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Ep 2Masculinity, Coaching & Mental Health: A Candid Talk with Tim Racki
EIn this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, championship football coach Tim Racki opens up about his personal journey through mental health struggles, burnout, identity, and self-reflection. With humor, honesty, and heart, Tim shares how success on the outside can mask deep internal battles—and how he's rewriting his life's playbook. We’re honored to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and proud to have reached over 1.8 million downloads globally. 📣 We want your feedback! Drop us a message (text or voice) here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🏆 We’ve been nominated again! Vote for us in the Adam Curry and Health categories at the 2025 Podcast People's Choice Awards before July 31 at https://www.podcastawards.com/. You must use a valid email—they verify it. Mental Health Quote from the Episode “You can be confident without being a bragging asshole. I just started practicing what I preach—and it’s changing everything.” — Tim Racki Episode Description This candid conversation with Tim Racki—a 10× State Champion Coach and Hall of Famer—unpacks the emotional toll of leadership and the silence behind success. Despite public accolades, Tim reveals how coaching masked internal turmoil, how performance identity shaped his personal life, and why he finally made the decision to care for his mental health. He talks about the moment of clarity that sparked change, the deep shame he felt, and how daily habits are helping him rebuild trust in himself and reconnect with his family. Tim’s story is a roadmap for any man struggling with unspoken emotions or feeling trapped by expectations. SEO Keywords: masculinity and mental health, coaching and burnout, men’s mental wellness, mental health in sports, emotional resilience, athlete identity crisis, performance anxiety, leadership and therapy, mental health for men, fatherhood and vulnerability Meet Our Guest: Tim Racki Tim Racki – 10× State Champion Coach | Hall of Famer | Mental Resilience Advocate Tim Racki is one of the most accomplished high school football coaches in the United States. Over a 26-year head coaching career, he's secured 10 Illinois state titles, made 12 state title appearances, and built powerhouse programs with lasting legacies. Beyond wins, Tim is known for his integrity, mentorship, and transformational leadership. But behind the accolades is a deeply human story of depression, identity crisis, and the struggle to balance coaching with fatherhood and marriage. Today, Tim speaks openly about mental health in leadership and the importance of vulnerability, reflection, and small daily changes. Connect with Tim Racki: Twitter: https://x.com/CoachRacki Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61576018534735 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachracki Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachracki/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tim-racki-a43294a/ Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/coachracki Key Takeaways Even championship leaders can feel lost—success doesn’t equal peace. Vulnerability and presence are more powerful than titles. Mental health for men is overdue for normalization, especially in coaching culture. Actionable Items Start each day with one intentional change that prioritizes your mental wellness. Reflect on how you're showing up at home, not just at work or in your leadership role. Listen to your own advice. If you support others, offer that same compassion to yourself. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome + Football roots & identity 04:00 – Childhood, coaching influences, and early trauma 08:00 – Playing through pain & performance anxiety 13:00 – Standing up to bullies & leadership lessons 18:00 – Coaching wins vs. personal losses 20:00 – The epiphany moment: March madness and a friend’s confession 24:00 – Shame, presence, and learning to be a better husband and father 30:00 – Small habits that sparked massive change 34:00 – Applying the coaching playbook to his own life 38:00 – Advice for other men and coaches facing mental health challenges 42:00 – Listener questions: self-care, balance, and theme songs 46:00 – How to connect with Tim Racki #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #MensMentalHealth #TimRacki #Grex #DirtySkittles #LeadershipAndMentalHealth #AthleteWellness #BurnoutRecovery #FatherhoodAndHealing #TherapyForMen #FootballAndMentalHealth #CoachTalk #VulnerabilityIsStrength #PodcastAwardWinner #SelfCareForCoaches #EmotionalResilience #ImposterSyndrome #ToughConversations Subscribe, Rate & Review Love what you heard? Subscribe for more raw and real conversations on mental health and personal growth. ⭐️ Rate and review us on your favorite podcast app or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please do

Ep 1Boundaries, Burnout & the Brain-Heart Connection with Kate
EWe’re kicking off Season 12 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads with a deeply healing, no-fluff conversation featuring returning guest Kate King. This episode explores how to protect your peace through boundaries, reset your nervous system with intentional practices, and reconnect with joy, even when the world feels overwhelming. Joining us once again, Kate shares accessible strategies for managing emotional burnout, practicing brain-heart coherence, and building habits that support authentic, sustainable mental wellness. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in this season opener is a reminder that you have more control over your mental health than you think. We're proud to celebrate some incredible milestones with our community: 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner – Health 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner – Best Mental Health Podcast With over 1.8 million downloads, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads continues to break the stigma by creating honest, relatable, and supportive conversations around mental health. We’ve been nominated again for the 2025 People’s Choice Podcast Awards in TWO major categories: Adam Curry Category Health Category We need your support! Vote before July 31, 2025: Visit https://www.podcastawards.com/ and register with a valid email address (required for vote verification). Your vote makes a huge difference in amplifying real conversations that matter. Thank you for standing with us! Got something to say? We want to hear from you. Share your thoughts, feedback, or a story — written or voice message — right here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote from Kate: “Every cell in your body is listening to the words you say about yourself.” What This Episode Is About This episode centers on mental health resilience, as Kate King guides us through how to tune in to our bodies, protect our energy, and create practical shifts for emotional balance. We cover how to spot burnout, how to reinforce boundaries that actually stick, and why brain-heart coherence is one of the most effective (and simple) tools to ground yourself in gratitude and calm. Meet Our Guest – Kate King Kate King is the founder of The Radiant Life Project, a Radiant Life Coach, a Board-Certified Art Therapist, an award-winning author, and a former Licensed Professional Counselor with 17+ years of experience. Kate’s work blends neuroscience, psychology, spirituality, and creative practice to help people live fuller, more meaningful lives. Her signature approach empowers people to access inner healing and joy through self-expression, conscious awareness, and daily rituals that foster a mind-body connection. Kate’s Work Includes: The Radiant Life Project – a guide for cultivating creativity, healing, and authenticity The Authentic Mother – a therapeutic companion for new parents Ink & Wings Oracle Deck – a 46-card original art deck for intuitive reflection Retreats, public speaking, coaching, and creative consulting Connect with Kate: Website: https://TheRadiantLifeProject.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theradiantlifeproject/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRadiantLifeProject/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChxGCo2H8iWIReg8X6ADubg LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theradiantlifeproject/ References HeartMath Institute – Science-based research on brain-heart coherence https://www.heartmath.org Reasons to Be Cheerful – Positive news media alternative mentioned by Kate https://reasonstobecheerful.world The Radiant Life Project by Kate King – Available wherever books are sold The Authentic Mother by Kate King – A guide for new parents Ink & Wings Oracle Deck – Kate’s original artwork for intuitive reflection Key Takeaways Boundaries protect your peace, not your relationships. They’re commitments you keep to yourself. Your nervous system needs support—small choices, such as media detox, movement, and mindful breathing, matter. Gratitude-centered practices, such as brain-heart coherence, can shift your emotional and physiological state in just a few minutes. Actionable Items Practice 3 minutes of brain-heart coherence daily — focus on your heart, breathe deeply, and hold a moment of gratitude. Create a few go-to responses for setting boundaries when emotions run high. Audit your inputs — follow accounts and consume content that uplifts and grounds you. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to Season 12 + intro to Kate 02:15 – Why joy is non-negotiable in difficult times 05:01 – Nervous system fatigue, art therapy, and daily rituals 10:26 – Protecting your peace by curating your media intake 16:12 – The difference between requests and boundaries 21:45 – Playfulness, laughter, and shifting your energy 31:05 – Kate’s new book, Mend or Move On (out Jan 2026) 33:20 – What is brain-heart coherence, and how to start 36:40 – Positive self-talk, healing, and personal empowerment Special Shout-Out: Women Support Women – Featuring Melissa Crook from The F.E.E.L Podcast
Ep 11Laughter, Loss and Lessons: Season 11 Mental Health Wrap-Up
ESeason 11 is officially wrapped — and your co-hosts are here to reflect, laugh, and get real about the growth, grief, and grace it took to get here. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles open up about their personal evolution this season: from 5 a.m. emotional check-in calls to big podcasting milestones, creative breakthroughs, and boundary-setting victories. G-Rex shares the excitement (and vulnerability) of completing the third draft of her book, and how this podcast continues to be a vehicle for her to find her voice. Dirty Skittles dives into parenting while healing — breaking cycles, confronting generational trauma, and practicing the daily work of protecting her peace. Together, they revisit the most powerful moments from Season 11, relive the laughs, and explore the deep mental health themes that emerged, especially the recurring need for boundaries, rest, and honest conversations. We’re proud to be your 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1.5 million downloads, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads has become more than a podcast — it’s a community. We want to hear from you. Leave us a voice message or written note here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a “You’re never fixed. You fight for yourself. You say no when it matters. You protect your peace, over and over again.” — Dirty Skittles What’s Inside This Episode Reflections on G-Rex and Dirty Skittles’ personal growth The boundary theme that echoed through every interview Laughter, loss, and moments of transformation Guest insights that changed our perspective A look at what’s ahead in Season 12 Meet Our Season 11 Guests Every guest this season brought honesty, resilience, and fresh perspective. Here’s a recap, in order, with key takeaways and actionable insights you can apply to your own journey: 1. Bonnie–People–Pleaser Turned Boundary-Setter Takeaways: Boundaries are an act of self-respect Saying “no” is its own kind of healing Action Steps: Practice saying “no” without apology Identify one boundary you’ve outgrown — and reset it 2. Pearl – Grief, Goodbye, and Growth Takeaways: You can grieve relationships while choosing peace Transforming pain into purpose is powerful Action Steps: Write a goodbye letter to something or someone holding you back Channel grief into something creative or supportive 3. Val – Living with OCD and Intrusive Thoughts Takeaways: OCD involves much more than cleanliness Intrusive thoughts are common and manageable Action Steps: Learn more at https://iocdf.org Practice compassion when someone shares their mental health struggle 4. Suzanne – The NOPE Coach Takeaways: “No” is not rude — it’s necessary Boundaries are a muscle you build Action Steps: Say no to one thing that drains you Make a list of your top five energy boundaries 5. Stephanie – Understanding Irrational Fears Takeaways: All fears deserve space and understanding Humor helps in facing what scares us Action Steps: Talk openly about a fear you’ve hidden Try journaling about its origins and emotional impact 6. Linda – Crystal Sister and Grief Survivor Takeaways: It’s possible to carry both joy and grief Choosing joy is a form of resilience Action Steps: Start a simple daily gratitude list Light a candle in honor of someone you miss and say their name aloud 7. Yalda – Postpartum Psychosis and Advocacy Takeaways: Maternal mental health needs more open dialogue Recovery can begin with a single brave conversation Action Steps: Share this episode with a new mom Visit https://postpartum.net for resources and support 8. Amy – Childhood Trauma to Community Builder Takeaways: You can rewrite your narrative Healing thrives in community Action Steps: Plant something symbolic of growth Create or join a support circle in your area 9. Austin – From Surviving to Leading Takeaways: Childhood trauma can fuel meaningful purpose Safe adults change lives Action Steps: Volunteer with a youth program Write a list of lessons you wish you knew at age 10 10. Ilise – Therapist, Podcaster, Joy Seeker Takeaways: Boundaries are lifelong work Reclaiming joy is a form of healing Action Steps: Reconnect with a hobby that makes you feel free Remove one “should” from your weekly routine Special Shout-Out: Women Supporting Women A huge thank you to Melissa Crook of The F.E.E.L Podcast, who’s helping women redefine wellness through her new course: Find out more about Melissa here - https://www.embracinglayers.com/ Embracing a F.E.E.L Fueled Life: Empowerment & Wellness Course for Women A self-paced, whole-self journey designed to help women 20+ prioritize themselves, embrace their layers, and reconnect with emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. Enroll in the course: https://www.patreon.com/EmbracingLayersNetwork/shop/embracing-f-e-e-l-fueled-life-wellness-1708477?source=storefront Workbook available here: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-L-Fueled-Life-Empowerment/dp/B0FCDML1FB Episod

Ep 10From Anxiety to Empowerment: Ilise Talks Social Media, Empathy, and Mental Health Truths
EIn this powerful and heartfelt episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we sit down with Ilise Litwin—therapist, author, podcaster, and unapologetically authentic human—to explore how navigating anxiety, self-doubt, and toxic relationships can lead to personal empowerment. Ilise opens up about the healing power of empathy, the toll of social media on mental wellness, and what it means to truly show up for yourself. We’re not just any podcast—we’re the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and we’re proud to have over 1 million downloads. Your voice matters to us! Please share your thoughts or leave us a voice message here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote from the Episode: “You can be me-centric without being selfish. You can still give to others, but the focus should always come back to you.” — Ilise Litwin What This Episode is About: This episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a raw and empowering look at what it means to navigate mental health in a world that often tells us to “just keep going.” Our guest, Ilise Litwin, joins us to explore how anxiety, trauma, social media fatigue, and emotional burnout can evolve into tools for personal growth when we stop pretending to have it all together. With humor, heart, and unfiltered honesty, Ilise shares her story of reinvention—from working in locked psychiatric units to building a life grounded in radical self-care and the freedom to be playful again. We explore what it means to be empathic in a chaotic world, how boundaries can protect our joy, and why reconnecting with your inner child might just be the best therapy of all. Whether you’re a parent juggling too much, someone struggling with anxiety, or simply feeling burned out, this episode will inspire you to redefine what it means to heal—and to do it on your own terms. Meet Our Guest – Ilise Litwin Ilise Litwin, aka "The Fiery Redhead," is a bold and dynamic podcaster, author, motivational speaker, and therapist. A graduate of the University of Florida with credentials as a Therapeutic Recreational Specialist, Ilise spent years working in acute psychiatric units, where she helped patients build coping skills to reintegrate into life. Her podcast Wide Open Spaces blends edgy storytelling with mental health truths, sparking honest conversations that challenge societal norms. Her book, Wanderlust Within: A Journey to Self-Discovery, distills her podcast’s most impactful moments into a transformational guide. Ilise is known for her transparency, authenticity, and empowering message that healing begins with truth. Website: https://wideopenspaceswithilise.com Podcast: https://wideopenspaces.podbean.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/102097171634382 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wideopenspaceswithilise LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ilise-litwin-3a04051b7/ Key Takeaways: Empathy is powerful, but protect your peace. Being empathic is a gift, but it can become a burden without healthy boundaries. Anxiety is not a flaw. It's often a result of external pressure or biology, not a failure. Learn to adjust your coping tools. Joy is healing. Reconnecting with your inner child through play, laughter, and creativity can be a powerful form of mental self-care. Actionable Tips: Set a Social Media Detox Routine. Schedule weekly screen-free days and use automation to reduce emotional overload. Reclaim Playtime. Draw, dance, wear costumes, or revisit childhood hobbies to reconnect with joy. Visualize Boundaries. Use mental imagery (like protective bubbles) to manage emotional overload and stay grounded. Chapters & Timestamps: [00:03:19] – Choosing authenticity over approval [00:06:30] – Mental health professionals are human too [00:10:27] – The anxiety of social media and how to manage it [00:17:14] – Empathy burnout and boundary-setting [00:20:22] – Redefining “me-centric” as healthy, not selfish [00:25:14] – Parenting, play, and presence [00:31:25] – Reconnecting with passions and creative joy [00:36:00] – Protecting your peace in a chaotic world [00:41:03] – Daily rituals and nature as self-care [00:43:16] – How to find Ilise and her work References: Wanderlust Within: A Journey to Self-Discovery by Ilise Litwin Ilise's podcast: https://wideopenspaces.podbean.com Mental health resource: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Enjoyed the episode? Subscribe for more real conversations that break stigma and spark healing. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Got something to say? We want to hear it—drop us a voice or written message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #IliseLitwin #SelfCareTools #InnerChildHealing #EmpathyBurnout #SocialMediaAndMentalHealth #TherapistRealTalk #MentalHealthQuotes #Wi

Ep 9Faith, Fatherhood & Forgiveness: Austin Davis Breaks the Cycle
EIn this powerful episode, we talk with Austin Davis, a licensed professional counselor and founder of Clearfork Academy, about how childhood identity, faith, and resilience shape mental health outcomes. This episode highlights the intersections of childhood trauma, the search for identity, spiritual awakening, and breaking generational cycles. Austin shares his journey from a 10-year-old tasked with being “the man of the house” to a father, therapist, and founder of a life-changing teen treatment center. Welcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads—an award-winning mental health podcast with over 1 million downloads! We're honored to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. We want to hear from you! Leave us written input or a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "When we focus too hard on not becoming something, we often become exactly that. Healing is found in accepting what made us and choosing differently." – Austin Davis Meet Our Guest: Austin Davis, LPC-S Originally from the Saginaw, Eagle Mountain area, Austin Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor in Texas. He holds a B.S. in Pastoral Ministry from Lee University and an M.A. in Counseling from The Church of God Theological Seminary. Austin’s career bridges the church and clinical mental health worlds. He has served youth through ministry and worked extensively in state mental health hospitals, gaining experience with nearly every mental health diagnosis. He is the founder of Clearfork Academy, a Christ-centered residential treatment center for teens struggling with mental health and substance use. He thrives on working with clients others might call “difficult,” driven by compassion and clinical skill. Austin is also the author of My Kid, My Crisis (2023), a moving collection of stories and insights into parenting, faith, and therapeutic transformation in the face of teen mental health challenges. When he's not working, Austin enjoys being with his family, making music, woodworking, reading, and staying active. 📚 Austin’s Book My Kid, My Crisis – Austin Davis (2023) A collection of real-life stories from the therapy room, My Kid, My Crisis explores the emotional and spiritual journeys of families facing teen mental health and substance use challenges. Through Christ-centered therapy and community, the book offers hope, guidance, and support for parents walking a difficult road. Available now at: https://a.co/d/0QMcKSd 📌 Key Takeaways Labels Matter: Childhood roles, like being told you're “the man of the house,” can deeply shape identity and emotional development. Faith as a Framework: Finding purpose and healing through spirituality helped Austin redirect his life, and now he helps others do the same. Building Early Interventions: Clearfork Academy is designed to help teens pivot in life before reaching a crisis point in adulthood. ✅ Actionable Items Explore Your Own Origin Story – Journaling your earliest roles and expectations can uncover hidden beliefs that impact your mental health. Start Mental Health Conversations Early—Whether your teen is showing symptoms or not, open dialogue is preventive care. Set a Grounding Routine – Mornings that include mindfulness, journaling, or prayer can regulate emotions and prepare you for daily challenges. 🕰️ Episode Chapters [00:01:00] – Austin opens up: A 10-year-old becomes “man of the house” [00:07:50] – Choosing church over chaos: How faith saved his life [00:11:30] – Launching Clearfork Academy while raising three toddlers [00:17:30] – Why early adolescence matters in recovery [00:20:30] – Balancing heart and business in mental health care [00:22:00] – Advice to his younger self: “God is in control. You don’t have to be.” [00:24:30] – Learning the art of surrendering outcomes [00:25:58] – Real-world advice for parents on teen addiction 🔗 Resources Austin’s Book: My Kid, My Crisis – https://a.co/d/0QMcKSd Clearfork Academy: https://clearforkacademy.com/ Podcast Feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #AustinDavis #ClearforkAcademy #FaithAndHealing #TeenMentalHealth #ParentingAndMentalHealth #ChildhoodTrauma #MyKidMyCrisis #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #SubstanceAbuseRecovery #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForParents #HopeAndHealing #BreakingTheCycle #ChristianTherapy #YouthRecovery ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health

Ep 8Grounded and Growing: Amy’s Fight Against Anxiety and Self-Worth Struggles
EIn this episode, Amy Fagan shares her raw and honest story of navigating anxiety, low self-worth, and emotional recovery. She offers listeners a window into her healing process through community, creativity, and podcasting. We are proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re honored to be part of your journey. 💬 We'd love your feedback! Share your thoughts or leave us a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "Healing is not about fixing what is broken; it’s about discovering what is still whole." Episode Description: Amy Fagan, host of the “Grounded in Maine” podcast, brings heartfelt wisdom to this powerful conversation. From struggling with an inferiority complex rooted in childhood to facing betrayal and rebuilding life after divorce, Amy opens up about the deeply personal experiences that shaped her emotional landscape. Through her story, listeners will find relatable moments of vulnerability and resilience. Amy shows how podcasting, sustainable living, and supportive friendships have given her the strength to push through anxiety and embrace her self-worth. This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t linear, but it is possible. Meet Our Guest: Amy Fagan Amy is the heart and voice of the “Grounded in Maine” podcast. She explores sustainability, homesteading, and building authentic communities. A New England native, Amy speaks candidly about her battles with anxiety, low self-esteem, and the deep wounds of betrayal. Through vulnerability and resilience, Amy inspires others to reclaim their stories and find healing in connection. 🔗 Website: https://linktr.ee/groundedinmainepodcast? 🎙 Podcast: Grounded in Maine Key Takeaways: Self-Worth Isn’t Tied to Success Community is Medicine Creativity as a Lifeline Actionable Items: Surround Yourself With Uplifting People Use Creative Outlets to Heal Redefine Success in Personal Terms Episode Chapters: 00:03:57 – Amy's early struggle with self-worth and critical family dynamics 00:06:14 – Launching the Grounded in Maine podcast: purpose over perfection 00:10:44 – The emotional devastation of betrayal and divorce 00:13:16 – How podcasting became Amy’s emotional oxygen 00:17:29 – Therapy challenges and redefining what healing looks like 00:25:01 – Amy’s view on success and the intersection of passion and purpose 00:30:35 – Her dream to purchase farmland and build a community-centric retreat 00:35:52 – The joy of farming and building food security 00:42:38 – Advice to her younger self and reflections on self-worth References: Grounded in Maine Podcast: https://linktr.ee/groundedinmainepodcast? Our Podcast Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Feedback Portal: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss an episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform, leave us a rating, and tell the world what you think! Visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GroundedInMaine #SelfWorthJourney #HealingThroughConnection #PodcastTherapy #Grex #DirtySkittles #SustainabilityMatters #AuthenticLiving #HealingTrauma #DivorceRecovery #EmpowermentThroughPodcasting #CommunityHealing #FarmDreams #JamMakingTherapy #EmotionalWellness #WomensVoicesMatter #SupportLocalFarms #MindfulLiving! ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ep 7Yalda’s Truth: Surviving Postpartum Depression and Finding Purpose
EIn this episode, we speak with Yalda Kazemi — mental health advocate, speaker, and author — as she shares the deeply personal and often unspoken truth of surviving severe postpartum depression, facing suicidal ideation and intrusive thoughts, and ultimately finding her purpose through healing. If you've ever struggled with mental illness, questioned your worth, or felt misunderstood, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone. We want to hear from you. Please share your thoughts or leave us a voice message here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Welcome to another powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re proud to bring you real and unapologetic conversations about mental health every week. Mental Health Quote of the Episode “Mental illness has no face. There is no look to it. You can appear put together and still be fighting the darkest battles inside.” — Yalda Kazemi Episode Description In this moving conversation, Yalda Kazemi shares her lived experience with postpartum depression, maternal mental health, and mental illness recovery. From being hospitalized in a psych ward to almost losing herself in the depths of postpartum psychosis, Yalda now uses her story to educate others, advocate for change, and empower families through their darkest moments. Listeners will gain powerful insights into the emotional complexity of postpartum mental illness and the importance of support systems, self-advocacy, and breaking stigma. Meet Our Guest – Yalda Kazemi Yalda Kazemi is a Speaker, Author, Mental Health Advocate, Educator, and Policy Consultant focused on dismantling stigma around mental illness. She is the founder of Yalda Kazemi Consulting and the author of Unapologetic Truths: The Realities of Postpartum We Don’t Talk About. Yalda speaks widely on corporate wellness, resilience, and women’s mental health related to postpartum, perimenopause, and menopause. Website: https://www.yaldakazemi.com LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/yalda-kazemi-2864b129 Key Takeaways Mental illness is not a personal failing. It's not a choice, and shame should never be part of the equation. Recovery is possible. With support, medical care, and openness, healing can and does happen. There is strength in vulnerability. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Actionable Insights Learn the signs of postpartum mental illness so you can recognize it in yourself or support others. Build open conversations around mental health in families, communities, and workplaces. Normalize seeking professional help through therapy, medication, or hospitalization when needed. Episode Chapters and Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction by G Rex and Dirty Skittles 01:10 – Yalda's background and why she speaks so openly 03:43 – Her childbirth experience and immediate emotional disconnection 05:23 – The moment of diagnosis and fears about medication 10:03 – Intrusive thoughts and psychosis escalate 13:34 – Yalda checks into the psych ward 15:22 – Talking to her son about mental illness 17:56 – Postpartum tools prepare her for perimenopause 21:00 – Facing judgment and stigma head-on 26:35 – Teaching her son about mental health 36:39 – Losing support from close friends 40:08 – Gratitude, healing, and daily self-care References Unapologetic Truths: The Realities of Postpartum We Don’t Talk About by Yalda Kazemi: https://www.yaldakazemi.com/book Postpartum Support International: https://postpartum.net Mental Health Resource Guide: https://www.nami.org Subscribe, Rate, and Review Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more honest, bold, and healing conversations around mental health. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or leave a review at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews We appreciate every voice. Your feedback makes this community stronger. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #PostpartumDepression #MaternalMentalHealth #PerinatalSupport #MentalIllnessRecovery #SuicidePrevention #WomenSupportingWomen #MentalHealthMatters #BreakingTheStigma #YaldaKazemi #Grex #DirtySkittles #MentalHealthCommunity #PostpartumHealing #SelfCareIsEssential #PsychWardRecovery #UnapologeticTruths #PodcastForChange#HealingJourney ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_an
Ep 6Finding Light After Loss: How Lynda Rebuilt Her Life and Inner Glow
EIn this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Lynda Hugessen, a sobriety advocate, crystal healing artisan, and grief support champion. Lynda shares her powerful journey—from a turbulent childhood and struggles with addiction to a cancer diagnosis and the devastating loss of her son Ryan to alcoholism—and how she found a way to rebuild her life by helping others reclaim theirs. Note: Since this recording, Lynda has decided not to pursue Inner Glow Rising as a formal platform. Her healing journey continues in new and meaningful directions. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over one million downloads worldwide. Thank you for helping us break the stigma and create a safe space for mental health conversations. 🎙️ We’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Quote of the Episode “If we come together as a community and support one another, we can help each other heal. We can help each other find our inner glow again.” – Lynda Hugessen What This Episode Is Really About Grief, Growth, and the Glow of Healing Lynda Hugessen opens up about facing profound personal trauma, from losing her son to the emotional impact of addiction and illness. She reveals how creating healing crystal bracelets helped her move from surviving to thriving. In this conversation, Lynda reminds us that healing doesn't follow a straight line—and that community and creativity can offer meaningful paths forward. This is an episode for anyone who has felt overwhelmed by grief, trauma, or addiction—and is seeking hope, support, and connection. Meet Our Guest: Lynda Hugessen Sobriety Advocate | Crystal Healer | Grief Support Voice Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/lyndaslovelylooks Instagram (Bracelets): @lyndaslovelylooks Certified Reiki Master & Crystal Healing Practitioner 9+ Years Sober | Cancer Survivor | Mental Health Advocate Key Takeaways Healing Isn’t Linear – Recovery from trauma, addiction, and grief is deeply personal and unfolds over time. Creative Expression as Therapy – Designing crystal bracelets helped Lynda reconnect with purpose and healing. Purpose from Pain – Lynda’s experiences inspire others to find strength and community through creativity and compassion. Actionable Tips Write affirmations on your mirror to reinforce self-worth and positive thinking. Seek out or build a supportive community when navigating trauma or grief. Transform pain into purpose through creative outlets or service to others. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:01:12] – Discovering crystals during cancer recovery [00:07:42] – Losing her son Ryan to alcoholic liver disease [00:16:00] – Her DUI arrest and commitment to sobriety [00:21:54] – Cancer diagnosis and its lasting impact [00:24:00] – Building community and becoming a happiness facilitator [00:34:25] – Advice to her younger self and the power of affirmations [00:37:01] – Self-care with vision boards and spiritual practices [00:38:48] – Where to find Lynda and support her ongoing work References & Mentions Lynda’s Lovely Looks on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/lyndaslovelylooks Instagram (Bracelets): @lyndaslovelylooks Subscribe, Rate, and Review Love this episode? Want more conversations about real mental health journeys? Subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Visit us at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #GriefSupport #AddictionRecovery #CrystalHealing #EmotionalHealing #SobrietyJourney #TraumaRecovery #MindfulnessMatters #WomenInPodcasting #HealingJourney #SelfLoveTools #AnxietySupport #MentalHealthMatters #SpiritualHealing #ResilienceInGrief #NormalizeMentalHealth ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 5Stefani Gets Real About Dog Phobias, Kids, and Mental Health Wins
EIn this special episode, we sit down with Stefani Cohen, a clinical social worker and author of Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs. Together, we explore the often-overlooked anxiety surrounding dog phobias, especially in children, and how these fears can shape emotional development and resilience. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over one million downloads worldwide. Thank you for helping us break the stigma and create a safe space for mental health conversations. We’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Quote of the Episode "You can't always control fear, but you can control how you respond to it — and that's where real growth happens." – Inspired by Stefani Cohen’s journey What This Episode Is Really About: Fear, Healing, and the Power of Understanding In this heartfelt conversation, Stefani Cohen, LCSW, shares her insights on how childhood fears—especially the fear of dogs—can deeply impact mental health. Drawing from her extensive work as a clinical social worker and her personal experience as a parent, Stefani discusses how these fears often stem from a sense of lost control and how exposure therapy can help children rebuild confidence. Listeners will discover how fear develops, the role parents play in shaping emotional responses, and how learning about animal behavior can promote emotional intelligence and resilience. This episode blends humor, expert advice, and vulnerability to open up meaningful dialogue about mental health and fear. Meet Our Guest: Stefani Cohen, LCSW Clinical Social Worker | Author | Educator B.A. in Sociology, William Smith College Master of Social Work, New York University Over 30 years helping parents and children manage anxiety, fear, and emotional regulation Specializes in exposure therapy for children afraid of dogs through her unique OFOD protocol Book: Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs Website: https://overcomefearofdogs.com/ Instagram: @overcomefearofdogs Facebook: OvercomeDogFear LinkedIn: Stefani Cohen, LCSW Key Takeaways Phobias Are Real Mental Health Issues: Dog phobias in children are valid and often misunderstood. Parental Influence Matters: Children can absorb anxiety from their environment, especially from their parents. Understanding Can Replace Fear: Teaching kids to understand dog behavior can build emotional confidence. Actionable Tips Model Calm Behavior: Your reactions around dogs influence how your child feels. Use Gradual Exposure: Help children slowly become comfortable with dogs in safe settings. Respect Emotional Signals: Encourage awareness of body language in both people and animals. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:01:12] – How Stefani’s daughter’s fear inspired her mission [00:02:41] – Four primary ways phobias develop in children [00:08:22] – Why boys ages 5–9 are statistically more prone to dog bites [00:13:19] – The role of control in childhood fear [00:24:18] – Understanding dog consent and the "three-second petting rule" [00:28:18] – Rapid-fire: resilience, favorite words, and self-care [00:33:31] – Where to find Stefani’s work and connect References & Mentions Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs by Stefani Cohen – overcomefearofdogs.com DSM-5 classification of specific phobias Child bite prevention research and statistics School-based humane education programs and therapy dog visits led by Stefani Subscribe, Rate, and Review Stay connected for more insightful conversations on mental health. Subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Your feedback fuels our mission to make mental health conversations more accessible, honest, and empowering. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #StefaniCohen #OvercomeFearOfDogs #DogPhobiaSupport #ParentingAnxiousKids #PhobiaTherapy #OvercomeFear #MentalHealthMatters #AnxietyInChildren #ResilientParenting #PositiveParenting #TherapyTools #FearOfDogs #EmotionalSupport #NormalizeMentalHealth #PetTherapy #ExposureTherapy ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing b
Ep 4How to Set Boundaries at Work Without Burning Bridges – Tips from Suzanne
EWelcome to another powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! This week, we’re talking about one of the most essential tools for mental well-being: setting boundaries, especially in the workplace. Our guest, Suzanne Culberg, aka The Nope Coach, shares raw truths, hard-earned wisdom, and real-life strategies for saying “no” without burning bridges, losing your mind, or being labeled "difficult." 🎉 Oh, and we’ve got some exciting news! We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast, and we’ve hit over 1 million downloads. 🏆 THANK YOU to our awesome listeners! Got feedback for us? We want to hear it—written or voice, we love it all 💌 Drop yours here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🧠 Mental Health Quote of the Episode “Choose discomfort over resentment.” – Brené Brown (as echoed powerfully by Suzanne in this episode) 🎧 What This Episode is About This episode dives into the messy middle of workplace boundaries, people-pleasing, and the societal pressure to say yes when we want to scream NO. Suzanne breaks down how to navigate awkward conversations with coworkers or managers, how to stop justifying your “no,” and how learning to honor your own needs can radically improve your mental health. 🌱 If you’re tired of overextending yourself or being the “yes person” at work and in life, Suzanne’s techniques and mindset shifts will help you reclaim your time, energy, and peace of mind. It’s real talk, full of laughs, strong language, and permission to start prioritizing yourself finally. 🌟 Meet Our Guest: Suzanne Culberg Suzanne is a bold, brilliant boundary coach based in Sydney, Australia. She’s a Certified NLP Practitioner, Sacred Depths Coach, and author of The Beginning is Sht: An Unapologetic Weight Loss Memoir*. Her mission? Help women say “no” without guilt—and finally say “yes” to themselves. Here’s what you need to know about Suzanne: Lives with her husband and two awesome kids Proud introvert and lover of all things sassy (especially T-shirts) Fitness nerd with a Bachelor of Medical Science (Hons) Diamond Dotz and fairy-smut fan 🤘 🔗 Find Suzanne here: Website – https://www.suzanneculberg.com/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/suzanne_culberg/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/suzanneculberg Podcast – https://www.suzanneculberg.com/the-nope-coach-podcast/ Newsletter – https://www.suzanneculberg.com/newsletter/ Book – https://mybook.to/suzanneculberg 🎯 Key Takeaways Boundaries preserve relationships – A clear “no” can be a deep act of respect. You don’t owe anyone an explanation – "No" is a full sentence. Resentment is a red flag – If you're frustrated, a boundary is probably missing. ✅ Actionable Tips Practice saying “No, thank you” without a reason. Then leave it there. Next time a task feels overwhelming, ask: “What’s the priority?” Designate one day this month just for you—no plans, no guilt, all recharge. 🕰️ Episode Chapters & Timestamps [00:07:42] Suzanne’s Boundary-Setting Origin Story [00:18:00] Saying “No” at Work Without Guilt [00:23:13] Drama, Empathy & Emotional Overload [00:34:57] Daily Self-Care & Saying Yes to Yourself [00:39:28] What Suzanne Would Tell Her Younger Self [00:42:29] Favorite Words, Pet Peeves & Humor [00:43:30] Where to Find Suzanne & Final Thoughts 📣 Subscribe, Rate & Review Love the episode? Show us some love! ⭐ Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 📝 Leave a review on your favorite platform 🌐 Or drop one here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads #NopeCoach #SuzanneCulberg #PeoplePleasing #WorkplaceWellness #BoundariesMatter #BurnoutRecovery #PodcastLife #WomensVoices #Authenticity #SayNoMore #MentalHealthMatters #SelfFirst #HealingJourney #PeopleChoicePodcastAward #WomenInPodcasting #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 3🎧 Inside the OCD Mind Loop: Valerie Breaks the Silence on Mental Health
EIn this powerful episode, Valerie Probstfeld returns to share what it’s really like to live with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder—beyond the clichés. From invisible mental spirals and postpartum anxiety to shame, resilience, and rewiring your thoughts, Valarie brings deep insight and heartfelt storytelling. Whether you live with OCD, support someone who does, or want to understand your mental health better, this conversation will stay with you. We're proud to be your go-to space for mental health conversations. 🏆 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award – Best Health Podcast 🏆 2024 Women In Podcasting Award – Best Mental Health Podcast 🎉 Over 1 million downloads! Have feedback? Please tell us what you think! 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a (Voice or written input welcome!) Quote of the Episode: “Thoughts are just thoughts—we give them too much credit.” – Valerie Probstfeld What This Episode Covers: This episode dives into Valerie’s lived experience with OCD—the obsessive thoughts, the quiet compulsions, and the constant mental “loops” that many never see. She opens up about the evolution of her symptoms, her relationship with shame, and the tools she uses today to cope and reclaim control, including mindfulness, gratitude, and naming her thoughts. We also explore the impact of media like Inside Out 2 and Disney’s portrayals of emotions and how writing has helped her reframe the narrative inside her mind. Guest: Valerie Probstfeld Valerie is a nurse practitioner, writer, speaker, and founder of To Mom Is To Love—a platform focused on mental wellness, gratitude, and living authentically. She’s a mom of three and firmly believes in creating mental space through mindfulness, neuroplasticity, and storytelling. Website: https://www.tomomistolove.com/ Podcast: https://www.tomomistolove.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerie_probstfeld/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090022943012 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQhKAdlZP8_tq2-zv3CqhrQ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valerie-probstfeld-23022448/ New Book Available: To Mom Is to Love: Pioneering a New Kind of Motherhood, Paperback will be available on May 9th Key Takeaways: OCD is not just about neatness or cleanliness—it often involves internal, invisible distress. Labeling thoughts as “OCD” helps reduce their power and shame. Emotional awareness in children’s media (like Inside Out 2) is helping normalize mental health conversations. Actionable Tips: Physically break the OCD loop: walk, clean, or move your body. Use the phrase “this is the OCD, not me” to reclaim your thoughts. Counteract negative thinking with gratitude and minor mental resets. Timestamps & Chapters: 00:01:12 – Welcome back, Valarie 00:04:55 – What OCD feels like beyond the stereotypes 00:11:25 – Intrusive thoughts and perfectionism in motherhood 00:25:13 – Real-life OCD loop example: “I thought I hit someone.” 00:28:00 – How medication felt like putting on glasses for the mind 00:36:00 – Disney movies and emotional education 00:47:02 – Healing through journaling and narrative therapy Resources Mentioned: Brain Lock by Dr. Jeffrey M. Schwartz Andrew Huberman’s Podcast (on OCD and neuroplasticity) The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk John Gottman’s 5:1 Positive-Negative Ratio Pixar’s Inside Out 2 Subscribe, Rate & Review: Enjoy this episode? Please help us keep the conversations going! 👉 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #ToMomIsToLove #OCDAwareness #IntrusiveThoughts #NeurodivergentVoices #MindsetMatters #NormalizeOCD #HealingJourney #SelfCompassion #EmotionalWellness #StopTheStigma #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #AuthenticLiving #PostpartumAnxiety #MentalWellness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 2Grief, Growth & Grit: Pearl on Losing Her Son and Learning to Live Again
EWelcome to another heartfelt episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 💥—the podcast normalizing mental health conversations. This week, we talk with Pearl Chiarenza about grief, resilience, setting boundaries, and finding joy again. 🏆 We’re proud winners of the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast! With over 1 million downloads, we couldn't have done it without you. 💬 We want your feedback! Please leave us a message (written or voice) at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote: "Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives." Guest Bio - Pearl Chiarenza: Pearl Chiarenza is a Mental Fitness Life Coach, author, speaker, and founder of the SHERO community, which hosts events and pajama retreats for women. Pearl empowers women to live unapologetically through mental fitness, self-care, and resilience. She’s a mom, a wife, and a fierce advocate for self-discovery. Website: https://www.wsliving.com/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soulful-self-care-conversations/id1565952559 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pearl_chiarenza/ Facebook: https://www.wsliving.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKRrlLHaqK0FDKOl42jgZVA LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pearl-chiarenza-8269a8b/ Podcast Shoutout! 🎧 Go check out How to Be a Grownup by Caitlin & Jenny — funny, real talk for moms navigating the chaos of life! 🙌 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes Key Takeaways: Grief is not something you "get over"—you learn to live with it. Setting boundaries is vital to protecting your mental health. Healing is an active process: it requires therapy, community, and self-love. Actionable Items: Write your "Joy List"—10 things that genuinely make you happy. Practice saying "No" without apology. Stay connected with your support tribe. Important Timestamps: [00:00-05:00] Meet Pearl and Mental Health Journeys [05:00-15:00] Coping with Grief and Family Toxicity [15:00-25:00] Breaking Free from People-Pleasing [25:00-30:00] Pearl’s Healing Practices [30:00-37:00] Advice to Her Younger Self and Life Lessons [37:00-End] Resources, Final Words, and Where to Find Pearl Subscribe, Rate, and Review! ⭐ Subscribe for more inspiring mental health conversations. ⭐ Rate and review us on your favorite platform or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GriefJourney #HealingAfterLoss #SelfCareMatters #WomensEmpowerment #PositiveMindset #PearlChiarenza #WSLiving #MentalHealthMatters #SelfLove #GriefSupport #DirtySkittles #GRex #MentalFitness #PersonalGrowth #TraumaHealing #BoundariesMatter #AwardWinningPodcast #PodcastRecommendations ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 1Therapy Isn’t Scary: Breaking Mental Health Myths with Dr. Bonnie Wims
E🌟 Welcome to Season 11 We’re kicking off Season 11 with a powerful, heart-first conversation designed to help anyone who’s ever felt unsure about therapy or struggled to believe they deserve healing. In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Bonnie Wims, a New York City-based Counseling Psychologist and host of Therapy Deconstructed. Bonnie opens up about her mental health journey—growing up in a home marked by trauma, chasing success as a way to quiet fear, and eventually learning to sit with the voice in her head that said she wasn’t enough. If you’ve ever wondered whether therapy can help, or if you’re the problem, this episode is a reminder: you are not broken, and you’re not alone. We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 1 million downloads. We’re building a brave, compassionate community—one honest conversation at a time. 💬 Your feedback means the world to us! Share your thoughts or drop a voice message: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🧠 Quote of the Episode “You’re not broken. Life is hard, and things happen to you, but you deserve happiness and fulfillment just like anybody else.” — Dr. Bonnie Wims 👩⚕️ Meet Our Guest: Dr. Bonnie Wims Dr. Bonnie Wims knows what it means to survive trauma while chasing success and wondering why it still doesn’t feel like enough. Raised in Colorado in an abusive home, she learned early to shrink herself to survive. Even after earning a doctorate, moving to London, and starting a thriving private practice, she still wrestled with fear—until therapy helped her meet that fear with compassion instead of avoidance. Now, Bonnie helps others do the same through her work and her podcast, Therapy Deconstructed. She’s on a mission to help you stop hiding and start healing. Connect with Dr. Bonnie Wims: Website: https://www.bonniewims.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wimsassociates/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbonniewims/ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapydeconstructedpodcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drbonniewims/ Podcast: https://www.bonniewims.com/podcast/ 🎧 Podcast Shoutout! We love supporting fellow creators, especially when they’re as real and funny as Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup! This hilarious and heartfelt podcast helps moms laugh, learn, and survive the chaos of adulting. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 🔑 Key Takeaways Therapy is a safe space where you can finally be honest with yourself. That voice telling you you’re “too much” is often fear pretending to protect you. You don’t have to stay with the first therapist you meet—finding the right fit matters. ✅ Action Items Track your self-talk — Begin noticing how you speak to yourself and ask: “Would I say this to someone I love?” Take a small first step — Reach out to a therapist or call 988 if you’re in crisis. Remember you have choices — If your current therapist isn’t a good fit, it’s okay to move on. ⏱️ Episode Highlights 00:00 – Meet Bonnie and welcome to Season 11 03:00 – Why fear keeps people out of therapy 08:00 – Bonnie’s childhood and internalizing pain 14:00 – Her first experiences with therapy as a client 22:00 – The power of “speed dating” your therapist 35:00 – How self-talk shapes our emotional health 44:00 – What she’d tell her 6-year-old self 50:00 – Tools for calming your nervous system and building new patterns 📲 Subscribe, Rate & Review Don't miss future episodes of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and help us spread the message that mental health conversations are for everyone. ⭐ Leave a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #DrBonnieWims #TherapyDeconstructedPodcast #TherapyIsntScary #TraumaHealing #YouAreNotBroken #HealingJourney #EndTheStigma #SelfWorth #TherapyTools #TalkTherapy #SpeedDateYourTherapist #TherapistTalk #PodcastTherapy #AnxietyHelp #DepressionRecovery #SafeSpacesMatter ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskit
Ep 11Middle Fingers, Mental Health, and Milestones: Wrapping Season 10 with Love and Laughter
EIn this heartfelt and hilarious season finale, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles reflect on the ten powerful episodes from season 10 that spotlight real mental health journeys—from grief and sobriety to anxiety and radical self-love. With their signature blend of humor, honesty, and heart, they revisit the lessons, laughs, and middle fingers that made Season 10 unforgettable. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is an award-winning mental health podcast, proudly named the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast 🏆. 🎉 We’ve also hit over 1 MILLION downloads—thanks to YOU, our amazing listeners! 🗣️ Got thoughts? Share your feedback or leave us a voice memo here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a “Mental health is not a destination, but a process. It's about how you drive, not where you’re going.” – Noam Shpancer 🧠 What Went Down with G-Rex & Dirty Skittles This episode isn’t just a recap—it’s a vibe 😎. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles kicked things off with their classic Zoom countdown chaos (complete with double middle fingers 🖕🖕), laughed at how their intro has become ritual therapy, and reflected on what Season 10 taught them personally and as podcast hosts. Season 10 Life Lessons They Shared: 💬 Therapy is everywhere – Especially when you’re recording with your bestie. 💡 Mental health is a lifelong practice, and each guest brought a new tool for the toolbox. 🌱 Purpose after pain is powerful – G-Rex shared how her new podcast, The Survivors, was born out of deep personal experience with suicide and survival. 👯♀️ You don’t have to do this alone – From finding your people to leaning on your partner, Season 10 reminded us that community matters. 📈 Growth is scary but worth it. From quitting jobs to starting companies, the season mirrored their transformations. 🔥 Season 10 Highlights – Meet Our Guests 💔 Lisa Sugarman Key Takeaways: Grief can revisit you at any age. Purpose can grow out of pain. Actionable Tips: Check out her crisis resources at https://helphub.co Share your story to break the silence around suicide loss and prevention. ❤️ Johnny and Cristy Key Takeaways: Healthy love requires honest work. Sobriety doesn’t erase your past—it helps rewrite your future. Actionable Tips: Attend an Al-Anon meeting to learn how to support loved ones through addiction. Prioritize boundaries even in loving relationships. 🏋️♂️ Curt Key Takeaways: Your pain can push you toward reinvention. Physical health feeds mental health. Actionable Tips: Start small: 15 mins of movement a day. Set a goal that excites (and slightly scares) you. 🐾 Honey Badger Key Takeaways: Grief hits everyone differently—and that’s okay. Preparing for loss is an act of love. Actionable Tips: Get a document organizer like “So I’ve Died, Now What?” Respect how others grieve, even if it looks different from your process. 🧠 Alyssa Key Takeaways: Self-care is non-negotiable. Boundaries protect your peace. Actionable Tips: Build a night routine to improve your sleep hygiene. Reframe anxiety through CBT techniques. 🍷 Hadley Key Takeaways: You don’t need a rock bottom to make a change. Sobriety can be joyful, not restrictive. Actionable Tips: Take a 30-day alcohol break and journal your experience. Explore sober communities online for support and connection. 🌸 Summer Key Takeaways: Radical honesty is a healing act. You are allowed to do what feels good—even if others don’t get it. Actionable Tips: Create a comfort ritual for tough days (music, writing, movement). Listen to Stressed, Depressed, and Anxious for real talk from someone who gets it. 🎤 G-Rex & Dirty Skittles Say… This season was a mirror, a medicine cabinet, and a masterclass all rolled into one. Whether you’re lifting weights, setting boundaries, grieving losses, or ditching the booze, we’re right there with you. Thanks for showing up and growing with us 💛 📍 Chapter Timestamps [00:00:00] – Opening chaos + countdown hijinks [00:02:15] – Reflections on podcast growth + purpose [00:05:43] – Lisa Sugarman & the birth of “The Survivors” [00:07:21] – Grieving twice: Lisa’s powerful story [00:09:55] – Honey Badger on generational grief + getting your affairs in order [00:11:17] – Johnny & Cristy’s journey through addiction and healing [00:14:05] – Curt and the healing power of fitness [00:16:39] – Alyssa on anxiety, music, and nurturing yourself [00:21:04] – Hadley reclaims her life through sobriety [00:24:03] – Summer brings the raw, real, and relatable energy [00:26:52] – Season 10 wrap-up + tools to take with you 🎧 Podcast Shoutout Shoutout to Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup 🙌 They’re hilarious and helpful, and they are 100% your people if you navigate #MomLife with humor and heart. 🎧 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 📱 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT 🌐 Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.co
Ep 10Stressed, Depressed, Anxious—Summer’s Story of Survival and Self-Love
EWelcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the award-winning mental health podcast that's not afraid to get real. In this episode, we sit down with Summer, the honest and hilarious host of Stressed, Depressed, and Anxious, to talk about living through anxiety, coping with depression, and what it really means to survive your own mind. Summer opens up about experiencing her first panic attack at 19, how writing became her emotional escape hatch, and why sometimes the simple act of spite is enough to keep going. From family stigma to workplace burnout, this conversation will hit home for anyone who's ever felt like their mental health story doesn’t “fit the mold.” We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and the show that’s crossed over 1 million downloads worldwide. We want to hear from YOU. Let us know what you think about this episode. Leave us written feedback or even a voice message here: 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 👈 🧠 “The hardest lesson I’ve had to learn is that no one is coming to save you. You have to save yourself.” – Summer 🎧 Meet Our Guest: Summer Summer is the creator and host of Stressed, Depressed, and Anxious, a podcast that brings mental health conversations out of the shadows and into the real world—with all the mess, honesty, and humor intact. A self-described survivor and storyteller, Summer was the first in her family to address her mental health struggles head-on. After enduring clinical depression at 17 and navigating anxiety attacks in her early 20s, she found comfort in therapy, journaling, and connecting with others through raw, unfiltered storytelling. Her show is a home for listeners who want more than cookie-cutter advice—to feel understood. Website: https://www.sdanxious.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sdanxious/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stressedepressedanxious/ X: https://twitter.com/sd_anxious Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/stresseddepressedanxious ⏱️ Episode Chapters [00:01:00] – Meet Summer and her mental health journey [00:05:00] – First anxiety attack and the weight of misdiagnosis [00:08:30] – When anxiety shows up in everyday moments [00:11:00] – Coping with chaos through writing and laughter [00:16:00] – Breaking generational silence on mental health [00:20:00] – Mental health at work: Toxicity and burnout [00:26:00] – System failures: What happens when support isn't there [00:35:00] – What Summer would tell her 5-year-old self [00:39:00] – The courage to trust and be seen [00:41:00] – Summer’s comfort rituals and self-care toolkit ✅ Actionable Tips from This Episode Write a letter you’ll never send—a powerful and private release for stress and anger. Track your anxiety triggers. Look for repeated moments where anxiety creeps in—especially when leaving isn't an easy option. Name your emotions. Saying "I'm feeling anxious" can stop your brain from spiraling. 🧠 Takeaways That Hit Hard Mental health can be invisible, but it’s always real. Your story doesn’t have to be polished to be powerful. Empathy begins where silence ends. 🎧 Podcast Shoutout! Big shout out to Caitlin & Jenny from How to Be a Grownup! These two are a must-listen for moms and adulting humans who need to laugh, cry, and feel heard. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 💬 Subscribe, Rate & Review! Don’t miss future episodes of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 🎧 ✔️ Subscribe on your favorite podcast app ⭐ Rate & Review to help us reach more listeners 🌐 Submit a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #sdanxious #AnxietySupport #DepressionRecovery #NormalizeTherapy #StressedDepressedAnxious #PodcastForChange #PodcastCommunity #SelfLoveJourney #MentalHealthConversations #TherapyIsCool #HealingInProgress #WomenInPodcasting #MentalHealthMatters #SurvivalStory #RawTalk #StorytellingHeals ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an
Ep 9How Hadley Found Her Joy After Letting Go of Social Drinking
EWelcome back to another episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re not just any podcast—we’re the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast 🏆💥 With over 1 million downloads, we’re here to normalize honest conversations about mental health, healing, and hope. In this episode, we sit down with writer, mom, and sobriety advocate Hadley Sorensen to discuss what happens when you step away from “mommy wine culture” and start listening to your mental health. We’re talking about gray area drinking, anxiety, antidepressants, and the internal shift that happens when you stop numbing out and start showing up. Hadley’s story is for anyone who thought, “I’m not that bad... so I must be fine,” while silently struggling. 💬 Got thoughts or feedback on this episode? Leave us a voice message or written note here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 💬 Quote of the Episode: "If it’s worsening your life, you don’t need to keep doing it. You don’t need a rock bottom to make a change." — Hadley Sorensen 💁♀️ Meet Our Guest – Hadley Sorensen Hadley is a mom of three boys, a passionate distance runner, and the author of The Dirty Truth on Social Drinking: “Everything in Moderation” and Other BS, which was released in 2024 and is available now. After years of participating in social drinking culture—and silently questioning her relationship with alcohol—Hadley decided to stop ignoring her intuition. Now three and a half years sober, she’s helping others realize that sobriety isn’t just for rock bottoms—it’s for anyone who wants to feel better. Find Hadley online: Website: http://www.hadleysorensen.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hadley_sorensen/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hadley-sorensen-3bbb979/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HadleySorensenWellnessHypeGirl 🔑 Key Takeaways You don’t have to look like you have a drinking problem for it to be impacting your mental health. Alcohol can dull the effectiveness of antidepressants like Lexapro or Zoloft. Self-care starts with self-honesty—when you stop pretending everything’s fine, healing can begin. ✅ Actionable Tips Start a “feel log” – note how you feel physically/emotionally after drinking vs. when you don’t. Swap your 5PM drink for a fun, alcohol-free ritual like kombucha, tea, or mocktails. Be honest with your support circle—what would change if you told them the truth? ⏱️ Chapter Timestamps 00:02:10 – Hadley’s wake-up moment: “I’m doing this to myself” 00:10:21 – The mental health-medication-alcohol triangle 00:16:21 – Writing The Dirty Truth for gray area drinkers 00:19:47 – Breaking up with wine culture and reclaiming her peace 00:28:37 – Talking to teens about drinking in an honest, shame-free way 00:39:13 – Hadley’s real self-care toolkit (spoiler: no bubble baths) 🎧 Podcast Shout Out! We LOVE supporting other creators, and Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup are the real deal 🙌 They’re hilarious, honest, and relatable—helping moms laugh and learn through the chaos of adulting. 🎙️ Listen here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 💥 Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Do you love what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or leave your review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 📣 Keep the Conversation Going Listener Feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Podcast Website: https://goesoninourheads.net Hadley's Book: The Dirty Truth on Social Drinking – Available now on Amazon and major booksellers #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #SobrietyJourney #SoberCurious #MentalHealthMatters#GrayAreaDrinking #AlcoholFreeLiving #SoberLife #PostpartumMentalHealth #WomenAndSobriety#MomLifeBalance #MentalHealthSupport #NoMoreShame #SelfCareOverSpirits #TherapyWorks #AnxietyRecovery #LexaproLife #BreakTheStigma#NormalizeSobriety #HealingJourney #EmotionalWellbeing #FindYourJoy #Grex #DirtySkittles#HadleySorensen #WellnessWarrior #EndTheStigma #DepressionSupport ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Ne
Ep 8Anxiety, Self-Trust, and Joy: A Mental Health Deep Dive with Alyssa
EThis week on Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we’re joined by the incredible Alyssa Kushner, LCSW—a licensed therapist and fierce mental health advocate who helps clients navigate anxiety, trauma, burnout, and self-doubt. In this honest and empowering conversation, Alyssa shares how she built her private practice, overcame impostor syndrome, and framed her approach to self-trust and joy heading into 2025. Whether you’re feeling paralyzed by perfectionism or just trying to figure out where to begin, Alyssa’s story and practical insights will leave you feeling seen, supported, and inspired to take that next step. And hey, we’re not just your average mental health podcast—we’re officially award-winning! 🎉 In 2024, we won the People’s Choice Podcast Award for Health and the Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast. Oh,—and we also passed 1 million downloads! Thank you for being part of this growing, stigma-breaking, soul-nourishing community. 🗣 Got feedback? Leave us a message or drop your thoughts here: 📢 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 💬 Quote of the Episode "The relationship you have with yourself is the most important one you’ll ever nurture." – Alyssa 👤 Meet Our Guest: Alyssa Kushner, LCSW Alyssa is a licensed clinical social worker providing virtual therapy in NY, NJ, MD & D.C. She specializes in: Anxiety, trauma & burnout People-pleasing & perfectionism ADHD, disordered eating, & body image Relationship patterns & self-worth Her approach is relational, trauma-informed, somatic, and holistic—infused with creativity, mindfulness, and compassion. 📌 Learn More About Alyssa: Bio: https://bio.site/alyssakushnerlcsw Website: https://www.ak-psychotherapy.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alyssaktherapy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyssakushner/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AKPsychotherapyLCSW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alyssaktherapy 🧩 Key Takeaways Your anxiety is a signal, not a flaw. Impostor syndrome happens to everyone—yes, even therapists. Joy is powerful, even when it has no “purpose.” ✅ Action Steps You Can Try Today 💛 Try mindful self-compassion by placing your hand over your heart and speaking kindly to yourself. 🧠 When self-doubt hits, ask: “Is this my voice—or someone else’s?” 🎨 Do something joyful just because it feels good. ⏱️ Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Cold weather banter 🧤 03:00 – Meet Alyssa + her path to therapy 04:45 – Anxiety, wellness basics, and sobriety 10:00 – What joy and self-permission look like in 2025 20:00 – Sleep, exercise, reframing thoughts 28:00 – Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory explained 30:00 – Owning impostor syndrome 35:00 – How to let go of perfection 37:00 – Wrapping with joy, calm, and clarity 📚 Resources Mentioned Mel Robbins: Let Them Theory – https://www.melrobbins.com/blog/the-let-them-theory Inside Out 2 (Movie) – Emotional education for families Mindful Self-Compassion – https://self-compassion.org/ 🎧 Podcast Shout out! We LOVE supporting other creators—and Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup are the real deal 🙌 They’re hilarious, honest, and relatable—helping moms laugh and learn through the chaos of adulting. 🎙️ Listen here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 🌟 Subscribe, Rate, and Review! If this episode resonated with you, subscribe for more amazing mental health convos. Leave us a review to help others discover our community: 📝 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #AKPsychotherapy #Grex #DirtySkittles #TherapistTalks #PodcastForHealing #WomenInPodcasting #MentalHealthTools #LetThemTheory #JoyAndGrowth #ImposterSyndromeHelp #AnxietySupport #TherapyConversations ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 7Empowering Your Mind: Alicia Hopkins on Anxiety, Growth, and Finding Your Path
E👋 Hey there, mental health warriors! Welcome to another episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re your hosts, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, bringing you inspiring stories and practical advice weekly. 🏆 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Health) 🏆 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) 🎧 Over 1 million downloads worldwide! 💬 Help us grow by sharing your feedback! Leave a written or voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Spotlight: Alicia Hopkins on Mental Health, Growth & Finding Your Path In this episode, we chat with Alicia Hopkins, a mental health powerhouse, as she shares her insights on mental wellness, growth, and finding your path to empowerment. 💡 Quote of the Day: “My mental health is a massive part of my lifestyle. And if I'm not being productive towards taking care of my mental health, then, like, I don't feel as good.” – Alicia Hopkins Meet Alicia Hopkins Alicia is a passionate mental health therapist who blends professional expertise and personal experience to help others transform their lives. A recovering perfectionist, Alicia has embraced humor and resilience to navigate childhood traumas. She is dedicated to assisting clients to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, advocate for themselves, and take charge of their lives. Company: Path to Empowerment Counseling Website:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/alicia-hopkins-denver-co/786146 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/aliciahopkins? Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapy.in.real.life ✨ Key Takeaways ✨ 1️⃣ Authenticity is Key – Being genuine and showing your true self fosters trust and creates a safe space for vulnerability. 2️⃣ Advocate for Yourself—Strong advocacy skills are required in the workplace and personal relationships. Sharpen them to create a better environment. 3️⃣ Mental Health as a Lifestyle – Prioritizing mental health is an ongoing practice, not a one-time fix. 💪 Actionable Items 💪 ✔️ Incorporate a Morning Routine – Start your day with intention using Mel Robbins’s morning routine: No phone upon waking, a short walk, water, and gratitude. ✔️ Challenge Limiting Beliefs – Recognize areas where you feel stuck. What steps can you take to grow? ✔️ Practice Self-Compassion – Forgive yourself for past mistakes and focus on personal growth. ⏰ Important Chapter Timestamps ⏰ [00:04:58] – Embracing Natural Hair: Confidence & Self-acceptance [00:12:36] – G-Rex’s Epiphany: Overcoming suicidal thoughts & starting a business [00:44:50] – Alicia’s Hardest Lesson: Learning not to lose yourself in a relationship [00:51:41] – Self-Love & Care: Alicia’s daily mental wellness practices 🔗 References 🔗 📌 Mel Robbins Morning Routine 📌 Psychology Today – https://www.psychologytoday.com/ 📌 Alma – Find Therapists Who Take Insurance – https://helloalma.com/ #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #AliciaHopkins #MindsetMatters #SelfCareJourney #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #HealingJourney #GrowthMindset #InnerStrength #BreakTheStigma #EmpowerYourMind #WellnessMatters #SelfLoveFirst ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 6Honey Badger on Healing: Letting Go & Moving Forward – Part 2
EWelcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the award-winning podcast breaking the stigma around mental health! 🏆 We are honored to be the 2024 People’s Choice Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re building a community where honest conversations matter. In this powerful Part 2 episode, we continue our heartfelt conversation with Honey Badger, a fearless educator, mental health advocate, and storyteller no stranger to grief, trauma, and resilience. She opens up about her profound loss, the struggle of navigating relationships during grief, and the importance of boundaries and self-care. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by loss, stuck in the people-pleasing cycle, or struggled to reclaim your sense of self, this episode is for you. 💬 We Want Your Feedback! 💬 Your thoughts matter to us! Let us know what you think about this episode by leaving a written comment or voice message here: 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Meet Our Guest: Honey Badger A passionate educator, mental health advocate, and storyteller, Honey Badger isn’t afraid to tackle life’s toughest conversations. Having navigated profound loss and complex family dynamics, she brings raw honesty, humor, and wisdom to every discussion. From breaking down mental health stigmas to reflecting on the long-term effects of trauma, she’s here to inspire, empower, and remind us that healing is never linear but always possible. 🔥 Key Takeaways From This Episode: Boundaries Are Your Superpower – Setting and maintaining boundaries isn’t just about protecting yourself; it’s about reclaiming your peace and emotional well-being. Grief Never Truly Ends, But It Changes – Healing doesn’t mean forgetting. Grief comes in waves, and learning to ride them gracefully is part of the journey. You Don’t Have to Fix Everything – Sometimes, the best thing you can do for someone struggling is be present. Silence, support, and space can be more potent than words. ⏳ Important Chapters: ⏱ [00:00] – Welcome Back & Podcast Updates ⏱ [04:22] – Honey Badger’s Story: Navigating Grief and the Unexpected ⏱ [10:36] – The Impact of Trauma on the Brain & Mental Health ⏱ [16:51] – The Power of Boundaries & Saying ‘No’ Without Guilt ⏱ [24:49] – How to Support Someone Through Grief ⏱ [31:33] – Finding Joy Again: Rebuilding Life After Loss ⏱ [37:22] – Final Thoughts & Mental Health Resources 💡 Mental Health Quote: "Grief never goes away. It just changes shape. Some days, it’s a whisper; others, it’s a storm. But no matter how heavy it feels, you’re never truly alone." 🔗 Resources & References: 📌 Learn more about the ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Study: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html 📌 Find mental health support: https://www.nami.org/Home 📌 Setting Boundaries in Mental Health: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-boundaries 📢 Subscribe, Rate & Review! Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode of real, raw mental health conversations. If this episode resonated with you, please leave a rating & review to help others find us! 💻 Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthMatters #GriefHealing #BoundariesMatter #PodcastCommunity #HealingJourney #MentalHealthPodcast #AwardWinningPodcast #HoneyBadgerSpeaks #LettingGo #SelfCareTips #grex #dirtyskittles #stgoioh 🎧 Thank you for listening, and remember: It’s okay to not be okay. Just make sure you’re talking to someone. 💙 ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 5The ACEs of Grief: Understanding Trauma & Healing with Honey Badger (Part 1)
E🎙 Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is an award-winning podcast, honored as the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast! With over 1 million downloads, we’re building a community where mental health conversations are raw, authentic, and stigma-free. 💭 We’d love your feedback! Let us know your thoughts on this episode by leaving a written message or a voice note at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Overview In this powerful episode, we sit down with Honey Badger, a fearless mental health advocate and educator, who opens up about grief, childhood trauma, and the long-term effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). She shares her deeply personal story, from navigating profound loss to understanding how early-life trauma shapes our mental health. If you've ever struggled with grief, family dysfunction, or feeling unheard, this conversation is for you. Honey Badger’s raw honesty, humor, and wisdom create a safe space to break the silence on loss, healing, and resilience. Mental Health Quote of the Episode "You never know the story behind somebody else. Be kind. You don’t know if a single moment of compassion could change their entire day—or their life." – Honey Badger. Meet Our Guest: Honey Badger Honey Badger is a passionate educator, mental health advocate, and storyteller who isn’t afraid to dive into life’s most challenging conversations. With a background in education and a deep personal journey through grief, trauma, and resilience, she brings raw honesty and insight to every discussion. Having experienced profound loss and complex family dynamics, Honey Badger shares her story with humor, wisdom, and a no-nonsense attitude—just like the fearless animal she’s named after. Whether breaking down the stigma of mental health, discussing the impact of childhood experiences, or simply keeping it real, she’s here to inspire and connect with those who need it most. Key Takeaways from This Episode 1️⃣ The Impact of ACEs – How Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) increase the risk of mental and physical health struggles and why it’s crucial to understand your own ACE score. 2️⃣ Grief & Family Dynamics – How unresolved grief and family dysfunction can make healing even harder—and why setting boundaries is necessary. 3️⃣ Breaking the Silence – The importance of talking about grief, loss, and trauma, even when it’s uncomfortable, to foster true healing. Important Chapters 🕒 [00:00] - Welcome to the show! Introduction to Honey Badger 🕒 [02:40] - Why we don’t talk about grief & loss in our society 🕒 [04:45] - The ACEs questionnaire: Understanding childhood trauma 🕒 [10:04] - How childhood experiences shape adult mental health 🕒 [16:09] - The reality of losing a loved one & navigating family dynamics 🕒 [22:03] - How humor and setting boundaries help with grief 🕒 [29:25] - Wrapping up: The power of sharing your story Resources & References 📌 Take the ACEs Questionnaire – https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean 📌 Mental Health Support Resources – https://www.nami.org/Support-Education 📌 Books on Grief for Children & Adults Grandma's Breath—Written by Mother Moon and illustrated by Anastasiya Kanavaliuk. Set during the COVID-19 pandemic, this story follows a young girl, Kaiah, whose grandmother taught her to use breathing techniques during anxiety attacks. When her grandmother passes, Kaiah gives back by supporting elderly patients. Ages 5-10. Ida, Always – Written by Caron Lewis and illustrated by Charles Santoso. A touching story of two best friend polar bears and how one copes with the loss of the other. Ages 4-8. The Invisible String—Written by Patrice Karst and illustrated by Joanne Lew-Vriethoff, this book explains the unbreakable connections between loved ones. It is highly recommended among social workers and therapists. Also available in Spanish. Ages 3-7. Join the Conversation! 💬 What resonated with you the most? Leave us a comment or a voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🔔 Don’t Miss Part 2! Stay tuned as Honey Badger continues this eye-opening discussion in our next episode. Subscribe, Rate, & Review! 🎧 Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite platform and leave a review at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForMentalHealth #GriefJourney #HealingThroughTrauma #ACEs #MentalHealthPodcast #BreakTheStigma #GriefSupport #ChildhoodTrauma 🔥 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it! 🔥 ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States:
Ep 4Breaking Stigmas: Curt’s Mental Health & Fitness Journey
E📢 Award-Winning Podcast | Over 1 Million Downloads! 🎉 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health 🎉 2024 Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast Join us for another powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, where we tackle mental health head-on! We’re incredibly honored to welcome Curt, a dynamic force of resilience, reinvention, and personal growth. Curt shares his powerful journey—from navigating personal hardships and high-stakes careers to becoming a competitive bodybuilder at 63. 🏆 We Want to Hear From You! 🏆 Your feedback matters! Please leave us your thoughts, whether in writing or by voice message, at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. 🔥 Meet Our Guest: Curt 🔥 Curt’s journey is nothing short of extraordinary. A Columbine High School alumnus, he has led a remarkable global aerospace and defense consulting career. His experiences have taken him around the world, but his heart remains deeply connected to his Columbine community, where he played a pivotal role in memorial efforts following the 1999 tragedy. 🌍 A Career of Global Impact Curt has spent years guiding U.S. companies in international markets. Despite his high-pressure career, he never lost sight of his passion for self-growth and fitness. 💪 A Reinvention at 60+ Curt took on an unexpected challenge—competitive bodybuilding at age 60. What started as a personal goal quickly turned into a nationally ranked pursuit. At 63, he placed in the Top 10 at NPC Nationals, proving that age is no barrier to ambition. ❤️ A Mental Health Advocate Beyond his professional and fitness achievements, Curt firmly believes in mental health awareness. From navigating personal struggles to advocating self-love, his journey is a testament to resilience and the power of transformation. 💛 How You Can Help LA Fire Victims 💛 We’re partnering with Heather Grace Skincare to support LA Fire Victims & the LA Mission! Ways to Get Involved: 💛 Shop with Purpose – 10% of all purchases from Heather Grace Skincare through February go to the Los Angeles Mission. 💛 Spread the Word – Share this initiative to amplify support. 💛 Donate Directly – Visit Los Angeles Mission to contribute. 🔗 More Info: 👉 Website: https://heathergraceskincare.com/ 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heathergraceskincare/ 👉 News Release: https://www.openpr.com/news/3840564/heather-grace-skincare-partners-with-g-rex-from-sh-t-that-goes 🎧 Key Takeaways from This Episode 1️⃣ Reinvention is Always Possible – You can redefine your path no matter where you are. 2️⃣ Fitness & Mental Health Go Hand-in-Hand – Physical activity can be a powerful tool for managing mental well-being. 3️⃣ Community Matters – Strong connections provide essential support, whether in fitness or personal struggles. ⏳ Important Chapters ⏩ [00:01:05] – Curt’s Background & Connection to Columbine ⏩ [00:06:13] – How Fitness Became a Mental Health Lifeline ⏩ [00:12:42] – The Unexpected World of Competitive Bodybuilding ⏩ [00:27:04] – Learning Self-Love & Embracing Reinvention ⏩ [00:36:02] – Overcoming Personal Struggles & Finding Purpose 💡 Mental Health Quote of the Episode "You don’t have to control your thoughts. You have to stop letting them control you." — Dan Millman 📲 Follow & Support the Show! ⭐ Subscribe, Rate & Review! Help us keep breaking mental health stigmas—subscribe and leave a review! 🔗 Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 🔥 Ready for an inspiring conversation? Tune in now and join us in breaking the stigma! #MentalHealthAwareness #Podcast #BreakingStigmas #BodybuildingOver60 #SelfLove #Reinvention #FitnessJourney #MentalWellness #ColumbineCommunity #LAFireVictims #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 3Healing Together: Johnny and Cristy on Codependency, Boundaries & Growth (Part 2)
E🔔 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses alcoholism, domestic abuse, and mental health struggles. Please take care of yourself accordingly. 🎙️ Welcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads We are an award-winning podcast, recognized as the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we foster open, raw, and real conversations about mental health. 💬 We Value Your Feedback! We want to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode through a written review or voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Meet Our Guests: Johnny & Cristy Meet Johnny and Cristy, two incredible individuals with powerful stories of resilience, healing, and personal growth. Johnny opens up about his struggles with alcoholism, sharing how it impacted his mental health, relationships, and recovery journey. Cristy offers her perspective on what it’s like to support a loved one through addiction while also maintaining her own mental wellness. Together, they engage in an honest and heartfelt conversation about the hidden challenges of addiction, breaking free from codependency, setting boundaries, and the path to healing. Their vulnerability and authenticity make this a must-listen episode for anyone navigating similar challenges or looking better to understand the intersection of addiction and mental well-being. How You Can Help: Supporting the LA Fire Victims & LA Mission Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is partnering with Heather Grace Skincare to support fire victims and the LA Mission. 🛍️ Shop with Purpose – Every purchase from Heather Grace Skincare through February contributes 10% to the Los Angeles Mission. 📢 Spread the Word – Share this initiative to amplify support for fire victims. 💛 Donate Directly – Visit Los Angeles Mission to contribute further. For more info, visit: 🌐 Heather Grace Skincare 📸 Instagram: @HeatherGraceSkincare 📖 Read more about this initiative: Heather Grace Skincare Partners with G-Rex from Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 3 Key Takeaways from This Episode Breaking Free from Codependency – Cristy shares her journey of realizing her worth, setting boundaries, and overcoming her past struggles. The Journey of Sobriety – Johnny discusses the difficult but necessary steps to recognize addiction, seek help, and build a healthier life. Healing is Possible – Their story proves that recovery, self-love, and happiness are achievable with the right support and mindset. Important Chapters ⏳ 00:00 - Trigger Warning & Introduction 💔 05:30 - Cristy’s Story: Leaving a Toxic Relationship 🍷 15:45 - Johnny’s Journey with Alcoholism 💡 28:20 - Recognizing Red Flags & Setting Boundaries 💛 40:00 - Healing & Growth After Trauma 🎙️ 50:10 - How Johnny & Cristy are Helping Others Mental Health Quote from This Episode "If you are in a toxic relationship, just run. There is a big world outside waiting for you, full of love, healing, and new opportunities." – Cristy Stay Connected with Johnny & Cristy 📌 Johnny’s Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084446821996 📌 Cristy’s Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/cris.mamichulis 🍷 Cairn View Winery – https://www.cairnviewwinery.com/? Join the Conversation! 💬 We Want to Hear from You! Please leave us a written review or voice message about this episode: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. ✅ Subscribe, Rate & Review! Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. #MentalHealthMatters #AddictionRecovery #Codependency #HealingTogether #BreakingTheStigma #SelfLove #SobrietyJourney #MentalWellness #HealingJourney #BoundariesMatter #MentalHealthPodcast #Grex #DirtySkittles #stgoioh ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 2Breaking Free from Alcohol: Johnny & Cristy’s Story Begins – Part 1
E⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about alcoholism, addiction, and mental health struggles. Listener discretion is advised. Welcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast! With over 1 million downloads, we continue bringing raw, unfiltered mental health conversations to the forefront. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Johnny & Cristy share their deeply personal stories about battling alcoholism and navigating the mental health struggles that come with it. This episode dives into the emotional toll of addiction, the importance of support systems, and the journey toward healing. 💬 We want to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode through written feedback or a voice message: 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Partnering for a Cause We’re proud to announce our partnership with Heather Grace Skincare to support recent LA fires and the Los Angeles Mission victims. How You Can Help: 💛 Shop with Purpose: 10% of every purchase from Heather Grace Skincare through February goes to the LA Mission. 💛 Spread the Word: Share this initiative to amplify support for fire victims. 💛 Donate Directly: Visit https://losangelesmission.org to contribute further. For more details, visit https://heathergraceskincare.com/ or follow https://www.instagram.com/heathergraceskincare/ on Instagram. 📢 Read more about our partnership here: https://www.openpr.com/news/3840564/heather-grace-skincare-partners-with-g-rex-from-sh-t-that-goes Meet Our Guests: Johnny & Cristy Johnny and Cristy open up about their struggles with addiction and mental health. Johnny shares his honest journey with alcoholism, exploring how it impacted his relationships and mental well-being. Cristy provides insight on supporting a loved one through recovery while maintaining her mental health. Their vulnerability and openness make this a powerful episode for anyone facing similar challenges or looking to understand addiction and mental health better. Connect with Johnny & Cristy: Johnny’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084446821996 Cristy’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cris.mamichulis Cairn View Winery: https://www.cairnviewwinery.com/ 3 Key Takeaways: The Intersection of Addiction & Mental Health: Johnny’s story reveals how alcoholism often masks deeper mental health struggles. The Power of Support Systems: Cristy highlights the importance of standing by loved ones while also prioritizing personal mental wellness. Breaking the Stigma: Open conversations like this help dismantle the shame surrounding mental health and addiction. Important Chapters: 00:00 – Intro & Trigger Warning 03:15 – Johnny’s First Encounter with Alcohol 12:40 – The Mental Health Toll of Addiction 21:50 – Cristy’s Perspective: Supporting a Loved One Through Recovery 34:10 – Breaking the Stigma: Why These Conversations Matter 45:30 – What’s Next in Part 2 Mental Health Quote of the Day: "The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide you're not going to stay where you are." – J.P. Morgan Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Love what you hear? Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more honest, thought-provoking conversations about mental health. If our stories resonate with you, please rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback means the world to us! 👉 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictionRecovery #Alcoholism #MentalHealthPodcast #BreakingTheStigma #JohnnyAndCristy #PodcastLife #MentalWellness #RecoveryJourney #SubstanceAbuseAwareness #STGOIOH #HealthAndWellness #2024PodcastAwards #WomenInPodcasting #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 1Changing the Narrative on Suicide & Mental Health with Lisa Sugarman
E🎙 Season 10 Opener | 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner (Health) | 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast) | Over 1 Million Downloads 🎙 🔔 Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about suicide. Please reach out for support if you or someone you know is struggling. Resources are listed below. 🎧 We Value Your Feedback! Please leave us a voice or written message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Overview In this powerful Season 10 opener, we sit down with Lisa Sugarman—a mental health advocate, crisis counselor, and three-time suicide loss survivor. Lisa shares her deeply personal journey, the importance of suicide prevention, and how we can shift the narrative around mental health. From losing her father and loved ones to suicide to becoming an advocate for awareness and support, Lisa's story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. She also introduces The Help Hub, a vital resource for mental health support worldwide. This conversation is about breaking the stigma, offering hope, and providing real-life strategies for mental well-being. If you or someone you love is struggling, this episode is for you. 💛 Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads + Heather Grace Skincare Helping LA Fire Victims & LA Mission We’re proud to partner with Heather Grace Skincare to support LA Fires & Los Angeles Mission victims. 🔗 Press Release: https://www.openpr.com/news/3840564/heather-grace-skincare-partners-with-g-rex-from-sh-t-that-goes How You Can Help: 💛 Shop with Purpose - 10% of all Heather Grace Skincare purchases through February will be donated to the Los Angeles Mission 💛 Spread the Word - Share this initiative to amplify support 💛 Donate Directly - Visit Los Angeles Mission to contribute For more info: 🌎 Website: https://heathergraceskincare.com/ 📲 Instagram: @HeatherGraceSkincare 🧠 Mental Health Quote: "You are not alone. You may not see the light right now, but it’s there—on the other side of this moment. Keep going." - Lisa Sugarman Meet Our Guest: Lisa Sugarman Lisa Sugarman is an author, nationally syndicated columnist, mental health advocate, and crisis counselor with The Trevor Project. A three-time suicide loss survivor, Lisa writes the opinion column We Are Who We Are and is the author of: 📖 How To Raise Perfectly Imperfect Kids And Be Ok With It 📖 Untying Parent Anxiety 📖 LIFE: It Is What It Is Lisa contributes to platforms like Mental Health Television Network (MHTN), NAMI, Healthline Parenthood, GrownAndFlown, TODAY Parents, Thrive Global, and More Content Now. She lives and writes just north of Boston. Follow Lisa Sugarman 📸 Instagram: http://instagram.com/lisa_sugarman 📘 Facebook: http://facebook.com/thelisasugarman 🔗 LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/lisa-sugarman-16925b69 🎯 Key Takeaways from This Episode: 1️⃣ Suicide prevention starts with open, stigma-free conversations. Lisa shares how we can talk about mental health in a way that encourages people to seek help. 2️⃣ Resources, like The Help Hub & 988, exist to support those in crisis. You are never alone, and there are always people ready to help. 3️⃣ Self-care & boundary setting are essential for mental health. Lisa shares her practices for maintaining well-being in challenging times. 📖 Important Chapters: ⏳ 00:00 - Trigger Warning & Introduction ⏳ 05:42 - Lisa Sugarman’s Journey with Suicide Loss ⏳ 15:30 - How the Help Hub is Making a Difference ⏳ 24:55 - Breaking the Stigma Around Suicide & Mental Health ⏳ 34:10 - How to Support Someone Struggling with Mental Health ⏳ 45:50 - Self-Care, Boundaries, and Emotional Well-being ⏳ 55:30 - How Listeners Can Make an Impact on Mental Health Awareness 📢 Mental Health Resources: 📞 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/ 🌎 The Help Hub (Global Mental Health Directory): https://thehelphub.co 🏳️🌈 The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Support): https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ 🫂 National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): https://www.nami.org/ Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website - https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 💛 If you or someone you know is struggling, reach out. Help is always available. You are not alone. 💛 #MentalHealthMatters #BreakTheStigma #SuicidePrevention #MentalHealthPodcast #LisaSugarman #TheHelpHub #NAMI #Podcast #988Lifeline #YouAreNotAlone #HealingJourney #TheTrevorProject #AwardWinningPodcast #STGOIOH #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resourc
Ep 11Season 9 Recap: Burnout, Healing, and Taking Our Power Back
EHey there! Welcome to the season finale of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re thrilled to wrap up Season 9 with our amazing community. Here’s the thing—this season has been a wild ride, and we’ve got so much to celebrate: 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health 2024 Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast Over 1 MILLION downloads! 🎉 None of this would have been possible without your support, and we want to hear from YOU! What did you love about this season? What can we do better? Let us know at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. You can leave a written note or even a voice message. Seriously, we’re all ears (pun intended). “Even in the hardest times, joy isn’t gone—it’s just waiting for us to find it again.” What This Episode is About This Season 9 ender is all about reflection, growth, and the incredible journey we’ve been on. From talking about burnout recovery to healing through creativity and finding joy in the smallest moments, we dive deep into what made this season unforgettable. We’re also spilling some behind-the-scenes moments—how our podcast has shaped us, why joy is our focus for 2025, and what’s coming next for Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. What We Learned from Our Guests This season, we’ve been lucky to sit down with some incredible people who taught us unforgettable lessons: Asha – Helped us realize what burnout looks like and how to tackle it head-on. Andrea – Introduced us to EFT tapping, a simple but powerful tool for emotional healing. Jaclyn – Inspired us with her ability to turn personal pain into beautiful, meaningful creativity. Wil - Opened our eyes to recognize triggers and embrace vulnerability in tough times. Krista -Showed us that resilience and self-love can lead to new beginnings even after betrayal. Karen – Taught us about the power of unconditional love and how strong support can change everything. Pez – Reminded us how family bonds and safe spaces are key to finding peace and joy. Kathy – Advocated for creating mentally healthy workplaces, proving that change starts from the top. Personal Insights from Dirty Skittles & G-Rex We couldn’t end this season without sharing some of our thoughts and growth: Rediscovering Joy: 2025 is our year to choose happiness, even if it’s scary. It’s all about leaning into what feels right and letting go of what doesn’t. The Evolution of the Podcast: When we started, we never imagined how much these conversations would change us. This season felt like all the stars aligned, as every guest shared stories that resonated with our journeys. The Value of Vulnerability: Letting down our guard has been challenging, but it’s been so worth it. Vulnerability is where actual growth happens. Mental Health in the Workplace: G-Rex is passionate about creating healthier work environments and shared how this is a focus for her new business. Safe Spaces & Family: Dirty Skittles opened up about finding comfort in her family and realizing the power of having people who “get” you. Key Takeaways Burnout recovery is possible, but it takes recognizing it and making yourself a priority. Healing is personal—whether tapping, fidget rings, or therapy, find what works for you. Taking your power back means setting boundaries, rediscovering joy, and focusing on your mental well-being. Important Chapters 00:00 – Reflecting on our podcast journey and big wins this season. 10:30 – Asha on recognizing burnout and how to start healing. 15:45 – Andrea on EFT tapping as a simple healing tool. 22:00 – Jaclyn’s story of transforming pain into creativity. 28:15 – Wil on triggers and the power of vulnerability. 36:40 – Krista’s resilience after betrayal and finding self-love. 43:50 – Karen on unconditional love and parental support. 51:00 – Pez on safe spaces, family, and healing through connection. 58:30 – Kathy is making mental health a priority in the workplace. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss what’s next! Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more inspiring and real conversations. We’d love for you to rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform—it helps us reach more people who need these stories. 👉 Visit our website to add your review: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 👉 Give us your feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Thank you for making Season 9 unforgettable. Here’s to taking our power back in 2025! #MentalHealthPodcast #BurnoutRecovery #HealingJourney #RediscoverJoy #TakeYourPowerBack #VulnerabilityMatters #PodcastCommunity #AwardWinningPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 9
Ep 10Raised by an Invisible Village: Kathy’s Reflections on Healing and Hope
EWelcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re proud to continue the conversation on mental health as the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re grateful for your support in helping us bring these important stories to light. If you want a new way to engage with us, please join our Discord Channel here - https://discord.gg/xS2QZRuUUx We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share your feedback, leave a voice message, or send written input at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Your input helps us grow and improve with every episode. "It’s okay to not be okay, as long as you’re talking to someone who cares." This is a reminder from today’s inspiring conversation with Kathy. Meet Our Guest: Kathy Kathy is a dynamic and inspiring advocate for mental health, inclusion, and workplace well-being. With a remarkable background as a former tech entrepreneur, Kathy co-owned a successful global tech company, which she exited a few years ago to focus on her passion for helping others. Drawing from her lived experiences, Kathy has dedicated herself to promoting open conversations about mental health, suicide prevention, domestic violence, and LGBTQ inclusion. She recently founded Workplace Village, an innovative program that fosters well-being in professional environments. The program addresses critical topics such as menopause, mental health, and diversity, equipping organizations to support their employees effectively. Kathy is also the creator of the podcast Raised by an Invisible Village, where she reflects on her journey and pays tribute to the individuals and moments that shaped her life. Having spent her early years in foster care from the age of 12, Kathy fondly recalls the support and love of her foster family, which provided her with a sense of stability during a challenging time. Her resilience was further tested by traumatic experiences, including sexual violence, which she has courageously transformed into a source of strength and advocacy. In her pursuit of healing and connection, Kathy undertook a transformative journey across Australia, reconnecting with people who impacted her life and expressing gratitude for their support. As a leader and mentor, her empathetic approach is informed by her challenges, and she continues to inspire others through her advocacy work. An ambassador for R U OK? Kathy is committed to raising awareness about mental health and suicide prevention. She also actively encourages workplaces to embrace uncomfortable but necessary conversations about inclusion, well-being, and support. Kathy’s story is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the profound impact of connection, gratitude, and giving back. Kathy’s Contact Information: Website: https://www.invisiblevillage.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourinvisiblevillage/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OurInvisibleVillage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathy-wilson-lived-experiences/ Key Takeaways from This Episode: Healing Through Connection: Reconnecting with the people who shaped you can lead to profound gratitude and healing. Workplace Inclusion Matters: Creating supportive work environments requires acknowledging and addressing sensitive issues like menopause and mental health. Lived Experience as a Catalyst: Kathy’s story demonstrates how personal challenges can inspire impactful advocacy and change. Important Chapters: 0:00–5:00: Introduction: Celebrating our awards and milestones. 5:01–20:00: Kathy’s foster care journey and early experiences. 20:01–35:00: Launching Workplace Village and tackling workplace well-being. 35:01–End: Reflections on healing, growth, and giving back. #MentalHealthMatters #RaisedByAnInvisibleVillage #WorkplaceWellness #HealingAndHope #TraumaToTriumph #AwardWinningPodcast #PodcastCommunity #MentalHealthPodcast #stgoioh #grex #dirtyskittles Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Subscribe now to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more inspiring conversations. Don’t forget to rate and review us on your favorite platform or leave your feedback at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. Thank you for being part of our journey to normalize mental health conversations and inspire positive change! ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-
Ep 9Grandpa's Lap and Safe Spaces: Pez Reflects on Healing
EWelcome to another heartfelt episode of Shit That Goes On In Our Heads, an award-winning podcast recognized as the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we are grateful for your continued support! Your feedback means everything to us — leave a written note or a voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Meet Our Guest: Pez Pez, a fan-favorite guest, returns for another inspiring conversation. She first joined us in Season 2 with these memorable episodes: Part 1: "Kitchen Capers with Special Guest Pez" Part 2: "Sometimes a Sandwich Isn’t Just a Sandwich with Guest Host Pez" In this episode, Pez reflects on navigating grief after the loss of her grandfather, how core memories of love and safety shaped her journey and the therapeutic power of creativity in healing. Her stories of knitting, finding safe spaces, and embracing emotional vulnerability are heartfelt and deeply relatable. California Wildfires: How You Can Help The California wildfires have devastated countless lives, leaving families, individuals, and animals in urgent need of support. These fires have destroyed homes and disrupted entire communities, impacting thousands of lives. To our listeners worldwide: this is a humanitarian crisis, and your contributions, no matter how small, can make an immense difference. We urge you to stand in solidarity with those affected. Whether through monetary donations, sharing resources, or offering support in other ways, every action counts. Huge thanks to Liz Culley from the Cool Cool Cool Podcast for gathering these resources, and to iolovesyou for raising awareness through his personal experience of losing his home. Follow Liz Culley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/listentoliz/ Follow iolovesyou on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iolovesyou/ Monetary Donations Here are trusted organizations where your contributions can provide meaningful aid: Los Angeles Fire Department: https://supportlafd.kindful.com/?campaign=1040812 Wildfire Recovery Fund: https://www.calfund.org/funds/wildfire-recovery-fund/ Pasadena Humane (supporting animals affected by the fires): https://pasadenahumane.org/ The Red Cross: https://www.redcross.org/donate/donation.html/?srsltid=AfmBOopnrth00baUEdhjyo1dSmxJUqBmxFemg-gTaCTUdmcKxG7d-VCH Displaced Latino Families: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1km3lEvdVY70P3875guzujp5xtoIFMr6jVZVxfpN3MeA/htmlview?usp=gmail Displaced Black Families: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pK5omSsD4KGhjEHCVgcVw-rd4FZP9haoijEx1mSAm5c/htmlview?usp=gmail Supplies Donations Products for Teenage Girls (pads/tampons, NEW clothes, makeup, haircare products, styling tools): Small Green Door Studio, 3530 E 15th St, LA, CA 90023 Skincare/Hygiene: Giving Generously, 914 Montana Ave, Santa Monica, CA 90402 New Clothes/Hygiene: GirlTalk Inc., 1119 Standard St, El Segundo, CA 90245 Tips for Helping Directly Consider donating small amounts, such as $10, to multiple GoFundMe accounts. These grassroots efforts provide immediate, tangible help to families who have lost everything. A full list of verified GoFundMe accounts can be found here: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/10gvOxituYvxxknoY9IQa-YEqfK8WvCjcLBcg4hsmME4/edit?gid=0#gid=0. Key Takeaways from This Episode Healing Through Memories: Pez highlights how core memories of love and safety, like those with her grandfather, can shape emotional resilience. The Importance of Self-Care: From knitting to setting boundaries, Pez demonstrates the power of small actions in nurturing mental health. Vulnerability as Strength: Pez’s openness about her journey reminds us of the courage it takes to acknowledge emotions and seek support. Important Chapters 00:05: Opening Remarks and Podcast Awards Announcement 10:30: Pez Reflects on Core Memories and Healing 25:45: Creative Hobbies as Self-Care 40:00: Navigating Grief and Emotional Intelligence 55:00: Closing Thoughts and Call to Action Subscribe, Rate, and Review Please stay connected with us! Subscribe for more inspiring conversations. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform. Share your feedback at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Follow Us Online Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthMatters #SelfCare #GrandpasWisdom #CaliforniaFires #CommunitySupport #Grex #DirtySkittles #STGOIOH #CraftingForHealing #PodcastLove #EmotionalHealing #AwardWinningPodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental
Ep 8The Power of Love and Faith: Karen’s Mental Health Awakening
EHappy New Year, dear listeners! As we ring in 2025, thank you for making our podcast, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is an award-winning platform. In 2024, we proudly won the People’s Choice Podcast Award for Best Health Podcast and the Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads across more than 60 countries, we’re thrilled to continue breaking the stigma surrounding mental health. We’d love to hear your thoughts about this episode! Share your feedback using this link: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. You can leave a written message or even a voice note to help us improve and inspire future episodes. 🎉 About This Episode In this heartfelt episode, we sit with the incredible Karen McMahon, a renowned divorce and relationship coach, to explore the profound intersection of mental health, love, and faith. Karen shares her deeply personal journey as a mother navigating her daughter’s mental health struggles and how she leaned on faith, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to love. Together, we uncover the transformative power of creating safe spaces, practicing self-care, and finding purpose in adversity. Whether you're a parent, a mental health advocate, or someone seeking inspiration, Karen’s story will surely leave a lasting impact. Meet Our Guest: Karen McMahon Karen McMahon is a true trailblazer in divorce and relationship coaching. As the founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, Karen specializes in guiding individuals through the turbulent waters of high-conflict divorce. Her work is both transformative and empowering, addressing her clients' emotional, financial, and co-parenting challenges. Karen’s internationally acclaimed platform offers tools for healing and growth, supported by a team of six dedicated coaches who help individuals emerge stronger and more self-aware. With her compassionate approach, Karen has touched the lives of tens of thousands, offering them hope and a renewed sense of purpose. To connect with Karen and explore her work, visit: Website: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/jbdpodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/journey_beyond_divorce/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/journeybeyonddivorce Key Takeaways Creating a Safe Space: Karen shares the importance of being a safe space for loved ones, even in the most challenging times. Her approach to parenting through love and faith offers hope and healing. Resilience Through Self-Care: Karen emphasizes how leaning on community, coaching, and faith helped her navigate personal and professional challenges while supporting her children. Transforming Pain into Purpose: From her personal experiences to founding Journey Beyond Divorce, Karen highlights how our darkest moments can lead to profound personal growth and transformation. Important Chapters 0:00 - Welcome and Introductions Discussing Karen’s journey and her role in high-conflict divorce coaching. 10:45 - Parenting Through Love and Faith Karen’s approach is to create a safe and loving space for her children. 22:30 - Self-Care and Resilience How Karen built a network of support and practiced self-love during difficult times. 35:10 - Journey Beyond Divorce An overview of Karen’s platform and how it has empowered individuals worldwide. 42:00 - Closing Reflections Karen’s message of hope for anyone navigating their mental health challenges. Join the Conversation Subscribe, rate, and review us on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us reach even more listeners who can benefit from these conversations. Visit our website to leave a review: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. #MentalHealthAwareness #FaithAndLove #JourneyBeyondDivorce #MentalHealthPodcast #AwardWinningPodcast #grex #dirtyskittles #stgoioh #PodcastingCommunity ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 7Gut Feelings and Self-Love: Krista’s Mental Health Awakening, Part 2
E🎉 Our 100th Episode Celebration! 🎉 Welcome to the 100th episode of our award-winning podcast, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We're thrilled to announce that we've surpassed 1 million downloads and are the proud winners of the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast. Thank YOU for making this journey possible! Your feedback is essential as we continue to grow. Share your thoughts or leave a voice message here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Part 2: Meet Krista Dykes In this special two-part series, we dive into the incredible story of Krista Dykes. Krista is a mother, podcast host, and mental health advocate who turned life’s most challenging moments into a mission of empowerment and support. Her podcast, Secret Mom Hacks, offers a lifeline to moms navigating parenting challenges. Krista shares how she overcame trauma, found self-love, and built a life of authenticity and joy. From gut feelings to self-care routines, she reminds us that vulnerability breeds strength. About Krista Dykes Podcast Host: Secret Mom Hacks (http://www.secretmomhacks.com) Award-Winning Communicator: Phi Rho Pi Gold Award in Persuasive Speaking, Communication Analysis, and Poetry Interpretation Social Media: Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/secretmomhacks Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/secretmomhacks LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristamischell/ Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/secretmomhacks Clarifying Notes from Krista After our interview, Krista shared these critical clarifications: Future Conversations with Her Daughter: Krista acknowledges her fears about discussing sensitive family matters but emphasizes the importance of professional counseling, faith, and love in navigating these challenges. Belief in Healing: While Krista has strong feelings about her ex-husband's potential for change, she remains a person of faith, believing in the possibility of miracles through Jesus. Key Takeaways Trust Your Gut: Krista's story highlights the importance of listening to and acting on your instincts when something feels off. Self-love is Key: Happiness starts within. Krista reminds us that we are responsible for creating our joy and should never rely solely on others for fulfillment. Therapy Works: Counseling and community support are invaluable in navigating challenging times and fostering growth. Important Chapters [00:03:19] - Krista’s Story: Overcoming betrayal, embracing self-love, and finding joy [00:10:16] - Parenting and Support: Discussing family challenges and her daughter’s future [00:18:04] - Self-Care Practices: Running marathons, cooking, and the power of laughter [00:24:15] - Life Lessons: Learning to embrace imperfection and focus on happiness #MentalHealthAwareness #PodcastEpisode100 #AwardWinningPodcast #KristaDykes #ParentingJourney #GutFeelings #SelfLove #SecretMomHacks #MentalWellness #PodcastCelebration #MentalHealthPodcast #DirtySkittles #GRex 💡 Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss out on more inspiring stories. Subscribe to Shit That Goes On In Our Heads on your favorite podcast platform, and don’t forget to leave a review or feedback: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. Thank you for celebrating this milestone with us! Here’s to the next 100 episodes! 🎙️✨ ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 6When the Red Flags Fly: Krista's Mental Health Journey, Part 1
EHappy Holidays from all of us at Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! 🎄 The holiday season can bring a mix of emotions, and if you’re finding it tough right now, we want you to know this: you are not alone. If you’re in crisis or need someone to talk to, call or text 988—there is always someone ready to listen. You are wanted, needed, and loved, and the world is better because you are in it. ❤️ This episode kicks off a two-part series diving deep into the impact of toxic relationships on mental health. In Part 1, we unpack the signs of unhealthy dynamics, the courage to confront red flags, and the journey toward healing and resilience. Don’t miss next week’s continuation of Krista’s inspiring journey. Welcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is an award-winning podcast that has won the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast! As of last week, we are thrilled to announce we’ve surpassed 1 million downloads, thanks to our amazing listeners. 🎉 We value your feedback! Please share your thoughts or leave us a voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Your input shapes the show and helps us grow. 💬🎙️ Episode Overview In this episode, we welcome Krista Dykes, host of the Secret Mom Hacks podcast, who courageously shares her deeply personal and transformative mental health journey. Krista opens up about navigating red flags in her relationships, finding clarity amidst personal struggles, and the pivotal moments that redefined her perspective on resilience and faith. Meet Our Guest: Krista Dykes Krista is a mompreneur, publicist, and host of the Secret Mom Hacks podcast. A former Phi Rho Pi Gold Award winner in communication, Krista blends her passion for storytelling with her mission to empower mothers and advocate for mental health. Learn more about Krista and connect with her via: Website: http://www.secretmomhacks.com Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/secretmomhacks Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/secretmomhacks LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristamischell/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/secretmomhacks Special Notes from Krista Following our conversation, Krista shared these reflections: While Krista feels some fear about future discussions with her daughter regarding their family background, the family is actively pursuing professional counseling and leaning on their faith, believing that truth and love will ultimately prevail. Krista believes that while some traits and mental health challenges are deeply ingrained, her faith reminds her that miracles are possible and that God can heal even the most broken situations. Key Takeaways Trust Your Instincts: When red flags appear in relationships or life, listening to your intuition and seeking clarity is crucial. The Importance of Support: Professional counseling and a strong support system can make all the difference in navigating challenges. Healing Is Possible: Even in the face of betrayal and hardship, there is hope, healing, and a brighter future waiting on the other side. Timestamps for Key Moments [00:00:06] - Opening the Conversation G-Rex and Dirty Skittles introduce the episode and set the tone for this compelling mental health discussion. [00:00:35] - Meet Krista Dykes Introduction to Krista and her work as a mompreneur and host of the Secret Mom Hacks podcast. [00:01:25] - Early Career and the Unexpected Love Story Krista recounts how she met her ex, their evolving relationship, and her early career milestones. [00:10:38] - The First Red Flag Krista describes the moment she began questioning her relationship and noticing troubling signs. [00:15:15] - The Bombshell Revelation Krista receives shocking news from an anonymous source, leading to life-changing realizations. [00:21:13] - Drawing the Line Krista sets boundaries in her marriage and seeks professional support at this pivotal moment. [00:22:34] - Becoming a Mom Krista reflects on pregnancy and motherhood and how these experiences shaped her resilience. [00:24:46] - The Turning Point Krista receives a call from a detective that shifts the course of her journey. [00:25:13] - Closing Reflections G-Rex and Dirty Skittles encourage listeners to seek help, reflect on Krista’s story, and continue mental health conversations. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t forget to rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform or share your feedback at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. Your support keeps this community thriving! #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastCommunity #HolidayMentalHealth #HealingJourney #SecretMomHacks #PodcastAwards #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United S
Ep 5Healing Isn’t Linear: Lessons from Wil’s Mental Health Journey
EWelcome to Shit That Goes On In Our Heads, an award-winning podcast proudly recognized as the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. In this powerful episode, we sit down with the incredible Wil Watson to discuss the challenges and triumphs of mental health, highlighting her courageous journey toward healing and self-discovery. We want to hear from you! Please share your feedback on this episode at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. You can leave a written comment or send us a voice message. About Our Guest: Wil Watson Wil Watson is an advocate for mental health, resilience, and self-growth. Sharing her personal experiences, Wil highlights the importance of seeking help, setting boundaries, and finding grace in life’s most challenging moments. Her inspiring story is a testament to the fact that healing is not a straight path but is always worth the journey. Key Takeaways from This Episode: Healing is not linear – Wil shares how understanding this truth has been critical to her mental health journey. Progress comes with ups and downs, and that’s okay. Protecting your peace is essential – Setting boundaries and being mindful of who and what you allow into your life is key to maintaining mental health. Ask for help early – Wil emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs when you’re struggling and seeking professional help without delay. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Wil Watson’s Website: https://www.watsonhcm.com/ Wil Watson on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/wiltona-w Leave Feedback or a Voice Message: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Review Us Here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Never miss an episode of Shit That Goes On In Our Heads! Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform, rate us, and leave a review. Your support helps us continue to break the stigma around mental health. Visit https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews to add your feedback. #MentalHealthMatters #HealingJourney #ProtectYourPeace #PodcastAwards2024 #WilWatson #WomenInPodcasting #MentalHealthSupport #HealingIsntLinear #MentalHealthPodcast Join us in this heartfelt conversation with Wil Watson, and remember: it's okay not to be OK. Let’s continue breaking the stigma together! ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 4The Art of Healing: Jaclyn’s Journey Through Mental Health | Part 2
EWelcome to "Shit That Goes On In Our Heads," an award-winning podcast celebrating being the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast! In this powerful second part of our conversation with Jaclyn Beckerman, we delve deeper into her inspiring mental health journey, exploring how her creativity and emotional resilience fuel her unique jewelry designs. We want to hear from YOU! Share your feedback or leave a voice message here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Guest Spotlight: Jaclyn Beckerman Jaclyn is the founder of Jaclyn Nicole Design, which creates handcrafted jewelry to support emotional well-being and personal growth. Drawing inspiration from her own mental health journey, she designs with intention, offering pieces that serve as daily reminders of strength and mindfulness. Her work has touched the lives of spiritual seekers, therapists, and teachers alike. Website: https://jaclynnicoledesign.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/jaclynnicoledesign Facebook: https://facebook.com/jaclynnicoledesign 3 Key Takeaways from This Episode Healing Through Creativity: Jaclyn shares how crafting her jewelry is a meditative refuge and a tool for emotional balance. Breaking the Stigma: A candid discussion about the power of vulnerability and the freedom found in embracing our mental health struggles. Empowering the Next Generation: Jaclyn’s vision is to teach self-love to children and address societal challenges like bullying and anxiety. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss more inspiring episodes—subscribe now! If you loved this episode, leave us a review on your favorite platform or here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. Hashtags: #MentalHealthMatters #AwardWinningPodcast #JaclynNicoleDesign #HealingThroughArt #PodcastFamily #BreakingTheStigma #JewelryWithMeaning Tune in and discover the beauty of vulnerability and healing in Part 2 of Jaclyn’s remarkable journey. ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 3Mindfulness Through Jewelry: Jaclyn’s Creative Path to Healing | Part 1
EWelcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, your award-winning podcast for authentic conversations about mental health! We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. In this special two-part episode, we chat with Jaclyn Beckerman, founder of Jaclyn Nicole Design, about her healing journey through mindfulness and creativity. Jaclyn creates handcrafted jewelry with purpose, transforming personal challenges into daily reminders to stay grounded and embrace inner strength. In Part 1, Jaclyn opens up about her struggles, how she found solace in creativity and the transformative power of emotional support jewelry. Key Takeaways: ** How personal trauma inspired Jaclyn’s journey into mindfulness and jewelry-making. ** Using symbolic jewelry to stay present and reframe negative thoughts. ** The connection between creativity and emotional healing. About Our Guest: Jaclyn Beckerman founded Jaclyn Nicole Design, creating meaningful jewelry to support mindfulness and personal growth. As a former life coach, she is passionate about helping others through her unique, intentional designs. Connect with Jaclyn: Website: https://www.jaclynnicoledesign.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaclynnicoledesign Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jaclynnicoledesign YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jaclynnicoledesign TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jaclynnicoledesign Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/jaclynnicoledesign Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss inspiring stories—subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads and leave a review at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #Mindfulness #HealingThroughCreativity #JaclynNicoleDesign #AwardWinningPodcast #SelfCareJourney #EmotionalSupportJewelry #TraumaHealing #JewelryWithMeaning #CreativeHealing #MindfulLiving #JewelryForWellness #MentalHealthAwareness #IntentionalDesign #EmpowermentThroughArt #PersonalGrowth #MindfulnessTools#Grex #DirtySkittles #STGOIOH ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 2Unlocking Emotional Freedom with Andrea Hunt: The Power of EFT Tapping
EWelcome to the award-winning podcast, Shit That Goes On In Our Heads! Proudly recognized as the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. In this episode, we explore the life-changing benefits of EFT Tapping with Andrea Hunt, a Certified EFT Practitioner and Accredited Transformational Coach. Andrea shares how EFT Tapping can help overcome low self-worth, imposter syndrome, and limiting beliefs. Whether you're struggling with perfectionism or negative self-talk, Andrea’s tools empower you to boost confidence and emotional resilience. Key Takeaways: ** EFT Tapping combines mindfulness and acupressure to release emotional blocks and reduce anxiety. ** This simple yet powerful tool can help manage stress, trauma, and self-doubt. ** Andrea shares practical tips to get started, including her FREE EFT guide: https://bit.ly/3MOTeew About Our Guest: Andrea Hunt helps clients transform emotional health and confidence. She’s an Accredited Transformational Coach (Animas Centre UK) and Certified EFT Practitioner (AEFTP). Connect with Andrea Hunt: Website: http://www.dreahunt.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/living.deliberately.today/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/livingdeliberatelytoday YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCc2vJQhEWXKCEfZIHUjP4aA LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreahunt/ Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Subscribe on your favorite platform, and share your feedback at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Hashtags #EFTTapping #MentalHealthMatters #AndreaHunt #AwardWinningPodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 1From Burnout to Balance: Asha’s Mental Health Journey
EWe’re thrilled to kick off Season 9 of our award-winning podcast! Proud winners of the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast, we’re here to break stigmas and inspire meaningful conversations about mental health. This season opener dives into the journey from burnout to balance with our incredible guest, Asha Tarry. In this episode, we explore actionable strategies and heartfelt insights into prioritizing mental health and living a life of fulfillment and purpose. Key Takeaways: Burnout Recovery Strategies – Asha shares how to recognize and heal from burnout, including the transformative impact of taking leaves of absence for mental health. Overcoming Overperformance – Learn how to let go of people-pleasing and build reciprocal relationships that support your personal growth. The Power of Spiritual Practices – Discover how mindfulness and spirituality can improve resilience and shape lasting legacies. About Our Guest: Asha Tarry is an integrative mental health therapist and spiritual life coach with over two decades of experience. She empowers marginalized professionals, especially individuals of color, to overcome burnout, navigate challenging relationships, and become intuitive, resilient legacy builders. Asha’s work focuses on helping clients transition from overperformance and codependency to balanced, fulfilling lives rooted in personal growth and financial prosperity. Website: LifeCoachAsha.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bhconsultingservices Instagram: @ashatarrymental Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Join us for more inspiring stories this season! Subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform, or visit us at goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. Follow Us for More Conversations: #MentalHealthMatters #BurnoutRecovery #Season9 #AshaTarry #AwardWinningPodcast #PodcastingWomen #LifeBalance #SelfCareTips #MentalFitness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 10Season 8 Finale: Real Talk on Mental Health, Coping, and Community Support
EJoin us as we wrap up Season 8 of our award-winning podcast, Shit That Goes On In Our Heads, recently honored as the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast! In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles reflect on mental health journeys, impactful guest stories, and ways to cope through community support. Key Takeaways: ** Crisis resources like 988 are life-saving tools for mental health support. ** Self-care isn't selfish; our guests show why putting yourself first matters. ** Vulnerability builds community—sharing struggles reduces mental health stigma. Season 8 Guests: ** Heather: Found strength after leaving a toxic job to reclaim peace. ** Susan: Explored art therapy as a creative tool for healing. ** B-Town: Advocated for crisis support in bipolar disorder journeys. ** Alex: Prioritized self-care over people-pleasing. ** Amy Opened up about advocating for her neurodiverse family. ** Liv: Showed career transformation with themes of empowerment. ** Ella: Embraced resilience, sharing her journey with eating disorders. ** Amanda: Turned self-doubt into purpose and gratitude. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don't miss future inspiring episodes! Rate and review on your favorite podcast platform, or visit https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthMatters #EndTheStigma #SeasonEnder #AwardWinningPodcast #MentalHealthSupport #MentalHealthPodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 9Healing from the Inside Out with Amanda: A Mental Health Journey
EWelcome back to our award-winning podcast! We’re thrilled to share that we’ve recently won the 2024 People’s Choice Award for Health and the Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast. We couldn’t have done it without you – thank you for being on this journey with us! Today, we’re joined by Amanda Yoa, an inspiring speaker and entrepreneur from Philly known for her infectious energy as the “hype woman.” Amanda shares her raw journey through depression and anxiety, revealing how she found her confidence, purpose, and resilience along the way. With G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, she explores finding strength in tough times, the impact of daily gratitude, and why “balance” might be a myth. Key Takeaways: **Strength in Struggle: Amanda’s toughest moments sparked her most extensive growth, showing the power of community and vulnerability. **Gratitude Shift: Her daily gratitude practice turned survival into a true appreciation for life. **Prioritizing What Matters: Amanda focuses on what counts most in each season of life. Connect with Amanda: ** Podcast ** Linktree ** Instagram For more inspiration, subscribe and leave a review: goesoninourheads.net #MentalHealthPodcast #AwardWinningPodcast #AmandaYoa #Resilience #MentalWellness #DepressionSupport #AnxietyAwareness #PodcastCommunity #SelfGrowth #Inspiration #GratitudePractice #AuthenticLiving #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastingJourney #WomenInPodcasting #Philly ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 8Pushing Through Pain: Ella’s Continued Fight Against Eating Disorders – Part 2
ETrigger Warning: This episode discusses eating disorders, grief, and mental health challenges. Listener discretion is advised. We're honored to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast. In this moving episode, Ella shares her journey with eating disorders amid life's profound challenges. From losing loved ones to multiple surgeries, Ella opens up about her path to healing. With family support, she confronted the roots of her eating disorder, finding resilience in her darkest moments. Her story highlights the complexity of recovery and the importance of support. Key Takeaways: Unresolved Trauma: Ella's story shows how unaddressed trauma can impact mental health and underscores the need to heal past wounds. Recovery Process: Ella shares the challenges of refeeding syndrome and healing both mind and body. Support Systems: Surrounding yourself with people who understand mental health struggles is essential. About Ella: Ella is a teacher, author, and mental health advocate with over twenty years of experience battling an eating disorder. Her book, From Broken to Beautifully Broken: Turn Grief Into Growth—How To Use Dark Times As A Catalyst For Change, tells her story of resilience and growth. Connect with Ella: - Website: ellashae.com - Instagram: instagram.com/ellashae_author - LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/elisa-d’amelio-5a74b4289 From Broken to Beautifully Broken: Turn Grief Into Growth—How To Use Dark Times As A Catalyst For Change - amazon.com/dp/1960136275 Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Subscribe for more stories, and rate/review us on your favorite platform, or visit goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthMatters #STGOIOH #Grex #DirtySkittles #AwardWinningPodcast #EatingDisorderRecovery #TraumaHealing #Resilience #SupportSystems #MentalHealthAwareness #PodcastCommunity #HealingJourney ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 7Ella’s Story of Resilience | Battling Trauma and Eating Disorders | Part 1
ETrigger Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including trauma, eating disorders, and abusive relationships. If these topics feel overwhelming, please take care and step away if needed. Your well-being is the priority. We are humbled to announce that we’ve been awarded the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award for Mental Health! Recently, we also received the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award for Health, and we are so grateful. These awards mean everything to us, and none of this would be possible without the unwavering support of our listeners, guests, and everyone who voted. From the bottom of our hearts—thank you! Our mission is to normalize conversations around mental health, and these recognitions show we’re making a difference together. In this inspiring episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Ella, a bestselling author, mental health advocate, and public speaker. Ella shares her powerful journey, beginning with a car accident at age four that left her physically scarred, followed by years of bullying, abusive relationships, and struggles with substance abuse. Her battle with an eating disorder ultimately brought her close to organ failure. Ella’s memoir, From Broken to Beautifully Broken, reveals how she transformed pain into power and found beauty in the broken parts of her life. Her story reminds us that no matter how dark things get, there’s always hope for recovery and healing. This is Part 1 of Ella’s story—tune in next week for the continuation! Key Takeaways: Mental Health Is Health: Ella’s story underscores the importance of addressing mental health with the same care as physical health. The Power of Sharing: By sharing her journey, Ella inspires others to open up and break the silence around their struggles. Support Systems Save Lives: Strong support systems can make all the difference in helping people find their path to healing. Connect with Our Guest, Ella: http://www.ellashae.com https://www.instagram.com/ellashae_author https://www.linkedin.com/in/elisa-d%E2%80%99amelio-5a74b4289/ Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t forget to subscribe to hear more real and raw conversations about mental health. Please rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform or visit our Website - https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealth #Resilience #HealingJourney #FromBrokenToBeautiful #MentalHealthMatters #TraumaRecovery #PodcastCommunity #PeoplesChoiceAward #EatingDisorderAwareness #AdvocateForChange #SupportSystems #MentalHealthPodcast #STGOIOH #Grex #DirtySkittles #WomenInPodcastingAwardWinner ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 6Life, Love, and Mental Health: Liv’s Take on Breaking Boundaries in Romance
EWelcome back to Shit That Goes On In Our Heads, the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health! In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles chat with Australian romance author Liv Arnold to dive into mental health, self-discovery, and romance. Liv shares how her journey led her from finance to fiction in Melbourne and how mental health themes are woven into her novels. Meet Our Guest: Liv Arnold Based in Melbourne, Liv studied Arts/Commerce at Deakin University before pursuing writing at RMIT. Inspired by Enid Blyton, Liv now publishes romance novels with The Wild Rose Press. Alongside her pup, Groot, she explores themes like PTSD, anxiety, and societal stigmas about female sexuality in her books Etched in Stone, Stepping Stone, and Law & Disorder, resonating with readers through suspense and relatable characters. Connect with Liv Arnold Website: https://www.livarnold.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/livarnoldauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/liv_au Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/liv_au BookBub: https://www.bookbub.com/profile/liv-arnold Books by Liv Arnold - Etched in Stone (Invested in You Book 1) - Stepping Stone (Invested in You Book 2) - Law & Disorder Key Takeaways from this Episode: - Representation in Romance: Liv emphasizes addressing real-life mental health issues like PTSD and anxiety in romance novels, creating relatable characters. - Embracing Female Sexuality: Liv discusses breaking societal stigmas, encouraging readers to embrace desires without shame. - Self-Care and Boundaries: Liv highlights the importance of boundaries and shares how self-care shapes her life and her characters' journeys. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Stay tuned for more inspiring episodes. Visit https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews for more ways to connect! #MentalHealthPodcast #LivArnold #Grex #Stgoioh #Dirtyskittles #2024PeoplesChoicePodcastAwardWinner #MentalHealthMatters #BreakingStigmas #PTSD #Anxiety #RomanceNovels #SelfCare #Boundaries ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 5Advocating for Mental Health: Amy’s Story of Hope and Resilience
E🎉 2024 People's Choice Podcast Awards Winner – Health Category 🎉 We’re beyond honored to be named the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award winner for Health! Thank you to our incredible listeners for believing in our mission to break the mental health stigma. Your support means the world to us. In this episode, hosts G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Amy, a 53-year-old single mom and mental health advocate. Amy opens up about her journey with bipolar disorder, ADHD, and anxiety. She shares her powerful story, including surviving multiple suicide attempts, finding resilience, and learning to embrace humor and strength in her everyday life. Amy’s story of growth and her dedication to mental health awareness is truly inspiring. Key Takeaways: Mental Health is Manageable – Amy’s journey shows how finding the right support can make a world of difference. Advocate for Yourself – From navigating medication changes to supporting her daughter, Amy highlights the power of self-advocacy. You’re Not Alone – Amy’s story shows that support is out there. No one should have to face mental health challenges alone. About Amy: Amy, a single mom and mental health advocate, now shares her experiences to uplift others through her podcast, Advancing with Amy. She reminds us it’s okay to struggle and that help is always within reach. Connect with Amy: Podcast: Advancing With Amy Website: advancingwithamy.com Instagram: @advancing_with_amy #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #BreakTheStigma #Resilience #PodcastCommunity #PeoplesChoiceAwards #MentalHealthPodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 4Fitness, Freedom, and Mental Clarity: Alex's Steps to Self-Empowerment
EWARNING. This episode is NOT SAFE FOR WORK --- The word F*CK is used a lot in this episode In this episode, we sit down with Alex, a personal trainer with over 12 years of experience who specializes in fitness and mindset transformations. Alex shares her powerful story of turning her life around from an unhealthy lifestyle filled with alcohol and self-doubt to becoming an online coach, empowering women worldwide to reach their fitness and mental health goals. Her journey is one of resilience, discipline, and learning how to prioritize mental and physical well-being. 3 Key Takeaways from This Episode: The Power of Mindset Shifts: Alex explains how transforming her body helped strengthen her mindset, ultimately making her more resilient in all aspects of life. You Come First: Alex's real change began when she stopped trying to please others and focused on herself. She emphasizes the importance of self-love as a foundation for personal growth. Fitness as Therapy: Fitness became Alex's way to channel stress and frustration into something positive. It was more than just physical; it helped her improve her mental health by offering a sense of control and accomplishment. About Alex: Alex is no stranger to transformation—both inside and out. Fourteen years ago, she lived an unhealthy life full of poor choices. A coach helped her change, and now, shshe'saying it forward by helping women achieve their goals, whether itit'seight loss, building strength, or improving their mindset. Alex's passion for fitness stems from her experience in bodybuilding and personal growth, proving that it is never too late to turn your life around. Follow her journey and coaching on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/finessefitnessbyalex/ Subscribe, Rate, and Review: Love the show? Subscribe, rate, and review us on your favorite podcast platform or visit https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews to share your thoughts! #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthMatters #FitnessJourney #MindsetTransformation #Stgoioh #SelfLove #OnlineCoaching #WomenEmpowerment #ArtOfNotGivingAF*ck #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 3When a Friend Struggles: B-Town’s Experience with Mental Health Crises
EIn this powerful episode of Shit That Goes On In Our Heads, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with B-Town to discuss the complexities of mental health crises, personal experiences with trauma, and the vital importance of reaching out for help. Together, they share stories of overcoming the stigma, recognizing the signs of bipolar disorder, and navigating life's most challenging moments. Highlights: B-Town shares her eye-opening journey as a friend witnessing mental health struggles for the first time. G-Rex opens up about their battle with depression and the life-saving impact of the 988 Lifeline. The group discusses the importance of mental health resources like mobile crisis units and helplines, breaking down the barriers that often keep people silent. A candid look at how setting boundaries and practicing self-care can be crucial for both those experiencing mental health issues and their support systems. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Stay updated on inspiring stories by subscribing, rating, and reviewing us on your favorite podcast platform. You can also add your review at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #988Lifeline #BipolarDisorder #CrisisSupport #SelfCare #BreakingTheStigma #MentalHealthSupport #PodcastLife #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads #Therapy #DepressionSupport #MentalHealthResources #STGOIOH #GREX #DIRTYSKITTLES #MENTALHEALTHPODCAST ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 2Finding Calm in Chaos: Susan Talks Art Therapy for Anxiety
EIn this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles are joined by Susan Day, an experienced art therapist, author, and artist, to explore how art therapy helps manage anxiety and improve mental health. Susan shares how creative expression can offer a sense of calm during life's challenges and provides practical insights into the healing power of art. Episode Highlights: Susan’s journey into art therapy and how it can be a powerful alternative to traditional talk therapy. Discover how creative outlets like drawing or painting can alleviate anxiety and stress. Practical advice on incorporating art therapy techniques into your daily routine for better mental well-being. About Our Guest: Susan Day is an art therapist, author, and artist passionate about using creativity for emotional healing. She also hosts a podcast and offers free art sessions, inspiring others to tap into the healing potential of mindful creativity. Susan has written over five books on mindful art therapy and how art and writing can transform lives. Learn more about her work at https://mindfulartstherapy.com.au. ✨ Freebie Alert: Susan is offering a free guide to art therapy! Download it here to begin your creative journey to wellness. 🎁 Connect with Susan: Podcast: https://mindfulartstherapy.com.au/podcasts/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulartstherapy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindfulartstherapy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susandayartstherapist Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Stay updated on inspiring stories by subscribing, rating, and reviewing us on your favorite podcast platform or visiting https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. #MentalHealth #ArtTherapy #AnxietyRelief #CreativeHealing #Wellness #MentalHealthPodcast #Mindfulness #STGOIOH #GREX #DIRTYSKITTLES ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 1Trust, Safety, and Mental Health: Heather’s Story of Resilience
EWe welcome Heather Grunkemeier, a dedicated advocate for trust, safety, and mental health. Heather’s journey began in 2017 when she found her passion for making technology products safer, leading her to work with major brands like Expedia and Rover. In this episode, she shares her story of resilience and career challenges and how she now advocates for mindfulness to manage stress and improve well-being. Meet Our Guest – Heather Grunkemeier Heather has spent years developing strategies to enhance trust and safety while meeting business goals. As the former Head of Trust and Safety Strategy at Rover, Heather worked with teams to prioritize risks and develop policies that build customer trust. Her experience handling sensitive situations, like preventing harm on digital platforms, highlights her unwavering commitment to making the world safer. Today, Heather emphasizes the importance of mental health, especially for professionals in high-stress roles like trust and safety. Drawing from her experiences, she advocates for mindfulness to manage stress, find inner peace, and build resilience. Heather’s passion for spreading mental health awareness is rooted in her belief that it’s a crucial conversation in today’s world. Key Topics Covered: Heather’s career journey in the tech industry transitioned into trust and safety. The mental health challenges she faced in high-pressure roles. The personal tragedy that led her to reassess her life priorities. How mindfulness transformed her approach to life and work. Practical tips for building resilience in both personal and professional life. Heather’s Contact Information: Website Facebook LinkedIn Don’t Forget to Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or leave your feedback on our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #STGOIOH #MentalHealthPodcast #GREX #DirtySkittles #TrustAndSafety #MentalHealthAwareness #ResilienceStory #MindfulnessMatters #HeatherGrunkemeier #StressManagement #WorkplaceMentalHealth #MentalHealthJourney #CrisisHelp ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 10Season 7 Wrap-Up: Breaking Mental Health Stigmas with G-Rex & Dirty Skittles
EWelcome to our Season 7 finale! G-Rex and Dirty Skittles look back on an unforgettable season filled with powerful stories, valuable insights, and plenty of laughs. We’re grateful for every incredible guest and the supportive mental health community we’re building together. Episode Highlights: Regent opened the season with “fierce conversations,” sharing insights on tackling tough truths. Laurie showed us how she balances self-care and motherhood, creating mental health safety plans for herself and her daughter. Andrea offered essential tips for staying mentally strong during a job search after a layoff. Jeff Rasley inspired us to explore beyond our comfort zones, moving from lawyer to mountain climber. Zach transformed pandemic challenges into a goat milk soap business, teaching resilience and gratitude. Jeff shared his experience as a NICU dad during COVID-19, emphasizing strong communication and mental endurance. Kate explored creativity as a tool for self-care. Dr. mOe Anderson shared strategies to face deep-seated fears. Mary K turned her anxiety into a successful writing career, proving it’s never too late to find purpose. As we wrap up Season 7, we're excited to announce that our new merch shop is officially open! Whether you need something safe for work or want to sport our classic podcast logo, you can find it at Goesoninourheads.shop or Customized Girl (volume pricing available). We also want to thank our sponsor, X-Sense Smoke Alarms! Keep your home safe with these advanced alarms that connect directly to your phone. Don't miss out on the 20% discount with code XSENSESD. Click here to secure your home today! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review us on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us continue bringing you more inspiring stories. You can also add your review directly on our Website. #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfCare #PodcastCommunity #Resilience #Season7Finale #MentalHealthPodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 9Journaling and Anxiety: Mary K. Savarese's Secrets to Mental Wellness
EIn this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles dive into mental health, creativity, and resilience with special guest Mary K. Savarese. Mary, an award-winning fiction author, opens up about her journey with anxiety and how writing became a lifeline. Known for her quirky titles like Tigers Love Bubble Baths & Obsession Perfume (who knew!), Mary shares how storytelling has helped her manage anxiety, especially during big life changes like becoming an empty nester. Together, G-Rex, Dirty Skittles, and Mary explore how creativity can be a powerful tool for mental wellness. They each share personal stories of coping with depression and anxiety, along with the tools and strategies that help them stay resilient. About Our Sponsor This month, we’re sponsored by X-Sense Smoke Alarms. Keep your home safe with advanced alarms that connect to your phone. With the code XSENSESD, you can enjoy a 20% discount. Click here to purchase and secure your home today! Key Takeaways: ** Creativity as Therapy: Discover how creative outlets, like writing, can support mental health. ** Navigating Life Transitions: Learn how major changes, like empty nesting, can affect mental wellness and ways to cope. ** Building Resilience: Hear how Mary, G-Rex, and Dirty Skittles have faced anxiety and depression head-on and developed resilience through their journeys. Connect with Mary K. Savarese Website: https://www.maryksavarese.com/ Books: https://www.starwriterstrilogy.com/ Twitter: @maryksavarese Instagram: @maryksavarese Facebook: Mary K. Savarese Author Subscribe, rate, and review us for more inspiring stories! #MentalHealth #CreativeTherapy #Resilience #PodcastLife #MaryKSavarese #HealingThroughCreativity #SelfCare #MentalWellness #MentalHealthPodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 8Dr. mOe Anderson's Tools for Mental Well-Being and Growth
EWelcome to a powerful episode with your hosts, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles! This week, we’re thrilled to welcome Dr. mOe Anderson—a groundbreaking dentist, best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and podcast host. Dr. mOe opens up about her journey, sharing deep insights on mental health, personal growth, and the courage it takes to overcome life’s challenges. Special Thanks to Our Sponsor! This month, we’re thrilled to be sponsored by X-Sense Smoke Alarms! Keep your home and loved ones safe with X-SenX-Sense smoke alarms. These advanced alarms connect directly to your mobile phone, providing real-time alerts and peace of mind no matter where you are. Plus, you can enjoy a 20% discount with the code XSENSESD. Click here to purchase and secure your home today! What You’ll Gain from This Episode: Inspiration to Follow Your Passions: Dr. mOe’s early love for science and learning, fostered by her parents, paved the way for a deeply fulfilling career. Understanding Mental Health & Racism: Dr. mOe shares how her experiences in dentistry intersect with issues like racism and mental health, offering insights that resonate on a personal level. Building Resilience: From setbacks to major life changes, hear how Dr. mOe’s journey showcases the strength and courage to keep moving forward. This episode is packed with wisdom and relatable insights on pursuing your dreams, navigating life’s challenges, and prioritizing your mental well-being. Whether you’re facing tough decisions, dealing with anxiety, or seeking a spark of inspiration, Dr. mOe’s story will resonate. Connect with Dr. mOe Anderson: Website: drmoeanderson.com X: @drmoeanderson Instagram: @drmoeanderson Facebook: Dr. mOe Anderson LinkedIn: Dr. mOe Anderson Don't forget to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website to leave a review. Your feedback helps us grow and bring more insightful content to light. #MentalHealth #SelfCare #DrMoeAnderson #DentistryAndMentalHealth #PodcastCommunity #Resilience #PersonalGrowth #TEDxSpeaker #CreativeInspiration #STGOIOH #grex #dirtyskiittles #Mentalhealthpodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 7Healing Trauma: Kate's Insights on Therapy, Art, and Personal Growth
EIn this episode, we sit with Kate King, a seasoned Licensed Professional Counselor and Board-Certified Art Therapist, to explore the transformative journey of healing trauma. Kate shares her unique approach to mental health, combining therapy, art, and personal growth strategies to help individuals overcome trauma and discover their true selves. This month, we're thrilled to be sponsored by X-Sense Smoke Alarms! Keep your home and loved ones safe with X-SenX-Sense smoke alarms. These advanced alarms connect directly to your mobile phone, providing real-time alerts and peace of mind no matter where you are. Plus, you can enjoy a 20% discount with the code XSENSESD. Click here to purchase and secure your home today! Episode Highlights: Understanding Trauma: Kate breaks down the different types of trauma and their impact on mental health. The Role of Art in Healing: Learn how art therapy can be a powerful tool for processing emotions and fostering personal growth. Practical Healing Strategies: Kate provides actionable advice for setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and cultivating resilience. Integrating Spirituality: Discover how incorporating spirituality into therapy can enhance healing. Personal Growth Journey: Kate shares personal stories and insights from her journey, offering inspiration and guidance for listeners. About Kate: Over 17 years of experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board-Certified Art Therapist. Founder of The Radiant Life Project, empowering others through books, retreats, workshops, and coaching. Author of The Radiant Life Project and The Authentic Mother. Creator of the Ink & Wings Oracle Deck, a tool for personal exploration and intuitive growth. Connect with Kate: Website: The Radiant Life Project Instagram: @theradiantlifeproject Facebook: The Radiant Life Project YouTube: The Radiant Life Project Channel LinkedIn: Kate King on LinkedIn Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don't miss out on more inspiring stories—subscribe to our podcast, rate and review us on your favorite platform, or visit our Website. #MentalHealth #TraumaHealing #ArtTherapy #SelfCare #PersonalGrowth #KateKing #RadiantLife #TherapyJourney #PodcastEpisode #HealingJourney #grex #dirtyskittles #stgoioh #mentalhealthpodcast ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 6From NICU to Normalcy: Jeff Discusses Mental Health Struggles
EIn this heartfelt episode of Shit That Goes On In Our Heads, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles delve into the emotional complexities of mental health and parenting. Our special guest, Jeff, shares his and his wife Jenna's touching story through their podcast, The Real Life of Parenting. They discuss the trials and triumphs faced during their child's premature birth and the subsequent NICU experience. Jeff offers an honest account of balancing parenthood and mental health, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic, and the impact it had on their lives. Key Topics: Parenting in Crisis: Jeff recounts the initial shock and challenges of having a child in the NICU, dealing with strict COVID-19 restrictions, and the emotional toll of a premature birth. Mental Health Awareness: The conversation underscores the importance of mental health support and breaking the stigma around seeking help. Practical Advice: Jeff and the hosts provide valuable insights into managing medical appointments, advocating for your child, and finding personal time amidst chaos. Jeff's Podcast: The Real Life of Parenting Jeff shares stories from his parenting journey on The Real Life of Parenting podcast. While they are currently on a short hiatus due to Jenna's new work schedule, they plan to resume episodes soon. You can connect with them and follow their updates on Facebook at The Real Life of Parenting podcast, where they are most active. Sponsor: Heather Grace Skincare sponsors this episode. Treat yourself to natural, rejuvenating skincare products, and use the code STGOIOH for a 10% discount. Visit Heather Grace Skincare to pamper your skin! Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don't miss an episode of Shit That Goes On In Our Heads. Subscribe for more inspiring stories and valuable insights. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website to leave a review. Your feedback matters! Hashtags: #MentalHealthAwareness #ParentingPodcast #NICUJourney #SupportAndStrength #STGOIOH #HeatherGraceSkincare #988Lifeline #PodcastCommunity #BreakTheStigma #GRex #DirtySkittles #TheRealLifeOfParenting ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.