
Behavior Gap Radio
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Ep 11591159 | Content in My Discontent
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on a conversation with a friend about creative work, growth, and the tension between contentment and ambition. Drawing inspiration from a David Whyte poem, he explores the "why not me" mindset, the desire for personal and professional growth, and the struggle of comparison. Carl shares a powerful insight: Rather than trying to resolve the tension between being satisfied and wanting more, perhaps the tension itself is a gift. He encourages listeners to embrace this tension as a path to growth, both in life and in relationships.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11581158 | You're Not Worth That
In this episode, Carl dives into the often-overlooked challenge of confusing net worth with self-worth. He explores how society tends to equate material possessions and financial success with personal value, reflecting on how this mindset can erode self-esteem, especially in contexts like salary negotiations or unemployment. Carl shares a personal conversation with a friend who felt crushed by the impact of losing work and highlights the importance of finding sources of self-worth that are independent of income or status. This thought-provoking episode encourages listeners to reflect on how they perceive their own value.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11571157 | Risk and Not Losing
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives into the fascinating asymmetry of risk, exploring how it impacts both financial decisions and life in the mountains. Drawing inspiration from hedge fund manager Mark Spitznagel’s quote, "Profit is finite, risk is infinite," Carl unpacks the profound differences in how we experience gains and losses, whether in our portfolios or on a precarious mountain ridge. With compelling insights into compounding and loss aversion, he highlights strategies for safeguarding against risk while still enjoying the rewards, both in the markets and in nature.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11561156 | The Result of Rushing
In this episode, Carl wraps up his series on "Unknowing, Being Uncertain, and Slowing Down" with a thought-provoking conversation inspired by a friend deeply involved in design, architecture, and entrepreneurship. Over tacos, they discuss the pressure to act quickly when faced with uncertainty and how rushing often leads to mistakes. Carl reflects on his friend's statement that "all the major mistakes I've made were a result of rushing," prompting a deeper exploration of the importance of patience and embracing the unknown.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11551155 | Sitting in Uncertainty
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on his long-held bias toward action, especially in moments of discomfort and uncertainty. While action often leads to new information, Carl realizes that this approach may not always serve him well, particularly in high-stakes situations. He shares his journey of learning to slow down, sit with uncertainty, and resist the urge to act impulsively just to escape discomfort. Through self-awareness and the practice of "First a cup of tea," Carl emphasizes the importance of patience and mindfulness in making thoughtful decisions when the consequences could be significant.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11541154 | Simple Rules High Consequence
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl revisits the concept of high consequence, low probability events, sharing lessons from a recent adventure on the Northridge of the Pfeifferhorn in Utah. Reflecting on a risky move during the climb, Carl explores how our judgment can be clouded in the moment, leading us to underestimate the potential consequences. He emphasizes the importance of simple rules and protective measures when facing high-risk situations, whether in the mountains or in our financial lives. Carl advocates for developing rules and reviewing past actions to better navigate complex decisions and avoid letting excitement override caution.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11531153 | Not Knowing Part 2 - Most Intimate
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the concept of "Not knowing is most intimate," a Zen koan that challenges our perception of knowledge and vulnerability. Reflecting on personal experiences in the mountains and the markets, Carl discusses how facing the unknown reveals deep truths about ourselves and others. He shares stories of how people, including himself, react when confronted with uncertainty, from speeding up to feeling panic, and the beauty of slowing down to sit with the discomfort. Through these reflections, Carl highlights how embracing the unknown can lead to more intimate and meaningful connections with ourselves and those around us.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11521152 | Not Knowing Part 1
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on the dangers of thinking we "know" more than we actually do. He shares personal insights on how quickly we make judgments in various aspects of life, from investments to outdoor adventures, often without any solid grounds. Using examples like private investments and risky outdoor conditions, Carl emphasizes the importance of recognizing when we don't know and simplifying decisions as a result. His key takeaway? In moments of uncertainty, it's better to acknowledge the unknown and make things simpler—sometimes, that means just saying no.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11511151 | Simple Tools
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares his love for simple tools and how they can be surprisingly effective in daily life. Building on the previous day's discussion about gratitude, he talks about using the iPhone's built-in Reminders app to help reinforce positive habits instead of spending hours searching for more complex solutions. By focusing on simple, accessible tools like the Notes and Reminders apps, Carl emphasizes the power of replacing distractions with meaningful practices. He reflects on how these simple methods leave no room to hide from action, making them a valuable part of his daily routine.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11501150 | What I Already Have
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on the power of gratitude and finding contentment in the present. After returning from a trip, Carl experiences a profound realization while running through the trails near his home in Park City, Utah. He shares how he's been conditioned to constantly think about acquiring new things or chasing the next goal but recognizes that true happiness comes from appreciating what he already has. Carl encourages listeners to practice gratitude, not for the material things but for the sense of home, connection, and fulfillment that is already present in their lives.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11491149 | Buying Back Time
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl continues his exploration of the relationship between time and money by sharing personal stories of friends who handle their time and spending in vastly different ways. From paying for river guides to changing their own oil, each individual makes unique choices based on what they value more—time or money. Carl reflects on these trade-offs and poses the question: Where are we willing to spend money to buy back time, and when does it actually save us time? Join Carl for a thought-provoking discussion on prioritizing time and money.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11481148 | Would You Rather Waste Time or Money?
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl poses a thought-provoking question: Would you rather waste money or time? Inspired by an interview where James Corden shared his belief that time is the only currency of true value, Carl reflects on the importance of prioritizing time over money. He delves into the idea that while traditional financial planning often centers on money, it might miss the mark by not considering time, energy, and attention as equally valuable forms of capital. Join Carl as he explores how we allocate our most precious resource—time.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11471147 | Overconfidence
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives into the dangers of overconfidence, especially among experts. Building on the previous episode, he explores how the gap between knowing and doing can lead to costly mistakes. Overconfidence, Carl suggests, is a common issue for experts who begin to rely too much on their knowledge and forget the importance of maintaining a beginner’s mindset. Through thought-provoking insights, Carl reminds us that while expertise is valuable, the real risk comes when experts lose the humility to keep learning and adapting.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11461146 | Experts Make Fatal Flaws
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives into the puzzling phenomenon of experts making critical mistakes—even when they know better. From avalanche terrain to the investment world, Carl examines why those with the most knowledge can still make fatal errors, often due to the gap between knowing and consistently doing. He explores the dangerous stories we tell ourselves, group dynamics, and the psychological traps that lead even the most seasoned professionals to make catastrophic decisions. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of why expertise doesn’t always prevent failure.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11451145 | Right for the Wrong Reasons
In this episode, Carl explores the concept of "predictive value" and the challenges of identifying factors that can forecast success, particularly in the investment and startup worlds. He reflects on his experience advising institutional investors and the ongoing search for variables that can reliably predict outcomes. Carl highlights the complexity of determining whether success is due to skill or luck, emphasizing the importance of focusing on the process rather than just the outcome. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on what truly has predictive value and how to apply this in various fields.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11441144 | Complex Problems and Simple Solutions
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a story about renowned interior designer Axel Vervoordt and his encounter with a simple yet profound solution to a complex design challenge. When tasked with connecting a seating area to a centuries-old lake, a world-renowned expert's response was unexpectedly simple: "Take your chair and move it closer to the water." Carl reflects on the power of simplicity in solving complex problems and asks, "What if the answer is less?" Join Carl as he explores the beauty of minimalism and the wisdom found in straightforward solutions.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11431143 | I Like the House I Live In
In this episode, Carl reflects on a powerful message shared by musician Nathaniel Rateliff during a workshop, where he expressed his appreciation for the life his work has afforded him, even if his biggest hit isn’t his personal favorite. Carl explores the tension between creative integrity and the practical rewards of success, drawing parallels to the ongoing challenge of balancing work and life. He emphasizes that this tension is not something to be solved but embraced as part of the ebb and flow of life. Join Carl as he unpacks the deeper meaning behind pursuing fulfillment while navigating trade-offs.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11421142 | What Are You Willing To Sell For A Monthly Salary?
In this episode, Carl explores the thought-provoking idea presented by Nassim Taleb, author of Black Swan and Fooled by Randomness, about the three most harmful addictions: heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary. Carl delves into the concept of how a steady paycheck can impact our decisions, behavior, and freedom. He reflects on the trade-offs we make for security and stability, asking listeners to consider what they might be willing to sell or sacrifice in exchange for safety and whether those compromises are truly worth it. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11411141 | Don't Get in the Way of Magic
In this episode, Carl Richards shares a "secret" about how to tap into magic to accomplish things you never thought possible. The key, he explains, is to act fully committed to your goal, even if you're still unsure. By saying, “I’m going to do this,” and acting as if it’s already happening, you create space for magic or confirmation to show up. However, Carl emphasizes the importance of keeping your uncertainty quiet, as magic only shows up when you appear fully committed. Have you been holding back on a big decision? What would happen if you acted as if you were already committed?Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11401140 | Once You've Seen the Mountains
Have you ever thought about whether pursuing a creative life can lead to stability? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl tackles that question (inspired by a recent conversation with university students). He shares that while most people optimize for ease and stability, he’s more interested in doing hard things and creating meaningful experiences, like hosting retreats at his home. Using the metaphor of “seeing the mountains,” Carl explains that once you’ve experienced something truly transformative, you can’t go back to settling for less. Have you seen your own “mountains,” and how has that shaped the way you design your life?Do you want announcements about future retreats at Carl's home? Just tell him where to send your invitation: https://dancingwithdragons.com/
Ep 11391139 | How Do You Know if You're Spending Too Much?
How do you know if you’re spending too much? Today, Carl explores the tricky question of defining what is sufficient for our needs, noting that the answer is deeply personal and varies from one person to the next. He points out that outward measures, like spending less than you make, can be helpful, but ultimately, it's an internal calibration that matters most. Have you ever caught yourself judging someone else’s financial decisions only to realize you don’t really know what’s going on in their life? Carl shares examples of spending that may seem illogical but are essential for someone’s well-being or relationships. The key takeaway: We’re always recalibrating our needs, and there’s no simple checklist for what’s “enough.” Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11381138 | Directing Attention
In this episode, Carl Richards dives into the challenge of focusing attention, especially in today’s world with endless distractions at our fingertips. How often do you truly invest your attention? He offers a simple exercise: Count your breaths to see how quickly your mind can wander. Have you ever spent time with someone but not truly paid attention? Carl emphasizes the difference between spending time and investing attention, noting that people can feel the difference. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11371137 | Judgement of Other People's Spending
Isn’t it easy to judge how others spend their money? In this episode, Carl explores the tendency we have to make quick judgments about people's financial decisions—whether it's a fancy car, an expensive truck, or even rocks for a garden. Have you ever found yourself silently critiquing someone's spending, only to later realize you don’t know the full story? Carl shares examples, including a friend who spent money on expensive adventures during a difficult time in his life, explaining how those trips were actually helping him survive. What if, instead of judging, we paused to consider the story behind the spending? Carl suggests that by shifting from judgment to empathy, we might better understand others—and ourselves.
Ep 11361136 | Money, Where Would We Be Without It?
Carl explores the four sources of capital—time, energy, attention, and money—with a focus on the question: Where would we be without money? What role does money play in our lives? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl talks about its dual nature, offering freedom on one hand and creating power struggles on the other.
Ep 11351135 | Four Sources of Capital
Today on Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares the acronym TEAM—Time, Energy, Attention, and Money—as four key sources of capital. Why should we think beyond just money? How valuable are time, energy, and attention in comparison? Hear the thoughtful reasoning behind this framework and get a sneak peek into Carl's upcoming book on the subject.Do you want to know about Carl's next book release? Tell him where to send your announcement: https://www.thesocietyofadvice.com/book
Ep 11341134 | Start Where You Are
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl discusses the often-overlooked aspect of financial planning: understanding your current position. While it might seem simple, Carl explains that assessing where you are today is actually a complex process influenced by emotions and personal values. Using the metaphor of an explorer's map, he shows how your starting point—whether it's a balance sheet or your core values—shapes your financial journey. Tune in to learn why getting clear about your present is an ongoing practice and how it impacts your path to financial goals.
Ep 11331133 | Turning to Thank Past Behavior
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a personal story about his surprising reaction to using a credit card—an instinctive response rooted in old financial anxieties. Why do these ingrained behaviors stick with us even when they're no longer helpful? And how can we start changing these patterns? Carl offers a compassionate approach by recognizing and thanking these old habits for their past role, then suggests a kinder way to rewire our mindset about money. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11321132 | First Experience With Money
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl asks listeners to reflect on their earliest memory of money and how it influences their current relationship with it. What childhood experiences shaped your financial behaviors? How do these early memories affect your beliefs about money today? Drawing from his work at 50 Fires, Carl explores how authority figures or even the tooth fairy play a role. He encourages you to explore these formative moments and use simple awareness—asking yourself, "Isn't that interesting?"—to gain insights into your financial mindset. This episode helps connect the dots between your past and present attitudes toward money.Listen to 50 Fires: Money and Meaning here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/50-fires-money-and-meaning-with-carl-richards/id1709551590
Ep 11311131 | An Essay on Alignment
Today, Carl explores the concept of alignment—what it means to be truly aligned with your sources of capital: time, money, energy, and attention. How does it feel when you're in alignment with what's important to you? What happens when you drift out of alignment, and how can you recognize and adjust when that happens? Carl discusses the balance (and sometimes planned imbalance) in our lives and the importance of being aware of how we use our resources.
Ep 11301130 | Money & Power
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives into the complex relationship between money and power. How do you think about money and power in your life? Are there times when financial decisions might stray from your core values due to external pressures or incentives? Carl discusses the importance of being aware of these dynamics, recognizing when money becomes a proxy for power, and choosing to navigate these forces with love and grace. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationship with money and power and how they can maintain alignment with their true values.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11291129 | Version Zero
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl tackles a common challenge: the fear of sharing your work. How often does fear hide behind excuses? What if you embraced "version zero" and released your project, flaws and all? Carl shares his favorite strategy for turning fear into action, helping you take that first step with confidence, no matter the creative project.
Ep 11281128 | The Next Step
Carl dives into the power of micro-actions and the importance of taking the next smallest step when navigating complex challenges, whether in work, life, or personal projects. Drawing from his own experiences and insights from experts like James Clear, Carl emphasizes that progress isn't about giant leaps but about consistently moving forward with tiny, deliberate steps. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11271127 | Having Too Much Is a Problem
Carl reflects on a conversation with sitcom writer and comic King Hassan, who offers an interesting perspective: What if we focused on solving major issues instead of celebrating them? How does this shift change our view of progress? Join Carl as he explores this thought-provoking idea and its impact on how we define success.Want to hear Carl's conversations with King Hassan? Listen to 50 Fires: Money and Meaning here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/comedian-and-former-police-officer-king-hassan-on/id1709551590?i=1000666085069
Ep 11261126 | Money and Identity
Have you ever made assumptions based on someone's wealth? How does financial status affect our view of a person’s worth? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl Richards opens up about how money can shape our judgments of others. Carl shares personal stories and challenges the tendency to equate money with value, urging us to approach others with empathy and grace instead.
Ep 11251125 | The Practice of Money
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl Richards dives into the essence of Real Financial Planning, which he defines as the continuous process of aligning your use of capital—time, money, energy, and attention—with what truly matters to you. Using the metaphor of two shifting circles, Carl illustrates how both our resources and our priorities are in constant motion, requiring ongoing adjustments to keep them in harmony. He emphasizes the importance of experimenting, acknowledging changes in what we value, and embracing the practice of aligning our capital with our evolving goals.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11241124 | The Return on Relationships
How do time, money, energy, and attention impact our connections with others? Today, Carl explores the key investments we make in relationships. Why is attention, paired with intention, so important? Carl discusses how these resources deepen relationships and create the greatest returns in life.
Ep 11231123 | Efficient Relationships
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the modern obsession with efficiency and questions its place in our personal lives. While metrics and dashboards might drive success in business, Carl humorously points out the absurdity of applying the same logic to human relationships. Carl talks about why he believes efficiency should never be the goal in our connections with loved ones.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11221122 | The Generous Act of Attention
How are you investing your attention in your relationships? Are you being mindful enough? Today, Carl Richards explores the idea of attention as a form of capital and its critical role in building meaningful connections. Inspired by a quote from Simone Weil, Carl discusses how paying attention can be one of the most generous acts we can offer others. During a recent retreat, Carl was asked why he views attention as one of the four key sources of capital—alongside time, money, and energy. This question led him to reflect on the fleeting nature of attention and the importance of being intentional with where we focus it.
Ep 11211121 | Paying Attention to My Intention
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the impact of intention on our actions and relationships. He reflects on how the true purpose behind our actions can transform their outcomes, particularly in the relationships that matter most. Carl discusses the importance of being mindful of our intentions, whether in everyday activities like gift-giving or in more significant decisions involving time, money, energy, and attention. Carl challenges listeners to "pay attention to their intention" as a valuable practice for living more authentically.
Ep 11201120 | Preoccupation With Money
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl tackles the concept of being preoccupied with money, exploring what it means to have all of one's attention absorbed by financial concerns. He reflects on how this preoccupation can shift money from being a tool to becoming the central goal, something often celebrated in our culture. Carl shares his mission to change this mindset, advocating for a focus on passion, impact, and the joy of work rather than financial gain. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11191119 | A Sense of Meaning
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl Richards explores the quest for meaning in our lives, examining how we, as "meaning-making machines," constantly seek sources of purpose and fulfillment. He discusses the contrast between enduring and fleeting sources of meaning, questioning the stability of external achievements compared to the deeper value found in relationships, community, and experiences. Carl also talks about the role of money as a tool to create meaning, emphasizing the importance of aligning financial decisions with what truly matters. He leaves listeners with a question: Where do you find your sense of meaning?Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11181118 | Draw a New Map
Are you using outdated "maps" in your life? What familiar systems are you clinging to? Do you have the courage to create new paths? Today, Carl explores the idea of navigating life with outdated or inaccurate "maps"—the frameworks we rely on but may no longer serve us. He highlights our tendency to cling to familiar systems, even when they're flawed, and challenges listeners to recognize when it's time to create new paths. Using the analogy of baking cookies with salt instead of sugar, Carl emphasizes the importance of letting go of what doesn't work and drawing new maps.
Ep 11171117 | The Relative Nature of Enough
How do you define what is enough for you? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the concept of "enough" and emphasizes its relative nature. He discusses how each person's definition of enough varies based on individual circumstances and environments. Carl highlights the temptation to compare ourselves to others and use external benchmarks to define enough, which can lead to confusion and judgment. Are you comparing your "enough" to others? Can you embrace your personal definition of enough without external validation? He encourages listeners to focus on their own sense of enough and get comfortable with it, despite the challenges.
Ep 11161116 | Stop Trying to Spend Less
Have you ever wondered what it takes to truly change your relationship with money? Carl suggests that the key is to stop trying so hard. Instead of forcing yourself to change, he advocates for focusing on simple awareness. By merely noticing your spending habits without judgment, you open the door to natural, stress-free behavior changes. After trying this approach for 30 days, what changes did you notice? Let Carl know by emailing him at [email protected]!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11151115 | I Don't Have to Think About It
How do you define enough in your life? Carl explores the concept of "having enough" on today's episode of Behavior Gap Radio. He shares a conversation where someone defines it as having enough money so they no longer have to think about it. He reflects on how many people continue to focus on money even when they have plenty and questions whether this focus is a distraction from what truly matters. What would it mean for you to have enough? Carl suggests that when money is no longer the central focus, it can be a tool that operates in the background, allowing more attention to be given to the things that truly matter.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11141114 | What Is Travel and Awe Worth?
In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on his recent travels and the profound impact they had on his perspective. After sending his daughter off to the Olympics, Carl explores the historic streets of Barcelona, feeling both awe and humility in the face of centuries-old architecture and diverse cultures. He shares inspiring quotes about the transformative power of travel and the stories it creates, questioning the true value of these experiences. Today, Carl invites listeners to consider the worth of their own adventures and the unique feelings they evoke, challenging us to embrace the richness of exploration and the beauty of the unknown.
Ep 11131113 | The Value of Travel, Story From Spain
Carl shares a story on Behavior Gap Radio about traveling in Spain with his daughter. He talks through the contrast between the comfort of the Pyrenees mountains and the overwhelming chaos of Barcelona. As he navigates unfamiliar streets and faces discomfort, he realizes that this discomfort is the very reason he travels—it brings growth and a fresh perspective! What is the value you find in travel? How does travel change your perspective?
Ep 11121112 | Moving to New Zealand, Investment Advice
In this episode, Carl reflects on the idea of unconventional investment advice, sharing a personal story that defies traditional financial wisdom. He recounts how, despite his initial reservations, he followed the advice of a respected community leader to move his family to New Zealand—a decision that turned out to be one of the most valuable experiences of his life. Carl highlights how some of the best investment advice may not fit conventional definitions but can yield extraordinary returns in terms of personal growth and fulfillment. He invites listeners to broaden their thinking about what constitutes truly valuable advice!
Ep 11111111 | The Best Investment Advice Part 2
Carl recently discussed unconventional investment advice in a Behavior Gap Radio episode, drawing inspiration from a Wendell Berry quote about knowing where the rarest wildflowers are. He contrasts this with the disconnected advice often seen in mainstream financial media, which tends to ignore the broader impacts of investments, like those in companies selling unhealthy products. Carl is fascinated by the idea of "connected" investment advice, which values investments in time, money, energy, and attention. What’s the best investment advice you’ve ever received? How does it align with your values? If you think about your return on life, happiness, and connection, what advice stands out? Carl invites listeners to share their thoughts and experiences by emailing him at [email protected] more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/
Ep 11101110 | Sacrificing Certainty
Today on Behavior Gap Radio, Carl talks about the nuanced relationship between risk and reward in investing, inspired by a thought-provoking quote from Howard Marks. He challenges the common misconception that taking on more risk automatically leads to higher returns, emphasizing that risk only offers the potential for reward, not a guarantee. Carl discusses the importance of skillfully and intelligently sacrificing certainty while keeping emotions in check and highlights the dangers of uncompensated risks, such as gambling on single stocks. This episode is a deep dive into understanding the true nature of risk and how to approach it with clarity and caution.