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What are some of the misconceptions about bisexuality? What is the power of sexual fluidity, and can people learn to be more sexually fluid? Also, what is “The Power of the Pause-Up level with edging” and how can you use a pause to increase the power of orgasm? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Monique Gomez is an intimacy and embodiment coach, educator and TEDx speaker. She serves others to support clarifying their relationship with their intimate selves to live in deep satisfaction with their sexuality, relationships, body, mind, spirit and heart. She speaks about the Power of the Pause and intuition as a tool for living authentically. Her passion is helping others heal sexual wounding, live consciously and embodied. To learn more visit moniquegomez.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Wow, what a powerful episode! Marlee Liss joins us to share her story about why she chose the restorative justice route with her rapist and how it helped her heal her trauma. Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual violence and therefore it may bring up some intense emotions. Reminder - all emotions are welcome, be sure to reach out for your resources if you feel you need support, and please be gentle with yourself. About our guest: Marlee helps women claim sacred sensuality so they can live in self-love and inner wholeness. As a women’s embodied love coach, author and retreat facilitator, she has worked internationally to inspire transformative healing. Marlee’s work is deeply shaped by her background in social work, trauma-informed yoga, somatic sex education, and body image facilitation. In 2019, Marlee founded an organization called Re-Humanize, focused on uplifting cultural standards of empathy. Marlee has shared her story of restorative justice for sexual violence worldwide across major platforms such as Forbes, Huff Post, Buzzfeed, Mel Robbins Show and more. Marlee is getting ready to launch a sacred sensuality course that you can learn more about at www.marleeliss.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is swinging and what are the biggest misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle? What are the benefits for non-monogamous couples, and how can partners dip their toes into swinging? We also answer a sex question: How do I come out to my partner about my desire for non-monogamy? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guests: Brenna and Brian are the hosts of the sex-positive podcast, Front Porch Swingers, where they chronicle their real-life adventures in consensual non-monogamy. They've shared their passion for the swinging lifestyle in many formats, including countless lifestyle podcasts, online publications, Hustler Magazine, and sex education platforms. They are recipients of ASN Lifestyle Magazine's Sexiest Lifestyle Resource in January of 2020, proving that you can educate and titillate at the same time. They host seminars on an array of lifestyle topics, including handling jealousy and how to properly vet potential play partners. Their YouTube channel, also called Front Porch Swingers, provides resources on everything from sex toy recmmendations to the basics of swinging. Brenna and Brian are admittedly far from your average couple: Between their twenty-year age gap, involvement in the BDSM lifestyle, and future plans to "swing around the country," they are never afraid to forge their own path and do things differently. Brenna and Brian share their work with two goals in mind: To normalize the nonmonogamous lifestyle, and to encourage YOU to seek out "Sex on Your Terms." To learn more visit frontporchswingers.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Take affordable yoga, pilates and even a pilates teacher training all online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/ Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Why is it important for couples to acknowledge and address blocks in communication and connection? How can they properly communicate their feelings and needs, and how does this affect sex? We also answer a sex question: My wife no longer gets wet during sex. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22. About our guest: Wellness Work, Dance, and Event Production have been Kelley Mountain's main outlets of service to the world and personal creative passions for nearly 20 years. She uses these mediums to create beauty and inspiration in the world, from the individual to the masses. Coaching, bodywork and healing sessions, empowerment work, creativity, dance performance, spiritual circles, art & dance events, sensuality/sexuality and intimacy, and wellness retreats are some of her specialties. Kelley is a certified Master Herbalist with a BA in Holistic Health. Since 2015 Kelley has been working primarily with men for Tantric Bodywork and Coaching. 2001-2015 she mainly worked with women for wellness, spirituality, belly dance, and healing work. Her life and work experience has been devoted to the health and harmony of the feminine and masculine, and her offerings can range from working solo, as couples, in small groups, in larger events, or online. To learn more visit https://goddessmodern.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get 20% off customized hair care at FunctionofBeauty.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Comedian Nick Scopoletti joins us to shamelessly ask his sex questions about how being shamed during one of his first sexual experiences is affecting his adult life, challenges orgasming from oral sex, and why almost all of his exes have gone on to marry the guy right after him. About our guest: Maybe you are looking for a mumbling entertainer for a kids birthday party. Or maybe you are looking for an emcee for your next swingers bash in the suburbs. Comedian Nick Scopoletti is your (funny) guy. His high-energy interactive entertainment is sure to bring — not just fun — but antibiotics and experience to the party. Safety 3rd. Nick is also co-host of The Mangina Dialogues - a sweltering combo of hot topics and hot fun hosted alongside Comedy DJ TheGregalicious. The show's unique variety of content is hilarious and insightful features an array of refreshing personalities finding the humor in real life situations. Every week The Mangina Dialogues bring discussions on comedy, music, lifestyles, pro sports- all aspects of pop- culture. With their keen eyes for the comedic, Greg & Nick spend time getting to know their guests, leading to hilarious, and also often touching, discussions. To learn more visit https://themanginadialogues.com/

What is regenerative and reconstructive urology? How can we improve or maintain our libido and sexual vigor as we age and how does western medical technology? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 29. About our guest: Dr. Lamia Gabal is a board-certified urologist who has been in practice in Southern California for over 20 years. She is the founder and president of Prestige Medical group, which specializes in regenerative and reconstructive urology. She treats both men and women for their most intimate wellness needs, including sexual dysfunction and incontinence. She and her associates truly enjoy helping individuals live fuller and healthier lives by enriching their sexual wellness. To learn more please visit www.drgabal.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Learn more about Amy's upcoming online Tantra in Motion: Eros, Embodiment, and Sensual Touch for Lovers workshop at danielmollner.com

Why is communication in relationships challenging for so many folks? And what are the 7 guidelines for great relationships? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guest: Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb is a Sexuality Coach, Certified Sex Therapist and Clinical Sexologist with a PhD in clinical sexology. She is an author, teacher, public speaker and has been working with individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 28 years. She has been the guest expert on numerous podcasts, teaches in a sex therapy certification program and speaks on areas of alternative sexuality. She specializes in the alternative sexuality communities, such as open relationships (polyamory, swinging, designer relationships), GLBTQ, BDSM, ABDL, kink and fetishes. Her approach to therapy is helping people to understand, accept and appreciate their sexuality with all its unique flavors. In 2017 she published her first book, No More Hiding: Permission to love your sexual self. It is an innovative guide to help people navigate the world of BDSM, kinks, fetishes and open relationships such as swinging and polyamory. In 2019 she launched an online educational/coaching program to teach people how to be successful when transitioning to open relationships called: Monogamy to Open. To find more information, contact her at her website: www.drrhoda.com, email at [email protected] Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Learn more about Amy's upcoming online Tantra in Motion: Eros, Embodiment, and Sensual Touch for Lovers workshop at danielmollner.com

In this episode we interview author, therapist and overall amazing human Ian Kerner, PhD, all about the power of pleasing the pussy first. He tells us why he thinks this is important plus gives us some tips and tricks along the way. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 11. About our guest: Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), is a nationally-recognized sex counselor and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including, She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages and is considered a classic in the genre. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with recent features in The Atlantic, the Economist and NPR amongst others and he contributes regularly to CNN. He is the co-Director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. Ian was born and raised in NYC, where he lives with his wife and two sons and their dogs, Oscar and Jitterbug. Esther Perel has said of him, “Dr. Ian Kerner is one of the most recognizable voices in clinical sex therapy.” To learn more visit iankerner.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Poet and educator Rae Monet tells us her top tips on how to give head while staying in your power, plus she shares some of her erotic poetry. About our guest: PoetRaeMonet, a DC native, uses erotic poetry to combat the serious lack of sexual education in America. She began writing in childhood and has gone on to publish 5 books and 2 journals; including 'The Birds, the Bees, and the Boudoir,' which she'll be reading from later tonight. She is a hard-worker, who has developed hand-made candles, accessories, and paintings to complement her books, creating a full-sensory experience for those looking to immerse themselves in sensuality. Her next book, Expose your Inner DIVA, a sexual self-help workbook, will be released later this year. To learn more or to buy Rae's awesome erotic poetry visit https://whichrae.wordpress.com/

In this episode we chat with somatic sexologist and sexological bodyworker Pyasa Neko Siff about circumcision, pelvic release and ways to heal from pelvic trauma. We also answer a sex question: Why are some women against foreskin? Is it it different than giving oral on an uncut cock? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. About our guest: Pyasa Neko Siff, certified somatic sexologist, sexological bodyworker and speaker is the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook. She has recently begun directing her first full-length documentary film: Healing the Hidden Wound, Sex, Spirit, and Circumcision. Pyasa’s journey of healing her own early childhood trauma has inspired her passion to share the profound benefits of somatic sex education around the world. She offers private sessions, group and individualized retreats where she creates a platform for participants to discover a tangible sense of safety in the body; her unique approach addresses, releases, and supports the healing of the sexual conditioning and trauma which has touched so many of us in the world today. To learn more visit intimacyadventure.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get 20% off customized hair care at FunctionofBeauty.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What makes a really good phone sex operator? What are the tricks to the trade and how can we up our dirty talk game? We also answer a sex question: I want more sexting, sexy talk and words of affirmation from my partner. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Best-selling author, sexpert/educator, phone sex operator, dominatrix, and marketing extraordinaire Amberly Rothfield is a 13-year veteran who’s been featured in Vice, Hustler, Input, Reason, AVN, XBIZ, and YNOT, written for Slutty Girl Problems, and appeared on Holly Randall’s Unfiltered podcast. She struck gold as a phone sex operator on Niteflirt. Her breakout book How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator has been an inspirational manual for entrepreneurs and helped thousands of cam girls, phone sex operators, and clip store producers find success in the XXX world. She recently launched Master Classes are geared at indie models and companies with proven marketing techniques to take their brands to the next level. Amberly is well respected in the adult community and has garnered many accolades. She won Best Phone Sex Provider from the BBW Awards in 2018, and she’s also scored noms for Social Media Star from AVN Awards, Humanitarian of the Year and Femdom Queen of the Year from BBW Awards, Community Figure of the Year from XBIZ Cam Awards, and Most Helpful from YNOT Cam Awards. Keep up with Amberly’s upcoming events and more by following her on Twitter @AmberlyPSO and Instagram @Amberlyownsyou. Join her official website amberlyrothfield.com to get weekly videos, learn to market yourself better, one-on-one coaching, and more. Buy her books How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator and Financial Domination: Tales of an Online Mistress on Amazon at amazon.com/dp/B0798H4S5X. Get dominated and send her tributes on Nightflirt niteflirt.com/Amberly. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Take affordable yoga, pilates and even a 40 hour yoga intensive online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/ Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Tune in as we chat with Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Kat Nantz about her journey as she learned how to heal chronic pain through pleasure. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. We also answer a sex question about working with back pain during sex. About our guest: Kat Nantz is a trauma informed Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach who believes you are your own greatest healer, and her job is to bring you home to the wisdom that lives in your body. After having 17 surgeries as a young child, spending years being led out of her body and being objectified in medical settings, she had a powerful realization that her greatest healing would occur when she landed in her body and listened. As a disabled mama, facilitator and coach, Kat has a unique approach that empowers folks through building somatic embodied awareness, and honouring the body's capacity to heal through pleasure and play. Bringing people home to pleasure and home to their core power is her life purpose. To learn more visit katnantz.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How can we discover our own sexual needs and desires and then lovingly speak up for them with lovers/partners? We also answer a sex question: I feel like a sex goddess inside but my partner views me as delicate and puts me on a pedestal. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Monica Jayne is a leader of unabashed self-expression, a mentor of true internal freedom, a coach of authentic communication and speaking up, and an educator of erotic liberation. She has been a 6-figure exec in a male-dominated industry, earned over 5000 hours of continuing ed and teaching yoga theory and philosophy for accredited collegiate institutions, and is an expert in communication, authenticity, vulnerability, relationship, sex, and intimacy. She’s a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ with certifications in Queer Competency and Sexological bodywork forthcoming. Monica Jayne catalyzes evolution in all facets of your being, evoking your permission to speak up and be unabashedly you! To learn more visit monicajayne.com/more Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Take affordable yoga, pilates and even a 40 hour yoga intensive online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/ Get 15% off some of our favorite 100% plant-based lubricants and oils with code SHAMELESSSEX at https://intamopleasurables.com/ Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Dr. Nan Wise returns to answer your sex questions about orgasm difficulties and blocks, cheating and non-ethical non-monogamy, and what sexuality might look like after COVID-19. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this episode we interview adult performer and badass entrepreneur Larkin Love AKA everyone's favorite big tittied goth mama all about the ins and outs of her life in the porn industry. We also answer a sex question: Does excessive masturbation cause any harm? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. About our guest: Known for her 32J breasts and fierce black hair, Larkin Love has gone from adult star to self-made entrepreneur running her own website and becoming the queen of the clips universe. Her clips and site larkinlove.com feature her as the master of role play. She’s always a chameleon going from kinky mom to librarian to cosplay characters like superheroine Power Girl and League of Legends Ahri, and more. Larkin captivates her members and clip buyers with the kinkiest hardcore, taboo, and fetish scenes on the planet, as well as her specialty blowjobs, incredibly long tongue, and jaw-dropping dirty talk. Larkin was a librarian and earned a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She started in adult as a stripper and nude model, and in 2011 she leaped into hardcore and worked with all the top-shelf studios. In 2018, she won the triple crown for Best Clip Artist from the Altporn Awards, XBIZ Cam Awards, and Inked Awards. 2019 started off with a bang—she had two Grossy Awards wins for Favorite Guest and Most Interesting Guest, as well as scoring Best Clip Artist from the Alt Porn Awards for the 2nd year in a row. Larkin has also received multiple nominations from AVN, XBIZ Cam, Fleshbot, Pornhub, Inked, ALT Porn, Urban X, and AVN Fan Awards. She’s graced the covers of Hustler Taboo and Altstar magazines, was spotlighted as the centerfold and feature in Leg Sex Magazine and Hustler’s Taboo, profiled by AVN Magazine, and scored mainstream coverage with Complex and Cosmo UK. Larkin also works as a professional dominatrix. Keep up with everything in Larkin’s universe by following her on Twitter @larkinlovexxx, Instagram @larkinloverules, and Tumblr larkinlovexxx.tumblr.com, and like her Facebook fan pagefacebook.com/misslarkinlove. Talk dirty to her on SextPanther CallPrincessLarkin.com and Verified Call larkinlove.com/callme. Buy Larkin’s taboo and kink clips at ManyVids larkinlove.manyvids.com and pick up her femdom clips at princesslarkin.com. Get exclusive content on her MV Crushmanyvids.com/Profile/562290/Larkin-Love and Premium Snapchat at SnapWithLarkin.com. Subscribe to her AVN Stars stars.avn.com/larkinlovexxx and/or OnlyFans larkinlovefanclub.com for more exclusives than you can count. Join her Pornhub Channel to see free full-length videos and photos pornhub.com/pornstar/larkin-love Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get 20% off Hot Octopuss toys with code SSPOD20 at hotoctopuss.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is the “Minax Method” and how does it apply to kink and BDSM in relationships? We also answer a sex question: My partner is into S/M and my I'm not interested because of my sexual trauma. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Professional Domina, Kink Educator and Pleasure Artist, Eve Minax delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. Learning and practicing BDSM from Chicago, to Paris, to Melbourne, and now local to San Francisco Minax has exercised her pedagogical skills at a plethora of conferences. She is the former coordinator for CineKink:Chicago, the West Coast Coordinator for the LA&M Road show, on the board of CARAS and TASHRA. Minax is also certified Urban Tantrika, and a Bondassage Practitioner and trainer. She has self produced over 100 videos and shoots for many great bondage sites like bondageland.com and seriousbondage.com. She currently trains up and coming Dominatrices and those who wish to deepen their work. To learn more visit mistressminax.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How does erotica get us into our ultimate turn on? And how can we write our own sexy stories? We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing with my wife. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, event organizer and writing instructor. She’s edited over 60 anthologies, including Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, The Big Book of Orgasms, The Big Book of Submission, Tasting Him: Oral Sex Stories, Tasting Her: Oral Sex Stories, Crossdressing, Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, Best Bondage Erotica of the Year, Volume 1 and five volumes of the Best Women’s Erotica of the Year series. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, O, The Oprah Magazine, SELF, Elle, Rolling Stone, and elsewhere, and she writes regularly about book publishing for Forbes online. Her pansexual erotica has spanned numerous subjects, from French fries to Monica Lewinsky to boxing, as well as exploring lap dances, a dishwashing fetish, a nudist resort and a kissing party, among other scenarios and settings. Her work has appeared in Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006 edited by Susie Bright as well as Zane’s bestsellers Succulent: Chocolate Flava II and Purple Panties, and translated into Italian, German and Japanese. She teaches in-person erotic writing workshops across the United States and around the world, as well as consulting via EroticaWriting101.com on erotica and sexuality nonfiction, and will be launching an online erotica writing class in 2020. Find her on Twitter @raquelita. To learn more visit rachelkramerbussel.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How can men become the master of their sexual energy? Why is this helpful? And how can they learn to up their orgasm game both alone and with partners? We also answer a sex question about opening up the relationship as a means of satisfying differing sex drives. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. And to receive a discount on his program use code Shamelesssex at checkout. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Tune in to learn the latest tips and tricks on seduction and foreplay. We also answer a sex question: I pleasure my partner but they rarely reciprocate. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a sexologist and a sex coach who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips. She is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. She has studied human sexuality for more than 19 years and has been featured on a variety of media outlets, as well as spoken to various audiences around the world. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay - available April 14th, 2020 - with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly and is currently writing a chapter and co-editing An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy, coming in 2021. To learn more visit http://velvetlipsllc.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Award-winning adult film director and creator of Adulttime.com Bree Mills joins us to tell us all about the current state of the porn industry. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. We also answer a sex question about how to have a first-time threesome. About our guest: Bree Mills is an award-winning adult filmmaker and Chief Creative Officer of Adult Time, a streaming service for adults. Her work leverages art, sexuality, and cinematic narratives to trojan-horse powerful messages into the hearts and minds of her audience. A Boston native, she now lives in Los Angeles with her wife and daughter. Check out Adulttime.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Take affordable yoga, pilates and even a 200 hour yoga intensive online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/ Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is anxiety and how does it affect the body? How can people work with it? And how does this apply to sex and relationships? We also answer a sex questions about a golden shower fetish. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Easily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Sex robots, virtual reality, realistic "love dolls"...what is Sex Tech and what does the future hold for new innovative sex toys? We also answer a sex question: I get air stuck inside of me during sex (AKA queefing). Am I tight enough down there? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Andrea Barrica is the CEO and founder of O.school, a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring more humanity to the tech industry, and her mission is to create the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brand to help people increase their sexual health, power, and confidence. Previously, Andrea co-founded the leading financial solution for growing startups, inDinero.com, which now employs 150+ employees globally. She also served as a venture partner at 500 Startups, a global venture capital fund, where she worked with hundreds of startup companies. Andrea was raised in a religious, conservative Filipino family that only taught abstinence and she only had fear-based sex education in public schools. Seeking support and information, Barrica could not find reliable resources and experienced harassment online. Determined that no one else should have to struggle like she did, Barrica launched O.school in 2017 to change the way people learn about sexuality. She is also the author of the new book Sextech Revolution. To learn more visit O.school Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What does embodiment mean and how does it enhance intimate connection? Where do my fantasies come from and how can I explore them for hot sex, or even for healing? Note: This episode was recorded pre COVID-19 About our guest: Finn Deerhart AKA the "Gay Rebel with a Heart-Centered Cause" is a sex and relationship coach living in San Francisco, who has followed a deep inquiry about how sex and spirit intersect in our lives. He believes that as gay and queer men, we have been divided in sex and spirit since our arrival on the planet and that we are always trying in some way or another to put these severed pieces back together again. Finn is passionate about helping you have relationships that are way deeper, way hotter, and will change your life. To learn more visit http://finndeerhart.com/

What is Tantric sex all about and how does it lead to juicy orgasms and mind-blowing pleasure? And how can people incorporate this into the bedroom? All this and more with Tantrica Caroline Carrington. We also answer a sex question about how to find the best toy for couple's and g-spot play. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25. About our guest: Caroline Carrington is a Certified NeoTantra Educator and pleasure & intimacy expert inspiring people to live empowered lives across the US and around the world. She is the Founder of Sarasa Tantra and carries the dream of this lineage to expand people’s experience of pleasure, intimacy and connection through relationships, energy play and dynamic and erotic meditation. Caroline is passionate about walking NeoTantra out of the bedroom and into the world and has taught about the benefits of sexual healing and trauma at Kaiser Permanente. She has had the privilege of studying Somatic Experiencing with a variety of teachers including the creator, Peter Levine to expand her capacity to support trauma survivors. Caroline deepened her connection to kink and gender inclusivity during the Urban Tantra Professional Training with Barbara Carrellas. She is blessed to have been on spiritual pilgrimage to India with Gina Sala to study Nada Yoga, the Tantra of Sound, as well as with classical Tantrika and Sanskrit scholar Dr Vajish Shastra-ji in Varanasi. Caroline studied Tantra Yoga with Pedro Franco who uses yoga postures and breathwork as a focal point for his teaching. She has spent years practicing Bhakti yoga, the yoga of devotion studying with Deva Premal and Miten, Jai Uttal and Krishna Das and uses mantra as part of her daily meditation practice. She carries mantras on her lips and in her heart wherever she goes. For the past 4 years, Caroline has been studying more subtle forms of energy practice and attachment healing with Norma Ramos-Ott. Caroline is available for private sessions, workshops, deep dive retreats and is committed to training teachers and mentoring NeoTantric practitioners with high levels of integrity. Learn more at www.JewelintheLotusCoaching.com & www.SarasaTantra.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Easily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this episode we chat with our dear friend and fellow podcaster Kyle Thiermann all about love, sex, relationships, and all of the other quarantine-inspired conversations in the time of the COVID-19 virus. About our guest: Kyle is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current social issues happening all over the world. These are conversations with fascinating people he meets along the way. To learn more about Kyle and his podcast, visit kyle.surf Want to skip to the conversation with Kyle? Fast forward to minute 11. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why do so many women have performance anxiety around orgasm? What type of thoughts do women have that stop them from having orgasms, and what can they can do in and out of the bedroom to dissolve them? We also answer a sex question about finding confidence in dating women. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Kara Loewentheil is a Master Certified Coach with a B.A. from Yale and J.D. from Harvard Law. In the last three years after pivoting from a legal career, she has grown her life coaching business from 0 to 7 figures. She's the host of the iTunes top-rated self-help podcast Unf*ck Your Brain which has been downloaded over 5M times, and she has been featured in outlets like Marie Claire, Mind Body Green, MSN.com, and The Huffington Post. Kara lives in New York City. Learn more at unfckyourbrain.com. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Easily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

In this episode we chat all about how to navigate group sex, sex parties and gang-bangs with Billy from The Manwhore Podcast. We also answer a sex question: My partner voices a desire to be with other women while drunk but denies it sober. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gangbang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs and Tinder around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit www.ManwhorePod.com/itunes Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Easily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shameless Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Author, Podcaster, and Sex Educator extraordinaire, Dr. Jess O’Reilly joins us to answer your sex questions: How do I initiate sex when I lack confidence in the bedroom? Is there something wrong with my labia? How do I talk to my partner about my sexual trauma, and how can I heal? What are your sex and dating tips for someone who is visually impaired? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: An award-winning speaker, Dr. Jess O’Reilly has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess is also co-host of the popular podcast Sex With Dr. Jess, and she contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media such as Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. To learn more visit sexwithdrjess.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

Aida Manduley teaches us all about long-distance relationships and how to keep them fresh, connected and spicy. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. Aida Manduley, LCSW is an award-winning Latinx activist, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator known for big earrings and tackling taboos. Their politics are radical, their life is ridiculous, and their penchant for irreverence as intimacy is notorious. Manduley's current focus areas include community accountability, healing justice, and work centering queer and trans people of color. To learn more visit http://www.aidamanduley.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Easily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality. Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony, menstrual disorders, menopause, infertility, and post-partum depression to return to their innate equanimity so they can create sustainable balance in their lives, feel in control of their emotions and raise their sensual frequencies for greater magnetism and increased orgasmic potential. Willow offers Taoist Sexology courses all around the world, inspiring women to experience pleasure in ALL that they do. To learn more about Willow's online courses, retreats and other offerings, visit yinwellness.com Link for the Sugar Challenge: https://yinwellness.com/get-off-sugar-completely-in-4-days-challenge/ Link for Sensuality Awakening Session: https://bookwithwillow.as.me/?appointmentType=9265806

Why is pleasure so important, both in and out of the bedroom? How does the brain and hormonal system affect this? And how can people have sustainable pleasure in longterm relationships? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. Dr. Nan has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, Bustle, and has an weekly column in Glamour, Ask Dr. Nan, in which she addresses sexual health questions from readers. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com Learn more about Amy's upcoming retreat March 13-15th, 2020 here: danielmollner.com Learn more about Amy's upcoming classes in Dallas, TX here: sarassecret.com Other links: Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Meditators have better sex! Start meditating with the Calm app + get 40% off when you visit calm.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this episode we learn all about erotic touch techniques and how to be a phenomenal hands-on lover. Christina also shares about the mysterious A-Spot, a powerhouse for pleasure! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20 to dive right in. About our guest: Curiosity is Christina’s driving force. Being born during the Soviet Era in a conservative household that never spoke about sex unless it was telling adult jokes gave her an insatiable appetite to dive deep in the world of sexuality. She’s been studying sexuality for more than 14 years and she believes that the secret to the universe is between our legs. She’s traveled to over 60 countries speaking, giving workshops and learning from other great teachers. She’s on a mission to bring sexuality out of the dark ages where our sexuality becomes the source of our peace and happiness instead of the source of our shame, guilt, trauma, pain, and anxiety. To learn more visit confidentlovers.com For Christina's article on how to find a good erotic massage practitioner: https://www.confidentlovers.com/tantra-massage/ For more info on the A-Spot: https://www.confidentlovers.com/what-is-the-a-spot/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Th4Y9J3iK5Y Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Schedule your own erotic storytelling photoshoot with our favorite photographer couple/duo at https://tadamphoto.com/ Take Amy's workshop in Dallas by visiting www.sarassecret.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How does the pill affect sexual responsiveness, choice of partner, or even seemingly unrelated life choices like career or attainment of higher education? And what should we be doing to better educate and inform women about their choices, bodies, and options? We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing and intimacy in my relationship. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: A leading researcher in the dynamic and rapidly expanding field of evolutionary psychology Sarah E. Hill completed her PhD at UT Austin and is now a professor at TCU. She is also the author of the new book, THIS IS YOUR BRAIN ON BIRTH CONTROL: THE SURPRISING SCIENCE OF WOMEN, HORMONES, AND THE LAW OF UNINTENDED CONSEQUENCES. With more than fifty scientific publications and multiple prestigious research grants to her credit, Dr. Hill has become an authority on evolutionary approaches to psychology and health. She has been quoted in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Scientific American, and The Economist. To learn more visit www.sarahehill.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

The intro of the episode is about some of our favorite sex toys, as well as some awesome Valentine's Day activity and gift recommendations including as few that won't cost you a thing. The interview of the podcast is all about navigating non-traditional relationships including non-monogamy and anything beyond the traditional "get married to one person forever" way of being. Our guest also helps us answer some of your sex questions about non-monogamy. To checkout the Clone-a-Willy and Clone-a-Pussy go to www.cloneawilly.com and use code SHAMELESSSEX for 20% off. To checkout the We-Vibe Chorus and Moxie go to We-Vibe.com and use code Shameless for 5% off plus free shipping. Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 34 (Note - our mic disconnected during the recording, so we apologize for the poor sound quality). Kitty Chambliss is a #1 Amazon Best Selling author of Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship. She is also a relationship coach, keynote speaker, polyamorous and sex-positive activist, and founder of Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) - specializing in helping people in non-traditional relationships navigate the challenging emotions that often arise in such dynamics. Kitty has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships – even unconventional ones – attainable to everyone. She is also the host of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast - available on all of the apps. To learn more visit lovingwithoutboundaries.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Meditators have better sex! Start meditating with the Calm app + get 40% off when you visit calm.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

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Sex Educator and dear friend Kristen returns to answer your sex questions about cum and oral fetishes, menstrual cups, gender-bending and lingerie fetishes, demi-sexuality, virginity, and how to be a confident lover. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Sign up for the newsletter at marginswine.com to be the first to receive news about new releases. Plus use code SHAMELESSSEX10 for 10% off 3+ bottles, or SHAMELESSSEX15 for 6+ bottles

How does the body internalize sexual trauma and how can we heal it through pleasure? How does this apply sexual pain? And what about kink as a means for working with trauma? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health around the world. To learn more visit www.mf-therapy.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get one week of "the Netflix of porn" with code SHAMELESS at adulttime.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months

In this episode we talk all about soft cocks, dry pussies, and our stance on hardness and wetness. We also answer a sex question about erotic text messaging and dirty talk. Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 22. About our guests: Nicoletta is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist and Simone is an actor-turned-law-student who really likes to talk about sex stuff. Together, they chat with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions on the Sluts and Scholars Podcast. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Available on just about all of the podcast apps Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Meditators have better sex! Start meditating with the Calm app + get 40% off when you visit calm.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Tune in as we learn all about Knot Love with Edward Willey. Knot Love isn’t just about rope tying techniques. It’s about learning how to stay deeply connected to your partner, read their desires and needs, and build a scene together that cultivates trust, passion, and connection. It’s also about learning how to cultivate and embody relaxation, confidence, and awareness inside yourself. We also answer a sex question about sex and penis size after bladder surgery. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 27. About our guest: Edward Willey has been teaching erotic rope play since 2014 and has loved knots since he was a Boy Scout. He combines his passion for rope with his long-time practice of Aikido and Sheng Zhen. His experience with these two arts of unconditional love provides a foundation for teaching how to develop open-hearted connection and awareness along with technical rope tying skills. He believes that in addition to the commonly used Japanese terms shibari (“to tie”) & kinbaku (“to bind tightly”), the word musubi is important in rope play. Musubi means to unite or bind together. Learning to connect with rope in this way can bring a new level of joy, intimacy, and understanding to your relationship by tying your hearts together with love. He is available for private coaching sessions to cultivate love and intimacy using rope at knot-love.com. Sign up for his mailing list for a free 18-minute video showcasing his unique approach: https://mailchi.mp/fd2b6b5f018d/whyknotlove. Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

What is like being a Professional Dominatrix? What is Financial Domination, and why might someone enjoy it? How does this compare to being a Lifestyle Dom? We also answer a sex question: How do I suggest we start start using condoms when we've already had unprotected sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30. About our guest: MISTRESS MARLEY is a Pro Domme, a Sex Educator and an Adult Event Organizer. Hailing from the South, she made her way to New York City where she began to dabble in the BDSM industry. With an undergraduate and graduate degree in Human Sciences, she naturally loves to dive into the mind, so why not mix that with kink? When she’s not dominating loyal servants, she spends her time educating women on how to be the domme they've always wanted to be through her organization "Black Domme Sorority". To learn more visit thechocolatedomme.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

The meat of this episode is about how shy men can learn to flirt, attract and date women. It's a bit different for us as we aren't fans of big generalizations or hetero-normative language, but we decided to switch it up as our guest truly does have some great tips to offer. The intro of this episode is a long one as we talk about relationships as well as the exciting (and sometimes terrifying) process of falling in love. We also answer a sex question: Is deleting cheating? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 33. About our guest: Tripp Kramer is an international dating coach for men. He created his "TED system" to help shy men confidently attract the women they desire. In his earlier years he was a shy guy who figured out through trial and error how to get better and meeting, dating and finding the right type of woman for you. He currently has a popular podcast on iTunes called "How To Talk To Girls" and has a book called Magnetic which teaches all his secrets on dating and attraction. To learn more visit https://trippadvice.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless

In this episode we sit down with fellow podcasters and Pleasure Podcast Network friends Cam and Karen Lee of the Sex talk With My Mom podcast. We chat all about what it means to be a cougar, how to talk to your kids AND parents about sex, and why you should date a mama’s boy, We also answer a sex question: I get turned on knowing my wife thinks I’m small down there. Is this normal? About our guests: Sex Talk With My Mom offers sex and relationship advice while exploring the dynamic between a sexually-liberated, cougar mom and her comedian son. They feature guests ranging from legendary porn star Nina Hartley to their previous sexual partners. They have "the talk" every Monday and Thursday to make you laugh and open the conversation around sex. Esquire ranked them at the top of their list of "Best Sex Podcasts" and they have been featured on Megyn Kelly TODAY and Comedy Central's Tosh.O. To learn more visit sextalkwithmymom.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

In this episode we share our top 10 favorite sex toys for this holiday season. Check out the Gigi 2, the Ina Wave, and the Luna balls at lelo.com and use code SHAMELESS for 20% off* Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com

Born and raised in New York City, this Spanish and Italian Bronx born native entered the world of Female Impersonating and Escorting in the late 80’s. His Drag persona Fiona St. James has experienced success in night clubs worldwide as well as being the 15th elected and still the only Latina Empress of The Imperial Court of New York. He has appeared in film on “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar”, “Stonewall”, “Ugly Betty”, and “Orange is the New Black”. His most memorable role was playing the resident prison tranny bitch on the hit HBO series “OZ” for five of the six seasons. His adventures in drag and escorting inspired him to write his memoirs where he shares stories about pushing boundaries and raising eyebrows sexually, professionally and personally with no shame for over 30 years! For his book visit: http://www.fionastjames.com To book a massage appointment call (646 387 9048) or visit: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28569/ https://rentmasseur.com/CuteSmoothBobby Escorting services: https://rent.men/BobbyStJames Social Media: https://instagram.com/fionastjamespalacio https://twitter.com/fionastjamesds9 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4E8BwQY72b24P4YwRDXNcA

Alice Little is the most successful licensed sex worker in the United States. Alice has been voted the #1 Companion of the Year at the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel in Carson City, Nevada. She is also a go-to intimacy and sexuality coach, an outspoken advocate for sex worker rights and vocal champion for an all-inclusive sex-positive society. Alice has managed to use her notoriety as one of the highest-earning sex workers in the world to push forward causes that she believes in. She founded the political action group “Hookers for Healthcare” to fight for healthcare policies that benefit sex workers and other stigmatized groups. She also co-founded the Nevada Brothel Association, a committee that advocates for the rights of women working in Nevada’s bordellos. Alice has been featured in the Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, The Daily Beast, Refinery 29, BBC News, CNN, ABC Nightline, and on the Tim Ferris Show and Shane & Friends podcasts. To learn more visit thealicelittle.com Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. We also answer a sex question about Tantra and sexual trauma. Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

What are our Core Desires, and how can they lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA, creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching teach us all about how to dive deeper into our erotic selves. We also answer a sex question: How can I regain broken trust in my relationship? Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14. About our guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and the co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Somatica is a cutting-edge, experiential coaching approach that helps clients shift their neuropatterning so that they can find new, more fulfilling and expressed forms of relating emotionally and sexually. In their Somatica courses, Celeste & Danielle train professional Sex and Relationship Coaches and help individuals and couples transform their lives through personal growth in the arena of sex and relationships. They have co-authored three books - Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together. To learn more visit somaticainstitute.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

November AKA Movember is Prostate Awareness Month! Inspired by Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian’s awesome book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Explorations For Men and Their Partners, we are offering all kinds of tips on prostate pleasure and health, as well as an opportunity to win all kinds of prizes via our Instagram campaign. We also answer a sex question: My partner's libido has shifted in our longterm relationship. How do I spice things up to make things exciting and juicy again? Instructions for the contest: Open to anyone 18+ of all genders. Listen to this episode where we will share tips and facts about prostate pleasure and health. Then go to Shameless Sex Podcast's Instagram to learn more about how to enter. You will be asked to DM or email us an anonymous photo of yourself like the one here stating something that you learned about prostate pleasure or health. Photo must contain a mustache, and it can be real or fake (including one drawn your the finger). We will use these photos on our IG + stories to teach the public about prostate health and pleasure, so you all get to be a part of the education! Everyone who sends in a photo by Nov. 19th will be entered into a raffle to win a grand prize of: A Hot Octopuss Jett vibrator, a Hot Octopuss Atom + rechargeable C-ring, a copy of Charlie and Aislinn’s book, a bottle of Uberlube, and access to our online Wild Woman workshop. There will also be a few runner up prizes as well. Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

Dr. C AKA Dr. John Carrozzella joins us to talk all about erections, "erectile dysfunction" and the latest and greatest ways to work with the changes all bodies go through with age. We also answer a sex question about how to care for silicone sex toys. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. About our guest: Dr. Carrozzella practiced as as an Orthopaedic Surgeon for 25 years before switching his focus to the nontraditional medical specialties of Hormone Replacement, Sexual Health and Dysfunction and Age Management. He is an expert in Hormone therapy, sexual dysfunction and age management for both men and women. To learn more visit https://www.hormonesandwellness.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Sexpert Tyomi joins us to talk about about how to suck the deeeyuckaaa like a boss. We discuss hand techniques, mouth techniques, positions, and so much more. We also answer a sex question: I'm disappointed when my partner is too tired to keep playing after he has an orgasm. What should I do? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About Tyomi: Sexpert Tyomi, better known as Glamazon Tyomi, is an International Pleasure Coach who reaches millions of eyes monthly through her social media platforms and written contributions across the internet. In 2011 after experiencing a shift in her modeling career, the Chicago native began her sex education blog Glamerotica101.com with the intent to serve as the female representation for people of color within mainstream sexuality. Tyomi recognized that people around the world are having issues with connecting to their sexuality, and desired to bring more love and light into the lives of others. Since her entrance into the field of sexuality, Tyomi has had many accomplishments including serving as the resident sexpert for EBONY.com and Blackdoctor.org, hosting her own radio show on Playboy Radio, being published in collegiate Academia by McGraw Hill, hosting a two-year sold our international tour, and so much more. Tyomi has been featured on Comedy Central's Tosh.0 as Daniel's "Favorite Sexpert," and her advice has been featured on several websites including Huffington Post, NY Mag's THE CUT, Essence.com, Askmen.com, SHAPE.com, Blavity.com, VICE.com, Washington Post, The Guardian UK and dozens more. The Glamazon has been a guest on numerous podcasts including "The Nod" podcast on Gimlet Media and has appeared on radio shows featured on Clear Channel Radio, CBS Radio, Playboy Radio, Sirus XM and more. Tyomi currently continues to use a candid and relatable approach to educate the masses about sex via her social media and YouTube Channel Glamerotica101. The Glamazon currently serves as The Exxxotica Expo’s Seminar coordinator and Resident Sexpert and is a ACS Certified Sexologist and Authentic Tantra Practitioner through the Institute of Authentic Tantra. http://sexperttyomi.glamerotica101.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

Simon Rex also known as Dirt Nasty, is an American entertainer. Rising to fame as an MTV VJ, Rex later became an actor known for What I Like About You, Scary Movie 3, 4, and 5, and National Lampoon's Pledge This!. He later developed a rap persona, Dirt Nasty, and had several solo albums and co-founded the supergroup Three Loco. His latest endeavor is as the host of the Nervous Rex Podcast. Kyle Thiermann is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current issues happening all over the world. His podcast is called The Kyle Thiermann Show. Go check it out.