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Ep 889How to Spot a Narcissist FAST & Protect Yourself from Toxic Love | Dr. Ramani (Replay)

Do you casually throw a narcissist label on people simply because they were unkind, harsh, or brief with you? How do you know if a person is truly narcissistic or just experiencing emotions or a situation that hasn’t been communicated? In this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu speaks with Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist, best-selling author, expert of narcissism and so much more. Dr. Ramani and Lisa go deep into the world of narcissism. Together they walk you through a complete journey to getting a better understanding of the narcissist, their motivators, and how you may be allowing yourself to be the victim. Dr Ramani begins with the 6 types of narcissistic behaviors and teaches you what the narcissistic game is and how you can play to win by removing yourself or taking responsibility for staying. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 3-3-21 Order Dr Ramani’s book, “Don’t You Know Who I Am?” https://www.amazon.com/Dont-You-Know-Who-Entitlement/dp/1682617521/ref=sr_1_2crid=3DVXDMXL6FQAD&dchild=1&keywords=dr.+ramani+durvasula&qid=1614728895&sprefix=Dr.+Ram%2Caps%2C221&sr=8-2 SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa welcomes Dr. Ramani Durvasula Define | Dr. Ramani explains what a narcissist is? [3:52] Covert | Dr. Ramani defines the covert narcissist [4:34] Malignant | Dr. Ramani defines the malignant narcissist [5:01] Pathological Insecurity | Dr. Ramani explains the difference between Pathologically insecure and conventionally insecure [8:30] Misconceptions | Dr. Ramani talks about the misconceptions of narcissism [11:02] Relational Responsibility | Dr. Ramni explains the responsibility of respect, empathy and clarity[17:07] Red Flags | Dr. Ramani reveals red flags to look for [20:40] Wanting is Fine | Dr. Ramani explains it is okay to want what you want, but accept truth [23:22] The Game | Dr. Ramani reveals the narcissist's game [25:15] Avoid the Trap | Dr. Ramani explains how to void the narcissistic trap [26:00] Conversations | Dr. Ramani talks about having conversations when you’ve been shut out [31:17] Charisma | Dr. Ramani explains the connection between charismatic people and narcissist [32:28] Changing a Narcissist | Dr. Ramani reveals her thoughts if narcissists can change their rigid behavior [37:17] Men vs. Women Narcissists | Dr. Ramani explains social impact on behaviors that impact narcissistic behaviors in men and women [42:07] Raising Kids | Dr. Ramani shares tips how to raise children to not be narcissistic [44:17] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 7, 202549 min

Ep 888The BIG Signs He’s Using You: Why You Must Walk Away Before It’s Too Late | Audrina Patridge (Replay)

The relationships you were in that made you doubt yourself because of what someone else told you about you. The times that you tried to stand up for yourself and your partner flipped the whole argument around and had you buying into lies and made the truth so blurry you couldn’t trust what you were seeing and hearing with your own eyes and ears. Staying in a relationship like that is self-destructive. You can’t stay just to keep the peace for everyone else while you suffer in silence. You can’t continue letting yourself down because you try to set a boundary and your partner stomps all over it and mocks you for even trying to have one. Today’s guest, Audrina Patridge, is the MTV reality show star of The Hills and author of the book, Choices: To The Hills and Back Again. She’s sharing the results she experienced from being a chronic people pleaser, and a woman stuck in toxic relationships living with the regret of bad decisions and wrong choices without any consideration for the consequences she would have to face. Audrina shares how she was able to break out of that and start identifying the areas she most needed boundaries and who the enablers were in her life that needed to go. You can break out of toxic relationships, these are solid tips and examples of how you can start on that path of healing and self-love today… ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 10-26-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction Audrina Patridge 0:18 | Stop Settling On Toxic Relationships 10:21 | People Pleasing Is A Choice 16:23 | Choices We Regret Instantly 20:28 | Handling Broken Trust 32:54 | After Trust Is Betrayed 38:40 | Communicate Clear Boundaries 45:20 | Manage Insecurities & Jealousy Follow Audrina Patridge: Website: https://audrinapatridgeonline.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AudrinaPatridge Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/audrinapatridge/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AudrinaPatridge/ LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 6, 202558 min

The BIG Signs He’s Using You: Why You Must Walk Away Before It’s Too Late | Audrina Patridge (Replay)

Feb 6, 202555 min

Stop Love-Dumping & Break These Nice Girl Habits! (Set This Boundary!) | Rhea Williams

Feb 5, 202557 min

Ep 887Stop Love-Dumping & Break These Nice Girl Habits! (Set This Boundary!) | Rhea Williams

In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we dive into the societal pressures, personal challenges, and manipulation tactics that lead women to settle instead of truly finding joy and alignment in their relationships. With insights from the phenomenal relationship coach, Rhea Williams, we explore how to decipher between settling and truly growing in love. Rhea bares it all, using her personal journey from marriage at 39 to divorce, to illuminate the path towards authentic love and self-understanding. Explore the new dating terms like "love dumping" and understand how self-manipulation can derail your path to finding true fulfillment. Join us as we tackle these compelling topics: - The actual societal and personal pressures that lead women to ignore their intuition. - Understanding "love dumping" and how women minimize their worth to maintain relationships. - How to navigate life's expectations while staying true to yourself. - Why and how it’s crucial to set boundaries, know your worth, and refuse to compromise on your standards. By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools to reclaim your life, refocus on your wants, and build the relationship you deserve, all while harnessing the power of your innate wisdom. Homies, it's time to stop settling and start living a life that aligns with your true self. Discover how to stop love-dumping, prioritize self-love, and chart a life path that honors your desires and dreams. Catch all the transformative insights and powerful realizations that will help you evolve in your journey of love and self-discovery. Be the hero of your own life! Don’t forget to click that subscribe button and join a sisterhood of impactful women on a mission to redefine what love truly means. Let's do this! SHOWNOTES [00:00] Intentions Versus Misalignment Feels [03:39] What's Love Dumping? [16:16] Trusting Your Gut in Relationships [21:03] Unforgiveness: The Relationship Killer [28:29] Spotting Relationship Red Flags [33:16] Own Your Self-Love and Boundaries [37:13] Relationship: Stay or Go? [42:51] Keeping It Real in Relationships [46:04] Exploring Open Relationships [49:02] Own It, Embrace Imperfection Follow Rhea Williams: Website: https://rhealism.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhealone/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rhealism/featured Couple’s Workbook: https://soulsconnected.org/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 5, 20251h 1m

Ep 886Money Fights? Here’s How to Fix the #1 Cause of Divorce | Relationship Theory Rewind

Lisa kicks off this week’s episode of Relationship Theory by herself to talk about how financial struggles may be putting a strain on your relationship. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-27-18 Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 4, 20251h 2m

Money Fights? Here’s How to Fix the #1 Cause of Divorce | Relationship Theory Rewind

Feb 4, 202558 min

Stop Being Pushed Around and Start Standing Your Ground | Jenn Cassetta (Replay)

Feb 3, 20251h 47m

Ep 885Stop Being Pushed Around and Start Standing Your Ground | Jenn Cassetta (Replay)

You should never have to walk around not feeling safe just because you are a woman. Being a victim of a crime is horrendous that can cause lifelong trauma and setbacks. There are some stats that report over 40% of women in the U.S. have encountered sexual violence in their life. While fighting back can feel scary and impossible whether you’re five feet tall or 6 feet tall, the alternative of not fighting back is even scarier. In this episode Lisa brings on a 3rd Black Belt Badass to share her moves, tips, and tactics to defend yourself, stand up for yourself, and love yourself through it all. Jenn Cassetta has appeared on national television, and has helped brands such as Apple, Nike, and Uber teach self defense for women. After being attacked herself near her home late one night, she took her fear to a dojo and learned how to fight back and master her thinking. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-7-22 Jenn shares the Ultimate Comeback for life: Give yourself grace Reimagine your life Recreate your life Ignore the naysayers Set a plan in motion Having practical tactics to help you better deal with people when they’ve crossed your boundaries and ways to stand up for yourself that allow you to be more confident may save your life on the street or in the workplace. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Jenn Casetta 3:38 | Embrace the Suck (White Belt) 8:45 | Suited Up in Amour 11:12 | Choose to Defend Yourself - Peace - mind body connection 15:50 | Make Your Sh*ts List 23:29 | Bounce Back (Yellow Belt) 28:35 | The Ultimate Comeback 37:11 | The Ultimate Comeback Moves 39:27 | Block the B.S. (Orange Belt) 48:52 | Moves to Block B.S. 52:15 | Find Your Roar (Green Belt) 1:04:29 | Unleash Your Battle Cry 1:09:35 | Elevate Your Energy (Blue Belt) 1:19:09 | How to Kill Energy Vampires 1:30:34 | Connect to Your Inner Warrior (Red Belt) 1:38:28 | Take the Lead (Black Belt) 1:43:38 | 3 Tactics to Show Up for Yourself CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 3, 20251h 50m

Fan Favorite: When They Hate on You, Here’s How to Rise, Shine, and Leave Them Speechless | Cassey Ho & iJustine

Feb 2, 202535 min

Ep 884Fan Favorite: When They Hate on You, Here’s How to Rise, Shine, and Leave Them Speechless | Cassey Ho & iJustine

Social media is famous for spite and drama, but it has also transformed people’s lives and allowed whole communities to be built around common interests. On this episode of Women of Impact, social media titans iJustine, Cassey Ho and Lisa Bilyeu discuss the opportunities and dangers of today’s internet. This elite panel tackles the foremost issues of the social media age, including body image, the difference between spite and constructive criticism, and how to tell when you are sharing too much online. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8-7-19]. SHOW NOTES: The panel talks about how they dealt with their first negative comment [5:30] How do you know the difference between constructive criticism and spite? [9:06] The panel talks about how to know when you are sharing too much [11:24] The panel discusses how to deal with social media being fueled by drama [14:50] The panel describes the responsibility they feel they have [18:15] The panel talks about how social media has positively changed their lives [21:34] The panel discusses how much you can learn on the internet [25:13] Do you choose to use social media for good or for bad? [26:08] Cassey explains why the “Perfect Body” video was healing for her [27:43] The panel advocates using empathy and kindness [29:05] Each member of the panel defines the best and worst thing about social media [31:11] Cassey and iJustine share their superpower [32:45] FOLLOW CASSEY: Website: http://www.blogilates.com Instagram: http://bit.ly/2M3tM7u Facebook: http://bit.ly/2GOKbbE Twitter: http://bit.ly/2OIipEl Youtube: http://bit.ly/2yIKpww FOLLOW IJUSTINE: Website: http://www.ijustine.com Instagram: http://bit.ly/2YA5g4N Facebook: http://bit.ly/2OGNfwZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/2Kvsuin Youtube: http://bit.ly/2ZCDS2r CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 2, 202538 min

Ep 882She Evacuated 3 TIMES During the LA Fires—Here’s How to Stay Sane When Life Falls Apart | Dr. Mindy Pelz

Hey homie, you ever been through those days, maybe even months, where your schedule is planned out to the T, you've got everything ready to crush your goals, and then BAM! Life throws a curveball. Whether it's an unexpected health scare, a sudden job upheaval, or an evacuation because of, oh I don’t know, wildfires in LA! We’ve all been there where life completely flips our plans upside down. Your nervous system is out of whack, your peace of mind is hijacked, and suddenly you’re navigating chaos instead of pursuing your dreams. Well, my girl Dr. Mindy Pelz and I have been through some REAL stuff lately—from being evacuated during fires to dealing with life’s unexpected twists and turns. And guess what? We’re here to share our personal stories and more importantly, some GAME-CHANGING strategies to calm your nervous system and adapt when life doesn’t go as planned. In today’s episode, we dive DEEP into: Real-life examples of how we dealt with the stress of evacuations and being in quarantine together Practical tips for calming your nervous system when life throws obstacles your way How as women we can stop feeling like a burden and start asking for the help we deserve Navigating health and aging gracefully, even when life is chaotic And tips on how to create and maintain meaningful female friendships as an adult If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the curveballs life throws at you and you need the tools to start embracing the chaos while still taking care of You, then homie, this episode is exactly what you need!!! You’ll walk away with actionable steps and the inspiration to turn those stressful moments into opportunities for growth and self-care. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 31, 20251h 14m

She Evacuated 3 TIMES During the LA Fires—Here’s How to Stay Sane When Life Falls Apart | Dr. Mindy Pelz

Jan 31, 20251h 10m

Lisa Bilyeu Shares How to Stop Emotional Overwhelm and Take Back Control (Replay)

Jan 30, 202551 min

Ep 881Lisa Bilyeu Shares How to Stop Emotional Overwhelm and Take Back Control (Replay)

Losing your cool has probably never ended well for anyone. Whether you are in the workplace or home with your family, there never is an ideal or acceptable time to lose control of your emotions. But how can you keep it together when everywhere you go there is someone or something there to trigger you? Lisa has had lots of practice doing the inner work needed to gain control of her emotions, but she will also be the first to admit, it’s a process and no one is perfect, We all slip and fall short. Being dedicated to being empowered, successful and strong has taught her so much that in this episode Lisa is sharing tips and dropping gems on how you can take practical steps to control your emotions and start making progress everyday. Staying cool when someone has trigger you is far from easy and you may fail the test 100 times, but assessing the situation, your reactions, your feelings, and learning how to rewrite the script is going to set you on the path to self mastery, and it begins now. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-6-22 SHOW NOTES: Discover Your Triggers | Lisa’s steps for discovering her triggers when emotionally sober [0:34] Take a Step Back | How to make decisions when you are in an emotional state [11:05] Overcome Jealousy | Lisa shares tips on how to acknowledge it and determine if it’s real [18:09] Let Yourself Feel Emotions | Steps to uncovering the emotions you’ve been suppressing [29:58] How to Handle Arguments | Lisa 2 rules she has to not allow arguments to go too far [42:04] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 30, 202555 min

9 Chilling Signs You’re Being Targeted by a Psychopath | Paul Holes

Jan 29, 202554 min

Ep 8809 Chilling Signs You’re Being Targeted by a Psychopath | Paul Holes

Fred & Rose West still haunt my nightmares to this day! Now if you don't know who they are then let me explain... they where the typical "couple next door". They were married, lived in a little house in England. Nothing out of the ordinary... until the day the news broke that ACTUALLY they lured, tortured, and killed 10+ young women and girls and had gotten away with it for yeeeeears!!! They had the the most powerful secret weapon.... Rose! Her super "sweet" female appearance utterly tricked victims into trusting her and her husband. And they got away with it for DECADES because of how damn sneaky their manipulation tactics where! And so as a young girl growing up in England, this always haunted me. I mean I DEFINITELY would have trusted her. At 13 years old, I was taught to be careful of the creepy man who is drooling in the corner of a room. I was NOT even remotely skeptical or suspicious of a sweet looking old lady! So that started my curiosity and absolute FASCINATION with psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists and con-men! And so for yeeeeeears I read every book I could get my hands on! Ted Bundy, Charles Manson, John Wayne Gacy, Green river killer, Elaine Wuornos and Golden State Killer JUST to name a few! Why the HELL did they do it in the first place? How did they get away with it? What tactics did they use that TOTALLY fooled people? How did they get caught? And finally, what can little Lisa learn so that she would NEVER find herself in that nightmare? Because the truth is..... I DEFINITELY would have fell for it! And its still frikin happening today! I mean just take a look at the P.Diddy's or Jeffrey Epstein's of the world! Different method, same sad outcomes for many! And THAT ladies is why I am have invited on the EPIC #1 detective Paul Holes! You may know him from catching the Golden state killer (#HotforHoles even became a popular hashtag lol) but he is truly the expert to help tell us the sneaky tactics psychopaths, sociopaths and con-men use on their next victim. In this episode, you’re gonna learn: - The chilling tactics predators use to isolate and lure their victims - How to heighten your situational awareness so you’re never caught off-guard - The TRUTH about what makes someone a target and how you can avoid becoming one - And the psychology behind the predators that will blow your mind! If you’ve ever doubted your intuition or felt like you were being overly cautious, Paul is here to tell you, NOPE, you’re not crazy. You have evolved abilities that can save your life, and it’s time to trust that gut feeling! So grab a notepad because this episode is LOADED with life-saving insights that will empower you to live your life with confidence and security. Let’s dive in, homie! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Targeting Victims: Killer Strategies [11:17] Sneaky Offender Moves [18:08] How Predators Exploit Vulnerability [27:15] Self-Defense Tips in Dangerous Encounters: Fight or Play Dead! [48:39] MO and Signature in Criminal Behavior [55:26] Murder: Was It Planned or Not? [01:04:19] Avoiding Victimhood Mindset CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Paul Holes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Podcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJb Get your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNx LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 29, 202558 min

Ep 879The Unspoken Truths About Sexual Attraction Revealed | Relationship Theory Rewind

In this week’s episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa talk about the real root of attraction and why it’s necessary for any successful relationship. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-18-19 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 28, 20251h 4m

The Unspoken Truths About Sexual Attraction Revealed | Relationship Theory Rewind

Jan 28, 20251h 0m

Ep 878Matthew Hussey’s Proven Steps to Find and Keep the Love of Your Life (Replay)

Longing for a loving relationship that will stand the test of time is a dream for many people and yet it’s one of the hardest things to find. Building a long lasting love takes vulnerability, trust and a lot of communication. It also takes getting into a loving relationship with yourself. One of the worst things we can do when we’re dating is lack the self-trust, self-love and honesty we need to see the person we’re dating for who they really are. It’s easy to get carried away with a perception of your partner when you’re dating and everything is new. Matthew Hussey, relationship expert and bestselling author of Get the Guy, strongly urges women to boldly ask the right questions and not fear scaring the right person for them away. Stop fighting for dead-end, painful relationships that make you question your sanity and if the version of reality you’re living is actually real. Learn the rules for dating that allow you to invest in the right relationship and trust yourself to know when it’s time to leave because the intention and alignment is not right. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-25-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Matthew Hussey 0:10 | Want to Find Love? 21:51 | Build Long Lasting Love 48:47 | Commit to the Right Person 1:09:20 | Love Vs. Lust 1:35:06 | Bonus: Communication is Key CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 27, 20252h 14m

Matthew Hussey’s Proven Steps to Find and Keep the Love of Your Life (Replay)

Jan 27, 20252h 10m

Fan Favorite: Why Playing It Safe Could Be the Riskiest Move You Make | Alex Hudgens

Jan 26, 202535 min

Ep 877Fan Favorite: Why Playing It Safe Could Be the Riskiest Move You Make | Alex Hudgens

Former Access Hollywood reporter and founder of Hybrid House Productions, Alex Hudgens, sits down with Lisa to discuss why you can’t let fear run your life. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 9-26-18 SHOW NOTES: Taking the risk of moving to Hollywood from a small town [1:48] What’s the worst that can happen? [3:16] Introvert vs Extrovert: Where do you draw energy from? [4:08] Everything is a choice you have to make [5:31] Fake it till you make it [6:45] Be active and present in finding the joy in what you’re doing [10:54] What’s the best that can happen? [12:25] Setting your goals to the highest level [13:19] Not letting fear run your life [14:22] Look for excitement and what feels right [18:04] Training your subconscious to trust yourself [21:13] Holding yourself accountable to setting goals [23:04] Balance your choices in service of your vision [25:54] Choose your version of joy [30:32] Giving your all instead of living with “what if?" [32:14] Pulling out the superpower in others [33:37] FOLLOW ALEX HUDGENS WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2Q9VVrF INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2xQfKg9 LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 26, 202539 min

Ep 875Will Your Relationship Last? Ask These 9 Questions First | Women of Impact Panel (Replay)

The uncertainty of dating and being part of a relationship that you want to make last forever causes many of us so much anxiety. The doubts if this person is for real, can you trust them, is this relationship as important to them as it is to you? You don’t have to keep living in fear of not knowing if the person you are dating is the love of your life forever or if it’s doomed to fail cause you’re missing all the signs and avoiding the right conversations, Today, let’s break down 9 questions you can ask your partner to determine if you’re placing you heart, your time, and your energy in the right place with the right person. For hard truth telling and relationship revelations around self worth, value and accountability, check out the full episode with Sarah Jakes Roberts: https://youtu.be/IbriO6QIxoU To hear more Red Flags from relationship expert, Matthew Hussey, check out this full episode with Lisa exposing if He’s Wasting Your Time: https://youtu.be/ny2KL8mYyFE Get all the juicy tips for communicating with your partner more openly about sex with the sex expert, Emily Morse, a.k.a. Sex with Emily here: https://youtu.be/KLukArHg-vk Relationship expert, Stephan Speaks, exposes all the ways men are wasting your time in this interview with Lisa, and you don’t want to miss this: https://youtu.be/dqEke-0o9y8 ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 10-5-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to the Relationship Test 0:18 | Is It Even A Relationship Without Actual Trust? 5:41 | Should Your Partner Value Anything Above You? 9:58 | What Deal Breakers Would End Everything? 17:59 | Does Your Partner Feel Supported? 34:19 | Do You Envision A Future Together? 41:55 | What’s Missing From Your Sex Life? 51:51 | If Your BFF Flirted With Your Partner!? 52:24 | Lisa Questions Tom On The Spot 1:00:48 | Does He Want An Independent Woman? CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 20251h 14m

Will Your Relationship Last? Ask These 9 Questions First | Women of Impact Panel (Replay)

Jan 24, 20251h 10m

Elle Macpherson: From Supermodel to Survivor—The Art of Reinvention and Why It’s Never Too Late | PT 2

Jan 23, 202541 min

Ep 874Elle Macpherson: From Supermodel to Survivor—The Art of Reinvention and Why It’s Never Too Late | PT 2

In the second part of this enlightening conversation, Elle Macpherson discusses love, wellness, and overcoming life’s hardest moments with grace and determination. She opens up about her sobriety journey, redefining relationships, and why wellness is the foundation of empowerment. Elle shares actionable tips for navigating fear, building resilience, and creating a life that aligns with your true essence. From candid reflections on past relationships to starting her wellness company, Elle inspires listeners to take control of their journey and embrace the beauty of transformation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa and Elle explore how relationships reflect self-love and inner well-being. [07:01] The dolphin tattoo story: A moment of clarity and self-discovery. [12:03] How Elle turned pain into purpose by channeling her energy into creating her lingerie business. [20:17] Overcoming addiction: Elle’s powerful sobriety story and advice for breaking harmful patterns. [28:26] Facing fear with clarity: How Elle approached her cancer diagnosis with research and inner trust. [34:54] The wellness journey that led to founding WelleCo and transforming her health. [40:37] Aging gracefully: How Elle reframed beauty and vitality as soul-deep qualities. [50:02] The power of meditation and self-connection in creating a life of fulfillment. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 23, 202544 min

Elle Macpherson: From Supermodel to Survivor—The Art of Reinvention and Why It’s Never Too Late | PT 1

Jan 22, 202539 min

Ep 873Elle Macpherson: From Supermodel to Survivor—The Art of Reinvention and Why It’s Never Too Late | PT 1

Elle Macpherson, one of the most iconic supermodels of all time, joins Lisa Bilyeu for a candid conversation about overcoming life’s toughest challenges. From battling alcoholism to navigating divorce and a cancer diagnosis, Elle shares the tools and mindset shifts that empowered her to reinvent herself and thrive in her 60s. In this episode, Elle dives deep into how to let go of external validation, the power of trusting your intuition, and her journey from self-doubt to self-love. She reflects on career-defining moments, personal growth through hardships, and how the lessons she’s learned can inspire women to embrace their strength at any stage of life. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa introduces Elle’s inspiring story of reinvention and resilience. [02:14] Elle explains the importance of focusing on what you love and aligning with your heart. [03:38] How Elle learned to handle criticism early in her modeling career and use it as fuel for growth. [07:51] The power of self-reflection: Learning from mistakes without judgment. [09:26] Understanding the Four A’s (Approval, Agreement, Acceptance, Allegiance) and how they guide decisions. [12:32] Why listening to your intuition is like building a trusted friendship. [16:54] Elle’s life-changing decision to trust her gut and embrace unexpected opportunities. [22:25] Relationships as mirrors: What Elle discovered about self-love through her marriages. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 22, 202543 min

Ep 872The Hard Conversations You’re Avoiding—Here’s How to Have Them | Relationship Theory Rewind

Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu (@lisabilyeu) dive into topics such as: * When to find the best time to have a hard conversation with your spouse. * How to share each others day which without it becoming a one-sided conversation. * How to encourage your partner to be more verbal. * How to effectively become better business partners with your spouse. * Finding the best tactics to reach out to your significant others family members. *And much more... ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-20-17 Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 21, 20251h 9m

The Hard Conversations You’re Avoiding—Here’s How to Have Them | Relationship Theory Rewind

Jan 21, 20251h 5m

Ep 871Escape the Stress and Anxiety Trap Starting Today | Amishi Jha (Replay)

Attention and focus may be at the top of every employer’s list and every woman’s dating requirements. We live in a society that highly values attention and praises anyone who can focus long enough to accomplish the seemingly impossible. Yet, many of us continue to struggle with both. Mindfulness is viewed as something that would be nice but very few are actually mastering the practice of being present and attentive in the here and now. With stress and overwhelm overtaking us at every turn in the day our minds are flooded and vulnerable to digital attacks and sabotage initiated by our own self. Amishi Jha is a professor of psychology at University of Miami and author of the new book, Peak Mind: Find Your Focus, Own Your Attention, Invest 12 Minutes a Day. She’s joining Lisa to dispel the rumours that improving your attention and meditation skills means that you have to clear your mind. She’s calling it out, and giving simple strategies and techniques you can start using before this episode ends. It’s time to take back your attention, regain your focus and do it in 3 simple steps. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-12-22]. SHOW NOTES: Attention | Amishi reveals while attention can be a superpower it is vulnerable too [0:36] Prioritized Info |How attention systems helps to prioritize information into subsystems [5:08] Suppressing Memories | Amishi shares ways to stop thinking about troubled memories [10:46] Floodlight Focus | Information that is not limited but has a broad and receptive range [12:49] Emotional Overwhelm | Strategy to manage emotions and overwhelm from 3rd person [15:32] Hijacked Focus | When we create a simulated reality and are not in the present [20:29] Executive Control | Amishi on the power of your mind’s attention being guided by goals [29:51] Overriding Attention | Mindfulness of your attention requires initiating executive control [32:20] Meditation | How mindfulness meditation is about staying present without the extra story [34:34] Becoming Aware | Amishi shares simple exercise to find your attention flashlight [43:05] Wandering Mind | Amishi on why you don’t need to clear your mind, redirect instead [49:35] Well Wishing Practice | Deliberately speak to deep care and concern to yourself [52:55] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 20, 20251h 4m

Escape the Stress and Anxiety Trap Starting Today | Amishi Jha (Replay)

Jan 20, 20251h 1m

Fan Favorite: Anne Heche’s Last Interview and Her Life-Changing Advice That Will Leave You Speechless

Jan 19, 202532 min

Ep 870Fan Favorite: Anne Heche’s Last Interview and Her Life-Changing Advice That Will Leave You Speechless

It is beyond disheartening that it’s believed that 90% of sexual abuse victims never say a word about their abuse to anyone. According to NAASCA.org, 50-60 million American adults have been sexually abused in their childhood. Unfortunately, the emotional trauma inflicted upon us as children doesn’t magically disappear. If you or someone you know has been a victim of childhood abuse, or any kind of abuse, our hearts are with you. If you are here, hopefully it means that you are on a journey seeking healing and ready to claim your power. Anne Heche is an Emmy Award winning actress that has been in more movies that we can name such as Donnie Brasco, I Know What You Did Last Summer, and even Dancing with the Stars! She’s brave, she’s bold, and so beautiful. She’s also a woman that learned to stand up and tell her truth, live her truth and take back her power from the abusive and traumatic childhood she experienced. In the conversation with Lisa, Anne shares the wisdom and hard lessons she’s learned from getting up and taking responsibility and taking action on the things that gave her the power she needed to reclaim her life and start loving herself. Her open, raw, powerful display of what it means to find your worth, love hard, and release the pain that was pushed on her at a young age may be the thing to hear today. Anne’s mantra: You are not your abuse ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8-9-22 Anne’s Power Questions to Get to the Other Side: Am I worthy of taking responsibility for myself? Do I value me enough to take care of me today? SHOW NOTES: Rejecting Self | How Anne found power of telling her truth through her father [1:02] Covered Reality | Anne explains the trap of going with what you know and telling truth [3:44] Seeing A New Path | Anne reveals how she thought her way out of the lies and abuse [6:38] First Step in Fear | Anne on how she took action and activated her power in self-love [10:17] Demonstrating Love | Why defining what love looks like for different people is needed [13:13] Being Validated | Anne on how she decided to show up after coming out in her truth [16:18] Power Over Abuse | Anne’s secret to taking power over the abuse you experienced [22:06] Power Questions | Anne’s two powerful questions to get you to the other side of abuse [27:28] Follow Anne Heche: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@annehecheoffical Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anneheche/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/anneheche Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialanneheche CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 19, 202535 min

Ep 869Lisa Bilyeu Shares How to Boost Your Confidence and Feel Worthy—No Matter What (Replay)

The confidence gap between men and women has been studied and well documented. It was reported that 79% of women admit to struggling with self-esteem and confidence. Chances are that even if you are a confident woman, you have times where confidence is lacking and M.I.A. Lisa is exposing why you don’t have to feel confident 100% of the time. Whether you are in a professional setting or in the privacy of your home and family, being confident around the clock sounds stressful and unrealistic. It is, however, your responsibility to observe the things you do and don’t do that add and take away from how confident you feel. Taking back your power and showing up confident starts with you and that means not allowing other people in your life or in the room to affect your level of confidence. This episode is packed with tips for better strategies and tactics you can employ right now to start exuding more confidence. Before you show up in the next meeting, before you walk into the next event, and before you leave the mirror tomorrow morning do the internal work needed to be at your best. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 1-19-22 “Walk in the room and freakin’ own it” -Lisa Bilyeu SHOW NOTES: Confident Vs. Vain | The line between confidence and being vain about your success [0:29] Ditch Other’s Opinions | How to be sensitive to other without diminishing your confidence [5:27] Daily Confidence Routine | Lisa’s tips to get suited up everyday to be confident [12:51] The Right to Be Confident |Why you have the right to be confident no matter what [18:40] Recover From Embarrassment | How to not allow shame to break your confidence [19:54] Stop Hating Yourself | Recognize when you’re hating on yourself without judgement [26:46] Dress for Confidence | Lisa reveals what you are in control of that makes you confident [35:18] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 17, 202546 min

Lisa Bilyeu Shares How to Boost Your Confidence and Feel Worthy—No Matter What (Replay)

Jan 17, 202542 min

Ep 867Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 2

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES Ambitious folks just want to feel seen. Life cycle: belonging, connecting, leading, creating. Assumptions help the brain save energy, easily. Vasopressin boosts belonging, fuels frequent hookups. Ravens need more time with female targets. Sex boosts brain power differently for everyone. Exploited admin vulnerabilities for secrets over decades. Czechoslovakian spies faked marriage, stole U.S. secrets. Think logically, not emotionally, to avoid mistakes. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 16, 202544 min

Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 2

Jan 16, 202540 min

Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 1

Jan 15, 202539 min

Ep 866Spot These 3 Signs He'll Use To Seduce, Manipulate & Control You | Andrew Bustamante PT 1

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Dopamine and noradrenaline make things exciting. 08:52 Taylor Swift shirt makes me seem harmless. 15:51 Can't keep up with Taylor Swift convo. 18:59 She hits the gym hard daily, for sure! 25:50 Attraction and connection often lead to affairs. 27:53 Energy level ups with more intense activity. 33:53 Seduction in spy work: Building trust, not sex. 37:59 Women worry about being manipulated or seduced. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 15, 202543 min

Ep 865Meeting the Parents and Talking Finances: What You Need to Know | Relationship Theory Rewind

Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu sit down and discuss all thing relationships including meeting the Parents and figuring out if your partner has a growth mindset from date one. Tom Bilyeu is the co-founder of 2014 Inc. 500 company Quest Nutrition — a unicorn startup valued at over $1 billion — and the co-founder and host of Impact Theory. Impact Theory is a first-of-its-kind company designed to facilitate global change through the incubation of mission-based businesses and the cultivation of empowering content. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 14, 20251h 2m

Meeting the Parents and Talking Finances: What You Need to Know | Relationship Theory Rewind

Jan 14, 202559 min

Why Women in NFTs Are Leading the Next Digital Revolution | Sara Bauman (Replay)

Jan 13, 202556 min

Ep 864Why Women in NFTs Are Leading the Next Digital Revolution | Sara Bauman (Replay)

Currently, women have been one of the slowest groups to learn and engage with NFTs, cryptocurrency, and Web 3.0. If you are clueless about what any of these things are, or you've heard about all of them but still don’t feel confident enough to explore, you’re not alone. Women only made up 16% of the NFT market. The NFT market is huge and consists of many layers of engagement and roles from all sorts of people. Until now, women have been showing very little interests, and this is the first episode Lisa is bringing a wildly successful NFT artist, Sara Baumann, up front to share how we can begin to change these disproportionate spaces that exists. NFTs are still new enough for you to become an early adopter and seize the opportunities being presented to you. It starts here with curiosity and ends with your commitment to self to not be left behind, not one more day. SHOW NOTES: NFT Gender Gap | Sara discusses the need for more women to venture into NFTs [1:00] Where to Start | Ways to start learning and the benefit of joining great communities [4:48] Imposter Syndrome | How to be confident with what you know and don’t know here [8:49] Peak Curiosity | How Sara slowly stepped into her curiosity to learn more abou NFTs [11:09] Sara’s Story | Sara reveals her path from occupational therapist to sold out NFT artist [12:28] Opportunities | Sara on the opportunities available through the NFT/Web 3.0 space [16:39] Beat Their Expectations | Sara reflects on cultural pressures and how to follow your gut [20:35] Failing | Sara breaks down how she charges forward with confidence and is prepared [27:06] Learn on the Go | Get over the fear of failing and embrace opportunity to learn on the go [31:03] Supporting Women | Sara on the ways she’s been able to support and elevate women [33:42] Community Vibe | How Sara leads her community & ways to choose a safe community [36:15] Women and Weapon Art | Sara reveals the meaning behind her art empowering women [39:58] NFT Art Business | The business side that Sara has been planning for to create value [44:58] NFT Utility | Sara on the use of owning an NFT and receiving digital or physical product [47:25] Metaverse Defined | Why this is a new way to interact and engage with community [49:33] Follow Sara Baumann: Website: https://www.womenandweapons.io/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/NFTSaraBaumann Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/NFTWomenandWeapons/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 13, 202559 min

Fan Favorite: 7 Fearless Women Reveal the Secrets to Crushing Your Biggest Fears

Jan 12, 202523 min

Ep 863Fan Favorite: 7 Fearless Women Reveal the Secrets to Crushing Your Biggest Fears

Hey guys, Lisa here! If you didn’t already know, I am super frikin excited to share that I’m writing a book! To be the FIRST to get sneak peeks about my book and other exclusive content go to: http://lisabilyeu.com/ and be sure to sign up for my newsletter. Do you ever feel that fear holds you back? Do you want to get better at dealing with fear? On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, seven extraordinary women detail exactly how to learn to take risks, turn fear into an ally, and trust your intuition more. Listen as Liz Arch, Cynthia Pasquella-Garcia, Monica Berg, Amy Emmerich, Radhi Shetty, Marissa Orr and Amanda Bucci describe the ways that they have learned to face down, overcome and sometimes even befriend their fears. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 10-9-19]. SHOW NOTES: Liz Arch describes the two ways that you can deal with and experience fear [1:23] Liz explains how to regulate the nervous system to turn fear into an ally [3:16] Cynthia Pasquella-Garcia talks about tracing your fear back to the source [4:56] Monica Berg discusses the importance of listening to your intuition [7:15] Lisa and Monica discuss learning to deal with shame and trust your intuition [8:38] Amy Emmerich advocates focusing on excitement in the midst of fear [10:26] Radhi Shetty advocates writing down the craziest, worst things you fear [12:16] Marissa Orr discusses facing down fears of leaving a “normal” life [14:28] Amanda Bucci advocates self-awareness and taking risk [20:11] FOLLOW: FOLLOW LISA: https://bit.ly/2PjcS28 FOLLOW LIZ: https://bit.ly/2MpNW9k FOLLOW CYNTHIA: https://bit.ly/2Xf7aTJ FOLLOW MONICA: https://bit.ly/2OrEyVy FOLLOW AMY: https://bit.ly/2USyfuU FOLLOW RADHI: https://bit.ly/2AQybmF FOLLOW MARISSA: https://bit.ly/2LTWlTu FOLLOW AMANDA: https://bit.ly/33d1bB6 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 12, 202525 min

Ep 861Lisa Bilyeu shares Why Being a “Nice Girl” Is Ruining Your Life - And How to Stop It! (Replay)

There is something called the nice girl syndrome which is an idea and expectation that you have to be nice to be loved and accepted. It leaves the mark of not feeling good enough. Being pleasant, agreeable, and accommodating doesn’t mean that you have to make yourself less than someone else. “Becoming and remaining a nice girl, is a kind of malnutrition to the soul of a woman.” -Asia Suler What happens to you when you’re always put last on your own list or lucky if you even make your own list? In this episode Lisa is channeling all of her badass energy into exposing how you can be nice and prioritize yourself and communicate your needs. You don’t have to be afraid of speaking up and worried about being rejected or thought less than by the right people in your life. Do a gut check with yourself on which one of these myths hit the hardest and come up with a plan to restore your power and balance where there is none. SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Nice Girl Myths 0:12 | #1 Nice Girls Aren’t Needy 8:15 | #2 Nice Girls Listen to Their Parents 21:12 | #3 Nice Girls Aren’t Rude 25:14 | #4 Nice Girls Don’t Push Back 31:02 | #5 Nice Girls Don’t Swear 31:16 | #6 Nice Girls Don’t Rattle Cages 39:12 | #7 Nice Girls Are Not Confrontational 47:11 | #8 Nice Girls Take Their Friends’ Advice 52:05 | #9 Nice Girls Don’t Show Their Emotions 1:02:46 | #10 Nice Girls Don’t Disagree 1:16:45 | 5 Biggest Myths About Love FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 10, 20251h 42m

Lisa Bilyeu shares Why Being a “Nice Girl” Is Ruining Your Life - And How to Stop It! (Replay)

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