Sex With Emily

Are you a sexually confident woman... or man? If you aren't instantly seducing men and women with your piercing eyes and sly smile, this podcast is for you! I'm going to transform you into a Sex God(dess). First, I give advice to a woman who wants to try S&M (Sadomasochism). I'll teach you how to be the dominant or submissive, and how to talk to your partner about trying S&M. The next time you have tea and crumpets with your partner, I want you to look them in the eye and say, "bend me over the table and F*@% me." Or you can take a more subtle approach, explained in the podcast. You'll be tied up and spanked in no time! Next, I'll share how guys can keep an erection! Hint. It involves putting a ring on it. Make no mistake, marriage will not solve your sex problems, but a vibrating ring just might! The show ends with ten ways women can be more sexually confident. Here's a few tips, ladies: 1. You should dance naked in front of the mirror a lot. Learn to love your body. 2. If he doesn't want to see you naked, he wouldn't try and take your clothes off. He's having sex with you because he thinks you're attractive. Own it. 3. The more pleasure you experience during sex, the better you will be at sex. True confidence comes from focusing on your own sexual experience, and not just making sure he's satisfied. 4. Give him directions! Someone has to teach these guys what's what. If it doesn't work out between the two of you, you'll be doing the next woman he dates a favor. 5. Don't fake orgasms. A truly confident woman will genuinely express her pleasure. Make him keep trying until he gives you a real orgasm. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Questions answered: Are you bicurious? Should you give up your marriage because you aren’t having sex? What happens when his baby mama catches you having sex with him in his trailer? How do you date if you have social anxiety? Should you tell women they are beautiful when you first meet them? Why do some people seek relationships with people who are unobtainable? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I don't think you're having enough kinky sex. When I say kinky sex, I don't mean you have to do it chained to a spinning apparatus. I just think you should leave your bed once in a while and experiment. This podcast will show you how to have sex outside your comfort zone and try new things with your partner, from butt slapping to sex in the bar bathroom. Okay, maybe you should just start by having sex in your bathroom at home... then you'll be ready for some serious sexcapades. I'll show you how to have sex with your partner in a completely different way. You'll feel like you're doing it with a sexy stranger you met at a bar, and not your husband Bob or your wife Susan. I'll also show you how to sext like a romance novelist, without using the term quivering member (ew). How serious do you need to be with someone before you sext them? Rule of thumb: If they haven't seen you're penis yet, don't send them a picture of your penis. Also, how specific should you get with your sexting. What's better? I want to suck your c@*%, or I want to suck your c@*% under the desk? Once you learn how to sext and seduce your partner like a stranger in the night, I'll demonstrate how to talk dirty. Talking dirty means letting loose, which may make you feel uncomfortable initially. Find your dirty talk voice and stay away from clinical words like penis. If you want him to know that you like his pickle, tell him you like his c@*% (you know what I'm saying). I'll tell you how to get started and open up, so you don't feel incredibly awkward getting your dirty talk on. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Become charming and confident, even if you no idea what to say and have no confidence whatsoever. Jordan Harbinger is a lifestyle coach. He teaches men the art of charm (no natural charm required). He starts by identifying any situational confidence a man may or may not have. If a man is extremely confident in his work as a doctor, Jordan shows him how to channel that confidence into talking to women. Talking about your favorite band and alcoholic beverage of choice will become as easy as talking about scalpels and stethoscopes. Jordan explains how men can shift their body language to change how women perceive them. If a guy doesn’t have any situational confidence, they have to start from scratch. Men must unlearn all the negative things they think about dating and women. All that negativity is extremely unattractive and hinders men from having the relationships they want. Women can sense when a guy isn’t being genuine. If you want to attract women you have to find out what you bring to the table, and bring it! Jordan also talks about how men can deal with rejection. Some men would rather feel like a comfortable failure than put themselves out there. With low risk comes low reward. A word from the wise, don’t linger by the bar bathroom because you’re afraid to approach her when she’s with her friends. You don’t want to be the creepy guy lurking by the women’s bathroom. Just walk up to her and start a conversation (Jordan will tell you what to say). Once you get the number, Jordan tells you what to text her. Unless you want to be watching Men In Black II alone on a Saturday night, avoid “Hey, What’s Up?” He even tells you where to go on a date. Whatever you do, don’t go to a dinner and movie. To sum it up: what most men are doing, just isn’t working. Unless you want to be the creeper lingering by the bathroom, listen to this podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m giving tips for changing up your sex life. I’m going to turn you into a finger sucking, nipple pinching, penis rubbing, sex machine. Or at least I’ll inspire you to do something other than missionary position with reruns of 7th Heaven playing in the background. Do men like getting their nipples pinched? There’s only one way to find out. The next time you feel like pinching his cheeks, go straight for his nipples. nipple pinching Also, what if people were completely honest on their Match.com profiles? (BTW you go to Trymatch.com and get 7 days free. “Hi, I’m Emily. In my free time I like to organize my sex toys. Sometimes I like to organize them by color, and other time by size.” Would you date me? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The iconic Porn Star Nina Hartley talks about making porn, feminism, non-monogamy, and how to give a woman the perfect hand job (there is some light pulling and pinching involved). Nina Hartley also talks boldly about the butt. Nina says, “Butts are like cats. They have to be coaxed and seduced every time. They are moody and you can’t fool a butt into liking you, or feeling relaxed. Butts know when the thing touching them is paying attention, or being a jerk.” In other words, if you want to get down and dirty with anal sex, you must have open communication with your partner and feel genuinely comfortable with your butt (and what’s going on inside of it). While drunken anal sex might seem like the greatest thing in the world, it’s better to be fully aware of what is happening and be cognizant of hygiene rules. Before you even get to anal sex or intercourse for that matter, you need to find out what kind of relationships you’re looking for. Are you monogamous and looking for one mate, or are you non-monogamous and ready to land in more than one place? Nina talks about her sexual identity and how she embraced a non-monogamous lifestyle. When we're younger, we often make the same mistakes over and over again. Sleeping with people who don’t care about us, and getting in relationships with people who don’t want the same things as we do, and feeling guilty for having a love life that falls short of a romantic comedy. You have to figure out what works for you, and not anyone else. Some people enjoy random sex, other people don’t. Nina enjoys doing porn because she likes having sex with people without having to date them. Other people find that having sex with strangers makes them feel empty. Find out what kind of relationships makes you happy, and don’t look back. Finally, Nina Hartley gives descriptive directions on how to pleasure a woman with your hands. You’ll learn how to lightly pinch and pull her clitoris and make it move. Nina gives great foreplay tips, because unless she says, “do me right now you sexy beast,” you’re going to have to get her warmed up for sex. Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: Freak In The Sheets If you want to change your love life check out: Emily and Tony, Promescent,Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Emily and Tony is a premium, intimate personal-care brand that believes intimacy should be fun, flirty, sensual and natural. Our products: Aromatherapy Massage Candle, Personal Naturally Hydrating Lubricant, and DownUnder Comfort for you sweaty nether regions. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Things that I don’t tolerate and you shouldn’t either: cheaters, selfish lovers, and fake orgasms. Don’t fake orgasms! Don’t try to put on a sexy face and give a porn star moan when you don’t mean it. Instead of faking orgasms, find out how you can really enjoy sex. It helps if you have a tall, dark, and handsome companion, but you need to do the work on yourself to find out what feels good. Show him what you like, instead of putting on a show to satisfy his ego.How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? If you have to ask whether your boyfriend is a cheater or not, then he’s probably a cheater. I’ll show you how to know whether he’s a cheater or not, without going through his cell phone in the middle of the night.How much should you talk about sex on a date? As a sex expert, I probably talk about sex more than the average person. I can’t help bring up sex when I’m out on a date, but should you talk about sex on the first date? Also, what do you do about a selfish lover? If he’s not going down on you, what is the best plan of attack? Withhold oral sex from him? Steal his video game controls? Or maybe you should just communicate with your partner that you want oral sex? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

According to Loveline Host Mike Catherwood, real men give oral sex (if only all men shared Mike Catherwood's definition of a real men *sigh*). If you don't genuinely want to please women and you don't want to give them multiple orgasms, listen to another podcast! Real men: Don't become irrationally angry about their girlfriend's sexual history. Instead of obsessing about your partner's past sexual experiences, focus on making your present relationship pleasurable. Just like you've desired other women, they've desired other men. What matters now is that you desire and enjoy each other. Real men don't pound away like a jack hammer during sex. Real men follow Mike Catherwood's three amazing oral sex tips on women (they're good ladies!). Real men understand that sex isn't just about technique or how long you last, it's about having confidence and a good attitude (even if you orgasm in 15 seconds). Real men use vibrators during sex! Real men try to make sex interesting in long-term relationships. And finally, real men don't call women sluts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Female Ejaculation- it is intense and it is real. With your finger on her G-spot and your thumb on her clitoris, give her a crazy, squirting orgasm. I’ll tell you how to warm her up, find her G-spot, massage her G-spot, and pleasure her clitoris until she gets to the point of female ejaculation. Before I bequeath you with the secrets of female ejaculation, I give listeners advice on how to have the sex and relationships they want. I help: The guy who needs a new sex position. The husband who won’t stop inappropriately poking his wife. The woman who needs to dye her hair a crazy color and have more confidence. The guy who needs to get pegged with a strap-on. And of course, the woman who wants to squirt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Swingers Holli and Michael from Playboy Radio’s SWING share everything about living sexy— The swingers parties, dealing with jealousy, and of course the sex. Almost everyday someone asks me, "so what's the deal with swingers?" No, they don't all have ponytails, and they aren't all "crazy." Unless your definition of crazy is having open communication with your partner, and admitting that monogamy doesn't always work for you. Swingers put everything out in the open— they share their fantasies with their partner, ask for consent before trying to have with someone, and tell their partner everything. Swingers have so much trust in their relationships because there is nothing to hide. There is no cheating and lying. Although swingers are largely perceived as "crazy," they have some of the most realistic and unrepressed relationships I've ever seen. Even if you don't want partake in the Swingers lifestyle, there are a lot things people can learn from Swingers and people in open relationships. The great part about open relationships is that you get to create your own rules. You decide on things like, are you allowed to kiss another person? If you go sleep with someone, does that mean you spend the night? Setting up rules forces the couple to communicate about what they expect from the relationship. Enough about relationships, let's get to the sex. Holli and Michael give their best sex tips. Holli, a bisexual swinger, and Michael, who has gone down on A LOT of women, give advice on giving women oral sex. Michael even shares how he gives women multiple orgasms, because why limit yourself to only one orgasm? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm answering Sex With Emily listener's relationship questions, with a few sex questions sprinkled in for good measure. In this show, Menace and I debate the male and female perspective on people's most common relationship issues. We tell you when to move on from an unhealthy relationship and when to stop licking your wounds in a bad breakup. We also teach how to have courage to change, and have better relationships. Sex with Emily listener's Relationship Questions: When should you let down your guard and commit to someone? How many times do you try to make a relationship work before calling it quits? How do I get over the girl I'm still in love with? What do you do when you and lover can't agree on places to meet? Is is worth it to wait to have sex? When is the right time to lose your virginity? How many dates should you go on before having sex with someone? Why do women like giving double blow jobs so much? (someone has been watching a lot of porn.) Why does eating certain things make semen taste differently? Girls like the chase, right? But when is it an exciting pursuit and when is it stalking? When should the guy give up ? When is his pursuit cute and when is it creepy ? When should he fear a restraining order? (FYI. Throwing rocks at her window in the middle of the night isn't cute, unless you're a character in a teenage Romantic Comedy.) What do I do if I queef? (Hint: Do not run away screaming or hide under a rock) Sex isn't neat and tidy. It's messy, just like relationships. You can't run away the second you start feeling vulnerable or exposed. On the other hand, you shouldn't stay in a relationship because you think you'll be lost without it. Great change requires some personal struggle. The key to relationships is finding the right person to let yourself be vulnerable with, and having the courage to leave when things no longer fit. Oh, and try not to stalk anyone. As much as women like the idea of "the chase," we usually make time for people we are interested in. If you want to change your love life check out: Promescent, Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How does a porn star have sex when he's not on a porn set? Does he pump away for hours with his chiseled abs glistening with sweat? According to porn star Joey Ray, porn star sex isn't all it's cracked up to be. No one wants it to last that long, that hard. Porn focuses on performance, not pleasure. You might learn some fancy moves from porn, but you're not going to learn how to truly pleasure a woman. So, how do you please a woman? Ray is all about female pleasure. He talks about how to last the right amount of time during sex. Hint: It's about how long it takes her to orgasm. He also talks about how to find out what turns on different women. The same techniques don't work with every partner. You have to pay attention and really get to know her body, instead of obsessing about your own performance. The more you make sex about her, and the less you try to act like a porn star, the better the sex will be. The take home message: Have sex like a porn star, but only when they aren't having sex for the camera. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I get tons of sex questions in my inbox everyday. Trust me, everyone has their sex issues, from orgasming too soon to not orgasming at all. And let's be honest, you don't want to ask all your Facebook friends how you can go about losing your virginity (unless you get some takers). That's why I'm here to answer your biggest, most embarrassing, sex questions on my podcast. Sex Questions Answered Does penis size really matter? Is a big penis too much of a good thing? How do I brave his gargantuan penis? How do I prevent premature ejaculation, without having to picture the most disgusting thing possible? Why can't I get an erection? I'm pretty sure my sex drive is higher than everyone else's sex drive, what should I do? I don't want to have sex. What's wrong with me? I have a strange fetish, do I embrace it or try to hide it? (Well, it really depends on the fetish.) What do I do if I queef? (Hint: Do not run away screaming or hide under a rock). If you want to change your love life check out: Promescent, Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Anal Sex Month is here and I'm celebrating with a bunch of anal sex tips. If you're new to anal pleasure, this show will help you get comfortable with the idea of having something up your bum. Don't worry, it's not that scary. It's actually quite pleasurable if done correctly. Relaxation, lubrication, and communication are the three most important elements of anal sex. Although anal sex might not be the most peaceful activity, it will go a lot smoother if you move slowly and do it with someone you trust. If you think about it, there's perhaps nothing more intimate than letting someone inside your behind. So, why are men so obsessed with anal sex? Is it because it's taboo? Because it's an act of dominance? Or is it just because it feels good and guys love butts? Speaking of butts, the male G-spot is the prostate. It's about time guys start exploring their own anal pleasure. I'll tell you how. I also answer people's emails about getting over an affair and moving on when someone just isn't interested. Then I help a woman find her G-spot so she can potentially have orgasms in more than one way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's talk about how to please a man in bed, because I'm always talking about how to give women orgasms. I know that making a man orgasm isn't exactly Rocket Science, but women could be a lot more creative with his penis. I interviewed the author of Tickle His Pickle, Sadie Allison, on how to please his pickle AKA his penis. Allison was the girl in her friend group that taught all her girlfriends how to have their first orgasm. Then she showed them the ropes on how to please a man in bed. Allison discusses all of her special techniques on the penis, including: the sausage wrap, the pleasure tunnel, the old faithful, the twister, and the cigar roller. Luckily, she's already tested all these techniques on men. You don't have to find a penis and start cigar rolling and twisting it without knowing what to expect. Of course there are different strokes for different folks. Every man has different preferences. How do you know if he wants you to nibble his pickle if you don't ask? Being confident in bed doesn't necessarily mean knowing exactly what to do with his penis, and it certainly doesn't mean having the perfect body. Having confidence means having the courage to ask him what he likes in bed, and having the confidence to stand before him naked with the lights on (even if you hate your thighs). He wouldn't try and get you naked if he didn't want to see your body. Men are visual creatures. They want to see you do your thing. Flaunt your new moves. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you spanking, hair pulling, and nibbling your partner as much as you want? Or are you playing it safe, scared to reveal your true desires? Well, they probably don’t want to do it in the missionary position every single time either. Get some balls and talk to your partner about your sex life. Instead of proclaiming, “you don’t slap my butt enough” over tea and crumpets, have a casual conversation about sex. Calm down, take a deep breath, and share your desires with your partner. I’ll tell you exactly what to say if you want to have more adventurous sex with your lover(s). You’ll be spanking, hair pulling, and biting in no time. Also… You wish you went bowling with a bunch of porn stars Anthony Weiner needs to at least get his premature ejaculation under control (Promescent, anyone?) How to have rough sex without getting too rough (you want it to be sexy, not painful) How to talk about your fantasies with your partner without having the most awkward conversation of your life The point of this podcast is to step outside your comfort zone and start having the sex you and your partner really want. Have courage, stop worrying about every move you make in bed, and enjoy your sex life. You deserve it. If you want to change your love life check out: Promescent, Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, Good Vibrations, and Adam and Eve. Use coupon code Emily for 50% off anything at Adam and Eve + free shipping + 3 free DVDs + a free sexy gift. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I interviewed sex coaches Celeste and Danielle on how to have multiple orgasms. Because seriously who doesn't want to have multiple orgasms? If you want to give and receive multiple orgasms you have to work on your moves and your mental state. You can’t have one without the other, unless you’re one of those lucky women who orgasm while riding a bicycle. Many sexual problems stem from not telling your partner what you want. Sometimes you want to be cuddly and cute and other times you want to be tied up and spanked. Be blunt and communicate your desires. If you’re not sure how to say, “honey I want you to bend me over the kitchen table,” this podcast will help. Celeste and Danielle also talk about what it means to be a sexual person. Does it mean you have to think about sex all the time? Or you're more sexually open than other people? Most everyone is a sexual person. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re too sexual or not sexual enough. This podcast will help you unlearn social stigmas about sex and teach you how to be more honest about your desires. Also: Is it wrong to fantasize about someone else during sex? How do you seduce a woman? No, it does not necessarily involve lighting candles and soft music. How to throw a woman against a wall (in a sexy, not painful way.) How to get connected with your own desire And ten of my favorite sex tips. If you want to change your love life, check out: Promescent, Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, Good Vibrations, and Adam and Eve. Use coupon code Emily for 50% off anything at Adam and Eve + free shipping + 3 free DVDs + a free sexy gift. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Signs you need to spice up your sex life: Your idea of a great night is watching TV and then doing it in missionary position, you haven’t had oral sex since your birthday, you don’t remember the last time you had sex, and you’re pretty sure the best sex of your life happened a long, long time ago. Well, don't despair, sex can get better over time. You can reignite the spark in your relationship if you’re proactive about your sex life. Your relationship isn’t going to magically transform overnight. You’re not going to suddenly do it in a public restroom (unless you schedule it on your Google Calendar.) Emily tells you everything you need to do to have more exciting sex, more often. Get a box delivered every month from Spicy Subscriptions with fun sex toys and goodies to spice up your sex life. Or go skydiving with your partner to get your adrenaline up. Okay maybe you don't have to jump out of a plane, but at least go to the gym with your partner. Emily also shares the best sex position for the female orgasm. Hint: She's not going to be suspended in the air in a pretzel. Plus, what can men do to prevent premature ejaculation? No guy wants to be compared to Anthony Weiner right now. If you want to reignite the spark in your relationship, use coupon code "Emily" at checkout to receive a Free Deluxe Toy and 5% off your order at Spicy Subscriptions. Try out a 4 or 8 month subscription, which I highly recommend, you’ll get a Free Deluxe Toy + your first Spice Box for free. Spicy Subscriptions will make reigniting the spark in your relationship so much easier. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A show on foreplay tips and getting married. Because nothing says commitment more than waiting a whole half hour before trying to take their clothes off. Emily interviews Alex Wellen, the author of LoveSick. Alex addresses the question, why don’t men want to tie the knot? Is it the daunting divorce rates or are they just scared of commitment? Emily and Alex discuss whether monogamy is even compatible with human nature. Do we really just want to get it on with everyone? People call into the show and ask Emily and Alex questions about marriage and sex. When are you really ready to settle down? What is up with America’s obsession with getting married and then getting divorced? How do you know if you’re single or in a relationship for the right reasons? Is your relationship doomed if you do it on the first date? Emily gives foreplay tips to improve your sex life. Even if you want to get right to the sex, women need foreplay. Your chances of sleeping with her again will increase dramatically if you play by our rules. Emily talks about how to pleasure every inch of his or her body, from their ankles to their earlobes. Also, is anyone up for naked twister? Emily talks about fun sex games you can play to spice up your love life. Maybe they’ll finally play Monopoly with you if you promise them oral sex afterwards. Special Offer for Sex with Emily: Foreplay Tips Listeners If you want to change your love life, check out my good friends: Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, Good Vibrations, and Adam and Eve. Use coupon code Emily for 50% off anything at Adam and Eve + free shipping + 3 free DVDs + a free sexy gift. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily gets up close and personal with The Vagina Lady. What’s the Vagina Lady's mission? To help women overcome any shame they experience for having a vagina. Women are extremely self-conscious about their, um, lady parts. They're so ashamed they don't even want to say the word vagina! But vaginas are awesome for so many reasons. I mean, they have about twice as many nerve endings as the penis. So the next time you feel like vaginas are the inferior genitals, just think about that! This podcast is important to listen to no matter if you have a vagina or not. Many men feed into women's insecurities by making them feel like they don't measure up. Women get Labiaplasty to fit a certain standard of beauty perpetuated by porn. But every woman's vagina is different and fine just the way it is. But if you do want to improve your vagina, do your Kegels! Emily and the Vagina Lady walk you through how to do your Kegel Exercises to feel tighter and healthier down their. Men can also do their Kegels to last longer during sex! Emily also asks the Vagina Lady, "If a man could ask a vagina a question, what would it be?. Also, "if a woman could ask her vagina a question what would it be"? All your vagina questions answered in the podcast! Listen up and love your junk. Special Offer for Sex with Emily: The Vagina Lady Listeners If you want to change your love life, check out my good friends: Crazy Girl, Max4men, Masque, and Good Vibrations, and Adam and Eve. Use coupon code Emily for 50% off anything at Adam and Eve + free shipping + 3 free DVDs + a free sexy gift. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl or Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Enjoy, The Vagina Lady! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily shows you how to tell his or her endearing flaws from dating deal breakers. It's easy to ignore the red flags and dating deal breakers when you're sipping on a Margarita and someone sexy is telling you about their summer villa. But the fact that they just got out and/or prison or keep staring at that bosom of the woman in the corner, is probably not a good sign for your future together. You're not going to be able to change anyone. People have to want to change on their own first. The only one you can change is yourself, so start by NOT making these dating deal breakers and dodging the one's that do make these mistakes! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily explains how to navigate through all the online dating lies out there! If he seems too good to be true, he just might be. He's probably not as rich, handsome, tall and dapper as his profile suggests. Here's how to tell the online dating lies from the truth. Also, how to create your own amazing online profile without telling any online dating lies. Can men and women really be friends? Should you ever talk about your ex? Should you send a naked photo to someone? Do men care about lingerie? Or do they just want to see you naked? Are hand jobs really that bad? And when is it time to pick up a hobby other than masturbation? Special offer for my listeners of Online Dating Lies If you are interested in discovering online dating lies and want to change your love life, check out my good friends at Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Enjoy, Online Dating Lies! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The time has come to stop ignoring the balls! Emily shows you how to gently and lovingly caress him. Here's what you should and shouldn't do with the family jewels. Also, how to expand your sexual boundaries by pleasuring his taint! If you are interested in the family jewels and you want to change your love life, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. And, even more savings today: use code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. I'm always thinking of ways to make your sex life better so use these codes today. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Almost everyone is orgasm obsessed. But it's hard to enjoy everything else when all you're thinking about is getting to that wonderful feeling at the end. It's all about the journey! Stop obsessing about orgasms! Calm down, slow down and listen to these tips on how to enjoy sex more and yes, learn how to experience orgasms all around. Also, how long do you have to make out with her before you can touch her vagina? If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to give a woman an orgasm, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. And, even more savings today: use code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. I'm always thinking of ways to make your sex life better so use these codes today. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You have about 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be this way. It's not just something you're born with! If you didn't come out of the womb a complete stud you can still learn how to attract women! If you want to know exactly what to say, check out a free video of Jason demonstrating his deadliest pick-up line. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The sun is shining, the flowers are blooming, and you’re getting it on in the backyard. Emily talks about having sex outside, whether you want to get down in the public bathroom or at the beach. Good luck not getting sand or dirt in your junk once you get off the beaten path! Emily talks about women who want sex more than men, because that actually happens all the time! Forget all the stereotypes about women not wanting sex. Also, how to keep an erection and how to get rid of your crazy ex. If you want to change your love life and are interested in backyard sex, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It might have happened once, but how do you have sex again? Emily asnwers the question: Why isn't she having sex with you anymore? Is it the teddy bear collection? Or is the sex just boring? Find out on today’s show. Emily also talks about how to keep the fire alive while living together and how to fight the urge to cheat. If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to have sex again, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Forget gluttony, sloth, and lust, if there’s seven things to avoid, it’s the seven deadly dating personalities. Emily shows you how to avoid cringeworthy dates. Also, why Emily goes stag to weddings, how women set the price of sex, sperm facts, and if sexting can make you a sex offender. Emily discusses why it’s riskier to send your man to a wedding than a bachelor party, fun tips for sex during pregnancy, the basics of tantric sex, and why we date people like our parents. Finally, as a big gift to the listeners, Emily demonstrates her best phone sex. If you want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's time to play with breasts like a grown up (motor-boating being an often fun exception). Emily breaks down the do's and don'ts of playing with the breasts. Don't twist her nipples, slap her breasts, or jiggle them, unless that's what she wants. Why does this matter? If you do touch them the right way she could have a breast orgasm.Emily also analyzes emotionally detached men and gives advice to a virgin in need of some loving. Emily talks about how to get out of your shell and start meeting potential mates. If you're interested in breast orgasms and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you know if someone wants your babies or if they just want to do it? Emily talks about casual relationships and the resurfacing guy or girl. You know, that one elusive guy/girl that texts you "Hey" out of the blue. How to change your expectations and come out on top in all your relationships. Then there's the guy who doesn't understand why his girlfriend doesn't explode with orgasms after a couple of thrusts. Women need clitoral stimulation and this podcast will show you how to give her what she needs! If you're interested in casual relationships and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It doesn't matter how big your penis is or how long you can last, if you don't know how to move those hips during sex! Emily shows you how to shallow thrust, swivel, and screw. Next, Emily explores some common questions from listeners: Is sex with a virgin hot? Does masturbation inhibit your ability to orgasm with your partner? Is 69ing too much work? And is paying for sex ever okay? Also, Emily reveals the “chin trick” for giving women amazing oral sex. If you're interested in learning how to move during sex and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ease into teasing. Make sex a hundred times more satisfying by building up the tension until you can't stand it anymore. Emily shows you how to tease and please your partner. It's not a bad thing if they're begging you to do them already! Also, a criminal way to dispose of penises, erectile dysfunction drugs, Hitler’s connection to sex dolls, and Mormon soaking sex. If you're interested in learning how to tease and please and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this "best of" episode, Emily navigates you through your love life from first date to the post-orgasm experience. She talks about the most popular dating ideas, a mathematical equation for good sex, and why some people black out from orgasms. Emily also shares the best and worst things to do right after sex. Why do women want to cuddle and guys just want to sleep post-orgasm? Emily asks everyone she knows the best sex tips they've ever given or received. Then she offers her own two cents on the best sex tips. If you're interested in learning the best sex tips and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People are always asking Emily, “how do I get my wife to have sex with me?” Emily shares how to reignite the spark in your relationship (I hope you’re good at poll dancing!)... Emily and her cohost Menace discuss Facebook etiquette after a breakup and why self-love is the most important thing for your life (masturbation and loving yourself). Emily ends the show by breaking down the biggest dating mistakes people make, from talking about your past sexual partners to hooking up with a sibling of someone you dated. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Missionary position is anything but mundane when her legs are flailing in the air and his penis is hitting all the right places. Emily breaks down variations of missionary to turn the ordinary position into an orgasmic position.Emily also shares secrets for picking up women in bars (none of them include buying her a drink right off the bat).Also, penis rings with spikes, glow in the dark condoms, and the Viagra condom.If you're interested in good clean sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl.Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I know you probably don't need a month to remind you to masturbate. But May is masturbation month! In honor of self-love, Emily tells you how to masturbate in way that actually makes you better at sex. Emily keeps on getting emails from women who aren't orgasming during sex! They have no problem getting it done on their own but can't get there with their partner. Emily shows you how to have an amazing orgasm whether you're on your own or sharing the love. If you're interested in good clean sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One of the biggest turn-offs for both men and women is poor hygiene. Emily shows you how to get squeaky-clean before getting dirty.Then she talks about threesomes cheating, and female ejaculation, and how to acquire a taste for semen. Things get messy in sex, but it's better if you start off with good breath, clean body, and good taste.If you're interested in the hip moves and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl.Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are three types of wing women: the matchmaker, the introducer, and the reconnaissance woman. Emily tells you how to be all three and how to use your friends to get dates (and get laid). Men need to get comfortable talking to women. Don’t put her on a pedestal, rather talk to her like a real person and friend. Emily and her cohost Menace talk about the easiest conversation starters.If you're interested in wing women and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily instructs listeners on the hip moves to be better in bed, whether you like to shallow thrust, swivel, or screw. Instead of the old in-out, Emily offers alternative hip movements to help men and women get their pleasure groove on. As Shakira puts it, “hips don’t lie.” And we’re fairly certain Shakira is good in the sack. As the show moves along, listener’s get oral with their questions, wondering if women also do the dreaded head-push and why some men refuse to reciprocate oral sex. Also, listeners want to know if it’s normal to be attracted to older women and enjoy a Golden Shower. When it comes to sex and relationships nothing is “normal.” People just have different preferences. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everything in sex comes down to confidence. Sex is awkward. Two naked bodies with pubes and protruding flesh, bouncing around and making strange noises. Not to mention, finding someone to bounce around with can be even harder. Emily breaks down how to be confident: what you should say when you meet someone, how to always avoid the friend zone, and how to get back in the game. If you're interested in how to be confident and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily interviews Marni Wing Girl on how to get the girl. You don't have to be really good looking, have an expensive car, or be in a band. But you do need to know how to talk to women. Marni tells you what to say and what not to say when talking to women. She breaks down her Wing Girl Method: observe, share, and then ask questions. No women wants to be interrogated while she's sipping on a vodka tonic. Marni teaches how to approach her and give her a feel for who you really are. Women actually love nice guys, they just aren't drooling over wimps and push-overs. Marni explains how to take action, get out of the friend zone, and get the girl already! Want to learn more about Marni's Wing Girl Method that will help you get smart, beautiful women? Click here to watch Marni's video How To Talk To Women And Make Them Attracted To You. Put in your email and enjoy the video! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Press record, have sex, watch, delete, and repeat. Emily talks about how to make a sex video, no matter if you're directing a Star Wars porno or just want to watch yourself do it. Emily, talks about three important elements in a sex video: lighting, lingerie, and letting go (maybe with a little liquid courage). Emily even shares how she wants her own sex video to unwind. If you're interested in making a sex tape or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just because it's casual sex, doesn't mean it has to be bad sex. Emily talks about one night stands-- the excitement, build up, and anticlimactic finish. Emily shows you how to have casual sex that won't disappoint.Emily also talks about how to tell if someone is looking for a one night stand or a relationship, because sometimes it's hard to tell when the champagne is flowing.Also, how to get a power back in your relationship, little penises, and asking out a friend.If you're interested in casual sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Forget the whips and assless leather chaps, Emily is breaking down the basics of bondage. Make them beg for it. Tie them up, tease them, and then give them incredible oral sex with Emily's ice cube trick. If you're interested in trying out bondage or improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations.Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do nice guys always finish last? Not in bed at least. Always try to make her orgasm first, especially if you're calling yourself a "nice guy." Why do people stay in bad relationships? Emily explains why you should never date someone and expect them to change. Emily shares how to reject people without busting out a knife and stabbing them in the heart. Also, having sex in a freezer, sex with your ex, slump busters, whip cream, road head at a car wash, and falling asleep mid-ejaculation. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longer has the paid Friends with Benefits program because she wants everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When an Adult Film Star is sexually frustrated, you know there's a problem with how men are doing it, or should I say not doing it? Adult Star Krista Ayne has created a program where she actually shows men how she and other women want to have sex. Her female friend helps her demonstrate.She starts with kissing, works her way down to her erogenous zones, and even teaches you the right technique for cunnilingus. Then she shows how to have sex in 50 different positions. You can take an ordinary sex position and turn it into an orgasmic sex position, just by slightly moving her legs or moving your pelvis. Krista Ayne shows you how to do it with her Fantasy Lover Formula. Check out this free video all about turning her fantasies into a reality. Warning: This video contains adult content. NSFW. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a spitter, swallower, or avoider? Michael Guilfoyle, Oral Sex Specialist and President of Masque: Sexual Flavors talks about semen. Michael explains how men can taste better so their partner enjoys giving it more. Emily breaks down how to get more oral sex, because it's kind of the greatest thing in the world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily tells you where to orgasm because some men have no ejaculation etiquette. Now that you know where to orgasm, you just have to find someone to orgasm with... Emily talks about whether you should stalk your date on Facebook before going on a date. Also, rejection can ironically help you get a date. Nothing horrible is going to happen because you got turned down, except you don't get any action tonight. Emily tells you how to get some tomorrow. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longer has the paid Friends with Benefits program because she wants everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Man's biggest fear: do I last long enough in bed? Well, if your partner has an orgasm in one minute it might not matter if you're a minute man. But let's be honest, that's probably not going to happen... Emily breaks down how to last longer in bed including pre-gaming, exercising your PC muscles, not having sex like a machine gun. And if all else fails, how to give her amazing oral sex.Emily explains how to be real with people you want to sleep with and why the last thing you should do is put them on a pedestal. Also, how to stop obsessing and get over your ex already!Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Emily actually commits to someone for 30 days, she plans on doing the 30 Day Sex Challenge. For 30 days you have to have try something new with your partner in bed. If you're not sure what the hell to do for 30 days, that's what Emily's Sex Drive app is for. Emily talks about how to tell your partner what you want, how to open up on dates and why you should never be too clingy. Also, Emily talks about dating men with ponytails, dating Jewish men, orgasmic monks and Kurt Cobain’s penis. Sex with Emily is a free podcast. Emily no longer has the paid Friends with Benefits program because she wants everyone to enjoy Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices