The Powerful Man Show

Episode #281 Do you ask your wife first when making any big decision where money is involved? A lot of men are like that. And sadly, for some men, even if they really want to invest in improving themselves, they become hesitant to do so, because they think it would create a heated discussion within their relationship. In this episode, hear what Tim and Doug have to say about this and learn some tips on how you can convince your wife to support you in investing in your personal growth. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #280 Are there any areas in your life where you feel like you're not doing as well as you could? Perhaps an area where you feel shame? Most men we work with have shame deeply rooted in major areas of their life like their business, their relationships, and their health. The sneaky thing with shame is that it STOPS us from taking action. It STOPS us from making the changes that we want. And it KEEPS us in this cycle of being where we say we don't want to be…. What if there was a way to OVERCOME this shame? In today's episode, we give you a quick way to overcome shame, opening the door to massive transformation. Take action in the areas of your life you SAY you want to change. Give it a listen and let us know what you think! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #279 Do you know what the #1 most important thing is to a woman? Is it respect, safety, desire...or is it affection? Emotional safety is the most important aspect of a relationship for women. Women want to be provided for emotionally. That's what will make them feel safe in themselves, and in their environment. There can be no desire without emotional safety. And it must come first. In this episode, the #1 most important aspect of a relationship for a woman, and how you can make your partner feel that she's being provided for emotionally. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #278 Are you constantly struggling to meet your goals? Always trying to figure out how to make enough money each month? In today's episode, Doug walks us through an exercise he uses with the men in The Brotherhood that has helped them achieve their 6-month goals in just ONE. All we ask is that you approach this exercise with an open heart, an open mind, and a willingness to do the work. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #277 Does your wife seem uninterested in you? Where are you at in terms of fixing her complaints about your relationship? You always thought that you'd have the time to fix the problems in your marriage...that's why you keep on prioritizing other things over your relationship. It's not how much money you make, it's the emotional connection that's important to women. If it's lost, that's when she'll start seeking it from other men. Start prioritizing your relationship. While you still have the time and the chance to fix it. Do it now. Do something differently before it's too late...before you lose everything that is important to you. In this episode, you'll meet Chris Loch. We'll talk about how important it is to fix the problems in your marriage early, and how to rebuild that emotional connection with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #276 When was the last time your wife came to you, asking about your day, flirting with you, or being very intimate with you? The more you keep your focus inward, the more your wife will be coming on to you. The more you work on yourself, the less you care about the external. That's when you really get more. Work on your inner game, keep leveling up...you'll become more and more attractive to your wife every day. In this episode, you will learn the importance of investing in your own growth. Focus on your inward self and how it will change your relationship with your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

What level are you in your relationship? What is your model when it comes to marriage? There are 3 levels to a relationship. Level 3 means your marriage is outstanding. Both of you are playing full out in the relationship. Both parties are completely transparent in everything, and love permeates every day of your lives together. Level 2 means things are just fine. An average relationship when compared to others. Level 1 means things aren't working. Both of you are considering options...or divorce. Level 1 is the danger zone. The wife is not satisfied, the husband is not satisfied, and that dissatisfaction is showing up in your everyday lives. There's no love in the relationship. In this episode, we talk about the importance of acknowledging what level you're at. If you're on level two or one, it's time to do something. Find out how to take massive action to get out of those levels, and more about the tools you need in order to identify your blind spots. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #274 Does your business keep you busy all the time? Do you have trouble "switching off" after work? What's your decompression routine? In martial arts, when leaving a dojo, bowing signifies that you're transitioning from your fight-energy into a different mode. In your business, it can mean you're leaving the work-energy behind to embrace what comes next. Increasing the transition time is really important to avoid dramatic changes in your energy. You need time to relax, change your persona, and leave the work-energy behind. In this episode, we'll talk about how to best decompress and the importance of transition time when it comes to decompression. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #273 Who are your 2 AM friends? Are you someone else's 2 AM friend? We've all had that friend who you can call in your most difficult times and would pick up the phone no matter what. They've always got your back. Hold onto these people. At the same time, as a tree needs some leaves to be removed in order to grow, we must make sure that some people are allowed to fall out of our lives. Spend your time and energy with the people who most contribute to your growth. It's important to distinguish who your real 2 AM friends are. Find friends who are as stable as the roots of a tree. Water that relationship and nurture it. And always strive to be that 2 AM friend you want for yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #272 Are you confident about your decisions? Are you insecure and worried about not getting approval from your wife? Unknowingly, men can become the beta in the relationship, especially when women start to make demands or test their partner. Men become more submissive. This is when the DEER appears: Defending, Excusing, Explaining, and Rationalizing. You only do that with someone you are subordinate to. If a man can effectively validate his wife, complaints will become a lot less frequent because she already feels seen and heard. There's no need for the DEER, just live your own passion, and follow your purpose. In this episode, you will learn how to get rid of the DEER in the relationship, and more about the importance of validation in lessening complaints from your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #271 Success does not always mean having material things, making a lot of money, and getting that feeling of significance and respect from other people. Many financially successful people are unhappy because they became exhausted hustling and working hard thinking that these things will make them happy. There are so many rules in place that are holding them back and that makes their life monotonous. The more money they make, the more they become unhappy because these rules take them farther away from the real essence of what it means to be a human being. This void cannot be filled with material things. Fill this void within by breaking the rules and giving yourself permission to experience spontaneous fun. People often feel the need to be busy all the time, thinking that having fun is a waste of time and money. They do not realize that sometimes, while having fun, more creative ideas pop up. If you bring fun and joy into more areas of your life, you will make a lot more progress. Do not allow your happiness to depend on anything or anyone. We don't need anything else outside ourselves to experience joy. We have the joy and fun inside us, we just need to learn to generate it and radiate it. In this episode, you will learn the importance of allowing yourself to experience spontaneous fun and incorporating fun into more areas of your life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #270 Are you living in excess? Are you beating yourself up too much? Learn more about your body. Refuse to accept something you don't want to accept. Go and try different approaches. See shifts occur. Reading a book is great, but without application, it's useless. When we see other people achieving great things, it really speaks to something that is innate within all of us - the desire to be great, and the desire to leave something great behind. Take the risk, get out of your comfort zone, be the man, and take the lead. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #269 How is your wife doing? Are you watching out for warning signs? Do you have a methodology to fix problems in your relationship, or to cure your wife's "migraine"? Identify the pattern and the method, and do something about it. This "migraine" causes distance and separation in the relationship. Learn the triggers and find ways to remove them. Help your wife to be better, step up, and cure her by activating the man that she married and addressing her complaints. In this episode, you will learn how to identify and address the causes of your wife's "migraine" and how you can cure it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #268 Women want to be led by a man who knows what he is doing and knows where he is going. Part of this comes from feeling secure with the person who's leading her. She needs to know that her partner is man enough to be a strong foundation for her and for their family. In order to become The Powerful Man that your wife needs, you should first recognize where you are now and know where you are going. You must define for yourself what it means to be a man and not rely on what society dictates to you. Know your potential and know what kind of man you are capable of becoming. Do not be afraid to step up and be a Powerful Man. Be a man who takes care of himself so that he can take care of his partner. To be a Powerful Man, you must be capable of leading your partner emotionally through your energy, time, attention, and strength. In order for you to lead, you must have a vision for your family. You should know what your desires are and where you want to go. If you have all of this, your partner will see you as a man and they can put their trust in you. They will feel more secure and loved. In this episode, learn what it means to be a Powerful Man, how to understand your potential, and how to lead your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #267 How do you check-in? How do you stay connected? We should keep checking in regularly on people that are important to us because people change day by day. Are you growing as a man? When was the last time you checked on your wife? When you start to feel that you're not engaged or feel that it's meaningless to share anymore, that's a sign that she's starting to lose the connection. As a man, take control of the check-in. Ask your wife how her day is going, or how she's feeling about your relationship. Be in control, but make sure to engage her in making the best out of the day. Be very conversational. Be playful and excited, asking open-ended questions, and get into her world by asking about her magic moments. In this episode, we take a deeper dive into the importance of doing one simple thing that most of us ignore: Checking in with your wife and your loved ones. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #266 Is your wife adding too much to your plate? What do you do when your wife is asking you to do so much? When you feel like your capacity is full, you tend to react quickly and differently. In this kind of situation, it is important to be firm with your boundaries and stand your ground. This will ground her in her femininity and allow her to surrender to your masculinity. Start a conversation with a curious tone. Make her feel seen and respected. Avoid being reactive and strive to understand where she's coming from. Get to the root of the real issue. In this episode, you will learn the importance of having a conversation with your partner without being reactive, and how to make your partner feel respected during that conversation while getting to the heart of the issue. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #265 When was the last time you looked at the stars or walked in the park? When is the last time you did something for yourself? Often guys feel guilty when they take time for themselves to fill their cup. They don't acknowledge the fact that letting themselves become empty makes them weak, and that's why they don't see the need for it. You must first honor the truth that you're weak and empty, and then do something about it. Fill your cup. Find opportunities to improve yourself, start simple. Go out and have some fun. Make an effort for the most important person in your life...yourself. If you do this often, everything from money to relationships becomes easier. Most importantly, you can bring your best self to every interaction you have. In this episode, let's reflect on ourselves. If you haven't done something for yourself in a few months, or years already, NOW is the time to give yourself a reward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #264 Are you having a hard time finding and connecting with men who are doing the work, like you? What conversations are you starting with people? If you're growing secretly or growing behind closed doors, obviously you will not meet anybody. They will not recognize you. There are tons of guys out there who are doing the work, you just have to show up and let them know that you exist. Exercise courage and take action. Stop complaining and just do what you know you know you should be doing. Show up and start the conversation. In this episode, find out more about how you can find men with the same interests and values as you and help yourself grow. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #263 Are things not going well in your relationship? What's your wife's primary complaint about you and the relationship? What actions have you taken to address this? Women often drop clues as they move through the marriage, you just have to notice them. Listen to her, and be a man to her, before it's too late. You need the proper tools to help you in the process of maintaining a healthy marriage. Relationships need courage; the courage to hear and know the truth. You may not like what you hear, but it's important to know where you stand in the relationship...and how to improve that standing. Build a connection with your wife, show affection and admiration. Develop the courage to take massive and necessary action. In this episode, we implore you to take the time to check yourself within your marriage, within your relationship. Save your marriage before it's too late. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #262 Are you getting the validation and significance at home that you desire? Will you be able to choose between business and your relationship with your wife? Why choose if you can have both? Men tend to spend most of their time at work because it's where they can demonstrate their control, exercise their power, and feel their significance. Unfortunately, this often leads to broken relationships at home. Men must work to rebuild the harmony in the relationship and learn to fulfill their wife's needs. Then she will see the man that you are. She will see your significance. In addition, you'll find that you can have more of what you want in your business. In this episode, learn more about how you can find your significance both in your workplace and at your home, rescuing your relationship from the brink of collapse. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #261 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she will not approve it? You're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It's okay to tell 'white' lies occasionally, but if you're doing it constantly...Houston, we have a problem. What kind of distance does it put in a relationship when you're constantly having to lie? It's different when you're trying to create mystery and intimacy in your relationship by not saying something. Like date nights, or if you're working hard to surprise her. However, if your intent is to just lie and to avoid getting into conflict, then there's a problem inside of you. In this episode, join Tim and Doug in discussing one of the most common problems in every relationship that most of us are facing. Stop being a LIAR. Don't fall into the trap of lying constantly because one way or another, it will create chaos in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #260 No matter how much money you have or how successful your business is…if you are not clear on who you want to be, you will still end up feeling empty. We become blinded by the norms set by society and end up following somebody else's guidance on how we should be living our lives instead of finding our own way. We end up striving for somebody else's ideas of what it means to be a man and have success. Until we determine our own definition of success and being a man, we will feel incomplete...like we are not good enough. We become trapped in this belief that when we have more money we can solve everything, and THEN we can be happy. We get to work, keeping ourselves busy making money, and end up losing our connection with our loved ones along the way. In this episode, we dive deep into HOW we can take control of our self-beliefs and shift them to create a happier and more fulfilling mindset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #259 Are you a certified coffee addict or an alcohol lover? Reducing the intake of caffeine and alcohol, or totally getting rid of both, could make a great impact on your life. Especially in terms of large decision-making and how you perform in your business. Being dependent on coffee & alcohol tends to make people more unstable and anxious all the time. It also reduces your alpha brainwaves that you need most when it comes to decision-making, especially for high-performing men. One way to increase your alpha brainwaves is by reducing your caffeine and alcohol intake. It will make you less anxious, more present, more centered, and you will achieve your flow state as a powerful man. It is difficult for most people to give up these two. But in order to do it, you can try using coffee and alcohol alternatives just to get the stimuli that you need. As a result, you will become more focused and in your flow state more often. In this episode, Doug shares his personal experience and journey with coffee & alcohol and why you might want to consider limiting your consumption. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #258 Is your wife or your partner getting enough sex from you? Or are you just getting it off from your phone or your computer? How do you know when you're consuming too much PORN? Why do you watch porn in the first place? How does it affect us, men, really? One of the things a lot of people don't think about porn is the inhibiting effects it brings to us. For a lot of guys, it becomes HABITUAL. It becomes what they do every night, every morning, every day, in the office, etc. It becomes a compulsive habit for them. And with that habit, like for any compulsion, you're always needing more. This oftentimes can cause issues with your partner. Because now, you're leaking energy outside of the relationship. EXCESSIVE porn creates a false reality about how relationships really are. A lot of men forget that porn is done by actors, who only act out peoples' fantasies rather than the realities. In this episode, we'll have a deeper discussion on the topic of PORN. And at the end of the podcast, ask yourself if you're consuming too much porn. Remember that too much of anything is bad. Don't let porn control you. Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #257 Do you feel like you're losing your masculinity? Here are 4 ways you can get it back, and increase your masculinity. 1. Physical Activity such as running, biking, swimming, and lifting weights helps you raise your testosterone levels and can make you push yourself beyond your normal boundaries. 2. Get Out Of Your Head & Get Into Your Body. Bang on your chest. Slap your faces. Do intense breathwork. Get inside your body. 3. Getting Primal. Surround yourself with other men. Be with your pack regularly, like having a weekly activity with them. Feed on each other's energy. 4. Getting Focused. Are you the type of man that starts on a project, then eventually dropped it? This signals your wife about what integrity you have. Be focused and finish what you've started. Want to know more about these four, and get four more? In this episode, you'll learn all about these eight ways to increase your masculinity, and be the better man that we wanted to be for ourselves, for our relationship, for our family, and for our society. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #256 How do you know when to STOP? When you're reading a book, at what point will you stop reading if you feel like it's not what you're expecting? If you're in a relationship, when are you going to stop doing things that are hurting your partner and your bond? If your business is failing, when should you quit? People are so used to living a life where they feel obligated to say 'yes' to things or self-sacrifice...not because they want to, but because they feel they have to. But most of us don't realize that there are deeper questions underlying this: Why are we doing these things in the first place? Are there patterns and behaviors shaping your life where you just continue to quit? In this episode, we're going to talk about how to identify the signs in your life that it may be time to stop...and make a change. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #255 Imagine one day, a man from a film crew suddenly appeared at your home and has to film your everyday life for a week. How would you change? How would you represent yourself? Would you behave differently? Every day, try to act as if you are being filmed. Be the man you want to represent, a man who walks the walk. A man who is living his purpose with passion and excitement. If you live that way every day, it will soon become your standard behavior. It will become your discipline, and you will soon realize that you are already representing yourself the way you want to be represented, without really changing anything. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #254 Are you complaining about your partner? Do you wish your partner would be nicer? Do you wish your partner to appreciate you more? Or do you wish your partner could be better at giving you pleasure? Maybe you should ask yourself first. Are you being the kind of partner that you want your partner to be? In other words, are you stepping to the line being that ideal partner? Are you treating your partner the way you want your partner to treat you? When we ask these questions to most people, 9 out of 10, the answer we get is NO. What should we do to flip the script? In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about some insights on how we can be the partner that we most want to be. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #253 We live in a society where we're taught that money can solve everything. As a man, we think that we need to make more money to keep our marriage or relationship going. We become addicted to work because we always feel that the money we're making is not enough. So, we grind even more...leaving us never satisfied. When we're too focused on making money, we forget to switch off and end up working even more when we get home. We tend to forget our other responsibilities to our partner, which creates a gap in the relationship. The marriage then begins to break because the man loses himself along the way. He identifies himself as a businessman or business owner and that becomes his identity. Since he thinks that it's his identity, it is difficult for him to switch off. The gap in the relationship becomes bigger and bigger until you don't know your wife anymore...you don't even know yourself. In this episode, we talk about how to switch off from work, reclaim your identity, and know who you really are. We also talk about the importance of knowing who your wife is, not the woman you married but who she is becoming in the relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #252 Every man wants to be the king of the household. In return, they expect passion and intense desire from their partner. A woman, on the other hand, wants a man in her life but if her partner expects her to pick up his clothes for him & do all the chores at home alone, then the energy she has will be quickly consumed. She will have little time or energy to spend as 'husband and wife'. In this cycle, she will get tired of doing the things that a mother typically does for her son. And THIS is when the dynamic of the relationship starts to change from 'husband and wife' to 'mother and son'. Men often don't realize this because they have this sense of entitlement in being the one making the money, and their energy is being consumed at work. So to them…picking up their clothes from the floor is not worth their time. If this cycle continues, their partner will lose their desire completely and will start to look outside of her marriage to fulfill that desire. Doing the basics around the house doesn't mean giving in. You are acting as a leader, an adult, and as a man. Do some helpful things for the people you love and give the feminine energy the freedom to thrive. Be that king who makes his castle as clean as possible. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #251 Why do business owners make it hard to move forward with their visions? Part of being a powerful man is creating a life that you really want to live. Building that life gives you freedom and fulfillment pushed by pleasure rather than pushed by pain. You can run your entire business in just one dashboard to keep track of the health of your company. Some just don't know that these things are possible. There are systems that allow you to reconnect with yourself, your wife, and your kids. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to have the freedom to create the space to do the things you wanted to do, and how to move forward with your visions in each of the Five Territories. Make it happen! ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #250 What is a clearing conversation? Who should you have a clearing conversation with? It's about getting on the same page and talking out your unspoken thoughts and feelings, to see and understand each other more clearly. You can do this for all kinds of people. Start with the people who are closest to you. It's a simple process. Ask them about the things that aren't working for them about you...and then do something about it. If you want your relationship to be crystal clear, you must ask and act. In this episode, we are going to talk about what a clearing conversation is, how to have clearing conversations, why we need to do it, who to have a conversation with, and how powerful these clearing conversations can be. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #249 What if your wife wasn't a bitch? Your partner was given to you because she is the teacher of your greatest lessons, protecting you from your greatest fears, anxieties, and those things that trigger you so often. And you are there to learn from each other. In partnership, we attract a woman who is meant to invite us and teach us to be the man that we are capable of being, or we are destined to be in many ways. When you go through this situation with your wife and you choose to see her as a bitch, you should realize that you need to work on yourself so that you can see it differently. It is easy for us humans to put our blame on other people...especially on the person closest to us...but the root of the problem sometimes is inside of you. Instead of wishing for your wife to be easier or instead of wishing that you have married an easier woman, you should focus on how you can be better. You should face the challenges the woman might be presenting to you with playfulness and confidence. Most of the time, women test you to see how solid and secure they are with you. She is pointing out opportunities for you to grow. Look at yourself and start to inquire about what it is within you that has been triggered right now, and what is the opportunity you have to learn and grow. It's all about taking complete ownership so that you can be a better man. When you see it as an opportunity rather than a problem, it becomes something fun to do. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #248 What's the real problem that you're trying to solve? What is the root cause? It's easy for men to stop doing the things that they know work when everything is going so well. It's no coincidence when many problems surface at the same time. These are the symptoms that something is wrong. The cure is to get back to what you know works. Get back to basics. You're always gonna be vulnerable to being triggered. Your routine and how you start your day is very important. When guys start to falter, it usually means that you're not taking good care of your morning routine. Work on yourself, serve yourself, and do something to better yourself. We are designed for continued growth. When you get back to your routine, you will have that solid foundation on which to grow. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know the symptoms and root causes of your problems, and how to solve them. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #247 What happens when you stop caring? When you stop caring, you start to focus more on your purpose. There's nothing sexier for a woman than a man who is purposeful. Being focused like this and doing what you like to do can make you attractive. Stop trying to please your wife just to get the reaction that you want from her. When you stop caring in this way, you start attracting your woman back into your life. Create a mystery that will have your wife leaning in towards you to discover. Lead your life first, and you'll lead the relationship. Be a great man, be a great husband, but don't take an action just because you want to win her over. Taking care of yourself first works best. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to get results when you start to stop caring, and what you can do to lead the relationship and attract your woman back into your life. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #246 What is it that you are spending your time dreaming about? Being a business owner is a big source of fulfillment. But it can become a source of pain as well when you start to lose yourself in the work, and the business becomes who you are. So much of your identity becomes tied up in the business. When you let the business take over your life, you start to lose who you really are. You start to lose space in your life and you stop giving yourself the time to imagine and dream. The key to being able to live a happy, fulfilling, and free life is to imagine. Prioritize giving yourself space, play with that vision, and live to it. Envision what you want and feel it as if it were real. In this episode, we are going to talk about things that every top performer does, and how to do them without losing sight of what you are trying to achieve. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #245 Is it important for all men to have a creative outlet? Most men haven't bothered to cultivate a creative outlet. But if you want to live a life of fulfillment and freedom, to express yourself and be who you are, then you must have a creative outlet. Start by figuring out what would be a creative outlet for you. Something that inspires you to express yourself and something that can fill you up when you do it. If you don't have that creative outlet, you start to bottle yourself up and play a little bit smaller in your relationships Your wife, your kids, your family...everyone in your life will get less of you. If you lack a creative outlet, it can leave you feeling a little more empty at home, and that shifts you from being the alpha to becoming a beta. Slowly but surely, you lose your power. In this episode, we are going to go into detail about the importance of having a creative outlet, and how to find out what your creative outlet can be. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #244 Why don't men seek help when they're stuck? Men are taught to be a certain kind of leader...to be a man who doesn't cry and who doesn't show vulnerability. But for men, being stuck is a sign of weakness. Rather than seeing that as weak, think of it as a sign of strength. By talking about it and accepting it, you demonstrate that you don't care about the weakness. Live a transparent life so that no one can point a finger at you, because you have already admitted, accepted, and spoken on all of the things that you have been most ashamed of in the past. Own the 'negativity' about yourself, and own it with pride. In this episode, we are going to talk about what area men usually get stuck in, and what to do about it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #243 Is it wrong for you to feel bad if your needs are not being met? As human beings, we need other human beings to survive. And in a relationship, it's important to be able to articulate what your needs are and take a stand for your needs, not coming from a place of neediness but coming from the place of leadership. There is power in understanding what your needs are in the relationship. There are certain things that you must do for yourself to bring your best self into the relationship. If you are not doing those, then you become needy in an unhealthy way. In this episode, we're going to go deeper into the power and pitfalls of need, and how to fulfill your needs for yourself and for your relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #242 What is the thing you complain about the most? You will have different complaints from different people. All complaints are a level of victimhood. You are complaining about something that you don't have control over. Ask yourself what your biggest complaints are, and ask the people you spend most of your time with. See what they say. Dig deeply and create a safe space for people to answer you, to better see what your focus is. Your complaint is your focus. When you chose to complain about something, often it means you are focusing on it. Gather some data and start looking at it. Use your wisdom and judgment to determine your biggest complaint. Take it lightly and do something different. This may be an area that you need to work on for the betterment of yourself. Take a massive action to do something about it. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know your biggest complaint and how to deal with it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #241 How well do you take care of yourself? Do you find time to relax and reset after a busy work-week? A lot of times, what happens for us, guys, is we get our identity from what we are able to provide and produce. We're working our tails off to be able to provide for our families. You go to work. You bust your butt. You build an empire. Hoping you can retire in your 60's or maybe 50's, but it doesn't happen. In that journey of working so hard, you get disconnected from the people you love and lose them along the way. In this episode, we will learn how decompression can help us work and provide for the people we love without sacrificing time and connection with them. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #240 How do you get back in the dating game with your partner? In this episode, we are going to talk about text games and modern ways to flirt with your partner. Women are looking for a lot more than they used to because they can take care of themselves, so we get to bring more value to the conversation. There is a lot of distraction out there, so we need to be on our game and keep the attraction going. Text game works. The goal is to keep your wife interested, attracted, and keep her attention on you. Be aware of the words you are going to send. Think of what effect you like and what are the things that you want to bring out in her. A lot of men have lost connection with their wife and this is a great way to get playfully reconnected. Girls wanna have fun. Bring the fun into your text exchanges and make it light and playful. ————- ATTENTION: MARRIED BUSINESSMEN Give us 4 days and we'll show you how to save your marriage & reconnect with your wife without having to go to marriage counseling or therapy...even if you're on the brink of divorce. Discover more here: https://thealphareset.com/ ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #239 How can you say sorry without giving up your power? Apologizing to our women is one of the hardest things for us men to do. Usually, we don't apologize when we feel that we haven't done anything wrong. However, if we really think that we have done something wrong, we tend to do everything we could and lower ourselves just to make it up to her. This is not healthy. One thing you could do is explain to her why you've gotten angry in the first place. Tell her how did you feel and in return, ask for her side of things. In this way, both of you can learn from each other's shoes and will be more mature when conflicts arise in the future. Listen to this episode and learn more from Doug Holt and Ryan Peach and stop your old ways of apologizing. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #238 What makes a great leader in business AND at home? A great leader is a person that is always in the front drawing their team to where they are going to and inspiring others through their action and their communication. The first step to becoming a great leader is to take inventory of yourself. The best way to do this is to have smart people around you give you honest feedback. You need to understand where you are succeeding and where you are failing both as an individual and a leader. Once you have that feedback, you then get to take massive action and be the inspired leader that you know you can be. You get to take care of yourself and put yourself first. When you are sacrificing yourself for others, that will put a lot of pressure on your life. The secret to being a great leader is to be a great self leader first. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #237 How can you get your power back? How much do you have to do for her to trust you? In this episode, we are going to talk about how men give away their power in their relationships and the six power tips to reclaim your power not only in your business but also in your relationship. A few of the tips: Keep your word. Show up as a man in such a way that your son is going to learn from you and treat his lady like a Queen and in such a way that your daughter is going to learn from you and expect nothing less from her man. Put yourself in a position where you are strong, resourceful, calm, loving, and have the space and capacity to share and show up fully. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #236 Do you argue a lot with your wife or your partner? Are you tired of arguing with her? Typically women argue to connect, while men argue to win which is why it's very difficult to win in an argument with your wife. Persuasive communication is the key to avoid being the bad cop in the conversation. If you do this, you will be able to not only get what you want in that situation but also get connection and intimacy with your partner during the communication. As a man, it is very more important that you validate what your partner feels, make her understand that she is your priority and that you don't want her to feel otherwise. Hold your ground and communicate calmly. State what you don't want and what you do want in that situation but at the same time, understand what outcome she wants in that situation so that she will feel seen, heard, and understood. In order for you to be able to hold your ground in these situations, you must have a strong foundation first. Focus on yourself, know who you are as a man, and know that there is a powerful man inside you. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #235 How do you establish boundaries with your woman? In this episode, we are going to talk about how to maintain peace without giving up your leadership and sticking to your boundaries. It is important to have mutual respect for each other's boundaries and give each other time to do what is important, allowing each other to fill your own cups. Be more vulnerable, open, and transparent to each other and you will have no problem setting boundaries that allow you to be the powerful man you are. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #234 Should every woman have to fulfill all her man's needs? What most of us men don't realize is that not all our needs can be fulfilled by our wives or our women. It is unfair to give your woman the burden of fulfilling all your needs. The reality is, there are certain needs that can only get fulfilled by being around other men. In this episode, we will learn how we can achieve a much stronger and healthier relationship with our women without sacrificing our needs as men. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #233 Most business owners start their business to make money and have more freedom in their life but they end up becoming a slave to their business. Most business owners are perceived as being successful, charismatic, and leaders within their business but when you take a look into their personal lives & relationships, they're falling short. Their life has become about them serving their business and not the other way around. They typically hold the belief that nobody could replace them. And when they become profitable enough to hire someone who is like them, or even better than them to do the job, they become hesitant because the idea of replacing themselves means they are not going to be needed and this terrifies them. In this episode, we talk about the importance of setting up your business to serve you to your highest purpose and HOW to do that through upgrading yourself, your methodologies, and your belief operating system. You get to discover a way to reset yourself and become a business owner rather than a business operator. You get to be that business owner who is free to experience all the best in life not to become someone who is a slave to their job. Identify where you're at and make a shift. Reset and reclaim. Make your business serve you to it's highest purpose. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #232 What do you do when your wife says you are selfish? In this episode, we are going to talk about how to focus on yourself without being selfish, how to maintain your energetic state, and how to stand your ground like a man. Taking care of yourself is great and something that can be attractive to a woman provided that your home is also taken care of. Explain to her that you want to be the man that is always fit and that you want to set a good example for your kids. Taking care of yourself for your wife and your kids is extremely important. Invite her and include her in your journey. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.