The Chris Harder Show

There's a lot of talk in the entrepreneurial world about maintaining a work-life balance, and today's guest, Mel Abraham, talks about the defining moment that made him focus on what that term really meant. A CPA by education, he was pushed out of a firm partnership and did what anyone would do… He dug his heels in and worked countless hours to keep profits coming in so he could support him and his son. However, when his then 6-year-old, Jeremy, drew a picture of his dad surrounded by computers and phones while working, he knew something had to change. Today it's no longer about the myth of work-life balance – it's about finding work-life harmony so his entrepreneurial dream can coexist with the responsibility and gift of being a father. Mel has a way of breaking down and simplifying this complicated topic so we feel connected to those we care about and our businesses at the same time. He also drops some serious, game-changing knowledge on marketing and intellectual property that you don't want to miss. -- Question Highlights: What's one of your superpowers? What is one regret you have? Who is someone who has changed your life? What is something generous you've done lately? After you realized your son only thought of you working, what did you do next? Why do people tend to abandon their why or their above the line stuff? What's the common thread between you and your friends that makes you such success stories? What role has generosity played in your success? Why do you think some people have a hard time asking for help? What's the most common cause of people getting stuck? What do you teach at your academy that's so unique? How did you view money growing up? In This Episode We Talk about: The moment that caused Mel to improve his work-life balance Time-blocking to do more reflecting, connecting and rejuvenating Connecting with people on a level where they feel they're cared about Why it's so important to protect your intellectual property Why Mel thinks indecision is dangerous Why there is no competition to your unique view (just competitors) Recognizing that everything we create has value The significance of the photo Mel included in his book And so much more… Mel's Thoughts… "If my greatest success was raising my son as a single, full-time dad, then I did OK when I was here." "Work-life balance is a myth. It's about getting work-life harmony." "My son didn't need the profits, he needed the presence." "The more we can make people feel more connected, the more people feel cared about, the more we all grow and get better from it." "Give because it's the right thing to do." "If you have the ability, you have the responsibility." "There's an audience for every perspective." "Marketing doesn't matter if your positioning is correct." "It wasn't about the wealth, it was about the richness and peace of mind I could get." "I want to create experiences for the people I serve at the level I want." -- MEL ABRAHAM is the author of The Entrepreneur's Solution: Getting the Mind - Set & Mechanics of a Millionaire and Founder of Business Breakthrough Academy where he works with entrepreneurs and business owners to create, grow and optimize their businesses so that they can create a life of impact, meaning and financial freedom. Mel is a CPA by education but an entrepreneur by exhilaration. This unique combination of advisor and entrepreneur has allowed Mel to build numerous successful businesses for himself as well his clients. As the CEO of a strategic consulting services firm, Mel has helped entrepreneurs; businesses and management teams across the country create meaningful, mission - driven careers/ventures. As an inspiring leader and in - demand international speaker, trainer and mentor, Mel has trained thousands of people to change the way they think about, business, money and wealth. His goal is to assist them combine the practical elements of business tactics and strategies with the psychological essentials of the entrepreneurial mind to more effectively execute their vision and establish a meaningful legacy. -- Resources: The Entrepreneur's Solution by Mel H. Abraham http://www.MelAbraham.com http://www.Thoughtpreneur.com IG: @melabraham9 FB Group: facebook.com/groups/influencersdojo/ -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

If you've been listening to my podcast for a while now, you know that I try to be as transparent as humanly possible. While most only teach the rosy stuff, I feel it's imperative to see what's normal so you know if you're on the right track. No one is perfect. Case in point, earlier this week I had a breakdown. Yep, an all-out toddler breakdown, which included throwing my phone on the floor and blurting out whatever came to mind. Lori and I have both had a lot going on the past few months – Lori's Bliss Project event, my Mastermind, other speaking events for Lori (where I helped her prepare), Lori's book launch and our new Aligned course. And this doesn't even include our normal everyday tasks. So, we were wrapping up our two-day recharge at the Ritz in Laguna and about to head back into reality when I checked my email and received a message that just set me off. It instantly made me feel like I wasn't living life on my terms. Enter tantrum mode. I can totally laugh at it now, but all the stress had built up and I had to release some of it. And this is where tribe saved me… Lori was there to let me vent and talk it through. Then I also texted a couple of my super successful entrepreneur friends and they also reassured me that this was normal and gave me a couple stories of their own as well as some tips to get through it. We NEED people like this in our lives. Without them, you'll bottle up all the motions and eventually explode (have a tantrum like I did). "The pace doesn't need to slow, but the releasing of the pressure does need to be more often." We need to put a focus on self-care and give ourselves a break now and then. It is perfectly normal to have breakdowns and feel tired. "You're always going to be tired from struggle or tired from making it happen – I choose the latter." Stay the course. Talk it out. Let off some steam with your go-to person. And take as good of care as possible of yourself. But keep up the pace so your dreams come true. You've got this and we're all here to support you! In This Episode We Talk about: Why it's important to be transparent and share your struggles How tribe saved Chris during his breakdown The importance of self-care Resources: Ready to turn your 6-figure income into a 7-figure income? Drop a line to me at [email protected] if you're interested in coaching with me. For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

There are so many different thoughts on the Law of Attraction, so I am super excited for Manifestation Babe (and expert), Kathrin Zenkina, to talk about it today. With her initial interest in the Law of Attraction beginning at the young age of 16, she later realized just how much more was behind truly manifesting all the things you desire into your life. Manifesting is far more than just thinking about something you want. Instead it's about becoming the version of yourself who already has the thing you desire and then taking action to make it happen. During our conversation, Kathrin breaks down the manifestation process even further and does it in such a clear and concise way that I know it will help you shift your practices (manifesting, abundance and attracting) immediately. Kathrin has made it her mission to impact lives, influence others and share her knowledge through the online space. Be sure to check out the resources on this page to connect with her and all the tools she uses help others attract abundance. -- Question Highlights: What's one of your superpowers? Who is someone who has changed your life? What is something generous you've done lately? Tell us more about your brand and how you got into it. Is the Law of Attraction an energy magic trick or is it the result of someone wanting to do better? What's more important – to think about the thing you want or to feel it? How does someone move from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance? Do you ever fall back into a "lack" mindset? How did you feel about money growing up? Where did the wildly generous part of your personality come from? What are you most excited about now? In This Episode We Talk about: How the book, "The Secret," has influenced Kathrin's business Adding physical action to the Law of Attraction Starting small with manifestation Kathrin's manifestation process Why feeling takes priority over thinking How Kathrin gets out of a scarcity mindset with her "Gratitude Rampage" Being grateful for the small things Why it's important to maintenance your abundant mindset The Law of Polarity to strengthen our "focus muscle" Why parents need to be mindful of the money mindset beliefs they're showing their children And so much more… Kathrin's Thoughts… "There's the Law of Attraction, but there's also the Law of Action." "We are drawn and attracted to certain things for a reason. We're either meant to teach them or do something with them." "If you're always looking for the big things in life to be grateful for, you're always going to be waiting to be happy." "It's a game of focus rather than a game of elimination." "Money is a tool to elevate your human experience." "The more you send out the flow of money, the more money that's going to come back." "The more you have, the more you can give." -- Kathrin Zenkina is the creator of Manifestation Babe, a best-selling author, manifesting expert, success strategist, mindset coach for spiritual entrepreneurs. She's here to help you uplevel your life in the fastest most effective way possible. -- Resources: www.ManifestationBabe.com IG: @manifestationbabe FB: @manifestationbabe FB Group: @manifestationbabes -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Today, I want to tell you a story about a Ferrari, a landscaper and a dent. I normally wouldn't call out the make of the car involved in this story, but the fact that the car is a Ferrari is of significance and represents all the hard work I've put in to own it. This story was set into motion while getting my hair cut, like I do every two weeks. I park in the same small parking lot that has an attendant, but this time, the attendant had some bad news when I came back. Someone had backed into my car resulting in a dent and scratch. Of course my first reaction to this was anger, but I quickly caught it and reframed. Amazingly, the attendant was super proactive and got the information of the man who'd backed into my car. He was a landscaper with an old broken-down truck. As soon as I got in my car, however, my struggle began. Who pays for this $2-3,000 repair? It wasn't my fault, but this hard-working landscaper was likely not going to be in a position to pay it. I called this man and he immediately took responsibility and wanted to pay for the damage. While speaking through broken English, he offered to pay cash. When I told him the amount though, he sighed. That was a lot of money to him, so he would instead need to make an insurance claim to pay for it. So here's the dilemma. It was his fault, but did I really want to put this burden to pay when it would put such a strain on him? And furthermore, if he did indeed file a claim, it would cost him at least $500-$1,000 for his deductible (and a premium increase) and cost me a ton more of my time and energy until the insurance company figured it out. So I made the decision to pay the repair cost because I can, and because I can do it so much easier than he can. "Too many people are chasing pennies instead of using that time to create dollars." I don't want to be one of those people. I don't want to feel bad energy or waste any of my time while I can be doing other more, high-energy, money-making things. "Do what's right, not righteous." Maybe it's not always easy, but it's karmically better for you. "I am in this position because I've always made decisions like this – even when I couldn't do so as easily." And when you consistently create a pattern of decisions like this, you will experience wealth – in all forms – far beyond your wildest dreams. When have you given up the opportunity to be righteous and done what's right instead? In This Episode We Talk about: Retraining your mind to have an attitude of abundance. How bad energy costs you time and money Different forms of philanthropy Resources: A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder Pre-order now at http://loriharder.com/amazon Ready to turn your 6-figure income into a 7-figure income? Apply to get on the waiting list for the next For the Love of Money Mastermind! http://Fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I've gotten to know today's guest, Drew Canole, super well over this past year, and wow, has it been life-changing. A fellow Midwesterner, he was born and raised in Michigan but went after other opportunities and more growth in Florida. While he did find success in the real estate/mortgage arena, the weight piled on and so did his unhappiness once he realized he was escaping his emotions and certainly not living in his highest purpose. Shortly after, Drew had an eye-opening dream where he died and only five or six people showed up to his funeral. It was then that he made the decision to make a radical shift and do something that changed people's lives. He wanted to inspire people in big way – and leave a legacy that's remembered for decades to come. To promote this change, Drew moved to California to surround himself with new people and a new awareness. He documented his weight loss journey in an attempt to help and influence other people in both health and mindset. Fast forward to today and Drew still documents his journey and helps millions of followers on FitLife TV on YouTube, and through Organifi, the supplemental company he founded just three years ago. Drew is one of the most giving people I know – in all areas of life. He's made it his mission to help as many people as he can while also spreading massive amounts of joy, abundance and love. With a mission like this, Drew is making such an impact and has inspired me yet again to do more and I hope his message pushes you to do the same. -- Question Highlights: What's one of your superpowers? Who is someone who has changed your life? What is one of your biggest accomplishments? How did you go from Midwest, born and raised, to California living and thriving in just a few years? What's the key to building such large followings and a large company? How did you develop a unique wide range in life? How do you reconcile liking nice things and feeling spiritual at the same time? How did you feel about money growing up? How do you feel about money now? What do you think holds people back from accomplishing the success or wealth they really want? What do you say to those people who are too scared or holding themselves back from participating in the "woo-woo" stuff? In This Episode We Talk about: Drew's journey from Michigan to Florida to California Giving up who you are now to become something greater How Drew came to help others with health and mindset Why you should track your joy – day in and day out Drew's four-step process to get more done in 30 days Why we Drew chases impact, not money Paying attention to limiting beliefs and stories And so much more… Drew's Thoughts… "Are you willing to give up who you are now to become something greater?" "It doesn't really matter what you do if you're surrounded by people you love." "If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there." – Lewis Caroll "Just start – silence the mind." "If I can impact people, the money will come." "The more money you acquire, the more ability you have to help people and inspire change." -- Drew Canole is a rockstar in the world of fitness, nutrition and mindset, with a huge heart for others and doing his part to transform the world, one person at a time. Drew is the founder and CEO of FitLife.TV, an online health and wellness media channel where he shares educational, inspirational and entertaining videos and articles about health, fitness and healing and longevity. He is also the founder of Organifi, an organic line of superfood products that was created to make healthy living easy and accessible on the go. With a community of over 3 million people, he continues to inspire and empower others to live their best life in their healthiest body through delivering daily content online. -- Resources: http://Organifi.com Receive 20% off your purchase by using the code: ABUNDANCE FitLife.tv IG: @drewcanole FB: facebook.com/Drew-Canole-174887279661 YouTube: youtube.com/fitlifetv -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

There are many things that can hold you back from accumulating wealth, but today, I want to cross one of those off the list. I'm going to prove that if you have more, it doesn't mean that someone else has less. You know that saying, "your slice of the pie?" It makes it sound like there's only so much pie and if someone gets a bigger piece, another gets less. Ok, if we're talking literal pie, yes, this is true. But from a wealth perspective, wealth is NOT a pie. It's a living, growing, shrinking and expanding organism. So comparing wealth to a pie doesn't work. And if you think it does, it's only going to hold you back from accumulating wealth because you'll think someone else is getting hurt if you do. "Wealth accumulation is not a zero-sum game." Hundreds of years ago, land was the biggest measurement of wealth. The more land you had meant that someone else had less or you bought it from them. But today, we're so fortunate because there are so many different ways to accumulate wealth. "Wealth is always being created." Here are a few examples of what I mean: There is always something to sell. Products, ideas, services etc. – you name it. Even your salary job. You're selling your time/skillset for money and in return, you create something for your boss to then sell and make money. Events and eCourses. Let's say Susy goes to an event or buys an eCourse for $500. Susy isn't poorer, she's actually gained value and could maybe further turn that value into $100K because of what she learned. "Value is nothing more than an amount that we all agree it to be." At the end of the day, just know that there is an endless amount wealth available and your ability to create wealth determines how wealthy you'll be. You are entitled to as much as you learn to create – without taking anything away from anyone else. In This Episode We Talk about: Different ways to accumulate and measure wealth How wealth is always being created Supply and demand and how it affects wealth Resources: Ready to turn your 6-figure income into a 7-figure income? Apply to get on the waiting list for the next For the Love of Money Mastermind! http://Fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I think a lot of you are going to relate today with my guest and entrepreneur, Adrienne Dorison. Like many, she found herself in a corporate job that was "OK" and paid the bills, but she ended up starting a business/side hustle because she needed to create space in her life for something that she loved. Initially her goal wasn't to replace her corporate income, but when the corporation had a problem with her side hustle, she was nudged into it. At the time, Adrienne was trying to pay off $50K in student loan debt, however without a full-time job, she worried that it would take her forever to pay if off. So, rather than allow her boyfriend (now husband) to pay off her debt for her, she made an aggressive plan to pay it off herself – and give back at the same time. Adrienne wanted to balance out the negative feelings of shame that came with debt or bad credit and instead made it a feel-good experience. Today, giving is built into her business's structure – both monetarily and by sharing her experiences. Tune in to hear more about Adrienne's driven and giving spirit. -- Question Highlights: Who is Adrienne Dorison? What was your transition like from corporate America to entrepreneurship? Why did your corporate job have a problem with your blog? Why do we stay in bad jobs for so long? What was one of your big "crash and burns?" What is it like to be the bread-winner of your family? What's your advice to couples who wake up in this position? How do you make it work? How did you work giving into your business's DNA? Where does your generosity come from? In This Episode We Talk about: Adrienne's transition from corporate America to entrepreneurship How shame around debt/bad credit led her to donate How she paid of $50K in debt in 6 months (while still giving) How Adrienne made paying off her debt a feel-food experience Spousal communication and balancing feminine and masculine dynamics How Adrienne likes to take action from the place of how she wants to feel Why it's so important to share what your business gives And so much more… Adrienne's Thoughts… "I needed to create space in my life for something that I loved." "Giving grounds you in what you have." "I want to make a lot of money so I can give a lot away." "When you earn more, you can give more." -- Adrienne is the CEO of Lean Growth Group, a business operations consultancy that helps companies double their results, with half the effort. Adrienne is a certified LEAN Six Sigma consultant + SCRUM expert trainer from the world of corporate manufacturing, who has created her own proprietary systems + tools specific to small business owners. Adrienne has helped hundreds of businesses (from Fortune 500 companies to fast-growth start-ups) meaningfully expand profit margins and cut costs in 90 days or less. She understands how to simplify complex business problems and help teams restructure so they can scale to the next level. Adrienne has been featured in a number of publications including Entrepreneur, Business Insider, and TIME, and she's personally passionate about helping entrepreneurs earn more to give more. She started her business by getting serious about her debt and paid off over $45,000 of student loan debt in just 6 months, all while giving away money at the same time. Her company has now given away over $120,000 to meaningful causes in less than 2 years, and has empowered and equipped her clients to do the same. Adrienne lives in St. Petersburg, Florida with her husband, Tyler, her Bernese Mountain Dog, Church, and their rescue Terrier, Airy. -- Resources: http://Adriennedorison.com IG: @adriennedorison http://TheAdventureProject.org -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

This isn't the first time I've discussed the one thing that can truly unlock what you're seeking – and that's giving. "Giving is the absolute secret to unlock every single thing you want." Wherever you are or where you want to be, giving more will ultimately get you there. But what if you're already giving? My advice? Give more. Now don't get me wrong, it's not just giving money. Below I've listed six areas in which you could possibly give more to. EFFORT: Perhaps you think you already work hard – and I have no doubt that you do. However, what if some of your current efforts are misguided? What if you focused more on income-producing activities and put more work in your business? TIME: This encompasses all areas. Could you spend more time with your business partner? Perhaps you could spend more time looking outside of your business or studying/bettering your craft? MONEY: I often hear that people are stuck on a plateau. If you're pinching pennies (which isn't a bad thing), it may be time to give more money to your business. Add that new team member, do more research or take out more ads. Being cheap is smart, but not if it's stopping your business in its tracks. So get creative and ask for a loan, an investor etc. RESOURCEFULNESS: No money? No problem. As I just mentioned, get creative. Find an intern who will work for free or next to nothing. Trade favors. Resourcefulness fixes everything. RESEARCH/PLANNING: The technology and business worlds change rapidly. It's in your business's best interest to keep up on your research and give more time to planning ahead as much as possible. LOVE: Give more love to yourself, your business, your co-workers or business partners. Give love outside of your business – without expectations. Love always comes full circle, and you never know who will be able to help you down the road. Which area(s) could you give more to? No matter the answer, giving is the missing piece when it comes to achieving the level of success you want to have. Now, who's ready to commit to that next level of giving? In This Episode We Talk about: The missing link to your success – giving How to give more to get more The six areas where you could possibly give more Resources: For the Love of Money, ep. 7 – 30 Books In 30 Days https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/7-30-books-in-30-days-my-lessons-learned/id1215523596?i=1000383319132&mt=2 For the Love of Money, ep. 16 with Bob Burg https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/16-the-go-giver-profit-by-giving-with-bob-burg/id1215523596?i=1000384952645&mt=2 For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

My history with today's guest, Kyle Maynard, goes back a decade or so to my banking days when I heard him speak at an event and left completely inspired. Imagine my surprise when I met him again two years ago and got a chance to talk with him at Lewis Howes' Summit of Greatness event. I'm so glad that we were able to get him on For the Love of Money and share more with all of you! Many of you have likely heard about Kyle and his epic story. But for those who don't know, he was born with a rare condition called congenital amputation that left him with arms that end at the elbows and legs that end around his knees. He credits his parents for helping him navigate life with this challenge (without prosthetics) and for encouraging him that anything was possible. And wow, did he ever prove that there were no limits – so much so that others felt his "disadvantage" was actually an unfair advantage! In Kyle's younger years, he found success in both wrestling and football, but most recently he became famous for becoming the first man to climb (bearcrawl) Mount Kilimanjaro. Today he continues to thrive on physical challenges, however he's added an extra focus on photography and film. Kyle shares his incredible story and "No Excuses" philosophy in the hope that it inspires others to banish their excuses and make the world a better place. My hope is that his story inspires you to do the same. -- Question Highlights: What was it like to climb Mount Kilimanjaro? Is filming/photography your new rush? How many times a year do you speak? What does your hustle look like now? What common threads do you see between those who are successful and those who are not? Where are you going to take this newfound love for photography and film? What's one of the best business decisions you've ever made? How can people get past their BS excuses? Now that you've raised your speaking fees, do you see a difference in the quality of events that you speak at? What cause(s) do you care the most about and what causes should we be more aware of? In This Episode We Talk about: Kyle's childhood journey growing up with congenital amputation Using doubts to fuel you to be and do better Kyle's success in athletics (wrestling, football, crossfit) Kyle's Mount Kilimanjaro climb (bearcrawl) The importance of quality relationships (the "beer test") What it means to do the "deep work" The value in creating a structure for decision-making Learning from your excuses How and why Kyle raised his speaking fees And so much more… Kyle's Thoughts… "The map is not the territory." – Alfred Korzybski "Focus on the deep work." "Create a structure so you don't have to make the same decisions all the time." "There is no end to our excuses." "No excuses give you the freedom to try." -- Kyle Maynard is an entrepreneur, speaker, best-selling author, award-winning extreme athlete, and the first man to bearcrawl to the top of the highest mountain in Africa, Mount Kilimanjaro (19,340 feet), and the summit of Argentina's Mount Aconcagua (22,838 feet), the highest peak in both the Western and Southern Hemispheres. Born with a rare condition known as congenital amputation, that left him with arms that end at the elbows and legs that end near his knees, he learned early on to live life independently and without prosthetics. Kyle thrives on physical challenges and is a champion wrestler, CrossFit Certified Instructor and gym owner, competitive Mixed Martial Arts fighter, world record-setting weightlifter, and skilled mountaineer. He is on a mission to make the world a better place and to inspire others to do the same by sharing his story and living by example. He travels across continents, speaking to thousands of executives and students, athletes and warriors, to share his "No Excuses" philosophy. He is a humanitarian who passionately supports numerous charities, and commits time and resources to work with wounded and recovering U.S. military veterans. Kyle is the New York Times best-selling author of his life story, "No Excuses," and the focus of the moving ESPN documentary, "A Fighting Chance." His story has been featured in countless television programs and editorials, which have been viewed by millions around the world. -- Resources: http://www.kyle-maynard.com IG: @kylemaynard No Excuses by Kyle Maynard -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Should you feel guilty for having more than others? This isn't a new question, but it came up on my recent trip to Guatemala with Pencils of Promise, an organization that helps villages provide sustainable schools, clean water and sanitation. These are very remote and poor villages that lack many of the modern "comforts" we have here in the U.S. So when this question came up again, it got my wheels turning. Should I feel guilty? My answer was no, but I quickly let my thoughts put doubt in my head. Should I feel bad about this? Once I was able to reframe these thoughts I stuck to my original answer and here's why. Without excess wealth or having more than others, we can't help anyone else. We need those extra resources, connections etc. to do great things. The only time you should feel guilty is if you have excess wealth and you're not doing anything to create more of it. Or of course, if you're playing small… that doesn't serve anybody. We've been gifted multiple opportunities so we can help others. My trip to Guatemala was proof of that. That's why I came home more excited and even more inspired to do more. "Home represents opportunity." I plan to use the excess leverage and opportunities I have to create more positive change in the world. And I can't wait for you to do the same and live up to your fullest potential, too. In This Episode We Talk about: Whether or not you should feel guilty about having more than another The infiniteness of money and wealth Using excess leverage to create change Resources: Pencils of Promise http://PencilsOfPromise.org For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

World-renowned dog trainer, teacher and author, Sean O'Shea, struggled for the first 40 years of his life. Between a dysfunctional family, learning disabilities and a directionless, toxic music career, he knew this lifestyle wasn't working for him. While this often is the point where a person gives up, thinking they've screwed things up forever, Sean did the opposite. Knowing he didn't have the luxury of time, he dived head-first into self-development and hit it hard – absorbing everything he could to bring new skillsets on board (often 4.5 hours of reading and watching videos a day). And it all was spurred by the mind shift happened after he adopted a couple of dogs in his 30s. At the time, knowing nothing about how to raise dogs, he admittedly messed them up. But upon realizing this, he made a promise that he would help them get in a better place – and he did. Shortly after Sean transformed his dogs' behavior, people began to notice. Starting out with a dog-walking service that became wildly popular, his business grew and shifted into The Good Dog Training. (So grateful as he trained my brother's dog, Ozzie, and turned him into a gentleman of a dog.) Sean's comeback story is incredible and he wants everyone to know that you don't have to be perfect to be successful. You can come from any background, screw up colossally and still find success – if you do the work. Be sure to listen in to the full episode to find out how he turned his profound struggle into a successful life and business – and now a new book! There are countless valuable takeaways from our conversation! -- Question Highlights: Describe one of your lowest moments. What role has self-development specifically played in your success? What do you mean when you say that "you don't have to come to the table with the skills, you just have to want the skills really, really bad?" Tell us about your book. Who's your book for? What's the best lesson in your book? Where did your generosity come from? In This Episode We Talk about: How Sean overcame profound struggles to become the success he is today How adopting dogs made a pivotal change in his life What role self-development has played in Sean's life The power of influence and the importance of surrounding yourself continuously with great influencers The influence Jim Rohn has had on Sean's success Creating resources to do more good Importance of finding what resonates with you His new book, Closing the Gap and the fact that he's donating all of its proceeds Learning skills and becoming the master of them Where Sean's generosity comes from And so much more… Sean's Thoughts… "You don't have to come to the table with the skills; you just have to want the skills really, really bad." "You start from influences that plant the thoughts and then you can start to build everything else." "Drive will reveal the path." "Being the equal of what you want is critical." "You don't have to be filthy rich to give back." "Money combined with contribution is where the magic is." "Money facilitates what you want to do." -- Sean O'Shea is a world-renowned dog trainer, teacher, and author. He is most known for his rehabilitation work with extremely challenging dogs. He runs two successful training locations, one in Los Angeles and the other in New Orleans. He's released two highly acclaimed training DVDs, an industry-changing training book, he co-teaches the internationally lauded Train the Trainers seminar, and most recently, he released his first book devoted to personal development. Sean splits his time between Los Angeles and New Orleans -- Resources: thegooddogway.com thegooddog.net Closing the Gap by Sean O'Shea Available at: thegooddogway.com/store/ IG: @thegooddogtraining FB: facebook.com/thegooddogtraining YouTube: TheGoodDogTraining -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

This past weekend, I hosted my first business mastermind and honestly, I'm still on a high from the epic breakthroughs and experiences that were had. There are 24 people in this year's group, but a mastermind can be as small as three to five people too. As a refresher, a mastermind is when a group of people, who have similar goals, come together to lift each other's businesses up so there are several people working on a business – not just one person. I observed so many similar trends within the group and instantly knew I wanted to share a few with you. Most people know how to get where they want to go, but they're holding themselves back because of fears and stories they tell themselves that aren't true. The takeaway? "You're closer than you think to your goals – you just have a mental block." The power of collaboration. I was blown away at the breakthroughs that were happening left and right. And I credit it to the group brainstorming and talking about things as a collective. Just think what you could come up with in a group of like-minded people! It's not all business– it's a mix of business and pleasure. I noticed that the most breakthroughs happened when people let loose at the restaurant. There was a noticeable difference when people were more open and decided to have more fun with it. There's always a way to hit your goals. When you're around a group of new people who are able to be completely objective, they're able to see the things you can't or aren't willing to see. Masterminds are way to remind that you don't have to do it alone – someone can help you! And this isn't just limited to masterminds. Whatever situation you're in, and I cannot stress this enough, ASK for help! Let me know if you agree with any of the above or if you plan to incorporate parts of them into your life and business. They may further boost you onto the fast track for success. In This Episode We Talk about: What a mastermind is Mixing business and pleasure The power of collaboration Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I'm so honored to have the one and only, Grant Cardone, as a guest today as he's inspired me for the last 20 years of my life. Sounds crazy, but after dropping out of college and getting into the car business, I was selected to hear him speak at an event about sales. It was game-changing for me because it made me realize I wanted to do more than sell cars – I wanted to be the person on the stage. Fast forward to the present and I've had the privilege of speaking on stage and have Grant to thank for it. As an international sales expert and NY Times Best-Selling Author, I'm in awe of Grant's no-nonsense approach to both life and wealth/business. Whether he succeeds or makes mistakes, he equally owns both 100%. But Grant wasn't always a wealthy sales mastermind. From his late teens to early 20s, he was self-admittedly selfish. After a brief stint in rehab, he made the choice do something about the disappointment he felt and turned it around. Since that time, Grant never settles for what he has and strives to do better and better so he can be around 200-300 years after he's gone through his books and courses. His goal and passion are to help others grow their wealth and make their lives easier. With the packed house his upcoming 10X Growth Conference promises, I'd say he's doing just that. Don't miss this inspirational, but brutally honest conversation with Grant. I can almost guarantee that it will make you want to do more when it comes to taking action to increase your wealth – and your giving. -- Question Highlights: You don't always have to like what you're doing, but it can still be good for you and put you on your path – can you expand on this idea? Where does your drive to be great in all areas come from? Do you still feel disappointed in yourself after all you've accomplished? Why should each of us become as wealthy as possible? Why do people struggle with having a strong money mindset? What's the best way to make money today and how does it relate to Cardone Capital? When did you decide to stop letting other people's opinions matter? Who do you study? Who motivates you? Is it easier to invest in someone else's fund or would you rather do it on your own and make mistakes? What will people learn at the 10X Growth Conference? Who is the event for? How has generosity impacted your success? In This Episode We Talk about: Why more people should be dissatisfied with their lives Getting great in the space you're in until you can movie into the next level What it means to have a scarcity mindset Why so many are mis-educated about money The importance of a second or third stream of income When Grant decided to value his time more than his money How and why we need to continue the cycle of action and giving And so much more… Grant's Thoughts… "I wanna be the guy on stage and working for the world." "We're never playing above our game." "If you don't love money, you're never going to get it." "I'm certain about my mistakes and I'm certain about my successes." "We should be inspired by people's successes – not hate on them." -- CEO of 5 privately held companies with annual revenues of over $100 Million Real Estate Investor with a portfolio of over 4,000 units. Forbes says he's the #1 Marketing Influencer to Watch in 2017 NY Times Bestselling author of 7 Business books Writes for Forbes, Success Magazine, Business Insider amongst other prominent publications. Creator of the #1 online Sales Training System in the world -- Resources: 10XGrowthConference.com (Tickets may already be sold out since recording) GrantCardone.com CardoneUniversity.com IG: @grantcardone FB: facebook.comgrantcardonefan -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

This is a huge topic that plagues everybody – or at least it seems to anyway. Whether we're stressed about our business not having any traction or we're stressed about all the work that comes with a business with traction, stress doesn't discriminate. That's just real life, right? Not so fast… While I'm not denying the existence of all stress, I do question how much of the stress we have is really B.S. I venture to say that roughly 90 percent of the stress we have is literally made up in our heads. What if we reframe this idea? "You're not stressed, you're blessed." Would you rather have the alternative to your stress? Typically, that answer would be no. Think about it, a broke and struggling person would love the stress that your success brings upon them. When entrepreneurs are stressed it's because we chose that stress. We had a series of choices that we said yes or no to. We have the control and power to either change it or appreciate it. I choose the latter. "We're not actually busy, we're busy in our head." How often do you get stressed thinking about all of your future appointments or project deadlines? I know it's tough, but STOP living in the future! Get present. The things you worry about in your head will likely never happen. Seriously, 95% of the stuff we stress about NEVER happens. One more tip, make sure you're not mislabeling your stress or nervousness as excitement. They're very similar feelings, so when you catch yourself doing that, quickly reframe it. The sooner you learn to stop creating fake stress, the better you can manage your business and life. Make sure you're leaning into the stress, don't fear it. I firmly believe that "a little stress is a prerequisite for success." Just remember to keep stepping through the stress, not back. In This Episode We Talk about: Reframing the "stress" in your life Differentiating between stress and excitement How being present can help you avoid feelings of stress Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Most widely known for his roles on ABC's The Bachelorette and The Bachelor, you will soon realize that my guest, Ben Higgins, is more than just a reality TV star. After his time on The Bachelor, he used that platform to help others and create a dynamic business model in the process. And it all began with his friend's non-profit organization called Humanity and Hope United. Believing whole-heartedly in this organization's mission to assist underserved villages in remote parts of Honduras, Ben wanted to ensure the longevity and success of it. And that's when they got the idea to create a for profit business with the purpose of supporting a non-profit. This business model is pure genius and he predicts that it's only the beginning for other future businesses. I cannot wait for you to hear Ben's story and how he seems to embody all things generosity. It's no surprise that relating, connecting and being generous with people are so important to him. From his business model to his blog and podcast, Ben gets super transparent in an attempt to let people know that at the heart we're all the same and that we all have a passion to share with the world. Don't be surprised if this episode blows your mind and likely gives you a nudge to give back more, too. -- Question Highlights: What was life like before The Bachelor vs. after? Growing up, what did you think you'd be doing as an adult? Was your new-found fame easier to deal with because of your desire to work with people? How did you learn to cope with trolls and negative comments that came with your fame? Do you feel you have a responsibility to use your influence for good or is it a choice? How does your podcast give back? How have your parents dealt with your fam? What makes for a successful blog? What is one of the toughest parts of running a non-profit business? In This Episode We Talk about: The unexpected and difficult growth that happened during Ben's time on The Bachelor Dealing with sudden fame The power in knowing that you can't please everyone Why it's important to always be aware of what your intentions are The common desire that everyone wants to be loved and not be alone The importance of authenticity in a blog How Ben used The Bachelor platform to create Generous International How Generous International was founded Why Generous Coffee can compete with big brands like Starbucks Why future businesses will need a social cause tied to them How Generous International works with Humanity and Hope United to develop communities and make sustainable change in the world Why the non-profit world needs your passion And so much more… Ben's Thoughts… "Stay open to the criticism, but also be confident enough to know that you may have to reject it sometimes because you know what your intentions are." "You can live life simple. It doesn't have to be hard." "When much is given, much is expected." "Profit is sacred." "The more profit we make, the bigger the long-term impact." "From start to finish, we want to be generous." "When we are loving on others and building relationships, life makes more sense." "No one should be apologetic about wanting to live a great story." -- Ben Higgins is from Winona Lake, IN but currently calls Denver, CO home. People may know Ben best from his time on season 20 of ABC's "The Bachelor." The Bachelor has allowed Ben an enhanced platform to share what he is most passionate about which is his faith, his hope for humanity, and his love for sports. Today Ben, along with some of his closest friends, started a few new projects that take up his free time. The projects include the Mahogany Workplace blog, which allows people to talk about life exactly how it is: a series of ups and downs, joys and sorrows, pain and triumph; a for-profit company called Generous International; a podcast with IHeart Media called "Almost Famous" with co-host friend and former Bachelor contestant Ashley I.; and a board seat with the nonprofit organization Humanity and Hope United. -- Resources: Humanity and Hope United http://Humanityandhopeunited.org Generous International/Generous Coffee http://Generousmovement.org Mahogany Workplace Blog http://Mahoganyworkplace.com Almost Famous Podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ben-and-ashley-i-almost-famous-podcast/id1238355247?mt=2 IG: @higgins.ben Twitter: @benhiggi -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

My Two Cents today is based on a conversation I had the other day with a buddy of mine. To sum it up, we discussed how when spending time with a friend (someone who has crushed it in business), there are times when you walk away from it questioning their actions or how they treated others, ultimately fearing that you too will become a certain way when you reach their level. It's only natural to reflect on their behavior, but I'm here to tell you that you need to stop. "Your rich is not their rich." Money doesn't change people, but it can magnify who you already are. For example, if you're kind to everybody, treat others with respect and genuinely have a genuine desire to help people, when you become more successful, you're going to do more of that. The same thing is true if you feel entitled, disrespect others and only care about yourself – it will magnify that too. Don't worry about what's coming up next – no matter where you are. Stay true to who YOU are. "Root down in who you really are and who you've been up that point, and live in your truth." If you're living in your truth you can get out and pursue wealth without fear of what it will look like to others. And as I eluded to above, if you're not caught up in the wrong crowd and you don't have hurtful thoughts now, you're not likely to have a problem down the road when success is knocking at your door. But I get that fears will naturally arise. And when they do, I want you to stop, acknowledge it and reframe it. Remind yourself (picture it too) how you'll feel and what you'll do when that next level comes. "It's not the destination that changes you, it's the person taking the journey to the destination that can cause that." If you love you, with more wealth and success, you'll only love yourself more. So get out there without fear and do great things! In This Episode You Will Learn: That money only magnifies who you are now Why it's important to get rooted in your truth How to confront and reframe fears about making more money Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Today's guest and entrepreneur, Angie Lee, has one of the best comeback stories! Once on the path to a career as a dietitian, she left college a semester early to be an entrepreneur. At the time she as starting up a food distribution company with her brother, but unfortunately, it didn't pan out. With student loans and the money spent on the business, Angie found herself six figures in debt. With a family background of entrepreneurship, Angie didn't allow herself to feel shame over this debt. Instead she used the debt as an opportunity to create her own business and grow it through social media and other streams of income. Wanting to share this knowledge, Angie now helps others with their six-figure business launches. Tune in to hear how Angie leverages all aspects and platforms of social media (most importantly video and audio) and focuses on her strengths to gain exposure of her podcast and brand. There's so much value in this episode as she shares some of the exact tools and methods she uses. Let me know what resonates with you! -- Question Highlights: What did it feel like to be six figures in debt? How do you view debt now? Is it good or bad? Where did your burning desire to become an entrepreneur come from? What's the difference between being an entrepreneur and being a "wantrepreneur?" What is one thing you're doing different in 2018? Have you always been comfortable on camera? Why are you such a staunch believer in multiple streams of income? What are the best side hustles to monetize right now? How did you become so unapologetic about your success? How did you transcend friends who weren't pushing you toward your goals? What role has generosity played in your success? In This Episode We Talk about: Angie's path that led her to entrepreneurship Why you shouldn't be ashamed of your debt The difference between good and bad debt Honing in on your strengths and what you do best Finding the "white space" and doing something 10% different than other people Multiple streams of income and why you should have them Angie's Six-Step Organic Selling Formula The importance of finding people who believe in what you do And so much more… Angie's Thoughts… "It's one thing to build an audience, it's another thing to convert them and make a sale." "You have to be visible for people to buy from you." "If you're not the most enthusiastic, passionate person about what you do, you can't expect other people to be." "With the ability to create wealth, you have the ability to give back and serve." -- Angie Lee is your hilarious + wicked smart business bestie you've always wanted. Allergic to pants & cubicles? You're in the right place! A breath of fresh air in a market that oozes generic boring content. Warning; You will laugh your ass off, be inspired as hell to makeup with fear & make your bank account not suck. $100k in debt to 7 figures under 30, Angie is an entrepreneurial ninja. Her passion is helping women break through in their business + leave their sucky 9-5 cubicle job. Her approach? No bullshit business + money advice for female entrepreneurs who don't have time for boring. This show is a must listen for any boss babes, or boss babes to be. -- Resources: Rich Bitch Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-bitch-entrepreneurship-money-life-hacks-confidence/id1178232410?mt=2 IG: @angielee.tv FB: facebook.com/angie.lee.39 facebook.com/Rich-Bitch-TV-152433432002663 http://www.makelovetomoney.com -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Some of you may know that some of my favorite books are actual biographies – most specifically of billionaires. I've learned so much by reading about their actual experiences – the wins and fails – and today, I'm going to share my top three lessons I've learned from billionaires Warren Buffett, Elon Musk and Richard Branson. Lesson No. 1 – In order to get some of your time back and get more done, give yourself permission to say NO to more things. "The difference between successful people and really successful people is that the really successful people say no to almost everything." – Warren Buffett Time is our most valuable asset and it should be invested in the same fashion. "Invest your time in all the right places." By saying no, you're gaining back both time and energy, and you're able to get laser focused on the areas that need it. Even if it's gaining back one hour a day, that's getting back just over 15 days in one year! Just think of what you could do with that time with your family and friends. Lesson No. 2 – Go all in! "No matter what you've done in the past, you've got to check your ego at the door and be willing to ask for help." Elon Musk is the perfect example of this as he is so passionate about his dreams/businesses. So much so that he nearly went broke multiple times trying to achieve them. Needless to say, he now has billion-dollar companies and is himself a billionaire. Lesson No. 3 – Make an impact while living a fun and well-rounded life. "A life worth living is a life full of well-rounded memories and impact." Make it a rich, fulfilling and meaningful life without apologizing. Don't make it a life about just your family… or just your business… or just your adventures… Do it all, because how you do anything is how you do everything. These are three of the lessons I tap into when focusing on how I want to live my life. And no matter how you define success, I'm guessing these three billionaires will pass the test. After all, in my opinion they're all living my motto: "When good people make good money, they do great things." In This Episode You Will Learn: How billionaires Warren Buffet, Elon Musk and Richard Branson have influenced my life and businesses Why saying no to more things is so valuable The importance of going all in Why we should strive to live a well-rounded life with impact Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

My wife, Lori, is back for another dual podcast! Both of us have been lit over here since ringing in the New Year and we wanted to share some of our thoughts out loud regarding some of the things we've been working on going into 2018 (hint: new eCourse coming in the next couple months). First and foremost, we've both done a lot of reassessing and have gotten really clear and laser-focused on what we want to see and do this year – individually and as a couple – both in business and in play. Find out what we're working to get rid of and what we're working to align ourselves with more – some things may surprise you! We're putting it all about there in this super candid conversation – you don't want to miss it! -- Question Highlights: What was something you loved that we did on New Year's Eve? What is something you do to get clear on your goals/intentions? What are your mindset blocks? What is one of the rituals that you're committed to? What are your favorite ways to find tribe? How do you find the energy to keep up with your habits/rituals and how do you stay in the energy to keep doing it? Why should people be unapologetic about their pursuit of wealth and success? In This Episode We Talk about: Our rituals, how we set goals and how we figure out what the next step will be Getting clear Finding and following the things that light you up Releasing judgment Aligning beliefs with intentions Preventing negative thoughts from taking root and nurturing positive thoughts Chris and Lori's rituals The importance of boundaries to avoid resentment Finding a tribe that helps you think bigger or reinforce positive thoughts Making tiny adjustments one at a time in order to tackle bigger challenges Why play is such a big deal And so much more… Chris and Lori's Thoughts… "Clarity is power." "It's simple, but it's not easy." "Focus on the impact you're going to make. Anything else robs you of your happiness and the world of your gifts." "We don't find our voice in the easy times." "Create tribe for transition." "Elevate yourself through the things you enjoy most, which in turn then elevates other people." "If it brings you happiness and joy – follow it." "Choose possibilities and expansion over fear." "Make choices, not excuses." "Your version of happy is just that." -- Resources: Website: http://www.fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind IG: @chriswharder http://www.theBlissproject.info http://Loriharder.com -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Today's episode is all about busting through a limiting belief that you may not even know you have. In fact, this very belief may even be holding you back from greater success. Here it is… So many people think that we're supposed to feel good ALL the time on the quest of entrepreneurship. OK, I'm not saying I want you to feel crappy about it, but here are my thoughts on it. The journey of entrepreneurship isn't supposed to feel good. I know it sounds crazy, but full honesty, a large portion of the time we don't know what we're doing, it feels clunky or awkward and we fail a ton! But unfortunately, we all live in the era of social media where we all see everyone's highlight reels. I'm all for this, because I feel like I'm pretty happy most of the time, but I also know that I feel frustrated, under-motivated or have a ton of work to get done – and I try to share that with my followers as well. "The wins are not the entire picture of reality." I feel it is so important to understand the full circle of entrepreneurship – the ups, downs and in-betweens. The problem is that we've all been conditioned to think that when we mess up or haven't gotten it all figured out we think we're doing it wrong. Hint… You're NOT! Reality check. Think of the person you love to follow on IG. If you think they have X followers, now cut that in half to get the real number. Don't get discouraged! You're figuring it out just like the rest of us. Go into things without abandon and try new things without fear of failure. "If you're not failing at all, you're probably doing it wrong." Let's go into 2018 by getting real and sharing all side of entrepreneurship. Use this mantra as a reminder! "It's OK to be silly, to feel silly and look silly." In This Episode You Will Learn: Why feeling good all the time about entrepreneurship isn't necessarily a guarantee for success What the reality of entrepreneurship really looks like Why we've been conditioned to think we're doing it wrong. Resources: For the Love of Money Mastermind – 2018 http://Fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I was so excited to connect with today's guest serial entrepreneur and author, Peta Kelly, as we hadn't had a real catch-up in forever. And how amazing is it that it could be timed with her new book, Earth Is Hiring? Once a self-professed science nerd, Peta followed the pull of her soul into network marketing which soon led to full-on entrepreneurship and she hasn't looked back since. She's now made it her mission to help millennials (and anyone else who gives a sh*t), discover The New Way to Live, Lead, Earn and Give. Listen in to hear how Peta made the conscious decision to change her personal money story in order to align herself with her soul's purpose, and how you can too. Believe me when I say she makes it sound easy and effortless. -- Question Highlights: Who is Peta Kelly? How did you make the transition from science nerd to serial entrepreneur? Do you feel you have the responsibility to create change? Of your motto, "The New Way to Live, Lead, Earn and Give," which do you think is the most important? Why are we just now talking about the "New Way" since it's actually the "old way?" What do you mean when you say we're voting with our spending power? How do you feel about money? Why do people have such a hang-up with money? If someone feels out of alignment with their money story, where can they start doing the work? What are we going to learn and discover in your new book? In This Episode You Will Learn: How millennials are using The New Way to Live, Lead, Earn and Give How Peta went from science nerd to entrepreneur Why network marketing businesses are like training wheels for entrepreneurship What it means to take radical responsibility The importance of raising your vibration Why businesses need to upgrade their practices to support the earth if they want to survive Why money acts as a teammate The importance of getting in alignment with your soul, mission and money How to get in alignment with your money story About Peta's new book, Earth Is Hiring And so much more… Peta's Thoughts… "Take care of the planet or bust." "Our money is never spent. Our money is never asleep." "Of everything we have, there is the option to get it in a more conscious way." "Take responsibility for your own money story." "Real leadership is taking responsibility for your own money story." "I don't worship money, I appreciate it." -- Peta Kelly's most favourite title is HUMAN AF. She is a conscious entrepreneur, author, speaker and philanthropist. She was recently featured in Forbes Magazine and was just ranked by Inc Magazine in the Top 10 Female Entrepreneurs changing the world. She's is an unbridled soul and barefoot bandit on a mission to unleash the jeaniius of GenY's globally. She dropped being a PhD science nerd at the age of 22 and went on the pursuit of that 'thing' that was calling her higher. That's when she found her first business pursuit in network marketing and She became a 7 figure a year earner in Isagenix by the age of 26. Her network marketing journey led her to her bigger, more global soul work and now she's building a global enterprise, Jeaniius – a global hub of nakedly brilliant people, mobilized to create change for our planet through conscious enterprise and magical collaborations. Peta teaches the new way to live, lead, earn and give and what excites her the most is bringing her brilliant, badass generation together as one team and one family so that we can gift our planet and our kiddies, an environment where they can thrive. Peta is an angel gifter and a silent investor, and thrives on expanding the cycle of abundance and contribution, especially when it allows young people to kick ass in their endeavors. A millennial with a love of millennials, Peta speaks on global stages, barefoot, to tens of thousands of people, and to millions through her various platforms, sharing visionary messages of conscious living to move hearts and minds to what's possible. Self-described as an alien, a "vessel" for what needs to flow through her, Peta is the creator of The New Way Live, Jeaniius and The Supercharged and she's got her first book on the way in early 2018. Peta was recently featured on The Rise Up movie with Michael Bernard Beckwith, Jack Canfield, Danielle LaPorte, Gabby Bernstein, Marie Forleo, Tony Robbins, The Dalai Lama and more. She's a new Mum to her beautiful daughter Sol and has now found a new supersized passion for empowering women to create a beautiful pregnancy and birth experience. Resources: Earth Is Hiring: The new way to live, lead, earn and give for millennials and anyone who gives a sh*t by Peta Kelly (Releases Jan. 30, 2018, Pre Order NOW!) petakelly.com http://EarthIsHiring.com IG: petajean_ -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Words are more powerful than we realize, but today I'm going I'm specifically highlighting eight words that may be crippling your success. We all use them without realizing it and often don't even intend to use them. So let's start 2018 right and kick the following words out of our vocabulary and watch as you see an uptick in your success. TRY – You'll either do something or you won't. By saying "try" you're already building in an excuse. Do or do not – those are your choices. MAYBE – By using this word, you're telling others that you have no intent on following through, which can lead to feeling overwhelmed. Make this the year of YES or NO – period. SOON – This instantly puts something off until "later." This word is also a wake-up call you've committed to too many things and you must cut what's not serving you. POSSIBLY – The word says, "if I feel like it, I'll do it." You're not fully committed to anything and you're feeling overbooked and stressed. Make a commitment. IF – If means you're putting a condition on following through and that doesn't make you an ideal business partner. "Nobody wants to be on the other side of your if." BECAUSE – This word acts as a justifier – and excuse. "I can't meet with that person because…" You shouldn't have to talk endlessly about why you can't. "YES and NO are complete sentences." WANT – This is probably the most important word to kick to the curb… The word indicates lack and if you're a frequent listener, you know we shoot for abundance. Using this word means there's a disconnect between what you want and what you desire. "Things only appear once you know how to make them certain." LUCKY – Last but still impactful, simply put I don't believe in luck, I believe in good fortune. And using this word puts you in a powerless position. There you have it! Do you notice these words used frequently in your day-to-day interactions? If so, share with me on IG (@chriswharder) and let me know what you'll replace them with! In This Episode You Will Learn: The eight words that we must eliminate from our vocabulary in 2018 Why being certain in your decisions makes you an ideal business partner And much more… Resources: For the Love of Money Mastermind – 2018 http://Fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I am so excited to continue a conversation that I had a couple months ago in Costa Rica with serial tech entrepreneur, Chris Sukornyk. Originally from Canada with entrepreneurial parents, entrepreneurship was built into his DNA. With a passion for technology, Chris attended University, but felt the teachings were out of tune with reality. He left, just one credit shy of graduating (his parents still remind him) and built his first business. Since that time, Chris has founded (and sold) four other businesses and is now focusing on his next endeavor, which is to help create more net positive businesses and help ecopreneurs. I love that he is intent on creating businesses that are in alignment with his passion as well as his core values around the environment and social responsibility. Listen in to this enlightening episode to find out how net positive entrepreneurship is the up and coming trend to businesses everywhere and how you can make an impact by either creating one or being a part of one. -- Question Highlights: What's your best entrepreneurial lessons you learned from your parents? With your most recent advertising tech company, how did you go from zero to 170 employees in such a short amount of time? What was the conflict that came up with your advertising tech business? How did you become realigned with it? Do you think you would be this passionate about net positive businesses if you hadn't woken up in a business that wasn't net positive for you? What makes a net positive company different than the old way of doing business? How do you reconcile your dad's advice ("All that matters is sales.") with the impact the company is making? Does building a net positive business present a different set of hurdles than we've seen in the past? How do you want your children to grow up viewing entrepreneurship and money? How do you view money? Do you think it's a masculine trait to pursue wealth or can it be a feminine trait as well? Do you feel that your view of money has shifted since getting out of North America and moving down to Costa Rica? In This Episode You Will Learn: How Chris came to be such a successful serial tech entrepreneur The importance of connecting with your partners/employees What having a net positive business means How Chris navigated his business when he had lost his passion for it What an ecopreneur is How businesses impact the environment and why they need to minimize it Why people want to hear about the founder or story behind a product Why it's crucial to find investors who are aligned with your passion Why we need socially minded startups who compete/challenge legacy businesses that are doing damage in the world How we can integrate giving back into our lives and the businesses we create And so much more… Chris's Thoughts… "The Zero to Hero Life of a Serial Entrepreneur: Either hit it out of the park or one day before the sale, everything could fall apart." "If your business is aligned with your passion, you're never tired." "There's nothing wrong with having nice things, but we have to be aware of the impact we're making." "There has to be more – you have to give back." "Money is just a vehicle that has value and it can be exchanged for different things." "Good things are at the end of dirt roads." -- Chris is a serial entrepreneur having founded and sold five tech startups with combined exits of more than $250 million. In 2015, Chris was recognized by Ernst & Young as the provincial winner of the Canadian Entrepreneur of the Year awards. A lifelong environmentalist and father of four, Chris recently relocated from Toronto to Costa Rica and is now focused on investing and advising "ecopreneurs," founders with a vision to better the world through sustainable, mindful and socially conscious products and services. Resources: IG: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulstartupguy/ LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrissukornyk/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/csukornyk -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I don't know about you, but I love when the end of the year approaches. I get super excited about the holidays (which many of you know), but what some you don't know is that I get super stoked about sitting down with Lori on New Year's Eve to go over the year's highs and lows and planning out our yearly income for the upcoming year. It's such a great practice and today, I'm going to share that exact plan that we've been using (with success) for the past several years. "Why leave it up to chance when you can call your shot, plan what you want to make and make it happen." This year, I want you too to take control of your abundance, and part of that process is to pick your target income number. Full disclosure, Lori and I have never met our exact number, but we're also consistently choosing a number that reflects massive growth over the year before. But don't let that worry you… As they say, "shoot for the stars and land on the moon." "When you have the number picked out and you're serious about it then your actions naturally follow suit to ensure that you hit it. Keep in mind that it is imperative to pick a number that challenges your current income. "By not changing your goals or plan, you're automatically choosing by default your current situation." Once that number is chosen, you'll work backward to figure out how you're going to reach it. As long as you're committed to that number, you'd be surprised at all the different income sources that pop up. "There are so many ways to make money, you just have to commit to finding them." Draw on your skillset to create products or programs and fill in the gaps. Whether it's ebooks, podcasts, mastermind groups or affiliate programs, you can exceed your current income and reach your goals (or come pretty darn close to them). Here's one example of how to get to $100,000 if you're currently bringing in $60,000: Current yearly income = $60,000 You decide to create a coaching program that costs $100/week for one year. 4 clients = $20,000 The coaching was in high demand so you create an e-course which costs $99. You sell 202 e-courses over the year equaling $20,000 $60,000 + $20,000 + $20,000 = $100,000 YOU DID IT! Again, this is only an example. As I mentioned above, there are so many more ways to make extra income. But it just proves how essential your actions are if you want to reach a specific number. I firmly believe that "What you make next year is no accident – it is intentional." Best of luck in 2018 – I'll be cheering you on! In This Episode You Will Learn: The exact plan that Lori and I use to map out our yearly income How to pick out your number and work backward to hit your goal How you're already asking for the income you're getting without asking About detailed hypothetical scenarios that can lead you to $100,000 or $1 million And much more… Resources: For the Love of Money Mastermind – 2018 http://Fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Whatever your thoughts are on abundance – true or not – you're going to hear first-hand how my guest, business and mindset coach and entrepreneur, Harriette Hale, tapped into it in a big way. With her first business at the age of 19 (yes, 19!), Harriette quickly climbed her way to success with businesses in music (her passion), dance and spirituality. This success came to a screeching halt, however, when her business partners at the time, planned, plotted and succeeded in taking her entire client list and setting up a competing business on their own. It was a pivotal moment that left Harriette both financially and spiritually broke. Family and friends had no doubt she would bounce back, but she had worked too hard to go back to a 9-5 job and knew she was meant to use her gifts in a different way. Tune in to find out how she broke free of her conditioned mind and surrendered to the universe, subsequently inviting levels upon levels of massive success into her life. -- Question Highlights: Who or what gave you this inner knowing that you shouldn't just get a 9-5 job and forge ahead anyway? What did you learn about the Law of Attraction that so radically changed your life? What's the key to having an abundant mindset and why do you feel we have the right and responsibility to have one? What are 1 or 2 things people can do to bust through their limiting beliefs around abundance? Where did this unapologetic attraction to having nice things come from? How do people in London/UK tend to view the wealthy as compared to North America? What's the common thread you see in your successful clients and what's the common mindset block in those who are unsuccessful? In This Episode You Will Learn: How Harriette came back from being both financially and spiritually broke Why we must follow our soul's intuition About the importance of breaking free from the conditioned mind Why Harriette doesn't agree with all aspects of the Law of Attraction The key to having an abundant mindset Why it's our responsibility to be abundant How living in service and light allows the universe to reward you ten-fold Why we must ensure our spending is in alignment with our highest good Why it's imperative that we surrender Why we need to be generous with ourselves first And so much more… Harriette's Thoughts… "The only thing standing between me and my success and financial freedom was my money mindset." "There is a reason for absolutely everything because it's all divinely aligned and pre-destined by our highest selves." "We are born with the support and love of the universe." "We would not be born if we weren't meant to be abundant." "We have to have money in our lives so we can help other people in our lives do the same." "Wake up to the beauty of your world." "It is perfectly OK to be spiritual and to be rich." "You have a gift because you are meant to make money from it." "When we love ourselves, we elevate our vibration so much that we become alchemists of energy." "Energy is exponential." "Be generous to yourself first, then to others." -- Harriette is a certified soul, money and mindset coach. A serial entrepreneur with ten years experience and six businesses, Harriette has a global clientele base of creative and spiritual freelancers, fellow entrepreneurs and individuals on the path to self growth and ascension. Her teaching & coaching stems from principles based in Universal Energy Law, first inspired by the well known 'Law Of Attraction' ideology, however the practical side of business and life coaching takes equal precedent. As a dancer, singer / songwriter, green tea addict, aspiring yogi, and manifesting maverick, Harriette prides herself on her down to earth nature, relatability and uncanny gift to simply 'make it happen'. For more information about her coaching brand, Ask Harriette, go to www.askharriette.co.uk Resources: askharriette.co.uk/ IG: @harriettehale FB: facebook.com/askharriette -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Have you hit a plateau with your business and can't seem to figure out why? Give my following list of five a read (and listen) and I bet you'll likely find an area to improve upon. Trying to be a one-man show. I get it, you take pride in being able to do it all on your own, but my advice? Get help sooner than later. Save your time (and sometimes money) by getting someone else to do it faster and better. Hint: This is, in my opinion, the No. 1 reason people hit a plateau. Not upgrading your tribe. Seek out people (even if you're intimidated by them) who are already successful and doing what you want to do. This was a game-changer for Lori and me. "Upgrading your tribe is the world's greatest shortcut to get from where you are now to where you want to go with your goals." Not upgrading your personal software. It's all about working on your own mindset! Keep learning new things. "If you're not growing, you're shrinking." Losing your passion. Keep in mind that love is a verb, but it doesn't just apply to relationships, it applies to your business too. Don't let the daily (often boring) tasks bring you down. Make sure to take a break every now and then from working "in" your business and instead work "on" it. Think mastermind groups or something similar that gets you out of the day-to-day briefly, but also keeps that business passion spark alive. "Money is in the monotony." Paying attention to too many shiny objects. Keep your eye on the prize even when other shiny prizes are being flashed at you. Every time you turn your attention away from your path, you're putting your business on hold. Stay the course, but find that sweet spot of educating yourself on new trends but not letting it take over everything else. Keep your focus on your original goals. There you have them! Did any sound familiar? Once you're aware of any blocks that apply to you, you can be on guard so you don't fall into their traps. And that, of course, means more success – faster! In This Episode You Will Learn: What five things are blocking your business Why you shouldn't try to do everything on your own About the importance of hanging out with already successful people And much more… Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I am out of mind excited for you all to hear my conversation with amazing memory-improvement expert, Jim Kwik. Once called the kid with the "broken brain" because he was a slower learner (as a result from a severe brain injury at age 5), he struggled in school into his college years. But just when he was about to give up, he met family/man who had him write down all his dreams on paper. Once those dreams were read aloud by that man, Jim's life changed and he committed to finding new ways to help him learn to learn more quickly. Fast forward several years later, and Jim is a sought-after expert when it comes to memory improvement and speed reading. This episode is going to be life-changing for you as he shares in detail how to improve your memory as well as how to rewire your brain's limiting money mindset beliefs. He gives this advice freely because he doesn't want others to suffer and struggle like he once did. Jim truly believes in "no brain left behind." I could go on and on about what he shares, however I'll let you listen and learn for yourself. And my advice? Have a notebook and pen ready to capture all of the priceless information Jim provides – episodes like this don't come around too often -- Question Highlights: How have you become one of the foremost experts of memory improvement and speed reading today? Do you keep in touch with the family/man who helped changed your life? What percentage of our limitations are real and what percentage is made up? What is a superpower you wish someone would teach you? What is your favorite skill or hack to teach and will you teach it to us? Are there any hacks to rewire our brain's limiting money mindset beliefs? Do you have a favorite moment of giving? In This Episode You Will Learn: How Jim overcame the belief that he had a "broken brain" How note-taking helps you reflect – making the unreal, real Why fulfillment comes from growing and giving Why reading is so valuable and how books can put decades into days (ultimately saving you time) What makes self-awareness a superpower What learned helplessness is How we grossly underestimate what we're capable of About the power of visualization Tips on how to remember names using MOM How using magic (think abracadabra) can help you rewire your limiting money mindset beliefs Why it's so important to have a vision for your life And so much more… Jim's Thoughts… "My inspiration was my desperation." "If you argue for your limits, you get to keep them." "Modern-day entrepreneurs are the modern-day superheroes." "Learning's not just solo, it's social." "We don't give to get; we give because it's who we are." "It's not just about making dollars; it's about making a difference." "If knowledge is power; learning is your superpower." "It's not how smart you are; it's how are you smart." "Success is an inside-out process." "Identify as a thermostat not a thermometer." "Reasons reap results." "Your mind is always eavesdropping on your self-talk." "Learn to earn and return." "People are either an example or a warning." -- Jim Kwik (his real name) is the founder of Kwik Learning and a widely recognized world expert in speed-reading, memory improvement, brain performance, and accelerated learning. For two decades, he has served as the mental coach to students, seniors, entrepreneurs, and educators, and as advisor to many of the world's leading CEOs and celebrities. After a childhood brain injury left him learning-challenged, Jim created strategies to dramatically enhance his mental performance. He has since dedicated his life to helping others unleash their true genius and brainpower to learn anything faster and live a life of greater power, productivity, and purpose. Jim's cutting-edge techniques, entertaining presentation style, and impressive brainpower feats have made him a frequent and highly sought-out trainer for top organizations, with clients that include Virgin, Nike, Zappos, SpaceX, NYU, GE, Fox Studios, Harvard, and Singularity University. KwikLearning.com's online courses are used by students in over 100 countries. Jim has shared the stage with global leaders from Sir Richard Branson to the Dalai Lama. His work is featured in media worldwide, including the recent New York Times bestselling book, "Use Your Brain to Change Your Age." He is the founder and curator of SuperheroYou – Change Your Brain, Change The World – an annual learning conference and media property featuring a handpicked all-star expert faculty and an audience of dynamic thinkers, doers, and dreamers. Resources: http://www.JimKwik.com Online Courses http://KwikLearning.com Kwik Brain Podcast KwikBrain.com or find it on iTunes here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/kwik-brain-memory-improvement-accelerated-learning/id1208024744?mt=2 IG: @jimkwik FB: facebook.com/jimkwikofficial -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

With the holidays and the season of giving upon us, I felt it was only fitting to talk about abundance and how abundance can affect us throughout them. For a good portion of people, the holidays can be super stressful – especially when there's worry around paying for the gifts they want to buy. But here's the thing, when we worry we send the message of lack out into the universe and we're looking for abundance. Just as a refresher, when you have a mindset of abundance you are attracting more and more wealth and good things in your life. And on the opposite side, when you have a lack mindset, you're pushing away all of those abundant things. So when there is stress around how you will pay for gifts, travel, family gatherings etc., you are actually inviting more struggle into your life. And we don't want that! So this year I challenge you to reframe all of this. "Break free from the feeling of lack and get back into the good feelings that the holidays are meant for." Now I get it, if you're comfortable with the traditional gift-giving – keep doing it! But if you observe your feelings and thoughts around this time of year and you come up with feelings of lack, then speak up! Maybe it's time to switch your definition of giving. For example, my family decided a few years back to forego traditional gifts (we had a tendency to go overboard) and instead rent a cabin, give our time and enjoy the experience of it. "It's more about the experience than the gifts." Just think…what could you give that would create the same feelings of receiving a gift that isn't something you can buy? Think non-traditional gift ideas could such as the gift of your time, energy, skillset or creativity – the list is endless. Regardless of what you choose, let's: "Practice abundance, not stress, for the holidays." In This Episode You Will Learn: What the differences are between an abundance and lack mindset How Chris switched up his family's holiday traditions Alternative ways you can give to your family and friends Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Get ready for a wealth of knowledge (pun somewhat intended) in today's episode with wealth strategist, cashflow ninja and podcast host, M.C. Laubscher. Originally from South Africa, he made his way to the U.S. in 2001 with a backpack and sense of humor, did a little competitive sports and after reading "Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Richard Kioysaki, eventually purchased his first investment property. Since then, M.C. educated himself around all things wealth-building and now helps others create their own wealth and sustain it off of Wall Street. His insights blew me away and I know you'll learn some new things and believe that you too can be financially free after listening. -- Question Highlights: Do you agree with the idea of the "immigrant edge?" What did you learn about money or succeeding in business from your years of being a pro rugby player? Why do you think people keep tapping into the wrong resources? What is the "new economy?" What's the secret to wealth-building today? Out of your amazing podcast guests, what has been some of the best advice ever given to you on your show? Do you think cryptocurrency is here to stay? Do you think money is good, bad or neither? Why do people have such a hang-up with money? Have you always had a positive mindset around money or has it been a journey to get there? Do you see a common thread of generosity with your wealthy clients? In This Episode You Will Learn: How M.C. came to be a "cashflow ninja" About the parallels between sports and business Why it's important to create sustainable, recession-proof wealth About wealth creation and preservation The meaning of "new economy" Why cash flow is the biggest indicator of success How to keep and protect your wealth and multiply it Why we should focus on cashflow and not accumulation What your biggest asset is Why mental capital combined with relationship capital helps you get financial capital That money is a tool that serve and provide value to people About money and millennials Why it's imperative that we give within our communities first And so much more… M.C.'s Thoughts… "We're no longer a job economy, we're a skills economy." "Know exactly what you want and why it matters and who you need to become to do that." "Learn how to keep and protect your wealth and then how to multiply that wealth." "We all share the asset of time." "Money is not the root of evil, it's not the root of anything. It's what you want it to be." "If money is an exchange of value and a representation of value, then you want to put out as much value as possible and it will come back in return." "Living in your purpose and providing value to others is where you build your wealth and live your dreams." -- M.C. Laubscher is a wealth strategist, educator, and financial freedom fighter. He is the President and CEO of Valhalla Wealth Financial and creator and the host of the popular business and investing podcast, Cashflow Ninja. His mission is to help as many people as possible eliminate the control banks and financial institutions have over their lives by building their wealth in a variety of ways outside of Wall Street. He believes the best way to achieve this in the Information Age, is by reclaiming the banking function in your own financial life through structuring an efficient cash flow management system and creating and building assets that provide multiple streams of income. M.C. challenges existing societal belief systems and misinformation around concepts such as money, saving, investing, wealth and retirement. Resources: Cashflow Ninja Podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/cashflow-ninja-w-m-c-laubscher/id1106209658?mt=2 http://www.CashFlowNinja.com -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I'm often asked what my non-negotiables are when it comes to my success. Today I'll share one of the most important and that is my gratitude practice. I am certain that the four steps of my gratitude practice have helped me make more money and I'm certain it can help you, too. "Gratitude. It doesn't just change your life; it continues to keep you on the right track." Here Are the Four Parts of My Gratitude Practice: Name Your Alarms with Something Positive. These words don't have to be anything complex or life-changing, but when you're tired or half-awake, you need it to train your brain to go somewhere positive. It shapes your mindset and shapes your day. Here are a couple of my alarm names: 4:15 a.m. God has blessed us so we can help others 7 a.m. Congratulations! Today is one of the best days of your life. 9 a.m. Everything is happening even better and even faster than expected. Wake Up and Say a Positive Mantra. Again this can be simple, but the important part is that you MUST say it like you mean it. Here's what Lori and I repeat every morning: "I'm happier, healthier, wealthier and more fit than I was yesterday." You are programming into your body and into your expectations for the day. Simple Gratitude Prayer. I'm not joking… keep it super simple, almost juvenile and short (only about 60-90 seconds). Take into account all the things you DO have. List them…Thank you for my house. Thank you for my success. Thank you for keeping my loved ones healthy and safe. You get the idea… Just stay away from saying "want." This wakes you up in lack and we're shooting for abundance! Meditation. The time on this one varies, but we shoot for 10-20 minutes. Please though, if you've only got two minutes to meditate – do it! This is your opportunity to close your eyes, get silent and call in exactly what you want for that day. All of the above tools ensure that you're able to control your day. Even when those bumps happen, you can easily reframe it because you started your day out in gratitude. So I challenge you, starting today… OWN the results of your day, week, month and year. "Choose what is going to unfold for you instead of letting things unfold and going with the flow." Try the above steps for a week and keep an open mind. Start with just one of the practices if you feel overwhelmed. I know if you can add even just a little more gratitude into your life that it will help you significantly increase your productivity, income, blessings and abundance. Let me know how it goes (or doesn't go) – I want to hear either way! In This Episode You Will Learn: Chris's four steps in his daily gratitude practice Why you should start your gratitude practice right when you wake up The importance of choosing what your day is going to look like Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Today's guest and entrepreneur, Genecia Alluora, is one of the most driven women I've ever talked to (she started working at age 14 and hasn't slowed down since!). While she started out teaching fitness classes, she's since founded other businesses, one of which helps other women take their businesses from offline to online. And everything she does is so she can stop trading time for money and spend more time with her family. Genecia offers such a unique international perspective and she drops the most amazing wisdom. If you're looking to make the next step forward in your business you're not going to want to miss the advice she hands out during our conversation. -- Question Highlights: What kind of jobs did you have at age 14? Did you think it was unfair to work so hard at such a young age or do you feel like it was preparing you for something great in the future? What did participating in Miss Singapore competitions teach you about confidence and what did it go on to serve you later in life? Was the café you founded your first entrepreneurial success story? What is Soul Rich Woman and Soul Rich TV? Where is the best place for someone to start investing in themselves? What is the secret to success when it comes to building an online brand? Is it different building a business in the international online space? How has generosity and money mindset played a role in your business so far? In This Episode You Will Learn: How working at such a young age taught Genecia invaluable resilience Why we must never stop learning and investing in ourselves The importance of understanding what it means to become a woman of influence Why the past does not define the present How Genecia stopped trading time for money How Genecia helps women go from offline to online Why mindset is key in a successful business Why it's crucial to find a mentor and what qualities to look for Why social media is not your marketing strategy About the importance of repurposing your content Why you must seek feedback before creating a product And so much more… Genecia's Thoughts… "You are not what you have done, you are what you overcome." "One woman can make a difference. Together we can rock the world." "No progress means a slow death." "Alone we are strong, together we are unstoppable." "Make sure your content goes as far as possible." "Why play small when you can be living the destiny you truly deserve." -- Genecia Alluora is the Founder of Soul Rich Woman, South East Asia's leading network for female entrepreneurs connecting 10,000 women across the region. Genecia was drawn to entrepreneurship in her mid 20s following her time as Miss Singapore when she established Coffee:Nowhere, a specialist cafe for coffee lovers which has grown into a renowned retail cafe chain with a presence across three countries in Asia. Keen to explore different marketing avenues and empower like-minded women, Genecia began her own live stream channel, Soul Rich Woman TV. Today, Soul Rich Woman TV has a combined social media reach of 200,000, consists of 1,000+ episodes and has built the foundations of her current business. Established in Singapore, Genecia has expanded Soul Rich Woman in recent years to Malaysia, Philippines, Hong Kong and Myanmar with a view to expand licensee opportunities to Indonesia and Vietnam soon. Resources: SoulRichWoman.com Free Video Series: 5 Steps to build an online business much, much faster IG: @geneciaalluora -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Lori and I recently visited Costa Rica and met a woman who was working on her Pilates certification. Part of the certification process is teaching classes and this woman shares that she was so nervous that she thought she was going to puke. Have you ever felt that nervous? I know I have, and the most recent example was the very first episode of this podcast. But just like that Pilates instructor, I pushed past that moment to get the reward. "The payoff is past the puke." Yes, it's an awful feeling, but it's just your body and mind's way of saying, "Whoa, slow down – this is scary." When you can move through that feeling you're most often rewarded. But that reward doesn't come as quickly if you stop short before it can happen. "The point where you feel like you might get ill is the great separator between those who do and those who do not." You are often times ONE step away from the ultimate payoff – but you must make the choice to keep moving. "It's one little step, but it's a HUGE barrier that stops people." Don't let the fear – or puke– stop you. Make your dream a reality and keep that momentum going. Do you have any "I got so nervous I puked (or almost puked) stories? Be sure to share them with me on IG! In This Episode You Will Learn: The moment when Chris was so nervous he felt like he could puke Why the payoff is past the puke The benefits of pushing past the fear (or puke) Resources: Lori Harder's FREE 14-Day HoliBurn Challenge https://Loriharder.com/challenge For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Today's episode comes straight from the Costa Rican jungle and with my amazing wife, Lori Harder. We're talking about the need for women to step into their earning power unapologetically so they're able to make tons of money and use it as leverage to make a huge positive difference in this world. Tune in to hear why more women aren't stepping forward, why they should start (now!) and how Lori overcame her money-earning beliefs and hit new levels of success with her businesses – all while keeping a balance of the feminine and masculine energies. This is such an inspiring episode! -- Question Highlights: Why should women flex their earning power now more than ever? How can women become unstuck and overcome their fear? Are you able to flex your earning power, make a ton of money and make a difference while staying in your feminine? What do you say to those who fear being judged? Who are 2-3 women that you've seen unapologetically step into their earning power? What is one of your most recent favorite moments of giving? In This Episode You Will Learn: Why it's so important for women to step into their earning power – now! How making money can help and impact more peoples' lives Ways to get un-stuck and overcome fear The importance of ditching the belief that money is bad How and why women will be the healers of the world About the dance between the masculine and feminine energies That pain and fear are completely normal and necessary if your soul craves something bigger And so much more… Lori's Thoughts… "If we want to see changes, now is the only time we have." "Stuck is a choice – it's energy that's not moving." "You have to go through it to empower others." "Pain when it occurs as a result of your soul will always have a reward." "Life has pain and tons of fear, but if you're willing to translate it, it has all the messages you need." "You are the impact." "Happy people shift the planet." -- Resources: https://Loriharder.com 14-Day HoliBurn Challenge https://loriharder.com/challenge The Bliss Project 2018 http://www.Theblissproject.info -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Lori and I have been to our fair share of self- and business-development events, and when we do, there's one thing we always do… We always buy the upgrade! Upgrading to VIP (or whatever the upgrade is called) has helped so much when it comes to expanding our tribe and network. "Maximize your return on events." Before I go further, if you're attending an event by the skin of your teeth and you absolutely cannot afford to upgrade – don't sweat it. I applaud you for hustling and just getting to the event! And trust me, there are plenty of radically amazing people in general admission as well. BUT, if you do have the extra dollars, and you're trying to determine whether or not to part with that money, my advice – do it! "Invest in proximity." When you choose the upgrade you're choosing an investment of proximity to the people who are already crushing it. You're setting yourself on a path that may lead you to the answers you're looking for. You're surrounding yourself with the doers, big thinkers and hustlers who also expanded their money mindset to have the same experience as you. And guess what? The people who are consistently in the VIP areas are also seeking you out, too, whether it's as a partner, client or person with fresh ideas. It's a win all around. Is it always comfortable? No. But I promise that when you do, you'll plug into a brand-new tribe that takes your success to new levels. In This Episode You Will Learn: Why choosing the upgrade at events is beneficial How investing expands your money mindset What kind of people buy the upgrade Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Thanks to today's guest, real estate entrepreneur, Steve Valentine, your opinion of realtors is about to be challenged. It was never Steve's intent to get into real estate, however after a brief time in the automotive industry he was called to join his family's real estate business as a third generation real estate entrepreneur. Steve found great success, however after a huge real estate crash in 2007 and a foreclosure of his own, he had to fight to get his business back and become a "wealth builder." Steve's business journey is so inspiring, but what's more is all the stories of generosity that go along with it. Be sure to listen in and find out all the ways he's giving back and providing his community more opportunities each and every day. -- Question Highlights: What did your family teach you about business? What lessons did you learn? What did your family teach you about money? Why was losing everything a blessing? What's your advice for people who are facing a huge obstacle? What is this new way of doing real estate? How are you different? What's different about your employee policies? What are some tangible or profitable benefits of running your company this way? What's behind you and your giving away 25% of your income? Where did your extreme spirit of generosity come from? And more… In This Episode You Will Learn: How Steve got his start in real estate and recovered from foreclosure How failure can make your rich Why being transparent can allow you to better help others Why Steve hates the word realtor What makes Steve's real estate business so unique from others Why Steve offers his employees unlimited vacation time Why faith is necessary when determining your donations for the year The power and importance of writing your goals down When and where the idea of becoming a "wealth builder" began And so much more… Steve's Thoughts… "I lost everything, I learned from it and this is how I can help you do it better than I did." "Every failure we have no matter if it's big or small, as long as we learn from it it's one more step up the ladder to something successful." "If you can look at your failures as rungs on a ladder, the more failure, the higher you're going." "When you're generous and your kids see it and catch it, you know you've arrived." "If I can hire efficient people and make my business super profitable, I can write checks." "I just want to write the checks." "If I give this, I can make it again tomorrow." "If we start with generosity vs. income, it changes your life and makes the world a better place." -- I've always said I was proud to be a third-generation Realtor. Although, looking back, I finally realize I am not a third-generation Realtor, but a third-generation Real Estate Entrepreneur. My grandmother, Essie Spencer, held her real estate license for 50 years. She practiced until the age of 80. My late father, Dan, practiced in real estate for over 40 years working together as a team with my mother, Debbie (who still practices). This is where my real estate venture began. After short stint in the automotive industry, I gave real estate a shot. For the first two years of my career, I sat at my dad's desk listening to his calls, and sitting in on meetings, and learning how to conduct business. I don't remember thinking I wanted this type of mentorship at the time, but now I know how valuable it was. I learned customer service and how to conduct business. After my internship, I worked for my parents nearly 10 years. My wife, Wende, and I decided it was time for us to take what we had learned and forge ahead out from under the umbrella of my parents. The real estate market crash of 2006 left us financially and emotionally devastated. In 2008, Wende and I founded Valentine Group. Through trial and error, and failing forward multiple times, we learned to become real estate entrepreneurs with a new way of doing business for a new generation of homeowners also recovering from the fallout from 2006. Since 2008, our group has served over 2500 families and continue to serve more than 200 families each year. We provide solid real estate solutions, designed for each individual client, each and every day. One of the greatest things Wende and I have to offer, though Valentine Group's diversification, is experience. When my father passed, one thing he said resonates in my head, "…there are very few people who will see the multiple markets we've seen in during your short 17 years in the business. We've witnessed the rapid rise in the real estate market in 2003 and 2004, and the astronomical prices and lotteries to purchase homes in 2005 and 2006. Then, the sudden crash in 2007." How true. During this same crash, Wende and I made our way through our own foreclosure. This experience allowed us to truly and honestly help others though theirs. A sense of "normalcy" in the market began to return, for us, in 2010 and on into 2011 as we worked through decreasing inventory foreclosures and an increase in client

Over the last couple years, taking a cue from my friend and mentor, Lewis Howes, I've made it my own personal mission to connect as many people as possible. Once you see that it's a gift to connect two people who need each other – it's a no brainer. So how do you go about connecting people? First off, when you meet new people or even when you're talking to an old friend, get present and LISTEN! I know it sounds simple, but by really tuning in and learning what their goals are or what they're passionate about, you're able to connect them with others who have an expertise in an area they need help with or maybe they know someone who does. I've started making mental notes of everyone I talk to and lately, I'm able to connect them to someone else who can help them immediately. And it feels amazing! Not only do I get to have a hand in the magic, but often times the favor is returned down the road. "The more people you can help with their dreams, the more they'll help with yours." Of course this isn't the driving reason to do this, but it is incredible what happens when you find the right people, your tribe, to accelerate your journey or find shortcuts. And we all know how hard it can be to find the "right" people. With 2018 just around the corner, I challenge you to make an intention to ask what people are up to and connect more people. Make it your new addiction to become an ultimate connector. Are you in? In This Episode You Will Learn: Why it's so important to find your people or your tribe How connecting more people can lead to more success for you How to be a better listener Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

After having a conversation with my guest, Craig Ballantyne, it's hard to believe that he once struggled with crippling anxiety despite living "the life." It's what he likes to call the "paradox of freedom." He had the freedom, but was still trapped when it came to having panic attacks. Sometimes his attacks came out of nowhere and other times they were predictable (drinking excessive amounts of caffeine or alcohol). He knew it was time to do something about them, however, when he had an anxiety attack for nearly six weeks straight. Having since gotten a handle around his anxiety, Craig now enjoys sharing his story to help others work through theirs. And because we talk a lot about gratitude in this podcast, I love that one of his biggest tips is practicing gratitude and helping others daily. Craig's transparency in this interview is invaluable and I hope that if you or someone you know suffer from anxiety that you discover some helpful tools to help you control them moving forward. -- Question Highlights: What was your upbringing like and how did it lead to your success and the epic knowledge you have today? What did you do to overcome your anxiety/panic attacks? Have you seen a trend among your clients of anxiety holding them back? How have you done well in both personal training and business? What is The Perfect Day Formula? Do you find that you have clients who sacrifice happiness at home for a thriving business? What would be better to start with – your book or The Perfect Day Kit? What role has generosity played in your success? What is one of your all-time favorite moments of giving? And more… In This Episode You Will Learn: How Craig overcame is struggle with anxiety and panic attacks Why anxiety is like a black box How gratitude, generosity and helping others has aided Craig in coping with anxiety Why we shouldn't suffer in silence The importance of having good mentors Why you must figure out what moves you ahead toward your legacy in life – professionally and personally How the Three Cs help you establish rules for your life How your values drive anything you do Why it's essential to prioritize your values And so much more… Craig's Thoughts… "Everything is a learnable skill." "At the root of anxiety is self-doubt." "Admitting a weakness is a strength." "It wasn't the law of attraction; it was the law of action attraction." "You can attract great opportunity into life when you do the work." "Control what you can. Cope with what you can't. Concentrate on what counts." "When your actions are misaligned with your goals it causes internal stress in us." "If you want to do great things, you have to do fewer things." -- Author, trainer and coach, Craig Ballantyne is a Productivity & Success Transformation Coach from Toronto, Ontario, Canada. He is the author of The Perfect Day Formula: How to Own the Day and Control Your Life — and his brand-new book, The Great Cardio Myth, debunks all the untruths you've been told about cardio being a silver bullet for weight loss and heart health. Craig has been a contributor to Men's Health magazine since 2000, and his articles have also appeared in Women's Health, Oxygen, GQ, Maxim, National Geographic, Men's Fitness and Muscle and Fitness Hers, amongst many others. His articles have also been featured on Inc.com, LifeHacker.com, and Telegraph.co.uk. In 2001, he created the popular home workout program, Turbulence Training, and in 2013 he created the Home Workout Revolution bodyweight exercise program. Over 100,000 men and women have used his 6 Minutes to Skinny weight loss system since 2014. Craig is also the founder of the Certified Turbulence Training Program, certifying trainers from all corners of the globe. He holds an annual Turbulence Training Summit for fitness experts to become better trainers and get more clients so they make more money and live the Perfect Life. Craig has had to overcome many obstacles on his journey to success, and his toughest battle was fighting crippling anxiety attacks. He finally discovered how to beat them with his 5 Pillars of Transformation, and today Craig shows men and women how to use the 5 Pillars to do everything from losing 10 to 75 pounds, getting a raise and making more money, to finding the love of their life, and overcoming any obstacle in the way of success. Resources: Email: [email protected] http://craigballantyne.com IG: @realcraigballantyne Twitter: @realcraigballantyne -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

What's the real reason you want wealth? The power, the "things" or the social standing? While all those things are great here's my thoughts on being wealthy just to be wealthy. "Don't get rich just to get rich because you won't feel any different than you do today." Get rich for the gift of who you become during the process to get there. Money isn't going to make a lick of difference unless you change who you are. Now don't get me wrong – I'm sure you're an amazing individual already – but we're looking for the upleveled version of you. "The wealthy you should be an enhanced version of what you are today." You have to grow new strengths, be more open, expand your network and people and become more giving. After all, the more you give, the more you get, right? "In order to really grow wealthy, you need to really grow." Yes, that means you need to be more consistent and more disciplined. But it also means – and here's the kicker – you need to be more caring! "Becoming wealthy is really a side effect of solving more peoples' needs than you are today." How will your money make someone's life better? Most of the successful people I know and hang around don't talk about their wealth or all the things they have. Instead they talk about the impact they're making and who they want to help next. It's not about what you get back. Becoming the enhanced version of yourself is THE ultimate gift because it's about the person you get to be as you make your way through this life. The money and possessions are just the icing on the cake. In This Episode You Will Learn: What the ultimate gift of being wealthy is Why becoming wealthy has the potential to create a more enhanced version of yourself Why growth is required to increase your wealth Resources: 2018 For the Love of Money Mastermind Apply to be a part of it at: http://ForTheLoveOfMoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I was fortunate enough to receive an advance copy of my friend and mentor, Lewis Howe's book, Mask of Masculinity. I devoured the book in just a couple of days and love how it brought me just as many moments of enlightenment and breakthroughs as it did resistance. And this is why I was so honored to have an in-person interview with Lewis the other day to talk about it. If you're a man who wants to understand the masks he wears or a woman who wants to obtain the "keys to the kingdom" and the tools to connect with the men in her life, I definitely recommend buying the book (or pre-ordering – it releases Oct. 31) and for sure listening to this episode as he explains more about his journey with this book and also gives an in-depth into his sincere and giving nature. -- Question Highlights: Why did you write Mask of Masculinity and why right now? Was the book a healing process for you as well as other men? Do women wear these masks as well? Which of the 9 different masks did you tend to wear the most? When did wearing one of these masks really cost you something? How have these masks shown up in your business? What if someone likes their masks? How do we know if we have a healthy mindset? Do you ever find yourself purposely trying to avoid masks? What is one of your all-time favorite moments of giving? And more… In This Episode You Will Learn: Why Lewis wrote Mask of Masculinity How his new book helps men let go of their ego and heal How men are conditioned to react with anger and frustration What ways men use masks to fit in or to ensure they're worthy of acceptance How we can break out of our default masks by getting to the root cause of them The importance of being aware of things that trigger your masks When money feels fulfilling or unfulfilling Why it's necessary to have regular conversations about money The reason why Lewis still drives a 1991 Cadillac he bought for $4,000 Why having a holistic lifestyle is a non-negotiable for Lewis What the rewards and prices of wearing masks are And so much more… Lewis's Thoughts… "If we want to be ultimate human beings, we should be committed to our vision, not our egos, which hurt us." "Reacting is never as good as responding from a place of grace." "How can I be driven to achieve what I want, but make sure I'm living in harmony as well?" "Be who you want to be and embrace it, but have peace in your heart." "Ultimate fulfillment is when we continue to grow and contribute to others." "If self-worth is based on a mask, it's temporary." "Even if you can't give financially, you can still give your heart and energy to people and it will feel amazing." "Don't stop being who you are. Step into who you fully are by embracing a holistic lifestyle." "The more you achieve and succeed, the more of an example you can set for others." -- Before LEWIS HOWES became a media sensation for empowering people and sharing 'Greatness' across the globe, he had his share of obstacles to overcome. From having a learning disability, which led to being alone and bullied in school, to being sexually abused as a child, to being injured and broke on his sister's couch, Lewis's story is the perfect example of how anybody can overcome the obstacles in their life and achieve greatness. Fast forward a few short years, and Lewis is a New York Times Bestselling author of the hit book, The School of Greatness and releases his new book, Mask of Masculinity on Oct. 31. He is a lifestyle entrepreneur, high performance business coach and keynote speaker. A former professional football player and two-sport All-American, he is a current USA Men's National Handball Team athlete. He hosts a top 100 podcast in the world, The School of Greatness, which has over 40 million downloads since it launched in 2013. He was recognized by The White House and President Obama as one of the top 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30. Lewis has been featured on Ellen, The New York Times, People, Forbes, Inc, Fast Company, ESPN, Sports Illustrated, Men's Health, The Today Show and other major media outlets. Resources: Mask of Masculinity by Lewis Howes Available for pre-order now at: http://Maskofmasculinity.com http://LewisHowes.com IG: @lewishowes FB: facebook.com/lewishowes For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Do you know someone (or are you that someone) who struggles with growing their income? Today we're going to crack the code of this financial struggle wide open and talk about ways to eliminate it! Most often people think that it's because the person is lazy, scared, or afraid to try new things. Or perhaps that they lack drive or the resources. I believe that it's none of the above. In my opinion, I believe it's because these people aren't regularly expanding their minds. They become stuck because they're not shifting paradigms and they're not seeking different perspectives. "You cannot expect to have new levels of success with old levels of growth." You will never reach new heights in your business if you are still applying old ideas and methods. "When you exercise your mind, everything else expands right along with it." So how do you exercise your mind anyway? I say, expand, expand, expand! Expand your circle of influence (you will likely transcend some in your current circle) Expand your ability to jump over hurdles that get in your way Expand your motivation and drive Expand your business acumen Some of the best ways to do the above is through books, podcasts, coaches and masterminds. If you really want to bust out of that financial rut, all of the above apply. I know it's a lot, but if nothing changes, nothing changes. "You need new ideas to reach new levels of growth." Read new books that offer opposing views. Attend high-level events. Yes, it will be scary as hell, but you will leave a totally different, more expanded person (trust me!). And if you commit to growing your mind and your standards – you will grow your income as well. In This Episode You Will Learn: Why people remain stuck in financial struggle What isn't holding people back Ways to expand your mind and grow financial success Resources: 2018 For the Love of Money Mastermind Apply to be a part of it at: http://ForTheLoveOfMoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

By all accounts, today's guest and CEO of PingTank, Jeremy Greene, shouldn't be running one of the most successful tech companies around. As a child who grew up poor, spent years in the foster care system and barely graduated high school, he was certainly not groomed to be an entrepreneur, but there was one difference… he had an innate sense to survive and hustle to get where he's at today. From a start in the music business to the face filters you see today in social media, Jeremy's 8-Mile-esque story is mind-blowing. If you're looking for an inside scoop on pitching your ideas and turning them into realities, Jeremy's no-nonsense talk will set you straight about what works – and what doesn't. -- Question Highlights: Tell us how you got started in the music industry Why did you drop your career in music? Where did you get the posture to present yourself to billionaires? When you were figuring out how to be an entrepreneur, were there setbacks? What's your best trait as an entrepreneur? How do you get people to say yes? Where did you get your huge financial thermostat from? Do you feel that you're able to make a bigger impact because of your wealth? Where do you like to make an impact with your money? And more… In This Episode You Will Learn: How Jeremy went from trailer park to tech mogul How Jeremy got his start in the music business Why Jeremy shifted his focus from music to technology Why you must fail in order to succeed The importance of instilling a fear of missing out mentality when pitching your product What Jeremy's new app Mojiit is all about How one can make in impact without money Why hustling is so important to get the money to build a bigger platform Tips on how to part ways from people you've outgrown And so much more… Jeremy's Thoughts… "I really understand that marketing plays a big aspect in everything you do in life." "If you could create and sell people on a product and you can build a good product, you could convince anyone to be a part of it." "Building a good company starts with building an amazing product first, marketing it right and giving people the fear of missing out." "You don't learn anything until you have failures behind you." "If you want to disrupt anything, it starts with just being OK with the comfortability of you first. You can't sell something to other people if you don't believe it yourself." "Money doesn't buy you happiness, but it makes you comfortable." "Money doesn't define who you are and what you become. Where you grow up does not define where you'll be one day. It's OK to outgrow people, places and things." "You don't need money to be successful. You have everything that's built within you to be successful." "If you have money in the bank and you're not helping people, you're an a**hole." "Do what you love." -- Jeremy Greene is an American serial entrepreneur based in Los Angeles, California . He grew up in Maine. Greene was the number one musical artist on Myspace and ended up receiving record deals with P Diddy. He is the founder and chief executive officer of Mojiit. After his musical career ended Greene was inspired by The Social Network Movie to start a tech company and founded PingTank with a friend. Greene received publicity for his marketing stunts, including faking his arrest at a large party and then bringing out Tyga and Kylie Jenner for an impromptu performance. PingTank later did a deal with Facebook to be incorporated into Facebook Messenger. In early 2016, Green launced FwayGoApp, a party invitation and discovery application. In July 2017, he started Mojiit (Company) . Resources: IG: @realjeremygreene @mojiitapp YouTube: Jeremy Greene Youngry Summit – Oct. 28, 2017 http://Youngry.com/summit -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

Today we're doing a deep-dive on the topic of masterminds – why they work, what you might not know, how you can create or become a part of one yourself, and so much more. First off, let's define what a mastermind is. A mastermind is essentially a group of people all working together to mastermind on each other's business (or another area). "The idea is to go into a mastermind with massive, audacious goals and come out on the other end smashing those goals." Lori and I have personally invested and been involved in two business masterminds – one we didn't complete, however we still learned so much from it. Our most recent has been a raging success exploding our income with an additional seven figures beyond our existing goal. So how was this success possible? Below are some key areas that will help ensure a healthy ROI on your investment: Family mentality: Everyone is treated as family and everyone is open to helping each other when they can facilitate – think any aspect of business that you don't know how to do Group diversity: It's necessary to have a diverse group of people and skills to ensure different perspectives Size is key: Not too small, not too big – 20-25 people is ideal Duration: A year commitment allows any breakthroughs to be implemented and completed Enough touchpoints to ensure accountability (quarterly, monthly and weekly) At the same point financially heading toward the same (or similar) financial goal "When you get all the layers right, your significant investment turns into multiple returns." Masterminds are a magical formula that combines ideas, support, accountability and connections that when utilized correctly can help you reach your goals. Don't try to do everything alone when you could literally have 20 or more people making life easier for you. Instead mastermind and catapult your business to new heights. In This Episode You Will Learn: What a mastermind is Why masterminds are crucial if you're trying to smash your goals How Chris and Lori have received ROI with their masterminds Tips to ensure a successful mastermind How you can be a part of the 2018 For the Love of Money Mastermind Resources: 2018 For the Love of Money Mastermind Apply to be a part of it at: http://ForTheLoveOfMoney.com/mastermind For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

So, why do so many businesses fail, or more to the point, why do so many not even get off the ground? It may surprise you to know that often it's not because it's a bad business. It's not because it's a bad idea or product, and it's not because the person isn't a good "business person." "The reason 95% of all businesses fail is because everyone is allowed to call themselves an entrepreneur without actually acting like an entrepreneur." So many people seem to think that being an entrepreneur is this fun, romantic and energizing endeavor – like a magical entrepreneurial movie. But it's actually quite the opposite. It's gritty, dirty, scary and downright uncomfortable at times. Entrepreneurship consumes your life. "You don't build a business in your spare time, you build your business all the time." If you're not willing to do that, your business and your entrepreneurial career isn't likely to go too far. It's all about going that extra mile. You ask for help. You face rejection over and over. You have to learn what you don't already know to reach your goals. True entrepreneurs do all the above (and more). And when they do, their business success follows. In This Episode You Will Learn: Why so many businesses don't even get off the ground Why even good businesses fail About the traits necessary to be an entrepreneur Resources: Lori Harder's The Bliss Project March 2-4, 2018 – Newport Beach, CA TheBlissProject.info For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I think you're all really going to love my conversation with founder of Peak Performance Group and profitability expert, Thor Conklin. He first caught wind of entrepreneurship while caddying for successful businesspeople at the age of 13. Not only did he help them navigate through challenging golf courses, he also asked questions, listened and learned tips on navigating his own businesses down the road. Of course he didn't start any at that age, but he credits many foundational elements to that time in his life. Today, Thor does his best to pay it forward by being the "caddie" for others in their businesses by helping them maneuver around problem areas or obstacles that can stray one off their path to profitability. He challenges his clients (and others) to use accountability as a tool to reach new levels of success (hint: you don't have to do it alone!). I love how Thor operates both in his businesses and his life – giving both his time and money to ensure others are moving forward to create maximum results (see special offer below). Be sure to listen to the full episode as he drops some amazing nuggets of knowledge that can help you get out of your own way and take action. -- Question Highlights: Being a caddie, and being around business people, what's the lesson that stands out the most to you? Who's one of the people who's had the biggest impact on the successful life you live? What does it mean to be a senior leader with Tony Robbins, and what kind of exposure did you have to him? What kind of impact has this relationship had on your life? Do you have a preparation ritual before you speak to or meet with people? Do you feel like the most successful people have some sort of strong morning ritual they start with? What are your thoughts when it comes to entrepreneurs regarding profit vs. revenue? Do you think we live in a time where people are being overfed knowledge? What's typically the biggest waste you see when you dig into someone's profitability? Do you have any tips to help people stop their limiting mindsets? What are your thoughts on profit? Have you seen a correlation between profit and impact? What role has generosity played in your life? In This Episode You Will Learn: How Thor used his job as caddie when he was younger to learn about business How Thor became a senior leader within the Tony Robbins Organization Why a morning ritual is part of most successful people's lives What work/life balance means to Thor How PEAK Performance is able to help you – Profitability, Execution, Accountability and Knowledge Why execution and accountability trump knowledge What components make up Thor's Ultimate Success Map Why it's so important to find someone that you pay to hold you accountable Tips to help stop limiting beliefs Thor's views on profit That there is no honor in trying to do things alone And so much more… Chris's Thoughts… "If you can't turn those sales into profits and those profits into cash, then why are we doing what we're doing?" "Most people think that they're business owners, but their business owns them." "People know what to do. They just can't figure out how to get it done." "Knowledge is not power. Correct knowledge applied properly is power." "We don't want to admit that the problem might be us." "You need to make money so you can give it away." "I want to know that I had a hand in the psychology, the process and the actions of an individual." "Wealth is a byproduct of a value provided to the marketplace." -- Thor Conklin is a business owner, author, Consultant and content-driven podcaster. As an entrepreneur, the first company Thor created was a global risk management consulting firm in 1999 that served the private equity community. His top 15 clients had a combined revenue of $8.7 billion USD and operated in over 100 countries worldwide. Since that time he has bought and sold several multi-million dollar businesses making him a sought after, cross-industrial resource for entrepreneurs and executives in all stages of business. Thor has a talent for slicing through the noise of every day distractions and bringing his audience intellectual commodities like his:"Ultimate Success Map," a simplistic, easy-to- follow guide for individuals who need to break through to the next level of achievement and get the absolute most, not just from their business, but, from their lives. Thor is gritty, experienced and accessible as he brings to bear what holds people back from realizing their full potential. Through his latest venture, Peak Performance Nation, he teaches the tools, tips, tricks and strategies necessary to be a Peak Performer. He qualifies the psychology of success in one word: "Execution!" "Nothing you've learned matters – unless you can EXECUTE!" Thor Conklin serves as a professional mentor and facilitator of small entrepreneur groups within Atlanta's Entrepreneur's Organization (EO) where he is also Chair, Emeritus of the Learning Program. He is a Senior Leader within the Tony Robb

Today I want to talk about having faith and how it ties to abundance. Faith is no small thing. It truly has the power to make or break different situations in your life. If you believe it will happen, it will happen. You don't have to know the how or the where… you just have to know. It's acting on something even when you're scared because you know abundance is out there. My trainer, Abe, recently had a faith-testing situation. He hadn't had a vacation in five years and desperately wanted to unplug with a month-long trip in Bali. But of course there was fear around it. Obviously a vacation like that is a lot of money, but on top of that, he wouldn't be getting paid for that entire month while he was away. Long story short, Abe booked the vacation on faith. "I had faith that the finances would work out." And they did! Abe's finances appeared seemingly out of the blue. Here's how abundance showed up for him… I hired him to train me 3-4 sessions a week. Plus, he received a surprise bonus and had the busiest month of his career the month before he left. Long story short? Abe came back from his trip fully rested and more abundant than ever. Now, I've oversimplified the ease at which this all happened, because after all, faith is not intuitive to our brains. Our brains send out the emergency flares any time fear starts creeping in to keep us safe. But this is the exact spot where we need to interrupt those thoughts and do the opposite – no matter how uncomfortable it makes us. "Just because it doesn't feel intuitive doesn't mean it doesn't work." Let blind faith lead you. Don't let fearful thoughts get in the way. Abundance only happens when you truly feel the faith at your core. In This Episode You Will Learn: How one man acted on faith and attracted abundance Why you don't have to know the how or where in all situations Why it's so important to have faith to attract abundance Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I am so grateful that I was able to catch best-selling author, Chris Guillebeau, during this 100-city book tour and pick his brain about his current book, Side Hustle: From Idea to Income in 27 Days. If you're thinking of picking up a side hustle, be sure to tune in as he talks about important factors to consider when choosing one and following through with it. Hint: His book offers a simple path that with hard work will help you rock your side hustle. -- Question Highlights: After visiting every country in the world (193), what have you learned about business, money or people that has absolutely blown your mind? What have you noticed when it comes to entrepreneurship compared to the U.S.? How do people in other parts of the world view the idea of working so hard and long to make money compared to the U.S.? Do you have a favorite moment of giving? How realistic is it for someone to have a successful side hustle up and running, churning out cash, in 27 days? What's one of your all-time favorite side hustle success stories? Where do most people typically get stuck or go wrong in their side hustle? In This Episode You Will Learn: Why Chris set out to visit 193 countries About the importance of sharing acts of generosity How a side hustle can add more security and create an additional asset What a side hustle is The range of money a side hustle can make About some of Chris's side hustle success stories About some of the common things are stalling side hustle progress And so much more… Chris's Thoughts… "The pursuit of wealth for wealth's sake just becomes a compulsion and it's not making us happier." "You can do good things for yourself and help people at the same time." "Helping others can help you help yourself." "Whatever success I have now is very closely related to those years of exploration and discovery and giving of myself." "I take complex concepts and turn them into a simple path." "You don't have to live your life as others expect." -- Chris Guillebeau is the New York Times bestselling author of The $100 Startup, The Art of Non-Conformity, and other books. During a lifetime of self-employment, he visited every country in the world (193 in total) before his 35th birthday. Every summer in Portland, Oregon he hosts the World Domination Summit, a gathering of creative, remarkable people. His latest book, Born for This, will help you find the work you were meant to do. Resources: FB: @chrisguillebeau IG: @193countries SideHustleSchool.com Book: Side Hustle: From Idea to Income in 27 Days by Chris Guillebeau Found on Amazon http://amzn.to/2xR7MEy or wherever books are sold. Blog: The Art of Non-Conformity found at chrisguillebeau.com Daily Podcast: Side Hustle School https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/side-hustle-school/id1188487073?mt=2 -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

My Two Cents – Ep. 59 – The "Up-Leveling Trap" and How to Avoid It We're often told that if we want to get further and have more success we must start surrounding ourselves with those who are doing what we want to do or are doing bigger things. This is a good thing, however, when we continually spend time with these types of people we start falling into the "up-leveling trap," which is comparison. We start feeling like we're not doing enough because we're not where they are. But here's the thing…mentors are supposed to be ahead of you! Don't compare your journey to theirs. Be conscious of your own journey and love where you're at. "You have to pause and look back at how far you've come instead of looking at how far you have left to go." Be grateful that someone else has done it first and is willing to share how to get you there. Be grateful they've given you a "roadmap." "Be grateful for who you are and what you have right now and what you're doing, but be equally excited about where you're going." When you can find this balance between the two, you know you're on a healthy journey to success and abundance. The next time you find yourself about to fall into the up-leveling trap, do me (and yourself) a favor and make a conscious effort to stop comparison in its tracks. Catch your thoughts and meditate for five minutes in a quiet place. Think about and picture how far you've come in the last week, month, year and beyond. I promise it will shift your perspective and help ground you where you're supposed to be. It's definitely normal for these thoughts to come up, but it is not OK to let them stop you, to wallow in them or let them be an excuse. Be grateful that others have paved the way for you and also allowed you to create your own unique path to success. And be assured that if you stay ambitiously on this path success and abundance will follow. In This Episode You Will Learn: What the "up-leveling trap" is and how to avoid it Why the gap between you and your mentors should be view as a roadmap Why it's important to have gratitude for your journey Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.

I am so glad that today's guest and wildly successful entrepreneur, Joey Fazio, and I were recently introduced by a mutual friend. Growing up in a military family, his life was a bit atypical as his father was gone often (at age 12 his dad was deployed and didn't come home for three years). Joey left his parents' home at the age of 17, joined college a little after only to eventually drop out at age 20 and join the military (Air Force) himself. Always having an innate drive for success and dreams of bigger things, he left his secure military job to pursue the unknown. Unfortunately, his wife at the time (who had two children with) did not share his passion, and they divorced. So, at the age of 26, Joey started over with a negative net worth, but knew he would become a multi-millionaire by age 36. Spoiler alert: He's now 36 and a multi-millionaire. You don't want to miss this episode as Joey shares his amazing, but sometimes difficult entrepreneurial journey. I truly appreciated how authentic and vulnerable our conversation was and I know that you will resonate with it as well – especially on topics of relationships, money and giving back. -- Question Highlights: What were you feeling like when you were starting over with nothing? What is your advice for those who feel someone they love is holding them back? What did you learn in the military that you use today? Where can someone develop discipline if they haven't been in the military? Of your business, which is your favorite? Where does your insane entrepreneurial drive come from? Would you be able to make as big a difference as you do now without money? What does money mean to you? How do you want your kids to grow up viewing money and opportunity? In This Episode You Will Learn: About how Joey turned a negative worth into millions Advice on what to do if you have an unsupportive partner or spouse Why discipline is essential to growing a successful business The importance of working from the bottom up in a company Why time and opportunity is more important than money How Joey raises his kids to view money And so much more… Joey's Thoughts… "Time is the most valuable resource that any of us have." "Act now – the sooner the better." "Couples that share goals and have the same vision have a much higher chance of succeeding than those with separate goals." "If you don't have the partner who supports you and sees your vision – leave." "Start at the bottom. Work every position. Be the smartest person in the room." "If you have the opportunity to put yourself in a position of power and that truly helps people and makes a difference – do it." "You can't help anyone from the bottom." "If you piss off 10 people to help a million – do it." "It's not about the money, it's about the opportunity." "If you're going to help, go all in." -- Joseph Fazio, is a seasoned entrepreneur who has owned and operated businesses for 18+ years. Joseph has owned/owns 4 different franchised business models as well as proprietary concepts and start-ups. Specific to restaurants, Joseph owns several Denny's franchises and is a certified restaurant operator. Joseph, has won multiple awards with the Denny's organization and was named IFA Franchisee of the Year and was awarded by Congress in 2013 for work two Tint World stores that he owned. Joseph, holds college degrees in both Computer Science and Human Resources Management and is a Disabled Veteran having served six years in the United States Air Force. Since separating from the Air Force, Joseph has owned/operated over 20 businesses and has excelled dramatically in both the fitness and entertainment arenas. In 2016, Joseph sold the largest outsourced personal training and gym management company in the United States, after growing his company to 2,000+ personal trainers and managing over 300 gyms. During this time, Joseph created the supplement company "FitStrong" that sponsored/managed 6 top 10 Olympians as well as roughly 100 other athletes/ambassadors. During this time, Joseph perfected athlete and celebrity marketing/management and currently works with some of the biggest names in social media as well as professional athletes and entertainers. Joseph is now a multi-unit franchisee of Crunch Fitness and is developing Phoenix, Arizona. He has expanded the FitStrong brand to include nutrition shops, and is in the process of becoming the franchisor. Joseph, brings a plethora of business, marketing and branding knowledge to any team. Joseph's background in computer science, combined with his involvement in the celebrity and athlete management space, empowers him with a high-level understanding of social media, information technology, and network marketing. Joseph's various skill-sets make him a key player to have. Resources: IG: @joeyfazio13 [email protected] Guardians for Heroes: guardianforheroes.org -- For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney

Take a poll on how people feel about sales and my guess is that you'll see a large portion of people who are uncomfortable with it or just plain don't like it. If sounds like you, I encourage you to stay put and hear my take on it. First off, sales intrigues me. I'm kind of a nerd that way, but I like it! And maybe it's because I do approach it from a more positive perspective. "You're always selling someone on an idea that you believe in." Whether it's a point of view or a product, I think most can agree with that statement, but link it to money and that's when people start to get uncomfortable. And it's likely because they had bad experiences that helped support that feeling. So my goal with this episode is to change those opinions and feelings around selling and help you get comfortable with it. Let's take the words "sales" and "money" out of the equation. Now you can focus on the people, and offer them a valuable solution for their problem. "You're currently placing too much value on money and not enough value on your customers' needs." It's all about an equal energy/value exchange. As Lisa Nichols puts it, "Sales is just a dignified conversation enrolling two people into a new possibility to enhance their lives." Sales doesn't have to be sleazy and it doesn't mean that anyone is getting the wool pulled over their eyes. Sales is taking an interest in the actual people – not their money (even though that's an amazing side effect). "The best sales are caring conversations." But just like any relationship, don't be surprised if the sale or friendship isn't locked in right away. It takes time and follow-up to build a connection. Have patience and don't make the mistake of stopping that conversation because you think they're going to say no. "Don't create a false no in your head just because the person who you're selling to isn't ready to say yes." A person saying "not yet" is not a NO. Don't get tripped up by doubts and don't stop out of fear or being judged. The world needs your unique solutions! "Not selling to protect your ego is being selfish – not caring." If you're aligned in integrity and you whole-heartedly believe in your solution or product, it will eventually happen and abundance will appear. It is your moral obligation to share your solutions with others. Because if you're not, who else will they turn to? In This Episode You Will Learn: Why people are so uncomfortable about sales How sales is essentially helping to solve peoples' problems Why it's so important to take an interest in those you're trying to sell to Resources: For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.