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Anonymous is dating a much younger man, she's afraid that his family will not accept her as the woman that he has chosen

After admitting to be a cheater, anonymous feels suffocated in his relationship because his woman hasn't entirely healed from it. He says she's insecure and follows him everywhere he goes. He isn't allowed to go see his family for Christmas because she doesn't trust he is going where he says he's going

Anonymous can't stop loving her boyfriend that has gone back to his woman and child

Bongeka from Cape Town wants the team to discuss financial disclosure in relationships

Zinhle from Cape Town wants the team to discuss Vat n Sit especially where blended families are concerned

Today we kick off our Festive Season #AskAMan with voicenotes to 0608061685. The team discusses relationship related questions sent via voicenote.  

Anonymous has been in a toxic relationship for 10years, she shares two children with her partner, the children have had a front row seat to the abuse at times. Anonymous says something keeps pulling her back into this relationship no matter haw many times she leaves him 

Anonymous is dating a man who doesn't want to commit to her. He just wants them to have fun, she wants more than just fun

Anonymous has been on a roller coaster ride with the father of her child. She is determined to work on this failing relationship, she wants to "fix" him

Anonymous fears for her life after her live-in boyfriend assaulted her in from of her children.

Anonymous has been unhappily married for 6 years. She recently went through her man's phone and found confirmation that he has someone else on the side. Is she strong enough to leave?

Anonza is a lesbian in her mid 30's, she's been with her partner for over 4 years but still hasn't met her family. 

Anonymous wants to mend things with her husband who shuts down whenever they have to deal with serious issues in their marriage. She admits to have been verbally abuse towards him at times.

Anonza wants to know whether or not he can make his marriage work. He states that he is a reformed cheater and misses his wife and family. Can they give it one last shot?

Anonymous is afraid for his life after his step son threatened to kill the whole family

Anonymous married a man after 3weeks of dating,6 months into the relationship she realised that she made a big blunder. Now living under his dictatorship for over 8years she's decided to call it quits, will she have the courage to leave him?

Anonymous is in a 1 year relationship with her partner and is 3 months pregnant. The partners younger brother accused her of bewitching his brother and when she confronted her partner about his brothers behaviour he refuses to address it. 

Anonymous has been crying a fistful of tears since day break because her man has changed behaviour since getting a new job.

Anonymous is broken that her man impregnated his side chick for the second time. Her family keeps telling her to hang in there and be strong for the sake of her marriage. 

Anonymous feels betrayed after his woman informed him that she has been impregnated by amadlozi, yes the underground gang, her ancestors. How does he bounce back from this?

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 3 months, she has started being uncomfortable with his baby mama's constant calls to him. Other ex's have also started to come out the woodwork, they will wait for him at security outside his residence in the morning before work. Is this the relationship for anonymous, should she be patient with him?

Anonymous is unhappy in her 7year relationship, she's recently found some kind of comfort in a platonic friendship with a male friend. Could the grass be greener on the other side?

Anonymous has been dating a man that has been nothing but illusive for the past month. She suspects that he has rekindled the flame with his ex

Today's partnership with @atv_sabc2 had @dineoranaka and @naked_dj chatting to relationship expert and coach Linda Yende about the importance of romance in a relationship.

Anonymous feels guilty that he took advantage of his female friend when she was going through a breakup. She wanted a shoulder to cry on and he gave her a little something more than that. Should he be hard of himself for his actions?

Anonymous is in the process of paying amalobolo for his bridge to be. Her true "bossy" colours are starting to show. She wants everything done her way

Anonymous is keeping a secret from his woman. he's not happy in the relationship, he wants out, he's wanted out for quite some time. 

Anonymous hasn't seen his woman since July, she says she's too busy with her studies so anonymous is confused whether they are still in a relationship or not?

Anonymous would like to know whether or not she should take the father of her child to maintenance court. He has a senior position where they work. He seems to have forgotten his financial obligations to their situationship.

Anonymous is a mother of two. Her abusive man is relentless, it never stops, she can't find peace within the relationship, he's jealous, never allows her to go to work at times because of his insecurities, she can't go out with her friends without being asked a thousand questions upon her return home, she gets beaten at times too. He has promised to kill her if she attempts to leave. Anonymous is hoping that he will change

Our partnership with @atv_sabc2 takes us on a financial journey on today's instalment of Ask A Man. Anonymous is tired of taking care of her partners 25year old children financially.

Anonymous has been through the most, his woman has been constantly speaking to the father of her children day in day out. He has been taking care of 2 children that are not his. Can she be trusted that the baby she has just given birth to belongs to anonza?

Anonza has been dribbled by a married man for the last couple of years. How does she move on from the hurt?

Anonymous has been cheating on his wife for years, even after being caught he kept cheating with other women. Him and his wife have been living separatley for almost a year, now he wants her back. He says he's a changed man

Anonymous is afraid of losing her man. They have been dating for 3years, he paid lobola for her recently, now that he wants a baby she's afraid of disclosing her HIV status to him

Anonza is part of a blended family, her step daughter told her that she doesn't love her. After reporting this to her husband it seems like it has fallen on deaf ears because hubby hasn't addressed the issue. Do you have any step child drama?

Thungisani Siyashadhisa Namhlanje !!!! Anonymous is about to get married but there are a couple of financial agreements him and his finance need to iron out.

Anonymous is has had it up to here with her husband's ex wife, she's a bitter ex that has started dating other men in his family. She can no longer stomach seeing her at family gatherings

Anonymous has been seeing a man for four years, once a month for four years. She was starting to get the idea that she was a just mere snack for her man so she has called the relationship off. In the midst of her despair during these four years her male friend raped and infected her with HIV. 

Anonymous today is a slithery character, his wife found messages on his phone where he was chatting about indulging on his colleagues "birthday cake". She has been insecure ever since. Do you guys think he's cheating or not? Take a listen

Anonymous has a huge confession to make today. He Has Never Loved His Wife. Are you also in a loveless relationship? Take a listen to today's explosive segment of #AskAMan 

Anonymous is heartbroken after finding out that the love of his life is sleeping with his colleague, her future plans are now with the colleague so anonymous not only wants to dissolve their relationship but the business they started together too

Nothing in anonymous's love life seems to be going right, this is the second time calling into the show and it seems that the problem persists. This time around anonymous has confirmed to the team that the challenges could be because she is  transgender.

Anonymous would like to know whether it is okay or not to date her late best friends man. They met at the friend's funeral and have been chatting since, it seems they are both falling for each other.

Anonymous met a man on a dating app, all was going well until she slept with him

Anonymous has been going through phones and digging through dustbins all to get evidence whether her man is cheating or not. She has found panty liners and empty alcohol bottles of brands she doesn't drink. Is this enough evidence for her to leave? No, she says she's in love with him.

Anonymous found her clothes in black bags and her furniture and husband gone as she returned home one day. She's now homeless, unemployed and has their child to look after. She has no idea where her husband is.

Anonymous is experiencing problems with her current boyfriend. The boyfriend was confronted by her ex husband at the mall because he was driving her car. This is when all the problems started

Anonymous is hurt that her mom has chosen to Van 'n Sit with a new man instead of completing the family building project.