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Anonymous has been with her man for over 13 years. His addiction to drugs let to their separation. Their time apart let to anonymous ending up as a side chick to a high profile man. She hasn't broken it off with the high profile guy but feels her ex is getting better so she's considering on going back

Anonymous has been in a relationship for over a year. The first 6 months were beautiful, since then it's been downhill. She's been chasing him for attention,love, affection etc

This is an Ask A Man first. Anonymous says his wife is filthy and it's starting to frustrate him. The house stays messy, her hygiene also leaves much to be desired. He is scared to bring visitors home because he knows it's always in a horrendous state. How much longer will he stay in this relationship?

Anonymous feels that he's losing his woman because he's not romantic enough. He doesn't make effort as much she would love him to. They don't go out often, he doesn't pay her compliments often. Does he deserve to be alone?

Anonymous is worried that her sexually charged man is going to cheat on her once he moves to the USA in May.

Anonymous still wants to pay lobola for his girlfriend even though things aren't as rosey as he'd like them to be. She moved into his house uninvited, she's abusive and controlling. Find out why anonymous called into ASK A Man today. Listen here

Anonymous is in the pits. Her marriage certificate should be torn into a thousand pieces because her husband unrepentantly cheats. Imagine your partner coming home with a "hicky" week in week out. She has also slept with a minimum of 3 men just so that she can forget about her painful marriage. She still loves him but can this marriage be saved?

Anonymous is going through the most. She married a man and then later on found out that he not only has one child that she knew about there are four more from four different women. They were married in community of property so she became liable to pay child maintenance for all these children.

Anonymous is in a relationship but he missed his ex. The ex is also in a relationship and she just gave birth to her new man's child. Anonymous is still positive that she is the one for him, she's the one that got away and he wants her back.

Anonymous moved in with his girl and her child after two months of dating. He made it a norm to give the girlfriend's mother money too. Now that he's unemployed things have changed.

Anonymous broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years 6 months ago, he can't let go. He visited a prophet and was told that the girl is into dark magic. This news hasn't convinced him to let go. He still wants her back

Anonymous has been married for 17 years. She's tired of going through her husband's phone only to find videos and nudes from sex workers. The neglect is killing her self esteem because they are no longer as intimate as she would like.

Anonymous is a second time caller. She left her previous relationship and is now blessed with a man that wants to marry her after a month of dating. He also wants them to relocate to the US. That's right, no more load shedding.

Anonymous has dated a man for 20 years. This man has now made her his side chick. After their turbulent years together she's decided that she wants out but doesn't know how to tell him

Enough is enough, anonymous has chosen to keep her baby, she didn't terminate this one as she did with the previous one. Her ex now wants to be part of her son's life but on condition that they don't tell his family. He wants this child kept a secret.

After knowing his partner for over 15 years, married for 10 of them, anonymous's partner no longer engages with him intimately. She will sometimes touch herself in bed while he's sleeping right there next to her. What should he do?

Anonymous is dating a man that has decided to choose to "Pimp His Car" first before paying the remainder of her lobala as promised to her family. She thinks he might have cold feet or has found somebody else. If you feel a man no longer wants to make an honest woman of you should you force him into marriage?

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. His girlfriend lives in a commune and is in a sexual situationship with a married man. He needs advice on how to handle the situation going forward.

Anonymous says he's polygamous the problem is that he only told his fiance a year and a half later when she fell pregnant with is child. He also has another girl on the side who he recently told that he's polygamous too. Can he make these relationships work or has he totally messed up?

Anonymous's family refuses to pay lobola for the woman that he loves, could the reason be that she was his side-chick while he was married?

There's a spiritual war in anonymous' household. Her husband could be conducting rituals on her without her permission. The final straw is when he brought a spiritual husband into the household. She wants to leave but doesn't have the financial backing

Anonymous hacked his woman's phone and found out that she's dating two other men. He still loves her because she completes him

Anonymous has been dating her man for 4 years. All was well until he started abusing drugs, is she able to assist him overcome his addicting?

Anonymous was planning on relocating with his wife overseas. The wife left first and once she settled she told him that it was over because she knew that he was cheating on hi, He's broken and wants his wife back

Anonymous is faced with a huge dilema on today's #AskAMan. She needs to choose between a man she's dating and a relationship with the father of her child.

Anonymous has been dating a married woman and he just can't let go.

Anonymous claims to be in love with his pregnant fiance but he seems doubtful ever since finding chats on her phone where she communicates with her ex's and other men

Anonymous met his wife in the 90's, she recently filed for divorce because of his financial situation. Anonymous does miss his wife and wants her back

Another man down. Anonymous feels belittled by his wife, she occasionally tells him that he's not man enough

Anonymous is dating a serial cheater. She has seen things that a partner shouldn't see on his phone while he was sleeping. He's now back with the first woman she caught him cheating with. She says she still love him despite all his shenanigans.

Anonymous has a 3 month old baby with a man she met on social media. They engaged in unprotected coitus the moment they met in person and conceived. the guy seems to be in and out of their relationship, he has paid damages to her family but that's it.

Anonymous knows that her man is seeing his ex behind her back but she simply can't let go because she's still in love with him

Today we deal with the World Cup of all relationships. Anonymous is a foreign national living in South Africa dating a man from Scotland and has a situationship with a man from Germany. She recently signed a contract to go work in the UK now she's confused on what to do going forward. Which man must she choose or should she just choose her career?

Anonymous has been dating her man for 8 months but hasn't ever been to his place. What could he possibly be hiding?

Anonymous is in a tricky situation, his woman of 3 months dumped him last night because she suspects that he's stalking her. Hear how it all went down

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 8 years. They have 2 beautiful children. The issues started recently when he impregnated another woman and wants to pay damages for that child when he hasn't paid lobola or damages for their 2 children

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean

Anonymous is struggling to move on after his divorce. His shoulder to cry on is giving him the cold shoulder. He hasn't been intimate with anybody since 2020

Anonymous just moved into his first apartment, he's excited for his new found freedom but there is a challenge, there's a lady in his complex that is endlessly offering herself. She cooks and cleans for him and wants to sleep with him but he's uncomfortable with that arrangement because he might not be able to bring other females to his place.

Anonymous has a problem of letting go of the father of her child, they still spend important holidays together, they sleep in each others omes from time to time. She has not been able to move on because she still loves him

Anonymous is heartbroken, his woman left after miscarrying their child. He has no idea where she lives now but word on the street right now is that she has moved in with another man. If you would like to reach us for ASK A MAN you can also send us a quick voicenote on 0608061685

We catch up with anonymous a month after he met a lady online. they had sex on the first date and he was unsure that this could be the one. We find out how things have been going for the last month

Anonymous is heartbroken, his wife left him after getting a promotion at work. She left and took everything from their marital home. How does he move foward from this?

Anonymous found a condom wrapper on her man's bed. He says he was lonely and asked another woman to come over. When anonymous was pregnant with their child he cheated and his excuse was "I was lonely because we stopped being intimate". Can anonymous' be trusted?

Anonymous is in a situationionship with three women, he loves number 1, he impregnated number 2, and number 3 is an older woman that has two children. Is he spoilt for choice or just messy?

Anonymous feels pressured into paying lobola for his girlfriend. Does he love her or not?

Anonymous has been seeing a married man for two months. He insists that they make love in his marital home at times. She says this is the man that she prayed for.

After investigating her man over a couple of weeks, anonymous has concrete proof that her man is cheating. In fact, she called they other woman and moghel had something to say in return. Take a listen