
Shameless Sex
A Real-Talk Podcast on Sex and Relationships
Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts · Amy Baldwin
Show overview
Shameless Sex has been publishing since 2017, and across the 9 years since has built a catalogue of 539 episodes. That works out to roughly 550 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a weekly cadence.
Episodes typically run an hour to ninety minutes — most land between 55 min and 1h 11m — and the run-time is fairly consistent across the catalogue. Roughly 53% of episodes carry an explicit flag from the publisher. It is catalogued as a EN-language Health & Fitness show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed yesterday, with 21 episodes already out so far this year. Published by Amy Baldwin.
From the publisher
Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details. Visit www.shamelesssex.com for more. Shameless Sex is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact [email protected]
Latest Episodes
View all 539 episodes#485 The Truth About Giving Orgasms with Nina Hartley
#484 Sex Positions 2.0, No Acrobatics Required with the Davons
#483 How to Get Bigger Bits with Susan Bratton
#482 From Lips to Tips: Mastering Sexy Communication & Pleasure Mapping
#481 Uncovering the Secrets to Male Sexual Health and Pleasure with Dr. Hall
#480 The Sex Party Insider with Emma Sayle
#479 Give Good Hand with Breann Starr
Is Your Hand the Best Tool in Your Pleasure Toolbox? Get ready to get hands-on (literally!) as we dive into the world of hand sex with somatic relational and intimacy mentor, Breann Starr. In this episode, we get real about self-pleasure, giving and receiving handjobs, and the magic of erotic massage. Here's what you'll learn: * The art of masturbation: tips and tricks for pussy owners, and how to use your practice to expand your sexuality with yourself and partners * How to turn handjobs into a sensual experience (for both giver and receiver) with basic how-to's and top tips for hands on pussies, cocks, and assholes * The power of erotic massage: what it is, why it matters, and a few techniques to get you started * Why paying attention to sensation in your hands is key to becoming a more attentive and loving partner * How Breann's Somatica training has impacted her personal and professional life (and how you can benefit from it too!) As the founder of Embodied Liberation, Breann brings her expertise in trauma-informed somatic modalities to the conversation, helping you understand how to break free from repetitive patterns and cultivate a more authentic, liberated way of living and relating. With her background as a registered nurse and extensive training, Breann guides you back into connection with your body, so you can access truth, build self-trust, and relate from a grounded, honest place. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your own desires and learn how to communicate them to your partner. You'll also discover new techniques to enhance your intimacy and connection. And, as a bonus, you'll get to learn more about Breann's work and how to work with her. Tune in and get ready to get shameless about your pleasure! And, stay tuned until the end for a special giveaway - we're offering a free spot in Breann's Embodied Liberation program. Next episode, we're pushing the boundaries of what's possible in the bedroom... and we're not holding back. Will you be joining the conversation? Learn more or work with Breann: https://www.embodiedliberation.love Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests Become a Sex and Relationship Coach through Somatica Institute! Go to http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#478 The Art of Giving and Receiving Great Head
Can You Give a Mind-Blowing Blowjob? Or can you receive one? Let's get real, folks - blowjobs can be a total game-changer in the bedroom, but they can also be, well, a bit of a mystery. In this episode, we're diving headfirst (pun intended) into the world of sucking cock, sharing our own stories, and spilling the tea on what really makes a blowjob unforgettable. Here's what you'll learn: * The top tools and techniques for givers (yes, even if you're not a fan of giving blowjobs - we've got tips to help you drop in and enjoy) * How to communicate with your partner to take your blowjobs to the next level * The #1 way to get more of what you want as a receiver (hint: it involves talking about it) * How to overcome common challenges and make receiving a blowjob a truly pleasurable experience * Our own favorite techniques, from physical tricks to words of affirmation and setting the scene * What we've learned from our own experiences and guests to bring you Blowjob 2.0 skills We'll also be plugging some of our favorite resources for more education, including our website, Somatica online classes, our book, and ErikaLust.com. And, spoiler alert, one of us shares a sneak peek into a chapter from our book that'll give you even more blowjob inspiration. Tune in for a fun, honest, and informative conversation that'll leave you feeling empowered and excited to try new things in the bedroom. And trust us, you won't want to miss our teaser for next week's episode... let's just say it's going to be a wild ride. Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests Other links: Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#477 Wet and Wild: For All P*$$y Owners and Admirers
Ready to Get WET and Unlock a Life of Unbridled Pleasure? We're revisiting one of our most popular episodes with Alexis Ware, L.Ac., a sex, desire, and intimacy coach who's on a mission to help you tap into your true sensual potential. In this juicy conversation, we dive into the world of genital "wetness" and explore what it means to be truly connected to your body. Here's what you'll discover in this episode: * The importance of reconnecting with your genitals and how it can transform your sex life and overall well-being * How to heal from sexual trauma and its impact on your connection to your body and desires * The real meaning behind "reclaiming" your wetness and turn-on, and how it's not just about physical sensations * The ways in which societal programming and shame can be holding you back, and practical strategies for breaking free * Techniques for tuning back into your body's sensations and using them to fuel hotter, more connected sex * A sneak peek into Alexis' live online 6-week group course, WET, where you'll learn to tap into your true sensual potential alongside a community of like-minded women As a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, and ThetaHealing expert, Alexis brings a unique blend of energy healing and sex coaching to the conversation. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your own body and desires, and be empowered to live a more authentic, sensual life. Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock the secrets to feeling WET! And, as a special treat, Alexis is sharing an exclusive offer for listeners - stay tuned to the end of the episode to learn how you can join her WET course and start your journey to a more sensual, empowered you! More about our repeat guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., is a sex, desire and intimacy coach, licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert, and founder of Sovereign University. To learn more go to www.alexislaurenware.com Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens glamour meets sexy beach club vibes cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get an additional 15% off sexy spring cleaning + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#476 Dirty Talk Mastery with Celeste & Danielle of Somatica
Get Ready to Talk Dirty: Unleashing Your Authentic Voice in the Bedroom! Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the sultry world of dirty talk with the dynamic duo, Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., founders of the Somatica Institute and creators of the Somatica Method. As thought leaders in the field of sex and relationship coaching, they've trained over 1000 coaches and have even been featured on UK's award-winning TV show, Virgin Island. In this episode, we'll be exploring the art of dirty talk and how to make it your own. Here's what you can expect to learn: * The surprising reasons why dirty talk can be so challenging for people, and why so many are eager to improve their skills * How to discover your unique and authentic voice when it comes to dirty talk * Tips and tricks for those who thrive on structure and formula * An insider's look at the Somatica Method and how it can help you tap into your confidence and empowerment in the bedroom * What to expect from Danielle and Celeste's online classes and upcoming sex and relationship coaching training By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper understanding of how to communicate your desires and boundaries with confidence and ease. You'll learn how to let go of inhibitions and tap into your authentic voice, making your intimate experiences more fulfilling and exciting. Danielle and Celeste bring their expertise and passion to the conversation, sharing their journey into the field of sexuality and the principles behind the Somatica Method. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore the world of dirty talk, this episode is sure to leave you feeling empowered and inspired. About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute. They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility. Learn more: Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026 Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026 Take their online courses including How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Bonus: What You Really Want in Bed: Exploring Your Core Desires
This clip comes from one of our favorite past conversations: Episode #133 – How Core Desires Lead to Hot Sex with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA. What are your Core Desires, and how can understanding them lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? In this episode, Danielle and Celeste—co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching—share how exploring your deepest erotic desires can transform your sex life and deepen intimacy in your relationships. Using their experiential Somatica approach, they explain how shifting our internal patterns around sex and connection can open the door to greater pleasure, authenticity, and emotional intimacy. We also answer a listener question: How can you rebuild broken trust in a relationship? Listen to the full episode here: https://tinyurl.com/bdhs3vv3 About the guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Their innovative, experiential approach helps individuals and couples transform the way they relate emotionally and sexually. They also train professional sex and relationship coaches through the Somatica Institute. They are the co-authors of Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together: Embracing Your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility. Learn more: Explore Somatica courses and trainings at http://somaticainstitute.com and try their free 2-minute quiz to see if the training is right for you Join their free live Q&A on Thursday, March 12, 2026 Learn more about their Sex & Relationship Coaching Training starting in late April 2026 Take their online course: How to Get Turned On: Unlock Your Core Desires, or explore other courses at https://learn.somatica.com Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#475 Girl Gone Wild: Sex, Travel, and Tales from Courtney Kocak
What's the Wildest Thing You've Done for Love (or Sex)? Join us as we dive into the unapologetic world of Courtney Kocak, writer, podcaster, and comedian extraordinaire, who's just released her scorching hot memoir, Girl Gone Wild! In this episode, we get the tea on Courtney's journey from selling T-shirts on the infamous Girls Gone Wild tour (for the uninitiated, it was a series of spring break party videos that, ahem, "celebrated" youthful abandon) to becoming a respected voice in the world of sexuality and feminism. Here's what you'll get out of this episode: * The story behind Courtney's transition from party tour T-shirt vendor to writer and podcaster * A sneak peek into her wildly popular podcast, Private Parts Unknown, and one of her most unforgettable "Girl Gone Wild" stories * What it means to be an "unwitting feminist" and how Courtney's experiences have shaped her views on sex and identity * The good, the bad, and the ugly of Courtney's formative years and how they influenced her adult life * Advice for those who've been told they're "too much" or "not enough" when it comes to their sexuality * A cheeky elevator pitch for Girl Gone Wild and how to get your hands on a copy (and maybe even work with Courtney) Courtney's got a knack for storytelling, and her experiences are both relatable and, well, wild. With over two million podcast downloads under her belt and bylines in top-tier publications like The New York Times and Cosmopolitan, she's the perfect guest to dish out the real talk on sex, love, and being unapologetically yourself. Tune in for a conversation that's equal parts laugh-out-loud funny and thought-provoking – and stay tuned until the end for a teaser that's sure to leave you wanting more. Trust us, you won't want to miss this episode! Mark your calendars for April 1, 2026, when Girl Gone Wild hits the shelves, and get ready to join the conversation. To learn more: https://www.courtneykocak.com Preorder her book: Amazon Bookshop.org Follow her: IG @courtneykocak X @courtneykocak Threads @courtneykocak Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#474 From Shut Down to Turned On with Dr. Moali & Keeley Rankin, MA
Are You Letting Shame Quietly Run the Show in Your Intimate Life? Join us as we dive back into the powerful conversation from the launch of Intimacy Rewired, Amy and co-facilitator Ian Stratton's six-week online program that helps you break free from disconnection and cultivate deeper, more playful intimacy. This episode feels as if you are a part of the workshop, so consider sitting down with a pen and paper to get the full classroom experience. Packed with expert insights from returning guests Dr. Nazanin Moali and Keeley Rankin, MA, as they share their wisdom on building connection, overcoming shame, and creating safety in your body and relationships. Here's what you'll learn: * How shame shows up in sex and relationships, and why it's often misunderstood * Practical tools for working with shame as a teacher, rather than letting it limit your pleasure and connection * Actionable practices to create safety in your body and partnerships, laying the foundation for deeper intimacy and hotter sex *How to negotiate boundaries and speak you "no" * The importance of embodied and sustainable connection in your intimate life Dr. Nazanin Moali, a sex and relationship expert with extensive training in trauma and sexual wellness, brings her expertise to the conversation. With her postdoctoral training and experience hosting a top-rated Sexology podcast, Dr. Moali offers compassionate guidance on relating to shame and building deeper connections. Keeley Rankin, a sex therapist and relationship coach, shares her mindful, body-based approach to creating safety and intimacy. With her Master's in Counseling Psychology and experience helping individuals and couples overcome intimacy challenges, Keeley offers practical practices to help you feel more grounded and present. Tune in to this episode and discover how to build more safety, ease, and intimacy in your relationships—starting from the inside out. And stay tuned for the next launch of Intimacy Rewired by signing up for the Shameless Sex newsletter. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! Learn more about Intimacy Rewired here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com/ Learn more or work with Dr. Naz here: https://oasis2care.com Follow her on IG @sexologypodcast Learn more or work with Keeley Rankin, MA here: https://www.keeleyrankin.com Follow her on IG @keeleyrankinintimacycoach Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile @amyshamelesssex => find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests Other links: Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#473 Shameless Talk: Healing from Trauma with Jimanekia Eborn
What if we told you that healing from trauma is possible, and it starts with having shameless conversations about sex and vulnerability? Join us on this week's episode of Shameless Sex, where we dive into the world of trauma, sex, and healing with the incredible Jimanekia Eborn, aka The Trauma Queen. With 16 years of experience in mental health, Jimanekia is a Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert, Trauma Media Consultant, and Comprehensive Sex Educator who's on a mission to normalize conversations about life's most challenging experiences. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The importance of understanding trauma and its impact on our lives, relationships, and sex lives • How trauma can show up differently in various cultural, socio-economic, and personal contexts • Easy-to-apply tools and techniques to help you understand, uncover, and work with your trauma (yes, it's possible!) • About Jimanekia's amazing work with her nonprofit, Tending The Garden, and her Intimacy Coordinator training program, Cintima By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complex relationships between trauma, sex, and healing. You'll also learn how to take the first steps towards healing and recovery, and how to find support and resources to help you along the way. Jimanekia's story is a testament to the power of resilience, vulnerability, and shameless conversations. As she shares her journey, you'll be inspired to start your own path towards healing and self-discovery. So, what are you waiting for? Dive into this powerful conversation and discover how you can start healing from trauma and living a more shameless, sex-positive life. Tune in to this episode to find out how Jimanekia went from being a mental health professional to becoming The Trauma Queen, and how you can start your own journey towards healing and recovery. To learn more: https://www.cintima.co/ http://traumaqueen.love http://Tendingthegarden.love https://lenoraclaire.com IG: @cintima @jimanekia @tendingthegarden.4.sas Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#472 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 2
Join us for part 2 of this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deeper into sex toys and sex stories with the fabulous Samia Mounts - podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2. Here's what you'll get out of this episode: * The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity * The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS * A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them * Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity * Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on * The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together By tuning in, you'll get to: * Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys * Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure * Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation. Learn more about Samia here: http://linktr.ee/samia.mounts Join us for our online Pre-Valentine's Day workshop on Thursday, February 12th - all about full body pleasure: https://tinyurl.com/2s4uvs6v Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get an additional 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#471 Sex Toy Secrets Exposed - Part 1
Ever Been Shamed for Your Toy Preferences? Let's Get Real About Sex Toys and the Stories We Tell About Them Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we get up close and personal with the fabulous Samia Mounts, podcaster extraordinaire and all-around sex-positive superstar. As the host of ClosetEd, Samia is no stranger to diving into the juicy details of human desire, and she's here to share her expertise and enthusiasm with us. Tune in next week as we dive in even deeper and juicier for part 2. Here's what you'll get out of this episode: * The unvarnished truth about how our hosts (and Samia) got into the field of sexuality - and what drove them to become advocates for sex positivity * The shame-free lowdown on sex toys: why we've been made to feel guilty for using them, and why that's total BS * A tour of our hosts' current favorite toys - from clit stimulators to bondage gear - and why they love them * Hilarious and relatable "worst toy fails" stories that'll have you laughing and nodding in solidarity * Epic erotic toy stories that'll leave you feeling inspired and maybe even a little turned on * The benefits of sharing and listening to real human's sexy stories - and how it can bring us closer together By tuning in, you'll get to: * Join the conversation and ditch the shame around sex toys * Discover new ways to explore your desires and pleasure * Connect with a community that's all about embracing our true selves Samia's background as an actor, singer, writer, and podcaster brings a unique perspective to the conversation, and her podcast, ClosetEd, has become a go-to destination for anyone looking to explore the complexities of human desire. With her quick wit and infectious enthusiasm, she's the perfect guest to guide us through this conversation. Stay tuned till the end as we wrap up with our hosts sharing their offerings, upcoming events, and how to find them online. And don't miss the tantalizing teaser at the end of this episode... let's just say we're not done getting real about sex just yet! Learn more about Samia here: http://linktr.ee/samia.mounts Join us for our online Pre-Valentine's Day workshop on Thursday, February 12th - all about full body pleasure: https://tinyurl.com/2s4uvs6v Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at http://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#470 Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult
What happens when a sexual wellness practice turns into a cult, and how can we spot the warning signs? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the fascinating and disturbing world of OneTaste, a company that promised to unlock the secrets of orgasmic meditation but allegedly became a breeding ground for abuse and manipulation. Award-winning investigative journalist and author Ellen Huet takes us on a journey into the heart of OneTaste, sharing her insights from her book Empire of Orgasm: Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellness Cult Here's what you'll learn from this episode: * The history of OneTaste and how it started as a seemingly innocuous wellness practice * The benefits and risks of orgasmic meditation (OM) and how to approach it with a critical eye * The warning signs of a cult and how to spot when a practice or community is becoming toxic * The latest updates on the criminal case against OneTaste's leaders and what it means for the future of the wellness industry * How to prioritize consent, safety, and critical thinking in your own sex life and wellness practices As a journalist who's covered some of the most complex and intriguing stories of our time, Ellen Huet brings her expertise and sharp analysis to the conversation. Whether you're a seasoned sex educator or just curious about the world of wellness, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn more about the intersection of sex, power, and exploitation, and how to create a safer, more consensual world for everyone. And stay until the end to find out how to get your hands on Ellen's book and support her work. So, can a wellness practice be both empowering and toxic? Listen in to find out. website: https://www.ellenhuet.com/ buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Empire-Orgasm-Power-Downfall-Wellness/dp/0374604193 instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ehuet/ newsletter: https://ellenhuet.substack.com/ Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at vb.health Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get an additional 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Bonus Episode: The Truth About Modern-Day Sex Ed
What is really happening in K–12 sex education across the United States right now? In this episode, we unpack the good, the bad, and the truly troubling — and imagine what sex ed could look like if it were inclusive, medically accurate, intersectional, and pleasure-positive. We’re joined by Gina Lepore (she/her), an ASSECT-Certified Sexuality Educator with over 30 years of experience spanning healthcare, research, curriculum development, and education. Gina holds a master’s degree in Sexuality Education from Widener University and has taught comprehensive sex ed to middle and high school students, trained future sexuality educators and medical students, conducted research, and even spent time educating about (and selling!) pleasure products at her favorite adult store, Pure Pleasure Shop — because real-world learning matters. Together, we explore why sex education often feels inaccessible or incomplete, and what’s needed to bridge the gap between academic research and online, community-based sexuality education. Gina shares insights from her work as an adjunct lecturer at Cabrillo College and California State University, Chico, reflecting on what she’s learned from teaching hundreds of students — their questions, their gaps, and their hunger for honest, affirming information. We also dive into current research in the field, including buzz around an Emerging Adults Pleasure Survey, and discuss why pleasure belongs in conversations about sexual health. Gina breaks down what sexual empowerment and sexual agency truly mean, how pleasure education can play a role in reducing sexual violence and trauma, and why embodied, holistic approaches to sexuality are essential. In addition to her work in sex education, Gina is a Certified Personal Trainer and Health Coach, integrating fitness and embodied wellbeing into her practice through Focus Integrated Fitness and Joyride Sexual Empowerment Coaching. She brings a grounded, compassionate, and deeply human lens to sexuality — shaped not only by her professional work, but also by her lived experience as a proud mama of two young men. ✨ Stick around to the end to learn how to connect with Gina, explore her work, and dive deeper into pleasure-positive, empowering sexuality education. To learn more go to: IG: joyride_empowerment IG: EAPS_2023 For direct access to the survey: https://tinyurl.com/yc36n7pc Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#469 From Meh to Mind-Blowing Sex with Dr. Tara
What's the secret to getting exactly what you want in bed? Join us on this sizzling episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of unapologetic intimacy with the one and only Dr. Tara, author of How Do You Like It? A Guide to Getting What You Want (In Bed) and host of the Luvbites podcast. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: * How Dr. Tara became the go-to expert in the field of sexuality (hint: it involves a passion for sex education and a whole lot of sass) * What inspired her to write a book that's all about empowering you to take control of your desires * The top issues people face in the bedroom (and how to overcome them) * Why we settle for mediocre sex (and how to break free from it) * The difference between micro and macro sexual communication (and how to master both for a more fulfilling sex life) * The importance of building sexual self-esteem and confidence (and how to do it) * Practical tools and tips for boosting your erotic life (even in long-term relationships) As a Kinsey-certified sexologist, tenured professor, and award-winning researcher, Dr. Tara is the ultimate authority on all things sex. With her expertise and infectious energy, you'll be empowered to take charge of your desires and create a more fulfilling sex life. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode and get ready to unlock your full erotic potential! And, as a special treat, stay tuned until the end to find out how to get your hands on Dr. Tara's book and connect with her for more sexpert advice. Trust us, you won't want to miss it! To learn more go to https://www.luvbites.co Get her book on Amazon here Follow her: IG: @luvebites.co TikTok: @luvbites.co Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: https://kkcruise.com Learn more about the fabulous Reid Mihalko here: https://reidaboutsex.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
#468 Power, Pleasure, and the Men Who Want More
In this episode, we’re joined by Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme—a Los Angeles–based Sex, Intimacy, and Kink Coach, Dominatrix, and erotic parfum-ist. Ashley shares how her journey into sexuality work emerged from a desire to help people shed shame, reconnect with their bodies, and access deeper intimacy and pleasure. Ashley primarily works with cisgender, predominantly straight men, many of whom are successful yet disconnected—from their emotions, their desire, and their partners. She explains why working with a confident, sexually embodied woman can be both confronting and profoundly healing, offering men a space to drop performance and explore authenticity. The most common issue Ashley sees is disconnection, often showing up as performance anxiety, erectile challenges, or difficulty leading and communicating sexually. Beneath it all is a longing for confidence, presence, and deeper connection. In early sessions, Ashley focuses on nervous system regulation, consent, and embodiment, gradually guiding clients toward more grounded desire, emotional intimacy, and conscious power. We also explore Ashley’s work as a Dominatrix and how dominance—whether kinky or not—is about presence, responsibility, and attunement rather than control. She shares practical insights for men who want to be more dominant, emphasizing self-regulation, listening, and clarity. Plus, we dive into Ashley’s erotic perfumes, which she uses as a powerful sensory and somatic tool in sessions to anchor desire, memory, and arousal. Ashley leaves listeners with one golden reminder: your desire is not a problem—it’s information. Learn more or work with Ashley at www.irreverentcoaching.com Follow her on Instagram: @IrreverentLoveCoaching Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at http://erikalust.com, and use code SHAMELESS to get 45% off! Get 15% off taking care of YOU in the New Year + any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com