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Ep 311Find Me the Money!  The Top 5 Ways People Hide Money in Divorce with Top Forensic Accountant, Tracy Coenen on Divorce & Beyond #298

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Top Forensic Accountant Tracy Coenen to share the ways people hide money in a divorce. You won’t want to miss this one! Tracy Coenen returns to talk about the five sneaky ways your spouse may be hiding money in a divorce. Tracy is a leading forensic accountant and has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years. In this episode, she divulges the five techniques people use to conceal finances to avoid splitting assets, paying support, or dividing possessions. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: How to determine if a spouse is or is not depositing their full paycheck into the joint bank account When a spouse is withdrawing cash often or one who exhibits a change in behavior of cash withdrawals What you need to know about buying gift cards to cover up spending The secret credit card **************************************** About this week's special guests: Tracy Coenen Tracy has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years, but she didn’t always want to be a forensic accountant. With a dream of one day being a prison warden, Tracy went to Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI to get a criminology degree. A class on financial crime investigations reminded her how much she loved Encyclopedia Brown books as a kid. She continued her criminology degree, but added accounting and economics courses so she could sit for the CPA exam… and here Tracy is, finding money in cases of corporate fraud, high net worth divorce, and other financial shenanigans. Fraud Coach: http://fraudcoach.com/beyond Find Me The Money: Take Control, Uncover the Truth, and Win the Money You Deserve In Your Divorce https://amzn.to/3A105ep Take the assessment: Is there financial fraud in your marriage? https://www.fraudcoach.com/a/2147522699/Epr7xfEb The Divorce Money Guide: https://www.fraudcoach.com/a/2147518094/Epr7xfEb Win Your Divorce: https://www.fraudcoach.com/a/2147528573/Epr7xfEb Win Your Divorce All Access Pass: https://www.fraudcoach.com/a/2147528572/Epr7xfEb Check out Tracy's previous episode: How to Spot the Red Flags of Financial Abuse in Divorce with Top Forensic Accountant, Tracy Coenen Download a free copy of Susan’s newest e-book: Building the Practice of Your Dreams. You’ll enjoy one full month of tips for building a successful practice! Access the e-book today! ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ___________ ALYSSA DINEEN Are you new to online dating, or considering it for the first time since your separation or divorce? If it feels overwhelming or daunting, you're not alone. Alyssa Dineen was in the same position as you after her divorce, and after her own trial and error on the apps, she started Style My Profile to share what really worked with others in the same boat. In fact, Alyssa’s episode from last year, “ Reinvention After Divorce: Make the Rest of Your Life the BEST of Your Life” is one of Divorce & Beyond’s top 10 episodes of all time! She knows what she is talking about! Her most popular offering by far is Profile In A Day, which you can find on her website at www.stylemyprofilenyc.com. With Profile in a Day, Alyssa and her team will: revamp your look, write you all new bios that are eye-catching and actually sound like you, and get you high-quality photos in that specific, expert-approved, dating app style. Her clients say time and time again that their new photos and profile are the reason why they met their new partner. Go to www.stylemyprofilenyc.com or follow Alyssa on Instagram at @alyssadineen and be sure to let her know you heard about her on Divorce & Beyond! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition thei

May 1, 202333 min

Ep 310Eye-Opening Insights on How to Do Divorce Right from Top Attorney Beth McCormack, on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, #297

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes returning guest, billion-dollar divorce attorney Beth McCormack as she shares scenarios from cases that show how to do divorce right! This episode is enlightening! Beth takes her role in supporting her clients seriously. She focuses on the entire family unit and is a proponent of collaborative divorce. Rather than hearing an episode that shares the benefits of collaborative divorce, Susan invited Beth to share examples from the many cases she has handled, offering concrete ways in which going collaborative has helped families navigate divorce with thoughtfulness and compassion. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: What a collaborative approach to divorce entails The various members of the collaborative divorce team Beth shares two stories from high-conflict or complex cases which we resolved through collaborative divorce **************************************** About this week's special guest: Beth McCormack Beth is an equity partner at Beermann LLC here in Chicago, and her practice focuses on: highly complex family law matters with vast experience in complex litigation, mediation and collaborative law. Beth also represents children, when appointed by the court, Beth appreciates the sensitivity surrounding high net-worth, high-profile, and child-related matters, with each requiring a very different skill set. As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond, Find our more about Beth: https://www.beermannlaw.com Email: [email protected] Instagram: @bethfmccormack Check out Beth’s previous appearances on Divorce and Beyond: Lessons from a Billion Dollar Divorce Attorney GAL AMC OMG – Demystifying the Role of Guardian ad Litem and Attorney for the Minor Children Part One and Part Two Mentioned in this episode: Download a free copy of Susan’s newest e-book: Building the Practice of Your Dreams. You’ll enjoy one full month of tips for building a successful practice! Access the e-book today! ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ___________ HOLLIS HARDIMAN, CDFA Merit Financial Advisors Hollis Hardiman is a certified divorce financial analyst and wealth manager who can provide guidance and support throughout the divorce process. Hollis is highly trained and experienced in analyzing all aspects of divorce finance, including property division, spousal and child support, estate planning, and investment tax considerations. She works closely with you and your legal team to ensure you receive a fair settlement considering your financial needs and goals Regardless of where you are in the divorce process, Hollis can provide the insights and tools to make informed decisions and secure your financial future. Schedule your complimentary consultation with Hollis by emailing [email protected]. Be sure to tell her you heard about her on Divorce & Beyond! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the le

Apr 24, 202344 min

Ep 309The Impact of Divorce on Kids: Insights from the New Film, Split Up: The Teen Years with Christina McGhee and Ellen Bruno on Divorce & Beyond #296

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back Ellen Bruno and Christina McGhee to share some of the deeply impactful takeaways from the new film Split Up: The Teen Years. You won’t look at your kids’ divorce experience the same way after this one. Parents often wonder, “How is this divorce going to affect our kids?” Split and Split Up: The Teen Years provide a platform for children to share their experiences. Joining Susan for a conversation about the making of and takeaways from Split Up: The Teen Years are Ellen Bruno and Christina McGhee. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Split and Split Up: The Teen Years document what goes on in the hearts and minds of kids as their families change through divorce The genesis of the second film Split Up: The Teen Years and why it’s a great guide for parents and professionals How the two movies can be a comfortable starting point for open conversations with your children The choices we make as parents can frame, define, and influence the experiences our kids have - we can make the road easier for them “Your children’s story does not start with your divorce.” **************************************** About this week's special guests: Ellen Bruno and Christina McGhee Ellen Bruno is an award-winning documentary filmmaker based in San Francisco. With a background in international relief work, Ellen’s films have focused on issues at the forefront of human rights. Christina McGhee, MSW, is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author of the critically acclaimed book PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids and the founder of divorceandchildren.com. Mentioned in this episode: Download a free copy of Susan’s newest e-book: Building the Practice of Your Dreams. You’ll enjoy one full month of tips for building a successful practice! Access the e-book today! Split Films How Kids REALLY Feel About Divorce: A Conversation with Ellen Bruno, the Award-Winning Filmmaker Behind SPLIT Divorce and Children Topic Episodes on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to rece

Apr 17, 202343 min

Ep 308What Happens When Your Divorce is Only One of the Difficult Things You Have to Manage with Author Laurie James on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #295

This week, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Laurie James, author of Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go, to talk about how her divorce wasn’t the only hardship she had to endure during her divorce journey. In this episode, Laurie shares openly about the path she took from feeling alone most of her life to finding belonging following a very tumultuous time in her life. She walks listeners through managing her parent’s care and caregivers and coming to terms with the ending of her marriage. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Grief and grieving the loss of what you had and practicing self-care Some of the challenges that were compounded during Laurie’s divorce “If you are divorcing later in life, it is the largest financial decision you will make in your lifetime. Fight for what you believe you deserve.” What it’s like to get out into the dating world when you’re in mid-life “Life can be beautiful after; you just have to endure the storm.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Laurie James Laurie James is a mother, divorcée, turned author, and relationship coach. She also oversaw her parent's care for 14 1/2 years. Laurie’s book, Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go is about her eight-year journey when she was sent down an unwanted path after her mother had a heart attack and her husband’s lawyer delivered some shocking news. Sandwiched between caring for her parents, managing caregivers, raising four daughters, and a crumbling marriage, she had to reevaluate everything she thought she knew. It’s her story of finding belonging after spending much of her life feeling alone. Laurie is a free spirit and a lover of nature, skiing, sailing, and her adopted husky Lu. Laurie’s website: https://www.laurieejames.com Date Differently in Midlife: https://www.laurieejames.com/course Laurie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurie.james Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go Mentioned in this episode: Download a free copy of Susan’s newest e-book: Building the Practice of Your Dreams. You’ll enjoy one full month of tips for building a successful practice! Access the e-book today! From Grief to Joy: What Happens When Adele Crashes Your Divorce Party with Rebecca Feinglos ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! Y

Apr 10, 202343 min

Ep 307Turbo-Charge Your Divorce Recovery with Wendy Sterling on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #294

Today on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Wendy Sterling to discuss her book “Divorce Sucks: Now What?” Together they help to turbo-charge your divorce recovery. In this episode, returning guest Wendy Sterling shares how her own divorce was a gift and how the divorce process, while difficult, can also be an empowering journey. Wendy is an international best-selling author, leading Divorce Empowerment Coach & Healer, and the founder of The Divorce Rehab™. If you're going through a divorce or know someone who is, this episode is packed with practical advice and inspiration to help you move forward with confidence and hope. Topics and Golden Nuggets include “Nobody walks down the aisle thinking they need a Plan B.” The divorce process sucks, but it can be an empowering process too. Wendy shares how her divorce was a gift. Divorce requires a team, not just legal and financial support but emotional support too. How Wendy’s mom's ovarian cancer diagnosis came on the same day as her husband asking for a divorce, and how it led to a parallel path in faith and love Three of the biggest steps to jumpstart your divorce recovery: take responsibility, own it, and practice forgiveness It’s not about changing your ex; it’s about the change within. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Wendy Sterling Wendy Sterling is an international best-selling author, leading Divorce Empowerment Coach & Healer, and the founder of The Divorce Rehab™. She helps women who are having trouble moving forward and are tired of feeling stuck in pain, fear, resentment, anger, and guilt to find joy, self-worth, and freedom. Wendy is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC), a Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS), an Advanced ThetaHealer®, and a Certified Sound Healer. She hosts her own podcast, The Divorced Woman’s Guide, and has been featured on NBC, The List, Daily Blast Live, and Good Day LA. Wendy’s website: http://www.wendysterling.net/ Divorce Sucks: Now What?: http://divorcesucksnowwhat.com/ The Divorce Women’s Guide Podcast: https://wendysterling.net/podcast/ Wendy on Instagram/TikTok: @divorcerehabwithwendy Wendy’s 5-Steps For Divorce Recovery: https://divorcerehab.activehosted.com/f/41 Mentioned in this episode: Co-Parenting: The Quicksand of Divorce and How to Get Unstuck - A Special Bonus Episode with Wendy Sterling "Why Divorce Rehab Just Might Be the Kick in the A$$ You Need with THE Divorce Recovery Specialist, Wendy Sterling" ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! _______ THE SMART DATING ACADEMY Learn more about working with Bela Gandhi and the team at The Smart Dating Academy at https://smartdatingacademy.com. Isn't it time to get psychotically optimistic about finding the lid to your pot?! Don't forget to check out The Smart Dating Academy Podcast with Bela Gandhi while you are there and get your weekly dose of dating and love insights, tips, and inspiration! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the sh

Apr 3, 202339 min

Ep 306Living Together, Apart with Vassia Sarantopoulou on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #293

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes returning guest Vassia Sarantopoulou to the Divorce & Beyond podcast! Together, Susan and Vassia explore the pros and cons of living apart and the vital need for healthy boundaries to protect our relationships In this episode, Susan and Vassia discuss the deeper reasons behind the decision to live together, apart; and how to maintain a healthy relationship when doing so. They also delve into the benefits of living apart, such as clear distinctions in the division of labor and personal space. However, they also highlight that living apart may not be beneficial for mental health and the overall health of the relationship. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode of Divorce & Beyond to gain insights on living apart in relationships and how to maintain a healthy connection with your partner wherever you reside. Topics and Golden Nuggets include What it means to "live apart" and its positive and negative effects on a relationship When living apart is not beneficial to your mental health and the health of a relationship How to keep a relationship healthy, have open communication, and maintain boundaries without having to live apart **************************************** About this week's special guest: Vassia Sarantopoulou Vassia Sarantopoulou is the Founder, CEO and Head Psychologist of AntiLoneliness, a company offering mental health services in The Netherlands and also worldwide. She is also a Mental Health Educator, promoting Inner Peace, Mental Strength and Healthy Relationships with others and with our Self. Through AntiLoneliness and her team of psychologists, she offers individual, couples or groups sessions to those who struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, burnout, loneliness, relationship issues, transition/change, expat life. She is trained in (Group) Schema Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy, among other approaches (CBT, ACT, CFT), and she is a member of NIP (Dutch Institute for Psychologists), ICEEFT (International Center of Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy) and ISST (International Society of Schema Therapy). She is an advocate of a life without mental health stigma, with an abundance of kindness and with an undying openness to self-awareness and self-growth, and that’s what she promotes through her services and online courses, and also through her collaboration with universities, companies, and organizations. Website: https://www.antiloneliness.com/ Vassia on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vassia-sarantopoulou Vassia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/antilonelinessproject Vassia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antiloneliness/ Vassia on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AntiLoneliness Podcast listeners: Get a 30% discount off on Vassia’s relationship courses with the code PODCAST at https://www.antiloneliness.com/ Mentioned in this episode: Loneliness & Divorce: Why Alone and Lonely Aren’t the Same Thing with Vassia Sarantopoulou, Creator of Antiloneliness.com Overcoming the Trap of Perfectionism with Vassia Sarantopoulou The Wife Left, but They’re Still Together Audible: Did you know you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast, she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen, and tell Susan what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com _______ THE SMART DATING ACADEMY Learn more about working with Bela Gandhi and the team at The Smart Dating Academy at https://smartdatingacademy.com. Isn't it time to get psychotically optimistic about finding the lid to your pot?! Don't forget to check out The Smart Dating Academy Podcast with Bela Gandhi while you are there and get your weekly dose of dating and love insights, tips, and inspiration! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

Mar 27, 202342 min

Ep 305Divorce, Mortgages, and Moving On: What You NEED to Know with Zachary Taylor on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #292

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Zachary Taylor to the Divorce & Beyond podcast! Learn the facts that you need to know when you are facing divorce and have to deal with one or more mortgages. It’s more complicated than you think, and in this case, knowledge is power. Did you know mortgages can be one of the most important factors in your divorce? Knowing what to expect will help you move through your divorce (and beyond) with clarity and understanding. In addition, if you have the right mortgage broker, you can make agreements that benefit everybody. Guest Zachary Taylor is a mortgage lender with 30 years of experience. Over 25% of his business involves people in some phase of the divorce process. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Some ways mortgage lending and the lending paperwork are different when facing divorce When it comes to mortgage loans, if you are receiving custodial or alimony support payments, you must prove that you have been receiving them for six months, NOT that you are supposed to be receiving it Do not wait until the middle of the divorce process or later to meet with a mortgage lender because you can give yourself more options as you negotiate your divorce if you understand what your borrowing power is “Information is your superpower.” Common mortgage and financial mistakes people make during divorce and how to avoid them **************************************** About this week's special guest: Zach Taylor Zachary Taylor is a mortgage lender with 30 years of experience. Over 25% of his business involves people in some phase of the divorce process. Zach knows the divorce guidelines and can access programs from his company (Change Home Mortgage) and programs from dozens of other banks, lenders, and Wall Street investment firms. This allows him to achieve his main goals for his clients: Get them the best rate, and one that fits their situation, that can be approved, and that can be closed within the required time-frames. The division of real estate property in a divorce can be challenging to navigate. Contacting Zach as early in the process as possible helps people to have a more seamless experience. He will determine if you can do a buyout or will have to sell. He will also determine if you can buy a new property based on your “post-divorce” situation using the buyout or sale proceeds. This can save time and prevent unexpected difficulties during the settlement process. Zach has experience helping people who are going through divorce to better understand and determine the issues involving property and mortgages. Zach shares a common mission with the other professionals in the Carlsbad Hub: to provide information and support so that people can feel confident and have peace of mind with the decisions they make in the divorce process. Zach wants to be a valued resource, whether or not a new mortgage is needed, and can also help address issues about credit as well. Included in Zach’s 30 years of lending experience is a 98% close ratio from 2008 to the present, which happens to be the tightest lending environment ever! He has closed over 2,000 transactions. His background includes underwriting and approving loans. For 16 years, he was Managing Broker, and Partner is a successful local mortgage company. He is a licensed California Real Estate Broker and passed the Federal and State Mortgage tests with all background checks required for the NMLS license. He is a graduate of U.C. San Diego with a B.A. in Economics. Phone Zach: 619-813-7908 Email Zach: [email protected] Mentioned in this episode: The Nightmare of Shared Expenses for Co-Parents and the Simple Tech Solution That Solves it with the Co-Founder of DComply, Marco Munoz Laura McGee - Mediation Services - Southern CA AnnualCreditReport.com ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! _______ THE SMART DATING ACADEMY Learn more about working with Bela Gandhi and the team at The Smart Dating Academy at https://smartdatingacademy.com. Isn't it time to get psychotically optimistic about finding the lid to your pot?! Don't forget to check out The Smart Dating Academy Podcast with Bela Gandhi while you are there and get your weekly dose of dating and love insights, tips, and inspiration! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®,

Mar 20, 202339 min

Ep 304Your Parenting Time Does Not Define Your Worth as a Parent with Lisa McGregor on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #291

This week Susan Guthrie, Esq., invites Lisa McGregor back to the show! In this episode, Lisa shares lessons from her personal journey to becoming the best parent that she can be and why it has nothing to do with how much time she has with her child. There is so much we can all learn from this episode! Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women embrace their new role of part-time parenting. Shared parenting can come with a mixture of emotions, including the fear of being eliminated from your child’s life. Together, Susan and Lisa discuss how parenting time does not quantify your value as a parent. Lisa offers some insightful advice about creating awareness about part-time parenting and shifting your mindset in how you externalize and internalize your worthiness, value, and your child’s time with you. Embraced, celebrated, and experienced differently. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Your perception of the time you have with your child does not equate to your value as a parent Mindset shifts to help you focus on quality over quantity Giving yourself permission to feel your emotions helps you to move through them faster Tips for parents to make the most of the time with their child, as well as, how to utilize your time alone to heal **************************************** About this week's special guest: Lisa McGregor Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part-time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has motivated women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise. The first 17 years of her career were spent in the fitness industry. Still, after going through a divorce in 2017 and struggling to accept this unplanned chapter of part-time parenting, she felt called to show how she could embrace this journey and began to see this adjustment as a gift. Lisa quickly garnered a community of women who resonated and were ready to use their own co-parenting journey as a catalyst to a richer life. Lisa empowers Moms to leverage their time away to turn less into more. Lisa has shared her story on several podcasts & across multiple social media platforms and helps women put it all into action as a Life & Hypno Breath Work Coach. Lisa’s website: https://theunplannedchapter.com/ Lisa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunplannedchapter Lisa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunplannedchapter The Unplanned Chapter Blog: https://medium.com/@theunplannedchapter The Unplanned Chapter Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theunplannedchapter/ Mentioned in this episode: It’s All About #GettingtheGift with Lisa McGregor Parenting Plans Aren't for Parents: How to Create a Plan that Works For Your Kids with Top Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan _______ THE SMART DATING ACADEMY Learn more about working with Bela Gandhi and the team at The Smart Dating Academy at https://smartdatingacademy.com. Isn't it time to get psychotically optimistic about finding the lid to your pot?! Don't forget to check out The Smart Dating Academy Podcast with Bela Gandhi while you are there and get your weekly dose of dating and love insights, tips, and inspiration! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her ser

Mar 13, 202341 min

Ep 303Changing Outcomes for Alienated and Estranged Parents with Coach and Filmmaker, Ginger Gentile on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #290

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq, welcomes back Ginger Gentile as she shares her tried and true tips for alienated and estranged parents. Parental alienation is a silent epidemic affecting families all over the United States (and beyond). Whatever term you choose to use to describe it - parental alienation, estrangement, or parental interference - emotions of alienated and estranged parents are fraught with fear. Often, the experience can be isolating. Parents feel as though there is no recovery, no coming back from this, or they simply don’t know what to do. In this episode, Ginger Gentile joins Susan to help parents work to reunite with their children after divorce or separation. Together they discuss specific ways to manage emotions and behaviors that will eventually create lasting change and work to heal alienated parents’ relationships with their children. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Communication is at the core of how you start reversing parental alienation. The importance of emotionally detaching and establishing a brief, informative, friendly, but firm communication with the co-parent Why earlier intervention can lead to better outcomes Focus on your behavior changes and yourself instead of your children's or ex's behavior “Changes must come from within. It takes time and work.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Ginger Gentile Ginger Gentile is on a mission to save children from the trauma of high-conflict divorce. Her first film on this topic, ERASING DAD, was filmed in Argentina and resulted in joint-custody legislation being enacted. Her latest film, ERASING FAMILY, currently streaming on all major platforms, exposes the trauma children suffer when a loving parent is erased from their lives. This problem affects 22 million families in the US alone. In her time serving as the Executive Director of the National Parents Organization in 2019, she added six new state affiliates and garnered national press attention for the Shared Parenting Report Card. Now, she is coaching parents suffering from parental alienation to help them reunite with their erased children GingerGentile.com/consulting Her program for replicating the success of reunited families will soon be a podcast, course, and book. Ginger’s website: Reversing Parental Alienation Ginger on Instagram @ErasingFamily Mentioned in this episode: Erasing Family: Exploring Parental Alienation with Filmmaker, Ginger Gentile ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! THE SMART DATING ACADEMY Learn more about working with Bela Gandhi and the team at The Smart Dating Academy at https://smartdatingacademy.com. Isn't it time to get psychotically optimistic about finding the lid to your pot?! Don't forget to check out The Smart Dating Academy Podcast with Bela Gandhi while you are there and get your weekly dose of dating and love insights, tips, and inspiration! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a re

Mar 6, 202345 min

Ep 302The Map to Conscious Parenting with NY Times Best-Selling Author, Dr. Shefali on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #289

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes NY Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Shefali as she shares insights from her newest book, “The Parenting Map” Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist and NY Times best-selling author of three books, including Conscious Parenting and The Awakened Family. She joins Susan to discuss her latest book, The Parenting Map, and the importance of integrating all aspects of ourselves into our parenting. You’ll also hear why Dr. Shefali emphasizes the need for parents to work on themselves to support their children fully. The conversation touches on the impact of social media on children's development and the importance of being present and attentive as a parent in a world filled with constant stimulation and comparison. Dr. Shefali offers insight and practical advice on how to best navigate conscious parenting and create deeper connections with our children. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Why parents must take responsibility for their growth and transformation to become conscious parents. The focus of parenting needs to be on the PARENT. A perspective shift for parents to focus on their children's relationship with activities rather than their attachment to the outcome The importance of integrating our shadow elements and not shaming our children for theirs The impact of screens and social media on children's development includes a lack of ability to tolerate frustration, decreased attention span, and disconnection from reality and their own feelings. **************************************** About this week's special guest: Dr. Shefali Dr. Shefali received her doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University. Specializing in integrating Western psychology and Eastern philosophy, she brings together the best of both worlds for her clients. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development, teaching courses around the globe. She has written four books, three of which are New York Times best-sellers, including her two landmark books The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. Her latest book, The Parenting Map: Step-by-Step Solutions to Consciously Create the Ultimate Parent-Child Relationship, will be available wherever books are sold on February 28, 2023. You can also preorder it now. Connect with Dr. Shefali: Dr. Shefali’s website Dr. Shefali’s new book, “The Parenting Map” Dr. Shefali on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doctorshefali Dr. Shefali onInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorshefali Dr. Shefali onTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorshefali Dr. Shefali onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DrShefali ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ______________ REDISCOVER YOU Rediscover YOU created by the team at THRIVE POST DIVORCE. It’s a 5-lesson master class that’s like a book but more interactive with engaging activities, instructional videos and a complete journal. Step by step, you will learn to identify your strengths, define your core values, develop new habits and build a future focused plan for the next great chapter of your life! Visit ThrivePostDivorce.com/Register. Enter code "Susan50" for a 50% discount! ______________ THE SMART DATING ACADEMY Find out more about working with Bela Gandhi and the team at The Smart Dating Academy at https://smartdatingacademy.com. Isn't it time to get psychotically optimistic about finding the lid to your pot?! Don't forget to check out The Smart Dating Academy Podcast with Bela Gandhi while you are there and get your weekly dose of dating and love insights, tips and inspiration! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their

Feb 27, 202335 min

Ep 301From Grief to Joy: What Happens When Adele Crashes Your Divorce Party with Rebecca Feinglos on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #288

This week on the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Rebecca Feinglos as she shares her story of overcoming grief following her divorce and the iconic moment when Adele crashed her Las Vegas Divorce Party. You won’t want to miss this episode! Grief is a messy and complicated emotion. And while that is the focal point of this episode, it will be one of the happiest episodes you will hear! After the death of her father in 2020 and her marriage ending, Rebecca Feinglos found herself overwhelmed by grief. So, in 2021, she founded Grieve Leave to document and share her journey and help others navigate their grief with humor and compassion. In this episode, Susan and Rebecca discuss the importance of acknowledging grief and how to navigate it with self-compassion. When we see that grieving doesn’t only have to be about crying - we can move forward, find joy, and even celebrate it too. Rebecca Feinglos blogs her personal experiences and shares tangible resources and actionable tips for dealing with relationship grief and divorce (with a healthy dose of humor baked in). Most recently, Rebecca went viral for throwing a “divorce party” in Vegas and bringing Adele to tears on stage. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Susan and Rebecca explore the common misconception that grief comes only with death - we grieve all kinds of losses in our lives How to intentionally grieve after a divorce, and why is it essential to do so Why we need to stop using the phrase “failed marriage” when we talk about divorce There will never be a divorce party quite like Rebecca’s divorce party! How Rebecca is bringing others together through the Grieve Leave community **************************************** About this week's special guest: Rebecca Feinglos Rebecca Feinglos is a grief educator, advocate, and the founder of online blog and digital community Grieve Leave. After ending her marriage during the fallout of her parents’ deaths, Rebecca quit her job to take a year-long sabbatical to grieve, founding Grieve Leave as an outlet to document her own journey with grief. The Grieve Leave community has grown to one of thousands, where Rebecca blogs her personal experiences and shares tangible resources and actionable tips for dealing with relationship grief and divorce (with a healthy dose of humor baked in). Rebecca can be found on social media @rfeinglos. You can keep up with her Grieve Leave journey at www.GrieveLeave.com. Mentioned in this episode: Mosten Guthrie Academy: The Mosten Guthrie Academy has a full slate of mediation and collaborative trainings and study groups scheduled for 2023! In fact, our first advanced training is on February 15th! Visit MostenGuthrie.com to check out all the different ways that you can study and train with us in the coming year and join the Mosten Guthrie family. As a special for Divorce and Beyond listeners, if you put in the code DB50 when you register, you'll get $50 off the cost of a training or study group. ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________ Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ________ HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer.

Feb 20, 202344 min

Ep 300When Valentine’s Day Sucks and How to Survive it with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #287

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Intuitive Healer Holly Hughes! Listen in to hear the antidote to the Valentine’s Day blues and how to manage the unrealistic expectations of the Hallmark Holiday! Valentine’s Day can be hard when you are going through a divorce. In this episode, Susan Guthrie and Holly Hughes discuss tactical ways and tips to honor your feelings and not fall victim to the commercialism or beliefs of what the holiday should or needs to be about. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why Holly and Susan are NOT wearing red for this Valentine’s Day-focused episode Create your very own love note jar for YOURSELF Love is lost in the commercialism of Valentine’s Day, instead of love from a partner focus on things you love (your children, art, music, etc.) Allow yourself to feel your feelings, wallow in them in fact. Then pull yourself out of that space and you’ll feel a sense of relief “In order to feel and receive love, you have to have it for yourself first.” Why it is so important to listen to your inner voice and start recognizing what love actually feels like for you Joy is love. Bring some joy into your life today **************************************** About this week's special guest: Holly Hughes Holly is an award-winning author, speaker, and intuitive healer who infuses her unique personal style, intuitive gifts, and personal healing stories to guide clients through a step-by-step process to help them claim their voice, passions, and self-worth. She helps heal your broken heart so the pain from your past stops limiting your future. Find out more about Holly: https://hollyhugesintuitive.com Get a Holly’s Book: Real, Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self Holly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-hughes-b759a9136/ DM Holly on Instagram for more information on setting up an intuitive session with her: https://www.instagram.com/holly_hughes_intuitive/ Mentioned in this episode: It’s Time for Some Radical Self-Care to Get You Through Your Divorce with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes Mosten Guthrie Academy: The Mosten Guthrie Academy has a full slate of mediation and collaborative trainings and study groups scheduled for 2023! In fact, our first advanced training is on February 15th! Visit MostenGuthrie.com to check out all the different ways that you can study and train with us in the coming year and join the Mosten Guthrie family. As a special for Divorce and Beyond listeners, if you put in the code DB50 when you register, you'll get $50 off the cost of a training or study group. ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ________ Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ________ HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE

Feb 13, 202345 min

Ep 299Behind the Breakup Anthems: Chatting about Shakira and Miley with Michelle Dempsey-Multack on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #286

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Michelle Dempsey-Multack to discuss their thoughts on empowerment versus bashing and the impact of a victim mentality. Michelle Dempsey-Multack is back on the show! We know Michelle from her other Guest Appearances on Divorce and Beyond and especially because she is the creator and Host of the Moms Moving On Podcast, the best-selling author of Mom’s Moving On, AND now the creator of the Moms Moving On Method Coaching Training Program. Michelle joins Susan for a conversation about two of today’s most notable music artists who recently released what may be referred to as “breakup songs.” In January, Shakira released “BZRP Music Sessions #53” and Miley Cyrus released “Flowers”. Together, Susan and Michelle explore how the songs and situations may be similar in some ways but different in others and the lessons and insights that we all can learn to apply to our own lives and situations! Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Inside Shakira’s sweet revenge against ex Gerard Pique - do two wrongs make a right? Miley’s “Flowers” - is there power in the ability to reclaim your own narrative? Exploring the difference between what you put out there in the world as a co-parent versus being a childless couple “Everyone sings about heartbreak, but it hits differently when kids are involved.” **************************************** About this week's special guest: Michelle Dempsey-Multack Michelle Dempsey-Multack MS, CDS, is a writer, mom, coach, certified divorce specialist (CDS), speaker, and genuine girl power enthusiast. She graduated from Hofstra University with a degree in journalism and communication and then earned a double master's degree in education from Adelphi University. She hosts the weekly podcast Moms Moving On and writes regularly for Parents, Scary Mommy, and others. A former New Yorker, she now lives in Miami with her husband, daughter, and stepdaughter. Website: https://www.momsmovingon.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichelledempsey Get the Book: https://amzn.to/3uaT6fF Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships Mosten Guthrie Academy: The Mosten Guthrie Academy has a full slate of mediation and collaborative training and study groups scheduled for 2023! In fact, our first advanced training is on February 15th! Visit MostenGuthrie.com to check out all the different ways that you can study and train with us in the coming year and join the Mosten Guthrie family. As a special for Divorce and Beyond listeners, if you put in the code DB50 when you register, you'll get $50 off the cost of a training or study group. ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Your Divorce Squad Are you considering or going through a divorce and have lots of questions, but not a lot of resources? Join Your Divorce Squad's Ultimate Divorce Webinar on Friday, February 3rd! In one hour you'll go from "I don't know?" to "I've got this!". Meet Your Squad: divorce prep specialist Alex Beattie, parenting plan expert Samantha Boss, divorce recovery coach Leah Marie Mazur, and financial coach Eboney Byrne. These four sought-after divorce coaches have teamed up to make helping women save time and money during divorce easy and affordable! During the webinar you'll be able to ask each coach questions, learn mistakes to avoid, get tips and tools to make your divorce journey easier, gain clarity, and more. Space is limited, so sign up today! Learn about the event and register at www.yourdivorcesquad.net. Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., t

Feb 6, 202332 min

Ep 298Bonus Episode! The Future of Divorce Coaching with the Founders of the Divorce Coaches Academy, Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #285

In this special Bonus Episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back the founders of The Divorce Coaches Academy, Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan, who share their insights into the biggest mistakes people make in divorce and how a good divorce coach is the antidote! Divorce coaching is on the rise and for a good reason, they are invaluable in helping you get through but how do you know who to hire? Well, you can start with a certified divorce coach. Someone who has the training and the background to help guide you on your path. Debra and Tracy, both experienced divorce coaches and mediators, are dedicated to helping divorce coaches be the best that they can be to help them ensure that each and every client going through divorce gets the support that they need. To that end they joined together to found the Divorce Coaches Academy (DCA) and are just launching their brand new, innovative 40-Hour Divorce Coaching Certification Course. With an alternative dispute resolution approach to coaching, individuals who complete this training will be ready and able to provide the best services possible and to help their clients navigate divorce in the best way possible. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why it's important to understand that not everyone who behaves poorly in divorce is a narcissist and how labeling can hurt you. Why a coach is invaluable in preparing you to deal with conflict so that you can manage your divorce process, and life beyond, using new skills. How someone who is facing divorce can find the right divorce coach to help them get through the process. Thinking of becoming a divorce coach? Hear why the new DCA program is the way to get started! **************************************** About The Divorce Coaches Academy and Their 40-Hour Certification Training: If you’re looking to expand your practice offerings, divorce coaching may be a great fit for you. Divorce Coaches Academy™ is introducing a revolutionary approach to divorce coaching and is now accepting applications for the March Cohort of Certified ADR Divorce Coach training. Divorce coaching is recognized by the ABA as a method of alternative dispute resolution and DCA™ believes that those who engage the services of a certified, professional divorce coach are more likely to show up as credible, decision-ready clients who have the skills to engage in productive conversation, self-advocate, present proposals, negotiate, and get to agreement. Divorce Coaches Academy™ is the only organization that trains and certifies divorce coaches who are focused on and grounded in the principles of ADR and has been at the forefront of embracing the shift from litigation to mediation and other ADR processes to help families navigate divorce and co-parenting. DCA™ is committed to providing the formal education and training you need to add effective divorce coaching skills to your toolbox. Working at the individual level, you can have a positive impact on the lives of clients and their families as a trusted resource and compliment to the divorce team. No other divorce coach training program provides the ADR foundation, conflict resolution skills, structured coaching framework, and professional mentorship you need to confidently step into the world of professional divorce coaching. DCA’s revolutionary training program includes a hybrid of video, workbook, and live learning plus mentor coaching and is: Aligned with the shift toward ADR practices to help families avoid the cost and stress of litigation Committed to the belief that emotional management and conflict resolution skills can be learned Focused on the idea that transformation at the individual level is the key to successful outcomes If you’ve considered adding divorce coaching to your practice or your skill set, you can learn more at https://www.divorcecoachesacademy.com/pages/divorcecoach ******************************** Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair

Feb 2, 202347 min

Ep 297Beyond Narcissism: How to Divorce a Sociopath with Attorney, Kerrie Droban on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #284

This week, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes best-selling author and attorney Kerrie Droban to the Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Kerrie helps you dive into the scary world of divorcing a sociopath or worse, a psychopath. Who better than a criminal law attorney who has been there herself to help you get through? There’s a great deal of information about narcissism available today. In this episode, we go beyond narcissism as Kerrie joins Susan to talk about the rise of the sociopath, anti-social personality disorder, and more. Together they get to the crux of divorcing a sociopath including what to expect and how to protect yourself. Kerrie Droban is an award-winning author and criminal and family attorney residing in Arizona. With numerous appearances and interviews on national television and radio shows, she has established herself as an expert on the pathology of the criminal mind, motorcycle gangs, and a mentor to new and aspiring true crime writers. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: What is a sociopath, anyway? Plus, how to identify the difference between a narcissist, sociopath, and psychopath The dangers of being in a relationship with a sociopath Sociopaths are masters of manipulation - so it is imperative to have a strategy for your divorce, including the need to vet your legal representation and ensure they have experience with sociopathy How to protect yourself when divorcing a sociopath Why Kerrie says mediation is a valuable tool when divorcing someone with pathology **************************************** About this week's special guest: Kerrie Droban Kerrie Droban is an award-winning author and criminal & family attorney residing in Arizona. With numerous appearances and interviews on national television and radio shows, she has established herself as an expert on the pathology of the criminal mind, motorcycle gangs, and a mentor to new and aspiring true crime writers. Kerrie received a Master's degree from The Johns Hopkins University Writing Seminars, and a Master of Fine Arts and Juris Doctorate from the University of Arizona. She has been a keynote speaker at gang task force conferences and a national speaker at various writing conferences across the country. She has also appeared on national television on CNBC’s “American Greed: A Widow’s Web,” A&E’s “Gangland: Behind Enemy Lines,” the American Heroes Channel’s “Codes and Conspiracies,” “Investigation ID,” and the Discovery Channel’s “Deadly Devotion.” Kerrie’s website Kerrie law firm Kerrie’s books Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Divorce Super Squad Are you considering or going through a divorce and have lots of questions, but not a lot of resources? Join Your Divorce Squad's Ultimate Divorce Webinar on Friday, February 3rd! In one hour you'll go from "I don't know?" to "I've got this!". Meet Your Squad: divorce prep specialist Alex Beattie, parenting plan expert Samantha Boss, divorce recovery coach Leah Marie Mazur, and financial coach Eboney Byrne. These four sought-after divorce coaches have teamed up to make helping women save time and money during divorce easy and affordable! During the webinar you'll be able to ask each coach questions, learn mistakes to avoid, get tips and tools to make your divorce journey easier, gain clarity, and more. Space is limited, so sign up today! Learn about the event and register at www.yourdivorcesquad.net. Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top

Jan 30, 202346 min

Ep 296Dear My Future Self: Why a Focus on the Future is the Secret Sauce of Divorce with Alex Beattie on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #283

This week on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, host Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back returning guest Alex Beattie. Alex shares her secret sauce for a successful divorce and an even more successful BEYOND! Alex Beattie returns to the show to talk about divorce and why you should focus on the future rather than constantly examining everything that happened in the past. She also shares an insightful exercise that will help you set intentions as you go through the divorce process. This episode and her exercise will empower you to plan for your beyond. After navigating her own split, Alex Beattie co-created the Divide & Thrive Divorce Organizer to give people a low-cost way to take control of the divorce process and guide them during a time of uncertainty. Today, Alex is the Founder of The Divorce Planner and Creator of Your Divorce Squad, where she helps people plan in advance of divorce so they save time and money and have peace of mind throughout the process. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Being proactive is always the best position to be in Rewriting your history can be very empowering Prioritize what feels good to you and planning practically how you will get there helps to make the journey easier **************************************** About this week's special guest: Alex Beattie After navigating her own split, Alex Beattie co-created the Divide & Thrive Divorce Organizer to give the consumer a low-cost way to take control of the divorce process and guide them during a time of uncertainty. Today, Alex is the Founder of The Divorce Planner and Creator of Your Divorce Squad, where she helps people plan in advance of divorce so they save time and money and have peace of mind throughout the process.. As a creative producer with twenty plus years of experience, Alex Beattie has developed and produced series and feature films for Showtime, NBC, Paramount, Starz, FOX, Amazon, and more. Your Divorce Squad The Divorce Planner Alex on Instagram @the.divorce.planner Mentioned in this episode: How to Get Your Act Together so that You Can Tackle Your Divorce with Alex Beattie Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and pr

Jan 23, 202340 min

Ep 294Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities with Josh Kershenbaum, Part 2 on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #282

Susan Guthrie, Esq. and special guest Josh Kershenbaum, Esq. return for part two of a special two-part episode series on navigating divorce with parents of children with disabilities. Josh Kershenbaum is one of the nation's top experts in the area of mediation and negotiation for families with children with special needs. In part one of this two-part series, Susan and Josh discussed the issues families face when they're going through divorce or separation, and have children with disabilities. In this episode, they’ll explore solutions to these issues and work to empower parents as they go through the divorce process. Josh Kershenbaum, Esq., is a dedicated Peacemaker. He earned certifications in Negotiation and Mediation at the Harvard Program on Negotiation and trained in Divorce & Family Mediation at the Mosten Guthrie Academy with Forrest (“Woody”) Mosten and Susan Guthrie. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why it is imperative to choose the right divorce process that keeps you and your co-parent in the driver’s seat as much as possible. If you’re in an adversarial divorce process, it’s never too late to re-take control. “A child-centered divorce is crucial. It is the biggest gift you can give yourself and your child.” The importance of thinking of your divorce as a team process and why you should bring people on your team who have experience working with families who have kids with disabilities Organize your child’s documents: IEPs, medical records, records of care, and more. ****************************** Information about the NEW Mosten Guthrie Academy Training created by Josh Kershenbaum: Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities: A Training for Mediators, Collaborative Professionals, Coaches and Other Divorce Professionals Use Code "DandB50" to receive $50 off the cost of this groundbreaking new training! **************************************** About this week's special guest: Josh Kershenbaum Josh Kershenbaum, Esq., is a dedicated Peacemaker. He earned certifications in Negotiation and Mediation at the Harvard Program on Negotiation and trained in Divorce & Family Mediation at the Mosten Guthrie Academy with Forrest (“Woody”) Mosten and Susan Guthrie. Before joining the Law Offices of Jennifer J. Riley as Senior ADR Counsel, Josh earned a national reputation in the field of special education law. He co-founded Pennsylvania’s premier, a boutique firm dedicated to representing children with special needs and their families, and later served as an Adjunct Professor of Law at Temple University’s Beasley School of Law. Josh brings over 20 years of experience in education and special education law to his peacemaking practice, which focuses on helping parents of people with special needs navigate their divorces through Mediation and Collaborative Practice. He also helps parents, students, and educational institutions resolve conflicts through Mediation. He earned his JD from Temple University’s Beasley School of Law and his BA from Amherst College. Josh’s website: http://www.jjrlawfirm.com Connect with Josh on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshkershenbaum/ Mentioned in this episode: Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities with Josh Kershenbaum, Part 1 Did You Know That it is NEVER Too Late to Mediate Your Divorce? Insights from Leading Attorney and Mediator Claire Samuels International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Academy of Special Needs Planners National Care Advisors The Counsel of Parent Attorneys and Advocates (COPAA) Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ********************************

Jan 19, 202336 min

Ep 293Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities with Josh Kershenbaum, Part 1 on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #281

This week, Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by Josh Kershenbaum, Esq. for a special two-part episode series! Together they discuss some of the top issues faced by families in divorce when kids have special needs. Josh Kershenbaum is one of the nation's top experts in the area of mediation and negotiation for families with children with special needs. This special two-part series will aim to raise awareness about the myriad of different issues that families face when they're going through divorce or separation, and have children with disabilities. Josh Kershenbaum, Esq., is a dedicated Peacemaker. He earned certifications in Negotiation and Mediation at the Harvard Program on Negotiation and trained in Divorce & Family Mediation at the Mosten Guthrie Academy with Forrest (“Woody”) Mosten and Susan Guthrie. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Josh answers, "Is it true that there is an 80% divorce rate among parents of children with special needs?" Some of the logistical challenges parents of children with special needs face Those standing at the intersection of divorce and special needs parenting need to know there is a way through. There is hope, the situation is not hopeless. ****************************** Information about the NEW Mosten Guthrie Academy Training created by Josh Kershenbaum: Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities: A Training for Mediators, Collaborative Professionals, Coaches and Other Divorce Professionals Use Code "DandB50" to receive $50 off the cost of this groundbreaking new training! **************************************** About this week's special guest: Josh Kershenbaum Josh Kershenbaum, Esq., is a dedicated Peacemaker. He earned certifications in Negotiation and Mediation at the Harvard Program on Negotiation and trained in Divorce & Family Mediation at the Mosten Guthrie Academy with Forrest (“Woody”) Mosten and Susan Guthrie. Before joining the Law Offices of Jennifer J. Riley as Senior ADR Counsel, Josh earned a national reputation in the field of special education law. He co-founded Pennsylvania’s premier, a boutique firm dedicated to representing children with special needs and their families, and later served as an Adjunct Professor of Law at Temple University’s Beasley School of Law. Josh brings over 20 years of experience in education and special education law to his peacemaking practice, which focuses on helping parents of people with special needs navigate their divorces through Mediation and Collaborative Practice. He also helps parents, students, and educational institutions resolve conflicts through Mediation. He earned his JD from Temple University’s Beasley School of Law and his BA from Amherst College. Josh’s website: http://www.jjrlawfirm.com Connect with Josh on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshkershenbaum/ Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind. Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American B

Jan 16, 202339 min

Ep 292What You Need to Know About Your Money When You Start a Divorce from Hollis Hardiman, CDFA on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #280

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Divorce Financial Analyst, Hollis Hardiman, as she shares her top tips to protect your finances if you are facing a divorce. January is when many people become divorce curious, decide to start the divorce process or begin to get educated about the next steps to take. Fear is a common emotion that comes up during this time of contemplation. One of the biggest fears around divorce is money. Susan is joined by special guest, Hollis Hardman. Together they discuss what you need to know as you enter the process of divorce and learn how to protect your finances. Hollis provides financial, retirement, and wealth management services to her clients. She specializes in helping people navigate major life transitions including divorce, the loss of a spouse, and preparing for retirement. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: When it comes to divorce, a common concern is “Am I going to become homeless?” Having a support system in place is so important, but do not rely on your friends’ past divorce experiences for professional advice Figure out what your lifestyle is costing you - collect receipts and keep a tally. Then, begin to take control in the best way you can Hollis shares tips and insights about how to increase the income in your household What to consider when planning your budget before, during, and after divorce About this week's special guest: Hollis Hardiman, CDFA Hollis provides financial, retirement, and wealth management services to her clients. She specializes in helping people navigate major life transitions including divorce, the loss of a spouse, and preparing for retirement. As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), Hollis firmly believes in building a support team of divorce professionals including attorneys, mediators, and therapists that can help her clients make the best decisions during these emotional times. As a child of divorced parents, Hollis witnessed firsthand the consequences when sound financial decisions are not made. Hollis is certified in both mediation and collaborative divorce. She is well trained to advocate for one party or serve as a neutral party for the couple during the divorce process. While being part of the support system with the attorneys and mediators, Hollis is able to guide her clients through their short-term and long-term settlement options. Contact Hollis: Email: [email protected] Phone: 203-423-5985 Website: https: /www.meritfinancialadvisors.com/about/locations/bo ynton-beach/ Mentioned in this episode: How to Get Your Act Together So that You Can Tackle Your Divorce with Alex Beattie of Divide & Thrive The Solution for Tackling the Divorce Detour with Storey Jones, Creator of dtour.life It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Make Money Mediating Podcast Susan recently launched a new podcast called the Make Money Mediating Podcast! In this new podcast she shares not only her own tips and insights into building a successful business or businesses, but Susan welcomes some of the top experts in all related fields to share their wisdom to help you build your dream business and achieve success however you define that. Tune in, listen and let Susan know what you think – you can find the podcast on all your favorite podcast outlets including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audible, Stitcher, and more. You can also simply visit the website to listen: MakeMoneyMediating.Podbean.com ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in

Jan 9, 202342 min

Ep 291Resolve to Be Happy in the New Year with the World’s #1 Happiness Coach, Steffani LeFevour on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #279

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., is joined by happiness coach, Steffani LeFevour. Steffani shares her three steps to find happiness and make the New Year your best one ever! January is nationally known as divorce month. Many going through divorce (or thinknig about it) may believe that happiness is not going to happen for them. Divorce is challenging. In this episode, Susan welcomes Steffani LeFevour, the World’s Top Happiness Coach, best-selling author, and international speaker; to share her thoughts on how to find happiness even when life keeps throwing challenge after challenge your way. Steffani talks about how to create a soul-happy life, shares her formula for changing your thoughts, and discloses the secret to manifesting! Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Feeling your feelings and practicing compassion is always the pre-work to finding happiness Focus on the end result of what you do want Release the situation and give it away to a higher power Find moments throughout the day that bring you relief or joy The importance of bringing awareness to recognizing your soul-happy moments The art of allowing yourself to desire is the hardest part to manifesting what you do want Desire it, align with it, and step into it Listen to this episode to bring some happiness into your life as you enter the New Year! About this week's special guest: Steffani LeFevour Steffani LeFevour is the world’s top Happiness Coach, best-selling author, international speaker, and a master at manifesting. She is also a student of quantum physics, an amateur biohacker/athlete/wellness guru, and a wife and mother to two crazy kids. Her passion is to help women find more daily happiness and custom design a soul-happy life that they’re crazy about. She’s personally crazy about the enneagram, the Byron Katie work, limiting belief work, the law of attraction, manifesting, and creating community. When we get happy, and healthy and own our soul experience, anything truly is possible. Grab Steffani’s Happy Habits Checklist at: CoachSteffani.com Steffani on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/steffanilefevour Steffani on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithsteff/ Mentioned in this episode: Set Your Kids Up for Success with Back-to-School Tips from Jenny Stevens Singing ”Single Bells” This Holiday? Surviving the Solitary Season with Special Guest, Jenny Stevens Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/ Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star R

Jan 2, 202340 min

Ep 290A Year-End Roundtable of Hope and Inspiration with Four of Your Favorite Guests in a Very Special Episode of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #278

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back returning guests Bela Gandhi, Beth McCormack, Heather Locus, and Jenny Stevens! They share hope and inspiration as you face divorce, are going through it, or are onto your BEYOND! That’s right, four of your favorite divorce professionals join Susan for a very special episode! Rock star divorce attorney, Beth McCormack, America's favorite dating expert Bela Gandhi, top mental health expert Jenny Stevens, and one of the country's leading divorce financial experts, Heather Lucas, round out this expert panel. The goal of this episode is to provide you with hope and inspiration, no matter which phase of divorce you are in. Whether you are thinking about divorce, going through it, or best of all, in your beyond, tune into this episode for insight that will help you go forward into this new year. Tips and Golden Nuggets include: Mindset matters: Get the support you need in order to be open to legal advice and come prepared to listen Ask for help: Reach out to an attorney for information. Reach out for emotional support from a coach or therapist. Fear about the financial side of divorce: the more financial information you can take to a professional, the more likely you’ll save time, money, and energy The importance of having the right team: Find the right professionals for you and your family’s unique needs “So much of divorce is acknowledging what you can’t control and being really thoughtful on those few things you can control.” Dating: when is the right time to start? Your beyond: Focus on what you do have, forgive yourself and be your own best friend, give yourself permission to create a new story, and practice integrity and grace. Plus, don’t miss the end of this episode for your chance to win some fun prizes! About this week's special guests: Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!" Bela’s website, Smart Dating Academy: http://www.smartdatingacademy.com. Heather Locus founded the National Divorce Practice Group at BDF Private Wealth to help divorcing individuals consciously navigate their divorce’s emotional and business aspects. From hiring the right fit attorney through their SettleSmart™ analysis, then implementing the divorce decree and auditing it annually, Heather ensures you have the resources you need to start your next chapter on a firm footing. BDP Private Wealth: https://ria-cipw.com/bdf/ Beth McCormack is an equity partner at Beermann LLC here in Chicago. As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond, Find out more about Beth: https://www.beermannlaw.com Jenny Stevens, LCPC (Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor) spent 20 years working with adolescents and families as a school counselor. In 2021, Jenny launched Create Change Consultants to provide counseling for individuals navigating major life events, such as divorce, or those looking to create change within their lives. Reach out to Jenny and contact her through her website: www.createchangeconsultants.com Also Mentioned in this episode: Spotify Playlist: https://divorcebeyond.com/Roundtable-Playlist Amazon Shopping List: https://divorcebeyond.com/Shopping-List Heather’s Resources mentioned in Episode: https://aaml.org/financial-issues-in-divorce/ Heather’s Top Five Strategies for a Financially Responsible Divorce: https://www.bdfllc.com/webinar/i-do/ The Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/podcast Bela’s Tedx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIyvhq3zWLg Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional Keeping the house in a divorce or deciding to let it go is a big decision that should not be rushed. Tami Wollensak is a certified divorce lending professional who specializes in presenting marital home options for those who are contemplating or going through

Dec 26, 202253 min

Ep 289Avoiding the Divorce Hangover From the Start with Kelly Myers on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #277

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., is joined by Certified Divorce and Mediation Coach, Kelly Myers. Together they discuss how you can start your divorce on the right foot and avoid a divorce hangover! Kelly Myers’ goal is for individuals to not have any regrets after the divorce is over. She refers to it as the divorce hangover – the if only’s, wouldas, couldas, and shouldas of divorce. In this episode, Kelly shares some of the things she wished she had known or done differently during her divorce. One of the lessons Kelly learned and shares today: You may not get everything you want from your divorce, but with the right tools, mindset, and professionals, you will know exactly why you made every decision you made, you’ll understand the pros and cons of each choice, and you can move forward with confidence in your vision. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Why it is important to look at your divorce as the opportunity to build the foundation for your future. You must become your own advocate. You can’t rely on other professionals to do that because they are not an expert in your life. You are. Create a vision of what you want your post-divorce life to be Once you have your vision, use it as a tool for creating your support team and convey not only what you need, but why you believe you need it “How can you use the law as a tool to get what you and your family need, including the ability to move forward and thrive? That’s the goal here.” The power of organizing your thoughts and fears in a divorce notebook If divorce is in your future, listen to this episode to gain clarity and build a strong foundation for your beyond! Get Kelly's FREE "10 Tips for Hiring a Divorce Attorney" Infographic here: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/su/YTRPNSy About this week's special guest: Kelly Myers Kelly Myers is a Certified Divorce and Mediation Coach, Co-Parenting Specialist, and mediator. She earned her Divorce Mediation certificate from Northwestern University and has taken multiple Divorce and Family Mediation training with the acclaimed Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly has also been trained by Bill Eddy in High Conflict Mediation and as a New Ways for Families Coach. Kelly is passionate in her advocation of developing balanced co-parenting strategies to build harmony within the new family dynamic and is a part of the Co-Parenting Specialist Certification training team at Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly’s a graduate of the University of San Diego and earned her paralegal certificate from USD’s ABA-approved paralegal program. Kelly believes that helping people navigate the divorce process by managing their emotions, creating a divorce support team, and finding clarity on wants and needs allows people to use their divorce to build a strong foundation for their future. Kelly’s website: https://yourdivorceadvocate.com/ Kelly’s divorce resources: https://yourdivorceadvocate.com/divorce-resources/ Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships ********************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional Keeping the house in a divorce or deciding to let it go is a big decision that should not be rushed. Tami Wollensak is a certified divorce lending professional who specializes in presenting marital home options for those who are contemplating or going through a divorce. Your home is your largest asset and planning properly can help you avoid issues. In fact, Tami helps you separate business decisions from emotional decisions and helps you determine if keeping the house is possible or even in your best interest. If you or someone you know could benefit from a complimentary divorce mortgage planning consult, visit TakeorLeavethehouse.com. Mention you heard about Tami on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast. SOBERLINK Soberlink has teamed up with divorce and family law experts to bring you the information you didn't know that can provide peace of mind during the holidays. For those of you who still haven't heard about Soberlink, it is the solution for you if you are going through a divorce and custody case involving alcohol. Whether you are falsely accused of alcohol use or are concerned about your child's safety because of your other parents' alcohol use, Soberlink can help. Soberlink works hard to keep children safe. Offering a remote alcohol monitoring system that is the gold standard because of its technology. It includes a high-tech

Dec 19, 202241 min

Ep 288Divorce Doesn’t Suck: A View From Beyond with Podcast Host, Wendy Sloane on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #276

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes fellow podcast host, Wendy Sloane to the show. Wendy shares the insights she has learned from her divorce and explains why even a bad divorce can be a good thing! In this episode, podcast host and former television producer Wendy Sloane joins Susan Guthrie to share her personal divorce story. She discusses the good and the bad of divorce and how she is living her best life, today. Yes, divorce is fraught with difficulty and overwhelm. but it doesn’t have to suck. You can still have your happily ever after divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Give yourself the grace of space: take your time during the divorce process, you don’t need to hire the first attorney you speak to nor do you need to hire an attorney immediately The decisions you make about who is going to support you in your divorce and the process you choose (mediation, litigation, etc) informs how your divorce and life after are going to unfold Technology can be helpful, especially if there is a conflict between co-parents What we mean when we say, “Divorce is hard when you are in it, so keep your kids out of it.” If you are going through the hard parts of divorce right now, we hope this episode makes things a bit easier! About this week's special guest: Wendy Sloane Wendy Sloane is a former TV producer turned founder and host of the popular talk series podcast What’s Up With Wendy. The show indulges listeners with an in-depth conversation between Wendy Lowy Sloane and her special guests. Wendy's ability to connect with her guests has led to many repeat appearances from popular celebrities including Eric Stonestreet, Monica Potter, Nate Berkus, Lori Laughlin, Paul Reiser, and James Van Praagh. Wendy is also the co-host of the podcast Divorce Doesn’t Suck, which explores every aspect of divorce, including kids, finances, dating, sex, starting over, and more. Co-host Daniel Herrold and Wendy share their experiences and fresh perspectives on their divorces, and how they were able to move forward and focus on the future. Wendy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatsupwithwendy/ Divorce Doesn’t Suck Podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/show/divorce-doesnt-suck/ What’s Up with Wendy: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/966-whats-up-with-wendy-30301431 Susan on Divorce Doesn’t Suck podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/user/whatsupwithwendy/susandds Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. Divide & Thrive makes planning for one EASY. The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. There is no do-over in divorce, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. Divide & Thrive's divorce planner takes the guesswork out of what to do. Their planner has helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. AND Canada save TIME and MONEY during divorce, and have PEACE OF MIND. Their PROGRAM guides you through HOW to set divorce goals, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, STREAMLINES your essential document collection, and SIMPLIFIES asset cataloging. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, the easy-to-use planner helps you address the emotional AND business sides of divorce, and create your best next chapter. Check out www.divideandthrive.net for reviews and a peek inside the planner. Use the code SUSAN22 for 20% off! *************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info **************************************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, f

Dec 12, 202238 min

Ep 287Conscious Coupling: Are Pre-Nups the Secret to a Happy Marriage? with Leading Attorney, Monica Mazzei on Divorce & Beyond #275

Today on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, host Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes leading attorney Monica Mazzei! Together they explore how pre-nuptial agreements can help partners prepare for their marriage and beyond. In this episode, Susan Guthrie and her guest, Monica Mazzei focus not on divorce, but instead on marriage and partnerships. They encourage you to think about how a pre-martial agreement can be a collaboration and bring you together, rather than used as a plan for what happens if you part. Monica Mazzei is a Certified Family Law Specialist representing clients in the Bay Area, with a concentration in San Francisco and Silicon Valley, as well as Los Angeles. She represents high-net-worth clients throughout the litigation process and in mediation. Topics and Golden Nuggets include: Conscious coupling is very different from conscious uncoupling Why the stigma around having a pre-marital agreement is waning Monica shares insights on the ideal time to start the conversation about a prenup What happens during pre-marital agreement planning “Nobody wants to talk about money, divorce, or death. But these are the things you need to talk about.” Prenups should be a collaborative and transparent process, and agreements should be balanced and fair In the event of a divorce, prenups lead to less cost, less time, and less stress because you already worked through these issues “This is your opportunity to ask for what you want while you still like each other. Try doing this ten years from now when you can’t stand each other, it’s a lot harder.” About this week's special guest: Monica Mazzei Monica Mazzei is a Certified Family Law Specialist representing clients in the Bay Area, with a concentration in San Francisco and Silicon Valley, as well as Los Angeles. She represents high-net-worth clients throughout the litigation process and in mediation. Monica has been named a California Super Lawyer from 2015-2019 and has been recognized in the international Chambers High Net Worth 2017-2019 guide for Family/Matrimonial Law. Monica specializes in dissolution actions involving complicated valuation and financial matters, complex community property and support issues, including international issues, and dissolutions involving hedge funds, private equity, venture capital, and privately held businesses. Monica drafts and negotiates cohabitation agreements, and pre-marital and post-marital agreements for her clients. Monica also mediates pre-marital agreements. As a mediator, Monica helps to identify the thoughts and concerns of both parties in a non-confrontational setting. Mediation helps clients discuss difficult topics which allow Monica to create a financial structure that works for both parties. Monica takes a modern approach to the practice of family law – addressing various needs for her clients related and unrelated to their family law cases. Monica has relationships with top professionals in the Bay Area such as forensic accountants, mental health professionals, real estate agents, financial advisors, and business valuation experts. She also works closely with estate planning attorneys to come up with creative solutions for her clients and ensure their agreements reflect their current objectives. Monica is a frequent lecturer and speaker on family law matters and a staunch advocate against domestic abuse in her pro bono work. Monica Mazzei - Sideman Bancroft, LLP: https://www.sideman.com/professionals/monica-mazzei/ Monica on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monica-mazzei-5029432/ Email Monica: [email protected] Mentioned in this episode: Audible: Did you know that you can now listen to The Divorce & Beyond podcast on your favorite audiobook platform, Audible? If you are like me and love your audiobooks along with your podcasts, this is a great time to check out Audible memberships – they have two levels: Audible Plus and Audible Premium Plus You can get a free trial of Audible Plus and if you decide to subscribe to Audible Premium Plus you will also get up to two free audiobooks! Check it out today and it makes a great gift too: Audible Gift Memberships THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Soberlink has teamed up with divorce and family law experts to bring you the information you didn't know that can provide peace of mind during the holidays. For those of you who still haven't heard about Soberlink, it is the solution for you if you are going through a divorce and custody case involving alcohol. Whether you are falsely accused of alcohol use or are concerned about your child's safety because of your other parents' alcohol use, Soberlink can help. Soberlink works hard to keep children safe. Offering a remote alcohol monitoring system that is the gold standard because of its technology. It includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have he

Dec 5, 202246 min

Ep 286Sharing is Caring: How Philanthropy Can Help You Heal with Caren Yanis on Divorce and Beyond #274

In this episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by philanthropist Caren Yanis who shares the many ways that being generous and sharing with others can actually help you heal after divorce. Being philanthropic is not just about money. We have social capital, intellectual capital, time or the ability to be purposeful with lots of different tools. Whether someone has millions of dollars or is on a shoestring budget, being able to give, in some way, can make a difference. Caren Yanis joins Susan Guthrie for a conversation about philanthropy as it intersects with divorce, families, your future, and the beyond. There is power in giving. It can help you heal, be an outlet for your children during divorce, and make the world a better place to live. Caren Yanis is the principal of Croland Consulting, a philanthropic advisory group that guides families, athletes, and celebrities in building a culture of purpose and legacy. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Divorce is a prime time to do something with your children that is outward-focused, such as giving The benefit of having a philanthropic advisor or sherpa to create a long view goals of giving Philanthropy can help you heal from the trauma of a difficult divorce Examples of women who come at philanthropy not with a lot of financial resources but with energy and attention, and do amazing things Engaging in the arts and using the arts to help other people is a fabulous way to elevate everybody Whether you have billions of dollars or zero dollars, we all have something to give and to benefit others. About this week's special guest: Caren Yanis Caren is the principal of Croland Consulting, a philanthropic advisory group that guides families, athletes, and celebrities in building a culture of purpose and legacy. She was Executive Director of the Oprah Winfrey Foundation and Oprah’s Angel Network, (2000-2009) the height of the Oprah Winfrey Show. She went on to become President of Crown Family Philanthropies in Chicago. Caren's focus is on deepening intergenerational engagement and social impact using a variety of assets and strategies. Keynotes, podcasts, and panel discussions have included Family Business Magazine’s Legacy and Wealth Conference, Yale’s Philanthropy Conference, and the Society for Trust and Estate Planners annual and regional conferences. She has been a guest on podcasts including The Heart of Giving (Better Business Bureau), Denton’s, Alliance Bernstein, and Family Business Magazine’s Legacy and Wealth Conference. She is an adjunct professor at Tulane University, the University of Chicago Booth School in their Private Wealth Management program, and at the Spertus Institute where she also mentors graduate students. University speaking engagements include Northwestern Law, NYU, Duke and Johns Hopkins. Caren chairs the board of The Poetry Foundation (which received a significant bequest from Ruth Lilly in 2002) and has guided it through meaningful organizational and governance change. She is an advisor to the Aubrey and Marla Dan Foundation, and to the (Deepak) Chopra Foundation, is a member of the Board of Visitors at the Lilly Family School of Philanthropy at Indiana University, and the Women’s Philanthropy Institute, a research organization focused on trends in giving. In her spare time, Caren hosts salons that bring bold thinkers together for meaningful conversations. She has a passion for listening deeply, navigating challenges, and guiding people who have the potential to make the world a better place. Caren Croland Yanis | Philanthropic Advising: [email protected] Caren’s website: CrolandConsulting.com Caren on Linkedin: http://linkedin.com/in/carenyanis Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! Singing ”Single Bells” This Holiday? Surviving the Solitary Season with Special Guest, Jenny Stevens PoetryMagazine.org/EventsOffer:1 year of Poetry Magazine for $20. Regular price is $35. Generosity Project: https://www.ted.com/talks/sasha_dichter_the_generosity_experiment Women’s Philanthropy Institute – The Women’s and Girls Index: https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21010/wgi-infographic.pdf Women’s Philanthropy Institute -Women as Change Agents: https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21440/change-agents-infographic.pdf Women Moving Millions: https://womenmovingmillions.org/ Thresholds - mental health and breaking the cycle of poverty: https://www.thresholds.org/ Friends of the Children – mentoring high risk children: https://friendschicago.org/about Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation: theMMRF.org If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring

Nov 28, 202242 min

Ep 285It’s All About #GettingtheGift with Lisa McGregor on Divorce and Beyond #273

As we head into the holiday season and Black Friday shopping, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Lisa McGregor of The Unplanned Chapter to the show! Lisa shares support and wisdom about gift-giving, your kids, and your ex this holiday season. After divorce, there is a desire to separate lives between you and your ex. However, if you are co-parenting, you and your ex will always be connected through your child in one way or another. So when it comes to gift-giving around the holidays or special celebrations, co-parents often struggle with helping their child buy a gift for the other parent. When it comes down to it, it's not about you, it's about your child and Lisa knows from personal experience. Lisa McGregor joins Susan Guthrie for a conversation about how to help your children purchase a gift for the other parent in their lives; even if the other parent: doesn’t help your child/children get a gift for you or refuses to accept anything from you. Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has been motivating women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise. Topics and Golden Nuggets include Gift-giving for a co-parent is not about you. It’s about your child and helping them show their love and foster a relationship with a co-parent. Some of the “Yeah, but’s” co-parents struggle when it comes to gift-giving The subtle nuances of helping your children celebrate their other parent and/or honor their choice to forgo giving a gift Share what you are doing with your kids this holiday season and use the hashtag #Gettingthegift On gift-giving: “The biggest payout of all is seeing the joy in your child’s eyes. Allow that to be the drive to do it again in the future. ” This episode is a reminder that gift-giving is not about you. It’s always about your child. Give your child permission to celebrate with their parent and help them in whatever way you can! About this week's special guest: Lisa McGregor Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part-time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has been motivating women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise. The first 17 years of her career were spent in the fitness industry, but after going through a divorce in 2017 and struggling to accept this unplanned chapter of part-time parenting, she felt called to show how she was able to embrace this journey and began to see this adjustment as a gift. Lisa quickly garnered a community of women who resonated and were ready to use their own co parenting journey as a catalyst to a richer life. Lisa empowers Moms to leverage their time away to turn less into more. Lisa has shared her story on several podcasts & across multiple social media platforms and helps women put it all into action as a Life & Hypno Breath Work Coach. Lisa’s website: https://theunplannedchapter.com/ Lisa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunplannedchapter Lisa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunplannedchapter The Unplanned Chapter Blog: https://medium.com/@theunplannedchapter The Unplanned Chapter Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theunplannedchapter/ Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional Keeping the house in a divorce or deciding to let it go is a big decision that should not be rushed. Tami Wollensak is a certified divorce lending professional who specializes in presenting marital home options for those who are contemplating or going through a divorce. Your home is your largest asset and planning properly can help you avoid issues. In fact, Tami helps you separate business decisions from emotional decisions and helps you determine if keeping the house is possible or even in your best interest. If you or someone you know could benefit from a complimentary divorce mortgage planning consult, visit TakeorLeavethehouse.com. Mention you heard about Tami on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast. ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more

Nov 21, 202238 min

Ep 284The Divorce and Beyond November Headlines Roundup with Susan Guthrie #272

It's time for the next installment of our monthly Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up episode with our host and one of the top divorce attorneys in the country, Susan Guthrie! It's a mixture of celebrity headlines and high profile cases involving some more ordinary people with some out-of-the-ordinary problems and issues. Interestingly, there are two cases involving transgender people and the legal issues that can make things even more complicated. Basketball Superstar, Dwayne Wade's petition to change his daughter's name and gender is being opposed by his ex-wife while Tommy Dorfman and her husband have finalized their divorce, perhaps as a result of her recent coming out as transgender. Other cases in the headlines involve one woman's ongoing court battle to use a frozen embryo created with her ex to have another child over his objection, the crazy financial differences between couples that drove them to divorce and Cheryl Burke and Joey Lawrence's ongoing custody battle over their dog which is headed to trial in Janaury. There is something to think about and learn from in each of these media stories so listen in as Susan breaks them down and helps you find the message behind the headlines! In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses: The legal name of Dwyane Wade's daughter is at the center of a court battle Dwyane Wade is trying to legally change his transgender daughter's name and gender. But his ex-wife, Siohvaughn Funches, is asking the court to stop him. Read in NPR: https://apple.news/AWlFkUHOgSiSLaJNfwZbTf Divorced couple fights over frozen embryo: She wants another baby. He doesn't. An egg from a woman's sister that was fertilized by her ex-husband is at the center of a post-divorce legal fight. Read in USA TODAY: https://apple.news/AmWxpAcT2SeS3RA3Ll7oEug Cheryl Burke Cozies Up To Dog Ysabella As Grueling Custody Battle With Ex-Husband Matthew Lawrence Rages On Despite finalizing their divorce in September, Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence are still battling over the custody of their dog. Read in OK!: https://apple.news/AQMr2RpSDTR6GsOOd1h09Xw People Who "Divorced Over Money" Are Sharing The Breaking Point That Ended Their Marriage, And It’s Wild "My ex refused to work, even when I begged him to. We lived on my salary alone, and it was so hard. Eventually, I just snapped and asked for a divorce. It’s been six months since I filed, and I already have more savings than we ever had as a couple." Read in BuzzFeed: https://apple.news/ADyXS7f9GR362rgNHqSWqAw Tommy Dorfman and Ex Peter Zurkuhlen Agree to Divorce Terms 9 Months After Filing Zurkuhlen filed for divorce in February, months after the _13 Reasons Why_ alum came out as transgender Read in People: https://apple.news/ANxGwdyKtSIS_SGP0xxsKiw Listen in and you will never look at the Headlines and Divorce the same way again! ***************************************** Podcast Transcript Available: https://web.descript.com/01ee7197-9d59-49d0-bfca-bd1a309d608f ***************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 20,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ****************************************************************************************** Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq *********** Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

Nov 17, 202232 min

Ep 283Help Your Teachers Help Your Kids During Divorce with Claudia Brown Coulter on Divorce & Beyond #271

Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes former teacher turned mediator Claudia Brown Coulter to share insider knowledge on how your child’s teachers can be one of their biggest support systems during divorce and beyond! You may not realize it, but your child’s teachers and school faculty can tell when something is going on at home. Maybe they see a behavior shift or grades start to suffer. Oftentimes, during divorce, parents don’t make the school aware of this major life change. They are leaving a helpful resource untapped. Today, Susan invites Claudia to talk about the school resources available to children and parents during times of big (or little) stress. In this episode, Susan and Claudia discuss how to talk to your child’s school about your divorce, how to form an allyship between you and your child’s teacher, and other ways schools can support both children and parents through divorce. This is such an important episode, we hope you tune in. Claudia Brown Coulter was a teacher in public education for 21 years. The transition to mediation was a natural one as colleagues and administrators kept coming to her to help them settle disputes between themselves and with their parents. Some topics that Claudia and Susan discuss: School is a safe place for children because there is predictability in their day and therefore it is often where they act out or express their emotions What kind of information is helpful to share with the school when opening up about an ongoing divorce or separation Teachers are your child’s ally, they will be compassionate and understanding Some ways parents and schools can support your children Bonus topic! Holiday gift ideas for teachers Transcript of the Episode About this week's special guest: Claudia Brown Coulter Claudia was a teacher in public education for 21 years. The transition to mediation was a natural one as colleagues and administrators kept coming to her to help them settle disputes between themselves and with parents. So she decided to make it official and enrolled at Pepperdine Law where she learned the art and science of mediation. She loves mediating online, especially since it means clients don’t have to sit in the same room with their ex or battle LA traffic. It’s a win-win. Connect with Claudia: https://brownieculture.com https://www.facebook.com/Brownie-Culture-100942371388718 https://www.instagram.com/brownieculture/ Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. Divide & Thrive makes planning for one EASY. The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. There is no do-over in divorce, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. Divide & Thrive's divorce planner takes the guesswork out of what to do. Their planner has helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. AND Canada save TIME and MONEY during divorce, and have PEACE OF MIND. Their PROGRAM guides you through HOW to set divorce goals, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, STREAMLINES your essential document collection, and SIMPLIFIES asset cataloging. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, the easy-to-use planner helps you address the emotional AND business sides of divorce, and create your best next chapter. Check out www.divideandthrive.net for reviews and a peek inside the planner. Use the code SUSAN22 for 20% off! ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/

Nov 14, 202242 min

Ep 282Special Bonus Episode EMPOWERED: How a New Family Court Law is (and isn’t) Helping Some Victims of IPV with Amy Polacko on Divorce and Beyond #270

As November is Family Court Awareness Month which closely follows on the heels of Domestic Violence Awareness month in October, Susan Guthrie, Esq. brings you a special Bonus Episode where the two topics are joined. Susan chats again with Investigative Journalist and Coach, Amy Polacko to shine a light on what the laws do and do not do to protect victims of intimate partner violence and coercive control, what has been done and what more needs to be done. Amy Polacko recently wrote a revealing article for Ms. Magazine entitled, "Empowered: Women Tell Family Court Judges of Experiences With Coercive Control Using New Domestic Abuse Law" that received a great deal of attention from women and survivors of domestic abuse. As outlined in the article, one year ago, Connecticut enacted Jennifers' Law, which added coercive control to the definition of domestic violence for those seeking relief, becoming one of only 5 states to pass such protections. Amy's article looks at how the law has impacted domestic violence victims since the passing of the law, highlighting the benefits but also the many shortcomings and difficulties in applying the law in a court of law. In this episode, Amy shares her insights from speaking directly with the women who have been in the legal trenches, those who continue to struggle with litigation abuse and some tips for managing if you find yourself in this dangerous situation. This is incredibly important information for everyone to hear as domestic violence rips at the fabric of our society. About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior - and is committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. Her recent journalistic work has appeared in The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News THINK, and Ms. Magazine. After graduating from Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism, Amy worked as a newspaper reporter for Newsday and was part of the Pulitzer Prize-winning team covering the TWA Flight 800 crash. She then transitioned to television journalism, working as a writer and producer in New York City. Amy was an award-winning on-air reporter in Fargo, ND, where she traveled to Kosovo for a series on the North Dakota National Guard, and in Philadelphia, where she covered the national D.C. Sniper story. She also headed up an investigative reporting unit in Albany, NY, where she uncovered consumer scams, crime, and government corruption as part of her I-Team Investigations -- one of which exposed a loophole in the state's sex offender registry. Amy has spoken publicly on women's issues, empowerment and entrepreneurship at Yale University, the Women's Forum in Ridgefield, CT, the Women's Center of Greater Danbury, CT, the Hayvn co-working space for women, the Believe Inspire Grow national empowerment organization for women, and many other groups both virtually and in person. Website: www.freedomwarrior.info Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freedomwarriortribe/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freedomwarriortribe/ Also mentioned in this episode: Dr. Christine Cocchiola's Episodes: Domestic Abuse Part One: Understanding Coercive Control with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on Divorce & Beyond #237 Domestic Abuse Part Two: Turning the Focus to Post-Separation Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on Divorce & Beyond #238 Tina Swithin Episodes: How One Mom‘s Battle is Changing the Face of High Conflict Divorce with Tina Swithin on Divorce & Beyond #206 The Incredible Tale of One Mom’s Successful 10-Year Battle to Be Free of a Narcissist with Tina Swithin on Divorce & Beyond #257 Get Tina's Book: Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle CT Protective Moms: https://www.connecticutprotectivemoms.org/ Tindler Swindler Bad Vegan Maid If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! TRANSCRIPT AVAILABLE: https://web.descript.com/4d38014b-c9a7-4cd4-9ec1-a20f6df22785 ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online

Nov 10, 202233 min

Ep 281Anything Can Happen in Paris: How Divorce, Death, and Astrology Helped Her Find Love with Best-Selling Author, Natasha Sizlo on Divorce & Beyond #269

In this week’s episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes best-selling author Natasha Sizlo to the show! Together, they discuss Natasha’s journey to Paris searching for her soulmate and how that helped her to find true love, friendship, and more. Natasha Sizlo is the author of All Signs Point to Paris: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Destiny. She is a former journalist and a well-known realtor at the firm The Agency. Yes, the real estate firm from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles, where Natasha has appeared on many episodes. You will also be seeing her on the brand new Netflix show, Buying Beverly Hills which premiered on November 4th! In addition to talking about Natasha’s book, this conversation explores the topics of friendship, family, manifestation, going for it, and finding your soulmate. Natasha’s journey will make you laugh, cry, and inspire you. Topics and Golden Nuggets include A reminder to be open to new experiences or possibilities. Awakening to the love of friendship and the support of friends and other women. The power of thinking about what you want your life to look like. “It’s so easy to forget about all the love that we have in our lives. Not all of it is obvious and not all of it is loud. It’s quiet, it’s in the corners, and it’s in the tiny spaces.” Natasha talks about reclaiming the magic of childhood and believing that anything is possible. About this week's special guest: Natasha Sizlo Natasha Sizlo is a writer based in Los Angeles. She grew up in California and has a B.A. from the University of California, Santa Barbara. Natasha started her career writing for magazines including Variety, Cosmopolitan, Shape Magazine, Santa Barbara Magazine, and Ray Gun among others. In 1998, she moved to Detour Magazine where she worked as Senior Editor managing an editorial team and working as a staff writer covering celebrity, fashion, and tech. After Detour, she continued writing for fashion brands and blogs, composing press releases and online copy, and eventually transitioning to real estate where she currently works at The Agency (Yes, the real estate firm from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles, where Natasha has appeared on many episodes). Her astrologer told her that her Point of Destiny is to tell a story, so now she’s doing that. Get Natasha’s Book: All Signs Point To Paris: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Destiny Natasha’s website: https://natashasizlo.com/ Natasha on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/02Novembre1968 Natasha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/natashasizlo/ Natasha Sizlo, Estates Agent: https://www.theagencyre.com/agent/natasha-sizlo Also mentioned in this episode: Moms Moving On Method - Apply Today for Michelle Dempsey-Multack’s Training for Divorce Coaches Program If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! ****************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional Keeping the house in a divorce or deciding to let it go is a big decision that should not be rushed. Tami Wollensak is a certified divorce lending professional who specializes in presenting marital home options for those who are contemplating or going through a divorce. Your home is your largest asset and planning properly can help you avoid issues. In fact, Tami helps you separate business decisions from emotional decisions and helps you determine if keeping the house is possible or even in your best interest. If you or someone you know could benefit from a complimentary divorce mortgage planning consult, visit TakeorLeavethehouse.com. Mention you heard about Tami on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Tami Wollensak, CDLP™, Sr. Mortgage Loan Originator, NMLS ID: 1963450 Oak Leaf Community Mortgage, Equal Housing Lender. Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation **************************************************************** SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info **************************************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forr

Nov 7, 202245 min

Ep 280What You NEED to know about Child Support with Leading Divorce Attorney, Eric Broder on Divorce & Beyond #268

Today on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back Attorney Eric Broder to break down the ins and outs of child support! Many facets of divorce can be overwhelming, especially when finances are involved. One of the most common financial matters that come up in divorce is child support and along with it comes a whole lot of questions: How is it calculated? What happens if a spouse’s income changes? What things aren’t covered under child support? Child support can be hard or even confusing for many people. Eric joins Susan to offer an essential primer on child support. He has a way of describing legal concepts that is accessible which is why we are sure you’ll find this conversation helpful and full of insight. Eric Broder is a Leading Family Law Attorney and Co-Founding Member and Partner at Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC. Conversation Topics and Golden Nuggets: There is a big misunderstanding of what funds from child support cover. Eric shares what child support does and does not cover How child support is calculated - it’s a function of income and not cost of living Child support should always be modifiable - for example, children’s needs change or a parent’s income may change The children win when co-parents can come to an agreement over child support and payment for extracurricular activities like sports or music classes or future education The impact of the amount of time a child is with each parent on child support Listen to hear great tips on making child support agreements that will keep you out of the courtroom! About this week's special guest: Eric Broder Eric J. Broder is a Co-Founding Member and Partner at Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC. He is an AV Preeminent™ rated attorney by Martindale-Hubbell®, the highest possible rating in both legal ability and ethical standards, earned through a strenuous peer and judicial review procedure. He is also a Past President of the Fairfield County Bar Association. Website: https://www.ctfamilylaw.com/ Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! Thinking About Divorce? Your Top 5 FAQs Answered by Leading Divorce Attorney, Eric Broder Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part One “The Nightmare of Shared Expenses for Co-Parents and the Simple Tech Solution That Solves it with the Co-Founder of DComply, Marco Munoz If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Soberlink has teamed up with divorce and family law experts to bring you the information you didn't know that can provide peace of mind during the holidays. For those of you who still haven't heard about Soberlink, it is the solution for you if you are going through a divorce and custody case involving alcohol. Whether you are falsely accused of alcohol use or are concerned about your child's safety because of your other parents' alcohol use, Soberlink can help. Soberlink works hard to keep children safe. Offering a remote alcohol monitoring system that is the gold standard because of its technology. It includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Don't miss out on Soberlink’s Free Guide for the upcoming Holiday Season. Request your free guide today at www.soberlink.com/susan ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw *********************************************************************

Oct 31, 202246 min

Ep 279Navigating Holiday Hassles: How to Handle the Hard Stuff with America’s Favorite Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee #267

With the flurry of holidays right around the corner, it's time for a Special Bonus Episode to help you handle those Holiday Hassles and deal with all the hard stuff when it comes to your children and divorce. Susan is joined again but America's Favorite Parenting Expert and Best-Selling Author, Christina McGhee for deep dive into what really matters for your kids as you navigate two homes as a family. The episode tackles the really tough stuff that includes having to practice radical acceptance of what is as well as facing the fact that in some instances, well-meaning parents can actually bring additional strain on their children at what is supposed to be the happiest time of year. Christina shares so many Golden Nuggets in this episode that it is hard to narrow it down to just a few but some key points she makes are: Start with the question, "what needs to stay the same and what needs to change?" Don't forget what it feels like to be a child during the holidays - it is easy to get caught up in our own feelings of loss but what is truly important? Remember that when you emphasize being "fair" about the timeshare during holidays, kids can feel like a commodity. Sometimes we have to accept that it is what it is and focus on making what we do have the best that it can be. Different doesn't have to mean devastating. Why the term "for now" needs to be your mantra. This is THE episode that will help you face and deal with all the hard stuff about the holiday season head on so that you and your kids CAN have a happy holiday season! ***************************************** About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee Christina McGhee is a speaker and divorce parenting expert who believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. While splitting up is undeniably hard, with the right kind of information and support, she thinks parents can be children's absolute best resource as life changes. As a coach with 20+ years of experience, Christina is dedicated to providing parents with the tools and practical support they need to get it right for their kids. She is also the author of the highly acclaimed book, Parenting Apart: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids. As a child of divorce and as a bonus mom (aka step-mom), Christina gets plenty of opportunities to practice what she preaches. Together she and her husband have four “adultish” children (2 bonus, 2 bio), an ever-growing community of rescue dogs/cats, and an obscene number of chickens. You can nd out more about her at divorceandchildren.com Website: www.divorceandchildren.com Co-Parenting Specialist (CoPS) Certification Training with Mosten Guthrie Academy: https://mostenguthrie.com/co-parenting-specialist Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids: https://amzn.to/3PpdW3m Instagram: http://instagram.com/divorceandchildren Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren Also mentioned in this episode: Christina's previous holiday episode with MORE great advice for a happy holiday season: https://divorcebeyond.com/Avoid-Holiday-Mistakes Bella Duncan's Episode: https://divorcebeyond.com/Kid-with-Two-Homes Ellen Bruno's Episode on Split: The Film: https://divorcebeyond.com/How-Kids-Feel *************************************************** If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! **************

Oct 27, 202238 min

Ep 278Your Post-Divorce Honeymoon is the Trip of a Lifetime with Sadie Marie on Divorce & Beyond #266

On this week’s episode of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Sadie Marie, creator and Host of Sadie’s Divorced and Happy Podcast. Together, Susan and Sadie take you on a journey through your post-divorce honeymoon – this is the trip of a lifetime! Throughout our lives we have many kinds of celebrations - when there is the birth of a baby, we celebrate with baby showers, or for birthdays, we celebrate with parties. When we get married, one way we celebrate is by going on a honeymoon with our new spouse. And guess what? There is also a honeymoon phase you can experience after your divorce! In this episode, fellow podcast host, Sadie Marie, joins Susan for a conversation about some of the ways to transition from experiencing grief over your divorce to a celebratory phase and beyond. You’ll hear ways how to achieve happiness, find yourself, and more. Sadie Marie is the host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast, a spicy, playful, out-of-the-box look at life after divorce. Conversation Topics and Golden Nuggets: The “honeymoon phase” of divorce is about experiencing, learning about, and loving yourself There is a huge part that grief plays in letting go of what you thought you had or who you thought you were How to transition from experiencing grief to this celebratory phase of divorce Stepping into and feeling your most “spicy” Do something different! Divorce is a great season to do something out-of-the-bo “The biggest gift my honeymoon phase gave to me was just how happy I could be.” Celebrate the small wins! About this week's special guest: Sadie Marie Since her divorce, Sadie Marie recognizes more than ever the value of being fierce in determination, desire, and, most of all, self-love. She’s also learned to put her focus on being relentless and resilient in pursuing happiness for herself and her family. As the host of Sadie’s Divorced and Happy Podcast, Sadie welcomes the opportunity to share her insights and ideas as well as learn from her listeners and guests. Website: http://www.divorcedandhappy.net Instagram: http://instagram.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy Facebook: http://facebook.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sadiesdivorcedandhappy YouTube: http://youtube.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy Podcast: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net/podcast Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! Sometimes Too Much is Just Enough Part One with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of "Available" Sometimes Too Much is Just Enough Part Two with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of "Available" Anything is Possible: Bonus Author Update with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of ”Available” If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the

Oct 24, 202244 min

Ep 277The Divorce and Beyond October Headlines Roundup with Special Guest, Bela Gandhi, America’s Favorite Dating Expert #265

Bela Gandhi, America's Favorite Dating Coach, joins Susan this month for a dive into the next installment of our Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up Monthly episode! Starting with reported hot new couple, Emily Ratajkowski and Brad Pitt, Susan and Bela touch on all the biggest headlines from the past few weeks including a couple of Real Housewives (aren't there always a couple of Real Housewives?), Brian Austin Green and Vanessa Marcil's IG spat, Sly and Jennifer's reconciliation and of course, the $650 million divorce of Tom Brady and Gisele! Susan and Bela share the latest on these cases as well as some insights that might apply to your divorce. Think you have nothing in common with these celebrity divorces? Think again! Stars are people too! In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses: Emily Ratajkowski and Brad Bitt Dating amid her divorce: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/emily-ratajkowski-single-divorce-b2203150.html Brad Pitt on Dealing with Divorce “Misery:" https://pagesix.com/2022/10/13/brad-pitt-on-dealing-with-misery-after-angelina-jolie-split/ Giselle and Tom Brady Divorce: https://pagesix.com/article/tom-brady-and-gisele-bundchens-net-worth-a-full-breakdown/ Lisa Hochstein explodes over Lenny’s girlfriend in ‘RHOM’ Season 5 trailer: https://pagesix.com/2022/10/16/rhom-season-5-trailer-lisa-hochstein-cries-over-divorce/ Brian Austin Green slams ex Vanessa Marcil over alleged custody claims: https://apple.news/AlyIhdUCuRLCUtIYVp0tcBA Sylvester Stallone & Wife Jennifer Flavin Attend Ralph Lauren Runway Show After Calling Off Divorce: https://apple.news/ApabQhm_tQmm4tPqCBAJW4Q RHOC Star Shannon Beador Says She Was 'Not Surprised' by Ex-Husband David Beador's Divorce Drama: https://apple.news/AbbiSBVInQJSvlSl8BlNnRQ Listen in and you will never look at the Headlines and Divorce the same way again! Mentioned in this Episode: Over 50 Love Lab with Bela: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/dating-over-50-love-lab The Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/podcast Susan on the Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://audioboom.com/posts/8006156 Bela on Divorce and Beyond: How to Fix Your Picker and Find Love with Bela Gandhi https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/fqkxak/D_and_B_BelaGandhi-Jan2022.mp3 ***************************************** More about Bela Gandhi: Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!" Bela has been connecting people all of her life. Prior to founding the Smart Dating Academy, Bela worked for 12 years as a top global executive for Akzo Nobel, a large multinational corporation. Bela has two degrees from The University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (Finance & German), and has been happily married for 20 years with 2 children. You can find out more about Bela, her date coaching services and her FREE GIFT the 7 Clues You are in a Relationship with a Narcissist Quiz at www.smartdatingacademy.com. Follow Bela on Instagram @smartdatingacademy and be sure to join her on Thursday nights at 7pm ET for her famous Instagram Lives! Podcast Transcript Available: https://share.descript.com/view/yVErsLd7pka ***************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 20,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ****************************************************************************************** Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw *********** Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a

Oct 20, 202244 min

Ep 276The Biggest Mistakes People Make When Divorcing a Narcissist with Tracy Malone on Divorce & Beyond #264

Host, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Malone to discuss some of the mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist! Returning guest Tracy Malone is the author of Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Divorcing a narcissist is a hot topic these days. In fact, there is so much information that is clickbaity or based on myths about it. Tracy’s book is the most comprehensive compilation of tips, insights, case studies, and personal experiences about what it is like to divorce a narcissist. In this episode, Tracy and Susan explore some of the 14 common and biggest mistakes of divorcing a narcissist that Tracy has compiled and share practical advice for avoiding them. Tracy Malone is an author, speaker, educator, and international emotional resilience coach. Conversation Golden Nuggets: The adversarial mindset, “How to BEAT a narcissist” is so harmful. Tracy shares her thoughts on the topic. Instead of “how to fight,” think “how to cope or prepare” “Don’t call them a narcissist! It’s going to poke the bear, enrage them more, and set the whole divorce on a different trajectory.” Check your expectations when it comes to justice in the family court and pick your battles! Make the parenting plan as inclusive as possible and considers the growth of your children If you are aware, you can prepare. Plus, why it is important to have a team or support system during your divorce Listen to this episode to learn as much as you can about divorcing a narcissist and then move forward with awareness! About this week's special guest: Tracy Malone Tracy Malone Author, Speaker, Educator, and International emotional resilience coach. She is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of Narcissist Abuse Support.com. Tracy has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that has reached millions of survivors. Website: https://narcissistabusesupport.com Book: DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Red Flag Checklist: https://narcissistabusesupport.com/free-red-flag-checklist/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone Twitter: https://twitter.com/TracyAMalone Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-narcissist-abuse-support/id1244854330?mt=2 Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! What to Expect When Divorcing a Narcissist: If You Are Aware, Then You Can Prepare with Tracy Malone The FYI on DIY Divorce from the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine Changing Divorce Lawyers Midstream – Your Rights – Vulnerabilities – The Process – Susan Guthrie If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: HELLO DIVORCE Your divorce, your way. Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce. They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer. Easy, quick online divorce process We review, file, and serve for you Expert legal and financial help as you go Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF! ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rati

Oct 17, 202246 min

Ep 275It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak on Divorce & Beyond #263

On this week’s episode of Divorce & Beyond, Host, Susan Guthrie, is joined by Certified Divorce Lending Professional, Tami Wollensak. Together they discuss creative solutions around what you can and can’t do with the marital home in a divorce! So you want to keep the house in your divorce? You’re not alone. The marital home and what is going to happen with it is one of the first questions soon-to-be-divorced couples ask when meeting with a divorce attorney or professional. The home is often one of the biggest assets and the mortgage is one of the biggest debts of divorce. In this episode, Susan and Tami explore solutions around the marital home, discuss some of the things you need to consider before keeping it, what you need to know about lending options, and other difficulties or situations that may arise. Tami Wollensak is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 25+ year veteran of the industry, she has experience working in multiple roles and facets of the industry. She has discovered her true passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions while going through the most challenging time of their life. Conversation Golden Nuggets: Divorce mortgage planning provides options to help you make a more informed decision about the marital home Defining what the equity/value of a home is at the time of a divorce If you are awarded the home, you will probably need to refinance and take out a new mortgage Property taxes and homeowner insurance become your responsibility, the cost of these may change once you refinance If you keep the house, the mortgage is not your only responsibility! Tami shares why getting a home inspection can help you decide if you wish to pursue keeping the marital home or not If keeping the home post-divorce is something you are considering, this episode is a must-listen! About this week's special guest: Tami Wollensak Tami Wollensak is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 25+ year veteran of the industry, she has experience working in multiple roles and facets of the industry. She has discovered her true passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions while going through the most challenging time of their life. Tami has earned the certification as a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP™). This specialization provides her the ability to identify potential gaps in the agreement that cannot be met during the mortgage process. Tami works with her client’s attorney, mediator, or nancial advisor to help guide them through all the options available to ensure a successful outcome regarding the divorcing couple’s real estate. As a Mortgage Loan Originator, Tami’s goal is to educate her clients, take the mystery and anxiety out of the mortgage process, and provide a sense of security and peace to each of them. Book a Meeting with Tami: https://go.thryv.com/site/TamiW/online-scheduling Website: http://www.tamiwollensak.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tamiwollensakcdlp LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamiwollensak Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamiwollensakcdlp Also mentioned in this episode: Book a Strategy Session with Susan! AnnualCreditReport.com If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Soberlink has teamed up with divorce and family law experts to bring you the information you didn't know that can provide peace of mind during the holidays. For those of you who still haven't heard about Soberlink, it is the solution for you if you are going through a divorce and custody case involving alcohol. Whether you are falsely accused of alcohol use or are concerned about your child's safety because of your other parents' alcohol use, Soberlink can help. Soberlink works hard to keep children safe. Offering a remote alcohol monitoring system that is the gold standard because of its technology. It includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Don't miss out on Soberlink’s Free Guide for the upcoming Holiday Season. Request your free guide today at www.soberlink.com/susan ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and inf

Oct 10, 202247 min

Ep 274Let’s Get Radical: Deep-Dive Self-Care to Get You Through Your Divorce with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes, on Divorce & Beyond #262

On this week’s episode, Host, Susan Guthrie, welcomes Holly Hughes, an Intuitive Healer, to discuss tips for taking your self-care to the next level when facing divorce or any significant struggle! Most people going through divorce feel numb or devastated. It’s also not uncommon to lose sight of who you are or were as your marriage comes to an end. While there are many answers to help you heal, sometimes the answer is in the form of self-care. Holly Hughes joins Susan Guthrie for an enlightening conversation about self-care and how it starts with being aware of your own needs. You can’t take care of anyone else (your children, for example) if you aren’t taking care of yourself first. In this episode, Holly and Susan take a deep dive into many forms of self-care. Self-care does not need to be an insurmountable task - it can look like coloring, listening to music, or dancing, - simply take small steps in your day to make yourself feel better. Holly Hughes is an intuitive energy healer, speaker, and author of the book, “Real Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self.” Conversation Golden Nuggets include: When you create a pattern of self-care, those who love you and see the benefit, for you and for them, will encourage it Experiencing a moment of joy may help you define what is hurting and needs healing Part of self-care includes putting your phone down! Start your day with kindness to yourself Sometimes, self-care requires you to say, “No,” to certain people or things in your life Crying is good. Wallowing, however, is not. Self-care can be simple and yet still have a lasting impact. Listen to this episode to hear how to take small steps towards radical self-care, today! About this week's special guests: Holly Hughes Holly is an award-winning author, speaker, and intuitive healer who infuses her unique personal style, intuitive gifts, and personal healing stories to guide clients through a step-by-step process to help them claim their voice, passions, and self-worth. She helps heal your broken heart so the pain from your past stops limiting your future. Get a Holly’s Book: Real, Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self Holly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-hughes-b759a9136/ Holly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holly_hughes_intuitive/ Also mentioned in this episode: Moms Moving On Method - Apply Today for Michelle Dempsey-Multack’s Training for Divorce Coaches Program Rainbows For All Children Did You Know That it is NEVER Too Late to Mediate Your Divorce? Insights from Leading Attorney and Mediator Claire Samuels If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Soberlink has teamed up with divorce and family law experts to bring you the information you didn't know that can provide peace of mind during the holidays. For those of you who still haven't heard about Soberlink, it is the solution for you if you are going through a divorce and custody case involving alcohol. Whether you are falsely accused of alcohol use or are concerned about your child's safety because of your other parents' alcohol use, Soberlink can help. Soberlink works hard to keep children safe. Offering a remote alcohol monitoring system that is the gold standard because of its technology. It includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Don't miss out on Soberlink’s Free Guide for the upcoming Holiday Season. Request your free guide today at www.soberlink.com/susan ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for upd

Oct 3, 202241 min

Ep 273Set Yourself Free with Forgiveness with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, “The Divorce Doctor” on Divorce & Beyond #261

The Divorce Doctor, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, returns to the Divorce & Beyond podcast! Join Dr. Elizabeth and Susan Guthrie, Esq., for a conversation about the greatest gift that you can give to yourself – forgiveness. Forgiveness is a topic that everyone, divorce or not, needs to know more about because it is so powerful, yet so misunderstood. When the topic comes up, it can often sound like nails on a chalkboard. But, did you know that there are demonstrable mental health benefits to forgiveness? It has been shown to elevate mood, and guard against anger, stress, or even depression. Also, when you seek to forgive, it can have positive effects on all facets of your life. Dr. Elizabeth joins Susan for an impactful conversation about how to forgive yourself (and others), let go of resentment, embrace compassion, and create a new beginning. Forgiveness helps you let go of a past that no longer serves you, and helps you move toward a more joyful future. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. Golden Nuggets from Dr. Elizabeth Cohen include: Dr. Elizabeth shares the amazing story about forgiveness that inspired this episode Forgiving is a process - it’s not linear, it’s not fast; it is work Stay away from JADE: Justify, Argue, Defend, and Explaining Forgiveness and resentment are not about the OTHER person, they are about YOU. You have the power to shift how you feel about the other person We acknowledge there are some things that are not forgivable - such as criminal acts or sexual assault You don’t have to forgive a perpetrator - but you may be able to release the power of resentment in your life Forgiveness is about your future This episode is an invitation to give yourself a chance to live anger or resentment free. Listen to give the gift of forgiveness to yourself today! About this week's special guests: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14-week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents, and adults. Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/ GET HER BEST-SELLING BOOK "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON! You can also purchase the book on the "Beyond Reading" page of the divorceandbeyondpod.com website which has links to ALL of Susan's recommended reading! Dr. Elizabeth's Podcast - https://drelizabethcohen.com/podcast/ Dr. Elizabeth’s Website: http://www.drelizabethcohen.com Dr. Elizabeth on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thedivorcedoctor Dr. Elizabeth on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ElizabethCohenPhD Also mentioned in this episode: Moms Moving On Method - Apply Today for Michelle Dempsey-Multack’s Training for Divorce Coaches Program Rainbows For All Children The Divorce Doctor is in the House: Dealing with the Emotions of Divorce The Perfect Storm: What You Need to Know About Anxiety, Depression, Divorce, and COVID with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen TOXIC MASCULINITY: The Untold Cost For Men AND Women with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen RelationshipsOne Year of Covid: Dealing with Difficult Anniversaries with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen CohenLight on the Other Side of Divorce from Dr. Elizabeth Cohen If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Back-to-School season is coming up which can be difficult for those going through a divorce. This is especially true when alcohol and child safety is a concern. On Divorce & Beyond, my mission includes bringing you the latest insider knowledge and information from top experts with regard to your divorce, especially during these changing times. That’s why I’ve partnered with Soberlink to help create and offer resources to help you navigate the upcoming back-to-school season. Soberlink is a remote alcohol monitoring technology created to help prove sobriety in custody cases. The system includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Soberlink is currently offering free Back-to-School & Divorce packets that include an expert Q&A with me, Back to School Checklist, Communication tips, and more. Request your fr

Sep 26, 202243 min

Ep 272The Divorce & Beyond September Headlines Roundup with Susan Guthrie #260

Ready to dive into the next installment of our Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up Monthly episode? Of course we had to touch on the cheating scandal surrounding Adam Levine that just broke yesterday. We also share some insights into Valerie Bertinelli's sale of her wedding rings and shoes and the finalization of Dancing with the Stars, Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence's divorce. The ongoing ugly custody battle between Jesse Williams and his ex rounds out our cases as the battling exes are at it again. Susan shares the latest on these cases as well as some insights that might apply to your divorce. Think you have nothing in common with these celebrity divorces? Think again! Stars are people too! This month, Host and Leading Divorce Attorney, Susan Guthrie reviews some of the top stories from recent headlines and news about divorce, parenting, relationships, adultery and cheating, post-divorce co-parenting, high-conflict and more and shares some insights and lessons that you can learn from, and use, in your journey though divorce and BEYOND! Get a behind the scenes look at some celebrity splits, high profile break ups and the stories behind the headlines from the Voice You Can Trust. In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses: Everything to Know About Adam Levine’s Cheating Scandal: The Accusations, His Statement and More. Valerie Bertinelli Selling Rings, Shoes She Wore in 2011 Wedding to Tom Vitale: 'Bad Memories Attached' Dancing With the Stars ’ Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence Settle Divorce 'I Have Stayed Quiet For Far Too Long': Jesse Williams' Ex-Wife Says She Has 'Receipts' Ready After Actor Accuses Her Of Custody Games Listen in and you will never look at the Headlines and Divorce the same way again! Mentioned in this Episode: Worthy.com therealreal.com ***************************************** Podcast Transcript Available: https://share.descript.com/view/lKy0j15kEyr ***************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 20,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ****************************************************************************************** Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw *********** Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

Sep 21, 202229 min

Ep 271Uncovering Buried Treasure: Finding Hidden or Missed Assets in Divorce with Financial Professional, Olivia Summerhill on Divorce & Beyond #259

Top financial expert Olivia Summerhill joins Susan Guthrie, Esq, on The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Together they discuss how to dig up the “buried treasure” of divorce and find those hidden or forgotten assets! This is the episode that will pay you back for listening! Many people have items in their homes that are taken for granted. When was the last time you took an inventory of what you own? There might be items you never considered that end up being marital assets. Financial expert Olivia Summerhill returns to the podcast to share insight, information, and tips on how to search for the buried treasure of divorce. She invites you to hop on board her treasure-hunting boat and cruise the shoreline (and beyond) to find not only hidden assets but assets that may have been overlooked or forgotten. Susan and Olivia also discuss why you should disclose all assets and liabilities before and during divorce, and explore how working with a professional divorce team can help you find valuable items sitting around or in plain sight. Olivia Summerhill, CFP, CDFA, CMC founded a financial consulting firm dedicated to helping women maintain their lifestyles and thrive post-divorce by educating and empowering them financially. Although Olivia's niche is celebrity and ultra-high net worth clients, she works with clients in diverse financial situations through her extensive pro bono work. Some of the Golden Nuggets from Olivia include: Forgotten or hidden assets are usually right in front of you! Take photos around your house to jog your memory of what you have or were given Easily forgotten assets can include IRAs, season sport event tickets, gift cards, and even airline miles! Why you should know if there is equity in your home Today, there is more opportunity to hide assets AND more resources to help you find them What to know about cryptocurrency as a possible hidden asset Trust your “Spidey” sense! You know more than you think you do. What you need to know and consider about bank accounts for your children Be aware! Who may be involved in actively hiding assets Why you want to disclose all assets before and during divorce This is an episode you’ll want to listen to more than once. Tune in to hear valuable information about how to uncover easily forgotten or hidden assets! About this week's special guests: Olivia Summerhill Olivia Summerhill is the founder of a financial consulting company called The Summerhill Firm. She helps affluent women maintain their lifestyles and thrive post-divorce by educating and empowering them financially. Her niche serves famous and high-profile women who need help navigating the financial complexities of divorce. Having a decade of experience in wealth management and private banking, Olivia dedicates her time to protecting women. She consults with financial advisors and works with their clients to help them avoid divorce mistakes. Among numerous other designations in finance, Olivia is a Certified Financial Planner, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified Divorce Specialist, and Certified Money Coach. Olivia is often highlighted in Forbes, US News, MSN, and other media. She hosts a money coaching podcast called 'Divorce for Wealthy Women.' And currently, she is training for an Ironman to raise money for a non-profit that helps women take control of their finances. *** GET Olivia’s Buried Treasure: Hidden and Forgotten Assets Worksheet! *** Website: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/ Divorce for Wealthy Women Podcast: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/resources/ **************************************************************** Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children What Impact Does Your ”Standard of Living” REALLY Have On Your Divorce with Top Divorce Financial Expert, Olivia Summerhill Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part Two If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! ACCESS THE EPISODE TRANSCRIPT HERE: https://share.descript.com/view/RvNDCPi5Kg5 ******************************************************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. Divide & Thrive makes planning for one EASY. The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. There is no do-over in divorce, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. Divide & Thrive's divorce planner takes the guesswork out of what to do. Their planner has helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. AND Canada save TIME and MONEY during divorce, and have PEACE OF MIND. Their PROGRAM guides you through HOW to set divorce goals, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, STREAMLINES your essential document collection, and SIMPLIFIES asset cataloging. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advi

Sep 19, 202250 min

Ep 270Why Divorcing with Respect is Your Key to a Better BEYOND with CCND’s Deborah Noonan and Jennifer Luise Champagne of CCND on Divorce & Beyond #258

It’s Divorce with Respect Week! Attorney Deb Noonan and Therapist, Jennifer Luise Champagne of CCND join Susan Guthrie, Esq. to share insights into why divorcing with respect is essential to your BEYOND! As families move through the divorcing process, parents are often focused on their emotions over their soon-to-be ex. Respect and kindness are the furthest things from their minds. Yet, the reality of divorce is that it’s not just about what is happening today. It’s also about looking toward the future. How you divorce today will have so much to do with how you live your life beyond divorce. Leading divorce professionals from The Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce join Susan for this impactful conversation about respect, integrity, and divorce. Deborah Noonan, JD, is an experienced family law attorney who for the past 20 years has limited her practice to divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce. Jennifer Luise Champagne, MA, is a licensed professional counselor whose career has been devoted to the emotional and parenting issues of divorce. Respectful insights from this episode include: Deb and Jennifer share their thoughts about what a respectful divorce looks like The challenges of maintaining respect during divorce Re-establishing integrity with your ex-partner and co-parent after separation Some helpful interventions or tools for when parties are having a hard time remaining respectful What you can expect from Divorce with Respect week from CCND, including online events and workshops Respect can be in short supply throughout the divorce process. But, it is possible to obtain. Listen to this episode to hear how to divorce in a respectful and dignified way! Access Episode Transcript: https://share.descript.com/view/003WnBcyxZ0 About this week's special guests: Deborah Noonan, JD, and Jennifer Luise Champagne, MA Deborah Noonan, JD is an experienced family law attorney who for the past 20 years has limited her practice to divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce. After spending a number of years litigating divorces, and witnessing firsthand the harm contentious divorces cause families, especially children, Deborah decided to focus her family law practice on alternative methods of dispute resolution. As a mediator and collaborative attorney, Deborah works with clients to assist them in working out a settlement agreement in a cooperative and mindful problem-solving process that places great emphasis on reducing conflict, keeping children the focus, and empowering the parties to control the outcome of their divorce. Deborah helps clients create quality solutions to meet their and their family’s individualized needs, bringing outside professionals, such as therapists and divorce financial specialists, into the process to promote a more holistic result. Deborah has had extensive mediation and Collaborative Divorce training and has presented on both topics at seminars and conferences. Website: http://divorcemediatect.com The Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce: https://gooddivorcect.com CCND’s Divorce with Respect Week: https://gooddivorcect.com/divorce-with-respect-week/ Jennifer Luise Champagne, MA is a licensed professional counselor whose career has been devoted to the emotional and parenting issues of divorce. Over the past 35 years, she has focused her work with parents as they address the changing needs of their family; coaching parents as they share the decision to divorce with their children, creating parenting plans for the time of separation, and addressing communication challenges that impact parents and their children. Jennifer has received extensive training in mediation and collaborative divorce, as well as in co-parenting and parenting coordination. She is in private practice with offices in Shelton and on the shoreline in Madison and is an adjunct professor at Quinnipiac University School of Law. Jennifer is the current president of the Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce and belongs to several collaborative practice groups within the state. Website: http://www.jenniferluisechampagne.com The Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce: https://gooddivorcect.com CCND’s Divorce with Respect Week: https://gooddivorcect.com/divorce-with-respect-week/ Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children GAL – AMC – OMG! Demystifying the Role of a Guardian ad Litem or Attorney for the Minor Child Part One with Leading Attorney, Beth McCormack, Part 1 GAL – AMC – OMG! Demystifying the Role of a Guardian ad Litem or Attorney for the Minor Child Part Two with Leading Attorney, Beth McCormack, Part 2 Parent Coordination Primer Part One of a Two-Part Episode with Attorney/Mediator, Carolyn Kalos Parent Coordination Primer Part Two: Navigating the Process with Carolyn Kalos on Divorce & Beyond #241 If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you d

Sep 12, 202240 min

Ep 269The Incredible Tale of One Mom’s Successful 10-Year Battle to Be Free of a Narcissist with Tina Swithin on Divorce & Beyond #257

This week, Tina Swithin, author of Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle, re-joins Susan Guthrie, Esq. on The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Tina shares her 10-year journey to protect herself and her daughters from an abusive ex-husband and her mission to help other women do the same! In this episode, Susan highlights the value of Tina’s books, work, and journey. There are so many lessons to be learned from her ten-year battle in a high-conflict divorce. One of the most enduring lessons was how hard it was to protect her children’s safety and best interests in the family court system. But with tenacity and creativity in bringing proof about her ex-husband to the court, she was able to finally end her court battle and have a positive outcome. Tina Swithin is the author of Divorcing a Narcissist (series), founder of One Mom’s Battle, and the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Tina continues to champion children’s rights through her family court advocacy. Tina is working to raise awareness of the issues in the family court system and to educate the general public on post-separation abuse and narcissistic abuse. Tina is remarried and resides in San Luis Obispo, California with her husband and two daughters. Golden Nuggets and takeaways from this episode include: It only takes one person to create a high conflict case Children are often the abuser’s pawns during a divorce Some of the most challenging times for Tina were when she had to learn the system, play nice while trying to maintain boundaries, and have her voice heard In family court, it’s not what you say, but what you can prove. Tina shares how she was able to prove one of her ex’s lies while they were both under oath The paradigm of being the safe parent and handling the sometimes explosive feelings and emotions your children express in your presence The power is in understanding the narcissist’s patterns so that you can manage their behaviors Tune into this episode to hear Tina’s amazing journey and for examples of how you can promote child safety advocacy in custody decisions! About this week's special guest: Tina Swithin Tina Swithin survived a “Category Five Divorce Hurricane” while acting as her own attorney in a high-conflict custody battle that turned her family’s life upside down for over a decade. While divorces are never easy, Tina quickly learned that divorcing a narcissist or other high-conflict individual escalates family law cases to levels that few can comprehend. During her ten year journey through the family court system in pro per, Tina went through a two-day trial, over 40 court dates and two full child custody evaluations. During this time, minor’s counsel was appointed, over twelve police reports were generated and a total of three child welfare reports determined that her ex-husband was a “moderate risk” yet did nothing to protect her children. In 2020, Tina Swithin founded, “Family Court Awareness Month.” Tina is the author of Divorcing a Narcissist (series) and founder of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Tina Swithin has been awarded honors such as the “Top 20 Professionals Under 40” and the “Top 40 Professionals Under 40” in several regional California newspapers. Tina resides in San Luis Obispo, California with her husband and her two daughters. Website: http://tinaswithin.com Books: https://www.onemomsbattle.com/tinas-books Instagram: http://instagram.com/onemomsbattle Twitter: http://twitter.com/onemomsbattle Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/onemomsbattle LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinaswithin National Safe Parents Organization: https://www.nationalsafeparents.org/ Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children How One Mom‘s Battle is Changing the Face of High Conflict Divorce with Tina Swithin If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Back-to-School season is coming up which can be difficult for those going through a divorce. This is especially true when alcohol and child safety is a concern. On Divorce & Beyond, my mission includes bringing you the latest insider knowledge and information from top experts with regard to your divorce, especially during these changing times. That’s why I’ve partnered with Soberlink to help create and offer resources to help you navigate the upcoming back-to-school season. Soberlink is a remote alcohol monitoring technology created to help prove sobriety in custody cases. The system includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Soberlink is currently offering fre

Sep 5, 202253 min

Ep 268Get Wise to the Tricks and Traps of Toxic People: Avoiding Narcissists and Sociopaths in Your Life with Former Investigative Journalist and Divorce Coach, Amy Polacko #256

Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by Freedom Warrior and Divorce Coach Amy Polacko on this episode of The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Together they discuss critical information you need to know about the dangers that exist as you look for love. Amy Polacko is on a mission to teach women about the dangers of online dating and about the devastation toxic relationships can cause. The goal of this episode is to help listeners avoid toxic relationships, know the signs if you are in one, take steps to escape the toxicity and get to a place of healing. Susan and Amy also discuss how to be your own investigative reporter when dating; including resources and strategies, you can use to research new potential partners and spot red flags. Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. Golden Nuggets from this episode include: There is a growing awareness of toxic personalities and relationships depicted in today’s media Gaslighting: what it is and what it looks like in relationships Amy shares several red flags of a toxic relationship or personality Distinguishing between love bombing versus someone trying their best The importance of being your own investigative reporter when dating online Why boundary setting is an essential step in protecting yourself If you need some love bombing in your life, “Love bomb yourself.” This episode will help you avoid toxic people, use your intuition, and be your own pitbull investigative reporter in love and in life! About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior - and is committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. Her recent journalistic work has appeared in The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News THINK, and Ms. Magazine. After graduating from Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism, Amy worked as a newspaper reporter for Newsday and was part of the Pulitzer Prize-winning team covering the TWA Flight 800 crash. She then transitioned to television journalism, working as a writer and producer in New York City. Amy was an award-winning on-air reporter in Fargo, ND, where she traveled to Kosovo for a series on the North Dakota National Guard, and in Philadelphia, where she covered the national D.C. Sniper story. She also headed up an investigative reporting unit in Albany, NY, where she uncovered consumer scams, crime, and government corruption as part of her I-Team Investigations -- one of which exposed a loophole in the state's sex offender registry. Amy has spoken publicly on women's issues, empowerment and entrepreneurship at Yale University, the Women's Forum in Ridgefield, CT, the Women's Center of Greater Danbury, CT, the Hayvn co-working space for women, the Believe Inspire Grow national empowerment organization for women, and many other groups both virtually and in person. Website: www.freedomwarrior.info Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freedomwarriortribe/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freedomwarriortribe/ Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children Tindler Swindler Bad Vegan Inventing Anna How One Mom‘s Battle is Changing the Face of High Conflict Divorce with Tina Swithin TinEye Reverse Image Search If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. Divide & Thrive makes planning for one EASY. The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. There is no do-over in divorce, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. Divide & Thrive's divorce planner takes the guesswork out of what to do. Their planner has helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. AND Canada save TIME and MONEY during divorce, and have PEACE OF MIND. Their PROGRAM guides you through HOW to set divorce goals, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, STREAMLINES your essential document collection, and SIMPLIFIES asset cataloging. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, the easy-to-use planner helps you address the emotional AND

Aug 29, 202247 min

Ep 267The Divorce & Beyond August Headlines Roundup with Susan Guthrie #255

Ready to dive into the next installment of our Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up Monthly episode? Wondering what's up with Sly's Divorce? The ongoing custody war between Olivia and Jason? How about the fact that Kanye just lost his 5th divorce attorney? These are just a few of the headlines that she unpacks for you this month. Think you have nothing in common with these celebrity divorces? Think again! Stars are people too! This month, Host and Top Divorce Attorney, Susan Guthrie reviews some of the top stories from recent headlines and news about divorce, parenting, relationships, gray divorce, post-divorce co-parenting, high-conflict and more and shares some insights and lessons that you can learn from, and use, in your journey though divorce and BEYOND! Get a behind the scenes look at some celebrity splits, high profile break ups and the stories behind the headlines from the Voice You Can Trust. In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses: Breaking TODAY: Sylvester Stallone and Wife, Jennifer Flavin announce divorce after 25 years of marriage Olivia Wilde wins first custody battle against Jason Sudeikis Ben and Jen’s New PreNup 2.0: Is There a Cheating Clause Like the First Time? Kelly Clarkson Reflects on "Rough Couple of Years" After Brandon Blackstock Divorce How Kim Kardashian’s Lawyer Responded After Kanye West Lost Yet Another Lawyer in the Divorce Case FBI not expected to reopen Brad Pitt case after explosive Angelina report 'Love Is Blind' 's Danielle Ruhl and Iyanna McNeely Have Girls Night with Costars After Divorce News Listen in and you will never look at the Headlines and Divorce the same way again! Episodes and Articles Mentioned: Susan's Interview with Divorce Journalist, Ilyssa Panitz in Authority Magazine from Medium.com on the Olivia Wilde and Jason Sudeikis custody action Ilyssa Panitz on Divorce & Beyond: The Top 5 Things You Need to Know to Survive and Thrive in Your Divorce ***************************************** Podcast Transcript Available: https://share.descript.com/view/WJMsLbCpDyD ***************************************** MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 20,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. ****************************************************************************************** Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw *********** Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ***************************************************************************** DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM

Aug 25, 202225 min

Ep 266How to Cope When There’s No “Co” in Your Co-Parenting with Christina McGhee on Divorce & Beyond #254

America’s Favorite Parenting Expert is back on the show! Christina McGhee re-joins host Susan Guthrie on The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Together they discuss the top tips for managing a difficult co-parent! Parenting even under the best of circumstances is challenging. When you add into the mix a co-parent who is uncooperative or high conflict, it’s downright exhausting. So, what can you do? Christina has some wonderful tips about how to maneuver a co-parenting situation where your co-parent is non-existent or uncooperative. Christina shares ways to work through the feelings of hopelessness and exhaustion. Plus, she talks about how to get to a place of being in control of yourself and your emotions so you can be an empowered, consistent, engaging, and confident parent to your children. Christina McGhee is a speaker and divorce parenting expert who believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She is also the author of the highly acclaimed book, “Parenting Apart: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids.” Some topics that Christina and Susan discuss: What Christina means when she says “When there’s no “Co” in Co-parenting…” Instead of staying focused on fixing the co-parent, lean into your co-parenting values and work on yourself Radical acceptance: Adjust your expectations and accept things the way they are…for now. “It may not get easier, but how you manage it makes a difference.” Ask yourself: How is your response going to impact your children? Talk about the problem, not the person. “Making the other parent look small will never make you look big.” Don’t forget about the power of one! Tune into this episode to hear tips and strategies that will keep your children at the center of your divorce and to learn how to cope with a difficult co-parent! About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee Christina McGhee is a speaker and divorce parenting expert who believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. While splitting up is undeniably hard, with the right kind of information and support, she thinks parents can be children's absolute best resource as life changes. As a coach with 20+ years of experience, Christina is dedicated to providing parents with the tools and practical support they need to get it right for their kids. She is also the author of the highly acclaimed book, Parenting Apart: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids. As a child of divorce and as a bonus mom (aka step-mom), Christina gets plenty of opportunities to practice what she preaches. Together she and her husband have four “adultish” children (2 bonus, 2 bio), an ever-growing community of rescue dogs/cats, and an obscene number of chickens. You can nd out more about her at divorceandchildren.com Website: www.divorceandchildren.com Co-Parenting Specialist (CoPS) Certification Training with Mosten Guthrie Academy: https://mostenguthrie.com/co-parenting-specialist Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids: https://amzn.to/3PpdW3m Instagram: http://instagram.com/divorceandchildren Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. Divide & Thrive makes planning for one EASY. The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. There is no do-over in divorce, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. Divide & Thrive's divorce planner takes the guesswork out of what to do. Their planner has helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. AND Canada save TIME and MONEY during divorce, and have PEACE OF MIND. Their PROGRAM guides you through HOW to set divorce goals, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, STREAMLINES your essential document collection, and SIMPLIFIES asset cataloging. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, the easy-to-use planner helps you address the emotional AND business sides of divorce, and create your best next chapter. Check out www.divideandthrive.net for reviews and a peek inside the planner. Use the code SUSAN22 for 20% off! ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. I

Aug 22, 202250 min

Ep 265Set Your Kids Up for Success with Back to School Tips from Jenny Stevens in a Special Bonus Episode of Divorce & Beyond #253

In this special Bonus Episode, Susan Guthrie is joined by popular guest, Jenny Stevens, who shares tips from her 20 years as a school counselor at one of the top private schools in the country (and a divorced mom herself) to help you set your kids up for success as they go back to school! The transition from the fun days of summer back to the structure and regimen of the school year can be a jolt for kids and when you add the stress of a family going through divorce or separation, this can be a tough time for all involved, but especially for the children. Jenny shares truly insightful and practical steps that parents can take in advance, and throughout the school year, to make everything much easier and truly enjoyable for kids. She covers everything from moving up bedtime a few weeks before the first day of school, to having some dedicated spaces for backpacks, homework and even after school snacks. There are golden nuggets galore and your kids will thrive as they head back to school from their two homes! Jenny Stevens, spent almost 20 years support children and families as a Licensed Clinical School Counselor (LCSC) and currently has a private practice as a therapist and coach for those who are navigating major life transitions and challenges. As a divorce mother herself, making sure that kids thrive in their home and school life is her passion and this episode is everything that you, and your kids, need to succeed! *** Don't forget to share your new school year traditions with us! We will be sharing your great ideas on social media to help other families going through divorce, separation and navigating two homes. Send your ideas and insights to [email protected]! *** Transcript of the Episode: https://share.descript.com/view/W0y5S2kPOJA About this week's special guest: Jenny Stevens Jenny Stevens, LCPC (Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor) spent 20 years working with adolescents and families as a school counselor. In 2021, Jenny launched Create Change Consultants to provide counseling for individuals navigating major life events, such as divorce, or those looking to create change within their lives. Jenny knows firsthand the challenges of major life changes. From attending nine schools in the span of twelve years, losing her father at the age of nineteen, learning as an adult how to cope with her mother’s fading mental health, and going through her own divorce, Jenny has tremendous insight into dramatic change and how to cope. As a therapist, Jenny brings a warm, inviting and unique style to interactions with her clients. She cares deeply about helping and supporting her clients to make the changes they have always wanted, but didn't possess the motivation and inspiration needed to do so. In addition to her private practice, Jenny works with Vesta Divorce to provide support through complementary events, education and trainings to those navigating the divorce process, including children. Reach out to Jenny and contact her through her website: www.createchangeconsultants.com Follow Jenny on Instagram: @createchangeconsultants Also mentioned in this episode: Singing Single Bells This Holiday Season? Surviving the Solitary Season with Jenny Stevens How to Talk to Your Kids About School Shootings with Jenny Stevens Soberlink is currently offering free Back-to-School & Divorce packets that include an expert Q&A with me, Back to School Checklist, Communication tips, and more. Request your free packet today at www.soberlink.com/susan ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 22,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! **********************************************

Aug 18, 202240 min

Ep 264You Won’t Believe All the Ways that a Private Investigator Can Help You in Your Divorce with the Barefoot P.I., Jan Barefoot on Divorce & Beyond #252

Susan Guthrie is joined by Jan Barefoot, the Barefoot P.I., to discuss how a private investigator may be the secret weapon you need for your divorce! This episode aims to help listeners understand what a private investigator (P.I.) does in a divorce. We often think about hiring a P.I. solely to find out if a spouse is having an affair. Yet, there is so much more they can do to help bolster the divorce case, including gathering information or creating a safe space for your next move. Ultimately a private investigator can help you by confirming your gut instincts, unburdening emotional turmoil, and allowing you to gain clarity on how you want to proceed with your divorce. Jan Barefoot founded Barefoot Professional Investigations in 1986 to provide targeted investigative services to clients in the southeastern United States. Jan’s unique interest in investigations was spurred by her experience working within the legal industry and a keen ability to uncover details. Jan’s passion is to impact the lives of Clients from favorable verdicts in capital murders cases to restoring spouses whose families have been wronged. Jan and Susan cover these Golden Nugget topics: How a P.I. can be helpful to someone going through a divorce What a private investigator does when performing surveillance services Jan explains that when you are involved in a custody dispute there is information a P.I. can gather for your case Understanding the complexities of today’s digital world, digital forensics, and divorce Best practices for background checks when newly dating or even highering childcare services You won’t believe all of the ways a P.I. can help you in your divorce. Listen to this eye-opening episode! Transcript of the Episode: https://web.descript.com/b09b7409-c195-4375-9eed-f6543fbe9dce/063d6 About this week's special guest: Jan Barefoot Charlotte native Jan Barefoot founded Barefoot Professional Investigations in 1986 to provide targeted investigative services to clients in the southeastern United States. Jan’s unique interest in investigations was spurred by her experience working within the legal industry and a keen ability to uncover details. Jan’s passion is to impact the lives of Clients from favorable verdicts in capital murders cases to restoring spouses whose families have been wronged. Her approach to private investigations has always been simple: deliver on commitments and provide unparalleled customer service. By nature, private investigation work is often quite sensitive and can be extremely challenging to all involved parties. Jan knows how critical it is to operate with respect, discretion, and professionalism. Over three decades later and after investigating over 200 murder cases and nearly 3,000 domestic cases, her investigators and staff continue to carry that torch. Jan holds a degree from King’s Business College and worked as a legal assistant for several years before moving to the investigative industry. She is an active member of the National Association of Legal Investigators, Intellenet, and the World Association of Detectives and enjoys continuing to grow and learn from the investigative community and industry colleagues. Website: https://barefootpi.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/barefootpi LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jan-barefoot-71275262/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/barefoot.pi Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children How One Mom‘s Battle is Changing the Face of High Conflict Divorce, with Tina Swithin If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Divide & Thrive Divorce Planner Divorce is hard. Divide & Thrive makes planning for one EASY. The #1 regret I hear from people who've gone through a divorce is that they didn't PREPARE in advance. There is no do-over in divorce, so planning early in the process is a GAME CHANGER. Divide & Thrive's divorce planner takes the guesswork out of what to do. Their planner has helped THOUSANDS of people throughout the U.S. AND Canada save TIME and MONEY during divorce, and have PEACE OF MIND. Their PROGRAM guides you through HOW to set divorce goals, tackle your BUDGET with easy-to-use financial planning tools, STREAMLINES your essential document collection, and SIMPLIFIES asset cataloging. Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, the easy-to-use planner helps you address the emotional AND business sides of divorce, and create your best next chapter. Check out www.divideandthrive.net for reviews and a peek inside the planner. Use the code SUSAN22 for 20% off! ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. S

Aug 15, 202250 min

Ep 263”Dating in Your 40s Be Like . . .” The Viral TikTok Heard Round the World with Molly Dare Hillenbrand on a Special Bonus Episode of Divorce & Beyond #251

In a Special Bonus Mini-sode, host Susan Guthrie is joined by returning guest Molly Dare Hillenbrand, the dynamic founder of HillenBRAND Media and the host of "On Air with Molly Dare." They discuss Molly's recent viral TikTok post with well over 1.5 million views that caused a media sensation nationwide with features in the New York Post and on NewsNationLive among others! In a post captioned "Dating in Your 40s be like . . . " that must be seen to be believed (click here to watch!) Molly used a audio thread from a voicemail from "Dimitri" to highlight the sometimes treacherous waters of dating for women. Although Molly's TikTok videos are always popular (follow her at @mollydareofficial) this one went almost instantly viral with more than 1.5 million views and over 17,000 comments. While many of the comments were supportive and commiserated with the sometimes "narcissistic" dating pool out there, there was also a flood of misogynistic backlash and vitriol. Molly has since posted more videos in response and shares some of the lessons learned along the way so tune in and check this one out - you won't believe your ears! Trust us, if you are in a relationship, after listening to this episode, you will turn to your partner and say "thank you!" About our special guest: Molly Dare Hillenbrand Known for her powerhouse PR skills, Molly Dare Hillenbrand founded hillenBRAND Media in 2017, promoting entrepreneurs, business owners and media personalities through filmed social media segments, on-camera interviews, and podcast episodes of On Air with Molly Dare. Molly is also known for her work both in front of, and behind, the camera. She has hosted and produced multiple nationwide segments for the ‘Eye On’ channel, providing viewers with insight happenings in their city, while simultaneously giving brands exposure to viewers across the country. Molly’s incredible work ethic has kept her at the top of her field year after year most recently being featured on the cover of Formidable Woman Magazine and a sought after guest on numerous podcasts. Undoubtedly, Molly’s most important role in life (and biggest passion!) is being a single mom to her two talented and beautiful daughters, Carolyn and Sophie, and her three super cute and snuggly dogs. Website: www.mollydare.com Instagram: @mollydare TikTok: @mollydareofficial Also mentioned in this episode: Molly's First Episode on Divorce & Beyond: If I Had Only Known Then What I Know Now: Reflections on Divorce from Molly Dare Hillenbrand Susan's Episode on Molly's Podcast: A Story of Pivoting and the Gift of Divorce with Susan Guthrie on On Air With Molly Dare Molly's Spotlight Series with Susan: One on One with Chicago's Susan Guthrie If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career. Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information: Susan Guthrie on Facebook @susanguthrieesq Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw ********************************************************************* SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at [email protected] for pricing and details!!! ********************************************************************* We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can get in touch with Susan at [email protected]. Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!! ********************************************************************* DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONL

Aug 11, 202223 min

Ep 262How Do You Stop Being So Angry About Your Divorce with the Founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, Jackie Pilossoph on Divorce & Beyond #250

This week host Susan Guthrie is joined by returning guest Jackie Pilossoph, Founder of Divorced Girl Smiling. Together Susan and Jackie discuss the importance of understanding the anger about your divorce and how to move past it so that you can thrive in your beautiful beyond! Some people go ten, twenty, or even thirty years caught up in the anger of their divorce. For example, we all know that one person who continues to talk about how angry they are that their ex left them for another person, twenty years earlier. It’s normal and healthy to be angry. However, holding onto anger for too long will impact your entire life; and not in the best of ways. During their conversation, Jackie shares seven practical tips and suggestions to help you acknowledge, process, and work through your emotions. If you are wondering HOW to let go of your anger - Jackie will help you! You have all the control of letting that anger go - it’s time to smile again. Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, a website, podcast, and app. Jackie, who went through a divorce several years ago, is a former TV and newspaper journalist who spent 8 years writing her syndicated weekly column, Love Essentially for the Pioneer Press/Chicago Tribune. Jackie and Susan discuss these Golden Nuggets: No judgment zone! Anger is a normal and healthy emotion If you are in the anger phase - it’s okay to acknowledge it to others “We can choose what we want to define ourselves as - anger, bitterness, or living in the past should not be one of those things.” Letting go does not mean forgetting what happened Why you should shift the focus on yourself and your children “The only time you should think about the past is if you are going to learn from it and do better.” “If you love yourself don’t say, ‘What if…’” The bottom line: You have to love yourself enough to let that anger go This episode is a must-listen for anyone eager to learn how to release their anger for good! About this week's special guest: Jackie Pilossoph Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and Editor-In-Chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, the website, podcast and mobile app. The author of the novels, Divorced Girl Smiling and Free Gift With Purchase, Pilossoph also created and wrote the weekly dating and relationships advice column, “Love Essentially”, which was published in the Pioneer Press, The Chicago Tribune and all other Tribune Publishing publications for 7 1/2 years. Pilossoph holds a Masters degree in journalism from Boston University, and spent time as a broadcast journalist at KTTC in Rochester, Minnesota, as well as several years writing feature stories for the Pioneer Press/Chicago Tribune. She lives in Chicago with her family. Oh, and she’s divorced. Website: divorcedgirlsmiling.com Instagram: @divorced_g Also mentioned in this episode: Rainbows For All Children The Top 8 Reasons Why Your Ex is Being a Jerk and What to Do About It with Divorced Girl Smiling with Jackie Pilossoph How Do You Stop Being Angry about Divorce? Drowning in Drink: Alcohol Use and Abuse in Divorce with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part Two Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part One If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Back-to-School season is coming up which can be difficult for those going through a divorce. This is especially true when alcohol and child safety is a concern. On Divorce & Beyond, my mission includes bringing you the latest insider knowledge and information from top experts with regard to your divorce, especially during these changing times. That’s why I’ve partnered with Soberlink to help create and offer resources to help you navigate the upcoming back-to-school season. Soberlink is a remote alcohol monitoring technology created to help prove sobriety in custody cases. The system includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Soberlink is currently offering free Back-to-School & Divorce packets that include an expert Q&A with me, Back to School Checklist, Communication tips, and more. Request your free packet today at www.soberlink.com/susan ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Sect

Aug 8, 202249 min

Ep 261Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part Two on Divorce and Beyond #249

Are you ready to hear MORE of the most memorable moments and juicy stories from today’s top divorce professionals on the Divorce & Beyond podcast? — We are back with Part Two of the Most Memorable Cases from our favorite Divorce & Beyond expert guests. In this episode, guests such as Evan Schein, Michelle Dempsey Multack, and Debra Doak discuss their most memorable divorce cases and experiences. Plus, Susan Guthrie shares her most memorable case too! Guests share tips and insights learned from these interesting and sometimes outrageous situations. If you haven’t listened to Part One of this special series, listen to Monday’s episode to get caught up! Some of the most memorable cases and topics in this episode include: Pet custody and dog grooming, oh my! Divorce Coach Debra Doak shares her memory about a months-long stall of a divorce case over the grooming of a shared pet. Rock-star family attorney Evan Schein reflects on a case that has stayed with him his entire career which involved heartbreak and infidelity. He talks about how it taught him the emotional impact of divorce. Divorce and Transformational Coach Karen Millon remembers working with a client who was stalled by indecision, guilt, blame, and grief over her divorce. Karen walks us through how her client learned to embrace her worthiness. “Everything she said was a lie!” Uswah Khan, family law attorney, shares about her first divorce case in which she represented a dream client who then exploded the first time he stepped onto the witness stand! You will also hear insightful and astounding experiences from Lesa Koski, Michelle Dempsey-Multack, Olivia Summerhill, Kate Anthony, and Susan Guthrie! Listen in to hear the intriguing case details, insights, and knowledge from today’s leading divorce professionals! ***************************************** This episode featured knowledge and wisdom from these special guests: Debra Doak Evan Schein Karen Millon Uswah Khan Lesa Koski Michelle Dempsey Olivia Summerhill Kate Anthony Susan Guthrie Episodes mentioned: How to Find the Coach You NEED to Succeed in Your Divorce with the Founders of the Divorce Coaches Academy, Tracy Callahan, and Debra Doak The Ultimate Guide to Depositions in Divorce Cases with Leading Family Law Litigator, Evan Schein It’s Never Too Early to Start Healing with Karen Millon Everything You Need to Know to Get a Restraining Order with Uswah Khan Doing Divorce Different Because There Isn‘t Just One Way with Attorney Lesa Koski Moving On From Your Divorce with Michelle Dempsey-Multack What Impact Does Your ”Standard of Living” REALLY Have On Your Divorce with Top Divorce Financial Expert, Olivia Summerhill Is it Over? Should You Stay? Should You Go? Find out with Kate Anthony The Great Escape: Planning Your Exit From an Abusive Relationship with a Narcissist with Transformation Coach with Victoria McCooey Also mentioned: Schein On with Evan Schein Healin with Karen Millon Doing Divorce Different with Lesa Koski The Moms Moving On Divorce & Co-Parenting Podcast with Michelle Dempsey-Multack Michelle’s book Moms Moving On The Divorce Survival Guide with Kate Anthony ************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Back-to-School season is coming up which can be difficult for those going through a divorce. This is especially true when alcohol and child safety is a concern. On Divorce & Beyond, my mission includes bringing you the latest insider knowledge and information from top experts with regard to your divorce, especially during these changing times. That’s why I’ve partnered with Soberlink to help create and offer resources to help you navigate the upcoming back-to-school season. Soberlink is a remote alcohol monitoring technology created to help prove sobriety in custody cases. The system includes a high-tech breathalyzer device with facial recognition that allows you to receive real-time updates from monitored co-parents anytime, anywhere allowing for swift intervention for improved child safety. They have helped hundreds of thousands of people document proof of sobriety in real-time for peace of mind in child custody cases. Soberlink is currently offering free Back-to-School & Divorce packets that include an expert Q&A with me, Back to School Checklist, Communication tips, and more. Request your free packet today at www.soberlink.com/susan ******************************************************************* MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST: SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is a member of the Executive Council of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way® which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Le

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