Shot At Love

What happens when a life-saving act intertwines with a whirlwind romance and public attention? Discover Heather Krueger’s remarkable story of survival and transformation. Diagnosed with stage 4 autoimmune hepatitis just before her 25th birthday, Heather was in desperate need of a liver transplant. A stranger's selfless act saved her life and led to a rapid and intense romantic relationship, capturing the media's attention and inspiring a Hallmark movie. Heather shares the stark differences between the fairy tale portrayed and the real emotional and psychological hurdles she faced during her recovery. Journey into the emotional complexities of Heather's life as she navigated profound gratitude and obligation toward her donor-turned-husband. The pressure of public validation and the need to maintain a facade of hope took a heavy toll on Heather's mental health and self-esteem. Listen as Heather bravely opens up about the struggle to differentiate genuine love from a sense of indebtedness and how the swift progression of their relationship left her little room to process her trauma or make grounded decisions. Despite the turmoil, Heather's dedication to raising awareness about living liver donations became her beacon of purpose. Heather's story is one of survival, resilience, and empowerment. Hear how she overcame the unexpected challenges of her deteriorating relationship, physical scars, and societal pressures, all while finding strength in honesty, humor, and faith. Heather’s journey from a fairytale romance to self-discovery and empowerment is a moving testament to the power of hope and the human spirit. Her candid reflections offer inspiration and guidance for others facing their own life-altering challenges. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever felt honesty could make or break your most important relationships? Our guest, Laurie Gerber, a seasoned life and relationship coach, discovered that. Laurie's journey from near-marital collapse to deep, connected intimacy is nothing short of inspiring. Initially seeking help for her career, Laurie was redirected to confront her crumbling marriage after a serious argument and her husband's growing interest in her assistant. This pivotal moment pushed her to align her actions with her heart's true desires, ultimately saving her marriage and transforming her life. We then peel back the many layers of lying within relationships. Beyond outright deceit, we dive deep into lies of omission, misrepresentation, and the common avoidance of confrontation. Laurie and I discuss the delicate balance between sharing personal experiences and empathizing with others' feelings. We also highlight how understanding one's past choices can pave the way for healthier future relationships. By embracing honesty and authenticity, Laurie provides hope and practical tools for anyone looking to break free from negative patterns and build stronger connections. Lastly, we tackle the complexities of finding a long-term partner and navigating relationship liabilities. Laurie shares actionable advice on maintaining self-worth, steering clear of a scarcity mindset, and embracing authenticity in dating. We challenge misconceptions about what makes someone undesirable and discuss how to manage personal liabilities, whether being a single parent or living with an illness - those are not liabilities but limiting beliefs. Laurie's journey, including her experience delivering a TED talk and embracing radical honesty, encourages listeners to confront their vulnerabilities and foster a culture of acceptance and truth. Tune in for a transformative discussion that could change how you approach your relationships forever. To find out more about Laurie Gerber, go to www.lauriegerber.com. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this week's Shot@Love episode From 'Wolf of Wall Street" Ex-Wife to Empowered Psychotherapist: Dr. Nadine Macaluso's Story of Resilience and Love, we talk all about surviving toxic relationships, trauma bonds, narcissistic abuse, and healing. Have you ever found yourself trapped in a story that wasn't your own? Today, Shot@Love features Dr. Nadine Macaluso, whose life once sounded like a plot from a Hollywood movie; in fact, it was. But behind the glittering facade of a marriage to the notorious "Wolf of Wall Street," Jordan Belfort, lay a reality far removed from the glamorous image. From a model navigating the gritty streets of Brooklyn to a psychotherapist and author, Dr. Macaluso's narrative is one of profound transformation and resilience. She shares her journey of self-discovery, the intense dynamics of her past relationship, and how she used her experiences to fuel her passion for helping others in their own quests for healing. The struggle to find one's voice amidst the chaos is a journey many can relate to. Dr. Macaluso’s account spills light on the often unseen trauma bonds underpinning some relationships. Her insights into the trials she faced during her marriage and the challenges of managing a turbulent household while nurturing a career are both sobering and inspiring. In this raw conversation, we also dissect the cultural shifts that have propelled women from a place of competition to one of mutual support—celebrating the newfound strength in women's solidarity through movements like #MeToo and the push against victim-blaming. But beyond the past lies a blueprint for the future. Dr. Macaluso offers hope and guidance on how to rebuild life after escaping abuse and trauma. She discusses the power of setting boundaries, the role of recovery, and the significance of trust in forging authentic relationships. Her story is more than an echo of her former life; it's a testament to the courage it takes to step into the light of self-truth and to love oneself fiercely in the aftermath. Join us as we embrace Dr. Macaluso's message of empowerment, hope, and the enduring quest for love and safety in our relationships. To learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso, follow her on Instagram @therealdrnadine or visit her website, www.drnae.com. You can also purchase her best-selling book Run Like Hell on Amazon. For more episodes of Shot@Love, you can listen to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and other platforms. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today, we'll take a deep dive into the dating world with the one and only Dr. John Gray. He is the mastermind behind the global sensation 'Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus,' with over twenty books, including his most recent 'Beyond Mars and Venus. Dr. John Gray's insights have captivated audiences worldwide, from Oprah to Barbara Walters. Stay tuned as we discuss the timeless wisdom of Dr. John Gray's classic Mars and Venus on a Date, uncovering the five stages of dating as your success comes down to attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity, intimacy, and engagement. Whether you're single, separated, or newly jumping into the dating pool, this episode is for you! Dr. John Gray is the most well-known relationship expert in the world! He's the author of the highly acclaimed, widely popular, and most trusted relationship book of all time: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the ten most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the bestselling book of the 90s. Dr. John Gray's books have been translated into over 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continue to be bestsellers. This episode shines a light on the five stages of dating to help you navigate the intricate dance of modern dating; Dr. Gray and I dissect the expectations and pressures influencing how men and women approach the quest for connection. We explore the importance of reciprocity and emotional bonding and how physical closeness can sometimes lead us astray from forming deeper, more meaningful relationships. Tune in as we delve into the art of communication, the significance of small acts of love, and how these elements are crucial in understanding and appreciating the unique language of love between individuals. As our conversation culminates, we offer insights into the delicate process of building commitment. Dr. Gray imparts his wisdom on the critical role of maintaining individuality and balance in a growing relationship. Whether finding love for the first time or fostering an existing flame, this episode equips you with the tools to converse with depth, deepen emotional connections, and foster a lasting commitment. Prepare to transform your perspective on dating and engage with love in more profound and enriching ways. Please subscribe and leave a review supporting Shot@Love; you can listen for a free on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Unlock the transformative power of breakups with relationship scientist Dr. Gary Lewandowski, who joins us to offer a fresh perspective on the end of love affairs. Through the lens of his book "Stronger Than You Think" and the innovative tool StayGo, Dr. Lewandowski guides us through heartbreak's hidden opportunities, drawing on the Japanese art of kintsugi to illustrate finding strength in our fractures. The dialogue promises empowerment, emphasizing personal growth and liberation that often go unrecognized amidst the anguish of a split. As we navigate the aftermath of a relationship, Dr. Lewandowski shares groundbreaking findings on how rediscovering oneself can be self-care. We discuss the study, revealing a surprising twist: the comfort found in re-engaging with pre-relationship interests outweighs that of new pursuits. This episode probes the complexities of identity and the intertwining that occurs within a partnership, highlighting the importance of a diversified self. We also tackle the weighty decisions that come with potentially ending a relationship, underscoring the gravity of such crossroads in life. Turning the spotlight on the enigmatic dance of attraction and power within relationships, we scrutinize the halo effect and its deceptive sway. Dr. Lewandowski and I dissect the allure of physical beauty, its fleeting promise, and the stability found in more profound, more compatible matches. Finally, we dive into maintaining an equitable power balance and how authenticity and self-reflection can foster healthier, more balanced connections. This episode promises not just insights, but practical wisdom for those seeking to understand the heart's journey through love and loss. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Ever wondered how celestial events can shake up your love life? Prepare to be enlightened as we're joined by Jill Jardine, an esteemed astrologer and psychic healer, whose insights on recent eclipses and Pluto's monumental shift into Aquarius will leave you contemplating the cosmic forces at play in your personal relationships. Discover the secrets to navigating these transformative times and how to harness the power of astrology to clear past blockages and invite new beginnings, setting the stage for a period of deep personal growth that could redefine your connections with others. As the planets dance through their retrogrades and transits, we're here to guide you through the cosmic quicksand. With Mercury throwing curveballs in communication and travel, we share firsthand experiences and practical tips for thriving during these phases. Anticipate a summer pulsing with love and social vibrancy, thanks to Venus glowing in Taurus and Mars charging into Aries. And if you're on the hunt for romance, we've got you covered as Jill is your celestial wingman. Jill's optimism is contagious, offering a glimpse into how the planets are aligning to spice up your social calendar as we approach the warmer months. But it's not all about the stars; sometimes, the magic lies in the mundane. The Swedish concept of death cleaning might not sound like a love potion, but creating space in your home can open doors to new opportunities. We share how decluttering and aligning your space with feng shui can energetically invite potential partners into your life. Plus, we look at the holistic ties between physical movement, a spring-cleaned liver, and a decluttered mind. Join us as Jill Jardine imparts her wisdom and anecdotes, inspiring you to embrace change, step into a vibrant social scene, and find the love that aligns with the stars. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This episode is all about mastering deliberate attraction! Join us as we welcome Michael Losier, renowned author of the Law of Attraction, who has empowered millions worldwide with his wisdom. Discover how to swiftly navigate through resistance and fear on your journey to finding love. Learn Michael's 3-step process for deliberate attraction and how to banish doubt, allowing love to flow effortlessly into your life. Gain clarity on what you desire, and confidently place your order with the universe. Michael emphasizes the power of language, urging us to eliminate words like 'don't,' 'not,' and 'no,' and reset our vibrations to manifest incredible relationships and find the love we truly deserve.Dive into practical tips with Michael Losier and Kerry Brett as they discuss:Becoming a deliberate attractor for your ideal partner.Embracing allowance as the antidote to doubt.Resetting your vibration to align with love.Eliminating limiting language patterns.Harnessing the potency of beliefs in attracting love.Affirming your intentions daily to magnetize your perfect match.The significance of keeping your dating experiences private, but when you talk about them, highlight what worked and what was positive.Look for proof to remove doubt; love is all around, and people find love every day.To find more insights from Michael Losier, visit www.michaellosier.com and connect on Clubhouse (@Michael Losier) or Instagram (@michael_losier_loa). Don't miss out on his transformative book, "Law of Attraction," or book an appointment at www.ReleasingNegativeEmotions.com to assist you on your journey towards love and fulfillment.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Shot@Love host Kerry Brett interviews comedian Laurie Hurd Ferreira about the launch party they hosted last week – Shot@Love Live to bring singles together to make new connections and find love. The event was a success and Kerry and Laurie give you the play-by-play recap of the event and share what they learned about singles live events. · The episode promises insights into their recent Shot@Love Live event, filled with love, laughter, and unexpected twists.· The event aimed to bring those serious about finding love. Kerry also discusses Laurie's inspiring journey from sobriety to the spotlight.· Kerry and Laurie discussed the highs, lows, and everything in between of their electrifying in-person experience.Event Successes: Sold-out Event: The event was a success, with a packed room and five couples finding love.Positive Feedback: Over 80 women attended and had a fantastic time, enjoying food, drinks, and laughter.Building Community: Attendees made new friends and connections, fostering a supportive community.Comedy Highlight: The comedy segment was a hit, showcasing the healing power of laughter.Pushing Comfort Zones: Attendees stepped out of their comfort zones, leading to personal growth and new experiences.Positive Experience for Men: Despite the low turnout of men, those who attended had a great time and landed dates.Challenges and Lessons Learned: Despite extensive promotional efforts, Kerry and Laurie faced challenges in attracting male attendees.Only a few men showed up despite initial commitments.Kerry and Laurie learned about the difficulties of finding men organically and post-COVID challenges.Despite setbacks, they are determined to make adjustments and continue their mission.Promotional Efforts: Kerry Brett's press efforts included articles and interviews on Newsbreak and Kiss 108 radio.Despite transparent promotions and comped tickets, attracting male attendees remained challenging.Future Plans: Kerry and Laurie plan to organize a brainstorming session with attendees to find solutions.remain committed to fostering connections and creating meaningful events.Pros and Cons of Singles Events: Pros include free food and drinks, meeting new people, trying new experiences, and supporting local businesses.Cons include the possibility of not finding love, but attending events offers entertainment and socialization opportunities.Conclusion: Attendees had a chance to win prizes and support local businesses while mingling with other singles.Attending singles events offers opportunities for personal growth and potentially finding love.Kerry and Laurie encourage listeners to stay tuned for future events and continue supporting Shot@Love's mission of bringing people together in pursuit of love.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Shot@Love Episode Show Notes: "Setting The Stage For Love & Laughter"IntroductionHost: Kerry Brett celebrates Valentine's Day and Shot@Love’s four-year anniversary.Exciting guest: Laurie Hurd Ferreira discussing her journey from businesswoman to standup comedian and revitalizing the local performing arts scene.Laurie's StoryLaurie shares her journey, starting with modeling, marriage, and motherhood.The challenges of divorce and the impact on her life.Struggling with alcoholism, reaching a breaking point, and deciding to seek help.The power of sobriety: Laurie's transformation and the positive impact on her life and family.Sobriety is a daily commitment; one day at a time.Laurie emphasizes the importance of wanting sobriety and putting in the work.Sobriety as a gift: improved relationships and a better life.Overcoming FearLaurie's advice for those afraid to make a change: Fear is often behind our decisions.Taking the first step, breaking stereotypes, and embracing change.Comedy and TransformationLaurie's journey into comedy as a result of overcoming challenges.Comedy as a platform for sharing relatable stories and connecting with others.The gift of finding one's purpose and joy.The Live Event: Shot@Love LiveAnnouncement of a new live event for Shot@Love community on March 7th at Tosca in Hingham.An evening of laughter, connections, networking, and surprises.A unique opportunity for singles to meet in person, enjoy comedy, and build new relationships.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Welcome to a brand-new episode of Shot@Love! New Year, New Goals, New You! I'm thrilled to start this year with an extraordinary guest, Jill Jardine, a host of Cosmic Scene and a renowned Psychic Healer. Jill sets the stage for the new year to come and shares with us the upcoming astrology, lucky days to date, and Pluto's influential power, urging us to gear up for a warp-speed year ahead. Welcome to the cosmic party that 2024 ushers in.As we transition from holiday festivities to a Mars-driven focus on work, Jill guides us through the energies shifting from Sagittarius to the practicality of Capricorn.January presents pivotal lunar events—the new moon on 1.11 and a significant full moon in Leo on January 25th, promising opportunities for fruitful beginnings and expansive love.Brace for the sun's move into Aquarius, heralding the Age of Aquarius, but remember, self-care takes precedence before embracing the accelerating Aquarian energies.But it's not just about the stars; Jill shares how these cosmic movements will impact relationships, offering insights into zodiac signs poised for significant changes and highlighting auspicious periods for new and existing relationships.We discuss celestial events influencing romantic energies, how to align with astrological forces to enhance dating experiences, and the essential aspects of navigating relationships, ensuring harmonious communication and understanding.Join Jill as she decodes the cosmic party that 2024 brings, unveiling how the Leo full moon on January 25th invites us to let our love light shine while also preparing for surprises ahead. Jill shares insights on the impact of these cosmic currents on long-term commitments and offers practices and advice for singles seeking love amidst these celestial shifts.Additionally, she sheds light on utilizing personal astrological charts effectively in the dating scene of early 2024, setting the stage for an accelerated, transformative year where it's time for each of us to shine brightly.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Join dating aficionado, renowned podcaster, videographer Brian Alves, and host Kerry Brett as they share their journey through the maze of modern romance. With Brian's unmatched expertise in the world of love and a reach of 250,000 listeners weekly on the DV Show – Video Production Just Got Easier Podcast, this episode promises a whirlwind of wisdom and wittiness.Episode HighlightsIt's all about first impressions: Explore the profound impact of initial encounters and unearth top-notch tips for leaving an indelible first impression.Communication: Effective communication strategies emphasize the importance of active listening and genuine engagement on those pivotal first dates.Navigating conversational terrain: Brian shares his go-to conversation topics and how he maneuvers through potentially sensitive subjects, ensuring smooth sailing through any dialogue.Body language decoded: From door-holding debates to the silent language of attraction, discover the significance of body language in forging connections without words.The texting artistry: Brian's secrets behind becoming a master texter, infusing personality and humor into messages while fostering genuine connections.The bill-paying conundrum: We share a timeless debate of splitting or covering the bill. Gain insights and etiquette pointers on this hotly contested topic.Honoring boundaries: Recognize cues and signals, ensuring respect and engagement while sidestepping the pitfalls of distracted interactions.Punctuality and planning precision: From differing perspectives on planning efforts to the significance of punctuality, Brian and Kerry provide invaluable advice on this contentious subject.Post-date feedback: Ghosting or honest communication? Explore the dos and don'ts of follow-up interactions after a date, navigating the delicate post-date landscape.Embracing awkwardness: Laugh off the awkward with Brian's anecdotes, showcasing graceful navigation through uncomfortable situations, turning them into opportunities.Key Takeaways:Patience pays off: Understanding someone might need time, perhaps three dates, to open up.Embrace authenticity: Be flexible, vulnerable, and resilient; authenticity triumphs over missteps.Be present and caring: Show genuine interest, put away distractions, and cultivate kindness; it's the cornerstone of a successful first date.So grab your favorite seltzer and buckle up for Shot@Love's whirlwind ride, where Brian Alves brings unparalleled expertise, humor, and authenticity to unravel the enigma of modern dating!Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Get ready to be swept off your feet for this dynamic duo: The Golden Dating Doctors, Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Frank Powers! These two aren’t just experts but are proof that love knows no age limits. They share their secrets to senior dating in their new book, Open to Love. Picture this: psychologists and seniors who stumbled upon each other’s hearts on Silver Singles after enduring personal losses. Their love story isn’t just inspiring; it’s a testament to the endless possibilities of love, even when it seems out of reach. They share the highs and lows of dating, shining the pathway to success in finding love at any stage of life. This episode is for those seeking love and anyone who’s ever doubted that their best days are behind them and why you should never stop believing!Kerry Brett, Dr. Gloria Horsley, and Dr. Frank Power cover much ground around dating. Topics include;Meet the Golden Dating Doctors, Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Frank Powers, who exemplify love beyond age limits.Living Proof of Love: Their personal story reflects the limitless potential of love, as they found each other after personal losses through Silver Singles.Their Mission: Sharing insights on senior dating and addressing the loneliness and challenges faced in later stages of life.Gloria’s Transition: Following her partner's passing, she embraced grief groups and ventured into dating, encountering lessons that fueled the idea for their book.Finding Frank: Their meeting on Silver Singles sparked an immediate connection, leading to two years of shared love.Shared Loss: Both experienced personal tragedies that brought them closer together, understanding the depths of grief and healing.Dating Insights: Their shared experiences revealed crucial aspects often overlooked in dating, especially in the later stages of life.Overcoming Setbacks: Emphasizing reframing setbacks as learning experiences rather than failures.Compatibility: Stressing the significance of shared values, backgrounds, and companionship over superficial attractions in older relationships.Finding a Best Friend: Highlighting the value of finding a partner who becomes a best friend, fostering acceptance and understanding.Make a list of what you like and don't like regarding relationships because it will save you a lot of time.Why you need to get a dating buddy: Having a dating buddy will help your chances of success.Getting clear about what you're looking for in a partner.Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Frank Power's book Open to Love will be available on Valentine's Day in 2024. Listen to their podcast Open to Hope for more inspiring stories of finding love. Follow on Instagram @opentohopefoundation. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today, we're joined by the trailblazer himself, Evan Marc Katz. Back in 2003, Evan made history as the world’s first dating coach, specializing in helping smart and successful women find lasting love. With four published books and a Love U podcast with over 2 million downloads, Evan's impact and expertise haven’t gone unnoticed. He’s been featured in hundreds of media outlets, from Today to the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal. CNN once called him a serial dater, but Evan’s journey would serve a higher purpose–to decipher the male mind, decode their actions, and uncover what they truly want. His mission? To empower women to raise their standards and never settle for anything less. This episode is for the incredible women who’ve got it all–except love. Throughout our conversation, we'll discuss Evan's coaching philosophy and learn how to break free from the cycle of attracting the wrong men. It's all about finding not just anyone but the right one for a fulfilling, long-term relationship. Evan's community-building efforts have seen over 13,000 women graduate from Love U, and today, he'll share how to become the CEO of your love life. And put us on the path to finding high-quality, commitment-oriented partners.Kerry Brett and Evan Marc Katz cover a lot of ground. Topics include;· Evan's journey into coaching stemmed from his dating failures; necessity is the mother of invention. His passion for finding love turned into decoding male actions and helping women understand what men truly want.· Empowering Women: The mission is to elevate women’s standards and help them avoid settling for less in relationships.· Challenges for Smart, Successful Women: The Smartness Factor: Discussing if being highly intelligent creates relationship challenges.· Tripped Up by Intelligence: How intelligent women might face difficulties in dating.· Diverse Backgrounds: Addressing successful women's challenges in various fields such as science, business, and academia.· Balancing Success: Exploring the downsides of dating someone equally successful.· Money and Happiness: Delving into advice for women dating someone who earns less.· Expectations and Emotional Availability: Understanding men’s responses and emotional availability in relationships· Dead-End Relationships: Avoid investing time in unfulfilling or ambiguous situations ships.· Identifying Red Flags Early: Recognizing and gracefully exiting unsuitable relationships without guilt or pressure.· Breaking Negative Patterns: Actionable steps to break the cycle of attracting the wrong partners.· Chemistry's Role: Exploring the significance of chemistry beyond common interests.· Why chemistry alone doesn’t sustain a relationship in the long run.· Balancing Act: Distinguishing between settling and compromising in relationships.· Identifying Long-Term Compatibility: Understanding signs that indicate a partner is suitable for the long term.· Advice for individuals who've struggled despite trying various methods.· Addressing the complexities of modern dating and simplifying approaches.· Identifying common limiting beliefs and encouraging women to leave their comfort zones.· Practical methods for women to boost self-worth and confidence in their dating journey.To find out more about Evan Marc Katz, go to www.evankatz.com/kerry. To find out the Seven Mistakes You're Making In Dating, go to evankatz.com/kerry Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr. Christie Kederian is a nationally renowned relationship expert specializing in helping clients create the lives they want and find the love they deserve. With an extensive career as a professional matchmaker and relationship expert for eHarmony and Match.com, Christie has helped hundreds of people find love and improve relationships. She is a "Triple Trojan," receiving her Bachelor's, Master's & doctoral degree at the University of Southern California in Psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy. Christie has been a featured expert in ABC, NBC, KTLA, The Wall Street Journal, Los Angeles Times, Cosmopolitan, and many more. She is also a professional speaker and provides training with the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.Kerry Brett and Dr. Christie Kederian cover a lot of ground. Topics include:How to navigate dating during the holidays.How relationships impact who we are as people.Dr. Christie's online and offline dating strategies for dating during the holidays.What Dr. Christie's learned about compatibility from working at eHarmony.How to avoid falling into the scarcity mindset.How to reset when you get discouraged with the online dating process.Dr. Christie's Criteria Sandwich and why you should clarify your core values.Dr. Christie's Silver Bullet Swipe and why you should focus on the main thing you want in another person.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Get ready for some exciting news! Today, we’ll hear all about Lola, a brand-new dating app exclusively launching in Boston. I think it’s safe to say that intentional daters are tired of mindless messaging, time-consuming chats, and the frustration of virtual dating pitfalls. Lola is designed to get you on real dates with real people on your schedule. Lola is about to revolutionize your dating experience by creating genuine connections, scheduling dates at your convenience, and eliminating the clutter of multiple conversations. Imagine conversing solely with only those you're interested in meeting face-to-face. Get ready to say goodbye to endless swiping, catfishing, and ghosting and say hello to dating because Lola is putting dating back into dating apps. This week, we have the privilege of hearing from the masterminds behind Lola, its founders, Paul English and Rachel Cohen. Paul English is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, the founder of six start-ups, and the co-founder of the travel industry giant Kayak.com. Rachel Cohen has a background in Human Resources for renowned fashion and luxury brands such as David Yurman and Diptyque Paris. Together, they combined their expertise to create a dating app that focuses on matching based on availability. They'll share why Lola stands apart from traditional dating apps and how it could redefine your dating journey. And they’ll also share with us their story and what’s in store for us with Lola.Kerry Brett, Paul English, and Rachel Cohen cover a lot of ground around what’s working in online dating and how Lola plans to create a new community and change the dating culture. Topics include;· The benefit of a dating app centered on matching based on availability.· Their Journey to love and the inspiration behind Lola:· Paul and Rachel shared their serendipitous meeting on Bumble four years ago, sparking a conversation that eventually led to identifying the common problems in existing dating apps and, later, falling in love, getting engaged, and launching Lola.· Rachel discusses the experiences that fueled their passion for addressing these dating app challenges, emphasizing the need to reinvigorate hope for the discouraged.· Rachel highlights Lola's calendar-based matchmaking system. Introduces the 4-day timeline, benefitting users and empowering women to take control of their dating schedules.· Fast-tracking dating: Paul explains from a male perspective why immediate in-person meetings can revolutionize the dating landscape, expediting genuine connections.· Rachel sheds light on how Lola caters to single parents or individuals with restricted availability, maximizing dating opportunities.· Paul draws from his tech experiences to simplify and enhance Lola's user interface, ensuring it's both familiar and efficient.· How Lola plans to filter out non-intentional daters.· Lola's review feature, offering constructive feedback while eliminating non-genuine or uninterested users.· Why Lola values quality over quantity: addressing the trend of excessive conversations Lola's commitment to quality interactions rather than volume.· Enforcing rules for genuine engagement: Paul advocates for a no-nonsense approach to discourage habitual cancellations.· Anonymous feedback system: the benefit of anonymous post-date feedback, aiding users in self-improvement and finding better matches.· Rollout plans and recruitment events: Insights into Lola's rollout strategy, inviting potential users to join and engage.To learn more about Lola, visit www.lola.com and follow on Instragram @lola_dates. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dating after cancer: Runway to Romance –Navigating Love's Catwalk with Cancer Disruptor Christine Handy.Get ready to be inspired by an incredible guest who is the epitome of strength, courage, and true beauty, both inside and out. Meet Christine Handy, a 40-year veteran in the modeling industry, a devoted mother, a best-selling author, a breast cancer survivor, a cancer disruptor, and a breastless model for Victoria's Secret. Being a breast cancer survivor, having four mastectomy’s resulted in her ultimately losing her chest–she learned – it was up to her how she felt about herself. And that the only place beauty comes from is within. Today, she shares secrets about finding self-love and, most importantly, keeping it. And why it’s important to feel confident and love yourself before stepping into the dating world. Christine’s commitment to working on herself, rebuilding her self-esteem, and feeling worthy of love led her to find it. We must remind ourselves and remember that our self-esteem and self-worth are at the core of all the decisions we make in life and love. Christine Handy is an international model, cancer survivor, motivational speaker, and inspiration to all. Christine Handy is an international print and runway Model for brands such as Guess, JCREW, Target, Pepsi, and Victoria’s’ Secret. Christine is the author of the book Walk Beside Me, a fictional depiction of Christine’s life. Christine became a keynote speaker after her book was published in 2016. Christine is a mentor, a breast cancer advocate, a public figure, a Social Media Influencer, a Nationally recognized Humanitarian, and a Mother of two sons. Christine serves on the board of three non-profit organizations: EBeauty, People of Purpose, and the Break Free Foundation. Christine’s first novel is currently being adapted into a film called Hello, Beautiful.Kerry Brett and Christine Handy's discussion covers a lot of ground. Topics include;· Christine's remarkable journey· Modeling industry realities: A glimpse behind the scenes of the modeling world and its impact on self-worth.· Health journey begins: Christine's life as a self-proclaimed athlete and the initial signs of her health challenges.· Diagnosis and despair: How Christine faced the devastating news of her aggressive breast cancer diagnosis.· The power of community: The importance of showing up for others and building a support network.· The path to self-love· Self-indulgence to selflessness: Christine's journey of self-discovery and becoming selfless.· Loving yourself enough to fight: The central theme of Christine's book, "Walk Beside Me," and the importance of self-love in her healing process.· Christine's strategy for not letting the pain show on her face and her advice for those suffering.· Overcoming fear of dating after illness: Christine's initial apprehension about finding love post-divorce and illness.· Rediscovering confidence· Challenges during the pandemic: Christine's experience with MRSA during the pandemic and its impact on her confidence.· Realization of self-sabotage: How Christine recognized that she was the one holding herself back.· Embracing New Challenges: Christine's determination to fight for her confidence and accept new opportunities.· Dating and Career Advancements: Christine's experience in the dating world while advancing her modeling career.· Resilience in the Face of Adversity: Christine's strength and resilience after a negative experience.· Current Success: Christine's achievements as the first breastless model for Victoria's Secret and finding love.· Inclusivity and hope: Christine's mission is to help people feel less alone.To learn more about Christine Handy, go to www.christinehandy.com or follow on InstSend us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this week's episode, meet Joe Heroun, a man who’s mastered the art of capturing attention. He’s a multifaceted talent in the world of photography, fashion, art direction and design. Joe’s been the creative force behind iconic magazine covers for decades and was a driving force at the Improper Bostonian Magazine. Today, his mission is to help men elevate their style and up their dating game. He’ll share secrets to online appeal and what’s behind the perfect image for the digital age? How to enhance your image through clothing, from the timeless white tee, layering up, or choosing the right accessories. What makes a lasting impression visually, and how to be yourself in front of the camera. And what it takes to look put together in a photograph. Because in the world of dating, appearances matter. Kerry Brett welcomes the incredibly talented Joe Heroun. It's an engaging conversation between Kerry and Joe as they dive into photography, art direction, and dating. Whether you are looking to upgrade your dating profile or want to enhance your style, this episode is packed with practical advice and creative insights. Joe's expertise extends beyond the world of magazines and media. Today, he's on a mission to help men elevate their style and enhance their dating game. This episode is filled with valuable insights, dating tips, and secrets to online appeal, all brought to you by an industry veteran.Key Talking Points:Joe's unconventional path to becoming an art director.The chaos and creative problem-solving behind iconic magazine covers.The significance of preparation and clear authority on set.The art of styling and how to enhance your personal image for dating success.The importance of the leading photograph in online dating.Joe's collaboration with dating expert Blaine Anderson and the importance of variety in dating profile photos.The psychology of getting your subject to open up during a photoshoot.The impact of first impressions in online dating.The nuances of looking well-groomed, confident, and approachable in photographs.Embracing personal style and projecting confidence in your online dating profile.Joe's message is clear: it's not just about what you wear but how you wear it, and confidence and authenticity play a vital role in making a lasting impression in dating.Tune in to discover how to make a memorable impact in your dating journey. To learn more about Joe Heroun's work, go to jherounportrait.com or follow him on Instagram @jheroun.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this special episode, I’m honored to welcome Natalie Lue, someone who has profoundly influenced the lives of countless individuals, including myself. Natalie Lue, a beacon of inspiration, joins us today. As a podcaster, speaker, artist, and renowned author, her remarkable works, particularly "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," have left an indelible mark. Natalie's narrative is a testament to the transformative power of self-discovery.Natalie's story is a tale of metamorphosis. In 2005, a debilitating illness and a tumultuous breakup with an emotionally distant partner ignited a spark of self-realization. Her experiences became the cornerstone for her incredible journey, which encompasses five best-selling books, the creation of Baggage Reclaim, an archive of over 16,000 enlightening blog entries, and a podcast that has touched the lives of millions of women across 140 countries. Her unwavering mission is to help others overcome abandonment, rejection, trauma, and the damaging effects of people-pleasing, emotional unavailability, and feelings of inadequacy.Natalie Lue's impact extends far and wide. Her candid, compassionate, and humor-infused approach to relationships has gained her a global following. She's been recognized by esteemed outlets like The New York Times, NPR, and the BBC. Her books, including "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," "The No Contact Rule," "The Dreamer and Fantasy Relationship," and "Love, Care, Trust & Respect," with over 140,000 copies sold, have been pivotal in reshaping perspectives. Her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," has surpassed 2 million downloads. Furthermore, Harper Horizon published her latest book, "The Joy of Saying No," in October 2022.Natalie's expertise is not confined to the world of self-help and relationships. She's also the founder of the kids' lifestyle blog, Bambino Goodies. For the past 13.5 years, she has dedicated herself to full-time blogging, leaving behind a career in advertising. Natalie has shared her insights on relationships at numerous conferences worldwide, and her current focus encompasses subjects like people-pleasing, boundaries, mindfulness, and creativity.Kerry Brett and Natalie Lue dive into a rich and enlightening conversation. Natalie's remarkable ability to unravel complex relationship dynamics and her skillful articulation in "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl" are highlighted. If you've ever grappled with feelings of unworthiness or questioned your value in the world of dating, this episode is a game-changer.Natalie's unparalleled ability to identify and address relationship issues with unfiltered candor.Unpacking the enigma of "Mr. Unavailable" and the emotional turmoil it entails.The enduring impact of the book "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl."How Natalie's work resonates with women worldwide, illuminating shared pains.The societal conditioning that often leaves women with the short end of the stick in toxic relationships.The imperative of never settling in matters of the heart.A sobering glimpse into relationships with "Mr. Unavailable."The importance of recognizing and navigating "Future Faking."The phenomenon of "Fast Forwarding" and its fleeting intensity.Connect with Natalie:Stay connected with Natalie Lue on Instagram @natlue or visit her website at natalielue.com. You can find all her empowering books on Amazon and access her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," on all major podcast platforms. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This episode is an enlightening one! Today, we have a truly exceptional guest with us. He's not just a spiritualist and teacher; he's the Architect of The Art of Peaceful Living. Meet Sid McNairy, a remarkable individual who has dedicated his life to helping others connect with their highest and best selves through the power of meditation, yoga, and self-discovery. Sid found his path to healing, during the process of finding love and peace, which resulted in transforming his life. Now his passion is empowering others to fine discipline and peace in their lives. Sid willtake us through the process of surrendering, while sharing the power of finding balance, being ok with where you are right now. And show us how to find grounding within yourself, and why you need to discover who you are first before you seek love from another. With a background in coaching college football and coaching NFL players, Sid’s journey has involved battles both physically and mentally. After struggling with feelings of not being accepted and making decisions against his heart, Sid found solace in yoga and meditation, which helped him heal his past and find inner peace. Now a renowned figure in the wellness industry, Sid has written several books, and he’s also a sought-after speaker who inspires audiences around the world with his trainings and presentations on wellness, and self-discovery. Kerry Brett and Sid McNairy have a conversation around why it’s important to find peace within yourself before finding love with another person. Topics include;Pivotal Moments: Sid shares the moment when he decided to shift from coaching football to becoming a spiritual teacher.Dealing with Suffering: Advice for those suffering and feeling hopeless, drawing strength from personal experiences.Yoga and Meditation: Sid describes how yoga and meditation played a significant role in his personal transformation. Sid also shares why doing things you love is one of the quickest ways out of pain.Finding Inner Peace and Love: Sid explains the importance of finding inner peace on the journey to finding love.Finding Love: Sid's shares his struggles with finding love and key takeaways for those facing similar challenges.Overcoming Challenges: Advice for individuals struggling with feelings of not being accepted or making tough decisions.Impactful Moments: Sid shares memorable moments where he’s made a significant impact on other’s lives through his teachings.Surrendering and Inner Grounding: Sid shares practical advice on surrendering to where you are in life and finding inner grounding before seeking love from others.Maintaining Discipline: Strategies and daily practices to help others achieve balance and peace in their lives.Trusting the Process: Sid’s advice for those who struggle with impatience and trusting the process.Community and Healing: How Sid works to improve the lives of others, with a specific example of a thriving community or individual.Unexpected Challenges: Sid shares unexpected challenges or surprises that shaped his understanding of self-discovery and inner peace.Strength in Self: Sid shares how to draw strength from within and constructive advice around dealing with others' opinions.Emotion in Motion: Using emotional energy positively through activities like yoga or art. Sid shares why you should just get moving forward.To find out more about Sid McNairy go to www.sidmcnairy.com.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today, we’ll uncover the complexities of relationships, love, and everything in between. And we've got one impressive expert in the house today! Meet Christina Morelli, and she’s not just any guest; she's a relationship coach extraordinaire and a virtuoso in the art of love. She’s also a woman on a mission to help others navigate the intricate world of connection. Christina will be our compass this week, shedding light on her passion for preparing others for a committed partnership. And she’ll share how to have those crucial conversations before jumping headfirst into something new. And most importantly, what to say when deciding or sliding into a relationship. Christina Morelli is a relationship and personal coach working with individuals and people in partnership to create healthy, rewarding, and fulfilling relationships. Her practice fosters self-awareness and provides the relationship education and skills we were never taught. The mission is to educate the world on increasing relational and emotional intelligence, happiness, and personal healing.Kerry Brett and Christina Morelli discuss their journeys and both of their passions for understanding social psychology and interpersonal relationships. Topics include;· The Lack of Relationship Education: Christina discusses how most people are never formally taught how to have relationships. · The Search for a Better WayChristina emphasizes the desire to find a better way to navigate relationships without experiencing repeated failures. Communication plays key role in building successful relationships.· Valuing Intuition and Non-NegotiablesChristina talks about the importance of valuing intuition in relationships.· The realization of non-negotiables in relationships and avoiding settling for less.· The shift from trying to fit someone into a mold to finding compatible partners.Misconceptions About Communication: Christina discusses the misconception that communication and compromise are the keys to successful relationships.· The importance of self-awareness in communication and compromise.· Comparing relational intelligence to financial or technical intelligence.Dating Yourself and Self-Value: Christina shares the concept of "dating yourself" and why it's important.· How treating yourself well establishes deep and unshakeable self-value.It's the difference between liking someone for who they are and how they make you feel.Being a Partner and Not Just Finding One: Christina emphasizes the need for personal growth and self-awareness before seeking a partner.· The importance of asking, "What kind of partner am I going to be?" rather than just seeking qualities in a partner.· How relationships require two autonomous individuals coming together with agency.The Stages of Relationships: Christina explores the different stages of relationships based on neuroscience.· Biological responses drive the initial lust stage.· The attachment stage with norepinephrine and dopamine.· Transitioning into the oxytocin stage, characterized by deep intimacy and trust.The Blueprint for Successful Relationships: Christina highlights the value of creating a blueprint for a relationship.Why is it important to understand who you want to be as a partner, what you want your partnership to look like, and what you want in a partner?· The flexibility to adapt as priorities and needs change over time.Imago Dialogue for Effective Communication: Christina introduces the Imago dialogue as a structured framework for communication.· The roles of the sender and receiver in resolving conflicts.· How Imago dialogue minimizes emotional conflicts and fosters productive conversations.To find out mSend us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Is Love written in the cards? Today’s guests think so. Meet thedynamic duo known as “Dear Wise Women.” Think of them as a blend of Page 6's intrigue, the mystique of The Horoscopes, and the sage wisdom of Ann Landers. These remarkable sisters, Donna Bernard and Jeri Isaacs, possess a remarkable talent –the ability to guide you through your life’s journey through the power of playing cards. Every one of us has a birthdate, and within that date lies insights into ourpersonality, potential partner and even our destiny. Ever wonder why some connections feel soprofound or feel that you’ve known someone your whole life? Donna and Jeri know why and have all the answers, and it comes down to the day you were born. They’re share how they use cards as a tool to gain insights into your preferences, a way to look for compatibility, and help guide you in the right direction when searching for love. It’s, fun, it never disappoints and it’s always in the cards. Jeri Isaacs & Donna Bernard, known as DearWiseWomen, are Astrological Advisors and NEWSBreak Contributors with a popular column on the NEWSBreak app. They take an in depth look at the Birthday Cards of Celebrities, Politicians, and Athletes in order to explain thepersonality traits associated with different cards. DearWiseWomen offers personalized sessions exclusively for their fanbase. They also host a podcast Dear Wise Women on 360 Network for Women and co-moderate a Clubhouse room discussing family dynamics and relationships, embracing an ancient personality identification system. Their mission is to provide advice and wisdom with humor, and they started their blog, "DearWiseWomen.com," in May 2021, analyzing famous relationships.Kerry discusses common relationship questions, including finding soulmates.Jeri provides examples of how they guide people in the process of finding love.Spotting Red Flags: Donna talks about how she helps people identify red flags and provide warnings about potential issues in their relationships.Matching and Compatibility: Jeri explains how they determine if two people are a good match and how they guide individuals in playing their cards right from the beginning.Card Interpretation (Using Kerry as an Example): Kerry's card combination: Ace of Spades, 9 of Spades, and 7 of Diamonds.Donna and Jeri both discuss how the cards combined with birthdays help guide individuals in various aspects of life, aligning goals, and values.Understanding Card Suits: Jeri explains the four suits: hearts, clubs, diamonds, and spades, and what they signify.Self-awareness and Personal Growth: The importance of self-awareness and understanding strengths and weaknesses in finding a successful relationship.Communication and Success:How the cards aid in improving communication, which contributes to success in both business and relationships.Timing and Auspicious Moments: Can the cards help identify the right time to meet someone? Discusses timing in relationships.Using Cards to understand one's personality.Communication for Success: How improved communication, guided by the cards, can lead to success in business and relationships.Dating Tips Inspired by Dear Wise Women: Seek Guidance: Call Donna and Jeri for insights using the card system based on astrology.Learn from Past Relationships: Dear Wise Women can help identify past relationship issues and guide you towards finding the right partner.Trust Your Destiny: Remember that your destiny is written, listen to your intuition, and know that it's always in the cards.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

It's game time for Fall romance, and it's time to step onto the field of Love like never before! Today, we've got the one and only Astrologer and Psychic Healer, Jill Jardine, to guide us through the cosmic plays of the season! Autumn isn't just about the falling leaves; it's about falling head over heels, too! As the season changes and temperatures drop, many are looking to heat up and searching for a cozy companionship. That's right, it's Cuffing Season! Are you ready to find a new flame as the cool weather blows in? Grab your scarfs and get your sweaters and pumpkin spice lattes ready because Love is in the air! Jill Jardine is an astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She's also a former radio personality on WATD 95.9 and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. She's also a Reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and chanting mantras can shift outcomes and is an invaluable tool. For over 30 years, she's helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves and help with important decisions.Jill unveils the celestial roadmap of Love for the Fall of 2023 and shares astrological insights to inspire and empower you to find Love this Fall. Topics include;Reflecting on Summer and its Effects: Why it was the Summer of retrogradesMany challenges faced by clients during the summer and the impact of retrogrades, especially Venus and Mercury retrograde.The aftermath and implications of Venus retrograde.Venus and Love Transits this Fall: Jill discusses the positive aspect of Venus, the planet of Love, transiting throughout the year.Understanding how this transit benefits people in the dating world.Mercury's Communication Transits: Jill explains the influence of Mercury, the planet of communication, during new interactions with dating prospects. Jill Discusses the retrograde phase during Fall and strategies for approaching romantic pursuits during this time.Mercury's Retrograde Dates and Strategies: Jill highlights specific dates to be cautious about interactions in the dating world during Mercury's retrograde periods.Astrological Lineup for Fall: Anticipation for Fall's astrological influences, starting with September's events.Fall Equinox and New Energy: Jill discusses the astrological shifts that come with the Fall Equinox and their impact on love lives.Power of Attraction and Relationships: Jill's perspective on the ability to draw people into daily life and how it applies to relationships and opportunities.Understanding Cuffing Season: The psychological, biological, and scientific aspects of why people want to settle down during this time.Planetary Aspects and Relationships: Jill examines specific planetary aspects that influence singles' approach to relationships during the Fall season.Standout Alignments and Challenges: Jill identifies standout planetary alignments and potential challenges for specific astrological signs.Positive Shifts for Specific Signs: Jill Discusses astrological signs that might experience a particularly positive shift during Fall.Opportunities with Eclipses and Moons: Jill Highlights potential opportunities presented by celestial events like eclipses, full moons, and new moons.How listeners can tap into their inner confidence and radiate positivity while navigating the dating landscape.Tips for Making the Most of Fall's Astrological Transits: Jill shares actionable tips for listeners to leverage astrology's guidance in finding Love during Fall.To book a reading with Jill Jardine, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com or follow Jill Jardine on Facebook and Instagram@soulmappingjilljardine. And Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On today’s episode, we’re joined by Cindy House, the author of 'Mother Noise,' whose real-life story reads like a riveting novel. Cindy shares how her journey through the shadows led her to write her inspiring memoir. She survived a harrowing heroin addiction, overcame personal storms such as a difficult divorce, and weathered times of despair. But most importantly, she navigated the complexities of sharing her troubled past with her son. She’s a testament to the power of recovery, second chances, and sheer determination. Cindy transformed her experiences into artistry and literary success, and she’ll share why we should make art out of the worst things that happen to us. And she’ll encourage us to turn our life’s challenges into creativity because we can all craft a new ending and create a life filled with love. Cindy House is an essayist, short story writer, artist, and regular opener for David Sedaris on his tours across the country. She studied at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago and 2017, earned an MFA from Lesley University. She lives in New Haven, Connecticut, with her son.Cindy House shares her inspiring journey through addiction, personal challenges, and recovery, highlighting her transformation into an accomplished writer and artist. She brings a wealth of wisdom and experiences to the conversation. Topics include;· Cindy shares her harrowing experiences, from battling heroin addiction to overcoming personal storms like a difficult divorce. She emphasizes the importance of not hiding or denying one's past, as facing discomfort leads to personal growth.· Understanding Addiction: Cindy dives into the challenges of her 20s, lost to addiction. She sheds light on the complexities of addiction that others might not understand.· The Importance of Mentorship: Cindy speaks about the impact of mentors, especially David Sedaris, in her life. She highlights how having even one person believe in you can transform one's life.· Finding Meaning Beyond Suffering: Inspired by Tim O'Brien's book The Things They Carried, Cindy emphasizes believing in something beyond suffering. This belief can be a guiding light through difficult times.· Embracing Change: Cindy's story exemplifies that it's never too late for change, personal growth, or pursuing dreams. Her experiences show that transformation is always possible.· Cindy opens up about her divorce when her son was young, explaining that it was as challenging as overcoming her addiction. She offers advice for those facing similar struggles.· Turning Challenges into Creativity: Cindy advocates making art from life's challenges. She discusses the healing power of expressing oneself through creative outlets and writing about difficult experiences.· Cindy explains how sharing her story has been a healing process for her. Vulnerability can foster connection and provide a sense of closure.· How love and fulfillment can be found in various aspects of life, not solely through romantic relationships. Teaching, performing, and spending time with loved ones make life meaningful.· Strength in Connection: Finding strength often involves leaning on mentors friends, or connecting with something that inspires you, such as a book or a song.The episode ends with these takeaways: embracing new stories, letting go of self-imposed limitations, and finding inspiration and hope in various forms to navigate life's challenges. You can purchase Mother Noise in bookstores and on Amazon. To learn more about Cindy, go to https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Cindy-House/177732249 and follow her on Twitter or Instagram @cndy_housea.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you struggling to move forward? Or are you still in communication with your ex? Maybe you've found yourself in the position of being an option or, worse, a backup plan. Today, we dive into the dynamic world of the “No Contact Rule,” a radical self-care move that empowers you to break free. Breakups happen to all of us, even breakup coaches. This week, we’re joined by Janice Formichella, a seasoned breakup coach and host of the podcast “Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On.” Get ready as Janice shares her 5 Breakup Lessons, hidden truths behind breakups, and why breaking the chains is your ticket to a brighter future. If heartache has you in its grip – you're exactly where you need to be. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and the roadmap to mending that broken heart. I’m Kerry Brett, and Shot@Love starts now.Janice Formichella is a breakup coach passionate about helping people from all backgrounds beat their breakup, overcome loneliness, and make the end of a relationship the start of a powerful new beginning. Today, she shares 5 Break Up Lessons from her life. Why healing is a roller coaster, why the no contact rule is your secret weapon, how routines help, and why you should keep the details of the breakup on a need-to-know basis. Kerry Brett and Janice Formichella cover a lot of ground – topics, including;Janice’s Journey to Helping Others with Breakups:Janice's personal experience led her to help others navigate breakups.· Emphasize that breakup pain can be eased and the process shortened.· Importance of Giving Yourself Grace· Acknowledge the difficulty of the initial weeks after a breakup.· Taking time off is crucial for self-care during this challenging period.Lesson 1: Acknowledging the Loss:· Losing something that isn't good for you can still hurt.· Breakups occur for a reason; it's essential to acknowledge this fact. Lesson 2: Keeping Positivity from Past Relationships:· Recognize and retain positive aspects from past relationships.· Janice's affirmations and routines helped maintain self-esteem. Lesson 3: Letting Go of Hurtful Words:· Discard hurtful words spoken in moments of pain and anger. Lesson 4: Dealing with Negative Emotions:· Breakups bring out anger, disappointment, and regret.· Avoid self-destructive behavior and cope positively with emotions.· Journaling and expressing emotions creatively can help. Lesson 5: Setting Boundaries and Moving Forward:· After a breakup, staying friends or continuing favors is unnecessary.· Setting boundaries and focusing on self-care is crucial. The No Contact Rule:· After clarity on reasons for the breakup, begin the No Contact Rule.· Journal about the qualities of a new partner or write a letter to your future self.· No Contact helps create space for a new future. Leaving the Past Behind:· Avoid engaging in discussions about the breakup or damage control.· Care less about others' opinions and focus on moving forward. Avoiding Revisiting Old Memories:· Don't dwell on old memories or hypothetical scenarios.· Delete or archive old text messages, screenshots, and block numbers.· Emphasize the importance of self-love and acceptance.To learn more about Janice Formichella, follow her on Instagram @janiceformichella and tune into her podcast Breakups, Broken Hearts and Moving on all platforms. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s episode is a story of acceptance – the art of finding strength and wisdom when life doesn’t go according to plan. Joining us is Emi Nietfeld, a true inspiration who went from homelessness to Harvard University. Emi saw a way out of her hopeless life and became fixated on her dream of an Ivy League education, only to discover that Harvard didn’t quite meet her expectations. After graduation, she secured a coveted job at Google seemingly guaranteeing a life of success and stability. Emi reveals that healing and growth can’t be gained from a relationship, a prestigious college, or a high-powered job. Why the traumas of ourpast won’t define us– and proves that it’s the journey, not the destination, but the transformation we experience along the way that truly matters. Emi Nietfeld, is the author of Acceptance, named one of the best books of 2022 by NPR and Amazon. After graduating from Harvard College, in 2015 she worked at Google, an experience she wrote about in her viral New York Times Essay, “After Working at Google, I’ll Never Let Myself Love a Job Again.” Her writing has appeared in The Atlantic, Teen Vogue, Slate, and many other publications. She lives in New York City with her family.Emi shares invaluable tips on navigating through failed relationships, job setbacks and missed opportunities.To find out more about Emi Nietfeld follow on Instagram @eminietfeld or website www.eminietfeld.com or purchase Acceptance available in both hardcover and paperback. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today, we have a remarkable guest, the one and only Kim Sinatra, who’s renowned for her role as the former general counsel and executive vice president at Wynn Resorts in Las Vegas. But Kim’s story goes far beyond her professional achievements. In one fell swoop, her life took an unexpected turn, leading her to a heart-wrenching breakup with her boss, shattering her long-standing career and ending of her marriage. Instead of succumbing to despair, she used the power of forgiveness as a superpower. She shares how she broke the shackles of her past, refusing to be defined by her circumstances, and how forgiving others and herself, she rewrote a new narrative. This week, Kim shares her inspiring journey and how she transformed from feeling like collateral damage to scaling the glass cliff. Kim Sinatra builds companies and culture, working for gifted entrepreneurs scaling big ideas and making things happen. She’s been a C-Suite executive in industries leading gaming, entertainment, and hospitality companies. She’s a trusted advisor to boards and CEOs navigating complicated legal, financial and expansion issues. More than a lawyer, Kim is a leader in business development, mergers, acquisitions, financing, and governance activities in both private and public companies. She is the founder of Sinatra + Co, the former executive vice president and general counsel for Wynn Resorts, and the former executive vice president and general counsel for Caesars Entertainment Inc.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you looking to enhance your dating life? What if how your skin looks on the outside affected the way you feel about yourself on the inside? And what if having increased confidence could hold the key to finding love? Today we'll explore the impact of beauty on relationships with Janice Pringle, owner of the groundbreaking serum, Reverse. Janice understands the transformative power of feeling youthful, having experienced it firsthand after her divorce. Her journey led her to find love and marry a man 11 years younger – inspiring her to create a new career path. Driven to capture the essence of youth, Janice developed Reverse—A revolutionary beauty line that boosts confidence and helps you feel fabulous. Stay tuned as Janice reveals her secrets to starting over, finding love, and looking your best. Say goodbye to feeling single like a Pringle—This is a conversation you don’t want to miss!Meet the founder of Reverse Beauty, Janice Pringle - a natural skincare enthusiast who’s on a mission to help everyone achieve healthy, youthful, and radiant skin. After meeting her now-husband, she realized the clock was ticking, and her quest for eternal youth began. After a year of experimentation in her kitchen, she found the perfect natural formula that gave her the glowing skin she had been searching for. And thus, Reverse Beauty was born - a brand dedicated to the power of natural ingredients in achieving beautiful skin. As a former healthcare & pharmaceutical industry professional, she understood the importance of natural ingredients and the impact of skincare on overall health. Her passion for natural skincare stems from losing her father to skin cancer, motivating her to be even more dedicated to skin care. This episode is for you if anyone wants to look and feel better.To learn more about Reverse and purchase this serum go to www.reversebeauty.org or follow on Instagram @reversebeauty8.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you settling for a better-than-nothing relationship? This week’s guest is standup comedian and dating coach Paul Roseberry, and he shares tips on how to avoid being trapped in relationships that don’t fulfill your needs. Paul brings in an objective perspective – as he’s someone with a hawk’s view because it’s easier for someone who’s not emotionally involved to see what’s happening. When emotions run high, logic becomes less. Are you wondering if you’re in a relationship or a situationship? He’ll share telltale signs to help us differentiate between genuine connections and temporary arrangements. And discuss how the way present yourself matters as it influences the type of relationships you attract and why no one will overpay if they don’t have too. And how to make sure you’re not undervalued or taken for granted. Paul Roseberry is a Los Angeles based nationally headlining stand-up comedian and relationship coach both in person and as host of the podcast “Best Dating Advice... EVER!”. Paul’s comedy and relationship perspectives are designed to take a look at life from a bird’s eye view and make connections that most of us may otherwise never notice. Both of these crafts aim to make life more fun for just about anybody!Becoming a dating coach was not a conscious intention at first and began with helping one co-worker to repair a breakup during a lunch break. After this, the word began to travel and other co-workers and even his real estate clients began approaching him for advice. After hearing consistent praise from everyone who sought his help, Paul decided to take on paying clients and his success rate continued. Already a fan of public speaking and a lover of scalable, reproducible modules, Paul created his podcast to reach a wide net of listeners and offer firm solutions to common dating and relationships problems in bite size, easy to use practices. Paul’s “Super Power” is recognizing that today’s men are in need of positive role models who can reinforce the value of masculinity, build confidence on a personal level and bring awareness of a man’s role in a balanced and healthy relationship and he believes he’s just the guy to deliver this message! Using organization, logic and reason, Paul builds a road map to navigating relationships that makes them as simple as driving, as long as you understand the signs, lines and lanes. To find out more about Paul his website is PaulRoseberry.com and media links:Instagram: @Paul_Roseberry_Comedy Facebook: facebook.com/Paul.Roseberry.94 Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you tired of repeating the same patterns and pulling in the wrong type of person? Do you keep ending up with someone emotionally unavailable or unhealthy for you? Today’s guest is here to help! Dr. Duana Welch, best-selling author, and relationship coach, shares how you can intellectually and logically find love that lasts. Duana experienced this struggle firsthand, having married two alcoholics despite not drinking herself. But she didn’t let that hold her back. Instead, she turned to her own book, “Love Factually,” and used the ten proven steps from “I Wish to I Do” to find happiness with her new husband. Now, she helps others break free from toxic patterns and make better choices by using social science to see clearly. Get ready to learn how to find the love you want by using the power of science. Duana Welch has been a professor at universities in Florida, California, and Texas for 20 years and has contributed to NPR, PBS, Psychology Today, Redbook, and Huffington Post, to name a few. Her first book, Love Factually: 10 Prove Steps from I Is to I Do, is now out globally in five languages; Its revised and updated edition released in 2022. Love Factually for Single Parents is specifically geared toward finding the right partner for readers and their families and the Love Factually Single series. All of Duana’s books rely on science rather than opinion to help others find and keep the right partners. She is an expert for Paired, the couple’s relationship app, and she’s all things heart, soul, and science. Duana has written a series of books filled with relationship advice but only writes books she needs. Today she shares with us the advice we need.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Did you know that in the process of finding love one of the most powerful thingsyou can do is surrender, surrender to the timing, surrender to your past mistakes and surrender to the process. Today’s guest is Kute Blackson and he’s a renowned transformational speaker, and national best-selling author of the book You.Are.The.One and Kute has a new revelation for us–a new book The Magic of Surrender, a guide that will help you navigate through these challenging times. Prepare to tap into your true greatness, and yes find love. When you let go of the constraints of when and how? Love will arrive in your life! Kute will show us how to dismantle the barriers that have held you back for far too long. Get ready tounlock a world of freedom, and infinite possibilities, which is all on the other side of surrender. Kute Blackson, was born the son of the “Miracle Man” of Ghana, by the age 8 he was speaking to hundreds of thousands, and by the time he was 14 years old he was an ordained minister. By the age of 18 his soul told him not to take over his father’s ministry in the UK, and with a little over 1,000 dollars in his pocket he left to pursue his dreams in America and has never looked back. Kute has been recognized as the “Mindfulness guru that billionaires go to for advice” by Inc Magazine. He has been featured on The Larry King Now Show, Dr. Drew, NPR, Fox and Friends, Mind Body Green, and many more. The “Magic of Surrender” has been endorsed by Jack Canfield, Les Brown, John Gray, Anthony William, Barbara de Angelis, and Martha Beck to name a few. Kute’s work has changed thousands of lives around the world, so get ready to be highly motivated and experience the transformative power of his depth, and practical wisdom.Why a relationship is a mirror manifestation of yourself.Are you open and available for love?What do I need to change within myself that I need to shift to pull in someone different?How to shift the focus of looking at past relationships as failures, their helped People create the same experiences over and over again until we learn – all lessons are repeated until learn.You can’t become someone different if you’re in victim or in blame.When you go into surrender you can get honest with yourself.Relationships are feedback and if you don’t like what you are seeing change yourself.How to stop the scarcity mindset and feeling desperate around finding love.How to stop attracting a relationship from a need base.Unconscious payoffs for not changing or transforming.How to accept and tell the truth to yourself about what needs to change in your life.To find out more about Kute Blackson's work, retreat and books go to www.kuteblackson.com. See below for his links.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kuteblacksonlovenowInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson/Twitter: https://twitter.com/kuteblacksonYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kuteblackson09LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kute-blackson-35755519/Life changing event to Bali: www.boundlessblissbali.comSend us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week’s guest is Karina Solomon, and she’s a relationship, intimacy and style makeover expert. Today we’re talking about something that goes beyond clothing. Karina’s approach to styling involves redefining who we are and dressing congruently with how we feel about our new and improved selves. She believes that when we feel confident on the inside, it shows on the outside. This episode is all about creating the life you want and dressing the part to match. Whether you’re looking to make a statement at a networking event or feel like a million bucks on a date, Karina’s tips will help you help get noticed. Get ready to take some notes because you won’t want to miss the valuable insights Karina has to share. Karina Solomon is the author of Sassy, Sexy and Starting Over. She guides divorcées, and others after any life transition to clear their past and design an irresistible future. Karina teaches the keys to confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. Her communication, coaching, and facilitation style is bold and edgy, and infused with humor. She seeks to empower both men and women to be their authentic, unadulterated selves. Karina is a credentialed teacher with over two decades of experience providing image makeovers and relationship coaching for men and women to facilitate her clients in becoming the best version of themselves, especially when starting over. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you tired of swiping through countless profiles and having no connection? Do you struggle to come up with funny one liner’s or grab the attention of others? Today we learn how to make the most of your profile using Chat GPT! Dr. Duana Welch, the author of Love Factually, has been using Chat GPT to assist her clients in creating profiles that help them stand out in a crowd. From catchy opening lines to interesting taglines and everything in between, Chat GPT can help generate ideas, spark creativity, and offer suggestions making you the talk of the town. With its advanced capabilities, Chat GPT helps you create a write up that reflects your personality while showcasing your best qualities so you can bring in the one, you're meant to have.Dr. Duana Welch is the first dating-and-relationship coach and author to use science rather than opinion to help men and women all over the world find and keep the love of their lives. She’s a favorite guest on this podcast, a former psychology professor, an expert for the couples’ relationship app Paired, a writer for Psychology Today, and the author of the famous book now out in five languages: Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do.Already great at profiles—or hate writing? No worries: by the end of today’s podcast, you’ll know how to leverage Chat GPT to boost your creativity and—if you’d rather not create your ad yourself--do the heavy lifting for you. Hate technology? No problem: you can DIY if you don’t want to deal with AI. It’s all here, now.Kerry Brett and Dr. Duana Welch dive into the exciting world of Chat GPT and learn how it can help you find love, and Dr. Duana Welch shares what she knows about this cutting-edge technology to find your person and create a profile based on science, not opinion, no matter who you are. To find out more about Dr. Duana Welch's work go to www.lovesciencemedia.com.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s topic is the power of manifestation: The magic of Mantras and Metta. We’ll learn how Sanskrit chants can help you find your match. If you’re looking for love, then this episode is for you. Joining us today is the amazing Astrologer Jill Jardine, and her new course Sanskrit Mantras for Love, is changing lives, and she shares her strategies with us. So, get ready to align your chakras, raise your vibration, and find your soulmate. Because when you radiate positivity, confidence, and authenticity, you become irresistible to others. We also discuss how to recalibrate and raise your vibration because it’s time to attract your perfect match.Jill Jardine is a professional astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She’s also a former radio personality on WATD and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill has been a reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and for over 30 years, she’s helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves while helping guide others with important decisions. We’ve got some incredible tips guaranteed to help you attract the partner of your dreams. At least one of these powerful techniques will resonate with you–or you can try all three. We also discuss the importance of inner knowing and having blind trust.To find out more about Jill Jardine, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Imagine stepping outside your door and meeting someone new and life-changing, no matter where you choose - whether it’s an art show, an exhibition, or even a car show. The possibilities are endless, and the world is your playground. Today's guest believes it is up to you to choose where you play – his name is Johnny Cassell, London's premier Elite Dating Coach, and Men's Lifestyle Strategist. Johnny believes your social network is the key to your success in any area of life, and he shares strategies for creating the right social circle to meet quality people. We dive into the power of familiarity and association and how it impacts interactions with others. And why breaking patterns of people's expectations can lead to new exciting experiences. So, get ready to shake things up and learnhow to take your social life to the next level with Johnny Cassell. Johnny Cassell is the best-selling author of Elite Seduction – Actionable Tools for Love, Seduction and Dating. Johnny helps men from all over the world attract the type of women they truly desire. He’s personally coached over 2,000 men including CEO’S of some of the world largest companies, celebrities and royalty. He’s racked 100,000 coaching hours and lead over 200 international workshops. He’s been featured twice on the cover of Times Magazine, appeared in the Sunday Times, The Evening Standard, The Express, The Daily Mail, Cosmopolitan, The Metro, BBC Radio to name a few. Johnny recently appeared on the UK hit reality show Made in Chelsea and he’s also the host of the Johnny Cassell Podcast.To find out more about Johnny Cassell go to www.johnnycassell.com or follow on Instagram at @londondatingcoach.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s topic is the 5 secrets to lasting love and this week’s guests are the dynamic duo of John David Mann and Ana Gabriel Mann, a married couple who have mastered the art of sustaining love. They’ll share the secret sauce in their book The Go-Giver Marriage. Their success came down to one word: giving – And they harnessed the power of generosity to keep their love burning bright, even in the face of adversity. They share real-life examples of how these secrets played out in their relationship, while giving us a glimpse of how it can play out in ours. It's not enough to know the secrets, it's about practicing them too. And with practice comes improvement – it doesn’t make your love perfect, but it does make your love better. Because there is no point in finding love if we can’t keep it. Get ready to take some notes and fall in love, with this couple and story. John David Mann is the co-author of more than thirty books, including four New York Times bestsellers and five national bestsellers, with over 3 million books sold in 38 languages. His works include The Go-Giver (co-authored with Bob Burg), which won the Axiom Business Book Award, and cited on Inc.’s “Most Motivational Books Ever Written” and Hubspot’s “20 Most Highly Rated sales books of all Time”; The Go-Giver Leader was listed on Entrepreneur magazine’s “10 Books Every Leader Should Read” and Forbes magazine’s “8 Books Every Young Leaders Should Read." Aside from his books, John has written for notable publications like the Financial Times, CNBC, Huffington post, Ivey Business Journal and Wired.Ana Gabriel Mann is a Psychotherapist, who holds a master’s degree in clinical psychology and is also a life and relationship coach, teacher, speaker, and mediator, she is the creator and lead facilitator of the Go-Giver Marriage Coaches training program and co-author of the Go-Giver Marriage.John and Ana will talk about the spirit of generosity, because the more you give, the more you have. To find out more about John David Mann go to www.johndavidmann.com and to learn more about Ana go to www.gogivermarriage.com.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today, we’re diving into the scary world of ghosting, which is all too familiar to many of us. Ghosting is the ultimate silent treatment and is the practice of someone ending a relationship without explanation and withdrawing from all communication. It's painful, cruel, and can be psychologically damaging. A brutal rejection leaves us confused, hurt, and alone. But fear not because this week's guest is leading a crusade to combat this emotional epidemic. Meet Gretta Perlmutter, the host of Coping with Ghosting, A podcast that helps people navigate heartbreak with hope and courage. Gretta is a mindset coach with a master's degree in communications and a heart full of compassion. Her goal is spreading kindness and understanding, and she'll share her strategies with us today. If you’ve been ghosted one too many times and are struggling to make sense of it all, this episode is for you!Gretta is on an anti-ghosting mission, helping people handle heartbreak and loss while teaching others how to move on confidently. She started a movement of compassion due to getting ghosted one too many times, leaving her alienated, upset, and angry. Gretta blamed herself for being ghosted and spent time trying to figure out what she did wrong. She questioned her self-worth and wallowed in self-pity. The positive was – the more she got ghosted, the quicker she got over it and learned that ghosting is not personal. She discovered hurt people - hurt people and cultivated compassion for her ghosts.Gretta shares how she realized ghosted had less to do with her and more to do with other people’s issues. She also shares what's worked for her in the past and how to move forward while becoming stronger and more resilient than before. Kerry Brett and Gretta Perlmutter cover all things ghosting and feature the song Ghosting by artist Gustavo Zaiah, whose song is the theme song for the Coping with Ghosting podcast and is available for purchase on Amazon. Topic includes: Breaking the silence: strategies for confronting ghosting.Don’t ghost yourself; how to go from haunted to healed.Ghostbusting 101: tools and techniques for dealing with ghosting.Understanding why people disappear.The impact of ghosting and how to fight back.How to empower yourself and move on from ghosting.To learn more about Gretta Perlmutter, you can find more information on her website www.copingwithghosting. Follow her on Instagram @copingwithghosting and listen to her podcast, Coping with Ghosting, on all platforms where podcasts are found.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

You have the power to transform your life and write your own love story, and today we'll hear from a special guest who did just that. Lisa Shield is a world-renowned love, dating, and relationship coach whose journey to love didn't start as a fairy tale. It began as an unhappily married fashion photographer who entered the dark room and emerged into a lighted hallway when she realized the stories we tell ourselves dictate who we become. We make it up, all of it. Lisa decided that if she was making it up, she might as well make it good. And that she had the power to change her life, take control of the narrative, and write a new story. She divorced, changed the portrait of a woman who was always sad, left a dysfunctional relationship, and embarked on a path of self-discovery. In two years, she went on 95 dates. On the 96th date, she met her husband, who encouraged her to become one of the first love coaches twenty years ago. Lisa Shield is a love, dating, and heart-opening ninja with two decades of experience. She is a pioneer in the field of love coaching. Lisa earned a master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach. She has been a featured expert in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, ABC News, and Cosmopolitan, to name a few. Last year, twelve of Lisa's clients were married, and she officiated four of those weddings. She and her husband, Benjamin, have been together for over 20 years and live with their two dogs in Santa Fe, New Mexico. Today we discuss what men want in a woman, and Lisa shares her wisdom while encouraging us to take power back and take control of our love life. Kerry Brett and Lisa Shield cover a lot of ground and topics, including:Tips around the importance of being present on the first date.Small acts of kindness, caring, and being a great listener can go a long way on the date.Getting emotionally naked is the most challenging part, but if you let your guard down will gain an extra point on the date.Look for your final five. Throw away the list that everyone has and create a relationship inventory that will lead you to your final five. And remember, he doesn't have the final five; you can't date him.Men want to be hunters, and if we have a checklist and put them in a box, men are very sensitive to a woman who want to take away their freedom and clip their wings.We must move away from looks; are we choosing someone from our heads or hearts?There is a difference between being a strong, successful woman and being competitive.Stop creating rules; every hoop you put up is another restriction on men. Men don't like jumping through hoops. Men want women who make their world bigger because you're in it.No man is going to allow women to put them on a shortlist. You must understand that a man's bandwidth is smaller than a woman's.There is a big difference between genuine emotion and drama.We have to learn how to talk to men without getting passive-aggressive. Lisa’s five shifts to find love.To learn more about Lisa Shield, visit www.com, Instagram @lisashieldcoaching, and on Facebook under lisashieldcoaching. Listen to her podcast Finding the Guardian of Your Soul on all platforms where podcasts are found.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week we will learn about Lola, a new dating app launching in Boston and New York this summer. Today's guest is Paul English the founder of six startups and co-founder of Kayak, a travel industry giant he sold to Priceline for 1.8 billion dollars. Paul is passionate about finding a better way and uses his creativity to solve problems. Years ago, when online dating himself - Paul could identify issues and became compelled to solve the frustrations many faced with existing dating apps. It was a match on Bumble with Rachel Cohen, who became his girlfriend, and now the couple is taking on a new challenge with the upcoming launch of their dating app, Lola. Through Lola, Paul and Rachel plan on creating a new way to connect. Paul shares the vision and inspiration behind Lola, and learn about the exciting possibilities that lie ahead for this new dating app. Paul English is the founder of Boston Venture Studio and he’s also an entrepreneur, and philanthropist who has previously co-founded and successfully sold six startups – Kayak, Lola, Moonbeam, GetHuman, Boston Light, and Intermute. Paul is also the founder of four nonprofits – Summits Education in Haiti, Embrace Boston, The Winter Walk for Homelessness, and The Bipolar Social Club. Paul is the subject of Tracy Kidder's book "A Truck Full of Money" and you can hear an interview with Paul on "How I Built This" with Guy Raz and view his video from TEDxBoston in 2022. I’ve watched and listened to it all and I can’t tell you how special this man is!Kerry Brett and Paul English discuss the common struggles many have with online dating and how Paul plans on changing the online dating culture and improve and simplify the over dating experience.How Lola will filter out terrible daters.How Lola will use A1 to give the users better matches.Lola will be very safe for women.Lola will have a component built into the app that will find a place in the middle for you to meet.How Lola will use machine learning to help find you a better date.Lola will cut down catfishing.Lola will filter out people who don't practice good behavior.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week’s episode is all about persistence. If you want something, you have to go after it with everything you’ve got, which couldn’t be truer when finding love. Today, we’re joined by Keisha Stubbs, who shares her inspiring story of love, loss, and redemption. From hitting rock bottom to rising to the top, Keisha is a testament to the power of persistence and the importance of never giving up on finding love. When finding love, anything is possible if you’re willing to put in the work. Keisha will share how she met the love of her life, recently got engaged, and why sometimes you need to hit rock bottom to rock it! Keisha Stubbs is the author of the book "Close or be Closed, How A Teen Mom Sold Her Way Out Of Poverty. Keisha hit rock bottom early in life when she ended her High School career by fighting her way to graduation with a 4-month-old baby on her hip. When Keisha was 23, her boyfriend and her son's father was murdered, making her a single mother. The following year she lost everything, her apartment, car, and job. Keisha climbed the ladder in the automotive industry, going from the salesperson of the year to sales manager. Recently she ran for office and started a new business, the Artisan Markets. She founded the non-profit Tied Together, which is geared towards helping children. Her life purpose is to inspire and help people who've been dealt a bad hand.Keisha Stubbs emphasizes the importance of persistence and never giving up on finding love. She also discusses the value of putting yourself first and creating a space someone else would want to share with you. Kerry Brett shares dating tips inspired by Keisha's story, including being who you want to attract, acting like a wife if you want to be a wife, and being consistent in putting yourself out there. This episode is a reminder that anything is possible if you're willing to do the work and never give up on finding love.To find out more about Keisha Stubbs, follow on Instagram @keishavstubbs. To find out more about the Artisan Markets go to www.artisanmarkets.com.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today's topic is a breath of fresh air "Why Spring is the Best Time to Start a Relationship." With the arrival of spring just around the corner, people are excited to embrace the season of new beginnings. As the sun shines and days grow longer, the outdoors bloom with the possibility of new connections. People are happier, hearts more open, and the spring air is filled with the promise of love. Our resident astrologer, the fabulous psychic healer Jill Jardine, shares the best dates toput a spring in your step, kick off a new romance, and bask in the warmth of a fresh spring fling. Jill Jardine is a therapist, professional astrologer and spiritual advisor. For over 30 years, she’s helped thousands of people find the power and confidence within themselves to make decisions to move forward with ease and joy. If you feel stuck and unfulfilled it could be caused by your subconscious, limiting beliefs or past-life agreements. Today, Jill will share how easy it is to tap into your higher self and live you’re your best life. In this episode Jill shares her astrology update for the Spring of 2023 and give us a breakdown of March, April, May and June for dating.Kerry Brett and Jill Jardine cover a lot of ground and focus on why spring is the best time to start a relationship. Topics include;The new season, with longer days and warmer weather, will make people more open and excited to date.Jill discusses why March is the perfect month to start dating as all planets are traveling direct until April 21st, with no retrograde planets to hold anyone back.Jill also notes that March is an astrologically significant month, with Saturn leaving Aquarius and moving into Pisces, signifying a whole new three-year cycle. This is an ideal time to re-evaluate your relationships and begin anew.Pluto also enters Aquarius on March 23rd, signifying a new era of connection and connectivity. For dating, this means people will quickly determine whether someone is their tribe or vibe.It’s manifestation time, where people can create a new reality around their love life.All of this positive astrological energy will encourage others to spring into action and start something new.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today's topic is how to genuinely put yourself out there because people who do – have success, especially when finding love. And this week's guest has no problem in that department! He shows up as himself and handles rejections graciously. Get ready for … William Hung! William Hung became an instant celebrity with his rendition of Ricky Martin's song "She Bangs" during American Idol, which went viral. When he didn't get the golden ticket or hear "you're going to Hollywood," he stated, "he did his best and had no regrets," and the world fell in love with him. Today, William shares his setbacks in love. You may not know, but he's been divorced twice and discusses his inspirational journey to find love with his fiancé… And why sometimes you need relationships that didn't work to get it right. William Hung is a former American singer who gained fame through his audition on the third season of American Idol in 2003. He acquired notoriety with his off-key performance of Ricky Martin's song of "She Bangs," He instantly became a household name for his unique dance moves and enthusiastic personality. Following his audition, he became a motivational speaker and has spoken to audiences worldwide about his experiences and the importance of pursuing one's dreams. William went from being laughed off stage to having a number-one hit to singing "She Bangs" live with Ricky Martin in 2018.Kerry Brett and William Hung cover a lot of ground. Topics include:William's online dating experience.William's Dad pretended to be William online to help him find love.William's lessons from past failed relationships.Throughout the hard years, William never gave up or lost hope.When looking for love, focus on core values and having activities you both like to do together. Beauty can change over time, but beauty on the inside will never change. Remember the line from She Bangs – she looks like a flower but stings like a bee. Avoid choosing a relationship based solely on looks.Stay away from secrets because harboring secrets creates a less satisfying relationship. Even small secrets can prevent closeness and create problems. To learn more about William Hung and his upcoming speaking engagements and podcast, follow him on Instagram @williamhungofficial. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever wondered why men don't call back, disappear into thin air, or can’t commit? Today, we will uncover the most common mistakes women make and how to avoid them. In honor of Valentine's Day, "aka" (National Single Awareness Day), and Shot@Love's 3rd anniversary, we have the greatest guest imaginable. Dr. John Gray! Dr. John Gray is the most well-known relationship expert in the world! He's the author of the highly acclaimed, widely popular, and most trusted relationship book of all time; Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the bestselling book of the 90s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into over 45 languages in more than 100 countries, and it continues to be a bestseller.Dr. Gray has written over twenty books, his most recent is Beyond Mars and Venus. His books have forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, Today, CBS this Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by the late Barbara Walters. Today we'll learn how to manage our emotions, approach dating and relationships differently, and stop sabotaging ourselves. Dr. John Gray will point us in the right direction and show us how to win over our potential partner so we can avoid pain and experience more love. Kerry Brett and Dr. John Gray cover a lot of ground. Topics include;Why men are attracted to women who are happy, and how do you stay happy do more of what you love.Why men are more motivated when they feel they are needed.Why men get close but need to pull away.The best times to have a conversation with a man.How men and women keep score differently.Ways to score points with both women and men.The power of being direct and using few words.Men are motivated to make you happy. Men expect you to be happy and don’t want someone who’s always unhappy or complaining. Just having a good time is the greatest gift a man can receive.Women often hand their power over to men, which is a worthiness issue. Know that you are desirable and worthy, and you don’t have to earn it.Men want to feel accepted and appreciated. Women need to trust that a man is doing his best, and when you accept and appreciate him, you give him the fuel and motivation to do more.John’s course “How to Get Everything You Want in Relationships For Women, Men, Couples, and Singles” https://marsvenus.com/gift. John has an upcoming two-day class that will change your life on March 4-5. It’s limited to just 40 seats, so click the link to claim yours! https://www.marsvenus.com/relationship-weekendFollow on social media www.twitter.com/marsvenus, www.facebook.com/Mars.Venus.John.Gray, www.instagram.com/johngraymarsvenus_official/ Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week's topic is finding the key to unbreakable confidence. You must put yourself out there– when looking for love, you can fake it until you make it or fail it to nail it! We all have failures of epic proportions and go through several failed relationships, which are inevitable, but they can also provide valuable opportunities. Today's guest is Ben Currier, the World’s #1 Biggest Failure and host of the podcast The Failure Guy. Ben was fired repeatedly and couldn’t figure out why he wasn't succeeding. He'll share why failure has many benefits, like getting honest with yourself and improving self-awareness. Failing inspires creativity and encourages innovative solutions to problems. And why we can quickly turn it around and go in another direction because we all have a get out of fail free card. Self-proclaimed World's #1 Failure Ben Currier hosts the ironically successful “Failure Guy” podcast. His podcast currently has a global reach: that Spotify-owned Chartable ranks higher than 99.8% of all Podcasts. Ben spent 15 years in corporate America, financially forecasting billions of dollars across multiple industries. He is an Excel guru, 4-time Microsoft MVP Award Winner, and creator of one of the six Best Online Excel Classes per Investopedia. His Excel training has over 25 million minutes of listening time, and he’s helped millions with his online Excel training. Despite these successes, Ben has been fired from every jobhe’s had. This has inspired him to investigate failure while working hard to turn his setbacks into success. He inspires others across the country through his hit podcast, public speaking engagements and has interviewed many big names, such as Carole Baskin, and William Hung, to name a few.Ben shares his incredible journey and what he's learned in the process so we can find our unbreakable inner confidence in our abilities when dating.Ben Currier the World’s #1 Failure and Kerry Brett the World’s #2 Failure cover a lot of ground discussing how failures led both of us to success in both dating and life. Topics include;Why people hold themselves back because of the fear of failure and how to overcome.How to use clothing to raise your confidence.Why you should take a chance to stand out in online dating.Why you should be weirder than you are.Take risks in texts and stop trying to be like everyone else.Remember to remind yourself that no one is perfect and that everyone is flawed.Why having low expectations is helpful while hoping for the best outcomes.Dating is a percentage game, the more dates you go on–the more comfortable you’ll get and the higher the chance you’ll have of succeeding.Don’t be afraid to fail! Do at least one thing on a date outside of your comfort because that’s where the magic happens.Fake it until you make it or Fail it until you nail either way will work. And remember action creates reaction.Listen to Ben’s Failure Guy podcast that can be found on all platforms, follow on Instagram @failureguyben, or on Twitter. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today's topic is Moving on! Moving on is a time to level up, learn how to step into our power to create the life we want, and go for it! Michelle Dempsey-Multack, knows all about Moving On; she’s written a book about it and host's the podcast Moms Moving On sharing her advice as a Divorce & Co-Parenting specialist. You can embrace this time and realize nothing is holding you back. It's time to decide what we want to change while consciously choosing to build a better life for ourselves. Michelle shares how she found beauty in a situation that almost broke her. And why your cup isn't half full of half empty, it’s refillable because loss leaves you in a place to be filled up with all good things. And why, damn it – it feels so good to be moving on! Michelle Dempsey-Multack is a writer, mom, coach, speaker, and genuine girl power enthusiast. Michelle attended American University as a Journalism major, graduated from Hofstra’s communications program with a bachelor’s degree in Communications, and then earned a Double Master’s Degree in Education from Adelphi University. Originally from New York, Michelle moved to Miami in her late 20’s, where the “second part of her life” began. She married her daughter’sfather, got divorced and years later remarried and lives in North Miami Beach raising a beautiful blended family. She’s been featured in US Weekly, Parents Magazine, Scary Mommy, Forbes, Elite Daily, Ocean’s Drive, HuffPost, NBC, and Good Morning America to name a few.In this episode Michelle shares her wisdom, and life experiences that will help anyone in the process of Moving On. Kerry Brett and Michelle Dempsey-Multack cover a lot of ground. Topics include;Your break-up or divorce should be the center of your universe not your friends center. Why you should have boundaries with friends.How to manage the rage when you are left alone to pick up the pieces.Why journaling is a practice to manage your fears, anxiety or what you want for your future.How to unravel and manage gaslighting.How to learn to trust yourself again when moving on.How Michelle learned to move away from toxic men out of the fear of being alone.Why we need to remind ourselves or remind our children that we don’t settle, and we don’t let people treat us for less than we are worth.There is a big difference between being alone and lonely.The what if and the what is very helpful for parents who are in the beginning of co-parenting. Why can’t see clearly when you are run by emotion.Boundaries will be your best friend when moving on.No response is a response and why you don’t need to have the last word.To find out more about Michelle Dempsey-Multack or purchase her book Moms Moving On go to www.momsmovingon.com. Follow on Instagram at @themichelledempsey and listen to her podcast Moms Moving On on all platforms.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

There is a difference between giving up and realizing when you’ve had enough—today’s guest is Jennifer Hurvitz, and she understands the power of ending a relationship that isn’t serving you. In fact, she’s written a whole book about it called Midlife Priceless, and yes, I said priceless, not midlife crisis. In the past, Jennifer stayed too long in her marriage, put up with far too much in previous relationships, and recently found the courage to leave her last relationship. She shares why you need to trust your intuition and respect yourself enough to call it quits. And why sometimes throwing in the towel and moving on is the most important thing you can do when choosing yourself. Jennifer shares some of her Hurvitz Hot Tips, her favorite dating apps, and why dating doesn’t need to be a disaster. Jennifer Hurvitz is a relationship expert, dating coach, best-selling author, and host of the award-winning Doing Relationships Right Podcast. Through her books and weekly podcast, Jennifer helps people understand what a happy relationship can look like and how to dip their toes back into the dating world post-divorce. Jennifer has been highlighted by Oprah Daily, where her book Woulda Coulda Should: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married was chosen as one of the best marriage books to read with your partner for a healthy relationship! Jennifer speaks all over the country, and her expert opinions have been featured in publications like Forbes, Scary Mommy, Women’s Health, Bustle, Divorced Mom, and BluntMoms.Kerry Brett and Jennifer Hurvitz cover a lot of ground; topics include:Key takeaways from Midlife Priceless.Jennifer Hurvitz tips for doing relationships right.How to know when to call it quits.The importance of a non-negotiable list.The value of looking at your five year plan.Why you should never put what you don’t want in your dating profile.If you can’t show up with an optimistic attitude when online dating wait until you can because otherwise you’ll be wasting your time and others.If you lack confidence and have low-self worth, take more time before you begin dating.Without communication, there is no relationship. Without respect, there is no love, without trust, there is no reason to continue.Happy divorces, happy dating, happy relationships, happy marriages, they all take work. But the most important relationship you have is the one you have with yourself.To learn more about Jennifer Hurvitz and purchase her books, you can do so at www.jenniferhurvitz.com. Follow on Instagram @doingrelationshipsright or listen to Jennifer’s podcast Doing Relationships Right on all platforms. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s guest is Sarah Levy; she’s a writer in recovery and author of the new book “Drinking Games.” At the age of 28, Sarah, on paper, looked like she had it all together, a great job – and a successful life that was on track. The truth was she felt empty and alone, suffered from blackouts, and repeatedly put herself in dangerous situations. Sarah thought using alcohol helped heal her broken heart, empowered her to date, and quenched her thirst for validation. But drinking only numbed her pain and dimmed her light as she dated different kinds of men, feeling perpetually hung over and spiritually bankrupt. When she gave up alcohol, she thought her life was over. But for Sarah, her last sip was the moment when her life started. In sobriety, she fell in love, changed careers, moved across the country, got married, published a must-read book, and became the woman she is today. If you’re looking to change your relationship with alcohol, are sober curious, or want to be inspired, then this episode is for you!Sarah Levy is the author of Drinking Games, a memoir in essays from St. Martin’s Press. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, New York Magazine (The Cut), Glamour, Elle, Vogue, Refinery29, and Cosmopolitan, among other publications. Sarah has written articles such as “Falling In Love Without Alcohol” and “Giving Up Alcohol Made Me Date Again Like a Teenager.” Drinking Games has been named most anticipated by Good Morning America, Good Day DC, the LA Times, New York Post, Zibby Mag, Buzzfeed Books, Pure Wow, and Apple Books to name a few. And the favorable reviews keep on coming! Sarah is a graduate of Brown University and lives in Los Angeles by way of New York City.I’m excited to feature Sarah on Shot@Love today and admire her greatly for spreading awareness around sobriety and her goals to change the culture around addiction and alcoholism. I hope you enjoy this conversation.To learn more about Sarah Levy, go to www.sarahllevy.com or follow her on Instagram @sarahllevy.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this new calendar year, what are we going to do differently? And what tools do we need to get from where we are to where we want to go? When we show up differently, what shows up for us is different. Today, we discuss the astrological forecast for the new year with well-known astrologer Jill Jardine. Jill will explain why love is in the cards for you in 2023 while sharing her predictions about romance and identifying the best times to date, how to set the tone for the upcoming year, and shift our mindset to align with the new energies and opportunities that lie ahead in the new year! Jill helps us prepare to pull in a new love interest – get intentional about what we want to manifest while sharing a snapshot of this new year. Jill Jardine is a professional astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She's also a former radio personality on WATD and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill has been a reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and for over 30 years, she's helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves while helping guide others with important decisions. Jill is my dear friend and my psychic healer who's predicted so many things in my life! In this week's episode, Jill shares why we can usher in anything we want in 2023 and what to expect in this new year! Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Do you want to change your dating life and are looking for love - then change your location! Or you could drive to your closest city and change the radius on your dating app, try out a new neighborhood hot spot, or do what this week’s guest Lori Mendelsohn did. Lori Mendelsohn packed up her two dogs at age 66 and moved from Wisconsin to Maine. As a result of this bold and brave move, she started dating someone new and tripled her business. Lori shares how changing her environment changed everything for her. We’ll discuss the many ways you can change it up to change your results, whether that means moving or doing something on a smaller scale, like picking up a new hobby, enrolling in a class, or trying out new technology (such as a new app) to meet people. Lori also discusses how focusing on herself works for her, and loving her new location doesn’t hurt either.Lori Mendelsohn is a matchmaker, dating coach, Dating profile writer, and an award-winning entrepreneur. She writes unique profiles that help you tell your story by adding personality, heart, and humor to stand out from the rest. When Lori writes, you find love. People resonate with her because she is in the dating game herself and has met many terrific men. Today we catch up with her to hear what she’s learned about love by relocating.Kerry Brett and Lori Mendelsohn cover a lot of ground topics, including;How relocating got Lori out of a rut and improved her love life and business.Why it’s important to live in the present moment when it comes to finding love.If you are afraid to get out of your comfort zone, remember you are your safety net and the only one you can truly count on.If you want to change, be the change you want to be.Do away with preconceived notions, release any expectations about meeting a person, and try to enjoy the moment without attachment to the outcome.To learn more about Lori Mendelsohn, her coaching, and upcoming courses, follow her on Instagram @smartfunnysingle. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today's episode is titled "A Memoir of Love: How to Embrace New Chapters with novelist Elin Hilderbrand”. Elin Hilderbrand is the author of 28 best-selling books and the queen of the beach read. She’s in town working on her last revisions for book #29! Her muse is the magical island of Nantucket, and her novels include stories of romance, friendships, ex-wives, passionate affairs, and matchmaking. People often wonder how much of Elin's real life is behind these pages - if you think the characters she composes are riveting, wait until you hear her story. She's overcome personal tragedy, heartbreak, divorce, and is an eight-year breast cancer survivor. She relied on discipline, consistency, and determination to overcome it all! We'll hear how she focused on the things she loved…such as writing, her family, her adoring fans, an island 30 miles out, and how having compassion for others gave her strength when she needed it the most. We also hear a romance novelist's advice for finding love. Elin Hildebrand is an American novelist who graduated from Johns Hopkins University and later attended the University of Iowa, earning her MFA. After a short stint in publishing and teaching in New York City, she moved to Nantucket permanently in 1994. In the summer of 2000, she published her first novel, the Beach Club. Her 2019 novel, Summer of 69, debuted at #1 on the New York Times bestseller list. Five of her books are currently being optioned for movies, and a six-episode limited series has been green-lighted for Netflix. She's also a mother of three who loves cooking, riding her Peloton, and going to the beach. Kerry Brett and Elin Hilderbrand cover a lot of ground in this conversation. Topics include;Why you need to worry about yourself first – do the work on yourself. Once you’re good and strong, you will attract people.Going out and finding a man won’t fix you. Do things on your own, don’t be afraid to be independent and do something for yourself.Make your own money because what we find attractive in men are the same things they find attractive in us. Men like women who have their finances in order.A romance novelist's advice if you feel down on your luck and looking to find that special person.Elin’s thoughts around a perfect date in Nantucket.Elin's advice for navigating challenging times.Having discipline is Elin’s secret power and sets her up for success.To learn more about Elin’s books or events, visit her website at www.elinhilderbrand.net or follow her on Instagram @elinhilderbrand. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today, we welcome back Flora Ong, the incredible dating coach and founder of Redo Love! And she discusses how to stop responding to low-effort behavior. Engaging in low-effort behavior creates more of the same. It also shows others what we will accept or tolerate. Unfortunately, we avoid cutting off low-effort behavior because we don't want to feel empty or lonely or have to look within ourselves to figure out why we were accepting this kind of behavior from the beginning. Flora shares how understanding yourself and your attachment style is valuable and why once you figure this out– you discover this is something you can control and, in turn, change the outcome. We’ll learn how women give their power away by being easily accessible, readily available, or by responding in a weak moment. And learn how to avoid these traps, understand subconscious manipulations, and why it's human nature to want to keep a connection going but not at the cost of being mistreated. Flora Ong is the founder of Redo Love, a dating and relationship coach, and a matchmaker. She has set up 100’s of matches with an 85% success rate. After a failed 14-year marriage, she joined the millions of online/app daters in her search for love. During this process, she discovered she had no idea how to date, love, and be loved. Flora turned all her blunders into a quest to find her way into love and help others who struggled with similar issues. Her focus is to help others identify their blocks around dating to find the love they want while experiencing peace in the process. If you’ve listened to my most recent episode, “How to Stop Living off a Meme and a Dream," with Flora Ong – you’ll understand why I immediately had to bring her back for part two. Today we’ll discuss handling text messages, learning when to attach and detach and why the right person feels different to your nervous system.Kerry Brett and Flora Ong cover a lot of ground topics, including:How to stop being a lifetime responder or someone who needs to know every little thing or respond to every text?Why you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.When things end, you shouldn’t focus on the highlight reel; you should focus on the documentary.When you find the right one, you won’t need to write lists of why he’s not calling in your note section on your phone, and you won’t feel confused, anxious, or bad about yourself – you’ll feel happy and at peace.When in doubt, don’t send the text! You can write the text you want to send and take a screenshot so you can remember it the next day but know your power remains in your silence.Always remember you’re the architect of your destiny and in control of your future. Stop focusing on the negative and focus on the things you want to create more of that.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.