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How to Forgive Yourself

Episode #400 "Whatever you did, you're not the same man." What do you do if you've hurt someone who's dear to you? Will you admit fault? Will you take responsibility? In this episode, we'll talk about some strategies on how you can stop punishing yourself. Now is the time to improve yourself more - because you are stronger than before. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 2, 202112 min

The Stages of Manhood

Episode #399 What stage are you in? Are you in the stage where you're earning and building your vision for your career? Are you in the stage where you need some space other than work? Why do you think you're at that stage? In this episode, we'll get into the seven stages of manhood and we'll help you to identify what stage you're really in. It's time to take the right path and be a more Powerful Man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 31, 202141 min

What To Do When Your Wife Puts You Down

Episode #398 What are you going to do if your wife offends you? Would you confront her? "That's not cool. That's not acceptable." Do you feel good as a man? In this episode, let's talk about what makes us upset in a relationship and some points on how to compromise with your wife. It's time for you to rebuild your confidence and give her a peaceful mind. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 28, 202117 min

What To Do When Your Relationship Is 'Tit-For-Tat'

Episode #397 Are you aware of what's going on in your relationship? Or are you ignoring the problem? Does this sound familiar? "Whatever the reason, she feels the need to defend herself." How can you avoid misunderstandings with your wife? In this episode, we'll get into the three levels of a relationship, and some methods on how to convey your message to her in a better way. Make her understand that you want to stay connected with each other and grow together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 26, 202119 min

Setting Boundaries In Your Business & Life

Episode #396 "When you constantly make and break promises to yourself, your worth can start to become kind of meaningless to yourself." Have you made a lot of promises to yourself? How many of those promises have you not kept? Why didn't you keep your promise? Is it because you don't have time? In this episode, we discuss some tips on how to manage boundaries in business and relationships. This is an opportunity for you to recognize the things you really want to do in life and make them happen - because you are a man of integrity. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 24, 202120 min

Are You Doing The Basics?

Episode #395 What are you doing to please the people you love? And are you really doing the right thing? We always want to help our loved ones - even when our plates are full - because we know how strong we are and we know that we can do it. Eventually, however, the weight of this drains us. We feel burdened by the help we provide. Why? Let's talk about the effects of putting others first. We keep taking care of people we love, but we're forgetting someone who really needs help. This episode will give you a better insight on how to live your life to the fullest and how to be a more responsible man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 21, 202119 min

Why Your Wife Is Never Satisfied

Episode #394 "A woman is never satisfied and a lot of times, it comes up with an argument." Did you ever wonder why she's never satisfied no matter what you do? What is the missing element? In this episode, we are going to talk about the things a woman wants - and something she really needs - in order to be satisfied. It's all about how to fix your relationship when you're always fighting. It's time for you to take immediate action to make her happy and contented. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 19, 202119 min

Is It That You're Just Too Old?

Episode #393 What's holding you back from achieving all of your dreams? How often do you limit yourself from opportunities? All of us have experienced failures in relationships, careers, and personal development. Are you too old to start something new? In this episode, we talk about our experiences and decisions in life. If you are not sure how to move forward, then this is for you. It is never too late to take back what's yours - because you are strong enough to rise up. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 17, 202124 min

Winners Want the Ball

Episode #392 "Winners don't just want the ball they demand the ball". Why do certain people succeed in life? Is it because they have more talent? Is it because they have more opportunities? No. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about the one factor that separates the winners from those who watch on the sidelines. They talk about how you can see this factor show up in sports, in business, and even in relationships. If you're tired of watching other people succeed from the sidelines, then this episode is for you - time to step it up and demand the ball. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 14, 202130 min

Your Wife Has A High Sex Drive

Episode #391 Something we hear men complain about often at The Powerful Man is that they believe their wives have no sex drive. At the beginning of their relationship, things were hot and heavy. But after getting married, the frequency and passion of the sex they're having has consistently declined. These men just assume that their wife has lost her sex drive. This is not true. In fact, women complain more often about their husbands having no sex drive! So, what's really happening here? If men are believing their wives have lost their sex drive, and women are believing their husbands have lost theirs, something simply doesn't add up. In this episode, Doug and Tim explain how this sexless cycle begins, and how to make a shift so that you both can start having the sex you want again. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 12, 202127 min

She Texts Him Saying "I Want Your D*ck"

Episode #390 How do you make her desire, admire and respect you? How will the program help you to flip a sexless marriage back to the heat you remember? A lot of us have been in this kind of situation: your marriage has become sexless - no intimacy, just anger...and fighting. You've become roommates with your wife, also known as Roommates With a Ring Syndrome. Give her the space to be emotional and be who she is and still love her and remain grounded on who she is. Stay as the man she fell in love with from the beginning. Make her feel she can be herself around you. Men don't want just sex - men want intimacy, connection, and respect. And they want admiration and respect to happen naturally. In this episode, we touch on the Inner Circle, and how to deal with a sexless marriage. We go into how the program helps you to make her desire, admire and respect you - and how to show up as a Powerful Man to your spouse. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 10, 202127 min

Shaun Zetlin's Journey

Episode #389 How to get past self-sabotaging behavior? How to become your real and better version of yourself? For a lot of men in their mid-30s and 40s they let go of themselves a little bit, they start joining a gym and everything but as they start to make progress, it's like they get one step forward and then two steps back. As you take your journey into parenthood and being a partner needs a lot of energy and a lot of work to do it successfully. It requires a lot of attention and a lot of emotion. And if you also have a business, you start to struggle then you start to put yourself last. If you don't give yourself what you need, you are not giving yourself everything that you need to be your best self, how can you be all these other things? It really has to start within yourself. It's always gonna be you versus you. Your worst enemy is yourself. If you are learning about yourself ask yourself why there are things that don't work in the past and how can it work in the future, and if you don't know the answer then you need to seek help. In this episode, we are going to talk about Shaun Zetlin's journey, who he is, how to get past this self-sabotaging behavior that we get, the importance of taking care of yourself, how to become your best self, how to perform at a high level and how to use fitness as an emotional tool to reset men's batteries. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 7, 202131 min

Life After Divorce

Episode #388 What does life look like after a divorce? The activated male is a natural alpha leader. A lot of men are coming to the Activation Method to save their marriage - or at least make their marriage better. For men who haven't gone through the program and find themselves in the middle of a divorce, they feel very caught off guard. They're stressed out because they don't know what to do. They lost themselves along the way and the fire and burning desire that was once inside them has dissipated. What happens to these guys who go through a divorce is it takes them a long time to get back on the horse. Dating will not be easy for them. Their behavior becomes self-destructive. They are trapped at a level of stress, loneliness, and depression that is unsustainable - and the only way that they can find even the illusion of solace is by sharing their victimhood. In this episode, we are going to talk about what life can look like after divorce, the differences between the two viewpoints on the path of divorce, how to be a 'rare catch' in the marketplace, and how to step into becoming a Powerful Man. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 5, 202120 min

My Wife Hates Me

Episode #387 Does your wife hate you? How can you turn that look of hate and disgust into a look of admiration, respect, and desire? When a woman says that she hates her husband, what she is saying is she hates the version of her husband that's showing up. She doesn't hate the guy himself, she just doesn't like the person he's showing her. She doesn't hate you, but she's sick and tired of who you've let yourself become - this lesser version of yourself. A lot of men lose their dreams, desires, energy, and the bravado that they had along the way. Things start to slide - they start doing less, drinking more, and the fire within them starts to die. Over time, his wife will start to do the same thing. And she'll resent that within herself. A lot of guys will try to gain back their wife's love and respect by doing good things...by being a good guy, and by being a good husband. However, they're usually doing this strictly for validation - which makes them an even lesser version of themselves. Thus, she loses even more respect - and she hates him for that. In this episode, we're talking about some of the causes of divorce, why your wife might hate you, and what you can do when you find yourself in this kind of situation. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 3, 202120 min

Looking For Validation

Episode #386 How can you stop seeking validation? What can we do as men to break this cycle? Often, you're telling your wife about all your projects or accomplishments because you want her to validate you. When we go on with this quest for validation, we're giving up our power to our partner. Bu constantly seeking validation from your wife, you become needy, she becomes turned off, and your relationship goes down a dangerous road. You need to make a big shift and start making changes in yourself. When she starts noticing positive changes - and you're not talking about it all the time - it will be more alluring and sexy to her. Be a better version of yourself and act as if you don't know it. Not seeking the admiration of the people around makes you more attractive naturally. The signal that we send to our partner is that we are a solid man on a mission. We are on our path and we are unshakeable. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of validation, why we need to stop looking for validation, and what can we do to break this cycle. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 31, 202124 min

Don't Be A Chump

Episode #385 Why do men sometimes end up being chumps? How does it happen? And how can you increase your "market value" to keep this from happening to you? For men to get what they want, they have to do some stuff. Women do this all the time. You start doing things in the house and then you get what you want in return. When she realizes that she can tantalize you with that, what happens - slowly, at first - is that you're becoming a chump. You will fall from the game. Like a mouse in a maze trying to chase cheese. This happens to a lot of guys. Set clear boundaries and talk about them. Figure out what you want to be, and be firm about who you are. Doing things from that perspective, and clarifying what you will tolerate in your standards, changes the game. In this episode, we are going to talk about how not to become a chump, the reasons why a lot of men end up being a chump, releasing the breaks, and ways to fuel yourself and increase your market value. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 29, 202122 min

Always Late

Episode #384 Is your wife always running late? And does that make you late? This is a big trigger for a lot of men. They're always late to things and they always have to make excuses that cause stress, anxiety, shame, and guilt - which causes fights between their wives. Ultimately, guys cave in and surrender to being late - falling into that beta mode. Recognize that you're upset not because of your wife's routine, or because she's always running late. It's about her making you late or making you wait, which can be a sign of disrespect for a lot of people. Start laying some ground rules. Set some boundaries. If she violates your boundaries, kindly and firmly send them a message that you are serious about your boundaries. In this episode, we're talking about how to deal with your wife always being late and understanding what the real trigger is. We get into how to make yourself calmer when this happens, how to set boundaries, and how to make your wife respect them. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 27, 202123 min

How to Release the Brakes

Episode #383 What happens when you take the brakes off your life? Where in your life are you still holding back? No matter what level you're playing at, the idea of Releasing the Brake always resonates. It can be tricky to know whether it's something that you just don't want to do...or if you're holding back. The excuses in the stories that we tell ourselves are part of the brake. All too often we have our emergency brake on - and that leads to us living a life that's defined by dragging and grinding. When you release the brakes in one area of your life, that same release begins to happen in other areas as well. Take a quick inventory in all Five Territories, think about what you can do about it, and take an action. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of releasing the brakes, what can you do to achieve that release, where you're holding back, and what can it do for you when you finally take the brakes off. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 24, 202120 min

Behind the Scenes With Ben Allen

Episode #382 What would you say an average guy is going through? Do they feel stuck? Are they trapped in a cycle, playing out generational patterns and unable to break free? A lot of men get home and they don't get much affection from their wives. They experience this "roommate" syndrome - living with their spouse without the romantic love vibe that they had at the beginning of their marriage. This is agonizing for them. In their head, they start to question themselves. Those thoughts are what lead to them neglecting themselves and self-sabotaging even more. This cycle continues until the foundation of their marriage begins to crumble beneath them. How can you break the cycle? Figure out what your best assets are and invest in them. Invest time and energy to better yourself. If you neglect that, your house will have the kind of shaky foundation that no amount of counseling can repair. In this episode, we're talking about what the average guy is going through right now, why they feel stuck, and why they end up self-sabotaging. We'll also discuss the importance of breaking generational patterns for yourself and your kids, top fears guys have, and how to make your spouse desire you again. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 22, 202128 min

Is It Jealousy Or A Boundary?

Episode #381 If you are noticing that you are not comfortable with her behavior or the behavior of other men, is it jealousy or is it something that is compromising the health of your relationship? Get clear on what your boundaries are, sit down with your partner and communicate about it. Have a discussion and make it fun. Don't take the jealous frame. It's up to the both of you to protect your relationship. If she's not willing to do this, then it might be time to reconsider your relationship or re-examine your role in the relationship. In this episode, we're talking about boundaries - examples of pure jealousy, boundaries that need to be set, the boundaries that are being crossed, a great way to approach your woman about this situation, and what can you do to make sure these barriers are being established. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 20, 202129 min

Get More Sex Without Being Needy

Episode #380 Thinking about asking for more sex, but afraid of seeming needy? How can you initiate without putting everything on the line? There are two types of initiation. Physical and verbal. Touch her in ways and in places that are sensual and intimate. Make her feel that this is not just some kind of movie you are making. The big takeaway here is to enjoy being sensual with her. You can touch a woman in a way that makes her feel connected and feel cared for. Sex is about both arousal and comfort, so make sure she feels comfortable and safe enough first. Initiate the touch without expecting to go any further. In verbal initiation, compliments are the big ticket. Be specific with your compliments so that she's really feeling your appreciation and your shared connection. Flirt, have fun, be silly! Focus on how you can get intimate without being sexual - whether on the physical or verbal side. Have fun with it. Find ways to meet your needs and meets her needs. In this episode, how to get more sex without seeming needy, and what you can do when you want to have sex with your wife. Based on the two types of initiation, we discuss things you can do to get her in the mood and to create chemistry. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 17, 202126 min

Best Hour Of Their Day With Jason Ackerman

Episode #379 How can you be a successful business owner while also taking care of your health and nutrition? Jason Ackerman spends a lot of his time training successful people to take better care of themselves. Focus on one thing - put all your efforts into it, do your best at it - then move on to the next thing. That key concept is what allows me to maintain my health and fitness at a high level. Don't let your own health and fitness get sacrificed - 80% of how you look, feel, and perform is in your nutrition. Having your priorities straight allows you to focus on the right things. In this episode, we're talking with Jason Ackerman about his background, what he helps people with, the concept of filling your cup first, priorities, and how to balance the four pillars of health. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 15, 202126 min

How To Master Stopping Self-Sabotage

Episode #378 When things get really good in your life and when everything is going so right, a lot of guys get scared of what could happen... ...and they self-sabotage. Think of The Five Territories - you have a vision of yourself of what you believe you can do and you believe you can be. That is your upper limit. Until you readjust that thermostat, whenever you go above that limit, it'll crash back down. When you start to grow and supersede that limit, the thermostat kicks off. This happens in all areas of our lives. In this episode, we are going to talk about why we self-sabotage and the steps on how to master stopping self-sabotage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 13, 202132 min

The Alpha Recap #4

Episode #377 What happened at the recent Alpha Reset? The Alpha Reset itself is the key that unlocks the door to the man you are inside. That key is access to the Alpha that is always inside of you. If you own that key you will be able to unlock the door and keep it open - or closed if you want - and that's what makes it so powerful for these guys. True power is about harnessing the power that is lying dormant inside of you. If you decide to harness it, it creates an energy and a presence that arrives in a room before you do. In this episode, we are going to talk about the before and after of the guys who attended the Alpha Reset, a quick recap on what The Alpha Reset is, what happens at an Alpha Reset, why to go, and who it's for. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 10, 202132 min

Revisit: How To Not Be Needy In A Relationship

Episode #376 Should every woman have to fulfill all her man's needs? What most of us men don't realize is that not all our needs can be fulfilled by our wives or our women. It is unfair to give your woman the burden of fulfilling all your needs. The reality is, there are certain needs that can only get fulfilled by being around other men. In this episode, we will learn how we can achieve a much stronger and healthier relationship with our women without sacrificing our needs as men. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 8, 202125 min

Revisit: Overcoming Depression

Episode #375 What are the best ways to deal with depression? A lot of men battle with depression, especially when they get older. The higher up the ladder men climb, the more present depression seems to be. This is not something to be shameful of. We all get depressed, but it's how you deal with and handle the depression that shifts everything. In this episode, we are going to talk about the signs and causes of depression and the ways to overcome it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 6, 202128 min

Revisit: What If The Problem Isn't What You Think It Is?

Episode #374 Do you ever wonder how you can fix your marriage? The truth is....the problem isn't the marriage. The disconnection that happened in your marriage is more of a symptom rather than the root cause. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to determine what the problem really is and how to focus on yourself first, be admired by your wife, and fix your marriage. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 3, 202128 min

Revisit: Bringing Your Marriage Back From the Brink of Divorce

Episode #373 How is your relationship with your wife? Is it growing stronger or is it getting colder and colder? Is it still fulfilling or becoming a great burden? The idea of losing your wife is probably one of the hardest things to handle. But if you want to save your marriage, there is still a chance to make it right. In this episode, we will talk about the experience of one of the men in the brotherhood and how he was able to save his marriage from the brink of divorce. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 1, 202133 min

Revisit: The Real Cost of Divorce

Episode #372 How can you improve your marriage? Where do you need to practice to improve your game and deserve the success that you want? We spend so much time looking at the market, stocks, real estate, and thinking about financial investment and the financial side of things, that we often forget what our number one asset is. YOU are your number one asset so do not put your business first and your needs last. Make an investment in YOURSELF for your own growth and become a better man. You are the only thing that people can't take away from you. In this episode, we are going to dive deep into how you can improve your marriage by understanding that you are your number one asset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 29, 202131 min

Revisit: Why Some Men (And Women) Have Affairs

Episode #371 Why do you think men, in general, seek comfort from a woman outside of marriage? What are the things that you can do to reignite your relationship with your spouse? People change so it's important to always find ways to reconnect with your wife + focus your attention on doing things you both enjoy. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to get admiration, respect, and closeness, how to get the possibility of divorce thrown off the table, and what you can do to feel more connected and loved. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 26, 202128 min

Tanner Guzy's Journey

Episode #370 How do you decide what your style is? How do you determine your identity? Over time, a lot of men give in to an easy and lazy lifestyle when it comes to fashion. Fashion is the magazine and runway shows, maybe even things that you see on YouTube, and things you need to wear to be on-trend. Style is understanding who you are and how you fit into the world and how you externally express that. The first thing people pay attention to is your energy. If you're coming with energy that has been hindered or dampened, they'll be able to recognize that. There is a big difference between a guy who looks like he's wearing a suit because he has to...and a guy who looks like he's wearing a suit because he wants to. In this episode, we are going to talk about Tanner Guzy's journey, men's fashion, how to determine your style & identity, and some easy things to do to get started in this process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 24, 202123 min

Cavan Ramsey's Journey

Episode #369 Why do so many successful men wait until the last minute to act? How has The Activation Method changed Cavan Ramsey's life? Before The Powerful Man, Cavan was working a good job, earning good money, and enjoying his seemingly wonderful family life. It was great - until things started coming apart. He realized that he needed to do something different, but he thought he had everything under control. One reason why successful men put things off is that they think they're in control of the situation. "Everything is fine and everything will get better." When Cavan joined the program, he thought he was going to get all the answers to fix his marriage. But it is not about fixing things externally. The Activation Method is focused on you and what you're doing - the impact that you have not only on yourself but on everyone close to you. In this episode, we are going to talk about Cavan Ramsey's journey, why so many successful men wait until the last minute to join The Activation Method, and how TAM has changed his life - it can change yours, too! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 22, 202134 min

How To Call Out The Gaps In Your Life

Episode #368 When you see a gap in yourself, you work to address it on your path to becoming a better man, right? So why do you hold back from calling out the gaps you see in others? People fear that they're going to be rejected for pointing out what's going on. If we are a team and we are committed to achieving a goal together, then if we don't call out the gaps that we see in someone else, we're sacrificing our own progress - because as a team we all achieve that one goal together. A lot of people want to be accepted because they feel that it's safer. Wanting to be liked, accepted, and wanting others to enjoy our company prevents us from stepping in and leading. As a leader, you need to call out the gaps. You have to bear the risk of people not accepting you - so that you can the right thing for yourself and the team. In this episode, we talk about core values - how to call out the gaps, why people hold back from doing this, how to stop the cycle, and how to lead properly and powerfully. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 19, 202125 min

8 Ways To Regain Your Sex Frame

Episode #367 Would you say that you're having enough sex with your wife? Is your wife the one who decides whether or not to have sex? The key frame of reference in your relationship is summed up best with this question: "Whose reality we are living in?" It's rare for two frames to collide and merge successfully. In most cases, one frame takes over the other. It takes ONE to lead. Most women are going to enjoy the relationship more with a masculine man leading them. It's not about controlling your woman - it's about making it more enjoyable for her. Make it exciting, enticing, and a fantasy that she wants to live in. In this episode, we are going to talk about sexuality, what the "sex frame" is, the eight ways to recover your sex frame, and how to tend the spark in your relationship so that it becomes a burning flame. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 17, 202135 min

The Truth Behind Why You've Never Launched That Big Idea

Episode #366 Why do some men never launch their big ideas? What keeps a man from acting on them? We have our sense of identity...of who we are. A lot of times, we create a fantasy of this big idea, and we start to live in this fantasy world. The scary part is what we fear will happen to our identity if we launch that idea and it fails. Does that make you a failure? The more grounded you are as a Powerful Man, the easier it is to go after the fantasy. When you're grounded, that fantasy gets attracted to you. When you're an Activated Man, all the territories are attracted to you. Self-worth and self-image are tied tightly together. If your self-worth is high, then your sense of identity is solid - you aren't going to worry so much about how people think of you and how you think of yourself. In this episode, we're going to talk about the real reason why men never launched their big ideas, the importance of self-worth and self-image, and the things you need to focus on when your situation is at its worst. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 15, 202126 min

What's The ONE Thing Your Wife Would Change About You?

Episode #365 If your wife could change ONE thing about you, what do you think it would be? What does it mean to be a man of your words? A lot of guys make commitments and promises to their wife, to their family, and to themselves - then constantly break them or fail to follow through. Your identity to her will become a man she cannot trust. When you lose these "micro-commitments" and someone can't trust you, it's like the emotional bank account is bankrupt. Recognize the pattern you're in, stop trying to do more to be better, and realize that you're on the right path with The Activation Method. In this episode - how to have better communication, how to be the man of your words, how to make your wife feel taken, the power of the Triad of Connection during The Activation Method, and the 3 key action steps to take today. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 12, 202125 min

Stephen Fleming's Journey

Episode #364 Where was Stephen Fleming before The Powerful Man? Before The Powerful Man, he was running in circles. He was lost - quite simply, he didn't know his purpose. While going through the program, he felt excited, engaged, and activated. He took action. He decided to be honest - and from that honesty, he was able to make the decisions that suited his needs best. After The Activation Method, he realized that his relationship with his wife had also shifted, they became more connected. In this episode, we are going to talk about Stephen Fleming's Journey, the idea of being deactivated, who he was, and who he became after The Activation Method. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 10, 202126 min

Are You Ready When Things Open Back Up?

Episode #363 What are your plans for each of the territories as things start opening up in the world? You know things are going to open but most of the guys are not thinking about their plans when things started to open back up. Life is going to be different and there is a lot of things that are going to happen. Plan for a change. You are the leader of your household so think of how are you going to lead your family. There are situations you are going to be in that are going to be different. You need to be ready for that. In this episode, we are going to talk about safety, boundaries, and things you need to plan for each of the territories as things start opening up in the world. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 8, 202115 min

Why Winners Celebrate Their Wins

Episode #362 Do you celebrate your wins, no matter how big or small? Instead of focusing on whatever bad things have happened, celebrate your wins. Write them down, look at the things that make you happy, and make that the lens through which you see the world. If you focus on the negative, you're going to get more of the same. If you are focusing on things that are going well, on your wins, those are going to keep coming your way as well. Look at life through the lens of your wins. Program your subconscious and your conscious mind to look for wins and victories. Do not be a guy who thinks about negative things. Be the happy one that everybody wants to be around. It's not that you are 'faking' it - you are changing what you are focusing on. In this episode, we are going to talk about why winners celebrate wins, what happens when you allow yourself to count the small wins, how to change what you focus on, how to make wins easy for yourself...and win more. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 5, 202123 min

Why Are You Sticking Around In A Failed Marriage

Episode #361 Why are you sticking around in a failed marriage? What is keeping you from getting a divorce? Many men stick around in a failed relationship because they feel like they're not good enough on some level. If you are working on your marriage because you want to, that's a good thing! But if you're in a marriage that is failing and you're not working for it, why are you sticking around and making excuses? You have to know why you are sticking around. Ask yourself why you're allowing yourself to be the victim and why you're putting yourself in that position. Then begin looking for alternatives. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of not being enough, the reasons why men stick around in a failed marriage, why men make excuses, and how the Triad of Connection can work to save your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 3, 202116 min

The Greatest Way To Leverage Your Brain To Stop Self-Sabotage

Episode #360 How can you break the barriers that have been holding you back? How often do we take the time to work on our unconscious brain? There are things that we are unconsciously committed to that we're not even aware of - yet it's why certain patterns keep replaying in your life. This is the "emergency brake" that keeps you from achieving your goals, dreams, and desires. Figure out what it is that you are complaining about. Pick one of the Five Territories and choose a scenario you complain about the most. All that complaining is a symptom - it means you are unconsciously committed to the results that you are getting. Stop complaining about it and figure out why you are unconsciously committed to it. Remember: Energy flows where attention goes. In this episode, we are going to talk about ways to leverage your brain to stop self-sabotage, how the conscious and unconscious brain works, how to break barriers that have been holding you back, and how to work on your subconscious brain. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 1, 202125 min

Austin Maginnis' Journey

Episode #359 Are you living the kind of life most men do - chasing the dollars and putting yourself last? Are you in a relationship where your wife becomes more of the alpha? Well, that's the kind of life Austin Maginnis had before joining The Brotherhood. Like most men, he was stuck in a life that was stagnant, routine, and stressful. Being married to a woman with a strong personality made it harder to be the alpha in the relationship at all times. But when he decided to make the change and join The Brotherhood, Austin went all out and never looked back. Going through the process, he noticed a lot of positive changes in his self, his relationship, and his business. Making that leap to change your life is a very difficult decision. But when you've become sick and tired of experiencing the same stressful life day after day, when you are truly fed up with it, you can't help but decide to make that change. In this episode, you will learn how Austin Maginnis found his answers by joining The Brotherhood. Learn how his past life relates to what you are experiencing right now and decide to make the step that will make your life better. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 29, 202131 min

The #1 Thing People Get Wrong About The Alpha Male

Episode #358 What do you think of when you hear the words "Alpha Male"? Do you think of the bro who is always at the gym repping out his bench press and beating his chest? The dude at the bar that hits on every woman and picks fights with every guy? Is he riding around on a motorcycle, soaked in whiskey and cloaked in a haze of smoke? Do you think of a man who is a complete jerk - the total asshole? When people hear the term "Alpha Male" they often see some version of the above. But when we talk about The Alpha Male, we're talking about something much different - not some performance of masculinity, but something truly Powerful. In this episode, we talk about what defines a true Alpha - and the #1 misconception about what it means to be an Alpha Male. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 27, 202116 min

One Man's Question On How To Save His Marriage

Episode #357 He's in a relationship for 9 years, and they have 2 boys together. Since having children, their relationship has suffered - to the point that they are essentially together for the convenience of their lives as parents. He's suffered many breakdowns without seeking professional help. He thinks it's just a phase of their relationship and that they'll be fine...until she drops a bombshell: She thinks she wants to leave. The scales are tipped away from you. You needed to tip the scales back in your favor. The best thing you can do is to get into The Activation Method. Use the Triad of Connection and utilize the system. You can get individual coaching for your particular situation. The breakdowns were a symptom of something else happening inside of you, and you need to start there. Do it for yourself first - not just to win her back. Begin that shift for you and your kids. Be a hundred percent committed to fixing your marriage and your relationship by taking care of yourself first. Do whatever it takes. Go all in. Do everything in your power to salvage your relationship. In this episode, it's one man's question about how to save his marriage. Learn what you can do to give it a chance to work, how the Triad of Connection can help you tip the scales in your favor, and how that leads to positive feelings and experiences. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 25, 202122 min

The Death of Needing Your Wife's Permission

Episode #356 How did you get into a position where you have to ask your wife's permission for everything? And how can you regain leadership in your relationship? Being in a position where you have to ask your wife's permission is a major red flag. Men often think they are doing the right thing. They think they are asking their wife for permission as a show of respect. They are terrified because maybe the marriage isn't going too well or the connection isn't there or there are "warning shots" of separation. Stop asking for permission to live your life. Stop asking permission to lead your family. Stop asking for permission to be you. If you know that your decision is right for you and your family, just step into it. In this episode, we are going to talk about how you may have gotten into this position where you have to ask your wife's permission - and how to regain leadership in your relationship, take control, and prove yourself in your decisions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 22, 202121 min

Ben Wood's Journey

Episode #355 Before he started The Activation Method, he was under massive strain. He was dealing with a stressful business, a personal injury, and his child being sick. He finally tried reaching out to doctors and seeking help...because he was experiencing a physical and mental breakdown. If you are struggling with something, if there is something you don't know, ask somebody for help. Don't let ego get in the way. Go out and find the help you need. Many men neglect themselves in the pursuit of other things - money, success, you know the rest. There's a lot more to life than just business. If you are making the effort to "fill your cup" in every area of your life, you simply have so much to give - for yourself and for those you love. In this episode, we are going to talk about Ben Wood's journey, how The Activation Method and Alpha Reset changed him and his perspective, and his advice to men who are not sure how to commit to themselves. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 20, 202122 min

How To Make Your Wife Feel Sexy

Episode #354 How do you make your wife feel sexy? What can you do to make your woman feel desired? A woman's desire is to be needed and wanted. Women's internal need is to be truly seen by her man. If she can't be seen by her man the way she needs to, she's gonna seek that validation outside the relationship. If you catch your wife doing something sexy, compliment her on her sexiness - and do it every single day. Compliment her privately and publicly. Being seen as valued and desired allows her to feel better about herself. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to make your wife feel sexy, what to do to make her feel desired, and how being activated helps in making your wife feel sexy. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 18, 202115 min

Is Your Wife Using Sex As A Weapon?

Episode #353 Is your wife using sex as a weapon? Sex is easily one of the most important and powerful aspects of a marriage. But when women start using sex as a weapon, usually through denial, there might be something deeply wrong in the relationship. If this is happening, you'll quickly find yourself in a beta or deactivated state. As a man, you need to sit down and call it out. Have a conversation with your wife about it. Find a way to transform from a deactivated state to activated. Start building your courage and confidence - this will be the foundation of who you become. It will naturally spill over into your relationship. Your wife will start to see you differently. She'll start to see certainty and stability in you, and she'll start to trust you again. Everyone deserves the best - the respect, the admiration, the intimacy. You can have them back by doing the work on yourself. Stand your ground, draw the line, and become activated. In this episode, you will learn the importance of becoming activated - being an alpha - and how that leads directly to the kind of sex life you want from your wife. Free yourself from sexual manipulation and regain the respect of your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 15, 202124 min

What To Do When You Catch Your Wife Cheating

Episode #352 What would do if you find out that your wife is cheating on you? How would you deal with it? Do you confront your wife? When men get hurt like this, shame becomes prevalent. Shame is where it gets dangerous. Shame stops men from reaching out to other guys. Shame comes around from the feeling of not being enough. The shame and the hurt cause men to go into an ultra-beta mode or DEERing - Defending, Explaining, Excusing, Rationalizing. You got to take full responsibility for everything in your life. Take full responsibility - but always remember that this is not your fault. This is on them. Even if you have contributed in some way, it doesn't make an allowance for that kind of behavior. In this episode, we are going to talk about physical and emotional cheating, what to do when you find out that your wife is cheating on you, how to handle it, and what you can do about it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 13, 202130 min

Don't Let The Shame Eat You Alive

Episode #351 How can you learn to share and open up more? How do you reach out without worrying about the shame around it? Most men don't have the courage to ask for help...or even to ask for directions. You can't solve your own problems from the same perspective that you are currently in. If you are struggling in any area, reaching out is the way forward. When we openly and freely ask for help, we travel more efficiently and enjoy the journey - all without stress, worry, or shame. In this episode, we talk about the struggles many men are facing, how we're able to deal with them, and how important it is to ask for help without worrying about the shame around it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 11, 202123 min