
The Alpha Male Coach Podcast
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Episode 210: Age of Punishment
Hello again, my brothers! Welcome to another episode of The Alpha Male Coach. Today, I\'m zooming out to look at the big picture, talking about general concepts associated with an alpha male lifestyle. Now, you already know the universal truth about circumstance and existence being neutral, and that our consciousness is then laid on top of this, and how this leads to the duality of oneness as our thoughts experience themselves, and how in turn, this drives our actions and creates a self-perpetuating loop. What I want to get into today is how we make changes to our T line, our thoughts, and what this enables us to then do. You’ll come to understand that the only way to change thoughts is to replace them with other thoughts, and when we make these adjustments, it takes time to form a new belief. There is a natural progression from thought, to feeling, to action, to belief; we have all experienced this. What I want to propose, brothers, is to rewire this loop so that we can escape the age of punishment, and move into a new world of information and transparency! This means that we need to reimagine our instinct to blame ourselves and others when things “go wrong.” This is our conditioning and is rooted in the illusions that we absorb through socialization. One of the biggest effects of this is our tendency to hide in fear of punishment, and our connection to ideas of shame, blame, lying, and so on. What I want to underline here is how our understanding of the quantum field can help us escape this paradigm and move into a reality of perfection and acceptance of that! Tune in today to learn more.

Episode 209: How To Have Amazing Relationships
Today’s episode is about how to form incredible and romantic relationships. Connection is vital and is a part of the reason we are here. This episode is not just for brothers that are seeking relationships; it is also for those who are committed to their significant other. This episode is for everyone. I am going to tell you about how we can expand our relationships and how to find the person that matches your energy. You achieve this through establishing your values and vision. Brothers, when it comes to amazing and romantic relationships, she will choose you. You are going to do the work to get her attention, but ultimately it is up to her; she decides. The way that you get her attention is by working on yourself, and the way you work on yourself is through values and vision. This is what I am going to offer you in today’s episode. By working on your values and vision, you will be able to connect with your masculine energy, the alpha state. Self-mastery leads to you being intentional, focused, and driven, making you a confident, sought-after male. The most vital component of any relationship in your life is you and what you want. What we think we want is often a result of conditioning, the programming of culture and society. The culture of relationships is most likely based on the culture of the place you live in. For example, in America, the culture is to meet someone, get married, and settle down. This differs from place to place but usually involves some form of a monogamous relationship. However, it does not have to be that way, and you can have whatever type of relationship you want. Therefore, the first question you should ask yourself is, what do you really want? Answering this question is the first step to catching her attention. You need to have a solid foundation of values. Values give you stability and let you know who you are. You can change these values, which is okay, but it is essential to identify your current values. Values are energetic; it is not a behavioral aspect. Our values are the vibrational energy that attracts people to you. Who you have in your life is based on your values. Next is vision, which is purpose. The reason why vision is so important is that it determines what your goals are. Your goals don’t necessarily mean your job or what you contribute to the world but are more personal. Your goals are why you get out of bed in the morning and what keeps you motivated. Goals drive action and remind us who we want to be. Your values and vision culminate into what you bring to the table as a man, and she will recognize that; the divine, masculine energy. How your masculine energy manifests will make her feel a certain way, such as protected, loved, safe, and so on. When your values and her values align, she will begin to feel that femininity within her. It is her femininity that will make her choose you as her King. Your role in this realm as a man is to master manifestation, wealth, and creation. Conquering the physical realm is achieved through self-mastery. The trick is to set your course regarding your values and vision and let her come to you. The most alpha male thing you can do is let her choose you. Brothers, join me today to learn how to take your first steps in forming the relationships you want as I help you elevate your alpha!

Episode 208: Money Scarcity
The mindsets we have around scarcity and abundance determine so much of how we experience and act in the world. Today, brothers, I want to unpack these themes a little bit and approach each of them individually, focusing first on why scarcity and abundance are not good or bad, but just opposites. Clearly, most of us would like more abundance and more freedom, and it is with that in mind that we can set out on this path together! Scarcity and abundance can be material or they can be mental, and after delving into this, we get into how money plays into these dynamics. In the end, it is all about the data collection we do when we have the experiences and keep moving. There are some really important lessons here around why we prefer abundance, why we do not have to hate scarcity, and how the universe reaches back towards us, reflecting our actions and thoughts. As I have said before, it is only when scarcity no longer serves us, that we are able to recognize and accept abundance, and this is related to the ways in which we have been taught and conditioned. Following this path with curiosity and non-judgment is one of the routes to nirvana, but for today, we are purely focusing on setting out! Join me today, brothers, as we look at the examples of air and salt, and how our perceptions of abundance can change the world around us and reinforce what we already know!

Episode 207: The Morning Routine: Part 2
Welcome back to the second half of my morning routine series! Last week I gave an introduction on why it’s important to design a morning routine that matches your energy along with a breakdown of the elements that we need to awaken within us to thrive as human beings. In today’s episode, I will be picking up where I left off. Tuning in you’ll hear me give a detailed account of my morning routine, which is not something I do very often since I don’t really believe in giving advice. This is because I know that you have, within you, all the answers that you will ever need! For today’s installment, I will be giving you guys a lot of practical information, along with some examples, and a breakdown of my routine. But that doesn’t mean that you need to do exactly as I do, brothers. This is something for you to create for yourself so that you can wake up the consciousness within you, the skill set of manifestation, as well as the movement of energy that you have flowing through you at any time. My morning routine is about three to four hours, but there are some days where it can extend even further. I realize that for many this amount of time isn’t practical, and I don’t expect anyone to wake up at 2 AM to squeeze in this routine! You can condense your routine into 30 minutes if you need to. As long the intentionality behind it is there and you are conscious of what it is you’re doing, you\'ll reap the benefits of implementing this type of routine, even if it’s shortened! The first step in your routine should connect you with the recognition of total consciousness. Meditation is a great way to do this, and I always start my day with 30 minutes of a transcendental type of meditation. As you continue your routine it should follow the elements, namely ether, air, fire, and water. Once you grasp this natural pattern you will be able to build a routine that matches your unique energy to help you connect with total universal consciousness. Whether you already have an established routine or are only just getting started, today’s episode will give you fresh insight into what your morning routine can do for your consciousness and your life. Remember that we are all microcosms of the universe. And while it may be easy to get swept up in the details and frenetic energy of everyday life, our relationship with the universe is always lying just under the surface. It’s just waiting for us to connect with it. This is a spiritual practice that creates real results in the material realm due to the nature of manifestation itself. So make sure you tune in today and give it a try!

Episode 206: The Morning Routine: Part 1
I have done over 200 episodes and, in all of those, I don’t think I have ever covered a topic like this before. In this episode, I will tell you about my morning routine. Some of you might already have a conscious morning routine, while others might not. Either way, it is essential to listen to this episode. In future episodes, I will cover the details of my morning routine but, for today, I explain why I practice my morning routine the way I do. Hopefully, by understanding the motivation behind it, you can find the morning ritual that works for you. We are microcosms of the universe. We are microcosms of everything. We have achieved some incredible feats in science, such as understanding how energy and consciousness are related. It is important to realize that energy and consciousness are integrated; one cannot exist without the other. Remember that thought begins in the realm of consciousness and, through our feelings, vibrational energy is slowed down and manifests itself through action. This action is the moment that your soul seeks to experience. The soul acts as the messenger to all oneness. That’s why we are here, brothers! We are here to experience and add our experience to the collective knowledge of everyone. By exchanging information, we evolve and begin to forge a path to the ultimate truth. However, when we become unconscious, we repeat certain actions because we are not learning from that experience. The universe will continually put us in that circumstance until we wake up and realize what we need to take away from it! This is what you may regard as the spiritual side of your existence. Ensuring that you are always conscious of the moment and the experience your soul desires is where a morning routine comes in. You must set up a morning routine that engages the different components of your energy. Correctly engaging your energy will help you become aware of the elements you need to wake up within your soul, causing you to manifest them through action. This continual loop of manifestation and experience is how we grow and eventually become free. Brothers, join me today as I explain the philosophical reasons behind my morning routine to help find what engages your energy and elevates your alpha!

Episode 205: Everything Is For You
Today I will cover a topic that means a lot to me, something you can realize on an intellectual and experiential level. I recently had the honor of an experience from a divine source, which was a message. Brothers, I want to share that message with you today and delve into what it means. This will be challenging because it is difficult to describe an experience with words. I am going to share a universal truth that will change your life when you experience it, which is everything and everyone is here for you. As I said, this will be a difficult challenge as words are insufficient. Using words to explain and experience is like explaining what a rainbow looks like to someone who has been blind their whole life. That person will only truly appreciate the beauty of a rainbow once they see it for themselves. The same as riding a bicycle is different from understanding how a bike works. To begin your journey to universal truth, you must first comprehend the difference between understanding and experience. The universal truth is this; everything is for you. Everything is here for you to learn from, such as your friends and enemies. Both of these people act as a mirror to help you identify and realize the emotions and thoughts within you, to help you grow and expand your consciousnesses. That is true for everyone on this planet. We are magnets attracting the experiences and people our souls want. We move away from each other to experience and then find each other again to love and learn. That is our true purpose of being; to learn from our experiences and each other. Our souls are forever seeking new life lessons, eventually leading them to become complete, which takes many, many lifetimes. However, only once you understand the concept can you begin to experience it. Brothers, join me today as I help you understand so that you can experience what your soul is looking for as I help you elevate your alpha!

Episode 204: 12 Responsibilities Of Mastery
If you are to become an alpha male, and take your human experience to the next level, there are important areas of your life that have to be mastered, brothers. Today I am continuing on from the episode a few weeks ago in which I shared the twelve attitudes of mastery, and broadening the picture through the responsibilities we need to take on. If you can make these a way of life, and focus intentionally over time, you can elevate and expand yourself! As we go through this list of responsibilities, you will recognize familiar themes and ideas that we have often covered, from escaping victimhood, and finding personal freedom to taking accountability and living with integrity. You will hear about how to live with more intention, and the foundation of spiritual connection that we all have to find within ourselves. Other areas that we get into include, living with generosity and appreciation, accepting the timing of the universe, expressing and exercising kindness, using our best sense, and much more. All of these twelve responsibilities are laid out in order for you to escape the beta condition, heal yourself, and transcend an entitled state of being. Join me to hear it all!

Episode 203: Time Travel
Hello and welcome back, brothers. Today I want to share some powerful messages that I recently received while in the jungle. These downloads are always pieces of huge experiences and I want to give as much of that to you as possible in this format. The message of today\'s show deals with time, and our relationship to what we perceive as the future and the past. I want to offer you a new conception of time, and relay to you the vital message of time\'s vertical nature. That\'s right, brothers, time is not a horizontal line as we experience it by default. As we begin to understand this truth we also start to unlock the power of making real whatever we can conceive of, whether it is world peace, curing disease, or political change, we can manifest our reality by remembering the future! As I have said before, the past and future have a strong relation to our ego and the beta condition. This requires that we start to let go of the fear associated with the illusion of time, and I will be introducing this process in this episode, brothers. If we can accept the infinite possibilities of the present, and halt our need to \'get somewhere\', we in turn realize how everything has already happened. The only reason we do not already know this is because experiencing everything all at once is too much for the human mind, and so it takes practice to increase our knowledge of reality. We do not have to wait for things to occur, because they have already, and we can catalyze our wins by celebrating them now! When I received this clear message that everything has already happened, it also became apparent that all problems we perceive in the present have been solved. Imagine this, that everything you wish for has already come true, and it is only the illusion of time and separation that is standing in the way of knowing this fully. Through the experience of celebration, it will be complete, first in thought, then belief, and lastly, behavior. That is the message I want to leave you with brothers, that you can bring anything into our reality by knowing it.

Episode 202: The Body Is A Temple
The title of this episode could trigger many different thoughts and ideas about today\'s topic. Let me be clear from the start that this episode is another analogy for being. This will be different from my other episodes, which delve into the game and puzzle of life. This episode is not an analogy for creation or existence. Instead, I will provide you with an explanation of the body and the three ways we experience our soul. The soul is our true self which is the alpha state. Imagine that you are a white light being diffracted through a prism and broken into other beams, colors, or frequencies. The different frequencies represent the various dimensions of existence. Diffraction is how our soul experiences other ways of existing and different ways of experiencing itself. The first layer of this experience is the mind layer which comprises all our thoughts and ideas. The thoughts that are closest to our soul are the ones that will resonate with us the most. Brothers, you must remember that you choose your thoughts. The next dimension, layer, or frequency is the astral dimension. The astral dimension is lower vibrational energy that moves like a wave. Much like a thought, this wave is invisible and exists everywhere. It is all around us. Think of how all the water in the ocean is a part of what it is. This is like the astral realm. All energy in the astral realm is infinite and layered on top of all the other dimensions. We perceive these as emotions, and to master this domain, we must practice emotional ownership. Finally, there is the physical dimension which is our three-dimensional existence. Also important to remember is this is only an illusion. The realm of thought is the causal realm, the realm of energy is the astral realm, and the realm of form is our physical existence. All three are layered on top of each other, existing together. This is the trinity, the three dimensions we are experiencing as the human soul. Brothers, join me today as I explain why your body is a temple and help you elevate your alpha!

Episode 201: As If Your Life Depends On It
Has anyone ever asked you, “If you had six months to live, what would you do?” The replies are usually superficial nonsense that does not encompass our true intention. The question invokes answers of scarcity related to the amount of time left on this earth and not our true intentions and beliefs. Brothers, this is what today’s episode is about, harnessing the power of intention. Intention is a powerful aspect of the physical realm aimed at belief. It is essential that beliefs encompass intention because intention helps us manifest our desired outcomes. Therefore, when we learn to believe, we must also learn how to direct our focus and intention to achieve our goals. People think that action creates results, which is not true. In reality, this is a perverse outlook brought about by illusion, forgetfulness, and unconsciousness. Today, I focus on intention and how to be hyper-focused in the moment. I am going to suggest a different question, “What if your life depended on it?” This question evokes a way of thinking not based on time as a commodity. It reveals intention, and this simple exercise will make fundamental changes in the physical realm of your life. It is imperative to use your energy and mind to focus your actions and give them power. Commit to each action you take as if your life depended on it. Brothers, I know this is a difficult concept to grasp, but it is essential to understand the power of intention. Giving each action your full attention will help you achieve excellence and make the action becomes virtuous. Brothers, join me today for another step in our journey to cognitive master as I teach you about the power of intention, and help you elevate your alpha!

Episode 200: Everything Is Energy
In this episode, I will follow up on a concept I covered in previous episodes regarding energy and take it a step further so that you have a more fully developed picture of what energy is. It is important to remember that we are spiritual beings having a human experience. What I will talk about in this podcast may not make sense initially, and you may need to listen to this episode more than once to grasp the concept. The current dimension of our existence, which is 3-dimensional, has clouded our understanding of who we really are and our true purpose. This is a result of cognitive conditioning from the third dimension, which creates resistance to the concept of energy, and in turn, causes us to live unconsciously. Those who are not living consciously and do not understand that they are a being of energy from a higher dimension, live unhappy and unremarkable lives. What I am going to offer you in this episode is a way of believing that frees you from all forms of control and low vibrational existence. It will free you from the suffering we experience in the third dimension. What is the real you, and how can you find yourself? The truth is, brothers, we can transcend all low vibrational energy. You\'ve heard me say many times that emotional contrast is essential and that we seek emotional balance. The truth is you are a 12-dimensional being having a third-dimension experience. The realm of energy is an infinite ocean of potential and has no beginning or end. Once you fully grasp that concept, the next step is to embrace that energy is vibration. We can control those vibrations to create beauty and love. I\'m not talking about the information field that brings matter into manifestation. I\'m talking about a field of vibration, a field of formless energy. Brothers, join me today as we delve into the mystery of who you are and how to remember, as I help you elevate your alpha!

Episode 199: 12 Attitudes Of Mastery
This is the next step on your journey to the alpha state, brother, and I am so excited to continue this mission of teaching and guiding you on your way! Today, we are exploring the 12 attitudes that you can foster in your spiritual practice to elevate your alpha and attain a life beyond fear and hate. This list is a suggestion, an offer for you to implement things in your life and escape the illusion of duality and separation, because that is not the reality, brothers! Let us begin with the foundation of the kingdom of heaven and its residence inside you. That\'s right. It is nowhere else but inside your own soul. From there, we can kick off our list with the first and most important attitude which is, of course, love! This is what holds everything together and, tuning into this discussion, you will hear how it relates deeply to the next 11 attitudes of mastery. I cover grace, gratitude, reverent respect, responsibility, trust, accountability, impeccability, mindfulness, fearlessness, engaged detachment, and lastly, joy! Remember, brothers, this is not evangelism. It is merely me sharing the truth with you and allowing you to do what you will with it. I would love to see you connect with the heart of God, escape the algorithm of fear, and wake up out of conditioning and ego, but the choice is and always will be yours. So, to set out on this path together and begin to live the life that all of us deserve, join me on the Alpha Male Coach!

Episode 198: Money is an Energy
Hello, my brothers, and thank you for joining me again as we continue our journey of cognitive mastery. In today\'s episode, I switch gears and talk about something that I have not spoken about for a while: money. Specifically, I will talk about your power, responsibility, and abundance regarding money, which I think is important given these difficult times. I was in the US recently, and I could feel the vibrations of confusion, worry, doubt, and scarcity when I left. It is important to remember that the universe does not make mistakes. We choose our relationship to the outer world, which is also a reflection of our inner world. Keep these aspects in mind when listening to today\'s show. Everyone has a different definition of money. For some people, it is time, freedom, and power. These are common misconceptions. Money is energy that manifests through vibrations, which are in turn formed from our thoughts and relationship with the inner and outer worlds. Money is a visible, molecular object that has slowed down from the realm of invisible, higher vibration. All things come from the invisible realm of infinite potential and are slowed down through the medium of thought to become physical objects in the realm of matter and density, which we call reality. In this way, money is a mere representation of energy, our most basic needs, such as survival and subsistence. Understanding these concepts ultimately leads to the question: what thoughts manifest money? Money holds a place in our minds that represents our ability to survive, provide, and create impact. We need to master energy to achieve its true purpose in the physical plane, which first comes through mastering thought! If you are struggling financially, it is because you manifested the situation through your inner thoughts. However, you have the power to change your reality. Brothers, as men, we are here to master energy in the form of money in the physical realm. Cognitive mastery is our purpose. Join me today as I help you understand what money is and what it takes to manifest it through your inner thoughts and help you elevate your alpha!

Episode 197: Gratitude Is The Gateway
Hello, my brothers and welcome to another episode of The Alpha Male Coach Podcast. I have received positive feedback about the previous episode, The Movie of Life, which explored the concept of starring in a movie as an analogy for the human experience. Although we were able to dive deep into the idea, I was not able to say everything I wanted to. So today, I want to add three additional concepts to the previous episode before exploring today’s topic, gratitude. Remember the beam of light from the projector? That beam of light is everything. You, me, and everything in between. It is also important to remember that you can change the theater and the movie of your life at any time. It is crucial to remember to watch and act in movies that you want, and not for anyone else. Accepting these truths allows us to grow closer to the creator and master our cognitive abilities. This brings me to another important aspect of the human experience that I want to speak about with you today, gratitude. Gratitude is the gateway. What do I mean by that? The standard definition of gratitude is limited as it does not include what we have to be grateful for or the experience of the energy, the vibration of gratitude. To master the spiritual plane we must first master the physical plane, and gratitude is the first step towards this and attracting abundance on the physical plane. If your mind is stuck in the thought pattern of ungratefulness, then you need to shift your mindset to a mindset of being grateful. Once you have achieved this, you can move towards being grateful on the mental plane. Mastery of the mental plane is a momentous leap from the physical plane and requires immense discipline. Brothers, today I will also talk to you about how to master the mental plane through active meditation. I explain in detail what is required to be grateful on the mental plane, which is being grateful for each moment that life gives you. Be grateful for your sight, for the rain, for the ability to walk, for everything little thing that life bestows upon you. Although this is difficult, it is not as challenging to master as the energetic plane. The energetic plane is our feelings, the vibrations of life and emotion. Brothers, I have said this before, but we need to learn how to feel so we can be truly grateful on the energetic plane. My brothers, it is imperative to remember that this takes immense work and time. Do not expect immediate results, as it is constant work. It is what our soul needs to evolve and grow and ultimately reach God-consciousness. True emotions are a vibration. I ask that you join me again today to continue our journey from the last episode as we learn how to be truly grateful and open up the gateway to the universe.

Episode 196: The Movie of Life
In past episodes, my focus has been on cognition and provided listeners the tools to expand their experience on a deeper level within the physical and mental plains of consciousness. However, if you have been asking even deeper questions, you have taken another step forward to finding the truth. Thank you for joining me on this journey as we continue to evolve and awaken together. Brothers, today I ask you to dig a bit deeper with me. What is the human experience? This is a question that people have explored in many different forms, from books to movies. The consensus is that you either have to renounce all of your earthly-bound possessions and go live in solitude or dismiss the idea entirely. Then there are the more practical people who explore the duality of the inner and outer worlds while maintaining a balance with their everyday existence. The modern world is full of examples of the duality of life, such as movies. Movies are being projected onto a blank canvas just as we, the audience, are being projected by a beam of light from the creator. Just like we experience life through a movie, so does the creator through us, who is projecting what they want to see. The arc of any character in any movie is through conflict and resolution, which helps the character grow and evolve. Brothers, this is the same for us, as we experience the ups and downs that life gives us, which help us grow and learn to become better. However, this is only achieved by being present in the moment and fully understanding the human experience. Join me today to continue our journey as I help you learn and understand the movie of your life.

Episode 195: Indomitable Self-Confidence Is NOT A Feeling
We have just entered the month of June at the academy and that means we are focusing on indomitable self-confidence for the next thirty days. Today on the show I want to delve into the truth about indomitable self-confidence so that you can begin to resonate with it on a deeper level and access your own indomitable self-confidence. Too many of us, especially men, have forgotten how to feel. This is why our training at the Academy always starts with understanding how we’ve been conditioned to deal with our emotions. Our feelings are our state of being. This is why it’s so important that you remember how to feel all your emotions, because this is the language of the soul, the language of your alpha state. The beta strives to separate you from your alpha state by seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. But the truth is that you don’t need to be afraid of feelings like anxiety and discomfort, they are all equally valid. Brothers, I want you to understand that when you accept all your feelings and stop judging certain emotions as negative and others as positive, then you allow yourself to access your alpha state, which in turn will allow you to access your soul and attract the health, wealth, and love that you deserve. Tune in today as I unpack the truth behind the misconceptions we’ve been conditioned to believe and what indomitable self-confidence truly means!

Episode 194: The Science of Creation and Attraction
I\'ve had a few brothers ask me some questions about the process of creation itself, about how creation works as a force. Well, brothers, today I am going to explain. In this episode, I talk about how creation remains to be one of the most important forces in the universe. I explain, brothers, how the explosion caused by the Big Bang expanded everything that existed and separated it into two groups, creating a basic duality of quarks and leptons. You’ll hear about the neutrino field of information that we live in and how in the same way that a fish swims through water, we swim through a field of data so small that not only can we not see it, but it permeates every cell in our body. In addition to that, we are embodiments of pure light and raw energy, and when an electrical field generated by our thoughts is aligned with the magnetic field vibrating from our hearts, we become machines of creation. Brothers, I want you to understand that whenever what you\'re thinking and feeling is in alignment, the neutrino field responds to it and moves whatever it is that you are asking for through your electromagnetic field to you. Tune in as I attempt to explain these deeply complex concepts in a way that aims to make them understandable in just 30 minutes.

Episode 193: Right And Wrong In A Neutral Universe
When people start to practice living through the universal truth, they often think that this philosophy appears to give them license to act in ways that would be harmful to others. Today, brothers, I want to clear up this misconception of the universal truth by offering what it means to determine right and wrong in a neutral universe. In this episode, you’ll learn that the transition to the alpha state is the movement from ‘I and other’ to ‘inner and outer’. You’ll begin to understand the experience of oneness, where what is within me is being reflected outside of me, and what is outside of me is demonstrating what is within me. Everything is you and you are everything. There is nothing but you. Tuning in, you’ll hear a recap of what the universal truth is before I explain why there is no objective morality, there is no objective right or wrong in the circumstance, in the universe, in what happens outside of your mind and outside of what happens in your body. You’ll start to understand, my brothers, that there is no such thing as right and wrong and the question instead should be, “How do you determine what is right and wrong from within you?” Today I explain that nothing is wrong as an objective permanent state in the outer universe. The way you then determine what is wrong is through an inner framework. Tune in today, brothers, as I explain what this inner framework is and challenge you to make a radical change in determining, with your own consciousness, who it is that you want to be!

Episode 192: Can Others Hurt You?
This month we are going deeper into relationships, brothers. As you know, relationships are the foundation of all the work we do here, as you cannot have a human experience without being in a relation to something else. Relationships are what enable us to experience, exist, and evolve; they are everything! Now, you know that others cannot hurt you, it is something I have said on the show many times, and in this episode, I will be clearing up some misunderstandings about the universal truth and the model of alignment. Join me to hear about those moments when we come into contact with others, how this can feel like it leads to harm, and how boundaries can be set. This all comes down to how we apply the universal truth, and through this, how we can be set free from being hurt by others. No matter where you are on your journey, you are able to begin a process of progress, we do not start at the top of the mountain. It is just a matter of realizing where the harm comes from, and there is no surprise that it is something inside ourselves. The purpose of our relationships is to help us evolve and release ourselves, they are about having feelings and working through them, and it is only through resistance that the same patterns of pain will continue. I am here, brothers, to help you become an emotional master, and this means being more predictable! The beta condition is what is unpredictable, always reacting to its environment and triggers. The only relevant question we need to be asking ourselves as we set out on this path is about love and how to do that more!

Episode 191: The Force of Creation and the Thought Upload
Observing the world around us, it’s impossible not to be completely in awe of the natural world. Brothers, creation is one of the forces for the universe. Star Wars has given us the perfect illustration of the way that forces operate in our universe. For example, gravity is a force in our universe that holds things together. Just like gravity, creation is a force that only attracts. This is important for you to know because gravity responds to actions. Whether we know it or not, our thoughts are always creating our reality. That’s why the most important skill that we can teach ourselves and our children is cognitive mastery. We know that creation exists. We don’t know what it is, but we know that it is there. We don’t need to know what these forces are, we just need to know how they work, and see the results they bring. All things will be revealed in time because all things exist now! What you do need to do, is to practice utilizing and engaging this force, and that’s how you will release yourself from the prison of forgetting. A simple meditation technique can help you to engage this force. First, you’ll find a comfortable seated position, before starting to focus on your breathing and then moving into a body scan. Your body is a cellular vehicle; a group of cells held together by energy. When we go into our bodies and experience this energy, we enter a meditative state. The five-part process begins with recognition, by engaging with the experience of yourself, and the world beyond. You can use the mantra ‘it is’ to help you to expand to all of everything. The second step is unification. The ‘I am’ statement is the most powerful in all of life, because it reminds us that we are not separate from the universe, and so we move from ‘it is’ to ‘I am’. We dwell on these for up to 15 minutes. There’s a state of being you’ll slide into where your brain waves actually change, and you begin to experience an expansion into everything. You lose a sense of boundary, a sense of body. Next, we move into declaration or command. The same way gravity responds to our actions. The force of creation does the same thing with our thoughts and beliefs. We declare from a place of having happened, having already occurred. Do this without self-judgment. If you create with judgment, your creation will be confused. Brothers, you can be anything. Through these thought uploads, you can heal yourself. We do this according to three specifications: it is positive, it is in the present moment, and it is for the common good. Even though the force of creation is impersonal and neutral, the more we begin to heal, the more we will experience that revolution externally. As it is said, it is done. We move into gratitude, the gateway to the soul. Gratitude is how you reveal to yourself all the other derivatives of love. It is a simple thank you for what has already happened, what is to come, and what is happening now, which we know is all the same thing. Everything has already happened, the good and the bad, and through gratitude, we receive the good. How will you feel when this occurs? You will feel gratitude! We work on this as a practice. Not just by writing down what you are grateful for, but being thankful for everything, what you have and what you don\'t. Lastly, we step into faith, the release, the knowing that the state of being is enough and the doing is neutral. It\'s an acknowledgment that there isn\'t a knowledge of the how and the when, but only the knowledge of what is. We don\'t know how your declaration will occur, or when it will occur, but we know that it is occurring now at all times and that because of your declaration and gratitude, it will occur. It\'s a release. We release that declaration, through gratitude, into the field of oneness. Brothers, if you\'re listening to this podcast, you are already on the path. This path calls to you, regardless of the stories your mind is telling you. Excuses are thought pathways that are only relevant if you choose to make them so. Take the momentous leap and begin your remembering today!

Episode 190: The Mystery Of Time (Part 1)
Brothers, time is a mental construct. Today, the goal is to offer insight into what that means, and how it affects our lives. The first step to understanding this, mystical as it may seem, is that there is no time. What we consider the future, is in fact the present, because everything exists in the realm of vibration, of sound, and from that realm, we bring forth the realm of form. A true understanding of time allows you to live much more peacefully within your realm of relativity. It is not time that is moving, but you that is the mover. This is not something you don’t know, it is something that we have forgotten. When we stand still within time, we experience those life-defining moments. What is a year? 365 days. What is a day? We have decided that a day consists of the time it takes for the earth to spin one complete revolution on its axis towards the sun. We have gone ahead and subdivided that into hours, minutes, and seconds, and it’s all completely arbitrary when it comes down to it. So too with years, days, weeks, and months. The theory of relativity tells us that the universe is expanding. And time is relative to that distance. Einstein recognized that it wasn’t time that was moving, but himself. The bottom line? Time exists only in our minds! When we take our place in space, we see everything, as it is, right now. Brothers, if this sounds like you are powerless to change your path, you are mistaken! You are always in a place of free will and total choice. If you see something you don’t like in your future, you have the power to change it. What you do not know, you have forgotten, and remembering is what makes it so. The forgetfulness we all experience is the great secret of life. If you don’t like what you sense about your future, you step away from that. It is impossible to change the future, but it is possible to create the future you desire. By changing what the “you” in front of you experienced then the “you” behind you may never have to experience it. It is by this device that your soul evolves in the same way that the future you got help from did. With an alpha mindset, you are a spiritual being, capable of having more than one experience at a time. Although you may feel that you do, the truth is that you have no limitations! You get to choose who you really are, and become that person. You have the power to manifest and become that highest version of yourself, and that’s an ongoing process. In our linear reality, we see things as past, present, and future. What if there was no time? Then you would be having all your lives at once. Have you ever had a strange feeling about some future event? We sometimes call that a premonition. From a larger perspective, that is a moment of experiencing your future, which empowers you to make a different choice altogether. The future self communicates with the present self to empower you to make better decisions. You have the power to decide who and what you want to be, and then to do everything in your power to become that person. Your path will be made known to you because you have asked. The fact that you are listening to this podcast is evidence that you are asking, that you have a soul that is ready to know. You are everyone, I am everyone, we are all things. Everything is perfect. Brothers, there is only one of us. This may sound crazy to you, but remember that this is nothing you don’t already know. You are trying to remember who you are. That’s the information you are seeking. We all go through this as human beings. You will remember when you are ready. Many humans don’t seek because it isn’t their time. If you are seeking, it is your time. It’s time to elevate your Alpha! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 189: The Mirror of Life
It\'s time for another thought experiment, my brothers. You know I love these, as they can be such a powerful means to explore the mysteries of the universe! We’ve already looked at the dream of life, the puzzle of life, and the game of life, and today I want to get into the mirror of life. Using these lessons we can continue to expand our understanding of the world and our lives, and this episode is the introduction to beginning to practice this principle. What I really want you all to be able to do is reverse the effect of the illusion of separateness. The mirror principle is one of the alpha male tenets, and we have spoken before about how it helps us correct the misunderstanding about duality. The truth is the oneness, and in the oneness, there is always the trinity. There is ourselves, what is outside ourselves, and what is between us and something else. What is between is what binds us, unites us in universal oneness, and without accepting that we will live in false isolation forever! You are not separate from anything, you know that you are everything and that everything is a reflection of you! When we feel separate, it leads to certain kinds of behaviors and relationships, ones in which we compare and distance ourselves. We can relate this back to the lesson about the dream of life, and how we need to awaken ourselves to the reality of oneness, brothers. So join me today, for an important lesson, and to begin the process of recognizing the reality of oneness.

Episode 188: The Esoteric Universal Truth
Whatever circumstances you experience in your daily life may seem as though they are happening to you, but in fact, every circumstance that you find yourself in is something that you have manifested through your thoughts. Whether consciously or unconsciously, you are the creator of your thoughts, and therefore you are the creator of your circumstances. This is the Universal Truth, and brothers, I want all of you to understand it because it will be life changing for you when you do. Your state of being is your truth, and whatever it feels like, even if it\'s an uncomfortable feeling, you need to feel it, because that is what you have chosen for yourself and you wouldn’t have chosen it for no reason. There is so much power in feeling. For those brothers, who are new to the Alpha journey, if this is blowing your mind, don’t worry, you’re on the right track by being here, and if you’re ready to take things to the next level, the Academy is ready and waiting for you!

Episode 187: Find Your Tribe
Everything that we perceive is created by consciousness; by our beliefs. All the systems that were designed to elevate us as a species are failing us, and it’s hard to believe, but it’s our very beliefs that are the cause of this failure. Deep-seated beliefs are hard to shake but let me assure you, brothers, it is not impossible! Beliefs are not created by proof, they are created by desire, and all we need to do, as a collective, is change our desires in order to change our collective outcomes. Group consciousness is powerful. So powerful, in fact, that it can easily override the individual consciousness. That is why it is so important to strive to find your tribe and expand the group consciousness of love, harmony, and abundance. If you, yourself, are not conscious, you may get swept up by a collective consciousness that perpetuates harm. Simply by practicing cognitive mastery and raising your own consciousness, you will attract like-minded individuals who are operating on the same frequency and, in truth, your tribe will find you! Most people are satisfied with the way the world operates, championing separation over similarities. But, you see, the thing is, brothers, that separation breeds indifference and false superiority, whereas unity breeds compassion and genuine equality. Uniformity is not unity! Thus it is up to us to step out and find our tribe and accelerate the process of enlightenment for all. Join me to find out more about how simply raising your consciousness and existing in the alpha state can help to shift the collective reality!

Episode 186: Health Is An Effect
Welcome back, brothers. Today I will be exploring some potentially controversial waters, but this is important stuff that I feel I need to talk to you about. You will likely be accustomed to me taking a counter-intuitive path on this podcast, and today is no different! These revolutionary ideas can take your life from one blighted by sickness and disease, and transform it into something blossoming and beautiful, and as usual, it all starts with our beliefs. The foundation of what we are talking about is the universal force of creation, and once we understand what the causes and effects are, we start to see how everything we experience is an effect of what we think and tell ourselves. This is why worrying is what makes us sick. Not what we eat, or how we choose to spend our time. The story that keeps playing in our heads is what determines whether we are healthy or unwell! So my message to you is this brothers: when we stop worrying we can begin to be healthy. Worrying is what happens when we do not understand oneness, connection, and love. All those dangerous parts of our thinking: worry, hate, fear, anxiety, bitterness, impatience, unkindness, judgment, and condemnation can destroy us, and attack our very cells! We need to escape the life of a mental leper and realize how this all combines in the three aspects of the self and our alpha state. Tune in to hear all about it!

Episode 185: How To Do What You Love To Do
Brothers, all of you are a triumvirate; made up of mind, body, and spirit. The way to reach true alignment and to experience life in your Alpha State is to get to the point where all three of these elements of the trinity that is you, are acting in harmony. When you achieve this, you will understand that what you do is not important, it\'s how you do it. Too many people are obsessed with doing, when really what we should all be focusing on is being. We are human beings after all. Right, brothers? Every circumstance that you find yourself in is something that you’ve attracted and chosen, but even though your spirit has guided you to your choice, it is not able to impose your experience of that choice onto you. That is up to your mind. If you\'re worrying about what you should be doing with your life, stop. Think about who you are instead. If you\'re unsure of who you are, I\'ll tell you; love, that\'s who you are brother, and you have a right to feel joy, compassion, gratitude, and kindness.

Episode 184: Why You Can\'t Have What You Want
I\'m going to be honest with you, brothers, today\'s message might seem a little wild at first! But it is something that is central to becoming an alpha male. We all have to accept the truth that wanting and having are opposite forces. What I mean by this is that when you want something you are engaging your belief in a lack or scarcity of it. When you have something, you are in the mind-state of abundance, and so by understanding that you already have everything, you are welcoming and creating space for everything in your life. There is a direct link between abundance and our ability to be unconcerned by desire. My message to you here is to first and foremost experience and appreciate what you have, which turns out to be everything! In today\'s episode, I will be explaining how wanting something pushes it away from you, and why our words are so powerful in the world we create for ourselves. I will be delving into what happens when we repeat stories and thoughts about our desires, and how this exemplifies the creative power we possess. It may be difficult to understand completely right now, but I promise you, brothers, that it is amazing how certain things can stop concerning you. It is a beautiful evolution and one which leads to experiencing more of the world. In essence, this is the discovery of our creative force, and more of what is out there and available to us. So, make sure to join me for this vital discussion to hear about the gateway of gratitude, and even what I call, the \'gratitude sandwich\'!

Episode 183: Obligation vs Opportunity
When we stop to examine the beliefs that underpin our society, we will find that many of them are pernicious and jeopardize our ability to attain the Alpha state. One of the biggest areas that this plays out in is the way we approach relationships. Many of us believe that the purpose of relationships is to find completeness, but what I am here to tell you today is that this is a complete misunderstanding. When two people enter into a relationship with this type of expectation, the relationship is based on obligation. The results are that the relationship becomes filled with resentment and neither partner is given an opportunity to grow personally. The real purpose of a relationship is to decide what part of yourself you\'d like to give, not what part of the other person you can capture. It is only when we approach our relationships with the intention of what we can give rather than what we can take, that they become an opportunity to grow and a crucible for the attainment of our highest selves. Nowhere in your life do you have more of an opportunity to reach your Alpha state than in relationships. In today’s show, you’ll hear how to approach relationships with five goals in mind: personal growth, self-expression, attainment of your highest potential, healing, and ultimate reunion with the universe. To learn the true purpose of relationships, be sure to tune in today with me, Brothers.

Episode 182: You Can Never Do Anything Wrong
You might feel some immediate resistance to the statement in the title of this episode: you can never do anything wrong. I realize it’s a bold statement to make, my brothers, but as you’ll discover today, creation acts like a cosmic mirror that is always offering us the image of ourselves and the pain we are suffering from so that we can see it, so that we can become conscious of it, and so that we can heal from it. That is the lesson of creation and that is why you can never make the wrong choice; because the universe will always teach you. The universe will always love you. A student of mine once asked me how he knew that he was making the right choice and, brothers, I’m going to tell you what I told him: the point of life is not to get anywhere. It’s to notice that you are already there. You are always and forever in the moment of pure creation. The point of life is to remember and create who and what you are, and then to experience that fully. Remember, when presented with a decision, the alpha is the one who always comes up with the same answer, and that answer is always the highest choice. In this way, the alpha is completely predictable. An easy way to measure your progress on the journey to elevating your alpha is to simply notice how reliably you make the highest choice when responding or reacting to any situation. Now, you may be asking: what is the highest choice? Well, brothers, just by asking yourself that question, you’re already on your way to elevating your alpha state. Listening in, you’ll learn more about choosing love over fear, abundance over scarcity, and making decisions that result in the highest good for you. A final reminder: you can\'t do anything wrong. You can only learn from the choices you make. Tune in today to find out more!

Episode 181: I AM Statements
I am back to share some of my knowledge with you, brothers! What you take away and play with is your choice, but remember, this experiment called life is an adventure that you get to explore through your own free will. Today we are going deep; deep into the fundamental nature of creation and our part in it. This episode is all about the power of what we think, say, and do, and about how remembering who you are can bring certainty and strength into your life, banishing fear and pessimism forever! No matter how we name the different parts of ourselves, we are all made up of the trinity, and harnessing creation and creative energy is the bringing together of these three parts, through thought, words, and actions. It starts with thoughts, then moves into words, and lastly becomes action! When we do not act, brothers, it is because we are missing belief and certainty. I am here to show you a new world, one that is filled with fruits from a firmly grounded tree. The roots of this tree are the \'I AM\' statements we make. These exemplify the power of our thought and are what change our thoughts into actions. If we can start with gratefulness for creation, harnessing acceptance and thankfulness for everything that already is, we are able to take action and change what we desire. It is through these new thoughts and new actions that we can call forth a new reality, and it all starts with \'I AM\'!

Episode 180: The Dream Of Life
Most of you listening to this will be under the illusion that you are living your life when the truth is that you are actually dreaming your life. I understand why this may be confusing brothers, but give me a chance to explain it to you in full and it will all become clear. There are two parts to the Dream of Life; the first is the setup and the second is the awakening. What you experience as reality is actually all in your head, but just like lucid dreamers can become conscious in their dreams, you can become conscious in the greater Dream of Life and therefore create the life you truly want. In other words, you can learn to ‘lucid live!’ But before you can do this, brothers, you need to remember and understand who you are, and that is where I can help you. If you are ready to get to the core of your true self and use the power you have within you to build the life you deserve, I implore you to enroll at the Academy. Words don’t do justice to what it feels like to live in your Alpha State, and I want all of you to be able to experience what I do on a daily basis.

Episode 179: Decision Making with Raphael
Welcome, brothers, to the final interview episode of The Alpha Male podcast. Today’s guest is someone I am so proud of, a brother who has truly embraced the alpha male way, and who has now turned to teaching those the light. Raphael Roman was on the fence about joining the academy initially, however, he took the leap and has not looked back. He went from being in a beta mindset in an unhappy relationship and an uninspiring job to being an alpha male who can stand proudly on his own while building the career of his dreams. Tune in to hear how Raphael discovered Kevin’s teachings, and what tipped him over the edge in the decision to enroll in the academy. Raphael describes why it’s so important that I don’t give you the answers, but rather train you to make the choices that are best for you to embrace your alpha male state. Raphael tells us the most important lessons that he learned from the academy (how to walk away when you’re giving too much), and why he wants to complete the certification course (to help others). If you have wondered what the difference is between what is learned from the training course and the certification course, brothers, then this episode is the one for you. As an alumnus of both, Raphael describes what he has learned in both, and how he applies them to the people and relationships that surround him. Remember, brothers, that recognizing your own thoughts is the first step to enlightenment and evolution of the mind. If you are on the fence about changing your life and enrolling in the academy, Raphael’s advice will convince you to take that leap, because you never know what is around the corner. Join us to get to know a true alpha male, and to understand how you can build a life that is better than the one in your dreams. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 178: The Power of Action with Shawn Heshmatpour
Today’s guest, brothers, is one of the students who has learned the most from the Academy, and who I have, in turn, learned the most from. Shawn Heshmatpour joined the academy in 2021, seeking a purpose and passion for his life, and wanting to get in touch with love and intimacy. Through his learning, he sought a deeper truth and continued with the certification course. Within a year, he has grown into a life coach where he continues the cognitive movement using his own experiences and words to find the light within others. In this interview, Shawn opens up about why he had so much self-doubt around love and intimacy and how he realized that his biggest block to finding passion and his own inner peace was that he was not listening to himself. We have all been conditioned throughout our lives to seek external validation, to live our lives according to other people’s timelines. And for what, brothers? The “aha” moment that Shawn had during his time in the Academy is one of the most important lessons we can learn about listening to your inner voice and living life as we want to! Join us, brothers, to hear what Shawn learned from the academy and how he entered the certification course to continue to sink deeper into understanding our cognitions. We reveal why it’s your mind that interrupts your goals and how your inner voice is telling you the truth. The lessons learned from Shawn were manyfold, and he brings his unique perspective both to our teachers and his students. He also explains why he loves what he does and why you should lean into the fear of uncertainty and just do it, so listen in today to hear why you should just do it! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 177: Businesses and Brotherhood with Brent
Welcome back, brothers. Continuing in my series of interviews with academy and coach certification course students, today I talk to Brent Smith who is in both programs. Before coming to the academy, Brent was always chasing an idea of success, of material wealth, a better life, and wanting more for himself, without really knowing why. He had a good job, was dating pretty women, and had a successful life, but he still felt an emptiness and a lack of fulfillment. In this interview, Brent shares with us his reason for enrolling in the academy and how in his time as a student, he’s started to see a path and understand how to accept life as it is and spend much more time in a state of peace. He explains how he’s learned the ability to trust in the universe, trust in God, and accept that even though he may think that a certain outcome is going to make him happy, that regardless of what happens, everything plays out exactly as it should. Brent talks about his experience in the academy and what it is like being a part of it. He chats about the friends and support system he has found in it, how it has impacted his romantic relationship, and how it has benefitted him in different ways. We also talk about the universal truth and oneness: how you are the entire universe in a part and the universe loves us because we are the universe and we are love. Brent explains how the realizations of these truths have taught him about unconditional love and overcoming fear. Join us, brothers, to hear about all this and more! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 176: Releasing Anxiety with Bob
Brothers, I spend a lot of time speaking about the mindset shifts that I teach, but today it’s time to hear testimony from an actual student of mine. In this episode of the show, we invite Bob Lincoln to talk about how he found out about the Spartan Academy and the shifts that have occurred in his life since enrolling. Bob is in fact a two-time student of mine because he firstly completed the Academy and then moved onto the Coach Certification Course, which he is currently enrolled in. We hear from Bob about the beginning of his inner search which began as long as 15 years ago, the struggles he was having in his life then, and how the stories he was telling himself were holding him back from unleashing his Alpha. Bob talks about how he was unsatisfied with the results of his search, causing him to go down a rabbit hole that ended up in him finding the Alpha Male Coach Podcast. Bob explains that the content he heard on this show was like nothing he had encountered before, and that a failed relationship caused him to finally take a leap of faith and enroll in the Academy. We ask Bob what changes he underwent after experiencing his training, what advice he would give a seeker of the truth who has misgivings about signing up for this program, and the main differences he has uncovered between the Spartan Academy and the Coach Certification Course. In our conversation, Bob talks about how his training helped him overcome anxiety, feel more confident to be his authentic self, and realize that his emotions were his own and could not be influenced by outside circumstances. We speak about the ripple effects of these changes on his life more broadly, changes in the way he relates to his kids, employees, and even the woman that triggered this whole journey. Tune in for a real story about how the Spartan Academy changed Bob\'s life. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 175: More Money, More Time, And More Me with Jay
Welcome back to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast, my brothers! Over the next few weeks, I will be living off the grid in the Amazon rainforest, which is why I’ve put together this series of conversations with some of my Spartan Academy and certification course students so that they can share their firsthand experiences with you. Today, you’ll hear from Jay Chekansky, who has been doing amazing work in the Academy for over a year now. He shares a bit about his story with us, from why he ended up joining the Academy to how it helped him break free from what was expected of him and overcome his previous money scarcity mindset. We discuss the generational healing that Jay has facilitated by refusing to accept his conditioning, how he learned to have faith in himself, and why ‘doing the work’ was a critical component of elevating his alpha. Jay speaks candidly about the biggest challenge he had to overcome during his 15 months at the Academy, how he was able to step into being the kind of man he wanted to be, and what his Impossible Goal for 2021 taught him about the power of abundance. He also shares his advice for you, my brothers, before you enroll in the Elevated Alpha Society Spartan Academy and emphasizes the importance of being honest with yourself about your goals. To find out how Jay discovered more money, more time, and more self-actualization (and how you can do the same), make sure not to miss today’s insightful conversation! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 174: The Great Divide
The thing I am going to help you all understand today, brothers, is the cause of all suffering and how to overcome it. This is a topic for the new year and something I am going to explore deeply with the podcast and the academy moving into 2022. Put simply, we suffer because we are out of alignment with what is. Our minds invent a set of narratives about reality, and when things don’t go the way it wants them to, we resist, and this is the birth of the suffering we feel. When we are presented with a circumstance, and the thoughts we have about it are in resistance, we suffer cognitively. When we are feeling the chemical reaction of emotion, and the thoughts we have about it are in resistance, we suffer emotionally. When we are disconnected from the information field of oneness due to our attachment to thoughts, we suffer spiritually. The key to escaping this cycle of resistance is learning to accept that circumstances are true and perfect. Our journey to the Alpha state is learning how to recognize that these feelings of misalignment are the universe’s way of telling us that we are not living in truth. When you have completely detached from engaging with the thoughts that pass through your mind, you will begin to become aware of the truth that is all around you, which is an information field of vibration, an information field of oneness and love. This is just a taste of what you will learn in the academy, and when you are ready, we are here to welcome you to the brotherhood of humanity. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 173: 2021 – Year In Review
In celebration of the end of 2021, I am going to do things a little differently and spend this episode sharing some of my personal story with you, my brothers. You all know I don\'t like to brag or boast and I generally try to steer clear of making this podcast too much about myself, but today, as we look back at the year we just had, I thought that using my story would be a welcome contrast and provide some useful encouragement to all of you. I hope that through sharing how I managed to rebuild and the important steps in my process that I can inspire you on your own journey! Before I focus on this year and the amazing time I have had in such an unusual period of history, I want to take us back to 2016. To me, this feels like a lifetime ago, but also feels like it was only yesterday. I was arriving in Australia after my time setting up a CrossFit gym in China, and from there I went to Arizona with very few material possessions and little definite direction. It was during this time that much of my life as I knew it changed, and I ended up living with my father, depressed, confused, and broke. It was during this moment of despair that I had a huge realization about the nature of my reality, and how all the things that I was experiencing were in my mind. This catalytic moment set me on the path to where I am today and the amazing year I had in 2021. I started down a path that was not easy, and all through 2017 I worked on it. I had epiphanies in 2018 and went on to make some major moves in 2019, and what I want to show you, brothers, are how these humble beginnings grew into my life and business today. My life is proof of how the darkness can lift and the sun can come out. So, join me to hear all about this and more! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 172: Buffering - The First Barrier To Meeting Your True Self
We are returning to the subject of buffering today, something I have spoken about on this show before on a few occasions. I have also tackled this important theme in the courses at the academy. Removing this barrier to the self is central to the work we do together. Removing buffering habits is something I have done personally, brothers, overcoming unhealthy relationships to marijuana, pornography, oversleeping, exercising, social media, and most recently, digital gambling. Essentially, buffering is an avoidance of the truth and who you really are, and I want to help you get back to those vital things! Our avoidant behaviors have internal and external dimensions, with buffering landing in the external arena. I will talk more about resistance in a future episode, which is a form of internal avoidance. Simply put, we need to start processing our emotions instead of running away from them and when we stay in the moment, we are in the alpha state, with buffering being the opposite of this. There are so many examples of how we buffer, from overeating and drinking to working out, to sex, to watching television, and even with the use of stimulants such as coffee. I often say that we are supposed to enjoy this life! It is an important part of my philosophy, brothers, and with that in mind, I will be taking a slightly different angle on buffering today, and supplying you all with some more guidance about how to get past these barriers. This is a simple protocol for cleansing yourself from habits that keep you from the self, and through some simple steps and a little effort, you can once again engage with yourself and the moment! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 171: Ownership
These episodes have been getting a little wild recently and this one is no different! I know that many of you, brothers, want practical and actionable advice and strategies for how to apply these teachings. With that said, we are going to be diving into the subject of ownership today, and to kick this off I want to present you with the idea of the process, that every moment you are living your purpose. We all have to suffer to grow and evolve, and as soon as we accept that journey and embody that self-knowledge, we can get away from victimhood! There is a lot of confusion about ownership and to gain some clarity, we need to get away from our dependence on outcomes. We do not own anything, ever! Owning and possessing relies on the idea of separation, which we know is false, brothers. You are everything, and the idea that you own things that are separate from you is the biggest illusion. It is better to understand what we use and hold as \'on loan\', because nothing is truly ours, and it cannot be. As I have said before, our true selves have no beginning or end; when we start to understand that and get to the real nature of things, we can know ourselves and the universe. There are three expressions I want to share today that can be helpful in this regard. The first is that everything is one and that we cannot disconnect from the world around us. The second is to consider the breath; the simple act of breathing is the most profound lesson about the nature of the universe and eternal life. The third and last is a message to simply love because through the power of love we can achieve any goal and unlock more power than we can imagine! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 170: The Game Of Life
Brothers, what I want to introduce you to today is a thought experiment called the Game of Life. It is designed to help you understand why it is that you are here on this planet: to live the life you’re meant to live, not the life you’ve been conditioned to believe you should be living! These concepts are highly complex, cognitive, scientific, and spiritual, so we will use storytelling and analogy to help us understand. I warn you, we’re going to get wild today! There is nothing separating you from me, except for the limiting beliefs and conditioning that we have attached to our lives, and that is what this analogy is all about. Your true state is the alpha, the self that came into the world before all of your conditioning. The identity you have created for yourself is your beta. This only exists as long as you are living a human life, and passes on when you do. Think of life as a board game, but the rules haven’t been written yet, and you have no idea what’s going on in the game. There are a few words, but they’re impossible to understand. As your body ages in the realm of form, you continue to play this game. As time passes, more words appear in the instruction manual, and you’re making sense of them with your own limitless imagination. One day, you wake up and find you can read and understand the words. That’s when you start to have beliefs. On the first pages, you find the ‘Rules from Self’ chapter. Reading ahead, you’ll see ‘Rules from Others’ and you start to feel confused by the fact that some of these rules are in conflict with each other. So you go back and try to find another way to play, but you find yourself breaking some of the rules. Others start to judge the way you are playing the game and in return, you judge them too. Brothers, when we turn against the Rules of Self, we harm the soul of the self and live through the beta condition. If you’re a seeker, you’re looking for a way to return to the rules of self. You’re seeking a pathway to return to your source. There are no answers in the rule book that will bring you joy, and the loving Universe answers that the true way is to write your own rules. There are two players in the Game of Life: those locked into the ‘have to’s’ and those who have freed themselves from the rule booklet and are playing the game according to their own choosing. You’ve spent your life playing the game, now it is time to understand it. There are no rules you haven’t made for yourself. You are here to write the rules of the game you are playing. Stop playing by other people’s rules. Start writing them yourself. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 169: The Impossible Goal
It is December again, Brothers, and I am so excited because this means we are in the month of the Impossible Goal. This is the time of year where students of the Spartan Academy begin their journey toward self-realization and inner freedom through the attainment of their Impossible Goal.Much of what humanity used to think was impossible has now been proved to be very much in the realm of the possible, and it is the same with our minds. The brain has its own personal ideas of what is possible and impossible. Each of you has your own stories, your own limiting beliefs on what is possible and what is impossible for you.The impossible goal is truly about releasing you from the bonds of what your brain is telling you is possible, through the conditioning of what you’ve been told is impossible. It is about freeing yourself from the stories you tell yourself, about yourself, and the world. It is a tool of self-discovery and self-knowledge. It is a tool that opens you up to the present moment, the here and now.In today’s show, we break down the process that the students of Spartan Academy go through on the way to their accomplishment of the Impossible Goal. You’ll see that students often start out with a particular goal in mind and then undergo a deeper existential realization as they set out to achieve it. You’ll get to hear an example of how this happened to a past student of mine, and how he discovered the true source of his power as a result.We then move on to the deeper purpose behind the Impossible Goal, which is to realize that time is an illusion and that the life of your dreams is the one that you’re living. The impossible goal is less about building the future of your dreams and more about waking up to the possibility and potential of what you’re capable of in the here and now. So join us today and learn how you can use cognitive mastery, emotional ownership, and massive action to accomplish your Impossible Goal and become who you were always meant to be. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 168: 03 - Vibrational Perception
The truth is, whether you’re 20 years old, or 40 years old, the volume of conditioning that you have is the same. That’s because you are really only physiologically conditioned once every seven years, and psychologically in significantly less time. That means that the cognitive limitations you perceive about your life are nothing more than perceptions. The prison you’re living in is purely a projection created by your mind. The good news, brothers, is that enlightenment can happen in a moment. It’s not a matter of force, but a matter of awakening. You will understand when you are ready to understand! Being an alpha male means releasing yourself of the external authorities and deliberately choosing to be authentic and impact the world around you. Stepping into your identity as an alpha male will reveal to you that you are an independent and unique being, free from being a slave to society and its culture of ignorance. The final perception we use to observe the mind as a passenger of our consciousness, along with primordial and visual perception, is vibrational perception. Wild as it may sound, spiritual or vibrational perception can be the best tool available to us. It is somewhat akin to emotional ownership. Allowing emotions to rise within you, and letting the body perceive the energy around you have many similarities. This is a form of observation that allows thoughts to move through your mind without engaging with them because you are a passenger of consciousness. Brothers, it\'s important to distinguish between physiological emotions and vibrational truths. When the mind encounters energy vibrations, it wants to create a story, and that\'s how interconnection overt happens, which are erroneous conjectures used to explain vibrational energy. We aren\'t introverts or extroverts like the story tells us. Instead, we receive or transmit vibration from our mechanical energy. None of it comes from the mind. It comes from the realm before the mind. The realm of vibration. Once you\'ve understood this, you can begin to manage your energy accordingly. Begin with non-judgment, let go of the analysis of why, and allow the vibration to pass from you as a transmitter or to you as a receiver. You\'re not judging, but calibrating. Think of it like tuning an instrument. Once the mind is free and released from its own prison, we can transition into a plane of vibration that allows us to bond with each other in a completely different way, a way that is so foreign to the current way we relate to each other. Self-discovery, and elevating your alpha is not about esoteric mysticism, but rather to wake you up to the truth of who you are and live the life you’re meant to live! I’m not here to judge. I’m here to free you. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 167: 02 – Visual Perception
Welcome back, brothers, to part two of our three-part series on perception. Right now, we are living through a phase in our evolution where the mind has interrupted our ability to truly see the world around us and, therefore, our ability to exist in the Alpha state. The path toward the Alpha is clear though; we have to learn how to see with our heart, exist in the present, and stop allowing the mind to cloud our perception with its expectations and judgments. There are three ways to engage in the moment, to stay in the now, and to relate with yourself and other beings at the spiritual level through the realm of vibration from your Alpha state: primordial perception, visual perception, and spiritual perception. Last week, we spoke about how to activate our primordial awareness by working on our intuition and instincts. This week, we will be focusing on how to unleash ourselves from the shackles of the mind and engage at the moment through visual perception. We start with an overview of the journey we have come on as a species, starting out in a primordial phase before the mind where we existed in a natural Alpha state. We look at the birth of the mind and the gifts it has brought humanity, gifts which have also come at a cost, as they have injected humanity with the judgments and expectations of the beta state. We must learn how to evolve past this phase, and using our visual perception can help. Join me today, brothers, as we walk through a method for opening your eyes to see in a way that you saw before the mind was conceived! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 166: Primordial Perception
This is the source of all dysfunction and suffering in the world: the mind is the illegitimate king. To reach your Alpha state, you must become the master of your mind. Brothers, the mind is not evil. It is not the source of the suffering. On the contrary, the mind is a gift from the source. It provides us with a link to our true self in an unconscious way. It allows us to experience the blessing of the human experience consciously. Since we live in an experience of duality, there must be contrast. But the comparisons we make using the mind are an illusion. There is only oneness. And that is what we have to train the brain to perceive. It is impossible to be in isolation. As humans, we are always in relation to something. That is to say that we exist in relationship to things, people, and ideas. Brothers, to experience that oneness, we have to detach from our conditioning. There are three ways to do that. Primordial perception, visual perception, and spiritual and vibrational perception. What do all of these have in common? They all require us to let the mind go free and to truly align with the present. The mind wants to be free. But it doesn\'t know how to be free! Once you have done the work and detached yourself from all the things that limit your freedom, there is the potential for continued conditioning at all times and in all places. We are luminous beings, and the body is a vehicle we use to experience the world around us. All the matter, all the stuff that we experience is a function of the mind. We are beings of pure light in relationship to the one. Once you learn to let go of all the conditioning, you can start to observe the mind from a distance. This has to be done through relationships because differentiation is the human journey. Now, primordial perception is best-experienced one-on-one, in small groups, or alone in the sounds of nature. It involves tapping into the perception that existed before the human mind differentiated from the rest of the natural world. It is the thing we share with the rest of the world around us. It is based on instinct and intuition. We are disconnected from that ability, but we can regain it through training our brains in relationship to others. The purpose of it is to let your mind become a passenger of consciousness so you can live the life you\'re meant to, instead of the life your mind is dictating to you based on your conditioning. Through your experimentation, you will learn the power of living in your Alpha state, through a deeper truth in the world. The bottom line? As always, elevate your alpha! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 165: 103 – Observation
Today, my brothers, we complete the third phase of our journey in the 1.0 Cognitive Mastery Curriculum by talking about observation; how the mind is meant to operate in its current function. If you haven’t listened to the previous episodes on awareness and detachment, the first two stages in the process of cognitive mastery, I encourage you to go back and do so now. Brothers, observation is how the mind is meant to operate in its current function. It is a passenger of consciousness. It is a messenger between the realm of vibration and the realm of form. It is impersonal and functions like a machine: input, output. What you put in is what you get out. This is why it is important to be aware without choice, because choice brings conflict. Only he who is confused chooses what he will do or won\'t do. He who is clear in his mind, detached from all conditioning, does not choose. He simply observes. Once you have freed your mind to pass back and forth between your true self and the world, my brothers, you are free to express your true self into the world from vibration to form. You can see the world as the perfect form of love, light, and wisdom that it is. But what comes next? How do you watch the mind fulfill its purpose without attaching to the stories of society, the stories of systems, governments, religions, friends, family, and other external illusions? It is through observation. Observation as a practice, however, is different depending on the person, and there isn’t just one way to observe the movement of the mind. In today’s episode, I introduce you to some of the ways that you can observe the mind without attaching to the conditioning field, to simply be aware of it as it passes through you so that you can engage with your truest self from moment to moment. I also offer you an explanation of how we are conditioned in our hero’s journey to be the hero, the victim, or the villain, but rarely, if ever, are we offered the option of being the guide, which can be the cause of great spiritual suffering to the one-in-five of us who are guides. Brothers, I am so blessed as a guide to be able to share my explorations and knowledge with all of you. Join me today to learn more about the power of the conscious mind versus the unconscious mind, how to fill the tunnel between vibration and form with beauty using the alpha male tenets, and thus begin the never-ending journey of self-discovery! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 164: 102 - Detachment
What is meant to be always comes along. It’s often the case that the longer you wait, the better the opportunities are that come your way. It’s easy to be blinded by the story we tell ourselves when we don’t have a mindset of abundant opportunity. Brothers, we’re all blinded by the wants and desires of the mind, when in reality, the universe wants to give us everything we need. The next level of cognitive mastery you will reach is detachment. Now, detachment is about letting go. It’s about detaching from your thoughts, beliefs, stories, expectations, and conditioning. Awareness is the first step, and detachment comes next. Brothers, most humans are comfortable in their suffering. They are either a victim of their own mind, or become a victim of addiction. The source of all suffering is the denial of the true self. When you detach from the truth of who you are and engage with stories of who you are not, you begin to suffer. We’ve all heard the platitude, discomfort is the price of growth. It’s often understood to mean that we should stay in our suffering in order to evolve. What if there was a different interpretation? What if you could lean into the discomfort of stepping into the unknown? Most people have settled into a heavily conditioned life. So much so that we no longer identify the conditions as what they are, and when we do, we consider them to be simply insurmountable. Once you leave the truths you once believed behind, you experience true discomfort which leads to growth. The path of self-discovery is not for everyone. But you wouldn’t be listening to this podcast if some part of you wasn’t seeking the truth. In the future, perhaps we will become a species that all live in harmony and freedom with one another. Until then, only a few will go on this particular journey. It’s not about religion, but rather, the path of enlightenment is about finding yourself within you. The alpha male is spiritual, but not religious. Moving between the realm of density and the realm of vibration can be exceptionally hard, especially as we age. Conditioning builds up over time and experience and disconnects one from the other, trapping you on either side. But finding harmony between these realms is so important to deliver the message from your vibrational self to your physical self. The first step is awareness, to realize that what you think is not who you are. Only once you’ve fostered awareness can you begin the process of detachment. You will be opposed. You will lose friends. You will lose your identity. But none of this will matter because you will be enlightened. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 163: 101 - Awareness
The word \'awareness\' is often used in the popular lexicon, but how much do we really understand about what it means? These ideas of being awake or \'woke\', trendy terms that are thrown around, are different from being truly aware. In order to be properly aware, we need to understand the purpose and function of the mind, and today, brothers, we are starting this journey, as we unpack how we experience truth! Our conditioning lives in the mind and is determined by our experiences. The mind\'s conditioning thus blocks our access to the unfiltered truth, and becoming aware is then the pathway to discovery. We want to be able to set ourselves free from these confines through self-knowledge. Awareness is understanding how this conditioning blocks our access. This is a simple process, brothers, but it is not easy. What I am talking about here, is transcending the judgments of the mind, escaping the wheel of approval and condemnation. When we find this kind of awareness, it leads to learning and loving in all of our relationships. We are less concerned with comparisons and can begin to access the universal truth. So listen in with me, brothers, as we start this journey with the first step: awareness! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 162: Confusion Is A By-Product Of Conditioning
This episode serves as the foundation for the next six episodes of the show, broken up into two, three-part series! The first of these series focuses on developing cognitive mastery, which is essentially an overview of the 1.0 curriculum of the Academy. The second series will center on the emerging awareness configurations of the human being, so make sure to stay on track with all of this upcoming content. Today, as we enter into these topics, we build the basis of an explanation for why things are the way they are for you, and for the whole world. There is so much confusion in the world currently and this is mostly as a result of the transition we are making from a state of mental awareness to one of emotional awareness. Now, brothers, you have often heard me speaking about transcending our conditioning, but I am not here to tell you that your beta condition is bad. Let\'s be clear about that. It is the combination of the alpha and beta states that make up your life and experience. In order to really unpack this, we have to understand why the mind creates stories and false knowledge as a way to understand the external world. This is a method of protection, and this becomes your identity! And, most importantly, this is the seed of our confusion. It takes courage to confront this reality, and there are many traps that the mind sets in order to keep us in the state of confusion and conditioning that it governs. Remember, external conditions are not the remedy for our conditioning, and this is why when we turn outwards to fix what is inside, we come up short. We see this happening on many levels around us, and our leaders and gurus are just as confused as we are. We need to stop our mental movement and consider and enquire about our confusion, this is what it really means to wake up. So join me for this part of the journey brothers, to hear it all! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!

Episode 161: Manifesting & Magnetizing Money
Today we are going to be doing a breakdown of the truth of abundance, and how your relationship to money is like your relationship to everything: solely dependent on your relationship to yourself! Brothers, this episode is for anyone who might have been struggling financially and can help you find the real cause of this, and we will be doing a quick deep dive on the process of manifestation, that you are not going to want to miss! You know that in all areas of our life, suffering is caused by misalignment, and it is the same with our finances. The way we think and act in relation to money is built into our energy mechanics, and no matter what stage of your money journey you are on, it is only up to you how you move forward. I have known what it is like to have nothing left, and also to make millions, and the only thing that can differentiate these circumstances is your consciousness around abundance and the constructed thoughts that are attached to this. So join me with this episode, brothers, as we unpack the illusion of scarcity, how to avoid this trick of the mind, how our energy frequencies play out in our bank account, and much more. In order to really get on top of this part of your life, it is vital to calibrate your inner truth, and this means accessing what real abundance means. I will be taking through the actionable, four-step process of magnetizing and manifesting money, looking at knowing what you want, believing you can have it, taking guided action, and changing your emotional charge. To hear it all, listen in with me today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!