The Powerful Man Show

Episode #350 What is your presence online like? Do you have social media profiles - Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram...maybe even some of the newer ones? If so, are you active there? Do you regularly check them? Update them? Post to them? Your social media shows how you as a man are represented in the world before you get there. Do not be fake. There is nothing worse than meeting somebody who's been lying and misrepresenting themselves. Be a complete version of yourself. Share the lifestyle and the philosophies that you live by. People find this kind of genuineness very appealing. The more you share the more it strengthens your identity. In this episode, we are going to talk about being The Director of First Impressions, what your social media is doing for you, how to have the assurance that your reputation is being upheld above and beyond what is needed, and how important it is to audit your first impressions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #349 When is it time to "pull out the roots" of a problem? And how do you do it? There are reasons why certain things keep coming up. What do you do when your wife brings up a problem from the past? It is a common issue when you and your partner have a checkered history. Disagreements, arguments, mistakes. You've moved on but she keeps on bringing it up over and over again and you are sick and tired of it. This happens when you failed to address the actual issue in the beginning. The only way to close the loop is to validate her properly and make her feel completely heard, understood, and seen. Shine a light on the problem, hunt for a solution, and take massive action. In this episode, we're talking about the reasons why women keep on bringing up old problems over and over again, how to resolve the issue by identifying the roots of the problems together, and how to pull out those roots and close this loop. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #348 What are you willing to sacrifice to save the most important things in your life? What are you going to do to save your business and your relationship? Most of the time when things get tough in your marriage, things get tough in your business, too. You're living in a cycle - trying the same thing over and over again. But if you continue to do what you have always done, it's just not going to work. You get to change, to take radical action. Just get moving. Take massive steps. It's scary, it's hard, and there are no guarantees. But it's the only way to move forward. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do when your business and relationship need saving, how to avoid becoming deactivated, and how to reclaim leadership in your life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #347 Are you a good father? How do your habits and behaviors affect your child? If a man becomes a leader and becomes re-activated, everybody around him experiences a ripple effect - they start to follow the leader. Kids are monkey-see, monkey-do. If they can pick up your bad habits, they can also pick up your good habits. When the man who is the leader of the family changes himself positively and your child witnessed that change, that child's behavior shifts. If you are worried you are going to screw your kids up, unscrew them up by fixing yourself, improving, and walking the walk that we call The Powerful Man. We want to be role models for our children. Show your child that you are going to conquer your issues and that you are gonna invest time, money, and resources into improving yourself. That is going to serve your child far more than anything else. That will make you a good father. In this episode, we are going to talk about guilt and shame, how to be a leader, and what it means to be a good father to your child. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #346 What happens to us when we get envious? What happens when envy disappears? When we start getting envious, we start making up stories. Subconsciously, our brain tells us that "we can't have this" and "we can't achieve that". Envy stops you in your tracks - preventing you from getting the income, body, or relationship that you want. Envy stands in your way and blocks you from achieving your goals. Instead of engaging in envy, try something different: Applaud! Train and program your brain to work that way, too. Something magical happens when you start genuinely congratulating someone on their achievements - you take a piece of that accomplishment for yourself. When you congratulate and applaud, you get to share in the joy that person feels when they've achieved something. It's abundance, and it's a great place to be. In this episode, we are going to talk about what happens to us when we get envious, and how to stop being envious and start participating in abundance. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #345 Our brain controls everything in our body. It drives every decision we make and influences what we feel. But did you know that there are several neurochemicals that our brains produce when we feel excited or sad or angry? What are these neurochemicals that control your mind? Knowing what these neurochemicals are will allow you to be more in control of your life and will help achieve your goals faster. In this episode, we'll learn more about the chemicals that control our minds and their importance in our lives. We will also learn how to identify each chemical and manipulate them effectively. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #344 How did The Alpha Reset change Thomas Waller's life? Before he found The Powerful Man he was in the darkest time of his life - separated from his wife, arrogant, selfish...his life is falling apart. Going to The Alpha Reset was the best moment of his life. It was the moment he woke up and found his true self. It was a deeply moving experience. As a direct result, he has grown spiritually, personally, and professionally. In this episode, we are going to talk about Thomas Waller's journey, the realizations he had on that journey, his advice, and how The Alpha Reset changed his life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #343 One of the biggest positive shifts that can happen in a business is when its leaders commit to personal accountability. When leaders hold themselves to the highest standard, it naturally follows that they inspire everyone around them to that same height. By the same token, when your business isn't going well, that's often a reflection of what is going on for you. It is a reflection of how you live your life. It goes both ways. Look at the biggest complaints that you have in your business and in your relationship. Look at all Five Territories. You'll see that your complaints have a lot in common. Your staff, their attitudes, and the work environment are ultimately a direct reflection of you. In this episode, we are going to talk about standards and the idea of accountability - putting in the time, effort, and energy - and what you can do when your business is not working as it should. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #342 Are you getting the most out of life? Are you making this one life count? Are you thriving in each of the Five Territories? This ticket is a reminder that we have One Life to live. Make it count and make the most of this one life that we've got. Live in a way that touches and moves you - rather than living it from scarcity. Ask yourself: What areas do I want to improve in, and what areas do I want to change? Take massive action. If you want to change something do it now and don't complain. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a "ticket to ride" and how to make this One Life thrive in the Five Territories. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #341 What can you do when DIY doesn't work? What will it cost you? Drywall is something that a lot of people think they can do on their own. Seems easy enough, right? If you've ever tried, you know it's much harder than it looks to do even a decent job. If you want your drywalling done right and looking good, it's simple - hire a professional. The harder a thing is to do well, the more you need an expert. Work with professionals and make sure things are done right. As you might have guessed, this goes for building up your relationship, too. The idea of doing it on your own seems manly. But if you don't do it right, another man is going to come in and tear it all down. We don't have the luxury of having a second or third chance. So rather than doing it on your own, hire a professional, have them come in, and have it done right the first time. In this episode, we are going to talk about the DIY approach to relationships and what will it cost you if it doesn't work. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #340 How do you show love? How do you want to receive love? How do you determine your partner's love language? A love language is a tool for enhancing or amplifying your relationship, but you have to build the relationship's foundation first. Starting with a solid foundation, you'll be able to understand how best to use this powerful tool. Once you discover your love language and acknowledge the love language of your partner, you will begin to see the connection and passion between you grow stronger. In this episode, you will learn the importance of building a solid foundation in your relationship, the importance of determining your partner's love language, and how to use this tool to grow stronger and closer together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #339 On wedding days, you have high expectations for your future together. You anticipate becoming a 'power couple'. But over time the potency of your union starts to slip away, and you find yourself split apart and drifting further away from each other. When this happens, often the guy falls into deactivated mode and tries to repair the marriage by making his wife happy...but that doesn't work either. Before you know it, you and your wife have become more roommates than you are lovers. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a roommate with a ring, the reasons why you start feeling like roommates, and how to reconfirm your commitments to each other. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #338 Happy Birthday, Doug! What realizations and reflections did he have while celebrating his birthday? He woke up next to his wife in the morning and they made love right away. She prepared all his favorite food. She made an amazing breakfast. She arranged a special day just for him. It was an amazing time. The moment she smiled and looked at him with admiration and respect, he had a moment of reflection and looked back at the way things used to be in their life. He was thinking back to the time when he and his wife were going through a rough patch - remembering that journey between what they used to be to what they are today. In this episode, we are going to talk about the reflections Doug had while celebrating his birthday and how to be able to get into the marriage you dreamed about when you first got together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #337 What is your market sexual value? How can you calculate your SMV...and what can you do to get that number up? Are you finding yourself in the nice guy trap? Are you in a deactivated state? Let's say you're a stock in an open market. Let's also say that you are fully owned by your wife. If your stock price has been going down since you got married, wouldn't it make sense to trade some of it on the market for a stock that's rising in value? Your wife made an investment, and she's looking for you to go up in value. Your external attitude (physical appearance, etc.) and your internal attitude (character - who you are as a man) is very important. Your energetic presence precedes you. If somebody is investing in bettering themselves, their market value is going to go up. If you apply an external look with an internal game, it's game over. Your sexual market value will never go down. In this episode, we are going to talk about how discipline and honesty affect your sexual market value, how to know what things to change to better yourself, and the two main ways to increase your sexual market value. Get a free quiz to determine your sexual market value and what you can do to increase it here - https://thepowerfulman.com/smv __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #336 She's taken on the role of an alpha, and it's turned your relationship upside-down. No balance, no boundaries, no activation. Start communicating what is acceptable and not acceptable in a calm and firm way. Establish boundaries. Staying connected while maintaining those boundaries is very important. It's how you build respect and admiration. When you realize that you've become "deactivated", take immediate and massive action. Being activated is being an alpha. Get tuned in and turned on to yourself and get fired up about who you are as a man. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do to stop being your wife's bitch, how to get activated, and be an alpha in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #335 Guys beg for sex for different reasons. Some beg for sex because their wife is the only person who can provide it. Some guys are worried that they're going to go out and cheat to get their needs met. When you find yourself in a position where you are begging for sex from your wife, remember that it is probably the most unsexy thing a guy can do. Awareness is the first key. Some guys don't even realize that they're begging. You want her to want it just as much as you do! And for that, a woman must feel seen, heard, and desired. You're an Alpha. You know what you want and you go after it. And if she says no...that's fine! Laugh it off like it's no big deal. Stop begging immediately. Implement the Triad of Connection, it can get this process moving in your direction. Practice engaged indifference, as if she is not the only one that can satisfy your needs. That will cause a shift in the power dynamics. Remember, you are not gonna beg for it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #334 In a marriage, little things start to creep in - resentments, arguments, you know how it goes. And your old ways of dealing with this "creep" don't work very well anymore. The real problem is that you're so focused on the negative experiences and emotions in the relationships that the scales get unbalanced and you can't move forward. You get stuck, and the problems keep coming. Learn how to stop focusing on the negative and start balancing out the scale. Do something different. We need to get those scales to neutral and then back to positive using the Triad of Connection. It's a simple process made up of simple changes. Remember, when we properly focus on the positive, the negative doesn't seem to matter. In this episode, we are going to talk about the analogy of scales, what the Triad of Connection is, and how it can help you to go from heated arguments to hot sex two to three times a week...or more! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #333 Are you in a situation right now where you're trying to solve something and you just can't seem to figure it out and move forward? Maybe you're trying too hard to solve it based on your past experiences...and nothing's working. Maybe it's time to try something else. A different perspective...another way... Do something different to allow you to get to the other side. Do something different to shake things up. Because you can't bring back lost times. The more you try your old ways of solving a problem, the more time it takes from your present - which you could be spending on so many more important things. What got you here won't get you there. In this episode, we will learn from the experiences of Franco Burrows. Learn how he overcame a sickness that turns out to be a not-so-serious one. And learn how this situation helped him to better himself, his relationship, and other aspects of his life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #332 What does effective leadership look like? A successful leader is more of an adviser, a mentor, and a coach. It allows you to lead on a higher level. The most common mistake people make when leading teams is trying to "lead-by-consensus". Maybe it's fear, or a genuine desire to do right by those you lead. But leadership-by-consensus most often produces a team that is stagnant, unmotivated, and entirely lacking any clarity. Take that leadership role. Take charge as a leader - not as a dictator, but more as a guide. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to lead effectively, common problems that arise in leading teams, and the steps we can take to allow us to be successful and effective leaders. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #331 Most women who're at home taking care of the house are bored with no sense of purpose. Not fulfilling her potential and not being able to go after her dreams feels horrible, miserable, and is completely unfulfilling. When she finds a purpose or something that she enjoys, just listen. You may know more, but resist the temptation to help her unless she asks you first. Sit back and let her discover things in her own way. If things are not as good at home - arguments, distance, conflict - it may be because she isn't doing what she wants to be doing. Maybe she doesn't even know what she wants. When women give up on who they wanted to be and were never been able to find it again, they will become unhappy. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know if your wife is feeling unfulfilled, how to learn what she really wants, and what you can do to help. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #330 How would you recommend "putting your foot down" in a calm way? And what is Nice Guy Syndrome? The psychology of slot machines is that, even if you don't win something, you'll still have the hope and expectation that you're just a little bit closer. It keeps you coming back - hoping, expecting - and this is how addiction gets formed in gambling. It's the rush of possibility. Most guys at some point fall into the Nice Guy Syndrome. Constantly doing nice things, doing things for her, waiting for the dopamine hit, expecting and hoping for sex. Then, when they get their needs met and they get the attention and affection that they want, they turn their husband into a friend. Recognize the state that you are in and get activated. Learn who you are, what you deserve, and how to stand in your power effectively. Get what you want without being a dick, but being a natural, powerful man. In this episode, we are going to talk about the Nice Guy Syndrome, playing good cards and bad cards, how to "put your foot down", get reactivated, and how to turn from being just a Nice Guy to a Powerful Man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #329 What generational patterns have you seen that you want to change? Never judge another man from the lens of today-to-yesterday. There are different ways to create discipline. Think of who you want your child to become, what can serve them best, and how you can help them with their development. Be extremely conscious of being a better dad. Find and connect with role models who on the path to perfection and working on becoming better. Make sure you are involved in all aspects of your child's life. Being a dad is not easy, but you can tell the difference between a great dad and an okay dad. Choose to be a great dad. Be an amazing father, be the dad that your kids want to see and turn to for life advice. Look at the patterns in your family. Look back at what you didn't like about how you were raised. Spend time thinking about it. In this episode, we are going to talk about the generational patterns that we want to change and what we can do to improve and be a great father. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #328 When you're looking to make a big change in your life, one of the easiest traps to fall into is to use your individuality as an excuse: "Sure, that may have worked for you, but I'm different..." So, how do you stop making those excuses? Everybody's situation and background are different. But you all have one thing in common - You want to be a better man. When you notice that you're feeling like a victim and when you start making excuses, filter your mind and start moving forward. Take your first step forward immediately. Sometimes your brain plays tricks on you. It makes you believe that all your justifications are true...when they are not. As soon as you start making those excuses, trigger an immediate response. Do the first action that will move you in the direction that you wanted to go. Get optics on where you are, skip the excuses, figure out what you want, and move forward. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop making excuses and start making fuel for your fire - to become the man you want to be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #327 Many people struggle with "shiny object syndrome" and a belief that they can be great at everything. We usually want it all, and we think that we can do more than what we're actually capable of. We give up on mastery for a perception of "being okay" at a bunch of things...a "jack-of-all-trades". Write down your top 25 goals from the five territories and then circle the 5 most important goals for you. Focus on those 5 things. The other 20 goals go on a separate list. These are the absolute do not do, do not touch goals. Do not spend any time in that zone. Once you have these five primary goals, go all-in with dedicated focus. You can replace only the goals that you finish. Achieve your top goals first before moving onto your next goal. Focus on one thing at a time. In this episode, we are going to talk about Warren Buffet's secret, The 25-5 Rule, the do-not-do list vs. the do-list, and how to focus on achieving your goals. Get your FREE worksheet of Warren's secret here: http://thepowerfulman.com/warren __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #326 What are you hiding from your wife? Is it something you're ashamed of? Shame is the biggest issue. You are hiding from your wife because you feel shameful about the behavior, and that can lead to a lot of problems. It will show up in your marriage, your work, and how you perform in every part of your life. There are things that you don't want her to find out because you are worried about the reaction she's gonna give you. It happens to a lot of guys...but be open. It's part of the relationship. The reason we don't share is that we are judging ourselves. We are so reliant on our spouse for filling us up. We focus on our needs getting met by them. Before you realize what's happening, you've become a needy man...and that is not a good place to be. Nobody wants to be there. It doesn't feel good to carry around a lie. It feels heavy. It's truly easier to reach out to your wife rather than lying and hiding from her. Just come clean. It can be scary at first but it will feel great. You will feel so much better after. In this episode, we are going to talk about the things you are hiding from your wife, the reasons why you are hiding something, and the steps you can take to come clean with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #325 You don't become a successful business leader without you and your wife being considered as a "power couple". But is there really power in your relationship? Do you feel like a powerful couple? If you have problems in your marriage that you can't figure out, you'll feel embarrassed and ashamed that you are not what people think you are. You can't talk to anyone about it because everyone puts you up on a pedestal...everyone knows who you are. Everyone sees you as a power couple, with respect and admiration. But you know the truth. In a relationship, if you know what you can be and it's not what you are - that's what eats you up inside. Invest and work on yourself first. As you change, your wife will change with you. You can become a power couple from the inside-out. It doesn't have to look perfect, but it will be real. In this episode, we are going to talk about the curse of the power couple, how to deal with it, and what it means to be a true power couple. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #324 Would you say you're a great husband? What qualities of yours would you like to remove or replace? What qualities would you add to make your life and your relationship a little bit better? For example, a great husband is not a drunk, or abusive. Look within your character and idealize what being a great husband looks like for you. Look at the qualities and attributes that you want to accentuate within yourself...qualities that you want to magnify and amplify. You cannot recognize the qualities of an ideal husband within other people unless they are within you. There are attributes of an ideal husband inside of you but there are some things that are holding you back from becoming one. In this episode, we are going to talk about the attributes of an ideal husband, the process of becoming one, and how to be an ideal husband without thinking about what other people might say about you. Get the free Ideal Husband worksheet at www.thepowerfulman.com/idealhusband __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #323 How are you going to solve your problems? If you've been dealing with the same problem for a long time, unable to find a solution on your own, you know what you should do - go to an expert who can properly identify the problem, help you to move forward, and can get you to a better place. It can be tough to take that step and admit that you don't have the answers or the solutions. For a lot of guys, it can be a difficult choice...but it is better to solve the problem rather than continue to live with it. Always seek a clear picture of where you are. Focus on the problems that need to be solved. Be honest with yourself. When wrestling with your problem and what it's costing you, ask yourself: Is this a price I am willing to pay? If the answer is no, commit yourself and take an action from there. Stop trying to solve problems on your own that you simply don't have solutions for. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to deal with your problems, the importance of expert help, and what you can do to change the situation you are in. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #322 When you give up all respect for yourself, your family and your wife will not respect you either. You'll become increasingly defensive and needy, and your wife will simply, and rightly, spend less time around you. How can you fix this? One effective first step is to focus on becoming trustworthy. Be a man of your word. Stop breaking promises, with yourself and with your wife. Start small and restore that trust you once had. Get clear and admit where you are in all areas of your life. Work on reclaiming yourself first. Take care of yourself more than focusing on how to please your wife. In this episode, we are going to talk about some of the reasons why she doesn't want to spend time with you anymore, and how to get back to a place where you and your wife can genuinely enjoy each other's company. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #321 If you want to see a big change in your life, you need to start taking bigger steps. Invest in yourself, take a stand for yourself and commit to your growth. Exercise your free will, and it will open the path of possibilities. You have to realize that you always have a choice, and you can change that choice at any moment. Stop complaining. When you don't believe you have a choice, you cast yourself as a victim. Don't pretend that your hands are tied, don't act like you're a victim, and don't act like you are being forced into anything. Because you are not. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop complaining and making excuses, how to exercise free will, knowing your priorities, and taking massive action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #320 What is quality time? Are you meeting your wife's needs while maintaining your desires and taking care of yourself? One of your partner's greatest needs is for quality time - and the key word here is quality. Too many men fail to apply something like The 80-20 Rule to quality time with their wife and family. The idea is to see to your wife's needs by being very present. Get grounded in who you are as a man and stand in your power. Deflect the stress and the worries, tune out the outside influences, and be mindful of habitual behavior. Focus on being fully present. In this episode, we are going to talk about meeting your wife's needs, the definition of quality time, and how to provide quality time to your wife and family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #319 What does it mean to be a 'deer' or a 'wolf' in a relationship? Deer behavior is best described as a misplaced desire to be a "good guy" but it will make you the prey and the beta in the relationship. Wolf behavior will position you as the alpha, channeling your masculine energy as a leader and a lover. The more masculine you are, the more feminine she allows herself to be. Learn how to be masculine without being a dick. Show masculine energy from a healthy, loving, and open perspective. Join The Activation Method, take care of yourself to look better and feel better. Be real and honest with yourself and start doing masculine things. In this episode, we are going to talk about the differences between deer behavior and wolf power, and how to show your masculine energy as passionate and pure. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #318 Is it possible to have it all? What does Work/Life "balance" mean to you? One of the most powerful aspects of human nature is that we feel more alive when we have purpose and direction. We are designed to thrive! That's why we are always seeking and setting bigger goals. The key to having it all in the Five Territories of life is to identify and seek out Rhythm. Eradicate the idea of Balance and embrace the idea of Rhythm. In this episode, we are going to talk about work-life "balance", why rhythm is what you really need, and the possibility of having it all. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #317 What are the four things that you need to eliminate in your relationship to make sure it won't end? 1. CRITICISM - the attack on someone's character. When you're criticizing, you're actually insulting that person's character. When you criticize your wife, she will either shut down or attack you. The same goes for when your wife criticizes you, you either shut down or attack her because you get hurt and offended. 2. CONTEMPT - the feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn. Contempt takes criticism further, to where we actively mock, belittle, or show genuine ugliness towards our partner. 3. DEFENSIVENESS - Sometimes we get defensive when we are accused unfairly. More often, however, it's something we fall into when we didn't do something we were supposed to and we feel guilty. We make excuses. Or we shift the blame onto someone else. 4. ??? - Listen and find out! In this episode, you will learn about the Four Horsemen in a relationship and how you can avoid them to make your relationship last long. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #316 Have you ever asked yourself these questions??? "What do I do when my wife checks out emotionally?" "What do I do when she ignores me after walking in the door after a busy day of work?" "Why is this happening and how can I change it?" The key we dive into in this episode is to work on yourself…because you can't see the beauty in someone else until you see the beauty in yourself. Take action NOW before you're FORCED to act. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #315 Would you fire yourself as the CEO of your life? You are the CEO of your own life. Decide if you are going to "promote" or "demote" yourself by evaluating how did you perform in the Five Territories of your life: Self, Health, Wealth, Relationship, and Business. There is a gap between where you are today and where you want to be. Reflect on that and be real with yourself. Write down your plans and the things that you want to do differently. You deserve to live a good life. If you are struggling, reach out to the community, step up, and get activated. Take action. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to evaluate yourself in the Five Territories of your life, and how to take action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #314 If I were to ask your wife if she thinks you show up as your authentic self every day....what would she say? Would those closest to you say that you are fully living out who you are.....or would they say that they can see you trying to be someone you're not? We have this perceived idea of who we "SHOULD" be and who we think our loved ones around us "WANT" us to be...but the reality is, those who truly love us want us to be the highest and most authentic version of ourselves. In this episode, Doug and Tim touch a bit on The Gap and what it looks like when we aren't showing up as our true selves and where we can start to step into that person. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #313 How do you gain admiration and respect from your wife? You begin by respecting yourself and your own time. Don't let her take the dominant role and don't let yourself be sacrificed for her. In order to gain admiration and respect from your partner, always take care of yourself and take a stand for who you are and what you want. Put yourself first and honor your boundaries. If you put yourself last, you are going to get drained and emptied out. You'll feel depressed, angry, lonely, resentful...eventually, you'll explode. So stop dropping everything for your wife! You only have one shot at this game called life. Get activated and take charge. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop dropping everything for your wife and the key steps on how to do it carefully and gracefully. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #312 How do you become dominant using "the dopamine surprise"? How do you take back your Alpha role? Surprise her and snap her out of the routine for her to realize that you are the true Alpha. When she gets surprised, she has a choice subconsciously to either fight with you or submit to you. If she submits, dopamine is released and there is an excitatory response that allows her to fall into her feminine, putting you naturally in the Alpha role. How can you do this? Try planning something that keeps her guessing and gets her excited. Lead the journey and be in control. In this episode, we are going to talk about steps to spice up your relationship while maintaining your dominant frame, and how to add an element of excitement and submission that will put you in the Alpha driver's seat. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #311 How do you keep the sexual chemistry and the spark alive in your relationship through the years? One of the things women are fond of us men for is our sense of humor. But over time, when we receive rejections from our wives after teasing them, there will come a point when we deactivate our sense of humor. We stop teasing and making jokes. We become afraid of rejection and become timid. We become attached to the negative outcome, thus lowering our confidence when dealing with our wives. One way to overcome it is to be playfully mean. Start joking to your wife and laugh at it even if your wife won't give the reaction you're expecting. Be confident with your approach. Be the Alpha once again. In this episode, learn how you can bring back the excitement in your marriage, reactivate your sense of humor, and win your wife back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #310 When was the last time you had sex with your wife where the two of you really enjoyed each other? Eroticism comes from the savoring of the moment. You can eat the meal or taste the meal. Are you the type of person who eats fast, and only for the sake of getting food into your stomach? Or are you that type who eats slowly, enjoy every bite you take, savoring the flavor of what you are eating? The secret to bringing back that eroticism in bed is to be present, physically and emotionally, with your wife. Start by having fun. For some guys, maybe you forget how to have fun in the bedroom. Explore each part of her body and just enjoy yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being there with your wife. Savor every moment when you're making love. Bring back the fun of having sex with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #309 Is this a SCAM? Is The Powerful Man movement a scam? Is The Activation Method a scam? It's normal to be hesitant about things that we aren't fully aware of, especially if it involves any kind of monetary value. It's normal to be scared of investing in something, especially if your investment could help you change your life. In this episode, Tim and Doug reaffirm that this program isn't fake. If your relationship needs help, then take action. You'll wish you'd have started sooner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #308 Be honest with yourself. Where are you today? Where do you want to be? The distance or space between where you are now and where you want to be is called "The Gap". How are the Five Territories of your life? What's the state of your Self, your Health, your Wealth, your Relationships, and your Business? Get real with yourself. Identifying where you really are today and where you want to be are important, but what you need to focus on is bridging The Gap between them. Take action. Take massive action. In this episode, Tim and Doug will share some tips on how we can bridge The Gap that separates where we are now and where we want to be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #307 Where are you in your life right now? Where are you in your Self? ...in your Wealth? ...in your Health? ...in your Relationships? ...in your Business? Take a snapshot of where you are at this very moment. Knowing where you are will help you figure out where you're going. When you delay your happiness until some time in the future, you will miss the entire point of the process...which is to enjoy it. Be mindful of any judgment or comparison, or labeling something as good or bad, because it will prevent you from owning where you are. In this episode, we are going to talk about how important it is to own where you are, and how to know where you are today. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #306 Has your marriage gone cold? Are you missing those steamy sex nights? Has it been a few days, weeks...or even months? How can you reignite that spark? The most effective way in bringing back that spark is simple: COMMUNICATION. Are you still having deep conversations with your wife? Or are you letting your business or your job consume all your energy? Prioritize that regular connection time. Spice things up. Create a sense of mystery. Cultivate an environment, an atmosphere, for sex. Make an effort. Seek out opportunities to give her compliments, and always remember that first moment you and your wife made love. In this episode, listen to Tim and Doug and learn what they have to say about how you can reignite your relationship in the bedroom. Don't let your relationship continue to be cold. Man up and win back your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #305 What's the difference between Alpha traits and Beta traits? What does it mean to be an Alpha? An ALPHA is someone who leads his own life, leads his own family, and leads his business. An Alpha is someone who takes charge, someone whose words are powerful and everyone will listen to. An Alpha leads by example. A BETA is mostly the opposite of the ALPHA. A Beta is someone who likes to just go with the flow, someone who just does what he was told, and someone who is stuck at playing as "The Nice Guy". And when you're the Beta in your relationship, chances are, your wife will be the Alpha, which is dangerous. Both of you being Betas isn't good, either. A relationship with two Betas is like driving a car without any destination. Who would like to have that kind of relationship? In this episode, you will learn the importance of being an Alpha in your relationship. Having that kind of ownership in your relationship will help your marriage to last. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #304 What if your wife is attracted to, or flirting with, someone else? How to know whether to save your marriage? Remember, don't fix your marriage just because of your kids. You don't want your kids going through life watching a relationship like yours, a shitty one. That's the worst thing you can do for your kids. You should show your kids how to value themselves, love themselves, and that they should be in a loving, caring, and intimate relationship. If you are struggling with the decision to try and fix your marriage or not, you have to first figure out how things got to this broken place, and what you can begin to do about it. Invest in yourself. Go to The Activation Method. Work on bettering yourself and raising your value to bring your woman back. Women are attracted to physical appearance and growth, women find that incredibly sexy. If your love her, if you are in love with her, and if you are willing to work on it, you should fix your marriage. But she has to stop looking outside your marriage immediately. If not, tell her you're out. End it. In this episode, let's have a deeper conversation about your relationship...about your marriage. Learn if it's worth saving, or if it's better to move on. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #303 Is your wife connecting with her family more now? Is she meeting with her friends more now without you? She's starting to build a relationship with them without you now probably because she feels lonely or unhappy. Probably she's scared that you might get a divorce. She's doing it so that she knows she has a safe landing spot. You have to know the situation. Your wife probably wants more attention from you...that's why she's creating that space away from you. She wants to feel connected, desired, and listened to. You need to look at the energy that you're bringing in, or else she's going to fill that void with her friends, with her family, or with another guy. You have to make sure you understand the warning signs. Be a man, you need to take action now. In this episode, you will learn the importance of understanding the warning signs of a drifting marriage so you can act on them right away. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #302 When you get married, it's not always going to be perfect. So when things don't exactly go the way you want them to, always remember that repairing a marriage is easier than going through a divorce and going back to the marketplace. Consider who you want to become. What are you going to do to better yourself? What are the things that you will change to attract your wife? There are many things that you can do to be a great husband. Show your wife how you focus on your personal development. Grow and upgrade yourself. Make an action plan for yourself. Think about your goals. Share all of this with her. Getting out there and pursuing your passion is attractive and sexy for women. Find like-minded men who share your goals. Consider The Activation Method. Change your style and take care of yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #301 Are the complaints you have the same as the ones you had last year, or 2 years ago? Are you repeating patterns of the past? Where are we? Until we get honest with ourselves, we're not going anywhere. Change should start within you. It starts with being honest about where you are currently. Take an assessment to see if you're repeating mistakes of the past. Einstein said, "You can't solve a problem with the same level of thinking that creates it." If you want to make sure this year is different, change your filter and shift your thinking. The fastest way is to hire somebody, find a coach or a mentor to give that outside perspective. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being honest with yourself as to where you are currently, and the value of getting a fresh perspective from a coach or mentor in order to change your thinking. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.