
Sports Motivation Podcast
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Dominate 2018 Game Plan: How to systematically dominate and crush your goals in 2018
ENo more excuses. This is a 2.5 hour, 16 step process for how to set up a master plan for your 2018 goals. If you want to set up some phoney resolutions and continue to have the same type of results in 2018, that's cool. This won't be for you. But for those obsessed with doing what it takes to get everything that you want from your sport and life, this is your solution. People thought I was crazy for laying this out for you in the way that I did, but I'm tired of seeing people struggle with the excuse of not knowing how and not having the money. Now you can lay out a master plan, and not spend a dime. You're welcome, Merry Christmas, and let's get it in 2018. Go to imnotyou.com/dominate2018 to download the playbook and listen to the episode to follow along and set up the plan. Time Stamps: (1:24) Welcome to a special edition episode for 2018 (1:45) www.imnotyou.com/dominate2018 (8:25) Primetime (10:35) Step 1- Get pissed off about reality (14:21) Step 2- Identify what you learned (18:46) Step 3- Design your life (25:15) Step 4- Create end of year vision (31:14) Step 5- Create your Top 5 (37:30) Step 6- Motivators- Identify your Pain and Pleasures (46:10) Step 7- Identify and Diagnose problems (01:02:04) Step 8- Design the plan (01:08:55) Step 9- Target Practice (01:18:35) Step 10- GPS Planning (01:26:00) Step 11- Anticipation Playbook (01:36:37) Step 12- Create your G-Code (01:43:28) Step 13- Resolve Conflict (01:51:43) Step 14- Make momentum and take action (01:55:45) Step 15- Show gratitude (01:59:12) Step 16- Upgrade your circle To be apart of the High Performers Club, apply at www.imnotyou.com/hpc
How to be Rich feat. J Paul Getty
J Paul Getty was amongst the richest in the world in his time, and spoke in his book very candidly about what holds most young ambitious men from becoming wealthy. I break down a few of his principles in this episode, and it will probably rub some people the wrong way. I wonder if you're one of them. Take a listen.
The keys to achieving greatness: Interview with Jay Abraham
In today's interview, I sit down live with world class marketer Jay Abraham where we discuss the keys to achieving greatness and what holds most people back from reaching their potential. Time Stamps: 1:22 Welcome to the Sports Motivation Podcasts 2:31 Welcome Jay! 3:28 Jay's Story 6:59 What drove Jay 8:32 Funnel vision 9:42 Why people don't look at things creatively 14:41 There is no silver bullet 20:08 I don't deal in theory but in strategy 21:46 Small progressive successes 22:27 The power of geometry in business 25:43 3 ways to grow a business 27:10 Measuring results 29:04 Ray Dalio- Principles 36:20 Bill Walsh- The score takes care of itself 40:40 Why are you doing what you're doing? 44:00 Jay's core tenants of his philosophy 46:10 "In order to be heard, you first have to hear" 51:22 Leave people better than before you met them 57:58 Power is only achievable by empowering others 1:02:07 Keys to greatness with having great relationships 1:06:50 You either grow or die in a relationship 1:14:00 Jay's daily habits
Creating Wealth through Value and going all in on your Sport or Business
EThe value we give is directly proportional to the money we make. It's a law of nature. Listen in on an exclusive group session where I explain pain and pleasure, and how you set your standard for the value you give to the world through your sport or business. Give yourself that pain and pleasure before life gives it to you. Time Stamps: (1:23) Welcome to a special episode of the Sports Motivation Podcast! (2:06) I don't consider myself a business guru (3:24) Massive wealth for me is inevitable (4:26) I think systematically (7:09) What drives us (9:16) Buy in before you start (11:10) On a scale of 1-10, how committed are you to your sport or business? 7 is not an option because 7 is a cop out. Email me at [email protected] or hit me up on twitter @niyisobo and tell me why you gave yourself that number and what you think it will take for you to make it a 10. (14:58) You have to figure it out (16:27) You set your own standard (17:36) Don't worry about the how (19:33) Money represents value
Books and Bars: Marooned by Robert Kraske
EEver feel like you are stranded on a desert island with no idea how to get off of it? Listen in as I read an excerpt from "Marooned" by Robert Kraske. My take home message to you is to stay true to your dreams, desires, and goals. Most give up. Don't be like most people. Figure that out and you will be rewarded.
Diagnose and reframe your emotions: Killer Instinct Part 4
EAre there certain emotions you feel that put you in a rut? Have no idea how to get out of them and back to being a beast? Listen to one of my live coaching calls where I go through my powerful emotion playbook again. You need to be able to quickly change unproductive emotions if you want to dominate!
How to master your emotions: Killer Instinct Part 3
EWhat do all high performers have in common? They all know how to manage and master their emotions. If they don't, it's only a matter of time before the pressure exposes them. In order to be the best and to dominate under any circumstance, you have to have the awareness and the tools to understand and shift your emotions when you need to. In this episode, I take you into a live coaching call with my Killer Instinct group and walk one of my clients through a powerful "Emotion Playbook" exercise. Time Stamps: (2:48) What would your physical state be if your money emotion was dialled in? (4:04) The meaning of what you are focusing on (5:44) "Being broke is childish and I am quite grown" (9:10) My daughter loves the Nicki Minaj top 10 steps to success (10:17) Felix Dennis- How to get rich: one of the world's greatest entrepreneurs shares his secrets
Books and Bars: Building IBM and Building I'm Not You
Do you constantly develop yourself or do you just work as a technician? Listen in on a meeting with my team as I read an excerpt from The E-Myth Revisited by Michael Gerber and make the connection between its principles and my own business.
How to produce results like a machine: Killer Instinct Part 2
EStruggling with achieving results? It could be an operator error or it could be the design of your machine. What is a machine? Listen in on a live coaching call with my Killer Instinct group as I explain what machines are and how they can help you run your life and business. Time Stamps: (0:00) Defining the systems (2:28) Think of your life as a machine (5:27) The sub-machine (10:03) The questions to ask yourself about your machines (11:45) Example of not having the right person run the machine RESOURCES: Apply to the next Killer Instinct Coaching Group here!
How to be supremely confident on gameday: Killer Instinct Series Part 1
EMost high performers fold under the lights, they get overwhelmed with anxiety and worry when the results matter most, and it affects not just them but their teammates, their employees, their customers, and everyone involved. If you want to dominate under pressure, that means you'll have to go against your natural instincts, which is to run from that pressure. You have to teach yourself to be poised....in this episode I give you an inside look into my live coaching program where I break down the mindset standard that high performers must have and how to create your legitimate recipe for maximum confidence. Time Stamps: (0:00) Welcome to a special episode! (4:08). The Gametime Mentality (6:16) #1: There's no guarantee that you will have another shot at this (8:00) #2: Apply pressure now so you can play in the zone later (12:34) #3: Full intensity, focus, and tenacity are my standards no matter what anyone else does (20:37) #4: Full preparedness means knowing anything and everything that can happen and plans for it (26:15) What should you do when you are feeling tired (28:02) 3 parts of an emotion (29:18) #1: Body language (34:19) #2: Focus (45:07) #3: Language RESOURCES: Apply to the next Killer Instinct Coaching Group here!
How to stand out while others try to fit in feat. Wiz Khalifa
EListen as I break down a Wiz Khalifa bar that prepared me for my first year in the NFL and getting in the best shape of my life.
How to become an elite cognitive performer (Cal Newport Interview)
Cal Newport is a best selling author, a tenured professor at Georgetown University, and has accomplished more in his 35 years of living than most have the courage to make their goal. In this interview, we dive into the mechanics, the mindset, and the strategy behind eliminating distractions and becoming a peak performer. He breaks down specifically how he approaches planning, why he doesn't have social media accounts, and why the advice to "follow your passion" is horrible advice and what you should do instead. Time Stamps: (1:22) Welcome back to the Sports Motivation Podcast (2:33) Welcome, Cal! (3:16) Ability to say no greatly attributed to Cal's early success (5:55) Cal's cognitive fitness (6:38) Extreme actions get extreme results (7:34) Cal's temptation with social media (9:51) Stoicism 101 and losing your phone (11:44) Cal's definition of passion (14:58) Mastery becomes a great source of passion (17:14) What it means to be a craftsman (19:18) Stretch and destroy (21:20) Cal's explanation of Deep Work (24:16) Can you hit a wall with Deep Work? (28:09) The process of finding the goals (30:56) Lag versus Lead measures (35:00) Why most college students aren't killing it (39:20) Cal's flow state (42:07) Cal's type's of goals (45:01) Where you can find Cal- www.calnewport.com
Take Control of your Environment
Thanksgiving is a time for gratitude and to spend quality time with those close to you. The next day is about getting back to your routines and chasing your vision and goals. Listen in on a brief conversation with a few of my clients on the importance of controlling one's environment.
Books and Bars: Path of Prosperity by James Allen
EListen in on an exclusive meeting with my clients as I read an excerpt from "Path of Prosperity" by James Allen and break down its message.
How to build step by step confidence without counseling or reading
EDo you struggle with confidence? Do you believe you have the skill but lack that assurance in yourself? It's what separates good from great. Listen as I give you a real-life example from my life how to increase your confidence and a simple but incredibly effective written exercise you can use today to start gaining more confidence. Episode 211 Time Stamps: (1:21)- Welcome back to the Sports Motivation Podcast (1:40)- Confidence is critical (2:18) Definition of confidence (3:35) What is a habit? (5:45) Identify problems quickly and execute plans to address those problems (6:33) Create a feeling of control (7:54) The poopy jar (9:30) Shoutout to former guest Tony Horton (11:58) Reinforce the right behavior (13:40) What problems do you have in your life? (13:52) Confidence written exercise (14:56) Email me at [email protected] and let me know how this exercise works for you RESOURCES: Do you want to learn the mindset, habits, and systems to consistently DOMINANT UNDER PRESSURE? www.imnotyou.com/killerinstinct to apply to my coaching program.
How to train yourself to care less what others think
EThe human brain is wired to overvalue the opinions of our peers....it served us back when were roaming the African savanna, but it doesn't serve us as much now. That feeling you get when your friends talk mess about you, when your parents disapprove, or when you miss a shot in a game...That feeling paralyzes many and prevents them from taking risks or doing what is necessary. You cannot be a victim to this disease, you have to learn how to overcome the fear of others opinions...but how? How can you practically and systematically build immunity to what stops so many others? In this episode, I show you how I approach this problem. 210 Time Stamps: (1:21) Welcome to the Sports Motivation Podcast (1:31) Training on how to care less what others think (2:58) Name one high performer who wasn't motivated (4:00) Michael Moss: Salt Sugar Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us (4:12) Ray Dalio: Principles (4:33) Higher versus lower self (7:36) We all have the same needs and fears (8:23) Step 1- Learn how to breathe (10:18) Mark Divine: Unbeatable Mind and Way of the SEAL (11:26) Step 2- Analyze your goals and your vision (14:25) I answer to King Zeus (15:02) Make yourself a disciple of your vision (16:20) Step 3- Put yourself in more situations where you can be judged (18:16) Remind yourself about how much people really don't care about you (22:03) Opinions that we are afraid of are literally nothing
Books and Bars: How to motivate people that you lead Feat. Warren Buffett
How well do you motivate the people you lead? Do you give lavish praise or just criticize when things aren't going the way you want? In this episode, I break down a chapter in Warren Buffett's Management Secrets and give you a real life insight on how you can inspire those you lead to consistently work hard for you when given the pleasure of praise. Imnotyou.com/bookclub
Celebrity Reality Check: My Mindset Coaching Strategy for Kendall Jenner
EAlthough you cannot always relate to the problems of these big name celebrities and superstars, a lot of times it's really easy to see how mentally weak some of them are and how much help they need in terms of developing a more dominate mindset and bulletproof confidence and certainty. I've done something very different in this episode, and I am sure it will rub some of you the wrong way. What I've done is taken Kendall Jenner, and broken down my strategy of how I would work with her if given a chance. I got the chance to see some of her mental weaknesses, and I know how these weaknesses will affect her if not addressed. How many "celebrities" have we seen meltdown and flame out after controversies or adversity? In the episode, I talk directly to Kendall, and give her a few doses of reality along with my prescribed course of action to help her take the game over and be mentally unstoppable. I'll be doing these celebrity reality checks on more athletes and celebrities as they expose their weaknesses to the general public, so stay tuned and give me your feedback. 209 Time Stamps: (2:05) Welcome to the Sports Motivation Podcast (3:35) The Kardashian inspiration (6:19) The celebrity reality check and practical game plan (6:52) The reality of being a celebrity observer (7:43) What we see on tv is not always real (8:25) The celebrity breakdown of Kendall Jenner (10:26) The reality check for Kendall Jenner (10:51) "You should know that people don't like you already" (12:02) Gameplan step #1- Get you aligned (12:38) Create a scouting report (13:39) Establish a vision (15:00) Who do you think you have to be? (15:32) Establish your role in the family (16:22) Take control of your career (17:41) Create a power circle (18:01) Establish systems for areas you've decided to dominate (19:15) Create an anticipation playbook (20:18) Become comfortable making other people uncomfortable (21:20) Plan responses for every situation (22:58) Establish new emotional patterns (24:38) Increase your perspective RESOURCES: More information on the Killer Instinct Coaching Group: imnotyou.com/killerinstinct Get Ya Mind Right! ---> imnotyou.com/gymr
How to get other people to take you more seriously
EAs you move more aggressively towards becoming the best, you'll have people who you trust and love start to take you for a joke...maybe they question you, maybe they laugh or mock your goals and visions...Maybe you're even trying to take a friend along with you towards greatness but they don't seem to be responding the way you want. How do you handle that? How do you stay focused even when they aren't taking you serious? How do you ignore that? In today's episode, I break down a simple formula and mindset that will help you to overcome that challenge. 208 Time Stamps: (1:30) Where are you at with your goals? (2:24) Story about my high school days (3:39) My college walk-on days (5:30) Reality: your family and friends do not know sh*t (6:52) Get clear on your outcome (7:24) Get clear on your why as they align with who you are (8:50) Educate yourself on your decision (10:16) Create a plan to get you there (11:10) Work your ass off daily towards your goals (13:11) Keep your mouth shut in the beginning (13:55) Show off when necessary to shut others up (14:28) Robert Greene: 50th Law (15:08) Develop an always hungry mentality (17:05) Get results RESOURCES Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/207 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: How to be a better leader Feat. Peter Drucker
Being a leader is one of those cliches, that everyone says they want to be, but no one really knows how to do. It's an art and it's simple and complex at the same time. I break down the legendary Peter Drucker in this classic book and give you my take on it.
The Film Room: Floyd Mayweather Mindset, Pt. 3: Why Loyalty + Brutal Honesty are keys to Floyd's Success
EWhat are the REAL reasons that you want to accomplish your goals? What are the deepest dark motivators that you don't tell anyone? It's about time you come to terms with them so you can finally become the version of yourself you are destined to be. The only way to do that is by owning who you are unapologetically. This is what Floyd does brilliantly. Listen to this episode to find out his mindset towards women, vegas and strip clubs, and why I believe that is what makes him undefeated and TBE. Click the link in bio to listen to the full episode. 206 Time Stamps: (2:30) Welcome back to the film room! (3:05) Mindset is 80% of the equation (3:32) Recap of the Floyd Mayweather Film Room Series (5:00) The battery analogy (7:37) Do you act in alignment with what you think is important? (10:48) Floyd keeps it real about his desire for money (14:10) Tim Grover- Relentless (14:35) Tiger's Downfall (16:38) Be honest with yourself (17:05) How to be more loyal to yourself (17:10) Sit down with a pen and paper and write down the reasons you do what you do (18:03) Say what you think and feel more often (19:30) Email me at [email protected] the answers to these questions (19:36) Why do you play your sport? (19:45) What are the darker reasons behind why you play your sport? (19:50) Why are you so afraid to admit those reasons? (20:05) How much more free would you be if you could be yourself? (20:21) Where in your life have you been the most fake? RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/206 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right!--- > Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
The Film Room: Floyd Mayweather Mindset, Pt. 2: The Keys To Chess Like Thinking: Calculated + Strategic
EAre you playing chess or checkers? Do you just take action, or is your action calculated and strategic? It's part 2, and in this episode I show you how Mayweather is 50-0 because he planned it that way and he planned it like a war general plans to win war. It's complex. I show you in this episode how to apply Floyd's mindset to be a better planner, more calculated and reach results faster without half the frustration. Episode 205 Time Stamps: (2:30) - Welcome back to the Film Room Series! (3:25)- Recap from episode 1 (4:18)- Floyd and 50 Cent (5:00)- Floyd struggles to read promo (6:48)- Marry the result, divorce the strategy (7:40)- Play chess not checkers (8:27)- The hard work illusion (9:52)- Think strategically (12:00) Don't give up on the goal, but don't marry yourself to a particular strategy (13:52) Actions impact outcomes (15:42) Embrace reality (16:40) Trust yourself rather than other people (18:32) How to become calculated and strategic like Floyd (18:37) Key 1- Define your end game and your core values (19:21) Key 2-Picture your end game every day with the emotion already being attached to it of it already being real (19:56) Key 3- Study your competition (20:16) Key 4- Craft your plans according to reality (20:51) Key 5- Adjust quickly and often if necessary (21:36) Key 6- Never relent on your end game because of doubters and naysayers (22:23) What is your ultimate end game? (22:38) What is your strategy for how you plan to get to your end game? (23:03) What is your Plan B and C? (23:14) What Faulty Believe have you been carrying around that makes you despise those people who are witty and sharp? RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/205 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: How to overcome your fear of failure Ft. Michael Johnson
Michael Johnson is a stoic at heart and he shows why with this excerpt from his powerful autobiography. He shows us how to overcome fear by FACING it, demystifying it, and aggressively moving forward. You'll want to hear how he breaks down how he overcame his fears to become a world class sprinter and olympian.
The Film Room: Floyd Mayweather Mindset, Pt. 1: How to Build CERTAINTY
EWhen studying and analyzing the legendary Floyd Mayweather, one of his core principles and traits is what I call CERTAINTY. It's like confidence on steroids... It's about KNOWING from your core that you're the best. But how did he create this characteristic? And is this a quality that anyone can adopt, or is he just a cocky guy who was born that way? I show you how and why he's so certain, and how you can be the same way. Episode 204 Time Stamps: (2:30) Welcome back to the Film Room Series! (3:39) "Shyness is a fluid quality" - Robert Greene (50th Law) (5:40) Floyd. MONEY. Mayweather. (6:40) Cognitive Biases. (8:17) The "Liking-Bias" | Charlie Munger's, "Poor Charlie's Almanac" (11:44) Floyd is "arrogant" (11:55) Clip #1: "They can't mess with me" (15:47) Clip #2: There's NO ONE else. (16:45) Clip #3: So easy. (18:02) Clip #4: Dedicated to the craft. (19:01) Clip #5: I will always find a way to win. (20:11) Clip #6: Stay FOCUSED. (22:31) Clip #7: Pressure. (25:08) Clip #8: Training Affirmations. (25:40) Clip #9: "Can't no fighter beat me!" (27:03) Clip #10: Winning. (28:18) Clip #11: Victor Ortiz. (28:52) Clip #12: Manny Pacquiao. (29:29) Clip #13: Ricky Hatton. (30:27) If you want to adopt this level of Certainty, take these steps. (30:40) Step 1: The DECISION to be great. (31:37) Step 2: Work your tail off. (31:53) Step 3: NOTICE, and highlight, everything that makes you confident and certain. (32:28) Step 4: Positive Affirmations. (33:01) Question 1: What is your certainty level? (33:26) Question 2: What do you say to yourself or others, that drains your confidence? (34:00) Question 3: What is the reason why you talk yourself down? (34:45) Question 4: How will you build certainty TODAY? RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/203 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
How to end procrastination and laziness forever
EHow often do you skip out on workouts, check out early in training and practice, or put off your most important projects? How much money do you think you've lost so far as a result of laziness and a lack or urgency? In this episode, I show you how to wire yourself to be different from everyone else who is lazy and puts off what is most important. I show you how to train yourself to get things done and make the progress your vision needs you to make. Episode 203 Time Stamps: (1:21) Do you procrastinate? (1:51) Rory Vaden's, "Procrastinate on Purpose" (2:57) A tough decision that caused procrastination: "Should I quit?" (4:47) We naturally AVOID PAIN to RECEIVE PLEASURE. (6:07) Are you skipping your workout today? (8:45) Did you hit the snooze button today? (11:12) How to end the procrastination and laziness that prevents you from succeeding. (12:47) You must train yourself—to continuously motivate yourself. (13:38) #1: Become GOAL-ORIENTED. (14:30) #2: Every daily action is meticulously-framed. (16:41) Investor's mentality: Asymmetrical risk and reward. (18:39) "Blood in the water" (19:37) Karen Pryor's, "Don't Shoot the Dog!" (21:44) #3: Seek extreme mentor-ship. (24:12) #4: Call yourself out—don't wait. (27:30) #5: Put your money where your mouth is! (32:06) Be afraid of the right things… RESOURCES: Want my top 100 books list? Visit imnotyou.com/bookclub Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/203 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: Lil Wayne, "Forever"
EI still remember when I first heard this track back in '09....this lyric by Wayne always stood out to me. Tune in to hear me break down "Forever".
How to read more books and get more out of them
EDo you buy books but not read them? Do you struggle to make practical use of what you read? In this episode, I share my belief system and practical approach towards reading, and show you how you can read and actually apply what you learn to 10x your results. Episode 202 Time Stamps: (1:21) Don't be an idiot… (4:06) Do you read just to READ? (4:50) The most important thing = MINDSET. (7:17) Mindset shift #1: All these books are owned by me, and are now my lifetime resources. (9:47) "Niyi, I can't afford books…" (11:36) Mindset shift #2: I don't have to read from start to finish. (13:51) Mindset shift #3: Books are not "expensive". (16:10) Mindset shift #4: If someone I admire/trust recommends a books to me, I buy it and don't think twice. (20:31) The strategy: How to read more and get more out of it. (20:57) #1: Know what you want from life! (21:13) S/o to Robert Greene; when your MOTIVATION level is high, you learn FASTER. (22:40) #2: Know specifically and precisely, what is preventing you from getting what you want. (23:18) #3: Buy books that teach you how to overcome these setbacks. (24:24) #4: Before you read, remind yourself why you're reading this book. (25:45) #5: I read in spurts and chunks. (26:19) #6: Reinforce it, and repeat it. (30:17) #7: Create a BOOK VAULT. (31:31) What beliefs hold you back from reading? (32:02) What can you take-away from my G-Code? RESOURCES: What are your top books? Email me! [email protected] Want my top 100 books list? Visit imnotyou.com/bookclub Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/202 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
How to prioritize and make decisions faster
EHow do you get it all done? What happens when you have a lot of goals, but some goals take up all of your time? I share my experience with prioritization, and how to set up your life to maximize results, instead of treading water. Time Stamps: (1:21) The world needs more people like YOU! (4:11) Can you really just focus on ONE thing? | Gary Keller, "The One Thing" (5:12) Life is like a Thanksgiving meal… (9:16) Every single area of your life matters. (11:17) #1: Set a vision for each category of your life. (12:32) #2: Identify which areas are MOST important to you. (15:08) #3: Rank, in terms of importance. (16:20) #4: Commit the most time, to the most important. (17:42) #5: Systemize your other categories, for steady growth. (18:26) #6: Renovation time. (20:18) "What do I MOST want?" & "What's in my way?" (21:14) "What does this specific area need from me, right now? Do you think you're the right fit for my program? Find out HERE: Imnotyou.com/killerinstinct RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/201 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: Wayne Dyer, "The Power of Intention"
EA classic book from one of the legends in the game. RIP Wayne Dyer. Click the link in my bio! Check out the book HERE: Wayne Dyer, "The Power of Intention"
Relationship Issues, Part 1: How to get your wife on board with your goals and vision
ELook at all of the most successful athletes, most of them struggle at some point in their careers with relationship issues. None of us are immune. How do you get your wife or partner on board with your goals? What do you do when they complain that you spend too much time at the gym or at work? How do you stay on track and manage your time while making them happy? It's not easy, and I'm certainly no Dr. Phil... but I am a husband, and I can share with you what I have learned to be the major keys in staying ambitious without sacrificing your relationships. Enjoy part 1 of this series, and click the link in my bio to listen. Episode 200 Time Stamps: (1:20) 4th quarter mentality (2:56) Preface: I am not a relationship guru. (4:15) How to get your partner on board with your goals. (4:33) Do you feel "held-back"? (6:10) Here's a reality check for you. (7:03) Take ownership of YOUR stuff (8:16) "Those who don't feel control, are the least happy." (9:07) Martin Seligman, "Learn Helplessness" (9:42) What to expect on this mini-series | Problem -> Root Cause -> New Plan (10:56) Today's ROOT CAUSE | Ray Dalio's, "Principles" (12:43) Your partner might feel like you put your work, before them… (13:58) Do you have to prioritize things this way? (15:59) Breakthrough: Focus on your partner's FEELING. (17:45) Following? Let's design today's PLAN (18:47) 1: Learn your partner's 'love recipe' | Gary Chapman's "5 Love Languages" (20:40) ASK. LISTEN. (23:22) 2: Spend regular amounts of time with your partner. (25:46) 3: Do whatever it takes to get your partner what he/she needs. (28:58) Simon Senek's, "Leaders Eat Last" (29:40) Stay tuned for more relationship realities. RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/200 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Special Episode: Happy Birthday Niyi!
Happy birthday to one of the greatest men who ever lived. A man who truly cares for everyone and wants to make an impact in their lives. Here's a special reminder from great leaders and amazing people you helped transformed their lives. We all love you. keep up the great work your a real inspiration. You're unstoppable and a giant in this world! Love, your wifey and kids.
How to handle problems and challenges like a boss
EDo you still look at problems and challenges like they are a bad thing? Do you complain about them? Do you wish they weren't there? Do you look for people to feel sorry for you? If you do, this episode will be a wake up call. You can't afford to look at problems the same way everyone else does. In this episode, I show you how to approach them differently; like a boss. Like a champion. Like someone who is actually going to succeed. Time Stamps: (2:10) How to deal with problems and challenges (4:20) You haven't reached your potential yet… (6:16) What most people do, Pt. 1: They complain (6:52) What most people do, Pt. 2: Run away from the pain (7:33) What most people do, Pt. 3: Problems "aren't that bad…" (7:58) What most people do, Pt. 4: They make the problem "justified" (8:50) What most people do, Pt. 5: Blame-game. (9:09) What most people do, Pt. 6: Braggadocios people. (9:41) Do NOT fall into any of these six categories. (11:30) Problems are SIGNALS. | Ray Dalio's "Principles" (11:53) Challenges force you to step your game up. (14:16) "Situation" > "Problem" | Tim Grover's, "Relentless" (14:35) Make it look easy! (15:30) How to approach problems in a new way (15:40) Solutions, Pt. 1: Recognize the problem, and get PISSED about it. (16:29) Solutions, Pt. 2: CALM yourself down. (16:48) Solutions, Pt. 3: ANALYZE and SELL yourself on solving the problem. (17:46) Solutions, Pt. 4: Look ahead (18:00) Solutions, Pt. 4: Identify the underlying, root cause of your problem. (19:06) Solutions, Pt. 5: Create a PLAN. (21:57) What problems need solving today? RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/199 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: Pete Carroll, "Win Forever"
EOne of the best coaches in the NFL wrote a book outlining his philosophy, so I feel it's a no-brainer to read it and mine for gold. In this episode, I break down what I learned from Pete Carroll about the power of communication, and why it's critical to get right as a leader... and why it's deadly if you don't.
27 books every athlete must read (book review)
In this episode, I break down 27 of the most game changing books I have read, and show you how they changed my life and why I wish I would have read them when I was a pro athlete. If you are interested in getting the entire list of books (100 books) delivered straight to your inbox, along with a video of me breaking down 27 of these books in my home library, click HERE: imnotyou.com/bookclub
Exclusive: Wealth & Impact, Part 2
EIn today's episode, you get an exclusive inside look into a private coaching group I created called wealth and impact. It is a group comprised of young entrepreneurs and athletes, and I am showing them the fundamentals of building wealth and impact through their businesses and brands. I break down the fundamentals of sales and influence, and much more. Enjoy. Interested in hiring me as your personal coach? Visit Imnotyou.com/killerinstinct to find if you're the right fit.
Books + Bars: Sheek Louch, "Get Money"
ESheek Louch (from The Lox) acquires that "go-getter" mentality in his track "Get Money" with Jadakiss. He's willing to do whatever it takes to get what it is he wants, even if it takes a month. Don't have what you want? Make the required sacrifices. Don't rest until you reach the top!
Exclusive: Wealth & Impact
ETune into today's episode for an EXCLUSIVE meeting with one of my #KillerInstinct groups. Are you bringing the right value to the marketplace? Or as a matter of fact—the world? Perhaps your marketing methods aren't working and you can't find a solution… Know that prospective clients will not part ways with their money, without the return of some sort of pleasure. Think about it. Is this program for you? Visit Imnotyou.com/killerinstinct to fill out a survey and schedule a call with me to find out.
The Power of Outcome Thinking
EG.P.S. stands for goal, purpose, strategy; and in THAT order. I've noticed that most entrepreneurs and athletes that I work with, jump straight into the strategy—without properly setting the GOAL/OUTCOME first. This is critical man… so critical, that I'd like to feature a personal story I've shared with my clients in one of our group meeting calls. This is what happens when you underestimate the power of Outcome Thinking! Think this program is for you? Visit Imnotyou.com/killerinstinct and fill out the survey to find out.
Books + Bars: Jim Collins, "Great by Choice"
EJim Collins' book, "Great by Choice: Uncertainty, Chaos, and Luck--Why Some Thrive Despite Them All" gives us an inside look at how the most successful companies thrive under pressure. Tune in for three core values and traits that these 10x-ers carry: Fanatic discipline, empirical creativity, productive paranoia. Check out Jim Collins', "Great by Choice: Uncertainty, Chaos, and Luck--Why Some Thrive Despite Them All" on Amazon
Mindset Reality Check Series, Part 3: Through the Fire
EOn the other side of pain, there's pleasure. All you gotta do is go through the fire! You've heard that the "grass is greener on the other side of the fence", right? Why not find out for yourself? Humans are naturally accustomed to seek comfort and avoid painful experiences. Make the shift, and train your mind to push past your normal limits. Grab a trustworthy friend and talk your obstacles through. Then, overcome. Episode 194 Time Stamps: (1:21) Workout "revelations" (3:34) Brief recap of Parts 1 and 2 (5:22) What to expect in today's Part 3 episode… (5:53) Charlie Munger's "Poor Charlie's Almanac" | David Buss', "Evolutionary Psychology" (6:46) As humans… we run away from pain. Our brains and bodies have not kept up with the rapidly evolving technology advancements. (7:00) Life story: I thought my marriage was over… (11:39) Lesson learned: Honestly… I was avoiding the "reality" (13:33) On the other side of pain, there's pleasure. (13:48) Another life story: Did I bite off more than I can chew? (14:28) Another lesson learned: Lock yourself in your office and settle it. (16:30) Parenting is one of the toughest things to do (in my opinion) (19:40) Learn to deal with internal and external conflict. (20:12) #1: Don't hold in your faulty beliefs. (21:02) #2: Know your outcomes. (21:16) #3: Know your chokeholds. (21:31) #4: Talk your obstacles through, with someone you trust. (21:50) #5: Get it all out. (22:04) #6: Never let any belief go unchallenged. (25:48) What's your game-plan? RESOURCES: Is the Killer Instinct program for you? Imnotyou.com/KillerInstinct Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/194 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Mindset Reality Check Series, Part 2: Pay The Cost
EA wise man once said, that you can have anything—but you can't have everything. You'll have to sacrifice some of the things you love the most, in order to get to your most desired result(s). Understand that there's a price to pay, and as much as it may hurt you, it's for the better. Make sure you're up to date with tuesday's part one episode before tuning in. Welcome back, to another mindset reality check! Time Stamps: (1:20) Did you listen to Part 1? (2:28) Pay the cost to be the boss. (4:00) My "floater" phase as a firefighter (6:30) I'm a father and a husband, too. (7:06) Here's why I quit as a firefighter. (9:51) You can accomplish what you say you want. (10:36) CHECK IT: You're gonna have to give SOMETHING up… (15:21) You must become SUPER clear about what you want. (17:08) Step 1 of 8: Pay the CO$T. (17:35) Step 2 of 8: Settle the pleasure-pain conflict. (19:27) Step 3 of 8: Anticipate all obstacles and challenges. (22:27) Step 4 of 8: Champion's attitude. (23:38) Step 5 of 8: Never complain. (24:47) Step 6 of 8: Mitigate all weaknesses. (25:48) Step 7 of 8: Be weary of easy gains; always know the process. (27:04) Step 8 of 8: Know the PRICE, and do NOT steal. (28:50) What a result that you want? What will you have to sacrifice? RESOURCES: Is the Killer Instinct program for you? Imnotyou.com/KillerInstinct Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/193 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: French Montana, "Whiskey Eyes"
ELet your pain turn to millions, like French Montana did. You might've heard his intro track without catching these bars… Tune in to "Whiskey Eyes" to find how Montana used emotion, and application of financial knowledge, as a driving force to his success.
Mindset Reality Check Series, Part 1: Own Your Results
EThe truth is, we're too easy on ourselves. The essence of a reality check is to immediately shift our mindset for proper action. Look… you're probably leaving money on the table right now; so I'm here to help you get up and earn it. Tune in to part one of our Mindset Reality Check mini-series, to learn from my toughest life lessons, and apply nine crucial steps to your lifestyle so you can OWN your results. Time Stamps: (1:21) "Busy" (3:23) Back in the booth! (4:14) The beginning of our 3-part "Mindset Reality Check" series (6:30) True story: "5 watches" (14:56) Lesson learned: No ones cares. (15:55) CHECK IT: Are you really losing sleep? (17:06) The birth of my first son (at 20 years old) (18:48) CHECK IT: Who in your life, can you REALLY count on? (20:12) True story: My NFL shoulder injury… (22:28) Lesson Learned: Take responsibility for YOUR results. (22:32) Your wake up call… Be the LION of the jungle. (25:37) Step 1 of 9: GRIEVE properly. (26:12) Step 2 of 9: Identify the PROBLEM. (26:22) Step 3 of 9: Identify the GOLD. (27:32: Step 4 of 9: RESOLVE for your benefit. (28:52) Breakthrough moments through these two reads: Grant Cardone's "10X Rule", and Brian Tracy's "Focal Point" (29:28) Step 5&6 of 9: Create a PLAN. Then, EXECUTE. (30:16) Step 7: Refuse to complain or seek sympathy. (30:22) Step 8: Move QUICKLY. (31:04) Step 9: DON'T EXPECT anyone to help you. (31:26) Self Reliance; a concept from Robert Greene & 50 Cent's "50th Law" (31:39) What have you been waiting for? (32:07) A dead giveaway of mentally-weak people… (32:23) In conclusion… RESOURCES: Is the Killer Instinct program for you? Imnotyou.com/KillerInstinct Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/192 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
17 questions that you must know the answers to
EThe other day, I imagined knowing what I know now; as a young Freshmen in college. Today, I bring you 17 questions that you MUST know how to answer. My vision inspires me to pass down game that I've learned over the years, along to YOU; so you can become well-equipped and prepared for the big-leagues. It's more than just consistent practice and improvements in the gym. Mapping out your future is a no-brainer. P.S... You might want to play this episode a few times until you're set with your 17 answers. Time Stamps: (1:21) I'm giving ya'll the game that I wish I knew when I was younger… (3:05) Warren Buffet—"[It's okay to learn from your mistakes; but better to learn from the mistakes of others.]" (3:33) Consider this a 17-question audit… (5:20) Question #1: Do you KNOW YOURSELF? (5:55) Question #2: Do you know exactly what you need to BE, and DO, in order to produce your desired results? (7:03) Question #3: (If you said "Yes" to #2) Have you created a PLAN for it? (7:58) Question #4: Are you aware of your WEAKNESSES? (8:42) Question #5: Do you know your VISION? (9:05) Question #6: Do you have clear ONE-YEAR goals? (9:20) Question #7: Have you created QUARTERLY goals? (9:40) Question #8: From these goals, do you have DAILY actions laid out? (10:06) Question #9: Are you able to articulate your GENERAL STRATEGY? (10:50) Question #10: Do you have a MORNING ROUTINE? (and is it tailored to YOU?) (11:12) Question #11: Do you know what your biggest chokeholds are? (11:31) Question #12: (If you do know), Do you have a plan to attack and relieve your chokeholds? (11:49) Question #13: Do you know the necessary EMOTIONAL STATE for high-performance? (12:04) Question #14: Do you know how to get in the right state of mind? (12:33) Question #15: Do you know all of the categories of life that must be managed? (12:40) Question #16: Do you have a game-plan for your life categories? (13:02) Question #17: Do you have the ability to influence others? (13:33) Did you answer today's 17-question reality check with 100% pure honesty? (14:08) If you need help answering these questions, email me at [email protected]. If you want me to hold you accountable, join my coaching program. Follow through with my Killer Instinct training, and you WILL succeed. RESOURCES: Is the Killer Instinct program for you? Imnotyou.com/KillerInstinct Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/191 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: Ryan Holiday, "Ego is the Enemy"
Will passion be the top factor for your athletic success? Today's B+B episode features a powerful chapter in Ryan Holiday's "Ego is the Enemy". Tune in to find out why your purpose should outweigh your passion. Be sure to cop Ryan's book, too! Check out Ryan Holiday's, "Ego is the Enemy" on Amazon
4 fears you must overcome
EI'm talkin' FEAR…. No, not nightmares and clowns—this is much worse. We're often stuck with this specific emotion that prevents us from reaching our maximum potential. Four "fears" came to mind in the midst of yesterday's workout which we must overcome. Tune in to find out what they are, and stay tuned for a special affirmation track; equipped with a new set of beliefs that you can adopt today. Become FEARLESS. Episode 190 Time Stamps: (1:22) The meaning of fear, and how we perceive it. (3:22) My whiteboard, aka my brainstorming tool (4:44) 4 FEARS. (5:16) Fear #1: The fear of BEING ALONE. (7:11) Fear #2: The fear of FAILURE. (7:45) "What if I don't make it?" (9:38) Fear #3: The fear of SUCCESS. (10:52) Fear #4: The fear of the UNKNOWN. (11:12) "The need for certainty is a disease." -Robert Greene (11:56) Your NEW affirmations. (12:38) Turn up the volume for a special AFFIRMATION track! RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: Imnotyou.com/190 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
The Film Room: Michael Jordan Mindset, Pt. 3 "Ruthless Competitor"
ESome call MJ absurdly unique, making it seem impossible for a future athlete to fill his shoes. I think this is FALSE… MJ's mindset is his strongest weapon, yet some just fail to realize it. Welcome to the final episode of the Film Room series; as we tap in to Michael's mindset, as a "Ruthless Competitor". Listen and learn how you can become a beast, like Mike. Until next time, stay tuned for the next Film Room Series! Time Stamps: (3:33) Welcome to the last installment of the Film Room Series, with basketball's greatest; Michael Jordan. (4:17) Where you at right now? (4:54) A brief review of MJ's "Mental Alchemy", and "Gametime Mentality" (6:28) Today's topic: MJ's "Ruthless Competition" (6:45) Clip #1: "Cut-throat" (7:45) Evolutionary psychology… (Hunters and gatherers) (9:13) The "Envy Bias" (9:57) Michael Jordan's, "For the Love of the Game" (11:13) Clip #2: MJ's favorite opponents. (12:01) MJ's perception of Larry Bird's criticism. (14:55) Clip #3: Nobody was as competitive as MJ. (15:49) Clip #4: Clyde… Magic… NO COMPARISON. (18:00) Clip #5: Who's better? (18:44) Clip #6: Play with a "statement" (19:48) Clip #7: Nerves at MSG. (20:55) Clip #8: Stand out from Magic. (21:48) Clip #9: Every game is a "rivalry". (23:22) Clip #10: "They can't win until we quit". (23:50) Clip #11: MJ's desire to prove us wrong… (with baseball) (24:13) Clip #12: Always sending a message. (25:14) Clip #13: I might play at 50… (26:40) What does this mean for you? (28:13) It's time to develop your competitive drive. (28:45) A story about my kids: Using jealousy to fuel your drive. (32:11) Reality check: How often do YOU get jealous?? (34:19) Does money motivate you more than anything else? | Shoutout to Tom Bilyeu! (25:17) Q1: What is your story about competition? (36:37) Q2: Do your insecurities drive you, or immobilize you? (37:13) Q3: What are some unconscious rules you have set up, that are setting you up for failure? (38:03) In conclusion… RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: imnotyou.com/189 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
Books + Bars: Jay-Z, "Bam"
EFrom one of the strongest forces in the hip-hop game, today's bar features Jay-Z's newest album, "4:44". On his track "Bam" featuring Damian Marley, Jay drops game to remind us that we must tune in to our alter-ego's to let the world know who they're messin' with. Don't be too nice to those who don't benefit you. Set the price; then live your life. That's BARS.
The Film Room: Michael Jordan Mindset, Pt. 2 "Gametime Mentality"
EThe second installment of MJ's Film Room series is all about his "Gametime Mentality". Following Michael's "Mental Alchemy", today we talk about how to approach your game with laser-like focus. Get an inside scoop on how MJ handled his unique practices, and how repetition fostered his bulletproof nerves. Answer the three questions at the end of the episode, and stay tuned for the finale this Friday. Time Stamps: (3:33) Welcome to Part 2 of the film room! (4:13) The MINDSET is EVERYTHING. (5:20) A brief review of MJ's "Mental Alchemy" (6:09) Today's "Gametime Mentality" | Tim Grover's, "Relentless" (8:42) Clip #1: Practice = Play. (10:05) Clip #2: Never complacent. (11:48) Clip #3: Hunger through confidence. (12:45) Clip #4: "Afraid" (14:00) Clip #5: Steve Kerr on MJ. (14:58) Clip #6: A typical practice routine for MJ. (17:14) Clip #7: Work ethic eliminates the fear. (17:51) Repetition brought success to MJ (18:15) How does this apply to YOU? (18:58) Q1: What is your current approach to practice? (19:26) Q2: What's holding you back from performing at a high level? (20:22) Q3: What state of mind do you need that will most benefit you? (20:45) Stay tuned for Episode 3 this Friday! Email me your answers! [email protected] RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: imnotyou.com/188 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!
The Film Room: Michael Jordan Mindset, Pt. 1 "Mental Alchemy"
Welcome back to the FILM ROOM! This month's series features the legendary, Michael Jordan. Part one is focused on what Robert Greene refers to as one's "Mental Alchemy". Tune in to MJ's strategy towards trash-talk, negativity, competition, as he transforms them into successes. Sometimes you gotta play tricks on your own mind to see unbelievable results. Time Stamps: (4:00) A prelude to today's Film Room episode: My gift to you (6:39) The JORDAN series… (7:57) Jordan's "Mental Alchemy" (9:05) A passage from Marcus Aurelius', "Meditations" (11:19) Clip #1: FAILURE (12:43) Clip #2: Trick yourself to find an edge. (13:31) A few excerpts from MJ's book, "Driven From Within" (18:28) Clip #3: Trash-talk with Reggie Miller (21:28) Clip #4: News reporters (22:43) Clip #5: Game to game challenges (24:33) Clip #6: Tony Kukoc on lockdown (27:59) Clip #7: Leroy Smith (28:48) Clip #8: Van Gundy (29:07) Clip #9: Don't hurt MJ's feelings. (30:35) Clip #10: Doug Collins (34:44) We all have the power… (35:26) Self-reflection questions (38:03) See you Monday for Part 2! RESOURCES: Check out today's blog post here: imnotyou.com/187 Click the link to Get Ya Mind Right! ---> Imnotyou.com/GYMR Thanks for listening to another Sports Motivation Podcast!