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Your Wife Is Unfulfilled

Episode #331 Most women who're at home taking care of the house are bored with no sense of purpose. Not fulfilling her potential and not being able to go after her dreams feels horrible, miserable, and is completely unfulfilling. When she finds a purpose or something that she enjoys, just listen. You may know more, but resist the temptation to help her unless she asks you first. Sit back and let her discover things in her own way. If things are not as good at home - arguments, distance, conflict - it may be because she isn't doing what she wants to be doing. Maybe she doesn't even know what she wants. When women give up on who they wanted to be and were never been able to find it again, they will become unhappy. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know if your wife is feeling unfulfilled, how to learn what she really wants, and what you can do to help. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 25, 202131 min

The Nice Guy & The Slot Machine

Episode #330 How would you recommend "putting your foot down" in a calm way? And what is Nice Guy Syndrome? The psychology of slot machines is that, even if you don't win something, you'll still have the hope and expectation that you're just a little bit closer. It keeps you coming back - hoping, expecting - and this is how addiction gets formed in gambling. It's the rush of possibility. Most guys at some point fall into the Nice Guy Syndrome. Constantly doing nice things, doing things for her, waiting for the dopamine hit, expecting and hoping for sex. Then, when they get their needs met and they get the attention and affection that they want, they turn their husband into a friend. Recognize the state that you are in and get activated. Learn who you are, what you deserve, and how to stand in your power effectively. Get what you want without being a dick, but being a natural, powerful man. In this episode, we are going to talk about the Nice Guy Syndrome, playing good cards and bad cards, how to "put your foot down", get reactivated, and how to turn from being just a Nice Guy to a Powerful Man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 23, 202136 min

Breaking Generational Patterns

Episode #329 What generational patterns have you seen that you want to change? Never judge another man from the lens of today-to-yesterday. There are different ways to create discipline. Think of who you want your child to become, what can serve them best, and how you can help them with their development. Be extremely conscious of being a better dad. Find and connect with role models who on the path to perfection and working on becoming better. Make sure you are involved in all aspects of your child's life. Being a dad is not easy, but you can tell the difference between a great dad and an okay dad. Choose to be a great dad. Be an amazing father, be the dad that your kids want to see and turn to for life advice. Look at the patterns in your family. Look back at what you didn't like about how you were raised. Spend time thinking about it. In this episode, we are going to talk about the generational patterns that we want to change and what we can do to improve and be a great father. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 20, 202139 min

But I'm Different

Episode #328 When you're looking to make a big change in your life, one of the easiest traps to fall into is to use your individuality as an excuse: "Sure, that may have worked for you, but I'm different..." So, how do you stop making those excuses? Everybody's situation and background are different. But you all have one thing in common - You want to be a better man. When you notice that you're feeling like a victim and when you start making excuses, filter your mind and start moving forward. Take your first step forward immediately. Sometimes your brain plays tricks on you. It makes you believe that all your justifications are true...when they are not. As soon as you start making those excuses, trigger an immediate response. Do the first action that will move you in the direction that you wanted to go. Get optics on where you are, skip the excuses, figure out what you want, and move forward. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop making excuses and start making fuel for your fire - to become the man you want to be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 18, 202124 min

Warren Buffett's Secret

Episode #327 Many people struggle with "shiny object syndrome" and a belief that they can be great at everything. We usually want it all, and we think that we can do more than what we're actually capable of. We give up on mastery for a perception of "being okay" at a bunch of things...a "jack-of-all-trades". Write down your top 25 goals from the five territories and then circle the 5 most important goals for you. Focus on those 5 things. The other 20 goals go on a separate list. These are the absolute do not do, do not touch goals. Do not spend any time in that zone. Once you have these five primary goals, go all-in with dedicated focus. You can replace only the goals that you finish. Achieve your top goals first before moving onto your next goal. Focus on one thing at a time. In this episode, we are going to talk about Warren Buffet's secret, The 25-5 Rule, the do-not-do list vs. the do-list, and how to focus on achieving your goals. Get your FREE worksheet of Warren's secret here: http://thepowerfulman.com/warren __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 16, 202129 min

Hiding It From Your Wife

Episode #326 What are you hiding from your wife? Is it something you're ashamed of? Shame is the biggest issue. You are hiding from your wife because you feel shameful about the behavior, and that can lead to a lot of problems. It will show up in your marriage, your work, and how you perform in every part of your life. There are things that you don't want her to find out because you are worried about the reaction she's gonna give you. It happens to a lot of guys...but be open. It's part of the relationship. The reason we don't share is that we are judging ourselves. We are so reliant on our spouse for filling us up. We focus on our needs getting met by them. Before you realize what's happening, you've become a needy man...and that is not a good place to be. Nobody wants to be there. It doesn't feel good to carry around a lie. It feels heavy. It's truly easier to reach out to your wife rather than lying and hiding from her. Just come clean. It can be scary at first but it will feel great. You will feel so much better after. In this episode, we are going to talk about the things you are hiding from your wife, the reasons why you are hiding something, and the steps you can take to come clean with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 13, 202124 min

The Curse of the Power Couple

Episode #325 You don't become a successful business leader without you and your wife being considered as a "power couple". But is there really power in your relationship? Do you feel like a powerful couple? If you have problems in your marriage that you can't figure out, you'll feel embarrassed and ashamed that you are not what people think you are. You can't talk to anyone about it because everyone puts you up on a pedestal...everyone knows who you are. Everyone sees you as a power couple, with respect and admiration. But you know the truth. In a relationship, if you know what you can be and it's not what you are - that's what eats you up inside. Invest and work on yourself first. As you change, your wife will change with you. You can become a power couple from the inside-out. It doesn't have to look perfect, but it will be real. In this episode, we are going to talk about the curse of the power couple, how to deal with it, and what it means to be a true power couple. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 11, 202127 min

The Ideal Husband

Episode #324 Would you say you're a great husband? What qualities of yours would you like to remove or replace? What qualities would you add to make your life and your relationship a little bit better? For example, a great husband is not a drunk, or abusive. Look within your character and idealize what being a great husband looks like for you. Look at the qualities and attributes that you want to accentuate within yourself...qualities that you want to magnify and amplify. You cannot recognize the qualities of an ideal husband within other people unless they are within you. There are attributes of an ideal husband inside of you but there are some things that are holding you back from becoming one. In this episode, we are going to talk about the attributes of an ideal husband, the process of becoming one, and how to be an ideal husband without thinking about what other people might say about you. Get the free Ideal Husband worksheet at www.thepowerfulman.com/idealhusband __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 9, 202126 min

What Happens To Most Guys

Episode #323 How are you going to solve your problems? If you've been dealing with the same problem for a long time, unable to find a solution on your own, you know what you should do - go to an expert who can properly identify the problem, help you to move forward, and can get you to a better place. It can be tough to take that step and admit that you don't have the answers or the solutions. For a lot of guys, it can be a difficult choice...but it is better to solve the problem rather than continue to live with it. Always seek a clear picture of where you are. Focus on the problems that need to be solved. Be honest with yourself. When wrestling with your problem and what it's costing you, ask yourself: Is this a price I am willing to pay? If the answer is no, commit yourself and take an action from there. Stop trying to solve problems on your own that you simply don't have solutions for. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to deal with your problems, the importance of expert help, and what you can do to change the situation you are in. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 6, 202131 min

When Your Wife Doesn't Want To Spend Time With You

Episode #322 When you give up all respect for yourself, your family and your wife will not respect you either. You'll become increasingly defensive and needy, and your wife will simply, and rightly, spend less time around you. How can you fix this? One effective first step is to focus on becoming trustworthy. Be a man of your word. Stop breaking promises, with yourself and with your wife. Start small and restore that trust you once had. Get clear and admit where you are in all areas of your life. Work on reclaiming yourself first. Take care of yourself more than focusing on how to please your wife. In this episode, we are going to talk about some of the reasons why she doesn't want to spend time with you anymore, and how to get back to a place where you and your wife can genuinely enjoy each other's company. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 4, 202124 min

How To Stop Making Excuses

Episode #321 If you want to see a big change in your life, you need to start taking bigger steps. Invest in yourself, take a stand for yourself and commit to your growth. Exercise your free will, and it will open the path of possibilities. You have to realize that you always have a choice, and you can change that choice at any moment. Stop complaining. When you don't believe you have a choice, you cast yourself as a victim. Don't pretend that your hands are tied, don't act like you're a victim, and don't act like you are being forced into anything. Because you are not. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop complaining and making excuses, how to exercise free will, knowing your priorities, and taking massive action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 2, 202129 min

Quality Over Quantity

Episode #320 What is quality time? Are you meeting your wife's needs while maintaining your desires and taking care of yourself? One of your partner's greatest needs is for quality time - and the key word here is quality. Too many men fail to apply something like The 80-20 Rule to quality time with their wife and family. The idea is to see to your wife's needs by being very present. Get grounded in who you are as a man and stand in your power. Deflect the stress and the worries, tune out the outside influences, and be mindful of habitual behavior. Focus on being fully present. In this episode, we are going to talk about meeting your wife's needs, the definition of quality time, and how to provide quality time to your wife and family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 27, 202126 min

Being A Deer VS. Being A Wolf

Episode #319 What does it mean to be a 'deer' or a 'wolf' in a relationship? Deer behavior is best described as a misplaced desire to be a "good guy" but it will make you the prey and the beta in the relationship. Wolf behavior will position you as the alpha, channeling your masculine energy as a leader and a lover. The more masculine you are, the more feminine she allows herself to be. Learn how to be masculine without being a dick. Show masculine energy from a healthy, loving, and open perspective. Join The Activation Method, take care of yourself to look better and feel better. Be real and honest with yourself and start doing masculine things. In this episode, we are going to talk about the differences between deer behavior and wolf power, and how to show your masculine energy as passionate and pure. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 25, 202149 min

Is It Really Possible To "Have It All?"

Episode #318 Is it possible to have it all? What does Work/Life "balance" mean to you? One of the most powerful aspects of human nature is that we feel more alive when we have purpose and direction. We are designed to thrive! That's why we are always seeking and setting bigger goals. The key to having it all in the Five Territories of life is to identify and seek out Rhythm. Eradicate the idea of Balance and embrace the idea of Rhythm. In this episode, we are going to talk about work-life "balance", why rhythm is what you really need, and the possibility of having it all. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 23, 202132 min

The Four Horsemen Of A Relationship

Episode #317 What are the four things that you need to eliminate in your relationship to make sure it won't end? 1. CRITICISM - the attack on someone's character. When you're criticizing, you're actually insulting that person's character. When you criticize your wife, she will either shut down or attack you. The same goes for when your wife criticizes you, you either shut down or attack her because you get hurt and offended. 2. CONTEMPT - the feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn. Contempt takes criticism further, to where we actively mock, belittle, or show genuine ugliness towards our partner. 3. DEFENSIVENESS - Sometimes we get defensive when we are accused unfairly. More often, however, it's something we fall into when we didn't do something we were supposed to and we feel guilty. We make excuses. Or we shift the blame onto someone else. 4. ??? - Listen and find out! In this episode, you will learn about the Four Horsemen in a relationship and how you can avoid them to make your relationship last long. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 20, 202147 min

Revisit: What To Do When Your Wife's Checked Out

Episode #316 Have you ever asked yourself these questions??? "What do I do when my wife checks out emotionally?" "What do I do when she ignores me after walking in the door after a busy day of work?" "Why is this happening and how can I change it?" The key we dive into in this episode is to work on yourself…because you can't see the beauty in someone else until you see the beauty in yourself. Take action NOW before you're FORCED to act. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 18, 202121 min

Would You Fire Yourself?

Episode #315 Would you fire yourself as the CEO of your life? You are the CEO of your own life. Decide if you are going to "promote" or "demote" yourself by evaluating how did you perform in the Five Territories of your life: Self, Health, Wealth, Relationship, and Business. There is a gap between where you are today and where you want to be. Reflect on that and be real with yourself. Write down your plans and the things that you want to do differently. You deserve to live a good life. If you are struggling, reach out to the community, step up, and get activated. Take action. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to evaluate yourself in the Five Territories of your life, and how to take action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 16, 202114 min

The Other You

Episode #314 If I were to ask your wife if she thinks you show up as your authentic self every day....what would she say? Would those closest to you say that you are fully living out who you are.....or would they say that they can see you trying to be someone you're not? We have this perceived idea of who we "SHOULD" be and who we think our loved ones around us "WANT" us to be...but the reality is, those who truly love us want us to be the highest and most authentic version of ourselves. In this episode, Doug and Tim touch a bit on The Gap and what it looks like when we aren't showing up as our true selves and where we can start to step into that person. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 13, 202128 min

Dropping Everything for Your Wife?

Episode #313 How do you gain admiration and respect from your wife? You begin by respecting yourself and your own time. Don't let her take the dominant role and don't let yourself be sacrificed for her. In order to gain admiration and respect from your partner, always take care of yourself and take a stand for who you are and what you want. Put yourself first and honor your boundaries. If you put yourself last, you are going to get drained and emptied out. You'll feel depressed, angry, lonely, resentful...eventually, you'll explode. So stop dropping everything for your wife! You only have one shot at this game called life. Get activated and take charge. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop dropping everything for your wife and the key steps on how to do it carefully and gracefully. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 11, 202119 min

Become Dominant with the Dopamine Surprise

Episode #312 How do you become dominant using "the dopamine surprise"? How do you take back your Alpha role? Surprise her and snap her out of the routine for her to realize that you are the true Alpha. When she gets surprised, she has a choice subconsciously to either fight with you or submit to you. If she submits, dopamine is released and there is an excitatory response that allows her to fall into her feminine, putting you naturally in the Alpha role. How can you do this? Try planning something that keeps her guessing and gets her excited. Lead the journey and be in control. In this episode, we are going to talk about steps to spice up your relationship while maintaining your dominant frame, and how to add an element of excitement and submission that will put you in the Alpha driver's seat. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 9, 202123 min

Be Playfully Mean

Episode #311 How do you keep the sexual chemistry and the spark alive in your relationship through the years? One of the things women are fond of us men for is our sense of humor. But over time, when we receive rejections from our wives after teasing them, there will come a point when we deactivate our sense of humor. We stop teasing and making jokes. We become afraid of rejection and become timid. We become attached to the negative outcome, thus lowering our confidence when dealing with our wives. One way to overcome it is to be playfully mean. Start joking to your wife and laugh at it even if your wife won't give the reaction you're expecting. Be confident with your approach. Be the Alpha once again. In this episode, learn how you can bring back the excitement in your marriage, reactivate your sense of humor, and win your wife back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 6, 202134 min

Bringing Eroticism Back Into The Bedroom

Episode #310 When was the last time you had sex with your wife where the two of you really enjoyed each other? Eroticism comes from the savoring of the moment. You can eat the meal or taste the meal. Are you the type of person who eats fast, and only for the sake of getting food into your stomach? Or are you that type who eats slowly, enjoy every bite you take, savoring the flavor of what you are eating? The secret to bringing back that eroticism in bed is to be present, physically and emotionally, with your wife. Start by having fun. For some guys, maybe you forget how to have fun in the bedroom. Explore each part of her body and just enjoy yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being there with your wife. Savor every moment when you're making love. Bring back the fun of having sex with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 4, 202119 min

Is This A Scam?

Episode #309 Is this a SCAM? Is The Powerful Man movement a scam? Is The Activation Method a scam? It's normal to be hesitant about things that we aren't fully aware of, especially if it involves any kind of monetary value. It's normal to be scared of investing in something, especially if your investment could help you change your life. In this episode, Tim and Doug reaffirm that this program isn't fake. If your relationship needs help, then take action. You'll wish you'd have started sooner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 2, 202126 min

The Gap

Episode #308 Be honest with yourself. Where are you today? Where do you want to be? The distance or space between where you are now and where you want to be is called "The Gap". How are the Five Territories of your life? What's the state of your Self, your Health, your Wealth, your Relationships, and your Business? Get real with yourself. Identifying where you really are today and where you want to be are important, but what you need to focus on is bridging The Gap between them. Take action. Take massive action. In this episode, Tim and Doug will share some tips on how we can bridge The Gap that separates where we are now and where we want to be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 30, 202136 min

Revisit: Owning Where You Are

Episode #307 Where are you in your life right now? Where are you in your Self? ...in your Wealth? ...in your Health? ...in your Relationships? ...in your Business? Take a snapshot of where you are at this very moment. Knowing where you are will help you figure out where you're going. When you delay your happiness until some time in the future, you will miss the entire point of the process...which is to enjoy it. Be mindful of any judgment or comparison, or labeling something as good or bad, because it will prevent you from owning where you are. In this episode, we are going to talk about how important it is to own where you are, and how to know where you are today. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 28, 202127 min

How To Get The Spark Back In The Bedroom

Episode #306 Has your marriage gone cold? Are you missing those steamy sex nights? Has it been a few days, weeks...or even months? How can you reignite that spark? The most effective way in bringing back that spark is simple: COMMUNICATION. Are you still having deep conversations with your wife? Or are you letting your business or your job consume all your energy? Prioritize that regular connection time. Spice things up. Create a sense of mystery. Cultivate an environment, an atmosphere, for sex. Make an effort. Seek out opportunities to give her compliments, and always remember that first moment you and your wife made love. In this episode, listen to Tim and Doug and learn what they have to say about how you can reignite your relationship in the bedroom. Don't let your relationship continue to be cold. Man up and win back your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 26, 202132 min

Alpha VS. Beta Traits

Episode #305 What's the difference between Alpha traits and Beta traits? What does it mean to be an Alpha? An ALPHA is someone who leads his own life, leads his own family, and leads his business. An Alpha is someone who takes charge, someone whose words are powerful and everyone will listen to. An Alpha leads by example. A BETA is mostly the opposite of the ALPHA. A Beta is someone who likes to just go with the flow, someone who just does what he was told, and someone who is stuck at playing as "The Nice Guy". And when you're the Beta in your relationship, chances are, your wife will be the Alpha, which is dangerous. Both of you being Betas isn't good, either. A relationship with two Betas is like driving a car without any destination. Who would like to have that kind of relationship? In this episode, you will learn the importance of being an Alpha in your relationship. Having that kind of ownership in your relationship will help your marriage to last. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 23, 202129 min

How To Know Whether To Save Your Marriage

Episode #304 What if your wife is attracted to, or flirting with, someone else? How to know whether to save your marriage? Remember, don't fix your marriage just because of your kids. You don't want your kids going through life watching a relationship like yours, a shitty one. That's the worst thing you can do for your kids. You should show your kids how to value themselves, love themselves, and that they should be in a loving, caring, and intimate relationship. If you are struggling with the decision to try and fix your marriage or not, you have to first figure out how things got to this broken place, and what you can begin to do about it. Invest in yourself. Go to The Activation Method. Work on bettering yourself and raising your value to bring your woman back. Women are attracted to physical appearance and growth, women find that incredibly sexy. If your love her, if you are in love with her, and if you are willing to work on it, you should fix your marriage. But she has to stop looking outside your marriage immediately. If not, tell her you're out. End it. In this episode, let's have a deeper conversation about your relationship...about your marriage. Learn if it's worth saving, or if it's better to move on. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 21, 202131 min

How To Spot The Warning Signs

Episode #303 Is your wife connecting with her family more now? Is she meeting with her friends more now without you? She's starting to build a relationship with them without you now probably because she feels lonely or unhappy. Probably she's scared that you might get a divorce. She's doing it so that she knows she has a safe landing spot. You have to know the situation. Your wife probably wants more attention from you...that's why she's creating that space away from you. She wants to feel connected, desired, and listened to. You need to look at the energy that you're bringing in, or else she's going to fill that void with her friends, with her family, or with another guy. You have to make sure you understand the warning signs. Be a man, you need to take action now. In this episode, you will learn the importance of understanding the warning signs of a drifting marriage so you can act on them right away. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 19, 202122 min

One Thing You Can Do To Break A Sexless Marriage

Episode #302 When you get married, it's not always going to be perfect. So when things don't exactly go the way you want them to, always remember that repairing a marriage is easier than going through a divorce and going back to the marketplace. Consider who you want to become. What are you going to do to better yourself? What are the things that you will change to attract your wife? There are many things that you can do to be a great husband. Show your wife how you focus on your personal development. Grow and upgrade yourself. Make an action plan for yourself. Think about your goals. Share all of this with her. Getting out there and pursuing your passion is attractive and sexy for women. Find like-minded men who share your goals. Consider The Activation Method. Change your style and take care of yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 16, 202126 min

Groundhog's Day - Repeating The Past

Episode #301 Are the complaints you have the same as the ones you had last year, or 2 years ago? Are you repeating patterns of the past? Where are we? Until we get honest with ourselves, we're not going anywhere. Change should start within you. It starts with being honest about where you are currently. Take an assessment to see if you're repeating mistakes of the past. Einstein said, "You can't solve a problem with the same level of thinking that creates it." If you want to make sure this year is different, change your filter and shift your thinking. The fastest way is to hire somebody, find a coach or a mentor to give that outside perspective. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being honest with yourself as to where you are currently, and the value of getting a fresh perspective from a coach or mentor in order to change your thinking. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 14, 202117 min

Drink A Little Drink... Smoke A Little Smoke

Episode #300 What role does alcohol play in your life? What triggers you to drink alcohol? The potential problem here is not the drink. It's what you're using the drink for. When drinking becomes unconscious or a way to "hide out" and you repeat that pattern, that's when it becomes a problem. Women use alcohol to open up and receive, while men do it to release. Men drink to liberate their egos. When you're doing it unconsciously, you'll soon lose your perspective...and before you know it, your edge. You have to be conscious about it, recognize your triggers, get clarity around it, and do something. In this episode, you will learn the importance of knowing the triggers of why you drink alcohol and the importance of being conscious of doing it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 12, 202135 min

SMV

Episode #299 Have you ever tried rating your sexual market value? How about your partner? How much gap do you have when it comes to your SMV's? If there's too much of a gap between you and your wife's SMV, if your wife's SMV is higher than yours, other men tend to notice it and they start to step in. When gaps happen, affairs take place. Be honest, and see if there is a gap. Take immediate action and invest in yourself. Get into the Alpha Rise and Shine, get into a workout program or a personal growth program. Do something to raise your value. In this episode, you will learn how to ascertain your sexual market value and how you can raise it to a higher level. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 9, 202123 min

Revisit: When Your New Year's Resolution Seems to Repeat Itself

Episode #298 Today is the 7th day of the year. A week has already passed us. And for most of us, this is the time where we set our new year's resolutions. Every year, we're making promises to ourselves about the things that we want and don't want to achieve. The sad thing is, most of the time, we achieve what we don't want to achieve and failed on things that we want to reach. Every year has been the same. What should you do differently? This episode might just answer that question - How NOT to repeat the same mistakes with your new year's resolutions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 7, 202130 min

A Look Back On A Challenging Year 2020

Episode #297 The Powerful Man pivoted big time in the year 2020. The movement brought alumni together and tackled topics about thriving during the pandemic instead of merely surviving it. This helped the men discover how they could serve their business, relationships, and communities better. While other people binged on Netflix, hiding out elsewhere, men from this group focused on how to thrive in 2020 and stepped up their game in their business and relationship. One of the highlights is The Powerful Marriage Reset. Coaches provided information and tools on how men from this group could save their marriages and how to have their best year in business. Another highlight was the virtual retreat, which got everyone following the Alpha Rise and Shine Protocol. Through the movement, men realized that showing up in a big way is the best thing they did, and allowed them to go from the impossible to a new reality. In this episode, let's review what happened in 2020 learn how the men from The Powerful Man were able to thrive, and how the movement was able to help business owners to show up and step up their game in order to better serve not only their business but also their families and communities. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 5, 202143 min

How To Reclaim The "Sex Frame" In 2021

Episode #296 Have you ever felt like you constantly have to ask your wife for sex and never know when you'll be having sex? Maybe it feels like sex is always on HER terms and you're constantly left feeling like your needs aren't being met and have no idea what to do about it? In this episode, we talk about what it means to be in the woman's frame around sex (when you're living in HER reality) and what to do to reclaim that frame for yourself. Like most things, it starts with YOU. You get to do the work with yourself, which will allow you to flip the script and reclaim the "sex frame" within your relationship __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 2, 202129 min

Being World Class in 2021

Episode #295 What went well, and not-so-well, with the previous year? How can you step up your game and be world-class in 2021? It's important to have a clear vision and to purposefully create your goals. Review what went wrong in the previous year, learn the lessons, and do something different. Track down what your wins are as well as your losses. It will give you a greater sense of success and momentum, and help you better identify the things you need to improve. Live the visions and goals that you create. Be committed to changing your life and step boldly into being a world-class version of yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of revisiting your overall performance, or how you "showed up" in all areas of your life, in order to become the world-class version of yourself this 2021. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 31, 202036 min

The Myth of Unconditional Love

Episode #294 Do you feel like your wife is working against you instead of working with you? Are you craving unconditional love from your wife? When you get married, everything seems perfect. But if things start to go wrong, most women start to find their way out. That's why women need emotional security from their partners. As men, we want to have someone who will stay with us through the ups and downs, who will stay until the finish line, who will love us unconditionally. In this episode, you will understand the reasons why we crave unconditional love from our partner. We will also talk about how can we regain the respect and loyalty of our partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 29, 202041 min

Where Are You?

Episode #293 How often do you check in...with yourself? Do you ask yourself how you're feeling within your relationship? How you've been doing with your health goals? Or even how you're feeling emotionally, overall? In this episode, we're going to talk about the importance of simply checking in with yourself without judgment or shame. If you aren't where you feel you should be, or if you've been slacking on some of your goals, then you get to give yourself some grace and make a course correction. If you haven't done this in a while, then NOW during this episode is the perfect time! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 26, 202022 min

Why Your Kids Cannot Come First

Episode #292 What do you think is the driving force behind why we lose connection in our relationships? Is it a lack of prioritization? Most people say that the proper prioritization is that the individual must take care of themselves first, then the relationship, then the kids. However, sometimes the kids get sick and need your help and attention, so they are taken care of first in order for you to take care of yourself. When you have kids, the relationship "dries out" a little bit. You tend to forget to provide for each other's emotional needs, as individuals and as a couple, because your focus is mainly on the kids. We must take care of ourselves first. Be honest with yourself. Sit with your wife, come up with what you want individually, what you want as a couple, and find ways to fit those wants into your relationship. Make a system that works for you and your family. Do something fun and take care of yourself so that you can take care of your relationship and your family. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 24, 202024 min

The Biology Of An Affair

Episode #291 Oftentimes, when someone has an affair, the partner wonders how this could have happened! To them, there were NO signs and it came out of the blue! The truth is, there are ALWAYS signs...you just have to learn how to look. In this episode, Doug breaks down the actual biology that occurs around having an affair and focuses on what that looks like for a woman, specifically. With this information, you may gain a deeper understanding of what happens, on a biological level, that puts women in a position to cheat, allowing you to take precautions within your relationship to keep this from happening. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 22, 202026 min

Revisit: I Don't Need To Date My Wife, We're Too Busy

Episode #290 When was the last time you took your wife on a date? If you're not actively dating your wife, you won't be able to build and grow a deeper connection in the relationship. Typically, we become so busy making money to provide for all the needs of our family that we often forget to plan a date night with our wife. This will often result in feeling guilty for not being able to offer the attention that our partner needs, which is why we resort to alternatives. We buy expensive gifts for her in order to make up for those missed date nights, but that's not the true connection she's looking for. Because of this, the disconnection between you grows, and soon you will realize that you and your partner are slowly drifting apart. It's important to work on yourself in order to have the energy you need to truly nurture your relationship. Prioritize your relationship with your wife. Date her the way you dated her before your marriage. Make her feel special. Dedicate a space and time to connect with her without mentioning anything about business. Give her that deeper level of intimacy and connection. In this episode, you will learn the importance of dating your wife, the effects of relying on the alternatives instead of dating your wife to build a connection, how to nurture your relationship and how to provide emotion in the relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 19, 202025 min

Revisit: When Results Don't Show Up Fast Enough

Episode #289 It is our nature as humans to be impatient. We want immediate gratification, and we want everything now because of the society we are living in. And yet, when we are given things that we aren't ready for we often crumble easily. In order for us to grow, we must learn through the process. It is important for us to enjoy the journey and shift as an individual along the way, allowing us to enjoy the result and the destination that much more. Being a man means doing what is necessary even if it's not easy. A powerful man does what it takes to get there. He focuses on the process instead of focusing on the result. He lets go of the external validation and lives from the inside out. While going through the journey you will be able to find your center, the true powerful man within you, and you will be able to enjoy the outcome more. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being patient and of living from the inside out, how to enjoy the results that you want, and how to find the powerful man within you through the process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 17, 202020 min

The Greatest Loss In Life...and How To Reclaim It

Episode #288 What do you do for fun? What is it that you really want to do in life? Many men work their tails off building businesses, then find themselves watching as their relationship starts to crumble. These men then do everything they can to put their broken relationship back together...and end up putting themselves last. Do you know what we always forget? We forget to have FUN! We give everything of ourselves until there is nothing left for anyone. Take the time to discover what you really want to do. Put your needs first, or nothing you build will last. In this episode, you will learn the importance of putting yourself first and being able to have fun while being successful in business. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 15, 202020 min

Managing Finances with Your Wife

Episode #287 Would you be surprised to hear that money is one of the top ten reasons why couples get divorced? If you've ever been in a serious relationship, you probably don't find this shocking at all. When the topic of money comes up in relationships, it's often discussed with the energy of frustration and tension. But the truth is, the reason there is frustration and tension actually has NOTHING to do with money. In this episode, we talk about the Emotional Bank Account and how focusing on THIS will actually help bring your conversations around money to a place of ease. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 12, 202025 min

Saving vs. Leading

Episode #286 When your spouse is going through something, do you feel the urge to "save" her or do you want to lead her? We tend to try and solve other people's problems because we want external validation. We'd love to help other people because it makes us feel good about ourselves and makes us feel significant in the world that we live in. Saving seems to be the most honorable thing, but in reality, it's the last thing most people want. If you want to help her, allow her to go through the process. That's leadership. Make her feel emotionally safe and trust you fully. Once you're solid within yourself, then you can become like the lighthouse in the storm. The lighthouse stands, guiding her home, no matter how hard the waves are crashing. Show her the way, how to solve it, without any expectation of a particular outcome. That's when people start following. Women don't want to be saved, they want to be led. In this episode, you will learn how important is it for women to be led, not saved, by a powerful man, as we go deeper into some of the key differences between saving and leading. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 10, 202024 min

The Red Pill

Episode #285 This episode was inspired by a documentary film called, The Red Pill directed by Cassie Jaye. The film explores the men's rights movement, as Jaye spends a year filming the leaders and followers within the movement. Gender equality has always been an issue. But it's important to be aware that there will always be some things that women can do better than men, and vice-versa. In this episode, you will learn some shocking facts about men. Join Tim and Doug as they take a deeper dive into The Red Pill theory. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 8, 202036 min

Two Baskets - Thinking Differently About Your Delivery

Episode #284 Are you doing the same thing over and over again when it comes to solving your problems? In business, doing things differently can increase the efficiency of staff and the likelihood of customer satisfaction. A simple and subtle shift in the delivery of service is a big deal. Do things differently. Look at common complaints in every area of your life, relationships, and business. Look at different solutions and alternatives that might not have been there previously. You'll be able to see results that you haven't seen before. Subtle changes and minor tweaks in our thought process can solve a problem, improve our business, and grow our relationships. In this episode, you will learn how important it is to do things differently - how small and subtle changes will impact your life and your business. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 5, 202030 min

Revisit: Am I Failing As A Father?

Episode #283 On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and 1 being the lowest, how do you rate yourself as a father? Are you giving your children the best you have to offer? Or are you giving them your leftovers after you've given your best to your business, the best to your staff, the best to your customers, the best to your friends… Where do your kids fit into that? Are they going to be like you when they grow older and become a parent in the future? But the real question is… How do you know if you're failing as a father? By what standards are we measuring fatherhood? Get to the core of what's going on in your life. That's when you'll realize whether you're being a good father...or if you are failing as a father to your kids. In this episode, Tim & Doug talk about the importance of evaluating yourself as a father, and how to give the best of yourself to your children. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 3, 202030 min

What To Do When Your Relationship Goes Stagnant

Episode #282 Are you bored with your partner? What kind of conversations do you have with your wife? As a man, you should take charge of the relationship. Men should be the ones leading, bringing out fun conversations. But it's also important to make sure that your life is fun first. Spend time with yourself and develop yourself. Create space for your partner to have some time with herself, too. Set goals for your relationship. Always learn and do something new together. It's one of the best ways to find out new things about each other. In this episode, you will learn how to reignite your relationship with your spouse, and the importance of self-development in improving your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Dec 1, 202027 min