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Dear friend and Shameless Sex Podcast's "resident sex therapist" Dr. Nan Wise returns to teach us all about how to talk about sex with our (sexual) partners while answering sex questions sent in from listeners. Dr. Nan makes those intimidating conversations fun, sexy...even easy! About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com Other links: Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. About our guests: Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. The only sex positive podcast that also has an active Only Fans. Hard or Soft is pushing the envelope in more ways than one and developing new and healthy beliefs around sex for their community. Through their own personal journeys, the men have encouraged their audience to release the old traditional ideas of sex and approach sex, love, relationships and accountability with open arms, and new understanding. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. https://www.instagram.com/tahoe_tv/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/hardorsoftpod/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/wh_orlandoroye/?hl=en Other links: Get 20% off your Flex Disc Starter Kit with code shameless at flexfits.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are the most common sex and relationship issues sex coaches are seeing these days? What are the tools to work through these common issues that may lead to better connection and great sex? Sex Coaching Pioneer Dr. Patti Britton answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Patti Britton has over 40 years of expertise as a clinical sexologist, author, and sex coach. Patti teaches professionals keys for helping their own clients/patients/ students find solutions to their sexual roadblocks. She is an entrepreneurial wizard who shares insights on how to create a thriving private practice—one that is anchored on a commitment to service. She is true spirit of generosity, and has a drive to manifest social change for a sexually healthy world. To learn more go to sexcoachu.com Other links: Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Return guest Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋", joins us to talk about f*cking. Why are so many vulva-owners not enjoying penetrative sex? How can folks learn to be a master f*cker - both as a giver and receiver? We also talk about positions, techniques, toys and so much more. About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. A best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan has been featured in the New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox and NBC. You can find The Susan Bratton Show® at BetterLover.com, her personal shares on Instagram @susanbratton, and her lust-for-life supplements, FLOW and DESIRE at The20store.com. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What are some of the most common issues penis owners are facing when it comes to their sexual health and performance? What advice are the top 50 doctors sharing on working with these shifts? What new medical sciences and technologies are available to "the 21st century man"? Dr. Brandeis answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Judson Brandeis is a graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine. Dr. Brandeis helps men everywhere feel great, look good, and have better physical intimacy. Over the course of his 25-year career as a board-certified urologist, he has performed thousands of surgeries and pioneered surgical robotics. In 2019, Dr. Brandeis decided to follow his true passion and opened BrandeisMD, a national leader in technology and sexual medicine innovations. As a sexual medicine expert and educator leading courses all around the country, he approaches the subject of male sexual wellness with enthusiasm and an ability to explain complicated topics in ways the listener can understand. Dr. Brandeis is intimately familiar with the challenges men face as they age. Helping men meet these challenges and optimize their health inspires his commitment to clinical research, compassionate patient care, and education of other physicians. To learn more visit brandeismd.com. To buy the book visit: thetwentyfirstcenturyman.com Other links: Get 20% off (and free shipping) your ultimate V-Day Couple's Gift Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is semen retention and how it relates to sexual mastery (and multiple orgasms!)? Why would someone want to learn to do it? What are some simple tools that penis owners can use for sexual mastery? About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick Sign up for her sexual self-mastery course here: https://www.fabienneannick.com/sexual-self-mastery Connect with other Shameless Sex Listeners by clicking here for Discord And here for our Speed Dating Event Other links from our beloved sponsors: Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Edward is passionate about teaching powerful practices to help embody true leadership with clarity, presence, and authenticity from the bedroom to the boardroom. He holds a 2nd degree black belt in Aikido and is a senior instructor of Sheng Zhen Meditation. With this unique combination of martial arts, movement, and meditation he has helped thousands of people relax their bodies, quiet their minds, and embody the wisdom of an open heart full of love. He is the founder of Knot Love, an open-hearted approach to erotic rope play. He also providers leadership coaching through Willey Leadership. His 8-week men’s self-leadership program Awaken the Leader Within begins Feb 22nd. Also, register for his free online workshop Essential Self-Leadership Skills For Better Sex on Feb 10th at 5pm PST here: https://mailchi.mp/3cb6ebe9eecc/self-leadership-for-better-sex Full links to his offerings: willeyleadership.com knot-love.com

This episode is packed with all kinds of goodies on how to navigate modern day relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or wanting to add a third, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast offer tools and tips on how to deepen connection, sharpen communication skills, and do relationships in a way that works for you as a unique sexual being. About our guests: Jase, Dedeker, and Emily, created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 because they were tired of the same old toxic dating advice. They offer new ideas and advice for multiple forms of love: everything from conscious monogamy to ethical polyamory and radical relationship anarchy. They combine the knowledge from their years of personal experience with the best information available and present it in a way that’s entertaining, thought-provoking, and easy to apply to your relationships to. They have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Vice, as well as offering talks at large-scale companies such as Google. Learn all about Multiamory at multiamory.com. Follow them on Instagram @multiamory_podcast and on Twitter and Facebook @multiamory. Other links: Sign up for Layla Martin's VITA Sacred Sexuality program by clicking here Sign up for our Pre-V-Day Speed Dating Event For Shameless Sex Listeners by clicking here Get 20% off (and free shipping) your ultimate V-Day Couple's Gift Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Alicia and Erwan join us once again to talk all about oral and hand pleasure for penises. They share their three top techniques for manual and oral stimulation, as well as plenty of other juicy tips on how to be a great giver. Be sure to check out Alicia and Erwan's upcoming online Valentine's Day Pleasure Course by clicking here Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more visit pleasurecourse.com Book your free Love Life Consultation with Alicia- text her school at 415 308 9580 OR click this link to set it up https://erwandavon.com/consult/ Click here for their upcoming online Valentine's Day Pleasure Course Other links: Up your grooming game with 20% off and free shipping with code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

We are so excited for this interview! Barbara Carrellas is Amy's favorite Tantra teacher as she beautifully blends sex, intimacy, BDSM, and Tantra in a way where everyday folks truly can access ecstatic orgasmic bliss. We talk all about how to think and breathe ourselves into orgasm, as well as the power of breath in orgasmic potential. Note: We had some audio issues so we had to switch over to Zoom for this recording. Please be gentle with us. The interview starts at minute 14. Interested in our online astrological speed dating event for Shameless Sex listeners? Sign up under "sex education" at purepleasureshop.com You can also join our free Discord Group here: https://discord.gg/wS7CrPwYRf About our guest: Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra®, an international community, a philosophy, and an inclusive sacred sexuality practice that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now in its second edition, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. Her books, workshops, and lectures are an eclectic mix of sexual and spiritual practices designed to encourage readers and participants of all genders, sexual orientations and sexual preferences to expand their capacity for both pleasure and spiritual fulfillment. She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine, and was presented with a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. Barbara is a proud graduate of the Coney Island Sideshow School with a double major in fire eating and snake handling. To learn more visit: barbaracarrellas.com FB: BarbaraCarrellasUrbanTantra Twitter: Urbantantrika IG: Urbantantrika Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get 20% off (and free shipping) your BYOB sexy kit at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this episode we interview the creators of Bonobo Network - a sex-positive community that hosts sex parties, as well as educational workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, discussion groups, online mixers, interviews, and so much more. We talk all about the ins and outs of sex parties, the importance of safety and consent, and how connection and community serve to create more aliveness in our everyday lives. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. Want to make friends with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our online (free) Discord community by clicking here or go to bit.ly/shamelesssex About our guests: William is the founder and co-organizer of Bonobo Network. In 2014, the San Francisco Chronicle named William Winters the "de facto king of the East Bay polyamory scene." He's been working to earn the title ever since. William’s perspectives on non-monogamy, often through the lens of his own relationships, have appeared in San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the San Francisco Chronicle, and the New York Times. He has facilitated conversations about polyamory and sexuality in settings including university campuses, political conferences, living rooms, festivals, Burning Man, and beyond. He lives with his wife and their stupid cat in Oakland, CA. Misha Bonaventura co-produces Bonobo Network with William. Alongside William, she is passionate about supporting sex positive community and helping people create more pleasure for themselves. She teaches and consults individuals and communities to develop their consent culture with a harm reduction and transformative justice lens. Her private practice, Clearing Conversations, focuses on conflict resolution and communication coaching and she loves supporting the sex positive community of the Bay Area and beyond in creating sustainable, long-term relationship building. To learn more about Bonobo Network, visit bonobonetwork.com Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What’s the problem with striving for 50/50 fairness in modern day marriages and relationships? How does an 80/80 approach lead to more connection and far less conflict? What does “the way you do life is the way you do sex" mean, and what 80/80 tools can couples apply to their relationships to inspire more intimacy and great sex? Nate Klemp, PhD answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about how to talk to a partner about keeping it casual. Want to make friends with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our online (free) Discord community by clicking here or going to bit.ly/shamelesssex Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22. About our guest: Nate Klemp is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. Along with his wife Kaley, he is the author of the newly released The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage (Penguin Random House). He is also the coauthor, with Eric Langshur, of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing and is a regular contributor for Inc. Magazine, Fast Company, and Mindful. He is also a founding partner at Mindful, one of the world's largest mindfulness media and training companies. Nate holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University. To learn more visit 8080marriage.com Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get 20% off and free shipping on Like A Kitten's BYOB sexy gift box with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of vulva pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is “mind-blowing sex”? What gets in the way of having it? How can folks begin to move from "okay" or "good" sex to MIND BLOWING life-altering sex - not just from time to time but as a regular part our lives? The incredible Layla Martin shares all this and so much more. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram. To access Layla's 30 Days to Multi-Orgasmic Bliss Guide visit or click https://go.laylamartin.com/shamelesssex-multiorgasmic Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

The holiday's are here and it's cold outside (at least where we live), so why not keep it hot by adding more pleasure into the mix? In this episode we share a number of sexy gift ideas that will inspire more eroticism and connection in your life including some that won't cost you a dime. We also share our top sex toy gift ideas for this holiday season. Want 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate Naughty or Nice sexy kits for couples? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 20% all sex toys at purepleasureshop.com until December 15th, 2021 (and 15% off thereafter with code SHAMELESSSEX)

Return guest Dr. Alison Ash joins is to talk all about fantasies: What kind of things do people most commonly fantasize about? What if we fantasize about someone other than our partner? Are fantasies and actual role play (acting them out) the same thing? Also, how can we up our fantasy game whether alone or with a partner? We also answer a sex question about jealousy over a partner's past sexual partners. Want to skip for the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Well this was a fun one. Our dear friend and Somatic Healer Ian Stratton joins us to talk all about how we can become our best selves in all fields including in relationships, with purpose and passion, and within our own being. Stay tuned for a playful yet informative episode. We also answer a sex question about helping a partner deal with "premature ejaculation" shame. About our guest: Our friend Ian Stratton is a man on a mission to help liberate others from trauma and unconscious programming, bringing their passions to life. He does this through his training as a somatic counselor, ethical use of psychedelics, and his latest offering and creation - a deep-dive program called Altared. To learn more visit santacruzmedicine.com and Altared.life Other links from Ian Stratton: -Brownies Spreadsheet -Brownies "How to" Doc -Wim Hof Beginner Practice (10 Mins) -Wim Hof Advanced Practice (20 Mins) -Short Guided Breath Journey (30 Mins) -Full Guided Breath Journey (60 Mins) Other links from our beloved sponsors: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Buy 1 BYOB sexy kit, get 1 69% off! Go to likeakitten.com/shameless and enter code 69Box at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Ams and Kat from the 2HotWives podcast tell us all about their adventures opening up their longterm marriages and then venturing out into "the lifestyle". From everything including MMF and FFM threesomes to sexy house parties and swinger resorts, they share all about their experiences and even offer a few tips on how to do so lovingly and ethically. We also answer a sex question about load and ball size. Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Ams and Kat, hosts of the 2HotWives podcast, are on a mission to create a community where like-minded women can explore their sexual interests and embrace great sex as the ultimate in self-care. Both are deeply committed wives and mothers, exploring sex on their terms. Now, they have a podcast together and talk about open marriages, kink and BDSM, meeting couples to play with, seeing their partners with someone else, and the joy that phenomenal sex brings to their lives. To learn more visit 2hotwives.com Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is the prostate all about? Where is it located, how is a prostate orgasm different from other orgasms, and how can toys help? Also, what are the health benefits of using prostate massagers such as Aneros? Return guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: I love my partner but I want more sex than she does and I feel like a scumbag...what should I do about this? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros’ incredible line of products go to aneros.com Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this episode we talk about squirting, gushing, g-spots and so much more with sex educator and (soon to be) author Kenneth Play. Kenneth shares the biology behind how it works as well as plenty of tips and tricks on how to do it (whether you are the giver or receiver). If you've ever wondered about squirting then you definitely do not want to miss this one. We also answer a sex question about losing/lowering libido after menopause. If you want to skip to the interview, fast forward to minute 22. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth’s forthcoming book, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”, will be released in 2022. To learn more visit kennethplay.com and use code SHAMELESS for 50% off his sex hacker pro course or click here to redeem Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get your buzz on without getting floored with our favorite legal, organic smokable hemp by Dad Grass + 20% off your first order at dadgrass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Why is productivity valued above pleasure, and how does this harm sex and relationships? What about those folks who say “I just don’t have time (for sex/connection)? How can busy folks (and parents) add more pleasure into their daily lives? We also answer a sex questions about how to fulfill your bisexual partner's fantasies. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Lisa Welsh is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame and insecurities so that they can step into their true orgasmic nature. She started out as a life coach, and gradually moved into the realm of sexuality after discovering the healing impact of reclaiming this part of her own identity. Lisa’s life used to revolve around her to-do list. As a busy mum with massive body image issues and no time for herself, sex started to feel like another chore to complete. She learned to put on an act to make her partner feel good and get it over as fast as possible. Eventually Lisa was forced to admit that she was losing ‘herself’ and decided to turn inward to remove the barriers she had erected over the years… she dedicated years to reading, learning, self-study and personal experimentation to re-stoke that fire in her belly and now she guides women to do the same. To learn more visit www.inbedwithlisa.com Follow at @inbedwithlisa Other links: Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shameless Want 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

"Sexting" culture is pretty huge right now, so we decided to invite Kyer Wiltshire - one of our brilliant photographers who specializes in capturing the Natural Beauty through the lens of being nude in nature - to share all about DIY erotic photography whether you want to take a sensual photo of yourself at home or outdoors, or for material to send to a lover. We also chat about tips on lighting, props, positions, angles, as well as how taking sensual or nude photos of ourselves can help us love our bodies even more. About our guest: Kyer began taking pictures as a teenager, documenting my outdoor lifestyle, backpacking, and climbing in the Pacific Northwest. Later he lived in Spain, Latin America, and Thailand. He is based in Santa Cruz, California, and Bali. Kyer’s photographic focus has been on yoga, weddings, portrait, travel, and event photography. He has also published four books. His first book is Tribal Revival: West Coast Festival Culture, a gorgeous coffee table book that was published in 2009. His second book is Hot Spring District. It’s a photo essay of Truth or Consequences, a funky artists enclave and hot springs in southern New Mexico. His third book is Tirta Gangga. In the spring of 2016, I photographed the Royal Water Palace of Tirta Gangga, the water gardens, ceremonies, and dance performances that took place there. His 4th book - called Natural Beauty - was released in 2021, and it represents his finest work. It celebrates the nude female form together with Mother Nature and the progress women have made around personal choice and individual sovereignty. Follow him and get sneak peak of his celebratory masterpiece on Instagram at @kyernaturalbeauty as well as @kyerweddings To buy his beautiful book visit kyernaturalbeauty.com To learn more about his other professional offerings visit kyerwiltshire.com

Well this was a fun one. World renown comedian Lisa Lampanelli has joined forced with Nick Scopoletti and Beau McDowell to create the Losers With a Dream Podcast. Lisa is 60, celibate and couldn't be happier to be done with the deeeaakkk. Nick is dating, finally over blondes and loves women who ask for what they want. Beau is in love and still frustrated that his testosterone forces him is masturbate everyday. Note: This podcast is a mix of playful (sometimes mildly harsh) comedy and vulnerable real talk about sex and relationships. Be prepared to laugh and feel all the feels. We also answer a sex question about getting put in "the friend zone". Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guests: Comedians Beau McDowell and Nick Scopoletti suck at dating, suck at jobs, and suck at most things in life. But they’re great at talking about their feelings and taking advice from their mentor, the former Queen of Mean Lisa Lampanelli. Losers With a Dream releases an episode every week and can be found on all the podcast apps. And be sure to follow @lisalampanelli on Instagram Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life. We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She’s been featured by outlets like Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, and CNN, plus is a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. Her first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play will be released in 2022. In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny’s unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying non-normative sexual practices, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma. LINKS sunnymegatron.com twitter.com/sunnymegatron tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron instagram.com/sunnymegatron facebook.com/sunnymegatron Americansexpodcast.com opendeeplypodcast.com patreon.com/americansexpodcast Other links: Get your buzz on without getting floored with our favorite legal, organic smokable hemp by Dad Grass + 20% off your first order at dadgrass.com/shameless Want 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Why and when does passion go out the window in so many long-term relationships? What are some tips and tools for lovers/couples to revive it? We also answer a (graphic) sex question about what to do about upset stomach/bowels from "finishing inside" after anal sex. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced love & intimacy coach, host of the “Divine Couples” podcast, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the online course “Awaken Your Desire” - helping women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine. Naomi’s passion is guiding women and couples to heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit ​​divine-couples.com. To sign up for her free masterclass go to awakenyourdesire.com Follow her on Instagram at @divine.couples Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How can partners get through conflict and come back to being in a loving, connected place? How can partners help each other with their triggers? And what if the triggered person triggers you? Relationship expert and author Jayson Gaddis answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: What do I say when my partner asks me what I want but I have no idea, and how can I learn to orgasm through penetrative sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16 (but you may miss out on some juicy sex questions). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How can penis-owners step into their dominant power both in and out of the bedroom (without turning into "toxic masculinity")? What are the four most impactful keys to helping folks develop their personal masculine? And what are some fun/juicy tips for listeners who want to bring more kink into the bedroom? Orpheus Black - BDSM expert and three-time leather title holder with 20+ years of experience in the Dom world answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about "dirty talk". Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary who specializes in the application of ancient wisdom in modern day settings. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and he has been recognized by news resources like Mashable.com, Playboy, Marie Clair, and Ebony. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Pamper your vulva with Foria + get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/shameless OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com To sign up for Amy's upcoming in-person Whole Body Foreplay class go to https://www.purepleasureshop.com/collections/online-sex-education

Why are kegels important? Is there such things as doing too many kegel exercises? And for folks who have or are going to have a baby - what should they be concerned about regarding their pelvic floor? What changes should they be aware of? How does sex change? How long do you really have to wait to have postpartum sex? And what options are out there for more pleasure before, during and after having a baby? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guest: Brooke Cates is the Founder & CEO of The Bloom Method, a pre and postnatal fitness method, redefining exercise for the modern mom. Brooke created The Bloom Method with a desire to empower women through movement before, during and after their pregnancies. Recognizing gaps in both the mainstream and pregnancy fitness worlds, she created a fitness method that consists of diastasis recti rehabilitation and prevention exercises, labor training, functional exercise movements and innovative core techniques that are designed to keep women strong and thriving through pregnancy and motherhood. In 2018, Brooke launched the first ever Pre and Postnatal virtual fitness studio making the education, tools, and innovative fitness classes of The Bloom Method accessible to women everywhere. Brooke is a Certified Personal Trainer, Pre & Postnatal Corrective Exercise Specialist, Diastasis Recti & Core Rehabilitation Specialist and Pre & Postnatal Holistic Health Coach. To learn more visit thebloommethod.com Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices joins us to talk about everything from talking to their kids about sex and why it's important to say "vagina", how smoking weed makes them better people/parents, what it's like being a sex podcaster and navigating the dating world, and the importance of being bad. "Whether you like threesomes on the weekend or smoking weed, you should be able to do whatever the fuck you want as long as it is not negatively affecting your child and your spirit”. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guests: If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored and outspoken sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like and breaking life's archaic stereotypes. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! In fact, this audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. From guests like social Activists, Shaun King, to Porn Star parents, every week Good Moms deliver personal perspectives and voices that inspire and empower. Erica and Milah's sometimes "bad choices" keep this weekly podcast as entertaining and unpredictable as life itself. To learn more visit goodmomsbadchoices.com or listen on your favorite podcast app Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Why do a lot of vulva-owners experience painful sex? What can they do about it both holistically and via working with a medical professional? What about penis-owners who experience some form of "sexual dysfunction"? And how do the O-shot, P-shot, Femiwave and Gainswave work? Dr. Eisenbrown answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: Am I addicted to sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Dr. Eisenbrown is a private practicing urologist who is board certified in both Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery (FPM-RS). Her practice is dedicated to restoring pelvic health in women. This includes all types of incontinence, but also includes reconstructive surgery for prolapse, female sexual dysfunction, stone disease, recurrent urinary tract infections, and all general urologic problems. Dr. Eisenbrown graduated at the top of her class at the University of Florida in 1997. She completed her general surgery and urology residency training also at the University of Florida in 2002. She became one of the first urologists in the country to become dual board certified in both urology and female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery in 2014. Although she is fully trained and all aspects of urology, her practice from the beginning has focused on female pelvic health issues. Dr. Eisenbrown is a #1 best selling author of several books. Her newest book “Sometimes I laugh So Hard the Tears Run Down My Legs” was written to help educate women about this very common problem. Her Earlier book “Why Does Sex Hurt” is written for women who suffer from painful intercourse. This, unfortunately, is also very common, but grossly undertreated so women suffer needlessly. Both are available in print or kindle on Amazon. To learn more visit https://www.dreisenbrown.com Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Pamper your vulva with Foria + get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/shameless OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What does it mean to be a Feminine Dominatrix - both as a lifestyle and/or as a profession? What is the difference between physical and psychological punishment, and why might someone be into this? How does it serve them? What can everyday folks learn from FemDoms in terms of boundaries and how to be more dominant in the bedroom? And how do fetishes fit into FemDom work? Mistress Eva answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question: I'm a vulva owner and I can't orgasm from penetrative sex. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guest: Eva Oh, aka Mistress Eva, is an International Dominatrix of Chinese-Burmese-English-Irish descent, and grew up across Asia, Australia and Europe. Her unique career began in 2012, when she left an unfulfilling corporate job to train at Sydney’s renowned Salon Kitty’s dungeons. She has since held select arrangements (and keys) from Berlin to Cape Town, London to Singapore, Dubai to New York – and back. Mistress Eva holds a deep enthusiasm for slave training and total power exchange; currently based in Bali, Indonesia, she runs an online slave training playground, YouWillPleaseMe.com, and tours the world for select engagements only. In addition to her work as a BDSM trainer, Mistress Eva also hosts the #teakink web series and SafeWord Podcast. She has also been featured high-profile media outlets such as VICE, Slutever, DAZED, Washington Post, Sinical Magazine and Kink Queens. To learn more, visit Eva-Oh.com Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What does the research say around why people want or choose non monogamy? How does someone know which relationship style is right for them? And what are some tips for folks who want to "open smarter"? We also read a testimonial from Dr. Shawn about how to navigate anal sex and hemorrhoids. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer passionate about elevating society’s conversation about sex and relationships. She was born and raised in Macedonia, a small country in Southeast Europe, where traditional gender and sexual norms clashed with her own alternative sexual desires and interests, and inspired her to pursue a career of understanding and helping sexually adventurous individuals and couples live authentic, healthy, and ethical lives. Dr. Zhana has a BA in psychology from the University of Saints Cyril and Methodius, and a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University where she studied how nontraditional sexual lifestyles (casual sex, nonmonogamy, and nonheterosexuality) affect psychological health and wellbeing. She currently teaches Human Sexuality courses at New York University, and hosts the global Uncensored conversation series. Her new online course, Open Smarter, helps people make smarter decisions about their relationship choices using their unique relationship personality. Join her weekly conversations on Instagram @DrZhana or visit DrZhana.com Other links: Pamper your vulva with Foria + get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/shameless OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Return guest Samia Burton joins us to talk all about how to up your blowjob game. She even covers topics such as how to strengthen the receiver's (penis-owner’s) orgasm, as well as how to prolong their erection. We also answer a sex question: My wife likes anal sex but I'm not into it. How can I learn to like it? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous MouthMasterclass, DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Last week Erik Everhard taught us all about how to have great anal sex from a penis-owner's/top's perspective, so this week we are coming in hot from a bottom's perspective (AKA the person being penetrated). Happy Anal August everyone! Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Return guest, author, coach, porn star and adult film director, Erik Everhard, joins us to teach us all about anal sex from a top's (the one doing the penetrating) perspective. Happy Anal August everyone! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading authority on sexual and mental techniques which can empower men and bring them success in the bedroom as well as in all other aspects of their lives. In addition to his wealth of practical knowledge, he holds a Masters level certification in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP). To learn more visit erikeverhard.com Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Tim Lagman is a certified sex educator with the American College of Sexologists International and pleasure advocate based in Toronto, Canada. He began his sexual journey through escorting where he worked with a number of clients from different backgrounds and all walks of life ranging from couples, individuals, poly relationships, and everything in between. Tim then went to study at Durham College where he received his diploma in Business Management specializing in the music industry and graduated with honors. In his free time, Tim likes to volunteer and give back to the community through outreach in Toronto’s LGBT scene providing sex education and harm reduction resources to the public. It is his mission in life to make sex fun and funny as he loves to make people laugh and believes in the curative powers of laughter. Sex is already a sensitive and touchy subject..."We might as well laugh at the fart noises!". To learn more visit sexedwithtim.com or follow Tim on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gayslutclown https://www.instagram.com/sexedwithtim Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gayslutclown Twitter: https://twitter.com/gayslutclown https://twitter.com/sexedwithtim Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gayslutclown

What makes a great lover? How can both couples and singles up their sexual mastery skills? Return guests and dream couple Erwan and Alicia answer all this and more. We also answer a sex question about kegel balls/vaginal beads. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more visit pleasurecourse.com or: Book your free Love Life Consultation with Alicia- text her school at 415 308 9580 OR click this link to set it up https://erwandavon.com/consult/ Sign up for The Pleasure Course, their 2 day online course where they dive deep into the Davon Method & the 5 key skills for a successful relationship: https://erwandavon.com/events/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Tune in for our favorite hot girl summer stories, plus tips on navigating breakups, single life, and how to live it up as your most badass single self this summer. Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get 20% off your delicious chilled summer wine game at DRINKBEV.com/SHAMELESS or use code SHAMELESS Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Why do folks continue to debate if the g-spot is a real thing? Does everyone have the potential to enjoy g-spot stimulation? What if someone is new to using sex toys for penetrative sex? And what's the deal with the new VDOM strap-on technology? We also answer a sex question: I'm jealous of the pleasure my wife gets from her vibrator. Oh, and we are giving away some FREE sex toys and lube! Tune in to find out how to win! About our guest: Glenise Kinard-Moore is the founder of SkiiMoo Tech and the creator of The VDOM. The VDOM is the first app-connected prosthetic genital device that can go from flaccid to erect at the push of a button. An information security consultant by profession and an ambitious tech creative at night; Glenise is a self-proclaimed tech nerd and she likes to say that her superpower is breaking apart many things to create new things. To learn more visit thevdom.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 2 for 1 of our favorite Willy Willy Hot Sauce at WillyWillyHotSauce.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Repeat guest and dear friend Dr. Nan Wise answers your sex questions about challenges with orgasm and pleasure. Never had an orgasm? Getting in your head during penetration? Or perhaps you orgasms just aren't what they used to be? Dr. Nan discusses all this while sharing applicable tips on how to bring more pleasure into your erotic world. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Is there an art to kissing? Does technique matter? What are the qualities of a really great kisser? And what usually gets in the way of great kissing (aka not so great kissing)? Repeat guest Darshana Avila answers all this and more including some great tips and techniques. We also answer a sex question: I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: “We are erotic by nature.” This is the foundation of everything that Darshana Avila shares, guiding women (and sometimes their partners, too) who are ready for radical intimacy in their lives to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness. She guides, mentors and coaches from the belief that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Darshana is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies and in alignment with their souls so they experience more ease and pleasure in all aspects of life. She has a private practice and also facilitates intimate group experiences. To learn more visit darshanaavila.com. Follow Darshana on IG at @eroticwholeness Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 20% off your delicious chilled summer wine game at DRINKBEV.com/SHAMELESS or use code SHAMELESS Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

What is romance really all about? Why do some people shy away from it? And how people can Americans learn a thing or two about romance from the French? We also answer a sex question: I want to experience pegging with my wife but how can I bring this up when she doesn't like talking about sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Guy Blaise is an author and Frenchman currently living and working in America. He lived in Eastern France and Paris, where he witnessed the dating experiences of the strong women in his family and listened closely to the advice his grandmother routinely gave them about love. After two decades of living in America and struck by the differences between two cultures’ approaches to romance and sex, Guy started writing books offering his insights and started The French Perspective blog. Learn more at thefrenchperspective.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 2 for 1 of our favorite Willy Willy Hot Sauce at WillyWillyHotSauce.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

What is sex work and why do a lot of sex workers love working in this field? What is the difference between escorting, stripping, prostitution, etc? And what are some awesome tips sex workers can teach non-sex worker folks about how to be sexy, seductive and in their power in the bedroom? We also answer a sex question about best ways to stay clean/hygenic in the bedroom. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. About our guest/s: Danica is a sarcastic, straightforward, sex-positive feminist with a passion for topics that some may consider “taboo.” Danica has a B.A in psychology, is a public speaker and university guest lecturer, host of her own sex work and sexuality podcast, is a devoted sex worker’s advocate and has a successful career as an exotic dancer - she knows some stuff! To learn more visit 50plusatip.com or listen to 50 Plus a Tip Podcast on your favorite podcast app. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 20% off your delicious chilled summer wine game at DRINKBEV.com/SHAMELESS or use code SHAMELESS Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

What does it mean to be transgender and non-binary? What are some of the current issues trans and non-binary folks are facing? And what are some tips for folks who are considering (or are already) transitioning? About our guest: Looking at Rae now, you’d never guess that they used to travel with their fundamentalist Southern Baptist parents doing missionary puppet shows. It wasn’t until Rae went to college at a small conservative school in Texas that they embraced what they’d always known deep down -- they’d never fit into the box expected of them by their parents. As Rae watched their friends attempt to navigate their emerging sexuality and identity in such an oppressive environment, they realized they wanted to spend their life helping LGBTQ folks live their best, most authentic life. Not long after undergrad, Rae came out as queer. While their family was unsupportive, Rae finally felt free. You see, their whole life, they felt like they were wearing a shoe that was one size too small. Embracing their identity as a transgender, non-binary person felt like finally putting on the right size shoe and being able to not just walk but run. But Rae didn’t stop there -- they created GenderFck: The Club so other transgender and non-binary people could feel that same freedom. As someone who grew up in the south, they know what it's like to not feel accepted by those around you and to not have the resources that folks in larger, urban communities do. Rae wanted to create something that made high-value support, information, and community available to those who may not normally have access to it. To learn more visit genderfck.club Rae’s reference list: https://www.genderfck.club/podcastresources Rae's social links: https://www.instagram.com/practicalaudacity/ https://www.facebook.com/practicalaudacity Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

What are non-ejaculatory orgasms and why would a penis-owner want to learn how to do this? How does it lead to more full bodied or multi-orgasmic experiences? And how might it increase intimacy and sexual connection between partners? Shasta and Ian share all this plus tips on how to master these techniques. We also answer a sex question about dating someone who has never had sex before. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Shasta Townsend and Ian Lavalley are best-selling authors, married, BIPOC sex and relationship experts and are leading a global love movement based in ancient eastern thought, Indigenous wisdom and cutting-edge science. Learn more at www.7starlove.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 2 for 1 of our favorite Willy Willy Hot Sauce at WillyWillyHotSauce.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast Come to Amy's Tantra In Motion Workshop at Daniel Mollner's Summer Solstice Campout: danielmollner.com

What are some of the obstacles folks with disabilities might have when it come to sex? What are some tips for folks with disabilities to have more pleasure in their lives? Kelly shares this as well as her favorite sex toys for folks with disabilities. About our guest: Kelly Gordon is a 32 year old entrepreneur and consultant based in the West Midlands, UK! She has Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 3 which is a genetic disability meaning for her, that she uses an electric wheelchair to get around. Kellys condition is progressive and has meant that she has faced loosing her ability throughout her life especially when her body faced big changes and challenges such as pregnancy. Kelly has two young sons, which is quite trying for any parent but absolutely loves parenting with her disability with help from her supportive partner Josh and her awesome team of PA’s! From a young age Kelly was outspoken and never let anyone dictate what her disability meant or allowed her to do this has seen her go through mainstream schools, get into a lot of trouble at college and ultimately push herself through many exciting and predominately male dominated industries. Kelly now works as a consultant which allows her to dedicate her time to projects that truly excite her and allows her also to manage her time to ensure she has sufficient time with her young sons. Kellys current projects span from recruitment to working for forward thinking sex toy brand Hot Octopuss. Kelly also works as a presenter and is the current host of Hot Octopuss’s brand podcast Pleasure Rebels, as well as this Kelly has also worked on projects for the BBC, Channel 4 and Virgin Media. Kelly also regularly appears in mainstream media throughout the UK discussing issues that disabled people face and advocating for other disabled people. Kelly has also co-founded the business "With Not For” with Emma Gardner. Kelly and Emma are working together on this project to not only get disabled people into work but to push disabled people into high paid and high power roles, ultimately getting them to boardroom level by embracing talent, confidence and reeducating big employers about the benefits of adding people with disabilities to their teams! To learn more visit hotoctopuss.com/pleasure-rebels

What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life). We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve About our guest: Pyasa is a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, Interdisciplinary Pelvic specialist, and sexological bodyworker. She mentors women and couples online, facilitates individual and group transformational retreats, and has been raising consciousness about the importance of sexual sovereignty as a public speaker on stages around the world. She is also the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook. Pyasa believes pleasure is our birthright as human beings and a powerful healing force. She is passionate about helping people unleash from the disempowered conditioning imposed by sex negative cultures which have distorted it’s original expression. She uses embodied learning, presence practices, pelvic/heart, and de-armoring techniques to support her students to take agency of their lives so they can bring their full-bodied presence into the world, enjoying life and all its pleasures. To learn more visit iampyasaunleashed.comhttps://www.instagram.com/iampyasa_unleashed https://iampyasaunleashed.com/costa-rica-womens-retreat/ Mention Shameless Sex Podcast & get $200 off tuition for the Sexual Healing Initiation & Celebration Retreat Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart. August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery. August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.org Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter. About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com. Use code MasturbationMay now through 5/31/21 for a discount Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast Come to Amy's Tantra In Motion Workshop at Daniel Mollner's Summer Solstice Campout: danielmollner.com

What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity? We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage. About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but discovered his feminine side 15 years ago. Over the past 15 years he has alternating with struggling with his desire and being proud of his femininity. Over the last 2 years he found the perfect woman who helped him understand that being a CD is just a part of his psyche and that he should be perfectly content with living a double life. He now is happy as an alpha male most of the time, but also proud of being the sissy crossdresser the rest of the time. Ms. Ava Durga discovered the fun of feminizing males in 2001, and has helped crossdressers, sissies, and bi-curious males achieve their potential at The Sissy Parlor in South Florida since 2017. She’s been a guiding force in helping them accept that their feminine side, often including the desire for receptive sexuality, is a key part of their psyche that they should embrace. To learn more visit https://circleofq.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast

Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit ManwhorePod.com/itunes Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast