Matt Heath & Tyler Adams Afternoons

The National Party leader says criticism fover his Waitangi Day speech is just a cynical set-up.National’s kicked into election year – putting politics in the spotlight at Waitangi.Government parties and the Opposition stood side-by-side as they were welcomed to the upper marae this morning.Moments later - it was down to business – and for National leader Simon Bridges that meant slamming the Government for non-delivery. He’s been criticised for politicising the event, but he told Simon and Phil he spoke about what he thinks matters.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lee Turrell is a rarity: a woman coaching a men's sports team at international level. But the volleyball coach has never let gender barriers stand in her way - even in Iran. She joined Simon and Phil to chat about taking the New Zealand Men's U20 squad to Iran and the challenges the ultra conservative country presented, how she got into coaching at the national level, and the growing number of women in coaching roles across both genders. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The All Blacks Strength and Conditioning Coach says while we all need to be moving more, people need to enjoy whatever it is that get's them off the couch. There is mounting evidence that exercise is not just a way of staying healthy but can help treat the unwell. Nic Gill told Simon and Phil not everyone enjoys the gym which is fine, but finding something you do enjoy which gets you moving is key in preventing a whole raft of health issues. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

More than 30 people were helicoptered to safety this morning - after caught in bad weather tramping in Fiordland.A state of emergency has been declared in the region Fiordland after heavy rain caused landslides and floodingGrace Houpapa Barrett was one of those trapped at Lake Howden Hut along with a group of her friends – she spoke to Simon and Phil about the landslide that smashed through the hut in the middle of the night. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The National Party is calling on help from Australia to win this year's election.Australian Liberal Party campaign official Nick Westenberg has been briefing National MPs and candidates on the secrets to a winning campaign.Westenberg was one of the brains behind Australian PM Scott Morrison's election win, which focused on targeting the "quiet Australians".In an interview with the NZ Herald, Westenberg said that group existed in every country."You can use different phrases for it. Scott Morrison uses the quiet Australians, it's working families, previously it was Howard's battlers, Tony's tradies. It always ends up being the same people.It's the people who aren't on a particular end of the spectrum, the people who are just living their everyday lives where politics impacts it, but it's not the most important thing for them."But political editor Barry Soper told Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford Bridges faces a much tougher election than Morrison."When Morrison and won the election, he was up against the then-Labor leader Bill Shorten, who was not popular. Simon Bridges is up against Jacinda Ardern, who of course is popular."Westenberg says that is something to be considered, but that "the issue don't change no matter who is running".See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

John Cowan from The Parenting Place was back with Simon and Phil to talk about how to navigate all the modern minefields of being a parent.This week we had some great questions from callers about snarky teenagers, restless babies, and strong-willed toddlers. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Homeopathy, an alternative medicine originating in Germany 200 years ago, has long been criticised by the scientific community as pseudoscience. Despite this more than half of kiwis in a 2012 survey believed homeopathy had been scientifically proven.In the latest North and South magazine freelance writer Jonathon Harper questioned continuing funding for NZAQ qualifications in homeopathy and ACC pay outs.He joined Simon and Phil to discuss its growing use in New Zealand.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Former Prime Minister Sir John Key says while he thinks US President Donald Trump has achieved in some areas, he's not a fan of his style and attacks on US immigration. Sir John joined Simon and Phil for this weeks Six and a Song. They also discussed the publicity surrounding the sale of his Auckland home, whether he still needs diplomatic protection, his love of golf, and more. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Employment lawyer Gareth Abdinor, partner with Malley & Co, back with us for the first Law Corner of 2020.This week we discussed what to do when your previous employer won’t give you a good reference, appealing incorrect background checks, and much moreLISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Crusaders Coach Scott Robertson played 23 international matches for the All Blacks, before moving into an illustrious coaching career.As Canterbury's head coach he lead to team to win the Final in the Premiership Division of the ITM Cup in2013. In 2016, he was appointed head coach for the Crusaders for the 2017-2019 Super Rugby seasons, where he’s achieved three straight Super Rugby titles.He joined Simon and Phil to talk about missing out on the All Blacks Head Coach role, his coaching ethos, what he gets up to off the field, and more. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

US speaker, Jeff Gellman, will be running an Auckland seminar in July, despite an 8-thousand strong petition to stop him coming.Association of Pet Dog Trainers president Mark Weaver says his methods are out-dated.He told Simon and Phil Gellman promotes the myth that you have to harm a dog to get it to do what you want.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every 3 weeks we're joined by Inspector Hirone Waretini from the New Zealand Police to talk topics and take your questions and phone calls in a segment we call The Beat. This week the Inspector chatted with us about what he’s been up to over the holidays, fast lanes, driving with open alcohol vessels, and much more.LISTEN TO THE AUDIO ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As Christmas is a time for family, Newstalk ZB host Simon Barnett today invited his wife Jodi, who is recovering from brain cancer, on to the show to tell her how much he loved her.Jodi was rushed to hospital in April last year after suffering a seizure at her Christchurch home. She was later diagnosed with two lesions on her brain and is now in remission.In the emotional broadcast, Barnett told the audience his wife was only just starting to talk again after she had been unable to for some time."Jodi, I just want to say that I love you very much sweetheart."She responded saying she loved him too.Simon Barnett with wife Jodi. Photo / SuppliedBarnett said his wife listened to the show religiously every day and it was her highlight."My wife's gradually starting to talk again, she can say some words but I tell you what, we have been through it."I know this is a crazy old time because there is so much emotion around but for people that are hurting out there, for people that are lonely and for people who have lost loved ones, you think of Whakaari/White Island, it is a dreadful time of year as well for those people so we are thinking of you," Barnett said.The Barnetts met at Les Mills gym in Christchurch in 1989, and have been married for more than 26 years. The couple have four children together, Sammy, Sophie, Bella and Lily.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Democrat dominated US House of Representatives has voted to impeach their President.Donald Trump is only the third American President in history to be indicted.US analyst Dr Jeanne Zaino told Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford it may work against the Democrats in next year's election.She says the Presidents supporters empathise with Trump, believing he has been the victim of a witch-hunt.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Applause for Government plans to introduce random roadside testing, but also questions.Legislation will go through Parliament next year to allow police to instantly suspend drug drivers for 12 hours, and impose a fine.Drug Detection Agency C-E-O Kirk Hardy told Simon and Phil drug testing is getting faster, the challenge will be deciding how many drugs to test and what type. He says a test for six drugs will take 8 to 10 minutes to activate properly. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cricket and Rugby Commentator Ian Smith was our guest for an extra Six and a Song this week.A legend as a Black Caps Wicket Keeper and now a legend behind the mic at our biggest games. Simon and Phil asked him about his biggest moments of 2019, the biggest moments in sport for him, who he gets on with most in the commentary box, and of course his favourite song.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Silver Ferns Coach Noeline Taurua is ready for a small break over Christmas as she prepares for the start of the netball season in 2020. She joined Simon and Phil to chat about that incredible World Cup win, her plans over the holidays, moving back to New Zealand, and the retirement of netball great Maria Folau. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Deputy Prime Minister Winston Peters joined Simon and Phil for our last Six and a Song for 2019.We had a jovial chat about his plans over Christmas, fishing, rugby, wins and losses of the year, his favourite Parliamentarians, and of course his favourite song.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every 3 weeks we're joined by Inspector Hirone Waretini from the New Zealand Police to talk topics and take your questions and phone calls in a segment we call The Beat. For our final week on air for 2019, we covered indicating, neighbors doing skids in the street, and some really good messages ahead of the Christmas break. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Shane Cameron is one of our best professional boxers. A former Commonwealth cruiserweight champion and holding several regional titles at heavyweight, he now runs his own gym, and is a boxing promoter.Simon and Phil chatted with him about how his years gone, what he’s up to over the break, the heavyweight competition right now, and whether Joseph Parker will get another shot at the title.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a game we play every Friday. You Da Man, the guys pick their favourite songs of the week and the audience picks their favourite. First to 3 votes takes it out.This week Si picked a show tune from one of his favourite movies, and it paid off for him!LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A real treat for you on the show today. Phil's granddaughter Chloe, her teacher Mrs Beddie, and her class at Three Kings School joined Phil and Simon on air to sing a Christmas song for our listeners, and wish you all a Merry Christmas. A very very cute rendition and one to warm your heart at this time of year. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

An Auckland woman who has been using a wheelchair after a serious car accident 8 year ago has had the best early Christmas present both her and her family could ask for - the gift of walking.A qualified personal trainer, Chloe Hogan has taken her first unassisted steps since the crash. They're her first steps since her family was told she'd never fully recover and would never walk again.Chloe and her dad Brian joined Simon and Phil to talk about her recovery, and share their story to inspire others going through similar situations. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

More Kiwi specialists are joining Samoa's fight against measles, which has killed more than 70.Foreign Minister Winston Peters is visiting the Pacific Island nation and has announced help for long term needs.It includes Samoan-speaking medical personnel, trauma support and a biomedical engineer to help out with new medical equipment.Up to four anaesthetists will help local surgical teams tackle the backlog of postponed surgeries.And there's money for a new oxygen generation plant.One News Pacific correspondent Barbara Dreaver joined Si and Phil to report the latest on the Samoa measles outbreak.LISTEN TO THE INTERVIEW ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

British voters determined to leave the European Union are leading the Conservatives to victory.Former Labour supporters are switching sides to back Boris Johnson's party.Exit polls have the Conservatives sitting comfortably on an 86 seat majority.Sky News Correspondent Enda Brady told Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford it's all about Brexit.He says although there have been discussions about health care and the police force, it always comes back to Brexit.LISTEN TO THE INTERVIEW ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Government wants more information before making a final decision on the future of the Ports of Auckland.Despite a working party recommending a move to Northport, near Whangarei - the Government has today commissioned more information. A report on all options available is expected to be before Cabinet in May next year.Head of Business for NZME Fran O'Sullivan told Simon and Phil there's also questions behind a lobby group enlisting powerful people to help in its case to move the port to Whangarei. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chris Mac is the guitarist for Six60, the biggest band in New Zealand right now.Their self-titled first album debuted at number one in the New Zealand charts and was certified gold within its first week of release.In 2019 Six60 picked up Highest Selling Artist, Radio Airplay Record of the Year, and People’s Choice, and last month, in addition to their new album debuting at #1, the band made NZ Music History by becoming the first New Zealand artist to ever have six singles in the top 10 of the Official NZ Top 40 Singles Chart, a feat only ever accomplished by global superstar, Ed Sheeran.He was Simon and Phil's guest for this week's Six and a Song. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nadia Lim is one of our best celebrity chefs, a healthy eating advocate, a mum, and an entrepreneur. She’s just finished a nationwide tour for her new book Vegful and joined Simon and Phil to talk about simple ways to feed the extended family over Christmas, and some tasty classics to survive the summer break. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The survival chances of young orca whales are boosted by the presence of their grandmothers, especially in times of food scarcity, according to new research that offers a clue as to the evolutionary purpose of menopause.While female orcas normally stop reproducing in their 30s and 40s, they can live for many decades following menopause, said the study, published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences on Monday.Scientists analysed 36 years of data from the Center for Whale Research on killer whales in Canada and the United States. They found that post-reproductive whales were especially important because they were the most knowledgeable when it came to hunting."The death of a post-menopausal grandmother can have important repercussions for her family group," said Dan Franks, senior author of the study and a professor of biology at the University of York.He added that breeding grandmothers were less capable of providing the same level of support to baby calves, as they were busy taking care of their own offspring.The study also revealed that orca calves that had lost their grandmothers were more likely to die than those who were accompanied by them. The impact on a calf of losing a post-menopausal grandmother was also highest in years when the whales' prey salmon was scarce. Orcas are among only a small number of mammals known to go through menopause."Our new findings show that just as in humans, grandmothers that have gone through menopause are better able to help their grand offspring," said Darren Croft, a professor from the University of Exeter who participated in the study."These benefits to the family group can help explain why menopause has evolved in killer whales just as it has in humans."The research could provide important assessments relating to the conversation of the killer whale population, which has faced growing threats from the decline of food sources and climate change. The southern resident killer whales, which were featured in the research, have been listed as an endangered species by the National Wildlife Federation (NWF), a US-based nature conservation group.The-CNN-Wire™ & © 2019 Cable News Network, Inc., a WarnerMedia Company. All rights reserved.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ian Foster says he is "incredibly proud" after being announced as the new head coach of the All Blacks.New Zealand Rugby confirmed today that 54-year-old Foster will now lead the All Blacks into a new era, after eight years as assistant coach of the team.Foster, who saw off a strong challenge from Crusaders head coach Scott Robertson and has been given a two-year deal, said he was humbled by the appointment."I feel truly privileged and honoured to be given this opportunity and I can't wait to lead the team into the next chapter of what is a remarkable legacy," he said."I'm incredibly proud of what we have achieved in the All Blacks over the last eight years and I'm excited and energised by a new coaching team who will join me."It's incredibly humbling to be appointed to the job and I have a strong desire to serve the jersey well and represent New Zealand to the best of my ability."Incoming NZR CEO Mark Robinson also congratulated Foster, saying he had impressed the panel."These are exciting times. Ian has pulled together a very strong team and he is an outstanding person in his own right with a high-quality set of values."He is committed to stamping his own mark on the team and it's clear that he and his coaching team want to bring a new and fresh energy into the All Blacks environment."The appointment panel for the Head Coach position was made up of Impey, Robinson, NZR Head of High Performance Mike Anthony, former All Blacks Head Coach and NZR Life Member Sir Graham Henry and former Silver Ferns Coach and High Performance Sport New Zealand director Waimarama Taumaunu.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

He's been involved with the All Blacks since 2012 but here are 10 things you might not know about new All Blacks head coach Ian Foster.1) Foster was part of three Ranfurly Shield tenures and won an NPC title as a player with Waikato in a career spanning 14 years. He played 148 games for the province, a record, finishing his career in 1998. He also played 28 games for the Chiefs."My ambition was to finish with legs intact so I could have quality time with my family. I wanted to leave the game while I was still loving it," he told the Herald in 2002.Ian Foster in action for Waikato during the 1993 NPC season. Photosport2) During his playing career for Waikato he also worked for TVNZ in marketing and sales.3) His father was a barber in Putaruru before becoming a Presbyterian minister when Foster was aged five which saw the family move to Dunedin.4) Referee Glen Jackson was his first five-eighth understudy at Waikato.5) His wife is Leigh and they have three adult children - Mark 26, Michaela 20, and Jaime 18. Foster said of his family in an interview with Newstalk ZB's Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford last month that being away from his family has been difficult: "That side of it's tough when you have a young family. It's not only the time away but there's the energy you put into it when you are at home. There's also the things they hear about their old man through their mates or in the public, that takes its toll. We have a lot of conversations about personal identity, about who you are and how you're not defined by what other people say you are."6) One of four players in the 1993 Waikato side that won the Ranfurly Shield off Auckland, ending their eight-year tenure, that went onto high profile coaching jobs - Warren Gatland, John Mitchell and Kevin Putt.Ian Foster holds up the Ranfurly Shield aloft in 1997. Photosport7) Rates Whangamata as his favourite spot in New Zealand.8) Coached the Chiefs in more than 100 Super Rugby matches from 2004 to 2011, taking the team to the semifinals in his first year and the final in 2009.9) He was co-coach of the Junior All Blacks from 2005 to 2007, during which time the team won a two-test series against Australia A, the inaugural IRB Pacific Five Nations tournament and the expanded Pacific Nations Cup. He also co-coached an All Blacks trial team in 2005.10) Was named All Blacks assistant in 2011 joining head coach Steve Hansen. During his time with Hansen, the All Blacks won 93 of 108 tests losing just 10 tests."This is a great honour to work with the All Blacks," Foster said at the time. "I'm thankful for the faith that Steve Hansen and the board have shown in me," he said.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gareth Abdinor, Partner with Malley & Co law back with this weeks’ Law Corner.Every fortnight we have Gareth in to take your calls and questions everything employment, privacy and technology related. This week we had some great questions around formal complaints, vaping in the office, and being promised a job that went to someone else. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thirteen people are dead or presumed dead after yesterday's eruption at Whakaari White Island in the Bay of Plenty.Private operators rescued more than 30 people and almost all remain in hospital - some in a critical condition.Herald reporter Anna Leask says the owner of White Island Tours told her employee Paul Kingi had just left the Island when it erupted.She told Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford Kingi repeatedly returned to the island to get people - including colleagues.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

GNS says there's a 50-percent chance of another eruption in the next 24 hours.It says there's an equal chance of a smaller eruption - or no eruption.A larger eruption is the least likely scenario - and an extremely low likelihood of ash affecting the mainland.Senior lecturer in disaster risk and resilience Dr Tom Wilson told Simon and Phil there is a vulnerability in that volcanic system, and the risk to any recovery teams is very real. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Saying goodbye to her beloved wine nearly six years ago was the dawning of a new era for Lotta Dann – an author and mum of three from Wellington – one that is free from the relentless preoccupation of whether or not to have a drink.She’s the MC of the He Hikoi Mātūtū - Addiction Recovery Walk, a First for NZ, happening in Auckland’s Albert Park at 2pm Saturday afternoon.The aim of the walk is to dispel stigma around addiction, to demonstrate that recovery is possible, and to celebrate achievements. Simon and Phil caught up with Lotta to chat about the Hikoi, her recovery journey, and how we can all support recovering addicts.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a game we play every Friday.You Da Man, the guys pick their favourite songs of the week and the audience picks their favourite. First to 3 votes takes it out.With a kiwi classic, and little Richard in the line up, Producer Tyler was stoked to win with one of the greatest love stories in song ever! LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Multisport legend Steve Gurney says he had to go through a really tough period after having to hang up his kayak. The 9 time winner of the Coast to Coast was this week's guest for Six and a Song. Along with claiming the record for the most wins, he's now a motivational speaker and inventor. He told Simon and Phil when he had to leave racing due to injury, he went through a really tough patch. He says he got through focusing on the simple things in life which makes him most happiest. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A renowned cartoonist has condemned artist Garrick Tremain's cartoon, published in the Otago Daily Times this week.The newspaper admitted it "got it wrong" by publishing the cartoon about Samoa's deadly measles epidemic.Tom Scott told Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford the public reaction should have been expected.He says when you compare the death toll to the Samoa's population, the epidemic is its equivalent to 9/11.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Afternoons host Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford have taken opposing sides in the legalisation of cannabis. The Government yesterday released the draft cannabis law ahead of next year's referendum. A ban on all advertising of cannabis products, no online sales - and a minimum purchase age of 20.It comes alongside a new Government website with public information on the draft Cannabis Legalisation and Control Bill - and the End of Life Choice Act.While Phil says he does not like the idea of stores selling cannabis, he does not mind people growing it in their own backyard. He says that if you work "gangbusters" with teenagers, you can control the message and limit the spread the way it has with smoking."It's worked with tobacco, why wouldn't it work with cannabis? Tobacco is just as addictive as cannabis." When Simon said that smoking is still rampant around Maori and Pasifika communities, Phil hit back, saying it's not as high as it was.When Simon pointed out it is a drug, Phil hit back by pointing out so is tobacco. "Would you prefer a 18-year-old smoking a cigarette and jumping in the car, or smoking a joint and jumping in the car?" Simon asked. "Smoking might kill you but it'll take 20 years, you might take three people out by drug driving." Simon said that it is putting a huge problem on society by legalising it. "Well what if you gave up on tobacco? If you took that attitude to tobacco, you would never have had campaigns against tobacco," Phil said. The two hosts both agreed that it should not be put to a referendum.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Our resident vet and professional advisor for the New Zealand Veterinary Council Seton Butler joined Simon and Phil for our regular Dog Box segment. They discussed what to do about anxious cats, dogs who stare too much, unwell kittens, and much more. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A wheel clamping businessman says he's shutting up shop because of 'unsustainable' new fine limits.The Transport Amendment Bill will limit wheel clamping penalties to a hundred dollars.Clamp It business owner Jake Thomas Told Simon Barnett and Phill Gifford tow trucks can't access the same areas wheel clampers can.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a game we play every Friday. You Da Man, the guys pick their favourite songs of the week and the audience picks their favourite. First to 3 votes takes it out.Despite being up against Aretha Franklin and The Rolling Stones, Si picked a comedy skit which cleaned up. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Crusaders' CEO says underlying a new logo, the team is the same as it's always been.The Maori-inspired design was unveiled today, replacing previous horse and sword imagery.The review was launched after the Christchurch mosque attacks.Sports Commentator and Radio Sport reporter Brian Ashby told Simon and Phil the decision is a good compromise. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Actor and comedian Dai Henwood may have a manic energy on screen, but he says he actually quite a "quiet, chilled out guy".Henwood has been on our screens for years, most notably for 10 years as team captain on 7 Days and host of Dancing with the Stars. While he is known for comedy, Henwood's family suffered tragedy this year when his acting legend father, Ray, passed away aged.New Zealand actor Ray Henwood passed away today. (Photo / Supplied)Speaking to Simon Barnett and Phil Gifford, Henwood says that he still has deep sadness at times despite his comedy pedigree.However, he says that he found when he was sending his dad off, the sadness was a healthy thing to lean into."You can have so many happy moments in amongst the sadness."Henwood says that being a comedian does mean that people tend to lose their sense at time. He describes one time he was at a funeral and was helping the casket, and someone came up to him and asked him for a selfie. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every month we have our Dulux DIY expert to answer all your questions for those DIY jobs us kiwi's love. This month a pleasure to have Bevan Tutty in the studio.Bevan has been in the paint industry for over 40 years. He loves the endless outcomes you can achieve from painting, and its advancing technology.He has been a trainer for 20 years and leads the New Zealand Dulux Training Academy. With all his years’ experience in the industry, he is the go-to guy for any tricky questions.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today marked 40 years since the Erebus tragedy.Commemoration services took place in Auckland to mark the tragedy - which killed all 257 people on board.Other commemorations included a ceremony at Scott Base in Antarctica.Antarctica New Zealand’s Georgia Nelson told Simon and Phil live from Antarctica it was a poignant moment for everyone at Scott Base.LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

John Cowan from The Parenting Place, back with Simon and Phil taking your calls and text questions on everything parenting.We had a heap of varied calls this week, covering toddler tantrums, kids getting into drugs, how to help children in the middle of messy break-ups, and when children should start talking. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Simon Barnett's daughter broke down in tears after she was verbally abused while trying to comfort a woman who had herself been the victim of abuse.The Newstalk ZB host today revealed details of the altercation, saying his daughter had overheard a nasty conversation between a mother and her angry daughter at a Westfield mall."There was a mum and a daughter, who was about 14 or 15. The mum and the daughter just starting having a blazing row. It was a verbal altercation," he said on ZB today.He explained the woman's daughter launched into a 10-minute tirade of abuse, saying nasty things about her mum, and lashing out at her weight."It was highly offensive language. The daughter said to the mum 'you're just effing fat', 'you're just an effing pig'. 'you're too lazy'."This went on for around 10 to 15 minutes. The daughter then said 'you can go eff yourself' and walked off."Barnett says his daughter, who is a "kind and caring" young woman, was shocked at the girl's behaviour towards her mother.Instead of ignoring the altercation, Barnett's daughter tried to comfort the mother, who had just been on the receiving end of a nasty spray.But when Barnett's daughter approached the mother, she copped a nasty spray of her own."My daughter was listening to all this and she said to the mother and said 'I couldn't help but overhear that. I just wanted to check you're okay.'"The mum then said 'it's none of your effing business, it's how our family talk to each other. Leave me alone, go away.'"Barnett said it left her daughter, who had the best of intentions, in tears."My daughter rang me and she's a sensitive young woman, she was in tears and said 'Dad, I just feel like I've done the wrong thing, should I have said anything?'"My gut feeling was absolutely, I said I don't think you've the wrong thing at all."When do you get involved? Do you get involved in a verbal altercation?"Barnett and his co-host Phil Gifford have since used the altercation to discuss if and when it is okay to check up on a victim of verbal abuse when you've overheard an incident.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gareth Abdinor, Partner with Malley & Co law back with us for this weeks Law Corner.Every fortnight we have Gareth in to take your calls and questions everything employment, privacy and technology related. This week not surprisingly we had lots of questions around taking leave as we get very close to the Christmas break. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's a game we play every Friday.You Da Man, the guys pick their favourite songs of the week and the audience picks their favourite. First to 3 votes takes it out.This week Producer Nellie, filling in for Tyler, sweeps in and steals the win with a Dire Straits favourite.So this week it's You Da Woman!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.