
Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads
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Ep 4Breaking the Silence: Tabitha on Trauma, Therapy, and Taking Her Power Back
EIn this episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, Tabitha shares her perspective on living with trauma and her ongoing mental health recovery. The discussion covers therapy, dissociative disorder, communication challenges, and the importance of professional support. The show continues its mission to present authentic conversations on mental health topics. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads has reached more than three million downloads and received recognition from the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award (Best Health) and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast). Listeners are encouraged to provide written or voice feedback at:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Description Tabitha first connected with the podcast as a listener who found the content supportive during a difficult period. After reaching out to share her experience, she was invited to appear on the show. During the conversation, Tabitha outlines her early experiences with trauma, her diagnosis of dissociative disorder, and the steps she has taken through therapy to establish boundaries and improve communication. She explains how structured therapeutic support and reflection helped her develop strategies for personal stability and growth. This episode highlights the practical aspects of therapy, the role of consistent self-work, and the process of rebuilding self-trust after trauma. Keywords: trauma, therapy, mental health podcast, dissociative disorder, childhood abuse, self-worth, forgiveness, healing, anxiety, depression recovery, emotional resilience Meet Our Guest — Tabitha Tabitha is a professional in the baseball industry, a wife, and a mother. She has experienced multiple forms of trauma and has worked to rebuild stability through therapy and personal reflection. After discovering Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, while searching for mental health podcasts, she contacted the hosts to share how the show supported her recovery process. She was later invited to appear as a guest to discuss her progress and her perspective on therapy, family communication, and setting healthy boundaries. Key Takeaways Recovery begins when individuals address their experiences directly. Finding an appropriate therapist is essential for long-term progress. Communication and boundaries improve emotional regulation. Self-forgiveness supports sustained mental health. Speaking openly about mental health can reduce stigma. Actionable Items Note one practical goal for improving personal well-being each day. Establish one clear boundary with a trusted person or within a relationship. Contact a licensed therapist or use the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline for immediate support if needed. References Mentioned Mel Robbins Podcast: https://www.melrobbins.com/podcast 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART): https://acceleratedresolutiontherapy.com Important Chapters 00:01:00 — Introduction: Overview of Tabitha and her background.00:05:00 — Discovery: How she found Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads.00:10:00 — Early Trauma: Discussion of childhood experiences and their long-term impact.00:20:00 — Therapy Progress: Identifying practical therapeutic approaches.00:30:00 — Boundaries: Communication and relationship adjustments.00:50:00 — Reflection: Key lessons and advice for others in recovery. Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and ReviewSubscribe for more conversations about mental health and personal development. Rate and review on your preferred podcast platform, or visit:https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #TraumaHealing #TherapyJourney #SelfWorth #AnxietySupport #ChildhoodTrauma #HealingTogether #MentalHealthRecovery #EndTheStigma #EmotionalHealing #WomenSupportingWomen #PodcastCommunity #Mindfulness #DissociativeDisorder ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ep 3From Pain to Purpose: How Dyan Finds Joy Living with Rheumatoid Arthritis
EToday on Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with the unstoppable force that is Dyan — an artist, meditator, and self-proclaimed “witchy free spirit” who’s been living with rheumatoid arthritis for fifty years and still finds ways to laugh through it all. Dyan’s story is one of strength, humor, and pure heart. She talks about growing up wild in the ’60s, getting hit by a bus as a kid (yep, literally), and finding peace through meditation and tai chi. Diagnosed in her twenties, Dyan refused to let pain define her life — instead, she built a toolbox of mindfulness, creativity, and compassion that’s kept her grounded through every twist. She shares how to live with acceptance instead of resistance, why laughter is medicine, and how joy always starts within. This conversation is a masterclass in resilience, wrapped in warmth and wit. Proud winner of the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award (Best Health) and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast), with over 2 million downloads! We want to hear from YOU! Leave your written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote: “Even when life hurts like hell, there’s still room for laughter, light, and love.” — G-Rex Episode Description Dyan’s voice radiates calm, compassion, and just the right amount of sass. She opens up about growing up during the wild ‘60s, where “sex, drugs, and rock and roll” shaped her fearless outlook on life. But when rheumatoid arthritis hit in her early twenties, everything changed — her body, her plans, and her perspective. Instead of giving up, Dyan leaned into life itself. She found meditation, tai chi, and yoga long before they were trending hashtags. She talks about learning to listen to her body, to stop people-pleasing, and to embrace the messy, magical reality of aging with humor and grace. What’s so powerful about Dyan’s story isn’t just her survival — it’s her mindset. She still creates art, leads chair yoga at her local library, and shares hugs like they’re oxygen. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles dive into how she handles chronic pain, anxiety, and those “can’t-get-out-of-bed” days with self-compassion and laughter. This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt broken, stuck, or worn down by life. Dyan reminds us that healing isn’t about going back — it’s about finding peace right where you are. SEO Keywords: rheumatoid arthritis, chronic illness, chronic pain, mindfulness, meditation, mental health awareness, resilience, positive mindset, women’s health, healing journey, self-care, mental wellness, acceptance, finding joy, chronic illness stories Meet Our Guest — Dyan Dyan is a lifelong seeker, artist, and advocate for self-healing. Born in New York City, she spent her early years exploring everything life threw at her — from hitchhiking across the country to diving deep into meditation and tai chi. Living with rheumatoid arthritis for five decades, Dyan has become a model of perseverance and joy, teaching chair yoga at her local library, creating vibrant watercolor art, and spreading love wherever she goes. Why She Matters:Because she’s living proof that pain doesn’t get to call the shots. Dyan shows us how to live fully — body, mind, and soul — with humor, wisdom, and zero apologies. Key Takeaways Chronic illness doesn’t define your worth — your attitude does. Meditation and breathing can ground you even on the hardest days. Joy is an inside job; stop waiting for perfect circumstances. Acceptance beats resistance — what you fight owns you. A good laugh and a good hug can change everything. Actionable Items Try box breathing (inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4) next time anxiety hits. Practice gratitude grounding — step outside barefoot and say one thing you’re thankful for. Start a 5-minute meditation routine, even if it’s messy. References Mentioned Dalai Lama quote on letting go of what you can’t change Box breathing technique (used by Navy SEALs) Tai Chi and meditation practices for chronic pain “The Rise and Fall of the Roman Empire” (Dyan’s current read) Important Chapters 00:01:00 – Meet Dyan: From New York City to upstate New York — and a wild ‘60s upbringing.00:10:00 – Living with Rheumatoid Arthritis: How Dyan found strength through meditation and movement.00:17:00 – Coping and Perseverance: Learning to be her own advocate and embrace alternative healing.00:25:00 – Finding Joy in the Everyday: Gratitude, hugs, and saying “f*ck it” to what you can’t control.00:33:00 – Wisdom for the Next Generation: Advice to her younger self and lessons from a life well lived. Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review!Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #RheumatoidArthritis #ChronicPain #Mindfulness #Meditation #Resilience #SelfCare #HealingJourney

Ep 2Joe’s Mental Health Reckoning: Trauma, Anxiety & Recovery
EThis week, we sit down with Joe McQueen, a powerhouse educator and mental health professional who’s spent over two decades working with youth that the world often turns away from. Joe doesn’t just talk the talk — he’s in the trenches daily, helping young people navigate trauma, crisis, and the messy reality of mental health struggles. As a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 2 million downloads, we’re honored to bring you another raw, eye-opening conversation that pulls no punches. Joe’s work through Therapeutic Perspectives LLC is grounded in real-life experience, not just theory. His approach to trauma-informed de-escalation, restorative practices, and mental health education for schools changes the way teachers, parents, and youth workers connect with kids who are hurting. In this episode, we unpack how trauma shapes behavior, why relationships matter more than rules, and how empathy can literally save lives. 🧠 “The kids who need love the most will ask for it in the most unloving ways.” — Unknown If you’ve ever felt burned out, frustrated, or helpless working with youth, this one’s for you. Joe’s message: hope lives in hard work. 👉 Drop your thoughts or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Meet Our Guest — Joe McQueen Joe McQueen has spent over 20 years working in education and mental health, dedicating his life to helping the youth others send away. He calls himself “a kid who can relate to the kids I work with every day,” and his passion shows in every training, keynote, and mentoring session. As the founder of Therapeutic Perspectives LLC, Joe delivers trauma-informed de-escalation, restorative practices, and school mental health awareness training that blend research, experience, and heart. He’s also the Author of “Calming Young Minds: Understanding Escalation and De-Escalation in Youth.” 🌐 Website: https://www.theraputicperspectives.com/ 📘 Book: https://www.amazon.com/Calming-Young-Minds-Understanding-Escalation/ 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joseph-mcqueen-360729240/ 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebookcalmingyoungminds/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CalmingYoungMindsBook Key Takeaways Real change in youth work starts with understanding trauma, not punishment. Crisis de-escalation is about connection, not control. Educators need healing, too — burnout is real. Relationships are the foundation of mental wellness in schools. Data doesn’t fix kids — empathy and consistency do. Actionable Items Learn trauma-informed language — replace “What’s wrong with you?” with “What happened to you?” Implement daily check-ins with youth to build safety and trust. Read Joe’s book “Calming Young Minds” for practical de-escalation tools. References Mentioned Calming Young Minds: Understanding Escalation and De-Escalation in Youth – Joe McQueen https://www.theraputicperspectives.com/ Important Chapters (Timestamps + Context) 00:00 – Welcome & Joe’s backstory 08:45 – Growing up “that kid” who gets sent away 16:10 – Why trauma-informed care matters more than policy 23:30 – How burnout shows up in educators and youth workers 31:00 – De-escalation in real time: practical stories from the field 40:20 – Healing through relationships, not consequences 50:00 – Final thoughts: choosing hope daily Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #TraumaInformedCare #YouthMentalHealth #DeEscalation #RestorativePractices #SchoolMentalHealth #Education #BurnoutRecovery #EmpathyMatters #CalmingYoungMinds #TraumaHealing #AnxietySupport #EmotionalWellness #HealingJourney #YouthAdvocacy ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ep 1Mayim Bialik on Anxiety, Recovery & Resilience | Season 14 Premiere
EWelcome to Season 14 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads—and we’re opening with a powerhouse: Mayim Bialik. You know her from Blossom, The Big Bang Theory, and Jeopardy!, but in this conversation, she steps off the stage lights and speaks from the heart. This podcast is proud to be a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award winner (Best Health) and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award winner (Best Mental Health Podcast). With over 2 million downloads, we’re building a global community where mental health conversations are real, raw, and stigma-free. 💬 Got thoughts on this episode? Please leave us a written or voice review: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Quote of the Episode: "No one is alone. And even when we feel alone, there is always a lifeboat." – Mayim Bialik Episode Description In this powerful Season 14 opener, Mayim Bialik gets real about what it was like growing up on Blossom, navigating the pressures of fame, and surviving the harsh criticism that came with life in the spotlight. She opens up about the insecurities behind her confident on-screen characters, the mental health struggles she faced as a teen actor, and the ongoing journey of therapy and self-discovery. We dive into conversations around anxiety, depression, and the stigma of speaking openly about mental illness—especially in families where silence was the norm. Mayim also shares why she started her own podcast, Bialik’s Breakdown, and how her PhD in neuroscience inspired her mission to make mental health conversations more accessible. We explore topics like codependency, addiction, spirituality, and the small joys that keep her grounded (spoiler: cats, cooking, and stickers make the list). From advice for teenagers who feel out of place to the importance of borrowing someone else’s faith in you when your own runs out, this episode is full of wisdom, humor, and raw humanity. It’s not just a celebrity interview—it’s a masterclass in being human, messy and all. Meet Our Guest — Mayim Bialik Mayim Bialik is best known for her lead role as Blossom Russo in the early-1990s NBC television sitcom Blossom. She played the role of Amy Farrah Fowler on the critically acclaimed CBS comedy, The Big Bang Theory, a role for which she received 2 Critics’ Choice Award wins, 4 Emmy nominations and a SAG Award nomination. She served as host of Jeopardy! for 2 seasons, earning her fifth Emmy nomination for her contributions to the iconic show, which won its first Primetime Emmy the year she hosted. In 2021, Bialik wrote and directed the feature film As They Made Us, starring Dustin Hoffman, Candice Bergen, Dianna Agron, and Simon Helberg. She hosts the popular mental health podcast Mayim Bialik’s Breakdown, which has garnered over 60 million downloads. Bialik holds a BS and PhD in Neuroscience from UCLA, and she has authored four books, two of which are New York Times Bestsellers: "Girling Up: How to Be Strong, Smart, and Spectacular" and "Boying Up: How to Be Brave, Bold, and Brilliant." Socials: Instagram: https://instagram.com/missmayim Substack: https://bialikbreakdown.substack.com/ Podcast IG: https://instagram.com/bialikbreakdown Why Mayim matters: This woman is a force. From Blossom to The Big Bang Theory to Jeopardy! to directing films, Mayim’s résumé is stacked—but what makes her matter here is her willingness to get honest about the hard stuff. She has taken her scientific brain, her Hollywood grit, and her own lived experiences to open up conversations that make people feel less alone. That’s the kind of guest who doesn’t just inspire—you feel her words. Key Takeaways Being “quirky” or different doesn’t go away—it just bothers you less with time. Mental health isn’t one-size-fits-all; healing looks different for everyone. Secrets keep us sick—honesty and vulnerability are the keys to connection. Fame doesn’t shield anyone from insecurity or anxiety. Joy often comes from the small, simple things—like cooking, cats, or stickers. Borrowing someone else’s faith in you can be the lifeline you need. Actionable Items Start a gratitude practice—list three small things daily that bring you joy. If you’re struggling, try “speed-dating therapists” until you find one who’s the right fit. Drop the shame: share your truth with someone you trust—you’re only as sick as your secrets. References Mentioned NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness): https://nami.org Mayim Bialik’s Breakdown Podcast: https://www.bialikbreakdown.com Whitney Cummings (on codependency): https://whitneycummings.com Important Chapters [00:02:00] Blossom Days – Mayim opens up about the groundbreaking role and how it shaped conversations on TV. [00:06:15] Tackling Heavy Topics – Behind the scenes of handling episodes on consent, drugs, and family dynamics. [00:15:00] Starting a Mental Health Podcast – Why Mayim launched Bialik’s Breakdown. [00:22:00] Breaking Family Silence – From secrecy to speaking openly about mental health and recovery. [00:36:10] Advice for Young Girls – Wi

Ep 11Lucky 13 Season Ender: G-Rex & Dirty Skittles on Resilience, Healing, and Joy
EWe made it — Season 13 is officially in the books! In this special season ender, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down to reflect on the incredible humans who shared their stories with us this season. This season has been about resilience, rediscovery, and purpose — all of us taking the hard sh!t life throws and turning it into something that helps others. That’s what makes Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, what it is: a place for real talk, no stigma, no judgment. We’re honored to have won the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award (Best Health) and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast) — and with over 2 million downloads, it’s clear this community is growing stronger every day. 💬 We’d love your feedback — leave us a written or voice review here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a ✨ Mental health reminder: “Every time you share your story, you unlock someone else’s prison.” 💸 Grab Your Free $20 Wellness Credit from Maavee We’ve partnered with Maavee, a wellness platform doing amazing things in mental health. How to claim: Click: https://lnk.gomaavee.com/inourheads Use activation code: STG20 (required to unlock the credit) Download the app + explore 🎧 Episode Description ⚠️ Trigger Notice: This episode touches on grief, trauma, and eating disorders. Please take care while listening. If you are struggling or in crisis, dial 988 in the U.S. for immediate support. You are never alone. 💜 This isn’t your average episode — it’s our Season 13 Ender, baby! 🎉 G-Rex and Dirty Skittles kick back and unpack the wild, emotional, and downright inspiring ride this season has been. We revisit each guest, starting with Susan’s gut-wrenching yet powerful three-parter on grief, rolling into Jennifer’s brilliant Moody Monster, Kim’s wisdom on food and emotions, Dr. Paul’s refreshing “whole human” approach to medicine, Laurie’s badass resilience after loss and betrayal, Simon’s late ADHD/autism diagnosis and advocacy work, and Dr. Nina breaking down what our food cravings really mean. This episode is part recap, part gratitude fest, and part pep talk for what’s next. You’ll hear us laugh, reflect, drop a few f-bombs (because duh), and tease Season 14. Think of this one as a highlight reel with heart — a reminder of how far we’ve come as a community and why these stories matter. If you’ve been with us since Episode 1 or you just jumped in this season, this episode ties it all together with a big bow of hope, resilience, and “holy shit, we survived another one.” 💜 👥 Meet Our Guests (Season 13 Lineup) This wasn’t just a season — it was a movement. Our guests shared their most profound truths, and we’re better for it: Susan – Author & speaker who shared her grief journey and healing through faith and community. Jennifer – Creator of Moody Monster, helping kids (and adults!) name and manage emotions. Kim – Food & emotions coach who connected cravings with feelings in new, powerful ways. Dr. Paul – Compassionate physician championing holistic, whole-person medical care. Storm – Survivor, advocate, and total badass turning trauma into empowerment. Simon – Podcaster and advocate for ADHD/autism awareness, helping kids find their voices. Dr. Nina – Psychologist digging deep into emotional eating and healing from the inside out. 🔑 Key Takeaways Sharing your story isn’t just healing for you — it opens doors for others. Emotions and food are deeply connected than we realize. Doctors like Dr. Paul demonstrated that compassion in medicine is still alive. Resilience comes from choosing yourself, even when life kicks you down. ADHD and autism diagnoses in adulthood can bring relief, clarity, and purpose. Grief, anxiety, and trauma don’t define you — they can fuel growth. 🛠️ Actionable Items Practice naming your emotions daily — journaling, art, or even a “Moody Monster” can help. Notice what foods you crave and connect them to the emotions underlying them. Find a community (online, local, or through podcasts like this one) where you can share your story safely. 📚 References Mentioned Jennifer’s Moody Monster tool. Kim’s food-emotion framework (Yucky, Yummy, Savory, Sweet). Dr. Nina’s insights on food cravings and emotions. Simon’s podcast and work with neuro divergent kids. ⏱️ Important Chapters [00:06] Season 13 Wrap Kickoff – G-Rex & Dirty Skittles reflect on a lucky number 13. [06:30] Susan’s Three-Part Story – Grief, faith, and healing through community. [10:30] Jennifer & Moody Monster – Naming emotions and tools for kids and adults. [14:30] Kim’s Food & Emotions – What cravings really mean. [18:20] Dr. Paul’s Holistic Medicine – Doctors who really listen. [21:00] Laurie’s Strength – Divorce, illness, and finding her badass self. [23:30] Simon’s ADHD/Autism Journey – Diagnosis, clarity, and advocacy. [25:40] Dr. Nina on Emotional Eating – The hidden stories behind cravings. [27:30] Gratitude & Season 14 Teaser – A look ahead to what’s coming next. 📢 Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Rememb

Ep 10Dr. Nina on Binge Eating, Emotional Triggers, and Mental Health Recovery
EFood is never the problem—it’s the solution to the problem. That’s the game-changing perspective Dr. Nina Savelle Rocklin brings to this episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. A psychoanalyst, bestselling author, and podcast host, Dr. Nina has made it her mission to help people overcome binge eating and emotional eating by addressing what’s really going on underneath. We’re honored to bring you this conversation fresh off our wins at the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award (Best Health) and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast). With over 2 million downloads, our community is growing—and this talk with Dr. Nina is one you won’t want to miss. We swap stories about food as a form of comfort, donuts as a means of stress relief, and why being harsh to ourselves fuels the cycle. Dr. Nina explains her Food-Mood Formula, demonstrating how cravings indicate underlying needs—whether it’s comfort, anger, or loneliness. She also reminds us that changing our inner dialogue from “you’re not enough” to “I am enough” can transform not just eating habits, but our entire mental health journey. 💬 Share your thoughts after the episode—we want to hear from you! Drop written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a “You can’t tear yourself down and lift yourself up at the same time.” – Dr. Nina Savelle Rocklin Episode Description In this raw and honest conversation, Dr. Nina Savelle Rocklin shares how binge-eating, emotional eating, and food struggles are never about food—they’re about what’s going on beneath the surface. From her Food-Mood Formula to the power of self-compassion, Dr. Nina helps us rethink comfort food, body image, and mental health with tools you can use right away. Keywords: Dr. Nina Savelle Rocklin, binge-eating, emotional eating, mental health podcast, Food-Mood Formula, body image, food freedom, eating disorder recovery, self-compassion, therapy tools Meet Our Guest — Dr. Nina Savelle Rocklin Dr. Nina Savelle Rocklin is a psychoanalyst, author, and podcast host known worldwide for her groundbreaking work in the psychology of eating. As the founder of The Binge Cure Method, she helps people break free from emotional eating, enabling them to feel good in their bodies and lives. Her message—“It’s not what you’re eating, it’s what’s eating at you”—has reached listeners in 57 countries. 🌐 Website: https://drninainc.com/ 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drnina4help/ Why does she matter? Because Dr. Nina isn’t just another “diet culture” expert. She lived through eating disorders herself, healed, and now dedicates her life to showing us that food freedom comes from compassion, not willpower. Key Takeaways Food is rarely the problem—it’s a response to deeper emotional needs. The “Food-Mood Formula” links cravings with emotions such as comfort, anger, or loneliness. Self-criticism fuels destructive cycles; self-compassion opens the door to healing. Success isn’t about “not eating the donut”—it’s about noticing why you want it. Changing inner dialogue from “you” to “I” strengthens self-worth and mental health. Actionable Items Next time you crave food, pause and ask: What’s eating at me? Switch self-talk to first person—replace “You’re not good enough” with “I’m doing my best.” Comfort yourself the way you’d comfort a loved one—use words, not food. References Mentioned Dr. Nina’s book: The Binge Cure: 7 Steps to Outsmart Emotional Eating – https://drninainc.com/ The Binge Cure Journal (Companion Workbook) Podcast: The Binge Cure with Dr. Nina Important Chapters (Timestamps + Context) [00:03:00] Dr. Nina’s journey from “poster child for eating disorders” to psychoanalyst. [00:08:30] Why food is comfort—and why it never solves the real problem. [00:13:30] The story of “Jenna” and how ice cream wasn’t the issue—it was family triggers. [00:16:30] The Food-Mood Formula explained (comfort, filling, crunchy, sweet). [00:26:00] How harsh self-talk drives eating struggles—and how to reframe it. [00:34:00] Body image, culture, and why “beauty is not an achievement.” [00:42:00] Hardest life lessons and the advice Dr. Nina would give her younger self. [00:46:00] Self-care rituals, murder mysteries, and Zane the Great Dane. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #DrNina #EmotionalEating #BingeEatingRecovery #FoodFreedom #EatingDisorderAwareness #FoodMoodFormula #SelfCompassion #BodyImage #StopDietCulture #InnerCritic #TherapyWorks #FoodHealing #MindBodyHealth #Psychoanalysis #PodcastCommunity ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in you

Ep 9The 13 Hour Life Coach: Simon’s Journey with ADHD, Autism, and Healing
EIn this episode, Simon takes us inside his raw and remarkable journey of living with ADHD and autism — from 42 years of silence and memory loss, to discovering his inner voice “Mo,” to building strategies that help him and others thrive. We explore the impact of late diagnosis, the challenges of medication, the healing power of podcasting, and the unexpected ways light language is giving non-speaking autistic kids a voice. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 2 million downloads, we’re here to break stigma, amplify real stories, and remind you that you’re not alone. We want to hear what you think. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote of the Episode "Sometimes the hardest conversations lead us to the deepest healing." — Unknown. What This Episode Is About Simon’s story is both heartbreaking and inspiring. For decades, he lived without memories, struggling with connection and learning. After his ADHD diagnosis in 2019, medication opened the door to memory, understanding, and an inner voice he calls “Mo.” Later, an autism diagnosis layered on even more complexity — and clarity. Through writing The 13 Hour Life Coach, podcasting on AUDHD Me & Mo, and experimenting with light language therapy, Simon has turned pain into purpose. We talk about ADHD strategies, the 13-hour “window of clarity” medication provides, the reality of memory loss, and his deeply vulnerable work helping non-speaking autistic kids begin to communicate. Simon reminds us that healing isn’t linear, that diagnosis doesn’t have to be a dead end, and that even the most brutal truths can become the foundation of purpose. Keywords: ADHD strategies, autism acceptance, late diagnosis, neurodivergence, light language therapy, parenting ADHD, podcast therapy, mental health storytelling Meet Our Guest – Simon Arnold Simon Arnold is the creator of The 13 Hour Life Coach and host of the podcast AUDHD Me & Mo. Diagnosed with ADHD in 2019 and autism in 2023, Simon transformed his struggles into resources for others: 155 ADHD success strategies, an award-winning podcast, and light language therapy sessions for non-speaking autistic kids. 👉 Connect with Simon on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simonarnold-audhd Simon isn’t just teaching strategies—he’s living them. From memory loss to healing breakthroughs, his story demonstrates that even in the most challenging chapters, resilience and creativity can pave the way forward. Key Takeaways How ADHD medication unlocked Simon’s ability to read, remember, and connect. He lives in a 13-hour “window of clarity” each day. How his podcast became therapy and community. The impact of an autism diagnosis later in life. Why does he use light language therapy to support non-speaking autistic kids? Why reframing ADHD and autism narratives is essential for healing. Actionable Items Journal or podcast your own journey to process emotions and track growth. Use checklists and routines to stay grounded and get tasks done. Revisit old notes, writings, or ideas—you may already have your own roadmap. References Mentioned The 13 Hour Life Coach by Simon Arnold (Lulu.com) Podcast: AUDHD Me & Mo Simon’s Stand Store: AUDHD Me & Mo resources Chapters & Timestamps 00:01:00 – ADHD diagnosis and meeting “Mo”00:04:00 – The 13-hour medication window00:08:00 – Writing The 13 Hour Life Coach00:15:00 – Autism diagnosis and its impact00:17:30 – Dragons, light language, and healing work00:25:00 – Why podcasting became Simon’s therapy00:29:30 – Parenting tips for ADHD and autism00:34:20 – Simon’s biggest personal success00:46:00 – Hardest lesson: daily memory loss and contrast Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Love what you hear? Don’t miss a single story. Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads wherever you listen to podcasts. ⭐️ Leave us a rating and review — it helps more people find these powerful conversations.Visit us: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch#ADHD #ADHDAwareness #AutismAcceptance #Neurodivergence #NeurodivergentVoices#HealingJourney #SelfDiscovery #MoAndMe #ParentingADHD #PodcastTherapy#LightLanguageHealing #Resilience #MentalHealthStorytelling #LivingWithADHD #AutismCommunity ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: go

Ep 8Storm Rises, Part 2: From Losing Everything to Taking Her Power Back
EIn Part 2 of our two-part conversation with Storm, we continue uncovering the raw, unfiltered truths behind surviving medical trauma, chronic illness, and emotional isolation — and how one woman pulled herself out of the darkest corners of her life to reclaim her voice, her joy, and her power. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 2 million downloads, we’re here to break stigma, amplify real stories, and remind you that you’re not alone. We want to hear what you think. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote of the Episode "It’s not weak to acknowledge your pain. It’s not weak to share it. And if you don't deal with your sh!t, it will deal with you." — Storm What This Episode Is About In this continuation of Storm’s journey, we dive into what happens after you’ve lost everything — your health, your child, your marriage, your career, and your voice — and how one woman chose to rise. Storm opens up about what it really takes to rebuild a life from rubble. We talk about Medicaid and medical poverty, managing invisible illnesses, grieving family loss, finding community after isolation, healing through music, and learning how to be your own damn hero. Storm doesn’t sugarcoat it: recovery isn’t linear, self-love isn’t easy, and waiting for someone else to save you might keep you stuck. This is a story about owning your truth, speaking it out loud, and refusing to go quietly. Keywords: mental health recovery, chronic illness survivor, toxic relationships, trauma healing, female empowerment, fluoroquinolone toxicity, self-worth, manifestation, emotional resilience Meet Our Guest – Storm Storm is a survivor, a storyteller, and a force of nature. After enduring a catastrophic reaction to a commonly prescribed antibiotic, Storm found herself bedridden, silenced by the medical system, and abandoned by the people who should have stood by her. Her journey took her through the darkest depths of chronic illness, emotional abuse, medical gaslighting, divorce, financial instability, and the heartbreaking estrangement from her only child. But she refused to stay down. Armed with resilience, radical self-talk, and a deep well of inner fire, Storm clawed her way back—physically, mentally, emotionally, and creatively. She transformed pain into purpose, reclaiming her identity as a writer, singer, and woman in full. Through music, manifestation, and unmatched grit, Storm built a new life brick by broken brick. Today, she uses her voice to speak out against medical injustice, normalize hard conversations about mental health, and remind others that it’s never too late to start over. She isn’t just weathering the storm. She is the storm. Key Takeaways Why Storm refused to stay down after losing her son, parents, and partner How grief, anger, and loss can fuel a comeback What “toxic positivity” is and why it’s harmful to healing The importance of building a support circle that truly sees you Why it’s okay not to be okay — and to say so out loud Storm’s thoughts on love, trust, and dating after narcissistic abuse Actionable Items Find your fire. Rediscover the thing that makes you feel alive — creativity, movement, music, anything. Start small. Tiny checkboxes, such as “take a shower” or “go outside,” can help rebuild a routine. Avoid toxic positivity. Surround yourself with people who let you speak your truth. Reclaim your voice. Whether through writing, music, or therapy, your story matters. Rethink your circle. Be around people who make space for your healing, not your silence. Prioritize self-care. It's not optional — it’s survival. References Mentioned Fluoroquinolone toxicity & black box warnings Cipro-induced mitochondrial damage Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome MTHFR genetic mutation Medicaid’s critical role in medical recovery Neuroplasticity exercises for mental healing Music as somatic and emotional therapy The suicide prevention hotline: 988 (USA & Canada) Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Opening: Medicaid, finances, and the fallout03:00 – Breaking bones and breaking cycles07:00 – Losing her son: “What’s the point anymore?”10:00 – Music therapy, friendships, and laughter return14:00 – Losing both parents, and her father's reaction to Cipro17:00 – Calling out the broken healthcare system21:00 – Toxic positivity and the right to speak your truth25:00 – Self-love, empathy, and protecting your energy28:00 – Advice to women: Red flags, financial abuse, and boundaries33:00 – Letter to her younger self: “Never lose who you are”36:00 – The power of self-approval38:00 – Bonus questions: Favorite word, theme song, and lessons learned Subscribe, Rate, and Review! 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Ep 7Storm’s Mental Hell, Part 1: Medical Betrayal, Narcissists & Barely Surviving
EIn this gripping first part of a two-part conversation, we sit down with Storm, a true survivor who endured a catastrophic spiral of chronic illness, medical gaslighting, emotional abandonment, and mental trauma — and lived to tell the story. This episode is a raw, unfiltered look into the devastating impact of fluoroquinolone toxicity, medical betrayal, and what happens when your support system disappears at the exact moment you need it most. "Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads" is an award-winning podcast, honored as the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and growing strong. We want to hear from YOU. Leave us written feedback or a voice message at:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote of the Episode "Find your fire. Everybody's fire is different—but when life burns you to the ground, that fire is how you rise." — Storm What This Episode Is About Storm's story is an intense mental health journey through hell — one filled with physical collapse, emotional devastation, and being completely alone while navigating one of the most misunderstood pharmaceutical injuries of our time. After being poisoned by a commonly prescribed antibiotic, Storm experienced 83 debilitating symptoms in just 36 hours, triggering a near-complete breakdown of her body and mind. Left to rot by a narcissistic partner, dismissed by doctors, and eventually served divorce papers while bedridden, Storm had every reason to give up. But she didn’t. This episode is an honest and emotional conversation about surviving when survival feels impossible, navigating the fallout of medical abuse, and the gritty, daily work of rebuilding your identity from the ground up. Keywords: fluoroquinolone toxicity, chronic illness, medical gaslighting, narcissistic abuse, divorce, isolation, mental health recovery, female empowerment, resilience, trauma survival Meet Our Guest – Storm Storm is a survivor, a storyteller, and a force of nature. After enduring a catastrophic reaction to a commonly prescribed antibiotic, Storm found herself bedridden, silenced by the medical system, and abandoned by the people who should have stood by her. Her journey took her through the darkest depths of chronic illness, emotional abuse, medical gaslighting, divorce, financial instability, and the heartbreaking estrangement from her only child. But she refused to stay down. Armed with resilience, radical self-talk, and a deep well of inner fire, Storm clawed her way back—physically, mentally, emotionally, and creatively. She transformed pain into purpose, reclaiming her identity as a writer, singer, and woman in full. Through music, manifestation, and unmatched grit, Storm built a new life brick by broken brick. Today, she uses her voice to speak out against medical injustice, normalize hard conversations about mental health, and remind others that it’s never too late to start over. She isn’t just weathering the storm. She is the storm. Key Takeaways How fluoroquinolone antibiotics can cause long-term neurological and physiological damage Why narcissistic abuse and emotional abandonment amplify mental health struggles The role of manifestation, mindset, and micro-goals in recovery How to reclaim your identity after medical trauma and relationship loss Why medical gaslighting is a real and dangerous experience, especially for women Actionable Items Ask questions about your prescriptions — Know what drug class you're being given, especially if it's a fluoroquinolone. Track your symptoms — Even if doctors dismiss you, document everything. Join a support group — Seek out communities that understand what you're going through. Start a tiny goals journal — Storm began her comeback with daily goals like “stand for 10 minutes.” Focus on one fire — Whether it's music, art, writing, or walks, find what lights you up and lean into it. References Mentioned Cipro and fluoroquinolone toxicity Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome MTHFR genetic mutation Functional medicine and gut-brain connection Returnship programs for women in tech and marketing ReverbNation music platform Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: Meet Storm00:47 – “This is going to be a sad story, but there's a happy ending”02:00 – Storm’s medical collapse begins06:00 – The Cipro connection and tendon rupture risks10:30 – Ehlers-Danlos syndrome and fluoroquinolone dangers13:00 – The loneliness of chronic illness and abandonment17:00 – Divorce while bedridden22:00 – Storm’s son and mental health collapse28:00 – How isolation led to internal healing30:00 – Music, manifestation, and the comeback begins35:00 – From bedridden to rebuilding a career37:00 – Next: Finding her voice again Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Love what you hear? 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Ep 6The Dr. Paul Show: Mental Health, Suicide Prevention, and Healing Stories
EEpisode Summary This powerful episode features Dr. Paul Corona, MD — known as The Doctor for Depression — who joins hosts G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a deep conversation on mental health, suicide prevention, and the future of integrative care. With over 30 years of clinical experience and a mission rooted in compassion, Dr. Paul shares real-life stories, expert strategies, and a revolutionary mind-body approach that is changing lives. We also take a look at how outdated medical education and mental health stigma are failing patients — and what Dr. Paul is doing to train the next generation of doctors. 🎉 We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast — with over 2 million downloads! 💬 We want to hear from you! Please share your feedback or leave us a voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. 🧠 Quote of the Episode “Mental illness is a medical problem, a neurological problem in our brains, and it’s real.” – Dr. Paul Corona Meet Our Guest: Dr. Paul Corona, MD Dr. Paul is a trailblazer in the field of mental health who pivoted from traditional family medicine to develop an innovative and deeply personalized approach to healing. Known for his “Mind-Body Healing” method, Dr. Paul treats emotional distress as a whole-body experience—addressing neurochemical imbalances, lifestyle, and trauma, rather than masking symptoms. He's also the author of Healing the Mind and Body (Volumes 1–3) and The Corona Protocol—a groundbreaking book tackling addiction, suicide, school shootings, and more through a scientific yet human-centered lens. 🔗 Website: https://drpaulcoronamd.com/ 🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drpaulcoronamd/ 🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpaulcoronamd/ 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-corona-b090669a/ 📺 The Dr. Paul Show (YouTube & Roku): search “thedrpaulshow” as one word Keywords Mental health, suicide prevention, integrative psychiatry, mind-body medicine, Dr. Paul Corona, depression treatment, holistic mental health, anxiety, healing stories, trauma, mental illness stigma, personalized mental health care, medication and therapy, neurochemical imbalance Key Takeaways Mental illness is not weakness. It’s a treatable medical condition rooted in neurochemistry. Pills aren't always the answer. Effective mental health care must be personalized and holistic. Stigma kills. Many patients suffer in silence or are misdiagnosed due to outdated practices. Rural areas are suffering. Lack of access and education worsens the crisis. There is always hope. Dr. Paul’s mission is to restore that hope, one patient at a time. Actionable Items Don’t accept “a little better” — push for full recovery. Seek doctors who listen, not rush. Explore various treatment modalities, including medication, therapy, movement, and rest. Advocate for yourself — keep looking until you find the proper support. Read The Corona Protocol for guidance on healing and advocacy. Episode Chapters 00:00:06 – Intro & Welcome 00:01:01 – Meet Dr. Paul 00:02:43 – Mental Illness is Real: Fighting Stigma 00:04:12 – Dr. Paul’s Passion & Path 00:06:07 – About The Corona Protocol 00:09:10 – Why Doctors Miss the Mark 00:12:51 – Physical Health & Mental Health: The Connection 00:18:05 – The Power of Listening in Medicine 00:22:15 – Healing, Access & Hope 00:30:00 – Global Mental Health Crisis 00:35:00 – Self-Care for Caregivers 00:42:00 – About the Dr. Paul Show & Final Thoughts Resources & References 📘 Healing the Mind and Body Vols 1–3 – by Dr. Paul Corona 📘 The Corona Protocol – A scientifically grounded guide to mental wellness 📺 The Dr. Paul Show – www.youtube.com/@thedrpaulshow 📞 Dr. Paul’s Office: (949) 481-0118 Subscribe, Rate & Review! Love this episode? Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads on your favorite platform, and leave us a review! It helps others find the show and join our mental health movement. 🌐 Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Connect with Us 🌐 Website: https://www.goesoninourheads.net 📧 Newsletter: https://sh-t-that-goes-on-in-our-heads.ck.page/profile #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads #MentalHealthPodcast #DrPaulCorona #MentalHealthAwareness #TheDrPaulShow #MindBodyMedicine #HolisticHealth #DepressionSupport #SuicidePrevention #HealingStories #EndTheStigma #Neurochemistry #TraumaInformedCare #MentalWellness #AnxietyRelief #DirtySkittles #Grex #Podmatch #PodcastLife #HealthPodcast #BreakTheStigma ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and

Ep 5From Betrayal to Breakthrough: Kim’s Mental Health Journey Through Interoception
EKim Korte, creator of the Sensory Sync Method, joins us to discuss how understanding the "ingredients" of our emotions can transform the way we live, heal, and connect. From personal betrayal to emotional empowerment, Kim’s story is both relatable and transformative. She introduces listeners to the concept of interoception—our internal sense of emotion—and how to use it to reclaim emotional agency. “We construct our emotions, and understanding the ingredients can give us autonomy over our lives.” 💬 Share your thoughts or voice message: castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🎧 Over 2M downloads | 2024 People’s Choice & Best Mental Health Podcast (Women in Podcasting Awards) Keywords for SEO interoception, emotional intelligence, mental health podcast, emotional awareness, emotion management, personal growth, neuroscience, self-awareness, emotional healing, Kim Korte Meet the Guest: Kim Korte Kim is a Perception and Emotion Management Strategist and creator of the Sensory Sync Method™. This unique framework teaches people how to break down emotions like recipes—identifying, adjusting, and managing the “ingredients” that shape their internal world. Book: Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet: Understanding the Flavors of Emotions Website: sensorysyncmethod.com IG: @thekimkorte LinkedIn: Kim Korte YouTube: The Kim Korte Channel Episode Takeaways Emotions function like recipes—with changeable ingredients Interoception helps us “catch” feelings before reacting Writing unlocks subconscious insight and emotional clarity You can’t feel joy and anger at the same time—so choose wisely Learning to love the unlovable frees up emotional space Action Items Practice interoception: Tune into physical sensations tied to emotion Use journaling for subconscious clarity—no editing Identify emotional triggers by labeling your feelings Redirect focus toward what brings joy or relief Dive into Kim’s Sensory Sync Method™ for structure and support Timestamps [00:00] Welcome & Intro [00:02] Meet Kim Korte [00:06] What is Interoception? [00:12] Emotions = Recipes [00:20] How Past Trauma Shapes Present Feelings [00:30] Managing Emotions with Intention [00:40] Writing as Therapy [00:50] Wrap-Up & Resources Referenced in This Episode Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet by Kim Korte How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett Subscribe, Rate & Review Don’t miss future episodes! ✅ Subscribe 🌟 Leave a Review #MentalHealthPodcast #EmotionalAwareness #HealingJourney #SensorySyncMethod #WritingTherapy #Interoception #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfCare #Mindfulness #KimKorte #Neuroscience #PersonalGrowth #DirtySkittles #GRex #Podmatch #MentalHealthMatters #NormalizeTherapy ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ep 4Jennifer’s Story: Breaking the Stigma of Therapy, Trauma, and Emotional Healing
EThis powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads brings you the raw, honest, and resilient story of Jennifer Ginty—entrepreneur, mental health advocate, and founder of My Moody Monster. Jen lives with Complex PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder stemming from childhood trauma, and she shares how she finally faced her emotional pain, built a healing team, and created tools to help kids and adults express emotions in healthy ways. We are proud to share that our podcast is the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast—with over 2 million downloads worldwide. Please help us continue to grow and improve: leave your feedback (written or as a voice message) at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Mental Health Quote of the Episode "Control isn’t necessary for life. You don’t need control to live a happy, healthy life." – Jennifer Ginty What You’ll Hear in This Episode In this episode, Jennifer opens up about years of postponing her healing journey, confronting her abuser, and navigating the deep emotional weight of trauma, motherhood, and identity loss. We explore: What triggered her decision to heal finally Her experience with inpatient care and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) Creating My Moody Monster, a tool for emotional regulation How generational trauma and people-pleasing behaviors held her back Raising children with mental health challenges The importance of creating a personalized support team SEO Keywords: trauma recovery, emotional healing, PTSD, mental health podcast, childhood trauma, therapy journey, DBT, emotional regulation, parenting mental health, My Moody Monster, coping skills for kids, mental wellness, breaking the stigma, women’s mental health Meet Jennifer Ginty Jennifer is the founder of My Moody Monster, a therapeutic plush toy designed to help children express emotions through physical play. Diagnosed with Complex PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder, Jennifer built a support team, embraced inpatient therapy at McLean Hospital, and now shares her story to help others begin their healing. She also hosts the When Not Yet Becomes Right Now podcast—born from the realization that the right time to heal is now. Website: https://www.mymoodymonster.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymoodymonster/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mymoodymonster BlueSky: @mymoodymonster.bsky.social YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mymoodymonster TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@mymoodymonster Key Takeaways Healing takes readiness, not permission — It’s okay to say “not yet,” until your mind says “right now.” Coping skills must be practiced before you need them — Just like muscles, emotional regulation tools require repetition. Kids need emotional tools too — Jennifer’s My Moody Monster is a creative, tactile way to help children express and understand emotions. Actionable Tools DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) — Focus on mindfulness, emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance. Build your therapy team — Don’t settle for the wrong therapist. Speed-date until you find the right fit. Coping Skill Tools — Try frozen washcloths, modeling clay with essential oils, or tools like My Moody Monster to interrupt intense emotional spirals. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:00] Intro: Welcome to our award-winning show [01:10] Jennifer’s journey begins – Trauma, college, and “not yet” moments [02:57] The breaking point: Bankruptcy, identity loss, and finally saying “right now” [06:38] Confronting her abuser and community shame [10:09] Motherhood and mental health—her son’s early suicidal ideation [15:57] Barriers to mental health care access and insurance frustrations [20:52] DBT & McLean Hospital: Building her mental health toolkit [26:05] Real-time coping tools (box breathing, frozen towels, modeling clay) [30:22] The birth of Moody: Creating an emotional outlet [34:06] The love letter: Why Moody is a symbol of hope and self-compassion [36:51] Learning to accept love and let go of control [40:37] Bonus Questions: Her anxiety theme song, tattoos, and the word she hates References & Mentions McLean Hospital – Premier mental health hospital: https://www.mcleanhospital.org/ DBT Therapy Overview: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/dialectical-behavior-therapy Crayola Model Magic Clay – Great tactile tool: https://shop.crayola.com/modeling/model-magic My Moody Monster: https://www.mymoodymonster.com Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Enjoying Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads? Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback fuels our mission. You can also leave us a message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Visit our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Let’s continue breaking the silence around mental health—together. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #TraumaHealing #CPTSDRecovery #MyMoody

Ep 3Choosing Peace Over Pain: Susan’s Story of Boundaries and Breakthroughs (Part 3 of 3)
EWhat does it really mean to choose peace—especially when it means letting go of family? In the final part of Susan Snow’s gripping three-part series, we witness the hard-won clarity that comes after trauma, truth-telling, and transformation. This conversation dives into toxic family dynamics, radical self-worth, and the freeing power of walking away from what no longer serves your mental health. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and a loyal global audience. We’re breaking stigma, one honest story at a time. We’d love your feedback. Leave us a written message or voice note at:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "Just because they gave birth to you doesn’t mean you owe them a relationship—especially when that relationship threatens your peace." — Susan Snow. Episode Summary: This episode is about confronting hard truths, establishing healthy boundaries, and the emotional freedom that comes from prioritizing our mental health over lifelong dysfunction. Susan Snow reflects on the moment she was written out of her mother’s will—and why she still chose peace. She shares how understanding her self-worth allowed her to walk away without hate, guilt, or shame. Susan and the hosts explore how generational trauma, guilt-based parenting, and enabling behaviors can trap us in cycles of self-doubt. With courage, grace, and deep empathy, Susan discusses walking away from a toxic parent, standing in her truth, and becoming the mother, partner, and coach she always hoped to be. SEO Keywords: mental health boundaries, toxic family relationships, PTSD recovery, trauma coaching, choosing peace, mother-daughter estrangement, emotional freedom, forgiveness and healing, Susan Snow, journaling for mental health Meet Susan Snow Susan Snow is a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose life story shines as a beacon of healing and hope. At just 17, Susan’s world was shattered when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered on Halloween night in 1985. That moment changed everything, pulling her into the depths of grief and trauma. In the years that followed, Susan faced PTSD, loss, and the long, complicated process of rebuilding her life. But instead of letting the darkness define her, she turned her pain into purpose. By embracing vulnerability and speaking her truth, she has shown that healing is possible—even after unimaginable events. Today, Susan is the Author of a profoundly moving book that reminds us of two powerful truths: life can change in an instant, and recovery is always within reach. Whether speaking on stage or connecting through virtual events, Susan doesn’t just share her story—she invites people into it. She creates space for others to see themselves, to grieve, to forgive, and to find their own resilience. Her signature talks, “Other Side of the Gun: Hope Through the Journey of Grief, PTSD, and Empowerment” and “Forgiveness vs. Forgetting,” go beyond inspiration. They offer honest guidance, compassion, and a roadmap for choosing hope over pain. Connect with Susan:Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_snow1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/SusanSnowTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@susansnow1lifecoachYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/susansnowspeaks2023 3 Key Takeaways: Boundaries are an act of self-respect, not betrayal—especially when they protect your mental health. Self-worth is learned through action, not just affirmation. You can love someone and still choose to walk away. Actionable Items: Practice gratitude journaling each morning—focus on 3 things you’re thankful for and why. Protect your peace by naming what feels toxic, even if others don’t understand. Use curiosity instead of judgment when reacting to others—you never know what pain they’re carrying. Chapters & Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome to Part 3Susan returns for the final part of her mental health story. [01:00] The Will and the Wake-Up CallSusan finds out she’s been cut from her mother’s will—and why it brought clarity, not conflict. [06:00] Walking Away Without HateA powerful reflection on choosing peace, not pain, even with a parent. [13:00] “I Am My Father’s Daughter”Susan shares how her dad’s legacy guides her work and her identity today. [20:00] Helping Others Through Her PurposeSusan recounts helping a young LGBTQ+ father reconnect with gratitude and healing. [28:00] Healing Is Not LinearGrief, healing, and joy are allowed to coexist. Susan explains why. [34:00] The Future of Healing and SpeakingSusan’s message to anyone feeling stuck: You are not alone, and your story has power. [41:00] Lightning Round FunTheme songs, favorite words, and emotional takeaways. [42:50] How to Find Susan + Final WordsLinks, book info, and what’s next for Susan Snow. References & Resources: Susan Snow’s book: The Other Side of the Gun: My J

Ep 2Healing from Extreme Trauma: Susan’s Story of Strength and Transformation (Part 2 of 3)
ESome stories leave you breathless. This is one of them. In Part 2 of our raw, deeply human conversation with Susan Snow, we continue exploring how trauma reshapes a life—and how healing is always possible with the proper support, tools, and truth. Susan opens up about living with PTSD, learning to trust again, and the small but powerful steps that began her transformation. Welcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads—your space for honest, gritty, and healing conversations around mental health. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and counting. We’d love your feedback!Visit https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a to leave us a message or written input. "Healing is not an ego thing. It's the bravest, most necessary thing you'll ever do." — Susan Snow. Episode Summary: In this emotionally rich second installment, Susan Snow shares the real work of healing from complex PTSD, extreme trauma, and generational wounds. After a tragic and violent loss changed her world at 17, Susan opens up about her years-long battle with anxiety, insomnia, and panic—and how finding the right therapist finally gave her hope. This episode covers critical mental health topics, including trauma recovery, journaling for sleep, breathwork, emotional boundaries, forgiveness, and how to build a support system when you feel entirely alone. Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or helping someone else through theirs, Susan’s story is your reminder that hope is real—and transformation is possible. SEO Keywords: PTSD recovery, trauma healing, journaling and sleep, panic attacks, breathwork therapy, finding the right therapist, mental health podcast, grief recovery, trauma coaching, emotional boundaries, Susan Snow Meet Susan Snow Susan Snow is a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose life story shines as a beacon of healing and hope. At just 17, Susan’s world was shattered when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered on Halloween night in 1985. That moment changed everything, pulling her into the depths of grief and trauma. In the years that followed, Susan faced PTSD, loss, and the long, complicated process of rebuilding her life. But instead of letting the darkness define her, she turned her pain into purpose. By embracing vulnerability and speaking her truth, she has shown that healing is possible—even after unimaginable events. Today, Susan is the Author of a profoundly moving book that reminds us of two powerful truths: life can change in an instant, and recovery is always within reach. Whether speaking on stage or connecting through virtual events, Susan doesn’t just share her story—she invites people into it. She creates space for others to see themselves, to grieve, to forgive, and to find their own resilience. Her signature talks, “Other Side of the Gun: Hope Through the Journey of Grief, PTSD, and Empowerment” and “Forgiveness vs. Forgetting,” go beyond inspiration. They offer honest guidance, compassion, and a roadmap for choosing hope over pain. Connect with Susan:Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_snow1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/SusanSnowTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@susansnow1lifecoachYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/susansnowspeaks2023 Key Takeaways: Healing is a personal journey, not a one-size-fits-all process—you must find the right therapist for your trauma. Journaling can be a game-changer in managing anxiety and improving sleep, especially when done before bed. Boundaries, forgiveness, and coaching are powerful tools in healing both yourself and your relationships. Actionable Items: Try expressive journaling nightly—write without censoring or editing, especially before bed. Practice box breathing or tapping to manage panic attacks and regulate your nervous system. Interview your therapist—ask about their specialties and be willing to walk away if it’s not the right fit. Episode Chapters & Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome + Recap of Part 1G-Rex and Dirty Skittles introduce Part 2 of Susan’s story. [01:00] When Therapy Finally WorkedSusan explains how a therapist specializing in trauma and PTSD changed her life. [06:00] Journaling to Sleep AgainSusan shares how nighttime journaling helped her escape anxiety-induced insomnia. [09:00] Breathwork, Tapping & Nervous System RegulationEarly tools Susan learned that helped control panic attacks and stress. [17:00] Rewriting Patterns: Coaching and BoundariesSusan’s mindset shift through coaching and powerful conversations about forgiveness. [23:00] From Pain to PurposeHow healing led Susan to write her memoir and step into her life’s mission. [35:00] Facing the Fear of Telling Her StorySusan talks about the fear of publishing her book—and doing it anyway. References & Resources Mentioned: Susan Snow’s website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ 988 Suici

Ep 1Finding Strength in Struggles: Susan’s Mental Health Story (Part 1 of 3)
EWelcome to Season 13 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the award-winning podcast that normalizes mental health conversations with raw honesty, laughter, and connection. This episode kicks off a robust three-part conversation with Susan Snow, a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose story embodies resilience, forgiveness, and hope in the face of trauma. At just 17, Susan’s world was forever changed when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered. She faced PTSD, grief, and unimaginable loss, but ultimately chose to transform her pain into purpose. We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads worldwide. We’d love your feedback on this episode. Please visit https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a to share your thoughts or leave us a voice message. Mental Health Quote"I feel like that night I lost my dad, I lost my mom too—but in the end, I chose not to live as a victim. I chose to live with hope." – Susan Snow What This Episode is About In this first part of Susan’s journey, we explore the lasting impact of sudden loss, the invisible weight of PTSD, and the survival instincts that shaped her teenage years. Susan’s story highlights the importance of mental health awareness, resilience after trauma, and the lifelong pursuit of healing. This episode serves as a potent reminder that life can change in an instant, but recovery and hope are always attainable. Keywords for SEO: Susan Snow, mental health podcast, PTSD recovery, resilience after trauma, grief and healing, LAPD, forgiveness, empowerment, emotional resilience, mental health awareness, hope after loss Meet Susan Snow Susan Snow is a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose life story shines as a beacon of healing and hope. At 17, Susan’s life was torn apart when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered. In the years that followed, she faced PTSD, loss, and the long road of rebuilding her life. Rather than staying in the shadows, Susan found her strength in vulnerability and turned her pain into purpose. Today, Susan is the Author of a profoundly moving book and a nationally recognized speaker. Through her signature talks—“Other Side of the Gun: Hope Through the Journey of Grief, PTSD, and Empowerment” and “Forgiveness vs. Forgetting”—Susan shares her story to help others discover resilience, forgiveness, and the power of choosing hope. Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_snow1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/SusanSnow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@susansnow1lifecoach YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/susansnowspeaks2023 Key Takeaways Trauma can reshape our lives, but healing is always possible with the proper support. Vulnerability and honesty are powerful tools for recovery and connection. Choosing hope and resilience over victimhood creates space for forgiveness and growth. Actionable Items from This Episode Write down one way you can create a safe space for someone in your life who may be grieving or struggling. Consider seeking therapy or support if you’ve experienced trauma—healing begins with asking for help. Practice one act of forgiveness this week, whether toward yourself or someone else. Episode Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Season 13: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles kick off with energy and purpose. 01:00 – Introducing Susan Snow: Susan shares her background and the tragic event that shaped her life. 05:00 – The Day Everything Changed: The night her father was ambushed and murdered. 12:00 – Navigating Trauma in Silence: Growing up with PTSD in a time when mental health wasn’t discussed. 20:00 – Coping, Masking, and Survival: How Susan built an emotional mask to get through her teenage years. 30:00 – Breaking Cycles and Finding Purpose: Susan’s determination to parent differently and rewrite her story. 40:00 – Closing Reflections: Lessons from pain, resilience, and the ongoing process of healing. References Susan Snow’s Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ Book & Speaking Engagements: Available via her website Mental Health Resources: https://988lifeline.org Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss the rest of Susan’s powerful story in this three-part series. Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more inspiring conversations. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform or share your thoughts directly at:https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GriefRecovery #PTSDRecovery #HealingJourney #Resilience #Forgiveness #HopeAfterLoss #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #PodcastCommunity #AwardWinningPodcast #TraumaHealing #SusanSnow #MentalHealthSupport #PodcastSeason13 #BleavNetwork #HealingThroughStories #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf

Ep 12Mental Health Breakthroughs: Lessons, Laughter & Growth from Season 12
EIn this heartfelt Season 12 ender, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles reflect on a season filled with powerful mental health conversations—from navigating grief and trauma to celebrating resilience, growth, and the healing power of laughter. Whether you’ve been with us since the beginning or just discovered us, this recap hits home with lessons that stay with you long after the mic cuts off. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the Best Mental Health Podcast at the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards 🏆🏆. With over 2 million downloads and counting, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads continues to break the stigma one conversation at a time. 💬 Got thoughts about this episode? We’d love your feedback—drop us a written message or voice note here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🧠 Mental Health Quote of the Week "You don’t have to fix everything in one day. Whatever helps you get to the next minute, the next hour, or the next day—do that." — G-Rex What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeThis Season 12 finale is packed with powerful reflections on mental health, emotional healing, and personal growth from some of the most moving conversations we've had all year. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles revisit each guest from the season, sharing real talk and raw takeaways for anyone dealing with anxiety, grief, burnout, trauma, depression, or recovery. You’ll hear firsthand stories about surviving suicidal ideation, overcoming addiction, embracing journaling, healing from childhood trauma, and navigating perimenopause with compassion. The episode also explores emotional regulation, boundary setting, plant medicine experiences, and the caregiver perspective on mental illness. With a mix of deep insights and lighthearted laughter, this is a must-listen for those seeking emotional resilience, healing tools, and relatable voices in the mental health space. 🎧 Meet Our Season 12 Guests & What They Taught Us Kate Key Takeaways: Burnout is a message—listen before it screams. Your brain and heart must work together for true well-being. Action Items: Set a daily check-in to evaluate your emotional boundaries. Try heart-focused breathing as a grounding practice. Tim Key Takeaways: Masculinity and vulnerability can (and should) coexist. Healing yourself is essential before guiding others. Action Items: Reflect on your self-worth beyond your profession. Have an honest check-in with a male friend or mentor. Richard Key Takeaways: Addiction recovery is possible through love and purpose. Creating safe spaces saves lives. Action Items: Support a local recovery center by volunteering or making a donation. Begin a daily gratitude practice focused on your healing journey. Marie Key Takeaways: Grief doesn’t end love—it evolves it. You can choose light, even in darkness. Action Items: Write a letter to someone you’ve lost. Begin a ritual (like lighting a candle) to honor grief. Melissa Key Takeaways: Plant medicine can help unlock buried trauma. True healing requires trust and surrender. Action Items: Research trauma-informed ayahuasca retreats. Start a journal to record your emotional blocks and breakthroughs. Beth & Noel Key Takeaways: DBT and mindfulness are powerful in long-term recovery. Caregiving impacts mental health—and deserves its support. Action Items: Create a self-care routine for both partners. Explore caregiver-specific support groups and DBT tools. Amita Key Takeaways: Menopause is a new chapter, not the end of your story. Mindfulness and holistic care help women reclaim this stage. Action Items: Visit https://nourishdoc.com for curated wellness support. Track your symptoms mindfully using journaling or a dedicated app. Leigh Key Takeaways: Journaling is one of the most accessible healing tools. Expressive writing brings clarity and emotional release. Action Items: Begin a “3-minute check-in” journal daily. Use emojis or color codes to reflect your mood. Emily Key Takeaways: Surviving trauma gives you the power to support others. Speaking out is the first step to breaking stigma. Action Items: Learn more about the 988 Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org Share that number with others in your life—it could save someone. Special Shout-Out: Women Supporting WomenLight Your Story, Fuel Your FireMeet Amy Nubson of Nufire Collective—where brand clarity meets soul strategy. Her “Rebrand You” framework empowers individuals to unlock their voice and own their worth.🎟️ Don’t miss her virtual workshop: Exploring Your Origin Story on August 20🌐 Learn More: https://nufirecollective.com/ From the Hosts: G-Rex & Dirty SkittlesHost Reflections: Dirty Skittles shares how a 30-minute paint exercise became a life-changing anxiety tool—and how she’s found healing through curiosity, WWI love letters, and gaming. G-Rex opens up about the lifesaving role of boundaries, therapy, laughter, and even a daily raccoon video habit. The duo gets honest about podcasting challenges, co-hosting wins, and the episodes that

Ep 11Life After the Attempt: Emily's Road to Recovery Pt 2
ETrigger Warning: This episode includes open and honest discussions about suicide attempts, mental illness, emotional abuse, and childhood trauma. Please listen with care. In this Part 2 of a 2-part series, we reconnect with Emily as she shares what life has looked like since her last suicide attempt—unpacking what real recovery feels like when it’s layered with parenting, relationship trauma, childhood emotional neglect, and navigating the pressure to “look okay” on the outside. This is a story about fighting to stay, even when your brain tries to convince you otherwise. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads across more than 100 countries. We’re here to normalize mental health conversations through laughter, truth-telling, and a whole lot of heart. We want to hear your thoughts on this episode: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a You can leave a voice message or a written note. We listen to all of them. “I’m not proud of my story because it’s pretty—it’s ugly. But I’m proud I’m still here.” — Emily What This Episode is About Emily opens up about what came next after the suicide attempts, what healing looks like on the ground level, and the daily work it takes to quiet the internalized voices of shame. She talks about masking, being in survival mode, and the confusion of being a high-functioning person with severe depression. You’ll also hear about her struggles in romantic relationships, what it felt like to have emotional abuse reinforced in adulthood, and how becoming a parent inspired her to change the narrative in her family line. SEO Keywords: Suicide attempt recovery, high-functioning depression, emotional abuse, trauma-informed parenting, mental health support, post-attempt healing, invisible pain, self-worth, generational trauma, PTSD recovery, inner child work, coping with shame, childhood emotional neglect Meet Our Guest: Emily Emily is a trauma survivor, a nurse, a mother, and a woman doing the hard work to heal while still showing up for everyone else. In Part 1, she shared her early struggles with mental illness, beginning with cutting at age 11 and two suicide attempts before she turned 21. In this episode, she takes us deeper into the “after”—into the quiet, messy, nonlinear work of recovery. She explains how her trauma carried into her adult relationships, how she learned to identify emotional abuse in real-time, and how she’s slowly starting to believe she is worthy of being loved without condition. Emily’s story is not tied up in a neat little bow—and that’s precisely why it matters. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmiewillyy/ 3 Key Takeaways You can look “fine” and still be in survival mode. High-functioning depression is real. Unresolved childhood trauma can impact every adult relationship. But awareness is power. Recovery is daily work. It’s not a one-time decision; it’s a commitment to stay. Actionable Items Use grounding tools when shame kicks in—like naming your feeling out loud or writing it down. Audit your relationships for emotional safety: Do they help you grow or keep you in patterns? If you’re struggling, reach out to someone. You don’t have to wait until you're in crisis to ask for help. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:01:22] Living With the Aftermath Emily reflects on what life looked like after her second attempt and why she thought she had to act “fine.” [00:04:45] The Masking We Learn The dangers of pretending everything is okay, even when it’s not—and how people missed the signs. [00:09:12] Surviving Toxic Love Emily shares her experience with emotionally abusive relationships and how it mirrored her childhood. [00:21:30] Parenting as a Cycle Breaker What she’s doing differently to raise her daughter with emotional honesty and safety. [00:29:55] Healing Isn’t Pretty The real, gritty parts of staying alive—and staying connected to yourself. References 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – https://988lifeline.org The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo BetterHelp Online Therapy – https://www.betterhelp.com Mental Health America – https://mhanational.org Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or drop your feedback at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #TraumaRecovery #SuicideAttemptSurvivor #Grex #DirtySkittles #PostAttemptRecovery #BreakTheStigma #ParentingWithTrauma #HealingIsMessy #RealConversations #GenerationalHealing #InvisiblePain #YouMatter #PodcastForHealing #ItsOkayToNotBeOkay #ShameResilience #EmotionalAbuseAwareness #Podmatch #HighFunctioningDepression ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing ment

Ep 10From Hiding to Healing: Emily’s Mental Health Journey- Pt 1
ETrigger Warning: This episode includes honest discussions of depression, self-harm, suicide attempts, trauma, and emotional neglect. Please listen with care. In this Part 1 of a 2-part series, we sit down with Emily, a brave and thoughtful guest who opens up about her early struggles with depression, self-harm, and suicide attempts—and how she’s navigating healing while parenting, working in healthcare, and showing up for herself. This episode is packed with vulnerability, insight, and hope. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads across more than 100 countries. We’re on a mission to normalize mental health conversations by keeping it real, raw, and full of heart. We’d love to hear your feedback on this episode: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Leave us a voice message or written note—your input helps us maintain this space as honest and supportive as possible. “I didn’t want to die—I just didn’t want to feel the way I was feeling anymore.” – Emily What This Episode is About Emily shares her deeply personal mental health journey—from childhood trauma and generational depression to two suicide attempts before the age of 21. She opens up about masking her pain, learning to recognize her triggers, and trying to raise her daughter differently, with emotional safety and open conversation at the core. Topics covered include: Surviving major depression Suicide prevention and recovery Parenting with trauma awareness The long tail of childhood emotional neglect The importance of support systems and safe spaces SEO Keywords: Mental health journey, depression survival story, suicide prevention, parenting with trauma, mental health awareness, generational trauma, triggers, healing from abuse, recovery, living with depression, emotional support, self-worth, 988 lifeline Meet Our Guest: Emily Emily is a registered nurse, a survivor, and a mom raising her daughter with the emotional validation she never received as a child. Her mental health journey began at just 11 years old, when she first experienced the weight of emotional pain without words to explain it. Self-harm and isolation followed, eventually leading to two suicide attempts—one during her freshman year of college and another at 20 years old. Despite surviving those moments, Emily was met with silence and shame instead of support. She speaks candidly about being the only young person in a psychiatric unit, about nurses treating her with judgment instead of compassion, and about the decades-long work of learning to feel worthy of love. Her healing is ongoing. And she doesn't pretend otherwise. Emily also talks about being the child of young parents who were navigating their own recovery and mental health challenges—and how that shaped her understanding of love, trust, and emotional connection. Today, she’s raising her daughter with intention, focusing on emotional safety, validating feelings, and breaking generational cycles. She’s also working in healthcare, where she uses her lived experience to bring compassion and awareness into patient care. Her story is messy, raw, honest, and incredibly powerful. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmiewillyy/ Key Takeaways Healing is not linear. You can still struggle and still be healing—those truths can coexist. Emotional neglect leaves deep scars. Silence around mental health in childhood often echoes into adulthood. Showing up imperfectly is still powerful, especially for those we love. Actionable Items Save the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in your phone—and share it with someone who might need it. Talk to your kids about emotions at an early age. Validate their feelings now to build trust later. Pay attention to your triggers. Recognizing them is the first step to healing. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:01:41] Emily’s Why What inspired her to share her story publicly, and how a surprising message from a friend changed everything. [00:04:25] The First Cut The moment at age 11 that started it all—and how her mother’s silence shaped years of hiding. [00:06:56] Survival in Silence Emily’s first overdose in college, the ICU stay, and her terrifying experience in the psych unit. [00:08:48] The Shift of Motherhood Why having a daughter didn’t cure her depression, but changed her purpose. [00:24:13] Breaking Generational Cycles How Emily’s learning to be the emotionally available parent she never had. [00:32:00] What Healing Looks Like Now The daily habits, support system, and honest reflection it takes to keep moving forward. References 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – https://988lifeline.org The Trevor Project – https://www.thetrevorproject.org BetterHelp Therapy – https://www.betterhelp.com Stories of Hope Project (via Greg Eaves) Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring and honest conversations. Rate and review us on you

Ep 9Journaling as Therapy - Leigh's Path from Pain to Peace
EIn this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we explore the healing power of journaling with our incredible guest, Leigh Shulman — writer, mentor, and founder of The Inspired Writer Community. Leigh shares her deeply personal journey through mental health challenges and how putting pen to paper became her anchor through grief, uncertainty, and transformation. Whether you're new to journaling or a seasoned writer, this episode offers raw truth, helpful techniques, and inspiration for healing through words. We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 2 million downloads, we’re here because of YOU, and we want to hear from you! Please share your feedback or leave us a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "Writing is not about being perfect—it's about being present with your truth." – Leigh Shulman Mental Health Keywords for SEO: Journaling therapy, writing as healing, expressive writing, mental health podcast, therapeutic journaling, impostor syndrome, perfectionism, trauma recovery, writing for wellness, self-reflection, women’s mental health, emotional processing, self-care habits, storytelling therapy, mindfulness writing Meet Our Guest: Leigh Shulman Leigh Shulman is a writer, international speaker, and mentor who’s helped thousands of aspiring authors take control of their stories. With over 20 years of experience, she created The Inspired Writer Community and wrote the bestselling book The Writer's Roadmap: Paving the Way to Your Ideal Writing Life. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Longreads, Guernica, and other notable publications. Leigh lives in Argentina with her family, and proudly does not like dulce de leche. Website: https://leighshulman.com X/Twitter: http://twitter.com/theleighshulman Instagram: http://instagram.com/theleighshulman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leighshulman LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leighshulman/ BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/theleighshulman.bsky.social Key Takeaways Writing is Therapy – Journaling can be as healing as talk therapy. It’s a safe space to express, reflect, and release. Small Moments Matter – Often, it’s not the significant events but the quiet realizations that lead to growth. There Are No Rules – Your journal doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be yours. Actionable Items Start journaling with no rules—write for 10 minutes without editing or overthinking. Create a digital or photo “joy album” to capture what makes you happy daily visually. If you're stuck, voice-record your thoughts and use transcription tools to reflect later. Chapters & Timestamps [00:01:39] Leigh’s mental health journey through storytelling and writing [00:03:36] The tomato moment — how small shifts in perspective lead to big change [00:06:43] Why gratitude journaling and capturing joy visually heals [00:10:37] Writing without rules — and why you don’t need to reread it [00:24:34] Facing imposter syndrome and perfectionism as a writer [00:33:28] Why sharing your story is a revolutionary act [00:41:23] Leigh’s self-care routine for mental wellness [00:46:32] Lightning round: Anxiety's theme song, self-love rituals, and advice for her younger self References The Writer’s Roadmap by Leigh Shulman The War of Art by Steven Pressfield Julia Cameron’s “Morning Pages” TED Talk on the brain’s negativity bias Subscribe, Rate & Review! If this episode moved you, please take a moment to subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Every rating helps us reach more listeners who need to hear these stories. Leave a review directly at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews We’d love your thoughts or a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #JournalingForHealing #ExpressiveWriting #SelfCareDaily #WomenInPodcasting #PodcastAwardWinner #TherapyThroughWriting #AnxietyRelief #WritingForTherapy #TraumaHealing #WellnessTools #PodcastCommunity #LeighShulman #WritersRoadmap #InspiredWriterCommunity #HealingThroughCreativity ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goeso

Ep 8Menopause Meets Mindfulness: Amita’s Healing Blueprint for Women Over 40
EToday’s guest, Amita Sharma, shares her deeply personal experience with perimenopause in the corporate world, the mental health toll it took, and how she turned that struggle into NourishDoc, a global wellness platform for women 40 and over. This award-winning episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads brings you a powerful, eye-opening conversation about the intersection of menopause, mindfulness, and mental health. With over 2 million downloads, we are proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. We want to hear from YOU. Drop us a voice message or leave your thoughts at:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote:"The sooner you embrace yourself, the sooner you start living your truth. Otherwise, you're just wearing a mask." — Amita Sharma What This Episode CoversAmita opens up about the invisible toll of perimenopause, from brain fog and depression to sleep deprivation and lost libido—all while trying to survive in a high-stakes, male-dominated tech career. We explore how mindfulness, acupuncture, holistic nutrition, and boundary-setting became her survival tools, and how that journey became the seed for NourishDoc. This comprehensive wellness platform helps thousands of midlife women worldwide. SEO Keywords:Menopause mental health, perimenopause anxiety, midlife women support, mindfulness for menopause, holistic wellness, mental health for women over 40, Amita Sharma, NourishDoc Meet Our Guest: Amita SharmaA former high-tech executive turned wellness innovator, Amita Sharma is the founder of NourishDoc. Her lived experience as a perimenopausal woman in corporate America ignited a mission to support other women through the mental and physical chaos of midlife. NourishDoc offers integrative, evidence-based programs for women 35+, tackling sexual health, menopause symptoms, mental clarity, and long-term chronic condition prevention. Amita’s Links:Website: http://www.nourishdoc.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Nourishdoc/X (Twitter): https://x.com/nourishdocYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@nourishdocInstagram: http://www.instagram.com/nourish_docLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amita-sharma-nourishdoc/ Key Takeaways: Perimenopause isn’t just hot flashes—it deeply impacts mental health, identity, and daily functioning. Holistic wellness tools, such as yoga, journaling, and red-light therapy, can help restore balance. There’s a serious education gap in healthcare—many doctors are not trained to recognize or treat perimenopause. Actionable Tips from Amita: Track your symptoms and advocate for testing—don’t wait for your doctor to connect the dots. Start mindfulness and journaling daily to help process changes and center yourself. Explore integrative therapies, such as acupuncture, dietary changes, and vaginal health supplements, to enhance quality of life. Important Chapters & Timestamps00:00 – Intro & Meet Amita03:00 – From Architecture to High-Tech to Holistic Health07:00 – What Perimenopause Really Feels Like12:00 – Mental Health Impact: Depression, Anxiety & Fog16:00 – Cultural Stigma & Workplace Silence22:00 – Loss of Libido, Intimacy, and Sexual Health28:00 – How NourishDoc Empowers Women35:00 – Systemic Gaps in Women’s Healthcare43:00 – Amita’s Advice to Her Younger Self References: NourishDoc Research & Programs – http://www.nourishdoc.com/ WHO and NIH studies on menopause-related mental health PubMed clinical research (as referenced by Amita) Subscribe, Rate, and Review!Love what you heard? Don't forget to subscribe for more bold, unfiltered stories about the real stuff going on in our heads. Please take a moment to rate & review us on your favorite podcast platform or on our website:https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews For feedback, stories, or shoutouts, visit:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #PerimenopauseSupport #MidlifeWomenWellness#MenopauseJourney #NourishDoc #AmitaSharma #Grex #DirtySkittles #MindfulnessHealing#HormoneHealth #WomenOver40 #HolisticMentalHealth #AnxietySupport #BurnoutRecovery#SelfCareTips #PodcastForWomen #ChronicConditionPrevention #Podmatch #HealthEquityForWomen ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substac

Ep 7Beth and Noel’s Mental Health Journey – Part 2: The Caregiver’s Perspective
E*** Trigger Warning: *** This episode contains discussions of suicidal ideation, overdose, caregiver burnout, and mental health crisis response. Listener discretion is advised. If these topics are distressing, please consider skipping this episode or listening with someone you trust. This is Part 2 of our conversation with Beth and Noel, continuing one of the most personal and powerful stories ever shared on Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. In this episode, we focus on Noel’s experience as a caregiver, from crisis preparation to emotional exhaustion, and everything in between. Our podcast is proud to be a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 2 million downloads, we’re deeply committed to keeping mental health real, raw, and accessible. We’ve been nominated again for the 2025 People’s Choice Podcast Awards — in both the Adam Curry Legacy and Health categories. 🗳️ Vote for us by July 31, 2025, at: https://www.podcastawards.com 💬 Share your thoughts or leave us a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote of the Episode: "If people love you, they’re going to accept it and do anything for you. That’s what I do for Beth." – Noel Episode Description: Noel opens up about the unimaginable weight of caregiving for someone facing constant mental health crises. From making the house “suicide-proof” to navigating his depression and recent ADHD diagnosis, Noel shares the emotional reality behind supporting Beth. This episode offers a rare and compassionate glimpse into the perspective of a caregiver — the confusion, the calm under pressure, the isolation, and the love that holds it all together. SEO Keywords: caregiver mental health, suicide prevention, partner support, ADHD and caregiving, crisis management, mental health relationships, trauma response, men and mental health, emotional regulation, support systems Meet Our Guests: Beth is a microbiologist and survivor who has overcome severe mental health challenges with the help of DBT, supportive care, and her determination. Her honesty and insight make this a truly moving story. Noel is a musician and podcast editor (and the one who makes us sound good!). He has spent more than two decades by Beth’s side — a caregiver, partner, and advocate — often quietly holding things together when everything else fell apart. Key Takeaways: Caregiving requires resilience and preparation — from managing medication to handling emergency hospitalizations. Even caregivers need care — Noel shares how therapy, music, and dogs became his therapy. Love doesn’t mean fixing someone — it means standing by them even when it gets hard. Actionable Items: Don’t ignore the mental health of caregivers — check in, offer help, or simply listen. Have a safety plan in place for households managing suicide risk. Explore creative coping tools, such as mindfulness, DBT, or music therapy. Chapters / Timestamps: [00:00] Noel’s Role as a Caregiver From partner to protector — how Noel managed the crisis side of Beth’s illness. [02:00] Suicide-Proofing the Home Practical ways Noel tried to keep Beth safe. [06:00] The Turning Point Moments When the ambulance had to stop for critical care, the dog that saved a life. [10:00] Mental Health & Masculinity Noel’s experience with depression and his ADHD diagnosis. [15:00] Love Without Conditions Why emotional support sometimes means going it alone — and still showing up. [22:00] Self-Care That Works From gardening to music to dog grooming — finding peace in the chaos. References: Vote in the Podcast Awards: https://www.podcastawards.com Share feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Review our podcast: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Mental Health Resources Australia Lifeline – https://www.lifeline.org.au/ 24-hour crisis counselling and suicide prevention. Call 13 11 14, text 0477 13 11 14, or chat online. Suicide Call Back Service – https://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au/ 24/7 phone and online support. Call 1300 659 467. Beyond Blue – https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ Mental health support for depression and anxiety. Call 1300 22 4636, 24/7, or chat online. MindSpot – https://www.mindspot.org.au/ Free online and phone services for anxiety, depression, and stress. Call 1800 61 44 34. Medicare Mental Health – https://www.medicarementalhealth.gov.au/ Connects you to local mental health services. Call 1800 595 212. MensLine Australia – https://mensline.org.au/phone-and-online-counselling/ 24/7 mental health support for men. Call 1300 78 99 78. Butterfly Foundation (Eating Disorders) – https://butterfly.org.au/get-support/chat-online/ Eating disorder support 7 days/week, 8 am–midnight AEST. Call 1800 33 4673. United Kingdom Samaritans – https://www.samaritans.org/ Free 24/7 emotional support. Call 116 123 or email [email protected]. SHOUT – https://giveusashout.org/ Free, confidential text support

Ep 6Beth and Noel’s Mental Health Journey – Part 1: Surviving the Storm
E*** Trigger Warning: *** This episode contains personal stories involving eating disorders, suicidal ideation, self-harm, and hospitalization for mental health crises. Listener discretion is advised. If these topics are triggering for you, please consider skipping this episode or listening with support. Welcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, where we talk honestly about what mental health really looks like — messy, real, and deeply human. In this powerful two-part series, we sit down with Beth and Noel to hear their shared story of survival, love, and resilience. We are incredibly proud to share that Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, and was named Best Mental Health Podcast by the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards. With over 2 million downloads, we’re honored to keep bringing conversations like this into the light. We're also nominated in two categories for the 2025 Podcast People's Choice Awards — the Adam Curry Legacy Category and the Health Category. 🗳️ Please vote for us before July 31, 2025, at: https://www.podcastawards.com (you’ll need to verify your email). 💬 We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us a voice message or written feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode. Part 2 will be released on Thursday, July 31st, 2025. Mental Health Quote of the Episode: "You don’t have to act on every emotion. Sometimes, noticing the storm is enough to survive it." Episode Description: In this emotionally raw and eye-opening episode, Beth shares her mental health journey, spanning childhood trauma, eating disorders, misdiagnoses, and suicide attempts. She opens up about growing up in a volatile household, dealing with body image and control issues, and finding hope in therapy later in life. Her partner, Noel, joins to reflect on his role as both a loving spouse and a caregiver, offering a rare perspective on what it means to support someone through mental health crises. Together, Beth and Noel tell a story of heartbreak, hospitalizations, and ultimately, healing. This episode focuses on: The experience of living with an undiagnosed mental illness The emotional toll of caregiving in a long-term relationship The differences in mental health support systems in the UK vs. Australia SEO Keywords: mental health, eating disorders, suicide survival, caregiver mental health, borderline personality disorder, DBT, UK mental health system, Australia mental health services, trauma healing, mental illness recovery Meet Our Guests: Beth is a microbiologist and survivor who has overcome severe mental health challenges with the help of DBT, supportive care, and her determination. Her honesty and insight make this a truly moving story. Noel is a musician and podcast editor (and the one who makes us sound good!). He has spent more than two decades by Beth’s side — a caregiver, partner, and advocate — often quietly holding things together when everything else fell apart. Key Takeaways: Recovery is non-linear — Beth’s healing came with setbacks, detours, and growth across decades. Caregivers are deeply affected — Noel’s experience shows how supporting someone through mental illness takes an emotional toll. Getting the right help matters — The difference in care between the UK and Australia was life-changing. Actionable Items: Don’t wait for a crisis — Seek therapy or support early, even if things feel manageable. Check on caregivers — Partners, family members, and friends supporting someone may be suffering in silence. Explore DBT — Dialectical Behavior Therapy gave Beth the tools to regain control of her life. Chapters / Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome & Introductions Meet Beth and Noel and learn why this episode is so personal for the hosts. [03:00] Childhood & Trauma Beth reflects on growing up with emotional instability and disordered eating patterns. [13:00] University Collapse An inside look at her breakdown during graduate school and the silent battles she fought. [23:00] Suicide Attempts & Overdoses Beth speaks openly about her darkest moments and her hospitalizations. [31:00] Discovering DBT A turning point in her recovery journey — learning tools that made hope possible. [36:00] Mental Health Systems: UK vs. Australia Noel and Beth explain how access to proper care changed everything. References: Vote for us in the 2025 Podcast People's Choice Awards: https://www.podcastawards.com Leave feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Add your review: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Mental Health Resources Australia Lifeline – https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Provides 24-hour crisis counselling, suicide prevention, and support groups. Call 13 11 14, text 0477 13 11 14, or chat online. Suicide Call Back Service – https://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au/ 24/7 telephone and online support for people in emotional crisis. Call 1300 659 467. Beyond Blue – https://www.beyondblue.org.au/

Ep 5Melissa Osorio on Healing Hidden Trauma and Reclaiming Your Life Through Ayahuasca
EIn this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we talk with trauma survivor, speaker, and Author Melissa Osorio, who shares her raw and deeply moving journey of rediscovering her childhood trauma and healing through ayahuasca and intentional self-work. As a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, a 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and with over 2 million downloads, we’re proud to keep amplifying real, unfiltered stories like Melissa’s. 🎧 We want to hear from YOU! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a We’ve been nominated again — in the Adam Curry and Health categories of the Podcast People’s Choice Awards! Vote for us before July 31, 2025, at: https://www.podcastawards.com/ (Use a valid email — they’ll verify it!) Mental Health Quote “You don’t have to heal all at once—just show up for yourself, one small step at a time.” What This Episode Covers In this episode, we explore: How suppressed trauma shapes adult identity What ayahuasca is—and isn’t The path from personal breakdown to community healing The importance of safe spaces for trauma processing How healing your past transforms your present and impacts future generations SEO Keywords: mental health podcast, ayahuasca healing, childhood trauma recovery, Melissa Osorio, psychedelic therapy, hidden memories, trauma integration, self-compassion, healing retreats, Rythmia Costa Rica, women’s healing stories, reclaiming your life Meet Our Guest – Melissa Osorio Melissa Osorio is a trauma survivor, speaker, entrepreneur, and author of Hidden Memories: Discover What’s Blocking You From Life and Love. After unlocking long-buried memories of childhood abuse triggered by the sudden death of her father, Melissa found profound healing through ayahuasca. Today, she helps others reclaim their wholeness by teaching at Rythmia, a life advancement retreat center in Costa Rica. Website: https://melissa-osorio.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaosorio_remembers Key Takeaways Healing isn’t linear — Grief and growth go hand-in-hand. Your body remembers what your mind forgets — Trauma is stored physically and spiritually. You don’t have to be where you’ve always been — Sometimes, the most significant healing starts with a single step in a new direction. Actionable Tools From This Episode Practice Self-Compassion Daily: Start your morning by saying one kind thing to yourself out loud. Choose Community Over Isolation: Join a healing circle, retreat, or online support group—even if it feels scary. Educate Yourself on Trauma: Read Melissa’s book or others that explain the neuroscience behind trauma and healing. Episode Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Intro and Welcome 01:07 – Melissa's journey from the East Coast to San Diego 04:23 – The moment everything changed: “You don’t have to be here anymore.” 10:46 – Melissa’s early life, family secrets, and childhood in Venezuela 15:22 – Discovering Rythmia and ayahuasca 18:56 – Remembering the trauma and understanding hidden memories 24:29 – The grief cycle and navigating acceptance 28:04 – Life after the retreat: What integration means 33:36 – Finding purpose through healing and becoming a teacher 41:47 – Healing later in life and how it helps your family too 46:19 – Advice to your younger self & reclaiming your essence 49:43 – Melissa’s tools for self-love and daily care References Hidden Memories: Discover What’s Blocking You From Life and Love by Melissa Osorio Rythmia Life Advancement Center – https://rythmia.com Cast Feedback – https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Vote in the 2025 Podcast People’s Choice Awards – https://www.podcastawards.com/ Subscribe, Rate, and Review! If this episode touched you, subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. Please leave us a review, and share it with a friend. Help us keep the conversation going at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #AyahuascaHealing #TraumaRecovery #HiddenMemories #MelissaOsorio #PsychedelicTherapy #SelfCompassion #HealingJourney #DirtySkittles #GRex #Podmatch #WomensMentalHealth #EmotionalWellbeing #Rythmia #ChildhoodHealing #PodcastAwards2025 #HealingWithAyahuasca #MentalWellness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles

Ep 4Marie’s Way: A Journey Through Loss, Love, and Light
EIn this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we’re joined by Marie Alessi — grief advocate, TEDx speaker, and bestselling author. After the sudden loss of her husband, Marie found herself raising two young sons while navigating an ocean of grief. But instead of sinking, she built a new life rooted in healing, purpose, and compassion. This episode is an honest and inspiring conversation about choosing resilience over despair, finding strength in vulnerability, and how emotional intelligence transforms the way we support each other through grief. We’re honored to share that Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and a growing global community. Help Us Win Again! We've been nominated for the 2025 Podcast People’s Choice Awards in two categories: The Adam Curry Category and Health. Vote before July 31, 2025, at: https://www.podcastawards.com/ (Use a valid email address — email verification is required.) Share Your Feedback We’d love to hear from you. Send us your thoughts, questions, or personal stories using this link: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Quote from the Episode “When you fall apart, you see what's left in you — and that was power.” — Marie Alessi Episode Description After losing her husband to a sudden brain aneurysm, Marie Alessi was thrust into a new reality: single parenthood, unimaginable grief, and a choice — stay buried in sorrow or rise and heal. She chose healing. In this episode, we explore the mental, emotional, and spiritual components of grief, parenting through trauma, and how mindset can change everything. Whether you're experiencing loss or supporting someone who is, Marie’s journey will leave you with tools, hope, and a reminder that light can exist even in the darkest spaces. SEO Keywords: mental health podcast, grief and healing, emotional intelligence for kids, Marie Alessi interview, overcoming trauma, support for widows, healing journey, grief support, parenting through grief, resilience after loss Meet Our Guest: Marie Alessi Marie Alessi is a TEDx speaker, bestselling author, and internationally recognized grief advocate. She became a widow at age 45 and turned her personal tragedy into a movement to help others heal after loss. Through books, retreats, and coaching, Marie has guided thousands in transforming grief into a catalyst for growth. Website: https://www.mariealessi.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marie.alessi.speaker Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MarieAlessiPublicFigure LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marie-alessi Key Takeaways Grief isn’t just sadness — it can also be the gateway to empowerment and connection. Children need more than comfort — they need the language to name their emotions. Allowing support into your life is a sign of strength, not weakness. Actionable Items When helping a grieving friend, offer specific options (e.g., “Tuesday or Thursday?”) instead of saying “Call me if you need anything.” Use affirming grief language: “There’s a space in my heart for them,” rather than “There’s a hole in my heart.” Write a letter from your loved one to yourself — a powerful reframe for healing and self-connection. Chapters & Timestamps [00:01:36] Marie on Being in a Good Place — mindset, structure, and allowing help [00:04:20] Therapy at 21 — breaking out of the victim mindset [00:20:53] The Day Rob Died — shock, intuition, and loss [00:27:13] Spiritual Epiphany — soul contracts and acceptance [00:29:51] Grieving Kids — helping children name and process emotions [00:40:26] Power in Falling Apart — grief as transformation [00:56:56] Self-Love as the Hardest Lesson — unconditional acceptance Mental Health & Grief Resources: Tools, Books, and Education Books & Tools Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood This book helped Marie recognize relationship patterns that were rooted in unresolved emotional trauma, and ultimately led her to therapy. *(Search on Amazon or local bookstores.)* Books by Marie Alessi Explore Marie’s personal stories and healing frameworks in her published works. https://www.mariealessi.com/ Education & Community Simon Sinek’s “8 Minutes” (YouTube) A short but emotional talk on the importance of truly listening. It Means "I Need You": The Power of 8 Minutes Children’s Collaborative (US) An organization bringing grief education to schools is essential for emotional development and peer understanding. https://childrenscollaborative.us/ Special Shout-Out: Women Supporting Women A big thank you to Melissa Crook of The F.E.E.L Podcast, who is helping women reconnect with themselves through intentional wellness. Learn More: https://www.embracinglayers.com/ Enroll in the Course: Course Link Workbook: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-L-Fueled-Life-Empowerment/dp/B0FCDML1FB Subscribe, Rate & Review Love the show? Please subscribe, rate us, and

Ep 3How Richard Taite Transformed Addiction Into Purpose and Healing
EIn this emotionally charged episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, addiction recovery expert and entrepreneur Richard Taite shares the powerful story of how he turned his own struggles with addiction and trauma into a mission to save lives and create lasting change. From founding groundbreaking treatment centers to launching a top-ranked podcast, Richard speaks candidly about healing, purpose, and fighting back against the fentanyl crisis. We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and have been heard in over 80 countries with more than 1.8 million downloads. We’d love your feedback—whether you want to drop us a note or a voice message, visit: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a We’ve also been nominated for the 2025 Podcast People's Choice Awards in the Adam Curry and Health categories. Voting is open until July 31, 2025, at https://www.podcastawards.com/. Please ensure you use a valid email address, as verification is required. Thank you so much for your support! Mental Health Quote from the Episode “What kills people is not knowing that they’re loved and worthy of healing.” Episode Description Richard Taite’s life and work are proof that healing from addiction isn’t just possible—it’s purposeful. In this raw and timely conversation, Richard opens up about the abuse and trauma that led him into addiction, how he clawed his way to sobriety, and why he’s using his platform to fight back against the fentanyl epidemic. As the founder of multiple top-tier treatment centers and host of the #3-ranked mental health podcast, We’re Out of Time, Richard delivers powerful insights on recovery, identity, and what the system gets wrong—and right—about addiction. He shares the emotional cost of being publicly successful but privately broken, as well as the crucial role of compassion, data, and honesty in saving lives. SEO Keywords: addiction recovery, fentanyl crisis, Richard Taite interview, trauma and healing, mental health and sobriety, men in recovery, overcoming childhood abuse, treatment centers, purpose after addiction, solutions for the opioid crisis, recovery podcast, drug overdose awareness, healing from trauma Meet Our Guest: Richard Taite Richard Taite – Addiction Recovery Expert | Founder | Advocate | Host of “We’re Out of Time” Richard Taite is a nationally recognized leader in addiction recovery and trauma-informed care. He is the founder and executive chairman of Carrara Treatment Wellness & Spa and 1 Method, and the former founder of Cliffside Malibu. Across decades of work, Richard has helped thousands—including celebrities and high-risk individuals—achieve lasting recovery. Currently hosting the acclaimed podcast We’re Out of Time, Richard is using his platform to advocate for urgent national action on fentanyl, overdose prevention, and compassionate recovery services. His life is a testament to the idea that recovery is not only possible but also transformational. Connect with Richard Taite: Website: http://wereoutoftime.com Twitter: https://x.com/RichardTaite Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardtaiteofficial/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RichardTaiteOfficial LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richardtaite/ Key Takeaways The root of addiction is often deep trauma and shame, not just chemical dependency. Compassion, structure, and data must all be part of effective treatment. Your past does not define you; purpose and healing are always possible. Actionable Items Educate yourself and loved ones on the signs of fentanyl exposure and how to respond. Listen to We’re Out of Time to understand the real-time impact of the addiction crisis: http://wereoutoftime.com Practice telling your own story, even if just to yourself—it’s the first step to healing. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction & how Richard met G-Rex 03:10 – Richard’s childhood trauma and roots of addiction 09:30 – The spark that led to sobriety 14:00 – Building treatment centers rooted in empathy and science 18:45 – Why addiction treatment in America needs to evolve 22:30 – What the fentanyl crisis is doing to families 27:00 – Mental health, identity, and finding purpose 32:20 – Starting We’re Out of Time and sounding the alarm 38:00 – Final thoughts: compassion and accountability #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictionRecovery #FentanylCrisis #RichardTaite #TraumaHealing #OverdosePrevention #Grex #DirtySkittles #RecoveryIsPossible #HealingThroughPurpose #DrugAddictionAwareness #OpioidCrisis #SoberLiving #PodcastAwardWinner #CarraraTreatment #WereOutOfTimePodcast #MenAndMentalHealth #RecoveryWarrior #AddictionAndHealing Subscribe, Rate & Review Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories and authentic conversations around mental health. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform or visit our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews ***************

Ep 2Masculinity, Coaching & Mental Health: A Candid Talk with Tim Racki
EIn this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, championship football coach Tim Racki opens up about his personal journey through mental health struggles, burnout, identity, and self-reflection. With humor, honesty, and heart, Tim shares how success on the outside can mask deep internal battles—and how he's rewriting his life's playbook. We’re honored to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and proud to have reached over 1.8 million downloads globally. 📣 We want your feedback! Drop us a message (text or voice) here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🏆 We’ve been nominated again! Vote for us in the Adam Curry and Health categories at the 2025 Podcast People's Choice Awards before July 31 at https://www.podcastawards.com/. You must use a valid email—they verify it. Mental Health Quote from the Episode “You can be confident without being a bragging asshole. I just started practicing what I preach—and it’s changing everything.” — Tim Racki Episode Description This candid conversation with Tim Racki—a 10× State Champion Coach and Hall of Famer—unpacks the emotional toll of leadership and the silence behind success. Despite public accolades, Tim reveals how coaching masked internal turmoil, how performance identity shaped his personal life, and why he finally made the decision to care for his mental health. He talks about the moment of clarity that sparked change, the deep shame he felt, and how daily habits are helping him rebuild trust in himself and reconnect with his family. Tim’s story is a roadmap for any man struggling with unspoken emotions or feeling trapped by expectations. SEO Keywords: masculinity and mental health, coaching and burnout, men’s mental wellness, mental health in sports, emotional resilience, athlete identity crisis, performance anxiety, leadership and therapy, mental health for men, fatherhood and vulnerability Meet Our Guest: Tim Racki Tim Racki – 10× State Champion Coach | Hall of Famer | Mental Resilience Advocate Tim Racki is one of the most accomplished high school football coaches in the United States. Over a 26-year head coaching career, he's secured 10 Illinois state titles, made 12 state title appearances, and built powerhouse programs with lasting legacies. Beyond wins, Tim is known for his integrity, mentorship, and transformational leadership. But behind the accolades is a deeply human story of depression, identity crisis, and the struggle to balance coaching with fatherhood and marriage. Today, Tim speaks openly about mental health in leadership and the importance of vulnerability, reflection, and small daily changes. Connect with Tim Racki: Twitter: https://x.com/CoachRacki Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61576018534735 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachracki Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachracki/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tim-racki-a43294a/ Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/coachracki Key Takeaways Even championship leaders can feel lost—success doesn’t equal peace. Vulnerability and presence are more powerful than titles. Mental health for men is overdue for normalization, especially in coaching culture. Actionable Items Start each day with one intentional change that prioritizes your mental wellness. Reflect on how you're showing up at home, not just at work or in your leadership role. Listen to your own advice. If you support others, offer that same compassion to yourself. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome + Football roots & identity 04:00 – Childhood, coaching influences, and early trauma 08:00 – Playing through pain & performance anxiety 13:00 – Standing up to bullies & leadership lessons 18:00 – Coaching wins vs. personal losses 20:00 – The epiphany moment: March madness and a friend’s confession 24:00 – Shame, presence, and learning to be a better husband and father 30:00 – Small habits that sparked massive change 34:00 – Applying the coaching playbook to his own life 38:00 – Advice for other men and coaches facing mental health challenges 42:00 – Listener questions: self-care, balance, and theme songs 46:00 – How to connect with Tim Racki #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #MensMentalHealth #TimRacki #Grex #DirtySkittles #LeadershipAndMentalHealth #AthleteWellness #BurnoutRecovery #FatherhoodAndHealing #TherapyForMen #FootballAndMentalHealth #CoachTalk #VulnerabilityIsStrength #PodcastAwardWinner #SelfCareForCoaches #EmotionalResilience #ImposterSyndrome #ToughConversations Subscribe, Rate & Review Love what you heard? Subscribe for more raw and real conversations on mental health and personal growth. ⭐️ Rate and review us on your favorite podcast app or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please do

Ep 1Boundaries, Burnout & the Brain-Heart Connection with Kate
EWe’re kicking off Season 12 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads with a deeply healing, no-fluff conversation featuring returning guest Kate King. This episode explores how to protect your peace through boundaries, reset your nervous system with intentional practices, and reconnect with joy, even when the world feels overwhelming. Joining us once again, Kate shares accessible strategies for managing emotional burnout, practicing brain-heart coherence, and building habits that support authentic, sustainable mental wellness. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in this season opener is a reminder that you have more control over your mental health than you think. We're proud to celebrate some incredible milestones with our community: 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner – Health 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner – Best Mental Health Podcast With over 1.8 million downloads, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads continues to break the stigma by creating honest, relatable, and supportive conversations around mental health. We’ve been nominated again for the 2025 People’s Choice Podcast Awards in TWO major categories: Adam Curry Category Health Category We need your support! Vote before July 31, 2025: Visit https://www.podcastawards.com/ and register with a valid email address (required for vote verification). Your vote makes a huge difference in amplifying real conversations that matter. Thank you for standing with us! Got something to say? We want to hear from you. Share your thoughts, feedback, or a story — written or voice message — right here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote from Kate: “Every cell in your body is listening to the words you say about yourself.” What This Episode Is About This episode centers on mental health resilience, as Kate King guides us through how to tune in to our bodies, protect our energy, and create practical shifts for emotional balance. We cover how to spot burnout, how to reinforce boundaries that actually stick, and why brain-heart coherence is one of the most effective (and simple) tools to ground yourself in gratitude and calm. Meet Our Guest – Kate King Kate King is the founder of The Radiant Life Project, a Radiant Life Coach, a Board-Certified Art Therapist, an award-winning author, and a former Licensed Professional Counselor with 17+ years of experience. Kate’s work blends neuroscience, psychology, spirituality, and creative practice to help people live fuller, more meaningful lives. Her signature approach empowers people to access inner healing and joy through self-expression, conscious awareness, and daily rituals that foster a mind-body connection. Kate’s Work Includes: The Radiant Life Project – a guide for cultivating creativity, healing, and authenticity The Authentic Mother – a therapeutic companion for new parents Ink & Wings Oracle Deck – a 46-card original art deck for intuitive reflection Retreats, public speaking, coaching, and creative consulting Connect with Kate: Website: https://TheRadiantLifeProject.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theradiantlifeproject/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRadiantLifeProject/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChxGCo2H8iWIReg8X6ADubg LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theradiantlifeproject/ References HeartMath Institute – Science-based research on brain-heart coherence https://www.heartmath.org Reasons to Be Cheerful – Positive news media alternative mentioned by Kate https://reasonstobecheerful.world The Radiant Life Project by Kate King – Available wherever books are sold The Authentic Mother by Kate King – A guide for new parents Ink & Wings Oracle Deck – Kate’s original artwork for intuitive reflection Key Takeaways Boundaries protect your peace, not your relationships. They’re commitments you keep to yourself. Your nervous system needs support—small choices, such as media detox, movement, and mindful breathing, matter. Gratitude-centered practices, such as brain-heart coherence, can shift your emotional and physiological state in just a few minutes. Actionable Items Practice 3 minutes of brain-heart coherence daily — focus on your heart, breathe deeply, and hold a moment of gratitude. Create a few go-to responses for setting boundaries when emotions run high. Audit your inputs — follow accounts and consume content that uplifts and grounds you. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to Season 12 + intro to Kate 02:15 – Why joy is non-negotiable in difficult times 05:01 – Nervous system fatigue, art therapy, and daily rituals 10:26 – Protecting your peace by curating your media intake 16:12 – The difference between requests and boundaries 21:45 – Playfulness, laughter, and shifting your energy 31:05 – Kate’s new book, Mend or Move On (out Jan 2026) 33:20 – What is brain-heart coherence, and how to start 36:40 – Positive self-talk, healing, and personal empowerment Special Shout-Out: Women Support Women – Featuring Melissa Crook from The F.E.E.L Podcast
Ep 11Laughter, Loss and Lessons: Season 11 Mental Health Wrap-Up
ESeason 11 is officially wrapped — and your co-hosts are here to reflect, laugh, and get real about the growth, grief, and grace it took to get here. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles open up about their personal evolution this season: from 5 a.m. emotional check-in calls to big podcasting milestones, creative breakthroughs, and boundary-setting victories. G-Rex shares the excitement (and vulnerability) of completing the third draft of her book, and how this podcast continues to be a vehicle for her to find her voice. Dirty Skittles dives into parenting while healing — breaking cycles, confronting generational trauma, and practicing the daily work of protecting her peace. Together, they revisit the most powerful moments from Season 11, relive the laughs, and explore the deep mental health themes that emerged, especially the recurring need for boundaries, rest, and honest conversations. We’re proud to be your 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1.5 million downloads, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads has become more than a podcast — it’s a community. We want to hear from you. Leave us a voice message or written note here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a “You’re never fixed. You fight for yourself. You say no when it matters. You protect your peace, over and over again.” — Dirty Skittles What’s Inside This Episode Reflections on G-Rex and Dirty Skittles’ personal growth The boundary theme that echoed through every interview Laughter, loss, and moments of transformation Guest insights that changed our perspective A look at what’s ahead in Season 12 Meet Our Season 11 Guests Every guest this season brought honesty, resilience, and fresh perspective. Here’s a recap, in order, with key takeaways and actionable insights you can apply to your own journey: 1. Bonnie–People–Pleaser Turned Boundary-Setter Takeaways: Boundaries are an act of self-respect Saying “no” is its own kind of healing Action Steps: Practice saying “no” without apology Identify one boundary you’ve outgrown — and reset it 2. Pearl – Grief, Goodbye, and Growth Takeaways: You can grieve relationships while choosing peace Transforming pain into purpose is powerful Action Steps: Write a goodbye letter to something or someone holding you back Channel grief into something creative or supportive 3. Val – Living with OCD and Intrusive Thoughts Takeaways: OCD involves much more than cleanliness Intrusive thoughts are common and manageable Action Steps: Learn more at https://iocdf.org Practice compassion when someone shares their mental health struggle 4. Suzanne – The NOPE Coach Takeaways: “No” is not rude — it’s necessary Boundaries are a muscle you build Action Steps: Say no to one thing that drains you Make a list of your top five energy boundaries 5. Stephanie – Understanding Irrational Fears Takeaways: All fears deserve space and understanding Humor helps in facing what scares us Action Steps: Talk openly about a fear you’ve hidden Try journaling about its origins and emotional impact 6. Linda – Crystal Sister and Grief Survivor Takeaways: It’s possible to carry both joy and grief Choosing joy is a form of resilience Action Steps: Start a simple daily gratitude list Light a candle in honor of someone you miss and say their name aloud 7. Yalda – Postpartum Psychosis and Advocacy Takeaways: Maternal mental health needs more open dialogue Recovery can begin with a single brave conversation Action Steps: Share this episode with a new mom Visit https://postpartum.net for resources and support 8. Amy – Childhood Trauma to Community Builder Takeaways: You can rewrite your narrative Healing thrives in community Action Steps: Plant something symbolic of growth Create or join a support circle in your area 9. Austin – From Surviving to Leading Takeaways: Childhood trauma can fuel meaningful purpose Safe adults change lives Action Steps: Volunteer with a youth program Write a list of lessons you wish you knew at age 10 10. Ilise – Therapist, Podcaster, Joy Seeker Takeaways: Boundaries are lifelong work Reclaiming joy is a form of healing Action Steps: Reconnect with a hobby that makes you feel free Remove one “should” from your weekly routine Special Shout-Out: Women Supporting Women A huge thank you to Melissa Crook of The F.E.E.L Podcast, who’s helping women redefine wellness through her new course: Find out more about Melissa here - https://www.embracinglayers.com/ Embracing a F.E.E.L Fueled Life: Empowerment & Wellness Course for Women A self-paced, whole-self journey designed to help women 20+ prioritize themselves, embrace their layers, and reconnect with emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. Enroll in the course: https://www.patreon.com/EmbracingLayersNetwork/shop/embracing-f-e-e-l-fueled-life-wellness-1708477?source=storefront Workbook available here: https://www.amazon.com/Embracing-L-Fueled-Life-Empowerment/dp/B0FCDML1FB Episod

Ep 10From Anxiety to Empowerment: Ilise Talks Social Media, Empathy, and Mental Health Truths
EIn this powerful and heartfelt episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we sit down with Ilise Litwin—therapist, author, podcaster, and unapologetically authentic human—to explore how navigating anxiety, self-doubt, and toxic relationships can lead to personal empowerment. Ilise opens up about the healing power of empathy, the toll of social media on mental wellness, and what it means to truly show up for yourself. We’re not just any podcast—we’re the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and we’re proud to have over 1 million downloads. Your voice matters to us! Please share your thoughts or leave us a voice message here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote from the Episode: “You can be me-centric without being selfish. You can still give to others, but the focus should always come back to you.” — Ilise Litwin What This Episode is About: This episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a raw and empowering look at what it means to navigate mental health in a world that often tells us to “just keep going.” Our guest, Ilise Litwin, joins us to explore how anxiety, trauma, social media fatigue, and emotional burnout can evolve into tools for personal growth when we stop pretending to have it all together. With humor, heart, and unfiltered honesty, Ilise shares her story of reinvention—from working in locked psychiatric units to building a life grounded in radical self-care and the freedom to be playful again. We explore what it means to be empathic in a chaotic world, how boundaries can protect our joy, and why reconnecting with your inner child might just be the best therapy of all. Whether you’re a parent juggling too much, someone struggling with anxiety, or simply feeling burned out, this episode will inspire you to redefine what it means to heal—and to do it on your own terms. Meet Our Guest – Ilise Litwin Ilise Litwin, aka "The Fiery Redhead," is a bold and dynamic podcaster, author, motivational speaker, and therapist. A graduate of the University of Florida with credentials as a Therapeutic Recreational Specialist, Ilise spent years working in acute psychiatric units, where she helped patients build coping skills to reintegrate into life. Her podcast Wide Open Spaces blends edgy storytelling with mental health truths, sparking honest conversations that challenge societal norms. Her book, Wanderlust Within: A Journey to Self-Discovery, distills her podcast’s most impactful moments into a transformational guide. Ilise is known for her transparency, authenticity, and empowering message that healing begins with truth. Website: https://wideopenspaceswithilise.com Podcast: https://wideopenspaces.podbean.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/102097171634382 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wideopenspaceswithilise LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ilise-litwin-3a04051b7/ Key Takeaways: Empathy is powerful, but protect your peace. Being empathic is a gift, but it can become a burden without healthy boundaries. Anxiety is not a flaw. It's often a result of external pressure or biology, not a failure. Learn to adjust your coping tools. Joy is healing. Reconnecting with your inner child through play, laughter, and creativity can be a powerful form of mental self-care. Actionable Tips: Set a Social Media Detox Routine. Schedule weekly screen-free days and use automation to reduce emotional overload. Reclaim Playtime. Draw, dance, wear costumes, or revisit childhood hobbies to reconnect with joy. Visualize Boundaries. Use mental imagery (like protective bubbles) to manage emotional overload and stay grounded. Chapters & Timestamps: [00:03:19] – Choosing authenticity over approval [00:06:30] – Mental health professionals are human too [00:10:27] – The anxiety of social media and how to manage it [00:17:14] – Empathy burnout and boundary-setting [00:20:22] – Redefining “me-centric” as healthy, not selfish [00:25:14] – Parenting, play, and presence [00:31:25] – Reconnecting with passions and creative joy [00:36:00] – Protecting your peace in a chaotic world [00:41:03] – Daily rituals and nature as self-care [00:43:16] – How to find Ilise and her work References: Wanderlust Within: A Journey to Self-Discovery by Ilise Litwin Ilise's podcast: https://wideopenspaces.podbean.com Mental health resource: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Enjoyed the episode? Subscribe for more real conversations that break stigma and spark healing. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Got something to say? We want to hear it—drop us a voice or written message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #IliseLitwin #SelfCareTools #InnerChildHealing #EmpathyBurnout #SocialMediaAndMentalHealth #TherapistRealTalk #MentalHealthQuotes #Wi

Ep 9Faith, Fatherhood & Forgiveness: Austin Davis Breaks the Cycle
EIn this powerful episode, we talk with Austin Davis, a licensed professional counselor and founder of Clearfork Academy, about how childhood identity, faith, and resilience shape mental health outcomes. This episode highlights the intersections of childhood trauma, the search for identity, spiritual awakening, and breaking generational cycles. Austin shares his journey from a 10-year-old tasked with being “the man of the house” to a father, therapist, and founder of a life-changing teen treatment center. Welcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads—an award-winning mental health podcast with over 1 million downloads! We're honored to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. We want to hear from you! Leave us written input or a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "When we focus too hard on not becoming something, we often become exactly that. Healing is found in accepting what made us and choosing differently." – Austin Davis Meet Our Guest: Austin Davis, LPC-S Originally from the Saginaw, Eagle Mountain area, Austin Davis is a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor in Texas. He holds a B.S. in Pastoral Ministry from Lee University and an M.A. in Counseling from The Church of God Theological Seminary. Austin’s career bridges the church and clinical mental health worlds. He has served youth through ministry and worked extensively in state mental health hospitals, gaining experience with nearly every mental health diagnosis. He is the founder of Clearfork Academy, a Christ-centered residential treatment center for teens struggling with mental health and substance use. He thrives on working with clients others might call “difficult,” driven by compassion and clinical skill. Austin is also the author of My Kid, My Crisis (2023), a moving collection of stories and insights into parenting, faith, and therapeutic transformation in the face of teen mental health challenges. When he's not working, Austin enjoys being with his family, making music, woodworking, reading, and staying active. 📚 Austin’s Book My Kid, My Crisis – Austin Davis (2023) A collection of real-life stories from the therapy room, My Kid, My Crisis explores the emotional and spiritual journeys of families facing teen mental health and substance use challenges. Through Christ-centered therapy and community, the book offers hope, guidance, and support for parents walking a difficult road. Available now at: https://a.co/d/0QMcKSd 📌 Key Takeaways Labels Matter: Childhood roles, like being told you're “the man of the house,” can deeply shape identity and emotional development. Faith as a Framework: Finding purpose and healing through spirituality helped Austin redirect his life, and now he helps others do the same. Building Early Interventions: Clearfork Academy is designed to help teens pivot in life before reaching a crisis point in adulthood. ✅ Actionable Items Explore Your Own Origin Story – Journaling your earliest roles and expectations can uncover hidden beliefs that impact your mental health. Start Mental Health Conversations Early—Whether your teen is showing symptoms or not, open dialogue is preventive care. Set a Grounding Routine – Mornings that include mindfulness, journaling, or prayer can regulate emotions and prepare you for daily challenges. 🕰️ Episode Chapters [00:01:00] – Austin opens up: A 10-year-old becomes “man of the house” [00:07:50] – Choosing church over chaos: How faith saved his life [00:11:30] – Launching Clearfork Academy while raising three toddlers [00:17:30] – Why early adolescence matters in recovery [00:20:30] – Balancing heart and business in mental health care [00:22:00] – Advice to his younger self: “God is in control. You don’t have to be.” [00:24:30] – Learning the art of surrendering outcomes [00:25:58] – Real-world advice for parents on teen addiction 🔗 Resources Austin’s Book: My Kid, My Crisis – https://a.co/d/0QMcKSd Clearfork Academy: https://clearforkacademy.com/ Podcast Feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #AustinDavis #ClearforkAcademy #FaithAndHealing #TeenMentalHealth #ParentingAndMentalHealth #ChildhoodTrauma #MyKidMyCrisis #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #SubstanceAbuseRecovery #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForParents #HopeAndHealing #BreakingTheCycle #ChristianTherapy #YouthRecovery ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health

Ep 8Grounded and Growing: Amy’s Fight Against Anxiety and Self-Worth Struggles
EIn this episode, Amy Fagan shares her raw and honest story of navigating anxiety, low self-worth, and emotional recovery. She offers listeners a window into her healing process through community, creativity, and podcasting. We are proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re honored to be part of your journey. 💬 We'd love your feedback! Share your thoughts or leave us a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "Healing is not about fixing what is broken; it’s about discovering what is still whole." Episode Description: Amy Fagan, host of the “Grounded in Maine” podcast, brings heartfelt wisdom to this powerful conversation. From struggling with an inferiority complex rooted in childhood to facing betrayal and rebuilding life after divorce, Amy opens up about the deeply personal experiences that shaped her emotional landscape. Through her story, listeners will find relatable moments of vulnerability and resilience. Amy shows how podcasting, sustainable living, and supportive friendships have given her the strength to push through anxiety and embrace her self-worth. This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t linear, but it is possible. Meet Our Guest: Amy Fagan Amy is the heart and voice of the “Grounded in Maine” podcast. She explores sustainability, homesteading, and building authentic communities. A New England native, Amy speaks candidly about her battles with anxiety, low self-esteem, and the deep wounds of betrayal. Through vulnerability and resilience, Amy inspires others to reclaim their stories and find healing in connection. 🔗 Website: https://linktr.ee/groundedinmainepodcast? 🎙 Podcast: Grounded in Maine Key Takeaways: Self-Worth Isn’t Tied to Success Community is Medicine Creativity as a Lifeline Actionable Items: Surround Yourself With Uplifting People Use Creative Outlets to Heal Redefine Success in Personal Terms Episode Chapters: 00:03:57 – Amy's early struggle with self-worth and critical family dynamics 00:06:14 – Launching the Grounded in Maine podcast: purpose over perfection 00:10:44 – The emotional devastation of betrayal and divorce 00:13:16 – How podcasting became Amy’s emotional oxygen 00:17:29 – Therapy challenges and redefining what healing looks like 00:25:01 – Amy’s view on success and the intersection of passion and purpose 00:30:35 – Her dream to purchase farmland and build a community-centric retreat 00:35:52 – The joy of farming and building food security 00:42:38 – Advice to her younger self and reflections on self-worth References: Grounded in Maine Podcast: https://linktr.ee/groundedinmainepodcast? Our Podcast Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Feedback Portal: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss an episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform, leave us a rating, and tell the world what you think! Visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GroundedInMaine #SelfWorthJourney #HealingThroughConnection #PodcastTherapy #Grex #DirtySkittles #SustainabilityMatters #AuthenticLiving #HealingTrauma #DivorceRecovery #EmpowermentThroughPodcasting #CommunityHealing #FarmDreams #JamMakingTherapy #EmotionalWellness #WomensVoicesMatter #SupportLocalFarms #MindfulLiving! ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ep 7Yalda’s Truth: Surviving Postpartum Depression and Finding Purpose
EIn this episode, we speak with Yalda Kazemi — mental health advocate, speaker, and author — as she shares the deeply personal and often unspoken truth of surviving severe postpartum depression, facing suicidal ideation and intrusive thoughts, and ultimately finding her purpose through healing. If you've ever struggled with mental illness, questioned your worth, or felt misunderstood, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone. We want to hear from you. Please share your thoughts or leave us a voice message here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Welcome to another powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re proud to bring you real and unapologetic conversations about mental health every week. Mental Health Quote of the Episode “Mental illness has no face. There is no look to it. You can appear put together and still be fighting the darkest battles inside.” — Yalda Kazemi Episode Description In this moving conversation, Yalda Kazemi shares her lived experience with postpartum depression, maternal mental health, and mental illness recovery. From being hospitalized in a psych ward to almost losing herself in the depths of postpartum psychosis, Yalda now uses her story to educate others, advocate for change, and empower families through their darkest moments. Listeners will gain powerful insights into the emotional complexity of postpartum mental illness and the importance of support systems, self-advocacy, and breaking stigma. Meet Our Guest – Yalda Kazemi Yalda Kazemi is a Speaker, Author, Mental Health Advocate, Educator, and Policy Consultant focused on dismantling stigma around mental illness. She is the founder of Yalda Kazemi Consulting and the author of Unapologetic Truths: The Realities of Postpartum We Don’t Talk About. Yalda speaks widely on corporate wellness, resilience, and women’s mental health related to postpartum, perimenopause, and menopause. Website: https://www.yaldakazemi.com LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/yalda-kazemi-2864b129 Key Takeaways Mental illness is not a personal failing. It's not a choice, and shame should never be part of the equation. Recovery is possible. With support, medical care, and openness, healing can and does happen. There is strength in vulnerability. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Actionable Insights Learn the signs of postpartum mental illness so you can recognize it in yourself or support others. Build open conversations around mental health in families, communities, and workplaces. Normalize seeking professional help through therapy, medication, or hospitalization when needed. Episode Chapters and Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction by G Rex and Dirty Skittles 01:10 – Yalda's background and why she speaks so openly 03:43 – Her childbirth experience and immediate emotional disconnection 05:23 – The moment of diagnosis and fears about medication 10:03 – Intrusive thoughts and psychosis escalate 13:34 – Yalda checks into the psych ward 15:22 – Talking to her son about mental illness 17:56 – Postpartum tools prepare her for perimenopause 21:00 – Facing judgment and stigma head-on 26:35 – Teaching her son about mental health 36:39 – Losing support from close friends 40:08 – Gratitude, healing, and daily self-care References Unapologetic Truths: The Realities of Postpartum We Don’t Talk About by Yalda Kazemi: https://www.yaldakazemi.com/book Postpartum Support International: https://postpartum.net Mental Health Resource Guide: https://www.nami.org Subscribe, Rate, and Review Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more honest, bold, and healing conversations around mental health. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or leave a review at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews We appreciate every voice. Your feedback makes this community stronger. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #PostpartumDepression #MaternalMentalHealth #PerinatalSupport #MentalIllnessRecovery #SuicidePrevention #WomenSupportingWomen #MentalHealthMatters #BreakingTheStigma #YaldaKazemi #Grex #DirtySkittles #MentalHealthCommunity #PostpartumHealing #SelfCareIsEssential #PsychWardRecovery #UnapologeticTruths #PodcastForChange#HealingJourney ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_an
Ep 6Finding Light After Loss: How Lynda Rebuilt Her Life and Inner Glow
EIn this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Lynda Hugessen, a sobriety advocate, crystal healing artisan, and grief support champion. Lynda shares her powerful journey—from a turbulent childhood and struggles with addiction to a cancer diagnosis and the devastating loss of her son Ryan to alcoholism—and how she found a way to rebuild her life by helping others reclaim theirs. Note: Since this recording, Lynda has decided not to pursue Inner Glow Rising as a formal platform. Her healing journey continues in new and meaningful directions. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over one million downloads worldwide. Thank you for helping us break the stigma and create a safe space for mental health conversations. 🎙️ We’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Quote of the Episode “If we come together as a community and support one another, we can help each other heal. We can help each other find our inner glow again.” – Lynda Hugessen What This Episode Is Really About Grief, Growth, and the Glow of Healing Lynda Hugessen opens up about facing profound personal trauma, from losing her son to the emotional impact of addiction and illness. She reveals how creating healing crystal bracelets helped her move from surviving to thriving. In this conversation, Lynda reminds us that healing doesn't follow a straight line—and that community and creativity can offer meaningful paths forward. This is an episode for anyone who has felt overwhelmed by grief, trauma, or addiction—and is seeking hope, support, and connection. Meet Our Guest: Lynda Hugessen Sobriety Advocate | Crystal Healer | Grief Support Voice Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/lyndaslovelylooks Instagram (Bracelets): @lyndaslovelylooks Certified Reiki Master & Crystal Healing Practitioner 9+ Years Sober | Cancer Survivor | Mental Health Advocate Key Takeaways Healing Isn’t Linear – Recovery from trauma, addiction, and grief is deeply personal and unfolds over time. Creative Expression as Therapy – Designing crystal bracelets helped Lynda reconnect with purpose and healing. Purpose from Pain – Lynda’s experiences inspire others to find strength and community through creativity and compassion. Actionable Tips Write affirmations on your mirror to reinforce self-worth and positive thinking. Seek out or build a supportive community when navigating trauma or grief. Transform pain into purpose through creative outlets or service to others. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:01:12] – Discovering crystals during cancer recovery [00:07:42] – Losing her son Ryan to alcoholic liver disease [00:16:00] – Her DUI arrest and commitment to sobriety [00:21:54] – Cancer diagnosis and its lasting impact [00:24:00] – Building community and becoming a happiness facilitator [00:34:25] – Advice to her younger self and the power of affirmations [00:37:01] – Self-care with vision boards and spiritual practices [00:38:48] – Where to find Lynda and support her ongoing work References & Mentions Lynda’s Lovely Looks on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/lyndaslovelylooks Instagram (Bracelets): @lyndaslovelylooks Subscribe, Rate, and Review Love this episode? Want more conversations about real mental health journeys? Subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Visit us at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #GriefSupport #AddictionRecovery #CrystalHealing #EmotionalHealing #SobrietyJourney #TraumaRecovery #MindfulnessMatters #WomenInPodcasting #HealingJourney #SelfLoveTools #AnxietySupport #MentalHealthMatters #SpiritualHealing #ResilienceInGrief #NormalizeMentalHealth ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 5Stefani Gets Real About Dog Phobias, Kids, and Mental Health Wins
EIn this special episode, we sit down with Stefani Cohen, a clinical social worker and author of Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs. Together, we explore the often-overlooked anxiety surrounding dog phobias, especially in children, and how these fears can shape emotional development and resilience. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over one million downloads worldwide. Thank you for helping us break the stigma and create a safe space for mental health conversations. We’d love to hear your thoughts. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Quote of the Episode "You can't always control fear, but you can control how you respond to it — and that's where real growth happens." – Inspired by Stefani Cohen’s journey What This Episode Is Really About: Fear, Healing, and the Power of Understanding In this heartfelt conversation, Stefani Cohen, LCSW, shares her insights on how childhood fears—especially the fear of dogs—can deeply impact mental health. Drawing from her extensive work as a clinical social worker and her personal experience as a parent, Stefani discusses how these fears often stem from a sense of lost control and how exposure therapy can help children rebuild confidence. Listeners will discover how fear develops, the role parents play in shaping emotional responses, and how learning about animal behavior can promote emotional intelligence and resilience. This episode blends humor, expert advice, and vulnerability to open up meaningful dialogue about mental health and fear. Meet Our Guest: Stefani Cohen, LCSW Clinical Social Worker | Author | Educator B.A. in Sociology, William Smith College Master of Social Work, New York University Over 30 years helping parents and children manage anxiety, fear, and emotional regulation Specializes in exposure therapy for children afraid of dogs through her unique OFOD protocol Book: Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs Website: https://overcomefearofdogs.com/ Instagram: @overcomefearofdogs Facebook: OvercomeDogFear LinkedIn: Stefani Cohen, LCSW Key Takeaways Phobias Are Real Mental Health Issues: Dog phobias in children are valid and often misunderstood. Parental Influence Matters: Children can absorb anxiety from their environment, especially from their parents. Understanding Can Replace Fear: Teaching kids to understand dog behavior can build emotional confidence. Actionable Tips Model Calm Behavior: Your reactions around dogs influence how your child feels. Use Gradual Exposure: Help children slowly become comfortable with dogs in safe settings. Respect Emotional Signals: Encourage awareness of body language in both people and animals. Chapters & Time Stamps [00:01:12] – How Stefani’s daughter’s fear inspired her mission [00:02:41] – Four primary ways phobias develop in children [00:08:22] – Why boys ages 5–9 are statistically more prone to dog bites [00:13:19] – The role of control in childhood fear [00:24:18] – Understanding dog consent and the "three-second petting rule" [00:28:18] – Rapid-fire: resilience, favorite words, and self-care [00:33:31] – Where to find Stefani’s work and connect References & Mentions Overcoming Your Child’s Fear of Dogs by Stefani Cohen – overcomefearofdogs.com DSM-5 classification of specific phobias Child bite prevention research and statistics School-based humane education programs and therapy dog visits led by Stefani Subscribe, Rate, and Review Stay connected for more insightful conversations on mental health. Subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Your feedback fuels our mission to make mental health conversations more accessible, honest, and empowering. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #StefaniCohen #OvercomeFearOfDogs #DogPhobiaSupport #ParentingAnxiousKids #PhobiaTherapy #OvercomeFear #MentalHealthMatters #AnxietyInChildren #ResilientParenting #PositiveParenting #TherapyTools #FearOfDogs #EmotionalSupport #NormalizeMentalHealth #PetTherapy #ExposureTherapy ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing b
Ep 4How to Set Boundaries at Work Without Burning Bridges – Tips from Suzanne
EWelcome to another powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! This week, we’re talking about one of the most essential tools for mental well-being: setting boundaries, especially in the workplace. Our guest, Suzanne Culberg, aka The Nope Coach, shares raw truths, hard-earned wisdom, and real-life strategies for saying “no” without burning bridges, losing your mind, or being labeled "difficult." 🎉 Oh, and we’ve got some exciting news! We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast, and we’ve hit over 1 million downloads. 🏆 THANK YOU to our awesome listeners! Got feedback for us? We want to hear it—written or voice, we love it all 💌 Drop yours here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🧠 Mental Health Quote of the Episode “Choose discomfort over resentment.” – Brené Brown (as echoed powerfully by Suzanne in this episode) 🎧 What This Episode is About This episode dives into the messy middle of workplace boundaries, people-pleasing, and the societal pressure to say yes when we want to scream NO. Suzanne breaks down how to navigate awkward conversations with coworkers or managers, how to stop justifying your “no,” and how learning to honor your own needs can radically improve your mental health. 🌱 If you’re tired of overextending yourself or being the “yes person” at work and in life, Suzanne’s techniques and mindset shifts will help you reclaim your time, energy, and peace of mind. It’s real talk, full of laughs, strong language, and permission to start prioritizing yourself finally. 🌟 Meet Our Guest: Suzanne Culberg Suzanne is a bold, brilliant boundary coach based in Sydney, Australia. She’s a Certified NLP Practitioner, Sacred Depths Coach, and author of The Beginning is Sht: An Unapologetic Weight Loss Memoir*. Her mission? Help women say “no” without guilt—and finally say “yes” to themselves. Here’s what you need to know about Suzanne: Lives with her husband and two awesome kids Proud introvert and lover of all things sassy (especially T-shirts) Fitness nerd with a Bachelor of Medical Science (Hons) Diamond Dotz and fairy-smut fan 🤘 🔗 Find Suzanne here: Website – https://www.suzanneculberg.com/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/suzanne_culberg/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/suzanneculberg Podcast – https://www.suzanneculberg.com/the-nope-coach-podcast/ Newsletter – https://www.suzanneculberg.com/newsletter/ Book – https://mybook.to/suzanneculberg 🎯 Key Takeaways Boundaries preserve relationships – A clear “no” can be a deep act of respect. You don’t owe anyone an explanation – "No" is a full sentence. Resentment is a red flag – If you're frustrated, a boundary is probably missing. ✅ Actionable Tips Practice saying “No, thank you” without a reason. Then leave it there. Next time a task feels overwhelming, ask: “What’s the priority?” Designate one day this month just for you—no plans, no guilt, all recharge. 🕰️ Episode Chapters & Timestamps [00:07:42] Suzanne’s Boundary-Setting Origin Story [00:18:00] Saying “No” at Work Without Guilt [00:23:13] Drama, Empathy & Emotional Overload [00:34:57] Daily Self-Care & Saying Yes to Yourself [00:39:28] What Suzanne Would Tell Her Younger Self [00:42:29] Favorite Words, Pet Peeves & Humor [00:43:30] Where to Find Suzanne & Final Thoughts 📣 Subscribe, Rate & Review Love the episode? Show us some love! ⭐ Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 📝 Leave a review on your favorite platform 🌐 Or drop one here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads #NopeCoach #SuzanneCulberg #PeoplePleasing #WorkplaceWellness #BoundariesMatter #BurnoutRecovery #PodcastLife #WomensVoices #Authenticity #SayNoMore #MentalHealthMatters #SelfFirst #HealingJourney #PeopleChoicePodcastAward #WomenInPodcasting #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 3🎧 Inside the OCD Mind Loop: Valerie Breaks the Silence on Mental Health
EIn this powerful episode, Valerie Probstfeld returns to share what it’s really like to live with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder—beyond the clichés. From invisible mental spirals and postpartum anxiety to shame, resilience, and rewiring your thoughts, Valarie brings deep insight and heartfelt storytelling. Whether you live with OCD, support someone who does, or want to understand your mental health better, this conversation will stay with you. We're proud to be your go-to space for mental health conversations. 🏆 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award – Best Health Podcast 🏆 2024 Women In Podcasting Award – Best Mental Health Podcast 🎉 Over 1 million downloads! Have feedback? Please tell us what you think! 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a (Voice or written input welcome!) Quote of the Episode: “Thoughts are just thoughts—we give them too much credit.” – Valerie Probstfeld What This Episode Covers: This episode dives into Valerie’s lived experience with OCD—the obsessive thoughts, the quiet compulsions, and the constant mental “loops” that many never see. She opens up about the evolution of her symptoms, her relationship with shame, and the tools she uses today to cope and reclaim control, including mindfulness, gratitude, and naming her thoughts. We also explore the impact of media like Inside Out 2 and Disney’s portrayals of emotions and how writing has helped her reframe the narrative inside her mind. Guest: Valerie Probstfeld Valerie is a nurse practitioner, writer, speaker, and founder of To Mom Is To Love—a platform focused on mental wellness, gratitude, and living authentically. She’s a mom of three and firmly believes in creating mental space through mindfulness, neuroplasticity, and storytelling. Website: https://www.tomomistolove.com/ Podcast: https://www.tomomistolove.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerie_probstfeld/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090022943012 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQhKAdlZP8_tq2-zv3CqhrQ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valerie-probstfeld-23022448/ New Book Available: To Mom Is to Love: Pioneering a New Kind of Motherhood, Paperback will be available on May 9th Key Takeaways: OCD is not just about neatness or cleanliness—it often involves internal, invisible distress. Labeling thoughts as “OCD” helps reduce their power and shame. Emotional awareness in children’s media (like Inside Out 2) is helping normalize mental health conversations. Actionable Tips: Physically break the OCD loop: walk, clean, or move your body. Use the phrase “this is the OCD, not me” to reclaim your thoughts. Counteract negative thinking with gratitude and minor mental resets. Timestamps & Chapters: 00:01:12 – Welcome back, Valarie 00:04:55 – What OCD feels like beyond the stereotypes 00:11:25 – Intrusive thoughts and perfectionism in motherhood 00:25:13 – Real-life OCD loop example: “I thought I hit someone.” 00:28:00 – How medication felt like putting on glasses for the mind 00:36:00 – Disney movies and emotional education 00:47:02 – Healing through journaling and narrative therapy Resources Mentioned: Brain Lock by Dr. Jeffrey M. Schwartz Andrew Huberman’s Podcast (on OCD and neuroplasticity) The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk John Gottman’s 5:1 Positive-Negative Ratio Pixar’s Inside Out 2 Subscribe, Rate & Review: Enjoy this episode? Please help us keep the conversations going! 👉 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #ToMomIsToLove #OCDAwareness #IntrusiveThoughts #NeurodivergentVoices #MindsetMatters #NormalizeOCD #HealingJourney #SelfCompassion #EmotionalWellness #StopTheStigma #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #AuthenticLiving #PostpartumAnxiety #MentalWellness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 2Grief, Growth & Grit: Pearl on Losing Her Son and Learning to Live Again
EWelcome to another heartfelt episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 💥—the podcast normalizing mental health conversations. This week, we talk with Pearl Chiarenza about grief, resilience, setting boundaries, and finding joy again. 🏆 We’re proud winners of the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast! With over 1 million downloads, we couldn't have done it without you. 💬 We want your feedback! Please leave us a message (written or voice) at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote: "Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives." Guest Bio - Pearl Chiarenza: Pearl Chiarenza is a Mental Fitness Life Coach, author, speaker, and founder of the SHERO community, which hosts events and pajama retreats for women. Pearl empowers women to live unapologetically through mental fitness, self-care, and resilience. She’s a mom, a wife, and a fierce advocate for self-discovery. Website: https://www.wsliving.com/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soulful-self-care-conversations/id1565952559 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pearl_chiarenza/ Facebook: https://www.wsliving.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKRrlLHaqK0FDKOl42jgZVA LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pearl-chiarenza-8269a8b/ Podcast Shoutout! 🎧 Go check out How to Be a Grownup by Caitlin & Jenny — funny, real talk for moms navigating the chaos of life! 🙌 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes Key Takeaways: Grief is not something you "get over"—you learn to live with it. Setting boundaries is vital to protecting your mental health. Healing is an active process: it requires therapy, community, and self-love. Actionable Items: Write your "Joy List"—10 things that genuinely make you happy. Practice saying "No" without apology. Stay connected with your support tribe. Important Timestamps: [00:00-05:00] Meet Pearl and Mental Health Journeys [05:00-15:00] Coping with Grief and Family Toxicity [15:00-25:00] Breaking Free from People-Pleasing [25:00-30:00] Pearl’s Healing Practices [30:00-37:00] Advice to Her Younger Self and Life Lessons [37:00-End] Resources, Final Words, and Where to Find Pearl Subscribe, Rate, and Review! ⭐ Subscribe for more inspiring mental health conversations. ⭐ Rate and review us on your favorite platform or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GriefJourney #HealingAfterLoss #SelfCareMatters #WomensEmpowerment #PositiveMindset #PearlChiarenza #WSLiving #MentalHealthMatters #SelfLove #GriefSupport #DirtySkittles #GRex #MentalFitness #PersonalGrowth #TraumaHealing #BoundariesMatter #AwardWinningPodcast #PodcastRecommendations ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 1Therapy Isn’t Scary: Breaking Mental Health Myths with Dr. Bonnie Wims
E🌟 Welcome to Season 11 We’re kicking off Season 11 with a powerful, heart-first conversation designed to help anyone who’s ever felt unsure about therapy or struggled to believe they deserve healing. In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Bonnie Wims, a New York City-based Counseling Psychologist and host of Therapy Deconstructed. Bonnie opens up about her mental health journey—growing up in a home marked by trauma, chasing success as a way to quiet fear, and eventually learning to sit with the voice in her head that said she wasn’t enough. If you’ve ever wondered whether therapy can help, or if you’re the problem, this episode is a reminder: you are not broken, and you’re not alone. We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 1 million downloads. We’re building a brave, compassionate community—one honest conversation at a time. 💬 Your feedback means the world to us! Share your thoughts or drop a voice message: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🧠 Quote of the Episode “You’re not broken. Life is hard, and things happen to you, but you deserve happiness and fulfillment just like anybody else.” — Dr. Bonnie Wims 👩⚕️ Meet Our Guest: Dr. Bonnie Wims Dr. Bonnie Wims knows what it means to survive trauma while chasing success and wondering why it still doesn’t feel like enough. Raised in Colorado in an abusive home, she learned early to shrink herself to survive. Even after earning a doctorate, moving to London, and starting a thriving private practice, she still wrestled with fear—until therapy helped her meet that fear with compassion instead of avoidance. Now, Bonnie helps others do the same through her work and her podcast, Therapy Deconstructed. She’s on a mission to help you stop hiding and start healing. Connect with Dr. Bonnie Wims: Website: https://www.bonniewims.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wimsassociates/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbonniewims/ Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapydeconstructedpodcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drbonniewims/ Podcast: https://www.bonniewims.com/podcast/ 🎧 Podcast Shoutout! We love supporting fellow creators, especially when they’re as real and funny as Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup! This hilarious and heartfelt podcast helps moms laugh, learn, and survive the chaos of adulting. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 🔑 Key Takeaways Therapy is a safe space where you can finally be honest with yourself. That voice telling you you’re “too much” is often fear pretending to protect you. You don’t have to stay with the first therapist you meet—finding the right fit matters. ✅ Action Items Track your self-talk — Begin noticing how you speak to yourself and ask: “Would I say this to someone I love?” Take a small first step — Reach out to a therapist or call 988 if you’re in crisis. Remember you have choices — If your current therapist isn’t a good fit, it’s okay to move on. ⏱️ Episode Highlights 00:00 – Meet Bonnie and welcome to Season 11 03:00 – Why fear keeps people out of therapy 08:00 – Bonnie’s childhood and internalizing pain 14:00 – Her first experiences with therapy as a client 22:00 – The power of “speed dating” your therapist 35:00 – How self-talk shapes our emotional health 44:00 – What she’d tell her 6-year-old self 50:00 – Tools for calming your nervous system and building new patterns 📲 Subscribe, Rate & Review Don't miss future episodes of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and help us spread the message that mental health conversations are for everyone. ⭐ Leave a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #DrBonnieWims #TherapyDeconstructedPodcast #TherapyIsntScary #TraumaHealing #YouAreNotBroken #HealingJourney #EndTheStigma #SelfWorth #TherapyTools #TalkTherapy #SpeedDateYourTherapist #TherapistTalk #PodcastTherapy #AnxietyHelp #DepressionRecovery #SafeSpacesMatter ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskit
Ep 11Middle Fingers, Mental Health, and Milestones: Wrapping Season 10 with Love and Laughter
EIn this heartfelt and hilarious season finale, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles reflect on the ten powerful episodes from season 10 that spotlight real mental health journeys—from grief and sobriety to anxiety and radical self-love. With their signature blend of humor, honesty, and heart, they revisit the lessons, laughs, and middle fingers that made Season 10 unforgettable. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is an award-winning mental health podcast, proudly named the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast 🏆. 🎉 We’ve also hit over 1 MILLION downloads—thanks to YOU, our amazing listeners! 🗣️ Got thoughts? Share your feedback or leave us a voice memo here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a “Mental health is not a destination, but a process. It's about how you drive, not where you’re going.” – Noam Shpancer 🧠 What Went Down with G-Rex & Dirty Skittles This episode isn’t just a recap—it’s a vibe 😎. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles kicked things off with their classic Zoom countdown chaos (complete with double middle fingers 🖕🖕), laughed at how their intro has become ritual therapy, and reflected on what Season 10 taught them personally and as podcast hosts. Season 10 Life Lessons They Shared: 💬 Therapy is everywhere – Especially when you’re recording with your bestie. 💡 Mental health is a lifelong practice, and each guest brought a new tool for the toolbox. 🌱 Purpose after pain is powerful – G-Rex shared how her new podcast, The Survivors, was born out of deep personal experience with suicide and survival. 👯♀️ You don’t have to do this alone – From finding your people to leaning on your partner, Season 10 reminded us that community matters. 📈 Growth is scary but worth it. From quitting jobs to starting companies, the season mirrored their transformations. 🔥 Season 10 Highlights – Meet Our Guests 💔 Lisa Sugarman Key Takeaways: Grief can revisit you at any age. Purpose can grow out of pain. Actionable Tips: Check out her crisis resources at https://helphub.co Share your story to break the silence around suicide loss and prevention. ❤️ Johnny and Cristy Key Takeaways: Healthy love requires honest work. Sobriety doesn’t erase your past—it helps rewrite your future. Actionable Tips: Attend an Al-Anon meeting to learn how to support loved ones through addiction. Prioritize boundaries even in loving relationships. 🏋️♂️ Curt Key Takeaways: Your pain can push you toward reinvention. Physical health feeds mental health. Actionable Tips: Start small: 15 mins of movement a day. Set a goal that excites (and slightly scares) you. 🐾 Honey Badger Key Takeaways: Grief hits everyone differently—and that’s okay. Preparing for loss is an act of love. Actionable Tips: Get a document organizer like “So I’ve Died, Now What?” Respect how others grieve, even if it looks different from your process. 🧠 Alyssa Key Takeaways: Self-care is non-negotiable. Boundaries protect your peace. Actionable Tips: Build a night routine to improve your sleep hygiene. Reframe anxiety through CBT techniques. 🍷 Hadley Key Takeaways: You don’t need a rock bottom to make a change. Sobriety can be joyful, not restrictive. Actionable Tips: Take a 30-day alcohol break and journal your experience. Explore sober communities online for support and connection. 🌸 Summer Key Takeaways: Radical honesty is a healing act. You are allowed to do what feels good—even if others don’t get it. Actionable Tips: Create a comfort ritual for tough days (music, writing, movement). Listen to Stressed, Depressed, and Anxious for real talk from someone who gets it. 🎤 G-Rex & Dirty Skittles Say… This season was a mirror, a medicine cabinet, and a masterclass all rolled into one. Whether you’re lifting weights, setting boundaries, grieving losses, or ditching the booze, we’re right there with you. Thanks for showing up and growing with us 💛 📍 Chapter Timestamps [00:00:00] – Opening chaos + countdown hijinks [00:02:15] – Reflections on podcast growth + purpose [00:05:43] – Lisa Sugarman & the birth of “The Survivors” [00:07:21] – Grieving twice: Lisa’s powerful story [00:09:55] – Honey Badger on generational grief + getting your affairs in order [00:11:17] – Johnny & Cristy’s journey through addiction and healing [00:14:05] – Curt and the healing power of fitness [00:16:39] – Alyssa on anxiety, music, and nurturing yourself [00:21:04] – Hadley reclaims her life through sobriety [00:24:03] – Summer brings the raw, real, and relatable energy [00:26:52] – Season 10 wrap-up + tools to take with you 🎧 Podcast Shoutout Shoutout to Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup 🙌 They’re hilarious and helpful, and they are 100% your people if you navigate #MomLife with humor and heart. 🎧 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 📱 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT 🌐 Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.co
Ep 10Stressed, Depressed, Anxious—Summer’s Story of Survival and Self-Love
EWelcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the award-winning mental health podcast that's not afraid to get real. In this episode, we sit down with Summer, the honest and hilarious host of Stressed, Depressed, and Anxious, to talk about living through anxiety, coping with depression, and what it really means to survive your own mind. Summer opens up about experiencing her first panic attack at 19, how writing became her emotional escape hatch, and why sometimes the simple act of spite is enough to keep going. From family stigma to workplace burnout, this conversation will hit home for anyone who's ever felt like their mental health story doesn’t “fit the mold.” We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health, the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and the show that’s crossed over 1 million downloads worldwide. We want to hear from YOU. Let us know what you think about this episode. Leave us written feedback or even a voice message here: 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 👈 🧠 “The hardest lesson I’ve had to learn is that no one is coming to save you. You have to save yourself.” – Summer 🎧 Meet Our Guest: Summer Summer is the creator and host of Stressed, Depressed, and Anxious, a podcast that brings mental health conversations out of the shadows and into the real world—with all the mess, honesty, and humor intact. A self-described survivor and storyteller, Summer was the first in her family to address her mental health struggles head-on. After enduring clinical depression at 17 and navigating anxiety attacks in her early 20s, she found comfort in therapy, journaling, and connecting with others through raw, unfiltered storytelling. Her show is a home for listeners who want more than cookie-cutter advice—to feel understood. Website: https://www.sdanxious.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sdanxious/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stressedepressedanxious/ X: https://twitter.com/sd_anxious Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/stresseddepressedanxious ⏱️ Episode Chapters [00:01:00] – Meet Summer and her mental health journey [00:05:00] – First anxiety attack and the weight of misdiagnosis [00:08:30] – When anxiety shows up in everyday moments [00:11:00] – Coping with chaos through writing and laughter [00:16:00] – Breaking generational silence on mental health [00:20:00] – Mental health at work: Toxicity and burnout [00:26:00] – System failures: What happens when support isn't there [00:35:00] – What Summer would tell her 5-year-old self [00:39:00] – The courage to trust and be seen [00:41:00] – Summer’s comfort rituals and self-care toolkit ✅ Actionable Tips from This Episode Write a letter you’ll never send—a powerful and private release for stress and anger. Track your anxiety triggers. Look for repeated moments where anxiety creeps in—especially when leaving isn't an easy option. Name your emotions. Saying "I'm feeling anxious" can stop your brain from spiraling. 🧠 Takeaways That Hit Hard Mental health can be invisible, but it’s always real. Your story doesn’t have to be polished to be powerful. Empathy begins where silence ends. 🎧 Podcast Shoutout! Big shout out to Caitlin & Jenny from How to Be a Grownup! These two are a must-listen for moms and adulting humans who need to laugh, cry, and feel heard. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 💬 Subscribe, Rate & Review! Don’t miss future episodes of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 🎧 ✔️ Subscribe on your favorite podcast app ⭐ Rate & Review to help us reach more listeners 🌐 Submit a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #sdanxious #AnxietySupport #DepressionRecovery #NormalizeTherapy #StressedDepressedAnxious #PodcastForChange #PodcastCommunity #SelfLoveJourney #MentalHealthConversations #TherapyIsCool #HealingInProgress #WomenInPodcasting #MentalHealthMatters #SurvivalStory #RawTalk #StorytellingHeals ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an
Ep 9How Hadley Found Her Joy After Letting Go of Social Drinking
EWelcome back to another episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re not just any podcast—we’re the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast 🏆💥 With over 1 million downloads, we’re here to normalize honest conversations about mental health, healing, and hope. In this episode, we sit down with writer, mom, and sobriety advocate Hadley Sorensen to discuss what happens when you step away from “mommy wine culture” and start listening to your mental health. We’re talking about gray area drinking, anxiety, antidepressants, and the internal shift that happens when you stop numbing out and start showing up. Hadley’s story is for anyone who thought, “I’m not that bad... so I must be fine,” while silently struggling. 💬 Got thoughts or feedback on this episode? Leave us a voice message or written note here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 💬 Quote of the Episode: "If it’s worsening your life, you don’t need to keep doing it. You don’t need a rock bottom to make a change." — Hadley Sorensen 💁♀️ Meet Our Guest – Hadley Sorensen Hadley is a mom of three boys, a passionate distance runner, and the author of The Dirty Truth on Social Drinking: “Everything in Moderation” and Other BS, which was released in 2024 and is available now. After years of participating in social drinking culture—and silently questioning her relationship with alcohol—Hadley decided to stop ignoring her intuition. Now three and a half years sober, she’s helping others realize that sobriety isn’t just for rock bottoms—it’s for anyone who wants to feel better. Find Hadley online: Website: http://www.hadleysorensen.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hadley_sorensen/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hadley-sorensen-3bbb979/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HadleySorensenWellnessHypeGirl 🔑 Key Takeaways You don’t have to look like you have a drinking problem for it to be impacting your mental health. Alcohol can dull the effectiveness of antidepressants like Lexapro or Zoloft. Self-care starts with self-honesty—when you stop pretending everything’s fine, healing can begin. ✅ Actionable Tips Start a “feel log” – note how you feel physically/emotionally after drinking vs. when you don’t. Swap your 5PM drink for a fun, alcohol-free ritual like kombucha, tea, or mocktails. Be honest with your support circle—what would change if you told them the truth? ⏱️ Chapter Timestamps 00:02:10 – Hadley’s wake-up moment: “I’m doing this to myself” 00:10:21 – The mental health-medication-alcohol triangle 00:16:21 – Writing The Dirty Truth for gray area drinkers 00:19:47 – Breaking up with wine culture and reclaiming her peace 00:28:37 – Talking to teens about drinking in an honest, shame-free way 00:39:13 – Hadley’s real self-care toolkit (spoiler: no bubble baths) 🎧 Podcast Shout Out! We LOVE supporting other creators, and Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup are the real deal 🙌 They’re hilarious, honest, and relatable—helping moms laugh and learn through the chaos of adulting. 🎙️ Listen here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 💥 Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Do you love what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or leave your review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 📣 Keep the Conversation Going Listener Feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Podcast Website: https://goesoninourheads.net Hadley's Book: The Dirty Truth on Social Drinking – Available now on Amazon and major booksellers #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #SobrietyJourney #SoberCurious #MentalHealthMatters#GrayAreaDrinking #AlcoholFreeLiving #SoberLife #PostpartumMentalHealth #WomenAndSobriety#MomLifeBalance #MentalHealthSupport #NoMoreShame #SelfCareOverSpirits #TherapyWorks #AnxietyRecovery #LexaproLife #BreakTheStigma#NormalizeSobriety #HealingJourney #EmotionalWellbeing #FindYourJoy #Grex #DirtySkittles#HadleySorensen #WellnessWarrior #EndTheStigma #DepressionSupport ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Ne
Ep 8Anxiety, Self-Trust, and Joy: A Mental Health Deep Dive with Alyssa
EThis week on Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we’re joined by the incredible Alyssa Kushner, LCSW—a licensed therapist and fierce mental health advocate who helps clients navigate anxiety, trauma, burnout, and self-doubt. In this honest and empowering conversation, Alyssa shares how she built her private practice, overcame impostor syndrome, and framed her approach to self-trust and joy heading into 2025. Whether you’re feeling paralyzed by perfectionism or just trying to figure out where to begin, Alyssa’s story and practical insights will leave you feeling seen, supported, and inspired to take that next step. And hey, we’re not just your average mental health podcast—we’re officially award-winning! 🎉 In 2024, we won the People’s Choice Podcast Award for Health and the Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast. Oh,—and we also passed 1 million downloads! Thank you for being part of this growing, stigma-breaking, soul-nourishing community. 🗣 Got feedback? Leave us a message or drop your thoughts here: 📢 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 💬 Quote of the Episode "The relationship you have with yourself is the most important one you’ll ever nurture." – Alyssa 👤 Meet Our Guest: Alyssa Kushner, LCSW Alyssa is a licensed clinical social worker providing virtual therapy in NY, NJ, MD & D.C. She specializes in: Anxiety, trauma & burnout People-pleasing & perfectionism ADHD, disordered eating, & body image Relationship patterns & self-worth Her approach is relational, trauma-informed, somatic, and holistic—infused with creativity, mindfulness, and compassion. 📌 Learn More About Alyssa: Bio: https://bio.site/alyssakushnerlcsw Website: https://www.ak-psychotherapy.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alyssaktherapy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyssakushner/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AKPsychotherapyLCSW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alyssaktherapy 🧩 Key Takeaways Your anxiety is a signal, not a flaw. Impostor syndrome happens to everyone—yes, even therapists. Joy is powerful, even when it has no “purpose.” ✅ Action Steps You Can Try Today 💛 Try mindful self-compassion by placing your hand over your heart and speaking kindly to yourself. 🧠 When self-doubt hits, ask: “Is this my voice—or someone else’s?” 🎨 Do something joyful just because it feels good. ⏱️ Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Cold weather banter 🧤 03:00 – Meet Alyssa + her path to therapy 04:45 – Anxiety, wellness basics, and sobriety 10:00 – What joy and self-permission look like in 2025 20:00 – Sleep, exercise, reframing thoughts 28:00 – Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory explained 30:00 – Owning impostor syndrome 35:00 – How to let go of perfection 37:00 – Wrapping with joy, calm, and clarity 📚 Resources Mentioned Mel Robbins: Let Them Theory – https://www.melrobbins.com/blog/the-let-them-theory Inside Out 2 (Movie) – Emotional education for families Mindful Self-Compassion – https://self-compassion.org/ 🎧 Podcast Shout out! We LOVE supporting other creators—and Caitlin & Jenny of How to Be a Grownup are the real deal 🙌 They’re hilarious, honest, and relatable—helping moms laugh and learn through the chaos of adulting. 🎙️ Listen here: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes 🌟 Subscribe, Rate, and Review! If this episode resonated with you, subscribe for more amazing mental health convos. Leave us a review to help others discover our community: 📝 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #AKPsychotherapy #Grex #DirtySkittles #TherapistTalks #PodcastForHealing #WomenInPodcasting #MentalHealthTools #LetThemTheory #JoyAndGrowth #ImposterSyndromeHelp #AnxietySupport #TherapyConversations ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 7Empowering Your Mind: Alicia Hopkins on Anxiety, Growth, and Finding Your Path
E👋 Hey there, mental health warriors! Welcome to another episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re your hosts, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, bringing you inspiring stories and practical advice weekly. 🏆 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Health) 🏆 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) 🎧 Over 1 million downloads worldwide! 💬 Help us grow by sharing your feedback! Leave a written or voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Spotlight: Alicia Hopkins on Mental Health, Growth & Finding Your Path In this episode, we chat with Alicia Hopkins, a mental health powerhouse, as she shares her insights on mental wellness, growth, and finding your path to empowerment. 💡 Quote of the Day: “My mental health is a massive part of my lifestyle. And if I'm not being productive towards taking care of my mental health, then, like, I don't feel as good.” – Alicia Hopkins Meet Alicia Hopkins Alicia is a passionate mental health therapist who blends professional expertise and personal experience to help others transform their lives. A recovering perfectionist, Alicia has embraced humor and resilience to navigate childhood traumas. She is dedicated to assisting clients to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, advocate for themselves, and take charge of their lives. Company: Path to Empowerment Counseling Website:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/alicia-hopkins-denver-co/786146 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/aliciahopkins? Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapy.in.real.life ✨ Key Takeaways ✨ 1️⃣ Authenticity is Key – Being genuine and showing your true self fosters trust and creates a safe space for vulnerability. 2️⃣ Advocate for Yourself—Strong advocacy skills are required in the workplace and personal relationships. Sharpen them to create a better environment. 3️⃣ Mental Health as a Lifestyle – Prioritizing mental health is an ongoing practice, not a one-time fix. 💪 Actionable Items 💪 ✔️ Incorporate a Morning Routine – Start your day with intention using Mel Robbins’s morning routine: No phone upon waking, a short walk, water, and gratitude. ✔️ Challenge Limiting Beliefs – Recognize areas where you feel stuck. What steps can you take to grow? ✔️ Practice Self-Compassion – Forgive yourself for past mistakes and focus on personal growth. ⏰ Important Chapter Timestamps ⏰ [00:04:58] – Embracing Natural Hair: Confidence & Self-acceptance [00:12:36] – G-Rex’s Epiphany: Overcoming suicidal thoughts & starting a business [00:44:50] – Alicia’s Hardest Lesson: Learning not to lose yourself in a relationship [00:51:41] – Self-Love & Care: Alicia’s daily mental wellness practices 🔗 References 🔗 📌 Mel Robbins Morning Routine 📌 Psychology Today – https://www.psychologytoday.com/ 📌 Alma – Find Therapists Who Take Insurance – https://helloalma.com/ #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #AliciaHopkins #MindsetMatters #SelfCareJourney #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #HealingJourney #GrowthMindset #InnerStrength #BreakTheStigma #EmpowerYourMind #WellnessMatters #SelfLoveFirst ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 6Honey Badger on Healing: Letting Go & Moving Forward – Part 2
EWelcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the award-winning podcast breaking the stigma around mental health! 🏆 We are honored to be the 2024 People’s Choice Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we’re building a community where honest conversations matter. In this powerful Part 2 episode, we continue our heartfelt conversation with Honey Badger, a fearless educator, mental health advocate, and storyteller no stranger to grief, trauma, and resilience. She opens up about her profound loss, the struggle of navigating relationships during grief, and the importance of boundaries and self-care. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by loss, stuck in the people-pleasing cycle, or struggled to reclaim your sense of self, this episode is for you. 💬 We Want Your Feedback! 💬 Your thoughts matter to us! Let us know what you think about this episode by leaving a written comment or voice message here: 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Meet Our Guest: Honey Badger A passionate educator, mental health advocate, and storyteller, Honey Badger isn’t afraid to tackle life’s toughest conversations. Having navigated profound loss and complex family dynamics, she brings raw honesty, humor, and wisdom to every discussion. From breaking down mental health stigmas to reflecting on the long-term effects of trauma, she’s here to inspire, empower, and remind us that healing is never linear but always possible. 🔥 Key Takeaways From This Episode: Boundaries Are Your Superpower – Setting and maintaining boundaries isn’t just about protecting yourself; it’s about reclaiming your peace and emotional well-being. Grief Never Truly Ends, But It Changes – Healing doesn’t mean forgetting. Grief comes in waves, and learning to ride them gracefully is part of the journey. You Don’t Have to Fix Everything – Sometimes, the best thing you can do for someone struggling is be present. Silence, support, and space can be more potent than words. ⏳ Important Chapters: ⏱ [00:00] – Welcome Back & Podcast Updates ⏱ [04:22] – Honey Badger’s Story: Navigating Grief and the Unexpected ⏱ [10:36] – The Impact of Trauma on the Brain & Mental Health ⏱ [16:51] – The Power of Boundaries & Saying ‘No’ Without Guilt ⏱ [24:49] – How to Support Someone Through Grief ⏱ [31:33] – Finding Joy Again: Rebuilding Life After Loss ⏱ [37:22] – Final Thoughts & Mental Health Resources 💡 Mental Health Quote: "Grief never goes away. It just changes shape. Some days, it’s a whisper; others, it’s a storm. But no matter how heavy it feels, you’re never truly alone." 🔗 Resources & References: 📌 Learn more about the ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Study: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html 📌 Find mental health support: https://www.nami.org/Home 📌 Setting Boundaries in Mental Health: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-boundaries 📢 Subscribe, Rate & Review! Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode of real, raw mental health conversations. If this episode resonated with you, please leave a rating & review to help others find us! 💻 Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthMatters #GriefHealing #BoundariesMatter #PodcastCommunity #HealingJourney #MentalHealthPodcast #AwardWinningPodcast #HoneyBadgerSpeaks #LettingGo #SelfCareTips #grex #dirtyskittles #stgoioh 🎧 Thank you for listening, and remember: It’s okay to not be okay. Just make sure you’re talking to someone. 💙 ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 5The ACEs of Grief: Understanding Trauma & Healing with Honey Badger (Part 1)
E🎙 Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is an award-winning podcast, honored as the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast! With over 1 million downloads, we’re building a community where mental health conversations are raw, authentic, and stigma-free. 💭 We’d love your feedback! Let us know your thoughts on this episode by leaving a written message or a voice note at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Overview In this powerful episode, we sit down with Honey Badger, a fearless mental health advocate and educator, who opens up about grief, childhood trauma, and the long-term effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). She shares her deeply personal story, from navigating profound loss to understanding how early-life trauma shapes our mental health. If you've ever struggled with grief, family dysfunction, or feeling unheard, this conversation is for you. Honey Badger’s raw honesty, humor, and wisdom create a safe space to break the silence on loss, healing, and resilience. Mental Health Quote of the Episode "You never know the story behind somebody else. Be kind. You don’t know if a single moment of compassion could change their entire day—or their life." – Honey Badger. Meet Our Guest: Honey Badger Honey Badger is a passionate educator, mental health advocate, and storyteller who isn’t afraid to dive into life’s most challenging conversations. With a background in education and a deep personal journey through grief, trauma, and resilience, she brings raw honesty and insight to every discussion. Having experienced profound loss and complex family dynamics, Honey Badger shares her story with humor, wisdom, and a no-nonsense attitude—just like the fearless animal she’s named after. Whether breaking down the stigma of mental health, discussing the impact of childhood experiences, or simply keeping it real, she’s here to inspire and connect with those who need it most. Key Takeaways from This Episode 1️⃣ The Impact of ACEs – How Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) increase the risk of mental and physical health struggles and why it’s crucial to understand your own ACE score. 2️⃣ Grief & Family Dynamics – How unresolved grief and family dysfunction can make healing even harder—and why setting boundaries is necessary. 3️⃣ Breaking the Silence – The importance of talking about grief, loss, and trauma, even when it’s uncomfortable, to foster true healing. Important Chapters 🕒 [00:00] - Welcome to the show! Introduction to Honey Badger 🕒 [02:40] - Why we don’t talk about grief & loss in our society 🕒 [04:45] - The ACEs questionnaire: Understanding childhood trauma 🕒 [10:04] - How childhood experiences shape adult mental health 🕒 [16:09] - The reality of losing a loved one & navigating family dynamics 🕒 [22:03] - How humor and setting boundaries help with grief 🕒 [29:25] - Wrapping up: The power of sharing your story Resources & References 📌 Take the ACEs Questionnaire – https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean 📌 Mental Health Support Resources – https://www.nami.org/Support-Education 📌 Books on Grief for Children & Adults Grandma's Breath—Written by Mother Moon and illustrated by Anastasiya Kanavaliuk. Set during the COVID-19 pandemic, this story follows a young girl, Kaiah, whose grandmother taught her to use breathing techniques during anxiety attacks. When her grandmother passes, Kaiah gives back by supporting elderly patients. Ages 5-10. Ida, Always – Written by Caron Lewis and illustrated by Charles Santoso. A touching story of two best friend polar bears and how one copes with the loss of the other. Ages 4-8. The Invisible String—Written by Patrice Karst and illustrated by Joanne Lew-Vriethoff, this book explains the unbreakable connections between loved ones. It is highly recommended among social workers and therapists. Also available in Spanish. Ages 3-7. Join the Conversation! 💬 What resonated with you the most? Leave us a comment or a voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🔔 Don’t Miss Part 2! Stay tuned as Honey Badger continues this eye-opening discussion in our next episode. Subscribe, Rate, & Review! 🎧 Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite platform and leave a review at https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastForMentalHealth #GriefJourney #HealingThroughTrauma #ACEs #MentalHealthPodcast #BreakTheStigma #GriefSupport #ChildhoodTrauma 🔥 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it! 🔥 ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States:
Ep 4Breaking Stigmas: Curt’s Mental Health & Fitness Journey
E📢 Award-Winning Podcast | Over 1 Million Downloads! 🎉 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health 🎉 2024 Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast Join us for another powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, where we tackle mental health head-on! We’re incredibly honored to welcome Curt, a dynamic force of resilience, reinvention, and personal growth. Curt shares his powerful journey—from navigating personal hardships and high-stakes careers to becoming a competitive bodybuilder at 63. 🏆 We Want to Hear From You! 🏆 Your feedback matters! Please leave us your thoughts, whether in writing or by voice message, at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. 🔥 Meet Our Guest: Curt 🔥 Curt’s journey is nothing short of extraordinary. A Columbine High School alumnus, he has led a remarkable global aerospace and defense consulting career. His experiences have taken him around the world, but his heart remains deeply connected to his Columbine community, where he played a pivotal role in memorial efforts following the 1999 tragedy. 🌍 A Career of Global Impact Curt has spent years guiding U.S. companies in international markets. Despite his high-pressure career, he never lost sight of his passion for self-growth and fitness. 💪 A Reinvention at 60+ Curt took on an unexpected challenge—competitive bodybuilding at age 60. What started as a personal goal quickly turned into a nationally ranked pursuit. At 63, he placed in the Top 10 at NPC Nationals, proving that age is no barrier to ambition. ❤️ A Mental Health Advocate Beyond his professional and fitness achievements, Curt firmly believes in mental health awareness. From navigating personal struggles to advocating self-love, his journey is a testament to resilience and the power of transformation. 💛 How You Can Help LA Fire Victims 💛 We’re partnering with Heather Grace Skincare to support LA Fire Victims & the LA Mission! Ways to Get Involved: 💛 Shop with Purpose – 10% of all purchases from Heather Grace Skincare through February go to the Los Angeles Mission. 💛 Spread the Word – Share this initiative to amplify support. 💛 Donate Directly – Visit Los Angeles Mission to contribute. 🔗 More Info: 👉 Website: https://heathergraceskincare.com/ 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heathergraceskincare/ 👉 News Release: https://www.openpr.com/news/3840564/heather-grace-skincare-partners-with-g-rex-from-sh-t-that-goes 🎧 Key Takeaways from This Episode 1️⃣ Reinvention is Always Possible – You can redefine your path no matter where you are. 2️⃣ Fitness & Mental Health Go Hand-in-Hand – Physical activity can be a powerful tool for managing mental well-being. 3️⃣ Community Matters – Strong connections provide essential support, whether in fitness or personal struggles. ⏳ Important Chapters ⏩ [00:01:05] – Curt’s Background & Connection to Columbine ⏩ [00:06:13] – How Fitness Became a Mental Health Lifeline ⏩ [00:12:42] – The Unexpected World of Competitive Bodybuilding ⏩ [00:27:04] – Learning Self-Love & Embracing Reinvention ⏩ [00:36:02] – Overcoming Personal Struggles & Finding Purpose 💡 Mental Health Quote of the Episode "You don’t have to control your thoughts. You have to stop letting them control you." — Dan Millman 📲 Follow & Support the Show! ⭐ Subscribe, Rate & Review! Help us keep breaking mental health stigmas—subscribe and leave a review! 🔗 Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 🔥 Ready for an inspiring conversation? Tune in now and join us in breaking the stigma! #MentalHealthAwareness #Podcast #BreakingStigmas #BodybuildingOver60 #SelfLove #Reinvention #FitnessJourney #MentalWellness #ColumbineCommunity #LAFireVictims #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 3Healing Together: Johnny and Cristy on Codependency, Boundaries & Growth (Part 2)
E🔔 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses alcoholism, domestic abuse, and mental health struggles. Please take care of yourself accordingly. 🎙️ Welcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads We are an award-winning podcast, recognized as the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 1 million downloads, we foster open, raw, and real conversations about mental health. 💬 We Value Your Feedback! We want to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode through a written review or voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Meet Our Guests: Johnny & Cristy Meet Johnny and Cristy, two incredible individuals with powerful stories of resilience, healing, and personal growth. Johnny opens up about his struggles with alcoholism, sharing how it impacted his mental health, relationships, and recovery journey. Cristy offers her perspective on what it’s like to support a loved one through addiction while also maintaining her own mental wellness. Together, they engage in an honest and heartfelt conversation about the hidden challenges of addiction, breaking free from codependency, setting boundaries, and the path to healing. Their vulnerability and authenticity make this a must-listen episode for anyone navigating similar challenges or looking better to understand the intersection of addiction and mental well-being. How You Can Help: Supporting the LA Fire Victims & LA Mission Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is partnering with Heather Grace Skincare to support fire victims and the LA Mission. 🛍️ Shop with Purpose – Every purchase from Heather Grace Skincare through February contributes 10% to the Los Angeles Mission. 📢 Spread the Word – Share this initiative to amplify support for fire victims. 💛 Donate Directly – Visit Los Angeles Mission to contribute further. For more info, visit: 🌐 Heather Grace Skincare 📸 Instagram: @HeatherGraceSkincare 📖 Read more about this initiative: Heather Grace Skincare Partners with G-Rex from Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 3 Key Takeaways from This Episode Breaking Free from Codependency – Cristy shares her journey of realizing her worth, setting boundaries, and overcoming her past struggles. The Journey of Sobriety – Johnny discusses the difficult but necessary steps to recognize addiction, seek help, and build a healthier life. Healing is Possible – Their story proves that recovery, self-love, and happiness are achievable with the right support and mindset. Important Chapters ⏳ 00:00 - Trigger Warning & Introduction 💔 05:30 - Cristy’s Story: Leaving a Toxic Relationship 🍷 15:45 - Johnny’s Journey with Alcoholism 💡 28:20 - Recognizing Red Flags & Setting Boundaries 💛 40:00 - Healing & Growth After Trauma 🎙️ 50:10 - How Johnny & Cristy are Helping Others Mental Health Quote from This Episode "If you are in a toxic relationship, just run. There is a big world outside waiting for you, full of love, healing, and new opportunities." – Cristy Stay Connected with Johnny & Cristy 📌 Johnny’s Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084446821996 📌 Cristy’s Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/cris.mamichulis 🍷 Cairn View Winery – https://www.cairnviewwinery.com/? Join the Conversation! 💬 We Want to Hear from You! Please leave us a written review or voice message about this episode: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. ✅ Subscribe, Rate & Review! Never miss an episode! Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews. #MentalHealthMatters #AddictionRecovery #Codependency #HealingTogether #BreakingTheStigma #SelfLove #SobrietyJourney #MentalWellness #HealingJourney #BoundariesMatter #MentalHealthPodcast #Grex #DirtySkittles #stgoioh ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 2Breaking Free from Alcohol: Johnny & Cristy’s Story Begins – Part 1
E⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about alcoholism, addiction, and mental health struggles. Listener discretion is advised. Welcome to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast! With over 1 million downloads, we continue bringing raw, unfiltered mental health conversations to the forefront. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Johnny & Cristy share their deeply personal stories about battling alcoholism and navigating the mental health struggles that come with it. This episode dives into the emotional toll of addiction, the importance of support systems, and the journey toward healing. 💬 We want to hear from you! Share your thoughts on this episode through written feedback or a voice message: 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Partnering for a Cause We’re proud to announce our partnership with Heather Grace Skincare to support recent LA fires and the Los Angeles Mission victims. How You Can Help: 💛 Shop with Purpose: 10% of every purchase from Heather Grace Skincare through February goes to the LA Mission. 💛 Spread the Word: Share this initiative to amplify support for fire victims. 💛 Donate Directly: Visit https://losangelesmission.org to contribute further. For more details, visit https://heathergraceskincare.com/ or follow https://www.instagram.com/heathergraceskincare/ on Instagram. 📢 Read more about our partnership here: https://www.openpr.com/news/3840564/heather-grace-skincare-partners-with-g-rex-from-sh-t-that-goes Meet Our Guests: Johnny & Cristy Johnny and Cristy open up about their struggles with addiction and mental health. Johnny shares his honest journey with alcoholism, exploring how it impacted his relationships and mental well-being. Cristy provides insight on supporting a loved one through recovery while maintaining her mental health. Their vulnerability and openness make this a powerful episode for anyone facing similar challenges or looking to understand addiction and mental health better. Connect with Johnny & Cristy: Johnny’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084446821996 Cristy’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cris.mamichulis Cairn View Winery: https://www.cairnviewwinery.com/ 3 Key Takeaways: The Intersection of Addiction & Mental Health: Johnny’s story reveals how alcoholism often masks deeper mental health struggles. The Power of Support Systems: Cristy highlights the importance of standing by loved ones while also prioritizing personal mental wellness. Breaking the Stigma: Open conversations like this help dismantle the shame surrounding mental health and addiction. Important Chapters: 00:00 – Intro & Trigger Warning 03:15 – Johnny’s First Encounter with Alcohol 12:40 – The Mental Health Toll of Addiction 21:50 – Cristy’s Perspective: Supporting a Loved One Through Recovery 34:10 – Breaking the Stigma: Why These Conversations Matter 45:30 – What’s Next in Part 2 Mental Health Quote of the Day: "The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide you're not going to stay where you are." – J.P. Morgan Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Love what you hear? Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more honest, thought-provoking conversations about mental health. If our stories resonate with you, please rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback means the world to us! 👉 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictionRecovery #Alcoholism #MentalHealthPodcast #BreakingTheStigma #JohnnyAndCristy #PodcastLife #MentalWellness #RecoveryJourney #SubstanceAbuseAwareness #STGOIOH #HealthAndWellness #2024PodcastAwards #WomenInPodcasting #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Ep 1Changing the Narrative on Suicide & Mental Health with Lisa Sugarman
E🎙 Season 10 Opener | 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner (Health) | 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast) | Over 1 Million Downloads 🎙 🔔 Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about suicide. Please reach out for support if you or someone you know is struggling. Resources are listed below. 🎧 We Value Your Feedback! Please leave us a voice or written message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Episode Overview In this powerful Season 10 opener, we sit down with Lisa Sugarman—a mental health advocate, crisis counselor, and three-time suicide loss survivor. Lisa shares her deeply personal journey, the importance of suicide prevention, and how we can shift the narrative around mental health. From losing her father and loved ones to suicide to becoming an advocate for awareness and support, Lisa's story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. She also introduces The Help Hub, a vital resource for mental health support worldwide. This conversation is about breaking the stigma, offering hope, and providing real-life strategies for mental well-being. If you or someone you love is struggling, this episode is for you. 💛 Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads + Heather Grace Skincare Helping LA Fire Victims & LA Mission We’re proud to partner with Heather Grace Skincare to support LA Fires & Los Angeles Mission victims. 🔗 Press Release: https://www.openpr.com/news/3840564/heather-grace-skincare-partners-with-g-rex-from-sh-t-that-goes How You Can Help: 💛 Shop with Purpose - 10% of all Heather Grace Skincare purchases through February will be donated to the Los Angeles Mission 💛 Spread the Word - Share this initiative to amplify support 💛 Donate Directly - Visit Los Angeles Mission to contribute For more info: 🌎 Website: https://heathergraceskincare.com/ 📲 Instagram: @HeatherGraceSkincare 🧠 Mental Health Quote: "You are not alone. You may not see the light right now, but it’s there—on the other side of this moment. Keep going." - Lisa Sugarman Meet Our Guest: Lisa Sugarman Lisa Sugarman is an author, nationally syndicated columnist, mental health advocate, and crisis counselor with The Trevor Project. A three-time suicide loss survivor, Lisa writes the opinion column We Are Who We Are and is the author of: 📖 How To Raise Perfectly Imperfect Kids And Be Ok With It 📖 Untying Parent Anxiety 📖 LIFE: It Is What It Is Lisa contributes to platforms like Mental Health Television Network (MHTN), NAMI, Healthline Parenthood, GrownAndFlown, TODAY Parents, Thrive Global, and More Content Now. She lives and writes just north of Boston. Follow Lisa Sugarman 📸 Instagram: http://instagram.com/lisa_sugarman 📘 Facebook: http://facebook.com/thelisasugarman 🔗 LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/lisa-sugarman-16925b69 🎯 Key Takeaways from This Episode: 1️⃣ Suicide prevention starts with open, stigma-free conversations. Lisa shares how we can talk about mental health in a way that encourages people to seek help. 2️⃣ Resources, like The Help Hub & 988, exist to support those in crisis. You are never alone, and there are always people ready to help. 3️⃣ Self-care & boundary setting are essential for mental health. Lisa shares her practices for maintaining well-being in challenging times. 📖 Important Chapters: ⏳ 00:00 - Trigger Warning & Introduction ⏳ 05:42 - Lisa Sugarman’s Journey with Suicide Loss ⏳ 15:30 - How the Help Hub is Making a Difference ⏳ 24:55 - Breaking the Stigma Around Suicide & Mental Health ⏳ 34:10 - How to Support Someone Struggling with Mental Health ⏳ 45:50 - Self-Care, Boundaries, and Emotional Well-being ⏳ 55:30 - How Listeners Can Make an Impact on Mental Health Awareness 📢 Mental Health Resources: 📞 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/ 🌎 The Help Hub (Global Mental Health Directory): https://thehelphub.co 🏳️🌈 The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Support): https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ 🫂 National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): https://www.nami.org/ Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website - https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 💛 If you or someone you know is struggling, reach out. Help is always available. You are not alone. 💛 #MentalHealthMatters #BreakTheStigma #SuicidePrevention #MentalHealthPodcast #LisaSugarman #TheHelpHub #NAMI #Podcast #988Lifeline #YouAreNotAlone #HealingJourney #TheTrevorProject #AwardWinningPodcast #STGOIOH #Grex #DirtySkittles ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resourc
Ep 11Season 9 Recap: Burnout, Healing, and Taking Our Power Back
EHey there! Welcome to the season finale of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads! We’re thrilled to wrap up Season 9 with our amazing community. Here’s the thing—this season has been a wild ride, and we’ve got so much to celebrate: 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health 2024 Women in Podcasting Award for Best Mental Health Podcast Over 1 MILLION downloads! 🎉 None of this would have been possible without your support, and we want to hear from YOU! What did you love about this season? What can we do better? Let us know at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. You can leave a written note or even a voice message. Seriously, we’re all ears (pun intended). “Even in the hardest times, joy isn’t gone—it’s just waiting for us to find it again.” What This Episode is About This Season 9 ender is all about reflection, growth, and the incredible journey we’ve been on. From talking about burnout recovery to healing through creativity and finding joy in the smallest moments, we dive deep into what made this season unforgettable. We’re also spilling some behind-the-scenes moments—how our podcast has shaped us, why joy is our focus for 2025, and what’s coming next for Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads. What We Learned from Our Guests This season, we’ve been lucky to sit down with some incredible people who taught us unforgettable lessons: Asha – Helped us realize what burnout looks like and how to tackle it head-on. Andrea – Introduced us to EFT tapping, a simple but powerful tool for emotional healing. Jaclyn – Inspired us with her ability to turn personal pain into beautiful, meaningful creativity. Wil - Opened our eyes to recognize triggers and embrace vulnerability in tough times. Krista -Showed us that resilience and self-love can lead to new beginnings even after betrayal. Karen – Taught us about the power of unconditional love and how strong support can change everything. Pez – Reminded us how family bonds and safe spaces are key to finding peace and joy. Kathy – Advocated for creating mentally healthy workplaces, proving that change starts from the top. Personal Insights from Dirty Skittles & G-Rex We couldn’t end this season without sharing some of our thoughts and growth: Rediscovering Joy: 2025 is our year to choose happiness, even if it’s scary. It’s all about leaning into what feels right and letting go of what doesn’t. The Evolution of the Podcast: When we started, we never imagined how much these conversations would change us. This season felt like all the stars aligned, as every guest shared stories that resonated with our journeys. The Value of Vulnerability: Letting down our guard has been challenging, but it’s been so worth it. Vulnerability is where actual growth happens. Mental Health in the Workplace: G-Rex is passionate about creating healthier work environments and shared how this is a focus for her new business. Safe Spaces & Family: Dirty Skittles opened up about finding comfort in her family and realizing the power of having people who “get” you. Key Takeaways Burnout recovery is possible, but it takes recognizing it and making yourself a priority. Healing is personal—whether tapping, fidget rings, or therapy, find what works for you. Taking your power back means setting boundaries, rediscovering joy, and focusing on your mental well-being. Important Chapters 00:00 – Reflecting on our podcast journey and big wins this season. 10:30 – Asha on recognizing burnout and how to start healing. 15:45 – Andrea on EFT tapping as a simple healing tool. 22:00 – Jaclyn’s story of transforming pain into creativity. 28:15 – Wil on triggers and the power of vulnerability. 36:40 – Krista’s resilience after betrayal and finding self-love. 43:50 – Karen on unconditional love and parental support. 51:00 – Pez on safe spaces, family, and healing through connection. 58:30 – Kathy is making mental health a priority in the workplace. Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss what’s next! Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more inspiring and real conversations. We’d love for you to rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform—it helps us reach more people who need these stories. 👉 Visit our website to add your review: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews 👉 Give us your feedback: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Thank you for making Season 9 unforgettable. Here’s to taking our power back in 2025! #MentalHealthPodcast #BurnoutRecovery #HealingJourney #RediscoverJoy #TakeYourPowerBack #VulnerabilityMatters #PodcastCommunity #AwardWinningPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 9