#AskAMan

Anonymous is dealing with a cheating husband that shows no remorse. She initially thought he had one mistress but going through his old phone she notices that there are numerous ladies that he entertains.

Anonymous is confused, her ex wants to get back into her life but he says he has a woman that he's being seeing. What does this mean for anonymous, must she consider being a side-chick?

Anonymous is thinking about reconciling with the father of her child. They broke up because he was a "mamasboy" but have things changed?

Anonymous is stuck between a rock and a hard place. Two men that she needs to choose from, she's a part-time Club Angel but nothing about her relationships is heavenly

Anonymous taken for granted for the past 6 years by her partner. She has now reached a point where she can't anymore.

Anonymous suspects that her man is in love with his female friend. He hides their relationship from her, they are in constant communication, he refuses to cut ties with her. is she insecure or overreacting?

Anonymous has a soft spot for his ex. He even turned down a reunion with another lover at Gay Pride this past weekend because there's only one man for him, "The One That Got away"

Anonymous feel his life is on a downward spiral, the worst seems to be happening to him at every corner. He's now losing the woman of his dreams.

Anonymous's marriage is in tatters, her husband of 20 years paid lobola for another woman in secret, not only that but he's also impregnated a young woman from the same neighbourhood where anonymous lives. Is this what through thick and thin means in marital vows or should she leave?

Anonymous met a man online, he lied to her about his 'disability' which is more neurological than physical. Since then she feels this is not the relationship she signed up for but a part of her still wants to help him

Anonymous regrets the lady that he's dating, the only issue is that he allowed her to move into his place and now he's too afraid to ask her to leave.

Anonymous met a lady on a social media dating site, they slept together on the first day they met now he's worried that he could be catching feelings

Anonymous found nudes on her partner's phone, these nudes were sent by his colleague not once but on numerous occasions.

Anonymous finds himself in a new relationship, the problem is that his ex is pregnant and there's a chance that the baby could be his

Anonymous is in a toxic cycle with the mother of his child. She was abusive towards him while they were together. His ex sometimes calls him for sex favours but he's now put his foot down and doesn't want to be used anymore.

Anonymous is literally fighting evil to be with her man. His ex has been performing witchcraft on her that has landed her in hospital, finding faeces on her car etc. She says she still loves him, he's the perfect man for her.

Anonymous met a man on social media two months ago, since then she has hacked his Facebook account found out that he's lied about his age and is hiding the fact that he has 3 other children, she only knew of one. She still drives a round trip of 636 km to go see him twice a month even though know she knows the truth.

Anonymous has a man that is 10 years her senior and doesn't want to grow up. She feels his future plans are non-existent or she doesn't feel like he has her in his future thoughts

Has anonymous wasted the last 3 years of her life by dating a man that she regarded as a best friend? She took his virginity now he's starting to be a bit distant. He has also postponed their proposed lobola negotiation dates.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man, he's not fulfilling her sex quota for the week, their relationship is on and off and she feels he's very distant. Last time they made love he said he was seeing shadows in the bedroom

Anonymous has been fighting with her man's sister since they met. She feels abused and disrespected by her and it seems it will never stop.

Anonymous is in a happy new relationship, the moment he posted his new love his ex came back into his life and told him that she is pregnant

Anonymous can't decide who she loves, she has two men in her life. Her current lover is loving,caring, soft and supportive. Her previous relationship was toxic, she admits that they were both toxic and abusive towards each other but she misses him and has been seeing him on the side

Anonymous is heart broken that his woman doesn't want to work on their relationship, she refuses to go for therapy and has stopped using her African concoction for an alleged curse placed on the relationship.

Anonymous is distraught that her man has impregnated another woman, she still loves him, is she ready to be an instant mom?

Anonymous doesn't believe in magic but she thinks it's normal for her man to disappear for two weeks almost every fortnight. No he wants a baby to prove his love to anonymous.

Anonymous has been struggling to keep a relationship. What could the problem be? All women seem to dump him or not come back for a second date.

Anonymous has been taken for a ride by his girlfriend of 10 years because he's illegally in South Africa. He suspects one of the children is possibly not his and can no longer deal with her infidelity.

Anonymous is second guessing herself after leaving an abusive relationship

Anonymous is in a real life Telanovela, her marriage is filled with everything from infidelity, a meddling mother in-law, witchcraft etc should she stay in this marriage?

Anonymous is in a terrible marriage, her man is heartless on another level. He will even bring up her past of a rape ordeal when they argue. is this a marriage she should remain in? Will they eventually work through their issues and live happily ever after?

Anonymous has two men in her life currently, she refers to one as her lucky charm and the other as the man she loves. Who would you choose? Take a listen

Anonymous has been through the most with her hubby, he is expecting a second child outside the marriage. His excuse is that she had children before they came together so she should find it easier to forgive.

Anonymous found suggestive texts between her man and a female friend, now the trust has been broken. He claims nothing happened but does she feel secure enough to trust him going forward?

Today we have an Ask A Man first where we reconnect with an anonymous caller that called us a month ago. We want to find out whether she has made a choice between the two men that she was seeing.

Anonymous finds redflags with every man she dates after her divorce. Has she completely healed since her marriage or has she become the big redflag?

Anonymous is 44 years young, she had been single and celibate for 3 years before meeting a man on social media. She feels that he's just swindling her for money because he is not what he claimed to be on his profile.

Anonymous is traumatised from a hijacking but this won't stop her from roaming the streets at night looking for love. The issue is that she's a single mom and her son is triggered every night that she doesn't come back home

Anonymous is broken, after agreeing sharing her man with another woman she's now fallen out of love with him, she's now a side-chick to another man while dating the father of her child.

Anonymous has been on a rollercoaster ride of a relationship for over 10 years. Since her man got employed he's been cheating and partying up a storm. Should she stay for the sake of the children?

Anonymous before proposing to his fiance' disclosed that he had been dating someone else before choosing to settle with her. She has then been emotionally distant, they only make love 3 times a year. Does she still love him or should he let go.

Anonymous is heart broken, her man cheated and impregnated a fellow churchgoer.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man that has chosen alcohol over her. When she visits his place she finds her clothes hidden in deep places. Is he back with his ex? Is there perhaps a new woman?

Anonymous is terrified of her ex, he says the abuse he has inflicted on her is nothing compared to what he's about to do if she doesn't take him back

Anonymous shares a child with his ex, the ex has informed him that she's given away their child to her aunt. Is this legally right?