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Is It Jealousy Or A Boundary?

Episode #381 If you are noticing that you are not comfortable with her behavior or the behavior of other men, is it jealousy or is it something that is compromising the health of your relationship? Get clear on what your boundaries are, sit down with your partner and communicate about it. Have a discussion and make it fun. Don't take the jealous frame. It's up to the both of you to protect your relationship. If she's not willing to do this, then it might be time to reconsider your relationship or re-examine your role in the relationship. In this episode, we're talking about boundaries - examples of pure jealousy, boundaries that need to be set, the boundaries that are being crossed, a great way to approach your woman about this situation, and what can you do to make sure these barriers are being established. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 20, 202129 min

Get More Sex Without Being Needy

Episode #380 Thinking about asking for more sex, but afraid of seeming needy? How can you initiate without putting everything on the line? There are two types of initiation. Physical and verbal. Touch her in ways and in places that are sensual and intimate. Make her feel that this is not just some kind of movie you are making. The big takeaway here is to enjoy being sensual with her. You can touch a woman in a way that makes her feel connected and feel cared for. Sex is about both arousal and comfort, so make sure she feels comfortable and safe enough first. Initiate the touch without expecting to go any further. In verbal initiation, compliments are the big ticket. Be specific with your compliments so that she's really feeling your appreciation and your shared connection. Flirt, have fun, be silly! Focus on how you can get intimate without being sexual - whether on the physical or verbal side. Have fun with it. Find ways to meet your needs and meets her needs. In this episode, how to get more sex without seeming needy, and what you can do when you want to have sex with your wife. Based on the two types of initiation, we discuss things you can do to get her in the mood and to create chemistry. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 17, 202126 min

Best Hour Of Their Day With Jason Ackerman

Episode #379 How can you be a successful business owner while also taking care of your health and nutrition? Jason Ackerman spends a lot of his time training successful people to take better care of themselves. Focus on one thing - put all your efforts into it, do your best at it - then move on to the next thing. That key concept is what allows me to maintain my health and fitness at a high level. Don't let your own health and fitness get sacrificed - 80% of how you look, feel, and perform is in your nutrition. Having your priorities straight allows you to focus on the right things. In this episode, we're talking with Jason Ackerman about his background, what he helps people with, the concept of filling your cup first, priorities, and how to balance the four pillars of health. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 15, 202126 min

How To Master Stopping Self-Sabotage

Episode #378 When things get really good in your life and when everything is going so right, a lot of guys get scared of what could happen... ...and they self-sabotage. Think of The Five Territories - you have a vision of yourself of what you believe you can do and you believe you can be. That is your upper limit. Until you readjust that thermostat, whenever you go above that limit, it'll crash back down. When you start to grow and supersede that limit, the thermostat kicks off. This happens in all areas of our lives. In this episode, we are going to talk about why we self-sabotage and the steps on how to master stopping self-sabotage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 13, 202132 min

The Alpha Recap #4

Episode #377 What happened at the recent Alpha Reset? The Alpha Reset itself is the key that unlocks the door to the man you are inside. That key is access to the Alpha that is always inside of you. If you own that key you will be able to unlock the door and keep it open - or closed if you want - and that's what makes it so powerful for these guys. True power is about harnessing the power that is lying dormant inside of you. If you decide to harness it, it creates an energy and a presence that arrives in a room before you do. In this episode, we are going to talk about the before and after of the guys who attended the Alpha Reset, a quick recap on what The Alpha Reset is, what happens at an Alpha Reset, why to go, and who it's for. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 10, 202132 min

Revisit: How To Not Be Needy In A Relationship

Episode #376 Should every woman have to fulfill all her man's needs? What most of us men don't realize is that not all our needs can be fulfilled by our wives or our women. It is unfair to give your woman the burden of fulfilling all your needs. The reality is, there are certain needs that can only get fulfilled by being around other men. In this episode, we will learn how we can achieve a much stronger and healthier relationship with our women without sacrificing our needs as men. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 8, 202125 min

Revisit: Overcoming Depression

Episode #375 What are the best ways to deal with depression? A lot of men battle with depression, especially when they get older. The higher up the ladder men climb, the more present depression seems to be. This is not something to be shameful of. We all get depressed, but it's how you deal with and handle the depression that shifts everything. In this episode, we are going to talk about the signs and causes of depression and the ways to overcome it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 6, 202128 min

Revisit: What If The Problem Isn't What You Think It Is?

Episode #374 Do you ever wonder how you can fix your marriage? The truth is....the problem isn't the marriage. The disconnection that happened in your marriage is more of a symptom rather than the root cause. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to determine what the problem really is and how to focus on yourself first, be admired by your wife, and fix your marriage. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 3, 202128 min

Revisit: Bringing Your Marriage Back From the Brink of Divorce

Episode #373 How is your relationship with your wife? Is it growing stronger or is it getting colder and colder? Is it still fulfilling or becoming a great burden? The idea of losing your wife is probably one of the hardest things to handle. But if you want to save your marriage, there is still a chance to make it right. In this episode, we will talk about the experience of one of the men in the brotherhood and how he was able to save his marriage from the brink of divorce. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 1, 202133 min

Revisit: The Real Cost of Divorce

Episode #372 How can you improve your marriage? Where do you need to practice to improve your game and deserve the success that you want? We spend so much time looking at the market, stocks, real estate, and thinking about financial investment and the financial side of things, that we often forget what our number one asset is. YOU are your number one asset so do not put your business first and your needs last. Make an investment in YOURSELF for your own growth and become a better man. You are the only thing that people can't take away from you. In this episode, we are going to dive deep into how you can improve your marriage by understanding that you are your number one asset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 29, 202131 min

Revisit: Why Some Men (And Women) Have Affairs

Episode #371 Why do you think men, in general, seek comfort from a woman outside of marriage? What are the things that you can do to reignite your relationship with your spouse? People change so it's important to always find ways to reconnect with your wife + focus your attention on doing things you both enjoy. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to get admiration, respect, and closeness, how to get the possibility of divorce thrown off the table, and what you can do to feel more connected and loved. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 26, 202128 min

Tanner Guzy's Journey

Episode #370 How do you decide what your style is? How do you determine your identity? Over time, a lot of men give in to an easy and lazy lifestyle when it comes to fashion. Fashion is the magazine and runway shows, maybe even things that you see on YouTube, and things you need to wear to be on-trend. Style is understanding who you are and how you fit into the world and how you externally express that. The first thing people pay attention to is your energy. If you're coming with energy that has been hindered or dampened, they'll be able to recognize that. There is a big difference between a guy who looks like he's wearing a suit because he has to...and a guy who looks like he's wearing a suit because he wants to. In this episode, we are going to talk about Tanner Guzy's journey, men's fashion, how to determine your style & identity, and some easy things to do to get started in this process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 24, 202123 min

Cavan Ramsey's Journey

Episode #369 Why do so many successful men wait until the last minute to act? How has The Activation Method changed Cavan Ramsey's life? Before The Powerful Man, Cavan was working a good job, earning good money, and enjoying his seemingly wonderful family life. It was great - until things started coming apart. He realized that he needed to do something different, but he thought he had everything under control. One reason why successful men put things off is that they think they're in control of the situation. "Everything is fine and everything will get better." When Cavan joined the program, he thought he was going to get all the answers to fix his marriage. But it is not about fixing things externally. The Activation Method is focused on you and what you're doing - the impact that you have not only on yourself but on everyone close to you. In this episode, we are going to talk about Cavan Ramsey's journey, why so many successful men wait until the last minute to join The Activation Method, and how TAM has changed his life - it can change yours, too! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 22, 202134 min

How To Call Out The Gaps In Your Life

Episode #368 When you see a gap in yourself, you work to address it on your path to becoming a better man, right? So why do you hold back from calling out the gaps you see in others? People fear that they're going to be rejected for pointing out what's going on. If we are a team and we are committed to achieving a goal together, then if we don't call out the gaps that we see in someone else, we're sacrificing our own progress - because as a team we all achieve that one goal together. A lot of people want to be accepted because they feel that it's safer. Wanting to be liked, accepted, and wanting others to enjoy our company prevents us from stepping in and leading. As a leader, you need to call out the gaps. You have to bear the risk of people not accepting you - so that you can the right thing for yourself and the team. In this episode, we talk about core values - how to call out the gaps, why people hold back from doing this, how to stop the cycle, and how to lead properly and powerfully. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 19, 202125 min

8 Ways To Regain Your Sex Frame

Episode #367 Would you say that you're having enough sex with your wife? Is your wife the one who decides whether or not to have sex? The key frame of reference in your relationship is summed up best with this question: "Whose reality we are living in?" It's rare for two frames to collide and merge successfully. In most cases, one frame takes over the other. It takes ONE to lead. Most women are going to enjoy the relationship more with a masculine man leading them. It's not about controlling your woman - it's about making it more enjoyable for her. Make it exciting, enticing, and a fantasy that she wants to live in. In this episode, we are going to talk about sexuality, what the "sex frame" is, the eight ways to recover your sex frame, and how to tend the spark in your relationship so that it becomes a burning flame. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 17, 202135 min

The Truth Behind Why You've Never Launched That Big Idea

Episode #366 Why do some men never launch their big ideas? What keeps a man from acting on them? We have our sense of identity...of who we are. A lot of times, we create a fantasy of this big idea, and we start to live in this fantasy world. The scary part is what we fear will happen to our identity if we launch that idea and it fails. Does that make you a failure? The more grounded you are as a Powerful Man, the easier it is to go after the fantasy. When you're grounded, that fantasy gets attracted to you. When you're an Activated Man, all the territories are attracted to you. Self-worth and self-image are tied tightly together. If your self-worth is high, then your sense of identity is solid - you aren't going to worry so much about how people think of you and how you think of yourself. In this episode, we're going to talk about the real reason why men never launched their big ideas, the importance of self-worth and self-image, and the things you need to focus on when your situation is at its worst. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 15, 202126 min

What's The ONE Thing Your Wife Would Change About You?

Episode #365 If your wife could change ONE thing about you, what do you think it would be? What does it mean to be a man of your words? A lot of guys make commitments and promises to their wife, to their family, and to themselves - then constantly break them or fail to follow through. Your identity to her will become a man she cannot trust. When you lose these "micro-commitments" and someone can't trust you, it's like the emotional bank account is bankrupt. Recognize the pattern you're in, stop trying to do more to be better, and realize that you're on the right path with The Activation Method. In this episode - how to have better communication, how to be the man of your words, how to make your wife feel taken, the power of the Triad of Connection during The Activation Method, and the 3 key action steps to take today. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 12, 202125 min

Stephen Fleming's Journey

Episode #364 Where was Stephen Fleming before The Powerful Man? Before The Powerful Man, he was running in circles. He was lost - quite simply, he didn't know his purpose. While going through the program, he felt excited, engaged, and activated. He took action. He decided to be honest - and from that honesty, he was able to make the decisions that suited his needs best. After The Activation Method, he realized that his relationship with his wife had also shifted, they became more connected. In this episode, we are going to talk about Stephen Fleming's Journey, the idea of being deactivated, who he was, and who he became after The Activation Method. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 10, 202126 min

Are You Ready When Things Open Back Up?

Episode #363 What are your plans for each of the territories as things start opening up in the world? You know things are going to open but most of the guys are not thinking about their plans when things started to open back up. Life is going to be different and there is a lot of things that are going to happen. Plan for a change. You are the leader of your household so think of how are you going to lead your family. There are situations you are going to be in that are going to be different. You need to be ready for that. In this episode, we are going to talk about safety, boundaries, and things you need to plan for each of the territories as things start opening up in the world. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 8, 202115 min

Why Winners Celebrate Their Wins

Episode #362 Do you celebrate your wins, no matter how big or small? Instead of focusing on whatever bad things have happened, celebrate your wins. Write them down, look at the things that make you happy, and make that the lens through which you see the world. If you focus on the negative, you're going to get more of the same. If you are focusing on things that are going well, on your wins, those are going to keep coming your way as well. Look at life through the lens of your wins. Program your subconscious and your conscious mind to look for wins and victories. Do not be a guy who thinks about negative things. Be the happy one that everybody wants to be around. It's not that you are 'faking' it - you are changing what you are focusing on. In this episode, we are going to talk about why winners celebrate wins, what happens when you allow yourself to count the small wins, how to change what you focus on, how to make wins easy for yourself...and win more. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 5, 202123 min

Why Are You Sticking Around In A Failed Marriage

Episode #361 Why are you sticking around in a failed marriage? What is keeping you from getting a divorce? Many men stick around in a failed relationship because they feel like they're not good enough on some level. If you are working on your marriage because you want to, that's a good thing! But if you're in a marriage that is failing and you're not working for it, why are you sticking around and making excuses? You have to know why you are sticking around. Ask yourself why you're allowing yourself to be the victim and why you're putting yourself in that position. Then begin looking for alternatives. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of not being enough, the reasons why men stick around in a failed marriage, why men make excuses, and how the Triad of Connection can work to save your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 3, 202116 min

The Greatest Way To Leverage Your Brain To Stop Self-Sabotage

Episode #360 How can you break the barriers that have been holding you back? How often do we take the time to work on our unconscious brain? There are things that we are unconsciously committed to that we're not even aware of - yet it's why certain patterns keep replaying in your life. This is the "emergency brake" that keeps you from achieving your goals, dreams, and desires. Figure out what it is that you are complaining about. Pick one of the Five Territories and choose a scenario you complain about the most. All that complaining is a symptom - it means you are unconsciously committed to the results that you are getting. Stop complaining about it and figure out why you are unconsciously committed to it. Remember: Energy flows where attention goes. In this episode, we are going to talk about ways to leverage your brain to stop self-sabotage, how the conscious and unconscious brain works, how to break barriers that have been holding you back, and how to work on your subconscious brain. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 1, 202125 min

Austin Maginnis' Journey

Episode #359 Are you living the kind of life most men do - chasing the dollars and putting yourself last? Are you in a relationship where your wife becomes more of the alpha? Well, that's the kind of life Austin Maginnis had before joining The Brotherhood. Like most men, he was stuck in a life that was stagnant, routine, and stressful. Being married to a woman with a strong personality made it harder to be the alpha in the relationship at all times. But when he decided to make the change and join The Brotherhood, Austin went all out and never looked back. Going through the process, he noticed a lot of positive changes in his self, his relationship, and his business. Making that leap to change your life is a very difficult decision. But when you've become sick and tired of experiencing the same stressful life day after day, when you are truly fed up with it, you can't help but decide to make that change. In this episode, you will learn how Austin Maginnis found his answers by joining The Brotherhood. Learn how his past life relates to what you are experiencing right now and decide to make the step that will make your life better. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 29, 202131 min

The #1 Thing People Get Wrong About The Alpha Male

Episode #358 What do you think of when you hear the words "Alpha Male"? Do you think of the bro who is always at the gym repping out his bench press and beating his chest? The dude at the bar that hits on every woman and picks fights with every guy? Is he riding around on a motorcycle, soaked in whiskey and cloaked in a haze of smoke? Do you think of a man who is a complete jerk - the total asshole? When people hear the term "Alpha Male" they often see some version of the above. But when we talk about The Alpha Male, we're talking about something much different - not some performance of masculinity, but something truly Powerful. In this episode, we talk about what defines a true Alpha - and the #1 misconception about what it means to be an Alpha Male. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 27, 202116 min

One Man's Question On How To Save His Marriage

Episode #357 He's in a relationship for 9 years, and they have 2 boys together. Since having children, their relationship has suffered - to the point that they are essentially together for the convenience of their lives as parents. He's suffered many breakdowns without seeking professional help. He thinks it's just a phase of their relationship and that they'll be fine...until she drops a bombshell: She thinks she wants to leave. The scales are tipped away from you. You needed to tip the scales back in your favor. The best thing you can do is to get into The Activation Method. Use the Triad of Connection and utilize the system. You can get individual coaching for your particular situation. The breakdowns were a symptom of something else happening inside of you, and you need to start there. Do it for yourself first - not just to win her back. Begin that shift for you and your kids. Be a hundred percent committed to fixing your marriage and your relationship by taking care of yourself first. Do whatever it takes. Go all in. Do everything in your power to salvage your relationship. In this episode, it's one man's question about how to save his marriage. Learn what you can do to give it a chance to work, how the Triad of Connection can help you tip the scales in your favor, and how that leads to positive feelings and experiences. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 25, 202122 min

The Death of Needing Your Wife's Permission

Episode #356 How did you get into a position where you have to ask your wife's permission for everything? And how can you regain leadership in your relationship? Being in a position where you have to ask your wife's permission is a major red flag. Men often think they are doing the right thing. They think they are asking their wife for permission as a show of respect. They are terrified because maybe the marriage isn't going too well or the connection isn't there or there are "warning shots" of separation. Stop asking for permission to live your life. Stop asking permission to lead your family. Stop asking for permission to be you. If you know that your decision is right for you and your family, just step into it. In this episode, we are going to talk about how you may have gotten into this position where you have to ask your wife's permission - and how to regain leadership in your relationship, take control, and prove yourself in your decisions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 22, 202121 min

Ben Wood's Journey

Episode #355 Before he started The Activation Method, he was under massive strain. He was dealing with a stressful business, a personal injury, and his child being sick. He finally tried reaching out to doctors and seeking help...because he was experiencing a physical and mental breakdown. If you are struggling with something, if there is something you don't know, ask somebody for help. Don't let ego get in the way. Go out and find the help you need. Many men neglect themselves in the pursuit of other things - money, success, you know the rest. There's a lot more to life than just business. If you are making the effort to "fill your cup" in every area of your life, you simply have so much to give - for yourself and for those you love. In this episode, we are going to talk about Ben Wood's journey, how The Activation Method and Alpha Reset changed him and his perspective, and his advice to men who are not sure how to commit to themselves. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 20, 202122 min

How To Make Your Wife Feel Sexy

Episode #354 How do you make your wife feel sexy? What can you do to make your woman feel desired? A woman's desire is to be needed and wanted. Women's internal need is to be truly seen by her man. If she can't be seen by her man the way she needs to, she's gonna seek that validation outside the relationship. If you catch your wife doing something sexy, compliment her on her sexiness - and do it every single day. Compliment her privately and publicly. Being seen as valued and desired allows her to feel better about herself. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to make your wife feel sexy, what to do to make her feel desired, and how being activated helps in making your wife feel sexy. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 18, 202115 min

Is Your Wife Using Sex As A Weapon?

Episode #353 Is your wife using sex as a weapon? Sex is easily one of the most important and powerful aspects of a marriage. But when women start using sex as a weapon, usually through denial, there might be something deeply wrong in the relationship. If this is happening, you'll quickly find yourself in a beta or deactivated state. As a man, you need to sit down and call it out. Have a conversation with your wife about it. Find a way to transform from a deactivated state to activated. Start building your courage and confidence - this will be the foundation of who you become. It will naturally spill over into your relationship. Your wife will start to see you differently. She'll start to see certainty and stability in you, and she'll start to trust you again. Everyone deserves the best - the respect, the admiration, the intimacy. You can have them back by doing the work on yourself. Stand your ground, draw the line, and become activated. In this episode, you will learn the importance of becoming activated - being an alpha - and how that leads directly to the kind of sex life you want from your wife. Free yourself from sexual manipulation and regain the respect of your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 15, 202124 min

What To Do When You Catch Your Wife Cheating

Episode #352 What would do if you find out that your wife is cheating on you? How would you deal with it? Do you confront your wife? When men get hurt like this, shame becomes prevalent. Shame is where it gets dangerous. Shame stops men from reaching out to other guys. Shame comes around from the feeling of not being enough. The shame and the hurt cause men to go into an ultra-beta mode or DEERing - Defending, Explaining, Excusing, Rationalizing. You got to take full responsibility for everything in your life. Take full responsibility - but always remember that this is not your fault. This is on them. Even if you have contributed in some way, it doesn't make an allowance for that kind of behavior. In this episode, we are going to talk about physical and emotional cheating, what to do when you find out that your wife is cheating on you, how to handle it, and what you can do about it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 13, 202130 min

Don't Let The Shame Eat You Alive

Episode #351 How can you learn to share and open up more? How do you reach out without worrying about the shame around it? Most men don't have the courage to ask for help...or even to ask for directions. You can't solve your own problems from the same perspective that you are currently in. If you are struggling in any area, reaching out is the way forward. When we openly and freely ask for help, we travel more efficiently and enjoy the journey - all without stress, worry, or shame. In this episode, we talk about the struggles many men are facing, how we're able to deal with them, and how important it is to ask for help without worrying about the shame around it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 11, 202123 min

Director Of First Impressions

Episode #350 What is your presence online like? Do you have social media profiles - Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram...maybe even some of the newer ones? If so, are you active there? Do you regularly check them? Update them? Post to them? Your social media shows how you as a man are represented in the world before you get there. Do not be fake. There is nothing worse than meeting somebody who's been lying and misrepresenting themselves. Be a complete version of yourself. Share the lifestyle and the philosophies that you live by. People find this kind of genuineness very appealing. The more you share the more it strengthens your identity. In this episode, we are going to talk about being The Director of First Impressions, what your social media is doing for you, how to have the assurance that your reputation is being upheld above and beyond what is needed, and how important it is to audit your first impressions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 8, 202121 min

Pull Out The Root

Episode #349 When is it time to "pull out the roots" of a problem? And how do you do it? There are reasons why certain things keep coming up. What do you do when your wife brings up a problem from the past? It is a common issue when you and your partner have a checkered history. Disagreements, arguments, mistakes. You've moved on but she keeps on bringing it up over and over again and you are sick and tired of it. This happens when you failed to address the actual issue in the beginning. The only way to close the loop is to validate her properly and make her feel completely heard, understood, and seen. Shine a light on the problem, hunt for a solution, and take massive action. In this episode, we're talking about the reasons why women keep on bringing up old problems over and over again, how to resolve the issue by identifying the roots of the problems together, and how to pull out those roots and close this loop. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 6, 202124 min

I Hear It All The Time With Ryan Peach

Episode #348 What are you willing to sacrifice to save the most important things in your life? What are you going to do to save your business and your relationship? Most of the time when things get tough in your marriage, things get tough in your business, too. You're living in a cycle - trying the same thing over and over again. But if you continue to do what you have always done, it's just not going to work. You get to change, to take radical action. Just get moving. Take massive steps. It's scary, it's hard, and there are no guarantees. But it's the only way to move forward. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do when your business and relationship need saving, how to avoid becoming deactivated, and how to reclaim leadership in your life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 4, 202126 min

Have You Passed On Your Patterns To Your Kids?

Episode #347 Are you a good father? How do your habits and behaviors affect your child? If a man becomes a leader and becomes re-activated, everybody around him experiences a ripple effect - they start to follow the leader. Kids are monkey-see, monkey-do. If they can pick up your bad habits, they can also pick up your good habits. When the man who is the leader of the family changes himself positively and your child witnessed that change, that child's behavior shifts. If you are worried you are going to screw your kids up, unscrew them up by fixing yourself, improving, and walking the walk that we call The Powerful Man. We want to be role models for our children. Show your child that you are going to conquer your issues and that you are gonna invest time, money, and resources into improving yourself. That is going to serve your child far more than anything else. That will make you a good father. In this episode, we are going to talk about guilt and shame, how to be a leader, and what it means to be a good father to your child. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 1, 202122 min

Envy

Episode #346 What happens to us when we get envious? What happens when envy disappears? When we start getting envious, we start making up stories. Subconsciously, our brain tells us that "we can't have this" and "we can't achieve that". Envy stops you in your tracks - preventing you from getting the income, body, or relationship that you want. Envy stands in your way and blocks you from achieving your goals. Instead of engaging in envy, try something different: Applaud! Train and program your brain to work that way, too. Something magical happens when you start genuinely congratulating someone on their achievements - you take a piece of that accomplishment for yourself. When you congratulate and applaud, you get to share in the joy that person feels when they've achieved something. It's abundance, and it's a great place to be. In this episode, we are going to talk about what happens to us when we get envious, and how to stop being envious and start participating in abundance. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 29, 202125 min

The Chemicals That Control Your Mind

Episode #345 Our brain controls everything in our body. It drives every decision we make and influences what we feel. But did you know that there are several neurochemicals that our brains produce when we feel excited or sad or angry? What are these neurochemicals that control your mind? Knowing what these neurochemicals are will allow you to be more in control of your life and will help achieve your goals faster. In this episode, we'll learn more about the chemicals that control our minds and their importance in our lives. We will also learn how to identify each chemical and manipulate them effectively. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 27, 202130 min

Thomas Waller's Journey

Episode #344 How did The Alpha Reset change Thomas Waller's life? Before he found The Powerful Man he was in the darkest time of his life - separated from his wife, arrogant, selfish...his life is falling apart. Going to The Alpha Reset was the best moment of his life. It was the moment he woke up and found his true self. It was a deeply moving experience. As a direct result, he has grown spiritually, personally, and professionally. In this episode, we are going to talk about Thomas Waller's journey, the realizations he had on that journey, his advice, and how The Alpha Reset changed his life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 24, 202116 min

Your Business Is A Reflection Of You

Episode #343 One of the biggest positive shifts that can happen in a business is when its leaders commit to personal accountability. When leaders hold themselves to the highest standard, it naturally follows that they inspire everyone around them to that same height. By the same token, when your business isn't going well, that's often a reflection of what is going on for you. It is a reflection of how you live your life. It goes both ways. Look at the biggest complaints that you have in your business and in your relationship. Look at all Five Territories. You'll see that your complaints have a lot in common. Your staff, their attitudes, and the work environment are ultimately a direct reflection of you. In this episode, we are going to talk about standards and the idea of accountability - putting in the time, effort, and energy - and what you can do when your business is not working as it should. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 22, 202128 min

One Life!

Episode #342 Are you getting the most out of life? Are you making this one life count? Are you thriving in each of the Five Territories? This ticket is a reminder that we have One Life to live. Make it count and make the most of this one life that we've got. Live in a way that touches and moves you - rather than living it from scarcity. Ask yourself: What areas do I want to improve in, and what areas do I want to change? Take massive action. If you want to change something do it now and don't complain. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a "ticket to ride" and how to make this One Life thrive in the Five Territories. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 20, 202128 min

When DIY Doesn't Work

Episode #341 What can you do when DIY doesn't work? What will it cost you? Drywall is something that a lot of people think they can do on their own. Seems easy enough, right? If you've ever tried, you know it's much harder than it looks to do even a decent job. If you want your drywalling done right and looking good, it's simple - hire a professional. The harder a thing is to do well, the more you need an expert. Work with professionals and make sure things are done right. As you might have guessed, this goes for building up your relationship, too. The idea of doing it on your own seems manly. But if you don't do it right, another man is going to come in and tear it all down. We don't have the luxury of having a second or third chance. So rather than doing it on your own, hire a professional, have them come in, and have it done right the first time. In this episode, we are going to talk about the DIY approach to relationships and what will it cost you if it doesn't work. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 17, 202127 min

Do The 5 Love Languages Actually Work? With Franco Burrows

Episode #340 How do you show love? How do you want to receive love? How do you determine your partner's love language? A love language is a tool for enhancing or amplifying your relationship, but you have to build the relationship's foundation first. Starting with a solid foundation, you'll be able to understand how best to use this powerful tool. Once you discover your love language and acknowledge the love language of your partner, you will begin to see the connection and passion between you grow stronger. In this episode, you will learn the importance of building a solid foundation in your relationship, the importance of determining your partner's love language, and how to use this tool to grow stronger and closer together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 15, 202133 min

Roommate With A Ring

Episode #339 On wedding days, you have high expectations for your future together. You anticipate becoming a 'power couple'. But over time the potency of your union starts to slip away, and you find yourself split apart and drifting further away from each other. When this happens, often the guy falls into deactivated mode and tries to repair the marriage by making his wife happy...but that doesn't work either. Before you know it, you and your wife have become more roommates than you are lovers. In this episode, we are going to talk about the idea of having a roommate with a ring, the reasons why you start feeling like roommates, and how to reconfirm your commitments to each other. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 13, 202122 min

What Happened On Doug's Recent Birthday

Episode #338 Happy Birthday, Doug! What realizations and reflections did he have while celebrating his birthday? He woke up next to his wife in the morning and they made love right away. She prepared all his favorite food. She made an amazing breakfast. She arranged a special day just for him. It was an amazing time. The moment she smiled and looked at him with admiration and respect, he had a moment of reflection and looked back at the way things used to be in their life. He was thinking back to the time when he and his wife were going through a rough patch - remembering that journey between what they used to be to what they are today. In this episode, we are going to talk about the reflections Doug had while celebrating his birthday and how to be able to get into the marriage you dreamed about when you first got together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 10, 202123 min

Two Ways To Increase Your Sexual Market Value

Episode #337 What is your market sexual value? How can you calculate your SMV...and what can you do to get that number up? Are you finding yourself in the nice guy trap? Are you in a deactivated state? Let's say you're a stock in an open market. Let's also say that you are fully owned by your wife. If your stock price has been going down since you got married, wouldn't it make sense to trade some of it on the market for a stock that's rising in value? Your wife made an investment, and she's looking for you to go up in value. Your external attitude (physical appearance, etc.) and your internal attitude (character - who you are as a man) is very important. Your energetic presence precedes you. If somebody is investing in bettering themselves, their market value is going to go up. If you apply an external look with an internal game, it's game over. Your sexual market value will never go down. In this episode, we are going to talk about how discipline and honesty affect your sexual market value, how to know what things to change to better yourself, and the two main ways to increase your sexual market value. Get a free quiz to determine your sexual market value and what you can do to increase it here - https://thepowerfulman.com/smv __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 8, 202135 min

Being Your Wife's Bitch

Episode #336 She's taken on the role of an alpha, and it's turned your relationship upside-down. No balance, no boundaries, no activation. Start communicating what is acceptable and not acceptable in a calm and firm way. Establish boundaries. Staying connected while maintaining those boundaries is very important. It's how you build respect and admiration. When you realize that you've become "deactivated", take immediate and massive action. Being activated is being an alpha. Get tuned in and turned on to yourself and get fired up about who you are as a man. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do to stop being your wife's bitch, how to get activated, and be an alpha in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 6, 202123 min

Are You Begging For Sex?

Episode #335 Guys beg for sex for different reasons. Some beg for sex because their wife is the only person who can provide it. Some guys are worried that they're going to go out and cheat to get their needs met. When you find yourself in a position where you are begging for sex from your wife, remember that it is probably the most unsexy thing a guy can do. Awareness is the first key. Some guys don't even realize that they're begging. You want her to want it just as much as you do! And for that, a woman must feel seen, heard, and desired. You're an Alpha. You know what you want and you go after it. And if she says no...that's fine! Laugh it off like it's no big deal. Stop begging immediately. Implement the Triad of Connection, it can get this process moving in your direction. Practice engaged indifference, as if she is not the only one that can satisfy your needs. That will cause a shift in the power dynamics. Remember, you are not gonna beg for it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 3, 202121 min

From Arguing 3 Times A Week To Sex 3 Times A Week

Episode #334 In a marriage, little things start to creep in - resentments, arguments, you know how it goes. And your old ways of dealing with this "creep" don't work very well anymore. The real problem is that you're so focused on the negative experiences and emotions in the relationships that the scales get unbalanced and you can't move forward. You get stuck, and the problems keep coming. Learn how to stop focusing on the negative and start balancing out the scale. Do something different. We need to get those scales to neutral and then back to positive using the Triad of Connection. It's a simple process made up of simple changes. Remember, when we properly focus on the positive, the negative doesn't seem to matter. In this episode, we are going to talk about the analogy of scales, what the Triad of Connection is, and how it can help you to go from heated arguments to hot sex two to three times a week...or more! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Apr 1, 202124 min

It's In The Details with Franco Burrows

Episode #333 Are you in a situation right now where you're trying to solve something and you just can't seem to figure it out and move forward? Maybe you're trying too hard to solve it based on your past experiences...and nothing's working. Maybe it's time to try something else. A different perspective...another way... Do something different to allow you to get to the other side. Do something different to shake things up. Because you can't bring back lost times. The more you try your old ways of solving a problem, the more time it takes from your present - which you could be spending on so many more important things. What got you here won't get you there. In this episode, we will learn from the experiences of Franco Burrows. Learn how he overcame a sickness that turns out to be a not-so-serious one. And learn how this situation helped him to better himself, his relationship, and other aspects of his life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 30, 202126 min

Leading A Team Effectively

Episode #332 What does effective leadership look like? A successful leader is more of an adviser, a mentor, and a coach. It allows you to lead on a higher level. The most common mistake people make when leading teams is trying to "lead-by-consensus". Maybe it's fear, or a genuine desire to do right by those you lead. But leadership-by-consensus most often produces a team that is stagnant, unmotivated, and entirely lacking any clarity. Take that leadership role. Take charge as a leader - not as a dictator, but more as a guide. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to lead effectively, common problems that arise in leading teams, and the steps we can take to allow us to be successful and effective leaders. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Mar 27, 202130 min