Growth Mindset Psychology: The Science of Self-Improvement

7 ways we are wired to be really dumb + How to become rational Today's episode covers 7 perception and decision-based cognitive biases that cloud our judgement. Confirmation Bias and NASA Availability Bias and Tornadoes Neglect of Probability Bias and Gambling [Bonus] - Black vs White Swan events and how to avoid being wiped out Hindsight Bias and Dua Lipa Outcome Bias and being Right when we were Wrong Paradox of Choice Bias and the depressing nature of optionality How the Time Discounting Bias causes Climate Change Give it a listen and unmuddy the waters of your mind to become a more rational and clearer thinker. Further reading: Thinking Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman - UK Book - US Book Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely - UK Book - US Book Further Listening Enjoyed this episode? Check out the rest of the Cognitive Ciases series: Ego Blindspots: 9 Cognitive Biases to Avoid - [May 7th] Human Nature vs. Money: Battling Irrationality & Thinking Traps [May 19th] [YOU ARE HERE] - Confirmation Bias Reality Distortion: The 7 Illusions of Perception Impact Everyone - [June 18th] Cognitive Rigidity: How Einstein Overcame the 5 Biases that Keep Us Stuck - [June 19th] Thinking Fast and Slow: How to Make Better Decisions - [July 12th] Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 The Confirmation Bias 04:13 The Availability Bias 07:07 The Neglect of Probability Bias 09:11 Black Swan vs. White Swan Events 10:59 The Hindsight Bias 13:46 The Outcome Bias 16:10 The Paradox of Choice Bias 18:52 The Time Discounting Bias 21:06 Becoming More Rational Thinkers 22:06 Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The illusion that your life is deeply flawed is fueled by the desire for what you don't have. We can develop an unpleasant distaste for our situation, a nagging sense that something isn't enough. This episode answers two main questions: Why is Life dysmorphia so common when objectively life has never been better? What can we do about it? Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 The Pressure of Social Media Fame 01:10 The Pervasive Nature of Upward Comparison 02:12 Gratitude in Perspective 03:18 The Privilege of Modern Conveniences 05:24 The Illusion of "Enough" 06:45 Valuing Life Over Wealth 07:45 The 5-6 Minute Episode Challenge 08:04 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to redefine our definition of 'realistic' and meet our potential head-on. Heather Moyse is 2x Olympic Gold winner and is in the Rugby Hall of Fame for being the top try scorer at the 2006 World Cup. She is also the author of 'Redefining Realistic' explaining the concept of potential and how social pressure, conforming behaviours and our self-doubts limit us. We go through her best mental models to increase your capacity for success and overcome the obstacles in your mind. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Heather Moyse Website - HeatherMoyse.com Insta - @HeatherMoyse Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 Importance of Potential 02:32 Potential is talent You Don't Have Yet 05:02 The Impact of Parental Expectations on Potential 07:12 Breaking Through Environmental and Exposure Limitations 10:20 Inertia and Change 13:38 Overcoming Fear of Judgment and Self-Sabotage 14:57 The Physics of Behavioral Inertia and Motivation 20:59 Intentionality in Life Choices 23:59 The Difficulty of Intentional Choices Like Having Children 27:39 Limiting Beliefs, Assumptions and Identity Blockers 29:30 Energy Takers, Naysayers and Lobsters 32:30 Finding the Right Influences and Support System 35:19 Performing under pressure 35:55 Optimal Arousal Zone for Peak Performance 39:08 Managing Adrenaline at the Olympics 42:54 Imposter Syndrome at the Olympics 45:02 Earliest Memory 46:41 Kindest Thing 48:04 Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to improve your clarity of thinking and create effective communication. Our cognitive biases and ego can muddy the waters of our minds and block the path to clear communication. Today's episode builds clarity on how to be a more effective thinker and communicator. Topics: Communication problems in relationships, business and writing Cognitive blockers to clarity How to identify and maintain a grip on the most important thing What bundling and unbundling can apply to problem-solving and communication Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Freebies Episode prompts - Clarity Problem Solving Worksheet Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 The Curse of Overlooking the Obvious 03:13 Romantic Communication 05:38 The Goal of Simple, Clear Communication 11:42 Concept of Bundling and Unbundling Things 15:21 Applying Bundling and Unbundling to Problem-Solving 16:45 Using Bundling and Unbundling for Clear Communication 19:40 Making the Obvious Obvious 20:34 An Invitation to Chat 21:46 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Panic less, enjoy more - treat time well and it will treat you well. Humans have a difficult relationship with time. It is the medium that gives us all the experiences that make life so great. It also ages us and ultimately robs us of everything we ever have and ever loved. We cover: How to think differently about time itself Learn how to be less frustrated by things we can't control Questions to diagnose your relationship with time Experience deeper awareness Life is short but we can be the pilot of our experiences or dragged along in a rush feeling crushed by the weight of everything. This episode should help reduce the storm and increase the calm. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Influence the Show Meet me - Free call Feedback - Request and Ideas Form Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Chapters 00:00 How to understand time 03:26 Lessons from '4,000 Weeks' by Oliver Berkman 05:13 How does Aging make you feel? 09:57 How Meditation helps accepting what is Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

National Geographic Adventurer of the Year uncovers how to culture a mindset for adventure without breaking the bank. Alastair Humphreys is the author of my all-time favourite books on the topic of adventure and getting more out of life. He spent 4 years cycling around the world, and has rowed the Atlantic, ran the Marathon de Sables, and walked across India amongst numerous other adventures. Perhaps his greatest success, however, is pioneering the concept of micro-adventures, encouraging anyone to experience the outdoors and thrillseeking within an hour of their doorstep. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Connect with Alastair: Website - AlastairHumphreys.com Instagram - @Al_Humphreys Twitter - @Al_Humphreys Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Intro 03:10 Quick fire questions 05:11 How do you define success and happiness 06:03 What are your internal measures 07:13 Adventures 07:55 Why should we be adventurous 09:49 What were the things people need to hear on how to start an adventure 11:15 Microadventures 12:19 Hardest part of adventure is daring yourself to get out 13:24 3 biggest questions when it comes to time - calendar, routines, little margins of time 16:12 Money-to-adventure ratio 21:16 Follow up on other advice about money for adventure - Just GO 22:26 How does Alistair help people address those questions on expertise to be an adventurer 25:57 Mindset framework around finding a sustainable adventure and career 29:18 Going back, would Alastair done something different 32:25 Essay - A Thousand True Fans 34:32 Physical Flabbiness 35:02 Mental Flabbiness 35:20 Moral Flabbiness 36:38 How does Alastair deal with Mental Flabbiness 37:27 Habit Calendar Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Decision frameworks and strategies that drive innovation and growth. Jeff Bezos built Amazon which made him the world's richest man. He's had a lot of luck but has consistently stuck to a core group of philosophies and mental models that drive the decisions behind his incredible success. Amazon is more than just an e-commerce juggernaut but a builder of entire ecosystems such as the cloud computing industry (AWS), the e-publishing industry (Kindle) and the world of home devices that talk to each other and you (Alexa). The stories behind these innovations show how to build a culture of growth and inventiveness full of Growth Mindset lessons. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - SleepyClub Doctor-approved natural sleeping aid that improves sleep quality. Safe to take every day. 20% discount code 'GROWTH20' - SleepyClub.co.uk Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 #1 Thinking in Primitives 02:52 The Power of Mental Models 03:48 Story - How AWS began 06:27 #2 Customer-Centric Obsession 08:08 Story - Why they built Amazon Prime 10:06 #3 Long Term Thinking 11:22 Story - Launching the Kindle and e-publishing industry 14:05 Willingness to be Misunderstood 14:45 #4 Team - Single Threaded Leadership 15:53 #5 Team - Employ and Empower Builders 16:59 Culture - Meetings are for Decisions 17:58 #6 High-Velocity Decision making - Reversible vs Irreversible Decisions 20:32 #7 Regret Minimization Framework 22:09 Disagree and Commit 23:19 #8 Embrace Failure 24:01 Total Fails - Amazon Fire Phone, Amazon Wallet, Amazon Destinations, Amazon Restaurants 26:19 Importance of Timing and Competition 28:33 #9 Day 1 Thinking 31:15 Useful Bonus points 31:23 Flywheel effect 31:51 Word of Mouth Marketing 32:48 Opposing Belief - Ignoring vs Crushing Competition 34:56 #10 Opposing Belief - Stubborn and Flexible 35:32 Applied to Growth Mindset thinking 39:30 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Manipulation tactics that work - Irrational behaviours that don't - Prediction Fallacies we fall for. In this episode, we dive further into our series on cognitive biases and how they cloud our judgment. Studying applied psychology we can learn how we get manipulated by companies and start to protect ourselves from our own irrationality. Take homes: How to protect ourselves against pricing tactics Reduce irrational decisions Build awareness of the truth Reduce unpleasant surprises Make better investments Further reading: Thinking Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman - UK Book - US Book Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely - UK Book - US Book Further Listening Enjoyed this episode? Check out the rest of the Cognitive Ciases series: Ego Blindspots: 9 Cognitive Biases to Avoid - [May 7th] [YOU ARE HERE] - Human Nature vs. Money Confirmation Bias and the 7 Sins of Lazy Thinking - [June 4th] Reality Distortion and the 7 Illusions of Perception Impact Everyone - [June 18th] Cognitive Rigidity and How Einstein Overcame the 5 Biases that Keep Us Stuck - [June 19th] Thinking Fast and Slow: How to Make Better Decisions - [July 12th] Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Promote your job for free to over 1 billion professionals. LinkedIn.com/Growth Discussed links Trump given 1% chance of Nominate - 2015 report Forbes - Any Monkey Can Beat the Market Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 SECTION - Framing effects 00:01 #1 Anchoring Bias 02:54 The Opposite Strategy 04:59 #2 Framing Effect 08:06 #3 Decoy Effect 10:45 SECTION - Irrational 10:47 #4 Gambler's Fallacy 16:45 #5 Sunk Cost Fallacy 19:21 SECTION - Bad Prediction Flaws 19:55 #6 Overconfidence Bias 21:30 #7 Information Bias 25:34 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Insightful ways to examine your life and better define where it's going. We steal some of the best questions and ideas from different domains that you can try applying to your own life. What is a life worth living Healthy vs toxic aspirations How to abandon what doesn't serve you The illusion of self-importance Our guest today is Jodi Wellman the author of "You Only Die Once" and a source of positive ideas from her work in Applied Positive Psychology. Jodi has a morbid fascination with positive ideas from existential psychology to help brighten your day. As they say "Get busy living, or get busy dying". Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Promote your job for free to over 1 billion professionals. LinkedIn.com/Growth Jodi Wellman Book - You Only Die Once Website - Four Thousand Mondays Quiz - How dead or alive are you? Insta - @FourThousandMondays Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Importance of good questions 01:40 Net-promoter score - Would you recommend your life? 07:24 Abandoning What No Longer Serves You 10:33 Consistent Reminders and Psychological Tricks 14:26 Overcoming the Illusion of Personal Specialness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How your brain creates movement and why it's interesting. We learn about the movement control centre of the brain, how it is a leading indicator for brain and cognitive health in general and how to optimise it. Important topics How does the motor cortex work exactly How to improve reflexes Repair damage and rewire brain circuits How alcohol and cannabis affect the brain If you like understanding yourself or you want to become a pro athlete or musician the episode is a great place to geek out. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Promote your job for free to over 1 billion professionals. LinkedIn.com/Growth Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Why the motor cortex makes you cool 02:25 How the Motor Cortex was discovered 04:09 The areas and functions of the motor cortex 07:02 Mentality and Physicaly Link 08:45 Motor Function Impairment and Physical Rehab 11:36 Why you might be a bit Uncoordinated 13:54 Developmental Variation and mindset 14:52 How alcohol and Marijuana impact brain Health and Coordination 17:38 Reflexes and professional training 20:41 Why 10,000 hours makes sense 22:06 Reactions that don't require your brain 24:33 How physical movement affects mental thought 26:43 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The pillars of a happy life lead to increased satisfaction instead of having opposing priorities fight it out. By treating work and life as opposing forces we inevitably end up tipping the scales the wrong way. We can't always subscribe time evenly and things get out of whack. We find there is a much better way by examining the term itself 'Work-life balance". This episode will not only help you find better harmony with your different life projects but also help your awareness and mindsets to the choices you make. Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Infinite Play - Nat Eliason This episode was inspired an article from Nat Eliason and his brilliant newsletter Infinite Play - I highly recommend subscribing. Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Importance vs Dangers of "balancing" 01:56 The number of heartbeats in your life 03:00 Why is finding Balance so complicated 03:50 The importance of words and language 06:50 When balance creates problems 07:50 The pillars of a happy life 09:00 Our obsession with good and bad instead of priorities 11:14 Seeking long-term enjoyment 13:10 Creating satisfaction whilst minimising sacrifice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Avoid the partnership traps everyone falls into and select and build strong relationships, that last. Matt Higgins is an incredibly successful serial entrepreneur and Shark Tank investor with a personal fortune +$150 million dollars. The unspoken ingredient to his success is relationships. We learn about: Relationship dynamics in successful business ventures Avoiding pitfalls in partner selection The importance of shared values Humility and appreciation for different traits This episode covers the importance of shared values over identical ones, strategies for aligning values in professional settings, and the impact of shared visions in business success. Matt offers practical advice on avoiding pitfalls in partner selection and cultivating strong relationships in competitive environments. Learn from his experiences at the helm of a leading investment firm and how to evaluate partnership potential for long-term success. Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Matt Higgins VC Firm - RSE Ventures Insta - @MHiggins X - @MHiggins LinkedIn - Matt Higgins RSE Book - Burn The Boats Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Rates of relationship failure 02:50 Arranged Marriages in Bangladesh and burning the boats 06:43 Identical vs Shared Values 10:33 How do you know someone is the one? 12:24 Attachment Styles and Self-Awareness 17:57 How do you mentor a CEO to become more self-aware? 19:15 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Build self-awareness and recognise the mind traps we easily fall into every day. We examine 9 different cognitive biases related to Ego and how we can spot them. Learn: When our ego serves us or sabotages us Why we fall in love for the wrong reasons How our bias to perceive ambiguity as hostility almost triggered a Nuclear war From panicking over getting some ketchup on our trousers to explosive road rage, cognitive biases can give us an answer. Learning how to recognise our own biases can lead to a much calmer, kinder and more successful life. Sponsor - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com 📕 Recommended Books These books are full of brilliant insights and mental models to help you become a more rational thinker. 🏎️ Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman - UK Book - US Book 🤪 Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely - UK Book - US Book 🧘‍♀️ The Art of Thinking Clearly by Rolf Dobelli 🧠 Super Thinking by Gabriel Weinberg & Lauren McCain 🪐 The Skeptics Guide to the Universe by Dr. Steven Novella Further Listening Enjoyed this episode? Check out the rest of the Cognitive Ciases series: [YOU ARE HERE] - Ego Blindspots Human Nature vs. Money: Battling Irrationality & Thinking Traps [May 19th] Confirmation Bias and the 7 Sins of Lazy Thinking - [June 4th] Reality Distortion and the 7 Illusions of Perception Impact Everyone - [June 18th] Cognitive Rigidity and How Einstein Overcame the 5 Biases that Keep Us Stuck - [June 19th] Thinking Fast and Slow: How to Make Better Decisions - [July 12th] Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Spotlight Effect 02:25 Dunning Kruger Effect 04:41 Status Quo Bias 06:29 Curse of Knowledge 08:21 Cognitive Dissonance 10:34 The Halo Effect 14:07 Fundamental Attribution Error 16:13 Actor-Observer Bias 17:33 Self-Serving Bias 19:54 Hostile Attribution Bias 23:42 Note 1 - Don't blame other peoples behaviours 24:22 Note 2 - Don't get lost in our own world 27:21 Note 3 - These Biases exist for a reason 28:33 Note 4 - Don't get easily offended 29:14 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Is society sick? Are we sick? Let's treat our drive to conform as a disorder we can diagnose and fix. This episode is a hypothetical deep dive where we treat our obedience to social pressure like other personality disorders. Main topics: DSM-5 entry for Social Pressure Personality Disorder (SPPD) 2 contrasting case studies Crossovers with other disorders How to manage and break out of your social pressure problems We develop a set of symptomatic criteria, case studies and a treatment plan to get us to live an independent life on our terms. Anyone wanting to take charge of their life instead of their life living them should listen. It's also designed to help you think like a psychologist and imagine how a therapist would approach diagnosing and treating such a disorder if it existed. THIS IS AN EXPERIMENTAL FORMAT Comments are much appreciated! Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 The Power of Social Pressure 02:23 Classifying Social Pressure as a Disorder 03:36 Diagnostic Criteria for SPPD 09:31 Case Study 1: Elena 13:17 Case Study 2: Liam 16:54 Therapy and Interventions 18:17 SPPD and Other Disorders 21:49 Overcoming Social Pressure with a Growth Mindset 23:06 Living Authentically on Your Own Terms 25:12 Wrap Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

~11% of men are porn addicts (+3% of women). You know a LOT of porn addicts. Today's episode discusses: Why is porn addiction not discussed openly? Why is it so shameful to talk about? Why is the problem only getting worse? How do we create better systems for recovery? On the show, we have Eric Zusack (Powerful Eric) a porn addiction coach. He spent 20 years in therapy for his own porn addiction. He finally recovered by breaking out of the disease model of addiction and instead taking ownership of his own power. We discuss the many ways porn is harming society and getting worse and what to do about it. Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Powerful Eric Website - PowerfulEric.com Insta - @Powerful_Eric Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Porn addictions 02:31 How to recognize and addiction 05:47 Eric's Personal Struggle with porn 08:31 Eric's Journey to beat his Porn addiction 11:04 Identity Reconstruction 15:43 The Dangers of Porn Desensitization 20:19 Addiction's Impact on Mental Health 22:17 Reframing the Disease Model 24:40 The Rise of AI-Generated Porn 29:13 Schizophrenia and murder 31:35 Finding a Healthy Habit 35:15 Overcoming Moral Conflicts 38:06 Masturbation vs. Pornography 41:44 Eric's Advice and Resources 43:42 Earliest Memories and Acts of Kindness 45:08 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The quiet path to loud success by overcoming our nature. We explore ego and our automatic tendencies and how we can over-ride our inbuilt patterns that get in the way of our goals. Set yourself apart in a world dominated by noise Silent but powerful ways to surpass expectations Increase effectiveness at getting what you want We delve into the art of quiet achievement, offering a fresh perspective on how to succeed without the spotlight. Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 The Pitfalls of Unhelpful AI and the Human Mind 04:05 Defaulting to Surrendering Our Assumptions 06:25 Actively Seeking Our Own Incompetence 08:07 Mr. Beast's Path from Incompetence to Mastery 10:17 Three Ways to Block Others' "Aha" Moments 11:55 Allowing Self-Persuasion 12:16 The Entrepreneur's Paradox of Asking for Advice 13:30 Closing Thoughts on Humility's Impact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What can we learn about stress management from consistent out-performers? Dr Steven Stein is the author of "Hardiness: Making Stress Work for You to Achieve Your Goals", and several books on Emotional Intelligence. We learn: How to self-motivate Life lessons from prisoners of war The traits of success behind Olympic champions, Military specialists, and Bus-drivers Dealing with Acute vs Chronic stress The art of resilience through challenge, control and commitment Dr. Steven Stein Bestselling author and psychologist who has worked with leading corporates, defence agencies and some of the biggest reality TV shows. Steven J. Stein Books: EQ Edge: Emotional Intelligence and your success Emotional Intelligence for Dummies Hardiness: Making stress work for you to achieve your goals Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters Introduction to Hardiness Concept 01:58 Hardiness: The Three Cs 08:12 Positive Thinking vs Reframing 09:21 Hardiness in Acute vs Chronic Stress 12:04 Writing habits and hardiness 15:41 Does Hardiness Grow over time 21:11 Weird Memories 22:29 Kindest Thing 24:27 Moments of Wonder 25:59 Send Off 26:13 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Understand the circuitry of the self as we uncover the neurological pathways behind the Ego and explain what the Default Mode Network is. Topics covered: What the hell is the Default Mode Network The Brain Pathways of Anxiety and Depression The imbalances causing ADHD How modern medicines interact with the brain The effect of meditation and psilocybin on the DMN Starting with Hans Berger's pioneering work with EEG this episode covers the history of Default Mode Network discovery, its role in ADHD symptoms, and the impact of Default Mode Network on depression. We also explore the connection between DMN and anxiety disorders and discuss the benefits of therapeutic interventions targeting the Default Mode Network. Learn how modern neuroscience uses DMN insights to enhance psychiatric treatments and the overall understanding of mental health. Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Further Reading Default Mode Network on Wikipedia Where is the Default mode network Paper: The Brains Default Mode Network Paper: Schizophrenia and DMN Paper: Autism and DMN Theory of Mind Related Episodes How to Stop Catastrophizing Science of Psilocybin Therapy w/ Gabriel Charalambides Psilocybin Therapy John Hopkins Research Legal treatment in the USA - Odyssey Meditation Retreats Paper: Meditation effect on the DMN Book: Why Buddism is True (Evolutionary Psychology of Meditation) 10 day Vipassana (free) - Dhamma.org Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Default Mode Network 02:04 Hans Berger and history of EEG and brain mapping 04:49 Discovery of the Default mode network 06:14 What is the default mode network? 06:33 #1 Self-referential thought 07:00 #2 Theory of mind 07:43 #3 Autobiographical memory 08:12 #4 Envisioning future scenarios 08:32 #5 Mind wandering and daydreaming 09:16 #6 Creativity 10:21 Depression and the brain 11:28 Anti Depressant medication and the DMN 12:41 Anxiety 14:08 Anti Anxiety medication and Benzodiazepines 15:27 ADHD 16:16 ADHD medication and stimulants 18:03 How Meditation Regulates the DMN 20:34 Psilocybin impact on the DMN 22:41 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Battle the flood of priorities with a tool to decide where to dedicate effort Our tasks in life have different requirements but it's not always obvious. Sometimes we need to: Get it done Aim for average Excel with grandiosity We'll learn the mistakes people make by applying effort in the wrong places and frustrating themselves. Selective bother will help you live a much happier and more complete life. Advert - Cozy Earth Luxury Bamboo sheets and Loungeware that become softer the more you use them. 35% off code 'GROWTH' - CozyEarth.com Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 The 90% Trap 01:51 Being "Done" vs Incomplete 02:21 The Struggle for Perfection 05:04 When Average is Enough 08:07 The Fisherman's Wisdom 10:16 Striving for the Extraordinary 12:51 Finding Your Balance 13:48 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The science behind Psilocybin-assisted mental health breakthroughs and what are the current benefits and limitations? We have the owner of Odyssey, a psilocybin experience company to discuss the state of psychedelic science and lessons from mental health treatment centres. Topics: The benefits and limitations of Psilocybin therapy What is Oceanic Boundlessness and Ego-dissolution Benefits of psilocybin for OCD and mental health Who should not use psychedelics What does a guide do and who the hell are they? Flow states and meditation Gabriel Charalambides has a varied background from working on the NASA Mars Rover to leading Drone development before focussing on mental health as part of MAPS (Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies) He offers an honest breakdown of the risks and benefits of Psilocybin and the science behind it. WARNING The topics and medications discussed are all in a controlled medical setting. Do not try recreating them at home. - - Sponsor - Better Help Online therapy can boost you toward being your best self. 10% off at Betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET - - Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Advertise your job to the world's largest pool of professionals, for free! Linked.com/Growth - - Odyssey The first legally controlled psilocybin experience in the US. Website - Odyssey Gabriel - LinkedIn Books Siddartha The Courage to be Disliked Untethered Soul How to change your mind (+ TV show) The Retreat (podcast) Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 02:13 Defining Growth Mindset and Oceanic Boundlessness 08:04 The Attachment to Ego and Spiritual Perspectives 11:11 Recommended Reading 12:37 The Role of Anxiety and Letting Go During Psychedelic Experiences 15:14 The Role of Retreat Guides and Holding a Safe Space 17:53 Reflections during Retreats 21:39 Screening and Assessing Suitability for Psychedelic Retreats 24:26 The Potential Benefits of Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy 31:00 Restrictions for Psilocybin Retreats 34:02 Considerations for Individuals with Mental Health Conditions 36:19 Psychadelics and Narcissism 37:23 The Training and Qualifications of Retreat Guides 41:44 The Neuroscience of Psychedelic-Induced Neuroplasticity 43:12 Flow states and meditation 48:46 Cultural differences in participants 49:48 About Odyssey 50:24 Books discussed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Unpacking priorities: clearing life's illusions to find what's really worth your time? This episode dives into different mind traps and how to distinguish noise from necessity. Some lessons: Identifying real vs fleeting values The nature of obsessions Why we get misunderstood Our narrow focus on reality We do an 80:20 analysis of our priorities and get straight on what we need to care about and what doesn't matter. - - Sponsor - Better Help Online therapy can boost you toward being your best self. 10% off at Betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET - - Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Advertise your job to the world's largest pool of professionals, for free! Linked.com/Growth - - Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 The Puppy's Perspective on Value 01:10 The Illusion of Shared Values 02:42 The Local vs. the Global 04:50 The Fickleness of Our Obsessions 06:48 The Value of Meditation and Perspective 09:49 Finding Humor in Our Obsessions 11:33 Escaping the Tyranny of "Reality" 13:12 The Illusion of Our Future Selves 14:52 The Changing Value of Money 16:45 The Temporary and Subjective Nature of Value 18:54 Identifying Your Enduring Values 20:46 Make Better Choices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to crush the 5 hidden barriers blocking your potential. We dive into subtle negative ideas in the mind that take hold and become accepted as normal. This episode is built to give awareness of these mind traps and positive actions to move forward. We cover: Ego Depletion and limited willpower Defeating our inner critic Overcoming the fear of mistakes Confronting Imposter Syndrome Beating distraction This episode is full of wisdom to boost your growth mindset and take control of your own success. Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Promote your job for free to over 1 billion professionals. LinkedIn.com/Growth Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Perfectionism and believing we are too late 02:14 - #1. Inner Critic 04:44 - #2. Fear of mistakes 06:48 - #3. Ego Depletion 09:48 - #4. Imposter Syndrome 12:54 - #5. I am Helpless against Distraction 15:08 ADHD and incorrect use of Diagnosis and Prognosis 16:15 Nir Eyal's 4 point model to beat distraction 16:23 Master Internal Triggers 16:50 Schedule Time for Traction 17:30 Hacking back External Triggers 17:55 Distraction Prevention Pacts 18:59 Recap Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Positive Psychology applied to the shortness of life. A masterclass episode on living wider and deeper with psychologist and author Jodi Wellman. We cover: The walking dead vs astonishingly alive Overcoming habits and autopilot living Regret avoidance and controlling your life Useful positivity vs toxic positivity As they say "Get busy living, or get busy dying". Jodi has a morbid fascination with positive ideas from existential psychology to help brighten your day. Jodi Wellman Book - You Only Die Once Website - Four Thousand Mondays Quiz - How dead or alive are you? Insta - @FourThousandMondays Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 The Shortness of Life 01:23 Defining a Growth Mindset 02:27 Preventing Regrets and Shaping Your Life 04:40 Exploring the Regret Avoidance Bucket List 10:12 Prioritizing Adventure and Novelty 15:12 Overcoming Habits and Autopilot Living 19:17 The Power of Positivity and Potential 24:38 The Astonishingly Alive Model 28:56 Creating Conscious Routines and Rituals 39:56 Honoring Life's Fragility and Impermanence 42:42 Shaking Up the Snow Globe of Everyday Life 49:31 Abandoning What No Longer Serves You 49:31 Consistent Reminders and Psychological Tricks 49:31 Overcoming the Illusion of Personal Specialness 49:35 Earliest Memory 50:48 Kindest Thing 52:12 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Addiction as a mindset pathway -battle for mental freedom. We delve into the hidden snares of addiction that capture our thoughts and dictate our actions. We learn: What is an addiction How our fears control us How default behaviours become amplified Understanding the hidden costs Reclaiming our potential Join us as we explore the journey from being ensnared by addiction to achieving mental liberation. Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Useful fixed beliefs vs limiting fixed beliefs 02:41 Dimensions of our thoughts 03:50 Activating our Auto-Pilot 04:59 Understanding Addiction 06:00 Your mind in addiction 09:29 How do addictions impact ability 10:14 Addictions Undermine Growth and Potential 11:51 The Distraction Ritual 13:02 Taking Responsibility for Addictions 15:31 Changing Your Desire, Not Just Your Behavior 18:03 Reframing Addiction as a Self-Imposed Limitation 19:33 Reclaiming Your Mental Capabilities 20:55 The Power of Embracing Boredom 21:33 Support the podcast by helping a friend Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How backup plans sabotage our success and learning to take calculated risks. What can we learn from the psychology of an incredible military tactic? How can we shape our behaviours and motivations to increase our chances of success? What happens in our minds when we remove Plan B? Matt Higgins is the author of "Burn the Boats" and has the story and success to back it. After growing up in poverty looking after a disabled mother Matt has taken incredible risks to become the success he is today. After deliberately flunking out of school he somehow made it to being a shark on Shark Tank for two seasons. He runs the VC firm RSE Ventures and he has lectured at Harvard Business School for several years. Stay tuned to learn about: Making the most of your strengths and weaknesses When and what to fight for in life How to truly commit to and stick to your intentions Matt Higgins VC Firm - RSE Ventures Insta - @MHiggins X - @MHiggins LinkedIn - Matt Higgins RSE Book - Burn The Boats Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Cortes Burning the boats 01:31 Matt Higgins 04:12 The problem with Plan B 06:15 Managing Risks 10:57 When you should be able to retreat 15:22 Why We Should Not Romaticise Failure 17:41 Life After Shark Tank 24:37 Optimizing Strengths vs Improving Weaknesses 31:55 Importance of Commitment and Setting Intentions 33:54 Inspiring Women 38:57 Earliest Memory 39:38 Kindest Thing 40:39 Wrap up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Explore beyond the edges of your thought patterns and default mind traps. Learn where the line between boring and daring is, without going so far into pure crazy. An adventurous episode today exploring: The dimensionality of existence Zen answers to observing our own behaviours Entropy and chaos Challenging thinking patterns Gravity applied to thoughts What makes life interesting If you have your growth mindset thinking hat on and are ready for some challenging ideas this is the episode for you. Buckle up and enjoy the journey. Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Observing - The Grasshopper and the Centipede 01:29 Transcendent versus experiential thinking 03:06 The Flatness of Our Existence 05:37 Thinking in Dimensions 07:54 Routines and Potential Decisions 11:51 Potential ad? 11:51 Introducing Novelty and Chaos 13:36 Entropy and Being Anti-Entropy Machines 15:45 Living with Intention After a Near-Death Experience 18:03 Forgiveness and Letting Go 19:57 Round up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The psychology of positive energy and influencing the world with warmth and kindness. Dr Harry Cohen is a psychologist and author of "Be the Sun, Not the Salt". A book about the Heliotropic effect applied to human behaviour, and how we can attract and uplift others through our energy and kindness. We cover: What is the Heliotropic effect The fallacy of good ideas without action Taking responsibility for your impact Embracing healthy negativity and avoiding toxic positivity Chasing realistic dreams and avoiding the rat race Mastering feedback and good apologies If you want to learn how to be a better leader, have more friends or be a more caring partner, this will give you some ideas. Harry Cohen Website - Harry Cohen Book - Be the Sun, Not the Salt Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 What psychology learns from biology 01:56 The Heliotropic Effect 04:14 Personality vs Circumstance 08:10 Simplicity vs Complication 11:27 Giving Feedback Effectively 18:10 Apologizing Well 20:13 Embracing Negativity 26:23 Surfing, restlessness and happiness 30:00 Earliest memory 31:40 Kindest thing 32:37 Summary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Avoid mental masturbation, curate an information diet that works, and learn tried and tested strategies to build resilience, positivity and a Growth mindset. Topics: The flaws of most 'self-improvement' content Reality vs ideal Advice without action Strategies that consistently change people's lives The world is full of knowledge of what to do and people not doing it. It is also full of people telling you what to do that are just selling you something that won't change your life. Learn how to screen high-quality content that will actually impact your life and improve your information diet to build a better growth mindset. Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 The Problem with Much Self-Help Advice 03:02 Reality's Complexities vs. Simplistic Advice 06:05 Dangers of Rigid thinking 09:12 Principle 1: Be Kind and Helpful 13:12 Principle 2: Spend Time with Those Who Let You Be Yourself 16:52 Principle 3: Take Ownership and Responsibility 20:12 Send Off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Cultivate emotional wisdom with the bestselling author of Emotional Intelligence for Dummies. Steven J. Stien has worked with the FBI, American Express and even reality TV show Big Brother. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is so important that his lessons are useful for anyone. We explore: Diagnosing your EQ How to build EQ The biggest traits of success in the FBI, air force, army and navy The psychology of reality TV Cross-cultural differences in EQ How to train Empathy If you are interested in learning more about yourself or performing at your best, then EQ is a trait you can and should work on. Steven Stein Bestselling author and psychologist who has worked with leading corporates, defense agencies and some of the biggest reality TV shows. Steven J. Stein Books: EQ Edge: Emotional Intelligence and your success Emotional Intelligence for Dummies Hardiness: Making stress work for you to achieve your goals Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Intro 02:20 Everyday signs of emotional intelligence 05:42 Improving Emotional Intelligence 08:04 Emotional Intelligence in Different Professions 11:32 Coaching for Emotional Intelligence at Work 14:22 The US Air Force Emotional Intelligence Study 17:02 Empathy Training Course 18:38 Emotional Intelligence and Neurodiversity 23:21 Trainable Aspects of Emotional Intelligence 24:39 Building Empathy by Using Drugs 27:10 Personal Growth in Emotional Intelligence 30:40 Reality TV and Emotional Intelligence 34:53 Cross-Cultural Differences in EQ 38:19 General Likability vs. Emotional Intelligence 40:38 Tips to Build Assertiveness 43:36 Relationship between IQ and EQ 49:54 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A fresh look at what it means to be wise - beyond age and experience. Sam challenges and expands upon traditional views of wisdom, to redefine wisdom to be more useful and true. By examining how wisdom influences our life decisions and embracing a broader definition of wisdom, we invite listeners to reconsider their perceptions of wisdom. Personal wisdom begins with acknowledging that wisdom is not exclusively born from age or experience but emerges from making wise choices for personal happiness and understanding wisdom through self-acceptance in your circumstances and embracing who you are. Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 The Wisdom of Youth 01:11 Outgrowing the Need to Prove Yourself 03:05 The Shifting Joys of Travel 06:48 Finding Thrills Closer to Home 08:40 Avoiding Judgment of Others 09:49 Helping Others Find Their Own Path 10:53 Redefining Maturity 12:15 Redefining Wisdom 14:18 Send off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How massive trauma and facing life's fragile nature can lead to people to be truly alive. Near-death experiences can build a positive psychology and the tools for a growth mindset. With my guest Talia Lazarus, we explore the essence of the Phoenix Phenomenon and rising from the ashes renewed. We share stories of resilience, the science behind post-traumatic growth, and practical strategies for leveraging life’s toughest moments to foster an unbreakable spirit. Topics include: Capturing the power of near-death-experiences Uncovering a real growth mindset Resilience training for the school of life How to live without regret Whether you are seeking to overcome personal adversity or feel intrigued by the intersection of psychology and human endurance, this episode offers invaluable insights into thriving beyond survival. Talia Lazarus Insta - @TaliaLazarus Email - [email protected] Blog - I Got Back Up Podcast - Spotify / Apple Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Don't miss you're life whilst your alive 03:00 What is a Growth Mindset 05:34 Talia's Life-Changing Accident 10:13 Trauma impact on attachment style 11:31 The Aftermath and Rock Bottom 12:28 Small changes that add up 13:14 Quitting Her Job to Follow Her Passion 16:26 Ad Break 18:39 Second surgery 21:18 When survival instinct doesn't work 22:46 Most people don't meet their potential 23:47 Perspective-Shifting Experiences 26:37 Dream Experiences vs. Near-Death Experiences 29:05 The Doorstep mile 30:02 Starting the "I Got Back Up" Blog/Podcast 32:08 Mid-roll 2 32:08 The Rear-View Mirror Mentality 35:18 Past Behaviours vs current self 36:04 You are never alone 39:28 Everyone should nearly die once 40:17 Best ways to die and resilience training 42:26 Small acts of kindness 44:28 Spreading More Positivity to Receive It 47:03 You get what you give 48:01 Send off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to take action and get things done. A simple strategy to find clarity on what is important: Being busy vs being productive Eliminate distractions Become accountable to your own priorities Stop being controlled by deadlines No more getting bogged down in being busy, without meaningful progress. Cut through all the productivity advice and get to the heart of doing the thing you need to do. Nothing fancy. - - Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Problems with too much productivity advice 01:40 Doing the thing - Essay 03:12 Busy vs productive 04:51 Productivity for a podcaster 07:04 False productivity - Hiking 08:47 Psychology of productivity 09:31 Procrastination - Temporal Motivation Theory 10:53 Planning Fallacy 11:30 Zegarknik effect - Just start 13:23 AD Break 15:36 -- Questions and Answers -- 15:45 When should I do the thing? 15:55 What if I don't have time? 16:09 How do you make time? 17:09 What if it's hard? 17:59 What if I am not ready to do the thing? 20:56 What if I don't know how to do the thing? 22:12 What if I fail? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Find a compatible partner for long-term happiness. Choosing the right partner is important. We cover everything you need to know: 🙌 Increase the quality of potential partners 🙈 Avoid common dating mistakes ☠️ Early signs of toxic partners 😵‍💫 Unlearn relationship myths 🗺️ Optimal search theory The episode is about the art and science of attracting and choosing the right partner. Discover 12 transformative tools designed to elevate the quality of individuals you draw into your life, ensure more fulfilling dates, and adeptly filter out relationships that drain your energy or detract from your happiness. From enhancing mutual attraction to mastering the art of effective dating screening, we cover essential strategies for fostering connections that enrich your life. Tune in for insights on navigating the dating world with confidence, avoiding common pitfalls, and laying the groundwork for meaningful, long-lasting partnerships Sponsor - Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off Magic Mind discount code: GrowthMS20 Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 How to choose a partner 00:56 Importance of shared values 03:10 Know what you want 05:18 What is the "Optimal Choice" 05:56 Increasing the pool of potential mates 06:45 Go on more dates 08:14 Improving yourself to attract better partners 09:58 4 Mistakes and bad advice when choosing a partner 13:06 Ad - Magic Mind 14:14 4 Dating myths to uncover 20:32 5 Signs to look at when choosing a partner 22:32 Mid-Roll (past relationships) 26:53 Screening for a positive mindset 28:29 Optimal Search Theory 31:18 Sendoff Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The essentials of improving self-worth for better relationships and the practices for self-love that pave the way to finding and keeping love. Jonathon Aslay is known as America's leading mid-life relationships coach and is the author of "What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?" Jonathon sheds light on the importance of self-reflection in dating and how to become someone of worth to others. Learn: the secrets to finding the right partner in modern dating identifying deal-breakers in potential partners the mindsets for lasting love and connection how to cultivate a successful relationship mindset This conversation is a treasure trove of advice for anyone looking to enhance their dating life and build healthy, meaningful relationships. - - - Connect with Jonathan: His website - JonathonAslay.com Watch his advice - YouTube - Jonathon Aslay - - - Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen - - - Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 01:23 - Background 04:17 - What is self-love 07:40 - Wake-up calls are a thing 11:30 - Where humanity is being silly 13:30 - the biggest problems in relationships 17:03 - Notice self-defense 20:00 - It's not what you do, it's how you do it 24:11 - Non-violent communication 28:40 - Read books together 30:40 - Eight dates 36:30 - Earliest memory 38:00 - Kindest thing Topics: finding the right partner in modern dating mistakes to avoid in searching for love improving self-worth for better relationships practices for self-love and partner love Jonathan Aslay's approach to successful dating keys to being a valuable partner in relationships navigating the dating world with confidence the mindset for lasting love and connection identifying deal-breakers in potential partners strategies for attracting the right person the importance of self-reflection in dating transforming your love life with expert advice overcoming common dating pitfalls building a foundation for healthy relationships cultivating a successful relationship mindset Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Learn how to battle intrusive thoughts and create more peace in your mind and in your relationships. We cover the natural thinking pathways that lead to catastrophizing behaviours and how they become overused. We can then address how to start building healthier behaviours that reduce and calm our worries instead of amplifying them. This is an incredible game-changer for relationships as well as helping improve your social life and work life once you can better control your worries and fears before they control you. Sponsor - Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off Magic Mind discount code: GrowthMS20 Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:53 What is catastrophising 04:25 Build awareness 07:17 Magnifying and minimising 08:40 More details feels more real. 10:29 Advert - Magic Mind 11:30 Humans are story telling machines 14:17 Catastrophizing and being diagnosed with ADHD 17:03 Balancing worst and best scenarios 18:09 Social anxiety example 19:55 Write a journal 21:17 Alex Hormozi selling gym subscriptions 21:55 Want and don't want chair 24:39 4 stages of intrusive thoughts 30:03 Mitigating catastrophization 34:08 Growth mindset Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Conversation drives the mechanics of love and connection. We talk with Topaz Adizes, the brilliant mind behind '12 Questions for Love' to increase the quality of our conversations. We explore the methodology behind asking the right questions to foster deeper intimacy and understanding in relationships. Topaz Azides is an Emmy award-winning film director, experience designer, and founder of Skin Deep. He shares his insights on engineering experiences that enrich our emotional bonds and the importance of a mindful approach to love. With a blend of storytelling and analysis, this conversation unveils the layers of human connection, offering listeners a unique perspective on improving their relationships. If you're curious about the science and art of love, don't miss this enlightening discussion. Topics include: How to improve communication in relationships Techniques to create spaces that enhance emotional intimacy How to craft better questions Navigating conflict with compassion and empathy Strategies for maintaining passion in long-term relationships Cultivating a growth mindset in love and life Sponsor - Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off Magic Mind discount code: GrowthMS20 Topaz Azides Experience designer and self-described story-breaker. Here are links to Topaz's best resources. Book - 12 Questions for Love Card Game - THE_AND Tik Tok - @TheSkinDeep YouTube - TheSkinDeep Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 Do we control our thoughts 03:50 Architecting Experiences 08:31 Finding new dimensions in our moments 11:34 What makes a brilliant question 15:23 Humans are answering machines 17:41 Advert - Magic Mind 19:07 Great questions for life 21:23 Power of being articulate 23:31 Importance of attention 25:27 Question loops 27:31 Chapters of life 31:20 Dangers of quick fixes - should a relationship be allowed to end 36:43 Cultural or regional variations 39:46 Daily practices or habits for sustaining a relationship 43:29 How to stay positive 48:17 Future projects 50:58 Reflections Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What makes you... you? How much of that can you decide? These are the big questions we tackle in this short Life Lesson bonus episode for some ideas to percolate over the weekend and take forward with us. From the attachment styles we learnt as children to our accents and even how we think about learning. These are all behaviours that are up to us if we choose to be pro-active about how we show up in life and who we want to be. We'll learn how to act consistently with compounding behaviours over time to build brick by brick the big changes we want to make. We'll build techniques to unlearn negative behaviors and utilise a Growth mindset to focus on positive development Sponsor - Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off Magic Mind discount code: GrowthMS20 Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 What makes you, you? 03:05 Memory and the self 04:33 British Accents and lessons of children 06:11 Attachment and behaviour 08:13 Small Actions Compound 09:50 Advert - Magic Mind 10:43 Opening our minds 11:58 Every story has a villain 12:45 Battling the expectations in your mind 14:30 Feedback 15:57 Send Off Links: Tim Urban - Why Generation Y is Unhappy Steven Pressfield - Every story needs a villian How I write with Tim Urban - Why your writing is boring Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/growth-mindset-podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We clear the complex waters of setting healthy boundaries in relationships, a masterclass designed to empower you with the tools for understanding and creating boundaries that foster freedom and respect. Join us as we navigate the nuances of recognizing and avoiding porous or rigid boundaries and understand the impact of weak boundaries on personal well-being. We explore strategies for balancing personal needs with those of others, ensuring your relationships are built on a foundation of mutual respect and understanding. Discover practical steps for identifying personal, social and value-based boundaries and learn how to communicate boundaries without feeling selfish. As a bonus we tackle the challenges of navigating work-life balance through effective boundary setting, offering insights on developing assertiveness in boundary communication. Sponsor - Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off Magic Mind discount code: GrowthMS20 10 signs of Boundary issues Difficulty making decisions Feeling selfish for saying no Frequent apologizing Uncertainty about what to share Passive aggressiveness Losing sense of self Need for external validation Resentment A constant sense of fatigue Dramatic relationships Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 What are boundaries 02:24 Pre-roll 02:55 Boundaries in life 05:06 Why boundaries need balance 07:15 10 signs of poor boundaries 11:30 Abusive situations 14:53 AD - MagicMind 16:41 Weak boundaries 18:48 Rigid boundaries 20:36 Why we struggle with boundaries 24:36 Creating healthy boundaries 25:05 Personal Boundaries 25:34 Social Boundaries 26:55 Mid-roll 26:58 Value-based boundaries 28:17 Communicating boundaries 29:59 Traffic light framework 33:32 The importance of independence 36:15 Book suggestions Topics: how to set healthy boundaries in relationships understanding the impact of weak boundaries on personal well-being examples of setting boundaries with family and friends communicating boundaries without feeling selfish navigating work-life balance through effective boundary setting recognizing and avoiding porous or rigid boundaries the role of cultural background in boundary setting practical steps for identifying personal vs social boundaries developing assertiveness in boundary communication dealing with boundary violations in close relationships creating stronger relationships through clear boundaries boundary setting for self-care and mental health strategies for balancing personal needs with those of others overcoming fear of conflict when setting boundaries transforming family patterns with healthy boundary practices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We explore the profound impact of attachment theory on relationship dynamics, focusing on overcoming fears of intimacy linked to avoidant attachment and the influence of childhood experiences on adult attachment styles. Discover practical tips for anxious attachers seeking relationship harmony and learn how creating a secure base in relationships encourages growth and exploration. Whether you're dealing with attachment style mismatches or seeking to enhance emotional intelligence based on attachment theory, we provide insights and strategies to navigate the complexities of love and attachment, aiming for happier, healthier partnerships. Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off code: GrowthMS20 Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 Importance of Attachment 03:09 Origin of Attachment Theory 04:38 Secure Attachment 05:32 Anxious Attachment 06:38 Avoidant Attachment 07:21 Disorganised Attachment 07:43 Impact on relationships 10:59 Ad - MagicMind 12:36 Common Mistakes 14:55 #1 Overgeneralize Attachment styles 15:48 #2 Forgetting Context 17:47 #3 Stigmatising Attachment styles 19:11 #4 Oversimplifying relationships 19:43 #5 Using Attachment as an excuse 20:22 #6 Ignoring potential for change 21:11 Mid-roll 21:14 Improving attachment styles 24:28 Improving Anxious attachment 27:03 Avoidant attachment traits 28:57 Improving avoidant attachment 30:20 Deeper area to explore Topics: understanding attachment theory in adult relationships overcoming anxious attachment style challenges building secure attachments in romantic partnerships strategies for dealing with avoidant attachment in partners common mistakes in interpreting attachment behaviors fostering secure attachment dynamics in long-term relationships identifying your attachment style for better relationship outcomes transforming anxious attachment into secure connections navigating avoidant attachment tendencies in relationships effective communication strategies for different attachment styles healing from insecure attachments through therapy and self-reflection the role of attachment theory in enhancing relationship satisfaction attachment style mismatches and resolving conflict developing emotional intelligence based on attachment theory attachment theory and its impact on relationship stability signs of secure attachment in couples and how to cultivate it managing relationship anxiety with insights from attachment theory attachment theory techniques for deepening emotional intimacy overcoming fears of intimacy linked to avoidant attachment the influence of childhood experiences on adult attachment styles practical tips for anxious attachers seeking relationship harmony Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join us on a journey through the labyrinth of love and the 15 keys to crafting harmony in romance and life. This episode tackles the subtle nuances that make or break relationships, including the importance of open communication, respecting privacy, and the art of compromise. Discover how to strike the perfect balance between giving and receiving, the significance of shared values, and the critical role of empathy and understanding. With stories that illustrate the beauty and challenges of love, this episode is a guide for anyone looking to enrich their romantic relationships and build lasting bonds. - - Sponsor - Better Help Online therapy can boost you toward being your best self. 10% off at Betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET - - Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Advertise your job to the world's largest pool of professionals, for free! Linked.com/Growth - - Growth Mindset podSam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen - - Chapters: 00:00 Strength through vulnerability 02:04 The closest cuts are the Deepest 03:26 Disgusting is Delightful 04:36 Craving for attention vs. repulsing against it 06:16 Distance breeds Closeness 07:06 Unity Needs Conflict 07:57 Accepting vs Growing a partner 09:38 Imperfect is perfect 10:37 Reality vs Expectations 12:18 Equality and diversity 14:07 Ad - BetterHelp 15:19 Ad - Linked In 16:31 Relationships are not easy 17:22 Selfishness to be altruistic 18:58 Nurture Transparency and Privacy 20:28 Paradox of Commitment for Freedom 21:26 Comfort vs passion 22:33 Independence vs Interdependence 23:39 Life is beautiful but cruel Topics: Emotional openness in relationships The closest people can hurt us the most Alain De Botton on unspoken needs in love Disgusting-delightful paradox of intimacy Craving versus repulsing attention in romance Navigating sexual attention and consent Confidence in approaching potential partners Distance and closeness in relationships Conflict as a catalyst for unity Accepting partners versus encouraging growth Embracing imperfections in love Reality versus expectations in relationships Strengths and weaknesses in partners Equality through celebrating differences Effort and ease in maintaining relationships Selfishness-altruism paradox in partnerships Balancing transparency and privacy Freedom within commitment paradox Predictability versus spontaneity in love Independence and interdependence in relationships Balance in relationships and life insights Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Explore the dynamic interplay between solitude and connection in our latest episode on the Loneliness Paradox. This episode provides insights into overcoming the fear of loneliness, and creating a more peaceful self-assured independence and self-awareness to foster stronger emotional intimacy. Through discussions on the psychology of understanding love and the benefits of independence in love, we offer listeners a guide to cultivating fulfilling relationships that thrive on both togetherness and individuality. Instead of fearing loneliness, we can turn solitude into a strength. We’ll use core growth mindset strategies to work on our relationship with ourselves to then employ strategies to work on our relationships with others. - - - Sponsor - Better Help Online therapy can boost you on your way to being your best self. 10% off at Betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET - - - Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Advertise your job to the world's largest pool of professionals, for free! Linked.com/Growth - - - Growth mindset podcastHost Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) - - - Title: The Loneliness Paradox: Why Independence is Key to Connection Chapters:00:00 The dichotomy of friendship 02:49 Fear of loneliness problems 03:34 Poor choices 04:00 Compunding small problems 04:30 Weakness in asserting our needs 04:53 Learned helplessness 05:26 Loss of freedom 05:45 Disconnection from ourself 06:06 Acceptance of mediocrity 07:10 Forgiveness and evolution in friendships 09:03 Bearing witness 10:21 Ad - BetterHelp 11:34 Ad - Linked In 12:46 Adopting a growth mindset 18:05 How to build healthy long-term relationships 18:37 Communication strategies 20:03 Express appreciation more often 20:46 Deepening our understanding 22:30 Creating shared experiences 24:21 Trust yourself and take that leap forward Topics:benefits of independence in love embracing solitude for personal growth active listening techniques for couples expressing gratitude in romantic relationships shared experiences that bond partners deep conversations with your partner tips how to be vulnerable with loved ones creating meaningful traditions in relationships importance of friendship in marriage overcoming the fear of loneliness growth mindset in romantic relationships psychology of building strong connections navigating the balance between independence and intimacy strengthening relationships through self-awareness the role of psychology in understanding love cultivating a healthy relationship with oneself ways to enhance emotional intimacy strategies for effective communication in love Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Explore the heart's invisible forces by understanding the biology behind love in our latest episode, where we decode the science of love through the lens of psychology and self-improvement. Learn about the hormonal effects on romantic behaviors, the significance of attachment hormones in humans, and how understanding the neurochemistry of love can lead to better decision-making in love. We'll discuss the evolutionary psychology of human bonding, the positive and negative effects of high vasopressin, and how hormonal contraception influences emotional attachment. This insightful episode is designed for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of love's biological foundations to enhance their emotional well-being and relationship dynamics. Stay tuned all season to join us for a journey into the heart of love's scientific secrets. - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be our best. - - - Connect with Sam: Creativity Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Title: The Science of Love, Desire and Attachment Chapters: 00:00 What is love 01:20 The 3 main components of love 02:09 Pre-roll Advert 02:16 The Biology of Love 03:26 Lust and the role of sex hormones 06:35 Attraction and reward pathways 09:18 Attachment and bonding hormones 11:30 Love's addictive power and irrationality 12:37 Mid-roll 12:41 Infatuation, dependency and Controlling behaviors 13:45 Reckless and destructive tendencies 15:05 How we lose rational thinking 17:40 Choosing the right partner 19:01 Cultivating healthy relationship habits 19:40 Send Off Topics: Biology of love, attraction, and hormones Science behind romantic connections Impact of oxytocin on relationships Vasopressin and pair bonding Growth mindset thinking in romance Mindsets behind healthy relationships Neurochemistry of love Hormonal effects on romantic behaviors Testosterone and lust in love Estrogen's role in attraction Attachment hormones in humans Neurological basis of love Consequences of love hormone imbalances Chemical romance and emotional health My Chemical Romance - The science behind lust, attraction and attachment Oxytocin and trust in relationships Negative effects of high vasopressin Hormones and decision making in love Science of long-term attachment Biological differences in love perception Love addiction and dopamine Evolutionary psychology of human bonding Hormonal contraception and emotional attachment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We conclude the season reflecting on the most powerful lessons of stoicism and how to incorporate them into our lives to make lasting changes and improvements. We embark on a journey through Stoic wisdom for handling life's uncertainties and the Stoic approach to facing fears and anxieties. Uncover how Stoic practices for modern life challenges can transform your approach to daily obstacles, fostering a profound sense of contentment and resilience. The essence of Stoic teaching distinguishes between opinion and fact, and how this critical thinking can lead to a more fulfilled existence. By applying Stoicism to enhance personal growth, we explore strategies for simplifying life and understanding our duties to help others. Tune in to discover the transformative power of Stoicism in cultivating a growth mindset and steering your life towards true happiness and fulfillment. - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. - - - Connect with Sam: Creativity Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Instagram - @SamJam.zen - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: 10 Stoic Questions For a Full Life Chapters: 00:00 Connecting Stoic wisdom and growth mindsets 01:38 Pre-roll advert 01:48 10 Stoic questions for growth 02:22 Am I Practicing What I Preach? 03:41 How can I simplify my life to focus on what's important? 05:41 Will this matter in one year or five years? 08:00 What is within my control? 09:53 How can I turn obstacles into opportunities? 12:00 What is the simplest action to improve things? 13:56 Mid-roll advert 14:00 What fears are holding me back? 14:56 How am I contributing to my dissatisfaction? 16:24 To be or to do? 17:54 Are you doing your job? 18:58 Bonus - What would it mean to live a good life today? 20:30 Send off Topics Psychology of growth mindset and fixed mindset Increasing happiness through Stoicism How Stoic philosophy improves daily life Turning obstacles into opportunities Stoicism Stoic practices for modern life challenges Stoicism according to science Benefits of living a Stoic life Applying Stoicism to enhance personal growth Stoic questions for self-reflection and improvement Achieving contentment with Stoic principles Stoic wisdom for handling life's uncertainties Building resilience through Stoic teachings Difference between opinion and fact in Stoicism Stoic approach to facing fears and anxieties Simplifying life with Stoic guidance Understanding duties and helping others Stoicism Living a good life according to Stoics Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We delve deep into stoicism and psychological strategies to empower your present self, aligning it seamlessly with your future goals. Discover the importance of living authentically, where your actions resonate louder than words. This journey through mindset transformation offers practical steps to build authority, embrace reality-based personal growth, and understand the dynamics of past versus present selves. It's time to take ownership and craft a fulfilling life Learn how to stop disappointing yourself by aligning your present actions with your future vision. We dissect the ancient stoics to James Clear to give an overview of how to build a stronger mindset for personal growth over blame and fixed mindset disappointment. This is a short masterclass on taking ownership of your life decisions and cultivating a proactive, reality-based approach to growth. Ready to change your life? Listen in. - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be our best. - - - Connect with Sam: Creativity Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Instagram - @SamJam.zen - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: Stop Disappointing Yourself: The Four Pillars of Tranquility - A blueprint for accountability and inner peace Chapters: 00:00 Stop dissappointing yourself 01:13 #1 - Past self vs. present self 02:30 Live in reality 02:41 #2 - Future self vs the present 03:07 James Clear Quote 04:47 Align present self with future desires 04:54 #3 Speaking vs. being heard 05:59 Build authority 08:42 Actions are louder than words 08:48 Mid Roll 08:59 #4 Taking ownership 11:06 Stop blame and start owning 11:11 Summary 12:53 Outro Topics: Empowerment through personal accountability Overcoming self-disappointment strategies Stoicism and modern mindset lessons Reality-based personal growth techniques Aligning present actions with future goals James Clear’s insights on self-improvement Building authority for impactful opinions Actions over words in self-development Psychological approach to personal ownership Taking charge of life decisions Stoic philosophy in everyday life Practical steps to stop self-disappointment Creating a proactive life plan Balancing present and future selves Self-accountability and mental strength Transformative mindset change methods Living authentically and responsibly Strategies for effective personal expression Crafting a fulfilling present and future Personal empowerment through stoicism and psychology Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dive deep into the science of mental toughness by exploring the four critical elements - Control, Commitment, Challenge, and Confidence. Understand how to build social confidence, develop emotional control techniques, and enhance life control through practical psychological methods. We delve into historical examples of mental toughness and how to build grit, inner strength and mind control in the face of adversity. Demonstrating the profound impact of resilience on personal growth and leadership. Learn about applying stoicism to modern life challenges, nurturing a strong growth mindset, and the importance of risk orientation in achieving success. Whether you're looking to overcome personal hurdles or aiming to improve your leadership skills, this episode offers invaluable insights into developing a resilient and growth-oriented mindset. - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be our best. - - - Connect with Sam: Creativity Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Twitter - @samjamharris Instagram - @SamJam.zen - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: The Science of Mental Toughness; Harness The Power of Grit, Resilience and Mental Fortitude to Navigate Life’s Seas Chapters 00:00 The meaning of suffering 02:00 Pre-roll Advert 02:19 The 4 elements of mental toughness 02:52 Quadrant of control 07:18 Quadrant of commitment 11:04 Quadrant of challenge 15:55 Mid-roll 16:04 Quadrant of confidence 21:01 Building mental toughness requires practice 27:02 Enjoy the journey Topics The Science Behind Resilience Frameworks of mental toughness Fixed mindset vs. growth mindset Ancient wisdom from the Stoics Mental Toughness Strategies in Psychology Developing Emotional Control Techniques Overcoming Life Challenges with Resilience Growth Mindset and Mental Toughness Achieving Goals with Achievement Orientation Building Interpersonal Confidence Effectively Psychological Methods for Better Life Control Historical Examples of Mental Toughness Mental Toughness in Personal Development Applying Stoicism in Modern Life Challenges Enhancing Commitment in Personal Growth Learning from Setbacks and Failures Building Confidence through Positive Psychology Importance of Risk Orientation in Success Methods for Improving Goal Orientation Psychology Behind Mental Resilience and Toughness Impact of Mental Toughness on Leadership Nurturing a Strong Growth Mindset Historical Leaders with Strong Emotional Control Practical Tips for Self-Discipline and Commitment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We explore 16 paradoxes that challenge conventional wisdom, from the Freedom Paradox to the Happiness Paradox. Discover how understanding these contradictions can offer profound insights into personal growth and the human psyche. Whether it's the Intelligence Paradox that reveals knowledge's limitations or the Persuasion Paradox that underscores the power of listening, each paradox provides a unique lens through which to view our struggles and triumphs. Join us as we unravel these complexities, shedding light on how embracing life's paradoxes can enrich our journey toward self-improvement and a deeper understanding of the world. - - - Sponsor - Better Help Therapy can boost you on your way to being your best self. 10% off online therapy at betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be our best. - - - Connect with Sam: Creativity Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Twitter - @samjamharris Instagram - @SamJam.zen - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: 16 Paradoxes of Life; How to Leverage Them Chapters: 00:00 16 paradoxes of life 02:08 Advice Paradox 02:56 More can be less Paradox 03:39 Freedom Paradox 05:12 Growth Paradox 06:28 Wisdom Paradox 07:44 Intelligence Paradox 09:14 Persuasion Paradox 10:20 Insecurity screams and confidence whispers 11:47 Simple future paradox 13:30 ADVERT - BetterHelp 14:43 Productivity Paradox 16:45 Stress relieves stress 17:40 Harder is easier 18:32 Unpleasant moments create pleasant memories 19:14 Failure Paradox 19:35 Control Paradox 20:17 Happiness Paradox 21:59 Death Paradox 22:53 Send off Topics: Understanding life's paradoxes psychology podcast episode Exploring paradoxes in growth mindset and self-improvement Freedom Paradox insights for personal development Growth Paradox discussion in psychology and philosophy Navigating the Wisdom Paradox in self-improvement journeys Intelligence Paradox implications for growth mindset Persuasion techniques and the Persuasion Paradox Insecurity and confidence dynamics in personal growth Simplifying complex thoughts for mental clarity Productivity strategies and the Productivity Paradox Using stress management techniques to relieve stress Approaching challenges with the Harder is Easier mindset Creating positive memories from unpleasant experiences Learning from failure with the Failure Paradox The Control Paradox in psychology and personal development Finding true happiness with the Happiness Paradox Memento Mori and the Death Paradox in life philosophy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Explore the timeless lessons from the Enchiridion, a manual for living by Epictetus Uncover how ancient Stoic principles provide practical guidance for today's challenges, offering insights into personal development and psychological resilience. Learn to apply Epictetus's teachings to cultivate a resilient mindset, manage stress, and transform obstacles into opportunities for growth. This episode bridges the gap between Stoicism and contemporary psychology, highlighting its relevance in cognitive behavioral therapy and everyday life. Join us on a transformative journey to harness the power of Stoicism for personal and psychological empowerment. - - - Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Advertise your job for free to the world's largest pool of professionals. https://linkedin.com/growth - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be the best we can be. - - - Connect with Sam: Sam's newsletter on creativity - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Twitter - @samjamharris Instagram - @SamJam.zen - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: The Stoics Guide to Freedom: Mastering Life with Epictetus Chapters: 00:00 Epictetus' Enchiridion: The Handbook to Life 02:18 Overview of The Dichotomy of Control 04:50 Vipassana: accepting impermanence and change 06:32 Work with what you have and make the best of it 08:09 Loving without attachment 09:48 Going with the flow 10:46 Life as a banquet 13:00 ADVERT - LinkedIn Jobs 14:10 Have a perspective on your own life 15:08 Chinese farmer parable 16:47 Responding to insults 19:36 Takeaways from the Enchiridion 21:16 Wrap up Topics: Self-improvement lessons Wiser than yesterday Patience and persistence for growth mindset Epictetus Enchiridion Stoicism lessons Growth mindset insights from Epictetus Applying Enchiridion principles in modern life Stoic philosophy for personal development Psychological wisdom from Epictetus's teachings Enchiridion guide to self-improvement Epictetus's advice on mental resilience Incorporating Stoicism into growth mindset practices Ancient Stoic strategies for modern challenges Epictetus's influence on cognitive behavioral therapy Learning Stoicism for better mental health Epictetus's philosophy in everyday life Self-improvement lessons from the Enchiridion Adopting Epictetus's teachings for personal growth Understanding Stoicism through Epictetus Practical Stoicism for stress management Enchiridion techniques for mindset transformation Stoic principles for enhancing mental strength Epictetus's Stoic wisdom for life challenges Harnessing Stoicism for psychological resilience Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you feel like you're always rushing and never accomplishing anything meaningful? It's time to ditch the addiction to speed and rediscover the power of patience. We know that "Slow and steady wins the race" yet today's culture has a new obsession, SPEED. We want to get rich quick, build abs in 10 minutes and we want to go everywhere and we want to do it NOW. This episode will recalibrate how you think about progress and recalibrate your approach to goals, habits, and mindset. Stop seeking instant gratification and superficial gains. Ditch distraction and shift your focus from superficial productivity to deep, compounding gains. Slow down and rediscover the joy of the journey without racing to the destination! - - - Sponsor - LinkedIn Jobs Advertise your job for free to the world's largest pool of professionals. https://linkedin.com/growth - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Connect with Sam: Sam's newsletter on creativity - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Twitter - @samjamharris Instagram - @SamJam.zen - - - Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Slow Down - Work Purposefully - Build Momentum Chapters: 00:00 How to create real impact 01:45 Pre-roll break 01:47 Idolising speed 03:58 Building true momentum 06:42 Optionality is a curse - build focus and inertia 10:37 Michael Jordan's secret to success 11:17 The problems with modern dating 12:06 LinkedIn Jobs - AD 14:13 Social media fuels our addiction to speed 16:48 Marcus Aurelius on the power of slowing down 18:03 Patience creating happiness and growth 21:14 Realizations of ADHD 21:55 Going "all in" builds momentum 22:37 Send off Topics: self-improvement lessons patience and persistence for growth mindset instant results, poor foundations recalibrating mindsets building momentum for progress ancient wisdom from stoicism Mr. Beast's mindset for long-term content strategy analysis Michael Jordan's work ethic and persistence Marcus Aurelius meditations problems with modern relationships Charles Darwin's routine and slow observation evolutionary theory impact compounding gains over time Overcoming the speed delusion in personal development The myth of doing more faster debunked Forbes 30 under 30 reality vs. expectation The power of patience in achieving goals Avoiding the trap of rushing in modern life Long-term success strategies in psychology and business Embracing slow progress for meaningful achievements Psychological benefits of a slower approach to success Growth mindset approach to long-term goal setting The illusion of quick success in the digital age Lessons from Michael Jordan on patience and growth Charles Darwin's contributions to understanding slow progress How Mr. Beast's patience built a YouTube empire Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

No matter what life throws your way in 2024, adopting a Stoic mindset can set you up for both success and satisfaction. Join our host, Sam Webster Harris, as he walks through 24 powerful Stoic rules that are just as important today as 2000 years ago. The lessons will help you develop more mindfulness, discipline, generosity, calmness, and contentment in your life. We'll tackle big ideas like controlling what you can control, letting go of resentment, and finding joy in simple things. So tune in to learn how embracing voluntary discomfort, practicing gratitude, and reviewing your actions can help you achieve equanimity and personal growth. With a little bit of Stoic philosophy in your back pocket, you'll be ready to handle whatever comes your way with grace and wisdom. Episode recommendations: Gratitude Lessons (That Don't Suck) Diagnose and Fix Your Real Problems - - - Sponsor - Better Help Therapy can boost you on your way to being your best self. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET for 10% off. - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be our best. - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: 24 Stoic Rules To Change Your Life Chapter: 00:00 The answer for living a good life 01:31 Pre-roll advert 01:35 24 Rules of Stoicism 02:02 #1 02:49 #2 04:29 #3 06:47 #4 07:47 #5 09:43 #6 10:47 #7 11:46 #8 13:25 #9 14:45 #10 16:05 #11 17:27 BetterHelp ad 18:46 #12 19:42 #13 20:37 #14 21:31 #15 22:25 #16 23:25 #17 24:39 #18 25:21 #19 26:01 #20 27:01 #21 27:41 #22 28:53 #23 29:53 #24 30:33 Bonus Topics: biggest lessons of stoicism stoicism principles and mindsets ancient stoic wisdom growth mindset psychology resilience and grit cultivating generosity gratitude practices Everyday mindfulness self-discipline and growth reflection, improvement learning self-improvement podcast ancient philosophy for modern times live like a stoic boosting inner strength handling adversity overcoming challenges and setbacks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you ready to unlock your full potential and make smarter decisions in 2024? This episode provides a blueprint for developing true intelligence and wisdom. Learn why IQ is not the only determinant of success and what the components of complete intelligence are. Study practices anyone can use to reveal the thought patterns and habits holding you back. Learn daily practices to increase intelligence and open up new patterns of thinking. Whether you want to improve relationships, find fulfilling work, create healthy habits, or set goals, this episode will teach you how to reflect on the past year and make choices without regret moving forward. You'll get tips on diversifying your learning, adopting a growth mindset, deliberate practice for better decision-making, and leveraging your emotional intelligence. Become a lifelong learner, gain awareness through introspection, and develop the mental strength to create the life you want. Journal Prompts Free list of prompt questions - - - Sponsor - Better Help Online therapy to get you on your way to being your best self. 10% off - betterhelp.com/GROWTHMINDSET - - - Growth Mindset podcast Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch us - YouTube (Growth Mindset) - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Episode: How to Nurture Intelligence and Wisdom Chapters: 00:00 Making more intelligent decisions 01:02 Pre-roll advert 01:06 Behaving intelligently 08:33 Spotting patterns in your environment and learning from them 12:29 Experiment and adapt quickly 13:56 Spotting patterns 16:58 Dedicate time 18:41 Betterhelp ad 20:00 Be an intelligent investor 26:38 Questions that will give a motivational boost if you're feeling lost 28:16 Journaling prompts 30:36 Feedback from peers and friends 33:11 Therapy and coaching 34:46 Deliberate practice 38:15 Send off Topics: Daily Practices to Increase Intelligence Cultivating Intelligence through Growth Mindset Expanding Wisdom with Positive Attitude Practices Embracing Mistakes for Intellectual Growth Strategies for Developing a Growth Mindset The Role of Positivity in Enhancing Intelligence Overcoming Fear of Failure to Boost Wisdom Practical Tips for Fostering a Growth Mindset Building Smarter Habits for Lifelong Learning Growth Mindset Techniques for Wisdom Enhancement Learning from Mistakes: A Path to Greater Intelligence Creating a Culture of Continuous Intellectual Improvement The Intersection of Positive Attitude and Smart Growth Transforming Your Mindset for Enhanced Cognitive Abilities Unlocking the Power of Positive Thinking for Smarter Learning The Journey to Intellectual Brilliance via Growth Mindset Harnessing the Power of Positivity for Intellectual Advancements Evolving Beyond Mistakes with a Growth-Oriented Approach Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices