Delight Your Marriage

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Tony Ingrassia of powerofpurity.org. Tony is incredibly brave to share his story. He describes the importance of understanding your sexual journey and how it affects who you are today. He happened upon his father’s pornography as a kid, was abused as a young man which led into adulterous affairs when he was unhappily married. Tony shares the hope found in our saviour and how God can take the horrible parts of our lives and resurrect into new life. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/73

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Jay Dee of sexwithinmarriage.com. It’s so easy to slip into a habit of ho-hum intimacy. But Jay says you’re robbing yourself and your husband of the wonderful experience sex is meant to be. He talks about how to become more engaged as a wife and why being engaged is even important. How can a man speak to this? Well, he answers that too! This is a journey but there are plenty of keys here to get started. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/72 Get "Becoming More Sexually Engaged for Christian Wives" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/72 and receive a significant discount for a limited time! Join our joint webinar coming up: delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Kay Bruner of kaybruner.com. On this episode, she talks about how her marriage looks like now. She reminds us to stop trying so hard and to just let go. Kay also shares how she stopped worrying about every single thing and tells us that God is always there for us; He will never forsake us. Kay also shares about the time when she wasn’t that open to the blessings of God, thinking that she can handle everything on her own. But the truth is, we all need his grace. We just have to be more gracious toward Him. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/71 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/70

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Kay Bruner of kaybruner.com. Kay was a former missionary and had been to other parts of the world, sharing the Word of God. On this episode, Kay tells us about the struggles she and her husband went through in their relationship. She talks openly about her husband’s past porn addiction and how she felt devastated when she learned of this. She became severely depressed and anxious, to the point that she couldn’t move! Kay also shares about what it was like to transition back into the United States, with no church. She has an amazing story to tell, and I do urge you to listen to this interview, as I’m sure it will touch your heart. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/70

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I'm doing a solo show and I'll be talking about sex, as we often do. How much sex is enough? On this episode, I talk about the purpose of sex, the difference in perception of sex in men and women, and how to care for your spouse's desires. I also share about the effects of the absence of sex in my own life due to some recent medical issues, which made me realize how sexual intimacy is a deeper, more emotional experience for our husbands. Sign up for my upcoming FREE webinar Specifics of Amazing Peni: Master the Four Stages and the Mindset for an Amazing Experience by going to www.delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with J Parker of solideogloriasisterhood.com. This time, Jen tells us how her marriage looks like today, after all the struggles, after all the pain and suffering. She talks about moving on to create a happier life, knowing that there is something good at the end. Jen shares that marriage requires teamwork, and that it should always be the two of you. Also, don’t miss her intimacy tips! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/68 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/67 Check out my video series How To Spice Up The Bedroom!

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Jen Ferguson of solideogloriasisterhood.com. On this episode, she talks about how porn created friction between her and her husband and made her doubt herself. Jen also discussed how she tried very hard to manipulate and control everything, but she learned to let go later on. And because she had loosened up, she was able to help fix her husband’s porn addiction because she understood more, because she took a step back and saw the entire picture. Together, Jen and her husband fought against porn addiction and for their marriage. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/67 Get my video series: How To Spice Up The Bedroom!

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with J Parker of hotholyhumorous.com. On this episode, she talks more about opening up oneself to intimacy. She tells us to awaken love within us, so that we may be able to enjoy sex more. J also gives out tips on how to increase pleasure during sex. She stresses the importance of speaking up and asking for what you want and need during lovemaking, but that’s just the beginning of her sizzling advice! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/65 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/064 Check out my video series How To Spice Up The Bedroom!

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me J Parker of hotholyhumorous.com. She was one of my very first guests here on the Delight Your Marriage podcast, and I am so glad that she is back for another episode. J emphasizes the importance of sex and tells us why it is something that we should all be enjoying in our marriage. She gives us tips and advice, from prepping your mind to setting the mood for intimacy. It’s a fantastic episode, you’ll definitely learn a lot! So listen in and be inspired. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/064 Get my video series: How To Spice Up The Bedroom!

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Sara, a DYM listener. On this episode, she shares valuable tips and advice about how to treat your husband, about intimacy, and about prayer. Sara emphasizes on respect and how changing her attitude has driven her and her husband to become best friends. She also stresses the importance of being present in the bedroom, of actually desiring to be with your husband, to want to fulfill his desires. Don’t miss her insights about oral sex and her tips for intimacy. Hint: It has something to do with Cadillacs and coconut oil! Curious? Listen in! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/63 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/62 Receive a 3-Part Video Series from me, Belah, called How To Spice Up The Bedroom to delightyourmarriage.com/video Special announcement: No DYM podcast next week so you can enjoy the video series!

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Sara. She is a Delight Your Marriage podcast listener, and she reached out to me to share to everyone, to all you listeners, her marital journey. She has gone through ups and downs; she has felt pain and overcome it as well. Sara talks about how she realized that by showing respect to her husband, she ultimately turned their marriage around and saving it. Listen in as Sara tells us what it means to respect your spouse, and how it can greatly affect your relationship. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/62 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Laura Doyle of lauradoyle.org. On this episode, she gives us a picture of how her marriage looks like now, after letting go of the fear and learning from her own mistakes. Laura talks specifically about makings sex about you---say what you want to get what you want for pleasure. And she tells us that if words seems to be awkward in the bedroom, then whisper to your husband somewhere else and make him paint a picture of your intimacy in his head. It's a total win-win! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/61 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/60 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Laura Doyle of the surrenderedwife.com. Laura is an amazing wife who has gone through a lot of lessons in her married life; lessons which taught her to be strong and steadfast, all done with faith in the Lord. On this episode, she talks about the beginning stages of her marriage and how she realized that she had been doing it wrong. Laura shares to us how important it is to let go and just be more aware of the relationship, to not be afraid to speak up, and to focus on a pleasurable and more passionate intimate marriage. She tells us about how her being controlling drove her husband to become distant, and that once she decided to stop complaining and started working on her flaws, she eventually enjoyed the fruits of a delightful and pleasure-filled marriage. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/60 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Gaye Christmus of calmhealthysexy.com. On this episode, she digs deeper into why relationships tend to turn stale whenever the hustle and bustle of childrearing and work and all those things that keep us busy, die down. She emphasizes on making time, freeing up your calendar for things like going on date nights with your husband and basically just talking and engaging with each other. Gaye tells us not to be afraid of taking things slow. Deal with things, talk openly about sex, be more intentional in your commitment as a spouse---these are the key points on this interview that you would not want to miss! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/59 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/58 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Gaye Christmus of calmhealthysexy.com. This episode is such a refreshing and eye-opening conversation between Gaye and I about the differences in perception of sex and sexual responses among men and women. She helps us understand the process, which she had to go through herself, of learning that culture’s dictation of sex is from a male’s perspective. She also is firm in her belief that if we only let God lead us and if we are willing to follow, He will bring us to where we ought to be. Listen in and join us as Gaye also gives out helpful advice on how to work difficult things out in your marriage. We can get through it; it’s part of God’s plan! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/58 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Debi Walter of theromanticvineyard.com. On this episode, she looks back at the hardships she had gone through in all the 30-plus years of her marriage to husband Tom, including the pain of letting go of her children as they grow up and live their own lives. It’s inspiring how when she talks about these hardships, she is careful to note that all we go through, all struggles and pain and heartaches, are there for a reason. And that there is a lesson behind each hardship, and it’s important that we realize that. Debi has got a lot of stories to tell, and you really shouldn’t miss out. In her stories, there is a valuable takeaway that could all get! So join us on this chat and be inspired! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/57 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/56 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Debi Walters of theromanticvineyard.com. She and her husband have been helping other married couples get through their marital struggles. On this episode, she talks about something that we all are at risk of doing. It is dishing out criticism to our spouses. Debi shares her painful experience of having to go through an entire year of a rocky relationship because of a comment that she made toward her husband; a comment which caused him pain and which affected their relationship greatly. She tells us on this interview how to own up to your mistakes and how to get through these challenges, with the help of God and his Word. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/56 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Dr. Corey Allen of simplemarriage.net and the Sexy Marriage Radio pocast. We are back with a more interesting conversation on intimacy. On this episode, he goes takes us into lots of serious stuff---he talks about premature and delayed ejaculation, femininity and masculinity, and the importance of learning the human anatomy! You’ve got to get to know your spouse’s body! Listen in as he gives out tips and advice that will surely up your bedroom game. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/55 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/54 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Dr. Corey Allen of the Sexy Marriage Radio podcast.On this episode, we discuss a refreshing male perspective into the intricacies of sex in marriage. What exactly do men think when they are engaging in intimacy? How is sex considered a responsibility? Join us as Dr. Corey Allen digs deep into the reasons behind why your spouse might be rejecting you. He also gives quite an eye-opening stance on sex and how what we do in everyday life relates to how we act in the bedroom, and vice versa. You surely wouldn’t want to miss this episode! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/54 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. It’s just me today. And I will be talking about one of the most important, yet oftentimes frowned-upon, aspect of marital intimacy: oral sex. I have previously tackled the issue of oral sex and whether or not it is dirty or sinful in episode 14. That was where I first coined the term peni, as a sort of euphemism for oral sex. My dear listeners, it is important that we pay attention to your husband’s high priority needs, and guess what… Peni is one of them! On this episode, I discuss, point by point, the importance of peni in your marriage and how it affects your relationship in general. Listen in and let’s work together to bring delight into each of our marriages! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/53 Through research and study, I've discovered the secrets I wish someone told me years ago! Receive my free gift: "The 4 Stages To His Best Oral Orgasm" by going to delightyourmarriage.com/4stages

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Jenna. On this episode, she talks to me about how she and her husband got through the struggles they experienced, including the falling of their child into the claws of drug and alcohol addiction. Jenna emphasizes on putting God in the center of your marriage and the importance of humor too. As a wife of 30-plus years, Jenna has lived through the intimacy issues that are being faced by most women---and she couldn’t be more clear: intimacy changes as you age. It’s a reality, but something can be done about that. Listen in as she gives her tips and advice on how to keep intimacy interesting, fun, and comfortable for you and your husband. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/52 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/51 Want to deepen intimacy? Looking to move past your barriers getting in the way? Sign up now for a FREE Strategy Session with Belah to see if you're a good fit for 1:1 Coaching directly with Belah! Email [email protected] before July 31, 2015!

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Jenna, a friend of mine who is a wife and a mother. She has some inspiring stories, from her past experiences during childhood, living in a home where the mother always felt the need to be in control; to how it affected her own marriage; and most especially, her struggle as a mother seeing her child succumb to the evils of alcohol and drug addiction. She also uses the parable of the Prodigal Son to effectively relate to our own children getting lost and waiting for them to come back instead of rescuing them over and over again. Listen in as Jenna shares with us her heartfelt advice on letting go and being ready to forgive when it is time. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/51 Want to deepen intimacy? Looking to move past your barriers getting in the way? Sign up now for a FREE Strategy Session with Belah to see if you're a good fit for 1:1 Coaching directly with Belah! Email [email protected] before July 31, 2015!

Hi there! Belah here. Today is a solo show I made because I felt it was time that I share a piece of my mind about how sex relates to God. On this episode, I give out 10 points on how sex actually teaches us about God and what he tells us through scripture. I believe that sex is a metaphor to marriage, and it is vital between husbands and wives. Join me and open your minds so you may see and understand clearly how sex can teach us a lot about God. Have a blessed day! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/50 Want to deepen intimacy? Looking to move past your barriers getting in the way? Sign up now for a FREE Strategy Session with Belah to see if you're a good fit for 1:1 Coaching directly with Belah! Email [email protected] before July 31, 2015!

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Dr. Sandra Glahn of aspire2.com. On this episode, she talks about her own marriage and the difficulties she face, as well as how she handled these problems. Dr. Glahn discusses about the theological bases of marriages and how everyone’s belief can be skewed at times. She tells us what exactly marriage means---to you, to me, and to God Himself. Join us on this eye-opening and inspiring episode today! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/49 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/48

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Dr. Sandra Glahn, the author of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage. On this episode, she dives into the most difficult struggle she had to face in her life and in her marriage: infertility. It’s amazing how she has thought through and processed this struggle, and I want you all to listen in so that you too can understand that life doesn’t stop at the road block. This interview is very inspiring, uplifting, and spiritually fulfilling. Listen in! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/48 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him WILD For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love & Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of Trista Laborn of a Purpose Driven Wife. Trista shares the challenges she goes through every day, being apart from her husband, who is deployed in a different country most of the time. She admits that it’s definitely not easy, but she makes do of what she has by always keeping the fire burning despite the distance. Listen in as Trista shares some really awesome tips on how to maintain your intimate relationship even when you are miles away from your honey! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/45 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/44 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him WILD For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love & Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Trista Laborn of A Purpose Driven Wife. On this episode, Trista talks about how she got pregnant at such a young age and feeling lost due to the mistakes she made. She tells us how she felt like her entire life was just ruined and that she no longer had a future. But she found God, and everything changed for the better. She got married, finished her degree, set up a business, and just got her life on track. Trista encourages women in the same ordeal to just hold on and tells them that everything IS going to be okay. She believes that God has a plan for all of us, and His plans are made regardless of our past mistakes. This episode is just so uplifting, so listen in and be inspired! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/44 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him WILD For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love & Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Wanda Collins of Christian Marriage Today. Wanda takes us in to the brighter side of her marriage and shares with the us the chief ingredients that have made her marriage bloom and grow. Listen in as she gives encouraging advice to women who are in doubt and continue to entertain negative thoughts. This is for you! At the the end of the episode, Wanda delivers a powerful prayer that will definitely touch your hearts! I know it touched mine. Join us and be inspired. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/43 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/42 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him WILD For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love & Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Wanda Collins of Christian Marriage Today, and she talks about her struggles as a wife in the early stages of their marriage. On this episode, she tackles the sensitive issue of infidelity and how she dealt with the pain brought about by her personal experience with it. She tells us how God is essential in any marriage, especially when faced with circumstances that don’t always seem to be pleasant. She hands out tips to anyone who has gone through infidelity issues in their marriage and to those who haven’t but might be scared to go through the same. It’s so powerful how Wanda uses the scripture and God’s Word to relate on how she reacted when she found out; and it’s so inspiring and encouraging to hear her talk about the strength she had, which wasn’t her own, but that of our Lord. All the links, resources, and show notes available at:http://delightyourmarriage.com/42 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him Wild For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love And Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi, it's Belah and this is the 3rd part of my chat with Luke Gilkerson, covenanteyes.com We discuss if sex is a need or a desire and the implications that has on both men and women. Listen in! Part I: delightyourmarriage.com/39 PartII: delightyourmarriage.com/40 PartIII: delightyourmarriage.com/41

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Luke Gilkerson of covenanteyes.com. On this episode, Luke talks about makes about man . . . well, manly. This interview is jam-packed with powerful insights and filled with inspiration for both husbands and wives. Luke dives into what the scripture tells us about pornography, masturbation, and being a man---in its core. Listen in as he discusses the issues facing young boys and men alike, the trauma and struggle they go through when they become enslaved to pornography. Also a bonus toward the end of the episode, Luke and I go back and forth about the philosophical aspect of sex, marriage, and life in general. This is one episode you definitely don’t want to miss! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: delightyourmarriage.com/40 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/39 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him Wild For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love And Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Luke Gilkerson of covenanteyes.com. First off, Luke talks about how he “fights the evils of pornography” every day for a living. He talks about how this massive industry has alarmingly invaded our homes and polluted the minds of our spouses, friends, and even our children. Luke also discusses about masturbation in children and whether or not this is an okay thing to happen. Listen in as he explains why masturbation happens and what our children are thinking when performing this act. Do they do it willfully or not? Is masturbation an act of immorality? He also openly shares some tips on how to react to the situation, how to manage your children so that they may be free from this act, and what the scripture says about masturbation. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/40 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him Wild For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love And Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Shae Bynes of aholythreesome.com and the Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur podcast. In this episode, Shae dives deeper into how communication with the Lord and with each other positively affects the marriage. She tells of her story, on how God talks to her and helps her get through everyday challenges, especially those that concern her marriage. Shae delivers such inspiring wisdom that we could all use in delighting our own marriages. She gives valuable tips on how to enrich your sexual intimacy and shares the practices she has been doing with her husband that have made their marriage sweeter and sweeter each year. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/38 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/37 Join me on my next webinar "Make Him Wild For You: The 5 Secrets To Receive Love & Passion In God's Plan" delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Shae Bynes, the woman (along with her husband) behind aholythreesome.com. She talks about unconditional love and how a marriage is made of three: you, your husband, and the lover of your souls---God. Shae believes that God should be the center of your marriage and should be part of all aspects of your marriage, especially the bedroom. Shae shares about the difficulties they had in their marriage and how they managed to work through their issues as a team---a team of three. Listen to Shae’s story and be inspired by her refreshing insight and how you, too, could enjoy the holiness of sexual intimacy in marriage. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/37 Join me on my next webinar "Make Him Wild For You: The 5 Secrets To Receive Love & Passion In God's Plan" delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Dr. Jessica McCleese of enhancingthedance.com where she mainly talks about the wonders of the female orgam, how it works, and why it is the way it is. You might think that something is off whenever you don’t feel like engaging in the act of sexual intimacy with your husband, but there’s actually nothing to worry about because that’s completely normal, according to this psychologist and sex therapist. She discusses the reasons on this episode! Join us as she shares helpful tips and tricks that could be helpful in delighting your marriage. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: delightyourmarriage.com/36 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/35 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Dr. Jessica McCleese, of enhancingthedance.com a psychologist, sex therapist, and studying Christian sex educator who focuses on helping Christian couples improve intimacy in their marriage. In this episode, first how she has battled the pain of infertility. Then, she shares how she had gone through so much sexual abuse in her teen years and how this past experience has led her to become a withdrawn wife in the bedroom. She talks about how she always felt used during sex, and even throughout the marriage. You can beat the past too and become whole again after sexual abuse. Dr. McCleese tells us that it’s not the end, and we can keep moving forward because that is what God wants us to do---to move on and delight in the marriage he has blessed us with. Listen in as Dr. McCleese shares her tips and advices in overcoming your past and understanding that there is indeed life after sexual abuse. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/35 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him WILD For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love & Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. It’s just me talking about the biggest issue I see in marriages, in husbands and in wives. We gravely misunderstand eachother. With my background in philosophy, feminist epistemology, sociology, anthropology, feminism and a wife who suffered many kids of abuse in her first marriage… I believe I bring a unique perspective to this topic. Find out why he keeps asking and what it really means. Also find out why she isn’t as generous as you think she “should”. Its a grave misunderstanding and it’s time to clear this up! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: delightyourmarriage.com/34 Sign up for my free, live online training: “Make Him WILD For You!” The 5 Secrets to Receive Love & Passion In God’s Plan delightyourmarriage.com/webinar My husband was on the last webinar and said “you have to let husbands listen in too, you think like a man but with a woman’s voice”. So, husbands are now welcome to listen in!

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Dr. Nina Burrowes, a psychologist and researcher studying sexual abuse victims and abusers. Dr. Burrowes gives brilliant insights on the intricate patterns of sexual abuse and the sad realities of our society. She talks about the biggest reasons victims are not reporting their abusers. We also dive into how offenders can be someone whom you wouldn't expect. She shares powerful insights about the physiological and psychological effects of sexual abuse and why it’s important to understand these reactions. She ends with hope for the future and practical steps we can take to protect and heal. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/33 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Make Him Wild For YOU!” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today I have part II of Karen’s amazing journey through and after abuse in her childhood. And how she survived the horrific events of finding out her daughter’s sexual abuse. She talks more about how she handled the struggles she had as a child and how she made it through depression anxiety attacks which affected her life and especially the intimacy in her marriage. She talks about commitment, trust, honesty, and most of all, forgiveness. And how it has helped her heal and be more open. Listen in as she shares powerful and inspiring words that would definitely help steer you toward the right direction in your married lives. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/32 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/31 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Karen, a DYM listener who bravely shares her heartbreaking---yet very enlightening---story. She talks about her own struggles with anxiety and depression and thoughts of taking her own life due to abusive experiences from childhood. She shares about the more recent issues of sexual abuse that has ravaged her family. Not only did these affect her individually, but they have also taken a toll on her marriage. She tells about how the frustration and emotional torment affected the intimacy in her marriage. Listen as Karen takes us deep into how common sexual abuse is and how victims have been silent under a blanket of shame. Karen urges everyone to keep an seek help from trustworthy people who can help and support you. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: delightyourmarriage.com/31 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Brad and Kate from onefleshmarriage.com. In this episode, this godly couple talks about how they were able to overcome struggles in marriage, through opening up to each other. They share a most inspiring story of how they arrived at a better place in their marriage with three central things that you too could use in your own marriages. Join us as we tackle the intimacy hardships faced by married couples, new and old, and as we unwrap helpful tips to take yourselves out of the darkness and bring your marriage into the light. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/30 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/29 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Brad and Kate of onefleshmarriage.com. Together they bring us into the first few years of their marriage when they were too distracted by everyday life and it greatly affected their intimacy. Kate opens up about how it was tough for her to switch gears, from being a full-time mother and homemaker to being a wife who desires her husband. Brad pitches in about how he was too busy making a living for his family that he neglected his wife’s emotions and failed to understand her needs as a woman. Listen in as this godly couple takes us on a journey with their helpful tips and advice on how to vanquish selfishness in marriage and be more present in the relationship, especially during sexual intimacy. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/29 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Julie Sibert of intimacyinmarriage.com. Julie talks more about how to nurture your sexual intimacy by intentional habits and letting your spouse know exactly what you want in the bedroom. Hear her speak about how to get past the past, it’s okay to let your guard down, and drown out the insecurities. Listen to her tips on how to be proactive in the bedroom and shares the three chief things that are central to marital success. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/28 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/27 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” (and receive my free guide!) delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Julie Sibert of intimacyinmarriage.com. Julie is a wife and mother to 2 boys and is passionate about creating a long-lasting marriage with sexual intimacy as a big part of it. She believes that marriage is to be enjoyed by two "grown ups" who are in love and have the desire for each other. Listen as Julie shares her experiences with her past relationship and how she has come to realize that sexual intimacy, alongside friendship and faith, is a major part of married life and should be nurtured and taken care of. Join in as Julie tells us how she keeps track of “healthy” relationship habits that will surely affect your marriage positively. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/27 Sign up for my live, free online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today I have Part II of my interview with founder of Covenant Spice. She talks about how she and her husband has made their marriage a priority, right after God and even before their children. Listen as she shares about the importance of resolving problems when they are still at the beginning stages, growing connection with your husband, and knowing each other's limits. She tells us a refreshing story about just having fun with your hubby and how her business has served as their ministry that reaches out to others who struggle with the same intimacy issues. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/26 Or go directly to Covenant Spice to spice up your intimacy! Sign up for my free, live online training: "How To Love Him MOST" delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

I would be honored if you have agreed (even if only with parts of DYM) or have been interested to hear the true heart behind it.... I have tried to be as honest as possible here. (There may be areas that-- I can't see currently, that were dishonest--but I tried!) I didn't listen to this again before uploading it. I plan not to listen to it, (but maybe I will when I need help getting refocused on what I think is God's heart is for DYM). I would be honored if you at some point were able to listen (though beware: my vulnerable heart is revealed in it). I do sincerely ask that you would choose wisdom if you have feedback for me--or want to talk about this to others--as Jame 3:17 says: "But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere." Thanks and love, Belah

Hi there! Belah here. Today I have founder of Covenant Spice talking about her married life and how intimacy changed when she opened herself up to really enjoying it. She and her husband founded Covenant Spice, an online shop featuring intimacy products for married Christian couples. She shares about her wildly conservative upbringing and how it has required a journey through the Bible and discover that there's a lot more to enjoy than she thought! Listen in as she talks about how it is perfectly okay for a married couple to use more interesting means and make sex exciting for you both! Shop at the adult toy store here and receive free shipping for this week! Just type in the coupon code: delight (Offer ends 5/5/15) Or go directly to Covenant Spice to spice up your intimacy! All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/25 If you're interested in joining the free, LIVE training "How To Love Him MOST" sign up at delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there, Belah here. Today is a BONUS (Friday) episode: Part III of Annie Lobert, hookersforjesus.net, and she shares her best intimacy tips for husbands and wives! Tips for how you can turn on your wife tonight. And for the ladies: how you can understand your husband at a whole other level! The underlines the truth that there is hope for your marriage. And I deliver a challenge at the end that I hope you and your spouse pays attention to. I believe God wants to do some incredible things in your marriage and this world. Listen in! Find all the show notes and resources at delightyourmarriage.com/24 Challenge links: For men: Delightyourmarriage.com/dignity For women: Delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of Annie Lobert, hookersforjesus.net, talks about how one can leave the sex addictions whether it is or inappropriate fantasies, porn, and using call girls. Its so sad but a reality and it is important to understand and be ready to resist. God cares about every person struggling in this sin and He wants to give you hope and inspiration to fight against this significant struggle. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/23 Sign up for my free, live training and receive my FREE guide! delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have Annie Lobert of hookersforjesus.net talking about her story from being coerced and abused in the sex industry. She has been through horrifying experiences, where she was beaten into submission by her then boyfriend who ended up controlling her as a pimp for years and how she was raped at gunpoint multiple times. Since her amazing transformation, she has now been married to an awesome man for 6 years and has 3 step-children, she shares hope in the midst of so much brokenness. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/22 Sign Up for my free, live Online Training (for wives only!) at delightyourmarriage.com/webinar