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Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: October 19, 2022. What up, guys? It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm so freaking excited because I'm sitting down with someone who needs no introduction but deserves all the freaking respect – Mel Robbins! This episode is beyond special as she shares deeply personal insights about relationships, self-reflection, and owning our toxic behaviors. Trust me, you don't want to miss out on this real talk. Mel Robbins, the fiery motivational speaker, best-selling author, and star of the Mel Robbins podcast, opens up like never before, giving us all the raw advice we need on spotting toxic relationships and identifying our own role in them. Plus, we get the scoop on how her marriage hit rocky waters and was pulled back with some hard-hitting truth bombs. Honestly, it's an episode full of those nuggets we really need to hear to know when we're in a toxic relationship and, more importantly, if we're the toxic one. Get ready to self-reflect, be empowered, and take freaking control of your relationships, homie. SHOWNOTES 00:00: Introduction to Mel Robbins and today's impactful topic 00:31: Relationship struggles and candid confessions 01:14: Spotting toxic behaviors and taking responsibility 02:28: Disrespect and crossing lines in partnerships 03:28: Real-life example of relationship dynamics 04:34: Are you being the disrespectful one? 08:14: Cardboard box and communication issues 14:19: Signs of toxic relationships and owning your part 30:03: Breadwinner resentment and financial dynamics 44:41: Importance of communication and therapy 48:59: Personal growth and relationship challenges 56:23: How to handle changes in a relationship 01:08:56: Are partners willing to meet halfway? FOLLOW MEL ROBBINS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Website: https://melrobbins.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on August 31, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast. Today, I've got an epic episode lined up just for you with someone truly extraordinary. You know that I focus on guests who resonate with all of us, and guys, this one is a must-listen. I'm bringing you the one and only Devon Franklin. He's a New York Times best-selling author and has been named on Oprah's Super Soul 100 list of influential leaders. With his latest Audible original, "It Takes a Woman," we dive into the heartwarming tales and incredible lessons shaped by the powerful women in his life. Devon shares how his life transformed despite the tremendous personal loss of his father at a young age. Raised by a tribe of phenomenal women, we get into the keys of effective communication with the opposite sex, striving for progress over perfection, overcoming the feeling of being unseen, moving on from failed relationships, and understanding the importance of self-prioritizing. Trust me, these are lessons everyone can take something away from! So, if you're ready to dive deep and gain insights on connection, communication, and personal growth, you're in the right place. Grab your notebooks and your favorite beverage because Devon Franklin is about to light up your world with his wisdom and infectious positivity. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Devon Franklin 00:46 Personal loss and family dynamics 02:03 Devon's unique upbringing by strong women 02:25 How Devon overcame the loss of his father 02:58 The role of his mother and family support 04:25 The women who shaped Devon’s life 05:07 Finding strength in vulnerability 08:05 Feeling unseen in relationships 09:02 Communicating unresolved feelings 11:23 Importance of self-prioritizing 14:18 Navigating identity and self-worth 16:10 Sacrifice vs. personal wellness 26:20 Setting healthy boundaries 32:36 Progress, not perfection 44:43 Building healthy relationships 52:22 Navigating love and vulnerability 01:02:19 Insights into self-awareness 01:08:09 Building a meaningful life FOLLOW DEVON FRANKLIN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/devonfranklin/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeVonFranklin Website: https://devonfranklin.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 14, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep into powerful stories and come out stronger than ever. Today, we're diving into one of my favorite topics—how to be a high-value woman and own your freaking space! Joining me is the incredible Terri Cole, a true boundary boss and the ultimate guide to setting limits that liberate us. Guys, if you're fed up with being manipulated, pushed around, and just downright disrespected, this episode is your life raft! Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist, is here to share her expertise on setting boundaries that empower and protect us. Trust me, you're not going to want to skip a moment of this game-changing conversation. We're unpacking why knowing your non-negotiables and clearly defining boundaries can change your damn life. From relationships to self-care, Terri is dropping the truth bombs on how boundaries can either build us up or tear us down if they’re ignored. And you know I'm all about those actionable steps and real talk that help us rise up and kick ass. So let's get into it! Whether you’re struggling to say no without guilt, or need some clarity in your relationships, Terri’s got the insights to help us step into our power, declare our value, and teach others how to treat us right. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro to High-Value Woman Status 00:00:39 Forgive and Forget: A Deep Dive into Cheating Boundaries 00:01:26 Know Thy Self: Defining Your Non-Negotiables 00:02:14 Define Your Words: Navigate Relationship Dynamics 00:02:55 Flirting, Porn, and Strip Clubs: Set Specific Boundaries 00:06:59 Communication is Key: Articulating Boundaries 00:08:45 Social Media Triggers: Set Those Limits 00:12:30 Intimate Boundaries: Kiss But No Lip Lock 00:14:05 Navigating Verbal Boundaries 00:17:17 Language Nuances: Refining and Evolving Boundaries 00:19:18 Small Boundaries, Big Impact: Household Chores 00:21:48 Resentment Inventory: Catch It Early 00:28:15 Happy Wife, Happy Life? No Thanks! 00:30:19 Family Pressure: Handling Parental Expectations 00:35:55 Talk It Out Before Acting Out: Avoid Transference 00:41:03 Emotional Containment: Manage Defensive Responses ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing the deep dive into understanding and cultivating self-worth, Lisa Bilyeu and Jay Shetty explore the transformative journey of self-discovery and growth. In this segment, they tackle the often blurred lines between intuition and insecurity, and discuss how personal history can shape these experiences. Lisa and Jay delve into relationship dynamics, discussing how to discern between love and lust, comfort and complacency, and how these confusions can impact your relationships and personal growth. Jay imparts his unique perspective on how daily habits and intentional living can fortify self-worth and safeguard against settling for less. This episode is filled with practical advice, including strategies to navigate relationship challenges and nurture personal growth. Tune in to be inspired and empowered to take action towards a fulfilling and authentic life. SHOWNOTES 06:40 Overcoming Passive Mindsets in Love 12:31 Building Self-Worth Through Challenges 16:52 Differences: Love vs. Lust, Comfort vs. Complacency 21:08 Recognizing Healthy Relationships 24:44 Transforming Negative Thoughts for Positive Action 28:23 Jay's Tips for Building Self-Worth FOLLOW JAY SHETTY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JayShetty ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Check out their new Venison Bone Broth in partnership with Maui Nui at a Whole Foods near you! Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this enlightening episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the insightful and compassionate Jay Shetty, a former monk turned influential author and speaker. They delve into the powerful yet often challenging topic of self-worth, exploring why so many women settle in relationships and how to break free from these self-imposed limitations. Jay shares his wisdom on the roots of settling, revealing how fear and societal conditioning play crucial roles. Together, they discuss practical steps for building a sense of self-worth that transcends past traumas and external validation. Join Lisa and Jay as they unpack the intricacies of personal growth, challenging often-unnoticed scripts that keep us feeling small, and learn how to rewrite them in ways that empower. Whether you're struggling with self-esteem or want to better understand your intrinsic value, this episode offers invaluable insights and actionable strategies for transforming your life's narrative. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro: The Fear of Settling 00:22 Jay on the Reasons We Settle 01:23 Overcoming Limited Views of Ourselves 02:23 The Power of Living Without Scripts 03:02 Asking the Right Questions 04:44 Family Influence on Decision Making FOLLOW JAY SHETTY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JayShetty ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Check out their new Venison Bone Broth in partnership with Maui Nui at a Whole Foods near you! Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 29, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about empowering you to live your best life. Today, we're delving into a topic that's close to my heart - relationships. And I'm thrilled to share the mic with none other than my partner-in-crime, Tom Bilyeu. In this episode, we’re breaking down a concept that might sound a bit controversial: why being selfish could actually be the best thing for your relationship! Trust me, self-care isn't just about bubble baths and spa days, it's about making sure your own cup is full so you can truly show up for those you love. Join Tom and I as we explore how prioritizing yourself can actually strengthen your connections. We're tackling the hard-hitting questions and sharing personal insights on balance, communication, and understanding how our individual needs play into the bigger picture of our relationships. Grab your favorite cozy blanket, get comfortable, and let's get into this powerful discussion about love, life, and the pursuit of a healthier, happier you! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory 00:31 Holiday Season Reflections 01:09 Would You Rather Results 02:04 Balancing Business and Relationships 04:52 Essential Needs: Me Time vs. We Time 06:24 Navigating Selfish Desires 08:31 Importance of Communication 09:39 Managing Energy and Emotions 14:22 Addressing Conflicts and Priorities 18:43 Self-Care and Relationship Dynamics 23:24 Understanding Emotional Needs 28:09 "Would You Rather" Relationship Scenarios 31:27 Dealing with Disagreements 33:25 Strategies for Positive Energy Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on March 23, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast. Today, we've got the fierce, boundary-crushing powerhouse Terri Cole in the house! Known as The Boundary Boss, Terri is here to help us stop being pushed around and to dive deep into the power of boundaries. Ladies, this episode is all about setting the boundaries that serve you to become the person you truly want to be. Terri's insights and steps in her book, Boundary Boss, are transformational and trust me, you are in for a game-changer today! We'll be digging into what the heck 'corrupt boundary data' is, how to assess where you might be a bit off with those boundaries, and what it really means to live with self-love so that you can attract the right kind of energy into your life. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Understanding Boundaries and Resentment 00:01:28 Welcome Terri Cole as The Boundary Boss 00:01:44 Exploring Corrupt Boundary Data 00:02:37 Boundary Blueprints Unpacked 00:03:14 Self-Assessing Your Boundaries 00:04:20 Myths Around Boundaries Debunked 00:05:17 Self-Abandonment Explained 00:06:04 High Functioning Codependency Unveiled 00:08:37 Recognizing Codependent Behaviors 00:10:00 Personal Revelations and Codependency 00:14:29 Navigating Guilt in Boundary Setting 00:19:05 Obligations and Choices in Family Dynamics 00:22:37 Boundary Setting as a Fluent Language 00:25:01 Over-Giving and Resentment 00:31:13 Introduction to Boundary Categories 00:34:05 Physical to Material Boundaries 00:36:18 Emotional Boundary Insights 00:40:17 Rigid Boundaries Explanation 00:46:36 Handling Narcissistic Boundaries 00:50:34 Staying in Your Lane with Boundaries 00:57:52 Understanding Indecision in Boundaries FOLLOW TERRI COLE: Website: https://terricole.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/terricole Boundary Quiz: https://boundaryquiz.com ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi #skimspartner Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 15, 2021. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive into the deepest of conversations with strong, inspiring women who know how to bring the heat. Today, I'm elated to introduce you to a woman who embodies resilience and strength, the powerhouse Tracy Tutor! If you've ever found yourself feeling undermined or underestimated, Tracy is here to show us the way through it all. You've seen her on TV, you've read her book, and let me tell you, she’s not just talking the talk; she’s walking that walk! Tracy is a champion of standing up for herself, and today, she’s sharing some epic stories and lessons that we all can learn from. In this episode, we're diving deep into moments of intense personal empowerment — from facing derogatory comments in business meetings to navigating your true, powerful self against societal expectations. It's about finding that perfect blend of strength, femininity, and self-expression and using them to command any room with confidence and humility. Get ready to rally around Tracy as she shares her blueprint for confrontation, finding your voice, and above all, rocking your brilliance with no apologies. You won't want to miss a word of this remarkable conversation! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Tracy Stands Her Ground 00:49 Lisa Welcomes Tracy Tutor 08:19 Importance of Gut Instinct 17:01 Confrontation Blueprint 22:22 Mastering Command of the Room 29:04 Adapting to Different Personalities and Moods 40:06 Embracing Fashion and Femininity in Business 53:13 Breaking Down Gender Stereotypes in the Workplace FOLLOW TRACY TUTOR: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracytutor/ Twitter: Visit Tracy's website for social media links. Website: https://www.tracytutor.com/ LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 1, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're diving deep into relationships and coming out the other side stronger than ever. Today, we're tackling those questions that make your heart race and your mind swirl – how to know if he's really serious about your relationship. Trust me, these insights will change your life. Ever felt like you're just not seen or valued in your relationship? What about those small red flags that you might be brushing off? Well, we're breaking it all down today with thoughtful advice to help you truly assess your relationship dynamics and make empowered decisions. You’re going to hear about what to take notice of when it comes to emotional connection and shared values, and why trust and communication are the foundation of a lasting partnership. Ladies, grab that notebook and pen because we're diving into the signs he's serious, unpacking how to know when it's time to walk away, and understanding those key qualities to look for in a partner. This is about stepping into your power and ensuring your relationship lifts you higher. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Honoring Vulnerabilities in Relationships 04:34 "Culture Clash: Loud Greek Family" 07:58 Navigating Interruptions with Calm Communication 12:35 Trust and Vulnerability in Marriage 16:39 Navigating Growth in Relationships 19:54 Navigating Relationship Transitions Together 22:57 "Navigating Personal Growth in Relationships" 26:26 Pre-Marriage Focus: Trust and Growth 30:32 Defining Relationship Progression Steps 33:53 Trust Your Gut Instincts 37:22 The Cycle of Intoxicating Love 38:02 "Keeping Relationship Sparks Alive" 41:33 Maintaining Relationship Connection Daily CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing the enlightening dialogue, Part 2 of this episode with Chase Hughes on "Women of Impact" dives deeper into the nuances of human behavior and manipulation. Lisa and Chase examine complex case studies, including the psychological profiles and persuasion tactics of infamous figures like Jeffrey Epstein and P. Diddy. They discuss the societal implications and systemic issues that allow such manipulations to persist unnoticed for years. Additionally, Chase shares his comprehensive "six axes of influence" framework, shedding light on how mind control is executed and the steps individuals can take to safeguard their mental and emotional wellbeing. This episode equips listeners with the tools they need to recognize and resist manipulation, fostering a community of informed and empowered women who can navigate their lives with confidence. SHOWNOTES 10:19 The Frauds of Authority and Authenticity 18:07 The Six Axes of Influence Explained 25:45 Case Studies: Jeffery Epstein and P. Diddy 32:32 Developing Intuition Against Manipulation 37:06 The Role of Social Media in Modern Manipulations 47:22 Final Thoughts and Takeaways FOLLOW CHASE: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact," host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Chase Hughes, a renowned expert in human behavior and interrogation techniques, to delve into the art of spotting manipulators and understanding the psychology behind their tactics. Chase brings his deep knowledge to the table, offering insights that go beyond the surface. They dissect how to spot red flags in relationships, particularly focusing on identifying narcissists and psychopaths in the early stages of dating—a subject that resonates with many of Lisa’s audience. Chase provides practical advice for women to protect themselves in potentially harmful relationships. The conversation goes in-depth into the tactics manipulators use, exploring cognitive blind spots and the mental gymnastics people perform to justify poor relationship choices. Lisa and Chase navigate through valuable questions to ask on first dates and warning signs to look out for, ensuring listeners walk away equipped with the knowledge to make safer choices in their personal lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Chase Hughes Introduction 00:47 Spotting Narcissists on a First Date 01:51 Cognitive Blind Spots in Relationships 03:02 Differentiating Insecurity from Psychopathy 05:25 Physical Cues of Manipulation 11:00 Warning Signs of Narcissistic Behavior FOLLOW CHASE: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 3, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to Women of Impact, where we are celebrating our power and balancing that inner energy! Today, I've got an episode that is really close to the heart, diving right into the art of balancing masculine and feminine energies with none other than someone who knows me best, my amazing husband, Tom Bilyeu! Guys, if you've ever felt a disconnect or even a spark missing in your relationship, it's time to tune in because we’re breaking it down like never before. Trust me, this isn’t your usual chat about dynamics; Tom and I are here to talk about what really goes on behind the scenes when it comes to balancing energies and keeping that attraction alive. We’re addressing big concepts like Tony Robbins’ views on energy polarity, but making them relatable and bringing them into the reality of everyday life. This is about enhancing our partnerships, understanding each other better, and fostering connections that truly resonate. And guys, I'm all for those juicy, tactical insights that you can start implementing today – so get ready to hear about how you can seriously boost your relationship game with some real talk about emotions, communication, and more. So, prepare to dive into the dynamics of relationships and discover that balance that allows us to truly thrive together! SHOWNOTES 00:00 The Essence of Impact Theory 00:37 Kicking Off with Comments 01:02 Jessie & Working Out Together 03:40 Stories of Commitment 04:14 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy 10:58 Emotions and Relationships 15:05 Real Talk on Protection 22:37 Transparent Communication 27:48 Leading by Example in Relationships 32:19 Cultivating Connection & Sacrifice 46:53 Encouraging Each Other 53:22 Dealing with Hard Times Together 59:42 Tactics for Love and Appreciation Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on March 16, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I have an episode that's a must-listen for anyone battling the weight of anxiety and depression. We've got the phenomenal Dr. Ellen Vora, a true change-maker in the mental health space. Guys, if you've ever felt like you're stuck in a quagmire of emotions, if you've ever felt isolated and uncertain about where to turn, then Dr. Ellen Vora is your guiding light. She's flipping the script on how we approach mental health, advocating for addressing the root causes rather than merely putting a band-aid over symptoms. Her incredible insights into how our bodies and minds are interconnected will have you rethinking everything from your daily diet to your deepest personal relationships. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or just feel a little off, Dr. Vora's practical, actionable advice will empower you to take charge of your mental well-being. So grab your favorite notebook and settle in because Dr. Ellen Vora is about to drop some serious wisdom on how we can uplift our souls, reclaim our power, and become the heroes of our own stories. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Mental Health Awareness 02:01 The Placebo Effect in Mental Health 06:44 Starting Holistic Treatment for Depression 10:23 Tailored Approaches for Different Personality Types 15:31 Recognizing Suffering and Getting Unstuck 19:32 Importance of Gut Health in Mental Well-being 22:45 Diet's Role in Managing Depression 28:03 Balancing Perfectionism and Self-Care 32:45 Navigating Social Situations with Dietary Needs 38:52 The Power of Vulnerability in Overcoming Shame 41:27 Understanding Miscarriage and Postpartum Mental Health 46:49 The Dangers of Loneliness on Health 50:02 Choosing Social Connection Over Isolation 51:15 Outro and Call to Action FOLLOW DR. ELLEN VORA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/envoramd/ Website: https://ellenvora.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: August 3, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where every conversation is a step toward empowering ourselves and each other. I am so freaking excited to bring you today’s episode with the incredible Dr. Ramani! Not only is she one of my absolute favorite people on this planet, but Dr. Ramani is also a leading narcissism expert, a clinical psychologist, and now the fabulous host of her podcast "Navigating Narcissism." Today, we’re diving deep into the world of narcissism—how to spot it, how to handle it, and how to prevent those narcissistic traits from entering your life. We're going right into it: How to spot a narcissist on a first date with the right questions and how to keep those boundaries firm. If you've ever felt manipulated or unappreciated in your relationships, this episode is packed with strategies you'll find invaluable. Please, please do rate and review this podcast—it would mean the world to me. And remember, it's not just about listening; it’s about taking action and becoming the hero of your life. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Identifying Narcissism Through Uncommon Questions 06:34 Narcissists' Intrusive Tactics 12:45 Trauma Bonds: Familiarity with Rage 20:21 "Defining Love: Different Perspectives" 22:13 Understanding Love in Trauma Bonds 28:10 Recognizing and Navigating Unhealthy Relationships 36:54 Redefining Relationship Success 37:48 Escaping Toxic, Narcissistic Relationships 46:46 Navigating Narcissistic Smear Campaigns 52:26 Narcissistic Relationship Red Flags 56:16 Ending Relationships with Narcissists: Risks 01:03:40 Escaping Narcissistic Family Dynamics 01:09:44 Be a Ray of Sunlight 01:12:58 Addressing Chronic Lateness Conversations 01:18:43 Balancing Relationship Expectations 01:21:55 Empowering Women through Action 01:26:14 Avoiding Narcissistic Relationships Early 01:33:47 Surviving and Healing Narcissistic Abuse FOLLOW DR. RAMANI: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani Twitter: https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani Website: https://www.doctor-ramani.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: July 6, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about building that big, badass life together. Today, we're diving into those sneaky nice-girl habits that we need to kick to the curb to truly become the heroes of our own stories. Trust me, this episode is all about finding your voice, setting monumental boundaries, and stopping the cycle of people-pleasing that has held so many of us back. I'm here sharing my own journey, tips, and insights so you can show up in your full power. Get ready to step up and shake off what's been weighing you down! We're dissecting the habits that'll have you saying 'Yes' to everyone except yourself, exploring how to break free from that velvet handcuff of people pleasing, and learning how to set boundaries that honor our needs first. Ladies, the journey from being the 'nice girl' to the unapologetic badass we know we are is filled with life-changing revelations that will flip your world right-side-up! So buckle up, because this ride is all about uncovering what serves you and empowers you. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Create a "Think Time" Phrase 04:20 Prioritizing Self-Care Over Obligations 07:34 Stop People Pleasing Now 11:44 Choosing Self Over People Pleasing 13:43 Navigating Change in Domestic Roles 19:37 Balancing Parental Expectations and Perspectives 20:37 Embracing Self-Identity Over Expectations 25:56 From Helper to Business Leader 29:36 "From People Pleaser to Empowered" 31:26 Understanding and Setting Boundaries 34:22 Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones 37:36 Communicating Intentions and Impact 42:52 Navigating Boundaries with Mom 46:06 Stop Overusing "I'm Sorry" 47:51 "Empowerment: Avoiding Unnecessary Apologies" 51:20 Apology-Free Communication Strategies CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu continues her conversation with Jefferson Fisher, diving deeper into the nuances of maintaining control in conversations while nurturing healthy relationships. Jefferson unravels the complexities of navigating emotionally charged discussions, emphasizing the significance of setting clear goals for each interaction. Together, they explore the manipulation tactics often present in dynamics with narcissists, and how the power of pausing can defuse potentially explosive situations. This episode tackles the intricate balance between expressing vulnerability and safeguarding it from being weaponized, offering practical frameworks to ensure clarity and understanding in your most important dialogues. With actionable insights on enhancing communication in both personal and professional spheres, Jefferson empowers listeners to take control of their narrative and communication style. Tune in to discover how intentional pauses, tone management, and strategic framing can transform your interactions, leaving you feeling more connected and understood. SHOWNOTES: 03:31 The Pitfalls of Reactionary Arguments 03:53 The Art of a Strategic Pause 04:21 Navigating Emotionally Charged Conversations 04:34 Secret Weapon: The Power of Pausing 04:58 Steps to Collect Your Mindset and Respond 05:27 Utilizing Long Pauses to Shift Dynamic and Power 06:32 The Role of Tone in Communication 06:43 Managing Control in Heated Discussions FOLLOW JEFFERSON FISHER: Website: jeffersonfisher.com Instagram: @jeffersonfisher Facebook: @jeffersonfisher CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, Lisa Bilyeu delves into the world of communication and confidence with the insightful Jefferson Fisher. A renowned communicator and educator, Jefferson offers invaluable advice on how to harness the power of assertive communication to boost confidence and navigate challenging interactions. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Jefferson shares his philosophy that "confidence is as assertive does," encouraging listeners to engage in assertive actions to cultivate self-assurance. The discussion explores the importance of setting boundaries, understanding the impact of silence, and the art of pausing to manage emotions effectively. During this enlightening conversation, Jefferson and Lisa examine the strategies for responding to dismissive remarks without losing composure and the power of asking intent-based questions to shift dynamics in conversations. This episode lays the foundation for reclaiming personal power by mastering the ability to pause and reflect, instead of reacting impulsively. Join us for an episode that promises to elevate your communication skills and confidence levels, setting the stage for deeper self-awareness and growth. SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Introduction to Confidence and Assertiveness 00:31 Using Silence to Empower 01:12 The Power of Boundaries and Follow-Through 01:40 Responding to Dismissive Statements with Confidence 01:55 Jefferson’s Philosophy: Assertive Action Builds Confidence 02:26 Effective Responses to “You're Too Sensitive” 02:56 Impact of Reacting Emotionally and How to Avoid It FOLLOW JEFFERSON FISHER: Website: jeffersonfisher.com Instagram: @jeffersonfisher Facebook: @jeffersonfisher CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 19, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Jewel, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive into the nitty-gritty and come out stronger than ever. Today, I've got an absolutely fire episode lined up with none other than Tom Bilyeu, my co-host and the relentless force behind Impact Theory! We're tackling a topic that's close to my heart and sure to resonate with so many of you: gender norms and how they silently suffocate our relationships. If you've ever felt boxed in or pressured to fit into stereotypical roles, this conversation is your lifeline. In this episode, Tom and I break down why traditional gender roles often hold us back and how effective communication can tear down those walls. We're unpacking everything from practical advice on working out relationship differences to inspiring ways to fuel each other's ambitions without compromising your own dreams. It’s time to flip the script on outdated norms and set a new standard for thriving partnerships. So grab your pen and that notebook of yours because Tom Bilyeu is here to share groundbreaking insights on creating a badass, balanced relationship that defies societal expectations. SHOWNOTES 00:00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory 00:00:42 Opening Thoughts on Time Together 00:01:26 Importance of Proximity in Relationships 00:02:02 How to Deal with Differences 00:03:17 Rules of Engagement 00:07:38 Working Out and Communication 00:12:09 Question Game to Grow Closer 00:16:04 Surprising Traits and Honesty 00:20:13 Ambition in Relationships 00:28:21 Understanding Emotional Triggers 00:36:35 Apologies and Honesty in Conflicts 00:43:02 Roles and Responsibilities 00:53:55 Navigating Last Name Dynamics CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on January 29, 2019. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another awe-inspiring episode of Women of Impact. Today, I'm thrilled to sit down with Brittany Burgunder, a true warrior in the battle against eating disorders. Brittany has faced the heaviest of struggles, going from a terrifying 56 pounds due to anorexia to battling binge eating at over 220 pounds. But here's the kicker—she discovered that it wasn't about the food, it was about the mind. This episode is a raw and unfiltered journey through Brittany's incredible transformation. Trust me, if you've ever felt lost or battled with accepting yourself, you need to hear what she has to say. Brittany's revelation that her struggle was rooted in self-worth, not body image, will hit home for so many of us. We are diving into the real work of healing, finding validation from within, and reshaping our thoughts. We're not just skimming the surface here. Brittany sheds light on how she took control of her own mind, moving from self-sabotage to self-acceptance, and how we can all rewrite our stories. So grab those tissues, because Brittany’s bravery and honesty are going to touch your soul and kick-start your own journey to recovery and self-empowerment. And remember, if this episode resonates with you, show some love by rating, reviewing, and subscribing. Share this with your squad. Let's uplift each other because together, we're unstoppable! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction and Brittany's Journey 02:09 Early Struggles and External Validation 06:23 Control and Anorexia 10:11 Realizing the Desire to Live 13:26 Internal vs. External Validation 20:48 Breaking Identity and Recovery Journey 25:48 The Power of Imperfection 32:38 The New Normal and Self-Sabotage 38:54 Coping with Challenges and Finding Strength 45:14 Writing Her Memoir and Importance of Sharing Stories 51:53 Finding Purpose Beyond Recovery FOLLOW BRITTANY BURGUNDER: Website: https://www.brittanyburgunder.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanyburgunder/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 5, 2019. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where it's all about the game-changers making a difference. Today, I am beyond thrilled to introduce you to Brenda Gilbert, a Hollywood powerhouse who has done the extraordinary by co-founding Bron Studios and making waves behind the camera. Guys, imagine starting in a place where you feel like an outsider, only to rise and create a media juggernaut. That's Brenda's story. Over a decade, Brenda, alongside her husband, cultivated Bron Studios, the name behind stellar films like "Fences" and "The Willoughbys." This episode is not just about movies—it's about building a career, finding your voice, and leading with authenticity. Brenda shares her strategies for aligning with remarkable people, overcoming adversity, and balancing massive projects while fiercely supporting female narratives. She’s living proof that boldness and humility can coexist, and her mission to uplift women in creative roles is truly inspiring. You guys are in for a treat because this conversation dives deep into finding your true north, even when the odds are stacked against you. Brenda reveals her secrets to sustaining passion, nurturing a positive family life, and fostering a work culture that thrives on integrity and fairness. So grab your earbuds, settle in, and get ready to be inspired by one of the most dynamic and humble leaders in the industry. And remember, if you love what you hear, make sure to rate, review, and subscribe. Share this episode far and wide – let’s amplify the impact together. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Women in Hollywood: Impact Behind the Camera 00:43 Journey from Outcast to Industry Leader 02:18 Empowering Women in Creative Roles 04:03 Aligning with Great People 08:13 Passion, Perseverance, and Persistence 15:25 Overcoming Challenges and Staying True 21:02 The Importance of Having a Voice 27:30 Thriving on Challenges and Staying Humble 33:25 Family, Work-Life Balance, and Avoiding Burnout 36:13 Future Projects: Empowering Narratives ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 19, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm absolutely pumped to bring you an episode with none other than my wonderful hubby, Tom Bilyeu! We're filling in the blanks on "Lisa_the 5 things every woman must do," but plot twist, it's Tom who’s unraveling the deep layers of our dreams, the stories we tell ourselves, and all those raw emotions! Imagine pursuing dreams not just to achieve them, but to let them guide you to places you didn’t know existed. Tom walks us through how to balance those overwhelming moments of imposter syndrome with tangible tools. So ladies, lean in because there's so much magic in the “high five habit” that Mel brings up – a bump to self-love and self-trust that’ll knock your socks off! And of course, we’re unpacking those powerful pillars of life: from the dynamics in our spaces, relationships, and habits, to managing that internal chatter that does NOT own your life. Because let's face it, those sneaky little day-to-day choices pile up to create our reality. Yes, girl, WE are making our own dreams! So buckle up and let's embrace the journey to becoming unshakeable and impactful women together. Remember, if this episode lights you up, do the things – rate, review, and subscribe. Sharing is caring, so pass it along to every powerhouse you know! Let’s keep raising the tide for all the brilliant women out there. SHOWNOTES 00:00 The Power of Emotional Stories 00:01:00 Dreams as Life's Map 00:01:52 Understanding the Zeigarnik Effect 00:03:13 Overcoming Initial Hurdles 00:03:52 The “High Five Habit” Unpacked 00:05:38 Mirror Moments of Self-Reflection 00:09:45 Rewriting Our Internal Dialogue 00:18:28 Health as a Pillar of Life 00:21:03 Building Meaningful Relationships 00:24:00 Decluttering for a Focused Mind 00:26:38 Addressing Financial Excuses 00:29:38 Preparing for Opportunities 00:32:16 Habits and Identity Transformation 00:36:07 Navigating Financial Dynamics in Relationships 00:41:12 Debunking the Victim Mindset 00:45:27 Pain as a Path to Growth 00:51:00 Reworking Limiting Beliefs CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As the conversation deepens, Tamsen shares her personal journey through menopause, highlighting the realities women face and the empowerment that comes with embracing this new chapter of life. Discover the untold stories behind menopause, the myths debunked, and the shared experiences that unite women across different cultures and backgrounds. This segment focuses on practical advice and insights on navigating menopause with confidence. Tamsen and Lisa also explore the importance of breaking societal taboos, empowering women to take control of their health and live with purpose and joy. Tune in for a celebration of resilience, wisdom, and the unyielding spirit of women redefining midlife. SHOWNOTES 25:50 Navigating through hormonal changes 34:20 The power of community and shared experiences 41:49 HRT: The debate and choices 48:30 Personal health empowerment and advocacy 55:46 Recognizing the gifts of menopause 01:01:45 Knowledge is power: The next steps for women FOLLOW TAMSEN FADAL: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsenfadal/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/tamsenfadal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TamsenFadal/ Website: http://tamsenfadal.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu is joined by the remarkable Tamsen Fadal, an award-winning journalist and author, renowned for her impactful work on empowering women through life's transformative stages. Tamsen delves into the societal narratives surrounding women as they navigate menopause, discussing the challenges and liberations this phase brings. This episode explores the intricacies of confidence, self-perception, and societal expectations, offering invaluable insights for women on this journey. Dive into this engaging conversation as Tamsen and Lisa discuss everything from personal anecdotes about age and visibility to the cultural implications and the need for more open discussions about women's health. This episode underscores the importance of understanding and embracing change, empowering listeners to redefine aging and self-worth. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Time. Designing for the future 00:29 Navigating aging with humor 01:14 Societal perceptions and confidence 06:09 Divorce rates and menopause 11:47 Communicating change with partners 15:39 Shifts in self-perception and relationships 20:37 Better sex post-menopause: A candid conversation FOLLOW TAMSEN FADAL: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsenfadal/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/tamsenfadal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TamsenFadal/ Website: http://tamsenfadal.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on November 11, 2017. Hey, lovely people! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another powerful episode of Relationship Theory on Impact Theory, where we dig into the heart of what makes relationships tick. Today, Tom and I are super thrilled to be jumping into a topic that's all about balance, empowerment, and understanding different perspectives within relationships. This episode is all about diving into roles like the housewife versus the breadwinner and how these dynamics affect relationships. We’re answering your burning questions and giving you practical tools to navigate these roles with love and respect. Join Tom and me as we start with a fun "Would You Rather" segment, spark conversation about financial transparency, and explore why truly understanding and valuing each partner’s contribution is pivotal. I really want to emphasize the empowerment that comes from being open and clear in what you bring to the table, whether you're the one working outside the home or managing everything inside. We'll go into detail about how couples can create a partnership based on equality, regardless of who's bringing in the cash. Plus, let's talk communication! How can we better express what we need from our partners without feeling guilty or sidelined? And how do we manage those heated moments when emotions are high? Before we wrap up, we'll give you a takeaway challenge to try out in your own relationship. If today’s episode resonates with you, please drop a review, subscribe, and share it with your loved ones. Together, we can keep these essential discussions rolling! SHOWNOTES: 00:00 Welcome to Relationship Theory: Diving into Partner Dynamics 00:01:08 Would You Rather: The Privacy Dilemma 00:01:38 The Importance of Financial Transparency and Openness 00:01:48 Roles and Communication: Finding Balance in the Relationship 00:05:18 Key Question: Navigating the Stay-at-Home and Breadwinner Dynamic 00:08:31 Defining the Empowerment of Managing Home and Finances 00:20:14 A Listener's Dilemma: The Breadwinner and Relationship Dynamics 00:33:34 Encouraging Action: Empower Your Partner with Love 00:44:05 Managing Heated Moments: Our Go-To Communication Strategies 00:49:53 Understanding Materialism and Overcoming Guilt 00:56:42 Episode Conclusion and Relationship Takeaway Challenge Let’s stay connected and keep lifting each other up with love and understanding! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 13, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm absolutely jazzed to bring you a powerhouse episode with none other than the fasting dynamo herself, Dr. Amy Shah! Guys, if you've ever felt like you're running on empty, if you've ever hit that wall of fatigue where you just think, “I can't keep doing this,” you're not alone, and Dr. Amy Shah, author of "I'm So Effing Tired," is here with the freaking game plan to recharge our batteries! Trust me, you won't want to miss a single word of this. We're going deep on something seriously empowering – fasting. Now, before you roll your eyes, let me tell you why this isn't just about skipping meals. Dr. Shah is flipping the script and revealing why women's bodies are a whole different ballgame when it comes to fasting compared to men. We’re talking about optimizing our energy, syncing with our natural cycles, and literally taking back control of how we feel every single day. And ladies, you know I'm all about those simple, tactical steps you can use like... right NOW. Whether you're a seasoned faster, or maybe you don't even know where to start, Dr. Shah's got your back with super easy tactics and insights that’ll make you say, "Why the hell didn’t I start this sooner?" So, grab that notebook and pen, because Dr. Amy Shah is about to drop some serious knowledge bombs on how we can elevate our lives, find our confidence, and step into our power. Remember, if this episode resonates with you, please, please do all the things – rate, review, and subscribe. Share this with your crew, and let's keep this movement growing. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Balanced Fasting: A Natural Approach 08:25 Self-Care During Late Luteal Phase 14:55 "Sun-Synced Fasting Boosts Gut Health" 16:09 Optimal Eating Habits 25:45 "Assessing Meaningful Relationships" 26:54 Identifying Toxic Relationships 32:38 "Microbes: Key to Health and Wellbeing" 41:03 Nature Walks: Women's Wellness Secret 46:23 Screens Disrupt Sleep Patterns 51:00 Understanding Inflammation and Diet Connection 53:52 "Moderate Toxin Intake for Health" 59:43 Quick Energy Leads to Crashes 01:07:47 Optimal Fasting: Finding Your Balance 01:09:42 Late-Night Snacking and Weight Loss 01:18:19 Cycle-Based Intermittent Fasting Guide 01:21:45 "Embrace Strength Over Shrinking" 01:25:54 "Be the Hero Blueprint" FOLLOW DR. AMY SHAH: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amymdwellness/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/amymdwellness Website: https://amymdwellness.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** Check out Women of Impact featured on FeedSpot's "Top 100 Women Podcasts," and their lists of top podcasts for women empowerment, personal development, and badass females! Explore the lists here. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices