UncommonTEEN for Christian Teen Girls

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! On this week''s AMA episode, Anna asks, "How do we keep looking to God even during hard times? Sometimes I struggle with not looking to God as soon as something goes wrong but I want to." Anna, this is such a great question. This is going to be a two part series, because I want you to really get this! It most likely comes to no surprise to you all that we are living in some very interesting times. The world is getting darker and darker. Every time you turn on the news, it seems like there’s something else to be concerned about. We are living in a world where it seems like everyone is so confused, they don’t know what’s right and what’s wrong anymore, they are without hope…and then on top of that we have an enemy who’s number one goal is what John 10:10 tells us…it’s to come into our lives, to steal, to kill and to destroy. So, with all this craziness, how do we keep looking to God even in the hard times? Well, first of all, let me tell you…there is hope! As Christians, when the world is so confused and have questions…they don’t have answers, but as Christians, we do have answers and we do have hope. Ladies, this world is going to get darker and darker, but we have hope! Isaiah 60 verses 1-3 says, “Arise, Jerusalem! Let your light shine for all to see. For the glory of the Lord rises to shine on you. Darkness as black as night covers all the nations of the earth, (this is talking about what we’re seeing today) but the glory of the Lord rises and appears over you. All nations will come to your light; mighty kings will come to see your radiance.” Ladies, while this world is getting darker and darker…God says you as a part of the body of Christ are going to get brighter and brighter! People will be amazed by your brightness, and they will be drawn to you. They want what you have! Ladies, you don’t have to worry about the enemy…you don’t have to worry about his agenda to steal, to kill and to destroy. You can stand strong and have hope even in the darkest of times. You have a God who is fighting for you. Who will never leave you nor turn His back on you. Deuteronomy 1:30 says, “The Lord your God is going ahead of you. He will fight for you, just as you saw him do in Egypt.” This is talking about what Moses freed the Israelites with the of God from the Egyptian people who were holding them as slaves. Deuteronomy 31 says, “So be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid and do not panic before them. For the Lord your God will personally go ahead of you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you.” How do we stand strong and courageous. How do we not allow ourselves to be afraid and panic. And as Anna asked, "how do we keep looking to God even in the hard times?" Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! For 12 years, Jenelle Thompson fought an ugly battle with not one, but two eating disorders. Her fixation to be super thin nearly cost her her life. Although Jenelle was very successful in both her modeling and acting career, she had extremely low self confidence. She constantly compared herself to others she saw as prettier and more desirable. Jenelle began the saying the phrase "Confident in my skin" to embrace the uniqueness in which God created His daughters. We have been created in His imagine and He made us exactly how He needed. Because of the direct impact the media plays on how our young girls perceive themselves, many are ashamed of their beautiful features that God gave them so they try to change to fit into society. I challenge young ladies to find the beauty within herself so she will be able to share her confidence with the world. Be sure to check out this week's episode as Jenelle teaches us what it means to be confident in our skin! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Dare to Shine! This week we’re going to talk what it means to shine your light in a world that is full of craziness, chaos, darkness and without hope. Living in a culture and a world like this, it definitely takes courage and boldness to shine the light of Jesus. Matthew 5:14-16 is our theme verse for UncommonTEEN Live this year. It says, " You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Nor do theylight a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. 16 Let your light so shine before men,that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven. Ladies, you are the light of the world and it’s time to let your let be an influence to everyone around you! Think about verse 14. It says, “You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden." I don’t know if you have ever been to the mountains and have seen houses that are set out on a field. About 2 hours from where I live, in Chattanooga, TN, one of the neat things to look at are all of the houses and businesses that are set on the mountains. When you drive through at night, it’s such a beautiful sight to see. You are like that city that is set on a hill. God is calling you out and He’s saying, “It’s time for you to shine your light so bright that everyone who comes near you can’t help but look at it. It’s time for you to influence the world around you with the light that is inside of you.” Verse 15 then goes on to say, “Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house.” One thing about the lamps that they used during the time of Jesus is that they were their only source of light. When this was the only source of light for the people living at that time, it wouldn’t make sense for them to hide that light under a basket. They wouldn’t be able to see anything clearly in the darkness. God is telling you to not be afraid to shine your light in this dark world. Let your light shine so you can influence the world around you. They need to see your light and see that there is hope. When we place our light, the light of Jesus on the inside of us under a basket, nobody can see it. There is no hope. Don’t shy back…be the light God called you to be. Don’t be afraid to stand up and pray when your youth pastor asks if someone will pray. Don’t shy away when you can help someone else or offer to pray for someone. Step out. Be bold. Be courageous. Stand strong for God! Let your light shine! Then finally, Matthew 5:16 says, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in Heaven.” We need to take action and shine our lights so brightly. You may have heard that little kid’s song, “The little light of mine, I’m going to let it shi Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This week we’re going to talk about why it’s a dare in order to be confident. On last week’s episode, we talked about why it’s a dare to be beautiful. We first began by defining what that word dare means. That word dare means: the courage that is required to do something big. Dare also means to challenge someone to do something that requires boldness. And lastly dare means to confront something boldly. So, why does it take courage and boldness to be confident? Why does it take courage and boldness to hold your heard high and not be so shaken by what others think about you? Ladies, you are in a fight your life, but you’re also in a fight for your future. There is a fight against your identity:Meaning the enemy and this culture don’t want you to see yourself as God sees you, so they try to get you to believe something that’s not true about who you are. There is a fight against your friends. This world and all it has to offer can be enticing and you may see your friends deciding to straddle that line between living for God and living for this world and eventually you may even see them completely abandoning their faith…and it hurts to watch our friends go through this. There is a fight against your schools and the agendas this culture is trying to push that is so against God. There is a fight to make sure there’s absolutely no place for God in school. There is a fight against your value and your worth.We constantly criticize who we are based on what others think. There is a fight against your body image and how you see yourself.Nitpicking everything about us. There is a fight against your purpose. Do we really have a purpose? Why am I here? There is a fight against the people that you are looking to that influence you.So many people are no longer standing for the Truth. There is a fight against your walk with God…Reading the Bible, praying, worship. There is a fight against your time…We're so busy that our head is spinning. There’s a fight against your confidence. This world is telling you to be confident in yourself. You’ve got this! You can do it! However, that’s not what God says. Ladies, it’s a dare to be confident, because it takes courage and boldness to stand against this culture and say, enough is enough! My confidence comes from the Lord! I am confident in the way I look, because God made me beautifully. I am confident in my walk with God, because He will never fail me. He is always faithful. I am confident in my purpose! God has a plan for my life and it’s a good plan! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Ladies, here is a sneak preview into UncommonTEEN Live! I am super excited about our speaker line up this year! Every one of these ladies has been a guest on the UncommonTEEN Podcast and have such powerful messages to share with you all this year! We have Katie Smith. Oh my goodness, Katie's heart is a heart of gold! When Katie was on the UncommonTEEN Podast, she talked all about Prayer Journaling and how it helped her even through some of her most challenging years and how it can help you as well! Check out her episode here: https://www.uncommonteen.com/podcast/episode/7b7ba88f/55-transform-your-prayers-by-prayer-journaling-with-katie-smith Our next speaker is Grace McCready! Grace shared her personal testimony of how she overcame anorexia and how we, too, can be free from anything that we are walking through! Check out her episode here: https://www.uncommonteen.com/podcast/episode/7c646604/20-real-recovery-what-eating-disorder-recovery-actually-looks-like-with-grace-mccready And we also have Tessa Emily Hall! If you listened to last week's episode, you got to hear Tessa's heart for teen girls as she shares with you how to become an influencer for the Kingdom of God! Check out her episode here: https://www.uncommonteen.com/podcast/episode/7c468ab7/86-guest-tessa-emily-hall-influencer-updated-version-without-the-background-noise Our theme for this year's conference is Dare to Be, so over the course of the next couple weeks, we're going to dig into what that really means. This week, we're going to talk about why it's a dare to be beautiful. That word dare, if we look it up in the dictionary means: Courage that is required to do something big. A challenge to someone to do something that requires boldness. To confront something boldly. So, knowing those definitions, why does it take boldness and courage to be truly beautiful? Check out this week's episode to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Hey friends! I uploaded an updated version of this podcast episode that does NOT include the tapping! So sorry about that! :D This week, our special guest Tessa Emily Hall talks about her newest book, "Influencer." "In a world where “becoming an influencer” is the new aspiration for teens across the globe, girls are surrounded by the pressure to live a life of purpose, power, and meaning. But what if I told you that it’s possible to be an influencer even without gaining thousands of followers on Instagram? And what if you could discover the secret to finding true fulfillment and purpose in your life—even while you’re still a teenager?" In this week's episode, Tessa talks about how to: Gain meaning for your life by forming a love-relationship with Christ Embrace your unique design and God-given gifts Utilize the potential of your youth to prepare for your future And so much more! Be sure to grab her newest book, launching Tuesday, September 12th. Available at endgamepress.com or on Amazon! Connect with Tessa! IG: @tessaemilyhall Website: tessaemilyhall.com Connect with Us! Website: UncommonTEEN.com Instagram: @uncommon.teen UncommonTEEN Live: UncommonTEENlive.com Coach Jamie is starting back her IG chats! Be sure to join her Monday through Friday at 2pm Central! (3pm Eastern, 12 noon Pacific) Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This week, our special guest Tessa Emily Hall talks about her newest book, "Influencer." "In a world where “becoming an influencer” is the new aspiration for teens across the globe, girls are surrounded by the pressure to live a life of purpose, power, and meaning. But what if I told you that it’s possible to be an influencer even without gaining thousands of followers on Instagram? And what if you could discover the secret to finding true fulfillment and purpose in your life—even while you’re still a teenager?" In this week's episode, Tessa talks about how to: Gain meaning for your life by forming a love-relationship with Christ Embrace your unique design and God-given gifts Utilize the potential of your youth to prepare for your future And so much more! Be sure to grab her newest book, launching Tuesday, September 12th. Available at endgamepress.com or on Amazon! Connect with Tessa! IG: @tessaemilyhall Website: tessaemilyhall.com Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! We have just 32 days until UncommonTEEN Live!! Ladies, I cannot tell you how excited I am about all that God is already doing through this conference! Our tickets are selling, but we still have room for you! If you have any questions about the conference or you’re ready to grab your tickets today, head on over to uncommonteenlive.com. This week on our Ask Me Anything episode and I am answering questions from Celeste and Nicole. Celeste says, "I'm a Christian teen and last year I was surrounded by people who did not share the same beliefs as I did. I felt like I was being pressured to be someone I wasn't so I told them I was lesbian to fit in. Now, I know I was wrong and I've been trying to surround myself with more like-minded people. However, when I see my old friends, I feel pressured to still talk about the LGBTQ community and agree with it, when I don't, then afterwards I feel bad." And Nicole says, “Hey Jamie. I’m in some kind of dilemma. So I recently moved continents and had to attend a new school. It’s a lot different from my school at home. I really prayed for God to lead me to good friends so I won’t be alone on the first day. And it did happen; I was welcomed by an amazing group of girls. But they don’t really have a relationship with God or seek to have one. It’s been so hard trying to share my faith because of fear of rejection. Lately my relationship with God has gone downhill and I’m planning on spending the summer getting closer to Him. I told God that I truly want Him to use me for His work and that I’m ready to lay down those things I hold dear to me. So my new friends added me to their group chat mainly to talk about our holiday plans but I’ve been having this feeling to leave it. I don’t know if it’s God telling me to or if I’m just trying to pull back from them. I did leave but they asked me why I left when I came to school and since I had no answer, I just told them to add me back. What do you think I should do? They’ve been so nice to me since the day I arrived and I don’t want them to feel like I don’t want to be friends anymore. I’ve asked God if it’s Him trying to tell me if I should leave the group. I know this is more of a trivial issue but I don’t want anything to separate me from God." To learn how to navigate challenging situations like this, check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! I heard someone say this the other day and it really made me think…they said that one of the biggest challenges that we face in life comes from temptations. I don’t know about you, but that doesn’t make me feel very encouraged. However, there is encouragement, because just because we are tempted, it doesn’t mean that temptations have to overcome us. 1 John 5:4 tells us that whatever is born of God, overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world, our faith. Meaning if you have given your life to Jesus, He’s talking to you…if you have God on your side, you can overcome any temptation that tries to come your way! 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “For no temptation, no matter how it comes or where it leads has overtaken you that is not common to man [that is, no temptation or trial has come to you that is beyond human resistance. But God is faithful [to His Word and to His compassionate nature], and He [can be trusted] not to let you be tempted beyond your ability and strength of resistance, but with the temptation He will [always] provide the way out. Ladies, we all face temptations. You may be walking through some temptations right now, so I want you to know that you are not alone. The good news is, though, that temptation doesn’t have to defeat you. God tells us that when temptation comes, he will provide a way of escape every single time…it’s up to us to choose it! Temptation will come to you, because the enemy is real and he wants to pull you down any way he can, but it doesn’t have to overcome you! We just have to decide that we are not going to let that temptation overcome us! The two biggest things that the enemy tries to tempt us with is our mind—or our thinking and our emotions. Can I get an amen? Did you know that not all the thoughts that come through your head are your thoughts? Have you ever had a thought come into your head and you were like…where in the world did that come from? That is not something I would ever think about? You were almost ashamed by it. The enemy will put thoughts in your mind, because he wants you to take the bait. If you take a thought that he places in your mind and you begin to really think about it. When it was just a thought…that was the temptation, when you began to really think about it and think about it…that’s when that temptation won. To learn more about how to overcome temptations, check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Rachael Powell In this interview, Rachael talks about: How to cut out distractions What it means to put God's Word first What it means to really rest in Jesus, especially in a world that is so full of chaos. Connect with Rachael: Passages website: https://www.passagesisrael.org/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/rpowell101/ Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! The week is our Ask Me Anything Episode and this week’s questions come from Callista and Macee. Callista asks, “I feel like I don’t read the bible as much as I should, how can I get into the bible more and use the bible in my daily life?” Macee asks, “I pray, read the Bible, and love God unconditionally, sometimes I just feel a space between God. How can I fix that to feel no space?” The Bible is under attack today, now more than ever. Not only is this culture calling what is right wrong and wrong right and so many people are confused about it, but there’s another attack that’s happening on the Bible today and it’s happening in many of our homes and to many of you listening to this podcast episode today. One of the biggest challenges I hear from teen girls today is that they have a challenge with making it a habit to get into the Bible daily. Did you know: 23% of Christian teens read their Bible daily. 30% of Christian teens read it a couple times a week. AND 59% of Americans want to read their Bibles more...now I know this talks about Americans, but my guess is this is almost every country, but what keeps us from doing it? There are 6 Reasons I usually see: We're too busy. We're too tired. We lack motivation. We're easily distracted. We forget to read our Bible We don't understand it, so we don't read it. Check out this week's episode to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! How do you stand up against the culture with courage while still reaching the people with compassion? This world is a little…okay, not a little…a lot upside down. They are so morally confused that they no longer know what is right and what is wrong. This world is so upside-down. So, how do we stand against the culture with courage while reaching the people with compassion? It starts with taking a stand. We have to stand strong on the word of God and not change what we believe or hold back from telling others what we believe because we are afraid of what they will think, what they will say, or what they will do. We have to take stand for what is right. In this culture where sin is very much celebrated and where Christianity is not tolerated much anymore. We have to make the choice that we are not going to give in to fear. We are not going to give in to this culture. But we are going to stand strong for the Word of God. God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power (your prayers are powerful, your voice is powerful, your actions are powerful), of love, and of a sound mind…a mind at peace! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! There is so much confusion in today’s culture concerning gender identity and same sex attraction. This week, we are conquering lie #8, our final lie on our Overcoming the Lies of the Enemy series and that is…Acceptance is Love. Actually, the exact opposite is true. While it may seem like when we affirm people’s choices, even though they may not line up with the Word of God, that we are showing them the love of God. That’s the exact opposite. I have done a lot of research on this topic and have heard from several people who are experts in this field and they say that we have to do the exact opposite. We have to speak the Truth of God's Word with love. We have to stand against the culture with courage while still reaching the people with compassion. Before we get started, I want to clarify, I don’t hate anyone. My heart is to help you all and others see how much God really does love you, how much He has an amazing plan for your life, and how much it breaks His heart to see you hurting and in pain. I also know that there are a lot of people who are Christians who don’t act like Christians when it comes to how they treat people walking the LGBTQ Lifestyle. They treat them with such hatred and sometimes even violence, and I hate that. That is not how God would treat anyone. He has such love for them, but also wants them to be free. Check out this week's episode here! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Most of you have probably heard the song “Amazing Grace.” The lyrics start out by saying, “Amazing grace how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me. I once was lost, but now I’m found…was blind, but now I see.” It’s a beautiful song, however, I have a problem with these lyrics…and it has to do with the phrase, “That saved a wretch like me.” That word wretch means, “someone who is miserable, someone who is worthless.” So, in essense, this song is saying, “Amazing grace how sweet the sound that saved someone miserable and worthless like me.” Miserable and worthless may have been who we were before we met Christ, but that’s not who we are if you given our life to Jesus. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” Have you ever heard someone say, “I’m a Christian murderer.” Or “I’m a Christian thief?” or “I’m a Christian…name a sin.” You might be thinking, well, no, that’s kind of interesting. If you’re a murderer and you keep on killing, how can you really be a Christian. Or If you’re a thief and you have no intentions of stopping, how can you really be a Christian, yet, there are some areas that some Christians say this about. As a Christian, when you gave your life to Jesus, He made you new. He placed the Holy Spirit on the inside of you and now you should desire to want to do better. Now, this doesn’t mean that we’re perfect, but it does mean that we want to do better. If we don’t, then my question is, are we really born again? Have we really made Jesus the Lord of our lives? This also doesn’t mean that we’re going to change everything about us all at once because we gave our lives to Jesus. The Holy Spirit will work on us one thing at a time…and sometimes we don’t even realize something is a sin until God reveals it to us. That’s not what I’m talking about. What I’m talking about is embracing their sin, intentionally sinning and calling themselves a Christian. In 1 Corinthians 5:11, Paul talks about how we need to be cautious about not hanging out with people who identify as a Christian, but yet are okay with embracing their sin. Check out this week's episode to learn more. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! I hear these phrases so often spoken by Christians and especially among Christian teens and young adults…phrases like, “I’m not getting good vibes about this.” Or “Hey, something bad happened, I need you all to send me your positive thoughts and vibes.” I think so many Christians use these phrases because they are such widely used today as a part of our culture. You may be thinking, “Well, I have said these phrases, but I don’t really even know the meaning behind it. It just seems like something nice to say to encourage someone who’s going through something bad.” I love that your heart is to encourage others, but I don’t know about you, but if something happened to me that was crazy, somebody’s “positive thoughts” or “positive vibes” aren’t going to do anything to help my actual situation. So, why do we use the word vibes as Christians? I read this on upsidedownfaith.com, now I don’t know much about them, but just read this article on vibes. They answered this question and I want you to think about whether or not it’s true. They said, “vibes are more socially acceptable than prayer.” And to a lot of people, “Good thoughts are stronger than the power of God.” Check out this week's podcast to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! The Law of Attraction and Mindfulness are huge buzzwords today, but are they really Christian beliefs? Many Christians have actually adopted both of these beliefs into their beliefs, but do they line up with the Bible? The answer is...no. Actually both of these beliefs have shown to encourage people to turn away from God, not toward Him. The Law of Attraction focuses solely on us and our thoughts and how we are the ones to manifest our future (or create our future). However, God had a purpose and a plan for our lives before the world was even formed. He alone knows the full scope of our plans, not us! Proverbs 19:3 tells us that "The foolishness of a man twists his way, And his heart acts in rage against the LORD." Ouch! I don't know about you, but I don't want to rely on myself. Well, what about mindfulness, that can't be so bad. I mean aren't they practicing mindfulness in schools now in as young as kindergartners. They are and it's actually a pretty scary thing. Listen to the article I found in Christian News Journal about mindfulness in adults...I can't even imagine what it does in kid's lives. It says, "Dr. Willoughby Britton, Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at Brown University Medical School, a mindfulness practitioner herself, has documented how many who have engaged in Buddhist meditation can become detached from themselves, experiencing dark psychotic hallucinations, feelings of terror, and compulsions to kill themselves." To learn more about these and the Truth about what God's Word says, check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Lie #4-The World Would Be Better Off Without Me Oh girl, if you have ever thought this…I just want you to know that you are so valuable! God placed you in this world on purpose. He has a plan for your life that’s bigger than we can even imagine. The reason many teen girls struggle with this is because the enemy wants nothing more than to take you out. This is a lie because there is no truth in it at all! The world is better because you are here. You are so loved by God! You are accepted by God, chosen by God, and adopted into His family. I talked about this a couple weeks ago, but I’m going to bring it up again…suicide is the 2ndleading cause of death in teens today. On average, 3.703 middle schoolers and high schoolers have made an attempt to take their lives. There are several reasons that we are seeing this, but among those reasons are the lie that we are going to talk about today: “the world would be better off without me.” Maybe it’s that teens have had a rough life. They have been hurt and they feel like they messed up somewhere. Or maybe they just don’t think they can take the pain and hurt anymore…this was me as an 8 year old. Maybe it seems like the world is going to get worse and it’s scary. There are so many reasons why teens can feel this way, but there is hope. If this is you, don’t give up! You are so valuable! We need you here on this earth! God has a plan for your life that is so much bigger than you realize. Check out this week's episode to learn how this world is actually better with you in it! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! A lot of music is catchy. I get it. When I became a Christian, I was 17 years old and up to that point, I listened to some very secular music…like music not good at all and the reason I did wasn’t because I liked what the lyrics said, I like the way that they sounded. Honestly, I didn’t really think I was even paying attention to the lyrics. I mean, I never actually sat back and said, what does this song say…what does it mean? No, I just sang them and listened to them. The problem with that was, Proverbs 18:21 tells us that death and life are in the power of the tongue, whatever we speak (or sing), even if we’re not paying attention to them, we will eventually see. And if we really watch the things we say or think about, we’ll find that a lot of what we’re singing about is what we’re thinking about. I remember being at a high school/college conference in the beautiful Rocky Mountains of Colorado and the pastor was talking about this very thing…why the music we listen to was important. Many of my friends at the time, me included at first rebelled at the thought…how dare they tell me what music to listen to. It’s not that bad…and then, God got ahold of my heart. I began thinking about the lyrics that I was singing or listening to, and they really started to bother me. These songs weren’t great songs at all. It's not that they had language, because they didn’t. I didn’t care for that even when I wasn’t a Christian, but what they were singing about was all about was the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life: depression-how heartbroken they were, anger, how good looking men were, rebellion. It wasn’t until I started really paying attention to the lyrics that I was singing and listening to that I realized that those were the exact things that I was dealing with as well. I fought off feelings of depression…not thinking that I was good enough for anyone, thinking that everyone who loved me would leave me. I was fighting off anger…anger that I had to fight through life on my own (I hadn’t totally realized that I could rely on God to walk through the fire with me). I had to fight the feeling of if I didn’t have a boyfriend, I was nothing. Then, when I had boyfriends, they were not good at all. I had a couple who were abusive, but always leaving me more broken than before I dated them. After this realization, I wish I could say that I just got rid of all my secular music at that time, but I didn’t. It wasn’t easy for me. I did get rid of some of the ones who I thought were the worst, but I still held on to some of them, because music was something that was a part of who I was. I couldn’t just cut off music and listen to old school hymns all the time—no offense to you who listen to old school hymns. My teenage self, coming from the world, wasn’t into that. Then, I discovered this whole new genre of music that did glorify God and was something I could Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Last week we started a series on Overcoming the Lies of the Enemy. In this series, we’re going to be talking about some of the biggest lies that the enemy has been telling teens today, what the truth is, and how you can help those who may be caught up in these lies. Lie #2 that we are going to talk about is, “There are many ways to get to God.” Statistic: Almost half of Christians today believe that even if you don’t believe in Jesus, you can still go to heaven. Statistic: Only 32% of Christians say you can’t go to heaven if you don’t make Jesus the Lord of Your Life. Teen Statistic: 45% of teens in general believe that many religions are true. Only 31% say that there’s only one faith that’s truth. If the lie is that there are many ways to get to God, what is the truth? John 14:6 and this is Jesus speaking says, “I am THE way, and THE truth, and THE life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Notice He didn't say, I am A way, A Truth, and A Life, but instead He said THE. THE implies that there is only one way. Why is Jesus the only way? Check out this week's episode to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This week, we are going to start a series called, “Overcoming the Lies of the Enemy." John 8:31-32 tell us that it’s the Truth (or God’s Word) that we know that makes us free in every area of our lives. This culture is yelling at us…the enemy is not keeping silent. He wants us deceived, because he knows if we are deceived, eventually he can get us to walk away from God once and for all. So, in this series, we’re going to be talking about some of the biggest lies I hear that the enemy and this culture are telling teens today…and a lot of teens are believing them as truth. We’re going to learn what the truth really is and how do we help reach people who may be deceived and encourage them with the Truth. Many teens today are believing these lies as truth and I truly believe that these lies have a direct correlation to why suicide rates among teens today (especially teen girls) is so high…the highest it’s ever been. 22% of teens in high school have had serious thoughts about suicide. Think about this…the average high school today in the United States is 850 students. 22% of 850 students looks like this…187 students in that one high school have had serious thoughts about suicide. 9 percent of those high school students have actually attempted to take their lives. That 9% looks like this, out of that same high school, 76.5 students have tried to take their lives. Ladies, this is heart breaking to me…and not okay. God has a purpose and a plan for every single one of your lives. He thoughts about every detail about you before you were born and it pleased Him to create you! There are several reasons that the suicide rate is so high among teens and we’re going to be talking about them over the course of the next several weeks. Ladies, be sure to share these episodes with your friends. It can be the encouragement and hope that they have been looking for. This week, we are going to be talking about Lie #1 which is: Follow your heart. Do what feels right. In these past several weeks, I have heard so much talk about this, which is why it’s number one. It doesn’t mean it’s any worse than the other lies…a lie is a lie and it is not truth, no matter what it is. Listen in to learn more about what the enemy is telling you about this lie and what the truth of God's Word actually says! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! For many of us, right now, it’s summertime and summertime for a lot of us can be binge watching our favorite tv show, playing video games, going to the pool. Let’s face it, in the summertime….well, even during the school year, we can become complacent...or a little bit lazy in our walk with God. No matter where you are with your walk with God...whether you're on fire or maybe you've been a little lazy, I want to encourage you to take this little test…don’t worry, it’s only 3 questions long. And before we get started, I want to share that I have to do a mental check up quite often to make sure I’m not falling into complacency either. None of us, including me are immune. 1. Do you follow Jesus only when it’s convenient or when it’s popular or do you follow Jesus even when it’s not convenient or when you’re around people who don’t believe in Him? 2. When you’re praying, are you only praying about what Jesus can do for you or are you also taking time to pray about what He wants you to do for Him? 3. Are you a fan of Jesus or are you a follower of Jesus? What do I mean by that? A true follower of anyone, doesn’t just take the time to learn from them, but they try to live like them. Imagine you played soccer (you might) and your all-time favorite professional soccer player came up to you and asked you if they could mentor, you. Show you some skills and help you become that top professional soccer player like they are. Would you just listen to them and never apply anything they told you or would you try to do the things that they told you to do. Of course, you would do them, because you want to be the best you can be, right? The same thing is true with Jesus. If we want to win in every area of our lives, we don’t need to just hear what God is saying to us through the Bible, we need to apply it to our lives as well! Being a follower of Jesus will mean that there will be times that you will need to give things up in order to follow Him, but I want you to know that when God has you give something up, it’s always because He has something better in store for you. For example, maybe you’ve been a part of your school competition choir, but God has been placing it on your heart to step down. You can’t understand why He would do that, but you choose to listen. After you step down, the youth pastor comes up to you and starts talking to you about being a part of the youth praise team. Because you obeyed, now that time has been freed up in your schedule, you can step into God’s calling for your life. Now that was just an example, I cannot say that’s going to be the case every time. But this is how God works. If He asks you to give something up, it’s because He wants to take you to the next level with something else. Complacency is a place that we can easily slip into if we’re not cautious. As I said earlier, I have to give myself a checkup from time to time to make sure Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! On this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Kayla asks, "What is my next step for a calling in ministry?" I love this question, because I felt like God was calling me to ministry in my teen years as well, so I’m excited to answer this question. Now, for those of you who maybe don’t quite feel that you’re called into ministry, I want to encourage you to listen to this anyway, because what we’re going to talk about will apply to you as well. So, Kayla wants to know what her next step should be for a calling in ministry. So, let’s answer these questions first, what does it mean to be called? And is everyone called? Your calling is your purpose. So, the answer to the second question is yes, everyone is called. Every single one of you has a purpose. Ephesians 2:10 tells us that we are God’s workmanship, His masterpiece. When we gave our lives to Jesus, we were born again so that we could fulfill God’s purpose for our life. He prepared our purpose before the world even began, so that we could walk in that purpose, living the good life which God prearranged and made ready for us to live! Jeremiah 1:5 tells us that before we were in our mother’s womb, God knew everything about us, approved us and then called us to a purpose. Now, is everyone called into the ministry? That answer is yes…and no. Does God have a ministry for each of our lives? Yes. We are all called to share the Good News of Jesus wherever it is we are called. We will make a difference in what it is God has called us to do. Now, will that be in full-time ministry, maybe, but maybe not. And if not, that doesn’t make your purpose any less important than someone who is called into full-time ministry. God has a different plan for each of us that fits so uniquely together in one giant puzzle. We need every piece of the puzzle in order to complete what God has called us to do. Just a hint while you’re discovering your calling, your calling is going to have something to do with your uniqueness. Many times, we look at ourselves and all of the ways we are different from others and think that we are flawed…that there’s something wrong with us. But it’s in those things that make you different that will help you discover your purpose. We shouldn’t see our uniqueness as something bad. God created us that way on purpose for our purpose. Check out this week's episode to learn: 1. How to receive your calling? 2. What do you do when you're called? 3. 4 Reasons NOT to go into ministry unless you are called specifically by God! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Last week on the UncommonTEEN Podcast, Kathy Gibbons shared with us two of the greatest enemies to really good thinking: Emotionalism-people preying on our emotions so they can get us to do or feel the way the want us to. Relativism-we can all create our own truth. We can't have one person saying that their truth is that there is a God and another person saying that their truth is that there is no God. There can't both be a God and not be a God, that doesn't even make sense. This week, Kathy goes into more details and shares with us practical tips that we can do to combat this kind of thinking in today's culture. If you have not yet listened to last week's podcast, start there! You aren't going to want to miss this! Check out and Subscribe to Kathy's podcast here: https://www.filteritthroughabraincell.com/podcasts/filter-it-through-a-brain-cell Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Ladies, this week we have Kathy Gibbons, host of the Filter It Through a Braincell Podcast! If you want another podcast to listen to along with UncommonTEEN, this is it! I have learned so much from it! In this week's episode, Kathy talks all about what it means to think in a way that it's aligned with the Truth. She also talks about two of the biggest enemies of good thinking: 1. Emotionalism (the media uses tactics that manipulate our emotions so that they can sell us their products or services) 2. Relativism (whatever we feel must be the truth...just follow your heart) Ladies, you don't want to miss this episode! Also...be sure to stay tuned to the end of the episode, because I share a bit more about what the Summer Bible Study looks like... AND more about UncommonTEEN Live! Ladies, if you can make it to Nashville October 6th-7th, you are not going to want to miss this conference. It will be a conference like no other conference you have been to! You will be sure to leave this conference making new friends who, just like you, love God and are overcoming real life challenges with God! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! What does it mean to go all in? It means to be fully committed, to be fully persuaded. So what does it mean to go all in with God? It means that we are fully committed and fully persuaded that we are going to live our lives for God. I remember being a senior in high school and a friend of mine invited me to church and hearing the message that God loved me and that message kind of blew me away because on the inside I'm thinking, wait, God loves me, but nobody loves me. See, growing up I grew up in a very rough home and I didn't know what love was, never heard the words I love you. Never received a hug. I didn't know what love was. I had grown up with a thought process that nobody loved me...that everybody who was supposed to love me, didn't love me. And so when I heard that God loved me, that He really loved me, that He sent his Son to die for me personally, it rocked my world. And I remember as a brand new Christian that I wanted to live for God, but I had no idea that I could go all in with God. I didn't even know that was such a thing. I didn't really know that I was supposed to read my Bible. I kind of did here and there, but I didn't really know what I was doing. I didn't really understand how to pray. I thought every time I prayed that I was just talking to myself and I'm like, is God really even hearing me? I remember being in college and we went on this mission trip to Mexico and I remember waking up one morning and it was freezing because when you're in the desert it gets really cold overnight, even though it's super hot during the daytime. And I woke up, I was freezing. I didn't wanna get out of my sleeping bag. So I just sat there with God and it just hit me: God really loves me! I received a revelation of God's love like I had never had before. And it was in that moment, I decided I was going all in with God. But in order to go all in with God, there were some things that I needed to learn, and I didn't know this at the time. I had to get a revelation of how much God loved me. I had to learn. How to know God for myself, not just what other people were sharing with me, which is okay if they're speaking the Bible, but I had to learn to know God for myself. And then the last thing that I had to learn was I had to learn how to develop a compassion for other people. Once I had a revelation of those three areas, it's then that I was able to go all in with God and He transformed my life. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! On this week's Ask Me Anything Episode, Ashley asks, "How can I forgive myself and heal after confessing my sin to God?" This is such a good question. When we know that we’ve messed up, it can be easy for any of us to hold onto that guilt, sometimes for years, and it just eats away at us on the inside. One amazing thing about our God is that Proverbs 28:13 tells us that when we confess our sins, we find mercy. That word mercy means that from God, we will find forgiveness, compassion, and love. What amazing God we have. Instead of turning to us and yelling at us or telling us how He can’t believe that bad choices that we’ve made, He turns to us and says, “Daughter, I love you! I love you too much to leave you broken and where you are. When you walk with Me, you will find freedom in every area of your life!” That forgiveness, that compassion, and mercy is great, but sometimes it’s not so easy to forgive ourselves for the things that we’ve done. When we hold onto unforgiveness toward ourselves and we hold onto guilt, it causes us to hate ourselves. It causes us to be angry and irritable. It causes us to be insecure and to doubt our choices. I don’t speak on this because I’m some kind of medical professional…I am not. I can speak on this, though, because I have been there. All of the bad choices that I made, even if it was something as small as I forgot to finish my homework and now, I was rushing to get it done before class…I would pile all these choices up in my mind and beat myself up mentally. How could I do that? What was wrong with me? It wasn’t until I finally gave all that over to God that I was able to become free. A lot of times that guilt that we carry isn’t from something small like not finishing our homework, but a lot of times it comes from something we did or that was done to us that really rocked our world. How do we overcome the guilt of something like that? How do we forgive ourselves? Ashley, I’m so thankful that you asked this question. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Why am I here? What’s my purpose? What’s the next step I need to take now to get where God wants me to be? Do I really even matter to God? If you’ve ever questioned God on these things, know that you are not alone. I think at certain times in all of our lives, we have these questions. These are questions that go through so many of our heads. Do I really have a purpose? Is there really a reason for me being here? Do I really matter to God? They answer to all of those question is…yes! Absolutely! You do have a purpose…there is a reason that you are here, and you really do matter to God…more than you know! Your very existence here on this earth is proof that God saw a problem that only you could solve, that’s why He created you! He needs you! He wants you! You really do matter! If you have been trying to get on the UncommonTEEN App and it's not working for you, I want to apologize. I'm not sure what's going on, but know that I am going to be working this week to figure out how to fix that challenge! You can still let me know that you are interested in the Bible Study by emailing me at [email protected]. And if you would like to get on our email list to learn more about UncommonTEEN Live, head on over to the UncommonTEEN website, scroll to the bottom where it says, "Don't Miss a Thing" and you can get signed up there! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This week, we are doing another AMA episode. Ladies, you all have some really great questions, and I am thankful that I can hopefully shed some light on the questions that you have. If you have a question that you would like to ask, all you need to do is head on over to the UncommonTEEN app and click on the tab that says, “Ask Me Anything.” If your question gets chosen, it will be featured on an upcoming episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast. All right, so this week’s question comes from Zoe. Zoe says, “I know that God is there, but sometimes it feels like there’s no hope for anything. When my dad was placed in the hospital a few years ago I had lost all my faith. I still haven’t totally regained faith, but how can I? How can I have a better relationship with him?” Zoe, thank you so much for asking this question. Sometimes things happen in life that we don’t understand. We thought one thing and another thing happened. However, I want you to know that God is not our problem when bad things happen, He is our solution. There is a very real devil who wants to destroy us. John 10:10 tells us that the thief (or the devil) is the one that comes to steal, to kill and to destroy, but Jesus has come that we may have life and life more abundantly. If it steals, if it kills or it destroys…it’s from the devil. If it gives life, it’s from God. God is there for you, always. 12 different times throughout the whole Bible, God tells us that He will never leave us or forsake us…which means He will never turn His back on you. He loves you so, so much! It pains God to see us hurting. Psalm 34:18 tells us that the Lord is near to those who have a broken heart. Listen into this episode to learn more about: How to get your hopes back up, even if they feel crushed. How do we regain and grow in our faith. How do we have a better relationship with God? BONUS QUESTION that was answered: How do we make our relationship with God fun? Sometimes it seems so boring. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This past weekend many of us celebrated Easter or the Resurrection of Jesus. As I think back to Good Friday and what the Resurrection really means to me, I can’t help but be overwhelmed with God’s goodness and His love. When we think back to the Garden of Gethsemane…the Garden where Jesus was praying before He was betrayed by Judas and was brought in to be crucified…Jesus had gone away with His closest disciples to the Garden of Gethsemane to pray. As He was praying, the weight of what He was about to do laid so heavily on His shoulders that He actually sweat out blood. He was under such pressure that as He was sweating blood He cried out to God and in Luke 22 verse 42, says, “Father, if you are willing, remove the cup from Me.” Or in otherwards, if there is any other way, I would gladly take it. Why would He pray that? Jesus knew the Old Testament and knew that He was about to be arrested. He knew that He was about to be stripped of all His clothes and made fun of. He knew that He was about to be beaten beyond recognition. We read in Isaiah 52:14 that Jesus didn’t even look human—a ruined face, disfigured past recognition.” But even with that, that wasn’t the worst part for Him. He was willing to do that for us. The part that He really felt the pressure of was that He was about to take on the sins of the world. Think about this…Jesus walked this earth perfectly. He never sinned, never messed up. He was perfection Himself and now He was about to take on every single sin that had ever taken place…and every single sin that would ever take place even in the future. He took everyone one of your mistakes and everyone one of my mistakes on His shoulders. Jesus so despised sin, but was willing to take it on so that He could give you His perfection. Why do you need His perfection? Because God is perfect, the only way we can make it into heaven is if we are perfect. Well, I don’t know about you, but I know that I am far from perfect. I mean…have you ever even rolled your eyes at your parents? Or maybe even talked bad about someone…even if they deserved it? Even with just those small things, it would mean that there is no way that we could make it into heaven. If your life was a test and even if you got everything 99.9% right, it’s still not 100%, therefore we can’t make it in. That’s a problem for everyone. Romans 3:23 tells us that all of us have messed up…even if it was just once and we all fall short of the glory of God…from His perfection. With knowing just that…that doesn’t give us a whole lot of hope for the future. However, Romans 5:8 tells us that while we were still out there sinning, Christ died for us. Romans 10:9-19 tell us that all we have to do to receive His free gift is confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that God raised Him from the dead and we are saved! And when we receive Him, (whether Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Amy Lowe is the director of Winshape Camp for Girls and the overseer of Winshape Camp for Families. On this week's episode, she shares with us her top tips on Friendships! Check out this week's episode to learn more! Connect with Amy: Winshape Camp: WinShape.org Instagram: @amyalowe Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! It’s an AMA (or an Ask Me Anything) episode! Which means I'm answering a question from one of you amazing ladies. Our question this week comes from Finley. Finley Asks: I am a new Christian and trying to get close to God, but I feel like there are so many rules to follow to be a Christian and I feel like I’m letting God down when I mess up (like forgetting to read the Bible and pray). And every time I do something wrong, I feel so guilty. I pray and pray. I know God still loves me. Can you help me? Finley is a new Christian…which, let’s take a second and celebrate that! Yay! Finley, I am telling you, this is the absolute best decision you will ever make in life! Now, In your question, there were several different topics we are going to cover in this week's episode: Is Christianity really about a bunch of rules? When I mess up, am I really letting God down? Why do I feel so guilty? Can I overcome this? Does God still love me even when I mess up? Spoiler Alert: the answer is YES!! Now really quick, I want to talk to those of you who are new Christians. I want to give you 5 things that you can do to really begin to grow stronger in your walk with God. Make it a habit to read your Bible daily…and if you miss a day, don’t beat yourself up, just start again the next day! Start a personal prayer time between you and God. Prayer is not a formal, strict thing. It’s a conversation with God on a personal level-talk to Him just like you would talk to your friends. Make sure that you're going to a good church (meaning a Bible based church) where you can grow in the things of God! If you aren't able to go to a good church, because you don't have one near you or your parents aren't Christians, here is the link to my church...Joy Church...that you can check out. I will warn you, the Pastor is funny, but you will also learn a lot: https://www.youtube.com/@JoyChurch Listen to the one thing God is telling you to do and do it. I am telling you, your life will be so much better when you do...even if it seems so hard to do it. Break off any “emotional” relationships or friendships with those who are pulling you away from God. Check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! In Ephesians 6:11, Paul tells us to put on the whole armor of God so that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. That word wiles in that verse means mind games or schemes. The enemy is playing mind games with us to pull us away from God to where we feel distant from Him or where we don’t feel like we have a purpose or that we don’t measure up. Those are all lies…mind games that the enemy plays with us. Have you ever seen the part of the cartoon Looney Tunes that has Wiley Cayote and Road Runner. Basically, Wiley Cayote is like the devil here. His number one tactic is to get Road Runner off of the right road and onto a road that will lead to destruction. So, he does these different things to get Road Runner to get off the right road. For example, the road that Road Runner is on ends in a cliff that could lead him to destruction. Wiley Cayote doesn’t want Road Runner to switch to the right road, so he takes a big canvas and paints a picture on it making it look like the road continues on. However, because Road Runner is on the right path, he avoids destruction every time. This is the same game that the enemy is trying to play with us. He wants to try to pull us off of the right road and onto a road that leads to destruction. That is the whole reason he uses distractions. It is a mind game that he’s playing with us. Now, last week, again, we talked about distractions, but this week, we’re going to talk about how to stay focused and in order to do so, we are going to look at the life of Nehemiah 5 Ways to Stay Focused Know that your victory comes from God! Know that there was power in both praying and staying on guard. Know that God has a plan for your life and that your life is important. Don't waste your time fighting battles you weren't meant to fight. to do. Don't quit! To learn how to stay focused in the midst of challenges, in the midst of distractions or even in the midst of a lack of motivation, check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Ladies, I don’t know about you, but I have come against so many distractions this year. At the end of 2022, God was showing me some pretty amazing things that He wanted me to do this year. I was super excited about all that God was going to do…and then January 1st came, and wow did the enemy really ramp up his plan to distract me! I mean, literally from the very first day of January, the enemy has been trying his best to stop me from stepping into all that God has for my life. And I know I’m not the only one. I talk to so many of you telling me the same thing. That distractions this year have been unreal. Whether it be family challenges, social media, our phones or even school…it seems like so many of us are facing more distractions this year than we have in the past. But did you know that there is a reason for that? Did you know that it’s part of the enemy’s plan for our lives to distract us. The thing about the devil is this…the more we focus on growing in our relationship with God or doing what it is that God is calling us to do, the more the enemy is going to throw distractions our way. Tune in today to learn how you can conquer distractions so they don't conquer you! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! On this week's episode of The Uncommon Teen Podcast, we have my friend and mentor, Paul Y'barra. Paul is a pastor, a husband, a father, and the next level mindset coach. Now Paul is the first male that we have ever had on the Uncommon Team Podcast. But he has a special message that God has given him just for you. In today's episode, Paul wants to talk specifically to you girls who may have been hurt by a male figure in your life. As someone who grew up in abuse and watched his sister and mother be abused in horrific ways, He was able to receive complete healing from God and he wants you to know that God has healing for you, too! He also talks to those of you who maybe your parents aren't Christians or they aren't walking with God and it's been a challenge. He gives you some great advice on how to navigate that and how eventually God can use you to help lead your parents to the Lord! Even if you haven't been hurt by a male figure in your life or maybe your parents are Christians and have a strong walk with God, I know that this episode will help encourage you as well! Be sure to stay ALL the way to the end, because I have a special announcement just of you! Connect with Paul: IG: @lifecoachpaulinspires Website: LifeCoachPaul.com Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Last week I answered the question, "How Do I Become a Strong Christian?" So this week, I am answering the second question that was asked, "How Do I Hear from God?" As I shared last week, the number one was that we hear from God is through His Word. This is why I so encourage you to make sure you are getting into the Bible every single day! John 10:27 tells us that when we make it a habit to get into the Bible, we will know what God's voice sounds like and we won't be led astray by the enemy. Another way that we hear God speak to us is through our hearts. This is not as common as when He speaks to us through His Word, however, this is how God spoke to me when I knew without a shadow of a doubt that God called me to serve teens. A third way that God can speak to us is through other people...maybe your pastor or your youth pastor...or even through this podcast, God might be speaking directly to you. Maybe you've been talking to God about something and you get your answer through one of us or someone else. God is so good! Now, I do highly caution you about people who call themselves prophets or say to you, "God told me (fill in the blank). A lot of these people aren't hearing from God. Now, some are legitimate and God really did share with them to share something with you, but most are not. So, if someone says that to you or your watching a video that says something like that, ask yourself these two questions: Have I been talking to God about this or has He been talking to me about it? Does is line up with the Bible? God will never guide you outside of the Bible. Another way God speaks to us is through peace. If you have given your life to Jesus and you have gone all in with God, He has given you the Holy Spirit that lives on the inside of you. John 16:13 and this is Jesus speaking, He said, “When the Spirit of Truth comes (that’s the Holy Spirit), He will guide you into all Truth, for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears from God, He will speak, and He will declare to you the things that are to come. The Holy Spirit is speaking to you and will guide you with peace! Also, some of you have asked me the question, how do you know what to do when you have to make a decision that isn't specific in the Bible...like what college to go to or whether or not you should play a certain sport, be sure to check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! I remember being a new Christian and thinking to myself, how do I grow stronger in my walk with God? How do I actually get closer to Him? So many people have talked about how they hear God or that they are called by God, but how do I hear from Him? These are all great questions that I know many of you may be asking yourself. I love this question, because it means that your heart is in the right place and any time you reach out to God, He will always meet you right where you’re at! So, if you reach out to God and ask Him, how do I grow stronger in my walk with You, Lord? He will meet you right where you’re at and show you. Now, He may be showing you through this podcast. He may be showing you through a message your pastor gives at church. He may be showing you through modeling it in the life of someone who is a couple steps further along in their faith as you are. This week, I'm going to answer the question, "How do I become a Strong Christian? and next week we'll talk about "how do you hear from God?" So, how do you become a strong Christian? Spend time with God daily! When you’re at church or even when you’re listening to this podcast, take notes. Spend time with those who love God and are making a difference for Him. To learn more, check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Ladies, I am super excited about our guest this week, Katie Smith. Katie is the author of Katie's seventh grade Prayer Journal, which is a hilarious, yet inspiring book that is based off of her seventh grade prayer journal, , which she will talk more about in today. Episode Ladies, you are not gonna wanna miss this episode. Katie has experienced amazing answers to her personal prayers through her 30 plus years of prayer journaling. In the pages of her prayer journal, she asked God to guide her steps as a teen and he led her to speak on tour in Africa. Pretty amazing ladies. God is so good, and if you are not somebody who journals. She just might inspire you to get started, and if you are somebody who likes to journal your prayers, this might help you take that even to the next level. Connect with Katie Smith! Website: https://katiespeaking.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katieonair/ Katie's 7th Grade Prayer Journal Book: Click Here for Amazon Link Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! Normally, I only do one Ask Me Anything episode a month, but I loved this question that was sent to me and because we honestly don’t hear much about this topic at all, I thought it would be a great time to talk about it. Rowan asks, “I need to explain to my Christian friends that it’s important to honor your parents but I don’t know how to do it. In the Bible, in Exodus 20:12 it says, “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.” But what is honor and what does it mean to honor our parents? According to the United States Army, they define honor as: a matter of carrying out, acting, and living the values of: respect (holding others in high esteem or regard) duty (commitment) loyalty (faithfulness and devotion) selfless service (concern and compassion for those around them) integrity (being honest and showing consistency to strong moral values) and personal courage (bravery) in everything you do. So what does it mean to honor your parents? Are you supposed to honor your parents even if they don't deserve it? If so, how do you honor your parents when they don't deserve it? How do you help your friends honor their parents? These are all questions we talk about in this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This is our very first Ask Me Anything episode! To ask Coach Jamie your questions, head on over to the UncommonTEEN App, available on both Apple and Android devices) click on the tab that says, “Ask Me Anything" and ask your questions there! Once a month I will answer your questions on the UncommonTEEN Podcast!! Today's question comes from Audree. Audree asks, "How do you deal with friends when you move to a new school?” As we answer this question this week, know that this advice can go for any of you! Whether you are in a new school, in a new city, in a new church...or you just want to make new friends right where you are! No matter where you are, if you are looking for new friends, I want you to know that God is with you. He is never going to leave you and He is not going turn His back on you. He has a plan for you right where you are. My biggest encouragement to you when looking for new friends is this: instead of going out and looking for friends, go out looking to be a friend. To learn more about what this means, check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! All right ladies, this week we have special guest Caris Snider… Caris is a Christian speaker, author, podcaster, and life coach. This was such a life-changing conversation on the subject of anxiety and mental health. In Part 1 of this series Caris shared with us her story of how and when anxiety, overwhelm and depression almost took her life. She also gave you permission to let go of perfectionism. Perfectionism causes so much anxiety. This week, in Part 2, Caris is going to give you step by step practical advice that she took and that you can do right now in order to win the battle of anxiety! If you're not dealing with anxiety or depression, chances are you know someone who is. Share this episode with them. It could honestly change their life! Then be sure to tune into next week’s episode as Caris shares tools that are what she used in order to take her from a place of extreme depression to a place of freedom! Both of these episodes have the ability to transform your life. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! All right ladies, this week we have special guest Caris Snider… Caris Snider is a Christian speaker, author, podcaster, and certified life coach. She is the author of Anxiety Elephants 90 Day Devotional for Tween Boys and Girls. She shares from personal experiences of overcoming depression, anxiety, fear, and shame. Caris desires to help people of all generations see their value and worth through the eyes of the Lord to grow in their faith and mental health. She offers inspiration to those who feel purposeless to discover their God-given calling no one else can accomplish. And let me tell you, this was such a life-changing conversation on the subject of anxiety and mental health that we had to make it into two parts. This week on part 1, Caris shares her story about how she dealt with anxiety and depression at as early as 6 years old. She wants you to know that you’re not alone and gives some practical advice on something you can do starting today to help you take steps in the right direction. If you're not dealing with anxiety or depression, chances are you know someone who is. Share this episode with them. It could honestly change their life! Then be sure to tune into next week’s episode as Caris shares tools that are what she used in order to take her from a place of extreme depression to a place of freedom! Both of these episodes have the ability to transform your life. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! It’s so easy for us to want to be someone that we’re not. We are an expert at picking out all the things we don’t like about ourselves, but when it comes to finding things we like, it’s almost impossible. However, did you know that God created you just the way you are on purpose, and He saw you as something good! Ecclesiastes 3: 11 tells us that God has made everything beautiful in its time and that He has a purpose for your life! He wants to use you to do something big with your life. He wants to use you to be a world-changer! The way that you were made fits right into what it is that God created you to do. Ephesians 2:10 says that you are God’s masterpiece. He had a plan for your life before the world was even formed. Way before you were ever born, He thought about every detail about you and said, “I want her so she can use who she is to shine the light of Jesus in this world. You are unique! Which means you are a one of a kind. There is no one in this world like you…and that is an amazing thing. When you try to become someone you’re not, because you’re different, it’s frustrating. The best we can ever be when we try to be like someone else is second best. Embrace who it is that God created you to be. Yes, there are things we need to work on and grow in. As you grow in your walk with God, He will begin to work on those things, but He can’t use you if you don’t like who you are. Check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! When you know that you know that you know that God loves you, it changes everything! There is nothing you can do to get God to love you any more than He already does. He doesn’t need you to be perfect. There isn’t anything that you can do to get God to love you any less that He does! He loves you, because that’s who He is! His love for us is so good that we can’t even understand it. His love has no conditions…it has no breaking point. It doesn’t matter if we were the worst criminal on the face of the planet, He would still love us. Think about it. John 3:16 tells us that God so loved the world…all of the people who ever walked the face of this planet and everyone who is yet to be here…He loved us all so much that He would send His Son, Jesus to die for us so that we could know how much He truly loves us. When Jesus went to the cross, He willingly gave up His life for people who hated Him. Who made fun of Him and beat Him. Who killed others who would choose to believe in Him. He willingly gave up His life, because of His great love toward us! So many times, we find it hard that God would love even us. We may say, “Yeah, well you don’t know what I did.” Or “You don’t know what they did to me. I’m broken. I’m unlovable. There’s no way that even God could love me.” However, when God looks at us…He’s not thinking those things at all. He’s not coming to you with an attitude of, “What did you do this time?” or “Are you kidding me? You really messed up this time!” No! Instead, He looks at you with love and compassion and when you mess up He says, “My daughter, if you only knew how valuable you are…you wouldn’t feel the need to make choices that hurt you.” “My daughter if you only knew how much I love you, you wouldn’t feel like you are unlovable and broken, but you would see that you are so loved. I’ve never stopped loving you!” Ladies, God loves you! He will never give up on you. He is committed to you! He is faithful! When you say yes to Jesus…when you say Yes to His great love for you…it changes everything! Check out this week's episode of the UncommonTEEN Podcast to learn more! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! I don’t know if you are anything like I was in middle school and high school, but oh my goodness, I had so many crushes! Anytime a boy was nice to me…or for that fact even talked to me or I thought he was even the slightest bit cute (forget him ever talking to me…in my mind, I practically had us getting married. I would practice writing my first name with his last name. Yep…crushes were a big deal for me. Honestly it was an obsession.` And I know that some of you listening, you may not have gone as far as I did with practically seeing them as my future husband, but you know that having a crush can be a big deal! Maybe it looks like this…every time you get dressed in the morning, you get dressed with him in mind, “I wonder what he will think of me. I wonder if he’ll like it. I wonder if he’ll notice me.” And you definitely know it’s a big deal when, like me, he is all you can think about. It seems like he consumes your every thought…so much so that your friends are getting a little bit tired of hearing about him…or maybe they join in on the crush and cannot wait to talk to you about them. Maybe it’s gotten to the point where you go out of your way just so you can see him. Maybe you have his class schedule memorized and you know exactly which locker is his and you…just so happen to be walking by those places hoping to get sight of him. Every time you get around him, your brain can’t give you a coherent thought…maybe you start giggling…your stomach is fluttering….ugh! Now, I want you to know having a crush is not a sin, however, if that crush becomes an obsession, that’s when it becomes a problem and let me tell you, I was obsessed with just about every crush I had! To learn more about how to handle crushes, God's way, check out this week's episode! Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! God designed you so intricately...down to every little aspect about you! Before the world was even formed, He knew you and set you apart for a specific purpose. Join guest speaker, Patricia Russell and I as we talk about how to find your God-given purpose! Connect with Patricia on Instagram: @PatRussellSings Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This week's episode, I am going to answer a question that I have had from so many of you amazing ladies recently: Is it okay to date a guy who's not a Christian...even if he's a really great guy?" Okay, so just a disclaimer before we jump into this episode, this is not an episode where I tell you not to date…it’s not an episode where I tell you at what age I think you should date. That’s between you, your parents and God. However, if you ask my opinion on when you should date, what I would tell you is, wait until you’re ready to get married. And just so you don’t think I’m pointing my finger at you…I was there myself! With all of my boyfriends I had, if I am honest with myself, I sought them out. They liked me…this had to be it, right? Wrong. I hear this from so many teen girls…they see a guy that they like and it almost feels as if God is dropping him into their life. He might be, but more times than not, most of those guys, the enemy is using to pull you away from God. That is what happened with every relationship I had. So, a couple things I want to talk to you about from my personal experiences. The first one is this…2 Corinthians 6:14 tells us to not be yoked together (or in a close relationship) with unbelievers. This isn’t just talking about dating, but also about friendships. Then the verse goes on to say, “For what does righteousness (that is you when you have a relationship with God), and wickedness (not necessarily talking about the guy being a bad guy, he’s just not God’s guy…meaning he’s not a Christian)…what do they have in common? Or what fellowship can light (God calls you the light of the world) have with darkness (people who don’t know God). There are several reasons God had Paul write this in the Bible, because there’s so much truth to it. There’s a guy that you really like…he seems great…and are probably great…however, when you get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t believe in Jesus, you aren’t playing on the same playing field. You’re playing two different games with two different sets of rules on the same field. It’s like you’re playing football and baseball at the same time on the same field. Someone is going to get hurt. 2 Corinthians talks about not being unequally yoked. Now when I say that word, yoke, it’s not talking about an egg yolk. Gotquestions.org explains it this way: A yoke is a wooden bar that joins two oxen to each other. An unequally yoked team has one stronger ox and one weaker ox…or one taller and one shorter. The weaker or the shorter ox would walk more slowly than the taller, stronger one, causing the load to go around in circles. When oxen are unequally yoked, they cannot perform the task set before them. Instead of working together, they are at odds with one another…and work against each other. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! How do you make friends when you’re shy? One of you wonderful ladies asked me this question a couple weeks ago and then not too long after that, I had several more of you ask similar questions. As someone who grew up extremely shy and still have my moments even to this day…put me in a room with a big crowd and it’s not always the prettiest thing to watch…haha! But as someone who grew up extremely shy, I struggled with making friends even through my adult years. I remember a couple years ago, I was talking to this lady who was extremely outgoing and it seemed like she could make friends anywhere she went. I remember asking her the question, “How do you make friends? It just seems so hard, but you make it look easy.” I wish I could say that she gave me amazing advice and it absolutely changed my life…honestly, I don’t even remember what her advice was, but that conversation did change my life. I remember at the moment I asked her that question, something in my brain clicked and I knew that the only way that I was going to be able to make new friends was to get out there any make new friends! I had to step out of my comfort zone, so that I could step into my purpose! Now, you may be asking, “Well, what about me? I’m not shy. I’m actually extremely outgoing, but it’s still not easy for me to make friends. Will this work for me as well?” Yes, it will! The tips I’m going to share with you in this podcast episode will help anyone and everyone if you take action and do them! Today’s episode is going to be a little bit different, but I am going to give you 10 tips on how you can start making friends today! Pray about it. Love and accept who God made you to be. Smile and be friendly Laugh Help others and Anticipate needs Step out of your comfort zone Ask questions Relate with them Encourage them Talk to those sitting off by themselves. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! If you are in the United States, you know that this week is Thanksgiving week. As with any holiday, this can be a time of joy, it can be a time of sadness if you’re navigating it this year without a loved one, or if you were like my family growing up, it can be a time of chaos. With us, any time we get extended family together, you just never know what to expect. However, whether you are in the United States celebrating thanksgiving or even if you’re not, I want to encourage you this week to take time to do two things…one, take time to breathe. So many times we are running nonstop that we forget to take time to breathe…to pull back and just be with God. Turn on some praise music and just worship. Our God is so good. The second thing I want to encourage you to do this week is to find things you can be thankful for. I was talking to a couple of my friends not too long ago about why people get discouraged or why they even turn their backs on God and this is one of the biggest things we discovered, that they forgot to be thankful. In a culture that seems to be bent so much on being negative…like you won’t fit in unless your sarcastic or negative…sometimes it’s hard to choose to be thankful. Think about it, if I asked you to name 10 things that annoy you. How easy would it be for you to come up with them? Most of you could probably come up with all 10 in less than 60 seconds…some of you maybe even less that 30 seconds. Now, if I asked you to name 10 things that you are thankful for, how easy would it be to come up with them. For many of you, you may come up with about 3 things in 60 seconds. Why is that….it’s because we have gotten so used to hearing people complain…and maybe we’ve gotten used to complaining ourselves. I read about a research study that was done recently that said that when we choose to focus on complaining, we actually rewire our brains to continue to thing negatively. It also said that people who complain are more frustrated, more anxious, more depressed and deal with more anger issues than those who don’t complain. Ouch! That’s why it can be a habit that is super hard to break! But it’s not impossible! The same is true for the opposite, choosing to be thankful. When we intentionally choose to be thankful, even for the small things…especially for the small things…we then rewire our brain to think more positively. Then guess what…the frustration, the anxiety, the depression, the anger doesn’t want to stick around anymore because we aren’t feeding it what it wants. It’s not happy people who are thankful, but thankful people who are happy. Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! This week on the UncommonTEEN Podcast, we are talking about the Integrity of Your, "No." This is a little more sensitive in topic, but there is nothing inappropriate or bad in this episode. However, we are talking about the integrity of your no when it comes to authority figures and boyfriends/guys you like. Is it okay to say, "No?" The answer is, "Yes!" Connect with Leigh Mackenzie here: Website: LeighMackenzie.com Podcast: She Seems So Normal Book: She Seems So Normal Instagram: xoxo_leighmackenzie Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT

Have a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Ask Here! We have our very special guest, Leigh Mackenzie joining us this week! Leigh is an author, a podcaster, and has a huge heart for teen girls. This week on the UncommonTEEN Podcast, we are talking about the power of your, "No!" From a very young age, Leigh's "no" was often ignored leaving her to be hurt and abused by several people. That is why she is passionate about sharing this message with you today. So many times, as Christians, we feel like we don't have a "no" that we can use, because we need to be good and nice and sweet...which is good...however, as Leigh shares, "sometimes there's a no that needs to go with that." On this week's episode, we talk about the power of your no and how you can use it to stand up for yourself or someone else, when it specifically comes to bullying. On next week's episode, we will talk about friendships and relationships and the integrity of your, "no." CONNECT WITH LEIGH: Website: https://leighmackenzie.com/ Instagram: @xoxo_leighmackenzie Podcast and Book are Geared Toward Older Teens and Adults Podcast: She Seems So Normal Book: She Seems So Normal Support the show Want a little extra sparkle this month? ✨ Grab your December Glow Mail and soak in God's Radiant Love for you! Packed with goodies and encouragement to help your heart shine—get yours delivered straight to your mailbox! Grab your Glow Mail Here! CONNECT WITH COACH JAMIE LIFE COACHING for Christian Teen Girls SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE! PODCAST RESOURCES ABOUT