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Anonymous feels financially abused by his woman that earns more than him

Anonymous wants to discuss why families feel entitled to choose partners for their sons. What's with the mother-in-Law drama?

Anonymous seems to have a higher sex drive than his woman lately, he wonders what the problem could be

Anonymous has noticed a couple of "redflags" in her relationship, she would like to know whether she's paranoid or not in feeling this way. Take a listen >>>>>

Anonymous wants to go back to his wife but doesn't know how to break it down to his girlfriend.

Anonymous is faced with a couple of challenges in her relationship, besides her man being an alcoholic, he has ex's constantly popping out the woodworks. She doesn't know whether to stay or leave because he's such a great guy.

Anonymous loves her man, he's everything that she ever wished for and more. The challenge is that he refuses to perform oral sex on her, could this be this is a deal-breaker?

Anonymous is finding it rather difficult being step-father to his woman's 8year old daughter.

Anonymous is in an emotional mess, his woman has left him on two occasions and he can't handle the roller coaster ride, he now feels suicidal.

Anonymous' man cooks, cleans and takes great care of her two kids. The only challenge she faces is that he's unemployed and doesn't seem like he wants a job any time soon. Take a listen

Anonymous has been seeing a man (mostly at a b&b) this man now wants to have a baby with her. She's confused whether this man really wants to make her his wife or not

Anonymous' man has tried blaming her for giving him an STi after his December away with his family. Is she wrong by blocking him and asking him to stay out of her life?

Anonymous' babydaddy has gone awol since the baby arrived. What can anonymous do to make sure that he plays his part as the father of the child

Anonymous is being ghosted by her man of 10 months, he says he has personal issues to deal with and hasn't been in contact with her for the last two months. Could she be the toxic partner that he's trying to avoid or is he just a coward not to tell her its over

Anonymous has an abusive man, she pressed charges against him the last time he abused her physically, the court date is close and now anonymous isn't sure that she would like to proceed with the charges.

Anonymous is raising four children on her own because her husband has decided to build a new home and move in with another woman. She is willing to have him take his mistress as a second wife only if she's introduced to the families and made official. She loves him and doesn't want to lose him

Anonymous is about to marry a woman he doesn't trust. Would you go ahead with a wedding if you suspected your partner for sleeping with a neighbour? He has gone through the lengths of asking the land lord if he can trust one of his neighbours around his fiancé

Anonymous feels that she can no loner stay in her marriage. It has been toxic from day one but since her step-child has started living with them it's gotten worse.

Anonymous is a gay man that has been in an abusive relationship for 9 years

The team is back to taking live calls in studio today. Anonymous hasn't been mentally okay ever since she caught her man having numerous affairs over the years. Her man has recently suggested that they have a baby because they are getting older, is this the right move?

It's 2022 and anonymous is tired of being a side chick, will this be the year that she gets a promoted to be the main woman in her situationship or not?

Anonymous VS the clingy wife

Anonymous is facing troubled waters, the mother of his children left him and the kids for another man, anonymous moved on and found a woman that loves him and his kids. anonymous's estranged wife now wants to be back in the picture.

Anonymous was dumped by her man because he wanted to pursue another woman, the grass wasn't greener on the other side now he's back. What would you do if you were in her situation?

Anonymous wants to play Russian Roulette with her life, she is aware that her cop hubby is cheating on her and she wants to start doing the same.

Anonymous wishes that her husband communicate better about his child that he has outside of their relationship. Does she have valid concerns or does she not like the child?

Anonymous is a young man in his late twenties, he is now concerned that his woman who is in her mid-forties wants to get married

Anonza makes more money than her man, with signs that lobola could be heading her way, she's starting to realise that this man has 3 children and that they could become a bigger financial burden on her than him

Why do some women not allow the kids to visit their fathers when their are no longer together or married. We discuss evil "babymammaz" in studio today.

Anonymous is dating a much younger man, she's afraid that his family will not accept her as the woman that he has chosen

After admitting to be a cheater, anonymous feels suffocated in his relationship because his woman hasn't entirely healed from it. He says she's insecure and follows him everywhere he goes. He isn't allowed to go see his family for Christmas because she doesn't trust he is going where he says he's going

Anonymous can't stop loving her boyfriend that has gone back to his woman and child

Bongeka from Cape Town wants the team to discuss financial disclosure in relationships

Zinhle from Cape Town wants the team to discuss Vat n Sit especially where blended families are concerned

Today we kick off our Festive Season #AskAMan with voicenotes to 0608061685. The team discusses relationship related questions sent via voicenote.  

Anonymous has been in a toxic relationship for 10years, she shares two children with her partner, the children have had a front row seat to the abuse at times. Anonymous says something keeps pulling her back into this relationship no matter haw many times she leaves him 

Anonymous is dating a man who doesn't want to commit to her. He just wants them to have fun, she wants more than just fun

Anonymous has been on a roller coaster ride with the father of her child. She is determined to work on this failing relationship, she wants to "fix" him

Anonymous fears for her life after her live-in boyfriend assaulted her in from of her children.

Anonymous has been unhappily married for 6 years. She recently went through her man's phone and found confirmation that he has someone else on the side. Is she strong enough to leave?

Anonza is a lesbian in her mid 30's, she's been with her partner for over 4 years but still hasn't met her family. 

Anonymous wants to mend things with her husband who shuts down whenever they have to deal with serious issues in their marriage. She admits to have been verbally abuse towards him at times.

Anonza wants to know whether or not he can make his marriage work. He states that he is a reformed cheater and misses his wife and family. Can they give it one last shot?

Anonymous is afraid for his life after his step son threatened to kill the whole family

Anonymous married a man after 3weeks of dating,6 months into the relationship she realised that she made a big blunder. Now living under his dictatorship for over 8years she's decided to call it quits, will she have the courage to leave him?

Anonymous is in a 1 year relationship with her partner and is 3 months pregnant. The partners younger brother accused her of bewitching his brother and when she confronted her partner about his brothers behaviour he refuses to address it. 

Anonymous has been crying a fistful of tears since day break because her man has changed behaviour since getting a new job.

Anonymous is broken that her man impregnated his side chick for the second time. Her family keeps telling her to hang in there and be strong for the sake of her marriage. 

Anonymous feels betrayed after his woman informed him that she has been impregnated by amadlozi, yes the underground gang, her ancestors. How does he bounce back from this?

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 3 months, she has started being uncomfortable with his baby mama's constant calls to him. Other ex's have also started to come out the woodwork, they will wait for him at security outside his residence in the morning before work. Is this the relationship for anonymous, should she be patient with him?