Jabulujule 9 -12

Ngiyabingelela kuwena Mam Khoza nakumlaleli woKHOZI FM ngicelaukuzifihla igama. Ngiyafisa ukucaciseleka ngesintu, uma singabantu abashaengekho umuntu onguBaba ongasifundisa asicacisele senza izizntongendlela engasiqhatha nabantu abadala,Ngicela ningikhanyisele lapha ongabanolwazi lapha Mma Khoza, Yaziumama wami wahamba ekhaya washiya umuzi wabuyela nathi kubosiyizingane, ngeminyaka yama-90s lapho ko1995, 1996. sasisebancanekakhulu.Umama noBaba babengakashadi kodwa ubaba wayelobolile futhiwayesesithenjini, umama babebathathu kuyena uBaba, owethu umama kungowesibili. Isizathu sokuhamba kukamama wahamba egula engaphilile.Wahamba uMama wabuyela ekhaya kubo emuva kokungaphili kahle,sahamba naye ngoba sasisebancane, wase esishiya nogogo yena wayaeGoli wafike wasebenza. Umuzi wakhe akawushiya wodwa wagcina ubabaewuqhaqha ngoba wawusumosheka. Ngingathi umama noBaba basebengabantu abahlukene ngoba umama wathola enye ingane ngo-1999komunye umuntu eGoli.Kunento eyenzeka uMama waba nokugula okwamenza wabuya eGoliwahlala ekhaya kubo okuyilapho okwashona khona ubaba wami ngonyakaka-2006, wangcwatshwa ubaba, wagqoka inzila umama maqede wabuyelakubo.Waphinde wabuyela eGoli umama wasebenza futhi lapho akayesebenzakhona. Sakhula siyizingane ngaqeda isikole mina ngaya ekhaya likababangafike ngakha, ngavusa umuzi lapha owawukade ukhona. Waqala umamawabuyela kulomuzi manje uma ebuya eGoli. Kwathi ngonyaka ka-2021kwafika isikhathi se-pension kumama wabuya wazohlala kulomuziesengiwakhile.Inkinga yamike ilana ke *** kuthiwa awushadi abazali bakho bengashadilenoma okungenani ushadele ekhabo mama, okusho ukuthi kumelengibashadise abazali. Umbuzo wami uthi ngibashadisa kanjani abantuabebengeke beshade vele ngoba basebehlukene?Ngaganwa nami ngalobola kodwa sagcina sixabana nomakoti sahlukanasenginomunye manje. Okunye engifisa ukukwazi ukuthi ngililande yiniilobolo lami noma alilandwa ngoba ngifuna lomakoti enginaye manje ehlalengokukhululeka engalibe ebanemicabango yokuthi nginomakotiengamlobola ngaphambili ngoba usengabuya ethi ngiyindoda yakhe ngobangamlobola kuqala. Ngiyaxolisa ukuba mude Mam Khoza ngiyabonga.

Ngiyakubingelela Mam Khoza nomlaleli woKHOZI FM ngicela ningisize ungenze u anonymousngineminyaka engu 23, mina sakhulela khaya ko baba, kumama sibawu 6 izingane zika Baba kodwauBaba wahamba wayohlawula ubhuti wethu omdala , umama lapho besehlala nobaba kwathingonyaka ka 2010 wakhipha inkomo eyodwa eyibalela emalobolweni awakhiphela uMama.Mam Khoza ngicela ningisize ubaba thina akasihlawulanga sihlala ekhaya ko Baba noMama kwathingonyaka ka 2020, uBaba wahamba wayohlawula ingane ayithole kwenye intombazane yakheencane yango 2015.Thina Mam Khoza akasihlawulanga uBaba wethu kwagcina ngobhuti wethu omdala nami mangithingiyabamba isisu bavele bashone abantwana baze babathathu manje, enye inkinga masekumelebahlawule kubo kamfana wathi uBaba izinkomo aziyi kubo kamama azize langakhulela khona,nangempela zafika masekumele zihambe namalobola wathi singamujahi yena uzolobolangesikhathi sakhe nami izingane zilokho ziyashona sengize ngicabanga nokuzibulala ngobasiyabangwa ekhaya koBaba nakubo kamama kodwa koBaba abakaze balungisa amacala abo kuboka Mama manje sekulimala thina nezingane zethu.Ngicela ningisize ningixazulele nayi nkinga ,ikuphi okumele kwenziwe makunje Mam Khoza ngiyaxolisa ukuba mude.

Mam Khoza Ngumlaleli  wokHOZI FM ngalingeka ngaphuma ngaphandle emshadweni wethu, first day kumakhwapheni safike sahlala isisu ngasibika ke isisu kumakhwapheni wavuma akangaba nankinga ngabe sengibuyela back kumyeni ngamutshela ukuthi kwenzakale kanje ngamitha, kwaba buhlungu waphatheka kabi kodwa wasethi yena angeke ahlukane nami uzoqhubeka akwenze konke obekufanele akwenze ekhaya, UMyeni wami wathi angibuyele kumakhwapheni ngimtshele ukuthi ngangingabonanga kahle ingane akuyona eyakhe i-scan sisho okunye, nebala mam Khoza ngamtshela kanjalo akangayizwa kahle lendaba umakhwapheni kodwa wathula, ngapha waqhubeka umyeni waletha nenhlawulo ingezamagceke saqhubeka sathandana okubuhlungu manje umyeni sewadlula emhlabeni ingane isabiza yena kubo kamnyeni khona bayalwazi udaba ngoba ingane abayinakile nami angisebenzi kunzima nje.Sengize ngicabange ukuthi ngibuyele kubaba walengane wangemepla kodwa manje lengane kubo myeni wami bazi ukuthi eyabo.

Ngiyabingelela mam Khoza kuwe nethimba lakho kanye nabalaleli.Ngicela ukungazisho igama futhiudaba lude kodwa ngizozama ukufinqa.Ngingowesifazane oseminyakeni yabo 40 okhathazekile ngekhaya lakithi okusolokhu sazalwaasiyiboni impumelelo kumnyama nje izinto azilungi sengize ngiphatheke kabi ngizwele nabazalibami ukuthi kanti bayokuthola nini ukujabula emhlabeni sengifisa ukuthola izaluleko noma usizomhlampe uma kukhona owake wabhekana nalesimo.Udaba lumi kanje ngokuzwa umama echaza okokuqala nje ukhulu ozala ubaba wayeshadilengaphambi kokuthi ashade futhi kithi manje asazi noma lapho ayeshadele khona wagcagca yiniesigcawini ngoba ngike ngizwe kuthiwa uma umakoti eganile wathelwa ngenyongo usukeesewalapho kulowomuzi noma angashada kwenye indawo usuke ungekho lowomshado manjeinkinga ukhulu asimboni ngisho emaphuphweni even nobaba imbala akamboni eyingane yakhekodwa kulezinyanga ezedlule ke uke wavela kumama ngephupho elijulileManje siyazibuza ukuthi ngabe ngempela akekho yini emadlozini asekhaya shuthi ukulomshadowokuqala yini Bese kuba okunye okwenzeka umama esanda kufika emshadweni wakhe ngobaukhulu wami wayehlala kamnakwabo engenawo umuzi wakhe ngoba wayegula efe uhlangothiengakwazi kwenza lutho kwaphoqa ukuthi uma abazali bami beshada bashadele khona lakamnakwabo kaKhulu kwathi ngelinye ilanga kwabizwa inyanga uthi umah kwabaswa umliloomkhulu endlini kwabekwa idrum kowo kwafakwa imithi phakathi nayo yonke inhlobo yesikhalikwase kuthiwa laba bakamnakwabo khulu abafake imali emhlophe phakathi kwase kwathiwaukhulu nomama nobaba nobabo mdala owumfowabo kababa bona abafake imali emnyamaokwathi uma ubaba esebuyela emsebenzini ngoMsombuluko wafike waxoshwa kuthe kusenjaloubabomdala wathi esemsebenzini enkompolo kwangena umuntu negeja wamgenca waze washonakusuka lapho zabheda izinto ekhaya.Mam Khoza lude udaba lwami kodwa ngiyacela uma kukhona ongangipha izeluleko ukuthikwenziwanjani uma kunje? Ngiyabonga ngiyothokoza uma lufinyelele udaba lwami kuwe.  

Ngibingelele Kuwena Mam Khoza nakumlaleli womsakazo UKHOZI FM, ingama lami ngingu Jabulani wakwa Masikane, ngingumshayeli wetekisi ngineminyaka engamashumi amathathu nesithupha (36 years) , ngidabuka endaweni yase Nquthu Ezicole, ngathandana nowesifazane wakwa Dabhazi, ngonyaka  ka 2014, ingane wayithola ngonyaka ka 2015, lona wesifazane wathola omunye wesilisa bathandana kanti mina wasengixoxele ukuthi sengimkhulelisile kuthe engathola umntwana wathi angeke anginike lomntwana mina ngingu lopholo.Ngonyaka ka 2020 umngani wakhe oyedwa wangakubo wangifakela isithombe sengane wathi isono lesi lengane eyekho alivele inqiniso ngazama ukufonela yena lo wangixhapha ngezinhlamba ngathinta indonda yakhe ngayifakela izithombe zami nesengane yabuya Kimi nge voice yathi Cha mfowethu ngiyabona mina nezithombe ngiyazibona, lendoda ayina nkinga nanokuthi siye engazini inkinga la ilomama ozala lengane akafuni nakungibona kodwa asixabananga ngibona ukuthi ubamba indoda yakhe ngengane akezwa lutho nje. Mina ngizokhokha izindleko zolibo fuzo uma evuma ukuthi sibone ngegazi kodwa yena uyalazi iqiniso ukuthi eyami.Ngimile nje lapho , ngicela nje nisixhumanise Mam Khoza, ningincengele yena lona wesifazane.