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Anonymous is frustrated by his ex, unfortunately they share a child. She's not driven in life and has started using the child as a bargaining tool

Anonymous was happily married until her husband lost his job. She's now started dating her ex

Anonymous is pregnant, her man has been distant since their wedding. He parties days on end, doesn't contribute financially doesn't help around the house. Did anonymous rush too fast into marrying him?

Anonymous has a "babydaddy" that refuses to take care of the child financially and doesn't want to physically be in the child's life either. He has provided the courts with fraudulent papers so that he doesn't have to pay maintenance but she's aware that his business is making loads of money

Anonymous wants a seconds wife, he's messed things up with the first one but since his girlfriend is now pregnant things have to find a way to fix themselves

Anonymous isn't allowed to discipline his step child physically although his woman can. This has created a rift between the two

Anonymous has cheated on his woman numerous times, he has declared that he'll never cheat again because they now live in the same province

Anonymous is sleeping with a married woman, she has threatened to use "muti" on him if he dumps her. How does he get away from this toxic situation?

Anonymous is mad at her man for proposing marriage to her. She's been in two failed marriages and now her bae wants them to get married.

Anonymous is confused. Does she love the father of her child or her boyfriend of 11 months?

Anonymous is a man that isn't getting sex in his marriage. He's now thinking about cheating on his wife of 7 years

Anonymous was dumped 5 years ago by her husband because she couldn't bare children. The man had two children with another woman and now he's back to disturb anonymous's life. He wants her back

Anonymous is broken after finding nudes on her husbands phone. He's been distant since his business has started blossoming. She feels neglected

Anonymous has four children with her husband. She left their marital home after he wouldn't stop his philandering ways. The issue now is that he refuses to take care of their four children financially he also refuses to have a relationship with the children

Anonymous has future plans with his woman but she's in too much of a rush for marriage that she doesn't want to fix the little things that could lead to bigger cracks in future.

Anonymous has been married for 16 years, there's absolutely no intimacy in her marriage, she has caught her man chatting to other women on social media on numerous occasions. He says he's just flirting and nothing more.

Anonymous left her child with her mom months ago to pursue a relationship with her man. She started a business with her man too but her investments have since not matured. She works for him for free and he's started abusing her emotionally.

Anonymous is at an all time low. He has evidence that the woman he's being seeing for 6 months has been in a relationship for years. He's in love with her and can't let go, is he man enough to be the side guy?

Anonymous feels trapped in her marriage. She's known him for 3 years, they've been married for 3 years.

Anonymous is heartbroken because her man is about to make a life changing decision today. He is about to let her know if he's keeping her as a girlfriend or choosing the woman he's being seeing on the side for 6 months.

Anonymous is in love with two men, does she stick to her man of 8 years or try a new relationship with a high school sweetheart who she has been sleeping with for the last 3 months?

Detective Anonymous has all the proof she needs to get out of her relationship but she still loves her man. She has found messages from various women on his phone, She has found texts from his friends advising him to string her along until he finds the right woman but anonymous has chosen to stay.

Anonymous feels neglected by his woman, could she be seeking time alone after having miscarried two of their babies? There's a twist to the story, take a listen

Anonymous has a serious dilemma, her man needs a kidney and she could be a possible donor but she seems reluctant to literally give him the gift of life.

Anonymous feels conned, she had no idea that the man she has a baby with is married. Our special Father's Day guests Jerry Mofokeng And Sipho Mbele assist the team with advice.

Anonymous was allowed to take on a second wife but now wife number one has made a you turn on her decision. What could the reason be? Take a listen

Anonymous is conflicted. She's known her man for 17 years, married for 14 years and they have 3 children. She hasn't been happy in this marriage for quite some time but her husband is asking her to stay in the toxic marriage for the sake of the children.

Anonymous broke up with her man of two years via text. She feels guilty having broken up with him in that manner. What must happen now? Take a listen

Anonymous is struggling, her man is short changing her in the bedroom, he has lost confidence in the bedroom and can no longer satisfy her.

anonymous's relationship is on the rocks after she followed her calling. He man now finds her repulsive.

Anonymous is dating a "loanshark", some of his clients are female and this doesn't sit well with anonymous. He has loaned money to his ex as well at some point. Does this mean that he's cheating?

Anonymous is slowly falling for her brother in-law

Anonymous is in a relationship with a woman that has two children. Since he put a ring on it she's stopped being intimate with him. Should be stay or leave the relationship.

Anonymous refuses to let go of her cheating partner, she says this is the man she prayed for

Anonymous recently found out that her man has been seeing his ex for over four years. Do you want to know what red flags to look out for when you meet a new man? Listen to the team's first ever Ask A Man game show called "He Has A Partner"

Anonymous doesn't want her children to grow up without a father because she did. She doesn't want her children to experience the void she experienced when she was a child. Does this mean she needs to stay in this toxic mess with the father of her children?

Anonymous has nobody to turn to, her man is abusive towards her and her child, there is no love at home, no support, just neglect.

Anonymous is struggling to have a child with her lying cheating unsupportive husband.

Anonymous has stepped into her cousins shoes and home after her cousin passed on. Her family is totally against this but her and her cousin's husband have grown really fond of each other

Anonymous says the her marriage is on the rocks. She married a man whom she had a long distance relationship with at the time, it seems like he's never been the marriage type. Is there a way out of this mess?

Anonymous is caught up in a love triangle, she's in love with a man and a woman. She's willing to explore all avenues but are her partners game?

Anonymous sees his children children once a year, now his fiance' has threatened that he'll never see them again until he fulfills his promise of paying lobola for her 

Anonymous recently found out that two of his four children are not his, they are fathered by two different men. These are just two reasons that anonymous wants his best friend to compensate him for sleeping with his wife.

Is your man stingy? If you answer is yes, we think you have something in common with today's anonymous. Take a listen

Anonymous is a single mom with a 4 year old daughter, she's afraid that once she starts dating her daughter will be exposed to different men. How does she juggle living her life with being a great mother? 

Anonymous has been dating a semi-pro soccer player for 3 years, she is fed up with his inconsistent behavior. Friends have advised her to hang in there but how long do you stay in a relationship if you don't feel loved and respected?

Anonymous has been sending nudes to a married man for over two years, the married man wants to take care of all her financial needs in return for her to be exclusive only to him

Anonymous is heart broken, how does she explain to her children why their father is an absent father? Why their father doesn't love them?

Anonymous has two kids with his woman, when she was 8 months pregnant with the second child she blocked him and he hasn't spoken to her since. He suspects the second child might not be his. 

Anonymous has an 18 year old younger sister, she's just been impregnated by a married man. The married man would like this secret kept from his wife and family.