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Revisit: The #1 Mistake Men Make
Episode #175 There are 5 territories of your life that when prioritized correctly will lead to success in everything you do. The 5 territories include self, health, wealth and relationships and business. The number one mistake men make is prioritizing business as our foundational territory. This is common as we are taught that as men we should provide for our family. We hustle to make money in order to provide but we often forget that we should also provide emotionally. While we are so focused on our first priority – business – we seldom make time for our loved ones because often times we have no energy left. We also forget to take care of ourselves, our health is often taken for granted because we fail to turn off from the hustle that we give our business. In this episode, we dive deep into society's definition of how to be a man and what it looks like to create our OWN identity by investing in things that could improve our self, our health, and our relationships. What you will learn in this episode: Making ourselves the top priority Creating your own identity Identifying what really matters to you Turn off from all the hustle and make time and invest in the things that could improve yourself and your relationships ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
You're Too Smart For Your Own Good
Episode #174 Do you often think you have the answers? When problems occur do you believe you have everything you need to sidestep them? Are you good at justifying things? Many of the men we work with are too smart for their own good and have the tendency to rationalize everything. They can come up with ANY excuse just to be safe. But know this...you can be safe AND miserable at the same time. In this episode, we explore where you are making up excuses and using your intellect as a way to PROTECT yourself rather than stepping UP into a life we all know you deserve. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
CORONAVIRUS: How To Weather the Storm In Your Business
Episode #173 In the situation that is happening around the world with coronavirus, we pose these questions for you... How can you turn this into an opportunity? How can you turn this into an advantage for your personal growth? Most of us can't go to the office or work on our business at all because we have to stay home for safety.... ...so why don't you use this situation as an opportunity to be connected with your family and loved ones, work remotely, and focus on plans to improve your business? Take some time to think of how YOU get to best guide your employees and family as the leader of the household and the business. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
CORONAVIRUS: What Your Wife Needs From You
Episode #172 The coronavirus is not only causing tension within our world, but also within our households. This may be one of the first times you've had to spend so much time with your spouse. So, today we take a look at the dynamics that some of our men are experiencing and answer a few key questions.... Has your wife become the alpha in your relationship? Have you ever felt like you're losing the power within the household you used to have? Reclaim and stand in your power. Become a leader both in business and at home. Protect your family and make them feel secured by becoming firm in your energy. Hold a space of certainty, power, and love and make your spouse melt into you. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Staying Committed
Episode #171 Staying committed. Two words. Easy to remember but very difficult to apply in our daily life. How many times do we switch from one task to another? How many times do we promise to ourselves to do something but after some time we turn away, find another thing to do, commit to it and then stop, and then turn away again, and the cycle goes on? If you want to stay committed to something, you've got to be anchored to something that is stationary. Something that is stable or not going to move, whether it's your faith, your religion, your morning routine, or whatever it is. Anchor yourself to something that doesn't change. Then go deep. Follow a path and take it down to the very end. Make sure you're not avoiding the important. Take some time for your self. Take some time to reflect and take the time to take action. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Are You Bending the World Over and F*ing It?
Episode #170 Are you serving your higher purpose? Are you really going after it or are you just playing a role in somebody else's story? Are you living your life to the fullest... or are you just living to survive every day? If the answer is NO, then think about this... "The way in which you penetrate the world is the same way in which you'll penetrate your woman or your business." Most men that we talk to have given a lot of their passion and their hobbies to invest more time in their business or their work. But in the process of that, 10, 15 or 20 years, life becomes all about work and less about their children and their woman. Don't fall into this trap. If you want to have a successful marriage and a successful business, then it's crucial you remember your passion and do the things you love. Doing what you love most gives you energy and the wisdom on how you manage your business and your marriage. Be selfish sometimes. Give your self a break. Do what you're passionate about and the rest will work itself out. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Breaking Free From Your Past
Episode #169 As men get older, get married and become fathers, they start to recognize that there are patterns that come up. Patterns that are from their childhood and upbringing. In this episode we dig into our patterns by asking a few crucial questions.... How are you as a father? How are you as a husband? Are you doing the same thing with your own family like what your father did in your family? Do you discipline your kids like your father did to you? How do you play with your children? How are you handling your arguments with your wife? Look at these patterns. Is the way your dad and your mom interact showing up in your own relationship with your wife? If you are seeing patterns you want to end, then it is time to BREAK FREE. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
A Quick Way To Overcome Shame
Episode #168 Are there any areas in your life where you feel like you're not doing as well as you could? Perhaps an area where you feel shame? Most men we work with have shame deeply rooted in major areas of their life like their business, their relationships, and their health. The sneaky thing with shame is that is STOPS us from taking action. It STOPS us from making the changes that we want. And it KEPPS us in this cycle of being where we say we don't want to be.... What if there was a way to OVERCOME this shame? In today's episode, we give you a quick way to overcome shame, allowing you to take action in the areas of your life you say you want to change. Allowing you to make some massive transformation. Give it a listen and let us know what you think! ------------- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What Will People Think Of Me?
Episode #167 Do you ever feel like you're wearing a mask? Like you're putting on a front to pretend that you are someone you think others want you to be? In this episode, Tim talks about his own experience in wearing a mask and feeling ashamed of what was behind the mask. The longer he had the mask on....the harder it became to take it off and show to the world who he really was. It's time to take the mask off and embrace The Powerful Man who is inside of you, waiting to emerge. ------------- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Always Asking Your Wife For Permission?
Do you ask your wife for permission? Have you found yourself in a position where you are coming to her to make the decisions? Where she has become the Alpha in your relationship? Where you feel like the way you behave, the actions you take, and how you show up in the world is fully dependent upon her permission? If any of this resonates, drop what you're doing and take a few minutes to listen to today's episode where we dive deep into regaining your confidence and your power AS A MAN. ------------- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Real Story With Ryan Peach
His wife was about to cheat on him It's no secret... ...Being married while running a business is no walk in the park. Especially if you have kids. Most days you feel like you're being asked to juggle100lb dumbbells while kicking water uphill. It's not for the faint of heart. When you consider the chaos that comes along with ...bank accounts that leak money …employees who underachieve and constantly need their hand held. …the never ending "To Do" lists and projects that never get done. ...constantly getting pulled away from higher priorities to put out other people's fires. ...Revenue rollercoasters and unpredictable profits from one month to the next. While at the same time... ...struggling to find the time and energy to stay in shape and play with your kids ...and the time and space to connect with your wife Needless to say, The chaos is relentless. And it's not like it takes the weekends off. The tension and pressure caused by the chaos just continue to build and wear men down. Fracturing their focus and killing their capacity to do be productive. Draining all their energy - making it difficult to stay disciplined with their health. Consuming all their thoughts - making it difficult to "shut it off" at the end of the day to be patient and present with their families. Take our client Ryan for example Things go so bad for him that his wife was about to have an affair... Which is one of the reasons why he decided to join The Activation Method. Now Ryan's life has spun a 180. ------ Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Are You A Man Of Your Word?
Episode #164 Are you a man of your word? Let that question sink in... Many men we talk to lead a similar lifestyle where they have made work their number 1 priority. And yet, they are coming home late, feeling a disconnect with their wife and kids, and are slowly becoming men who those around them can no longer rely on. They say they will show up for their family's events and yet more often than not they don't stick to their word. There always seems to be a meeting, a client, or a deadline that appears, forcing them to let down those around them once again. The time to change that narrative and become a man of integrity is now. Take a moment to hit play while we dive deep into why we do this and the importance of showing up when we say we will. ------ Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Redefine Your Role In Your Relationship
Episode #163 Be honest... Have you ever caught yourself feeling entitled because you know you are the one who makes the money in the household? Have you ever lost control in your relationship because you and your wife shifted roles? This is a common trigger that fuels disconnection within the relationship. It is up to YOU to take back your power, lead your wife, and take control. Create a secure and comfortable space for your wife, be involved in making decisions in the household, and be the husband your wife needs. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Tim's "No Sex For 30 Days Challenge"
Episode #162 No sex for 30 days... ...can you do that? As men, we tend to use sex as the bridge to build intimacy or connection with our partners, but often it is not enough. When you take a step back from sex, will you find that you are still intimate with your partner or will you find that you've relied on sex to be intimate? Take this challenge to discover different ways to become more intimate in your relationship, creating a deeper connection than ever before. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Are You Filling Your Cup?
Episode #161 When was the last time you did something to fill your cup up? Does it ever feel difficult for you to give energy to those around you? Maybe you even notice yourself avoiding deeper connection because you just don't have any more to give. In order for you to be able to give, you must fill your cup first. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Connect With Your Self First
Episode #160 Arguing is part of every relationship. In fact, many will say that arguing makes a relationship grow stronger and better. But what if you're arguing with your wife almost every day? You argue about coming home late... You argue about work... You argue about the kids... You argue about feeling not supported... The list goes on and on to the point where you end up avoiding her because you feel that when you see each other, you'll just end up arguing. But what is there's a "secret tip" to finally get over this part of your relationship into a more connected and intimate partnership? Listen to this episode and you'll be surprised. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What To Do When Your Wife Has Become The Alpha
Episode #159 It's no secret...men love being in control with everything - whether in business, time, money and especially, in relationships. It's our nature. If we're not in control, it frustrates us. Many men will agree that it's a wonderful feeling when we know we lead our woman and they just follow. But what happens when your wife has become the one controlling the relationship? Listen to this episode as we dive deep into this situation that MANY of us have been in and how to best navigate it. It's never too late to reclaim your manhood. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Is She Kissing You Like She'd Kiss Her Mother?
Episode #158 Is your wife kissing you like she kisses her mother? Are you missing that passionate kiss with her before leaving the front door going to work? This is extremely common and it comes from one thing... Disconnection. Maybe you don't see it...but are you still the man that she married from the beginning? Think about it. Dive deep with us as we explore the situation of feeling disconnected from your wife + in search of new passion. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How He Did It: Mike Philbin
Episode #157 Have you ever felt as if you're serving your business rather than your business serving you? Did you ever realize that you've been working extended hours but nothing changes in your business and your relationship with your family is being sacrificed because of it? Learn how Mike Philbin experienced all of this and came out on the other side POWERFULLY. Learn how he used The Activation Method to help him to become The Powerful Man that every one of us has inside of us waiting to be activated. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
The Alpha Recap #3
Episode #156 Today's episode is a little different... We are going to give you a behind the scenes look into The Alpha Reset, the retreat we have with our men who complete The Activation Method. We're want to give you a look into a few things that occur during the retreat, how these men's lives transformed over 3 days, and what makes you the perfect candidate for this experience. Sit back, and enjoy! ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Are You Carrying Around Guilt?
Episode #155 Is guilt something you carry around daily? Guilt for not being around for your kids... Guilt for not having the relationship with your wife you know you could... Guilt for working so much... In this episode, we dive deep into how to work through this guilt and what you can do to experience more fulfillment and happiness within your life. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How He Did It: Omar Shabbir
Episode #154 12 months ago, Omar joined the Activation Method. Like most men, Omar was living and driven by fear. He came to a point where he felt like everything around him was crumbling. He was a hustler, working for such long hours that his family didn't even see him daily. He started working while everyone in the house was still sleeping and then would come back late in the evening when his wife and daughters were already sleeping. Outside of his family, Omar didn't want to "waste his time" with people he couldn't get some benefit from. His mind was all about "M-O-N-E-Y" and how he can get more of it. His life was about chasing money. In this episode, learn how he overcomes these struggles and see if you can apply it to your life as well. Find out how he turned his life around completely and became a "Powerful Man". ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Something Is Missing
Episode #153 Do you ever feel like there is something missing? You've done all you've been told you're supposed to do.... You've worked hard. You started a business. You bring home money for the family. You are seen as an expert in your field, and yet… SOMETHING IS MISSING. You can't put your finger on it, but you can't shake the feeling that this isn't how it's supposed to feel. You find yourself asking "is this all there is?" "Is this how it's supposed to feel?" The answer is no. There is so much more. YOU are so much more…you just haven't been shown the tools to access it…yet. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Why Marriages Don't Work
Episode #152 We live in a society where it is being taught that money can solve everything. As a man, we think that we need to make more money to make our marriage or relationship succeed. We become addicted to work because we always feel that the money we're making is not enough so we grind more, thus leaving us never satisfied. When we're too focused on making money, we forget to switch off and work even more when we get home. We tend to forget our responsibilities to our partner other than making money which results in creating a gap in the relationship. The marriage then begins to break because the man loses himself along the way. He identified himself as a businessman or business owner and that became his identity. Since he thinks that it's his identity, it is difficult for him to switch off and the gap in the relationship becomes bigger and bigger until you don't know your wife anymore and even yourself. In this episode, we talk about how to switch off from work, reclaim your identity and know who you really are. We also talk about the importance of knowing who your wife is, not the woman you married but who she is becoming in the relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How He Did It: Lee Jack
Episode #151 HOW HE DID IT! Meet Mr Lee Jack... Over the past couple of years Lee has gone from being in £2M of debt, losing the life of his life and working 60+ hours per week. To 4X'ing his business in the past 12 months whilst reducing his hours to 20 per week, losing 10lbs in fat and having more time off than ever before. Here's his story... Lee - you are a POWERFUL man my friend! We're peeling back the curtain back on exactly how he did it. What shifts did Lee have to make in his mindset? How did he change his daily workflow? What are the routines he put in place? How did he change as a leader? Let's dive in ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Overcoming the Hump of New Year's Resolution
Episode #150 It's almost the end of January 2020 and we wanted to take a moment to do a reflection of how this last month has been going for you. Are you feeling on track and on fire? Or do you feel like after 2 weeks of crushing it, you gave up on your new habits? Now is the time to remove the judgement of yourself, take an honest reflection of where you're at, and make a conscious choice of what you want to step into. Do something different. Push through and just keep moving forward. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How To Win On Valentine's Day
Episode #149 A few days from now, the world is going to celebrate what is advertised as "the most romantic day"... Valentine's Day. For a lot of men, this is a special day that they're looking forward to. But for other men, this day has a very different meaning to it. Many relationships and marriages have started to BREAK on this day....and we'll tell you why. Valentine's Day is actually the day of COMPARISONS. For a lot of women, this is a time where they'll compare and evaluate what they're men are doing for them. In this episode, we dive deep into how to best approach this day as a POWERFUL MAN and make it a day that both you and your lady love. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How He Did It: Rick Yates
Episode #148 this special episode, Rick dives into how he... ...took his marriage from him and his wife looking into divorce to reconnecting and having better sex, fewer arguments and being more in love now than ever before! ...went from working 7 days a week to taking 5 out of the last 8 weeks off work whilst his team grow the company without him! ...has reclaimed his health and has lost over 1 stone in bodyfat. Oh, and the tiny matter of how he won his company even won an industry award! ...All within a few months! ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What Is It Going To Take?
Episode #147 In today's episode, we have one question for you... What is it going to take for you to finally do what it takes to make the changes that will transform you and your family's life COMPLETELY? ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Balance Is Bullsh*t
Episode #146 Are you tired of being told that life is all about "balance"? That discovering "balance" in your life will fix all of your problems? I don't know about you… but I definitely bought into it and quickly learned that it was complete bullshit. That finding balance was not what I was missing in my life. It was something completely different… ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How He Did It: Ed Mather
Episode #145 If your business is causing disconnection at home, this might be for you It's totally understandable, This is your livelihood after all. It's how you put food on the table and milk in the fridge… It's how you put clothes on your back and shoes on your feet… …maybe that's a little dramatic, but it's true ? And when you're being consumed by the uncertainty and unpredictability of a business that produces more chaos than cash – it's damn near impossible to simply be present with your partner or family. It's constantly on your mind… ...like an itch that needs to be scratched. So you check your email every 30 minutes to see if that one lead responded yet…again, hoping to scratch the itch. …you stay glued to your phone after work, sometimes barely able to focus on the people you're with ...when your kids or partner ask for your attention maybe you even snap (like I did) asking for "5 more minutes..." whilst your loved ones walk away disheartened... I know from experience, It's a vicious cycle to be caught inside of. The same was going on for Ed In fact, things got so much for Ed, that his relationship with his wife started to break down… The disconnection and lack of intimacy led him to porn, hook up sites and he was 4 days away from having an affair. But after going through the activation method Ed has reconnected with his wife… ...is having more sex ...his business is making more money And he has a deeper understanding and love for himself… In fact, In his own words, Ed said "I now have a map that takes me to my destination in every area of my life" Rather than driving in the fog. So, how did he pull it off? ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How Your Morning Routine Can Bring You Closer To Your Wife
Episode #144 A lot of men would say that their morning routine doesn't have an effect on the other aspects of their life, whether in business or in they're relationships. But typically, for the guys that come to us, it's evident that they're day is extremely affected by what they do in the morning. If their morning started ugly with things not going well at home, then their business struggles. They spend the day thinking about their wives and what's happening there. Thus, they end up not being productive. On the flip side, if you start your day right, whatever happens throughout the day, you have the energy to cope and make sound decisions. Your morning routine is like the foundation when you're building a house. Without it, your day can crumble very easily. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
What To Do When Your Wife Is Having An Affair
Episode #143 What will you do if you find out that your wife is cheating on you? For most men, if not all, the most painful thing to ever happen within their relationship or marriage is finding out that their wife is having an affair with another man. Moreover, adding to the pain is if the reason why your wife is cheating on you is that you became a jerk for a long time. If you're one of those men currently in this position...what should you do? How can you win your wife back? Is there a way to save your marriage? In this episode, learn from one of the men's experiences and how you can win your wife back and rekindle the fire in your relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How He Did It: Ryan Peach
Episode #142 Have you ever felt torn between doing something new and doing what you know to avoid discomfort? Do you feel like your relationship is shaking and is at the end of its rope? Are you still the Alpha in your relationship or is your wife leading you right now? In today's episode, Ryan Peach shares his journey from being a struggling man to a Powerful Man. Learn how he managed to save his marriage, really shift his perspective, and completely transform his life. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
When Your New Year's Resolution Seems To Repeat Itself
Episode #141 Today is the 7th day of the year. A week has just already passed us. And for most of us, this is the time where we set new year's resolutions. Every year, we're making promises to ourselves about the things that we want and we don't want to achieve. The sad thing is, for most of the time, we achieve what we don't want to achieve and failed on things that we want to reach. Every year has been the same. What should you do? This episode might just answer this question of how not to repeat of failing your new year's resolution. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
I'd Pay Anything To Have It Back
Episode #140 Do you ever feel like you have lost some of the most important things in your life because it was so easy to take them for granted? In this episode, we talk about how to focus on preventing these things from happening instead of waiting until they do. The secret key is to work on things early BEFORE they become an issue. You need tools, a coach, or a mentor that will guide you to build a solid foundation ---> INVEST IN YOURSELF. Double down on yourself. Get optics on yourself. Challenge yourself and find your edge. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How to Keep Your Confidence High When Things Are Going Against You
Episode #139 Opening the year right isn't an easy task, especially, if you're starting it with low self-confidence. So, how can you keep your confidence high when the things you're expecting don't seem to fall into place? Remember this... Things may be going against you but if you're still being congruent with who you are, regardless of what's going on outside, you can keep your confidence high. One tip that we suggest is to have someone around that will support you. Sometimes you need to borrow confidence from someone who believes in you. Make it a priority to surround yourself with people that have confidence in you. And most importantly...always think about who you REALLY are and act in alignment with that. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Closing the Year Out
Episode #138 Happy New Year! Today is the last day of the year 2019. Looking back... How would you grade yourself? How's your business? How're your relationships? How's your SELF? It is time to REFLECT. Take time to reflect. What are your wins? What're you going to do next year? What lessons did you learn in the past 12 months? For most of us, a year can seem like such a small amount of time but know this, there's so much more that we can achieve if we just stay on the course. It's time to close the year right and open up 2020 with positivity. Be committed. Stop being a boy. Be a man. Take control of your life. Be the Powerful Man that you know you can become. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How To Stay Connected To Your Wife When Traveling For Business
Episode #137 Have you ever been away from your wife for a while? Do you feel like it's exhausting to even call your wife when you're away? In this episode, we pose the question 'what are you willing to do to stay connected with your wife while you're away?' One helpful tip to easily stay connected and present is to know your wife's love language. We take that a step further and ask 'what are the little things that you can do as a man for your partner to feel special?' ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
I'm Building This For My Family, They'll Understand
Episode #136 When you're at work late, missing dinner with your family, do you find yourself saying "I'm building this for my family, they'll understand"? You see, most men have fallen into a similar trap... the trap of spending their time hustling and grinding at work... all to provide for their families. They're doing what they've been told they're "supposed" to do. And yet, they're sacrificing spending time connecting with their families (which is who they're doing it all for to begin with!) ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Am I Failing As A Father?
Episode #135 On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest and 1 being the lowest, how do you rate yourself as a father? Are you giving your children the best of you? Or are you giving them your leftovers after you've given your best to your business, the best to your staff, the best to your customers, the best to your friends... Where do your kids fit into that? Are they going to be like you when they grow older and become a father in the future? But the real question is... How do you know if you're failing as a father? Which standards are we basing it on? When you really get to the core of what's going on in your life is when you will realize if you're being a good father or is you are failing as a father to your kids. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Do You Feel Like There's Something Missing?
Episode #134 Do you ever feel like there is something missing? You've done all you've been told you're supposed to do. You've worked hard. You started a business. You bring home money for the family. You are seen as an expert in your field, and yet... something is missing. You can't put your finger on it, but you can't shake the feeling that this isn't how it's supposed to feel. You find yourself asking "is this all there is?" "Is this how it's supposed to feel?" The answer is no. There is so much more. YOU are so much more. You just haven't been shown the tools to access it...yet. We often feel unfulfilled even after all the achievements that we already have. It never satisfies us. We've already reached the destination but we still feel something is missing. The feeling of unfulfillment will result in continuous chasing. You keep on chasing without knowing what you really want. You must know first who you are, what you really want. Stop comparing yourself to other people and be secured about yourself. We often forget that the journey is more important than the destination. Reflect, learn and enjoy the journey because enjoying the journey and understanding who you are and what you want is what will give you fulfillment. What you will learn in this episode: The difference between achievement and fulfillment Importance of knowing who you are and what you want Importance of enjoying the journey ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
You Can Never Win An Argument With Your Wife
Episode #133 Do you argue a lot with your wife or your partner? Are you tired of arguing with her? Typically women argue to connect, while men argue to win which is why it's very difficult to win in an argument with your wife. Persuasive communication is the key to avoid being the bad cop in the conversation. If you do this, you will be able to not only get what you want in that situation but also get connection and intimacy with your partner during the communication. As a man, it is very more important that you validate what your partner feels, make her understand that she is your priority and that you don't want her to feel otherwise. Hold your ground and communicate calmly. State what you don't want and what you do want in that situation but at the same time, understand what outcome she wants in that situation so that she will feel seen, heard and understood. In order for you to be able to hold your ground in these situations, you must have a strong foundation first. Focus on yourself, know who you are as a man, and know that there is a powerful man inside you. What you will learn in this episode: The importance of having a strong foundation and being secure about yourself as a man. The importance of validating your wife's feelings and how. The importance of communicating calmly during an argument and how. The importance of listening and understanding each other's side in an argument. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
She Won't Leave
Episode #132 Women nowadays don't need a man to provide for them financially. They need someone who can provide for them emotionally, someone who is man enough for her to feel safe and secured. Someone who is present, who takes care of himself, and his health and knows how to step up. As a man, we become very much confident that our wife will never leave us since we think that providing financially is enough to make them stay. We think that when we make more money, THAT is the time we will be able to enjoy life with our loved ones but we never feel like its enough, we always want to make more and as a result, we become slaves to our business. In this episode, we talk about how providing is more than just giving money, it is emotionally also. If you want to have deep intimacy in your relationship then you need to prioritize it and make your business serve your life, not the other way around. Women check out from the relationship because they feel that their partner left the relationship long before they do. Their husbands stopped becoming the man they married. The wife becomes a mother and the husband becomes a boy. To keep the relationship it is important to become the man you know you are capable of becoming. Improve yourself, learn how to switch off from work and be present in the relationship. Spend quality time with your wife, have good communication and you will become closer to each other. In this episode you will learn : The importance of being present in the relationship both physically and emotionally What will make her stay in the relationship The importance of proper communication in the relationship The importance of improving yourself and becoming the man that she married ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
When I Solve This Business Problem, Then I'll Focus On My Marriage
Episode #131 We think that we need to be focused on making money, in our business because we are told that when we have the money THAT'S when we can enjoy life with our family, and THAT'S when we'll have time for them and be present for them. In reality, when we make more money we continuously want for more until we realize that we already missed the most important things in life which is the opportunity to build a connection with our family and enjoy simple things with them. Can you relate? As business leaders, we must also lead our own lives. We get to prioritize being a role model to our kids and being someone who prioritizes family over business. Don't wait until you reach the destination before you enjoy and have fun with yourself and with your family. Choose to enjoy the journey now and have fun along the way so that when you reach your destination there will be no regrets. In this episode you will learn : The importance of leading your own life How to reach the destination without having regrets How to build a connection with your spouse and family ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
"Every Time We Talk, We Argue"
Episode #130 Every relationship book, podcast, or video you consume tells you communication is key. That to get through your problems with your partner...you have to talk about it. But every time you try to talk to her, it seems like you end up arguing. The good news is....there is another way. When we have problems in the relationship, talking about it sometimes will just make the situation even worse. As a man, we feel that it is an attack on our capabilities to provide and as a man. It is difficult for us to communicate and talk about it because we don't understand what's going on inside us. Get out of that situation by focusing on building the connection first with yourself so that you will be able to build connection with your wife. You should reset and reclaim. Know yourself, understand what's going on inside you so that it will be easier to understand what your partner really needs from you. Have fun with yourself so that you will be able to have fun with your partner. Build a deeper connection with yourself and your wife and as a result, communication will become a lot easier. In this episode you will learn: The alternative to "talking through" your problems with your partner. How showing up for yourself makes all the difference What your partner is really looking for from you. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
I Don't Need to Date My Wife, We're Too Busy
Episode #129 When was the last time you took your wife on a date? Without actively dating your wife, you won't be able to build and grow a deeper connection in the relationship. Typically, we become too busy making money to provide all the needs of our family that we often forget to plan a date night with our wife. This will often result in feeling guilty for not being able to give the attention that our partner needs, which is why we resort to an alternative. We buy expensive gifts for her in order to make up for those missed date nights but that's not a true connection she's looking for. Because of this, the disconnection becomes bigger and soon you will realize that your relationship is slowing drifting apart. In this episode, we talk about how to work on yourself to have the energy you need to truly nurture your relationship. Prioritize your relationship with your wife. Date her the way you dated her even before your marriage and make her feel special. Dedicate a space and time to connect with her without mentioning anything about business. Give her that deeper level of intimacy and connection. In this episode you will learn: The importance of dating your wife How to provide emotionally in the relationship The effects of relying on the alternatives instead of dating your wife to build a connection How to nurture your relationship ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Rekindle Your Relationship
Episode #128 People change, our interests, our views, our priorities change, a lot of things change as time goes by including relationships. We tend to lose the connection that we had for each other and you start to grow apart. Rebuild the relationship by getting to know your partner who she is now, gets to know who you are now, what changed about you and what changed about her and find what are your commonalities. When our spouse doesn't get the attention and significance in the relationship, they tend to look for it outside the marriage and will soon cause the relationship to break. Reignite the relationship by taking ownership. Reset and reclaim who you are, take small steps to get into her world and understand her in all angles. Know her love language and make her feel desired and wanted. Validate her, make her feel significant and show her that deep level of intimacy. In this episode you will learn : How to rebuild the connection in the relationship Understanding and coping with the change that happens in the relationship Importance of knowing each other's love language Importance of resetting and reclaiming who you are ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Setting Standards For Yourself
Episode #127 The standards we set for ourselves guide us and allow us to achieve the results that we want and carry us to where we want to go. To know your standards, you must know first who you are because your standard is part of your identity. If you know who you are and what you want to achieve, it will be easier for you to sustain your results and prove to yourself that you can hold yourself to these standards. Be specific about the actions you are currently taking. You should know what your current standards are and if it is necessary, make new standards that are aligned with your behavior and identity. A standard should be set based on how we know ourselves not based on what society dictates. Set a standard for your personal growth and development, get optics and support in order to help yourself achieve the result that you want. In this episode you will learn : How to set your standards The importance of knowing that your true identity lies in setting your standards The importance of being clear on what result you want to achieve ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
How To Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It
Episode #126 Our society teaches us that in order to solve the problems in our marriage we should go through counseling or therapy and talk things out...but some people don't want to talk about it because it just brings more weight to the problem. We have good news...there is another way to turn things around. The first step in saving your marriage without talking about it is becoming raw and honest with yourself. Acknowledge that there is a problem in your marriage and stop pretending that everything is working fine. Second, focus on improving YOURSELF instead of criticizing your partner. Discover yourself as a man and know your standards. We all grew up differently. Our expectations are different from each other because of our upbringing or how we are programmed while growing up. Instead of pointing out the flaws of your partner, focus on cleaning your side of the street first. Stop comparing your decision making to hers, your problems to hers, your day with hers because it will just create disconnection within the relationship. Focus on your individual selves first, accept each other's craziness in order for you to work on your relationship as a couple. Lastly, leave the fighting mentality at work, decompress and transition into a family man. Think about how you will step up to not only save the marriage but to take the relationship to the next level. In this episode you will learn: How to save a marriage without talking about it The importance of cleaning your side of the street first and what that looks like. The importance of resetting and reprogramming and HOW to do that. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.