Shot At Love

What Love on the Spectrum Teaches Us About Finding Love, Confidence, and Authentic Connection with Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso If you’ve been searching for love—and wondering why it feels so hard—this episode will change how you see connection. With the growing popularity of Love on the Spectrum Season 4, this powerful conversation revisits one of the most authentic love stories from the series: Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim. When Tina and Pari met on Love on the Spectrum, audiences around the world were drawn to their honesty, vulnerability, and genuine connection. But their story goes deeper than reality TV—it reveals what it truly takes to find love in today’s dating world. In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett explores how Tina and Pari’s relationship highlights the keys to meaningful connection: radical self-acceptance, emotional honesty, and the courage to show up exactly as you are. From Pari’s fearless self-expression—living life unapologetically—to Tina’s strength as a photographer and disability advocate, their connection is built on something many people struggle to achieve in modern dating: authenticity. Their shared experience of loss creates a deeper emotional bond, proving that empathy, resilience, and understanding are often the foundation of lasting love. This episode is for anyone navigating dating, feeling discouraged, or searching for a more meaningful connection. Because finding love isn’t about perfection—it’s about being real, being seen, and being accepted. If you’re a fan of Love on the Spectrum or looking for real dating advice that actually works, this episode will leave you inspired—and thinking differently about love. Love on the Spectrum Season 4, Love on the Spectrum cast, Tina Zhu Xi Caruso, Pari Kim, finding love, dating advice, how to find love, authentic relationships, neurodivergent dating, dating with autism, self-confidence in dating, real love stories, modern dating struggles #LoveOnTheSpectrum #FindingLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Astrology and Love: Aries Season, and How to Find Love in 2026 with Jill Jardine. Your Astrology Dating Guide for Spring 2026 What does astrology say about love right now—and how can you use this moment to finally find love, take action in dating, and stop repeating old patterns? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to break down the astrology of love, dating, and relationships during one of the most pivotal seasons of 2026. If you’ve been feeling stuck in modern dating, questioning your path to finding love, or wondering when things will finally shift—this is your moment. Because, according to this astrology love forecast, everything is changing. After months of emotional heaviness, retrogrades, and reflection, the energy has officially turned. As Jill explains, all planets are now moving direct, creating a rare window for movement, clarity, and momentum—especially when it comes to love and relationships. This isn’t a “wait for love” season. This is a take action, find love, and change your dating life season. April’s Aries energy brings bold, fast-moving momentum into modern dating, pushing you to confront what’s not working and take real action toward finding love. This is the kind of astrology that sparks first dates, bold decisions, and new beginnings—but it also requires awareness. Because in this phase of astrology and love, people are moving fast. Which means: Connections ignite quickly Attraction builds instantly But people can also dismiss potential love just as fast That’s why this episode breaks down how to navigate dating during Aries season without sabotaging your chances of finding real love. One of the biggest themes in this astrology dating forecast? A complete shift in tolerance. People are no longer settling in relationships that don’t align. In today’s dating world, emotional unavailability, mixed signals, and red flags are no longer being ignored—they’re dealbreakers. This is a season of: Choosing yourself Raising your standards Letting go of misaligned relationships Creating space to find real, aligned love And that’s exactly why so many people are either breaking up—or finally breaking through—in their love lives right now. But timing matters. This episode walks you through how to work with the astrology of love from April through June so you can actually succeed in dating and relationships: April is about action and exploration in dating May brings grounding, stability, and deeper connection June reveals clarity—showing you who is right for you and who is not If you’ve been trying to find love, this timeline is everything. Another major shift in this astrology love forecast is how we communicate and connect. With Uranus entering Gemini, there’s a rapid evolution in dating, communication, and connection. This impacts: Dating apps and online dating Texting and communication patterns How quickly people form connections The desire to find aligned, like-minded partners But there’s a catch in dating. While people want deeper connection and real love, they’re also becoming more selective—sometimes overly focused on surface-level traits instead of true compatibility. The key to finding love in this astrology cycle? Stay open, but stay aligned. Kerry brings it back to what matters most in dating and relationships: You have to put yourself in the right rooms to find love. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about action, energy, and environment. This episode is your roadmap to navigating modern dating through astrology, understanding the energy of this moment, and finally taking aligned action toward real love. The biggest takeaway from this astrology and love conversation: Don’t sit this one out. Say yes to the date. Say yes to new opportunities. Say yes to meeting new people. Because the energy right now is designed to support finding love, creating connection, and building something real. And as Kerry always says— Take your shot. Because love isn’t about perfect timing. It’s about showing up when the energy is finally aligned. #FindingLove #AstrologyLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Love Story takes us inside one of the most iconic and misunderstood relationships of our time—Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and John F. Kennedy Jr., through the lens of someone who knew her personally. This episode offers a rare and intimate look beyond the headlines and into the truth of who Carolyn really was. Kerry Brett sits down with celebrity writer Jonathan Soroff, who shared a real friendship with Carolyn before and during her rise into the global spotlight. Together, they revisit the 1990s, a time before social media, when mystery still existed—and how that intrigue became part of Carolyn’s allure. This conversation explores the tension between love and fame, the pressure of constant media attention, and the emotional cost of being in a relationship that the world is obsessed with. Jonathan shares behind-the-scenes stories that reveal Carolyn’s character, her boundaries, and the quiet strength that made her unforgettable. They also discuss the current cultural fascination with their relationship and what gets lost when real lives are turned into entertainment. It raises important questions about privacy, perception, and the way society projects meaning onto couples we don’t truly know. At its core, this episode is about more than a famous love story—it’s about understanding the power of boundaries, the importance of self-worth, and why the most compelling relationships aren’t always the most visible. Kerry Brett closes the episode with dating insights inspired by Carolyn’s approach to love, reminding listeners that attraction grows over time, boundaries set the tone, and the right person will rise to meet you when you hold your value. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s guest is Evan Marc Katz, a trailblazing dating coach who has spent more than two decades helping women understand men and create lasting relationships. Often described as the world’s first dating coach, Evan built his career on one central mission: helping women stop repeating painful dating patterns and start attracting the kind of partner who wants commitment. Evan shares how his own experiences as a serial dater led him to study relationship dynamics and eventually build a coaching practice devoted to helping women navigate the modern dating landscape. His insights have been featured in major media outlets including CNN, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal. During the episode, Kerry and Evan talk about why chemistry alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, how to identify the difference between attraction and compatibility, and why many successful women unknowingly choose partners who are emotionally unavailable. Evan also discusses the mindset shifts that can transform someone’s dating life, including learning to recognize red flags early, focusing on consistency over intensity, and understanding the qualities that lead to long-term partnership. If you feel like you’ve done everything right in life but still haven’t found the right relationship, this conversation offers powerful insight into why—and what you can do differently moving forward. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett sits down with author of the popular book Bar Tips by Neil Rogers for a powerful conversation about human connection, dating, and what the hospitality industry can teach us about finding love. Neil shares how decades behind the bar shaped his understanding of people, respect, and first impressions—and why dating, like bartending, is ultimately a people business. From the importance of a proper greeting to the power of listening more than you speak, this episode explores how small, intentional actions can completely change the way we connect with others. The conversation dives into transferable skills from hospitality that apply directly to dating, including preparation, punctuality, reading the room, and meeting people where they are. Neil explains why being “right” is overrated, how kindness builds trust, and why showing up without an agenda creates deeper, more authentic connections. Kerry and Neil also discuss loneliness, modern dating challenges like ghosting, and how technology has made it easier to hide instead of engage. They explore why respect, compassion, and presence are more attractive than perfection—and how confidence grows when we focus less on impressing and more on genuinely connecting. This episode is a reminder that love doesn’t come from performance or pressure. It comes from listening, kindness, and the courage to be yourself. Whether you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or simply wanting better connections in your love life or in business, this conversation offers timeless lessons that can change how you show up—for dates, relationships, and life itself. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

How to Rebuild Confidence and Find Love Again: The Connection Between Self-Worth, Healing, and Attraction with Dr. Ann Doggett Struggling with confidence, healing after heartbreak, or wondering why love hasn’t worked out yet? This episode connects the dots. In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, celebrity photographer, author, and dating expert Kerry Brett sits down with Dr. Ann Doggett of Whole Body Solutions to explore how self-worth, healing, and confidence directly impact your ability to attract and sustain love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, disconnected from yourself, or like you’ve lost your spark after a breakup, divorce, or major life change—this conversation offers a new path forward. Dr. Ann shares how true transformation starts from within, combining science-backed treatments like non-invasive cold fiber laser technology with holistic healing practices including nutrition, acupuncture, and energy work. The result? Not just physical renewal—but emotional confidence, clarity, and a stronger sense of self. Because finding love isn’t just about meeting the right person—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who’s ready to receive it. This episode will show you how to rebuild confidence, reconnect with your worth, and step back into dating with a completely different energy. If you're ready to feel like yourself again—and finally attract the love you deserve—this is where it starts. finding love, how to find love, rebuild confidence after heartbreak, dating after divorce, self-worth and relationships, how to attract love, healing after breakup, confidence in dating, emotional healing, self-love journey #FindingLove #DatingConfidence #SelfWorth Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The start of a new year isn’t just about resolutions. It’s about acceleration. In 2026, the heaviness of the last few years begins to lift. The exhaustion, the repeating patterns, and the familiar question of why we keep ending up in the same place are finally giving way to movement and possibility. Astrologically and energetically, we are entering a rare window that supports forward momentum, emotional openness, and new beginnings. In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett is joined by astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine for a deep look at what the planetary shifts of 2026 mean for love, connection, creativity, and personal growth. Jill explains why this year marks the official transition into Aquarian age energy and how the collective move from heavy earth and water influences into lighter air and fire elements creates space for inspiration, innovation, and emotional renewal. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why 2026 is a year of acceleration rather than hesitation. The Year of the Horse arrives with momentum, encouraging people to stop dragging the past into the future and instead align with what is meant for them now. This episode breaks down why January sets the tone for the entire year, why intention-setting early matters more than ever, and how grounding practices help navigate a faster, more dynamic energetic landscape. Jill offers a detailed snapshot of the first quarter of 2026, including the powerful Aquarius activations in January, the intensity of eclipse season and retrogrades in February, and the integration and forward motion that begins to take shape in March. She explains how these shifts may impact relationships, dating, creativity, and emotional readiness, while also offering guidance on how to stay centered during periods of rapid change. This conversation is especially meaningful for anyone who has felt stuck, cautious, or emotionally weighed down in recent years. It offers clarity on how to work with the energy of 2026 rather than resist it, and why love becomes more accessible when timing and readiness finally align. As Kerry and Jill discuss, love is not about perfect circumstances. It is about being prepared when opportunity meets intention. Listeners will walk away with a clearer understanding of why 2026 represents a collective reset, how to approach love and connection with optimism instead of fear, and what it means to move forward without carrying old emotional baggage. This episode is an invitation to trust the momentum, stay grounded, and allow the year ahead to unfold with purpose. Guest Bio:Jill Jardine is a professional Western and Vedic astrologer with more than 35 years of experience. She holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology, is a Sanskrit mantra instructor and yoga teacher, and is the host of the internationally acclaimed podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill blends psychology, spiritual insight, and ancient wisdom to help individuals navigate life transitions with clarity and empowerment. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The holidays can feel like a perfect storm — emotionally, mentally, and physically. In this timely and deep conversation, Surviving the Holiday Bermuda Triangle: Dry January & the 12 Steps—Kerry Brett is joined once again by comedian, mom, and nearly nine-year-sober Laurie Hurd Ferreira for part two of their series on the 12 Steps — and why they’re not just for recovery, but for anyone craving peace, and real change. Together, they unpack what Laurie calls the Holiday Bermuda Triangle—Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s — a season that amplifies loneliness, temptation, comparison, and emotional overwhelm. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom, Laurie explains how the 12 Steps offer a practical framework for sobriety, self-trust, and community support — especially during the holidays or as Dry January is upon us. Or in moments when willpower alone isn’t enough. This episode isn’t about perfection or labels. It’s about transformation — the desire to change, to slow down, to stop repeating patterns, and to choose a different way forward, one day at a time. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

n today’s powerful episode, Kerry welcomes back one of Shot@Love’s most loved guests, Laurie Hurd Ferreira—comic, mother, and nearly nine years sober. As we move through one of the most emotionally intense months of the year, Laurie shares the tools, truths, and transformational wisdom she’s learned in Alcoholics Anonymous, and how those same principles can help anyone find balance, clarity, and strength—whether they’re in recovery or simply overwhelmed by life. Together, Kerry and Laurie unpack why the holidays make people feel unhinged, the pressure of perfection, the pull toward unhealthy habits, and the myth that you’re supposed to keep it all together. Laurie opens up about the moment her life changed, how AA saved her, and why the 12 Steps provide a blueprint for becoming the person you’re meant to be. They discuss:• Why so many people feel lost, anxious, or out of control in December• How slowing down, pausing, and “one day at a time” thinking can ground you• What the 12 Steps really teach—and why everyone can benefit from them• How to rebuild confidence, self-worth, and trust in yourself• The power of community, connection, and sharing your story• Why doing the next right thing—however small—can change your entire life• Letting go, finding a higher power, and learning to live life with intention• How helping someone else can become the beginning of your own healing This episode is raw, honest, funny, and deeply inspiring. If you’re navigating holiday stress, overwhelm, heartbreak, addiction, codependency, or simply want a healthier start to the new year, this conversation offers tools you can use today. Takeaways: Slow it down: Take life one day—or one hour—at a time. Pause before reacting: Clarity comes when you stop rushing. Help someone else: Small acts of service shift everything. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Some love stories don’t end with heartbreak — they end with unanswered questions. Ana Walshe was 39. A devoted mother of three. Brilliant, driven, and building a life between Boston and Washington, D.C. But behind closed doors, her marriage concealed a chilling imbalance of power, control, and deception. In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with her daughter, Morgan Hurley — an interim court reporter who has been inside the courtroom covering the Brian and Ana Walshe murder trial. Together, they unpack what really happened, what the jury is hearing, and the warning signs that were tragically missed. This episode is not about gossip.It’s about truth.It’s about red flags.And it’s about the dangerous cost of ignoring them. Inside This Episode: The early warning signs that surfaced years before Ana disappearedBrian Walshe’s long history of fraud, manipulation, and financial deceptionThe rise of Ana’s independence and why it became dangerousThe affair, the unraveling marriage, and December 2022’s final daysThe disappearance and the disturbing timeline that followedThe chilling Google searches prosecutors call the biggest smoking gunSurveillance footage, erratic alibis, and evidence from dumpsters across multiple townsThe eerie voicemail left for Ana’s boyfriendThe financial motive, including a $2.7 million life insurance policyThe courtroom dynamics and the challenge of proving murder without a body Morgan also shares what it’s like to report on a case that happened in their own backyard and why this story deserves far more attention than it has received. The Shot At Love Perspective Ana was rising.Her career was thriving.Her independence was growing. And for a narcissistic partner who depended on her financially, that became the greatest threat. When your success threatens someone, they were never your partner — they were your prison. This Week’s Shot At Love Dating and Relationship Takeaways: Red Flags Are Not DecorationsIf someone’s past requires detective work to understand, don’t investigate. Leave. Charm Is Easy. Consistency Is RareGrand gestures without steady behavior are manipulation, not romance. Your Body Knows Before Your Brain DoesIntuition isn’t overreacting; it’s forecasting. Don’t mute the message. About Today’s Guest: Morgan Hurley is an interim court reporter covering the Brian Walshe trial firsthand. In this episode, she brings clarity, credibility, and a journalist’s lens to a case filled with unanswered questions and troubling patterns. Follow and Connect: Host: Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerrybrettphotographyPodcast: Shot At Love Guest: Morgan HurleyInstagram: @morganhurleyyy Final Thought: This episode is a reminder that love should never require fear, confusion, or survival mode. If something feels off, it probably is. And ignoring the preview can cost you everything. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Why We Chase the Wrong Relationships (And How to Finally Break the Cycle) What happens when love becomes the thing that breaks you… instead of builds you? In this raw and powerful episode of Shot At Love, I sit down with Ben Currier—host of the top-ranked podcast Failure Guy—to unpack a story that starts with one impulsive decision… and spirals into complete collapse. At the height of his career, Ben moved across the country for a woman he barely knew. Within weeks, he lost everything—his stability, his belongings, his sense of self. But this isn’t just a story about losing it all.It’s about why we ignore red flags, chase intensity over intimacy, and stay in situations that slowly break us. Together, we unpack the deeper patterns behind modern dating—emotional addiction, trauma bonding, and the dangerous pull of relationships that feel like passion… but are really chaos. If you’ve ever: Thought a relationship would save youStayed longer than you should haveConfused emotional highs with real connectionOr rushed into something just to avoid being alone This episode will hit home. Because what Ben ultimately discovered is this:Rock bottom isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of rebuilding your life the right way. This conversation is about resilience, self-worth, and what it actually takes to break the cycles that keep you stuck—and finally create a healthy, grounded relationship. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns in love… this episode is for you. #ToxicRelationships#LoveAddiction#DatingAdvice Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Getting Clear for 2026 with Manifestation Mentor Lizzie Moore Shot At Love is all about clarity, energy, and creating a fresh start for 2026. Manifestation mentor Lizzie Moore returns to the show to walk us through how to identify what we really want, why most people stay stuck, and how to shift our mindset so we can finally receive the opportunities, relationships, and breakthroughs we’ve been waiting for. Lizzie explains why vague goals confuse the universe, how our energy influences what we attract, and why accountability changes everything. We talk about writing things down, showing up as the person who’s ready to receive, and how to stay committed even when life gets messy. Lizzie also shares why the last days of the year matter, how visualization activates the brain, and the science behind using vision boards to align your emotions with your goals. If you're tired, burned out, or unsure of where to start, this conversation gives you simple practices to reconnect with hope, rebuild your belief in what’s possible, and create a plan for 2026 that you can actually follow through on. We also talk candidly about fear, doubt, initiating connections, and how clarity makes every area of life—including dating—feel easier and more aligned. Whether you're manifesting a new career, a move, more joy, or the love you’ve been waiting for, this episode will help you get grounded, get intentional, and get ready for what's next. What We Discuss Why clarity is the foundation of manifestation • How fear, doubt, and imposter syndrome block your goals • The role accountability plays in staying consistent • How emotions carry frequency and shape what you attract • Using visualization to shift your mindset • Why writing things down strengthens belief • How vision boards activate the brain and create momentum • Resetting your mindset when the year doesn’t start perfectly • The science behind the reticular activating system • The difference between resolutions and manifestation • How to pick goals that you can sustain • Why small goals matter for beginners • When to aim bigger and how to overcome fear • Using signs, symbols, and daily rituals to stay aligned • Why connecting with images each morning makes a difference • How to get more comfortable initiating opportunities and connections • How to bring love into your manifestation practice • Building a realistic plan to stay hopeful and consistent in 2026 Connect with Lizzie Moore Website: www.vibeandshine.online Manifestation Membership and Vision Board Calendar available on her site. Follow Kerry Brett Instagram: @kerry_brett Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Kerry Brett LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In today’s episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with manifest mentor Lizzie Moore for an honest, energetic, and unexpectedly hilarious conversation about manifesting love, trusting the universe, and the mantra that changed everything: I only want what’s for me. Lizzie shares how she transformed her life through visualization, neuroscience-based mindset shifts, and vision boards that quite literally manifested a new home, a new lifestyle, and a new chapter on the South Shore. She breaks down how the Reticular Activating System filters our thoughts, why emotions carry vibrational frequency, and how shifting your energy can change what—and who—you attract. This episode covers: • Why “I only want what’s for me” is the ultimate dating mantra • How gaslighting, rejection, and heartbreak feel different when you trust alignment • The role of the Reticular Activating System (RAS) in manifesting love • How to rewire your brain and create new neural pathways • Vision boards, visualization, and the power of accountability groups • How emotions vibrate at different frequencies and influence attraction • Lizzie’s incredible chicken-coop meet-cute and cross-country connection • The difference between clinging and surrendering • How Lizzie manifested a home identical to her vision board • Moving two teenagers, rebuilding a life, and finding joy again • How to know when a relationship is aligned—or when it’s simply not your person • Letting go, gratitude, and the courage to trust the universe’s plan • Why timelines choke manifestation and how to release them • How to call your energy back and stop living in the in-between • What Lizzie teaches clients about love, alignment, and emotional frequency If you need hope, humor, and a reminder that the universe delivers what’s meant for you—sometimes in the form of a man building a chicken coop resulting in a little luck and a lot of lumber—this episode is for you. Find Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast Facebook and LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Your Last First Date: Author & Hollywood Matchmaker Jaydi Samuels Kuba This week’s episode of Shot At Love pulls back the curtain on Hollywood’s most fascinating matchmaking secrets with Jaydi Samuels Kuba. Inspired by her soon-to-be-released book Your Last First Date, Jaydi shares the patterns, mindsets, blind spots, and tiny shifts that help singles finally find their own Hollywood ending. Jaydi began her career as a television writer with credits ranging from Family Guy to Salem. But after watching talented, successful women in the entertainment industry struggle to form meaningful relationships, she built a couples-curation service that grew into LJ Matchmaking. Today she is a certified dating and relationship coach, a co-host of the podcast Match Made in Hollywood, and one of the industry’s most respected matchmakers. Kerry and Jaydi explore the truth behind finding love in Hollywood or anywhere else: why people stay stuck, how they repeat emotional patterns, and what finally creates lasting change. Jaydi opens up about the early days of her company, the unlikely way she met her husband while setting him up with other women, and the inner shifts that helped her leave a long-term relationship that no longer aligned with her life. Together, they break down why matchmaking matters, why being “findable” is non-negotiable, and how small mindset adjustments can make all the difference. Jaydi shares how she vets clients, screens for compatibility, and guides people toward clarity before chemistry. She explains why great daters still end up in the wrong relationships, how date coaching transforms confidence, and why trusting your own intuition is ultimately your most powerful tool. Jaydi also gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at writing Your Last First Date: how her Hollywood storytelling background shaped the narrative, why she chose to teach through character journeys and real client case studies, and what she hopes readers will take away after they close the final page. If you’ve ever wondered how matchmaking really works, what goes on behind the scenes, or how to stop repeating the same dating patterns, this conversation will shift the way you see yourself, your choices, and your path to love. Where to Find Jaydi Samuels KubaInstagram and social: @matchmadeinhollywoodMatchmaking and date coaching: www.ljmatchmaking.com Connect with Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcastFacebook: Kerry BrettLinkedIn: Kerry BrettSubstack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-actionWebsite: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week’s episode of Shot At Love centers on the powerful story and mission of Deborah Griffiths, founder of Bent Not Broken, a platform dedicated to resilience, recovery, and reclaiming personal strength after adversity. Instead of talking about my journey, we shift the focus to Deborah’s—her path, her purpose, and the incredible movement she’s built. In our conversation, Deborah opens up about the moment her life changed, the challenges that tested her spirit, and the transformative mindset that allowed her not only to survive but to build a community for others who are navigating their own storms. Bent Not Broken offers tools, hope, and a safe landing place for anyone rebuilding their life piece by piece—physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Deborah shares: • The origin story behind Bent Not Broken• What resilience really looks like when no one is watching• The healing practices that helped her rebuild• How to choose strength—even when it feels impossible• Why community is essential for recovery and growth• The message she wants every listener facing hardship to hear This episode is a testament to turning pain into purpose, and Deborah’s energy is a reminder that healing is not linear—but it is possible. If you’ve ever struggled, felt alone, or needed a voice reminding you that you can rise again, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dating Decoded: How to Find Real Love, and Succeed on Dating Apps with Julie Lokun What does modern dating really look like right now—and how do you actually find real love in a world dominated by dating apps, ghosting, and mixed signals? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett steps into the guest seat as she’s interviewed by Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, for a candid, unfiltered conversation about dating, finding love, and building real connection. If you’ve ever questioned whether real love still exists, struggled with dating apps, or felt overwhelmed by modern dating challenges, this episode delivers the clarity, strategy, and mindset shifts you’ve been searching for. Together, Kerry and Julie break down the truth about modern dating—what’s working, what’s not, and how to find love without losing yourself in the process. This episode answers the questions every single person is asking: Does real love exist in modern dating? Do dating apps actually work, or are they keeping you stuck? How do you identify red flags early before wasting time? What creates a successful first date and real connection? How do you stay open to finding love without lowering your standards? You’ll learn how to navigate modern dating with confidence, clarity, and intention, including: How to shift your mindset to actually attract real love Why belief in finding love is essential at every stage of life How to use dating apps strategically instead of emotionally The difference between chemistry vs compatibility in modern dating How to recognize red flags and green flags instantly The truth about ghosting, texting, and first date dynamics How your dating profile and photograps directly impact your success in finding love Kerry also shares how her career as a celebrity photographer shaped her unique approach to dating—especially when it comes to creating an authentic presence that attracts the right partner, not just attention. If you’re navigating dating after heartbreak, re-entering the world of dating apps, or simply want to finally find real love, this episode gives you practical tools and a new perspective on dating that actually works. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about clarity, strategy, and showing up as your most authentic self. ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST Julie Lokun is the host of the Get Obsessed podcast, focused on personal growth, transformation, and helping people elevate their lives and relationships. Through her work, she empowers listeners to take action, think bigger, and create meaningful connection—including in modern dating and finding love. WHERE TO FIND KERRY Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) HASHTAGS (Search-Focused): #FindingLove #ModernDating #DatingAdvice Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Great Scott! A Hero’s Journey to Love In the final chapter of Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, we wrap up the story with heart, humor, and hope. Kerry Brett reflects on her own Hero’s Journey—one that mirrors Marty McFly’s in Back to the Future—filled with setbacks, mentors, lessons, and ultimately transformation through love. This episode is about believing in divine timing, trusting the bigger picture, and having faith that the right person shows up when you’ve done the inner work. Kerry shares how her “Great Scott” moment came when she found love on Tinder, and how every heartbreak, misstep, and “Biff” along the way shaped her into someone ready for a healthy, lasting relationship. Through pop culture parallels, wisdom from her mentor Jeff Lubin, and her signature storytelling style, Kerry ties it all together—reminding listeners that everyone’s path to love is their own version of the Hero’s Journey. It’s about choosing courage over comfort, learning to love yourself first, and understanding that each swipe, each setback, and each lesson gets you closer to your own “Great Scott” moment. If you’ve ever doubted that love is possible after heartbreak, this episode will inspire you to believe again. Because when you trust in the bigger picture and take your shot, you just might find the one who was meant for you all along. Listen now at www.shotatlovebook.com and follow Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcast, Facebook, LinkedIn, and on Substack at https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett shares her unforgettable story of finding love on the commuter rail. This journey starts with a swipe and turns into a cinematic night worthy of Risky Business and Dirty Dancing. What begins as a spontaneous Tinder date with a man named Scott evolves into a hilarious and heartfelt adventure about courage, connection, and the power of showing up even when it’s uncomfortable. From lip gloss disasters and “walks of shame” to lessons in faith, mindset, and perseverance, Kerry reminds listeners that taking chances in love — and life — often comes with a few unexpected detours. But when you stay open, trust yourself, and keep believing, miracles can happen… even on the rails. By the end, Kerry reveals how this once “risky” date led to her real-life love story and how her journey on Tinder became proof that manifestation works — if you’re willing to believe, take action, and never quit. Follow on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcastFind Kerry on Facebook and LinkedInSubscribe to her Substack: Shot At Love: The EditVisit www.shotatlovebook.com to learn more about her book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

My Dating Breakthrough — Chapter 15 In this heartfelt and full-circle episode titled My Dating Breakthrough, Kerry Brett shares the transformative story behind her biggest dating and personal turning point—one that began with a mantra and led to meeting her boyfriend, Scott. This chapter is about mentorship, mindset, and the courage to change the pattern. Kerry reflects on her 25-year mentorship with renowned portrait artist Jeff Lubin, a silver-haired visionary who taught her everything about confidence, value, and human connection—lessons that eventually translated into her dating life. Through humor and honesty, she reveals how Jeff’s tough love, wisdom, and one unforgettable lecture helped her rebuild self-worth and learn to believe in love again. From heartbreak in Florida to a life-changing “aha” moment back in Boston, Kerry explains how her mentor’s voice became the inner compass that guided her out of self-doubt and back into alignment. Because sometimes, the greatest leap of faith isn’t swiping right—it’s believing in yourself again. Key themes• The Kubera Gayatri mantra and the power of asking for what you want• How mentorship mirrors love and self-belief• Lessons from Jeff Lubin on value, confidence, and resilience• Overcoming heartbreak and reclaiming self-worth• The “Quasimodo rule”—breaking patterns and choosing better• Finding faith, trust, and home in Boston once again Listen, learn, and love betterThis episode reminds us that breakthroughs happen when you stop playing small, take the leap, and believe that the best is yet to come. Connect with Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcastFacebook and LinkedIn: Kerry BrettSubstack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-editWebsite: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Finding Your Match Made in Heaven, Chapter 14 of Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photograph's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love This episode explores how faith, vibration, and belief play a powerful role in attracting love. Kerry shares her experiences learning about the Law of Attraction from Michael Losier—author of Law of Attraction—and how his teachings on deliberate creation helped her shift from doubt to trust. When heartbreak and online dating fatigue set in, Kerry turned to spiritual practices and divine connections for guidance—from chanting the Lakshmi Gayatri mantra for love and abundance to conversations with her intuitive friends Maureen Hancock and Jill Jardine. Through humor and honesty, Kerry reveals how psychic predictions, astrology, and even a few matchmaking misfires ultimately led to powerful lessons about faith, karma, and timing. You’ll also hear the inspiring story of Rosie Dalton, Maureen’s sister, who found her “match made in heaven” after years of loss—proof that love can bloom again, even after heartbreak. This chapter reminds us that believing love is possible is the first step to receiving it. Follow along as Kerry learns to let go of control, trust divine timing, and keep her vibration high—because your match made in heaven might just be closer than you think. Find Kerry on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast, on Facebook and LinkedIn, and join the community at www.shotatlovebook.com. You can also read Shot@Love: The Edit on Substack at shotatlove.substack.com. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Breaking Up with Mr. Better Than Nothing – Why You Need This Episode If you’ve ever dated someone who felt promising enough to stick around even when the red flags were waving… this episode is for you. We break down a real relationship timeline so you can recognize the exact moments things shift from exciting to exhausting — and learn how to pivot sooner next time. Cupid showed up, the texts sparkled, and the chemistry felt easy—until the small tells started stacking up. We share a true dating story that begins with a glittering reconnection and veers into a tour of red flags: venue choices that miss the mark, a harsh snap at strangers that reveals character, grand declarations too early, then silence when it matters. The ride is funny, messy, and painfully familiar to anyone who’s been love-bombed, breadcrumbed, or nudged into the caretaker role before the relationship ever had roots. As we walk through the timeline—from an “epic” wedding meet-cute to an OKCupid rematch, from a chaotic holiday bar scene to a broken arm that flips romance into housework—we unpack how social proof can lower your guard and how mixed signals can chip away at self-worth. You’ll hear the golden rule that never fails in dating: watch how they treat service staff and unexpected guests. You’ll also hear the moment the power shifts back: no more waiting by the phone, a night out that rekindles confidence, and the clarity to name what’s actually happening—a situationship with one driver and no room for your voice. This conversation blends story and strategy so you leave with a practical toolkit: how to spot unintentional daters, how to separate charm from character, and how to protect your time with clean boundaries. We keep it real, we keep it human, and yes, we laugh at the clown car along the way. If you’re tired of “better than nothing,” press play, reclaim your standards, and choose the quieter path of self-respect over the noisy comfort of chaos. You’ll learn: • Why chemistry shouldn’t be confused with compatibility• How social proof and love-bombing can make you ignore your intuition• The subtle behavior clues that reveal character• What breadcrumbing and caretaker-dynamics look like in real time• How to reclaim your power when communication becomes one-way• Boundary scripts to protect your time, energy, and self-worth Connect + Join the CommunityInstagram@kerry_bretthttps://www.instagram.com/kerry_brett@shotatlovepodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/shotatlovepodcast Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/kerrybrett LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-brett Substack – Shot at Love: The Edithttps://shotatlove.substack.com Get the bookShot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Lovehttps://www.shotatlovebook.com If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs a reminder of her standards, and leave a review with your top red-flag rule. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This episode follows a winding road from mantras and angel numbers to a surprising Tinder reunion that reopens old memories and reveals hard truths about trust, red flags, and values. Trust—not trying harder—becomes the real compass in dating, and 222 serves as a reminder to slow down and practice patient awareness. Nostalgia collides with present-day realities as Boston’s social energy masks a poor fit, and Jonathan’s candid warning becomes a pivotal values check. A serendipitous moment with Fishman’s mom reassures me that when we’re paying attention, the universe delivers the clarity we need. Through caregiving challenges, ghosting, and even street harassment, resilience rises — leading to a powerful promise: Listen sooner. Set boundaries. Choose self-respect. If you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, this chapter reminds you that every sign points you forward. Connect with Kerry Brett Instagram:@kerry_brett — https://www.instagram.com/kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast — https://www.instagram.com/shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Kerry Brett — https://www.facebook.com/kerrybrettphotography. LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrybrett Substack – Shot@Love Newsletter: https://shotatlove.substack.com Website:https://www.shotatlovethebook.com If this episode resonated with you — please subscribe, rate, and leave a review. It helps more people find their Shot@Love (Shot at Love)! And share this episode with a friend who needs hope and a little nudge forward. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into Chapter 11, I Surrender; Finding a Path Forward to Love, a favorite for those having a hard time. Heartbreak can feel like quicksand, but there’s a way to stop sinking. I share how surrender—real acceptance, not resignation—becomes a daily practice that steadies the mind, restores self-respect, and turns pain into a teacher. From the serenity prayer to the mantra sarvesham svastir bhavatu, I unpack simple rituals that anchor your nervous system when grief and rumination try to take over. I walk through the five stages of grief in the context of narcissistic dynamics, making space for the messy parts—denial that kept you safe, anger that needs clean outlets, bargaining that blurs reality, depression that asks for gentle structure, and acceptance that finally loosens the knot. With insights from Kute Blackson’s The Magic of Surrender, I flip the script: a relationship can end and still be a success if it helped you grow into a truer version of yourself. That reframe moves you from searching with scarcity to meeting love with grounded presence. Stories power change, so we spotlight courage in action. Tina Turner’s night of escape and reinvention shows how one decisive step can reset a life. Dolly Parton’s publishing stand models boundaries, patience, and long-view faith. These examples prove that small steps compound—blocking a number, archiving old photos, taking a quiet walk instead of doom-scrolling—until momentum returns. We close with practical guidance to drop the bag of bricks, set clear boundaries, and trust that peace is possible when you stop pushing and start showing up as yourself. If this conversation helped you breathe a little easier, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs strength today, and leave a quick review so others can find it. Your story might be the spark someone else is waiting for. Start with this Description Instagram: @kerry_brett | @shotatlovepodcastFacebook: Shot@Love PodcastLinkedIn: Kerry Brett️Join the mailing list: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into "No One is Coming" and "No Days Off": Chapter 10. Sometimes the hardest truth can be the start of real momentum: no one is coming, and there are no days off. We open with mantras that sharpen courage and then walk straight into the messy middle—an on-again, off-again relationship, a high-stakes photography assignment with Bill Belichick on Nantucket, and a gutting discovery left open in an email. What follows isn’t a collapse; it’s a choice. With a deadline looming and another shoot with Julian Edelman on deck, we turn heartbreak into horsepower, swap rumination for execution, and let anger refine our focus instead of wrecking it. You’ll hear how patterns take root, why sunk-cost thinking keeps the wrong door open, and how to close it with conviction. We unpack “no days off” as more than a sports slogan—it’s a personal operating system for resilience, discipline, and self-respect. Edelman’s legendary catch becomes a playbook for staying locked in when you’re inches from the ground: eyes on the ball, hands steady, outcome earned. The story moves from betrayal to boundary-setting, from tolerating less to choosing more, and from being benched by pain to calling your own plays. There’s a twist of joy at the end—a right swipe and a match with former Patriots lineman Max Lane—arriving not as a rescue, but as the natural result of raising your standards. Along the way, we share the practical habits that keep you in motion: clear self-talk, tight routines, creative flow under pressure, and the courage to shut a door that keeps hurting you. If you’re navigating dating, rebuilding after a breakup, or pushing for excellence in your craft, this chapter offers tools and a real story to anchor them. If this resonates, tap follow, share it with a friend who needs the reminder, and leave a review with your favorite takeaway. Your support helps more people find the mindset and momentum to win the inches between head and heart. For more details, go to www.shotatlovebook.com Start with this Description Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into Chapter 9 Love's Lunacy: A Journey of Crazy and Stupid Devotion from my book Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. What if the moment that saves you starts with a mantra and a punchline? We open on a small-town shoot with Steve Carell and land in the center of a bruising love story—one built on mixed signals, breadcrumbing, and the slow erosion of self. Along the way, a pinwheel, a dance number, and a stubborn fight to keep a scene in a film become unlikely teachers about boundaries, authorship, and choosing what matters when the pressure is on. From there, the curtain lifts on commitment-phobia and the anxious–avoidant dance: the push–pull of intimacy that keeps one partner chasing and the other fleeing. We dig into Mr. Unavailable’s patterns, attachment science, and why intermittent reinforcement is so addictive. The stakes spike when family drama explodes into gaslighting and an uninvited wedding, forcing a reckoning with reality, proof, and the heavy cost of keeping the peace. In the wreckage, a manifesto takes shape—part evidence, part prayer—marking the pivot from explaining to exiting. What follows is a clear, compassionate path out: consequences over speeches, boundaries that hold, and the No Contact Rule as a lifeline back to self-trust. We talk practical recovery—retraining your nervous system, rebuilding routines, and finding meaning in art, music, and community. If you’ve ever felt “crazy” for wanting love to feel safe, this story offers language, tools, and a way through. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to tell us the one boundary you won’t bend again. We trace a wild arc from a Steve Carell photoshoot and an Aquarius mantra to the hard end of a toxic relationship, unpacking commitment-phobia, gaslighting, and the cost of staying. Boundaries, no-contact, and self-respect turn chaos into clarity. Join the mailing list and find out more about Shot At Love Live events at www.shotatlovebook.com. Follow, rate, and subscribe. Please follow me on social media – Instagram, @Kerry_Brett, and on Facebook under Kerry Brett. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into Homeless on a Harley, Chapter 8, one of my favorite chapters from Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. Dating shouldn’t feel like a jailbreak, but sometimes the heart clings to a locked door. We open with a grounding mantra to the divine feminine and roll straight into Randy “Moose” Gomez’s field notes—thirty years as a PI and bail bondsman distilled into one essential truth: listen like a detective and love like a leader. From pandemic-era scams to everyday mixed signals, we unpack how small details reveal big realities, and why your questions are not drama—they’re data. The story winds through a raw Thanksgiving heartbreak, a copper-topped bar in South Boston, and a high school spark named Coyote Cameron who skates in hot and exits even hotter. It’s romantic, funny, and a little brutal: the secret workplace, the “lost phone,” the slow fade that says more than words. Along the way, we map practical checkpoints for modern dating—consistency over charm, transparency over mystery, alignment over adrenaline. You’ll hear how nostalgia can blur judgment, how self-talk can free or trap you, and how to spot the moment when grace becomes self-abandonment. We don’t shame the chemistry; we translate it. When behavior and words don’t match, confusion wins. When someone guards context, believe them. And when your standards rise, your peace follows. If you’ve stayed too long, waited on a text that never came, or ignored a red flag because the weekend felt perfect, this conversation will hand you a steadier compass—rooted in self-respect, active listening, and a PI’s calm eye for patterns. Press play, take what helps, and set your own checkpoints. If this episode gave you clarity or courage, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs the nudge, and leave a quick review so more people can raise their standards with us. We explore how a cowboy PI’s listening skills and a hard left turn in South Boston taught us to trust patterns over promises and choose self-respect over heat. The heart goes fast, but the truth arrives on time when you ask better questions and believe what you hear. When people tell you who they are believe them. Please subscribe, rate, and review. Keep up to date with Shot At Love Live events and join the mailing list at www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Not All Those Who Wander Are Lost, Chapter 7 of Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. A breakup can make even bright rooms feel dim, and mine turned everything gray—right down to the paint on my walls. I gave 50 shades of gray new meaning. I tried to muscle through with grit and lonely heart playlists, but it took an unexpected intervention from Red Sox legend Tim Wakefield to cut through the noise. Tim’s straight talk about self-respect, resilience, and moving on landed like a perfectly thrown knuckleball: unpredictable, undeniable, and exactly what I needed to hear. The over-under was that this was a very loud wake-up call from Wake, and I had to find self-love at bat. From there, the path bent toward a different kind of ballgame—one of mantras, lineage, and sacred sound. I share how a puja led by a guru's wife reopened the door to Sanskrit practice, and how a medium delivered a message I couldn’t ignore: aham prema doesn’t just invite romantic love; it insists on self-love first. That reminder connected me back to my teacher, Namadeva, and to a daily practice of the —Gayatri before the mic, breath before reaction, compassion before compromise—that steadied the ground beneath my feet. Daily practice of chanting and the discipline of rebuilding standards after heartbreak. Along the way, we honor two legacies that shaped this story—Tim Wakefield’s generosity and caring, and Namadeva’s mastery of mantras—whose dates now echo in my calendar like a quiet blessing. If you’ve ever felt stuck between surrender and survival, this chapter offers tools and testimony: boundaries that hold, mantras that heal, and a practical path to liking yourself enough to choose better. Listen, reflect, and if it resonates, share it with someone who could use a sign. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell me: what’s the one line you needed to hear today? If you want to find out more about the Shot At Love movement and community, join the mailing list to learn about upcoming Shot At Love Live events at www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What happens when you swipe right on a contractor who builds homes and hearts with the same dedication? Built to Last: When Love Meets Construction, that's what! Meet Rory Remington, a 47-year-old professional builder from Scituate, Massachusetts—a man as solid as the foundations he lays.During the harshest winter Massachusetts had seen in a century, with record-breaking snowfall burying my world both literally and figuratively, Rory appeared like a beacon of warmth. After plowing Scituate's streets all day, he'd show up at my driveway, engine running, ready to shovel my roof without ever asking to come inside—because he wanted to meet my daughter "when we were official." Here was a man who had given his dream home to his ex-wife so his children wouldn't suffer, while he lived in homes he was rebuilding. A man who, when my card was declined buying painting supplies, arrived early the next morning with everything I needed and painted my entire first floor in a day.Rory checked every box on my "top ten list" of qualities I wanted in a partner. He remembered I disliked roses on my birthday because it fell near Valentine's Day, sending unique flowers with a card saying, "You're all seven on my list." Yet I made the devastating mistake of leaving him when my ex returned, begging for reconciliation—only to discover more lies and deception waiting for me.The painful irony? When pipes burst in my studio and I had nowhere to turn, Rory still showed up, created detailed documentation overnight, secured me exactly the insurance money I needed, and disappeared without even saying goodbye. He didn't need to help, but that's who he was—a man of honor who never let people down.Through heartbreak and regret, I learned that relationships, like houses, require solid foundations. Sometimes the best partners aren't the flashiest or most familiar—they're the ones who show up consistently, tools in hand, ready to build something lasting. Don't wait to recognize quality when you see it; great men don't stay available for long.Ready to transform your perspective on love? Grab my new book "Shot at Love" on Amazon and join the community at ShopLoveBook.com for exclusive updates on upcoming events.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When Oscar-winner Chris Cooper and his wife Marianne Leone called asking me to photograph him for Cowboys and Indians Magazine, I never imagined this assignment would become my emotional salvation. With a broken foot and an even more broken heart, I dragged myself to Plymouth Plantation, determined to deliver exceptional work despite my personal life crumbling around me.The contrast couldn't have been starker – professionally capturing one of Hollywood's most respected actors while privately enduring the discovery of my boyfriend's infidelity. As I lay on the ground, boot-clad broken foot raised awkwardly in the air, shooting Chris in various Western-inspired poses, I was simultaneously living two realities. One where I was a sought-after photographer whose work would grace newsstands nationwide, and another where I questioned my fundamental worth after betrayal.It was Chris himself who offered unexpected wisdom that day. When I confessed my relationship troubles, lamenting that perhaps I was "too much" – too creative, too successful – for my boyfriend, Chris responded with words that would become my mantra: "Did you ever think the things that make you too much are the things that make you great? Smart men like smart women." This simple truth from a man whose 40-year marriage to brilliant writer Marianne Leone Cooper showed he practiced what he preached became my north star during the darkest period of my life.The universe has a poetic way of delivering messages when we need them most. Standing in an Arizona airport, sobbing after learning my boyfriend at the time had emptied our home while I was away, I looked up to see my Cowboys and Indians cover prominently displayed. It was as if the universe whispered: your work matters, you matter, regardless of who fails to see it. A decade later, Chris, Marianne, and I would collaborate again, winning a 2023 Communicator Award for a podcast episode aptly titled "Staying Together" – proof that sometimes we must endure disappointments to find our way to the collaborations and connections that truly honor our worth.Ready to transform your perspective on love and relationships? Grab a copy of my new book "Shot at Love" on Amazon today and join our community at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates on live events and more insights into finding love that celebrates rather than diminishes you. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What happens when your world crumbles beneath you? When a broken foot, a broken relationship, and a broken bank account converge at the worst possible moment? This raw, unflinching episode explores the pivotal moment when crisis became a catalyst for profound transformation. After discovering troubling messages on Kerry's boyfriend, Giovanny's phone, a confrontation led to a painful accident—breaking her foot in three places. Rather than support, Giovanny cruelly accused her of deliberately injuring herself to manipulate him, revealing the narcissistic dynamic that had been present all along. Left immobilized during her busiest photography season, with no health insurance and dwindling finances, she reached a devastating crossroads. Drawing strength from unexpected sources—Tina Turner's resilient spirit and financial advisor John Spooner's contrarian wisdom—she discovered that the principles governing smart investing apply equally to recovery from toxic relationships. "In crucial decisions, use your brain first, heart second," became her mantra as she dragged herself on crutches to convert saved coins to cash when her debit card declined for a simple pizza order. This episode beautifully illustrates how rock bottom became the foundation for rebuilding. By approaching her personal crisis with the same strategic thinking Spooner applied to market crashes, she transformed her circumstances—booking $4,000 in photography sessions despite her injury, finding her voice, and eventually creating the award-winning "Shot At Love" podcast to help others escape unhealthy relationships. The most valuable lesson? No matter how broke you are financially or emotionally, you can always bank on yourself. This powerful story reminds us that sometimes the best investment we can make is in our own healing and growth. Have you experienced a moment when hitting bottom became the catalyst for your greatest comeback? Join our community and share your story of resilience and renewal. Find out more at www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A camera captures moments, but sometimes it captures more than you bargained for. When Giovanny Gonzalez strutted into my photography studio in his wing-tip boots and form-fitting t-shirt, I had no idea this headshot session would launch an eight-year romance that mirrored the tumultuous relationship between Johnny Cash and June Carter.The chemistry was immediate and electric. After breaking my own professional rules by agreeing to review his photographs at his place, I found myself mesmerized as Giovanny picked up his guitar and serenaded me with Damien Rice's "The Blower's Daughter, from the movie Closer, where Julia Roberts played a photographer and Jude Law was her subject turned love interest." From that moment, we became inseparable – a creative force feeding off each other's talents and energy. We took Boston by storm, becoming fixtures at upscale restaurants like Stella and The Beehive, training together, and critiquing cuisine like unpaid food critics with insatiable appetites for culture and creativity.When Giovanny confessed he'd given up on his musical dreams, I transformed into his biggest supporter. I became the ringmaster behind the Giovanny Gonzalez Band's branding, handled publicity, arranged photography shoots, and documented every performance. We achieved incredible things together – he sang the national anthem at Fenway Park, performed with the Dropkick Murphys, and accompanied me as I photographed Hollywood's biggest names. But like Jennifer Aniston's character in "Rockstar," I watched as the music industry's temptations began pulling him away. Despite many wonderful years together, I learned firsthand why Johnny Cash's "Walk the Line" resonates with so many – not everyone can maintain that balance when fame, groupies, and late nights beckon. Sometimes love isn't enough, and sometimes the final notes must fade.Have you ever loved someone who couldn't walk the line? Share your story of loving a creative spirit and the bittersweet melody it left behind. Purchase Shot At Love on Amazon and find out more about Shot At Love Live events at www.shotatlovebook.comSend us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What does it truly mean to find your worth in the midst of life's most challenging moments? Two divorced women with young children—one a Harvard graduate with a penchant for designer clothes, the other a photographer with a dry wit—forge an unlikely friendship that becomes their lifeline while navigating the treacherous waters of rebuilding and dating.Kelley Doyle bursts into Kerry Brett's life like a fashion-forward hurricane, armed with persistent optimism and dating wisdom that initially makes Kerry's "blood boil." With phrases like "enjoy the dance" and "be easy breezy," Kelley teaches her friend that confidence and self-worth matter more than perfect photographs or clever bios when looking for love. Through Sunday ritual dinners at their favorite Mexican restaurant and late-night adventures in Boston's dating scene, they create their own version of family while supporting each other's journey to find love again.The story reveals Kelley's courageous escape from a deteriorating marriage—arriving at her parents' doorstep with three children, a dog, and only forty-two dollars in her checking account. Her father's advice to "make a decision not to make a decision" gives her space to breathe before crafting a new life. Meanwhile, Kerry struggles with her own divorce, feeling like "the aftermath of a failed art project." Together, they discover that fashion can be armor, friendship can be salvation, and sometimes the most powerful act is remembering your own value. From Kelley's battery-operated blinking earrings to bracelets engraved with "If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to it," they find ways to become their own heroines. When Kelley finally reconnects with Walter Whalen at a local bar, her methodical approach to dating pays off in a beautiful wedding and blended family, proving that sometimes, after the storm, you really can see clearly.Ready to transform your approach to finding love? Grab your copy of "Shot At Love" on Amazon today and join our community at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates and information about upcoming live events.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The path from devastation to rebirth rarely follows a straight line. When my world exploded seventeen years ago, I found myself in the basement of Rock Bottom – fighting a three-year custody battle for my daughter Morgan after a traumatic pregnancy and birth that nearly claimed both our lives. What followed was a financial nightmare of $130,000 in debt, sleeping with the lights on, and making the classic mistake of jumping from one toxic relationship straight into another.With raw vulnerability and unexpected humor, I share how I transformed from a woman with zero self-worth into someone who refused to settle for anything less than authentic love. My journey led me to spiritual practices that became my lifeline – chanting Sanskrit mantras 108 times with a desperation that "gave new meaning to squeezing the beads." When my astrologer taught me "aham prema" (divine love), I finally began finding my way back to myself.As a professional photographer with impaired eyesight, the irony isn't lost on me that my biggest challenge wasn't my vision – it was my inability to see red flags in relationships. I've learned to trust my gut, refuse to stress over inconsistent people, and embrace the Ted Lasso philosophy of believing even when the odds seem impossible. The most powerful revelation? How you perceive yourself directly influences how others treat you.Whether you're struggling through divorce, dating disasters, or simply searching for connection, remember that beauty is an inside job. You don't have to be perfect to be amazing. When someone tells you that you can't do something, do it twice and take pictures! Join me in putting yourself out there with courage and watch how the universe responds. Your shot at love begins with believing you deserve it.Ready to transform your own love story? Visit shotatlovebook.com and take the first step toward writing your happy ending.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever wondered what happens when your greatest pain becomes your deepest purpose? As a professional photographer who's spent decades making others look their best, I've lived a life that many find fascinating—capturing celebrities for magazine covers, attending red carpet events, and building a dream studio in a picturesque town. But behind my lens and successes lay a story of heartbreak so profound that I never imagined sharing it publicly.My journey from heartbreak to healing wasn't straightforward. There were nights spent crying at my computer, trying to find the courage to document experiences I'd hidden for nearly twenty years. Writing this memoir pushed me to my limits, forcing me to confront memories that felt impossible to face. Yet something powerful emerged from this process—a mission larger than myself. What began as personal catharsis evolved into Shot At Love, a podcast and now book dedicated to helping others navigate their own paths to love.The transformation from being a "damsel in distress" to becoming "someone who doesn't need saving" changed everything. I learned that "desperation paves a path to the devil," while self-compassion and small daily steps forward can completely transform your life. Through my darkest moments, I discovered that asking for help is often the hardest part of healing, not the overcoming itself. Now I'm passionate about sharing this message: you're not prey, you need to get "preyed up" so you don't get played. The world remains full of opportunities and love, waiting for you to shift your perspective and embrace them. My book "Shot At Love" is available now on Amazon—don't miss your chance to see love and yourself differently. Join our community at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates and information about upcoming live events.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever wondered if everything you thought about finding love might be wrong? Kerry Brett's new book "Shot At Love" challenges conventional dating wisdom and offers a fresh perspective based on years of hard-won experience. From growing up in a working-class Boston family where the Brady Bunch and Mr. Rogers shaped her worldview to becoming a dating expert who's made every mistake so you don't have to, Kerry's journey is both entertaining and enlightening.What started as a desperate search for connection through books, movies, and music evolved into something much more powerful. In 2018, amid social upheaval and personal darkness, Kerry found her calling - helping others avoid the heartbreak she'd experienced. This led to her creating the "Swiping Soiree," a unique blend of education and entertainment she jokingly called her "Tinder Tour." Complete with interpretive dance to Christina Perri's "Jar of Hearts" and entering rooms to the sounds of Aretha Franklin while banging a cowbell, these seminars transformed how middle-aged women approached online dating.When the pandemic hit in 2020, what many had dismissed as "career suicide" - a podcast about online dating - became Kerry's greatest achievement. Through trial, error, and relentless effort, she emerged as a respected dating coach committed to dismantling the stigma around digital connections. The book reveals how fear becomes our biggest enemy in finding love, causing self-sabotage and missed opportunities. But Kerry's message remains hopeful: love can be found anywhere, from Whole Foods to Tinder, and every misstep offers profound lessons that are part of the journey toward meaningful connection.This isn't just Kerry's story - it's an invitation to rewrite your own. Whether you're struggling with online dating, recovering from heartbreak, or simply ready for a new approach to finding love, "Shot At Love" offers both practical guidance and emotional support. Grab your copy today on Amazon and join the mailing list at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates and information about live singles events. Your next chapter will be amazing - just remember to bring a helmet and enjoy the ride.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim met on Love on the Spectrum Season 3, viewers worldwide fell in love with their authentic connection. Their story isn't just about finding romance on reality TV—it's about embracing who you truly are, regardless of what others might think. The magic of Tina and Pari's relationship stems from their fearless self-expression. As Pari puts it, "I literally go on the train in a ball gown. I don't care. People could stare and say whatever they want, but it makes me happy." This unapologetic authenticity—Pari with her passion for trains and Tina with her photography and disability advocacy—creates a foundation for genuine connection that many neurotypical daters struggle to achieve. What makes their bond particularly special is their shared understanding of profound loss. Both having experienced the death of a parent, they connect through empathy that might not have existed with other cast members. This shared grief, combined with their neurodivergent perspectives, allows them to relate on a deeper level. As Tina explains, "I feel like, for me at least, and Pari were a perfect match because we understood parent loss." Their remarkable optimism stands out as a defining characteristic. Rather than letting disabilities or challenges define them, they embrace life with enthusiasm and determination. "If we are constantly negative, we'll never get anything done," Pari explains. "I gotta get out there and live my life and do what makes me happy." This resilience—whether it's Pari singing at Harvard Square or Tina advocating for the disability community—teaches us all about finding joy despite obstacles. Want to find your shot at love? Take inspiration from Tina and Pari: be fearless about putting yourself out there, prioritize kindness in all interactions, and focus on the little, meaningful moments that build connection. As Pari wisely notes, "If you spend your whole life worrying about others, you're never going to be happy." This episode was recorded at Kimpton Marlowe Hotel in Cambridge, MA. To find out more about Shot At Love or purchase Kerry Brett's new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, go to www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A kiss caught on camera, a relationship shattered in seconds. When the infamous "Kiss Cam Cheater" went viral, millions witnessed the raw, unfiltered moment betrayal trauma unfolds—leaving many of us wondering what happens when our deepest fears play out in public. Who better to guide us through this emotional wreckage than someone who's survived her own high-profile betrayal? Dr. Nadine Macaluso, psychotherapist and former wife of the real-life Wolf of Wall Street, joins us to unpack why this moment resonated so deeply with so many people. "Betrayal trauma cracks your soul," she explains. "It's one of the most painful relational experiences we can have on this planet." Through our conversation, Dr. Macaluso reveals the psychology behind betrayal—the emotional dysregulation, cognitive dissonance, and profound loss of trust that follows. We explore how people compartmentalize during affairs, why certain personalities feel entitled to risk everything for a thrill, and the power dynamics that often fuel infidelity. Most importantly, she shares a roadmap for healing whether your heartbreak happens privately or with the world watching. "Trust your gut and get curious," Dr. Macaluso advises. While approximately 70% of relationships don't survive infidelity, about 30% do—especially when the betraying partner can truly acknowledge the pain they've caused without defensiveness. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, she offers hope to anyone feeling shattered: "Healing is a process and it's not linear. It's one step forward, two steps back, and you're worth it." Ready to understand betrayal trauma and begin your healing journey? This episode provides both compassionate insight and practical tools for rebuilding trust—in others and in yourself. Subscribe now and join our community committed to finding authentic connection in a complicated world. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into the first interview Kerry Brett gives on Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine to discuss the launch of her new book Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Lens on Dating and Finding Love. The latest best-selling release is a raw, hilarious, and deeply insightful story of the host of Shot At Love; Kerry Brett's journey from heartbreak to happiness will have you laughing, nodding in recognition, and rethinking your approach to finding love. When Kerry Brett found herself at what she calls "the basement of rock bottom" after a painful breakup, she turned to an unexpected source of hope: Tinder. But unlike many who approach dating apps with dread, this award-winning Boston photographer embraced the platform as a creative opportunity. With the same keen eye she used to capture celebrities like David Ortiz and Amy Poehler, Kerry developed a method for identifying potential matches, creating authentic connections, and ultimately finding love. Kerry's story is compelling because of her unique blend of self-deprecating humor, spirituality, and practical wisdom. Each chapter of her newly released book "Shot At Love" begins with a Sanskrit mantra, connecting ancient wisdom to modern dating challenges. From the "German Leo" to the "Irish Leprechaun" and finally to her successful Tinder match, Kerry's dating adventures read like a Boston version of Sex and the City – minus the sex, as she quips, because "she's Irish Catholic, 51, and her parents listen to her show." The most powerful takeaway from our conversation is Kerry's insight that the stories we tell ourselves often become our biggest obstacles. Whether it's believing you're "damaged goods" because of past relationships or thinking no one wants to date a single parent, these internal narratives limit possibilities. As Kerry emphasizes, "Beauty is an inside job" – how you feel about yourself ultimately determines how others perceive and treat you. Kerry's journey offers hope and a roadmap for anyone navigating the complex world of modern dating. Her transformation from celebrated photographer to award-winning podcast host and author demonstrates how following your authentic path can lead to unexpected opportunities and, yes, even love. Take your best shot at love by checking out Kerry's new book "Shot At Love" on Amazon or at shotatloveook.com, and tune into her podcast for daily doses of dating wisdom and inspiration. Or join the single movement at www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Join me, Kerry Brett, as I welcome back the ever-enlightening Jill Jardine, a renowned astrologer and spiritual advisor, to "Shot at Love." Together, we explore the cosmic energies shaping 2025, a year brimming with transformative power thanks to significant planetary shifts. Learn how Pluto's transition into Aquarius and the dynamic duo of Neptune and Saturn moving into Aries heralds unprecedented change, offering personal and collective realignment opportunities. Jill shares her wisdom on harnessing these cosmic vibrations for personal growth, especially after the uncertainty of 2024, and highlights 2025's numerological significance as a year of completion and fresh starts.Feel the excitement as we discuss the favorable energies early in the year, with January’s full moon and the Lunar New Year setting the stage for new beginnings. February promises vibrant social dynamics, perfect for launching new ventures under Capricorn's steady influence. As Mercury retrograde in March invites reassessment, we prepare for the impactful lunar and solar eclipses. Listen closely as Jill unpacks the shifts brought by Saturn entering Aries and Jupiter's move to Cancer, with Uranus's transition into Gemini adding an element of unpredictability in July. These cosmic changes urge us to foster stability and seek truth amidst the swirling energies.Discover how embracing Aquarian and Uranian energies can elevate your love life and vibrational frequency. Jill suggests engaging in networking events, live music, and raising your vibration to attract love and align with higher frequencies. By tapping into this year's themes of experimentation and self-reflection, you can transform your relationships and personal growth journey. As always, I'm here to guide you on this path, encouraging you to stay tuned, subscribe, and leave a review as we continue to support your quest for love and stability.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

After a painful journey through divorce and domestic violence, Janice Formichella changed her life by turning heartbreak into empowerment. She found strength in solitude, a story we've been waiting to share. As a breakup coach and host of "The EX-Files" podcast, Janice guided herself from rock bottom to new heights, and she's here to offer you a roadmap to transform heartbreak into personal growth. Her candid reflection on moving to Australia for a supposed short escape, which became a five-year journey of self-discovery, speaks to the power of resilience and embracing change. Janice shares her strategies for rebuilding confidence after heartbreak by engaging in meaningful pursuits and embracing what she calls her sexy single time. Learn about the “sexy solo date nights” that replaced weekend dread with self-determination and how goal-setting and new projects helped Janice and others move forward from the pain of a broken heart. Her insights highlight the importance of changing environments and finding joy in one’s own company, as well as powerful tools to break negative thought cycles and foster self-confidence. Discover how media consumption can shape your mental health, and hear Janice's personal experience of cutting out negativity to pave the way for a mindful lifestyle. She shares how uplifting shows like "Queer Eye" and "Grace and Frankie" became part of her healing process, transforming her from a party lifestyle to a more purposeful existence. With practical tips on building confidence and reclaiming self-worth post-breakup, Janice offers hope and guidance, encouraging you to embrace independence and cherish the journey to self-reliance. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

With the holiday season upon us, it's time to rethink your dating strategy. This episode is filled with strategies for holiday dating. Dr. Christie's Holidating 101 program offers actionable tips to keep your love life moving forward without burning out. Whether optimizing your online presence, attending festive events, or maintaining a positive attitude, we provide the tools you need to navigate this busy period. With consistency and a clear plan akin to a fitness routine, you'll be ready to tackle the surge in dating activity and find the connection you've been searching for. Get inspired to take control of your dating journey and open the door to the love you deserve. Unlock the science behind love with Dr. Christie Kederian, an acclaimed therapist, dating coach, and former eHarmony matchmaker. Join me, Kerry Brett, as we unravel how cultural and faith influences have shaped Dr. Christie's journey to becoming a relationship expert. With her profound insights, we challenge pop culture myths and explore the sophisticated eHarmony algorithm that measures 32 dimensions of compatibility. Are you curious about how attachment styles impact your love life? Discover how understanding these styles can change the dating game for you. Venture into the heart of the dating journey as we decode why recognizing intentions early is vital and how chemistry or scarcity mentality can hinder women from seeing the truth. Dr. Christie introduces the clever "criteria sandwich" to help you sift through deal breakers and must-haves, while the concept of "soulmate sunglasses" encourages authenticity over approval-seeking. Learn to avoid the pitfalls of dismissing good matches or overlooking red flags as we prioritize your desires. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Find Success During the Holidays: From Loneliness to Purpose. The holiday season is often painted as a time of joy, connection, and celebration. Yet, for many, it can also be a period of deep loneliness, especially after life-altering events like a breakup, loss, or significant change. The journey from loneliness to purpose during the holidays is one of resilience, reflection, and transformation—a path that can lead to newfound success and fulfillment. A Journey to Overcome Holiday Loneliness Spending the holidays alone can feel overwhelming. Dr. Tricia Rose, a former optometrist turned life coach, knows this all too well. After her divorce, she faced the daunting prospect of navigating Christmas alone. But instead of succumbing to despair, Tricia used this time to turn inward, reflect, and ultimately transform her experience of solitude into one of peace and purpose. Through her blog, "Rose Colored Glasses", Tricia shares actionable strategies to help others in similar situations. She emphasizes the importance of managing expectations and reframing the holidays as just another day, which can empower individuals to approach the season without undue pressure or anxiety. Finding Meaning in Solitude Dr. Tricia Rose and Kerry Brett dive into the nuances of loneliness versus solitude, offering insights on how carving out personal time can be a deliberate, fulfilling choice. For those wrestling with the "inner Grinch," holiday triggers can stir unresolved emotions. Yet, these moments also present opportunities for self-growth and healing. Find Success During the Holidays: From Loneliness to Purpose. Embracing solitude isn’t about isolation, it’s about finding peace in your own company. Self-compassion, kindness, and small, meaningful interactions can serve as powerful tools to bridge the gap between loneliness and connection. Discovering Purpose Through Giving One of the most effective ways to combat loneliness is by redirecting energy toward meaningful endeavors. Volunteering, engaging in charity work, or giving heartfelt, handmade gifts can create a ripple effect of positivity. Tricia and Kerry emphasize how stepping outside of daily routines and helping others can foster a sense of purpose and community. Find Success During the Holidays: From Loneliness to Purpose. The simple act of giving, whether it's time, attention, or a carefully chosen gift, can transform your holiday experience. These gestures not only uplift others but also provide a sense of accomplishment and joy that can brighten even the loneliest days. Embracing Self-Care and Gratitude Self-care plays a pivotal role in finding success during the holidays. Indulge in activities that bring you comfort, whether that’s cozying up with a good book, preparing your favorite meal, or exploring a new hobby. Gratitude is another key element; taking time to appreciate the good in your life, no matter how small, can shift your perspective and enhance your overall well-being. Tune In and Transform Your Holiday For more inspiration, tune in to podcasts on platforms like Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and NewsBreak, where Dr. Tricia Rose and Kerry Brett share their insights. Follow their journeys on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn to discover more ways to find connection and purpose during the holidays. This season, let go of the traditional notions of what the holidays "should" look like. Instead, embrace your unique journey, transforming loneliness into an opportunity for self-discovery and success. Whether through connection, giving, or self-care, you have the power to create a holiday filled with meaning and joy. Find Success During the Holidays. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Visionary, creative, and storyteller Dave McLaughlin joins us for an electrifying conversation on his unconventional journey across filmmaking, fashion, and tech. From the creative challenges of the film industry to the audacious growth at WeWork, Dave shares his experiences navigating these dynamic fields. His latest venture, Cake, an invitation-only shopping community, is shaking up the fashion world by connecting dedicated shoppers with exclusive brands. Get ready to explore how building communities can transcend traditional advertising and offer a fresh perspective on resilience and innovation in today's fast-paced business environment. Throughout our discussion, we explore the highs and lows of creative pursuits and the entrepreneurial spirit that fuels them. Inspired by Richard Florida's concept of the creative economy, Dave and I reflect on the intersection of art and entrepreneurship. We examine how tech advancements and pivotal events like the 2008 financial crisis have reshaped the landscape, offering both challenges and opportunities. Hear firsthand stories of embracing successes and failures, weaving through the transformative power of perseverance and the joys of witnessing the profound impact of art. As we wrap up, Dave reflects on the whirlwind experience of WeWork's meteoric rise and subsequent challenges. He offers insights into the hero's journey through personal anecdotes, emphasizing the importance of taking initiative and fostering collaboration. From celebrating personal milestones to valuing oneself as an exclusive experience, this episode encourages a mindset of abundance and personal growth. Join us for an inspiring journey that champions creativity, resilience, and the pursuit of meaningful endeavors. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

World-renowned musician Jeff McMahon shares captivating stories from his 18-year career with Tim McGraw's band, the Dancehall Doctors. Join me, Kerry Brett, as Jeff reveals the pivotal moments that shaped his musical journey and his life offstage. From performing hits like “Live Like You Were Dying” at the Country Music Awards to running marathons for the Tug McGraw Foundation, Jeff exemplifies how music can be a force for good, connecting people and uplifting spirits. Our conversation reveals the power of genuine connections as we reminisce about maintaining friendships from college days and finding community at unexpected places like the local Waffle House. Surprises abound as Jeff shares a heartfelt video project with artist Nicole Lewis that turns into an unexpected celebration. Through tales of kindness and thoughtful gestures, we discover the profound impact of truly listening and being present in each interaction, whether it's sending a meaningful gift or simply sharing a moment of joy. As we explore the emotional depths of music, Jeff recounts moving performances that highlight music’s healing power, like honoring a young woman's memory with "Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head." We dive into the creation and significance of songs like “Angela’s Wings,” allowing listeners to find solace and meaning. Wrapping up, I share insights on finding love and the importance of commitment to oneself and others. Tune in for a heartfelt episode filled with authenticity, inspiration, and the timeless magic of music. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What if the stars could guide you through the tumultuous energy of eclipse season? Join me, Kerry Brett, as I welcome the esteemed astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to Shot@Love. Together, we unravel the planetary influences shaping our lives, particularly how the recent and upcoming eclipses affect Pisces and Virgo. Jill unveils the deep connection between our physical and emotional well-being, providing practical advice that will empower you to stay proactive about health and recognize how our emotions can manifest physically. How do you navigate new relationships post-October 2nd? Jill and I reflect on past experiences from 2015 to 2017 and discuss the importance of reassessing relationship goals with the South Node in Libra and North Node in Aries. We also discuss broader astrological trends, predicting political changes and significant news events influenced by lunar events and planetary movements. During these transformative weeks, you can expect insightful guidance on managing relationships, health, and financial concerns. As we venture into the dynamics of "cuffing season," Jill sheds light on Pluto's retrograde into Capricorn and its eventual transition into Aquarius, marking the end of a 14-year cycle and the beginning of significant transformations. We tackle the chaotic global landscape and discuss how the ending of patriarchal dominance reshapes our world. Emphasizing self-care and internal peace, Jill offers wisdom on managing energy and attention during these tumultuous times, with Jupiter retrograde in Gemini. Tune in for cosmic guidance and practical tips to align yourself with the universe's energy. To find out more about Jill Jardine and book a reading, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

How did a trusted family friend manage to kidnap a young girl not once, but twice? This jaw-dropping episode with Jan Broberg, the courageous survivor behind "Stolen Innocence," tackles the chilling realities of abduction and the insidious nature of grooming. Jan shares her powerful journey from victim to advocate, recounting the traumatic events that began when she was just nine years old and a charming neighbor infiltrated her family’s lives. We unravel the calculated deception employed by Robert Birchtold, who manipulated Jan and her family through carefully constructed trust and charismatic charm. Jan provides a detailed account of the emotional and psychological strategies used by her abductor, including the terrifying mind games and threats that kept her compliant. Despite the unimaginable ordeals, including a second kidnapping to a Mexican trailer park, her story is one of resilience and the unyielding human spirit. This episode is not just about the horrors Jan endured but also about her incredible journey toward healing and empowerment. Jan emphasizes the importance of gratitude, forgiveness, and boundaries in overcoming trauma. Her insights into the complexity of familial manipulation, the strength required to rebuild one's life, and her ongoing efforts as an advocate for survivors offer a beacon of hope. Tune in for an episode that underscores the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of love and support. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What do you do when a life-altering injury threatens your greatest passion? Join us as we welcome Kelly Gunther, an Olympian whose journey from a devastating injury to competing in the 2014 Winter Olympics is nothing short of miraculous. Kelly's story isn't just about her love for skating; it's a testament to the power of resilience and the unwavering belief in one's dreams. From overcoming learning disabilities in school to making a remarkable comeback on the ice, her journey offers invaluable lessons on maintaining a winning mindset in all aspects of life, including the often daunting world of online dating. Kelly opens up about the profound challenges she faced, both on and off the ice, and how supportive mentors and friends played a crucial role in her achievements. Her narrative reveals how finding confidence through her passion for skating was transformative, offering a sense of belonging and achievement that extended beyond sports. This episode shines a light on the significance of embracing unique learning processes and the importance of perseverance. Kelly's story emphasizes that self-belief and encouragement from others are key drivers in overcoming obstacles and realizing personal goals. We also explore the intricacies of dating as a successful woman, discussing how confidence and resilience play into personal relationships. Through Kelly's experiences, we highlight the importance of quickly vetting potential partners and not taking rejections personally. She shares how a positive mindset and a robust support network can turn setbacks into opportunities for growth. Listen in for motivational tips on building self-confidence, overcoming limiting beliefs, and harnessing inner strength to achieve your dreams, both professionally and personally. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.