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Ep 10091009 | Probability vs Consequence

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares his journey up the Grand Teton in Wyoming as he reflects on the complexities of risk assessment. While scaling the mountain with his friend V, Carl confronts a stark realization: his focus on the probability of falling contrasts sharply with V's concern for the consequence of dying if a fall happens. This eye-opening experience prompts Carl to examine the interplay between probability and consequence in various aspects of life, from adventurous climbs to everyday decisions like texting and driving. Carl invites listeners to think about their own approach to risk and consider how weighing both probability and consequence can lead to wiser decision-making.

Feb 28, 20248 min

Ep 10081008 | Intuition

Join Carl on Behavior Gap Radio as he dives into the role of intuition in decision-making. In a world fraught with risks and uncertainties, Carl explores the valuable insights intuition offers, particularly when it urges caution and prompts us to pause and assess. Carl considers the flip side of intuition, examining moments when it might lead us astray, driven by emotions like greed or excitement. With a new rule in mind, Carl proposes an approach for listeners to try: listen to intuition when it signals restraint and follow established rules when it encourages action.If you liked this episode, you'd love Carl's follow-up episode! Hear the episode "Intuition Part 2" here:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/1010-intuition-part-2/id1034934586?i=1000647507174

Feb 27, 20243 min

Ep 10071007 | Is That Your Work?

Today, Carl explores being true to yourself in your creative work. Drawing from the wise words of philosophers and insights from Bruce Lee, Carl tackles the struggle of staying real in a world that loves copycats. Carl digs into why it's scary to be different and why there is an urge to copy instead of invent. He's all about finding that sweet spot between making something that is yours while also giving credit to your inspirations. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Feb 26, 20245 min

Ep 10061006 | The Value of Closed Loops

Join Carl as he explores closed loops and the vital role of reliable systems. He talks through the challenges that come up when delegating tasks within teams and unpacks the psychological barriers that can make it tough to let go. Delegation isn't always a walk in the park! Carl shares strategies for fostering accountability, trust, and clear communication in organizations. You can use Carl's ideas in this episode, which draw on research in management and organizational behavior, to help you build systems inside your team.

Feb 23, 20248 min

Ep 10051005 | Purposeful Consumption

Sparked by a chat with a listener named Ashby, this episode is all about the concept of purposeful consumption! Carl talks about aligning how we use our time, money, energy, and attention with what really matters to us. He shares how purposeful consumption leads to sustainable living and long-term happiness. In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl is challenging listeners to take a beat, think about their choices, and start making mindful decisions about what they consume. It's all about finding that sweet spot where our actions match up with what truly brings us joy and fulfillment in life!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Feb 22, 20246 min

Ep 10041004 | Diagnostic Disappointment

Join Carl on a candid episode of Behavior Gap Radio as he shares a personal health scare that led to unexpected revelations. Reflecting on his visit to the emergency room for severe pain, Carl speaks about the concept of "Diagnostic Disappointment"—the emotional complexity that arises when medical tests yield no definitive diagnosis. Through introspection and research, Carl explores the psychological, emotional, and narrative dimensions of this phenomenon, shedding light on the human need for validation, control, and coherence in the face of uncertainty. In today's episode, Carl invites listeners to consider when diagnostic disappointment shows up in their own lives and how understanding it can foster emotional resilience.

Feb 21, 20249 min

Ep 10031003 | The Information Fast

Carl shares his thoughts on the overwhelming flood of information in today's world. Through personal reflections, Carl highlights the staggering reality of information overload, comparing it to a relentless fire hose directed at our minds. Drawing parallels to elimination diets, Carl proposes the concept of a periodic information fast, where one disconnects from all sources of information for a set period. Envisioning a 30-day media consumption consisting solely of long-form books, Carl invites listeners to consider the transformative impact such a fast could have on their mental clarity and well-being. Carl emphasizes the benefits listeners might enjoy if they explore a detox from the noise of modern media!

Feb 20, 20245 min

Ep 10021002 | How Much Status Is Enough?

Today, on Behavior Gap Radio, Carl talks about the elusive concept of status and its insatiable nature. How much status is enough? Carl highlights the inherent paradox of chasing status, noting that it's a pursuit without a finish line. With references to Michael Easter's insights on scarcity loops, Carl invites listeners to consider how they can break free from the status-driven cycle and cultivate a more fulfilling mindset. Learn more about the work of Michael Easter here: https://eastermichael.com/

Feb 19, 20242 min

Ep 10011001 | Cultivate Your Comparison Set

Join Carl on this episode of Behavior Gap Radio as he talks about the importance of being mindful of who and what we compare ourselves to. With sharp observations and personal stories, Carl shows how the people we hang out with and the media we consume can really affect how we see things like money, success, and happiness. Using some examples from his own life, he explains how our comparison set can even shape how we spend our money and how happy we feel. Carl suggests that by being picky about who and what we let influence us, we can take back control of our thoughts and feel more satisfied with our lives. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Feb 16, 20244 min

Ep 10001000 | Creative Fear

It's the 1,000th episode of Behavior Gap Radio! Carl takes a moment to celebrate the podcast's journey and dives into a personal reflection on fear. With candidness and wisdom, Carl shares his own experience of coming to terms with fear, challenging the idea of trying to banish it completely from our lives. Instead, he suggests a different approach: embracing fear, understanding its significance, and using it as a catalyst for growth and action. Through his personal stories and insights, Carl offers practical tips for acknowledging fear, accepting it as a natural part of life, and channeling its energy to move us forward. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Feb 15, 20246 min

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Feb 14, 20242 min

Ep 949949 | The One Thing

Carl asks a game-changing question: What's the One Thing you already know could make your life so much better? He asks listeners to recognize the simple yet mighty steps they could take to boost their happiness. Sharing from his own life and experiences, Carl stresses the importance of putting these known actions first instead of endlessly searching for new fixes. Whether it's getting more shut-eye, starting a daily routine, or opting for healthier habits, Carl urges listeners to pinpoint that one action that could kickstart a wave of positive change. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Feb 1, 20248 min

Ep 948948 | "Attention," a Micro-Essay

Carl explores how attention is the secret weapon in our lives but is often overlooked! Reflecting on his own attention habits, Carl discovers to what degree focused attention can change how we see the world. He encourages listeners to rethink where they're putting their focus, understanding how it can totally reshape what matters most in their lives.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Jan 25, 20240 min

Ep 947947 | Dancing With Dragons

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl takes listeners on a journey to uncover their life's purpose. Carl acknowledges the frustrations and self-doubt that often come with this quest. He urges listeners to approach it with curiosity and playfulness, likening it to a whimsical dance with dragons! Carl reminds us that finding our purpose is a continuous adventure of trial and error. He leaves listeners with a simple yet profound task: carve out just 15 minutes for quiet reflection to ponder and jot down their deepest dreams and aspirations. No giant leaps required, just a gentle push towards self-discovery!

Jan 18, 20247 min

Ep 943943 | Volume Two - The Problem and You

Titled "The Problem," this episode features a short essay from Carl's latest book, Volume Two: Meaningful Conversations—a collection of 52 conversations about Money and Life. Carl paints a mental picture with a simple sketch: a big circle labeled "the problem" with a dot in the center labeled "you." In just two sentences, he prompts a thought-provoking question: Do you have a problem, or does the problem have you? Drawing inspiration from Eckhart Tolle and Mark Twain, Carl delves into the subjective nature of problems, challenging you to consider whether problems are real or mere projections.Learn more about The Volumes Project here: https://thesocietyofadvice.com/the-volumes-project

Jan 11, 20245 min

Ep 938938 | Behind the Scenes With Chip

Carl shares the untold story of his meeting with Chip Gaines for the 50 Fires Podcast. At the final in-person meeting to decide the show's distribution, Carl recounts the nerves and excitement of meeting the iconic Chip and Joanna Gaines. Revealing his secret plan to treat the meeting like a podcast episode focused on money, Carl shares a riveting conversation with Chip about the meaning of money. Unveiling Chip's candid admission about the devastating impact of fame and wealth, Carl reflects on the unforeseen complications that come with financial success. This raw and unscripted encounter adds a layer of depth to the podcast episode with Chip Gaines that listeners won't find anywhere else. Listen to 50 Fires: Money and Meaning with Carl Richards: https://apple.co/47o5vP0Hear the episode "How Chip Gaines Uses Money As a Tool for Impact" that Carl references: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-chip-gaines-uses-money-as-a-tool-for-impact/id1709551590?i=1000634105820

Jan 4, 20244 min

Ep 937937 | New Essay On Goals

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl delves into the nuanced world of goals with his latest insights titled "Navigating Life's Journey: The Dual Nature of Goals." Reflecting on the dual role of goals as both a blessing and a potential curse, Carl explores how goals offer direction and purpose but can also distract from the present moment. He emphasizes the fluid nature of goals as educated guesses in life's adaptive journey, cautioning against becoming overly fixated on the future. Carl advocates for striking a delicate balance between using goals as guiding compasses and fully immersing oneself in the beauty of the present. Join Carl in embracing the duality of goals and discovering the joy of a purposeful yet present journey.Want to read more essays from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Dec 28, 20232 min

Ep 930930 | What I Hope My Kids Say About Money

In this field episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a powerful reflection following a dinner discussion with students from Utah Valley University. Inspired by a student's question, Carl revisits the impactful query he poses at the end of his podcast "50 Fires" regarding the role of money in one's life. This time, he's turned the lens on himself, contemplating what he hopes his own children will say about money 20 years from now. Carl passionately expresses his desire for his kids to understand that money's natural state is flow, emphasizing the importance of circulation over accumulation. In a poignant analogy, he hopes they won't confuse the finger (money) pointing at the moon (love and the present moment) with the moon itself. Join Carl in this heartfelt exploration of teaching profound lessons about money to the next generation.Listen to 50 Fires: Money and Meaning with Carl Richards: https://apple.co/47o5vP0

Dec 21, 20235 min

Ep 926926 | The Arrival Fallacy

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl uncovers the illusion many of us have fallen victim to—the Arrival Fallacy. With excitement, he shares that this phenomenon, where we believe reaching a goal or destination will bring lasting happiness, finally has a name. Carl explores how we often say, "When I have this much money, I'll be secure," or "Once I reach this goal, I'll be happy," only to find that the reality doesn't match the expectation. The Arrival Fallacy, as Carl names it, leads to a double whammy, leaving us feeling worse for expecting happiness upon reaching our destination and not getting it. Carl encourages listeners to beware of this fallacy, emphasizing the beauty of the present moment and the fact that life is as good as it gets right now. Listen to this episode to become aware of the Arrival Fallacy in your life!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Dec 14, 20234 min

Ep 924924 | The Practice of Using Money

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl delves into a profound question: How do we determine our needs, wants, and desires? Carl reflects on his recent in-person workshop and the challenge of navigating consumer society. Drawing insights from John Kenneth Galbraith's concept of the dependence effect, Carl explores the idea that consumer demand is driven more by advertising and marketing than genuine human needs. He reframes this as an opportunity to practice mindfulness in our financial decisions, emphasizing the importance of understanding the values behind our desires. Carl invites listeners to explore the beautiful practice of being conscious consumers in a world filled with constant stimuli. Tune in to unravel the mysteries of your financial motivations and embark on the journey of intentional living.Do you want to book Carl to speak at your next conference or event? Email [email protected].

Dec 7, 202311 min

Ep 920920 | Notice the Financial Feelings

What's the first feeling that arises when you think about money or see a money symbol? Drawing from insights shared by the audience, Carl reflects on a range of emotions, including jealousy, fear, and even opportunity. He emphasizes the importance of noticing these feelings without judgment and shares a powerful approach: observing them as a non-judgmental outsider, saying, "Isn't that interesting?" Carl explores the transformation that occurs when benign neglect is applied to these emotions, allowing the act of attention to naturally bring about positive change. Listen to this episode of Behavior Gap Radio to uncover the power of self-awareness in reshaping your relationship with money!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Nov 30, 20238 min

Ep 917917 | Money & Meaning - Purpose at The Center

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the pivotal role of purpose in making sound financial decisions. He emphasizes that purpose is not merely a starting point but a continuous reference point that guides all decisions related to money. Carl likens purpose to a lens through which we view our financial choices. It turns out that it often gets overlooked in discussions about money! Drawing inspiration from the wisdom of David Whyte and Lao Tzu, Carl explores the gradual process of discovering, relearning, and realigning with what truly matters to us. He stresses the enduring quality of purpose, providing a profound perspective on how it shapes our identity and influences our use of capital—time, money, energy, and attention.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Nov 23, 202315 min

Ep 914914 | How Many Months Without Work

Carl shares a thrilling update on his four-year project, which has evolved into a captivating podcast called "50 Fires," with executive producers Chip and Joanna Gaines at Magnolia and a distribution deal with Warner Brothers. Set to launch in 2023, "50 Fires" explores the intersection of money and meaning. Carl offers a sneak peek into a recent interview with Breaking Bad's Dean Norris (who played the character Hank). Dean equates money with the number of months he can go without working. The episode provides a unique perspective on how artists, including comedians, chefs, and musicians, view money as a resource that grants them artistic freedom. Carl reflects on the insights gained from these individuals and invites listeners to join him on this exciting new podcast journey.Listen to 50 Fires: Money and Meaning with Carl Richards: https://apple.co/47o5vP0Hear the episode "Breaking Bad’s Dean Norris Has Always Lived Within His Means" Carl references in this episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/breaking-bads-dean-norris-has-always-lived-within-his-means/id1709551590?i=1000638409268

Nov 16, 20234 min

Ep 907907 | Lighter

Carl explores the concept of lightness, contemplating what it means to carry a lighter load in terms of future goals and intentions. He shares a transformative shift in his perspective, acknowledging that the responsibility of shaping the next 10 years need not feel like a heavy burden. Carl reflects on the idea of turning the responsibility of his life over to God, allowing for a more playful and light approach to his work. Drawing on metaphors from whitewater rafting and Nordic skiing, he challenges the conventional narrative of hard work and proposes a more graceful and intentional engagement with life's uncertainties.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Nov 9, 20239 min

Ep 905905 | My Neighbor's House

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives into the world of "fancy financial feelings." As Carl explores the nuances of coveting, envy, and jealousy, he challenges societal norms around discussing these emotions. Carl invites listeners to join him in exploring these forbidden financial feelings!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Nov 2, 20233 min

Ep 877877 | Things That Never Happen

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the common excuse of labeling unexpected expenses as "one-time" occurrences, only to discover that life is full of unforeseen events. Reflecting on the recent chaos caused by utility workers in his neighborhood and the resulting costly damages, Carl questions the tendency to overlook the predictability of unpredictability. Listen in as Carl shares a refreshing perspective on navigating life's surprises!

Oct 26, 20234 min

Ep 874874 | Committed but Not Attached

How do you navigate the age-old struggle of finding a balance between living in the present and pursuing future goals? Carl explores the concept of being committed but not attached and examines the depth of that paradox. He reflects on the challenge of going all-in on a goal while still maintaining a sense of detachment from the outcome. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Oct 19, 20232 min

Ep 870870 | Just The Flip-Flops

On today's episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a personal story that spans years revolving around mysterious foot cramps. Through the lens of his health concerns and family history with Parkinson's, Carl explores the power of stories we tell ourselves. Listen in and reflect on the narratives you create and how easily confirmation bias can shape your perception!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Oct 12, 20236 min

Ep 867867 | One Thing & Dragons

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the challenging realization that personal obstacles often lie within ourselves. He talks through the importance of action over knowledge and how important systematic habits are if you want to turn your intentions into reality. Drawing inspiration from Brian Johnson's concept of a daily protocol, Carl discusses the significance of pushing through when the desire to follow a routine wanes. He encourages listeners to identify one impactful thing they can commit to, schedule it, and rewire their response to overcome resistance. In the spirit of "Dancing With Dragons," Carl shares his personal commitment with listeners!Carl has received many requests for coaching or consulting, but he doesn’t offer those services. Instead, he has created something different: Dancing With Dragons. This experience involves spending a day together in Park City, Utah, with a loose structure of time outside, time around a table, and time around a fire. It is open to individuals, couples, and teams. For more information, go to https://www.dancingwithdragons.com/.

Oct 5, 20238 min

Ep 864864 | Enough is Sneaky

Join Carl on a preview of an exciting new podcast project where he explores "Conversations About Money and Meaning." Although he can't reveal all the details just yet, Carl shares an intriguing snippet from a recent conversation, reflecting on an op-ed from The New York Times about a Wall Street trader dissatisfied with a $3.6 million bonus because it wasn't enough. Delving into the elusive concept of "enoughness," Carl highlights the universal challenge of comparison in a world where the goalposts keep shifting. Whether it's the person next to you in the office or on social media, the subtle allure of more can make it challenging to appreciate what's truly enough!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Sep 28, 20234 min

Ep 860860 | Calm Pisses People Off

Carl explores a simple yet powerful point: Doing things differently, especially in your work life, is inherently confronting to others. Focusing on the specific example of working calmly, Carl delves into the fascinating phenomenon of how the mere act of choosing calmness can make people uncomfortable. In this episode, Carl reflects on the confrontational nature of opting out of the craziness and shares anecdotes of people's reactions, highlighting the discomfort caused by breaking the cultural agreement of constant busyness. Making unconventional choices might just be the key to growth, even if it means upsetting a few apple carts along the way!

Sep 21, 20238 min

Ep 858858 | The Mystery of Trailside Loop

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a captivating story that unfolds over years, weaving through unexpected twists and turns. The narrative of this story raises intriguing questions about intuition, alignment, and the mysterious ways in which life unfolds. Carl invites listeners to consider the concept of being open to unexpected thoughts and experiences that may lead to remarkable outcomes.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Sep 14, 202314 min

Ep 853853 | What Time Are You Creative?

In this episode, Carl reflects on John Cleese's insight that creativity requires both time and space to flourish. If you're curious about unlocking your creative potential and intentionally setting aside time for it, Carl's thoughtful insights offer valuable guidance!Don’t wait around for creativity to come to you by accident. Be creative on purpose. Carl released a series of four episodes from Behavior Gap Radio on creating things. Just tell us below where to send you the unlocked episodes! https://behaviorgap.com/radio/the-process-of-creating-things/

Sep 7, 20233 min

Ep 849849 | Dealing with Online Haters

Today, Carl tackles the tough subject of dealing with unthoughtful criticism or "haters." He defines haters as those who disagree without really thinking it through, often twisting words or refusing to understand. Carl shares his own strategy for handling such criticism, stressing the importance of not letting haters steal unnecessary attention. He talks about the power of deleting or ignoring unthoughtful comments as a way to avoid getting sucked into an emotional battle. Carl also shares a recent experience and walks through his approach for dealing with unthoughtful criticism, providing valuable insights for listeners dealing with similar situations.

Aug 31, 20234 min

Ep 847847 | Finding Your Thing

Today, on Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the importance of being "up to something." He expresses his admiration for individuals who carry a twinkle in their eyes, embodying a slight mischievousness that signals they are on a journey. Carl discusses the value of embracing nonconformity and misbehavior in a system that may not always be conducive to true well-being. Carl suggests that listeners should pay attention to their instincts without feeling the need to act on them right away. This helps them develop a better connection with their individual goals and desires.Carl coaches Real Financial Advisors at his community for advisors called The Society of Advice. Learn more at TheSocietyofAdvice.com.

Aug 24, 20235 min

Ep 843843 | I Was Free

On today's episode, Carl shares a thought-provoking story borrowed from Morgan Housel's book, "The Psychology of Money," featuring entrepreneur Derek Sivers. At the age of 22, earning a modest income and saving diligently, Derek reached a crucial point with $12,000 in the bank. The significant moment wasn't when he later sold his multimillion-dollar business; it was when he realized he had enough to pursue his passion for music and be financially free. Carl reflects on the powerful idea that having enough is not defined by a specific number or destination but is a state of being. Carl coaches Real Financial Advisors at his community for advisors called The Society of Advice. Learn more at TheSocietyofAdvice.com.

Aug 17, 20233 min

Ep 842842 | That Never Crossed My Mind

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the transformative power of permission in thinking differently about money. Thinking back on his time in New Zealand, Carl noticed that people didn't start conversations by asking, "What do you do for work?" Instead, they asked more meaningful questions. This shows the significance of asking questions that really count rather than sticking to the usual ones. He shares a pivotal moment when his wife challenged him to consider the possibility that making money could be fun and easy. Carl also emphasizes the significance of engaging in conversations about money with people from diverse backgrounds, as it opens the door to thoughts that had never crossed one's mind before. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Aug 10, 20236 min

Ep 838838 | Who Taught You How To Fight?

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares insights from a recent relationship bootcamp he attended with his wife. This was a transformative experience that prompted deep introspection! The central question, "Who taught you how to fight?" leads to a profound exploration of learned behaviors in relationships. The power of the question lies in its ability to unveil the origins of one's actions and prompts a realization that these lessons aren't fixed but can be reshaped consciously. If you grew up like Carl, you have been told you shouldn't talk about four things: money, sex, politics, and religion. Carl wants to change that when it comes to money. He wants to have conversations about money that actually matter. And that doesn't mean conversations about investments, insurance, or budgeting! Listen to 50 Fires to hear Carl have conversations about what money really means, our hopes and dreams, our fears and worries, and what it truly means to have enough. Learn more at https://www.50fires.com/

Aug 3, 20234 min

Ep 832832 | What State Are You In?

Listen as Carl shares a story about his friend Steve's encounter with a supplier who mistakenly ended up in the wrong state for a scheduled meeting. This amusing mix-up prompts Carl to ponder a crucial question: How often are we certain we're in the right place, following instructions, and yet find ourselves in the wrong state? It's time to question our assumptions and default to the possibility that they may be wrong! Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Jul 27, 20234 min

Ep 831831 | The Right Who & 10x Growth

Today on Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the powerful combination of two concepts from Dan Sullivan: "Who Not How" and "10x Is Easier Than 2x." The synergy between these ideas becomes apparent as Carl talks about how finding the right individuals (the "who") and letting them work in their unique abilities can lead to exponential growth. Join Carl as he reflects on his journey toward 10x impact, freedom, and revenue while enjoying more "free days." Learn more about Dan Sullivan's books here: https://10xeasierbook.com/ and https://whonothow.com/

Jul 20, 20236 min

Ep 830830 | 10x vs 2x

In this episode, Carl continues to unravel the transformative concepts from Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy that have reshaped his life. This episode centers on Dan Sullivan's principle: "10x is easier than 2x." Carl candidly shares his initial resistance to this seemingly paradoxical idea, exploring the misconception that 10x growth implies more complexity and complications. Drawing from real-life experiences, he illustrates how honing in on a clear and ambitious goal requires greater dedication and focus and, ultimately, simplifies the path to success. Whether applied to revenue growth or personal goals like mountain biking, Carl delves into the power of 10x thinking and its liberating impact. If you liked this episode, you'd LOVE Carl's Weekly Letter. Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Jul 13, 20236 min

Ep 829829 | Who Not How

Today, Carl introduces the first of a three-part series exploring transformative concepts from Dan Sullivan's Strategic Coach, as articulated in the book co-authored with Benjamin Hardy. Focusing on the game-changing principle of "Who Not How," Carl shares his profound journey with this approach and its immense impact on his life. Encouraging listeners to consider an alternative perspective when faced with challenges, he emphasizes the liberating power of seeking out "who" can accomplish the task rather than defaulting to the conventional "how" mindset. Listen in as this episode could reshape the way you approach problem-solving and lead to newfound clarity and efficiency!If you liked this episode, you'd LOVE Carl's Weekly Letter. Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Jul 6, 20237 min

Ep 800800 | Come on... 800!

In an exciting milestone, Carl celebrates the incredible journey to episode 800 of Behavior Gap Radio. Reflecting on the power of compounding small activities, he shares insights into the transformative impact of consistent effort, drawing parallels between the podcast's growth and the broader vision for Behavior Gap and its community. As Carl envisions the next 30 to 40 years of projects, including ambitious plans for annual Behavior Gap Festivals and book releases, he invites listeners to contemplate their own compounding activities. Carl talks about the significance of small, consistent actions over time.

Jun 29, 20237 min

Ep 792792 | First Step: Liberating Your Mind

Taking inspiration from Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin's timeless book "Your Money or Your Life," Carl shares a thought-provoking quote: "The first step of financial independence is liberating your mind." He encourages listeners to think through this idea during their walks or moments of reflection. While budgeting and financial strategies are valuable, true financial freedom starts with freeing our minds from limiting beliefs.If you liked this episode, you'd LOVE Carl's Weekly Letter. Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Jun 22, 20234 min

Ep 791791 | Why You Want To Be Rich

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Jun 15, 20236 min

Ep 783783 | Desmond Tutu "God Is Enough"

Carl reflects on a profound quote by Desmond Tutu, the resilient South African Anglican Bishop and social rights activist. "When we have nothing left but God, we discover that God is enough. And money? Money is never enough." While the source of the quote isn't pinpointed, Carl delves into relevant studies exploring the link between material possessions and happiness, uncovering intriguing insights. This episode of Behavior Gap Radio prompts contemplation on the true essence of wealth and happiness and the profound discovery that material possessions may never be enough, while the intangible—such as spiritual connection—holds infinite value.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Jun 8, 20236 min

Ep 774774 | Rumi - Wealth in the Heart

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on the enduring wisdom found in timeless traditions, specifically honing in on the recurrent theme that money serves as a distraction. Carl reflects on Rumi's wisdom: "The wealth you seek is in the heart, not the pocket." In today's world, where money's importance is amplified, what if we sought wealth within our hearts instead of material accumulation? This episode challenges the conventional view of wealth and encourages listeners to explore true sources of fulfillment and happiness. How might your life change if you pursued the richness of the heart over material wealth?

Jun 1, 20236 min

Ep 768768 | Embracing The Creative Tension

Carl explores the tension in the creative process, calling it "Dancing With Dragons." For artists, entrepreneurs, or anyone seeking change, the gap between the ideal and reality can be both challenging and awe-inspiring. Carl shares how this tension is a vital part of the creative journey, not a source of frustration. He encourages listeners to embrace this dance, celebrating when vision aligns with reality and finding joy in the pursuit itself. How do you handle the tension in your creative process? Carl has received many requests for coaching or consulting, but he doesn’t offer those services. Instead, he has created something different: Dancing With Dragons. This experience involves spending a day together in Park City, Utah, with a loose structure of time outside, time around a table, and time around a fire. It is open to individuals, couples, and teams. For more information, go to https://www.dancingwithdragons.com/.

May 25, 20234 min

Ep 767767 | Guide to Scary Markets

What matters most in your current situation? Which of those things can you control? What actions can you take right now? In this episode, Carl Richards discusses how to handle uncertainty in life or business. He shares his approach of staying clear-headed and making a list of things that matter in uncertain situations. Carl then narrows down that list to what can be controlled, encouraging listeners to push the boundaries of what they think is within their control. He emphasizes the importance of identifying actions to take based on this list and revisiting it when new information arises, avoiding unnecessary worry over things outside of our control.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

May 18, 20235 min

Ep 760760 | Unplugging from the Matrix

How often do you find yourself comparing your success to others online? Today, on Behavior Gap Radio, Carl talks about the struggle with comparing ourselves to others, especially on social media. He shares his own experience of feeling inadequate after comparing his social media following to someone else's success and how his wife faced similar feelings on Instagram. Carl also discusses a conversation with a friend who runs a successful farm without being distracted by social media. Carl emphasizes the importance of unplugging from social media and focusing on what truly matters in life. He suggests getting involved in local community activities as a way to stay grounded. What helps you stay focused on your own goals and avoid comparison?

May 11, 20233 min