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Aloha! This episode was recorded from beautiful Kauai where Amy and April celebrated two of the most important women in the world..their mamas! The duo share shame, daddy issues, New Years resolutions, and more. Enjoy!

Ev’Yan Whitney is a sex educator, sex activist, and sexuality doula who helps facilitate, educate, and hold space for women and femme-identifying folks who want to step out of sexual shame and into erotic empowerment. She's the host of The Sexually Liberated Woman podcast and the creator of the wildly successful Sensual Selfie Challenge on Instagram. You can find out more about Ev'Yan's work at sexloveliberation.com and see her brazenly showing off her sexuality on Instagram @evyan.whitney

In this quickie episode we interview Dr. Sara Tanza, Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist (see episode #31 from previous interview) about sex after pregnancy and some of the common issues women run into - even years after giving birth. To learn more about Dr. Tanza visit https://pelvicpotential.com In or near the Santa Cruz area? Come to her workshop (co-facilliatated by our very own Amy Baldwin) on January 8th, 2019. To sign up visit the Pure Pleasure Shop Website

Ceara Lynch has a ten+ year career as a self-described humiliatrix, catering to a wide variety of sexual fetishes over the internet, and gaining exposure to a unique part of the human psyche. Visit her website at https://www.cearalynch.com, as well as her podcast at https://standardpodcast.com to learn more.

Episode #64 titled What Women Wished You Knew About Oral Sex was one of our top episodes. So naturally we decided to bring back Shaun from the Love Drive Podcast to discuss What Men Wished You Knew About Oral Sex :) Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit thelovedrive.com We also answer this sex question: How can we both relax and not feel this intense pressure for him to get hard? Should we get drunk or something? I can't help but feel unwanted and unattractive :( And I'm sincerely bored of all the foreplay and I don't reallly want to do it anymore.

There is no manual for navigating intimate experiences and too often doubt and confusion limit our capacity to feel pleasure. Do you ever wish you could deepen your intuition when it comes to knowing how to please your lover(s)? Learn how to access your intuition so you can be a more attuned and skilled lover while increasing your own capacity for pleasure! Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and sexual empowerment educator who has been exploring the intricacies of sex and gender for more than a decade. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients radically explore and courageously express themselves. Aly designs workshops and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. TurnON pleasure, intimacy and...love at www.TurnON.Love

Wednesday Martin's newest work of non-fiction, UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free cuts through the junk science and regressive cultural narratives that have shaped our beliefs about female infidelity for centuries, revealing a truth both liberating and disconcerting: women are no more “naturally monogamous” than men; nor are their libidos shrinking violets. Far from it. Offering insights from thirty experts as well as real women from all walks of life who refuse monogamy, UNTRUE also analyzes cultural shifts from plow agriculture to polyamory; introduces readers to two important "hidden figures" of American sex research; and takes readers on an immersive, fascinating journey—from the bonobo enclosure at the San Diego Zoo to an exclusive all-female sex party in Manhattan where most of the revelers identify as heterosexual. UNTRUE asserts that monogamy is a tighter fit for the fairer sex; that females of many species evolved to be “promiscuous”; and that female sexual autonomy may be the most meaningful metric of gender equality. Rich with game-changing data and polemical writing, it promises to take us far out of our comfort zone, and may change the way you think about women and sex forever. Wednesday Martin, Ph.D is a writer and feminist cultural critic. She is the author of seven books including instant #1 New York Times bestseller Primates of Park Avenue and UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free. She has written for publications including New York Times, The Atlantic, and the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy. She has appeared on Good Morning America, The Today Show, CNN, the BBC, NPR, and more to discuss her work on gender, motherhood, female sexuality, and popular culture. To learn more visit wednesdaymartin.com

In this episode we dive deep into the the world of orgasms with Susan Bratton, “trusted hot sex advisor to millions”. Topics include top tips for better orgasms, hot sex in long term relationships, as well as Susan’s 14-year Expanded Orgasm/Orgasmic Meditation Practice. We also answer a sex question: I’m 23, sexually active, and never had an orgasm. Susan Bratton is a champion and advocate for all who desire passionate relationships. Considered the “Dear Abby of Sex,” Susan’s fresh approach and original ideas have helped millions of people of all ages and across the gender spectrum transform sex into passion. Susan has been featured in The New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as appearing on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox, and on NBC as the “Marriage Magician.” She has authored 20 books including her International #1 Amazon best-seller, Sexual Soulmates: The 6 Essentials for Connected Sex, and she has created and published numerous online courses including her wildly popular Revive Her Drive and Steamy Sex Ed® DVD Collection, as well as programs such as: Seduction Trilogy, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight, The Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men, Female Liquid Orgasm, and Keep Her Coming. To learn more visit http://susanbratton.com

In this episode Amy chats with sex educator, coach and author Stella Harris about the G-spot, female ejaculation AKA squirting, and vulva mapping. Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper, and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies. Check out her latest book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, as well as her website at stellaharris.net References: OmgYes.com/shameless - $5 off Bijoux Indiscrets Horoscope line - Use code SHAMELESS for 15% off

Ellice Apostolos - owner of Santa Cruz's premier pole dancing studio, Steel and Grace - is back to talk about the art of the erotic dance, and how we can apply it to sexy time with our lovers. This interview was recorded immediately after April and Amy took an advanced S-Factor class, so not only are they all charged up from the sensual practice, but they also get testimonials from a few participants, including Badass Boss Mentor Meghan (see info below). About Ellice: Ellice Apostolos empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world in​ her​ fully expressed radiance. As a certified​ S Factor instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at the heart of their work so they can lead with their feminine genius, avoiding overwhelm and experience the success of a lasting and sustainable business. Ellice holds a degree in Theatre and Dance with an emphasis on performing arts from UC Santa Cruz. With an extensive background in dance and choreography Ellice has been performing for close to twenty year in the Santa Cruz area. She has choreographed and directed original pieces for Santa Cruz's annual What is Erotic? the past three years. This community sourced performance provides locals with or without a performance background a mentorship opportunity for discovering what is erotic to them and honing their performance skills to share their message with the community. One of Ellice's greatest delights is to support others to discover how they want to tell their story through their body, whether they want to perfect that for the stage or develop a personal practice for authentic expression. With years of exploration in the area of somatic healing and authentic expression she is excited to be specializing in the area of sensual movement for women now. In her S Factor classes, Ellice invites every woman to drop into her body's truth, eradicating shame and self judgement so she can unearth her pleasure, confidence and full emotional expression through dance. As a Board certified Holistic Nutrition Consultant Ellice adds a layer of body love and self-care through private and group nutrition education, guiding women to have a healthy thriving body so they can show up fully for all areas of their life. As owner of Steel and Grace, Ellice offers a wide variety of weekly S Factor classes suitable for women with or without dance experience. Whether you want to pole dance, learn a fun wall routine, discover your flow with floor work, unearth your sexy, learn a lap dance or add a strip tease to your play, Ellice is excited to dance with you! Learn more at steelandgracepole.com To learn about Meghan, visit www.meghanneeley.com

In this episode April and Amy expose some of their own shame and sex/relationship struggles, followed by a discussion about consent and the dangers of positions of power - specifically in the Tantra community.

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model and Pro Domme, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear and humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style and she believes strongly in making sex education fun. She has taught on a wide variety of topics at Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Pure Pleasure, Stormy Leather, Folsom Fringe, The Looking Glass, KinkAcadamy, PassionateU, Mission Control, Pink Bunny, and Boundcon in Germany. Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and Femina Potens. In 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey. Rain DeGrey spends her time teaching classes, writing articles, her online advice column, producing podcasts, and providing one on one coaching to select clients. For information on the classes she teaches click HERE, or CONTACT HER for information about any of her services. For Rain's online Intermediate Rope Bondage Class click here

In this touching episode Terah Harrison, LPC, shares her trauma story for the first time on air, alongside tips and tools for finding great sex and deep connection in the aftermath. Thank you, Terah, for speaking up and sharing your vulnerability with us. Also, we answer a sex question about pegging (when a female-bodied individual tops/penetrates a male-bodied individual via a strap-on). About Terah: Terah Harrison is a Licensed Professional Counselor and hosts the podcast Make More Love Not War which has a clear mission of helping people have more sex and less fighting. She discovered the need for her podcast as she saw male clients at her private practice in Fort Worth Texas, who were struggling to understand their female partners. Most of these men were striving to be better partners but their strategies to achieve this only made things worse. Many times a simple change would improve their relationships dramatically. With this amazing information that would benefit men and the women they love in hand Terah wanted to reach more men but how without bending space time? In her personal life she wanted her husband, Jeff, to go to couples therapy but alas, he would not. If a therapist’s husband won’t go to therapy how many other men are missing out on the knowledge that would get them more sex? She noticed Jeff listening to podcasts every day and talking about what he learned from them. The solution hit her like a bolt of lightning – create a podcast that will bring therapy to the men who for whatever reason don’t go. Since Terah started the podcast she has been able to interview some amazing experts in love and relationships- authors, professors, therapists, and coaches. She has also created a series that gives men a back stage pass into a woman’s mind called Whine With Wine and another series that highlights power couples as well as couples in conflict. Terah’s podcast may be directed towards men but her EVIL Plan is really to help women have more connected relationships with men where they feel heard and understood in a way that leads to MORE SEX and LESS FIGHTING for all!!! To learn more visit www.makemorelovenotwar.com

In this episode we answer YOUR sex questions alongside friend and guest Kristen from the high-end German sex toy company Fun Factory. Why are some peoples turned on by golden showers? What's the deal with clit pumps? Is oral sex legit without swallowing? How do I slow down during sex? Why do I feel empty after sleeping with a lot of people? How do I navigate (conversations about) period sex? References: Our online video series Fun Cups mentraul cups Miss Bi by Fun Factory OMGyes.com/shameless Lube special at Pure Pleasure: use code OCTLUBE18 for 20% off*

Join is for this fun interview with a high-end straight male escort. What is the difference between an escort and a Gigolo? Is Gigolo still PC? What does a day in the life of a high-end escort look like? How does one become a Gigolo? About our guest: Anthony Asanti is a Washington, DC-based Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual & professional companionship full-time to women only. A Sensual Warrior who's the world's first and only Straight Male Companion catering exclusively to women certified in Bondassage and providing it exclusively to women. To learn more visit http://anthonyasanti.com Also be be sure to check out: Our online Erotic Empowerment video series: https://www.shamelesssex.com/shop/erotic-empowerment-online-series-pre-sale Sex Ed For Parents: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/collections/sex-ed-classes/products/10-24-18-lets-talk-about-sex-a-workshop-for-parents OMGyes.com: https://www.omgyes.com/shameless Pure Pleasure (use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off all sex toys): https://www.purepleasureshop.com Margins Wine (our FAV raw wine!): https://www.marginswine.com

Recorded on stage during Brooklyn's Sex Expo, we chat with Lorrae from Slutty Girl Problems. We apologize if it sounds like we were yelling; we were right next to the Sybian sex machine, so it was a bit loud :) Slutty Girl Problems is for the self-identified women who embrace this empowered lifestyle. They offer a sex-positive, feminist, judgement-free zone with daily content to entertain, educate, and empower women around in all aspects of their lives. What is a slut, you might ask? A slut is empowered in her sexuality. She is confident, in control, and doesn’t let anyone define her or her sexuality. She defines herself, and makes choices that are right for her. Many people use the term “slut” to break women down and shame them for their natural sexuality. The folks at Slutty Girl Problems boldly reclaim this derogatory word as an empowering, sex-positive term – free from society’s shame and judgement. Being a slut isn’t about sleeping with everyone, or anyone at all. It’s about having the choice to express your sexuality however you want to, and being empowered to act on it if you choose. Slutty Girl Problems believes that all safe, sane, consensual sexual choices should be not only respected, but celebrated as a natural, pleasurable part of life. There is nothing wrong with having sex. Your pleasure is important, and sexuality does not determine your morality or worth.

Join us for a quickie interview with Kimberly from Evine - a live home shopping network based out of Minneapolis. Kimberly and the people at Evine are some of the first people to promote sex toys on live television in the US.

In this episode April and Amy share their personal stories about their threesome (and sometimes foursome+) adventures. Also, a few tips on how to navigate threesomes with more grace and ease. Also, a sex question about how to find that third person (AKA unicorn) when introducing threesomes in a marriage.

Why is it important to understand edges vs boundaries? How can they lead to hotter, more exciting sex? Melissa Fritchle, LMFT, is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Sex therapist, a certified clinical trauma professional, a certified Mindfulness Meditation Teacher, and the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook. She currently runs a private practice in Santa Cruz, and will soon offer online courses. Learn more at mf-therapy.com Also, a sex question: my partner takes too long to orgasm, and my body gets tired during sex. What can we do to help him orgasm faster?

Recorded from an RV (don't mind the hum of the air-conditioning in the background) at this past week's Burning Man, Amy discusses the idea of soulmates with Lisa Nicks-Balthasar and Chris Balthasar - “Soul Purpose Success” coaches, best friends, lovers, mirror soulmates, and husband and wife. Lisa and Chris walk their talk, living fully in a deep loving “Sacred Soulmates” relationship after losing their beloved first soulmates to death and divorce. To learn more about their offerings, visit www.sacredsoulmates.com Also listen to Chris' past episode, #43 BEmpowered, as well as Lisa's episode, #45 Heart Of Manifestation

In this episode we dive deep into the juicy topic of squirting AKA gushing AKA female ejaculation. Join us for some how to's, as well as some personal stories about our own wet 'n' wild adventures. Also, we answer your sex question on sex in long distance relationships.

Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Also we answer your sex question: Being told about an STI/STD (Genital Warts) a year into the relationship Pure Pleasure code for 20% off anal toys for month of August - AUGANAL18

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Marital and Family Therapy, and a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, Love and Sex Coach and Professor of Psychology and Human Sexuality. Dr. Chaves is a co-sexpert educator for Penthouse Magazine's Sex Academy instructional DVD's. He specializes working with erotic minorities (BDSM, alt expression, nonmonogamy, fetishism), relationships, and sexual concerns.

Is sex work really the oldest profession? How has sexual shame shaped modern day culture from a historical perspective? And where did the term blowjob come from? Tune in for more. Plus enjoy Daniele's sexy Italian accent :) Daniele Bolelli is a writer, martial artist, university professor, and podcaster. He was born in Italy and currently lives in Los Angeles. Check out his podcasts, The Drunken Taoist and History On Fire, or visit his website: danielebolelli.com/

Andrew was raised as the son of a minister in a Pentecostal Christian Church in New Jersey. Andrew studied Bible at the Evangelical Christian Wheaton College and obtained his Master of Divinity from Princeton Seminary. While religion was his life's passion, Andrew suffered greatly from anxiety, depression, and guilt about his sexuality. After a slow and painful process, Andrew awakened to a new spiritual experience through secular humanism, meditation, psychedelics, and sexuality. Andrew offers workshops, writings, support, and coaching that can be found at lifeafterdogma.org

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit thelovedrive.com

Tantra is a form of yoga designed to enhance one’s experience of being alive. It’s a holistic spiritual system that connects the sexual and spiritual aspects of one’s self for integration, healing, joy, and power. Dee’s classes and sessions do not have an overt gsexual focus, though we talk about how these practices improve sex, along with all aspects of life. Dee says she helps people find their bliss through relaxation, mindfulness, and sensuality. Her clients know her for being playful and accepting, and deeply-spiritual while solidly down to earth. Dee Dussault is a sexuality coach, Yoga Alliance-certified yoga teacher, and the creator of Ganja Yoga, with a Harpercollins book by the same name. Since 2009, she's taught easy partner yoga, vanilla tantra, and Ganja Yoga to thousands of people across the US, Canada, and Europe. Dee has over a decade of research and study, with an honors degree in Sexuality Studies, and an additional Sexuality Certificate, with a focus on women's sexuality. She loves inspiring others to tap into their radiant embodied selves. Her yoga training was with Ananda Shakti of Sananda Yoga in Toronto, in the Tantric tradition of Swami Satyananda Saraswati of Bihar, India. To learn more visit https://www.deedussault.com or theganjayoga.com

Ashley is a mother, doula, apprentice midwife and sex coach who has been helping to guide women through the transformation from maiden to mother since she became a mother in 2013. She is a tantrika who loves coaching women into their own sensual sovereignty through the path of pleasure, and is passionate about helping women reclaim their pelvic floor and core strength postpartum. You can find out more information about coaching with Ashley, taking a workshop or reading more about her work on her website at www.AshleyShakti.com

Is sex addiction real? How I navigate a new poly relationship? Can orgasms be too frequent and too strong? And how do I orgasm with my partner? Amy answers YOUR sex questions. Enjoy! And don't forget to checkout: Purepleasureshop.com - Use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off sex toys Marginswine.com - Delicious, raw/organic wine

Kimberly K has traveled both domestically and abroad to some of the most remote locations and exclusive parties, modeling for audiences with widely diverse sexual tastes. As she's met friends in all sorts of walks of life, they've peaked her desires to explore her own limits. Her new website kimberlykmodel.com is a photo and video journal as she explores what turns her on and the power of sex in our society.

April's mom came for a visit, so we decided to get both of our beloved mothers together to talk about...you guessed it...sex!

Bondassage is a safe, playful, creative way to stretch your intimate boundaries and expand your sensual repertoire. It’s a lovely way to rekindle the passion and desire in your relationship. You’ll become more sensitive and adventurous with each other as you reach new levels of intimacy and sensuality. Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. You may be a seasoned traveler in the BDSM realm but want something different, or you may be brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we can create a Bondassage session that best suits your needs. We’ll take you toward your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises. About Jaeleen: Jaeleen Bennis Is a Sensual Domina, a professional bodyworker, the creator and founder of Bondassage®, and co-author of ‘Bondassage®: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips For Lovers’. To learn more visit bondassage.com Click here for 50% off of their online courses

Robin Rivera is a a wild woman warrior and feminine leadership coach working with women on a mission, as well as youth empowerment for prevention education on sex trafficking. Robin is passionate about transforming trauma into freedom, sharing her story of resilience, radical transformation, and overcoming sexual trauma and sexual exploitation from a survivor's perspective. To learn more, visit robinriveraignites.com

How does food affect our sexuality? Are aphrodisiacs real, and if so, what should I be eating? Melissa Roberts specialized in a corporate sales consultant position of sexual health and wellness products for over 10 years. After reaching a breakthrough in her own personal sexual health struggles, it became her passion to empower individuals to heal their bodies by themselves, lead healthy lifestyles, hold lasting positive relationships, and ultimately achieve total mind, body, and spirit balance through self-love, appreciation, and care. Melissa studied at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition in NY where she acquired her Certification as a Holistic Health and Wellness Coach. Now as an entrepreneur Melissa is committed to serving her community through her private practice HoneyBeeHealing Holistic Wellness & Health Coach Services. Melissa is passionate about loving and supporting her family, personal development, as well as constantly educating and spreading awareness around the principles to achieve health and happiness. Learn more + mention Shameless Sex for 10% off of her Happy Health Package at https://www.honeybeehealing.net.

We've had a few requests for more on Tantra, and while we have an awesome guest speaker or two who specializes on the subjest lined up to guest on our show, we decided to record a quickie on Tantra basics to hold you over. Enjoy! References: Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas Amy's online Tantra class

In this episode we discuss some creative ways to spice up your sex life. In fact, we take it one step further beyond "kiss here" and 'touch there" - to a place of deeper yet playful connection. Enjoy! Oh, and feel free to send us your favorite tips on how YOU prefer to spice up your own sex life. References: The Body Keeps the Score Juicebox - use code SHAMELESS for 60% off Gabor Mate

How do we negotiate sex in relationships? What if I want to have sex more often than my partner (or vise versa)? How do we meet each other's needs? Also, more on Attachment Theory! Resources: Books: Attached Mating In Captivity Other: Esther Perel TED talks Juicebox sex coaching app (use code SHAMELESS for 60% off)

We get 2-3 sex questions/day, AND WE LOVE IT! The only thing is it often takes us one month + to answer them on the air/Shameless Sex's FaceBook Live. Enter Juicebox, a quick, easy, and affordable sex and relationship when you need it. And guess what? We are now on the app as well. Tune in to learn more. We also share some creative ways to work with low libido. About Juicebox: Juicebox is an iPhone app that pairs you with professional sex and relationship coaches from a network of certified and vetted experts. With an easy (and anonymous) messaging platform and scalable technology, Juicebox is making sex and relationship coaching affordable and accessible to everyone. Use code SHAMELESS for 60% off your first week! Product References: OMGyes Magic Wand Atom Cock Ring Use code SHAMLESSPP at purepleasureshop.com for 15% off

This episode is a redo of episode #10 to make up for the terrible sound quality (as well as blank audio on some of the apps). Plus April is no longer a backdoor virgin, so we have some new ideas and stories to share. So tune in to learn how to have awesome booty lovin'! For sex toy references, visit purepleasureshop.com. Use coupon code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off.

If you've tuned in before, you know that we are huge fans of taking our time in the bedroom. So how do quickies apply? How can we have great, pleasurable, connected sex when time is limited? Tune in to learn more.

Ellice empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world i he fully expressed radiance. As a certifie S Factor® instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at the heart of their work day so they can lead with their feminine genius, avoiding overwhelm as a business owner. As co-owner of Steel and Grace, Santa Cruz California's premier pole studio, Ellice offers a wide variety of weekly S Factor classes suitable for women with or without dance experience. Find out more at www.sfactorsantacruz.com and www.steelandgracepole.com About S Factor®: S Factor® is a sensual movement practice and a way of life. This is a practice that heals our relationship with our erotic body. Through this work we turn on the brilliant feminine essence that exists in all of us. We celebrate it. We revel in it. And as we see it in ourselves and each other, we bring that light to every relationship we have. For Ellice's online programs, click here For Amy's upcoming Tantra In Motion workshop, click here

In this bonus episode we cover everything from blowjobs, the #metoo movement, what consensual means, how to keep judgment out of your sex life, and much more. Conner Moore is the host of The Realness Podcast (available on iTunes, Google Play, etc), as well as a strength and conditioning and Lifestyle Design Coach. Learn more here: https://gettherealness.com Show Book References: "Mating In Captivity" by Ester Perel "The State of Affairs" by Ester Perel "Sex at Dawn" by Chris Ryan "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" by Sal Goddam and Ogi Ogas

Taoist Sex...what does it mean? How is it different from Tantra? What about the Divine Masculine and Feminine? Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality. Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony, menstrual disorders, menopause, infertility, and post-partum depression to return to their innate equanimity so they can create sustainable balance in their lives, feel in control of their emotions and raise their sensual frequencies for greater magnetism and increased orgasmic potential. Willow offers Taoist Sexology courses all around the world, inspiring women to experience pleasure in ALL that they do. To learn more about Willow's online courses, retreats and other offerings, visit yinwellness.com

Join us as we chat about the five love languages - touch, quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation, gifts - and how our understanding of them can help to deepen connection relationships. Also, an interview with our newest favorite woman-owned and operated wine maker from http://www.marginswine.com.

Cher Slater-Barlevi, M.A. is an Artist, Spiritual Councilor, Amazon three-time best selling author, titled Dog of God: A Wild Romp Through Magical Worlds. Lisa Nicks-Balthasar is an inspirational speaker, writer, and Divine Manifestress. Lisa is the author of Believe! - an inspirational memoir through loss, grief, love and life. Together Cher and Lisa created Heart of Manifestation, offering retreats and workshops in Ojai, CA, as well as other parts of the world. To learn more about their offerings, visit www.heartofmanifestation.com Upcoming retreat dates: June 8-10th, 2018 in Ojai November 7-11th, 2018 in Mexico Mention “Shameless Sex Podcast” and receive $150 off one of their upcoming retreats.

In this episode we discuss how to up your pussy game. Whether you are a vulva admirer and want to learn how to be a better giver, or perhaps you are a vulva owner and want to enhance your own orgasmic experiences, we have something for you! Topics include arousal non-concordance (via our favorite book Come As You Are), spontaneous vs responsive desire, the "pussy hug" and touch techniques, kegels, ways to enhance your orgasm, and more!

Chris Balthasar, J.D., (A.K.A. “Badass Buddha”) is a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu black belt and former Pan American Champion. Inspired by the #MeToo movement, he created BEmpowered - a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu self-defense immersion course that empowers smaller people against much larger, stronger opponents. And guess what? BJJ skills can be used for sexy time in the bedroom, too! To learn more, contact Chris at [email protected] or visit www.claudiofrancabjj.com

Jimanekia Eborn is a Sex Educator, as well as director of Education at More Than No. Her work in the mental health field for 10+ years revealed a need for more sexual education and sexual trauma support. Also, being a survivor inspired her passion for assisting and supporting those that are sexual assault survivors and/or without access to comprehensive sex education. Learn more about her offerings at sewjim.com.

Join us in this bonus episode as we answer YOUR sex questions! My partner doesn't like going down on me, what do I do? My penis doesn't get as hard as it used to, what are my options? Plus more!

Join us as we discuss sexual mastery techniques for penises, including hand jobs, erotic massage, ejaculatory control, erections, masturbation practices, and more. This episode is for both penis owners and admirers :)