Wealth Conference, Yale’s Philanthropy Conference, and the Society for Trust and Estate Planners annual and regional conferences. She has been a guest on podcasts including The Heart of Giving (Better Business Bureau), Denton’s, Alliance Bernstein, and Family Business Magazine’s Legacy and Wealth Conference. She is an adjunct professor at Tulane University, the University of Chicago Booth School in their Private Wealth Management program, and at the Spertus Institute where she also mentors graduate students. University speaking engagements include Northwestern Law, NYU, Duke and Johns Hopkins. Caren chairs the board of The Poetry Foundation (which received a significant bequest from Ruth Lilly in 2002) and has guided it through meaningful organizational and governance change. She is an advisor to the Aubrey and Marla Dan Foundation, and to the (Deepak) Chopra Foundation, is a member of the Board of Visitors at the Lilly Family School of Philanthropy at Indiana University, and the Women’s Philanthropy Institute, a research organization focused on trends in giving. In her spare time, Caren hosts salons that bring bold thinkers together for meaningful conversations. She has a passion for listening deeply, navigating challenges, and guiding people who have the potential to make the world a better place. Caren Croland Yanis | Philanthropic Advising: [email protected] Caren’s website: CrolandConsulting.com Caren on Linkedin: http://linkedin.com/in/carenyanis ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond. We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources. Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today! Singing ”Single Bells” This Holiday? Surviving the Solitary Season with Special Guest, Jenny Stevens PoetryMagazine.org/EventsOffer:1 year of Poetry Magazine for $20. Regular price is $35. Generosity Project: https://www.ted.com/talks/sasha_dichter_the_generosity_experiment Women’s Philanthropy Institute – The Women’s and Girls Index: https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21010/wgi-infographic.pdf Women’s Philanthropy Institute -Women as Change Agents: https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21440/change-agents-infographic.pdf Women Moving Millions: https://womenmovingmillions.org/ Thresholds - mental health and breaking the cycle of poverty: https://www.thresholds.org/ Friends of the Children – mentoring high risk children: https://friendschicago.org/about Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation: theMMRF.org ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring sy

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, Hillary Rubin, a seasoned master coach and divorcing mom, candidly shares lessons learned as she moves through the divorce process. This episode is a beacon of in-the-moment information designed to reassure you that you are not alone in your experiences. Facing the disorienting fear of divorce, Hillary sought support, devised a plan, and took the brave step forward. She emerged as a single mother, crafting a new home and life for herself and her son. Now, she shares her wisdom, offering soulful guidance to soon-to-be or newly divorced co-parents. Join us as Hillary imparts valuable insights on changing mindsets, fostering certainty, and caring for oneself and one's children through the maze of divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include What Hillary means when she says, “Divorce is an initiation.” Why flipping the narrative can help you move through challenges you may face Ask for what you need and seek support - people are around to help you. Finding a place of calm can be an imperative part of the divorce process Hillary shares how her son has been her North Star, guiding her through her divorce journey **************************************** About this week's special guest: Hillary Rubin Hillary Rubin, Master Coach: Shifting the Divorce Narrative Putting Peace & Kids First As You Reclaim Your Life Three years ago, Hillary lived in the same house as her husband, trapped in constant conflict and felt numb with the fear about getting divorced. It was the most disorienting experience of her life. She felt like she failed herself and her son but she made a BRAVE decision. As a coach who became a stay-at-home mom, she sought support, created a plan, and took the initiative to file for divorce. She found the strength to move out, created a home and started anew as a single mother at 50. Now she offers common sense soulful guidance around divorce for soon-to-be or newly divorced co-parents seeking to ditch uncertainty & make a plan for their lives keeping their kids as their north star. She'll show you how to change your mind-set, create certainty as you take care of yourself along with your kids through this challenging time in your lives. Website: http://www.hillaryrubin.com Free Training: https://hillaryrubin.com/free-mini-training/ Hillary on Instagram @hillaryrubin ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond. We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources. Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today! ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standar

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, we’re bringing back an episode from the archives that featured invaluable insights from Christina McGhee, America's Favorite Parenting Expert. In this episode, Christina shares her wisdom on how co-parents can create a holiday season that's less stressful and more joyful for their children. This topic is especially relevant during the holiday season. As the festive lights twinkle and the world seems to sparkle with the holiday spirit, we know this season can also bring a mix of emotions and stress for co-parents. Whether it's your first holiday after a separation or you've been navigating this season for years, Christina's practical and actionable advice is a gift that keeps on giving. She covers everything from how to communicate with your co-parent about the holidays to managing gifts and family expectations and ensuring your children feel the joy of the season. So, settle in and revisit these essential strategies and tips with Christina in this special Replay episode. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee Christina McGhee, MSW is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author. While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents have the ability to be a child's absolute best resource when families change. Throughout her career, she has educated both parents and professionals on how to minimize the impact of divorce on children. In her book, PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids, Christina offers parents useful strategies for dealing with the “real-life” everyday challenges of coparenting. One of her core beliefs is that divorce doesn’t make you a bad parent, it makes you a parent going through a bad time. Because she is passionate about helping parents get through that bad time, Christina also maintains an active coaching practice that allows her to work with Moms and Dads all over the world. Most recently, Christina launched an online program, Coparenting with Purpose. Designed to provide moms and dads with an easy, convenient way to access critical information, it’s filled with practical tools and solutions for managing the most common coparenting problems. LISTENERS OF DIVORCE & BEYOND GET $100 OFF THE PROGRAM FEE WITH CODE "SUSAN" - Access here: https://divorceandchildren.com/purpose Additionally, she has contributed to several other media projects as a featured expert, a content consultant, and a writer/producer. Currently, she serves as a consulting producer and subject matter expert for the documentaries SPLIT: A film for kids and their parents and Split UP: The Teen Years, two compelling films that let kids know they’re not alone and normalize the many feelings and experiences children and teens encounter when parents part. Over the years, she has been featured on television, radio, podcasts, and in print around the US and abroad. A few places you may have seen her are TODAY Parents, the BBC, The Times, and Parents Magazine. Married for over twenty-seven years, Christina and her husband live outside of Houston, Texas. As a mom of four (two bonus and two bio) children, she has acquired extensive on-the-job training as a chauffeur, negotiator, short-order cook, scheduler extraordinaire, and finder of all things lost. To find out more, check her out at divorceandchildren.com Access Christina’s Co-Parent Resource Guide: http://www.divorceandchildren.com/ Christina on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren Christina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceandchildren/ Christina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinamcghee ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond. We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources. Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today! ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ________________________ THE ULTIMATE HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE SUMMIT Don’t miss The Ultimate High Conflict Divorce Summit, hosted by the esteemed Karen McMahon of Journey Bey

Get ready for a red-hot episode of Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie! This week, Karen Bigman returns to share her invaluable insights and tips on reigniting your sex life after divorce, promising to infuse some extra oxytocin into your beautiful beyond. In this episode, Karen emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and effective communication as the ultimate keys to reclaiming your sex life. We'll explore how communication not only strengthens your relationships but is also essential in the bedroom. Plus, we'll debunk the myths surrounding menopause and sex, tackle menopause symptoms affecting your sex life, and discuss the vital aspects of self-awareness. Karen will also guide us through that all-important first conversation about sex with a new partner, including the essential topic of addressing STDs and getting tested. Special guest Karen Bigman is the dynamic hostess of "Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations of Sexuality in Midlife." With a passion for empowering women and a wealth of knowledge as a Certified Menopause Coach and Menopause & Sexuality Educator, Karen is on a mission to break down barriers and liberate women to engage in open conversations about sexuality in the later stages of life. Topics and Golden Nuggets includ Effective communication is the cornerstone of relationships, both in the bedroom and beyond. Demystify menopause's impact on sex, challenging stigma, addressing symptoms, body image, and self-awareness. How to initiate candid discussions on sex with new partners, including STD concerns and the importance of pre-sex testing. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Karen Bigman Karen Bigman is the dynamic hostess of "Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations of Sexuality in Midlife." With a passion for empowering women and a wealth of knowledge as a Certified Menopause Coach and Menopause & Sexuality Educator, Karen is on a mission to break down barriers and liberate women to engage in open conversations about sexuality in the later stages of life. In September of this year, Karen courageously launched her podcast, "Taboo to Truth," drawing inspiration from her personal journey of divorce and the transformative realization that one's sex life doesn't end with menopause. Through candid and unapologetic discussions, Karen is helping women navigate this often-overlooked aspect of midlife, offering education, support, and a platform for women to embrace their sexuality and rediscover their true selves. With her warmth, expertise, and unwavering dedication, Karen Bigman is changing the narrative around midlife sexuality and encouraging women to embrace their desires and passions without reservation. Taboo to Truth Podcast: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife Instagram: http://instagram.com/taboototruth LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbigman/ ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond. We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources. Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today! Taboo Truth, Hot Sex article ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Over one million people get divorced in the United States every year. However, divorce can be a complex and expensive process, especially if you have to hire a lawyer. That's where Hello Divorce comes in. Hello Divorce is an online divorce platform that makes it easy and affordable to get a divorce yourself. With Hello Divorce, you can complete the entire divorce process online, in your own home, and at your own pace. Hello Divorce offers a variety of features to help you get through your divorce, including: Easy-to-use online forms and guides A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support And more! If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hello Divorce. It's the best way to get a divorce without breaking the bank. The founder of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine, is a friend of mine, and I admire her and what she has created with Hello Divorce so much – this platform is the change we need in the divorce industry. You can hear Erin explain more in her episode on the podcast entitled “The FYI on DIY Divorce.” Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, E

In this week's episode, Susan Guthrie is joined again by the insightful Kate Anthony, host of The Divorce Survival Guide podcast and author of the upcoming book, "The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Kate shares her journey of becoming a domestic violence victim's advocate and the crucial insights she's gained. The conversation delves into the alarming gap in domestic violence awareness and training within the divorce industry. Plus, Kate shares the significance of effective documentation for victims, offering invaluable tips on compiling such evidence. Kate Anthony's dedication to helping women trapped in relationships scarred by domestic violence shines through. Tune in for an empowering discussion on breaking free from the cycle by raising awareness and taking action. Topics and Golden Nuggets include The scarcity of training about domestic violence in the divorce industry. We explore the need for more experts who comprehend and can testify in court about domestic violence within divorce law. Kate emphasizes the importance of effective documentation for victims and practical tips on compiling evidence of abuse. The vital role a divorce coach plays in offering assistance and support throughout your divorce journey. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Kate Anthony Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. No stranger to the camera, Kate spent the first 30 years of her life as an actor, with a career that began with five years on Sesame Street and concluded with five years on Grey's Anatomy. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all decisions. Kate spent 3 years and over 500 hours training in various coaching modalities with two of the top coach training organizations in the world. Additionally, Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Victim’s Advocate by the state of California, as a Co-Parenting Specialist by the Mosten Guthrie Academy, and as a High Conflict Divorce Coach by Tina Swithin’s High Conflict Divorce Coaching Certification Program, and is widely known as an expert in communication, co-parenting, divorce, and emotional intelligence. In addition to her private practice, Kate spent three years coaching Fortune 500 executives in communication, presentation skills, and emotional intelligence. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband. Website: http://kateanthony.com Pre-order Kate’s upcoming book, The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage: https://kateanthony.com/dword/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesurvivalguide/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YourDivorceSurvivalGuide ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Tina Swithen’s Documentation Workshop Why Does He Do That, Lundy Bancroft Busting the Top 5 Myths of Domestic Abuse with Amy Polacko ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ THE DIVORCE COALITION The Divorce Coalition promotes awareness of both domestic violence and domestic violence recovery. We are here to inspire healing and change. We are the voice of many. The Divorce Coalition comprises all your favorite podcasters, bloggers, influencers, and more. We joined together to raise awareness and provide i

Amy Polacko, Divorce and Empowerment Coach and Investigative Journalist returns to The Divorce & Beyond podcast with Susan Guthrie. Amy is here to help bust the top five myths of domestic abuse. The myths being busted are prominent and often repeated time and again. We must raise awareness so we don’t perpetuate these myths and continue to cause incredible harm. Amy Polacko is committed to helping women live on their terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to support, inspire, and guide single women. She is also an award-winning journalist highlighting women's issues, including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. Myth Busting and Golden Nuggets includ Myth #1: “The Hysterical Woman.” Labeling women as "hysterical" diminishes their experiences and allows the cycle of abuse to continue. Myth #2: “Why didn’t she just leave?” One reason: You need to have a safe exit plan, which takes time and planning. Myth #3: If there isn’t physical violence, it’s not really abuse. The more we tell stories of domestic abuse, the more aware we can become. Myth #4: “It only happens in poor families.” Domestic abuse doesn't discriminate and affects people across all socioeconomic backgrounds. Myth #5: “What happens in someone’s home is a private matter.” Domestic abuse isn't a private issue; it has societal repercussions. What you can do to help break the cycle of abuse and raise awareness. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior - and is committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. Her recent journalistic work has appeared in The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News THINK, and Ms. Magazine. After graduating from Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism, Amy worked as a newspaper reporter for Newsday and was part of the Pulitzer Prize-winning team covering the TWA Flight 800 crash. She then transitioned to television journalism, working as a writer and producer in New York City. Amy was an award-winning on-air reporter in Fargo, ND, where she traveled to Kosovo for a series on the North Dakota National Guard, and in Philadelphia, where she covered the national D.C. Sniper story. She also headed up an investigative reporting unit in Albany, NY, where she uncovered consumer scams, crime, and government corruption as part of her I-Team Investigations -- one of which exposed a loophole in the state's sex offender registry. Amy has spoken publicly on women's issues, empowerment and entrepreneurship at Yale University, the Women's Forum in Ridgefield, CT, the Women's Center of Greater Danbury, CT, the Hayvn co-working space for women, the Believe Inspire Grow national empowerment organization for women, and many other groups both virtually and in person. Website: www.freedomwarrior.info Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freedomwarriortribe/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freedomwarriortribe/ ***************************************** Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: Get Wise to the Tricks and Traps of Toxic People: Avoiding Narcissists and Sociopaths in Your Life with Former Investigative Journalist and Divorce Coach, Amy Polacko Special Bonus Episode EMPOWERED: How a New Family Court Law is (and isn’t) Helping Some Victims of IPV with Amy Polacko Amy’s article: ‘Hysterical’ Women Out for Revenge: Family Court’s Misogynistic Tropes Traumatize Women and Children Amy’s published Ms. articles Joan Meier Study: Child Custody Outcomes in Cases Involving Parental Alienation and Abuse Allegations National Safe Parents Organization Domestic Abuse Hotline or 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Over one million people get divorced in the United States every year. However, divorce can be a complex and expensive process, especially if you have to hire a lawyer. That's where Hello Divorce comes in. Hello Divorce is an online divorce platform that makes it easy and affordable to get a divorce yourself. With Hello Divorce, you can complete the entire divorce process online, in your own home, and at your own pace. Hello Divorce offers a variety of features to help you get through your divorce, including: Easy-to-use online forms and guides A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support And more! If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hell

As we continue our domestic violence month awareness series, Susan Guthrie welcomes Laila Aitken Ali, the founder of Split.fyi. In this episode, Laila explains why it’s not helpful to keep calling your ex a narcissist and how you can regain your power! Laila Aitken Ali is a passionate advocate for personal empowerment and serves as a dedicated Divorce and Separation Coach. In the role of CEO and Founder of Split.fyi, Laila has established an invaluable platform to support individuals facing the daunting challenges of divorce, breakups, or other significant life transitions. Often referred to as a "Divorce Doula," Laila extends a compassionate and guiding hand throughout the emotional and logistical journey of divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why you shouldn’t focus on the word “narcissist” to describe or diagnose your ex How to approach communication and interaction to get closer to the outcome you desire Processing hard emotions before, during, and after divorce “Focus on yourself, how you show up, and operate through it all.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Laila Aitken Ali Laila Aitken Ali is a passionate advocate for personal empowerment and serves as a dedicated Divorce and Separation Coach. In the role of CEO and Founder of Split.fyi (www.splitfyi.com), Laila has established an invaluable platform to support individuals facing the daunting challenges of divorce, breakups, or other significant life transitions. Often referred to as a "Divorce Doula," Laila extends a compassionate and guiding hand throughout the emotional and logistical journey of divorce. As a Keynote Speaker, Podcaster, Mentor, and Strategist, Laila is pivotal in helping individuals unearth their inner resilience and map a clear path toward their future. With a steadfast commitment to communication and innovation, she continuously seeks novel approaches to simplify and destigmatize the divorce process. Beyond entrepreneurship, Laila is a true Believer in Community and the transformative potential of Mentorship. Laila champions those undergoing profound life transitions, offering unwavering guidance and support at every stage of their journey. Website: http://www.splitfyi.com Laila on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lailaaitken/ Laila on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesplitcoach/ Laila on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thesplitcoach Laila on Twitter: https://twitter.com/lailinna1 Split.fyi Socials: Twitter https://twitter.com/SplitFYI Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Splitfyi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/splitfyi/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/splitfyi/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClBHE2a4Fs9TgufhFVyYDXQ ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Over one million people get divorced in the United States every year. However, divorce can be a complex and expensive process, especially if you have to hire a lawyer. That's where Hello Divorce comes in. Hello Divorce is an online divorce platform that makes it easy and affordable to get a divorce yourself. With Hello Divorce, you can complete the entire divorce process online, in your own home, and at your own pace. Hello Divorce offers a variety of features to help you get through your divorce, including: Easy-to-use online forms and guides A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support And more! If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hello Divorce. It's the best way to get a divorce without breaking the bank. The founder of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine, is a friend of mine, and I admire her and what she has created with Hello Divorce so much – this platform is the change we need in the divorce industry. You can hear Erin explain more in her episode on the podcast entitled “The FYI on DIY Divorce.” Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ________________________ THE DIVORCE COALITION The Divorce Coalition promotes awareness of both domestic violence and domestic violence recovery. We are here to inspire healing and change. We are the voice of many. The Divorce Coalition comprises all your favorite podcasters, bloggers, influencers, and more. We joined together to raise awareness and provide information and resources to fight the epidemic of domestic abuse in our world. Founded by Beverly Price of Her Empowered Divorce, Kate Anthony of the Divorce Survival Guide, and Susan Guthrie of Divorce & Beyond. We have gathered together our friends and colleagues to amplify our voices to reach as many people as possible. Visit the coalition webpage at www.divorcecoalition.com to find resources, including the many podcast episodes and blog articles that are on the topic from all our members, as well as many other ways to help donate and fin

This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes Divorce Professional Donna LaScala to Divorce & Beyond! Donna shares real-life stories of financial abuse and trickery to help you break free from the cycle. You've probably heard the saying, "Knowledge is power." Well, let's talk about another reality: money equals control. In divorce, it's not uncommon to witness one partner using money to control another. With her impressive 30 years of experience in the financial services field, Donna LaScala shares some valuable insights in this episode. She'll guide you on handling your finances during a divorce, spotting signs of financial abuse, and finding a path forward if you are in this difficult situation. Donna E. LaScala, CDFA, RFC, CLTC, is the President of Comprehensive Divorce Solutions LLC. and has been in the financial services profession for over 30 years. Holding professional designations of RFC (Registered Financial Consultant) with IARFC Ethics Approved Status, CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst), and CLTC (Certified in Long-Term Care), Donna is dedicated to providing a personalized approach to meet each client’s needs and individual goals. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Financial abuse isn’t always overt, and it can take many different forms There may be reasonable explanations for some financial decisions - but if anything raises a red flag - look into it. Don’t ignore it. It’s not always about the actual money but a way to manipulate and control To move forward and get to the post-divorce life, you need a financial professional by your side **************************************** About this week's special guest: Donna LaScala Donna E. LaScala, CDFA, RFC, CLTC, is the President of Comprehensive Divorce Solutions LLC. and has been in the financial services profession for over 30 years. Holding professional designations of RFC (Registered Financial Consultant) with IARFC Ethics Approved Status, CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst), and CLTC (Certified in Long-Term Care), Donna is dedicated to providing a personalized approach to meet each client’s needs and individual goals. Donna is a member of the New York State Council on Divorce Mediation, the Long Island Collaborative Divorce Professionals (LICDP), the IACP (International Association of Collaborative Professionals), the NADP (National Association of Divorce Professionals) and the ADFP (Association of Divorce Financial Planners). In this capacity as a CDFP, she assists in the valuation of assets during separation and divorce proceedings including retirement accounts, personal accounts and closely held small businesses. She supports her clients in building a roadmap for their post-divorce financial future and helps mediators and attorneys develop and execute equitable distribution of assets with a personalized client-centered approach. Donna is a frequent contributor to The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz on CRN Radio, serves on the Board of Directors of the Financial Planning Association of LI and is the President of that organization as well as the Chair of the Women in Finance Committee. Donna was recently named as one of 2022’s Premier Business Women of Long Island by the Long Island Herald and was featured in the 2021 Who’s Who of Women in Financial Services. Reach out to Donna: By email [email protected] By phone 516-2347522 Website: https://comprehensivedivorcesolutions.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donna-la-scala-rfc%C2%AE-cdfa%C2%AE-b42839120/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063234938770 ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ THE DIVORCE COALITION The Divorce Coalition promotes awareness of both domestic violence and domestic violence recovery. We are here to inspire healing and change. We are the voice of many. The Divorce Coalition comprises all your favorite podcasters, bloggers, influencers, and mo

This week’s episode is the first of several that will air during October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Dr. Christine Cocchiola! Dr. Cocchiola previously joined Susan on episodes about Coercive Control and Post-Seperation Abuse. In this episode, Dr. Cocchiola shares the dark underpinnings of a coercive controller and how you can work to protect yourself and your children. Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, and survivor. She is a tenured college professor who has been teaching social work for the last 20 years. She has been a social justice advocate since she was 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. Her expertise is in coercive control and the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims, researching and developing training on these topics nationally and internationally. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Dr. Cocchiola provides a primer on coercive control The cause of characterological traits of a coercive controller Why it is important to understand the cycle of coercive control The role of being the protective parent How character traits of an abuser impact both the judicial process and, most importantly, further harm adult victims and survivors Some Golden Nugget tips for victims and words of wisdom: “You never have to carry shame for your experiences. Do what you need to do to protect yourself.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Dr. Christine Cocchiola Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, and survivor. She is a tenured college professor who has been teaching social work for the last 20 years. She has been a social justice advocate since she was 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. Her expertise is in coercive control and the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims, researching and developing training on these topics nationally and internationally. Most importantly, Dr. Cocchiola is a protective parent. Through her clinical expertise, research, and personal experiences, she understands the impact of coercive control on children. She coaches victims and survivors as they navigate parenting their harmed children. She has created programming to educate Allies, including protective parents, clinicians, coaches, and court professionals, on the experiences of children victims of the coercive controller. Dr. Cocchiola’s website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com Dr. Cocchiola on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol/ Perfect Prey Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/perfect-prey-podcast/id1704962170 ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ THE DIVORCE COALITION The Divorce Coalition promotes awareness of both domestic violence and domestic violence recovery. We are here to inspire healing and change. We are the voice of many. The Divorce Coalition comprises all your favorite podcasters, bloggers, influencers, and more. We joined together to raise awareness and provide information and resources to fight the epidemic of domestic abuse in our world. Founded by Beverly Price of Her Empowered Divorce, Kate Anthony of the Divorce Survival Guide, and Susan Guthrie of Divorce & Beyond. We have gathered our friends and colleagues to amplify our voices to reach as many people as possible. Visit the coalition webpage at www.divorcecoalition.com to find resources, including the many podcast episodes and blog articles on the topic from all our members and many other ways to help donate and find assistance. Together, we can make a difference and let domestic violence survivors know they are not alone. Visit the website at www.DivorceCoalition.com. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @divorcecoalitionpage *************************

The Champion of Change, Jenny Stevens, re-joins Susan Guthrie on this week’s episode of Divorce & Beyond! Jenny shares insights and lessons learned from her devastatingly difficult year. She opens up about how she weathered the changes and came out on the other side stronger, happier, and ready to help you navigate your life as it goes in new directions. Jenny Stevens is a professional clinical counselor and Personal and Professional Coach. Having personally gone through her share of difficult life changes, she has gained tremendous insight into how change affects your life and how to keep moving forward. Her calling is to help people fully realize and design a life they love despite many challenges. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Resistance to change is normal, but you have to learn how to face it Jenny opens up about the life-altering challenges she faced in 2022 Why Jenny says it is important to allow people to support you and be there for you during difficult times Some changes do alter the way you move through the world. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Jenny Stevens Having personally gone through her share of difficult life changes, Jenny Stevens has gained tremendous insight into how change affects your life and how to keep moving forward. Her calling is to help people fully realize and design a life they love despite life’s many challenges. She is a professional clinical counselor and now a Personal and Professional Coach. She brings an honest, approachable, no-BS style to her client interactions. She cares deeply about helping others and supporting her clients to make the changes that they have always wanted but weren’t equipped with the right tools to make happen. Jenny's credentials include: Masters in Professional Counseling at Argosy Chicago B.A. in Health and Fitness Promotion from Texas Christian University Mediation Skills Training from Northwestern University Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor by the State of Illinois She is now the owner and founder of Jenny Stevens Coaching, offering personal and professional coaching to individuals looking to make positive change. Jenny’s website: http://jennystevenscoach.com Reach out to Jenny at: [email protected] Jenny on Instagram: http://instagram.com/jennystevenscoach ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ________________________ HER EMPOWERED DIVORCE Have you discovered the "Her Empowered Divorce podcast" with Beverly Price yet? With over 30 years as a leading women’s divorce and empowerment coach, Beverly is the empowering divorce coach who guides women on their journey before, during and after divorce to eliminate pain, overwhelm, and anger, make fewer mistakes and create more knowledge, skill and happiness than she experienced herself. She interviews industry leading guests who bring helpful insights and actionable tips to help you through the challenging times of your divorce. No matter where you are in this journey, "Her Empowered Divorce" is here for you. Listen to the fascinating episodes of "Her Empowered Divorce" at https://www.herempowereddivorce.com and be empowered!🌟 ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susane

Joining Susan Guthrie on today’s episode of Divorce & Beyond is Attorney Anthony Diaz! Believe it or not, there is more than one way to divorce - litigation is not always the answer. Anthony takes us behind the scenes of a consultation to understand the various divorce process options available. Once you know these options, you can make the best decision for your family and future. Anthony J. Diaz, Esq, is a Family Law and Collaborative Divorce attorney and Florida Certified Family Law mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly, and amicably. Anthony has been Collaboratively trained since 2009, taken numerous advanced trainings, and collaborated on numerous cases. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: When you go into your divorce consultation, have a summary of where you are and an idea of what life would look like after divorce. Anthony takes us through out-of-court options with no attorney involvement, some attorney involvement, or attorney + other professional involvement. Can divorcing couples consult with a divorce attorney together? The most supportive out-of-court option: Collaborative divorce The difference between litigation and a collaborative approach to divorce **************************************** About this week's special guest: Anthony Diaz Anthony J. Diaz, Esq, is a Family Law and Collaborative Divorce attorney and Florida Certified Family Law mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly and amicably. Anthony has been Collaboratively trained since 2009, taken numerous advanced trainings and collaborated numerous cases. He was selected as 1 of 21 participants of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Leadership Academy. He is currently co-chair of the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals Outreach Committee. In his out of court practice, Anthony is known as The Peacemaker. He is passionate in supporting his clients to do divorce differently with many non-litigation options. As Collaborative attorney and mediator, Anthony utilizes his professional and personal experiences to guide others from pain to peace. He also helps others to resolve conflict with compassion and have relationships with passion and purpose. Anthony is also an international speaker whose passion, mission and purpose is to help those in pain to move on from their divorce with dignity. Schedule your complimentary 45-minute consultation with Anthony on his website www.AnthonyDiazLaw.com, by email [email protected], or by telephone 407-212-7807 Anthony Diaz on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/CollaborativelySpeaking Anthony Diaz on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the1peacemaker/ Anthony Diaz on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thecollaborativepeacemaker ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin

This week on the Divorce and Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Certified Divorce Lending Professional Tami Wollensak! Tami shares her absolute MUST-KNOW insights about divorce and mortgages. This episode can help you avoid making some truly expensive mistakes! Tami was previously a guest on the popular episode “It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep the House.” She is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 28+ year industry veteran. She has discovered her passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions and mortgage options while going through the most challenging time of their lives. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: If you want to keep the house, you must consider what is going to happen to the mortgage What you need to know about the receipt of income and timelines when it comes to obtaining a new mortgage for the marital home All income isn’t always qualified income In some cases, mortgages can be assumable by the spouse who is going to keep the house, but things can get tricky **************************************** About this week's special guest: Tami Wollensack Tami Wollensak is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 28+ year veteran of the industry, she has experience working in multiple roles and facets of the industry. She has discovered her true passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions and mortgage options while going through the most challenging time. Tami has earned the certification as a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®). This specialization provides the ability to identify potential gaps in the agreement that cannot be met during the mortgage process. Tami works with her client’s attorney, coach, mediator, or financial advisor to help guide them through all the options available to ensure a successful outcome regarding the divorcing couple’s real estate or future purchase. Tami has been a guest on multiple podcasts, speaks regularly and contributes to many media outlets on divorce mortgage planning and helping divorcing homeowners to make better and more informed decisions when it comes to their real property. As a Mortgage Loan Originator, Tami’s goal is to educate her clients, take the mystery and anxiety out of the mortgage process, and provide a sense of security and peace to each of them. Tami can lend in all 50 states. (NMLS #1963450) Tami’s website Tami on Facebook Tami on LinkedIn Tami on Instagram Schedule a call with Tami ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forre

America’s Favorite Dating Expert, Bela Gandi, returns to the podcast this week! Susan Guthrie welcomes Bela as she shares the three hottest topics in dating right now! This podcast episode gives listeners a refreshing take on today’s latest dating dynamics - from dating #beigeflags to video dating and everything in between. Bela offers an encouraging perspective about how to approach love with an open heart (and mind), value your time, and prioritize genuine connections over superficial victories. Bela Gandhi is the founder of Smart Dating Academy and is a nationally acclaimed dating and relationship expert. You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, TODAY, Kelly Clarkson, Steve Harvey, and many more news and media outlets. She has a viral TEDx about love and elevator people. Once you watch it, you will know that Bela is the very best of elevator people. She has been a guest with us many times before, and we’re thrilled that she’s here with us again today to talk all about hot topics in dating. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Bela explains beige flags and addresses whether or not a beige flag can turn into a red flag Keep an open mind and cast your net out wide, “Love always comes in an unexpected package.” Why Bela says “butterflies” aren’t typically a good thing in dating. Back to school, back to love? Go on a video date first because your time is your most precious commodity. Video dating is an amazing pre-qualifier! Practice being grateful and gracious when a matchmaking setup is not a fit The Barbie movie, The Ken Effect, and dating “We’re not a date to win. We’re on a date to connect.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Bela Gandhi Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert. SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love. Bela is a sought-after correspondent and works with all major networks including Good Morning America, Steve Harvey, NBC, Harry Connick Junior, Kelly Clarkson, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more. Bela’s website, Smart Dating Academy: http://www.smartdatingacademy.com Also mentioned in this episode: Susan on Smart Dating Academy Podcast, The Unexpected #1 Relationship Killer: 46% of Divorced Couples Agree! Dealing with School Zones from Two Homes with Parenting Expert Christina McGhee ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and coll

This week, America’s Favorite Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee, returns to Divorce & Beyond with host Susan Guthrie. Christina shares her insights on how to make back-to-school work for your kids, even amid a divorce! We are starting a new school year, and challenges for parents, co-parents, and kids come with it. The start of a new school year is stressful and exciting, and if you add family restructuring due to divorce - it can be extremely overwhelming. In this episode, Christina McGhee shares ways to support your kids and encourage openness and connection during back-to-school. Christina McGhee, MSW, is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author. While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents can be a child's absolute best resource when families change. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Co-parenting and how to approach the beginning of the new school year How you can use the start of the school year as a connection point It may be helpful to give teachers or schools a heads-up about navigating co-parenting transitions, etc. Equally important is to talk to your kids about the changes ahead of time and how that might impact their school experience Creating a co-parenting code of conduct: Create a plan about how you and your co-parent are going to conduct yourselves when in the presence of your children **************************************** About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee Christina McGhee, MSW is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author. While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents have the ability to be a child's absolute best resource when families change. Throughout her career, she has educated both parents and professionals on how to minimize the impact of divorce on children. In her book, PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids, Christina offers parents useful strategies for dealing with the “real-life” everyday challenges of coparenting. One of her core beliefs is that divorce doesn’t make you a bad parent, it makes you a parent going through a bad time. Because she is passionate about helping parents get through that bad time, Christina also maintains an active coaching practice that allows her to work with Moms and Dads all over the world. Most recently, Christina launched an online program, Coparenting with Purpose. Designed to provide moms and dads with an easy, convenient way to access critical information, it’s filled with practical tools and solutions for managing the most common coparenting problems. Additionally, she has contributed to several other media projects as a featured expert, a content consultant, and a writer/producer. Currently, she serves as a consulting producer and subject matter expert for the documentaries SPLIT: A film for kids and their parents and Split UP: The Teen Years, two compelling films that let kids know they’re not alone and normalize the many feelings and experiences children and teens encounter when parents part. Over the years, she has been featured on television, radio, podcasts, and in print around the US and abroad. A few places you may have seen her are TODAY Parents, the BBC, The Times, and Parents Magazine. Married for over twenty-seven years, Christina and her husband live outside of Houston, Texas. As a mom of four (two bonus and two bio) children, she has acquired extensive on-the-job training as a chauffeur, negotiator, short-order cook, scheduler extraordinaire, and finder of all things lost. To find out more, check her out at divorceandchildren.com Co-Parenting Specialist Certification Training Program with Christina McGhee: https://mostenguthrie.com/co-parenting-specialist/ Access Christina’s Co-Parent Resource Guide: http://www.divorceandchildren.com/ Christina’s PDF Article: How to Set Kids Up for Back-to-School Success Christina’s book Parenting Apart, Christina McGhee Christina on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren Christina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceandchildren/ Christina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinamcghee Also mentioned in this episode: Help Your Teachers Help Your Kids During Divorce with Claudia Brown Coulter on Divorce & Beyond #271 ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and

Susan Guthrie welcomes Top Financial Professional Nicole Romito as she shares some of the big issues to look for in a complex property divorce case. This episode can save you big bucks! We’ve discussed many financial issues that arise during divorce - including whether or not to keep the house, how to find hidden assets and more. In this episode, Nicole Romito will help us dive into the more difficult issues about asset division in divorce. There is no do-over when it comes to the division of assets. You are making life-altering decisions that will impact you for the rest of your life. Knowledge is power when it comes to these complex financial issues, and even more powerful is having a financial professional who knows what they’re doing. Nicole Romito, CFP, CDFA, is a Partner and Lead Advisor with Private Vista. While she has clients who are in all different cycles of life, she gets an extra boost collaborating with women who are going through a transition and are making life-altering financial decisions. This could be due to divorce, becoming a widow, selling their business, or being able to retire from their corporate executive career. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why it is so important to have a financial planner on your divorce team The most common complex investment pitfalls “It’s a lot easier to come to agreements when it’s a win-win agreement.” Retirement, pensions, 401ks, and IRAs asset division What you should be aware of about executive compensation **************************************** About this week's special guest: Nicole Romito Nicole Romito, CFP, CDFA, is a Partner and Lead Advisor with Private Vista. While she has clients who are in all different cycles of life, she gets an extra boost collaborating with women who are going through a transition and are making life-altering financial decisions. This could be due to divorce, becoming a widow, selling their business, or being able to retire from their corporate executive career. What excites Nicole about what she gets to do each day? Helping women make smart and thoughtful decisions as they navigate an emotionally stressful time. Clients see her as a teacher, advocate, and partner. Having gone through a divorce herself and leaving a 10-year career with a bank to start my own financial planning practice, Nicole understands the stress of being 100% responsible for your financial security. That is why she invests extra time with her clients and their other professionals such as their attorney and CPA to create a plan which takes them from a place of fear and uncertainty to one of clarity and confidence. Whether it is a proposed divorce settlement, settling an estate or navigating deferred compensation plans and exercising employer stock plans on your way to retirement; her clients are relieved, that together, we create a forward-looking financial plan so they can see what the future may mean for them and their family. Since I walked by their side and never judged, during a very emotional time during which is it common to become flooded and unable to make decisions, they look to me as their ongoing partner to successfully manage their wealth. Connect with Nicole: https://myprivatevista.com/index.html Nicole on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-romito-cfp-cdfa-993b07/ Nicole on Instagram: http://instagram.com/nicole.romito ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sp

This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes attorney Joy Rosenthal to the Divorce & Beyond podcast. Joy shares how you can save money on attorney fees in your divorce. One of the most expensive things about divorce is the lawyers, so this episode is worth its weight in gold! Compassionate Attorney, Divorce Mediator, and Family Law Educator Joy Rosenthal joins Susan for a topic that will be a popular one - how to save money on divorce attorney fees! Together they get to the heart of what you can do to reduce the high costs of hiring and working with an attorney during your divorce. Joy S. Rosenthal, Esq. founded Rosenthal Law & Mediation in 2006 to help New York City families with divorce mediation and collaborative law. Joy teaches family law at the City University of New York School of Law and developed Landing On Your Feet - A Compassionate Lawyer's Guide to Divorce for people experiencing divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Joy answers the question, “Are divorce attorneys outrageously expensive?” “The more contentious the divorce, the more expensive it will be.” Look forward, not back, and don’t focus on blame. Focus on the priorities of divorce and your beyond. The various choices you can make about the process of divorce - mediation as opposed to litigation, for example Selecting the right attorney: Questions to ask about attorney rates and fees How hiring and working with other support professionals like a therapist can help reduce your overall costs When you have unrealistic expectations of what you want or what your attorney can do, you may end up driving up your divorce expenses **************************************** About this week's special guest: Joy Rosenthal Joy has been a compassionate lawyer and divorce mediator based in New York City. Joy spent 10 years representing children in family court before forming her own firm, Rosenthal Law & Mediation in 2006. She is recognized as a New York City SuperLawyer and is an adjunct professor of family law at the CUNY School of Law. Joy developed an online course called "Landing On Your Feet - A Compassionate Lawyer's Guide to Divorce" which helps people face divorce with confidence & clarity through legal information, coaching and strategy so they can save time and money for themselves and their families. Joy’s website: http://joyrosenthal.com/ Joy on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/joymediator/ Joy on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/nycdivorcemediator/ Joy on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/joyrosenthal/ How to Save Time, Stress, and $ On Your Divorce: https://courses.joyrosenthal.com/webinar-info-page/ ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals i

This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes podcaster and child of divorce Grace Casper to the Divorce & Beyond podcast. Grace shares insights on what your kids wish you knew about how your divorce impacts them. The scariest part of divorce for parents is how it may negatively impact their kids. In this episode, Grace Casper joins Susan to offer her unique perspective (as a child of divorce) about what kids need, want, think, and feel about divorce and how it affects them. During this conversation and in Grace’s new book, Dear Parents: Notes From a Child of Divorce, Grace shares how you can help your kids through a divorce and have open and ongoing conversations with them. Grace Casper’s world changed forever when her parents told her that they were getting a divorce. In the wake of this, Grace started writings tips for her younger brother based on what she was learning from her parents’ divorce, trying to help him as they went from house to house. Fourteen years later, Grace began the first draft of the book that would be borne from these tips, writing in the hopes of being able to provide parents with a look into the effects of divorce on their children with first-hand experience. She also runs a page called Divorce Tips From Kids and a podcast called "Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew." This podcast allows other children of divorce to share their stories. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Creating a catalyst for conversations with children about divorce - conversations about divorce are not a one-and-done conversation How to empower your kids (and keep them at the center) - a good place to start is to trial co-parenting schedules and ask them for input Golden Nugget! Grace’s “suggestion box” approach to parenting during divorce Teaching your kids to find the good Find a safe person to share your thoughts and feelings with about divorce that is NOT your children It is a gift to your child and yourself to be able to be the safe parent **************************************** About this week's special guest: Grace Casper When she was eight years old, Grace Casper’s world changed forever when her parents told her that they were getting a divorce. In the wake of this, Grace started writings tips for her younger brother based on what she was learning from her parents’ divorce, trying to help him as they went from house to house. Fourteen years later, Grace began the first draft of the book that would be borne from these tips, writing in the hopes of being able to provide parents with a look into the effects of divorce on their children with first-hand experience. She also runs a page called Divorce Tips From Kids and a podcast called "Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew". This podcast allows other children of divorce to share their story. Grace Casper is a writer, speaker, podcast host, and full-time elementary school librarian. She lives in Waco, Texas with her tiny Maltipoo, Teddy, and two of her best friends. She graduated from Baylor University, but her hometown in Colorado will always have her heart. Grace’s website: DivorceTipsFromKids.com Read the first two chapters of Grace’s book, for free! Visit: https://www.divorcetipsfromkids.com/freebie and enter code: FOR THE KIDS Grace’s book: Dear Parents: Notes From a Child of Divorce Grace on Instagram: http://instagram.com/divorcetipsfromkids Grace on Facebook: http://facebook.com/divorcetipsfromkids Grace on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcetipsfromkids ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: CREATE A COMPREHENSIVE PARENTING PLAN THAT WORKS FOR YOUR FAMILY Lesa Koski was recently my guest on the show in a popular episode entitled “Doing Divorce Different” because there isn’t just one way to divorce. Lesa is back to help you co-parent better with an online parenting course that helps you: Create A Comprehensive Parenting Plan That Works For Your Family. If you are terrified that divorce will ruin your child, this course will help you develop a plan that works for your family. Learn how to create a parenting plan that meets the unique needs of your family. Understand the terminology of parenting plans and how they are used in the legal process. Learn strategies for effective communication and conflict resolution with your co-parent. Get guidance on addressing common challenges and issues that arise in co-parenting. You can find the program at lesakoski.com/online-parenting-course Use code “Parents10” for 10% off! ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info *

Today on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie is joined by guest Karen Covy as she shares what you need to know and do to make good decisions. This is especially important during divorce, so listen in! Divorce is a time when you are going to make important life decisions in a short period. If you don’t know how or don’t do it well, you will kick yourself in the aftermath. When discussing divorce, we don’t typically talk about making sound, reasoned decisions and, more specifically, how to make them. In this episode, Karen takes us through a scientific approach to decision-making. She helps you become the CEO of divorce and learn how to make those big decisions and do it well. You never want to look back and think, I wish I had thought that through more clearly - so be sure to listen and learn! Karen Covy is a Divorce and Decision Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Speaker, and Author. She coaches busy professionals and business owners who want to make clear, confident decisions during highly-charged emotional situations. Karen also helps her clients become the CEOs of their divorce so that they can navigate their divorce with less conflict, less expense, and less damage to themselves and their children. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: What the science of decision-making tells us about deciding to divorce - Hint: it’s all emotional. How to make a big, emotional decision when there’s a lot at stake, and you don’t want to screw up “A big part of the decision-making process is figuring out what you want and then believing you have the ability to create that thing.” Where to start when deciding whether you should stay or go Why it’s important to reality-test your options “If you don’t take action on a decision, it’s not really a decision.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Karen Covy Karen Covy is a Divorce and Decision Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Speaker and Author. She coaches busy professionals and business owners who want to make clear, confident decisions during highly-charged emotional situations. Karen also helps her clients become the CEOs of their own divorce, so they can navigate through their divorce with less conflict, less expense, and less damage to themselves and their children. Karen is the author of When Happily Ever After Ends: How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially, and Legally. She is also the creator of the online divorce program, The Divorce Road Map 2.0 and the host of the podcast, Off the Fence. You can connect with Karen on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and YouTube, as well as on her website at karencovy.com. D & B Listeners, claim your free Trial Separation Checklist from Karen! Claim your copy here: https://karencovy.com/divorce-and-beyond/ Karen’s website: https://karencovy.com Karen on Instagram: http://instagram.com/KarenCovylawyer Karen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KarenCovy When Happily Ever After Ends, How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially and Legally: https://amzn.to/45l9cVE Also mentioned in this episode: Decisive, Chip Heath and Dan Heath ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Rebecca Bloom as she shares about the impact of divorce on your health and what you need to know to protect yourself! What does your health have to do with divorce? Everything. Often a divorce is impacted by a person’s health journey, or divorce significantly impacts their future health. Rebecca joins Susan for an in-depth conversation about the intersection between health, health law, and divorce. Rebecca Bloom is a Yale College and New York University School of Law-educated patient and workplace advocate, storytelling coach, editor, content strategist, and writer. Rebecca has written and edited numerous books, including memoirs, cookbooks, workplace manuals, and business books. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why women are particularly vulnerable when interacting with the healthcare system, especially after divorce How to think creatively about protecting yourself physically, financially, and emotionally before, during, and after divorce Creating awareness about how your mental and physical health is impacted during divorce Why you need a project manager and support team for healing **************************************** About this week's special guest: Rebecca Bloom Rebecca Bloom is a Yale College and New York University School of Law-educated patient and workplace advocate, storytelling coach, editor, content strategist, and writer. Rebecca has written and edited numerous books, including memoirs, cookbooks, workplace manuals, and business books. As a former workplace and benefits attorney, Rebecca has served nonprofits in the education and women's health space. Her longest and proudest affiliation is with Bay Area Cancer Connections, where she has served as a patient advocate, healthcare, insurance, and workplace advisor for women fighting breast and ovarian cancer for 25 years. Rebecca was a contributing writer and editor for Breast Cancer in the Workplace, published by the Northern California Cancer Center in the early 2000s. The book has recently been updated, expanded, and reissued by the Cancer Prevention Institute of California and is now titled Working with Cancer. Website: http://www.whenwomengetsick.com/ Rebecca on Instagram: http://instagram.com/whenwomengetsick Rebecca on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-bloom-0324b833/ ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ________________________ AMAZON PRIME VIDEO TRIAL After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice. If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., invites Author Andy Heller to talk about taking the high road in your divorce and how it allows you to divorce with compassion for your family and yourself. Andy offers a masterful perspective on navigating the divorce process. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” shares forty-six tools, tips, and strategies. The book is his give back to make the divorce process easier for those considering or on the divorce path. Andy is a successful businessman, not a divorce professional. While navigating through his own divorce, he read countless support books to help him navigate the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: What Andy means by “take the high road” in divorce “Always tell the truth and avoid playing games.” How to help your children manage life changes and communication guidelines when your child is with their co-parent Don’t forget about your own needs when divorcing. Self-care is the most critical when you are going through a stressful time. Beware of the two categories of advice givers - know who to listen to and who to not listen to! Healthy dealings with your ex: “Put on an imaginary rubber suit.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Andy Heller Andy Heller is a successful businessman and not a divorce professional such as a divorce attorney, mediator, therapist, co-parenting counselor, or the host of other professionals that support and service those going through divorce. Among his professional accomplishments, Andy co-authored two best-selling real estate investment books in the 2000s. While the books were well received, Andy had no interest in writing another book. That decision changed after his own divorce. While navigating through his own divorce Andy read countless support books to help him navigate through the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating through divorce. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier for those who are considering or who are on the divorce path. Several factors make his book truly groundbreaking. First, Andy brings a businessman’s objective perspective into his counsel. Andy interviewed attorneys, divorcees, therapists, co-parenting counselors, mediators, special masters, and others to arrive at advice and guidance from the leading industry experts. Andy presents the guidance in 46 strategies, tools, and tips that armed with the experience and counsel of these experts, the readers can themselves, hopefully their former spouses, and most importantly their children land in a healthier place in the months and years after the conclusion of their divorces. Andy’s book: Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family Andy on Facebook: https: /www.facebook.com/takethehighroadbook Andy on Instagram: https: /www.instagram.com/andyhheller/ ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susang

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Former Family Court Judge Lawrence Jones and Mental Health professional and RN Joni Jones to explore the unintentional way parents can cause issues for their children during divorce. In this episode, Lawrence and Joni share their unique perspective on the impact of divorce on children. They also offer tips on supporting your children and avoiding unintentionally hurting them during their divorce journey. Lawrence R. Jones recently retired from public service as a New Jersey Superior Court Judge and is presently a member of the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators and a member of the teaching faculty of the Association. (Correction: At one point in the episode, Susan stated that Lawrence had decades on the bench. In fact, he has decades in the profession and many years on the bench.) Joni Jones is a registered nurse, board certified in psychiatric and mental health nursing, who retired from the New Jersey State Board of Nursing, serving the public under two separate Governors (Jon Corzine/Chris Christie). She also served on N.J. Governor Murphy’s transition team on health-related issues. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Stay focused on what truly is in the best interest of the children The effects of negative talk about the other co-parent to or in front of your children What children actually want from their parents during divorce can be vastly different than what parents think their children want Tips to help reduce the trauma of divorce in children Why extending an olive branch can help with communication between you and your soon-to-be ex Take “Yes, but…” and turn it into “Yes, and…” **************************************** About this week's special guests: Larry Jones and Joni Jones Connect with Larry and Joni AND find their video Point-C Divorce at: https://pointcdivorce.com. Lawrence R. Jones recently retired from public service as a New Jersey Superior Court Judge, and is presently a member of the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, and a member of the teaching faculty of the Association as well. During his years on the Bench, he authored over 60 opinions on novel issues of law, and served as the President of the New Jersey Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (NJCJFCJ). Following his departure from the Judiciary, he was honored by the New Jersey Law Journal as a Distinguished Leader of the N.J. Bar. In November 2017, he was appointed by Governor-elect Phil Murphy to serve on the gubernatorial transition team relative to legal issues and social justice. In his post-Judicial career, he authored the 10-part "Settlement Series" for the New Jersey Law Journal, which focuses on techniques for improving the possibility of settling high-conflict cases. Additionally, was also appointed as an adjunct professor at both Monmouth University and Montclair University. He has also continued to present and lecture extensively on multiple legal subjects for the New Jersey State Bar Association, the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, the Association of Professional Family Mediators, and other legal and professional organizations. He has served on the New Jersey State Bar Association’s Legal Education Committee and has also served as the Vice-Chair of the NJSBA Dispute Resolution Section (DRS). He has also been appointed to the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators. Joni Jones is a registered nurse, board certified in psychiatric and mental health nursing, who retired from the New Jersey State Board of Nursing, serving the public under two separate Governors (Jon Corzine/Chris Christie). She also served on N.J. Governor Murphy’s transition team on health related issues. In 2013, Joni was the recipient of the Elizabeth Kellogg Award for Excellence in Nursing. Joni is one of the original founders of Parents of Autistic Children (POAC), and has presented before the Autism Society of America and the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts on autism-related issues. She is also a former certified developmental disabilities nurse. From 2002-2009, Joni worked with multiple major league baseball teams to create the first-ever "Autism Awareness Day" games hosted by the New York Yankees, Florida Marlins, Pittsburgh Pirates, and (then) Montreal Expos. In 2002, the National Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown New York honored the Lakewood BlueClaws, minor league affiliate of the Philadelphia Phillies, for hosting pro baseball's first-ever Autism Awareness Day. Comcast TV won a 2003 Emmy award for its coverage of the event. Joni was previously a certified instructor in Mental Health First Aid, and has authored numerous published articles on mental health-related issues. She received New Jersey certification in crisis intervention as well. Joni is the co-author of “10 Basic Principles of Cultural Competency (BCPP): A Starting

This week on Divorce and Beyond, as we celebrate America's Independence, Susan has created a week-long series of mini-episodes where she will be busting the Top 5 Divorce Myths for you so that you can celebrate your freedom from their misleading and harmful assumptions! Myth #5: If a Divorce Is Happening, Then Someone Did Something Wrong Debunking the Blame Game in Divorce – Myth Busting Series Finale with Susan Does divorce always imply guilt? Must there always be a 'bad guy' for a relationship to end? In the grand finale of our special Divorce Myth Busting series, our host Susan invites you to rethink the narrative around this life-altering decision. In this episode, Susan disentangles the misconceptions that surround the reasons for divorce, setting the record straight on 'fault' versus 'no-fault' grounds and explaining why 'irreconcilable differences' is more than just a legal catchphrase. Divorce can be a difficult topic to navigate, and it's not always about finding fault. Join Susan as she navigates through the complex terrain of divorce laws and uncovers the truth that lays hidden behind societal assumptions. This episode is not just about busting myths; it's about understanding that endings can sometimes be new beginnings. Unravel the truth and rethink divorce with Susan. Because not all endings are failures, and every story has more than one side. Catch the finale episode of our Divorce Myth Busting series – for a perspective shift you won't want to miss! Mentioned in this episode: What a "No-Fault" Divorce Really Means and Why It's Important with Rosemarie Ferrante ***************************************** We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! ************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

This week on Divorce and Beyond, as we celebrate America's Independence, Susan has created a week-long series of mini-episodes where she will be busting the Top 5 Divorce Myths for you so that you can celebrate your freedom from their misleading and harmful assumptions! Myth #4: Divorce is Always Harmful for Kids. Welcome to Day 4 of this captivating episode of our Myth Busting Mini-Episodes series hosted by Susan! Today, Susan challenges the common belief that divorce always has a negative impact on children. Join her as she uncovers the truth behind this myth and explores the real factors that contribute to children's well-being during and after divorce. Through in-depth research and expert insights, Susan reveals that it is not the divorce itself that harms children, but rather the conflict between parents. Discover how effective co-parenting, cooperation, and emotional support can minimize the negative effects of divorce on children. Tune in and gain valuable knowledge from Susan's expertise to navigate the complexities of divorce and create a nurturing environment for your children. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that will reshape your understanding of the impact of divorce on children. Tune in to today's fourth bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one! Mentioned in this episode: Christina McGhee, America's Favorite Parenting Expert, has been a guest many times on Divorce & Beyond. Her episodes can be found here: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/divorce-and-children ***************************************** We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! ************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

This week on Divorce and Beyond, as we celebrate America's Independence, Susan has created a week-long series of mini-episodes where she will be busting the Top 5 Divorce Myths for you so that you can celebrate your freedom from their misleading and harmful assumptions! Myth #3: Women Always Get Alimony, Don't They? In this third installment of our Myth Busting Mini-Episodes series, Susan tackles the myth surrounding alimony that assumes it is awarded to women only. Susan delves into the reality that alimony, also known as spousal support, can be awarded to either spouse based on a variety of factors. These factors include the length of the marriage, each spouse's income and earning potential, and the standard of living established during the marriage. Join Suan as she debunks this gender bias myth and shed light on the truth behind alimony in divorce cases. Tune in to today's third bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one! Mentioned in this episode: Everything You Need to Know About Support with Susan Guthrie on The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast from Kate Anthony (Part One of the Cross-Over Episode) Alimony, Why You Want it and Why It's Not All That with Kate Anthony on Divorce & Beyond (Part Two of the Cross-Over Episode) What Impact Does Your Standard of Living REALLY Have on Your Divorce with Olivia Summerhill on Divorce & Beyond ***************************************** We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! ************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

This week on Divorce and Beyond, as we celebrate America's Independence, Susan has created a week-long series of mini-episodes where she will be busting the Top 5 Divorce Myths for you so that you can celebrate your freedom from their misleading and harmful assumptions! Myth #2: Moms Always Get Custody in Divorce. In this special episode of our Myth Busting Mini-Episodes series, Susan tackles the myth that mothers always get custody of the children in a divorce. She explores the reality that, in most cases, both parents have an equal right to custody of their children. Custody arrangements should be based on the best interests of the children, not the gender of the parent. Susan delves into the factors that influence custody decisions and highlights the importance of creating a nurturing environment for children during and after divorce. Join us as Susan debunks this pervasive myth and sheds light on the truth behind child custody in divorce. Tune in to today's second bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one! Mentioned in this episode: Christina McGhee, America's Favorite Parenting Expert: https://divorceandchildren.com Christina's many episodes on Divorce & Beyond can be found here: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/divorce-and-children What are the "Best Interests" of the Children with Professor Stephanie Tang ***************************************** We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! ************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

This week on Divorce and Beyond, as we celebrate America's Independence, Susan has created a week-long series of mini-episodes where she will be busting the Top 5 Divorce Myths for you so that you can celebrate your freedom from their misleading and harmful assumptions! Myth #1: Divorce means WAR! One of the most pervasive myths about divorce is that it means a long, acrimonious and horrible process where the spouses, and their children, are constantly caught in a cycle of conflict. In fact, it is this myth that often prompts people at the beginning of their divorce to hire the meanest attorney they can find and to do things like hide money and service papers immediately. But is this true? Does divorce mean war? Tune in to today's first bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one! Mentioned in this episode: Special Replay Episode: ”We Need to Talk:” How to Have the Most Difficult Conversation of Your Life with Kate Anthony Eye-Opening Insights on How to Do Divorce Right from Top Attorney Beth McCormack Can You Really Have an ”Amicable” Divorce? Find Out How with the Founder of the Amicable Divorce Network, Tracy Moore Grant ***************************************** We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! ************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ___________ CREATE A COMPREHENSIVE PARENTING PLAN THAT WORKS FOR YOUR FAMILY WITH LESA KOSKI: Lesa Koski was recently my guest on the show in a popular episode entitled “Doing Divorce Different” because there isn’t just one way to divorce. Lesa is back to help you co-parent better with an online parenting course that helps you: Create A Comprehensive Parenting Plan That Works For Your Family. If you are terrified that divorce will ruin your child, this course will help you develop a plan that works for your family. Learn how to create a parenting plan that meets the unique needs of your family. Understand the terminology of parenting plans and how they are used in the legal process. Learn strategies for effective communication and conflict resolution with your co-parent. Get guidance on addressing common challenges and issues that arise in co-parenting. You can find the program at lesakoski.com/online-parenting-course Use code “Parents10” for 10% off! Get guidance on addressing common challenges and issues that arise in co-parenting. You can find the program at lesakoski.com/online-parenting-course Use code “Parents10” for 10% off! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susa

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Professor Stephanie Tang joins Susan Guthrie Esq. to explain what “in the best interests of the children” really means and why it’s not as simple as you think! One of the topics listeners have been reaching out about the most lately is “the best interests of the children” standard in family court. Professor Tang joins Susan to share the various factors that go into determining children's best interests and describes the impact of a judge’s discretion. What seems like such a simple topic is truly the most complicated in family court custody hearings. Stephanie L. Tang is an Assistant Professor of Law at Baylor Law School, teaching Family Law. Before joining Baylor, Professor Tang was a Partner at a family law firm in Chicago, where she specialized in all areas of family law. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Where the “best interests of the child” standard originated Family court considerations of factors related to custody hearings What judges look at when it comes to a child’s professed wishes Stephanie answers, “Can a parent request a change to custodial orders over time if they don’t agree with the best interests of children determination?” Does the bearing of what a parent wants come into play? **************************************** About this week's special guest: Stephanie Tang Stephanie L. Tang is an Assistant Professor of Law at Baylor Law School, teaching Family Law. Before joining Baylor, Professor Tang was a Partner at a family law firm in Chicago, where she specialized in all areas of family law. She obtained multiple certifications as a mediator, fellow with Collaborative Divorce Illinois, and a Certified Financial Litigator with the American Academy for Certified Financial Litigators. Professor Tang received a B.A. in Psychology and Legal Studies with Honors from Northwestern University in 2012. She then graduated from University of Illinois College of Law in 2015, Magna Cum Laude with pro bono notation. Professor Tang is the current Chair of the Illinois State Bar Association Family Law Section Council. Learn more about Stephanie: https://www.baylor.edu/law/facultystaff/index.php Stephanie’s Best Interests of the Child and the Expanding Family article: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4390144 Read Stephanie’s other scholarly papers: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/cf_dev/AbsByAuth.cfm?per_id=2508965 Stephanie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-tang/ Stephanie on Instagram: http://instagram/com/FamilyLawProf Stephanie on Twitter: http://twitter.com/FamilyLawProf ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ___________ HOLLIS HARDIMAN Regardless of where you are in the divorce process, Hollis can provide the insights and tools to make informed decisions and secure your financial future. Schedule your complimentary consultation with Hollis by emailing [email protected]. Be sure to tell her you heard about her on Divorce & Beyond. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like

In today's replay episode of Divorce & Beyond, Kate Anthony, our friend from The Divorce Survival Guide and a top divorce coach, will reveal how to have the most difficult talk of your life - telling your spouse you want a divorce. Tune in to gain invaluable guidance and strategies from this #2 of all-time episode. ******************************************************************* The decision to divorce is hard, and can take a long time, but the next step, telling your spouse, is one of the most critical steps in the process and it is imperative to do it right! Kate Anthony, Susan Guthrie's guru on all things communication, joins her for this episode to help you plan that conversation so that you start things off the best way possible. Trust us, this is truly one of the most important conversations that you will ever have and it pays to put time and effort into doing it the best way possible so that you can, as Kate says in the episode, put your head on the pillow that night knowing you did your best. They say that you should start as you mean to go and that is never more true than when starting a divorce. How you tell your spouse, will set the stage for how your divorce will unfold and in many ways, how you will continue into your BEYOND so take the time and do it right! *********************************************** About this week's special guest: Kate Anthony Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son (whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband), their two dogs, and a handful of fish. Find out more about The Divorce Course, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and Kate's Coaching Services at www.kateanthony.com Follow Kate on Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram/thedivorcesurvivalguide Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourdivorcesurvivalguide Listen to Kate's other Divorce & Beyond episodes: "Is it Time to Say Goodbye or Time to Say 'Let's Try?'" "Alimony: Why You Want It and Why It's Not All That Part Two" "Divorce? What Do I Do? The Divorce Course of Course!" THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ******************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLET

This week on Divorce and Beyond, we are replaying the most popular episode of all time with renowned expert Bill Eddy. In this episode, Bill shares vital tips from his book Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline. Stay tuned for invaluable insights in this special replay episode. ******************************************************************* Are you divorcing someone who is making the process as difficult and drawn out as they possible can? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? Then you need the NEW and updated version of Bill Eddy's groundbreaking book, Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline! Bill returns to Divorce & Beyond to help you understand what you are dealing with and how to best protect yourself, and your children, when caught up in the emotional storm of divorce with a high conflict personality. Get your copy of Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline here: https://amzn.to/3C22aGH About this week's special guest: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Bill Eddy is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, andAr Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries. Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books! https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/ Listen to Bill's other episode, "Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Co-Parent" on Divorce & Beyond here: https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-q3hpd-f87a79 ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ___________ BETTER DIVORCE ACADEMY Divorce can be one of the scariest things you face in life, but what if I told you that you can move past your fear to divorce with dignity? Are you ready for an extraordinary new life? That's the Promise of Better Divorce Blueprint, the number one bestselling book from Credentialed mediator, certified divorce coach, and Director of Coaching for DivorceRiight, Paulette Rigo. If it's time to prioritize your happiness, join Paulette in a supportive circle of like-minded women for a seven-day retreat in beautiful Belize. Listen to episode 175: Your Blueprint to Thriving Through the Chaos of Divorce to hear about Paulette's journey. You, too, can triumph over divorce to build a healthy, joyful, and satisfying new life. Visit betterdivorceacademy.com and find out more. ******************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Theresa Beran Kulat, Esq., to share her innovative process of Intentional Relationship Design to help couples who want to create the relationship of their dreams. In this episode, Theresa Beran Kulat explains how she takes her mediation skills and brings them to space to help people re-create and re-form (instead of end) their relationships. The work she does is truly transformational. If you are entering into a relationship, one that needs some work, or even if it's ending - there will be something in this episode that will be extremely valuable for you. Theresa Beran Kulat stands for healthy relationships. For over 20 years, she has been helping families heal by working as a divorce mediator and collaborative lawyer. Along the way, she began holding space for couples who didn’t want their marriage to end – but who wanted to create a new marriage. Now, this offering - called “Intentional Relationship Design” - has been expanded and is now available to couples who may not yet be married but want to be conscious of creating their partnership. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: The difference between a litigated divorce and a client-centered divorce How Theresa’s divorce informed the work she does today Using intentional relationship design to recreate relationships in a supportive and facilitated environment “You will have a breakdown in your relationship, the key is how do you negotiate it or navigate it?” Theresa explains cuddle party rules and how she applies them to work with her clients! **************************************** About this week's special guest: Theresa Beran Kulat, Esq. Theresa Beran Kulat stands for healthy relationships. For over 20 years, she has been helping families heal through her working as a divorce mediator and Collaborative lawyer. Along the way, she began holding space for couples who didn’t want their marriage to end – but who wanted to create a new marriage. Now, this offering - called “Intentional Relationship Design” - has been expanded and is now available to couples who may not yet be married but want to be conscious in the creation of their partnership. Theresa received a B.A. in Economics from John Carroll University and her J.D. from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She has mastery level training the TantraNova Institute and Quantum Healing training in The Rowley Method. An astrologer since the 1980s, Theresa enjoys guiding people in the creation of satisfying relationships and provides training and public speaking on a variety of topics. Theresa’s websites: http://TrinityFamilyLaw.com and http://Tbkulat.com Theresa on Facebook: http://facebook.com/TeriBeranKulat Theresa on Instagram: http://instagram.com/t_b_kulat Theresa on LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/TheresaKulat Seven Ways to Save Your Marriage Online Course. Listeners, use the code BEYOND50 to get 50% off! https://tbkulat.teachable.com/ ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ___________ CREATE A COMPREHENSIVE PARENTING PLAN THAT WORKS FOR YOUR FAMILY Lesa Koski was recently my guest on the show in a popular episode entitled “Doing Divorce Different” because there isn’t just one way to divorce. Lesa is back to help you co-parent better with an online parenting course that helps you: Create A Comprehensive Parenting Plan That Works For Your Family. If you are terrified that divorce will ruin your child, this course will help you develop a plan that works for your family. Learn how to create a parenting plan that meets the unique needs of your family. Understand the terminology of parenting plans and how they are used in the legal process. Learn strategies for effective communication and conflict resolution with your co-parent. Get guidance on addressing common challenges and issues that arise in co-parenting. You can find the program at lesakoski.com/online-parenting-course Use code “Parents10” for 10% off! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynot

Susan Guthrie, Esq, welcomes Beverly Price to share her journey from feeling shame after multiple divorces to finding empowerment and happiness. Tune into this week’s inspiring episode of Divorce & Beyond. Divorce is never a light-hearted journey; with it comes a flurry of emotions, including the cycle of shame. In this episode, Beverly Price joins Susan for an open-hearted discussion about her multiple divorces and what she learned along the way. For Beverly, the path has been very diverse and difficult. But as you will hear, her experiences are breathtaking, especially as she chooses to live in the space of empowering women going through a divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: How Beverly has taken painful experiences and turned them into her life’s work Some ideas about why others might be judgmental about your divorce and how to cope Beverly shares openly how she processed feelings of shame There is huge power in learning from others' life lessons Take the time to do the divorce work, explore therapy, and heal **************************************** About this week's special guest: Beverly Price Beverly Price brings the best of both divorce and empowerment coaching to women. She holds an MBA and certifications in Divorce, Empowerment, Life and Transformational Coaching with 25+ year’s women’s divorce coaching experience and 15+ years as a corporate executive. She provides knowledge, support, and insight to women contemplating divorce, living through a separation in the midst of the legal and financial process and wanting a new and exciting life after divorce. She helps them to prepare for and walk through their emotional and logistical challenges with more knowledge, support, and more self-esteem and with less pain that she did with her divorce. Research shows that 79% of women aren't confident, 4 out of 5 think they're less than other women, 62% don't believe they’re intelligent, and 1 in 2 don't think they're pretty. Divorced women struggle even more. Divorce and toxic marriages can cause a woman’s self-esteem to plummet. Price provides one-on-one coaching to help women through the ups and downs of the legal and financial process and emotions of divorce, helps them develop the skills necessary to fully participate in their divorce and find their voice and identity as a strong and emerging fulfilled woman. Beverly’s website: http://www.herempowereddivorce.com Beverly on Facebook: https: /www.facebook.com/herempowereddivorce Facebook Group for Women: Women’s Divorce and Empowerment Group: https: /www.facebook.com/groups/divorcerecovery Beverly on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/her_empowered_divorce Beverly on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/ierly-price Meetup Group for Women: http://www.meetup.com/womens-divorce-and-empowerment-group Susan’s Appearance on Beverly’s Podcast, Her Empowered Divorce: The Biggest Divorce Mistakes! ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ___________ BETTER DIVORCE ACADEMY Divorce can be one of the scariest things you face in life, but what if I told you that you can move past your fear to divorce with dignity? Are you ready for an extraordinary new life? That's the Promise of Better Divorce Blueprint, the number one bestselling book from Credentialed mediator, certified divorce coach, and Director of Coaching for DivorceRiight, Paulette Rigo. If it's time to prioritize your happiness, join Paulette in a supportive circle of like-minded women for a seven-day retreat in beautiful Belize. Listen to episode 175: Your Blueprint to Thriving Through the Chaos of Divorce to hear about Paulette's journey. You, too, can triumph over divorce to build a healthy, joyful, and satisfying new life. Visit betterdivorceacademy.com and find out more. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info **********

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes the Founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, Jackie Pilossoph, to talk about how to cope when your ex moves on in a hot minute. In this episode, Susan and Jackie discuss what happens (and how to cope) when your ex moves on immediately following the divorce. It could be a shock or devastating, even if you were the one who initiated the divorce. Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, celebrating its 10th anniversary, which comprises a website, podcast, mobile app, and a list of divorce professionals you can trust! A former broadcast news journalist and features reporter for the Chicago Tribune, Pilossoph was also the author of Love Essentially, her weekly column in the Chicago Tribune. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: You’re still allowed to grieve, even if you wanted the divorce Everyone deals with and grieves divorce differently There are various reasons why an ex may move on quickly You don’t give yourself a chance to heal or own your part of things by putting a bandaid over it with a new relationship The work you do following divorce helps you to determine what you do or don’t want in a relationship When your ex immediately moves in with the person they were having an affair with What do you need to be happy? Focus on you. **************************************** About this week's special guests: Jackie Pilossoph Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, the media comprises a website, podcast, mobile app, and a list of divorce professionals you can trust! A former broadcast news journalist and features reporter for the Chicago Tribune, Pilossoph was also the author of Love Essentially, her weekly column in the Chicago Tribune. She was also a Huffington Post Divorce Blogger for five years. Pilossoph holds a Masters's degree in journalism from Boston University, and oh, she's divorced. Jackie’s website: http://divorcedgirlsmiling.com Jackie’s books, including Divorced Girl, Smiling. My Ex Moved On Immediately: 3 Seconds After We Got Separated In Fact: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/my-ex-moved-on-immediately-3-seconds-after-we-got-separated-in-fact/ My Ex Is Getting Married And It Hurts Like Hell. How To Handle It: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/my-ex-is-getting-married-and-it-hurts-like-hell-how-to-handle-it/ Jackie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/divorcedgirlJP Jackie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcedGirlSmiling Jackie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorced_girl_smiling/ Jackie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-pilossoph-0851814/ ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ___________ THE DIVORCE PLANNER The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. Divorce has no do-over, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. The Divorce Planner's divorce prep products have helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. and Canada save TIME and MONEY during a divorce. Their digital divorce prep products guide you through HOW to build resilience, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, and STREAMLINE your essential document collection, bringing you CLARITY and CONFIDENCE moving forward. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, The Divorce Planner's digital downloads help you address the emotional AND business sides of divorce so you create your best next chapter. Visit TheDivorcePlanner.net to learn more and use the FREE divorce prep resources available. Divorce is hard. The Divorce Planner makes planning for one EASY. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: S

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq, welcomes Rosemarie Ferrante to discuss what a “no-fault divorce” means and why it’s a good thing! No fault divorce exists for a reason and benefits society in many ways. All 50 states and the District of Columbia have no-fault laws. However, some conservative states, such as Texas, are pushing to repeal them. Rosemarie Ferrante joins Susan Guthrie, Esq. for an important conversation about no-fault grounds for divorce, what it means, and what the impact would be if it were removed from the law books. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: The benefits of no-fault divorce include the ability to de-escalate conflict. The difference between no-fault grounds for divorce and fault Fault does NOT impact the division of assets, nor does it affect custodial rights If no-fault divorce is revoked, it will have dire impacts Why Texas legislation that seeks to abolish no-fault divorce is alarming How to advocate for keeping no-fault divorce in legislation **************************************** About this week's special guests: Rosemarie Ferrante Rosemarie Ferrante is a family attorney who has been practicing exclusively family law for over 25 years. She focuses her practice on non-adversarial divorce through mediation and the collaborative divorce processes. Rosemarie’s goal is to make a positive impact on the divorce process by giving couples the resources and tools they need to help their family transition smoothly through the restructuring of their family. Rosemarie founded Divorce Resource CT to provide public education and awareness and support to those contemplating divorce. In partnership with Hollis Hardiman, CDFA, she offers education, support and wellness workshops for individuals not only contemplating divorce, but also for those going through the process, as well as those seeking post-divorce information. The workshops are presented by herself and Hollis and various esteemed mental health professionals and are offered throughout Fairfield County, CT and online. Rosemarie is Vice President of CCND, The Connecticut Council for Non Adversarial Divorce, the statewide non-profit professional organization of Connecticut mediators and collaborative divorce practitioners. She is a member of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators (APFM) and the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP). She is a founding chapter leader of the National Association of Divorce Professionals (NADP), the first national organization that unites professionals who serve clients going through all stages of the divorce process. Her bar association memberships include the American Bar Association (Family Law section), the Connecticut Bar Association (CBA), including the Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR) and Family Law sections, the Danbury Bar Association and the Fairfield County Bar Association. Rosemarie is a frequent guest on podcasts where she discusses the benefits of an integrative divorce process in which a team of interdisciplinary professionals best suited for the individual family guides the family through the divorce process to ensure a positive post-divorce co-parenting and financial life. She co-edited a book on divorce in Connecticut, “Divorce and Separation, Connecticut Edition” available on Amazon. She earned her bachelor’s degree from Cornell University in 1993 and her law degree from Brooklyn Law School in 1996, where she was Primary Notes & Comments Editor of the Brooklyn Law Review. She was admitted to the Connecticut Bar in 1996 and the New York Bar in 1997. Rosemarie’s website: www.divorcemediationct.com Rosemarie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorcemediationct Rosemarie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosemarieferrantedivorceprofessional Rosemarie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcemediationct Mentioned in this episode: Why Divorcing with Respect is Your Key to a Better BEYOND with CCND’s Deborah Noonan and Jennifer Luise Champagne of CCND Divorce and Separation - Connecticut Edition TikTok About Texas Legislation that Seeks to Abolish No-Fault Divorce ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ___________ HOLLIS HARDIMAN Regardless of where you are in the divorce process, Hollis can provide the insights and tools to make informed decisions and secure your financial future. Schedule your complimentary consultation with Hollis by emailing [email protected]. Be sure to tell her you heard about her on Divorce & Beyond. *******

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., author and divorce mediator Gabrielle Hartley, Esq. returns to the show to share the secret to getting along. You’ll hear just how easy it truly can be! We experience conflict everywhere, including within relationships or at work. Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes returning guest Gabrielle Hartley, Esq., to discuss the five common conflict behaviors exhibited during the divorce process. In this conversation, Gabrielle and Susan help listeners understand what it takes to reframe relationships, work through conflict, and walk away with a greater sense of peace. Gabrielle Hartley is co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee, a divorce attorney, online mediator, founder of The Private Divorce Solution, and author of "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate." Her new book, “The Secret to Getting Along and Why It’s Easier Than You Think,” is available now for pre-order. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: The five destructive behaviors we all have that show up in divorce “Forgiveness of yourself is the most important part of conflict resolution.” Finding what behavior(s) you are demonstrating is the first step in working to resolve conflict Getting along with anyone includes the YES Method, Understanding Your Role, and Shelving Heated Conversations. **************************************** About this week's special guests: Gabrielle Hartley Gabrielle Hartley is co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee, a divorce attorney, online mediator, founder of The Private Divorce Solution, and author of "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate." Her new book “The Secret to Getting Along and Why It’s Easier Than You Think” will be released this May. She offers a weekly newsletter, The Conflict Code” and hosts The Better Apart Blog and is a frequently quoted media expert in the peaceful divorce realm (The New York Times, Vice, WNYC, Forbes, Psychology Today,etc.) Gabrielle is former court attorney to NYS Supreme Court Judge Jeffrey Sunshine. While writing her first book, Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate (HarperCollins2019) she realized that we all need to get along better in all facets of our lives. Gabrielle developed the YES Method based on more than 25 years working as a top divorce lawyer and mediator. The Secret to Getting Along was recently selected as a Next Big Idea Club must-read and her Tedx Talk on her strategy has been viewed over 62 thousand times. Gabrielle’s website: www.gabriellehartley.com Gabrielle on Instagram and Facebook: @gabriellehartleyesq Gabrielle’s new book, “The Secret to Getting Along and Why It’s Easier Than You Think”: https://gabriellehartley.com/thesecrettogettingalong/ The Secret To Getting Along is Easier Than You Think TEDx Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/gabrielle_hartley_the_secret_to_getting_along_is_easier_than_you_think Check out Gabrielle’s past appearances on Divorce & Beyond: Gabrielle Hartley Has the Secret to Helping Us All Get Along Better, and It Starts with Y.E.S. Is Your Divorce Taking Too Long? BLITZ IT and BE DONE with Gabrielle Hartley The Best Thing to Happen to Divorce in Ages with Very Special Guest Gabrielle Hartley ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ___________ HOLLIS HARDIMAN Regardless of where you are in the divorce process, Hollis can provide the insights and tools to make informed decisions and secure your financial future. Schedule your complimentary consultation with Hollis by emailing [email protected]. Be sure to tell her you heard about her on Divorce & Beyond. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of T