Sex With Emily

On today’s show Emily sits down with Garren James, the founder of Cowboys4Angels.com, the male escort service for straight women. The service has become so successful that Showtime’s hit series Gigolo is based on his business. Why would women pay for a date with a hot, hunky, educated man? The service is for straight, successful, busy women who are looking for the “boyfriend experience” on their time and their terms. Garren explains that it’s not about sex, it’s about companionship with a man who knows exactly how to treat a woman right. But what do these men have to offer that other men can’t seem to provide? The escorts know how to treat a woman right by providing companionship, excitement, and most of all making her feel beautiful and desired. The escorts must have swagger, education, good looks, and preternatural charm. Garren divulges tips for all men who want to become the object of every woman’s fantasy. They discuss what Garren looks for in his employees, right down to the grooming tips and etiquette. As the conversation grows, Garren comes up with an interesting proposition for Emily. Check out the show to find out more! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s podcast, Emily answers your most pressing questions about the benefits of masturbation, tips for first time anal sex, and how to deal with the anxiety when you’re with a more experienced lover. May is masturbation month! Make sure you celebrate as often as possible, Emily reviews ways to exercise your PC muscles by doing Kegel exercises (Kegel Camp app will help you) while you masturbate to help you have better sex. You’re really going to get to know yourself this month if you take time to explore your body even more. Having trouble talking to your partner about sex? Emily explains how to start the conversation with your partner so you can ask for what you want in the bedroom and find out what your partner needs. Ready to try something new? Or are you looking for tips on an old favorite? Emily and Anderson of the The Film Vault podcast discuss some great tips on how to successfully enjoy the pleasures of anal sex. Please send all your sex and relationship questions to [email protected] Also take our ten second Survey, just click on the banner over to the right of our page. Even better Sex with Emily is just a click away. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Kelly Shibari, the BBW Performer of the Year and Penthouse Forum’s first-ever plus-size cover model, joins Emily to talk squirting, her secret blowjob tips and the history of Shibari- the ancient Japanese art of rope bondage. Emily interviews this media producer turned groundbreaking porn superstar about what it’s like to be the only plus-sized Fleshlight model, tentacle porn and who her favorite erotica writer is. Learn why Emily loves bondage tape and how having a false eyelash fall off mid-scene taught Kelly about body confidence and what men really crave when they’re watching porn! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Emily and her, Anderson of The Film Vault podcast and technical producer for Loveline, get into mismatched libidos, masturbation and manscaping! Emily and Anderson discuss exactly what kind of person keeps a “sex list” and whether or not being attractive means you’re bad at giving oral. Emily also talks about why it’s important to have sex as often as possible in a longterm relationship- even if you have to pencil it in. Emily also lets us in on an unexpected flower delivery from a secret admirer. She loved getting her bouquet of fresh Lilies and Orchids- wanna do the same for someone you care about? Check out The Bouqs and use promo code EMILY for 20% off. Emily and Anderson give advice to a 24 year old virgin and even talk about Anderson’s first time. Later, they discuss why everyone should try mutual masturbation and Emily reviews the importance of lube with erotic electro stimulation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily’s guest tonight is comedian Erik Griffin from Comedy Central’s show Workaholics. Emily and Erik talk about the reality of digital dating today. They discuss the art of flirting on the Tinder dating app, sex myths, mismatched libidos and women that “collect men like comic books.” They also debate whether or not sex is the most important thing in a relationship. The talk about “Friends with Benefits,” relationships, the importance of communication in bed and the thrill of pleasing your partner. They discuss turning your insecurities into swagger as well as why being hot isn’t all that matters when you’re looking for the perfect partner! Emily and Erik answer emails from listeners and give advice to a woman who has trouble orgasming during sex and hilariously reveal why communication is the ultimate lubrication! Emily gives Erik advice on how to get one step closer to getting the perfect blowjob (apparently he hasn’t one yet) and even motivates him to adjust his Tinder settings. Dating a bit older might get him just want he needs in the bedroom. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily’s guest is Lisa Ann, the most popular porn star in the world 2 years in a row according to the New York Post. Why is she so famous? You might recognize her as the star of the hit porn parody, Nailin’ Palin or because she’s been voted the hottest MILF porn star and the #1 Fleshlight by AVN. They discuss why the MILF trend is so popular, how secret trick for mentally preparing for porn scenes and her own psychology for dating. Lisa Ann gives her top tips for performing oral sex on a man and a woman and answers sex questions from callers including how to go about anal for the first time, how do deal with a large penis, her favorite sex toys, the craziest place she's had sex and how it feels to get her ass licked. Also, can porn help couples? Listen in for all the amazing tricks and tips. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tonight on the Sex WIth Emily show former pornstar and best-selling author Shy Love, gives her best oral sex tips for men and women, shares the ingredients for a successful marriage and offers some interesting tactics on how to approach women including the “casual pick-up.” Emily also gets the ex-pornstar to reveal what good sex really is and the real importance of foreplay. Then the esteemed Dr. Lawrence Levine, a lead contributor to the study of male sexual dysfunction, joins the show to talk about premature ejaculation, a condition gaining spotlight as it’s three times more common than erectile dysfunction. Dr. Levine shares some amazing breakthroughs in science for men with want to last longer in bed. Emily offers suggestions for women on how talk to their partners about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction as many men have a hard time improving sexual performance on their own. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily answers emails from listeners with topics including: sexy vs. slutty, friend zoning, Kegel exercises and fetishes. Menace grills Emily for slacking on pop culture. Emily breaks down what Gwyneth Paltrow meant when she described her split as "conscious uncoupling". Menace questions the audience on dealing with dating celebrities and their famous Ex's. Emily recaps her live, in-studio date from the popular dating app Tinder. Emily confesses how she avoids talking about sex on the first date and the question, "What do you do for a living?". In sex in the news, a mother in Japan dresses as Mickey Mouse to find son a wife. In fashion, Menace questions Emily how far she would go for a loved one. The strapping gentlemen from Thunder From Down Under thwart an armed criminal in their dressing room. In listener emails, a young girl questions what a slut is and how Emily Nicedefines the beauty in sex and opens the floor for the duo to discuss what they find sexy, slutty and enduring in partners. Another newly divorced listener is troubled by his dates who don't want to have sex with him because he's "the nicest guy in the room". Menace and Emily give their advice on how to get him out of the "friend zone" and get busy with his dates. A listener has completed Emily's Kegel Camp app with great results and has questions on how to extend the workout to further his crazy orgasms! Emily gets a question from a man who has a foot fetish that is important in relationships to him and wonders how he can get his new girlfriend to join in some tickling fun. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Emily breaks down Dealbreakers, what they are and how to avoid them. Emily and Menace catch up starting with sharing their stories from Las Vegas in anticipation for Emily's upcoming sex toy show. Emily's listeners rave about the Fleshlight - yes there are amazing sex toys for guys. In sex in the news, a golf tee in butt stunt goes wrong for a playboy model. A new walk of shame kit saves women from humiliation from the stride of pride or maybe sets a man up to deal with those rough "morning afters". A listener writes to Emily with crippling pain during sex which could spurn from anti-depressants. Another listener's wife is completely uncomfortable discussing sex or her low libido regardless of the man's extensive efforts. The duo get into the show topic Dealbreakers: the fatal flaw. What are common deal breakers people experience everyday? What really should be considered dealbreakers? Emily talks about supposed dealbreakers that can actually be resolved. Emily and Menace discuss the type of dealbreakers they've experienced and what traits of theirs might be seen as dealbreakers to their past and future partners. Finally, Emily lays down her big tips on how to avoid dropping a deal breaker on your next date. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Her first interview in 3 years, award-winning pornstar, Jenna Haze comes into the studio to give you an inside look on the makings of the porn legend. Emily gets into the past and personal parts of Jenna's life. Jenna tells the story of how she lost her virginity. Have you ever wanted to experience Jenna? Fleshlight molded Jenna's intimate parts and Jenna's excited to share it with you! Emily and Jenna take calls from listeners asking about what Jenna's up to now, Jenna's new website, how to get your girl into getting oral, how she kept up relationships while doing porn, what Jenna considers great sex. Jenna talks about what working in porn is like when the camera's not rolling. How to give a woman give oral is explored and Jenna gives her personal tips. Jenna gets into the details of how she gives her best blowjob and how she keeps things interesting in relationships. Listen to the show to find out how to win Jenna's famous Fleshlight! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We've all been placed in the dreaded "Friend Zone', but consider this your last time. This weeks show is about how to get out of the Friend Zone, because let's face it, you'd rather be lovers than BFF's. Emily and Menace give tips about how to create distance, confidence and how to let her or him know that it's a date not a hang out. Menace talks about his time spent in the friend zone and how he got out of it. Emily and Menace don't miss San Francisco that much, and the share the perks and pitfalls of their nee Los Angeles location. They update the sex in the news with topics about Robin Thick and T.I.'s marriage scandals, "The Real Housewives" criminal charges, what happens when you sue your prostitute, how "Teen Mom" is a great birth control for the younger generation, and the real dangers of having a cellphone (and the rules Menace has to protect himself). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily's been spotted on the popular Tinder dating app. The app is all the rage as you swipe left of right to "like" or "reject" a prospect. If they like you too, it's a match. Some call it 'the hook up' app and yet others have found true love. Too busy with work, yet always with her iPhone Emily joins the app and brings in her Tinder date to the studio for the first live date ever during the podcast. Anderson comes up with a code phrase in case the date's a bust. Her date, "Chad", isn't afraid to get into his past, voice his opinion (about everything....) and give Emily a hard time. The two get into marriage, why relationships fail and sex as you age. Chad reveals secrets about his past and Emily shares her dating patterns. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Menace is Back! Emily and Menace are back together in the studio and happy to be in Los Angeles. Emily answers listener emails including questions regarding mismatched libidos - what to do when your partner wants more sex than you, a man who has trouble with older women, and trying to speed up the pace of a relationship- good or bad idea? Tinder is the dating app (some say it's a hook-up app) and Emily has been spotted on it! They talk about the rules of the explosive new app. Menace opens up about his secret 3 year relationship and claims Emily knew her once upon a time... Emily and Menace talk about kids and marriage. Menace has something stuck in his penis and the hospital has to take it out (Get ready to cringe!). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

English professor turned gay pornstar, Conor Habib, visits the Sex With Emily show to celebrate Steak and Blow Job Day with tips on how to give the best blow job and overall insights on how to be a great lover. Conor tells us about his first gay experience on and off set. They talk about the rise in anal sex in college co eds. Conor talks about his petition against censorship in the popular app Vine (is Twitter next?). The scientfic hoax behind masterbation shame is revealed. Conor interjects in the circumsised debate by describing how he's got "the best of both worlds". The duo wraps up with Los Angeles vs. San Francisco dating scenes and the biggest (and surprising!) drug found on porn sets. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're still figuring out how to flirt, you're not alone. WingGirl Marni Kinrys and Comedian Kristen Carney from the Ask Women Podcast join me on this podcast episode to breakdown the art of flirting. Marni is a professional wing girl- she teaches men how to flirt and start successful relationships. She reveals secrets from her Wing Girl Method, which will make women want you. Kristen is a professional sketch comedienne, actress and host whose work has apperead on Comedy Central, Funny or Die, TLC and her new YouTube channel: See You Next Tues Comedy. So many men fall into the dreaded "Friend Zone" because they're nervous and will agree with everything women say instead of setting themselves apart as an interesting person. Don't be afraid to challenge women's viewpoints. Speak up when you have an opinion. After all, it's not called witty banter for nothing. Most women truly value personality more than looks. A conventionally unattractive man can become sexy with a great personality and confidence. You'll learn how to show a woman the best version of yourself on this show. This podcast isn't just for the men, Kristen and Marni also give advice to women. Find out which guys you should give a second chance to and which guys deserve the boot. Finally, we all talk about sex! After you learn how to flirt, you're going to want to learn how to properly seal the deal. If you want to learn more about Marni's Wing Girl Method for making women want you, visit sexwithemily.com/winggirl. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we fast-forward to the good parts with Mr. Skin! Mr. Skin came into inform you about the best of the best from the 15th annual Anatomy Awards. We talk about 1930s porn, why we love naked celebs, what makes a good sex scene, and the best nude scenes to look forward to in 2014. We find out which unexpected American sweetheart won the best nip slip of 2013 and the best lesbian scene you've ever seen. We close our session together with talk of faux clam in film, the best "back burger", monster muff and of course, long nipples. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings. Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you attract women? You have less than 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be this way. It's not just something you're born with. If you didn't come out of the womb a complete stud you can still learn how to attract women. If you want to know exactly what to say, check out this free video of Jason demonstrating his deadliest pick-up line. And no, it’s not cheesy. No one one falls from heaven in it, I promise. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm talking about my favorite topic- masturbation and the best sex toys for men and women. In a word filled with crazy, awesome, vibrating sex toys, it can be hard to choose a sex toy. Are you a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl or a G-spot gal? Are you a size queen or are you looking for something cute and discreet? Do you want a couples toy or do you want it all to yourself? Of course, sex toys aren't just for the girls (check out the Fleshlight guys at sexwithemily.com/Fleshlight!). My guest, Sex Toy Expert Anne Hodder, and I discuss some surprising ways men enjoy the vibrations too, and how they can use sex toys on their partner. My guest Anne Hodder and I have tried and reviewed hundreds of sex toys so we can tell you the best sex toys for your preferences and needs. Your welcome. I do it all for you... and the orgasms. You can get almost all the vibrators we discuss on the show at Anne and I agree that one of the best vibrators for couple play and solo play is the Je Joue MiMi, and the best sex toy for men is the Fleshlight. If you're looking for great G-spot action or anal play, NJoy is simply the best. Get them all at SexwithEmily.com/GoodVibes and SexwithEmily.com/Fleshlight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn Star Skin Diamond dishes about having sex like a porn star... and having sex like a cat. You'll have to listen to the show to hear about her sexual kitty play. Skin Diamond grew up in Scotland with a passion for Christianity and a huge crush on Jessica Rabbit. Although she no longer believes in organized religion, her love for the female form developed beyond cartoons. Skin Diamond identifies as bisexual and has a rare ability to orgasm on command (perfect for porn!). Skin Diamond proves that not all orgasms in porn are fake. She explains how she orgasms by doing Kegels exercises and how to make your orgasms even stronger by changing the way you breathe. After she satisfies all your orgasmic needs, she doubles the fun with a lively discussion on double penetration (DP). Last but not least, Skin Diamond tells you how to handle a gigantic penis.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People say that Friend’s With Benefits (FWB) never work, but that's simply not true. You might just be the perfect candidate for a Friends With Benefits situation if you're at the right place in your life to have unabashed, no strings attached sex. I'll tell if you can handle a Friends with Benefits and how to get one. Hint: It doesn't actually have to be someone you're good friends with. Sometimes it's better to turn a sexy acquaintance into your FWB. It's important to realize Friends With Benefits don’t last forever and in some ways are too good to be true: the perks of consistent sex in a relationship without the relationship drama. One person usually becomes more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other person. If you do want to have a Friends With Benefits relationship I'll tell you the rules you have to play by.I also cover the most awkward moments between the sheets and what to do when they happen. And speaking of awkward times and nocturnal emissions, is it okay to hook up with an old high school friend? Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most men: "Oh my god I'm the greatest lover in the world!" Most women: "I faked another orgasm." Men are clueless about female pleasure and women are not communicating their dissatisfaction. Tantric Master Lawrence Lanoff and Emily break down all the myths about female pleasure. It's a myth that women do not want sex. Women are just fed up of having bed sex and are starving for touch. Lawrence teaches men how to stop grabbing and start touching, and how to turn your touch into her mind-blowing orgasm. Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners only: click here for a Free Report that reveals 10 Ways to Touch a Woman and Drive Her Wild With Desire. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A show on why it’s great to be in a relationship or single on Valentine’s Day. It’s a perfect night to go out and meet someone, or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you’re wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Masturbate your night away! Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash for Valentine’s Day. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Allie Haze is the coolest, most down-to-earth girl ever, and she's also a really hot bisexual porn star! Allie Haze gets into the G-spot and how you need to get over your fear of peeing during sex. Plus, if you have a killer orgasm, who cares what happens? Allie Haze talks about squirting, outrageous, messy sex. "Your body makes the most hilarious noises when you're doing it right," Allie says. Allie talks about her transition from being a preacher's wife to a porn star. Growing up she realized she was more into women than men. As a bisexual porn star, Allie Haze has amazing sex tips for pleasuring women. She gives a very detailed description of how to go down on a woman. That's not to say she doesn't have advice for pleasuring men. Allie Haze is known for her blow job skills. She goes deep into how to give an awesome blow job. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily and Australian Sexologist Dr. Nikki G talk about the pressure of Valentines Day and how you don't have to embody 50 Shades' Christian Grey in the bedroom... at least at first. Emily shares how to take baby steps towards 50 Shades of Grey sex. By the end of the episode you'll have your leather chaps strapped on and whips ready. Emily and sexologist Dr. Nikki G talk about Valentine's Day-- what you should do and what you should buy. Hint: the best things to do don't have to cost money and the best things to buy vibrate (Go to sexwithemily.com/goodvibes for the best V-day gifts). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is about why people cheat and the best Valentine's Day Gifts to buy her. (Heck, if you're single, I'm talking about the best gifts to buy yourself.) There are many theories about why people cheat, including fear of intimacy, unfulfilled desires in a relationship, and the need for validation from others. Some people think they can get away with it and have no intention of sleeping with one person, no matter what they committed to their partner. Ultimately, a lot of people cheat because they’re afraid, weak, or simply do not possess the skills to confront their partner about problems in the relationship. Instead of breaking up or working on a relationship, people have affairs. No matter if it’s bedroom boredom, a lackluster relationship, or the sexy barista, there’s no excuse for cheating. In this show I address why people cheat, how to spot the signs of cheating, and what to do if your partner cheats on you. I also talk about the best vibrators for couples and the best vibrators for all the single ladies. Why get roses and chocolate for Valentine’s Day when you can give her multiple orgasms? .Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mia Isabella is a transexual porn star with a lot of great sex advice. She’s known as the “Cutest Little TS Chick with the Biggest Candy Stick.” How big is Mia Isabella's Candy Stick? 10-inches long. Mia Isabella is a transexual that dates straight men. Most people are under the misconception that only gay men date transexuals. Mia Isabella does not define her sexuality in such narrow terms. She answers questions on the show about her sexual identity, dating, and of course- sex.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone has been asking me about threesomes. What rules should you follow to have a successful threesome, and how do you even have one in the first place? What divine intervention needs to take place to end up with two hotties in your bed? Other topics: Reverse cowgirl, using the magic wand during sex, and your penis (or lack there of). Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

85% of men are under the misconception that the population’s penis size is larger than it actually is. An average erect penis is 5.5- 6.2 inches. No matter what penis size you're packing, you can find sex positions that work with your willy. I'll tell you what to do with a small, medium, bendy, large, or gargantuan penis. Other topics: cyber sex, robot hand jobs, men who hate condoms, male-male-female threesomes, overly sensitive penises, internal orgasms, antidepressants, and cunnilingus. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Comedian Brad Williams is a little person with a very big and crazy sex life. Brad Williams is on a mission to change the way people think about little people with his comedy and his penis. He’s out to prove that little people are wonderful, well-endowed, lovers. Here’s what we cover on the show: How to pull her hair completely pain-free, how to spank with style, how to explore choke play during sex without completely freaking her out, how big are little people’s penises? Why doggie style is the best position for a little person, Jennifer Lawrence’s butt plug collection, anal sex tips for the first time, women who can have orgasms exclusively through anal sex, having sex with a woman while her husband watches, getting punched in the face by a woman while she orgasms. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The male G-spot is the prostate. Yes, men have a G-spot too and it’s in their butt. The time has come to leave your fears behind, and go on an adventure through the backdoor. My guest Charlie Glickman, author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners, explains how to pleasure the prostate, from finding it to stimulating techniques. Before you Poo-poo the idea of prostate pleasure, have an open-mind (and a open behind). If men stopped resisting everything they think challenges their masculinity, they could be free to experience a lot more pleasure. Plus, a dude who’s actually secure with himself and his sexuality won’t be worried if something he’s doing is considered manly or "straight" enough. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2014 is all about having better relationships, and of course having better sex. Here's what I cover on the show: tips for having a successful threesome, how to communicate proactively with your partner/lover, how to bring up issues with your partner, how to plan fun and romantic dates, and how to kiss… it's new years after all. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get organized. Start exercising. Stop drunk texting your ex. It’s a new year, which means it’s time to make some changes in your life- especially in your love life. So let the sexual resolutions begin. For better sex in the new year: tips for more foreplay, better make-out sessions, different positions, toy play, and more adventurous sex. Also, how to have tantric sex, what to do if you want sex less/more than your partner, and why you should take a man shopping. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm answering your biggest sex and relationship questions on my show. What do you do when you just can't give your girlfriend/wife/lover an orgasm? How do you ask someone to be in a polyamorous love circle?Should you send naked pictures of yourself to anyone? Are swingers healthier than monogamous couples? What do you do when you're partner loves morning sex and you just want to sleep forever/chug coffee? Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Sadie Allison, Pleasure Coach and author of best sellers Tickle His Pickle, Ride 'em Cowgirl, and Tickle my Tush, gives hands-on sex tips. Her books are extremely straight-forward and are filled with illustrations on how to pleasure your partner with proven techniques. Get her books at Good Vibrations: www.sexwithemily.com/goodvibes and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off (some exclusions apply). Expect detailed instructions on how to give a blow job, how to find her "other" erogenous, how to give a prostate massage, how to pleasure his taint, how to have good anal sex, how to handle his balls, how to talk dirty, and how to give women orgasms. Lots of them. Plus, the best positions for her orgasmic pleasure. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My new intern who has never had an orgasm talks about her sexual experiences thus far. I give her (and all the men in her rotation) advice on how to achieve orgasm. And not just any orgasm- a delicious cocktail of clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Women are sold the fantasy from the time they're young that "someday my prince will come and I'll come too." Forget the prince in shining armor and get a shiny new vibrator. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: www.sexwithemily.com/goodvibes. and get a vibrator for yourself or the woman you're trying to please. Also, why does everyone break up during the holidays? Why doesn't everyone just masturbate all the time? And how to introduce anal sex into your relationship without being a pain in the ass. Special Discounts: use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com, and coupon code EMILY for 20% off my Aromatherapy Massage Candle and DownUnder Comfort at Emilyandtony.com. Also, check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This year the incredibly sexy Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston are hosting the AVN awards, where I will be giving the keynote speech. AVN is the Oscars of porn and both adies are nominated for best female performer of the year. I'll be giving away tickets to the AVN show on January 18th in Las Vegas (worth $200 a piece) . Follow me on Twitter @sexwithemliy to participate in the upcoming contest. Also, use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Now back to the porn stars: Chanel Preston gives advice on how to have extremely pleasurable anal sex. She would know, anal sex is the easiest way for her to orgasm (every man's dream). Samantha Saint is more of a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl. She shares how she orgasms through clitoral stimulation and of course, the Original Magic Wand from Good Vibrations (go to sexwithemily.com/goodvibes and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off the greatest vibrator of all-time.) Samantha Saint, Chanel Preston, and I discuss how to mix up your orgasms to have more powerful and consistent orgasms. One way to make her orgasm is through oral sex. The girls discuss cunnilingus tips, including how to suck and push on her clitoris. The conversation quickly switches to penises and how to give the best blow job while cupping the balls. The porn stars describe the cup, twist, and suck method for a job well done.Finally, Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston answer the question: what is one thing men could improve on to be better in bed? There answer isn't what you expect. They don't actually want to have sex like a porn star. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some women can have orgasms from breast stimulation alone. The same part of the brain that brings sensations to the vagina brings sensation to the breasts. I'll show you how to give her immense pleasure with nipple nibbling, breast cupping, light pinching, and licking. Don't twist her nipples, jiggle them, or slap them, unless she's into that sort of thing. It's time to play with breasts like a grownup (motor-boating being a sometimes fun exception). I also answer an email from a guy who can't orgasm during sex (it can happen to guys too!) and a man who wants his wife to be more adventurous in bed. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex has changed dramatically in the 21st century. Midwestern housewives are reading 50 Shades of Grey and half of all women own vibrators. Social media and online dating has created a lot more dating options, making monogamy a less desirable option. People are getting married later and more and more couples are making up their own relationship rules. It's a crazy, exciting world out there. Here's how to survive 21st Century sex with your dignity and hopefully an orgasm...or three. Special Discounts: Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Emily also answers listener's emails about telling white lies, office affairs, and choosing between the stable relationship and the romantic fling. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tonight’s special guest is Susan Pinsky, the First Lady of Loveline, and host of the new podcast Calling out with Susan Pinsky. Susan gets intimate about her sex life with her husband, Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, and Dr.Drew on Call. Although they have an amazing sex life now, it wasn’t always that way. After having triplets(!), Susan completely lost her sex drive. Her hormone levels plummeted after giving birth and she couldn’t figure out how to reinvigorate her sex life. Her problems were exacerbated with the onset of early menopause. Susan shares her journey to reclaim her sex drive through bioidentical hormones. Finally she found the solution that worked for her and shares how she got her sex drive back right when they received the devastating news of Dr. Drew’s prostate cancer diagnosis. We even talk to Susan’s doctor, Dr. Jennifer Park in Pasadena who specializes in hormone pellet therapy. Mismatched libidos is one of the most common problems in relationships. One partner is enthusiastic about being sexually intimate while the other is subdued. And this takes a toll on the relationship. 48% of people say they are satisfied with their sex life. That’s not enough people. There are many reasons why people’s libido change over the years: Stress Depression Age Lifestyle choices, including: alcohol, drugs, sleep, diet Medication, including antidepressants Lack of sexual enjoyment during sex And of course, kids. You’re bound to fall into one of these categories at some point in your life. Susan and I discuss what you can do if your partner wants more or less sex than you. We end the show with a special call from Susan’s psychic Rebecca Fearing. She gives me an amazing psychic reading on my love life and things to come in the future. Use Coupon Code EMILY for 20% off at Emily & Tony, coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations (some exclusions apply), and coupon code Emily25 for 35% off at Crazy Girl. Check out Promescent for lasting longer in bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Manscaping is perhaps the most underrated beauty ritual. No Shave November is coming to a close, gentleman. While women are told over and over again to have hairless bodies, most men traipse around like hairy beasts.A man might say his hair makes him masculine and rugged. Don’t get me wrong, I want to pet Jon Hamm’s chest hair all night, but a lot of women aren’t into hairy balls.I’m not saying you should shave yourself bare or shave an arrow leading to your penis (please don’t), but I recommend spending time taming the mane and manscaping.In the show I interview Anthony Sosnick,Founder and CEO of Anthony Brands, on the best manscaping techniques, from trimming to shaving. Also, what horrible thoughts do men think of to prevent premature ejaculation? Also, will letting a woman paint your toenails help you get lucky? Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily & Tony. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BDSM means six things: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. My guest, fellow sex podcaster Sex Nerd Sandra, and I are ironing out the kinks in your relationship, whether you’re new to the BDSM or waiting for the perfect time to whip out the ropes and assless leather. First, we discuss women having less orgasms than men during one-night-stands. SHOCKER. We talk about why women aren’t orgasming like crazy, and why some guys don't know how to please women... yet. I know guys talk about their penis a lot, but how often do they talk to their friends about how to pleasure a woman? Le sigh, if only all women could orgasm at the drop of a hat or click of a camera. Wait, there is a actually a woman who insta-orgasms when she hears the click of a camera. She must really like taking selfies. If you can’t give a woman an orgasm by whispering sweet nothings in her ear, we will tell you how to do it. Next, Sandra and I take callers and give our advice about BDSM and humping inanimate objects. Then we answer the question, should I stay with my boyfriend even though he loves me a lot more than I love him? When should you cut your ties... and when should you get tied up? Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: BDSM with Guest Sex Nerd Sandra If you want to change your love life check out: Emily and Tony, Promescent, Crazy Girl, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily and Tony. Use coupon code EMILY25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations (some restrictions apply). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pro Dominatrix and Author Jaeleen Bennis shows you the ropes on bondage play. She mixes massage with kink, showing couples how to have more adventurous sex. She created the practice of Bondassage, which mixes erotic massage with bondage. Start by lighting up my Emily & Tony Massage Candle (when lit it turns into the most luxurious, warm massage oil) and pour it onto your partners body. Relax them with a back massage... and then the real fun begins. Bring out the straps and floggers, and start exploring your partner's erogenous zones. We explain how you can tell if your partner likes what you're doing. Hint: If their toes are moving around like crazy, you're doing something right. Jaeleen also gives tips on how to give men an anal massage. Gentleman, it's time you invited someone into your backdoor. Remember to always establish a safe word like "pickle" for when things get out of hand. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So you want to have a threesome? I'm laying down the law on how to do it right. It has to be her idea, and I'll tell you how to make that happen. Do not casually suggest that you have a threesome with her best friend. She's not going to like it. If you want to have a threesome, you must be extremely strategic and cunning. I'll show you how to do it without having it end in a jealous hot mess. Next, I talk about men who prefer to wear women's panties (have no shame, women's undies are just better). Then I answer the question of who I'd rather sleep with, Mike Catherwood or Dr.Drew? And lastly, I tell all the ladies how to have an incredible orgasm during sex, because that's what I'm here for. If women start having more orgasms, I know I'm doing my job. Enjoy your weekend whether you are having a Menage a Trois, exploding with orgasms, or traipsing around in ladies underwear. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A guy calls into the show for some advice on how to perform cunnilingus. He realizes that every woman is different and he shouldn't go straight for the clitoris, but wants to know specifically how to lick it. Also, do heels prevent women from having orgasms? Does sitting in chairs turn you on? Is the clitoris actually bigger than a penis? Does having a hang-over make you want to do it, or just curl up in the fetal position and question your existence? Some food for thought while you're waiting for your main course of the show. Cunnilingus, it's what's for dinner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to navigate your sex life as a single person, because single people want to have sex too…sometimes more than people in relationships. I'll also tell you how to find the right person whether you are looking for casual sex or a committed relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyday someone asks me how that can last longer during sex, or how they can get their BF to last longer during sex. Everyday I get an email from a woman who wants to orgasm during sex, but doesn’t have enough time or clitoral stimulation to do so. This podcast will get your/his penis in gear and ready for sex. No matter if you’re a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation, or just someone who wants to have longer, more intense sex, this podcast is for you! My guest Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, gives tips for lasting longer that don’t involve pinching the penis, the stop-and-start method, or thinking of your grandma naked. Promescent is a desensitizing spray that helps delay ejaculation and take your sex life to the next level. Guys can finally stop thinking about boring/gross/disturbing things to last longer, and focus on the hot woman they’re having sex with. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Naughty and freaky sex can be fun. Embarrassing sex? Not so much. Awkward and strange things will happen during sex that you will have no idea how to react to. I'm here to tell you how to navigate this strange and confusing world of queefs, moans, howls, blood, and liquid explosions. Here's how to survive with your dignity and an orgasm. I think you'll have a good laugh as well. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn Star Joanna Angel gives an Anal Sex Seminar with pointers on how to make it less painful and scary. Then she talks about double penetration, because apparently that makes anal sex less scary? This punk princess has really done it all. She gives tips for dominating men and women, and tying them up. Then she gives tips for giving both him and her amazing oral sex. Lastly, she tells you how to talk to your partner in bed. Dirty talk doesn’t work if you censor yourself. You just have to let all your sexual desires out and do you! Speaking of doing you, Joanna talks about the importance of masturbation and why every woman should masturbate all the time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn Star Kiara Mia, "the Kim Kardashian of porn", gets intimate on the podcast, sharing her best moves for having sex with men and women. Naturally, she starts with oral sex on a woman (how every great relationship starts) and describes how to lick a woman to make her orgasm. Start by kissing and licking around her clitoris. Once she’s really warmed up, her clitoris is hard and she’s thrusting her hips up, go in for her clitoris (Kiara tells you exactly what to do to pleasure her clitoris and G-spot at the same time). Kiara also describes her first orgasm, and how women can experience more pleasure in their sex lives. She shares her favorite sex positions and how to move during sex. Move back-and-forth, grind, lean forward, lean backwards, and have lots of orgasms. The more you enjoy sex as a woman, the better you will be at having sex. Kiara talks about why she’s so good at sex. You need to really connect with your partner during sex, and I’m not just talking about connecting penis-to-vagina. Tantric sex can expand your sex life. The show ends with Kiara and I answering your questions. How do you stay in shape? What do women look for in a man? How do you pleasure a beautiful woman on the first date (someone’s presumptuous)? After you listen to the podcast, you will be ready to pleasure sexy men and women… if you’re willing to work for it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices