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Episode 276: The Karmic Clock – Part 2
Brothers, today I want to expand on the karmic clock because I really want to go deeper into nonjudgment, go deeper into acceptance, go deeper into love, and go deeper into understanding where people are. And for this, I’ll use an example, because you all know that I’m a man of stories. By now, most of us have heard of Andrew Tate, and most if not all of us have judged him, condemned him, and deemed him as bad or wrong. But here’s the thing that we’re forgetting, brothers: there is no right or wrong; good or bad; pure or evil. Everything exists in perfection, and it is only our perception of the illusion and our conditioning that makes us think that anything could be better than any other thing. The key here is to ask “why”. Why did Andrew do the things he’s been accused of? Why does anyone – thief, molester, murderer – do the things that they do? It’s because of their own suffering. It’s because of the suffering their souls have endured up to the point of their actions. And your body does not atone, brothers, your soul does. Your soul atones during your every reincarnation. We simply cannot understand the suffering that our souls are carrying from previous lifetimes, and all of us are still trying to recover form the original trauma of being kicked for the Garden of Eden. But instead of showing love, we’d rather condemn and shame. Instead of extending grace, we’d rather punish. And the only difference between you and me and Andrew is where we are on our karmic clock. Andrew may be operating between 12:00 and 1:00 while you may be at 6:00 and I may be at 4:00. But it doesn’t mean that one is better than the other, I am better than you, we are better than Andrew – it just means that we are at different points of our karma at this moment. What Andrew goes through at 1:00 will serve him as a lesson when he reaches 3:00. It’s just about understanding where you are on your karmic clock, allowing others to experience their own journeys, and leading with love and acceptance over judgment and condemnation. We are all learning lessons through our actions, and instead of kicking a brother when he trips and falls and is already down, extend a helping hand and show him that we’re all in this together. Because we are all in this together, brothers. We are all one. And when we start moving back to our oneness, back to unity, back to understanding, back to love – that is how we elevate our alpha. Until next time, I love you.

Episode 275: The Karmic Clock
At the beginning of time and indeed at the start of our lives, everything is one in harmonious unity. There is no division, there are no constructs of understanding – everything is as perfect as it should be. Then, as time goes on, we begin to develop our own perspectives, and this is when our karmic clocks begin to tick. You see, brothers, understanding perspective is a spiritual journey. It is freeing yourself from your modals of conditioning and finding the path to not only the perspective of others, but the perspective of all things. Because that’s all we’ve been doing as humans since the day the apple was eaten in the Garden of Eden – trying to find our way back to the perfection of before that first bite. And everyone’s journey is different therefore everyone’s karmic clock is different. If we look at the 12-hour clock face, I may be at 8 o’clock which is moving closer to enlightenment and understanding all perspectives, whereas someone else may be at 4 o’clock and are experimenting with agents of enlightenment like ayahuasca or LSD. But it doesn’t mean that they are wrong and I am right, or vice versa. Because the truth is, there is no right or wrong. Everything exists in perfection and we are merely here to experience it. And when we get closer to 11:59 on our karmic journey, we begin to realize that there is no returning to the divine unity of the first hour. Instead, we start to acknowledge and accept perspective, oneness, and our inherent divinity. And when you let go of what you think you know – when you forget yourself and let your ego die – that is when you remember that everything is already perfect, which is the first step, brother, toward to elevating your alpha.

Episode 274: Warm Hands, Cold Hands
Welcome back, brothers, and here’s the truth: Nothing is good, nothing is bad – everything is perspective. When we come across something that we strongly agree or disagree with, we begin to elevate our opinions as facts and place falsehood on the other viewpoint. But there is no right or wrong in any given situation, it’s all a matter of perspective, and perspective comes from the viewpoint of our conditioning. And that’s how conflict arises, right? It’s funny, I was meditating in the park and I was distracted after overhearing this couple who were nearby. The pair were obviously very much in love; very connected, but then they began to have a bewildering argument about whose hands are the right temperature. The man insisted that his hands were the right temperature and that her hands were cold because she had them out in the open air. The woman, of course, said that her hands were the right temperature and that his hands were only warm because he had them in his pockets. You see, something so simple can cause a divide in an otherwise happy relationship, and all because we are too afraid to accept another’s perspective above our own. We see this play out in political divides; disagreements that lead to war; the sports teams we support; and even in our food and entertainment preferences. But I can’t tell you that your taste buds are wrong and you can’t tell me what music to listen to, because it’s all a matter of where your viewpoint has been established from. Brothers, this episode is a just prologue; a reminder of certain themes and terminologies that will be prevalent in the next month of the Alpha Male Coach Podcast. I won’t tell you what we’ll be discussing in the coming episodes, that will remain a surprise, but I do want to come back to and discuss the fallacy of coincidence. You see, the idea that every action has an opposite but equal reaction is flawed. It may be true in a mathematical context, but it does not engage with the fact that every moment is the cause of every other moment. And this had nothing to do with time, brothers, because time itself is a fallacy. This is about energy and understanding that whatever is happening is a result of what has already energetically occurred here; what has already taken place in the spirit. And the conflict comes when we try to make sense of it and when we try to find a reason. But the reason doesn’t matter, brother. All we need is to be grateful for each and every moment, no matter how good or bad we perceive it to be. And I know this may be hard to understand now but as we get through our December episodes, I promise you, the picture will become much clearer. And on that cliffhanger – continue to elevate your alpha, my brother. I love you.

Episode 273: Reproduction Of Life
In today’s episode, I continue our “Of Life” series by focusing on the reproduction of life. Now, when I talk about reproduction, brothers, I do not mean biological reproduction. Instead, I am talking about reproducing another being, or life. A good reproduction can encompass many things, like a painting, photograph, or recording. In order to understand the reproduction of life we need to revisit the earliest examples of art, which dates back thousands of years to prehistoric cave paintings. These people weren’t called artists, but iconographers, because they were creating icons of things, not images or copies. Their purpose was to trigger a sense of divinity or spirituality. Next, we take a big leap, brothers, to the Renaissance, when artistry and representation changed dramatically. Portraits, sculptures and other works of visual art were made to be incredibly lifelike and realistic. This realism took yet another leap with photography, ever since which human representation has become evermore realistic. But with photography, brothers, we’re not fully capturing the essence of a person, just one aspect. We\'re not truly getting what it\'s like to be around or with or have an experience with this person. Which is where film and cinema enter the picture. And film, of course, has also evolved over time to become more fully representational, incorporating sound, better picture quality and even three-dimensional experiences. Finally, these images entered our living rooms with the invention of television. But even as we pursue ever more realistic reproductions, like holograms, we can never truly recreate something fully. It’s just energy and electricity, brothers. It’s ultimately an illusion. The true question is ‘What does this reveal about our reality?’ Join me today brothers, for a deep dive into the many facets of reproduction, and the deeply surprising possibilities of what our reality could be!

Episode 272: Letting Go
Hello brothers, it’s Kevin Aillaud, your host here of The Alpha Male Coach Podcast. Before I get started, I want to dive into something with you today that\'s a yearly tradition for me, Black Friday sales! All my courses are discounted from now till the end of the year. This isn\'t just about sales; it\'s about answering that inner call you\'ve been feeling. We are conditioned to fear spending and to think we can\'t afford growth. That scarcity mindset. It\'s holding you back. And that\'s why I drop these prices once a year. It\'s about breaking barriers. So, if you\'ve been eyeing the courses, now is the time. It\'s not just about discounts; it\'s about answering that inner pull toward growth that we often ignore. Now for today’s topic. I will be delving into the concept of \"letting go” or “detachment.” When I say that, I know it stirs up different thoughts. But letting go isn\'t about loss or becoming someone else. It\'s a shift in perception, a shift in consciousness. I am going to tell you stories about letting go without giving up, without becoming a different person. These stories come from my teacher, Ram Dass, who spent time with Ramana Maharshi in India. These stories aren\'t just miraculous; they challenge our perception of power and conflict. For example, there are people who could end wars but choose not to because conflict is part of a larger harmony—a karmic function. And this idea challenges our notions of what should and shouldn\'t be done. Brothers, join me as I explore the concept of true detachment and how it can help elevate your alpha!

Episode 271: TV of Life (a.k.a Who Am I? Part 2) – Part 2
We begin part two of our TV of life with a deep dive into the astral. This is channel five, the channel of human design and energy. It is your star sign – your connection to astrological energy. As we flip through the channels, things become less dense. That’s to say that we move away from form and the physical and closer to what we cannot see – closer to the truth. Channel six is the mirror channel, and this is where the illusion disappears. This is where you begin to recognize that everything is one. You and I are one. The tree and I are one. That squirrel and I are one. We are all one. And I’m not talking about building relationships and making friends, right? That happens in channels two and three because it is all about ego. All relationships are formed through ego because that is when you accept the stories that the other tells you about themselves. But channel six is not accepting or accommodating anyone – it is about being aware of the universal truth that everything that exists is one – and this is where souls are awakened, this is where miracles take place. Which brings us to channel seven: The void; the nothingness. You see, channel seven is who you really are. Every other channel is a rental. You are renting your mind and your body. They are still yours, it is still you, but when your body dies, you give everything back and all that remains is the nothingness you are and always will be. You are not your thoughts; your thoughts are helping you to create and shape reality. You are not your emotions; you merely experience them. You are not the identity of your name or your star sign; those are borrowed tools to help you navigate this realm we call Earth. You need to move away from the idea of who you think you are and detach yourself from the channels you are stuck on. This is cognitive mastery, brothers, this is emotional ownership. And this is how you elevate your alpha.

Episode 270: TV of Life (a.k.a Who Am I? Part 2) - Part 1
Understanding ourselves is the first step to true awakening, and brothers, that is why I spend so much time on it. Today, I will be expanding on the “Who Am I?” episode to bring you another analogy that hopefully explains this rollercoaster of life: the television. You see, TVs, much like radios, connect to different frequencies to tune you into your channel of choice. Obviously, this is before the internet and Netflix and streaming and content on-demand, but rather a time when you had to pick up the remote and change the channel to something you’d enjoy more than what you were watching. So in life, we tune into different channels, different energies, and different frequencies, and those become life’s focus in that moment. There are seven channels to life and the first is that of form which is closely followed by the second channel – the perception of our awareness related to that form. And our individual channels are all different. In channel two, I may be focused on my height and my crooked nose and how that may hinder me from finding a sexual partner. But my friend’s channel two is all about aging and how she can’t stand her wrinkles. Both are still about our perception of form but how we relate to and engage with it is completely different. Channel three is ego and identity and how we’re attached to the identity that’s been explained to us from birth. But you see, brothers, these are all models of alignment, models that we do need to break free from in our quest for true awakening. And the same is true of channel four – our emotions – because we often believe that we are what we feel and what we think. And that, brothers, is how we get stuck. And when we get stuck, the real work begins. Whatever channel we are stuck on is an opportunity to switch frequencies and that change can only come from within. No one else has the remote for your life, so it’s up to you to decide which frequencies you tap into. There’s so much more to share about this TV we call life so be sure to tune into part two. Until then, and with love, continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 269: Causality is a Fallacy
Today, we’re going to talk about causality as a fallacy. It is an illusion to think that the present is the effect of the past. It’s an erroneous belief that the future is the effect of the present. Time is not something we can understand intellectually. What if the past was a result of the present, and the present a result of the future? Brothers, in reality, there are no separate events. When does an event truly begin? There are many different theories. Separate things and broken time are illusions many of us buy into. Nature is in a constant state of movement. There are no nouns in nature. Only verbs. Everything is in motion. There is no steady state. In the world of form, everything affects everything else. But to say that what you do today will be the effect or cause of what happens in the evening, is really to think that you are on a ship in the ocean. Right behind the ship, there’s a big wake, and as the ship gets further away from it, the wake gets wider and wider, telling us where the ship has been. But as we go further into the past, we always reach a point where all traces of the past fade away. Where the ship has been does not determine where the ship is going. The present begins in the present, it does not begin in the past, and if you insist on being determined by the past, you can play that game, but the fact of the matter is it all starts right now. You can use the past to explain the present, but that’s really just delaying a true explanation. The mind is so locked into time because everything comes from nothingness. All of life emerges from nothing. An organism-environment field is really the real me. That is all the things that happen to me, and that is the sense of karma. That is a sense of action, a sense of spontaneous action. It’s your mind that’s locked in time. Your body is always here. Get into the habit of thought in terms of which you don’t define yourself in terms of what you’ve done before but in terms of what you’re doing now. That is freedom, brother.

Episode 268: What Is Karma?
Words are only as valuable as the meanings we bestow upon them. If I say “tree”, we may have a similar idea of what a tree is, but you could be envisioning an oak tree whereas I am seeing a tree in a tropical forest, and someone else may bring a baobab tree to the forefront of their mind. We can have multiple understandings of the very same word, and few words are as misunderstood as karma. Many believe that karma is an action of cause and effect: I do something good, so something good will happen to me in the future, and vice versa. But this notion of karma barely scratches the surface, as karma in its entirety is our attachment to the energies of life. You see, everything in life is cyclical. Seeds grow into trees that produce flowers and fruit that contain seeds, and when the seeds of the flower and fruit meet the ground again, they grow into a new tree. We can see this cycle in everything in life. Why, then, do we separate human existence from this cycle? Why do we only see human life as linear with a beginning and an end? To answer these questions, we must first explore reincarnation. We need to accept reincarnation as a universal truth because when we die, we are released from consciousness and awareness. There is nothing. To be alive is to be aware, so to die is to be unaware. But just because we can’t remember doesn’t mean that we didn’t travel from one life to the next; we simply cannot speak on something that we were not aware to experience. What does that have to do with karma? Well brothers, if we follow the mirror principle and the inversion principle then we know that we are here for ourselves and that what we witness in others is their own karmic release, not ours. That means that only we can control what we give to the world and what we choose to accept from it. Karma is what we choose to attach ourselves to in this world. It’s the shiny things that keep us trapped in cycles of lust, greed, and envy. When we reincarnate, we do not receive blessings from all the good we’ve done. Rather, we reattach ourselves to what held our attention in our previous life. Ultimately, the only way to release karmic tension is internally. Today, you’ll learn how to identify and acknowledge your karmic attachments and begin the work of release and surrender; to merge back with the source of the divine being that you are, accept that you cannot change anything, and embrace it, then release it and let it go. When you heal yourself, you heal the world. Until next time, brothers, I love you.

Episode 267: Attachment
In the candle of life, our fire of existence can be found in the flame that never dies. That is our oneness – the spark of life that can be seen in absolutely everything on Earth. It is our connection to the universal truth and confirmation of our inherent divinity. Now, problems arise when we forget our divinity and instead choose to focus and fixate on things that do not matter. This is attachment – attachment to form (like the candle), attachment to the illusion of the matrix of existence, and attachment to the outcomes that we simply cannot control. This is karma, and karma is the barrier to love; it’s the barrier to experiencing the truth; and it’s the reason why we are disconnected from our divinity. There are five hindrances of karma: desire, anger, resentment, laziness, and doubt. And we as humans are here on Earth to release these karmic energies but instead, we’ve chosen to hold onto them. We hold onto lust and gluttony; we cling to resentment; we immerse ourselves in doubt, and all because we are attached to the outcome. We believe that if I do this X, then Y will happen. If my wife complains of back pain and I give her a massage, then I will relieve her pain. But we need to let go of the outcome, and the way we do that is by remaining present. We need to first recognize that we are human and embrace our humanity. Then, we need to figure out why we are losing our presence at any given moment and bring ourselves back to that moment. Instead of focusing on the outcomes of the massage, be fully present in the experience of the massage itself. You see, brothers, by being fully aware of and present in each moment, we allow what is to be, with the understanding that we cannot change what always has been. This is how we burn the impurities of karma and chip away at the marble to reveal the David that always was. So brothers, that’s the practice: whenever you lose focus, ask yourself why, and bring yourself back to that moment. Developing this habit will definitely get you one step closer to elevating your alpha.

Episode 266: Candle Of Life
As you know, brothers, I love a good story. Stories are the way in which we process the world around us, and I hope that today’s story is jarring for you. Not jarring as in uncomfortable or unpleasant, but jarring you into awakening; jolting you into action. Because when we are stagnant, we are stuck. And when we are stuck, we cannot live in abundance. Today, I want to show you what life is through the analogy of the candle: the candle of life. You see, there are three spheres or three planes of existence: the egoic (physical) plane, the soul plane, and the plane of full awareness; of oneness. Now, the candle itself, that’s the physical, that’s the ego, that the thing that wants to be in control. The wick? Well, that’s the soul; that’s your life’s fuel and purpose and strength. The flame is that third plane, the plane of full understanding, oneness, and surrender. Here’s the problem, brothers. We are so caught up with being the candle and trying to be the best candle, the thinnest candle, the happiest candle, or the most spiritual candle, that we forget that none of that really matters. That is all background noise. The only thing that matters is the eternal flame burning bright. That is life. Everything is the flame. You are the flame. I am the flame. The birds, bees, trees, and mountains are all the flame. This is what it means to understand the universal truth that we are everything and everything is us. When the candle (your body) comes to an end, there’s nothing to fear because the flame burns on and is eternal. We suffer when become attached to the form, when we are stagnant in our understanding of oneness. The call today, brothers, is to unburden yourself from the constraints of the candle. You are so much more than wax! You are the wick that sustains. You are the fire that gives life. We are all one fire and that fire cannot die, so there is no need to fear what happens beyond the body of wax because, just like the flame, you will live on.

Episode 265: Stuck Energy
Welcome back, my brothers, to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast. Today, I have an episode that\'s going to take your mindset to the next level. I am diving deep into the fascinating concept of \"stuck energy.\" Have you ever found yourself unable to let go of past events, replaying them endlessly in your mind? In this episode, we\'re going to explore the concept of rumination and how it holds us back from experiencing life in the present moment. I\'ll provide you with actionable strategies to break free from this cycle and release that stagnant energy, allowing you to embrace the here and now fully. We\'ll also uncover the thought-provoking habit of creating problems just so we can be the ones to solve them. It\'s a pattern that many of us unknowingly fall into and I\'m here to help you break the cycle. Join me for this transformative journey, where you\'ll gain insights into the cognitive mastery and alpha mindset required to become the confident, influential man you aspire to be. It\'s time to elevate your alpha and unleash your full potential!

Episode 264: Who Am I?
Brothers, as Columbia is fully booked, many of you have been asking about the next retreat and when registrations will open for that one. Well, I can tell you, brothers, that the next retreat will be in mid-2024, and registrations will open early next year. But you can still visit awakentheoneretreats.com and your registration will automatically be transferred to next year’s retreat. Until next year, this is me, Kevin Aillaud, signing off from all retreat talk. Today, we are getting philosophical as we dive into another thought experiment. And these esoteric explorations are just like listening to music because it’s the silence in between that’s the loudest, not the musical note itself – it’s the spaces in between our layers of existence that draw us closer to that universal truth of oneness. When someone asks, “Who are you?” what do you say? You could say that your name is Kevin, and that is true. You may say that you’re a Taurus, or that you’re feeling nervous about something, or that you are the aching leg that’s been bothering you for the past month – all of those are accurate definitions of who you are because you are everything. You are your body, you are your star sign, you are your name, you are the summation of your bodily experiences, and you are your emotions and feelings. But you don’t remember this because you’ve chosen to forget your inherent divinity, because seeking answers is more thrilling than knowing the truth. So when we project our thoughts and feelings onto others, we forget that we’re doing this because we see ourselves in them, which is only natural because, after all, we are all one. So the work then, brothers, is to first realize that the answer to the question, “Who am I?” is simply: everything. And once you recognize that everything is layered, you can then begin the work of peeling back the layers and playing around with them, and being responsive instead of reactive as you unpack the essence of your existence. Because you are breath itself, you are life itself, and you are yet another step closer toward elevating your alpha.

Episode 263: Abundance Is Change
First, I\'ve got a quick update to share. Our upcoming retreat is officially closed, and it\'s amazing to see the next one filling up fast too. I truly appreciate the overwhelming response. Now, let\'s get to the heart of today\'s discussion: abundance. In today\'s episode, I am diving deep into a topic that\'s been heavily misunderstood, especially in the Western world: abundance. This word has been misinterpreted in many ways, particularly in the West. When you look it up, you often find definitions like \"a copious quantity of something\" or \"having a plentifulness of the good things in life.” But what if I told you that abundance isn\'t about hoarding or accumulating more of the good stuff? It\'s about change. It\'s about flowing with life\'s constant fluctuations, just like your breath. You can\'t hoard air; you breathe it in and release it. Abundance is that constant state of change, whether it\'s in your thoughts, emotions, actions, or even your physical health. In this episode, I explore the true essence of abundance and why understanding it from a flow perspective can profoundly impact your life. I’ll discuss how it applies to money, relationships, and health, and why trying to control or fix these aspects can lead to suffering. So, join me as we unravel the mysteries of abundance and learn how to live in harmony with the ever-changing dance of life. It\'s a journey worth taking, my brothers!

Episode 262: Better
There are just a few spots remaining for the upcoming Awaken the One retreat, and I want to offer it to you, brothers. It’s exciting to do this retreat in particular with you, brothers, since it’s an initiation process where you can invest more deeply in who you are, rather than just going through the motions. This life-changing journey to Columbia kicks off on October 8th, so be sure to book now so that you have ample time to prepare before we set off. Today’s episode is all about betterment, brothers. Now, I\'m not suggesting that you need to change or be better. This idea of being \"better\" or wanting \"more\" is relative. In fact, I believe that the entire notion of \"betterment\" is just a marketing ploy, an illusion, a Ponzi scheme. Everywhere you go, you have advertising designed specifically to make you feel like you need to be better. And I’m not saying you shouldn’t try to do things that might enrich you, what I’m saying is that you should ask yourself “Why?” Because what does it even mean to be better? There’s no level of accumulation or betterment that can transform you into a concept that exists only in the realm of illusion. Brother, striving to be \'better\' is futile because the \'you\' we often refer to is just a narrative. If you aim to improve within that narrative, you\'re simply enhancing the story. In reality, by telling yourself you\'re inadequate, you\'re complicating your story, turning life into a game of constant betterment. It\'s a choice you\'ve made about life. But what if we could choose simplicity over complexity? Acceptance over betterment? Join me as we unravel these thoughts and embark on a journey of deeper understanding. And don\'t forget about our upcoming retreat – it could be the transformative experience you\'ve been searching for. Listen now, and let\'s continue to elevate our alpha, together!

Episode 261: Casting A Net
The cutoff for the forthcoming Awaken the One retreat is fast approaching and there are only a few spots left! September 11th marks the final day for sign-ups, ensuring you have ample time to plan your journey to Columbia on October 8th. With limited slots left and not much time to go, move fast! I eagerly await our collective transformation. Last week I began exploring the concept of casting a net as an analogy for what you allow to impact and govern your thoughts, and by extension, your life. You have the choice of which coastlines to throw your line from, the type of fish you aim to reel in, their quantity and size, and it\'s up to you to adjust your net to grow as an individual. Today, I delve deeper into this concept, starting with quantum physics. And specifically the mathematical side of it, because that’s the real root of quantum sciences. What quantum physics shows us mathematically is that at the most fundamental level of everything, what we find is unity and oneness. And that\'s the beauty of it all, brothers. We are interconnected with each other, not just on a physical and atomic level, but on an energy level that we can’t even begin to understand, because we come into consciousness through the human realm of separation. Now, when it comes to casting our nets we are doing so in a vast and endless ocean. The sea is undetermined; it is pure potential. It can literally be anything. It is our thoughts, the nets, that limit what the ocean — and by extension, the world — can be. The fish is what we draw back, and what we get from our thoughts and beliefs, the way we experience the world. That’s where we experience the sea. But we don\'t experience the sea in all its infinite potential. We only experience the sea based on what we pull out of it in our nets. And we make assumptions about the sea, based on what we get from our nets. Limiting ourselves in the process. But we can learn to change this! So join me today brothers as we embark on this journey where we learn to change our thoughts, and as a result, our reality too!

Episode 260: The Universe Is Determined By Consciousness
Brothers! The registration deadline for the upcoming Awaken the One retreat is fast approaching. September 11th is the last time you can register for the retreat, because I want to give you all a fair chance of planning your trip to Columbia on October 8th. There are only a few spots remaining and two weeks left to register, so act quickly – I can’t wait to transform with you. Now brothers, today I will give you a truth that will blow your mind: The universe is not discovered by consciousness; the universe and everything in it is determined by consciousness. That means that nothing exists until we observe it; until we make it real through consciousness. Sounds fantastical, I know, but quantum physics has actually proved this recently. And it’s only crazy if you don’t fully understand the universal truth of oneness. You see, two main mythologies govern our lives. One, that there is a higher power looking over us who created everything and is controlling everything, and two, there is no higher power, and everything that exists is only what we can see and touch. But I think that both these views are flawed because they both ignore that it is, in fact, our thoughts and intentions that determine reality. Answers only come from within. Science, religion, education, sports, government systems – they’re all trying to achieve the same goal, which is to give us a better understanding of life, of the human condition. But they do not give us understanding, religion and science do not give us peace, they are merely a reflection of our own inner duality. But we’ve been coached in these models by the education system and by our parents to believe either this or that; that there is only up or down, left or right. But as perfect, infinite beings, we know that there are a million ways to go up and a trillion ways to go sideways, so the only real fundamental truth is that we can only fully understand the world internally, through mental and emotional self-management. It’s like casting nets, brothers. Let’s say that everything in the world is a type of fish – science, religion, the music that we listen to; it’s all fish and we cast out nets to pool together what we like, while removing what we don’t. And we will cast the same sized net, using the same technique, in the very same waters every day, and yet we expect the seas to change. But brother, you are holding the next. You can determine which shores to cast from, which fish you want to catch, how many or how little, how big or how small – you are in control of adjusting your net in order to evolve as a being. The net does not exist without you; your very thoughts brought it into existence. You are magical. So, what changes will you be making to your net today in order to elevate your alpha?

Episode 259: Spiritual vs Cellular Consciousness
It’s the six-week countdown to the Awaken The One retreat happening this October in Santa Marta, Columbia. Brothers, this is a transformational retreat aimed at awakening the one in you; the Neo in you, if you will. And I guarantee that in one week, you will leave the retreat as a completely different person from when you arrived. And life is all about transformation, which can only come once we’ve been made aware of the universal truth, and once we understand the matrix in which we exist. And we tend to lean on science as the truth, but science is not the truth, science is merely a guiding tool to reveal the truth that always was – the truth that is within. You see, brothers, the entire human body is a compilation of cells. Cells have their own consciousness because they need to know how to grow, when to heal, and when to become anew. But our cells carry memories and emotions of the past and try in all their power to revert to what they know and what is comfortable. This cellular consciousness is the beta state. It is looking at the past and the future whilst ignoring what matters most – the here and now, the present. Now, when we begin to tap into our spiritual consciousness, that’s when we are moving toward the alpha state. This is being aware of the universal truth and accepting your divine oneness. It is living in the present in every single moment. It is striving for potential over position. It’s moving energy rather than focusing on the matter of identity. All this comes down to inner self-management, brothers because the truth has always been, and always will be, within you. Until October my brothers, continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 258: Let\'s Carve A Spoon
Brothers, October is fast approaching and I’d really love to see you in Cartagena, Santa Marta. The Awaken the One Retreat is exactly that: an awakening; an awakening of consciousness, and it’s bound to be a life-changing experience, regardless if this is your first retreat or your 100th! There are only 12 spots and some have already been taken, so be sure to sign up as soon as you can. I can’t wait to be there with you. Now brothers, I recently went on a camping trip with a friend and it opened up new ideas about manifestation and creation. Because we are inherently creators. We manifest through our thoughts and intentions to create something that wasn’t anything before. Shortly after arriving at camp, my friend said, “Let’s carve spoons.” Bothers, I have never carved a spoon in my life, but this experience brought up six very important life lessons that I just had to share with you today. Firstly, say yes. Try something new. Trust the universe to provide you with good things and have the courage to embrace any new process. And once your intention is clear, start! Manifestation needs thought but creation requires action. The next three lessons go hand-in-hand: Be present in each and every moment, adapt to whatever life may throw at you, and rid yourself of all distractions. Clarity and focus only come with being present, change is one of life’s only constants so be ready for it, and out in the forest with no WiFi or phone signal, it was easy for me not to be distracted, but what can you do for yourself to ensure that you’re in a space optimized for creation? Lastly, brothers, nothing is ever complete, nothing is ever perfect. But whoa, flip that, because (insert the mystery of duality) it is always complete! I could’ve spent a lifetime chipping away at the spoon, but it would be no more perfect than it was after the 18 hours that I did spend on it. So embrace imperfection and understand that once (you think) you’ve mastered something, there’s always still more to learn. Keep creating, my brothers, as you continue to elevate your alpha. Once you shift your frequency, brother, once you change your vibration, it\'s not a matter of doing. You are already traveling.

Episode 257: Multiverse Travel
Brothers, welcome back to the Alpha Male Podcast as today, I take you back to being versus doing; energy versus matter. Because brothers, that’s the basis of everything we do, right? It’s our awakening to the universal truth that our thoughts inform our actions which in turn create our results. It’s shifting our vibrational frequencies to enlightenment; it’s energy moving matter. Now, brothers, we don’t see ourselves as interdimensional travelers because we are rooted in the third dimension. We are grounded in the matrix of our bodily experience, forgetting that we are, in fact, beings of light who are capable of reincarnating into a new dimension at any given moment. Because we are inherently reality-creating machines – we birth things into existence with our thoughts. And that is because of our consciousness; it is because of our capacity to lead with intention; it’s because of the gift of choice. You see, scientists embarked on an experiment to try and unpack the concept of randomness. They created a random effect generator – a machine wired to produce random sequences – and discovered that from the completely randomly generated results of 50-50, a person would lean more toward one side when given a particular intention. Isn’t that wild, brothers, that objective test results can be swayed by the whispers of one’s mind! And that is what it means to be a multiverse traveler. You are already an interdimensional being, but fear and doubt are holding you back from unleashing your full potential. That is why we are going to Columbia in October: to help you see the matrix, to help you realize that we are so much more than the third dimension. And when you tap into the universal truth, when you are awakened to the model of alignment and are living with intention, then you will be well on your way toward elevating your alpha. Once you shift your frequency, brother, once you change your vibration, it\'s not a matter of doing. You are already traveling.

Episode 256: Daily Reincarnation
Brothers, today I want to talk to you about change, because that is what the Elevated Alpha Society Spartan Academy is all about, that is what the upcoming Awaken the One Retreat is all about, and change is what life is all about. Let’s first begin with understanding what power is. Many of us think that power comes with some sort of elevated position and status; “I am a doctor, therefore I have power.” But power is far greater than a mere rise in societal rank, power is the ability to adapt to change and create change with intention. We all have this illusion that we are linear beings and that life plays out in a straight line from birth to death. But if you believe in the universal truth of oneness, then you’d know that this is not the case. We cannot be dimensional beings while being trapped in living on the linear because in the universal truth, in oneness, there is no time, time isn’t real, everything exists all at once. You see, every time you make a choice, you are not affecting a linear narrative of right now. Instead, you are creating another branch-reality of your being in the unlimited potential that is the multiverse in which we exist. And that is how we reincarnate daily, brothers. It’s not only through death (although, you can consider each choice as a mini-death of its own), it’s by stepping into new dimensions and creating change with intention. There’s nothing wrong with reincarnating who we were the day before, who we were before the choice. But if you seek change, then you must be reborn anew with each new day, with every choice, and at any given opportunity because this is how you expand your consciousness. By keeping your mind fixed on the choice you made, on the new version of yourself that you birthed into a new dimension. Don’t be afraid to be uncomfortable, brothers. All things take time. So when you make the change, the choice, be intentional, and give your body time to adjust to this new version of you, this changed you. Lean into that discomfort and watch your life transform right before your eyes.

Episode 255: Celebrate – Part 2
Welcome back, brothers. Your timing is perfect, because today, I am going to rattle the very foundation of your core beliefs. Today, we are diving deep into the conceptual as I challenge you on what you believe to be possible and true, for you to break free from whatever limitations you’ve placed on the expansion of your consciousness. By now, you already know about the nature of duality. I want to focus on the separation of religion and science, theism and atheism, and how they relate to the function of our consciousness. We’ve been conditioned by two seemingly opposing yet highly similar explanations of what the world is. As you’ll discover, theists and atheists are two sides of the same coin; they are two arsonists lighting fires in different rooms and then asking each other who burnt the house down. Religion and science both enforce the same belief: that you have to sacrifice and suffer now in order to experience joy and celebrate in the future. Neither of these perspectives makes room for celebration in the present. Instead, they rob you of your experience of the now, the divine and immutable present moment. This is how we’ve been conditioned. These are the models in which we exist but consciousness is not meant to merely affirm our status at the top of the food chain. Consciousness is there to increase our capacity for gratitude, for it is only through gratitude that you have a clear path to heaven, whatever heaven means to you. Gratitude is the gateway to celebration as we begin to accept the safety of oneness. Brothers, I’m suggesting a complete reset. A complete system reboot and resetting of the canvas. A complete wash to start over and redefine our version of reality. We need to let go of everything we think we know and surrender to the mystery and safety of the unknown. Each day you wake up, you need to reincarnate instead of constantly reliving who you were yesterday. A great way to start this journey of enlightenment is by joining our upcoming men’s retreat in Columbia this October, so keep looking out for more details. Until then, my brothers, continue to elevate your alpha!

Episode 254: Consciousness Expansion: Part 2
Our focus today, my brothers, is back on the mind and its power, as we dive into the second part of the theme of consciousness expansion! This all-important causal part of our existence, the inner world, is what determines our outer world, and it is only with this expansion that we can bring about change, and make incremental progress towards events that we know will happen. In today\'s episode, I will be sharing some of the experiments that ground this lesson, and showing how we can use this as the anchor to transcend fear, depression, control, anxiety, guilt, and more! Most of us experience life primarily through our five senses, but expanded consciousness is so much more than that! It enables us to live better and longer and is so much greater than all the other abilities we might have. Expanding the mind gives us so much power, brothers, to move beyond limiting factors, and escape the situations and states we do not actually choose for ourselves. If we want to experience real change, we have to start with our consciousness, because we are always creating, whether we are aware of it or not! So if you want to take charge of this process and your reality, and wake up from victimization and reaction, this lesson cannot be ignored. For so much of humanity ignorance is a prison, and something that we create for ourselves, join me today to break this cycle and begin this empowering process.

Episode 253: Stop Trying, Start Trusting: Part 2
Brothers, there is no time, time is one, and your future self already exists. When you seek the unknown, it is imperative that you let go of all of the beliefs that keep you stuck in the prison of safety and familiarity. Is it going to agitate you? Will it be uncomfortable? Yes. But then, you will see and will awaken to the truth and truly be astounded. You will move mountains with your new perception of the world because you have a closer connection to the truth of what is, and have a direct link to the source. Today we dive deeper into part two of the Stop Trying, Start Trusting series. As you may remember, I opened up a very conceptual, esoteric, spiritual, and perhaps energetic concept which includes a large shift in consciousness from trying to trust. Brothers, there are two things that stand out. First, that trying is matter moving matter, and second, consciousness, and manifestation through consciousness is a large reason for our being. Today, we’re going to build a foundation for the coming generations. A foundation of how energy moves matter. Now is the season for you to begin to awaken your intention for the Men’s Retreat, from the 8th-14th of October in Colombia. I promised you all that I\'d get around to completing all part two\'s of every series, so next week is part two of \"Consciousness Expansion.\" Until then, brothers, continue to elevate your Alpha.

Episode 252: The Famous Double Slit Experiment Explained
Welcome back to the show, brothers. Today, I’m going to explain the universal truth from a different perspective, by showing you how the famous double slit experiment is proof of the universal truth of oneness. Now, to understand the experiment, you need to first understand the distinction between particles and waves, and how they work differently. A particle is simply something that holds its shape; it is matter, so anything like a marble or tennis ball or pebble. On the flip side, waves are infinite energy and cannot be seen by the human eye. The scientists conducting the double slit experiment shot electrons through single, then double slits and monitored their patterns of behavior from launch, passing through the slit, and when hitting the back wall. What they noticed is that when given one option, the electron remained a particle to pass through the slit. But when presented with multiple possibilities, the electron disappeared and instead became a wave; an infinite wave of potential. The electrons also changed their behavior after being observed. What does this mean for us, brothers? Well, firstly, it teaches us that anything is possible as we exist within a limitless wave of potential. Secondly, this experiment proves our oneness and confirms that we all have a collective consciousness. The electrons changing their behavior is an indication that even matter is conscious, and we are all of the same matter, therefore we are all of the same consciousness, and understanding this universal truth is the foundation required for elevating your alpha!

Episode 251: Stop Trying, Start Trusting: Part 1
The world we live in today is full of time-consuming projects that don’t take us anywhere. That is because we’re going about it all wrong. We’re trying and trying and trying to no avail when all we really need to do is trust. You see, brothers, change and manifestation are the same because we consciously manifest change. Whenever we want to change our behavior, experience, or circumstance, we do so consciously. We manifest the change. That is because we are creators, brothers. We were created by the creator to create. And our creations create as well. This is the fractal of existence. Now, there are two ways that we can create: by matter moving matter or by energy moving matter. Matter moving matter is the one that takes time. It’s the one that relies on something physical in order to exist and its process is slow and ineffective. This is what I call trying to no avail. This is rolling the rock up the hill. This is the unconscious way. This is the old way. This is the beta condition. What we want is energy moving matter, because this is the alpha way. It is using meditation to regrow your thyroid gland without any medical intervention! It is using meditation to reduce the crime rate in a city plagued by violence. It is knowing and feeling your future self and trusting in the universal truth to help you along your path. Because the truth is that you are the creator; you are the all-oneness. And when you practice connecting to energy and feeling in your future self, you will be one step closer to elevating your alpha.

Episode 250: Consciousness Expansion: Part 1
There are many challenges that are posed by the use of language and symbols, and today brothers, I want to take this opportunity to do a little bit of redefinition. If we want to better understand things we need to constantly be refining and clarifying the terms we use to communicate them. Clear communication has always been one of my main goals with this podcast, as it is essential in the expansion and awakening of the mind. We have often spoken about the spiritual man and the spiritual lifestyle, and although this is just a story that we use, it is completely necessary in order to share powerful ideas. Spirituality and consciousness have a strong relationship and even some overlap, but they are also distinct. I want to remind you, brothers, that consciousness is the foundation for everything, and that the alpha man is always conscious! Stories enable us create pictures in the mind and follow the arc and content of those ideas. This is consciousness expansion! Tuning in, you will be hearing about how all of these pieces fit together, and how energy and conscious complement each other and relate to the divine. Along the way there are reiterations of action\'s neutral value, reality\'s illusions, and why the lover and loved are both love, created in order to experience itself!

Episode 249: The Greatest Alpha Move Ever
Today we will be talking about what is probably the greatest alpha move ever! This is the foundation of spiritual development. By understanding this one principle and utilizing this tool, skill, or truth, you become invincible and invincibility is a part of oneness, part of being in the alpha state. And it\'s as simple as this: not getting offended. In this episode, brothers, I talk about how words are representatives of ideas, and ideas cannot hurt you. Only manifestations of ideas can hurt you. We can be so offended by words, and this offense leads to division, which ultimately leads to greater conflict. I explain how this relates to the duality of being with regard to the victim mentality of being offended or the service mentality, or the higher vibration of recognizing that it isn’t about you at all. I also discuss how this relates to the inversion and mirror principles and how, by utilizing these principles, we can move up the wave, raise our vibrations, and reach our true selves and the alpha state. I shed light on how the identity, or the ego, is not real. It’s a construct and therefore there is no actual real entity that can be offended. I then give practical steps of how you can go into a relationship with intention where you can overcome your beta condition and your victim mentality. I also remind you, brothers, that you can only learn. You can’t fail. Everything is unfolding with perfection, unity, and universal love.

Episode 248: Making the Shift
The journey of this podcast is all about the shift that happens when you embrace cognitive mastery. There’s only one way, and that’s within. Anyone who tells you differently is sharing their way with you, which is never going to work. Although I share my way with you in this podcast, I’m really pointing you toward finding your own way as an individual. It must come from within. Brothers, words come from the mind. They come from the experience of separation and judgment. In the military, we say, the map is not the terrain. In the same way, words will never be enough. We need to have a direct experience of ourselves as the source, as the divinity itself. The key is to use words for what they are useful for, but not overvalue them. The real cannot die, and the unreal has never lived. Meditate on that, brother. The energy of you cannot die. It has always existed. As a species, we might deny it, but it will never deny us. There is one dreamer dreaming the landscape of all that we are. This analogy can help us to understand the ocean of oneness which contains everything and excludes nothing. The truth of who you are and forever will always remain. Choose to see what has always seen you, and you will realize the truth that has always been true. The first 100 episodes focused on cognitive understanding. This episode is a call. Are you ready to accept and embrace it? Or will you reject it? Rejection can only happen through the mind. You’re going to wake up. It’s inevitable. You can’t ignore the call forever. You are what is seeing. Spend at least ten minutes a day, not to see what is in front of you, but to become aware of sight. Become aware of being. Instead of focusing your eye on separation, focus your eye on what is aware of the seeing. This is the gift that has been freely given. Now you can learn to give what you have received. Look around you and see everyone as a mirror of yourself. See them as they’re seen from the state of the dreamer. Imagine knowing that this is all one! You are always interacting with yourself. See the divinity of the one energy. Feel your way through and around all relationships. See the dreamer. See the love, and you will see that nothing else exists.

Episode 247: A Relationship With Mirrors
Brothers, today I want to explore the mirror principle and how it relates to oneness. Because I get a lot of questions about, “Why would I want to live in oneness?” And brothers, that’s insanity; it’s like never wanting to learn how to read. And I can’t answer that question any more than I could explain sight to a blind person. But examining the mirror principle and its role in oneness may paint a clearer picture of why understanding the universal truth is something to aspire to. The mirror principle is simple. It states that everything you think about someone else says nothing about them and everything about you. That’s just one way of putting it, brothers. Words are merely symbols to which we assign meaning, and I could’ve as just as easily said that in the mirror principle when you say “I love you” to someone else you’re actually saying it to yourself. Let’s go deeper there, brothers, and explore the opposite iteration, “I hate you.” Because when you hate someone else, you’re really only hating yourself. The projection of our emotions onto the other is living in duality, in the illusion that you are one thing and the other person is another. But that isn’t true. You are everything, you are oneness itself, so you are everyone and everyone is you. So you see, brothers, duality only offers a route for hate to exist. Because if you understand oneness, if you understand your perfection, then you will begin to love everyone else just as you love yourself. You will stop blaming everything around your for the obstacles in your life and begin to see them as just that — obstacles. Merely pitfalls on the road from which you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep on moving. Because brothers, everything you give to others is what you give to yourself, and understanding that is a vital step towards elevating your alpha.

Episode 246: Cellular Memory
In this episode, we are diving deep into the enigmatic realm of cellular memory. Brothers, prepare to unlock the mysteries held within the very fabric of your being as we explore the intricate dance between science and spirituality. Join me on this captivating journey as I unravel the profound truth that science is merely a vessel to measure what has long been known on a spiritual level. From a spiritual perspective, cellular memory dances to the tune of an intriguing belief—that within the intricate fabric of our being, our cells hold sacred echoes of ages past. Beyond the realm of mere genetics, this captivating notion suggests that our cellular tapestry carries the imprints of long-forgotten memories, ancestral whispers, and the residues of former lives. With every stride science takes, it aligns more closely with the timeless wisdom imparted by spiritual teachers throughout the ages, shedding light on their profound teachings that were often misunderstood or misinterpreted. In this episode, we embark on an expedition into the depths of cellular memory, discovering that memories reside not within the nucleus but within the delicate embrace of the cell membrane. We\'ll explore the awe-inspiring notion that these memories are triggered by our interactions with the external environment, unlocking the gateway to unconscious memories that can spring forth without the involvement of our conscious minds. I will also delve into the fascinating duality of the beta condition that is deeply rooted in the body, and the ethereal alpha state, soaring towards the realm of spirit. We\'ll explore how the beta condition is influenced by childhood memories and genetic coding passed down through ancestral lineage, intricately woven into the very cells of our being. I will also uncover the six core human wounds: repression, denial, shame, rejection, guilt, and separation which act as echoes that reverberate through the generations. Join me on this awe-inspiring voyage as we bridge the realms of science and spirituality, unravel the secrets of cellular memory, and witness the transformative power of ancestral healing. This episode will expand your horizons and leave you with a profound understanding of the intricate tapestry that shapes our human experience. Brothers, get ready to step into a realm of profound self-discovery, healing, and liberation, and elevate your alpha!

Episode 245: The Universal Truth
Welcome back to The Alpha Male Coach podcast, brothers. If you are familiar with the show, then you know that I always talk about the universal truth. But for any new listeners out there, I thought that now would be the perfect time to recap the universal truth as a reminder that this is the most important concept to understand. Now, cognitive mastery is the most important skill, and part of cognitive mastery is having a clear understanding of the universal truth. The universal truth of how life works is simple, brothers. It is that everything begins as a thought, our actions determine our experiences, and finally, everything is one. Everything is everything, and you are everything, brother. You see, life is really just a series of relationships that begins with a circumstance, a thought. Everything that happens afterward is all in relation to that thought. Now, the mind’s only job is to make these thoughts real, which is different from the brain’s function of keeping the body alive. The ego, which doesn’t exist, only serves to feed the illusion of separation by giving the heart and soul an identity within the body because your heart never dies, your soul never dies, and you never die; it is only your body that will one day decay as your energy lives on in all its perfection. So, the alpha state is the soul, your heart, that part of you that is a being of enlightenment, perfection, and oneness. The job, then, is to align the mind with the heart. That is cognitive mastery brothers; that is emotional ownership. Remember to return to the fundamentals of the universal truth, brother, as that is your ticket to elevating your alpha!

Episode 244: 4 Desires of the Soul
Brothers, let’s dive right in and get to it because you already know about duality versus oneness, beta versus alpha, the ego versus the soul. And while the ego has needs that it wishes to fulfill, the needs of the mind, of the psyche; the soul does not have any needs as it’s already complete. But, the soul does have desires. Now, our souls use our bodies as vessels, as a means by which to experience the world. Therefore, the soul’s desires can be found in the body as it’s using the body for its experience. And I’m not talking about desires with attachments, because that’s expectation, that’s lack. But the soul lacks nothing and therefore its desires are purely rooted in experience, removing itself from its oneness to experience itself in human form. Stay with me here brothers, because here are the four desires of the soul: The desire to fulfill its energetic purpose, the desire for a means, the desire for pleasure, and the desire for spiritual fulfillment. Now, your ego is trying to get you to understand those terms in relation to the body, but let me explain what they actually mean for the soul. The soul’s energetic purpose is its drive to fulfill its potential. In this case, that means taking in the full extent of its experience in the body. Because the desire for pleasure governs all our actions, so when the soul seeks pleasure, it seeks the abundance of the bodily experience. I’m talking about the physical matter, the things we can see and touch. In order for the soul to experience the body it needs to have the means to do so. Brother, you already know the difference between the true pleasure of the soul and false pleasure of the mind, even if you think you don’t, you do, just like you always know what is up and what is down, that cannot change. So, that fourth desire of spiritual fulfillment is a longing for liberation, for true freedom, and that, brothers, is as simple as remembering. It is remembering that you are an enlightened being. It is the soul, in all its oneness, reconnecting with itself and its oneness. It’s the acceptance that we are energy and everything is energy, so we are everything. It is the soul reflecting back on its oneness so that all the oneness can experience all the oneness. And if you are accepting yourself as a perfect, eternal, omnipresent energy, then you are well on your way toward elevating your alpha.

Episode 243: Insanity
Brothers, I am insane. Yes, you heard right, straight from the horse’s mouth. I, Kevin Aillaud, am insane. But before you laugh it off and declare that I’ve lost the plot, let me first explain to you what I mean by insanity. Because the truth is, in today’s world, insane has been made normal and sane, abnormal. You see, words are merely symbols that we use to communicate our intentions and ideas. But these words exist in duality as they always point to a preferred condition. Therefore, every word has an opposite or contrasting implication. But the words themselves do not have meaning. They are merely symbols and could mean nothing to the next person as much as hieroglyphics are gibberish to us. But we, as humans, give words their meaning and assign their value. Now, because of their duality, we cannot communicate effectively with words as they could mean anything. Literally anything, brothers, depending on the intentions of the speaker and receiver. So, the words we speak do not accurately convey our true state of oneness. Because when everything is one, there is no duality as everything is the same energy, the same love. Brothers, what is natural and what is normal are two very different things. Natural cannot change, it is what has been created and it is what will always be. Normal, however, is determined by society, by our conditioning, and by the fear that governs our lives. And our drive to normalize the unnatural means that we as humans now see what was previously insane as sane. So if sanity is upholding normal perception, behavior, and standards, then brothers, I am insane. Because I do not believe the stories of “not good enough” that you tell yourselves, I do not live in the split mind that says I need to have more and do more. I, just like you, am an enlightened being, and I can live in both have and being. And by answering the universal call to serve and give, I can live in full abundance. I am proud of you brother, for understanding your oneness, for living in abundance, and for taking the necessary steps to elevate your alpha.

Episode 242: Celebrate – Part 1
Brothers, last time I spoke about the three positions, the three states of being that we as humans can find ourselves in: the low position, high position, and superposition. Today’s episode will be part one of two as I begin to explore the superposition of vibration: celebration. Now remember, the superposition is accepting and embracing your oneness, and living only in the here and now. The aim is to transmute through the positions and go from the low position of fear and resentment to the superposition of accepting that you are everything and everything is one, and you will never die. What I mean by “never die” is that you are energy and energy never dies. Your body may decay but you will live on forever, brother. We have become so attached to desire and expectation and trying to influence the world around us. All day long we wait and hope for a better day, a better moment, a better life, instead of reveling in the beauty of right now. And that’s okay, brothers. All low vibrations have their purpose. Low positions merely present us with the opportunity to elevate as we begin to remember that we are already enlightened and that we are eternal while also detaching ourselves from desire and expectation. And detachment cannot be forced, brothers, but it must happen. Once you detach yourself from the illusion of expectation, you will make more room for celebration as you take one step closer to elevating your alpha. Tune in today to learn more.

Episode 241: 3 Positions
We are going on another journey today, brothers, as I teach you about vibration, emotion, feeling, and experience. I might as well have used one word for all four because they are all the same. They are synonyms of each other. So, when I speak of one, just know that I am also talking about the other. Vibrations are really just our patterns of experience. Our frequency is determined by our thoughts which, as you know by now, also make our experiences real. A low vibration would be living in the beta condition, living in fear, anger, and resentment. Vibrating on a high frequency is moving closer to your alpha state, which is living in gratitude, humility, and love. But what we’re really trying to achieve is the superposition, which is when you accept your oneness, your light, your love, and live only in the here and now. That is what is causing us so much grief and suffering as humans, brothers: not living in the present moment. It is our inexperience of the now that wreaks havoc in our lives. We are so distracted by doing and busying ourselves that we forget the only thing that is real, the only thing that matters, and that is the present moment. It’s everything that is happening right here and now because that is our natural state. Everything we experience now in this world may seem normal, but it is not natural. It can’t be natural because it is not real. It is a mere construct of our minds to help us deal with the illusion of separation. But you are an enlightened being. You are already eternal. Energy never dies and you are all energy. It is the fear that holds you back. The fear of the past, present, or future, and the fear of time running out. The fear of death is what is holding you back from living in this moment. In order to move toward the superposition, we need to change the way we think and engage with the world around us. We need to move away from the low vibration of negative emotions and toward the high frequency of positive emotions. When you do this, everything around you will change for the better, because as we all know, like attracts like. So, it’s time to forget the duality of the low position which floods your mind with so much junk that all you can think about is survival. Let us rather embrace the high position of service, care, and an appreciation for the life that you have, one that so many would literally give anything for. Even better still, if you pursue the superposition and accept your openness and your enlightenment and your love and your divinity, then you’ll be one step closer to elevating your alpha. Keep raising your vibrations, brother!

Episode 240: Courage
Brothers, do you remember The Truman Show? Well, life is very much like that Jim Carrey movie in that it’s all about how we see ourselves through the relationship of others. Everyone you meet is there to help you on your life’s journey, to teach you something about yourself that you did not know, or to confirm what you already knew. And what is that relationship? A relationship of love, of course. Love is the only thing that exists, that is real, because everything is one and everything is love. But what about courage? Well, courage is acting in the face of fear. It is knowing what you’re afraid of, feeling the fear, and choosing to take action anyway. But remember, brothers, that fear is an illusion. It is not real. All fear comes from our fear of death, the fear we have of time running out. All fear can be distilled to that one great fear, the fear of death, the only fear that is. But death is an illusion, brothers. It is a construct of the ego to try and help us make sense of the matrix, which also isn’t real. But energy never dies, and you are all energy. Therefore death is not real, and neither is our fear of it. So courage, dear brother, is letting go of the very concept of death. It is stripping yourself of everything you’ve learned, everything you’ve been taught by the models, and choosing to live in every moment, to exist only in the here and now. You are eternal, brother. You are already enlightened. Courage is a mere reminder that you are already awake, and it is one of the 12 steps toward elevating your alpha.

Episode 239: The Restaurant of Life
Brothers, I am back with another edition of the “of life” series and today, I’ll be walking you through the restaurant of life and how that can help you better understand the inner workings of your mind. So, if you think of your mind as a restaurant, there is one meal that you keep ordering that you don’t even consult the menu for. That is your beta condition operating in familiarity and within the models that have been taught to you by your family, religion, the government, and the rest of society. It’s where you feel safe. But brothers, we cannot be transformed in safety. We have been blessed with the gift of choice and we must use this blessing to be brave. The menu provides a template for the options available to you. But unlike a standard menu, the menu options of the mind are unlimited. Your gateway to life-changing transformation is opened by you being willing to experience something new, a meal other than the one you’ve been conditioned into eating all your life. So, the mind is the menu and it can access an infinite amount of potential meals, and you can choose any of them to taste an infinite potential of thoughts, ideas, and identities, and you can make any of them real. Because that’s what the function of the mind is, to make your thoughts real. The trick, dear brother, is making sure that the menu is always in your hands and understanding that this infinite number of choices is always available to you. Brothers, we’ve come full circle as I proclaim that everything is one. You know this, we’ve covered this. Therefore, you are the restaurant itself and everything in it. The people around you, the staff, and even your table placement are all illusions made real by your mind. Changing tables could be like moving to a new city, a new seat could be a new job, but it is all still you and it is all a projection of what your mind has made real. It’s time to awaken from your dream state, brother. Because that’s what life is, a dream made real by the mind. And when you realize this, you’ll be freeing yourself from the illusions of the ego and the matrix. So, continue to elevate our alpha. I say “our” because, brother, we are one.

Episode 238: Oneness
Brothers, throughout the history of this podcast, I am always reminding you of the universal truth that everything is one, everything is perfect, and you are in control of living your life of perfection. And today, we will be diving deep into the first part of that truth, which is oneness. Everything that exists is one. You are one. I am one. We are one. And in your oneness lies love and perfection. Now, that may seem blasphemous to you, to state that you are oneness itself, and that’s okay, that’s you living within the models of construction. What I want for you is freedom; an escape from the lies being told to you by the ego and the matrix. And to achieve that freedom, you need to first understand the function of the mind in order to surrender it from its seat of power and authority over your life. The mind only exists to make your thoughts real. That’s it. That’s the entire function of the mind. We live in a dream state made real by our minds as they feed the illusions of the matrix. But you are not your mind. You are your heart, your soul, and you are perfect in your oneness. Once you understand that, brother, you will be on the path to freedom. Brothers, do you wake up from a dream and accost yourself for the action you took in that dream? Of course not! So, you need to stop beating yourself up about your past, about not living up to societal expectations, about upholding the standards you set out for yourself. Because those are all constructs of the mind, brothers. They are not real. You are perfect exactly as you. So I implore you to enroll in my course, take the necessary steps to begin your journey to freedom, and continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 237: Perfection
Brothers, last time we looked at emotional responsibility and how you are in control of how you think and feel. Today, we will be looking at perfection and, more specifically, how perfect you are. But first, you need to understand that everything that exists is one, and everything that is one is perfect, and you are in control of your life of perfection. Now, it is the ego that tells you that you are not perfect. The ego uses the illusions of death and time to fabricate stories of being unworthy, of not living to your full potential, and of highlighting your many flaws. But let me tell you this, brothers, even your flaws are perfect. You are perfect in your every imperfection. There is nothing that you can do to make yourself more perfect. Society will tell you that you have to do this in order to be that, that your actions determine your value and worth. But this is a lie, brothers. This is living out the manuals that we have been conditioned with since birth. This is why we compare ourselves to each other and compete against one another. But we are really only competing against ourselves because society cannot tell that you need to do better and that you need to do more when you are already perfect just as you are. We live in an age of punishment as taught to us by our parents and the government and religion. And now, you have assumed that manual to punish yourself for not waking up at 5 am every morning, for not going to the gym every day, for not eating healthy like you’re “supposed” to. But brothers, here’s the secret: All you need to do is acknowledge that you’re perfect and declare that you are indeed a perfect being, and watch perfection begin to follow you everywhere you go. So stop trying to be perfect, brother, and just accept that you are perfect. When you accept the truth of your own perfection, every thought, action, behavior, emotion, and vibration, everything will become a byproduct of that truth. And once you begin living in this truth, you will be on the right path as you continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 236: Emotional Responsibility
Today’s discussion is extremely important, brothers, as we tackle emotional responsibility. Too often, the spiritual and practical are separated from one another, but I’d like to set out that we’ll be engaging with emotional responsibility on both the spiritual level and with regard to its practical applications. What we’re really talking about is emotional ownership, which can be split into two parts: emotional intelligence and emotional responsibility. Emotional intelligence is the ability to feel more within the infinite number of possible emotions and feelings. Emotional responsibility is understanding that you, and you alone, are responsible for your thoughts and feelings. Now, brothers, we cannot assume emotional responsibility without first admitting the universal truth, without first subscribing to the model of alignment. We need to know and understand the process by which we experience the world. Everything begins as a thought, which then creates a feeling, which in turn drives action, and this action will lead to a result. That’s it. That’s the model of alignment. So no matter what external event we are forced to grapple with, how we feel about it and how we respond is ultimately down to ourselves, to our own thoughts and feelings. Nothing can make you feel a certain way. The sun doesn’t bring you joy. A breakup doesn’t make you sad. Only you can determine what your emotional response is. Our feelings come from our thoughts; they do not come from the circumstance. Brothers, we need to let go of the manuals that govern our lives, the things that we’ve been taught as fact when, actually, they are mere societal constructs, they are not real. We need to get rid of our own manuals and the manuals that we project onto others. You are perfect. Nothing and no one should make you believe anything different. You need to let go of complexity and embrace the simplicity of surrender, brother, as you continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 235: Simplicity: Time Part 2 - The Plan
Brothers, welcome to the final lesson of our Simplicity series as I offer you some simple ways in which you can work with your time. Let’s begin by remembering that time is merely the vehicle through which we experience all energies, including the energies of money and food that we previously explored. We cannot control time. Instead, we must allow ourselves to be lost in time to enjoy the freedom of living in the here and now. As I’ve mentioned before, brothers, I am a Master Mason. And one of the best demarcations of time can be found in the Masonic 24-inch gauge. This is the process of separating the 24-hour day into three equal parts of 8 hours. That means 8 hours for service (to God, community, etc.), 8 hours for usual avocations, and 8 hours for refreshment and sleep. The problem here, dear brother, is that the lines between these too often become blurred. So, to help bring you back to clarity, it would be wise to set a calendar. This means plotting your day so that every single hour is accounted for. Time is the most precious thing we have on this earth so not a second of it should be wasted. And when you begin this practice of cognitive mastery, brothers, you will find that you actually have more time than you bargained for. Just be sure to honor your calendar, and if you need a bit of help in this regard, remember to pause. Pause, reflect, experience, be. Taking moments out of your day to just stop, relax, breathe, and exist will help you regain clarity of purpose and help you realign with how you’ve chosen to spend your day according to your calendar. Brothers by stripping everything away, even time itself, you’ll be able to revel in the full glory of the internal light that burns within you as you experience every moment for exactly what it is. And as you keep living in the here and now, continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 234: Simplicity: Time Part 1 - The Cosmic Joke
Time is an incredibly vast topic and an unparalleled mystery. And today, brothers, we’re going to dive deep into life’s great illusion. But first, you’d do well to remember that everything that exists is a thought. We manifest everything through our minds first, and that is why we cannot separate ourselves from thought. Now, time moves horizontally in our minds through fear. That is our linear understanding of time, which ultimately leads to our end, to death. This is the Great Fear, this is what we spend our entire lives running away from. We create the Great Illusion that time will never run out as a coping mechanism for our fear. But time always ends, brothers. And that is why every religion has its own story about what happens after death because to free ourselves from the fear of death is to liberate ourselves from all fear. When we process time with love, we do it vertically in our hearts. This is how we can be present in every moment and live a life without fear. And brothers, presence is where true power lives. There is no fear when we are living in our experience; there is no fear when the movement comes from within. Brothers, here’s something that might sweep you off your feet: nothing is ever really occurring. Everything we experience is a fabrication of our minds leading us away from our fear of death. This is the cosmic joke. There is no progress or growth or evolution. Legacy is an illusion. Death is an illusion. But through celebration, we can be truly awakened and live fluid, playful, unpredictable lives without fear. Until next time brothers, elevate your alpha.

Episode 233: Simplicity: Food Part 2 – The Plan
It’s great to have you back, brothers, as we wrap up our simplicity series on food with three simple ways to change your relationship with food for the better. Now food, just like everything else in life, is energy. So, it’s all about how you take that energy, absorb it, and allow it to positively influence your energy output. Food is not your entertainment, brothers. It is not meant to save you from boredom, that would be an unhealthy relationship with food. A healthy relationship with food starts with how you think about it, and from there you’d be wise to create a simple routine for how you consume food. The constraint you show in your routine will add much value to your relationship with food. Brothers, just like any relationship with other people or your pets or anything else, your relationship with food needs to come from a place of love and gratitude. Love your food the way you love yourself, after all, the food you eat becomes you. Be grateful for what you eat and verbally express your gratitude. If for nothing else, then at least be grateful for the convenience of grocery stores, that you do not have to hunt and gather for your food. You’ve all heard the saying, “Time makes the heart grow fonder.” Well, again, the sentiment applies to food as well. By fasting and taking conscious breaks away from food, you will begin to truly appreciate it and your relationship with it will grow ever stronger. So, brothers, reexamine your relationship with food, make it simple, allow your love to flow through, take breaks and fast and meditate, and continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 232: Simplicity: Food Part 1 - It Doesn’t Matter & It Matters
Welcome back to the show, brothers, as we continue our pursuit of a simple life. Today is all about food and how it both matters and doesn’t matter at all. Sounds like a contradiction? Well, that’s because it is, and I’m here to help you make sense of it all. Brothers, you’d do well to remember that everything in life is energy. Our bodies, plants and animals, molecules, inorganic matter, emotions, and thoughts are all energy. Everything is energy, and that is the simplest way of explaining the truth. Now, how we relate to the energy around us begins with our thoughts. Our minds control how we receive, transfer, and experience the energy that surrounds us. The same is true when it comes to food: our relationship with food starts with our thoughts. No matter what diet you’re on, or what the nutritionist says, or what your die-hard vegan sister insists; it is your thoughts about food that will determine your experiences with it. Any diet can be great, and any diet can be detrimental; it all depends on how your thoughts direct the energy received from what you eat. Brothers, everything is energy, and all energy tells a story. How a cow is bred will determine the taste of the beef, and the growing conditions of a tree will determine how juicy its fruit is. So, keep it simple, relinquish control, and allow the energy to flow through you as you continue on your quest to elevate your alpha.

Episode 231: Simplicity: Money Part 2 - The Plan
Brothers, we all deserve to live a life of wealth and abundance. We have the right to financial freedom, having money work for us instead of slaving away daily, only to be undone by the taxman or poor money decisions. So today, in the second and final chapter of our money conversation, I will be showing you my simple system for money management. First, you need to understand what wealth and abundance are, and how they differ from one another. At the end of the day, brothers, wealth, and abundance are a mindset. They are a choice. And if you begin by changing your mindset, then you have a much higher chance of attaining long-lasting wealth and abundance. Now, my system for money management is simple yet highly effective. It’s all about percentages, brothers. After dealing with your tax, you then need to ascertain your disposable income and expenses, separating your expenses into categories: necessities, giving, rewards, growth, investments, etc. Once you’ve sorted through those complexities, the next part starts with ensuring that your necessary expenses only require 40% of your disposable income. When your necessities are within 40% of your disposable income, then you can start having fun with your money. You can open separate accounts for each expense category and enjoy the benefits of the different institutions. And remember to always give freely, expecting nothing in return. And brothers, this is guaranteed to change your relationship with money, for the better. I can’t tell you what to do, brothers. I am merely showing you what has worked for me and how the same principles could work for you, too. It’s time to abandon your poverty and scarcity mindset and choose a life of wealth and abundance, as you continue to elevate your alpha.

Episode 230: Simplicity: Money Part 1 - Abundance
Today’s episode marks the first in my series on simplicity. The opening installment of which will be focusing on the subject of money and the essential relationship it has with abundance. While money is something that almost all of us need to earn to survive, it is something few of us use to actually live. I have often said, brothers, that the path to prosperity lies in changing our relationship with money. Many of us have been conditioned to have a scarcity mindset, especially when it comes to our finances. We hoard what we can out of a sense of fear and attachment, denying ourselves the opportunity to pursue our passions and serve a higher purpose. However, once we are able to view our mindsets, and the habits we’ve accumulated, with clarity, we can begin to let go of the anxiety we feel around money. And it is only by cultivating a mindset of abundance, that we can let go of a scarcity mindset, along with all its limitations. Because the truth, brothers, is that abundance is all around us. It is natural to be abundant. All you need to do is observe the world around you, from the blossoming fruit tree to the oceans teaming with life. Abundance is a flow state of being that embraces the natural order of the universe. And when you are true to yourself and serve the higher purpose of your being, you open yourself up to all the prosperity the world has to offer. Money is simply a part of the free flow of experience that moves through life, and it exists for all of us to share and experience. Join me today, for this first installment in my series on simplicity, and discover what it means to shift your mindset from one of scarcity to one of abundance. I look forward to our next installment where I’ll be talking about how to put into practice everything we’ve learned today!

Episode 229: The Emperor\'s New Clothes
Brothers, we humans tend to make things complex and in our complexity, we get caught up in worry, self-doubt, and rumination. We worry so much that we begin to drown our inner voice, which makes us doubt our intuition or ignore our inner voice altogether. The world teaches us to listen to everyone around us; parents, teachers, law enforcement, and the government. But we are rarely taught to listen to the only voice that matters, the only voice that holds truth: the voice that comes from within. Instead of listening to what you’ve been told to listen to, brothers, it’s time to go within and listen to yourselves and trust what you hear. Now, the way to gain control of your life is through cognitive mastery and emotional ownership. That means not conforming to what’s been programmed in you since childhood, and instead using your intuition to guide you to the truth. It also entails ignoring the seeds of doubt and fear and “I’m not good enough” and instead meditating on the real truth of “I am perfect,” because that, brothers, is your true nature. The genius mind of Hans Christian Andersen gifts us with profound life lessons in his tale, The Emperor’s New Clothes. What we learn from the story is that, even when the truth is plain to see, humans will still believe the lies they are told. This is because we either look to others to give us the truth (informational social influence) or accept what others say to be liked and accepted by society (normative social influence). This is using fear to rationalize the lies we hear. This is living in complexity and rumination. Brothers, it’s time to put unwavering trust in your inner voice and allow it to connect you to the divine oneness, to the source. Your voice is the only one that won’t lie to you and once you remember this, you will be empowered as an alpha man. Don’t trust me, trust yourself, and elevate your alpha.

Episode 228: It’s All Just An Idea
Enlightenment is a state that can be reached by everybody on the planet. Yes, brothers, every single one of you has the capacity to unlock the codes that exist within you and become full of light. And I’ll let you in on another secret; you don’t have to live in solitude or meditate for hours every day to get there. Brothers, does it seem impossible that you could live your life in a blissful state regardless of your circumstances? If your answer is yes, you are not alone. But I want you to understand that the only reason you believe this is because of an idea planted in your mind a long time ago that distorts your version of reality. This idea is the cause of all the suffering in the world today, and it’s time to let it go. It’s time to remove the obstacles that are preventing you from becoming the best version of yourself. It’s time to elevate your Alpha permanently!

Episode 227: Doubt
Brothers, let’s talk about doubt. Rather, let’s have a discussion about using manifestation, unwavering belief, and the conviction of knowing to eliminate all possibilities of doubt. You see, like all of you, I too am a doubter. I am also half-hearted in my commitments, and my resolutions are constantly being tested by the distractions all around me. But living in doubt is not the route toward embracing your alpha. In fact, brothers, it’s quite the opposite. Doubt is fear. Doubt is using force. Doubt is listening to the people around you and ignoring your own desires. Doubt is the enemy of progress. To free yourselves from the shackles of uncertainty and welcome peace and conviction into your life, you need to prioritize three things. The first is knowing what you want. You need to know what you want out of life and from the universe and declare it to yourself and to the ether; loudly and without any shame! Then, you need to believe in your heart and mind that what you want is already yours. It has already been done. This will shift your vibrational frequency to attract the very thing you’ve already professed. This, brothers, is how we can move mountains and turn water into wine. Yes, that power is not only for deities. You possess it too! Lastly, let go. Let go of your attachment to your desired outcome. Let go of fear, internal and external judgment, guilt, shame, all of it! Let go and allow your conviction of knowing to permeate through your body, as you witness your mind’s manifestations unfold before your eyes. Tune in today to learn how to alter your thinking, change your actions, and of course, elevate your alpha.