Shot At Love

What Love on the Spectrum Teaches Us About Finding Love, Confidence, and Authentic Connection with Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso If you’ve been searching for love—and wondering why it feels so hard—this episode will change how you see connection. With the growing popularity of Love on the Spectrum Season 4, this powerful conversation revisits one of the most authentic love stories from the series: Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim. When Tina and Pari met on Love on the Spectrum, audiences around the world were drawn to their honesty, vulnerability, and genuine connection. But their story goes deeper than reality TV—it reveals what it truly takes to find love in today’s dating world. In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett explores how Tina and Pari’s relationship highlights the keys to meaningful connection: radical self-acceptance, emotional honesty, and the courage to show up exactly as you are. From Pari’s fearless self-expression—living life unapologetically—to Tina’s strength as a photographer and disability advocate, their connection is built on something many people struggle to achieve in modern dating: authenticity. Their shared experience of loss creates a deeper emotional bond, proving that empathy, resilience, and understanding are often the foundation of lasting love. This episode is for anyone navigating dating, feeling discouraged, or searching for a more meaningful connection. Because finding love isn’t about perfection—it’s about being real, being seen, and being accepted. If you’re a fan of Love on the Spectrum or looking for real dating advice that actually works, this episode will leave you inspired—and thinking differently about love. Love on the Spectrum Season 4, Love on the Spectrum cast, Tina Zhu Xi Caruso, Pari Kim, finding love, dating advice, how to find love, authentic relationships, neurodivergent dating, dating with autism, self-confidence in dating, real love stories, modern dating struggles #LoveOnTheSpectrum #FindingLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Astrology and Love: Aries Season, and How to Find Love in 2026 with Jill Jardine. Your Astrology Dating Guide for Spring 2026 What does astrology say about love right now—and how can you use this moment to finally find love, take action in dating, and stop repeating old patterns? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to break down the astrology of love, dating, and relationships during one of the most pivotal seasons of 2026. If you’ve been feeling stuck in modern dating, questioning your path to finding love, or wondering when things will finally shift—this is your moment. Because, according to this astrology love forecast, everything is changing. After months of emotional heaviness, retrogrades, and reflection, the energy has officially turned. As Jill explains, all planets are now moving direct, creating a rare window for movement, clarity, and momentum—especially when it comes to love and relationships. This isn’t a “wait for love” season. This is a take action, find love, and change your dating life season. April’s Aries energy brings bold, fast-moving momentum into modern dating, pushing you to confront what’s not working and take real action toward finding love. This is the kind of astrology that sparks first dates, bold decisions, and new beginnings—but it also requires awareness. Because in this phase of astrology and love, people are moving fast. Which means: Connections ignite quickly Attraction builds instantly But people can also dismiss potential love just as fast That’s why this episode breaks down how to navigate dating during Aries season without sabotaging your chances of finding real love. One of the biggest themes in this astrology dating forecast? A complete shift in tolerance. People are no longer settling in relationships that don’t align. In today’s dating world, emotional unavailability, mixed signals, and red flags are no longer being ignored—they’re dealbreakers. This is a season of: Choosing yourself Raising your standards Letting go of misaligned relationships Creating space to find real, aligned love And that’s exactly why so many people are either breaking up—or finally breaking through—in their love lives right now. But timing matters. This episode walks you through how to work with the astrology of love from April through June so you can actually succeed in dating and relationships: April is about action and exploration in dating May brings grounding, stability, and deeper connection June reveals clarity—showing you who is right for you and who is not If you’ve been trying to find love, this timeline is everything. Another major shift in this astrology love forecast is how we communicate and connect. With Uranus entering Gemini, there’s a rapid evolution in dating, communication, and connection. This impacts: Dating apps and online dating Texting and communication patterns How quickly people form connections The desire to find aligned, like-minded partners But there’s a catch in dating. While people want deeper connection and real love, they’re also becoming more selective—sometimes overly focused on surface-level traits instead of true compatibility. The key to finding love in this astrology cycle? Stay open, but stay aligned. Kerry brings it back to what matters most in dating and relationships: You have to put yourself in the right rooms to find love. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about action, energy, and environment. This episode is your roadmap to navigating modern dating through astrology, understanding the energy of this moment, and finally taking aligned action toward real love. The biggest takeaway from this astrology and love conversation: Don’t sit this one out. Say yes to the date. Say yes to new opportunities. Say yes to meeting new people. Because the energy right now is designed to support finding love, creating connection, and building something real. And as Kerry always says— Take your shot. Because love isn’t about perfect timing. It’s about showing up when the energy is finally aligned. #FindingLove #AstrologyLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Love Story takes us inside one of the most iconic and misunderstood relationships of our time—Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and John F. Kennedy Jr., through the lens of someone who knew her personally. This episode offers a rare and intimate look beyond the headlines and into the truth of who Carolyn really was. Kerry Brett sits down with celebrity writer Jonathan Soroff, who shared a real friendship with Carolyn before and during her rise into the global spotlight. Together, they revisit the 1990s, a time before social media, when mystery still existed—and how that intrigue became part of Carolyn’s allure. This conversation explores the tension between love and fame, the pressure of constant media attention, and the emotional cost of being in a relationship that the world is obsessed with. Jonathan shares behind-the-scenes stories that reveal Carolyn’s character, her boundaries, and the quiet strength that made her unforgettable. They also discuss the current cultural fascination with their relationship and what gets lost when real lives are turned into entertainment. It raises important questions about privacy, perception, and the way society projects meaning onto couples we don’t truly know. At its core, this episode is about more than a famous love story—it’s about understanding the power of boundaries, the importance of self-worth, and why the most compelling relationships aren’t always the most visible. Kerry Brett closes the episode with dating insights inspired by Carolyn’s approach to love, reminding listeners that attraction grows over time, boundaries set the tone, and the right person will rise to meet you when you hold your value. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s guest is Evan Marc Katz, a trailblazing dating coach who has spent more than two decades helping women understand men and create lasting relationships. Often described as the world’s first dating coach, Evan built his career on one central mission: helping women stop repeating painful dating patterns and start attracting the kind of partner who wants commitment. Evan shares how his own experiences as a serial dater led him to study relationship dynamics and eventually build a coaching practice devoted to helping women navigate the modern dating landscape. His insights have been featured in major media outlets including CNN, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal. During the episode, Kerry and Evan talk about why chemistry alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, how to identify the difference between attraction and compatibility, and why many successful women unknowingly choose partners who are emotionally unavailable. Evan also discusses the mindset shifts that can transform someone’s dating life, including learning to recognize red flags early, focusing on consistency over intensity, and understanding the qualities that lead to long-term partnership. If you feel like you’ve done everything right in life but still haven’t found the right relationship, this conversation offers powerful insight into why—and what you can do differently moving forward. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett sits down with author of the popular book Bar Tips by Neil Rogers for a powerful conversation about human connection, dating, and what the hospitality industry can teach us about finding love. Neil shares how decades behind the bar shaped his understanding of people, respect, and first impressions—and why dating, like bartending, is ultimately a people business. From the importance of a proper greeting to the power of listening more than you speak, this episode explores how small, intentional actions can completely change the way we connect with others. The conversation dives into transferable skills from hospitality that apply directly to dating, including preparation, punctuality, reading the room, and meeting people where they are. Neil explains why being “right” is overrated, how kindness builds trust, and why showing up without an agenda creates deeper, more authentic connections. Kerry and Neil also discuss loneliness, modern dating challenges like ghosting, and how technology has made it easier to hide instead of engage. They explore why respect, compassion, and presence are more attractive than perfection—and how confidence grows when we focus less on impressing and more on genuinely connecting. This episode is a reminder that love doesn’t come from performance or pressure. It comes from listening, kindness, and the courage to be yourself. Whether you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or simply wanting better connections in your love life or in business, this conversation offers timeless lessons that can change how you show up—for dates, relationships, and life itself. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

How to Rebuild Confidence and Find Love Again: The Connection Between Self-Worth, Healing, and Attraction with Dr. Ann Doggett Struggling with confidence, healing after heartbreak, or wondering why love hasn’t worked out yet? This episode connects the dots. In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, celebrity photographer, author, and dating expert Kerry Brett sits down with Dr. Ann Doggett of Whole Body Solutions to explore how self-worth, healing, and confidence directly impact your ability to attract and sustain love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, disconnected from yourself, or like you’ve lost your spark after a breakup, divorce, or major life change—this conversation offers a new path forward. Dr. Ann shares how true transformation starts from within, combining science-backed treatments like non-invasive cold fiber laser technology with holistic healing practices including nutrition, acupuncture, and energy work. The result? Not just physical renewal—but emotional confidence, clarity, and a stronger sense of self. Because finding love isn’t just about meeting the right person—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who’s ready to receive it. This episode will show you how to rebuild confidence, reconnect with your worth, and step back into dating with a completely different energy. If you're ready to feel like yourself again—and finally attract the love you deserve—this is where it starts. finding love, how to find love, rebuild confidence after heartbreak, dating after divorce, self-worth and relationships, how to attract love, healing after breakup, confidence in dating, emotional healing, self-love journey #FindingLove #DatingConfidence #SelfWorth Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The start of a new year isn’t just about resolutions. It’s about acceleration. In 2026, the heaviness of the last few years begins to lift. The exhaustion, the repeating patterns, and the familiar question of why we keep ending up in the same place are finally giving way to movement and possibility. Astrologically and energetically, we are entering a rare window that supports forward momentum, emotional openness, and new beginnings. In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett is joined by astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine for a deep look at what the planetary shifts of 2026 mean for love, connection, creativity, and personal growth. Jill explains why this year marks the official transition into Aquarian age energy and how the collective move from heavy earth and water influences into lighter air and fire elements creates space for inspiration, innovation, and emotional renewal. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why 2026 is a year of acceleration rather than hesitation. The Year of the Horse arrives with momentum, encouraging people to stop dragging the past into the future and instead align with what is meant for them now. This episode breaks down why January sets the tone for the entire year, why intention-setting early matters more than ever, and how grounding practices help navigate a faster, more dynamic energetic landscape. Jill offers a detailed snapshot of the first quarter of 2026, including the powerful Aquarius activations in January, the intensity of eclipse season and retrogrades in February, and the integration and forward motion that begins to take shape in March. She explains how these shifts may impact relationships, dating, creativity, and emotional readiness, while also offering guidance on how to stay centered during periods of rapid change. This conversation is especially meaningful for anyone who has felt stuck, cautious, or emotionally weighed down in recent years. It offers clarity on how to work with the energy of 2026 rather than resist it, and why love becomes more accessible when timing and readiness finally align. As Kerry and Jill discuss, love is not about perfect circumstances. It is about being prepared when opportunity meets intention. Listeners will walk away with a clearer understanding of why 2026 represents a collective reset, how to approach love and connection with optimism instead of fear, and what it means to move forward without carrying old emotional baggage. This episode is an invitation to trust the momentum, stay grounded, and allow the year ahead to unfold with purpose. Guest Bio:Jill Jardine is a professional Western and Vedic astrologer with more than 35 years of experience. She holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology, is a Sanskrit mantra instructor and yoga teacher, and is the host of the internationally acclaimed podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill blends psychology, spiritual insight, and ancient wisdom to help individuals navigate life transitions with clarity and empowerment. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The holidays can feel like a perfect storm — emotionally, mentally, and physically. In this timely and deep conversation, Surviving the Holiday Bermuda Triangle: Dry January & the 12 Steps—Kerry Brett is joined once again by comedian, mom, and nearly nine-year-sober Laurie Hurd Ferreira for part two of their series on the 12 Steps — and why they’re not just for recovery, but for anyone craving peace, and real change. Together, they unpack what Laurie calls the Holiday Bermuda Triangle—Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s — a season that amplifies loneliness, temptation, comparison, and emotional overwhelm. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom, Laurie explains how the 12 Steps offer a practical framework for sobriety, self-trust, and community support — especially during the holidays or as Dry January is upon us. Or in moments when willpower alone isn’t enough. This episode isn’t about perfection or labels. It’s about transformation — the desire to change, to slow down, to stop repeating patterns, and to choose a different way forward, one day at a time. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

n today’s powerful episode, Kerry welcomes back one of Shot@Love’s most loved guests, Laurie Hurd Ferreira—comic, mother, and nearly nine years sober. As we move through one of the most emotionally intense months of the year, Laurie shares the tools, truths, and transformational wisdom she’s learned in Alcoholics Anonymous, and how those same principles can help anyone find balance, clarity, and strength—whether they’re in recovery or simply overwhelmed by life. Together, Kerry and Laurie unpack why the holidays make people feel unhinged, the pressure of perfection, the pull toward unhealthy habits, and the myth that you’re supposed to keep it all together. Laurie opens up about the moment her life changed, how AA saved her, and why the 12 Steps provide a blueprint for becoming the person you’re meant to be. They discuss:• Why so many people feel lost, anxious, or out of control in December• How slowing down, pausing, and “one day at a time” thinking can ground you• What the 12 Steps really teach—and why everyone can benefit from them• How to rebuild confidence, self-worth, and trust in yourself• The power of community, connection, and sharing your story• Why doing the next right thing—however small—can change your entire life• Letting go, finding a higher power, and learning to live life with intention• How helping someone else can become the beginning of your own healing This episode is raw, honest, funny, and deeply inspiring. If you’re navigating holiday stress, overwhelm, heartbreak, addiction, codependency, or simply want a healthier start to the new year, this conversation offers tools you can use today. Takeaways: Slow it down: Take life one day—or one hour—at a time. Pause before reacting: Clarity comes when you stop rushing. Help someone else: Small acts of service shift everything. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Some love stories don’t end with heartbreak — they end with unanswered questions. Ana Walshe was 39. A devoted mother of three. Brilliant, driven, and building a life between Boston and Washington, D.C. But behind closed doors, her marriage concealed a chilling imbalance of power, control, and deception. In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with her daughter, Morgan Hurley — an interim court reporter who has been inside the courtroom covering the Brian and Ana Walshe murder trial. Together, they unpack what really happened, what the jury is hearing, and the warning signs that were tragically missed. This episode is not about gossip.It’s about truth.It’s about red flags.And it’s about the dangerous cost of ignoring them. Inside This Episode: The early warning signs that surfaced years before Ana disappearedBrian Walshe’s long history of fraud, manipulation, and financial deceptionThe rise of Ana’s independence and why it became dangerousThe affair, the unraveling marriage, and December 2022’s final daysThe disappearance and the disturbing timeline that followedThe chilling Google searches prosecutors call the biggest smoking gunSurveillance footage, erratic alibis, and evidence from dumpsters across multiple townsThe eerie voicemail left for Ana’s boyfriendThe financial motive, including a $2.7 million life insurance policyThe courtroom dynamics and the challenge of proving murder without a body Morgan also shares what it’s like to report on a case that happened in their own backyard and why this story deserves far more attention than it has received. The Shot At Love Perspective Ana was rising.Her career was thriving.Her independence was growing. And for a narcissistic partner who depended on her financially, that became the greatest threat. When your success threatens someone, they were never your partner — they were your prison. This Week’s Shot At Love Dating and Relationship Takeaways: Red Flags Are Not DecorationsIf someone’s past requires detective work to understand, don’t investigate. Leave. Charm Is Easy. Consistency Is RareGrand gestures without steady behavior are manipulation, not romance. Your Body Knows Before Your Brain DoesIntuition isn’t overreacting; it’s forecasting. Don’t mute the message. About Today’s Guest: Morgan Hurley is an interim court reporter covering the Brian Walshe trial firsthand. In this episode, she brings clarity, credibility, and a journalist’s lens to a case filled with unanswered questions and troubling patterns. Follow and Connect: Host: Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerrybrettphotographyPodcast: Shot At Love Guest: Morgan HurleyInstagram: @morganhurleyyy Final Thought: This episode is a reminder that love should never require fear, confusion, or survival mode. If something feels off, it probably is. And ignoring the preview can cost you everything. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Why We Chase the Wrong Relationships (And How to Finally Break the Cycle) What happens when love becomes the thing that breaks you… instead of builds you? In this raw and powerful episode of Shot At Love, I sit down with Ben Currier—host of the top-ranked podcast Failure Guy—to unpack a story that starts with one impulsive decision… and spirals into complete collapse. At the height of his career, Ben moved across the country for a woman he barely knew. Within weeks, he lost everything—his stability, his belongings, his sense of self. But this isn’t just a story about losing it all.It’s about why we ignore red flags, chase intensity over intimacy, and stay in situations that slowly break us. Together, we unpack the deeper patterns behind modern dating—emotional addiction, trauma bonding, and the dangerous pull of relationships that feel like passion… but are really chaos. If you’ve ever: Thought a relationship would save youStayed longer than you should haveConfused emotional highs with real connectionOr rushed into something just to avoid being alone This episode will hit home. Because what Ben ultimately discovered is this:Rock bottom isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of rebuilding your life the right way. This conversation is about resilience, self-worth, and what it actually takes to break the cycles that keep you stuck—and finally create a healthy, grounded relationship. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns in love… this episode is for you. #ToxicRelationships#LoveAddiction#DatingAdvice Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Getting Clear for 2026 with Manifestation Mentor Lizzie Moore Shot At Love is all about clarity, energy, and creating a fresh start for 2026. Manifestation mentor Lizzie Moore returns to the show to walk us through how to identify what we really want, why most people stay stuck, and how to shift our mindset so we can finally receive the opportunities, relationships, and breakthroughs we’ve been waiting for. Lizzie explains why vague goals confuse the universe, how our energy influences what we attract, and why accountability changes everything. We talk about writing things down, showing up as the person who’s ready to receive, and how to stay committed even when life gets messy. Lizzie also shares why the last days of the year matter, how visualization activates the brain, and the science behind using vision boards to align your emotions with your goals. If you're tired, burned out, or unsure of where to start, this conversation gives you simple practices to reconnect with hope, rebuild your belief in what’s possible, and create a plan for 2026 that you can actually follow through on. We also talk candidly about fear, doubt, initiating connections, and how clarity makes every area of life—including dating—feel easier and more aligned. Whether you're manifesting a new career, a move, more joy, or the love you’ve been waiting for, this episode will help you get grounded, get intentional, and get ready for what's next. What We Discuss Why clarity is the foundation of manifestation • How fear, doubt, and imposter syndrome block your goals • The role accountability plays in staying consistent • How emotions carry frequency and shape what you attract • Using visualization to shift your mindset • Why writing things down strengthens belief • How vision boards activate the brain and create momentum • Resetting your mindset when the year doesn’t start perfectly • The science behind the reticular activating system • The difference between resolutions and manifestation • How to pick goals that you can sustain • Why small goals matter for beginners • When to aim bigger and how to overcome fear • Using signs, symbols, and daily rituals to stay aligned • Why connecting with images each morning makes a difference • How to get more comfortable initiating opportunities and connections • How to bring love into your manifestation practice • Building a realistic plan to stay hopeful and consistent in 2026 Connect with Lizzie Moore Website: www.vibeandshine.online Manifestation Membership and Vision Board Calendar available on her site. Follow Kerry Brett Instagram: @kerry_brett Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Kerry Brett LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In today’s episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with manifest mentor Lizzie Moore for an honest, energetic, and unexpectedly hilarious conversation about manifesting love, trusting the universe, and the mantra that changed everything: I only want what’s for me. Lizzie shares how she transformed her life through visualization, neuroscience-based mindset shifts, and vision boards that quite literally manifested a new home, a new lifestyle, and a new chapter on the South Shore. She breaks down how the Reticular Activating System filters our thoughts, why emotions carry vibrational frequency, and how shifting your energy can change what—and who—you attract. This episode covers: • Why “I only want what’s for me” is the ultimate dating mantra • How gaslighting, rejection, and heartbreak feel different when you trust alignment • The role of the Reticular Activating System (RAS) in manifesting love • How to rewire your brain and create new neural pathways • Vision boards, visualization, and the power of accountability groups • How emotions vibrate at different frequencies and influence attraction • Lizzie’s incredible chicken-coop meet-cute and cross-country connection • The difference between clinging and surrendering • How Lizzie manifested a home identical to her vision board • Moving two teenagers, rebuilding a life, and finding joy again • How to know when a relationship is aligned—or when it’s simply not your person • Letting go, gratitude, and the courage to trust the universe’s plan • Why timelines choke manifestation and how to release them • How to call your energy back and stop living in the in-between • What Lizzie teaches clients about love, alignment, and emotional frequency If you need hope, humor, and a reminder that the universe delivers what’s meant for you—sometimes in the form of a man building a chicken coop resulting in a little luck and a lot of lumber—this episode is for you. Find Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast Facebook and LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Your Last First Date: Author & Hollywood Matchmaker Jaydi Samuels Kuba This week’s episode of Shot At Love pulls back the curtain on Hollywood’s most fascinating matchmaking secrets with Jaydi Samuels Kuba. Inspired by her soon-to-be-released book Your Last First Date, Jaydi shares the patterns, mindsets, blind spots, and tiny shifts that help singles finally find their own Hollywood ending. Jaydi began her career as a television writer with credits ranging from Family Guy to Salem. But after watching talented, successful women in the entertainment industry struggle to form meaningful relationships, she built a couples-curation service that grew into LJ Matchmaking. Today she is a certified dating and relationship coach, a co-host of the podcast Match Made in Hollywood, and one of the industry’s most respected matchmakers. Kerry and Jaydi explore the truth behind finding love in Hollywood or anywhere else: why people stay stuck, how they repeat emotional patterns, and what finally creates lasting change. Jaydi opens up about the early days of her company, the unlikely way she met her husband while setting him up with other women, and the inner shifts that helped her leave a long-term relationship that no longer aligned with her life. Together, they break down why matchmaking matters, why being “findable” is non-negotiable, and how small mindset adjustments can make all the difference. Jaydi shares how she vets clients, screens for compatibility, and guides people toward clarity before chemistry. She explains why great daters still end up in the wrong relationships, how date coaching transforms confidence, and why trusting your own intuition is ultimately your most powerful tool. Jaydi also gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at writing Your Last First Date: how her Hollywood storytelling background shaped the narrative, why she chose to teach through character journeys and real client case studies, and what she hopes readers will take away after they close the final page. If you’ve ever wondered how matchmaking really works, what goes on behind the scenes, or how to stop repeating the same dating patterns, this conversation will shift the way you see yourself, your choices, and your path to love. Where to Find Jaydi Samuels KubaInstagram and social: @matchmadeinhollywoodMatchmaking and date coaching: www.ljmatchmaking.com Connect with Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcastFacebook: Kerry BrettLinkedIn: Kerry BrettSubstack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-actionWebsite: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week’s episode of Shot At Love centers on the powerful story and mission of Deborah Griffiths, founder of Bent Not Broken, a platform dedicated to resilience, recovery, and reclaiming personal strength after adversity. Instead of talking about my journey, we shift the focus to Deborah’s—her path, her purpose, and the incredible movement she’s built. In our conversation, Deborah opens up about the moment her life changed, the challenges that tested her spirit, and the transformative mindset that allowed her not only to survive but to build a community for others who are navigating their own storms. Bent Not Broken offers tools, hope, and a safe landing place for anyone rebuilding their life piece by piece—physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Deborah shares: • The origin story behind Bent Not Broken• What resilience really looks like when no one is watching• The healing practices that helped her rebuild• How to choose strength—even when it feels impossible• Why community is essential for recovery and growth• The message she wants every listener facing hardship to hear This episode is a testament to turning pain into purpose, and Deborah’s energy is a reminder that healing is not linear—but it is possible. If you’ve ever struggled, felt alone, or needed a voice reminding you that you can rise again, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dating Decoded: How to Find Real Love, and Succeed on Dating Apps with Julie Lokun What does modern dating really look like right now—and how do you actually find real love in a world dominated by dating apps, ghosting, and mixed signals? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett steps into the guest seat as she’s interviewed by Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, for a candid, unfiltered conversation about dating, finding love, and building real connection. If you’ve ever questioned whether real love still exists, struggled with dating apps, or felt overwhelmed by modern dating challenges, this episode delivers the clarity, strategy, and mindset shifts you’ve been searching for. Together, Kerry and Julie break down the truth about modern dating—what’s working, what’s not, and how to find love without losing yourself in the process. This episode answers the questions every single person is asking: Does real love exist in modern dating? Do dating apps actually work, or are they keeping you stuck? How do you identify red flags early before wasting time? What creates a successful first date and real connection? How do you stay open to finding love without lowering your standards? You’ll learn how to navigate modern dating with confidence, clarity, and intention, including: How to shift your mindset to actually attract real love Why belief in finding love is essential at every stage of life How to use dating apps strategically instead of emotionally The difference between chemistry vs compatibility in modern dating How to recognize red flags and green flags instantly The truth about ghosting, texting, and first date dynamics How your dating profile and photograps directly impact your success in finding love Kerry also shares how her career as a celebrity photographer shaped her unique approach to dating—especially when it comes to creating an authentic presence that attracts the right partner, not just attention. If you’re navigating dating after heartbreak, re-entering the world of dating apps, or simply want to finally find real love, this episode gives you practical tools and a new perspective on dating that actually works. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about clarity, strategy, and showing up as your most authentic self. ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST Julie Lokun is the host of the Get Obsessed podcast, focused on personal growth, transformation, and helping people elevate their lives and relationships. Through her work, she empowers listeners to take action, think bigger, and create meaningful connection—including in modern dating and finding love. WHERE TO FIND KERRY Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) HASHTAGS (Search-Focused): #FindingLove #ModernDating #DatingAdvice Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Great Scott! A Hero’s Journey to Love In the final chapter of Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, we wrap up the story with heart, humor, and hope. Kerry Brett reflects on her own Hero’s Journey—one that mirrors Marty McFly’s in Back to the Future—filled with setbacks, mentors, lessons, and ultimately transformation through love. This episode is about believing in divine timing, trusting the bigger picture, and having faith that the right person shows up when you’ve done the inner work. Kerry shares how her “Great Scott” moment came when she found love on Tinder, and how every heartbreak, misstep, and “Biff” along the way shaped her into someone ready for a healthy, lasting relationship. Through pop culture parallels, wisdom from her mentor Jeff Lubin, and her signature storytelling style, Kerry ties it all together—reminding listeners that everyone’s path to love is their own version of the Hero’s Journey. It’s about choosing courage over comfort, learning to love yourself first, and understanding that each swipe, each setback, and each lesson gets you closer to your own “Great Scott” moment. If you’ve ever doubted that love is possible after heartbreak, this episode will inspire you to believe again. Because when you trust in the bigger picture and take your shot, you just might find the one who was meant for you all along. Listen now at www.shotatlovebook.com and follow Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcast, Facebook, LinkedIn, and on Substack at https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.