Women of Impact

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on April 7, 2021. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we delve into the deep and powerful conversations that can change your life. Today, I'm beyond excited to chat with the brilliant and inspiring love therapist, Jordan Green! If you've ever found yourself questioning your worth or wondering if you're enough, especially in the realms of relationships, you're in the right place. Jordan Green, a licensed therapist, life coach, and speaker with a heart dedicated to mental wellness and creating healthy, loving relationships, joins us to explore the natural human need for validation and how it impacts us all. We're diving deep into the nuances of seeking validation. It’s not just about needing approval—it's about understanding what makes us feel seen, heard, and valued. In today's episode, Jordan breaks down how we can balance validating ourselves while also embracing the validation that naturally comes from our relationships. We tackle the tough stuff like criticism, contempt, stonewalling, and defensiveness, showing you how to build a relationship that thrives. So grab your journal and pen, because Jordan is here to equip us with actionable steps to strengthen how we see ourselves and transform our relationships. It's packed with insights you can start applying today! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Validation 00:12 Relationship Challenges and Validation 00:58 Needing to Be Seen and Valued 01:48 Welcome Jordan Green 02:44 Discovering Personal Strengths 03:31 Building Self-Esteem Before Relationships 03:57 Self-Affirmations and Love Letters 04:26 Courage and Self-Love 04:48 Balancing Self-Worth and Relationship Dynamics 05:35 Importance of Validation in Relationships 06:16 Understanding Need for Validation 06:59 Addressing Self-Esteem Issues 07:41 External vs. Internal Validation 08:18 Keeping Balance in Relationships 08:50 Interdependence in Relationships 09:37 Communication Styles and Relationship Predictions 13:18 Importance of Positive Interactions FOLLOW JORDAN GREEN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelovetherapist/ Website: https://jordanandrea.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: April 24, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast! You know how much I love diving deep into real talk that transforms lives, and today's episode is no exception. I’m beyond thrilled to have the relationship expert and coach, Matthew Hussey, joining us! If you've ever felt like you're navigating the messy waters of modern dating or if you've questioned whether that person you're investing in is truly the one, this episode is for you. Matthew Hussey, with his incredible insight and no-nonsense advice, is here to guide us through the intricacies of dating, vulnerability, and connection. We are exploring the difference between what feels like love and what truly stands the test of time in relationships. Matthew is breaking down everything from the importance of compatibility to how to recognize if someone is really into you or just giving you mixed signals. Trust me, if there's one episode you don't want to miss, it's this one. So, grab your favorite notebook and your emotional toolkit because Matthew Hussey is about to drop some major wisdom on making your relationships impactful and profound. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Overanalyzing Business Excuses 09:13 Building Relationships Together 12:28 "The Slow Decline of Neglected Bonds" 19:37 Evaluating Intentionality in Dating 24:51 Courageous Relationship Conversations 30:35 Humility in Addressing Feedback 35:41 "Unearned Enthusiasm in Interviews" 42:07 "Actions Reveal True Character" 47:56 Questioning Love and Commitment 51:52 Prioritize Self-Care 58:03 Trust Your Gut, Share Honestly 01:01:59 Fear of Miscommunication 01:09:38 "It's Never Too Late" 01:14:47 Unreciprocated Desires and Connection Limits 01:16:35 Settling Due to Fear and Conditioning 01:22:36 "Embrace Authentic Self-Love" 01:28:50 The Importance of Genuine Connection 01:34:38 "Emotional Maturity and Healthy Love" 01:41:15 Confidence Affects Relationship Dynamics 01:45:42 Establishing Relationship Communication Rules 01:50:41 Unmotivated in Unreciprocal Relationships 01:56:35 Dressing for Self-Empowerment FOLLOW MATTHEW HUSSEY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 11, 2018. What up, everyone! It's Lisa Bilyeu here, and I'm pumped to welcome you to another episode of the Women of Impact podcast! Today, Tom and I are diving deep into something we've been getting asked about a ton – the dynamics of alpha and beta roles in relationships. Trust me, this episode is a game-changer if you've ever felt like you and your partner are butting heads or if you're just curious about how to harmonize your relationship dynamics. We're unpacking the defining traits of these roles and whether they're set in stone or something you can work on and adapt. And we're not stopping there! We're also tackling how these roles play out in real life, dissecting everything from leadership within the relationship to how these roles affect decision-making and execution. Guys, whether you see yourself as an alpha, a beta, or you're still figuring it out, this conversation is sure to bring you clarity and maybe even transform the way you approach your relationship dynamics. So grab your favorite hot drink, sit back, and get ready to soak in some serious wisdom on how to own your role and support your partner in theirs! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory Live 00:05 The Exciting Topic of Alpha and Beta Roles 00:54 Courtney Locke's Two-Part Question 01:42 Defining Characteristics of Alpha and Beta 02:20 Nelson Mandela: A Model for Alpha Leadership 03:31 Lessons in Leadership from Lord Shackleton 05:42 Debunking Misconceptions About Beta Roles 08:45 Are Relationship Roles Innate or Changeable? 09:23 Tom's Journey from Beta to Alpha 10:07 Lisa's Alpha Past and Her Evolving Role 13:46 Communicating Role Dynamics in Relationships 15:06 How Situational Leadership Plays a Role 15:30 Establishing Clear Roles in Emergencies 18:32 The Porous Nature of Alpha and Beta Roles 21:38 Questions on Identifying Roles in a Relationship 23:11 Finding Value and Comfort in Your Role 25:41 The Impact of Cultural Baggage on Role Perception 28:47 The Importance of Role Clarity and Communication 33:19 Real-Life Examples of Alpha-Beta Dynamics 36:18 Closing Thoughts on Successful Relationship Dynamics 46:12 How to Support Us and What's Next CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 11, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm taking you on my personal journey of Radical Confidence. You might know me as the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and Impact Theory or the host of Women of Impact. But let me tell you guys, confidence was something I fought tooth and nail for. This episode is a no holds barred sharing session, so roll up your sleeves because we are about to embark on a transformative ride. If you've ever felt stuck, unsure, or wrestled with those pesky dream killers, you're not alone. Today’s episode is all about ditching those excuses, obliterating the doubts, and stepping into the life you deserve. I will walk you through the nitty-gritty of how I transformed my fears into fierce determination and share the exact steps that helped me become the hero of my own life. Whether you are questioning your path, pondering if you deserve more, or just undecided on taking that next step, this episode is packed with the real juice on how you can grab life by the horns and just go for it. I cannot wait for you to hear it! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction: Drawing Your Confidence Blueprint 00:56 Dream Killer Choices and Realization of Unhappiness 02:35 Coping with Misery through Distractions 03:25 Facing the Reality of Being a Housewife 05:02 The Eye-Opening Airport Moment 06:12 Importance of Outside Perspective 07:04 Lisa's Sister and the Unintentional Wake-Up Call 08:39 Questioning Deserving a Better Life 10:20 Identifying the Real Dream Killers 12:20 Small Choices, Big Changes 12:59 Building Radical Confidence 13:51 Overcoming Fear of Being a Boss 16:36 Balancing Personal and Professional Life 19:10 Embracing Negative Thoughts for Growth 23:42 Strategies for Dealing with Negative Thoughts 25:07 Confidence: Doing New Things 26:27 Personal Story of Reaching Out to Gary Vee 29:00 Making Incremental Steps Towards Confidence 31:00 Stepping Into New Situations with a Plan 35:02 Social Hacks at Events Highlighted by Vanessa Van Edwards 40:13 Meeting People with Social Planning Tactics 41:12 Building Connections Through Confidence and Strategy CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on February 3, 2021. Do you struggle with self doubt and a habit of putting yourself down right as you’re getting started on a new path? Do you tell yourself things like “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll never meet their expectations,” or “What’s the point of even trying?” It’s time to silence that negative inner voice for good and start walking on a path towards empowerment, encouragement, and letting your true self shine. On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu answers your questions about how to overcome these negative inner voices and stomp out self rejection and doubt. She discusses how to own your true self, why you need to speak to yourself with encouraging language, how to not let others dictate your decisions, how to start valuing yourself, and how to set expectations that serve you in life. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode about overcoming self doubt and self rejection. [0:20] Being You | Lisa reveals how to block out your self doubt and own your true self. [1:09] Build Yourself Up | Lisa reveals the power of using encouraging language with yourself. [7:16] Keep Showing Up | Lisa shares how to stop others from dictating your decisions. [11:22] You’re Valuable | Lisa reveals the importance of building a foundation of valuing yourself. [19:15] Expectations | Lisa reveals how to have expectations that serve you in life. [26:36] LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join host Lisa Bilyeu in another empowering episode of Women of Impact, where she welcomes Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach, to delve into the psychological intricacies of modern dating. Logan, author of the popular book "How to Not Die Alone," brings her extensive knowledge from her work at Hinge and her studies on love and relationships to the table. In this episode, Lisa and Logan discuss the fears and challenges faced by singles in the dating world, from facing rejection to overcoming insecurities. They start by exploring common dating blind spots and how societal expectations can affect our romantic pursuits. Logan shares actionable insights on building confidence to approach dating with a healthy mindset and explains the concept of "dating blind spots" that hold many people back from finding love. They underscore the importance of understanding one's dating pattern tendencies and provide techniques to improve relational skills by becoming aware of how personal biases may influence dating behaviors. SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Lisa shares her fear of putting herself out there and the battle between ego and mission. 00:23 Logan discusses the importance of overcoming personal insecurities. 00:44 Discussion on the growth and evolution through challenges. 01:09 Lisa explains the Wonder Woman connection and using icons to build confidence. 01:58 The value of knowing your superhero name as self-empowerment. 02:30 Personal anecdotes on confidence building through habitual acts. 03:32 Introduction of Logan Ury and her impact in the dating coach industry. 04:26 Logan explains why dating is intimidating and the fear of rejection. 05:44 Diving into the concept of dating blind spots and asking friends for feedback. FOLLOW LOGAN: Instagram: Logan Ury Instagram Twitter: Logan Ury Twitter Website: Logan Ury Website CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on November 11, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we tackle the trials and tribulations of relationships head-on! Today, we're diving into a topic that hits home for so many of us – those moments when we mess up and just can't shake that feeling of being an absolute idiot. But fear not, because Tom and I are here to shake things up on Relationship Theory and show you how to navigate through the aftermath with grace and growth. So, kick back, get cozy, and let's unravel it all together! Trust me, you won't want to miss this because we're going deep on something we all face – the art of bouncing back after blunders. This episode is stacked with insightful discussions and tactical steps to help us transform our relationship woes into wins. Whether you're struggling to forgive yourself or stuck in a loop of overthinking what went wrong, we've got the game plan to help you step into your power with confidence. So, settle in with your favorite notebook and pen because I promise we're dropping serious wisdom on how to elevate your self-awareness, reclaim your confidence, and strengthen your connections. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Welcome to Impact Theory and the New Cozy Set 00:01:10 Question for the Audience: Alone and Lonely or In a Relationship and Lonely? 00:03:36 Dealing with Post-Breakup Betrayal and Regaining Trust 00:12:28 Mechanics of Letting Go of Negative Thoughts 00:14:44 Strategy of Breathing and Centering Emotions 00:20:43 Handling Misinterpretations in Relationship Dynamics 00:28:55 The Importance of Addressing Trust and Transparency in Relationships 00:34:19 Navigating Communication in Emotional Moments 00:45:57 Expressing Needs and Honesty in Relationships 00:48:31 Perceptions of Effort and Work in Relationships 00:56:13 Finding Joy in the Simplest Moments ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: October 19, 2022. What up, guys? It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm so freaking excited because I'm sitting down with someone who needs no introduction but deserves all the freaking respect – Mel Robbins! This episode is beyond special as she shares deeply personal insights about relationships, self-reflection, and owning our toxic behaviors. Trust me, you don't want to miss out on this real talk. Mel Robbins, the fiery motivational speaker, best-selling author, and star of the Mel Robbins podcast, opens up like never before, giving us all the raw advice we need on spotting toxic relationships and identifying our own role in them. Plus, we get the scoop on how her marriage hit rocky waters and was pulled back with some hard-hitting truth bombs. Honestly, it's an episode full of those nuggets we really need to hear to know when we're in a toxic relationship and, more importantly, if we're the toxic one. Get ready to self-reflect, be empowered, and take freaking control of your relationships, homie. SHOWNOTES 00:00: Introduction to Mel Robbins and today's impactful topic 00:31: Relationship struggles and candid confessions 01:14: Spotting toxic behaviors and taking responsibility 02:28: Disrespect and crossing lines in partnerships 03:28: Real-life example of relationship dynamics 04:34: Are you being the disrespectful one? 08:14: Cardboard box and communication issues 14:19: Signs of toxic relationships and owning your part 30:03: Breadwinner resentment and financial dynamics 44:41: Importance of communication and therapy 48:59: Personal growth and relationship challenges 56:23: How to handle changes in a relationship 01:08:56: Are partners willing to meet halfway? FOLLOW MEL ROBBINS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Website: https://melrobbins.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on August 31, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast. Today, I've got an epic episode lined up just for you with someone truly extraordinary. You know that I focus on guests who resonate with all of us, and guys, this one is a must-listen. I'm bringing you the one and only Devon Franklin. He's a New York Times best-selling author and has been named on Oprah's Super Soul 100 list of influential leaders. With his latest Audible original, "It Takes a Woman," we dive into the heartwarming tales and incredible lessons shaped by the powerful women in his life. Devon shares how his life transformed despite the tremendous personal loss of his father at a young age. Raised by a tribe of phenomenal women, we get into the keys of effective communication with the opposite sex, striving for progress over perfection, overcoming the feeling of being unseen, moving on from failed relationships, and understanding the importance of self-prioritizing. Trust me, these are lessons everyone can take something away from! So, if you're ready to dive deep and gain insights on connection, communication, and personal growth, you're in the right place. Grab your notebooks and your favorite beverage because Devon Franklin is about to light up your world with his wisdom and infectious positivity. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Devon Franklin 00:46 Personal loss and family dynamics 02:03 Devon's unique upbringing by strong women 02:25 How Devon overcame the loss of his father 02:58 The role of his mother and family support 04:25 The women who shaped Devon’s life 05:07 Finding strength in vulnerability 08:05 Feeling unseen in relationships 09:02 Communicating unresolved feelings 11:23 Importance of self-prioritizing 14:18 Navigating identity and self-worth 16:10 Sacrifice vs. personal wellness 26:20 Setting healthy boundaries 32:36 Progress, not perfection 44:43 Building healthy relationships 52:22 Navigating love and vulnerability 01:02:19 Insights into self-awareness 01:08:09 Building a meaningful life FOLLOW DEVON FRANKLIN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/devonfranklin/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeVonFranklin Website: https://devonfranklin.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 14, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep into powerful stories and come out stronger than ever. Today, we're diving into one of my favorite topics—how to be a high-value woman and own your freaking space! Joining me is the incredible Terri Cole, a true boundary boss and the ultimate guide to setting limits that liberate us. Guys, if you're fed up with being manipulated, pushed around, and just downright disrespected, this episode is your life raft! Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist, is here to share her expertise on setting boundaries that empower and protect us. Trust me, you're not going to want to skip a moment of this game-changing conversation. We're unpacking why knowing your non-negotiables and clearly defining boundaries can change your damn life. From relationships to self-care, Terri is dropping the truth bombs on how boundaries can either build us up or tear us down if they’re ignored. And you know I'm all about those actionable steps and real talk that help us rise up and kick ass. So let's get into it! Whether you’re struggling to say no without guilt, or need some clarity in your relationships, Terri’s got the insights to help us step into our power, declare our value, and teach others how to treat us right. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro to High-Value Woman Status 00:00:39 Forgive and Forget: A Deep Dive into Cheating Boundaries 00:01:26 Know Thy Self: Defining Your Non-Negotiables 00:02:14 Define Your Words: Navigate Relationship Dynamics 00:02:55 Flirting, Porn, and Strip Clubs: Set Specific Boundaries 00:06:59 Communication is Key: Articulating Boundaries 00:08:45 Social Media Triggers: Set Those Limits 00:12:30 Intimate Boundaries: Kiss But No Lip Lock 00:14:05 Navigating Verbal Boundaries 00:17:17 Language Nuances: Refining and Evolving Boundaries 00:19:18 Small Boundaries, Big Impact: Household Chores 00:21:48 Resentment Inventory: Catch It Early 00:28:15 Happy Wife, Happy Life? No Thanks! 00:30:19 Family Pressure: Handling Parental Expectations 00:35:55 Talk It Out Before Acting Out: Avoid Transference 00:41:03 Emotional Containment: Manage Defensive Responses ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing the deep dive into understanding and cultivating self-worth, Lisa Bilyeu and Jay Shetty explore the transformative journey of self-discovery and growth. In this segment, they tackle the often blurred lines between intuition and insecurity, and discuss how personal history can shape these experiences. Lisa and Jay delve into relationship dynamics, discussing how to discern between love and lust, comfort and complacency, and how these confusions can impact your relationships and personal growth. Jay imparts his unique perspective on how daily habits and intentional living can fortify self-worth and safeguard against settling for less. This episode is filled with practical advice, including strategies to navigate relationship challenges and nurture personal growth. Tune in to be inspired and empowered to take action towards a fulfilling and authentic life. SHOWNOTES 06:40 Overcoming Passive Mindsets in Love 12:31 Building Self-Worth Through Challenges 16:52 Differences: Love vs. Lust, Comfort vs. Complacency 21:08 Recognizing Healthy Relationships 24:44 Transforming Negative Thoughts for Positive Action 28:23 Jay's Tips for Building Self-Worth FOLLOW JAY SHETTY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JayShetty ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Check out their new Venison Bone Broth in partnership with Maui Nui at a Whole Foods near you! Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this enlightening episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the insightful and compassionate Jay Shetty, a former monk turned influential author and speaker. They delve into the powerful yet often challenging topic of self-worth, exploring why so many women settle in relationships and how to break free from these self-imposed limitations. Jay shares his wisdom on the roots of settling, revealing how fear and societal conditioning play crucial roles. Together, they discuss practical steps for building a sense of self-worth that transcends past traumas and external validation. Join Lisa and Jay as they unpack the intricacies of personal growth, challenging often-unnoticed scripts that keep us feeling small, and learn how to rewrite them in ways that empower. Whether you're struggling with self-esteem or want to better understand your intrinsic value, this episode offers invaluable insights and actionable strategies for transforming your life's narrative. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro: The Fear of Settling 00:22 Jay on the Reasons We Settle 01:23 Overcoming Limited Views of Ourselves 02:23 The Power of Living Without Scripts 03:02 Asking the Right Questions 04:44 Family Influence on Decision Making FOLLOW JAY SHETTY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JayShetty ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Check out their new Venison Bone Broth in partnership with Maui Nui at a Whole Foods near you! Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 29, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about empowering you to live your best life. Today, we're delving into a topic that's close to my heart - relationships. And I'm thrilled to share the mic with none other than my partner-in-crime, Tom Bilyeu. In this episode, we’re breaking down a concept that might sound a bit controversial: why being selfish could actually be the best thing for your relationship! Trust me, self-care isn't just about bubble baths and spa days, it's about making sure your own cup is full so you can truly show up for those you love. Join Tom and I as we explore how prioritizing yourself can actually strengthen your connections. We're tackling the hard-hitting questions and sharing personal insights on balance, communication, and understanding how our individual needs play into the bigger picture of our relationships. Grab your favorite cozy blanket, get comfortable, and let's get into this powerful discussion about love, life, and the pursuit of a healthier, happier you! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory 00:31 Holiday Season Reflections 01:09 Would You Rather Results 02:04 Balancing Business and Relationships 04:52 Essential Needs: Me Time vs. We Time 06:24 Navigating Selfish Desires 08:31 Importance of Communication 09:39 Managing Energy and Emotions 14:22 Addressing Conflicts and Priorities 18:43 Self-Care and Relationship Dynamics 23:24 Understanding Emotional Needs 28:09 "Would You Rather" Relationship Scenarios 31:27 Dealing with Disagreements 33:25 Strategies for Positive Energy Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on March 23, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast. Today, we've got the fierce, boundary-crushing powerhouse Terri Cole in the house! Known as The Boundary Boss, Terri is here to help us stop being pushed around and to dive deep into the power of boundaries. Ladies, this episode is all about setting the boundaries that serve you to become the person you truly want to be. Terri's insights and steps in her book, Boundary Boss, are transformational and trust me, you are in for a game-changer today! We'll be digging into what the heck 'corrupt boundary data' is, how to assess where you might be a bit off with those boundaries, and what it really means to live with self-love so that you can attract the right kind of energy into your life. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Understanding Boundaries and Resentment 00:01:28 Welcome Terri Cole as The Boundary Boss 00:01:44 Exploring Corrupt Boundary Data 00:02:37 Boundary Blueprints Unpacked 00:03:14 Self-Assessing Your Boundaries 00:04:20 Myths Around Boundaries Debunked 00:05:17 Self-Abandonment Explained 00:06:04 High Functioning Codependency Unveiled 00:08:37 Recognizing Codependent Behaviors 00:10:00 Personal Revelations and Codependency 00:14:29 Navigating Guilt in Boundary Setting 00:19:05 Obligations and Choices in Family Dynamics 00:22:37 Boundary Setting as a Fluent Language 00:25:01 Over-Giving and Resentment 00:31:13 Introduction to Boundary Categories 00:34:05 Physical to Material Boundaries 00:36:18 Emotional Boundary Insights 00:40:17 Rigid Boundaries Explanation 00:46:36 Handling Narcissistic Boundaries 00:50:34 Staying in Your Lane with Boundaries 00:57:52 Understanding Indecision in Boundaries FOLLOW TERRI COLE: Website: https://terricole.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/terricole Boundary Quiz: https://boundaryquiz.com ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 15, 2021. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive into the deepest of conversations with strong, inspiring women who know how to bring the heat. Today, I'm elated to introduce you to a woman who embodies resilience and strength, the powerhouse Tracy Tutor! If you've ever found yourself feeling undermined or underestimated, Tracy is here to show us the way through it all. You've seen her on TV, you've read her book, and let me tell you, she’s not just talking the talk; she’s walking that walk! Tracy is a champion of standing up for herself, and today, she’s sharing some epic stories and lessons that we all can learn from. In this episode, we're diving deep into moments of intense personal empowerment — from facing derogatory comments in business meetings to navigating your true, powerful self against societal expectations. It's about finding that perfect blend of strength, femininity, and self-expression and using them to command any room with confidence and humility. Get ready to rally around Tracy as she shares her blueprint for confrontation, finding your voice, and above all, rocking your brilliance with no apologies. You won't want to miss a word of this remarkable conversation! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Tracy Stands Her Ground 00:49 Lisa Welcomes Tracy Tutor 08:19 Importance of Gut Instinct 17:01 Confrontation Blueprint 22:22 Mastering Command of the Room 29:04 Adapting to Different Personalities and Moods 40:06 Embracing Fashion and Femininity in Business 53:13 Breaking Down Gender Stereotypes in the Workplace FOLLOW TRACY TUTOR: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracytutor/ Twitter: Visit Tracy's website for social media links. Website: https://www.tracytutor.com/ LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 1, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're diving deep into relationships and coming out the other side stronger than ever. Today, we're tackling those questions that make your heart race and your mind swirl – how to know if he's really serious about your relationship. Trust me, these insights will change your life. Ever felt like you're just not seen or valued in your relationship? What about those small red flags that you might be brushing off? Well, we're breaking it all down today with thoughtful advice to help you truly assess your relationship dynamics and make empowered decisions. You’re going to hear about what to take notice of when it comes to emotional connection and shared values, and why trust and communication are the foundation of a lasting partnership. Ladies, grab that notebook and pen because we're diving into the signs he's serious, unpacking how to know when it's time to walk away, and understanding those key qualities to look for in a partner. This is about stepping into your power and ensuring your relationship lifts you higher. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Honoring Vulnerabilities in Relationships 04:34 "Culture Clash: Loud Greek Family" 07:58 Navigating Interruptions with Calm Communication 12:35 Trust and Vulnerability in Marriage 16:39 Navigating Growth in Relationships 19:54 Navigating Relationship Transitions Together 22:57 "Navigating Personal Growth in Relationships" 26:26 Pre-Marriage Focus: Trust and Growth 30:32 Defining Relationship Progression Steps 33:53 Trust Your Gut Instincts 37:22 The Cycle of Intoxicating Love 38:02 "Keeping Relationship Sparks Alive" 41:33 Maintaining Relationship Connection Daily CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing the enlightening dialogue, Part 2 of this episode with Chase Hughes on "Women of Impact" dives deeper into the nuances of human behavior and manipulation. Lisa and Chase examine complex case studies, including the psychological profiles and persuasion tactics of infamous figures like Jeffrey Epstein and P. Diddy. They discuss the societal implications and systemic issues that allow such manipulations to persist unnoticed for years. Additionally, Chase shares his comprehensive "six axes of influence" framework, shedding light on how mind control is executed and the steps individuals can take to safeguard their mental and emotional wellbeing. This episode equips listeners with the tools they need to recognize and resist manipulation, fostering a community of informed and empowered women who can navigate their lives with confidence. SHOWNOTES 10:19 The Frauds of Authority and Authenticity 18:07 The Six Axes of Influence Explained 25:45 Case Studies: Jeffery Epstein and P. Diddy 32:32 Developing Intuition Against Manipulation 37:06 The Role of Social Media in Modern Manipulations 47:22 Final Thoughts and Takeaways FOLLOW CHASE: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Chase Hughes, a renowned expert in human behavior and interrogation techniques, to delve into the art of spotting manipulators and understanding the psychology behind their tactics. Chase brings his deep knowledge to the table, offering insights that go beyond the surface. They dissect how to spot red flags in relationships, particularly focusing on identifying narcissists and psychopaths in the early stages of dating—a subject that resonates with many of Lisa’s audience. Chase provides practical advice for women to protect themselves in potentially harmful relationships. The conversation goes in-depth into the tactics manipulators use, exploring cognitive blind spots and the mental gymnastics people perform to justify poor relationship choices. Lisa and Chase navigate through valuable questions to ask on first dates and warning signs to look out for, ensuring listeners walk away equipped with the knowledge to make safer choices in their personal lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Chase Hughes Introduction 00:47 Spotting Narcissists on a First Date 01:51 Cognitive Blind Spots in Relationships 03:02 Differentiating Insecurity from Psychopathy 05:25 Physical Cues of Manipulation 11:00 Warning Signs of Narcissistic Behavior FOLLOW CHASE: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 3, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to Women of Impact, where we are celebrating our power and balancing that inner energy! Today, I've got an episode that is really close to the heart, diving right into the art of balancing masculine and feminine energies with none other than someone who knows me best, my amazing husband, Tom Bilyeu! Guys, if you've ever felt a disconnect or even a spark missing in your relationship, it's time to tune in because we’re breaking it down like never before. Trust me, this isn’t your usual chat about dynamics; Tom and I are here to talk about what really goes on behind the scenes when it comes to balancing energies and keeping that attraction alive. We’re addressing big concepts like Tony Robbins’ views on energy polarity, but making them relatable and bringing them into the reality of everyday life. This is about enhancing our partnerships, understanding each other better, and fostering connections that truly resonate. And guys, I'm all for those juicy, tactical insights that you can start implementing today – so get ready to hear about how you can seriously boost your relationship game with some real talk about emotions, communication, and more. So, prepare to dive into the dynamics of relationships and discover that balance that allows us to truly thrive together! SHOWNOTES 00:00 The Essence of Impact Theory 00:37 Kicking Off with Comments 01:02 Jessie & Working Out Together 03:40 Stories of Commitment 04:14 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy 10:58 Emotions and Relationships 15:05 Real Talk on Protection 22:37 Transparent Communication 27:48 Leading by Example in Relationships 32:19 Cultivating Connection & Sacrifice 46:53 Encouraging Each Other 53:22 Dealing with Hard Times Together 59:42 Tactics for Love and Appreciation Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on March 16, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I have an episode that's a must-listen for anyone battling the weight of anxiety and depression. We've got the phenomenal Dr. Ellen Vora, a true change-maker in the mental health space. Guys, if you've ever felt like you're stuck in a quagmire of emotions, if you've ever felt isolated and uncertain about where to turn, then Dr. Ellen Vora is your guiding light. She's flipping the script on how we approach mental health, advocating for addressing the root causes rather than merely putting a band-aid over symptoms. Her incredible insights into how our bodies and minds are interconnected will have you rethinking everything from your daily diet to your deepest personal relationships. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or just feel a little off, Dr. Vora's practical, actionable advice will empower you to take charge of your mental well-being. So grab your favorite notebook and settle in because Dr. Ellen Vora is about to drop some serious wisdom on how we can uplift our souls, reclaim our power, and become the heroes of our own stories. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Mental Health Awareness 02:01 The Placebo Effect in Mental Health 06:44 Starting Holistic Treatment for Depression 10:23 Tailored Approaches for Different Personality Types 15:31 Recognizing Suffering and Getting Unstuck 19:32 Importance of Gut Health in Mental Well-being 22:45 Diet's Role in Managing Depression 28:03 Balancing Perfectionism and Self-Care 32:45 Navigating Social Situations with Dietary Needs 38:52 The Power of Vulnerability in Overcoming Shame 41:27 Understanding Miscarriage and Postpartum Mental Health 46:49 The Dangers of Loneliness on Health 50:02 Choosing Social Connection Over Isolation 51:15 Outro and Call to Action FOLLOW DR. ELLEN VORA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/envoramd/ Website: https://ellenvora.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: August 3, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where every conversation is a step toward empowering ourselves and each other. I am so freaking excited to bring you today’s episode with the incredible Dr. Ramani! Not only is she one of my absolute favorite people on this planet, but Dr. Ramani is also a leading narcissism expert, a clinical psychologist, and now the fabulous host of her podcast "Navigating Narcissism." Today, we’re diving deep into the world of narcissism—how to spot it, how to handle it, and how to prevent those narcissistic traits from entering your life. We're going right into it: How to spot a narcissist on a first date with the right questions and how to keep those boundaries firm. If you've ever felt manipulated or unappreciated in your relationships, this episode is packed with strategies you'll find invaluable. Please, please do rate and review this podcast—it would mean the world to me. And remember, it's not just about listening; it’s about taking action and becoming the hero of your life. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Identifying Narcissism Through Uncommon Questions 06:34 Narcissists' Intrusive Tactics 12:45 Trauma Bonds: Familiarity with Rage 20:21 "Defining Love: Different Perspectives" 22:13 Understanding Love in Trauma Bonds 28:10 Recognizing and Navigating Unhealthy Relationships 36:54 Redefining Relationship Success 37:48 Escaping Toxic, Narcissistic Relationships 46:46 Navigating Narcissistic Smear Campaigns 52:26 Narcissistic Relationship Red Flags 56:16 Ending Relationships with Narcissists: Risks 01:03:40 Escaping Narcissistic Family Dynamics 01:09:44 Be a Ray of Sunlight 01:12:58 Addressing Chronic Lateness Conversations 01:18:43 Balancing Relationship Expectations 01:21:55 Empowering Women through Action 01:26:14 Avoiding Narcissistic Relationships Early 01:33:47 Surviving and Healing Narcissistic Abuse FOLLOW DR. RAMANI: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani Twitter: https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani Website: https://www.doctor-ramani.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: July 6, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about building that big, badass life together. Today, we're diving into those sneaky nice-girl habits that we need to kick to the curb to truly become the heroes of our own stories. Trust me, this episode is all about finding your voice, setting monumental boundaries, and stopping the cycle of people-pleasing that has held so many of us back. I'm here sharing my own journey, tips, and insights so you can show up in your full power. Get ready to step up and shake off what's been weighing you down! We're dissecting the habits that'll have you saying 'Yes' to everyone except yourself, exploring how to break free from that velvet handcuff of people pleasing, and learning how to set boundaries that honor our needs first. Ladies, the journey from being the 'nice girl' to the unapologetic badass we know we are is filled with life-changing revelations that will flip your world right-side-up! So buckle up, because this ride is all about uncovering what serves you and empowers you. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Create a "Think Time" Phrase 04:20 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Obligations 07:34 Stop People Pleasing Now 11:44 Choosing Self Over People Pleasing 13:43 Navigating Change in Domestic Roles 19:37 Balancing Parental Expectations and Perspectives 20:37 Embracing Self-Identity Over Expectations 25:56 From Helper to Business Leader 29:36 "From People Pleaser to Empowered" 31:26 Understanding and Setting Boundaries 34:22 Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones 37:36 Communicating Intentions and Impact 42:52 Navigating Boundaries with Mom 46:06 Stop Overusing "I'm Sorry" 47:51 "Empowerment: Avoiding Unnecessary Apologies" 51:20 Apology-Free Communication Strategies CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu continues her conversation with Jefferson Fisher, diving deeper into the nuances of maintaining control in conversations while nurturing healthy relationships. Jefferson unravels the complexities of navigating emotionally charged discussions, emphasizing the significance of setting clear goals for each interaction. Together, they explore the manipulation tactics often present in dynamics with narcissists, and how the power of pausing can defuse potentially explosive situations. This episode tackles the intricate balance between expressing vulnerability and safeguarding it from being weaponized, offering practical frameworks to ensure clarity and understanding in your most important dialogues. With actionable insights on enhancing communication in both personal and professional spheres, Jefferson empowers listeners to take control of their narrative and communication style. Tune in to discover how intentional pauses, tone management, and strategic framing can transform your interactions, leaving you feeling more connected and understood. SHOWNOTES: 03:31 The Pitfalls of Reactionary Arguments 03:53 The Art of a Strategic Pause 04:21 Navigating Emotionally Charged Conversations 04:34 Secret Weapon: The Power of Pausing 04:58 Steps to Collect Your Mindset and Respond 05:27 Utilizing Long Pauses to Shift Dynamic and Power 06:32 The Role of Tone in Communication 06:43 Managing Control in Heated Discussions FOLLOW JEFFERSON FISHER: Website: jeffersonfisher.com Instagram: @jeffersonfisher Facebook: @jeffersonfisher CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, Lisa Bilyeu delves into the world of communication and confidence with the insightful Jefferson Fisher. A renowned communicator and educator, Jefferson offers invaluable advice on how to harness the power of assertive communication to boost confidence and navigate challenging interactions. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Jefferson shares his philosophy that "confidence is as assertive does," encouraging listeners to engage in assertive actions to cultivate self-assurance. The discussion explores the importance of setting boundaries, understanding the impact of silence, and the art of pausing to manage emotions effectively. During this enlightening conversation, Jefferson and Lisa examine the strategies for responding to dismissive remarks without losing composure and the power of asking intent-based questions to shift dynamics in conversations. This episode lays the foundation for reclaiming personal power by mastering the ability to pause and reflect, instead of reacting impulsively. Join us for an episode that promises to elevate your communication skills and confidence levels, setting the stage for deeper self-awareness and growth. SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Introduction to Confidence and Assertiveness 00:31 Using Silence to Empower 01:12 The Power of Boundaries and Follow-Through 01:40 Responding to Dismissive Statements with Confidence 01:55 Jefferson’s Philosophy: Assertive Action Builds Confidence 02:26 Effective Responses to “You're Too Sensitive” 02:56 Impact of Reacting Emotionally and How to Avoid It FOLLOW JEFFERSON FISHER: Website: jeffersonfisher.com Instagram: @jeffersonfisher Facebook: @jeffersonfisher CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 19, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Jewel, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive into the nitty-gritty and come out stronger than ever. Today, I've got an absolutely fire episode lined up with none other than Tom Bilyeu, my co-host and the relentless force behind Impact Theory! We're tackling a topic that's close to my heart and sure to resonate with so many of you: gender norms and how they silently suffocate our relationships. If you've ever felt boxed in or pressured to fit into stereotypical roles, this conversation is your lifeline. In this episode, Tom and I break down why traditional gender roles often hold us back and how effective communication can tear down those walls. We're unpacking everything from practical advice on working out relationship differences to inspiring ways to fuel each other's ambitions without compromising your own dreams. It’s time to flip the script on outdated norms and set a new standard for thriving partnerships. So grab your pen and that notebook of yours because Tom Bilyeu is here to share groundbreaking insights on creating a badass, balanced relationship that defies societal expectations. SHOWNOTES 00:00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory 00:00:42 Opening Thoughts on Time Together 00:01:26 Importance of Proximity in Relationships 00:02:02 How to Deal with Differences 00:03:17 Rules of Engagement 00:07:38 Working Out and Communication 00:12:09 Question Game to Grow Closer 00:16:04 Surprising Traits and Honesty 00:20:13 Ambition in Relationships 00:28:21 Understanding Emotional Triggers 00:36:35 Apologies and Honesty in Conflicts 00:43:02 Roles and Responsibilities 00:53:55 Navigating Last Name Dynamics CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices