
The Subconscious Expert
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Ep 131131. Do You Keep Getting in the Way of Your Own Success?
Do you keep getting in the way of your own success? If the answer is a big fat yes, then you are in the right place today! I know you; I was you! You want to be a wealthy CEO, have freedom in your life and business, grow and scale your business at a rapid rate, and you can see yourself doing it but… You repeatedly fall into the vicious cycle of habits and behaviour patterns that don’t support you in stepping into the higher version of yourself.It's your subconscious mind that's holding you back from unlocking your full potential. It doesn’t let you take the action that you KNOW you need to take if you want to achieve those big income goals you set for yourself. Because it doesn't matter if you know you can achieve something if you are not actually doing the things to achieve it. So let’s talk about the four biggest reasons why you keep getting in the way of your success and what you can do to finally step into your higher self, baby!Topics covered on Getting in the Way of Your Own Success:What is achievement anxiety, and how can it hold you back from your success?What can you do to overcome achievement anxiety and embrace the success you desire?My struggle with achievement anxiety and how I handle it when it comes up again.A powerful exercise to embody your expertise and overcome imposter syndrome when stepping into the higher self.Judgment jitters and strategies you can use to overcome the fear of judgment and focus on taking action.What is failure fright, and how can it hold you back from your success?Reframing failure and developing resilience in the face of potential setbacks.How to identify which one of the four reasons keeps getting in the way of your success?Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

Ep 130130. Separating Yourself from Your Business
There is a big difference between operating your business based on your identity and defining your identity based on the performance of your business. Your business has needs, you have needs and they aren’t always the same. If you’re constantly attaching your self worth to the results you’re seeing in your business, you will burn out.In today’s episode join Bec as she explores the consequences of constantly attaching your value and identity to your business outcomes and the potential burnout, criticism, and overthinking it can lead to. She teaches you how to shift the narrative from self-blame to growth-oriented thinking, understanding that business failures and setbacks do not define your worth as an individual and being able to detach for bigger and better results. Your mindset blocks aren’t you. Your business failures aren’t you. Your flopped launch doesn’t doesn’t make you an unworthy person.Your work, your impact, your voice - it all matters.Connect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“There is a big difference between operating your business based on your identity and defining your identity based on the performance of your business” - Rebecca HaydonMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 129129. Finding the Balance Between Gratitude and Ambition: Where You Are vs Where You Are Going
Finding the balance between gratitude and ambition is a challenge that many of my clients, myself included, struggle with. I remember how I used to tell myself, "When I make X amount of money, then I'll finally be happy and enjoy my life." Yeah, sure!As soon as you reach the amount of money in your bank account, the number of clients in your business, or the number of people signing up for your freebie, you'll move on to chasing an even bigger goal. Eventually, you'll reach a point where you feel like you're doing something wrong because no matter what goal you achieve, it never feels enough. It becomes this constant loop of never feeling satisfied and always wanting more.That's why in today's podcast episode, I want to help you to find the balance between gratitude and ambition! Instead of being impatient and focusing on "where you are not," I want you to look at "everything you have achieved" over the last couple of months. Join me as I talk about why gratitude is so important in your life, a gratitude exercise that will help you appreciate the present moment, how to release the pressure of "shoulds," and more!Topics covered on The Balance Between Gratitude and Ambition:How to find the balance between being content with your current life and still having the drive for future goals?The constant loop of never feeling satisfied and always wanting more.My personal experience of constantly striving for the next bigger goal while feeling unfulfilled.Why is gratitude so important in your life and business?A gratitude exercise to boost your confidence in tackling new, bigger goals.How neutrality towards your dream life allows you to manifest your dreams.Releasing the pressure of where you believe you "should" be by now.A story of my client who was so focused on financial goals that she forgot to enjoy the journey.Why it's crucial to remain open to new possibilities and recalibrate our ambitions.Embracing the balance between gratitude and ambition.Connect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

Ep 128128. Everyone procrastinates, and anyone can overcome it!
When Beckie’s clients come to her, they often feel like procrastination is just part of who they are at this point, and they often feel ashamed for struggling with it. “I am committed to my goals, I want to do the work, I’m ready to put in the effort… so why can’t I just do the damn thing?!!”They feel frustrated with themselves but you know what, everyone procrastinates, but the beauty of subconscious reprogramming is that anyone can overcome it. Procrastination is NOT part of your identity, it’s a habit you’ve formed that’s rooted in how you deal with your thoughts.To break free from this cycle, Bec encourages you to cultivate self-awareness and reprogram your subconscious minds. Embracing progress over perfection, challenging limiting beliefs through self-reflection and seeking support, and developing effective time management strategies are vital steps toward overcoming procrastination.Join your host Rebecca Haydon as she uncovers the secrets behind the procrastination paradox and provides actionable insights to help female entrepreneurs overcome procrastination and unlock their full potential.Topics covered on Procrastination in Business:Perfectionism and fear of failure as a burden on female entrepreneursThe role of fear of making mistakes and the desire for approval in perpetuating procrastinationLimiting beliefs and self-doubt as underlying factors in female entrepreneurs' procrastinationIdentifying common limiting beliefs such as "I'm not good enough" or "I don't deserve success"Understanding how these beliefs erode confidence and contribute to a cycle of self-doubt and procrastinationThe importance of self-reflection, seeking support, and reframing limiting beliefs for overcoming procrastinationOverwhelm and lack of prioritisation as challenges for female entrepreneursDiscussing the juggling act and multiple responsibilities faced by female entrepreneursExploring the feeling of overwhelm and its impact on decision-making and productivityStrategies for effective time management, goal setting, and prioritisation to combat overwhelm and reduce procrastinationThe power of self-awareness and reprogramming the subconscious mind to break free from the procrastination cycleConnect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

Ep 127127. 3 Reasons You Are Overcomplicating Things in Your Business
As humans, we LOVE overcomplicating things for no reason. Many business owners crave ease, flow, and simplicity, yet they still fall into the trap of overcomplicating things. It's almost as if when showing up in your business comes easily to you, and clients are drawn to you just by your personality shining through, it somehow feels wrong.Most of us were raised in a world where we were told things like "you should work hard for your money, nobody likes their job, but you need to pay bills." And so, subconsciously, you make things difficult for yourself. You try new strategies, new coaches, and new programs, pushing yourself to a point where your business no longer brings you happiness. You start procrastinating, feeling resentful towards your clients, experiencing burnout—misaligned in one word.As you can see, today's podcast episode is going to be a spicy one. But my intention is not to rip you to pieces; it's to bring awareness to why you may be feeling so misaligned right now. Join me as I talk about 3 reasons why you are overcomplicating things in your business, how to stop it, and instead start operating from a place that feels good to you and aligns with your CEO archetype.Topics covered on Overcomplicating Things in Your Business: When do we most often tend to overcomplicate things in businessHow did my client achieve success by embracing her authentic selfWhat happens when you start replicating someone else’s style instead of embracing your own uniquenessHow to break free from the cycle of making things more difficult for yourselfWhy do I adapt my approach to each of my clients individuallySimplistic strategies that work for you as a human and your CEO archetypeThis is why I call to my 1:1 packages as 'mentorship'The problem of constantly working with a coach or enrolling into another programYou don’t have to overcomplicate things in your business to be successfulHow do I differentiate my coaching style from other coaches out thereConnect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

Ep 126126. Running Your Business Based on How You Operate as a Human and CEO
In the online space, it's not as common as it should be to run a business based on how you operate as a human and CEO. Many business owners doubt themselves because none of the strategies they've tried seem to work. So when they hear about the latest strategy that some coach is raving about, they are excited to try it out! At first, things go well, but eventually, they realize they just can't stick with it. No matter how hard they try. And so, they start to beat themselves up, thinking, "It must be me. I must be doing something wrong.”Listen to me. If a strategy isn't working for you, it's just not the right fit! Let go of the "shoulds" and "hot" strategies that big-name coaches and social media gurus promote. Instead, join me in today’s podcast episode as I share how to determine if your current strategy is really working, how I help my clients create the perfect strategy based on how they operate as a human and CEO, what can happen when you show up for your business in a way that doesn't align with your values, and much more!Topics covered on How You Operate as a Human and CEO:Is your current strategy the perfect fit for youHow to customize someone else's strategy to fit your style as CEODifferent strategies my clients use in their businessesThe negative consequences of trying to fit into a strategy box that doesn't align with your valuesIdentifying how you operate as a human and CEO in your businessThe big changes I had to make in my business to honor my valuesResistance is your sign to start looking inside yourselfWhy you should stop listening to everyone’s advice right nowConnect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_. For full show notes and more resources, visit the website.

Ep 125125. How to Grow Self Discipline for Business Success
Do you struggle with self-discipline? You’re not alone. Many of my clients often start their week feeling super motivated, ready to tackle a huge list of tasks and new habits they want to create. But by the end of the day, their excitement fades away, and the list doesn’t seem to be getting any shorter. Can you relate? I know I sure can!The reason for this is related to your subconscious mind. When you overwhelm your subconscious with too many changes or new habits, your mind goes: “Holy, Mother of God! There is a lot that you want to change, and it feels unsafe and out of our comfort zone, so let’s do everything we can to prevent you from doing that.”The good news is that self-discipline is like a muscle. With enough practice and effort, it will get stronger, and it will become easier to take on new habits or complete tasks. Join me in today’s podcast episode where I share several ways to trick your mind and grow your self-discipline so you can step into that unstoppable, powerful higher version of yourself!Topics covered on Grow Self-Discipline:Why flexing your self-discipline muscle is crucial for business ownersWhy do some people grow the self-discipline muscle easier than othersThe reason building self-discipline may feel scary for youHow do I help clients to flex their self-discipline muscleHow does a lack of self-discipline manifest in your daily lifeWhy entering my higher self version used to scare the hell out of meStart taking micro steps to grow your self-disciplineDifferent ways to create the path of least resistance to build self-disciplineThe power of knowing your strengths in businessConnect with me on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_.

Ep 124124. 5 Signs You Are In Business Growth Avoidance
Something that I repeatedly hear from my community is how much you love it when I call you out because it inspires you to take action. So today's podcast episode won't be any different! If you have been a loyal listener of Higher Self & I, you've heard me say that 95% of our behavior patterns happen subconsciously. Your subconscious mind may put you in business growth avoidance without you even realizing it, because its goal is to keep you safe. As your future mindset coach, *wink wink*, it's my job to call you out and show you how this pattern can be changed.Before we dive into the episode, I want to emphasize that I'm not here to shame you or make you feel bad about yourself. My intention is to open your eyes and show you your blind spots, so you can bring yourself out of avoidance and step into multi-5-figure, 6-figure months, and more, with ease. Tune in as I share 5 signs that you are potentially in business growth avoidance, tips on how to get out of it, how I support my clients to overcome business growth avoidance, and more!Topics covered on Business Growth Avoidance:Why does every business owner need a coach (myself included)How do I support my clients to overcome business growth avoidanceWhy do we easily slip into behaviours that don’t support our business growthCommon avoidance beliefs that undermine business growthThe negative impact of avoiding finances on your business and how to change itDaily mindset practices to take your business to the next levelThe benefits of asking for help when you need itHow to let go of victim mentality and heal victim woundsStrategies to manage excessive scrolling on social media Connect with Bec:Apply to work with meCEO Hypnosis BundleLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonFor full show notes and more resources visit http://www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/5-signs-you-are-in-business-growth-avoidance

Ep 123123. 3 Things to Consider if You Have Lost Yourself in Your Strategy
You wouldn’t believe how often I see business owners spending thousands and thousand of dollars on masterminds, masterclasses, business coaches, courses - yet the promised results never come. They keep making more and more investments in hopes that they'll finally unlock the secret they've been looking for all this time and explode their business. I know how easy it is to get lost on social media, look at what other people are doing and feel like no matter what you do, no matter what investment you make, you are always one step behind. But what if I told you that you already have the magic bullet? That you already know what you need to do to bring abundance to your life and build wealth? The key lies within you! Tune in to today’s podcast episode, where I talk about why is your strategy is not working for you, what you need to change to achieve big results and much more! So don't wait any longer and unlock your power now!Topics covered on Strategy:What important aspects you are missing out on if you are too focused on your business strategyWhy your business strategy might not be working for youDiscover how to achieve big results in your business How to build self-trust so that you can step into your next-level business strategyThe importance of repetition when building self-trustWhat is the consumption ban and how I use it with my clientsHow I’ve grown my business to where it is todayWhy you need to stop comparing yourself with otherHow to create consistency within yourself and your businessConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonFor more resources and full show notes go to http://www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/3-things-to-consider-if-you-have-lost-yourself-in-your-strategy

Ep 122122. What if Discomfort Is the Pathway to Success
BOOK YOUR SPOT IN LEAP NOW Let’s be honest, not many people like to push themselves out of their comfort zone. It’s called a COMFORT zone for a reason, right? But what if I told you that embracing discomfort could be the key to unlocking your success? A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I moved into our new dream home and I must admit that despite all the excitement and butterflies in my stomach, I felt uncomfortable because I was stepping out of my comfort zone. This experience got me thinking about why we consider discomfort a bad thing, when in reality discomfort is the pathway to success! Tune in to today’s episode to learn about why getting out of your comfort zone is actually a good thing, how to work through the fears and any mindset block in the process, how our subconscious mind processes new experiences, understand four stages of learning, and more!Topics covered on Discomfort Is the Pathway to Success:Moving into our dream home!Why discomfort is crucial for successWhat fear came up for me as I moved into my new homeWhat are the four stages of learningIf you have these four traits, you’ve got what it takes to be a successful entrepreneurWhy you should celebrate feelings of discomfort in your businessHow do you know it’s the right time to get out of your comfort zoneConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meSave your spot in LEAPLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“The moment that we know we're in discomfort is the moment we know we're fucking moving forwards.“More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 121121. I Am Scared of Who I Will Be if I Make Those High-Cash Months
One of the things my ideal clients tell me before we start working together is that they are afraid of who they will become when they start making high-cash months. It’s understandable. Think about all the stories we hear about being rich or rich people. “Rich people are evil.” “Rich people are greedy.” “Who do they think they are?!” Most of those stories are pretty negative. Who wants to be called a bad person, greedy, or arrogant? NO ONE. So you start sabotaging yourself, maybe change a business strategy (that’s been working very well), or avoid doing the things you know you should be doing. It’s your subconscious mind trying to keep you safe and it’s your job to show your mind that actually, it is safe. Join me in today’s podcast episode as I talk about common beliefs that stop my clients from stepping into the high-cash months, how they manifest in their life, and how to nurture your subconscious mind to feel safe stepping into your next level of wealth. Topics covered on Making High-Cash Months:One of the most predominant beliefs that my clients have to break through to start making high-cash monthsNegative beliefs many people have about being rich or rich peopleIt’s not the money that changes you as a personDifferent ways you might be sabotaging yourself when you start making high-cash months Shocking things that people told me when I started making 20K monthsHow to nurture your subconscious mind so you can access the high-cash month and feel safeWhat is an evidence bank and why do you need to create itHow does your RAS (Reticular Activating System) workWhy did I shift away from monetary focus and you should tooConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“It's not the money that changes you as a person. You get to decide what that looks like. You choose your behavior, you choose your thoughts, you choose your feelings.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 120120. 5 Reasons You Are Ignoring Doing the Subconscious Work in Your Business
Tell me how many times you invested in a program or course thinking: “Yes, this is it! This is the missing piece! This is going to save my business!”? You make the investment, follow a new business strategy, change your niche, content, graphics, and then… Nothing happens. So you hop on social media, search for another magical course, and the vicious circle continues. A couple of courses later (or more like a couple of $$$ later), you start noticing that other students achieve big results by following the same business strategy.How is it possible that it did nothing for your business? Is it you? Are you implementing the strategy incorrectly? There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with you baby! But you need to stop looking for a magical course and start looking inside you. Join me in this podcast episode to learn about what is the common mistake I see many business owners make at the beginning of their business, how I coach my clients to get them REAL results, why you need to do deep-level subconscious work, and much more!Topics covered on Doing Subconscious Work:The mistake I was doing at the beginning of my businessWhat do I do differently as a coach that gets my clients resultsWhy is procrastination a problem for so many business ownersWhy should you prioritize subconscious work over business strategyThe real secret sauce that all business owners are looking forWhy buying another course or implementing another business strategy is not going to save youDoing surface-level mindset work is not enough to see changesWhen does the subconscious work endAre you lacking patience? It might be the reason why you’re not seeing the results in your businessConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“No strategy is better than the execution, and the execution comes from your subconscious.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 119119. Setting Boundaries vs Holding Boundaries
Be honest, are you the type of person who sets your boundaries on Sunday night, hyping yourself up like “Yes, this is it! This is the day!” but then Monday comes around and you throw the boundaries out of the window? Or do you set boundaries and ACTUALLY embody them every single day? If you are the first type, no shame around here. Rebecca Haydon 1.0 had ZERO boundaries, (hands up if you are a recovering people pleaser like me). However, Rebecca 2.0 has a LIST of boundaries and she sure as hell embodies them!I’ll let you in on a little secret. If you keep setting boundaries but never stick to them, you reinforce the belief that you won’t do what you said you will do. Now ask yourself, would the higher version of you who makes 6-figures set a boundary and break it on the next occasion? I don’t think so! So if you are ready to enter that higher self, tune in to today’s episode, where I talk about the difference between setting and holding boundaries, how to set boundaries and actually stick to them, tips on embodying boundaries, how setting boundaries changed my life for better, and more!Topics covered on Holding Boundaries:How I went from having ZERO boundaries to a LIST of boundariesHow setting and actually holding boundaries has changed my life for the betterHow is your subconscious connected to your boundariesWhy is holding boundaries more important than setting boundariesWhere do most scaling business owners struggle with boundariesAre you guilty of overpromising to your clientsLooking at the belief behind overgiving or overdeliveringTips on embodying boundaries in your business and lifeThe time when I used Voxer as my procrastination toolHow to set boundaries in different areas of your lifeIdentifying what you need to have in place in order to stick to your boundariesResources from this episode:Wheel of lifeOne Sec app Connect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“Setting boundaries is crucial for you to scale, but what's even more important is that you actually hold them.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 118118. Your Upper Limit & How To Break Through It
Upper limit is a real thing. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. The first thing you need to know is that facing the upper limit looks different for every one of us because we all feel comfortable with different amounts of money in our business. But we all experience the upper limit in some shape or form, and NOT only once in our lives. You will run into the upper limit problem every time you hit a new financial goal, every time you level up, every time you enforce a new boundary. Because you are experiencing something new and your subconscious mind wants to keep you safe and comfortable.Some of my clients hit that dream financial goal but then struggle to make it consistent. Others bring in a consistent X amount of money, but they are not growing. If you are like me, you get sick (or make yourself believe that you’re sick), so you can procrastinate. Are you feeling called out? Good! Now let’s fix it! Tune in to today’s podcast episode, where I share how to identify that you are hitting your upper limit, analyze it, understand where it’s coming from, and how to break through it!Topics covered on Upper Limit:I’ve got some exciting news for you!What is an upper limit and why does it happenHow do you know that you are facing the upper limit What do you need to do in order to break through your upper limit#1 thing you need to know about upper limitWhy is it difficult to recognize that you are facing upper limitHow am I stepping to the higher version of myself by recording this episodeQuestions you need to ask yourself to move to the next level of your businessHow do you know that you are on the right path of breaking through your upper limitThe modeling NLP technique and how to use it when shifting your identityRelated episodes:Episode 117. Moving Out of Victim MentalityConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meCEO Hypnosis BundleLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“When we're going through an upper limit, you cannot probably tell because you are in the comfort of what feels good right now.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 117117. Moving Out of Victim Mentality
Let me start off by saying that victim mentality is not something you shake off once and then you are over it (we wish!). Oh hell no. Talking from my own experience, victim mentality is still a part of me. It still rears its ugly head sometimes, especially when I’m up-leveling because it wants to protect me and keep me safe. Please know that if you struggle with victim mentality on bad days, it’s okay as long as you are willing to move out of that victim mentality and move back to the higher self. I know you’re probably asking: “Okay, Bec but HOW? How do I do that?!” Get ready for me to spill the tea in today’s episode! Tune in to learn about what is victim mentality, how and why it shows up, how to ditch victim mentality and start shifting into a higher version of yourself instead, and much more!Topics covered on Victim Mentality:When did I start noticing my victim mentality for the first timeWhy you should get to know your victim partAt what age do you take on your biggest beliefsLooking at different parts of yourself and how they are connectedMy story of adopting victim mentality as a four years oldFinding the triggers and behavior patterns that bring out the victim part in youWhy do we fall into victim mentalityWhat is the modeling technique in NLPHow to use the modeling technique to reprogram your subconscious mind Building a new identity through new neutral pathwaysResources mentioned:Karen Brady on InstagramRelated episodes:Connecting with your higher self visionConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“Give yourself grace around building a new identity because it is gonna be hard. It is gonna feel scary and it is gonna be tiring.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 116116. How I Broke My Scarcity Mindset and Stepped Into My Multi 6 Figure Identity
Truly stepping into an abundance mindset is easier said than done. Breaking my scarcity mindset and stepping into my multi 6 figure identity was one of the hardest things I had to do. There I said it! That’s why I can’t help but roll my eyes when I hear coaches say: “just think positively”. Breaking a scarcity mindset is not a quick thing like flipping a switch and all of a sudden you are in the abundance mindset. No, it takes practice. You need to learn how to identify the limiting beliefs that hold you back, understand where those stories come from, reprogram your subconscious mind, and then you shift into the growth mindset. Once you do that, you will open yourself to ENDLESS opportunities. I promise you that the more you do it, the easier it gets. So if you want to become the woman who is living her vision, with sold-out high ticket offers, incredible clients, feeling secure and confident in your business, and living the life that you are obsessed with, tune in to today’s podcast episode where I tell you all about how to shift out scarcity mindset into abundance, wealth and growth!Topics covered on Breaking Scarcity Mindset:What happens to your business when scarcity mindset creeps inThe consequences of staying in the scarcity mindsetStepping into an abundance mindset is not about “just think positively” How do I continuously work on shifting my scarcity mindsetExamples of scarcity mindset in daily lifeHow did I break through my scarcity mindset and step into that multi 6 figure identityWhy do you need to understand your scarcity mindset and where it comes fromHow to rise your vibrations so you can step into the higher version of yourself and attract everything you dream aboutDifferent somatic practices that help you shift your vibrationThe vibrational exercise I enjoy the mostResources mentioned:Stevie Wright on Instagram @stevielwrightStevie Wright Breathwork MembershipRelated episodes:Motivational Magic: I Am a Magnetic to What I DesireMotivational Magic: Welcome to the Next LevelIt's Already Yours: Motivational MagicConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“The scarcity mindset creeps in so much and so subconsciously, that it stops you from seeing, being and feeling this incredible life that you are on the way to create.”“What you focus on is what you get.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 115115. Being Afraid of What Will Become of My Life With Big Success and Money
Don’t you just love when you wake up in the morning, full of energy and with good vibes? You start the day with your morning routine, maybe you journal, look at your vision board, listen to a self-hypnosis track, or visualize. As you close your eyes, you call in all the success, wealth, and money you desire. You can see that juicy life coming to fruition, ideal clients coming TO YOU, hitting that next 3K, 5K, 10K, 20K, traveling around the world, and creating experiences you dreamed about! Yes, it’s happening, gorgeous! But suddenly…ouch…punch to the gut. “What about my partner? He/she doesn’t have a flexible job. Will we break up? Will my family act differently around me? Will my friends expect me to pay for stuff?” Sounds familiar? That’s your limiting beliefs bringing you down, making your brain panic, and subconsciously sabotaging you. Being afraid of what will become of your life as you step into the next level of your big success and money is a real thing. But no need to panic! Because I dive into how to get over the fear of big success and money in today's podcast episode. Let's tune in!Topics covered on Big Success and Money:A fear that comes up for many of my clients as they are stepping into the next level of successWhere does this fear come fromHow can you step into big success and money without being scared of things changing around youHow did my life change as I entered the next level of success 3 most important things I learned from my successWhat will happen to people around you as you go through your transformationThe comments that I received from people about the money and success I brought in my businessWhat to do when you get triggered by someone’s else successHow to assure your subconscious mind that you will handle big success and moneyWhy playing the worst-case scenario in your head actually helps your subconscious mindResources mentioned:The Big Leap by Gay HendricksRelated episodes:Episode 100: Hitting 250K, choosing a break up, and moving back to the other side of the worldConnect with Bec:Sign up for my upcoming masterclass More Money, Less ProblemsApply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“The number one thing I learned is that your own evolution can trigger those around you.”“The way you get to impact, the way you get to lead your life, the way you get to thrive, is so much bigger than what people fucking think of you.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 114114. Building a Sustainable CEO Money Mindset
Sign up for my upcoming masterclass More Money, Less ProblemsDo you know what happens to your nervous system when it’s overloaded? It freaks out and starts looking for a way to feel comfortable and safe again. So when you feel like your business is fragile or unsustainable, and that might look like you are not in control of your business, you lack consistency in your behavior, or you are not sure how you will bring clients in the next month, your nervous system gets overwhelmed and starts sabotaging you subconsciously. Because it doesn’t see how you can continue living in your current reality. That’s why we need to make your brain feel safe again. And how do you do that? By building a sustainable business and sustainable CEO money mindset. Lucky for you, that is something I tap into with my clients every single day! Tune in to today’s podcast episode to learn more about how your nervous system works, how you can work with it instead of against it, how I help my clients to build a sustainable CEO money mindset, and much more!Topics covered on CEO Money Mindset:What happens to your nervous system when you are feeling fragile in your businessWhy you are struggling to build a sustainable businessMore about my upcoming masterclass More Money, Less ProblemsFour things I work through with my clients when we build a sustainable CEO money mindsetHow to create a solid foundational money mindset Losing embarrassment around not knowing how to handle moneyHow to fully step into the highest next level selfWhat role plays embodiment in building a sustainable CEO money mindsetWhy you should start practicing what it feels like to have the amount of money you desire How to create neutrality around hitting your huge milestonesHow to prime neutrality around handling, holding, and having more moneyResources mentioned:Joe DispenzaRelated episodes:Episode 109: Why Your Money Story Is Holding You Back From Massive Wealth Connect with Bec:Sign up for my upcoming masterclass More Money, Less ProblemsApply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonQuote:“You are not bad with money. You just haven't learned how to be better at it.”“Money mindset doesn't just affect how you're feeling. It affects your results and it affects your ability to hold the next level business owner that you are desiring to be.”More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 113113. Stop Putting Your Money Mindset Beliefs Onto Your Ideal Clients
I get so many VOXER messages from my clients telling me they got an ideal client who voted on their stories, inquired about their services, or booked a clarity call.They get super excited, but after doing a cheeky bit of digging on social media or checking out their website they suddenly presume they know the bank account amount of said ideal client. You didn’t even have a conversation with this potential client and you already *just know* that this person can’t afford your services. Sounds familiar? That’s what putting your money mindset beliefs onto your ideal clients looks like. You tell yourself all these stories about how your ideal client doesn’t have the budget to work with you and then you project that energy onto your ideal client during the sales call.I want to put a stop to this behaviour right now, because your higher self version doesn’t sabotage herself in such ways.Tune in to today’s episode, where I tell you how to identify your money stories that stop you from signing your ideal clients, how to shift them, create a neutral money mindset, handle money objections, and much more!Connect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!Quote“When you put your own money mindset beliefs onto your ideal client, you are doing yourself a disservice.”

Ep 112112. Embodiment Allows You to Becoming an Energetic Match to Your Ideal Clients
If you have been around for some time, you know that I talk about embodiment and becoming an energetic match to your ideal client all the time. And there is a reason for it. Because it works! I do it, my clients do it and it just freaking works! So if you want to attract high caliber, high-paying clients who will show up every time, do the work, and don’t even flinch when you say the number of the investment of working with you, then you need to start speaking to THAT EXACT next-level client. You need to start embodying what you preach through your content, through your actions, and through how you show up online. I want you to enter that magnetic energy that will bring your ideal clients TO YOU. You are probably thinking: “Yes, Bec, that sounds great. But how the heck do I do that?!” I’m glad you asked because I tell you all about it in today’s podcast episode! Tune in as I share with you how I support my clients in becoming an energetic match for their ideal clients, why embodiment works, how you can start showing up as the higher self today, and much more!Topics covered on Becoming an Energetic Match:My very first boujie event in the UK! What was it like and how can you attend the next eventHow did I help my client to find a new ideal client that feels more alignedHow do you step into your new reality where you get to work with your ideal clientsCalling in ideal clients through positioning and messaging Why do your clients *really* invest in youWhat role plays belief systems in the process of attracting your ideal clientsSupporting clients in becoming an energetic match through their content and how they show up onlineHow does embodiment allow you to become an energetic match to your ideal clientsMy final food for thought about embodimentConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonJoin the event waitlist!Related episodes:3 Mindset Shifts You Need to Raise Your PricesMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!Quotes:“People invest by the way you hold yourself. People invest by the vibe they feel from you online, and people invest from seeing you embody the reality they desire.”

Ep 111111. How Am I Showing Up for Myself and My Business When the Sales Aren’t Coming In?
EDo you know that moment when you are on a roll and everything is going your way? You know, when you are signing up clients left, right, center, your ideal clients are engaging with your content, inquiring about your offers, and then….*crickets*. No clients are coming in, no revenue is being made, no sign ups, just dead silence. So you go inside of yourself, start feeling anxious, panic creeps in and you get out of control. “Oh my God, why is no one signing up? Should I take another course? What am I doing wrong?!” Yep. I used to do the SAME thing. When the sales weren’t coming in, I would freak out and try to distract myself. I went shopping, cleaned up the house, scrolled on social media and made up stories in my head about how everyone is so successful and I am not. Now I know that those moments of quiet are the most epic time to reflect. When the sales aren’t coming in, you have the time and space to look within yourself, get curious and ask yourself some very important questions. So that’s what we are going to do in today’s podcast episode!Topics covered on When the Sales Aren’t Coming In:When the quiet period in your business comesA client's story that inspired me to record this episodeWhat should you do when the sales aren’t coming in Questions you should ask yourself during the quiet moments in your businessHow did I sign new clients despite going through a huge change in my lifeLimiting beliefs that come out for me when I'm not signing up new clientsIdentifying your behavior pattern and negative thoughtsHow to shift quiet moments in your business into moments of growthHow to do energy check-ins during quiet periodsConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonRelated episodes:Episode 100: Hitting 250K, choosing a break up, and moving back to the other side of the worldMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 110110. 3 Mindset Shifts You Need to Raise Your Prices
Raising prices. Two words that either make you cringe or get you excited, which camp are you sitting in? Many of my clients and people in my community feel uneasy about raising their prices. They find it really hard because of how it FEELS to ask for more money, the pressure of: “What will my clients say when I put my money up?” or “Who am I to charge that much money for my services?”. If those fears come up for you, you know it’s time to do some identity work!You absolutely have the right to charge more for your services, but first, we need to make your subconscious mind feel safe to rise the prices and make your RAS filter aware of the upcoming change. Are you ready? Tune in as I talk about the three mindset shifts that you need so you can raise your prices in 2023, the energy you need to lean into to call in the ideal client who is ready to invest with you, how to find the sweet spot when setting the new level of pricing, and much more!Topics covered on Raising Prices:What to look at before you start diving into mindset shifts to raise your pricesWhat comes up for my clients and people in my community when we talk about raising pricesRethinking your ideal client, if you raise your prices is she/he still your IDEAL client How do I change my energy when talking to different ideal clients about different offersHow to get into the energy of calling in your ideal clientAn exercise I do with my clients to find the sweet spot when raising pricesWhat questions to ask yourself to get comfortable with your new pricing Mental rehearsal I do with my clients to step into their new identity with the next level of pricingConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonRelated episodes:Episode 109: Why Your Money Story Is Holding You Back From Massive WealthEpisode 108: Don’t Feel the Security That You Want Your Business to Bring You? Listen Up!Episode 107: 4 Things I Did to Make Multi 6 Figures in 2022Episode 106: Why Creating Safety May Be the Financial up Level Element You’re MissingMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 109109. Why Your Money Story Is Holding You Back From Massive Wealth
Do you find yourself having the same money issues all over again? Do you feel like you are stuck on the same monthly revenue, whether it’s 2K, 5K, or 10K? Maybe one month you finally hit your dream number, and you think: “Yes, finally! I made it! It will just go higher and higher from here!” But when the next month comes, you go back to the same income as previous months. You thought that was your big break, so what the heck happened? It almost feels like an invisible force holds you back from stepping into the next level of wealth, right?That’s you and your money story, beauty! I hear this with my one-on-one coaching clients all the time. They feel like they hit a wall and can’t climb over it, no matter how hard they try. Then they start feeling stagnant and wonder why they are stuck in the current reality, why they can’t step into that higher version of themselves and attract massive wealth. In today’s podcast episode, I help you to do exactly that! Tune in as I share with you how you can identify your money story, where it came from, what you make it to mean about you and your business, how you can shift into the new identity of your new money story, and much more!Topics covered on Money Story:What to do when you hit a wall and start feeling stagnant in your businessA little challenge for you to identify your money storyHow to identify your behavior around moneySome of my biggest money stories and what experiences created themJournal prompts to help you become aware of your money storyWhen do we take on our biggest learnings around moneyWhy do you need to detach yourself from moneyHow did I help my client to shift into the identity of the new money storyWhat is a Friday Money Date and why should you start having it tooFriday Money Date exercise that will help you to step into control of your moneyWhy do you find yourself having the same money struggles all over againHow can I support you in stepping into the next level of wealthConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonResources from this episode:Episode 108: Don’t Feel the Security That You Want Your Business to Bring You? Listen Up!Journal prompts:What was the feeling about money like in the home where you grew up?What was the feeling like about spending money?What was the feeling like about saving money?What was the feeling like about giving money away?What’s your earliest money memory?What messages did your mom / dad / caretaker pass down to you about money?Do you remember hearing your parents talk about (or fight about) money?Growing up, did you have more than/less than/about the same as your peers?More about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 108108. Don’t Feel the Security That You Want Your Business to Bring You? Listen Up!
When I first start working with my ideal clients, many of them share with me that they don’t feel secure in their business, and that is something we need to work on. Because if you don’t feel secure in your business, you start sending out almost desperate energy to the world. I know you are probably thinking: “Bec, that's easy for you to say! You make multi six figures.” Yes, I do NOW. But in 2019, I was holding tight on every lead, every client, every dollar.I believed that if I just made X [insert your desired amount of money] I would feel secure. I would be happy. All my problems would be solved. I’m telling you from my personal experience, it’s not true. Yes, money make some things easier. But you can always tap into the feeling of security at any point of any time of day and I teach you how to do it in today's podcast episode! Topics covered on Lack of Security in Your Business:What a lot of my clients struggle withMisconception about where the security in your business comes fromWhat to do when you start feeling the lack of security in your businessSecurity is not always influenced by external factorsQuick exercise for creating security in your business How can you tap into any feelings at any point of any time of the dayA little practice I want you to start doing every morningConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meTRUST. The masterclassLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 107107. 4 Things I Did to Make Multi 6 Figures in 2022
Welcome to the last episode of 2022! I thought it would be a great way to close down the year with a little bit of reflection because this year has been HUGE for me in all aspects of my life and business. I truly stepped into my power in my business and I have created financial wealth beyond my wildest dreams. I’m talking about multi 6 figures, baby! If I said how much we made this year to Beckie of 2020, she would fall over sidewards and probably not get back up for about 10 minutes.The reason why I want to talk about making almost 300K is to empower you and encourage you. You are so close to making a massive wealth and the only person stopping you is YOU. I want you to keep going even if you feel like everything is working against you. All the things you dream about are possible if you are willing to work on yourself, your subconscious, and remove those limiting beliefs that hold you back. It's time to step into the highest version of yourself in 2023!Topics covered on Making Multi 6 Figures:What was the year 2022 like for meWhy did I decide to talk about the financial aspect of my businessHow much money I made in 20224 major subconscious shifts that helped me to get to multi 6 figuresWhy don’t I write down my financial goalsHow setting up the backend of my business has allowed me to step into a whole new level of myselfShifting my identity and launching Rebecca 2.0What happens when you remove the pressure and work on subconscious beliefsWhen did people start noticing the results of my identity workPromise to myself and to all of you for 2023My client retention rate for 2022 has been through the freaking roof!Resources Mentioned:CEO Hypnosis BundleSign up for ThriveCartRelated Episodes:Episode 100: Hitting 250K, choosing a break up, and moving back to the other side of the worldEpisode 106: Why Creating Safety May Be the Financial up Level Element You’re MissingEpisode 104: Daily Tasks I Do to Shift My Identity as a CEOEpisode 99: Stepping Into the Next Level Business Owner: My 5 Mindset Techniques I Use Through the up LevelsConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meCEO Hypnosis BundleLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!

Ep 106106. Why Creating Safety May Be the Financial up Level Element You’re Missing
Tell me if this sounds familiar...Every year in January, you sit down at your desk, write down your goals for the next year, and because we all want to attract wealth into our lives, you include your financial goals. You think about the steps you need to take to hit that next financial level of yours, maybe it's 2k, 5k, 10K or 30K.Everything is going well, but you start slacking here and there 👀 Needle moving activity habits start to slip and eventually, you find yourself avoiding talking about your services, not showing up on stories as much, not creating content... Then you start beating yourself up and wonder: “Why can’t I just stay consistent? What’s wrong with me?” Let's make this clear - there’s NOTHING wrong with you!95% of your actions and behaviors come from your hardwired subconscious. That means that 95% of the things you do in your business are held back by your money beliefs 💸That’s why in today’s podcast episode, we will unpack your money story! I will show you how to create safety around bringing more money into your life and share with you the actions you need to take so you can call in the MASSIVE wealth you deserve! 🤩Topics covered on Financial Up Level:The reason why your next financial uplevel isn’t happening right nowWhat is stopping you from achieving your financial goalsHow did I develop limiting beliefs around money when I was a kid What money-limiting beliefs held me back from smashing my 2022 financial goalsQuestions to start asking yourself to unpick your money storyWhat actions do you need to take so you can feel safe to attract massive wealth to your lifeHow did I help my 1:1 client to quadruple her recurring revenueCalling in opportunities through the insane power of visualizationWhy is neutrality with money importantHow to become more neutral with your money and step into the higher version of yourselfRelated Episodes:Episode 105: What to do when HUGE success feels too far awayConnect with Bec:Apply to work with meLet’s connect on Instagram baby! @_rebeccahaydon_Follow me on Facebook: Rebecca Haydon – Mindset Coach & HypnotistCatch me on YouTube: Rebecca HaydonMore about Higher Self & I:Higher Self A & I is the podcast for ambitious female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve and sustain mind-blowing results in their biz. It’s a show that will release you of your victim mindset and give you complete freedom and energy to jump into the self you always knew you could be. Each week, Rebecca Haydon will help you lock your mindset into gear and empower you to step into the person you always knew you were meant to be – a bad-ass CEO who is here to claim her freaking millionaire life!PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 105105. What to do when HUGE success feels too far away
You’re strapped in, what feels like a rollercoaster some days, when you’re on a high- my gosh beauty, you’re feeling on top of the world, but when you’re feeling low, there is nothing in the world that can shake that feeling. You start to spiral. Quickly. Logic has abandoned you and you are sitting at your desk, with the light from your computer blaring at you as you once again are left feeling defeated at 10pm.The thoughts that plague your mind are:Why is this working for everyone else (including my clients) but not me?What is it that I’m missing?Is it my content? Is my content really working?Is it a lack of consistency?Surely…it can’t be that people just don’t really vibe with me?In today's podcast episode I talk through how to create safety in your juicy business goals, how to train your subconscious to make your juicy business goal feel safe and how you can then research engineer the process for ultimate success. Topics covered on Huge Success:Looking at creating safety around the goals you are setting. What bad things are you believing is going to happen when you reach your goal?What subconsciously happens when you don't believe in your goalsHow to enjoy the journey rather than the destinationHow to train the brain to follow through with actionA quirky, yet effective exercise to help keep you accountable and follow throughHow to rewire a stubborn neural pathway that keeps getting in the way of your successThe tools and the mindset techniques to help you bust the belief and your lack of trustHow to make the next level feel safe, no matter how high you climbApply to work with me: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/workwithmeConnect with me on Instagram: @_rebeccahaydon_Head to the Show Notes: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 104104. Daily Tasks I Do to Shift My Identity as a CEO
EHello lovely lady and welcome to Higher Self and I!It wasn’t until I started working on shifting my identity in both business and life that I started to see the dream come to life. It’s hard work, but it makes a world of difference. The identity of an empowering and successful business owner doesn’t happen overnight. You need to do a lot more consistent work than: One session, one journaling sit down, one subconscious breakthrough.It comes from the consistent awareness of self and how you want to show up in the world.So, today I share with you three incredible exercises that I used to truly step into my CEO self over 2022. Ultimately, when you close your eyes and visualise your future self- heck- your dream self, who do you wish to be?If there is currently a mismatch, then beauty you got to do some identity work to create flow. In practical terms. In order to attract your dreamiest client, you need to be showing up as your dreamiest self. When we are misaligned, that is when our potential clients aren’t quite sure of who we are and how we can help. We need to make this crystal clear for them because that is likely the reason you are not stepping into the next level of business because you don’t have that belief and flow of constant clients wanting to work with you.Topics covered on Shifting CEO Identity:How to start working on your CEO identity. The 6 logical levels I use to take my 1:1 clients through for embedded identity shifts How I have used organisation in my business to fully embrace more wealth and clients coming in. How organising my money allowed me to be a better money manager. Who is the CEO of your business and how she is organised within her business. The mindset work I have done to shift my CEO identity, and holding the wealth I have created this year. How to shift your beliefs to support the CEO you want to be - a journal prompt exercise. The beliefs I moved into and the beliefs I left behind.The routines I have created around my CEO daily tasks. Apply to work with me: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/workwithmeConnect with me on Instagram: @_rebeccahaydon_Head to the Show Notes: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 103103. Client Success Story: How to Turn the Instant Switch That Takes You From Chronic Procrastinator to a Major Powerhouse with Jennifer Olsson
EHow my client Jennifer Olsson, a major powerhouse went from a chronic procrastinator to pulling the instant switch on consistent high-converting clients and growth that she deems “absolutely insane”.If you struggle with practicing what you preach, this is the episode for you to start aligning your actions with your big-picture thinking. We dial in on exactly how Jennifer got to where she is and uncover the secret to her success, the key player that is her mindset, and the support she had to push her into the realm she wanted to identify in. Apply to work with me: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/workwithmeConnect with me on Instagram: @_rebeccahaydon_Head to the Show Notes: www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 102102. Keep breaking your business promises? Listen to this
Sign up for TRUST, The Masterclass: https://rebeccahaydon.thrivecart.com/trust-the-masterclass/From breaking business promises to taking action and following through. This episode is going to kick your butt into gear so that you can trust yourself to create the CEO life you have always wanted.In today’s episode we turn up the heat and it gets realllll spicy, as I whip you out of that big ol’confusion cloud and rain down on your parade in the best way possible with journal prompts, hard-hitting questions, and an exercise that will help you follow through, always!Apply to work with me: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/workwithmeConnect with me on Instagram: @_rebeccahaydon_Head to the Show Notes: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/business-promisesPS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 101101. Are you a reassurance-seeker? 5 Things That Happen When You Trust Yourself in Business
EAre you a reassurance-seeker? Deep down you know the answer. Even if it's not something you'd like to admit. Our CEO self definitely would not be. She would have it all under control, her way or the highway, she would leap and think later. You and I both know that you can not build the business you long for by holding out on the trust department. Your CEO self (the one you yearn to be) is not a reassurance seeker, they stand strong in their decision, they stand strong in themselves and this comes from an unwavering TRUST they have in themselves. And THAT beauty is what we are going to tap into in today’s episode! Are you ready to step into this space?Apply to work with me: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/workwithmeConnect with me on Instagram: @_rebeccahaydon_Head to the Show Notes: www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcastPS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 100100. Hitting 250K, Choosing a Break Up and Moving Back to the Other Side of the World
EToday, I am dropping the juice on how I hit 250K whilst going for the wildest, bumpiest ride of my life. This journey has taught me many things about myself, and how I want to show up for you, and takes me right back to why I started it all. If you’re ready for an earful of motivation to play it bigger, take your time to shine, put yourself first (no matter what it takes), and of course, be ready to listen to what has happened to me over the last couple of months. Well, beauty, I’m ready to bare all. So buckle up!To celebrate the great rebrand of Rebecca 2.0, I want to celebrate with you by giving away three juicy prizes to three lucky winners. To enter simply follow the podcast, give us a rating and write a review on Apple Podcasts. Then, take a screenshot of your review and send it to me on Instagram as a DM @_rebeccahaydon_ or via email at [email protected]. For a BONUS entry, take a screenshot of this episode (Episode 100), share it on your Instagram Stories & tag me! The prizes are: 5-minute 1:1 Session with me£100 sent straight to your bank account £50 pound Amazon Gift Card. Giveaway closes Tuesday, 15th November 2022. Winners will be announced on my Instagram Stories on Wednesday, 16th November 2022!APPLY TO WORK WITH WITH ME: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/workwithmeCONNECT WITH ME ON INSTAGRAM: @_rebeccahaydon_

Ep 9999. Stepping into the Next Level Business Owner: My 5 Mindset Techniques I Use Through the Up Levels
Grab your Higher Self Visibility Hack: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/higherself Don’t settle for less. Ever. If you take anything away from this episode is that for you to step into the next level of business owner that you and your clients are waiting for, you need to abandon all of your current thoughts, feelings, actions, and behaviour that keep you stuck in your current reality. What is the point? It’s never going to happen for you, right? Why? Sorry to serve you a truth bomb, beauty but you are coming from a place of lack which stops you from moving forward in your life and in your business. But that is okay because in this episode I share with you my five mindset techniques to move through the up levels and feel safe when doing so. You will rewire those neural pathways and go from “How can I be AS IF, if I don’t have *insert your desire here*’” to jumping all in with conviction and feeling that you do deserve whatever it is that your heart desires. Ready to learn how to step out of your current reality, collapse time, and move into the next reality as a next-level business owner? Get your journals out, this is going to be juicy! In today’s episode we chat about: - My experience of being stuck in my current reality and how I move through it - My thoughts about overnight success - My 5 mindset techniques I use through the up levels - How to ensure you are on the path of least resistance - The external vs the internal and which is the most important for your success - What the Higher Self Mind Map is all about and how it has helped me in all aspects of life - A quick visualization exercise to get clear on what your next level version of you looks like - How to flag a limiting belief - Journal prompts to work through the limiting belief and to create safety about feeling that you deserve whatever you want - What you need to tap into to see the results - The biggest thing I did to get where I am today APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH ME: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/1-1-coaching HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode99 PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9898. REPLAY: Anything That Changes You Needs To Be Done Consistently
Living in this day and age, it's becoming a lot easier to step into wanting things done instantly. Social media, technology, and societal norms have led us to believe that this is normal. However, when it comes to creating change in your life, the tortoise always wins the race. This doesn’t mean that it will take years to create change and achieve your goals, but adopting the mentality that what we do frequently really affects our frequency will help set the tone and get you stepping into your higher self before you know it! Consistency is more than just a buzzword. It is the key that unlocks many doors for you. In this episode, I take you on a guided tour of how to make the most powerful changes to your career, your health, and your life! You can use these tools and techniques to tap into who you really want to be. I will take you from making a goal one day and within a week or two allowing yourself to get complacent or forget about it altogether. Instead, let’s learn how to create the path of least resistance so that you can show up consistently and step into your power like never before! In today’s episode we chat about: - The common mistake when it comes to creating goals - How long it takeS for my clients to see powerful result - The obstacles you will face when you are stepping into your higher self - How to create the path of least resistance when it comes to change - How to create consistency on social media - How to reach big money months and sign consistent clients - I guide you through a visualisation exercise to tap into the thoughts, feelings, and behaviour that will create that consistency you crave for, now - What break state means and how we use it to push through your mental blocks - How the ego can create self-sabotage - How to listen in and be aware of how you feel and think when you're aiming to achieve your goals APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH ME: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/1-1-coaching HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode98 PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9797. Client Success Story: How to Stop the Self-Sabotage Cycle and Embrace Your Self Worth with Peppi Hearne
ESelf-sabotage! Ahhh, the toxic companion that used to wreak havoc on my clients. It’s the moment when you are about to make that leap that will propel you into your higher self and then all of sudden you come to a massive halt. The good thing is; that it doesn’t have to be this way. Say bye byeee to self-sabotage and hello gorgeous, to your newfound self-worth. Ready to step up, out of the shadows, and become the main character in your story?Meet Peppi Hearne, a qualified Nutritionist with a degree in Exercise Science and a Post Graduate Certificate in Human Nutrition. Peppi specialises in helping her clients on their weight loss journey through her one-on-one coaching philosophy to enact change. This busy mum of three and artist in the kitchen tells her journey from the moment she stopped her self-sabotage snowballing into something bigger to leaping into what she feared and not thinking twice about it. Listen to this episode to find out how you too can experience the same penny drop moment. In Peppi’s words, “It’s really not as scary as I make it out to be!” You too, can stop letting others' opinions define you and live the reality of your dreams!In today’s episode we chat about:- How Peppi’s self-sabotage would tear down her lifelong dream to open up a nutrition clinic and keep her from losing the kilos she wanted to shed- The defining factors of a breakthrough and how to create your own- How to reframe your mindset to build confidence in showing up- What was Peppi’s breakthrough to stop her own self-sabotage- The magic that is living in the As If- Insight into my tools and techniques with my clients- The amazing transformation of Peppi’s mindset now; from being nervous to put her face on camera to not thinking twice about it- The difference between the impactful words, what if and the as if- How Peppi was happily forced to launch her business two weeks in advance because she signed a client and how she continues to sign consistent clients- Peppi describes the feeling now that she is living in her dream reality- Peppi’s upcoming goals for the next twelve months in her businessHEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode97PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me.And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9696. When Are You Going to Let Go of Your 'Struggling Business Owner' Story? and Stand in the Authority Through Your Content
APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH ME Have you ever felt so comfortable with being miserable? I used to be just like you, my guilty pleasure was actively searching for people who were in my space and truly smashing it. This would make me feel very sorry for myself and I became addicted to the struggle and the struggling business owner story because it felt a lot easier to be here and blame the external than to put in the effort to make the changes needed from within so I could go full force into that CEO mindset and actually be fricken happy every single day. If you are currently asking yourself constantly, “This is never going to happen for me.” “I am never going to be able to achieve what I desire” then I’m here to show you the way I got through it myself. We can throw away our victim mindset and instead learn how to get out of that current reality, how to create our new success story, and adopt the tangible actions that will allow us to shed our limiting beliefs and go after the life we’ve always dreamed of! You’ve got this beauty! And remember there is no first place in the entrepreneur space so hold your space in the most powerful way I know you can! In today’s episode we chat about: - The lowest moment in my life and my mental health journey - The patterns that I played from struggling actor to struggling business owner - How we get stuck in the victim mindset and why we think the victim mindset is safer - How I tackled my addiction with the struggling business owner mindset - What happens when you live in that struggling business owner's energy - What every business owner will still struggle with whether they are starting out or a high-brow coach - How to find your patterns in order to move through them - Prompts about what behaviours to stop in order to reach your higher self - What my limiting beliefs used to be and how they are now - Tips on what to do when you feel triggered - The difference between coming from a place of empowerment rather than a place of lack - How to rewrite your story on a cellular level - Why I truly started my business HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode96 PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me.

Ep 9595. How Vulnerability Signs Me Clients
Join The Content Bible: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/contentbible As humans, we naturally gravitate towards those who we connect with. Showing your vulnerability online is one key way to building that connection because it bridges the gap between you and your ideal clients. Think about it, if all I did online were to show up saying things were peaches and cream, how relatable would that really be? You’re not perfect, your not untouchable and most of all it makes you human! So how do I use my vulnerability to sign me clients? In this episode, I’ll be reassuring you that showing your vulnerable side doesn’t make you weak; showing your signature stories can play a huge part in conversion. Learn the easy way that I share my vulnerability and I step you through the exact timing I share this particular content to create the most impact. Get ready for some juicy goodness that will help you help your ideal clients connect with you on a more personal level and in turn sign on with you because you “get them”. This is your little push to share vulnerable content to create that connection…are you ready? In today’s episode we chat about: - The surprising feedback I received at the recent Nashville mastermind - How to add vulnerability into your content strategy - A sneak peek at next week’s episode which is all about sharing my struggling coach story - How being in the UK feels and why I have been slightly freaking out… - The importance of having vulnerability in your content - Behind the curtain of coaching my clients and how I connect with them - When the best time is to share your vulnerable content and when you should just hit pause - How to transform your darkest moments into empowerment to help your clients and community - Content prompts to use when planning out your vulnerable content - What format and inspiration makes the best fricken vulnerable content that creates that connection your ideal client craves HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode95 PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9494. Embodiment is my Strongest Content Pillar
Sign up to the Embodied Blueprint Masterclass: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/embodimentmasterclass Join my new group program, The Content Bible: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/contentbible We can work from anywhere, we can even record this very podcast from across the world and better yet, we can create content from anywhere! However, creating content isn’t as easy as it sounds. I know, I’ve been there, looking blankly at the screen wondering what earth should I say and most importantly how on earth do I say it. Introducing…Content Pillars! In this episode I dig deep and share what truly made my business BOOM! You will learn what that pivotal point for me was, from scrounging to make rent to being able to travel across the world and make money whilst doing it! You won’t hear the words, “Fake it till you make it.” No siree, the art of embodiment is so powerful, and you beauty, are going to learn from mindset to strategy how to utilise this specific content pillar to make wonders for your business! Are you ready to step into the business owner you dream to be and embody the AS IF when showing up online? In today’s episode we chat about: - The two steps that you need to create embodied content - A content creation exercise to help you understand the ins and outs of your ideal client on a micro level - My story on when I started to sign consistent clients and what had changed in order to do so - The biggest thing that my clients absolutely crave - How investing time in creating embodied content can create quicker quantum leaps for you and your business and how to really step into your CEO mindset - What every entrepreneur has to be ready for when they commit to their journey - How we can start putting embodying into our content rather than relying on education - What the Embodied Blueprint Masterclass is all about - Why embodied content is so powerful and the best platform to create embodied content that performs well - Sneak peek into the Content Bible launch HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode94 PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9393. Client Success Story: Claiming Your Self-Worth and Go Full-Time in Your Business with Nathalie Alvarado
EAPPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH MEAre you constantly feeling you are not worthy of charging those higher prices? That you aren’t worthy of receiving those high-ticket clients? Sound familiar? Improving your self-worth is a huge mindset shift that can have a significant effect on your business success. But you don’t believe you are worth those higher prices so you never charge what you’re truly worth.Today, I’m bringing onto the show one of my gorgeous clients, Nathalie Alvarado who went through this exact experience. Nathalie is a Marketing & Sales Coach focusing on helping visionary coaches and service providers clarify their message and elevate their magnetism to attract aligned High Ticket clients on repeat and sell their offers with confidence. We take you through her transformational journey into how she truly stepped into her self-worth and self-love which in turn magnetized her power, her messaging, her offers and oh yes, grew her bank account! We also take a glimpse at how she confidently left her 9-5 job and go full-time in her business. In today’s episode we chat about:- Being lost in the victim mindset while pivoting niches- Dealing with imposter syndrome and the effects it had on her ability to show up online- Nathalie’s biggest mindset shift and how she broke out of this rooted belief- Confidently showing up in her authenticity online to discover her true message and attract her soulmate clients - Her evolution into moving towards becoming a powerful leader & stepping into the new-level coach she desired to be- Embodying her self-worth and self-love to receive aligned clients, have a consistent income and quit her full-time job- How her business and life have transformed into what it is today- How Nathalie helps coaches clarify their message and attract clients through authentic marketing and confident sales- Becoming energetically available to step up as that coach who charges high-ticket prices HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode93PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me.And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9292. Client Success Story: The Profound Power of Setting Boundaries to Unlock Your CEO Mindset with Adaire Smithwick
EAPPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH MEDoes this ring a bell? You jumped into being an entrepreneur with rose-tinted glasses and a bubble of positivity to only have it popped right in front of you as you spiral under the weight of working through burnout and no boundaries. You’re at rock bottom, or so you think as you struggle to step into this new identity as CEO with two tonnes of Imposter Syndrome weighing down on your shoulders…You’re run down, deflated, and not sure which way is up. This is a story that Adaire Smithwick knew all too well until she started working with me. Adaire is the founder, and CEO of Eleventh House Co, a holistic marketing agency putting community at the centre and she is also on the way to graduating as a hypnotherapist. In this juicy episode, we dive into how she transformed herself from rock bottom to fully embracing her new identity to step into her higher self. In today’s episode we chat about:- Adaire talks through how within three sessions she shifted her business and mindset completely- The two uplevels Adaire has experienced within only 6 months and how it can be a bag of mixed emotions at the beginning- Simple boundaries to put in place in your business - The first thing to do to step into the CEO mindset- The slippery slope of external validation- What the domino effect means when it comes to mindset work- The biggest lesson Adaire has learned recently with subconscious work- How habitual thoughts can be the thing keeping you from breaking your neural pathways- Breaking through the upper limits and what that looks like for a client- All about Adaire’s holistic marketing agency, Eleventh House, and their focus on community-led marketing- Adaire’s future social media marketing insights and how brands and influencers can really stand out online- Adaire shares her quick wins on how you can start building a community online, today!HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode92PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me.And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!

Ep 9191. How I Made INCONSISTENT Clients a Thing of the Past
APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING WITH ME Remember that feeling bubbling inside when you signed your very first client? Remember the mixture of excitement, awe, and absolute shock…to only be met with some major dread and fear not too long after? What now? Where is the next one? I’m sure you know the feeling of seeing the 20th of the month creep up and feeling gutted that you haven’t signed another client. Then one month would go by, maybe two, and wondering when will inconsistent clients become a thing of the past! And it really can be! Buckle up because in this episode I dive into what is keeping you in the inconsistent client bucket and how you can make your way out and never question yourself or the health of your business again. The question is, are you ready to apply the magic step that got me from where I was to hitting big money months? I sure hope so! In today’s episode we chat about: - Reflecting on my journey from the very start to where I am now - How to reach the big money months - How to step into the person you want to be NOW - What is stopping you from being your higher self - How to quantum leap and reach the next level of success - How to tap into the feelings of what it looks like to quantum shift into your new reality - A visualization guiding you on how to create the feeling of your success without the external - The magic step to getting consistent clients - The tips on how to embody the authority and message to attract your ideal client - The difference major between consistency with no direction and curating your targeted messaging consistently PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode91

Ep 9090. Client Success Story: Overcoming Your Victim Mindset and Reframing the Stories That Keeps You Playing it Small with Megan Rose
EAre you laying around in a funk, feeling sorry for yourself, and wondering why everyone else is “overtaking” you? A bit targeted? In today’s episode, we take a peep into Megan Rose who helps coaches master their mindset and energy + activate their unique gifts so they can AMPLIFY their magnetism and sign consistent clients without convincing energy. This gorgeous mumma takes us on the journey from being constantly overwhelmed and lost to signing consistent clients with a bub on the way! Need someone to call you out? Get ready because we are going to help you to get out of your own way, quit playing it small, and feel empowered to step into your power and really go for that dream life you want!In this episode we cover:- Megan’s struggle story and how she rose out of her funk- The turning point for Megan that took her rock bottom to signing consistent clients- Megan’s biggest mindset and energy shift - How to work with both feminine flow and masculine structure harmoniously- How motherhood was the best thing to happen for her business- How we keep leveling up even when battling the mindset wobbles- The importance of bounce-back ability and the edge it gives to entrepreneurs - Interviewing Megan on her business as a Mindset and Energy Coach- The transformations Megan gets to witness with her clients- Megan’s tips on how to find your power when you’re feeling stuckPS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me.And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now!HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode90

Ep 8989. What are the First Words that Come to Mind When You Think About Converting Ideal Clients Through VISIBILITY?
Are you confident enough to yell out to the world… “Hello World! This is me!” or does the sheer thought trigger your anxiety. Showing up and being visible isn’t a natural skill that everyone is born with. In today’s episode, we melt away the pressure we put on ourselves to be a content creator goddess and instead dive deep into our ideal client and what attracts them to sign with us. Instead of standing in your way for fear of judgment, own up and know that this is not your zone of genius. I’m thrilled to say with the right support, guidance and resources you can be well on your way to signing consistent clients through the art of visibility! In today’s episode we chat about: - The key phrases that my clients spout day in and day out which stops them from taking action and feeling like visibility could be part of their strategy - How to reframe your embarrassment into an opportunity to learn and upskill - How I will help you sign clients consistently - My top tips to get you started in converting through your visibility - The best way to hook your clients in really understand how to talk to your ideal client - Prompts to help you dig deep into your client avatar so you know exactly how to speak to them and what to speak to them about - Why the transformation is so important to share with your ideal client - How to make your ideal client feel seen and heard so that they can connect with you on a deeper level. PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode89

Ep 8888. So You Are Feeling Like Most of Your Content is Educational?
Today, I’m opening the floor to talk about educational content, when we should be doing it and why we shouldn’t be doing it all the time. Yes, you read that right my dear! While there’s certainly a place for content that is educational if you’re churning this content day in and day out, your ideal clients may not feel the need to invest in you! So, you’re going to want to grab your journal and a pen or open the notes app in your phone for this episode because I’m going to give you a bunch of prompts that will help you nail the right split for your content strategy and convert your ideal clients to take you on their transformational journey. These methods are a powerful way to move your client forwards, into your DMs and into your Zoom calls. Let’s scrap the “3 Ways to Do XYZ” content and use this new approach in your content strategy. In today’s episode we chat about: - Why your ideal clients won’t convert when too much of your content is educational - When your content should be educational - Elements to implement in your content strategy - Mindset hacks to reinvigorate your educational content - Speaking to your ideal clients’ desires and getting so clear on what they want - How to nurture your audience through problem awareness - Journal prompts and questions to help you move away from educational content PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode88

Ep 8787. Here's Why You Feel You Are Showing Up But No One Is Listening
JOIN VISIBILITY QUEEN: For presale information for Visibility Queen send me a DM over on Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ Hello? Is anyone there? You might be asking this question as you send yet another social media post into the Universe with little to no engagement. You’ve been a busy bee ticking every box under the sun when it comes to showing up online. You’re posting regularly on social media, you’re showing your face, you’re promoting your services in the mix and you’ve spent A LOT of time on this… and yet, it feels like no one is listening. You’re getting tumbleweeds. I’m going to show you how to get in the right mindset so you can start showing up and implement some strategies to get your ideal clients to start noticing. In today’s episode we chat about: - How to reframe the way you’re showing up to maximize conversions - Knowing your ideal clients and truly speaking to them through your content - Getting in tune with your feelings and bringing those vibrations up, up, up! - Unlocking your belief system so you can catapult to the next level - Educating your audience in a more connective way and avoiding the fluff PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode87

Ep 8686. “The Only Thing Standing in the Way of My Success is Myself”: How to Get Out of Your Own Way to Create the Business of Your Dreams
It’s time to get out of your own way to truly step into the reality you’ve always dreamed of. Have you ever asked yourself questions like “Why aren’t I getting anywhere or taking action right now?” Don’t worry, you’re not alone! We’ve all been there before, but what I’m sharing with you today is absolute fire! I’m going to guide you through why we tend to get stuck in our own heads and how to get above it and move forward. I’ll share my three wee little secrets on how you can get out of your own way and create the business of your dreams. We’re going to get you on the path of alignment, so your actions, thoughts and behaviours match the level of success you are striving for in your life. In today’s episode we chat about: - How to get out of your own way in three simple steps - Becoming unbelievably aware of what you want to achieve - How you can create change through awareness - Getting crystal clear on your intentions - Becoming curious about your emotions and beliefs - Focusing on your own feelings instead of the external - A visualization practice to tap into your feelings so you can start aligning with your desires and raise your vibration PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode86

Ep 8585. Struggling to Follow Through Consistently When it Comes to Showing Up In Your Power Online
Like all fleeting moments, motivation comes and goes. So, how do we show up in our power online consistently to be there for our community and attract clients with ease? By doing the work! Want to know a secret? Consistency is not your issue. The real issue is battling your limiting beliefs and realising that this skill is not going to happen overnight. Ready to find out what is standing in your way to showing up powerfully online? Today we dive into how you can really start to create that attraction through visibility in showing up consistently online. I share exercises to help you understand how important this aspect of business really is for your success. Your clients and leads shouldn’t have to miss out on the impact, knowledge and your mission because of the limiting beliefs that are standing in your way. It’s time to break the barriers once and for all, so you can step into your power and start showing up consistently online in a way that aligns with you. Today we chat about: - The two key elements that you will need to hold you in that consistency - The main question my clients ask me about showing up online - The part consistency plays in fostering the know, like, and trust factor - The three major ways I see people fall off the bandwagon when it comes to showing up online - What is the biggest limiting belief when it comes to showing up in your power online - Exercises to help you rewrite your subconscious and gain the confidence you will need - How I became consistent to create the success that I have and how you can set yourself up for success too! Book a 1:1 Content Conversion Intensive with me PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode85

Ep 8484. Client Success Story: How to Overcome Your Mindset Blocks to Scale Your Online Business with Justine Dolores
EEntrepreneurship isn’t always smooth sailing. It is very up and down and has its ebbs and flows. So how do you deal with the different seasons and all those mindset blocks of running your own business? I’m chatting with my gorgeous client and my very own Podcast Manager, Justine Dolores on how she went all in with investing into her mindset so that she could push past those nasty mindset blocks that come with entrepreneurship. Justine shares her story, her beautiful inner transformation from where she was to where she is now and how her business has accelerated in the past year since we’ve been working together. We also dive into the powerful world of podcasting, how it can help grow your business and the first steps to take if you’ve been on the fence about starting a podcast of your own.In today’s episode we chat about:- Dealing with imposter syndrome and the tools you can use to help bounce back from challenging times- Techniques to help you gain the confidence to show up on Instagram Stories to become a client magnet attractor- How Justine gained consistent clients through Instagram - Why building a team of support will allow you to step into that CEO power- Why a podcast can be a powerful tool for growing your business - Ways to amplify your podcast for lead generation- How to know what content to be creating for your podcast- What first steps to take when starting your podcastPS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me.And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/episode84

Ep 8383. You Don't Have A Sales Problem, You Have A Leads Problem
Are you ready to be so MAGNETIZING that you attract new clients who are ready to pay you every single day? Join the Attraction Marketing Magic: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/amm/ Are you crystal clear on the process that your leads follow and the actions that you have taken and implemented to foster the know, like and trust factor? If the answer is no, then you don’t have a sales problem, you have a leads problem! In today’s episode, we are taking a beautiful deep-dive into your leads problem and how to create epic strategies that will attract your ideal client and get them to take the leap to book with you! With these four very juicy tactics you can stop guessing where or when your next lead will show themselves but with this guide to help you create your very own lead strategy, you can serve those who have taken an interest in you and your program with ease. In today’s episode we chat about: - My main message on how to attract leads - How to create an effective leads strategy versus the same old guessing game - How to open the doors for authentic permission-based conversations - The one easy tool that so many coaches forget to test when it comes to the leads process - The power of the follow-up! - Journal prompts to truly become the client attraction magnet you desire. PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/leads-problem/

Ep 8282. From Desperate Energy to $95K in Q1
A scarcity mindset is what desperate energy thrives on and without being aware of it, you will come to find more and more of your community not being able to connect with the real you - the you who wants to help them gain success in their endeavors! In today’s episode, we are meandering through my version of a whistle-stop tour of how I went from feeling like a desperate energy coach to buzzing in abundance as I hit 95K in Q1 of 2022. I’ll take you through my journey of Q1 - the good, the bad and the ugly and what I had learned along the way. By taking on what I have learned, you too, can implement the attraction marketing strategy and mindset shifts that got me to a place that I can go into full-on teacher mode and educate you on what to look out for, how to become more self-aware and how to find the patterns so you can create a strategy where you are no longer wondering… "when is my next client going to sign." In today's episode we chat about: - Releasing the pressure from your launch to truly enjoy the process and show up in your best energy - The major difference in energy shift from January 2021 to January 2022 - The mindset tactics I used to work on myself - My biggest investment in my business yet! - How to find how much space you can hold for your clients - Accepting help will open up doors for new opportunities - How this newfound abundance dredged up some old money-management habits and beliefs and how I overcame that - Journal prompts to guide you to epic expansion and stepping into your higher self every single day PS: Are you loving the podcast? It would mean the world if you could rate and review the podcast. This helps spread the word of the show to other ambitious female entrepreneurs just like you. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to tag me on your Instagram @_rebeccahaydon_ or send your review to [email protected] for your chance to get a FREE 30 Minute 1:1 session with me. And, if you haven’t done so already, follow the show so you don’t miss out on any new, plus juicy bonus episodes. Follow now! HEAD TO THE SHOW NOTES: https://www.rebeccahaydon.com/desperate-energy/