Sex With Emily

Valentine's Day, commonly known as “Singles Awareness Day” for many Americans, is a day for laughter, tears, and double shots of whiskey. Emily answers important questions like, should you use your electric toothbrush as a vibrator? Why or why not? And what the hell should you do on V-day if you're single? Don't worry, you're going to have fun if you follow this advice. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily talks with pickup artist Brad P about how to approach women at a coffee shop... and end up doing it in the Starbucks bathroom. Brad P breaks down the biggest mistakes men make while hitting on women and how to have an edge over all those other "nice guys." Don't just ask her where she's from or what she does for a living. Here's what you should say if you really want to get some. Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners: free book reveals how to approach hot women, open up a conversation and create instant attraction. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A podcast on why it's great to be single or taken on Valentine's Day. It's a perfect night to go out and meet someone or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you're wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash in her Valentine. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tips and topics include: Cloning your willy, crooked penises, Christ for Kegels, the oral sex "chin trick," and the oral sex "screw trick." Emily goes on to teach people how to function during sex. Stare lovingly into your partner's eyes without looking psychotic, have loud, ravenous sex whenever possible, and remember to breathe (yes, people forget). Emily also explains what to do if someone stops functioning during sex. People have a better chance of having a heart attack during sex than most other activities. At least they'll die happily on top of you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A show on breast play, friends with benefits, dirty talk, and threesomes-- when they work and when they don't. Emily answers listener's questions: How long should you make out before going for the breasts? How long can you play with her breasts before it gets creepy? Do friends with benefits ever work? How do I talk dirty without offending her? And last but not least, can I have a threesome without completely destroying my relationship? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

ay Adult Film Star, lecturer, and writer Conner Habib talks about making gay porn and how it's changed the way he thinks about sex. Habib talks about how porn has made him less superficial about choosing mates. Once you have sex with all the conventionally attractive macho men, you start to realize who you're really attractive to.He also talks about how being good at sex is not the the same as being good at porn (although he assures Emily he's pretty good at sex too). Habib reveals the most searched porn term on the Internet and why straight women love gay porn so much. He also gives oral sex tips for performing on a man. After all, a gay porn star is going to know fellatio better than anyone else. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily discusses why women are simply better than men with television host, legal analyst, and best-selling author Dan Abrams. Abram uses research to invalidate sexist cliches about the differences between men and women in his book, Man Down: Proof Beyond a Reasonable Doubt That Women Are Better Cops, Drivers, Gamblers, Spies, World Leaders, Beer Tasters, Hedge Fund Managers, and Just About Everything Else. Emily corroborates Abrams findings while her co-host Menace is skeptical, wondering if Abrams just wrote the book to get laid. But Emily doesn't think Abrams needs to write a book celebrating women to do well with the ladies (she used to date Abrams herself). Contrary to popular opinion, Abrams argues why women are better at driving and making decisions. Men on the other hand are better at parking and getting hit by lightening. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Random acts of sex are a great way to brighten you and your partner's day. Emily presents a random mix of sex tips for men, including oral sex humming, side-to-side hip movements, and how to french kiss. She also tells men how to impress women without the help of their penis. Emily also answers listeners questions about hand jobs, asking someone out, and morning sex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’re not bad in bed because you don't have a huge penis that lasts forever. You’re bad in bed because-- you forget about foreplay, you don't know how to go down on them, you don’t go down on them enough, you have sex like a jackrabbit, you aren't thinking about their pleasure, or you're so scared of doing something wrong that you don't do anything at all. Listening to this podcast will make you great in bed. Or at least better than before. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to have great phone sex, from foreplay sexting to an orgasmic phone call finish. Emily personally demonstrates how to “sex up” your voice. Emily and her co-host Menace discuss how often men and women talk about who they’re sleeping with, and when you should stop telling everyone you know the intimate details of your sex life. Emily ends the show with a lesson on Kegels-- how to do your sexercises and why they will make you better in bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily gives tips for going down on her and tips for stimulating the clitoris during sex, because she wants women to have glorious, multiple orgasms. Emily describes how to do the "V finger technique" and discusses how to share your fantasies (even the really embarrassing ones). Emily and her sidekick Menace end the show with a heated debate on how often men should compliment women. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If your 2013 hasn't been full of mind-blowing sex and amazing relationships, this show help get you there. Emily discusses how to change your sex life in 2013 with powerful vibrators, sexercise, more foreplay, and lots more oral sex. Emily confesses what she wants to change about her sex life, and explains how to tell your partner exactly what you want in bed. Emily also talks sex trends in 2012 and answers listeners emails about irrational pregnancy fears, dating shy guys, and dealing with really big penises. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Greg Sherrell from Fernando and Greg in the Morning discusses gay dating in San Francisco. Greg reflects on growing up gay, from hiding his porn to telling his butch brother he prefers men. He also explains his shock at finding out his Dad's ex-wife was the lesbian soft ball coach. Greg breaks down dating, from the gym locker room to the club. Emily and Greg also talk about the differences between gay sex and straight sex, the Grindr obsession, amateur porn, double penetration, and orgasming without touching your penis. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex and relationship therapists Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel, authors of Cockfidence: The Extraordinary Lover's Guide To Being The Man You Want To Be And Driving Women Wild divulge the most crucial factors influencing sex in relationships as special guests in this episode. Emily and the women discuss passion, "faking it," and romantic encounters. Plus, how men can get more connected with selves. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily is your survival guide to being single for the holidays. How to embrace being single and why you should making a dating and/or relationship resolution for the New Years, like dating and sleeping with people you actually like. Happy holidays one and all! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Put on your spandex pants because Emily’s talking about sexercises and all the facts you need to know about sex. Emily reveals a new trend involving geography, sex, and smell. Then she gets into a slew of other topics, including: cheating, premarital sex, swinging, Kegels, oral sex, loss of desire, and Emily’s favorite phrase “Jack Rabbit Sex.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Emily talks about the differences between Los Angeles and San Francisco men. Her long standing “friend with benefits” relationship comes to a tidy end and Emily breaks down Menace’s love life. Also, vibrating panties and what to do when your partner has no style. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get turned on in this “quickie” episode as Emily interviews a female guest, “Hope” about her sexual exploits. Hope reveals her crazy first time sex experience, thoughts on younger versus older men, and the best position to orgasm. The women also discuss sex toys, fetishes, and a secret oral sex “chin trick.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In these two quickie episodes Emily interviews Pro-Dominatrix Sara Miller and also answers popular listener questions. Emily and her guest divulge about first sexual experiences, lesbian sex, orgasm differences, orgies, and ejaculation on command. Listener letters cover topics such as “perfect” dating tips, online profiles, semen landing, and hand jobs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honor of "No Shave November," Emily focuses on manscaping in this episode. Topics include: trimmings tips (not for Thanksgiving), pubic hair styles, "back pussy," vajazzle, and on-air bikini waxes. Emily addresses listener letters including a woman fallen for two men and cheating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily is back in San Francisco before heading off to Mexico for the Thanksgiving holiday. She made new friends at the Sex Summit -Ben and Jen Rode- who join her on air. Ben and Jen explain their Explosive Sexual Healing technique whichhelps women achieve half hour g-spot orgasms (this is the way to relax!). Listener letters include: addressing girlfriends who don't like receiving oral sex and crushes in the neighborhood. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ted Travelstead, Vanity Fair reporter and co-author of Sex: Our Bodies, Our Junk, joins Emily in this throwback episode. Emily and Ted discuss religion and sex, Betty White, the gag-reflex, and the New York City versus San Francisco dating scene. Also, how nice is too nice for a "nice guy"? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get dominated by Sarah Miller, Emily's sex school classmate who happens to be a Pro- Dominatrix. Emily talks about getting naked in class, BDSM, and breast orgasms (they really do exist). Emily also talks about sex, drugs, and alchol. For a follow-up lesson on BDSM, check out Sex Tips from a Dominatrix II. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're looking to snuggle up and reignite spark in your relationship, a Fall Staycation is a perfect way to spend time with you lover. Emily gives tips for planning a vacation in your bedroom. Emily also answers questions about male-female friendships, squirting, and Emily's favorite-- threesomes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honor of Halloween, Emily talks about scary bedroom encounters, from a one minute man to anal sex. Also, what to do when your hook-up leaves underwear behind, sex with your ex, and avoiding STI's during a threesome. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this throwback episode Emily talks about bushes, from George W. Bush to the 70’s hair down-there trend. She also discusses breast orgasms, bondage, and Black Swan girl-on-girl action. Also, just in time for Halloween, an Oregon couple gives out some sexual trick or treats--- “three musketeers or a condom anyone?” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily and Menace talking about going to first base-- tips from first dates and first kisses. Emily also answers listeners emails about swinging, gym fantasizing, and party etiquette. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In these two quickie episodes, Emily tells you how to get in on whether you're naked at the Harbin Hotsprings or on a cruise. She then describes how to pleasure women in bed, from foreplay to roleplay, with a little oral sex in between. The show comes to a strange end with Emily involved in a somewhat disturbing Fast food fantasy, dressed up as the Hamburgeler. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily's back in sex school getting her doctorate, learning about gigantic sex machines and how the penis evolved. After school gets out, Emily goes on the Jeff Probst show to give sex advice and answer some hard questions from the audience. One lady wants to know what do you do when your guy won't go down on you. Several husbands want to know how to get their wives to have sex with them. If your not getting any with your significant other, it might be time to play Emily's Sex Drive, her new iPhone application for couples. Emily will send you an envelope everyday with a sexual assignment (she's not the only one getting schooled in sex). Emily and Menace take the Sex Drive pledge and pretend to fulfill their sexual tasks, from going to a sex shop to dirty talk. Emily gives advice for how to mixup your sex life whether you like good ol' fashion vanilla sex or something a bit spicier. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily challenges you to go big or go home, and fantacize! From dirty talk to transcending the boundaries of your sex life, you need to liberate your lust. Emily's cohost Menace shares some intimate memories, prompting a discussion about men's fantasies. Emily also has a few dating tips for listeners who find themselves on the deep end of dating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On the “breast show” in support of National Breast Cancer month of October, Emily and Menace discuss ways that both women and men should not neglect the breasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's throwback episodes are all about YOU! We focus on listener emails that highlight problems people have with everything from stale sex and swinging to sexualizing strangers. Menace and Emily delve into the nitty gritty of monogamy, and rumors about San Francisco women being gold diggers. Menace's views on this matter may shock you. Or not, if you've listened to him for more than 5 minutes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today Emily helps out a male listener who's severely lacking in confidence, as well as one of his testicles. After returning from a 4th of July trip to Michigan, Emily starts pondering her single life. Good thing she has a "Group Sex" seminar coming up, even if it doesn't involve group sex. Menace takes on short-haired women and feels the wrath of San Francisco's ladies. Topics from listeners include the problems of asking girls out, handjobs, and sex with pregnant women. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily shares at least seven different types of orgasm’s for women (sorry gentleman). Oh the many orgasms yet to come! Emily gently, but not too gently, guides you through how to achieve orgasms, no matter if you prefer Combination or Blended, Multiple or Serial orgasms. Hopefully we can all agree that real orgasms are the best kind of orgasms, and fake ones don’t serve anyone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From pre-med to pornography, girl next door to sexy vixen, adult star Bree Olson talks openly about her sex life. Emily and Menace also talk about their sex lives, or lack their of. Menace wants to know how many sweaters Emily’s knitted during her Manatroium-- A hiatus from dating or even flirting with men. Menace is conducting an OkCupid experiment but isn’t having any luck finding prospective partners online. Emily answers listener’s emails about being too wet for sex, Hand Jobs, and strippers. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

mily discusses how to navigate your online relationship, from the first online dating message to the unfortunate “it’s not you, it’s me” email message. Emily explores the brave new digital world of dating, and questions whether it’s possible to “Liketerbate,” E-snoop, E-hump, and digital dump with at least some human decency. After all, emoticons cannot replace real human emotion. In other news, a man semen scientist actually thinks swallowing semen makes women smarter and happier, and people are actively trying not to orgasm during sex. Sounds like reverse psychology at it’s best. Emily answer listeners emails about what to do if they don’t call, having sex with your roommate, and giving yourself oral sex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily runs through a list of hot sex moves for guys, many of which are questionable in their hotness, even if they're well-intentioned. Menace gives some dating advice to a thirteen year old that doesn't go over too well. The pitfalls of married sex and libidos are discussed, and Emily is upset to find out the rather banal things married women want more than sex, like reading and sleeping. Emily is getting a lot more done on her man-atorium. Listeners have problems with terrible oral sex, breaking up, and dating single moms. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From earlobe nibbling to men in suits, golden showers to keeping your socks on during the deed, Emily reveals the top turn-ons and turn-offs for men and women. So read a book at a cafe, fix a lamp, and try to notice the little things that make your partner happy. Emily also answers listeners questions about Baby Mama drama, dating a pimp, first time anal sex advice, and masturbating after marriage. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily's friend encounters "the fatal move," the head push, and Emil and Menace discuss its merits. Emily and Menace share their pet peeves about the opposite sex - from talking to not picking up signals to playing corpse in bed. The Great Handjob Debate flares up, a listener looks for nonverbal cues to move foreplay ahead. Another listener considers a four year long-term relationship and Emily weighs the pros and cons of long-term Skype sex. Other topics include: having kids, sex toys, single parent dating, and celebrity sex addicts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily's inbox has been getting swamped with emails from virgins of all ages lately, so today's episode is dedicated to helping them join the coital club, laying out what they can expect and how they should enter this new stage in their love lives. Virgins' partners get advised too, to make their lovers' first times magical. Or, at least, less awkward than their own. Emily weighs attending Burning Man and Menace prepares for Wedding Season. A listener wonders how to find men into bondage. Another doesn't know how to ask out a waitress. A British couple is making everyone on earth throw them weddings, a new blog broadcasts creepy OkCupid come-ons, and Todd Akin thinks women have magic in their wombs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The sticky subject of ejaculation is covered in painstaking detail today by Emily, Menace, and their loyal, very opinionated listeners. From the where’s and why’s to the do’s and don’t, the coming and going of male climaxes are dissected and discussed. Emily’s friend asks her for a vacation sex starter kit. Emily shares a few threesome stories and Menace shares his travel plans and outlines his enthusiasm for Asian women. In technological news, future phones will be able to detect STD’s, and men’s scrotums are being roasted by their beloved laptops. A listener with a ponytailed husband shares her first (and according to Menace, inevitable) swinging experience, another takes on Emily’s diction, and “Female Viagra” is discussed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily and Menace discuss the last episode of Miss Advised and what really happened with her crush David in Napa. Emily gives the CEO of Masque: Sexual Flavors a phone call and solicits his oral expertise to pick the best fellatio tips from listeners. Be enthusiastic, pay attention to the tip, make eye contact, and use your hands. Oh and don't actually blow. Emily also answers listener emails about meeting people at bars, devirginizing men, and how to be more confident. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Celeste & Danielle, "sexological therapists," talk about how they coach people to better sex. They stress the importance of men getting involved in their lover's emotions, sexual spontaneity, avoiding rejection when talking about sex with your partner, the G-Spot, and their book, "Cockfidence." Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily talks about the ten most embarrassing sex questions she gets and how to be, well, less embarassed about them. While there are solutions to many sexual issues, people need to have a sense of humor about sex and expect some hiccups, and possibly queefs. Let go of body insecurity, fears of premature ejaculation, embrace your fetish, and take a little pride in your 'walk of shame.' Emily also talks about why you don't necessarily need to bring a date to a wedding, and having sex at a wedding (or in the parking lot outside the wedding). Also, Emily describes her experience as a guest on Watch What Happens with Andy Cohen. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily may have just dressed up five nights in a row for Halloween and Menace was nominated to be a Prom King, but don't worry, today's show is all about grown up topics. A rather young listener has trouble leaving a relationship and entering a new one, so Emily has some advice on how to break up. Menace starts a 30 day Starbucks challenge to "see what happens," so he might not be the best source of advice for making mature decisions. Luckily Emily is around to help some married listeners maintain their healthy sex life into their golden years. Ejaculation etiquette, oral sex, and orgasm issues with a girlfriend get discussed, and a listener has a hairy problem with his girlfriend. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you do if you like, "like" a friend? Emily works through the problem of a lovelorn, friend-zoned listener while she herself starts to date a longtime acquaintance. Do you perform "the reach" in a restaurant on your second date? Emily points out why you should - and don't worry, it won't get you thrown out. If your oral sex routine is getting a little yawn-worthy, Emily's got some oral sex tips to keep things exciting. Also, learn how to communicate about condoms, and how you can stop dating losers once and for all. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily is going to New York to hang out with Andy Cohen as a guest on Watch What Happens Live on the 23rd. Menace prepares Emily for the hard questions she's going to have to answer. Emily and Menace discuss relationships and how spending time apart from your boyfriend or girlfriend can be beneficial for your relationship. Emily breaks down the the top ten reasons people break up including the need to feel independent. It's important to remember that your partner doesn't posses you. Emily and Menace give advice about diets, body image, and reigniting the spark. Also, oral sex advice from guest Tasha Reign -vegetarian, social activist, free spirit, yoga enthusiast, and hardcore porn star. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily interviews Dr. Sarah Miller about her first sexual experiences, what she's learned about men by being a dominatrix, and other sex tips and tricks. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily interviews Captain Erotica - he saves relationships in a single bound and couples hire him to teach them have better sex lives. Emily also talks about her first sex party experience. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices