The One Inside: An Internal Family Systems (IFS) podcast

On today's episode I chat with Fatimah Finney who wrote a chapter in the Altogether Us book entitled, "Embodying IFS with Black Clients." Listening to this epsiode this week could not be more timely as the last thing we talk about is Collective Healing. Fatimah says, "My liberation is your liberation.. what is happening across the globe impacts us." Fatimah is a licensed mental health counselor, skilled DEI consultant and workshop facilitator. She enjoys existing as a Black Muslim Woman and apparently loves buying books she doesn't get to read. Her toddlers are her tormentors and daily doses of Self energy! We talk about: - Speak about race, it is already in the room - Recognizing dominance and power positions in txp - Importance of working with therapist's parts (always!) but NOT in session with your black client - Connection and Compassion can exist when there is not 'sameness', when there is a limit to my 'getting it' - Giving clients the floor to tell their own story - Importance of intentional community - Black Joy - Intercultural competence: how can we engage in differences in a connecting way - "Being with the beauty and the wonder of the person who is in front of me." - Knowing where your line of knowledge ends and begins - Leadership development- What is the point of your power? How do you get and recieve feedback? - Collective healing --- It is a really beautiful episode. --- To find out more about Fatimah go to Meet Fatimah — Fatimah Finney (healingdifferently.com) --- Purchase "Altogether Us" here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends: Riemersma, Jenna, Schwartz, Dr. Richard: 9781734958423: Amazon.com: Books Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy here Tammy Sollenberger (@ifs.tammy) • Instagram photos and videos and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger here The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. ----- Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack at bonzemusic on Instagram.

On today's podcast I chat with Kathy Mackechney, who wrote a chapter in Altogether Us. Kathy is a relinquishee-adoptee whose purpose is helping other adoptees heal the burdens of having been relinquished, or removed, and adopted. She is a Level-3 trained, IFS-certified therapist and consultant wtih a private practice in Denver. We talk about: Helping adoptees feel heard and understood Shifting language from adoption-industry and adoptive-parent-centric perspective to language that centers the experience of the person who was relinquished, and therefore needed to be adopted- hence the term 'relinquishee' or 'survivor of infant-mother separation' Educating 'biologicals' about why adoptees should be recognized as a marginalized group Why 'Not all Parts Get Adopted" How Self gets exiled Importance of using Implicit Direct Access Possible Parts who may be found (Not me, Dismissed, sense of being alone, Relationship stressors, Control, Self doubt, Second quessing). You can find out more about Kathy and her "Not all Parts get Adopted" workshop here: Adoptee Therapy, LLC ---- Purchase "Altogether Us" here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends: Riemersma, Jenna, Schwartz, Dr. Richard: 9781734958423: Amazon.com: Books Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy here Tammy Sollenberger (@ifs.tammy) • Instagram photos and videos and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger here The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. ----- Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack at bonzemusic on Instagram.

On today's podcast I talk with Martha Sweezy. Martha has authored all the IFS books with all the IFS people. Her latest solo book project is entitled, "Internal Family Systems for Shame and Guilt." Martha says, "Understanding shame and guilt in the context of psychic multiplicity is to understand how trauma becomes traumatic over time and how an external insult becomes an internal identity and process." I took notes. I think you may want to also. Check out all the things Martha Sweezy here: Martha Sweezy, Ph.D. | Assistant Professor, Harvard University Medical School and IFS Therapist in Northampton, Massachusetts *She comments on several of her upcoming book projects with various people in the IFS community. The book she is writing on IFS and Psychedlics is with Richard Schwartz, Dave Lovas, and Sunny Strasburg. ----- Purchase "Altogether Us" here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends: Riemersma, Jenna, Schwartz, Dr. Richard: 9781734958423: Amazon.com: Books Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy here Tammy Sollenberger (@ifs.tammy) • Instagram photos and videos and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger here The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. ----- Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack at bonzemusic on Instagram.

On today's episode I chat again with Leslie Petruk, IFSI Lead Trainer, who wrote a chapter in the Altogether Us book entitled, "IFS and Parenting: Becoming an In-sightful Parent." We jump right in as Leslie and I talk 'off mic' about all things parenting, and I needed to include it in the episode for you! We talk about: Parts who make meaning out of our kid's behaviors Stages on development; Loss when kids grown older "We can only feel Joy at the depth we have felt pain."- true in parenting Difficulty with separating out what is MINE and what is THEIRS Leading from a Self led place and not an Activated Parts place She talks briefly about acronyms she describes in the book chapter: S.H.U.V. - how we treat out Inner and External 'kids' P.A.U.S.E.- what we all need to have on our Fridge! To find out more about Leslie go to: Home - The Stone Center – Charlotte, NCThe Stone Center – Charlotte, NC (thestonecenternc.com) ----- Purchase "Altogether Us" here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends: Riemersma, Jenna, Schwartz, Dr. Richard: 9781734958423: Amazon.com: Books Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy here Tammy Sollenberger (@ifs.tammy) • Instagram photos and videos and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger here The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. ----- Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack at bonzemusic on Instagram.

We like to talk about Addiction on the podcast! I'm excited to talk to Mary Kruger (again!) and Cece Skyes who wrote a Chapter in the Altogether Us book entitled, "IFS and Addiction: Compassion for the Addictive Process." We talk about: Alternatives to a manager led (client's or family or therapist's) "Plan" Working with your own parts (helper, rescue, fixer, advice giving) when working (or living) with others who have 'Extreme Firefighters' "Exiling firefighters is not working"- What if we welcomed their advice and wisdom? Bridges how IFS can Bridge the polarization between the addiction world and the psychological world creating them between ALL parts involved in the addictive process bringing curiosity to the systematic interactions of the parts Enjoy! ---- Find out more about Cece Skyes and her book: Cece Sykes LCSW Internal Family Systems Therapy for Addictions: Trauma-Informed, Compassion-Based Interventions for Substance Use, Eating, Gambling and More: Sykes, Cece, Sweezy, Martha, Schwartz, Richard C.: 9781683736028: Amazon.com: Books Find out more about Mary Kruger here: Home Page (mpkruger.com) ----- Purchase "Altogether Us" here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends: Riemersma, Jenna, Schwartz, Dr. Richard: 9781734958423: Amazon.com: Books Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy here Tammy Sollenberger (@ifs.tammy) • Instagram photos and videos and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger here The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. ----- Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic.

Welcome to Season 5 where we 'check in': I check in about Season 5 of the podcast Jenna checks in about the Altogether Us book release earlier this month We both share how we check in with our parts We talk a whole lot about Self. This episode is beautiful- I was going to edit out the last 10 minutes or so because I start crying but... I leave it ALL in there. This one is really good..... THIS is why we do this. Enjoy! ---- Find out more about Jenna here: Jenna Riemersma ----- Purchase "Altogether Us" here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends: Riemersma, Jenna, Schwartz, Dr. Richard: 9781734958423: Amazon.com: Books Follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy here Tammy Sollenberger (@ifs.tammy) • Instagram photos and videos and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger here The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. ----- Are you new to IFS or want a simple way to get to know yourself? Tammy's book, "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" is a PERFECT place to start. You can purchase it here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. Sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic.

On today's podcast I chat with Brian Jaudon, an IFS-trained coach who works with a wide range of clients from executives and entrepreneurs to shamans and creatives. Brian has led two highly successful IFS and Coaching courses and has been around the IFS world for a long time. We chatted a few times offline when I started the podcast a few years ago so I love that he is the last guest for season 3. We have a sweet conversation- the best kind I think for the podcast- it has a lot of interesting information about IFS, Gift Development, asking good questions, Contracting, working with Parts. But the best part is the authentic connection and the conversation that flows so naturally from that. I'm so grateful to him and to all the guests and listeners who make this so fun and rewarding. For more information check out: Landing Page | Pisgah Coaching ---- To connect with me, follow me @ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter or on The One Inside Facebook Page. Get a free 'Get to Know a Should part' and sign up for my 'sometimes' monthly newsletter at tammysollenberger.com. You can buy my book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self" on Amazon at the link below or wherever you get books! The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books ---- Brian says the right question at the right moment is a key that unlocks a lock. Then we give space to experience the ripple that comes from it. We chatted afterwards about ALL the things and he did this for me- he asked the right question, in the right moment and let silence sit for a minute. The question and the curiosity I have about it continues to ripple. I'll see you in the fall for season 4.... Enjoy.

Hi! This is a re-release of a meditation Dick did on an episode released 10/29/19 that was part of the full episode released 11/6/19. I chat for about 2 minutes about why I decided to do this (One hint--- Tammy Sollenberger | Insight Timer) then Dick leads a 8-ish minute meditation. I hope you enjoy it! ------ We will take a break through the rest of June and July and return in August where we count down to the publication of the "Altogether Us" book on August 31, 2023! --- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends – Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home ---- You can follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger. You can buy her book "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" here The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. You can sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. ---- Enjoy

On today's episode I talk with Dr. Frank Anderson. Frank is a psychiatrist, lead Trainer with the IFS Institute, author of 'Transcending Trauma' and an author in the Altogether Us book. We talk about: his upcoming memoir entitled "To Be Loved." some of his story (a type of conversion therapy starting at 6 yo) Coming out with a trauma history is a trauma in and of itself The stages of Coming out "Being Gay is a Trauma" The high rate of suicidality in LGBTQ teens "Orientation is a Dimension of Self Energy" Working out Gender "Orientation and Gender fall away in the Spiritual Realm" and so much more! You can contact Frank at Trauma Specialist, Author, Psychiatrist,… | Frank Anderson MD --- We will take a break through the rest of June and July and return in August where we count down to the publication of the "Altogether Us" book on August 31, 2023! --- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends – Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home ---- You can follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger. You can buy her book "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" here The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. You can sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. ---- Enjoy

On today's podcast I talk with Dr. Sand Chang who wrote a chapter in the upcoming Altogether Us book. Dr. Sand Chang is a Chinese American nonbinary psychologist, DEI consultant, certified IFS therapist, consultant, and trainer. Their work is centered on body liberation, particularly in the realms of trans health, eating disorders, and trauma recovery. We talk about: - Trans-affirming IFS (that's what the chapter in Jenna's book is about) - Teaching an IFS foundations course to queer and trans therapists and the importance of affinity trainings (with Nic Wildes) - Body liberation, eating disorders, de-pathologizing parts that use disordered eating to help someone to survive in a white supremacist, fatphobic, transphobic culture - Creating affirming spaces - knowing that each person's liberation is tied to others' liberations - The 9th "C" of Self energy being community/collectivism and how this plays out not just in the world but specifically in IFS training spaces. As an Assistant Trainer Mentee and someone who is moving toward being an IFSI trainer, these are things which Sand feels very passionate. They desire to create the spaces that don't always exist and have often harmed trans and queer folks. Find out more about them here: SAND CHANG, PHD and IFS With Trans and/or Nonbinary Communities — Queer and Trans Internal Family Systems (qtifs.com) --- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends – Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home ---- You can follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger. You can buy her book "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" here The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. You can sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. ---- Enjoy

On today's episode, Jenna Riemersma is the GUEST HOST and interviews Tammy and Joan Ryan about their chapter on the Enneagram in the Altogether Us book. We talk about: How Joan and I met How Enneagram Types show up at a Birthday party How Parts hold the Type Structure together Using Enneagram Type to Map parts Common Parts found in Type Joan Ryan specializes in Organization Development and the Enneagram. She is a Senior Leadership Coach and has worked internationally in law firms, hospitals, corporations and nonprofit organizations including USAID. She is currently an Adjunct Professor at Boston College, teaching Inclusive Leadership. She previously worked as an attorney. She served 2 terms on the IEA Board in the early 2000s. An internationally recognized Enneagram expert, Joan received certification as an Enneagram Teacher from the Palmer/Daniels Enneagram Professional Training Program in 1996 and is grounded firmly in Narrative Methods. She had the distinct honor of being mentored directly by both Helen Palmer and the late Dr. David Daniels. Her current focus is exploring intersections between the Enneagram and Internal Family Systems (IFS-Institute.org). She has recently co-authored a chapter for the new reference work "Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Keyyy Modalities, Communities, and Trends", editor, Jenna Riemersma to be published in August 2023. With her teaching partner, Tammy Sollenberger, she offers classes and consulting groups along with individual coaching. For more information and contact see: https://www.creativecollaborations.net/about Joan is presenting on IFS and Enneagram at this Enneagram Conference- check it out! IEA Global Conference 2023 (vfairs.com) ----- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends – Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home ---- You can follow Tammy on Instagram @ifstammy and on Facebook at The One Inside with Tammy Sollenberger. You can buy her book "The One Inside: Thirty Days to your Authentic Self" here The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books or wherever books are sold. You can sign up for Tammy's email list and get a free "Get to know a Should part of you" meditation on her website: Home - Tammy Sollenberger ----- Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Regina Wei who wrote the chapter on Asian and Pacific Islander Clients for the Altogether Us book. Regina Wei (she/they), LMFTA is an IFS Level 1 trained Couples and Family Therapist in Washington state who has a specialization in sex therapy. Her work centers folks who identify as BIPOC and/or LGBTQIA+ and focuses on helping clients heal racial, intergenerational, sexual, and other traumas. Regina has an MA in Couples and Family Therapy and an MA in Modern Chinese Literature and Culture. She has written a novel, set in China, that deals with the themes of trauma, healing, and cross-cultural connections and misses. www.ReginaWei.com ---- We talk about: Her Novel (Themes of Healing!) Collectivism and Authority Holding space for Tension Racialized bodies Intergenerational and historical trauma Heritage as a Protective Factor The role of Shame Recommendations for Therapists ---- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page here: The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I talk with Carmen Jimenez-Pride about her chapter in the Altogether Us book on Play Therapy. Carmen is an Assistant Trainer with the IFS Insitute, the founder, and Executive Director of Outspoken Counseling and Consulting. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Registered Play Therapist Supervisor, Certified EMDR Therapist, Internal Family Systems Therapist, Registered Yoga Teacher, Registered Children Yoga Teacher and a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator. Carmen is also a LEGO® Serious Play® Facilitator. Carmen is the developer of Diversity in Play Therapy Inc.; and creator/organizer of the Diversity in Play Therapy Summit. ---- We talk about: Carmen's story Sand Tray Parts Mapping Engaging with Parents (unblending from our parts and helping them identify theirs) Challenges working with IFS and Kids I grow, you grow, we grow together Diversity in Play Therapy Summit Focus on Feelings curriculum Carmen says, "What if we can prevent the impact of the Exile? ... We are able to soften the impact of the burdens parts carry using creative means in play therapy." ---- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page here: The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Patricia Rich. This is her 2nd appearance on the podcast. The first was entitled Self-Led Sexuality and that is what we talk about today- which involves a whole lot more then you may think. I appreciate Patty inviting us over and over again to check in with our parts as we talk, knowing we are covering sensitive topics. We also have a lot of laughter and distracted parts. My favorite thing Patty says is towards the end where she talks about the 6 S's of sexuality (which she covers in the first episode in detail). She asks us to consider what is between us and certain S words. I encourage you to consider this idea and be with all the parts who may come up as you listen. Patty is a Certified IFS Therapist and Approved Consultant and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor. She has developed a unique integrative model for helping people to feel more ease, joy and confidence in the realm of sexuality and has originated IFS-informed concepts such as Internal Consent and The Six S's of Sexual Self-Energy. Patty has presented at the IFS Annual Conference, taught a module for the IFS Institute Online Continuity program, and led workshops internationally. She offers training and consultation to professionals and offers opportunities to BeHold and Lead your Internal Sexual Systems (BLISS). She lives in the Philadelphia area where she also has a private practice. You can learn more about her offerings at www.patriciarich.com and follow her on Instagram at @patriciarichconsulting. Her website is here: Patricia Rich Consulting LLC ---- Pre-order the Ebook for Altogether us here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page here: The One Inside: Internal Family Systems with Tammy Sollenberger | Facebook. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's podcast I talk with Dr. Nancy Morgan, Certified IFS Therapist. Nancy wrote the IFS and Psychedelic chapter in the new upcoming book, "Altogether Us" which will be released around August 2023. I spoke with Nancy on episode 47 when we focused her role as Director of LifeMoves Behavioral Health and Training Programs, a California agency dedicated to breaking the cycle of homelessness. Nancy introduced IFS into the training curriculum during the 2015-2016 year. Today, we have a much different discussion. You may be here because you love Nancy and want to know and hear how she is and what is going on with her as she was recently diagnosed with cancer. You may be here and you do not know Nancy personally or professionally, you want to know more about IFS or you want to know about psychedelics. Whatever reason brought you to this episode I am glad you are here, and I feel incredibly honored that Nancy shares her heart and story with us. The first half of this episode is heavier around the history of psychedelics and the integration with IFS. Nancy shares more of her story in the second half, although it is weaved throughout. I start recording as soon as I meet with each guest, and most of that beginning matter is edited out. I decided to leave our entire conversation just as it is. You can find out more about Nancy here: Internal Family Systems | The Guide Inside | Dr. Nancy L. Morgan (the-guide-inside.com) You can find the Go fund me link to support Nancy here: Fundraiser for Nancy Morgan by Michele Lucas : Nancy L. Morgan (gofundme.com) CORRECTION: Nancy referenced receiving my Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy certification from Ken Wolfson. She meant to say Phil Wolfson. ---- Pre-order the Ebook here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

Re-published Previous episode for the Altogether Us Book! Gaby Satarino has created four IFS-informed approaches to providing culturally centered care to Latinx clients who live in the United States: · Culturally Sensitive Contextual Interview (CSCI) · Recognizing Common Polarizations in Latinx Clients · Culturally Centered Spiritual Integration · Language Switching for Culturally Centered Healing The IFS-Informed Culturally Sensitive Contextual Interview (CSCI) is set of questions that clinicians can ask both during intake and throughout the duration of client care that invite dialogue about cultural experiences have impacted the parts of the client. You can find the English and Spanish version of the Culturally Sensitive Contextual Interview in the book, "Altogether Us" under her chapter, IFS and Latinx. Gaby Satarino, is a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor and Certified IFS Therapist. She has over 20 years of clinical experience working in community mental health and primary care settings providing trauma-informed psychotherapy for at-risk youth, refugees, the homeless and incarcerated populations, as well as survivors of rape, domestic violence and torture. Gaby's clinical work is undergirded by a passion for understanding the ways in which Latinx cultural values impact engagement and treatment outcomes in mental health and has focused on community outreach work aimed at reducing utilization gaps among Latinx communities. She sees clients and trains clinicians through her private practice in Dallas, Texas. ---- On today's episode I chat with Gaby Satarino. Gaby presented the first Spanish speaking workshop at the 2021 IFS Annual Conference. We chat about: - What is Latinx? - Immigration, acculturative stress, discrimination - Cultural Protective Factors - Polarizations unique to the Latinx community - Cultural Factors and the Family system - What parts are not coming into therapy? - Role of please pleasing and power in therapy - Role of spirituality and building self to part relationships through prayer ------- Gaby is currently (in 2021) offering two workshops: 1) Value of including a culturally aligned contextual interview when working Latinx community 2) IFS and Latinx community Consultation group Check out her website: Gaby Satarino Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (gabysatarinocounseling.com) Her email: [email protected] The video she mentions is here: Young Latinos: Born in the U.S.A., carving their own identity (nbcnews.com) ----- Pre-order the Ebook here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Altogether Us author Valerie Simon. Valerie Simon is a Certified IFS Therapist, a Trainer, Educator and Practitioner of psychodrama, and a Certified Experiential Therapist. She is the Founder and Director of The Inner Stage®, a group private practice in NYC where she works with adults recovering from trauma, and she specializes in working with performers and other public figures. Valerie also runs groups and intensives, and supervises and trains other practitioners in her hybrid method of IFS and psychodrama called Play Your Parts. We discuss: - what is psychodrama? - what are externalizations? - psychodrama in a group setting - parallels and differences between IFS and psychodrama - healing power of integrating both modalities - unburdening, 'the redo' and connecting to Self using externalizations - Play Your Parts and The Inner Stage Check out Valerie here: THE INNER STAGE – Cutting edge experiential therapy ------ Pre-order the Ebook here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Jenna Riemersma about her chapter in the upcoming book "Altogether Us." We talk about: An IFS Shorthand: Notice, kNow and Need Moving Towards our own Parts Moving Towards our Parts in Relationship with others (as a therapists/helping professional, Friend, Parent, and Partner) Moving Towards before we Turn Towards, especially in difficult relationships ----- Pre-order the Ebook here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home Find out more about Jenna here: Jenna Riemersma -------- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Richard Schwartz, founder of IFS and Jenna Riemersma, author of Altogether You and IFS Level 3 therapist. Jenna is the editor of a new book coming out this year entitled "Altogether Us" which features 30 different authors in the IFS community. We talk about: - The importance of Access to IFS, the Demand for IFS, and concerns about Quality Control - Dick shares about his persistent parts when starting the model - Jenna shares the main sections of the book - Dick talks about what he sees in the future of IFS and what he means by the "Paradigm Shift" of IFS - We talk about how "IFS Changes Everything" - Dick and Jenna talk about their personal Visions/Resolutions for the New Year ---- Pre-order the Ebook here: Altogether Us: Integrating the IFS Model with Key Modalities, Communities, and Trends - Kindle edition by Riemersma, Jenna. Health, Fitness & Dieting Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com. A portion of all proceeds will go to The Foundation for Self Leadership's Fellows Program. You can find out more here: Foundation IFS: Home Find out more about Jenna here: Jenna Riemersma Learn more about IFS and upcoming trainings here: What is Internal Family Systems? | IFS Institute (ifs-institute.com) -------- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I talk with Lucille Aaron-Wayne, a longtime Certified IFS Therapist, Jungian analyst-in-training and art therapist. She helps people who feel and think deeply learn how to do IFS on themselves and claim it as their own person self healing tool. We talk about: - The importance of 'doing IFS' on our own - The different skill set needed to do Solo IFS - 6 Common Self life parts -- I loved how practical this episode is, and I loved how Lucille talks about how doing our own work builds a bridge between our 'regular life' and our Self energy. Connect with Lucille at seekdeeply.com: Seek Deeply: Online Jungian & IFS Therapy Sessions where you can get a FREE one hour guide to Solo IFS! ---- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Sarah Houy, a certified IFS therapist and the co-founder of Sentur, an IFS app! Sarah is passionate about revolutionizing mental health care and has been a trauma therapist for over a decade. We talk about her passion for making therapy and treatment accessible to all people, her first experiences with IFS and Sentur. ---- Find out more about the Sentur app here: Internal Family Systems App | Sentur App ---- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Madeline Gibson, a Level 3 IFS practitioner and coach living in Lake Como, Italy. Madeline owns and runs Lake Como Wellness, a wellness events and retreat business. She is soon to launch her podcast, "There's a Part of Me", for the IFS curious, and in the new year will launch a range of free resources around 'middle lane drinking' through the IFS lens. Middle Lane drinkers are those who haven't 'hit rock bottom' but feel curious about what life would be like without alcohol. Madeline is almost five years sober after going through that lifestyle transformation herself, shorting before meeting Dick Schwartz on retreat in northern Italy. You can reach out to Madeline on Instagram @the.ifs.coach or email [email protected] ---- Madeline encourages us to be curious as we consider that our drinking parts are destined for greater, more Self led roles. She gives 4 reflective questions or journal prompts to deepen our own connection to our internal world. She says that as long as parts are stuck in protective roles they are not living into their full potential. Check out her website where you can download an ebook, "Middle Lane Drinking: An IFS Approach." Welcome to the IFS Coach - The World needs all of you ---- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. Or on amazon here: The One Inside: 30 Days To Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Anna Vincentz, a Level 3 IFS therapist who resides in Denmark. We talk about: 1. Attachment: the nervous system and inner and outer coregulation with parents, children, partners, clients and therapists 2. New Danish Parenting: Children always make sense, Relationships matter most, and conscious parenting. Anna says- Parts don't want to settle for unconditional love and attachment from Self. When they actually get connection from Self they realize it is not settling at all. And- We don't need to lean in to our partners from our young parts. Our parts need to lean in to Self and then our Self can lean out into our partners. ---- Check out Anna's podcast and articles here: IFS therapy — IFS & Familieterapeut Anna Vincentz MPF ---- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Susann Suprenant, Ph.D. Susann is a Level 1 Internal Family Systems practitioner and Guild Certified Feldenkrais Practitioner working with coaching clients in their recovery from chronic pain and other mindbody symptoms. She holds a Ph.D. in Theatre Arts, is trained in Pain Reprocessing Therapy (Howard Shubiner, MD and Alan Gordon, LCSW) and facilitates mindbody support groups with Curable Health. We talk about: 1. Benefits of getting curious about chronic symptoms as parts' protective strategies. 2. The Feldenkrais method 3. Polyvagal theory and 'Play as a Blended State' I appreciated the experiential component Susann brings to the episode. Susann introduced one of her mentors, Dr. Howard Shubiner to Dick which led them to co-author the following article entitled, "IFS and Chronic Pain: Listening to Parts who Hold the Hurt." IFS and Chronic Pain (psychotherapynetworker.org) --- You can connect with Susann at www.creativesomatics.com or [email protected]. You can sign up for her mailing list to be notified of her upcoming online class beginning in January 2023, "Your Resilient Self: Creative Recovery from Chronic Mindbody Symptoms," which explores pain reprocessing through the 8 C's. She refers to Curable- an app that can be found here: Curable Groups: A 12-Week Healing Bootcamp for Chronic Pain Recovery (curablehealth.com) And, a training site which can be found here: OvidDx _____ If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment, share with a friend- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. Transcripts of most episodes are found on tammysollenberger.com. ---- Enjoy!

On today's podcast I chat with Tara Vogel, a Level One IFS trained practitioner and a certified professional astrologer and coach who is passionate about helping people stay connected to themselves and their soul's path via the cosmos. We talk about: 1. The Natal Chart 2. The Moon 3. As above so below (what is happening in the sky today?) 4. Planets as Parts 5. Knowing your child's natal chart is the best parenting hack 6. The daily moon phases- walking through each Zodiac sign Sprinkled throughout we talk about parts, Self, and parenting. ---- Tara mentions Seth and his work with IFS and parenting. Seth Kopald has been on the podcast several times. He leads a free Self led parenting Q and A the first Friday of the month on the Facebook Self led parenting page found here: (8) IFS Self-Led Parenting Group | Facebook Tara also mentions Derek Scott who heads the IFS Counseling Association and leads IFS trainings. Derek has also been on the podcast a few times. You can find more about Derek here: Home - IFSCA ------ Tara's website: Home - Luminary Parenting The 'moon' of the day: https://www.instagram.com/luminaryparenting/ Free e-books: How To Parent Yourself and Your Kids As the Moon Moves Through the Zodiac Signs https://luminaryparenting.lpages.co/reparent-ebook/ What Does Your Sun Sign Reveal About Your Mothering? https://mailchi.mp/841710b7eeb1/ebook Tara loves to dive deeply with her clients and believes that understanding your astrological natal chart is one of the greatest tools we have for developing our consciousness while we're here on planet earth. Tara reports daily on how to use the celestial bodies to support you in your everyday life in an easy to understand and practical way. She posts everyday on Instagram and gives further insights to her Astrology Community -The Luminary Parenting Community. Her passion is helping moms to understand how to be the best mom they can be for their kids and themselves through astrology. Tara believes in a holistic approach to living and weaves her knowledge of nutrition, herbal medicine and The Internal Family Systems method of psychotherapy into her work. Being a mom of three, living astrology daily and ecstatic dance have been her greatest avenues for healing and wholeness. ------ If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifs.tammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. ---- Enjoy!

Welcome to Season 4! Today I chat with Dr. Alison Cook, psychologist and author of Boundaries for Your Soul and her new book, The Best of You. We talk about: - Psychology and Faith - The parts that come up with the question, "What do I need?" - What is 'Self', selfishness, and Self-hood? - Alison's experience of hearing a part who feels betrayed by Self - Productive parts and the Enneagram - Codependency, Relationships, and Fawning Alison says, "The Best of You is YOU leading all the parts of yourself." Find out more about Alison at her website here: Home - Dr. Alison Cook (dralisoncook.com) ----- If you like this episode subscribe, like, comment- all the things. My book, The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self, is available wherever you get books. You can visit my website Home - Tammy Sollenberger where you can download a free meditation on getting to know your "Should" parts. These are the parts who remind you of what you Should be doing. They may sound a bit harsh and critical at time. We all have them! You can follow me at ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. Thanks, Jack for getting me. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic. ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Payam, a Psychedelic Somatic Internal Family Systems Practitioner who interfaces with various traditional and non-traditional psychedelic compounds in the treatment of trauma and chronic pain. He collaborates internationally with world-renowned doctors and therapists in the treatment of an underserved population. Additionally, he has presented his work at numerous medical conferences reporting on the nature of pain through the unitary Mind-Body paradigm while also demonstrating how to alleviate pain at the intersection of traditional shamanic psychedelic medicines and Western evidence-based practices. His work factors in the biopsychosocial and spiritual elements of healing. By acknowledging and addressing the totality of the human experience, he has seen firsthand how it can have a dramatic effect on mitigating the patient's affective experience of pain. --- Check out Payam's website here: PAYAM and follow him on Instagram @payam_healing. ---- To connect with me, follow me @ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter or on The One Inside Facebook Page. Get a free 'Get to Know a Should part' and sign up for my 'sometimes' monthly newsletter at tammysollenberger.com. You can buy my book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self" on Amazon at the link below or wherever you get books! The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Kim Smith. Kim created a journal to help you have conversations between yourSelf and your parts. This is such a valuable tool for the IFS community. Kim is an author and publisher. Her late grandmother invited miraculous possibility with 3 words, "Enjoy Your Life." The mission of Unbelievable Freedom Books is to pass these words on to freedom-seeking readers everywhere. Kim is one of the most motivational and inspirational people I know. I invite you to listen for the parts of you who get in the way of your Enjoying Your Life. We know those parts have good reason to protect you in the way they do. See if you can bring some curiosity to them, so you can experience the Freedom you have with more access to Self energy. ----- Get the journal here: Unblend & Befriend: Conversations with Your Authentic Self: Freedom, Unbelievable: 9781954248090: Books - Amazon Check out Kim's website here: Unbelievable Freedom LLC | Waterville, ME ------ To connect with me, follow me @ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter or on The One Inside Facebook Page. Get a free 'Get to Know a Should part' and sign up for my 'sometimes' monthly newsletter at tammysollenberger.com. You can buy my book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self" on amazon or wherever you get books! The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Dr. Tanner Wallace, an IFS trained practitioner who is at the helm of the survivor-led trauma recovery revolution. She guides adults with complex trauma on relationship healing journeys so that they reclaim everything they lost along the way. This episode is amazing for many reasons- what I especially love about it is I think it will be helpful for people new to the IFS model and for people who get overwhelmed and flooded when they go inside. Tanner offers practical, helpful tips about working with your system in her gently, loving, and warm way. ---- Check out her podcast (CPTSD Medicine) here: https://open.spotify.com/show/24XxXcL4BPz2fUrNv4Pv0M?si=679ef7cdea3843fc Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cptsdmedicine/ ---- To connect with me, follow @ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter or at The One Inside Facebook Page. Get a free 'Get to Know a Should part' and sign up for my 'sometimes' monthly newsletter at tammysollenberger.com. You can buy my book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self" on amazon or wherever you get books! The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books ---- Enjoy!

On today's episode, I talk with Melissa Mose, MA, LMFT, who is a Level 3 trained Certified Internal Family Systems Therapist and a graduate of the Advanced Behavioral Therapy Training Institute. She specializes in treating anxiety disorders and OCD and has had a private practice in southern California for nearly 30 years. ----------- *Check out Melissa's website here: Upcoming Workshops and Groups - Melissa Mose, LMFT (melissamosemft.com) *Melissa will be speaking at this virtual conference: OCDSoCal – An Affiliate of the International OCD Foundation *Here is the information for Melissa's new consult group: IFS Consultation Group: Treating OCD and Related Disorders Beginning May 13th 2022, second and fourth Friday of each month 12pm – 2pm Cost is $85 per consultation group Initial consultation required to be sure our group is right for you While obsessive compulsive disorder is extremely treatable, is a notoriously difficult diagnosis that many clinicians struggle to work with effectively. Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is considered the standard for treating OCD, but many clients and therapists seek a more compassionate approach to treatment. As a Level 3 trained and certified IFS clinician, and the President of OCD SoCal, I have developed an integrative method to treat OCD and related disorders within an IFS framework. This bi-weekly IFS Consultation Group will: Increase your IFS skills and confidence when working with OCD Work with your own Therapist Parts to build more creativity, compassion, curiosity, and courage into your practice Build connections and gain feedback from other IFS clinicians and colleagues Improve competency in working with severe OCD and related disorders Experience and/or witness the model through role play practice with Melissa Get your IFS, OCD, and related questions answered by an expert in both domains ------- To connect with me, you can follow me @ ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter or at The One Inside Facebook Page. Get a free 'Get to Know a Should part' and sign up for my 'sometimes' monthly newsletter at tammysollenberger.com. You can buy my book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self" on amazon or wherever you get books! The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books Enjoy!

On today's podcast I chat with Suzan McVicker and Julia Sullivan. They are part of the Indigenous Elder IFS Council who spoke at the 2021 IFS Annual Conference. Here is their entire workshop on Youtube! (Thank you Sara Oberg!): The Spirit of the Circle: Indigenous Worldview IFS Resonance - YouTube ----- Suzan McVicker became an IFS trainer in 1999 when two year basic IFS trainings--as they were called them back then--were first offered. After joining several IFS training teams and teaching IFS in higher education, local seminars, community classes, and case consultation groups, she turned her attention to collaborating with Native American communities for mutual sharing of what IFS has to offer to Indigenous Peoples and what Indigenous traditions have to offer to the IFS community. Julia Sullivan is a Level 2 trained IFS practitioner (and PA "groupie" for Mary Kruger) who integrates Self leadership and Parts healing into everything she does. Drawing upon her spiritual practice in an indigenous community, 25-years in recovery, and an MBA from Stanford, Julia Co-founded the Indigenous Elder IFS Council to bring peer-based IFS healing that is easily accessible to anyone. Julia also leads the IFS in Business group that meets monthly over Zoom to share best practices in bringing IFS to business. Julia and her Level 1 trained husband Chris take daily walks around a beautiful lake where they deepen their love by speaking for their Parts and Self while basking in the beauty around, between, and within them. -------- 7 Bs of Indigenous-Inspired IFS: Blessing Right to Be, Belong, Become HumBle Belly Laugh EmBodied Learning Balance Ceremony as UnBurdening Dick's writing about Indigenous cultures and IFS: …it is becoming increasingly clear that the idea of the mind as unitary is a relatively recent invention of "civilized" society. Indigenous cultures throughout the world were familiar and comfortable not only with a spirit world, but also with an inner realm inhabited by many different voices and characters. It may be that the idea of the normal mind as multiple is less a radical departure from established knowledge than it is returning to an age-old wisdom from which "established knowledge" radically departed. (Schwartz, 2001, p. 85) Schwartz, R. C. (2001). Introduction to the Internal Family Systems Model. Trailheads Publications. ---------- Here are links to ALL the things we talk about: Little Wound School 7 B's of Indigenous IFS https://drive.google.com/file/d/1UcpUNiqXLhBvjAJzOP502tzJOIP_sX2x/view?usp=sharing 8 C Wheel and Key Points https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_JKDb-slhrB9_7GEkNFx9AyfkYoxBlk2/view?usp=sharing 8 C Before After Self Assessment https://drive.google.com/file/d/1WVL-M5TYrt0gAFKybiG6XcY3EhT0fqZ9/view?usp=sharing Been Here Meta8c Meeting Flier https://drive.google.com/file/d/1JpQttCtiaOvB9Ian6iCcy8zNpVBdaI3E/view?usp=sharing Meta8c Meeting Framework https://drive.google.com/file/d/1MT4B739r6ZDVHDj9jVjlk51pF9uQ5HJc/view?usp=sharing For more information about Meta8c meetings, email [email protected] To stay informed about the work of the Indigenous Elder IFS Council, email [email protected] For more information about Julia's work integrating IFS in executive coaching, corporate team building and large organizations, or to join the IFS in Business group that meets monthly, email [email protected] ---- To connect with me, you can follow me @ ifstammy on Instagram and Twitter or at The One Inside Facebook Page. Get a free 'Get to Know a Should part' and sign up for my 'sometimes' monthly newsletter at tammysollenberger.com. You can buy my book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self" on amazon or wherever you get books! The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books ---- Enjoy!

On today's podcast I chat with Christopher Gray and Yaniv Rose. Chris and Yaniv run IFS and Authentic relating groups and courses that are wildly popular. Chris is a leadership development consultant, helping teams move from protection to connection, candor with curiosity, and creativity. His 20 year career as a Product Leader in Silicon Valley informs his mission in life: to end corporate suffering. He's a certified Authentic Relating facilitator and the co-developer of "The ART of IFS", which combines the practices of Authentic Relating with IFS to deepen and expand our connection with ourselves and others. Yaniv is a L2 Trained IFS practitioner and coach, he's also a trained Authentic Relating Facilitator, currently in the process of Certification with ART International. He is the co-creator of "The ART of IFS" and he's passionate about love-fertilizing people's valuable and unique self expression, so that they in turn can serve others transformation, as well as their own. ---- We talk about: - The 5 practices of Authentic Relating - As without, so within - Our body is always Truthing - Revealing as a tool for awareness, growth, and revelation of parts - Loving attention as the single most powerful force in the universe ..... Mostly we model this beautiful practice of Authentic Relating and IFS: speaking for parts, speaking for what is happening between us in the moment. They say AR is a meditation for what is here. The episode is a bit long but so worth it- the last 10 minutes we play an AR game and invite you to do the same. ----- To join their next course or find more information about Authentic IFS go to: SALES PAGE | The Art of IFS (authenticifs.com) To get my new book The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self go to : Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

On today's podcast I chat with Derek Scott about the stuck points that occur when working with clients or in our own systems. The video version of this episode is here: IFS Q&A #6 - YouTube The session Derek and I did is here: Complete IFS Session - YouTube For more info about Derek and ALL his offerings go here: Home - IFSCA You can get the recording of the MasterClass he references with Liz Phillips here: IFS Masterclass - IFSCA --- The One Inside: 30 days to your Authentic Self will be available on Amazon in April. You can pre-order it here: The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger Tammy M a: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books I have a few copies left in my kitchen that I can mail to you! You can order those directly from me here: The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger ----- Enjoy!

*****Information about the IFS and Enneagram Course starting in MARCH 2022 on both of our websites (see below)****** ---- Joan Ryan and I spend 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations Here is the workshop Joan and I did at the IFS Annual Conference (up now January 2022- I don't know how long it will be up.): Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram - YouTube You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger You can PRE-ORDER my book which will be released April 1, 2022 on amazon here The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books. Limited autograph copies available SOLD OUT on my website (more available March 2022!) Enjoy!

Joan Ryan and I spend 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations Here is the workshop Joan and I did at the IFS Annual Conference (up now January 2022- I don't know how long it will be up.): Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram - YouTube You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger You can PRE-ORDER my book which will be released April 1, 2022 on amazon here The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self: Sollenberger, Tammy: 9780967688756: Amazon.com: Books. Limited autograph copies available NOW on my website. Enjoy!

Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations Here is the workshop Joan and I did at the IFS Annual Conference (up now January 2022- I don't know how long it will be up.): Exploring the Integration of IFS and the Enneagram - YouTube You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of all the episodes: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

Joan Ryan and I are spending the next 6 episodes discussing IFS and the Enneagram. These will be weekly episodes that are around 30-minutes. Here is an outline of the next 6 epis: 1. Introduction to the Integration 2. Centers of Intelligence 3. Heart Center Types and IFS 4. Head Center Types and IFS 5. Body Center Types and IFS 6. Higher Qualities as Access Points to Self Energy ---- We will be running a 6 week Course starting in March---- More details to come! Here is the original podcast Joan did about the Enneagram: IFS and The Enneagram with Joan Ryan - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Check out Joan's website: Creative Collaborations Purchase Joan's typing cards: Help Me Find My Enneagram Type — Creative Collaborations You connect with me on Instagram and Twitter at ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. You can also get a free parts meditation and sign up for my monthly newsletter here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

On today's podcast I chat with Kim Schneiderman, MSW, LCSW. Kim is an "All but paperwork and a video" away from IFS Certification. She is a psychotherapist with the Psychotherapy and Spirituality Institute (PSI) in Manhattan. She is also the author of "Step Out of Your Story: Writing Exercises to Reframe and Transform Your Life" and the Novel Perspective blog on Psychology Today. She has taught self-discovery writing workshops at the New York Open Center, the 92nd Street Y, the JCC of Manhattan, Vassar College, Sivananda Yoga Ashram in the Bahamas, among other venues, and has lectured on the spirituality of crisis and conflict at NYU's Post-Graduate certificate program in Social Work and Spiritual Care and PSI's Summer Certificate Program in Spiritually Informed Psychotherapies. We chat about her self-paced online DailyOm course, Reframing Your Narrative About Challenging Relationships offers perspective-bending writing exercises including IFS-inspired dialogues with triggered parts. You can find this here: Reframing Your Narrative About Challenging Relationships | DailyOM Here are the three articles we talk about: The Self, Lost and Found | Psychology Today Your Anger Knows Your Worth | Psychology Today Believe It or Not, Your Anxiety Loves You | Psychology Today And her psych today page: The Novel Perspective | Psychology Today Kim's website: Kim Schneiderman: Psychotherapist, Author, Columnist, Writing Workshops (stepoutofyourstory.com) My website: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Certified IFS Therapist Joanne Twombly. Joanne wrote a chapter entitled "Integrating Phase Oriented Treatment of Clients with Dissociative Disorders" in the IFS: New Dimensions book found here: Internal Family Systems Therapy: New Dimensions | IFS Institute (ifs-institute.com) Here are all the Controversial (in the IFS world!) topics we cover: - Why we still need coping skills - Firedrill exercise to quickly unblend from parts - Integrating IFS into Phase Oriented Treatment - Why Diagnosis is helpful - Burdens (and Self!) in Managers, Firefighters and Exiles - Safe Spaces - Hypnosis and Trance States ---- Little warning: We talk about Trauma so there is a point (about 49 minutes) that is upsetting and can be triggering. ------ You can email Joanne at [email protected] ---- You can connect with me at The One Inside Podcast Facebook page and on Instagram, Twitter and Clubhouse @ifstammy. Join my email list for a free 'Get to know a Should Part' AND get ALL the NEW book updates (OUT JANUARY 2022) here Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger ---- Enjoy!

I'm super excited to welcome back to the podcast my friend, Jenna Riemersma. Jenna and I were chatting about her concept of 'Moving Towards' and decided to do another episode together. Jenna is such an amazing teacher, and I am thrilled that she shares her wisdom with us. I felt so much Self energy and calmness in the middle of the podcast I forgot to ask about her 'Three Steps!'. Thankfully, she reminded my parts who got back online quickly. Here is an outline: - Burdened parts move against - Move against in our culture (politics, covid) - The Power of the Self and the IFS model - The 8 C qualities of Self= What Love does and What Love looks like - Move towards starts with me then moves to we - Living a Move Toward kind of life - especially in our advocacy - Betrayal Trauma (Jenna explains the role of parts for both parties) - Psychological theories and Trauma - Attachment (External and Internal) ---This is SO GOOD! - Three Steps of Moving Towards - All Together You - her book about Moving towards in Faith Communities ...... I took so many notes. Check out her website for SO MANY free resources: Jenna Riemersma - Jenna Riemersma Sign up for my email list to see my book cover REVEAL in November and get a free 'get to know a should part of you': Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger ----- Jenna says, "We are way more than the Burden of One (or some) of our parts. We are the Self behind that." Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat again with my first guest ever, Jim Abrams. Jim is a frequent program assistant at IFS trainings so he is well known by many. Jim emailed me checking in and sharing lessons he is learning, and we wanted to share them with you! Outline: 1. When a problem becomes real. 2. Changing ones experience of the circumstances. 3. Holding and honoring parts who feel sad, grief, worry and joy simultaneously. 4. Sometimes we need someone else. 5. Polarities- Life is hard and life is joyful 6. It is scary to be hopeful. 7. Holding the parts who hold the pain. Here is my favorite quote: "We are not asking the part to be hopeful. We are asking the system to bring comfort and connection to that part so its experience of the circumstance changes." You can email Jim at [email protected] You can connect with me here: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger I LOVE hearing from you! Enjoy!

On today's podcast I chat with Alessio Rizzo and Robert Fox about having hope when treating and living with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Alessio is a fully accredited Gestalt psychotherapist in the UK and a psychotherapy lecturer. He is a Level 3 IFS therapist and has been a PA for Derek Scott on the Stepping Out Program. He is working towards his IFS certification. Rob is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who practices in Woburn, Massachusetts. He is a IFS level 3 trained and Certified and an EMDR Certified Therapist. He presented at the 2018 IFS Conference on the topic of treating OCD with IFS Therapy. He was a guest on the IFS Talks podcast about his own personal challenges with OCD and what helped him. Listen to the episode here: A Talk with Robert Fox on OCD type Parts | IFS (internalfamilysystems.pt) Here is an outline of this episode- all times are ish: - 11 - Their stories and their passion for OCD -18 - Other tx modalities (ERP is Exposure Response Prevention) - 24- Trauma and suffering as an invisible and consistent occurrence - 26- Rob's personal story and Alessio's metaphor (Drop of water on a hard rock) - 35- Frederick Penzel OCD workbook. - 37- Recognizing patterns for OCD: repressed anger, a lot of shame, no witnessing adult, shame about OCD. *OCD parts need to be a powerful enough distraction to keep you away from intense shame 39- Their upcoming workshop (link below- November 27, 2021) 45- Lack of availability of OCD therapists and treatment, Stigma of OCD 51- HOPE -- To sign up for the OCD workshop: IFS & Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) - Sistemas de la Familia Interna (institutoifs.com) To connect with Alessio: Therapy with Alessio To connect with Robert: Home: Family Therapy | Couples Therapy | Woburn, MA 01801 (jobstresssolutions.com) To connect with me: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with David Mederios, Level Two trained IFS therapist. David has been a program assistant for multiple level one and level two trainings. He has presented at several annual IFS conferences. He spent a year working with Dr. Richard Schwartz and co-presented their experience treating someone diagnosed with Schizophrenia at an annual IFS Conference. David collaborated on the production of Good Grief, which toured nationally. David and I have a lot of a laughs throughout this '101' episode. Here is a bit of an outline: How we met and importance of Dance Parties His presentation and experience with his patient with Schizophrenia Drumming Lessons: asking for help and life lessons His book. Civility and Responsibility. Working with Families struggling in Domestic Violence His goal in writing his book- especially in light of the 2020 election, Capital Riots, and Covid. The Foundation for Self Leadership Web series- He is co-leading the first one. STARTS 9/3/21 I tell a little bit about my upcoming book, "The One Inside: 30 Days to Your Authentic Self." He plays the drums for us to close us out. This is a 'funky' episode! -------- To find out more about the upcoming web series with the foundation: https://foundationifs.org/bridge To read a Great article about IFS where David is interviewed: https://elemental.medium.com/inside-the-revolutionary-treatment-that-could-change-psychotherapy-forever-8be035d54770 To see a little bit about Good Grief (there performance was unforgettable!): Good Grief Performances in Boston | IFS Institute (ifs-institute.com) David's website: http://www.davidmedeiroslicsw.com/ Connect with me and get a free parts meditation: https://tammysollenberger.com/ Enjoy!

Here we are! - Together for the 100th episode with Dick Schwartz. Dick has always been supportive and kind to me- from meeting him when I came out of a consultation group and he was standing in a hallway alone, to an unfortunate situation at a conference. He has been open and available for this podcast, and I am so grateful. Dick has a new book out this week called "No Bad Parts," which we planned to talk about. And we do- a little bit. What happened during our chat was we just started catching up. Then this transitioned to us both sharing some things 'off the record.' And, of course, Dick does not want to just TALK about the model- he wants to do it. So he says to me, "We can do a little piece of work if you want ..." How could I not agree!? So, that is what a big piece of this episode is- a demo of the model. You get to hear Dick doing the model and you get to hear me working with my parts. My hope for you is that you are able to go down your own trailheads as you listen. My hope for you is you learn something about this model. My hope for you is you get to witness the founder of IFS facilitate a session. Here is a bit of an outline: - Checking in - Trailheads - Dick's 'obsessed with IFS' part - Demonstration of the Model (from about 15 minutes until about 40 minutes) - The book- No Bad Parts - Bigger Plans for IFS Check out the silly faces we made on my social media pages :) Connect with me on Instagram, Twitter and Clubhouse @ifs.tammy and on The One Inside Facebook page. Go to my website to get a free parts meditation Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger and get news about my new BOOK called "The One Inside: 30 Days to Connect to Your Authentic Self'- coming out late fall 2021! Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Frank Anderson. His new book, "Transcending Trauma" has been out for a month or so now, and he has done a few podcasts. I wanted to talk to him about how he is doing and what is going on in his life. So! This is not just about trauma or his book. This is not about what is happening in the IFS world since Frank is an insider. This is not about Frank's workshops and IFS manuals and all those things. This episode - the 99th episode- is about authenticity. We talk about the book, of course. And, we talk about trauma. Mostly, we talk about family, love, and connection and their power to heal all of us. Frank says, "Love Heals What Trauma Blocks." ----- You can connect with Frank on Instagram @frank_andersonmd, Twitter @frankandersonmd, and Clubhouse @frankandersonmd. I'd love to connect with you @ifs.tammy on Instagram, Twitter, and Clubhouse. You can join The One Inside Facebook Page and you can get a free parts meditation when you go to tammysollenberger.com. Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Norma Stevens who is an LCPC in private practice in the Baltimore/DC area. She is a Research Therapist for a Clinical Trial for Psilocybin Assisted Therapy for Depression in Cancer Patients and a Therapist for the MAPS Expanded Access Program for MDMA Assisted Psychotherapy for PTSD at the William Richards Healing Center in the Aquilino Cancer Center in Rockville, MD. She is a Certified IFS therapist and an Approved IFS Supervisor for Certification. She has worked as a program assistant extensively for Level 1, 2, and 3 IFS trainings and was a presenter at the 2019 IFS Annual Conference. We talk about: - Processes and essential steps of this treatment - What brought her into psychedelic assisted therapy (such a great story!) and her current work at the Healing Center - Healing potential of psychedelic therapy and what is needed to administer it safely (all the S's- screening, set, setting, skill, and support) - IFS and Psychedelics: A powerful combination (self healing exiles) - Concerns: What about addiction? Don't psychedelics bypass protectors (and how they do)? What if someone has a history of psychosis? What about "bad" trips? - Importance of Integration and follow up Norma calls this Sacred Work, and I loved hearing her story and her passion. To connect with Norma check out her Linkedin page: (25) Norma Stevens, MS, NCC, LCPC | LinkedIn and her email at [email protected]. To connect with me, listen to a Parts Meditation, and hear past episodes: Get a Free Meditation - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger I'd also love to connect over all the socials: at The One Inside Facebook page and ifs.tammy on Twitter, Instagram and Clubhouse. Enjoy!

On today's podcast I talk with New York Times Best Selling Author, Speaker and lover of IFS Gabby Bernstein. For over fifteen years, Gabby has been transforming lives—including her own. The #1 New York Times bestselling author has penned eight books including ​The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor ​and​ the latest, her first Audible Original, ​You Are the Guru. In her weekly podcast, Dear Gabby​, she offers up real-time coaching, straight talk and conversations about personal growth and spirituality with unique and inspiring guests​. ​What started as hosting intimate conversations with twenty people in her New York City apartment, Gabby has grown into speaking to tens-of-thousands in sold-out venues throughout the world. Gabby was featured on Oprah's SuperSoul Sunday as a "next-generation thought leader." The Oprah Winfrey Network chose Gabby to be part of the "SuperSoul 100," a dynamic group of trailblazers whose vision and life's work are bringing a higher level of consciousness to the world. ​The New York Times​ identified Gabby as "a new role model." She co-hosted the Guinness World Records' largest guided meditation with Deepak Chopra, and appears regularly as an expert on ​Today and Good Morning Americ​a, among other publications. She connects with her community through her books, her podcast, her Miracle Membership, the Spirit Junkie app, social media, digital workshops and e-courses, and live events. I was thrilled when I found out about Gabby and heard her speak in such a clear, understandable way about IFS. I had to have her on the podcast and am so thankful that she was open to do it. And, that she turned out to be such a warm, kind, and lovely person. It is amazing when we find people talking our same language outside of the IFS community and that is what I thought about Gabby. I highly recommend you check out her website which is full of free resources. On this episode I mention her TED talk and her Super Soul Session which can be found on YouTube. Check out her Dear Gabby Podcast- it is so good. We spoke about a meditation that I did for her miracle membership- you can join this group on Facebook and through her website. Connect with Gabby here- Gabby Bernstein - #1 NYT Best Selling Author, Speaker & Spirit Junkie Connect with Me here- Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger You can also find both of us on all the socials- Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. Gabby ends our chat with this description of IFS "... this life altering practice ... has the capacity to change you forever." Enjoy!

On today's episode I chat with Liz Phillips. Liz comes to couples therapy after four decades of observing and experiencing couple disconnection, and one decade training in couples work to ensure she could be of service. She completed her Level 1 in IFS and Level 2 in IFIO and now runs IFIO-informed workshops to introduce the model to other couples therapists. IFIO stands for Intimacy from the Inside out, and it is the 'couples division' of IFS. Currently based in Toronto, Liz is a self proclaimed coffee snob, a committed IFIO advocate, and a lover of rescue dogs. Liz sent me a book in the mail after we recorded this podcast so she is my new best friend. I feel seen. We talk about: Emotional Focused Therapy Neurobiology Attachment Parts in relationship You turns (Liz gives detailed explanation- so good.) Finding My Soul's Home (in IFIO and IFS) --- Liz shares her own personal story of searching and finding her soul's home, and she is vulnerable about her parts and her relationships. To find out more about Liz and her upcoming workshops go to: Liz Phillips Therapy To listen to my friends Naomi Rather and Deb Curtis' podcast that is ALL about EFT go to: That Relationship Show To get on my email list to get a free meditation (coming soon) and to keep in touch go to: Home - The One Inside-by Tammy Sollenberger Connect with me @ifs.tammy on Instagram, Clubhouse and Twitter and on The One Inside Facebook page. I will see you there. Enjoy!