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Drink A Little Drink... Smoke A Little Smoke
Episode #300 What role does alcohol play in your life? What triggers you to drink alcohol? The potential problem here is not the drink. It's what you're using the drink for. When drinking becomes unconscious or a way to "hide out" and you repeat that pattern, that's when it becomes a problem. Women use alcohol to open up and receive, while men do it to release. Men drink to liberate their egos. When you're doing it unconsciously, you'll soon lose your perspective...and before you know it, your edge. You have to be conscious about it, recognize your triggers, get clarity around it, and do something. In this episode, you will learn the importance of knowing the triggers of why you drink alcohol and the importance of being conscious of doing it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
SMV
Episode #299 Have you ever tried rating your sexual market value? How about your partner? How much gap do you have when it comes to your SMV's? If there's too much of a gap between you and your wife's SMV, if your wife's SMV is higher than yours, other men tend to notice it and they start to step in. When gaps happen, affairs take place. Be honest, and see if there is a gap. Take immediate action and invest in yourself. Get into the Alpha Rise and Shine, get into a workout program or a personal growth program. Do something to raise your value. In this episode, you will learn how to ascertain your sexual market value and how you can raise it to a higher level. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: When Your New Year's Resolution Seems to Repeat Itself
Episode #298 Today is the 7th day of the year. A week has already passed us. And for most of us, this is the time where we set our new year's resolutions. Every year, we're making promises to ourselves about the things that we want and don't want to achieve. The sad thing is, most of the time, we achieve what we don't want to achieve and failed on things that we want to reach. Every year has been the same. What should you do differently? This episode might just answer that question - How NOT to repeat the same mistakes with your new year's resolutions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
A Look Back On A Challenging Year 2020
Episode #297 The Powerful Man pivoted big time in the year 2020. The movement brought alumni together and tackled topics about thriving during the pandemic instead of merely surviving it. This helped the men discover how they could serve their business, relationships, and communities better. While other people binged on Netflix, hiding out elsewhere, men from this group focused on how to thrive in 2020 and stepped up their game in their business and relationship. One of the highlights is The Powerful Marriage Reset. Coaches provided information and tools on how men from this group could save their marriages and how to have their best year in business. Another highlight was the virtual retreat, which got everyone following the Alpha Rise and Shine Protocol. Through the movement, men realized that showing up in a big way is the best thing they did, and allowed them to go from the impossible to a new reality. In this episode, let's review what happened in 2020 learn how the men from The Powerful Man were able to thrive, and how the movement was able to help business owners to show up and step up their game in order to better serve not only their business but also their families and communities. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How To Reclaim The "Sex Frame" In 2021
Episode #296 Have you ever felt like you constantly have to ask your wife for sex and never know when you'll be having sex? Maybe it feels like sex is always on HER terms and you're constantly left feeling like your needs aren't being met and have no idea what to do about it? In this episode, we talk about what it means to be in the woman's frame around sex (when you're living in HER reality) and what to do to reclaim that frame for yourself. Like most things, it starts with YOU. You get to do the work with yourself, which will allow you to flip the script and reclaim the "sex frame" within your relationship __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Being World Class in 2021
Episode #295 What went well, and not-so-well, with the previous year? How can you step up your game and be world-class in 2021? It's important to have a clear vision and to purposefully create your goals. Review what went wrong in the previous year, learn the lessons, and do something different. Track down what your wins are as well as your losses. It will give you a greater sense of success and momentum, and help you better identify the things you need to improve. Live the visions and goals that you create. Be committed to changing your life and step boldly into being a world-class version of yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of revisiting your overall performance, or how you "showed up" in all areas of your life, in order to become the world-class version of yourself this 2021. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Myth of Unconditional Love
Episode #294 Do you feel like your wife is working against you instead of working with you? Are you craving unconditional love from your wife? When you get married, everything seems perfect. But if things start to go wrong, most women start to find their way out. That's why women need emotional security from their partners. As men, we want to have someone who will stay with us through the ups and downs, who will stay until the finish line, who will love us unconditionally. In this episode, you will understand the reasons why we crave unconditional love from our partner. We will also talk about how can we regain the respect and loyalty of our partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Where Are You?
Episode #293 How often do you check in...with yourself? Do you ask yourself how you're feeling within your relationship? How you've been doing with your health goals? Or even how you're feeling emotionally, overall? In this episode, we're going to talk about the importance of simply checking in with yourself without judgment or shame. If you aren't where you feel you should be, or if you've been slacking on some of your goals, then you get to give yourself some grace and make a course correction. If you haven't done this in a while, then NOW during this episode is the perfect time! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Why Your Kids Cannot Come First
Episode #292 What do you think is the driving force behind why we lose connection in our relationships? Is it a lack of prioritization? Most people say that the proper prioritization is that the individual must take care of themselves first, then the relationship, then the kids. However, sometimes the kids get sick and need your help and attention, so they are taken care of first in order for you to take care of yourself. When you have kids, the relationship "dries out" a little bit. You tend to forget to provide for each other's emotional needs, as individuals and as a couple, because your focus is mainly on the kids. We must take care of ourselves first. Be honest with yourself. Sit with your wife, come up with what you want individually, what you want as a couple, and find ways to fit those wants into your relationship. Make a system that works for you and your family. Do something fun and take care of yourself so that you can take care of your relationship and your family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Biology Of An Affair
Episode #291 Oftentimes, when someone has an affair, the partner wonders how this could have happened! To them, there were NO signs and it came out of the blue! The truth is, there are ALWAYS signs...you just have to learn how to look. In this episode, Doug breaks down the actual biology that occurs around having an affair and focuses on what that looks like for a woman, specifically. With this information, you may gain a deeper understanding of what happens, on a biological level, that puts women in a position to cheat, allowing you to take precautions within your relationship to keep this from happening. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: I Don't Need To Date My Wife, We're Too Busy
Episode #290 When was the last time you took your wife on a date? If you're not actively dating your wife, you won't be able to build and grow a deeper connection in the relationship. Typically, we become so busy making money to provide for all the needs of our family that we often forget to plan a date night with our wife. This will often result in feeling guilty for not being able to offer the attention that our partner needs, which is why we resort to alternatives. We buy expensive gifts for her in order to make up for those missed date nights, but that's not the true connection she's looking for. Because of this, the disconnection between you grows, and soon you will realize that you and your partner are slowly drifting apart. It's important to work on yourself in order to have the energy you need to truly nurture your relationship. Prioritize your relationship with your wife. Date her the way you dated her before your marriage. Make her feel special. Dedicate a space and time to connect with her without mentioning anything about business. Give her that deeper level of intimacy and connection. In this episode, you will learn the importance of dating your wife, the effects of relying on the alternatives instead of dating your wife to build a connection, how to nurture your relationship and how to provide emotion in the relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: When Results Don't Show Up Fast Enough
Episode #289 It is our nature as humans to be impatient. We want immediate gratification, and we want everything now because of the society we are living in. And yet, when we are given things that we aren't ready for we often crumble easily. In order for us to grow, we must learn through the process. It is important for us to enjoy the journey and shift as an individual along the way, allowing us to enjoy the result and the destination that much more. Being a man means doing what is necessary even if it's not easy. A powerful man does what it takes to get there. He focuses on the process instead of focusing on the result. He lets go of the external validation and lives from the inside out. While going through the journey you will be able to find your center, the true powerful man within you, and you will be able to enjoy the outcome more. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being patient and of living from the inside out, how to enjoy the results that you want, and how to find the powerful man within you through the process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Greatest Loss In Life...and How To Reclaim It
Episode #288 What do you do for fun? What is it that you really want to do in life? Many men work their tails off building businesses, then find themselves watching as their relationship starts to crumble. These men then do everything they can to put their broken relationship back together...and end up putting themselves last. Do you know what we always forget? We forget to have FUN! We give everything of ourselves until there is nothing left for anyone. Take the time to discover what you really want to do. Put your needs first, or nothing you build will last. In this episode, you will learn the importance of putting yourself first and being able to have fun while being successful in business. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Managing Finances with Your Wife
Episode #287 Would you be surprised to hear that money is one of the top ten reasons why couples get divorced? If you've ever been in a serious relationship, you probably don't find this shocking at all. When the topic of money comes up in relationships, it's often discussed with the energy of frustration and tension. But the truth is, the reason there is frustration and tension actually has NOTHING to do with money. In this episode, we talk about the Emotional Bank Account and how focusing on THIS will actually help bring your conversations around money to a place of ease. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Saving vs. Leading
Episode #286 When your spouse is going through something, do you feel the urge to "save" her or do you want to lead her? We tend to try and solve other people's problems because we want external validation. We'd love to help other people because it makes us feel good about ourselves and makes us feel significant in the world that we live in. Saving seems to be the most honorable thing, but in reality, it's the last thing most people want. If you want to help her, allow her to go through the process. That's leadership. Make her feel emotionally safe and trust you fully. Once you're solid within yourself, then you can become like the lighthouse in the storm. The lighthouse stands, guiding her home, no matter how hard the waves are crashing. Show her the way, how to solve it, without any expectation of a particular outcome. That's when people start following. Women don't want to be saved, they want to be led. In this episode, you will learn how important is it for women to be led, not saved, by a powerful man, as we go deeper into some of the key differences between saving and leading. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Red Pill
Episode #285 This episode was inspired by a documentary film called, The Red Pill directed by Cassie Jaye. The film explores the men's rights movement, as Jaye spends a year filming the leaders and followers within the movement. Gender equality has always been an issue. But it's important to be aware that there will always be some things that women can do better than men, and vice-versa. In this episode, you will learn some shocking facts about men. Join Tim and Doug as they take a deeper dive into The Red Pill theory. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Two Baskets - Thinking Differently About Your Delivery
Episode #284 Are you doing the same thing over and over again when it comes to solving your problems? In business, doing things differently can increase the efficiency of staff and the likelihood of customer satisfaction. A simple and subtle shift in the delivery of service is a big deal. Do things differently. Look at common complaints in every area of your life, relationships, and business. Look at different solutions and alternatives that might not have been there previously. You'll be able to see results that you haven't seen before. Subtle changes and minor tweaks in our thought process can solve a problem, improve our business, and grow our relationships. In this episode, you will learn how important it is to do things differently - how small and subtle changes will impact your life and your business. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Am I Failing As A Father?
Episode #283 On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and 1 being the lowest, how do you rate yourself as a father? Are you giving your children the best you have to offer? Or are you giving them your leftovers after you've given your best to your business, the best to your staff, the best to your customers, the best to your friends… Where do your kids fit into that? Are they going to be like you when they grow older and become a parent in the future? But the real question is… How do you know if you're failing as a father? By what standards are we measuring fatherhood? Get to the core of what's going on in your life. That's when you'll realize whether you're being a good father...or if you are failing as a father to your kids. In this episode, Tim & Doug talk about the importance of evaluating yourself as a father, and how to give the best of yourself to your children. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What To Do When Your Relationship Goes Stagnant
Episode #282 Are you bored with your partner? What kind of conversations do you have with your wife? As a man, you should take charge of the relationship. Men should be the ones leading, bringing out fun conversations. But it's also important to make sure that your life is fun first. Spend time with yourself and develop yourself. Create space for your partner to have some time with herself, too. Set goals for your relationship. Always learn and do something new together. It's one of the best ways to find out new things about each other. In this episode, you will learn how to reignite your relationship with your spouse, and the importance of self-development in improving your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What To Do If Your Wife Doesn't Want You To Invest
Episode #281 Do you ask your wife first when making any big decision where money is involved? A lot of men are like that. And sadly, for some men, even if they really want to invest in improving themselves, they become hesitant to do so, because they think it would create a heated discussion within their relationship. In this episode, hear what Tim and Doug have to say about this and learn some tips on how you can convince your wife to support you in investing in your personal growth. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: A Quick Way To Overcome Shame
Episode #280 Are there any areas in your life where you feel like you're not doing as well as you could? Perhaps an area where you feel shame? Most men we work with have shame deeply rooted in major areas of their life like their business, their relationships, and their health. The sneaky thing with shame is that it STOPS us from taking action. It STOPS us from making the changes that we want. And it KEEPS us in this cycle of being where we say we don't want to be…. What if there was a way to OVERCOME this shame? In today's episode, we give you a quick way to overcome shame, opening the door to massive transformation. Take action in the areas of your life you SAY you want to change. Give it a listen and let us know what you think! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How Important Is Safety To A Woman?
Episode #279 Do you know what the #1 most important thing is to a woman? Is it respect, safety, desire...or is it affection? Emotional safety is the most important aspect of a relationship for women. Women want to be provided for emotionally. That's what will make them feel safe in themselves, and in their environment. There can be no desire without emotional safety. And it must come first. In this episode, the #1 most important aspect of a relationship for a woman, and how you can make your partner feel that she's being provided for emotionally. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
"If I Had A Gun To Your Head...."
Episode #278 Are you constantly struggling to meet your goals? Always trying to figure out how to make enough money each month? In today's episode, Doug walks us through an exercise he uses with the men in The Brotherhood that has helped them achieve their 6-month goals in just ONE. All we ask is that you approach this exercise with an open heart, an open mind, and a willingness to do the work. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
One Man's Story - Meet Chris Loch
Episode #277 Does your wife seem uninterested in you? Where are you at in terms of fixing her complaints about your relationship? You always thought that you'd have the time to fix the problems in your marriage...that's why you keep on prioritizing other things over your relationship. It's not how much money you make, it's the emotional connection that's important to women. If it's lost, that's when she'll start seeking it from other men. Start prioritizing your relationship. While you still have the time and the chance to fix it. Do it now. Do something differently before it's too late...before you lose everything that is important to you. In this episode, you'll meet Chris Loch. We'll talk about how important it is to fix the problems in your marriage early, and how to rebuild that emotional connection with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Less You Care, The More You Get
Episode #276 When was the last time your wife came to you, asking about your day, flirting with you, or being very intimate with you? The more you keep your focus inward, the more your wife will be coming on to you. The more you work on yourself, the less you care about the external. That's when you really get more. Work on your inner game, keep leveling up...you'll become more and more attractive to your wife every day. In this episode, you will learn the importance of investing in your own growth. Focus on your inward self and how it will change your relationship with your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Taking Stock of Where You Are In Your Marriage
What level are you in your relationship? What is your model when it comes to marriage? There are 3 levels to a relationship. Level 3 means your marriage is outstanding. Both of you are playing full out in the relationship. Both parties are completely transparent in everything, and love permeates every day of your lives together. Level 2 means things are just fine. An average relationship when compared to others. Level 1 means things aren't working. Both of you are considering options...or divorce. Level 1 is the danger zone. The wife is not satisfied, the husband is not satisfied, and that dissatisfaction is showing up in your everyday lives. There's no love in the relationship. In this episode, we talk about the importance of acknowledging what level you're at. If you're on level two or one, it's time to do something. Find out how to take massive action to get out of those levels, and more about the tools you need in order to identify your blind spots. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How Do You Decompress?
Episode #274 Does your business keep you busy all the time? Do you have trouble "switching off" after work? What's your decompression routine? In martial arts, when leaving a dojo, bowing signifies that you're transitioning from your fight-energy into a different mode. In your business, it can mean you're leaving the work-energy behind to embrace what comes next. Increasing the transition time is really important to avoid dramatic changes in your energy. You need time to relax, change your persona, and leave the work-energy behind. In this episode, we'll talk about how to best decompress and the importance of transition time when it comes to decompression. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Do You Have 2AM Friends?
Episode #273 Who are your 2 AM friends? Are you someone else's 2 AM friend? We've all had that friend who you can call in your most difficult times and would pick up the phone no matter what. They've always got your back. Hold onto these people. At the same time, as a tree needs some leaves to be removed in order to grow, we must make sure that some people are allowed to fall out of our lives. Spend your time and energy with the people who most contribute to your growth. It's important to distinguish who your real 2 AM friends are. Find friends who are as stable as the roots of a tree. Water that relationship and nurture it. And always strive to be that 2 AM friend you want for yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Are You A 'DEER'?
Episode #272 Are you confident about your decisions? Are you insecure and worried about not getting approval from your wife? Unknowingly, men can become the beta in the relationship, especially when women start to make demands or test their partner. Men become more submissive. This is when the DEER appears: Defending, Excusing, Explaining, and Rationalizing. You only do that with someone you are subordinate to. If a man can effectively validate his wife, complaints will become a lot less frequent because she already feels seen and heard. There's no need for the DEER, just live your own passion, and follow your purpose. In this episode, you will learn how to get rid of the DEER in the relationship, and more about the importance of validation in lessening complaints from your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Break The Rules!
Episode #271 Success does not always mean having material things, making a lot of money, and getting that feeling of significance and respect from other people. Many financially successful people are unhappy because they became exhausted hustling and working hard thinking that these things will make them happy. There are so many rules in place that are holding them back and that makes their life monotonous. The more money they make, the more they become unhappy because these rules take them farther away from the real essence of what it means to be a human being. This void cannot be filled with material things. Fill this void within by breaking the rules and giving yourself permission to experience spontaneous fun. People often feel the need to be busy all the time, thinking that having fun is a waste of time and money. They do not realize that sometimes, while having fun, more creative ideas pop up. If you bring fun and joy into more areas of your life, you will make a lot more progress. Do not allow your happiness to depend on anything or anyone. We don't need anything else outside ourselves to experience joy. We have the joy and fun inside us, we just need to learn to generate it and radiate it. In this episode, you will learn the importance of allowing yourself to experience spontaneous fun and incorporating fun into more areas of your life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
A Chat with Tim and Doug
Episode #270 Are you living in excess? Are you beating yourself up too much? Learn more about your body. Refuse to accept something you don't want to accept. Go and try different approaches. See shifts occur. Reading a book is great, but without application, it's useless. When we see other people achieving great things, it really speaks to something that is innate within all of us - the desire to be great, and the desire to leave something great behind. Take the risk, get out of your comfort zone, be the man, and take the lead. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Magic Cure
Episode #269 How is your wife doing? Are you watching out for warning signs? Do you have a methodology to fix problems in your relationship, or to cure your wife's "migraine"? Identify the pattern and the method, and do something about it. This "migraine" causes distance and separation in the relationship. Learn the triggers and find ways to remove them. Help your wife to be better, step up, and cure her by activating the man that she married and addressing her complaints. In this episode, you will learn how to identify and address the causes of your wife's "migraine" and how you can cure it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Be A Man
Episode #268 Women want to be led by a man who knows what he is doing and knows where he is going. Part of this comes from feeling secure with the person who's leading her. She needs to know that her partner is man enough to be a strong foundation for her and for their family. In order to become The Powerful Man that your wife needs, you should first recognize where you are now and know where you are going. You must define for yourself what it means to be a man and not rely on what society dictates to you. Know your potential and know what kind of man you are capable of becoming. Do not be afraid to step up and be a Powerful Man. Be a man who takes care of himself so that he can take care of his partner. To be a Powerful Man, you must be capable of leading your partner emotionally through your energy, time, attention, and strength. In order for you to lead, you must have a vision for your family. You should know what your desires are and where you want to go. If you have all of this, your partner will see you as a man and they can put their trust in you. They will feel more secure and loved. In this episode, learn what it means to be a Powerful Man, how to understand your potential, and how to lead your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How To Get A Temperature Check
Episode #267 How do you check-in? How do you stay connected? We should keep checking in regularly on people that are important to us because people change day by day. Are you growing as a man? When was the last time you checked on your wife? When you start to feel that you're not engaged or feel that it's meaningless to share anymore, that's a sign that she's starting to lose the connection. As a man, take control of the check-in. Ask your wife how her day is going, or how she's feeling about your relationship. Be in control, but make sure to engage her in making the best out of the day. Be very conversational. Be playful and excited, asking open-ended questions, and get into her world by asking about her magic moments. In this episode, we take a deeper dive into the importance of doing one simple thing that most of us ignore: Checking in with your wife and your loved ones. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What To Do When Your Wife Is Always Wanting More
Episode #266 Is your wife adding too much to your plate? What do you do when your wife is asking you to do so much? When you feel like your capacity is full, you tend to react quickly and differently. In this kind of situation, it is important to be firm with your boundaries and stand your ground. This will ground her in her femininity and allow her to surrender to your masculinity. Start a conversation with a curious tone. Make her feel seen and respected. Avoid being reactive and strive to understand where she's coming from. Get to the root of the real issue. In this episode, you will learn the importance of having a conversation with your partner without being reactive, and how to make your partner feel respected during that conversation while getting to the heart of the issue. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
When Was The Last Time You Did Something For Yourself?
Episode #265 When was the last time you looked at the stars or walked in the park? When is the last time you did something for yourself? Often guys feel guilty when they take time for themselves to fill their cup. They don't acknowledge the fact that letting themselves become empty makes them weak, and that's why they don't see the need for it. You must first honor the truth that you're weak and empty, and then do something about it. Fill your cup. Find opportunities to improve yourself, start simple. Go out and have some fun. Make an effort for the most important person in your life...yourself. If you do this often, everything from money to relationships becomes easier. Most importantly, you can bring your best self to every interaction you have. In this episode, let's reflect on ourselves. If you haven't done something for yourself in a few months, or years already, NOW is the time to give yourself a reward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Finding Other Men Who Are Doing The Work
Episode #264 Are you having a hard time finding and connecting with men who are doing the work, like you? What conversations are you starting with people? If you're growing secretly or growing behind closed doors, obviously you will not meet anybody. They will not recognize you. There are tons of guys out there who are doing the work, you just have to show up and let them know that you exist. Exercise courage and take action. Stop complaining and just do what you know you know you should be doing. Show up and start the conversation. In this episode, find out more about how you can find men with the same interests and values as you and help yourself grow. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Divorce Day
Episode #263 Are things not going well in your relationship? What's your wife's primary complaint about you and the relationship? What actions have you taken to address this? Women often drop clues as they move through the marriage, you just have to notice them. Listen to her, and be a man to her, before it's too late. You need the proper tools to help you in the process of maintaining a healthy marriage. Relationships need courage; the courage to hear and know the truth. You may not like what you hear, but it's important to know where you stand in the relationship...and how to improve that standing. Build a connection with your wife, show affection and admiration. Develop the courage to take massive and necessary action. In this episode, we implore you to take the time to check yourself within your marriage, within your relationship. Save your marriage before it's too late. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Do You Turn To Business for Validation?
Episode #262 Are you getting the validation and significance at home that you desire? Will you be able to choose between business and your relationship with your wife? Why choose if you can have both? Men tend to spend most of their time at work because it's where they can demonstrate their control, exercise their power, and feel their significance. Unfortunately, this often leads to broken relationships at home. Men must work to rebuild the harmony in the relationship and learn to fulfill their wife's needs. Then she will see the man that you are. She will see your significance. In addition, you'll find that you can have more of what you want in your business. In this episode, learn more about how you can find your significance both in your workplace and at your home, rescuing your relationship from the brink of collapse. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How White Lies Take Their Toll
Episode #261 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she will not approve it? You're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It's okay to tell 'white' lies occasionally, but if you're doing it constantly...Houston, we have a problem. What kind of distance does it put in a relationship when you're constantly having to lie? It's different when you're trying to create mystery and intimacy in your relationship by not saying something. Like date nights, or if you're working hard to surprise her. However, if your intent is to just lie and to avoid getting into conflict, then there's a problem inside of you. In this episode, join Tim and Doug in discussing one of the most common problems in every relationship that most of us are facing. Stop being a LIAR. Don't fall into the trap of lying constantly because one way or another, it will create chaos in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Do You Feel Empty?
Episode #260 No matter how much money you have or how successful your business is…if you are not clear on who you want to be, you will still end up feeling empty. We become blinded by the norms set by society and end up following somebody else's guidance on how we should be living our lives instead of finding our own way. We end up striving for somebody else's ideas of what it means to be a man and have success. Until we determine our own definition of success and being a man, we will feel incomplete...like we are not good enough. We become trapped in this belief that when we have more money we can solve everything, and THEN we can be happy. We get to work, keeping ourselves busy making money, and end up losing our connection with our loved ones along the way. In this episode, we dive deep into HOW we can take control of our self-beliefs and shift them to create a happier and more fulfilling mindset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Giving Up The Crutch - A Life Without Coffee or Alcohol
Episode #259 Are you a certified coffee addict or an alcohol lover? Reducing the intake of caffeine and alcohol, or totally getting rid of both, could make a great impact on your life. Especially in terms of large decision-making and how you perform in your business. Being dependent on coffee & alcohol tends to make people more unstable and anxious all the time. It also reduces your alpha brainwaves that you need most when it comes to decision-making, especially for high-performing men. One way to increase your alpha brainwaves is by reducing your caffeine and alcohol intake. It will make you less anxious, more present, more centered, and you will achieve your flow state as a powerful man. It is difficult for most people to give up these two. But in order to do it, you can try using coffee and alcohol alternatives just to get the stimuli that you need. As a result, you will become more focused and in your flow state more often. In this episode, Doug shares his personal experience and journey with coffee & alcohol and why you might want to consider limiting your consumption. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
To Porn Or Not To Porn
Episode #258 Is your wife or your partner getting enough sex from you? Or are you just getting it off from your phone or your computer? How do you know when you're consuming too much PORN? Why do you watch porn in the first place? How does it affect us, men, really? One of the things a lot of people don't think about porn is the inhibiting effects it brings to us. For a lot of guys, it becomes HABITUAL. It becomes what they do every night, every morning, every day, in the office, etc. It becomes a compulsive habit for them. And with that habit, like for any compulsion, you're always needing more. This oftentimes can cause issues with your partner. Because now, you're leaking energy outside of the relationship. EXCESSIVE porn creates a false reality about how relationships really are. A lot of men forget that porn is done by actors, who only act out peoples' fantasies rather than the realities. In this episode, we'll have a deeper discussion on the topic of PORN. And at the end of the podcast, ask yourself if you're consuming too much porn. Remember that too much of anything is bad. Don't let porn control you. Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
8 Ways To Increase Your Masculinity
Episode #257 Do you feel like you're losing your masculinity? Here are 4 ways you can get it back, and increase your masculinity. 1. Physical Activity such as running, biking, swimming, and lifting weights helps you raise your testosterone levels and can make you push yourself beyond your normal boundaries. 2. Get Out Of Your Head & Get Into Your Body. Bang on your chest. Slap your faces. Do intense breathwork. Get inside your body. 3. Getting Primal. Surround yourself with other men. Be with your pack regularly, like having a weekly activity with them. Feed on each other's energy. 4. Getting Focused. Are you the type of man that starts on a project, then eventually dropped it? This signals your wife about what integrity you have. Be focused and finish what you've started. Want to know more about these four, and get four more? In this episode, you'll learn all about these eight ways to increase your masculinity, and be the better man that we wanted to be for ourselves, for our relationship, for our family, and for our society. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How To Know When To End Things
Episode #256 How do you know when to STOP? When you're reading a book, at what point will you stop reading if you feel like it's not what you're expecting? If you're in a relationship, when are you going to stop doing things that are hurting your partner and your bond? If your business is failing, when should you quit? People are so used to living a life where they feel obligated to say 'yes' to things or self-sacrifice...not because they want to, but because they feel they have to. But most of us don't realize that there are deeper questions underlying this: Why are we doing these things in the first place? Are there patterns and behaviors shaping your life where you just continue to quit? In this episode, we're going to talk about how to identify the signs in your life that it may be time to stop...and make a change. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What If A Film Crew Followed Your Every Move?
Episode #255 Imagine one day, a man from a film crew suddenly appeared at your home and has to film your everyday life for a week. How would you change? How would you represent yourself? Would you behave differently? Every day, try to act as if you are being filmed. Be the man you want to represent, a man who walks the walk. A man who is living his purpose with passion and excitement. If you live that way every day, it will soon become your standard behavior. It will become your discipline, and you will soon realize that you are already representing yourself the way you want to be represented, without really changing anything. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Are You The Partner That You Want?
Episode #254 Are you complaining about your partner? Do you wish your partner would be nicer? Do you wish your partner to appreciate you more? Or do you wish your partner could be better at giving you pleasure? Maybe you should ask yourself first. Are you being the kind of partner that you want your partner to be? In other words, are you stepping to the line being that ideal partner? Are you treating your partner the way you want your partner to treat you? When we ask these questions to most people, 9 out of 10, the answer we get is NO. What should we do to flip the script? In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about some insights on how we can be the partner that we most want to be. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Why Marriages Break Down
Episode #253 We live in a society where we're taught that money can solve everything. As a man, we think that we need to make more money to keep our marriage or relationship going. We become addicted to work because we always feel that the money we're making is not enough. So, we grind even more...leaving us never satisfied. When we're too focused on making money, we forget to switch off and end up working even more when we get home. We tend to forget our other responsibilities to our partner, which creates a gap in the relationship. The marriage then begins to break because the man loses himself along the way. He identifies himself as a businessman or business owner and that becomes his identity. Since he thinks that it's his identity, it is difficult for him to switch off. The gap in the relationship becomes bigger and bigger until you don't know your wife anymore...you don't even know yourself. In this episode, we talk about how to switch off from work, reclaim your identity, and know who you really are. We also talk about the importance of knowing who your wife is, not the woman you married but who she is becoming in the relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Revisit: Are You Making Your Lover Your Mother?
Episode #252 Every man wants to be the king of the household. In return, they expect passion and intense desire from their partner. A woman, on the other hand, wants a man in her life but if her partner expects her to pick up his clothes for him & do all the chores at home alone, then the energy she has will be quickly consumed. She will have little time or energy to spend as 'husband and wife'. In this cycle, she will get tired of doing the things that a mother typically does for her son. And THIS is when the dynamic of the relationship starts to change from 'husband and wife' to 'mother and son'. Men often don't realize this because they have this sense of entitlement in being the one making the money, and their energy is being consumed at work. So to them…picking up their clothes from the floor is not worth their time. If this cycle continues, their partner will lose their desire completely and will start to look outside of her marriage to fulfill that desire. Doing the basics around the house doesn't mean giving in. You are acting as a leader, an adult, and as a man. Do some helpful things for the people you love and give the feminine energy the freedom to thrive. Be that king who makes his castle as clean as possible. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Why Do Business Owners Make It Hard?
Episode #251 Why do business owners make it hard to move forward with their visions? Part of being a powerful man is creating a life that you really want to live. Building that life gives you freedom and fulfillment pushed by pleasure rather than pushed by pain. You can run your entire business in just one dashboard to keep track of the health of your company. Some just don't know that these things are possible. There are systems that allow you to reconnect with yourself, your wife, and your kids. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to have the freedom to create the space to do the things you wanted to do, and how to move forward with your visions in each of the Five Territories. Make it happen! ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.