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Anonymous is dating a serial cheater. She has seen things that a partner shouldn't see on his phone while he was sleeping. He's now back with the first woman she caught him cheating with. She says she still love him despite all his shenanigans.

Anonymous has a 3 month old baby with a man she met on social media. They engaged in unprotected coitus the moment they met in person and conceived. the guy seems to be in and out of their relationship, he has paid damages to her family but that's it.

Anonymous knows that her man is seeing his ex behind her back but she simply can't let go because she's still in love with him

Today we deal with the World Cup of all relationships. Anonymous is a foreign national living in South Africa dating a man from Scotland and has a situationship with a man from Germany. She recently signed a contract to go work in the UK now she's confused on what to do going forward. Which man must she choose or should she just choose her career?

Anonymous has been dating her man for 8 months but hasn't ever been to his place. What could he possibly be hiding?

Anonymous is in a tricky situation, his woman of 3 months dumped him last night because she suspects that he's stalking her. Hear how it all went down

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 8 years. They have 2 beautiful children. The issues started recently when he impregnated another woman and wants to pay damages for that child when he hasn't paid lobola or damages for their 2 children

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean

Anonymous is struggling to move on after his divorce. His shoulder to cry on is giving him the cold shoulder. He hasn't been intimate with anybody since 2020

Anonymous just moved into his first apartment, he's excited for his new found freedom but there is a challenge, there's a lady in his complex that is endlessly offering herself. She cooks and cleans for him and wants to sleep with him but he's uncomfortable with that arrangement because he might not be able to bring other females to his place.

Anonymous has a problem of letting go of the father of her child, they still spend important holidays together, they sleep in each others omes from time to time. She has not been able to move on because she still loves him

Anonymous is heartbroken, his woman left after miscarrying their child. He has no idea where she lives now but word on the street right now is that she has moved in with another man. If you would like to reach us for ASK A MAN you can also send us a quick voicenote on 0608061685

We catch up with anonymous a month after he met a lady online. they had sex on the first date and he was unsure that this could be the one. We find out how things have been going for the last month

Anonymous is heartbroken, his wife left him after getting a promotion at work. She left and took everything from their marital home. How does he move foward from this?

Anonymous found a condom wrapper on her man's bed. He says he was lonely and asked another woman to come over. When anonymous was pregnant with their child he cheated and his excuse was "I was lonely because we stopped being intimate". Can anonymous' be trusted?

Anonymous is in a situationionship with three women, he loves number 1, he impregnated number 2, and number 3 is an older woman that has two children. Is he spoilt for choice or just messy?

Anonymous feels pressured into paying lobola for his girlfriend. Does he love her or not?

Anonymous has been seeing a married man for two months. He insists that they make love in his marital home at times. She says this is the man that she prayed for.

After investigating her man over a couple of weeks, anonymous has concrete proof that her man is cheating. In fact, she called they other woman and moghel had something to say in return. Take a listen

Anonymous is dealing with a cheating husband that shows no remorse. She initially thought he had one mistress but going through his old phone she notices that there are numerous ladies that he entertains.

Anonymous is confused, her ex wants to get back into her life but he says he has a woman that he's being seeing. What does this mean for anonymous, must she consider being a side-chick?

Anonymous is thinking about reconciling with the father of her child. They broke up because he was a "mamasboy" but have things changed?

Anonymous is stuck between a rock and a hard place. Two men that she needs to choose from, she's a part-time Club Angel but nothing about her relationships is heavenly

Anonymous taken for granted for the past 6 years by her partner. She has now reached a point where she can't anymore.

Anonymous suspects that her man is in love with his female friend. He hides their relationship from her, they are in constant communication, he refuses to cut ties with her. is she insecure or overreacting?

Anonymous has a soft spot for his ex. He even turned down a reunion with another lover at Gay Pride this past weekend because there's only one man for him, "The One That Got away"

Anonymous feel his life is on a downward spiral, the worst seems to be happening to him at every corner. He's now losing the woman of his dreams.

Anonymous's marriage is in tatters, her husband of 20 years paid lobola for another woman in secret, not only that but he's also impregnated a young woman from the same neighbourhood where anonymous lives. Is this what through thick and thin means in marital vows or should she leave?

Anonymous met a man online, he lied to her about his 'disability' which is more neurological than physical. Since then she feels this is not the relationship she signed up for but a part of her still wants to help him

Anonymous regrets the lady that he's dating, the only issue is that he allowed her to move into his place and now he's too afraid to ask her to leave.

Anonymous met a lady on a social media dating site, they slept together on the first day they met now he's worried that he could be catching feelings

Anonymous found nudes on her partner's phone, these nudes were sent by his colleague not once but on numerous occasions.

Anonymous finds himself in a new relationship, the problem is that his ex is pregnant and there's a chance that the baby could be his

Anonymous is in a toxic cycle with the mother of his child. She was abusive towards him while they were together. His ex sometimes calls him for sex favours but he's now put his foot down and doesn't want to be used anymore.

Anonymous is literally fighting evil to be with her man. His ex has been performing witchcraft on her that has landed her in hospital, finding faeces on her car etc. She says she still loves him, he's the perfect man for her.

Anonymous met a man on social media two months ago, since then she has hacked his Facebook account found out that he's lied about his age and is hiding the fact that he has 3 other children, she only knew of one. She still drives a round trip of 636 km to go see him twice a month even though know she knows the truth.

Anonymous has a man that is 10 years her senior and doesn't want to grow up. She feels his future plans are non-existent or she doesn't feel like he has her in his future thoughts

Has anonymous wasted the last 3 years of her life by dating a man that she regarded as a best friend? She took his virginity now he's starting to be a bit distant. He has also postponed their proposed lobola negotiation dates.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man, he's not fulfilling her sex quota for the week, their relationship is on and off and she feels he's very distant. Last time they made love he said he was seeing shadows in the bedroom

Anonymous has been fighting with her man's sister since they met. She feels abused and disrespected by her and it seems it will never stop.

Anonymous is in a happy new relationship, the moment he posted his new love his ex came back into his life and told him that she is pregnant

Anonymous can't decide who she loves, she has two men in her life. Her current lover is loving,caring, soft and supportive. Her previous relationship was toxic, she admits that they were both toxic and abusive towards each other but she misses him and has been seeing him on the side

Anonymous is heart broken that his woman doesn't want to work on their relationship, she refuses to go for therapy and has stopped using her African concoction for an alleged curse placed on the relationship.

Anonymous is distraught that her man has impregnated another woman, she still loves him, is she ready to be an instant mom?

Anonymous doesn't believe in magic but she thinks it's normal for her man to disappear for two weeks almost every fortnight. No he wants a baby to prove his love to anonymous.