Sex With Emily

Menace is Back! Emily and Menace are back together in the studio and happy to be in Los Angeles. Emily answers listener emails including questions regarding mismatched libidos - what to do when your partner wants more sex than you, a man who has trouble with older women, and trying to speed up the pace of a relationship- good or bad idea? Tinder is the dating app (some say it's a hook-up app) and Emily has been spotted on it! They talk about the rules of the explosive new app. Menace opens up about his secret 3 year relationship and claims Emily knew her once upon a time... Emily and Menace talk about kids and marriage. Menace has something stuck in his penis and the hospital has to take it out (Get ready to cringe!). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

English professor turned gay pornstar, Conor Habib, visits the Sex With Emily show to celebrate Steak and Blow Job Day with tips on how to give the best blow job and overall insights on how to be a great lover. Conor tells us about his first gay experience on and off set. They talk about the rise in anal sex in college co eds. Conor talks about his petition against censorship in the popular app Vine (is Twitter next?). The scientfic hoax behind masterbation shame is revealed. Conor interjects in the circumsised debate by describing how he's got "the best of both worlds". The duo wraps up with Los Angeles vs. San Francisco dating scenes and the biggest (and surprising!) drug found on porn sets. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're still figuring out how to flirt, you're not alone. WingGirl Marni Kinrys and Comedian Kristen Carney from the Ask Women Podcast join me on this podcast episode to breakdown the art of flirting. Marni is a professional wing girl- she teaches men how to flirt and start successful relationships. She reveals secrets from her Wing Girl Method, which will make women want you. Kristen is a professional sketch comedienne, actress and host whose work has apperead on Comedy Central, Funny or Die, TLC and her new YouTube channel: See You Next Tues Comedy. So many men fall into the dreaded "Friend Zone" because they're nervous and will agree with everything women say instead of setting themselves apart as an interesting person. Don't be afraid to challenge women's viewpoints. Speak up when you have an opinion. After all, it's not called witty banter for nothing. Most women truly value personality more than looks. A conventionally unattractive man can become sexy with a great personality and confidence. You'll learn how to show a woman the best version of yourself on this show. This podcast isn't just for the men, Kristen and Marni also give advice to women. Find out which guys you should give a second chance to and which guys deserve the boot. Finally, we all talk about sex! After you learn how to flirt, you're going to want to learn how to properly seal the deal. If you want to learn more about Marni's Wing Girl Method for making women want you, visit sexwithemily.com/winggirl. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we fast-forward to the good parts with Mr. Skin! Mr. Skin came into inform you about the best of the best from the 15th annual Anatomy Awards. We talk about 1930s porn, why we love naked celebs, what makes a good sex scene, and the best nude scenes to look forward to in 2014. We find out which unexpected American sweetheart won the best nip slip of 2013 and the best lesbian scene you've ever seen. We close our session together with talk of faux clam in film, the best "back burger", monster muff and of course, long nipples. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings. Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you attract women? You have less than 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be this way. It's not just something you're born with. If you didn't come out of the womb a complete stud you can still learn how to attract women. If you want to know exactly what to say, check out this free video of Jason demonstrating his deadliest pick-up line. And no, it’s not cheesy. No one one falls from heaven in it, I promise. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm talking about my favorite topic- masturbation and the best sex toys for men and women. In a word filled with crazy, awesome, vibrating sex toys, it can be hard to choose a sex toy. Are you a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl or a G-spot gal? Are you a size queen or are you looking for something cute and discreet? Do you want a couples toy or do you want it all to yourself? Of course, sex toys aren't just for the girls (check out the Fleshlight guys at sexwithemily.com/Fleshlight!). My guest, Sex Toy Expert Anne Hodder, and I discuss some surprising ways men enjoy the vibrations too, and how they can use sex toys on their partner. My guest Anne Hodder and I have tried and reviewed hundreds of sex toys so we can tell you the best sex toys for your preferences and needs. Your welcome. I do it all for you... and the orgasms. You can get almost all the vibrators we discuss on the show at Anne and I agree that one of the best vibrators for couple play and solo play is the Je Joue MiMi, and the best sex toy for men is the Fleshlight. If you're looking for great G-spot action or anal play, NJoy is simply the best. Get them all at SexwithEmily.com/GoodVibes and SexwithEmily.com/Fleshlight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn Star Skin Diamond dishes about having sex like a porn star... and having sex like a cat. You'll have to listen to the show to hear about her sexual kitty play. Skin Diamond grew up in Scotland with a passion for Christianity and a huge crush on Jessica Rabbit. Although she no longer believes in organized religion, her love for the female form developed beyond cartoons. Skin Diamond identifies as bisexual and has a rare ability to orgasm on command (perfect for porn!). Skin Diamond proves that not all orgasms in porn are fake. She explains how she orgasms by doing Kegels exercises and how to make your orgasms even stronger by changing the way you breathe. After she satisfies all your orgasmic needs, she doubles the fun with a lively discussion on double penetration (DP). Last but not least, Skin Diamond tells you how to handle a gigantic penis.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People say that Friend’s With Benefits (FWB) never work, but that's simply not true. You might just be the perfect candidate for a Friends With Benefits situation if you're at the right place in your life to have unabashed, no strings attached sex. I'll tell if you can handle a Friends with Benefits and how to get one. Hint: It doesn't actually have to be someone you're good friends with. Sometimes it's better to turn a sexy acquaintance into your FWB. It's important to realize Friends With Benefits don’t last forever and in some ways are too good to be true: the perks of consistent sex in a relationship without the relationship drama. One person usually becomes more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other person. If you do want to have a Friends With Benefits relationship I'll tell you the rules you have to play by.I also cover the most awkward moments between the sheets and what to do when they happen. And speaking of awkward times and nocturnal emissions, is it okay to hook up with an old high school friend? Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most men: "Oh my god I'm the greatest lover in the world!" Most women: "I faked another orgasm." Men are clueless about female pleasure and women are not communicating their dissatisfaction. Tantric Master Lawrence Lanoff and Emily break down all the myths about female pleasure. It's a myth that women do not want sex. Women are just fed up of having bed sex and are starving for touch. Lawrence teaches men how to stop grabbing and start touching, and how to turn your touch into her mind-blowing orgasm. Special offer for Sex with Emily listeners only: click here for a Free Report that reveals 10 Ways to Touch a Woman and Drive Her Wild With Desire. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A show on why it’s great to be in a relationship or single on Valentine’s Day. It’s a perfect night to go out and meet someone, or stay in and have sex with someone you love. In case you’re wondering, you definitely count as someone you love. Self-love is one of the most rewarding things in the world. Masturbate your night away! Emily shares her best and worst V-day experiences, and what made them special or subpar. Her best V-day was in the third grade when her classmate gave her cash for Valentine’s Day. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Allie Haze is the coolest, most down-to-earth girl ever, and she's also a really hot bisexual porn star! Allie Haze gets into the G-spot and how you need to get over your fear of peeing during sex. Plus, if you have a killer orgasm, who cares what happens? Allie Haze talks about squirting, outrageous, messy sex. "Your body makes the most hilarious noises when you're doing it right," Allie says. Allie talks about her transition from being a preacher's wife to a porn star. Growing up she realized she was more into women than men. As a bisexual porn star, Allie Haze has amazing sex tips for pleasuring women. She gives a very detailed description of how to go down on a woman. That's not to say she doesn't have advice for pleasuring men. Allie Haze is known for her blow job skills. She goes deep into how to give an awesome blow job. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily and Australian Sexologist Dr. Nikki G talk about the pressure of Valentines Day and how you don't have to embody 50 Shades' Christian Grey in the bedroom... at least at first. Emily shares how to take baby steps towards 50 Shades of Grey sex. By the end of the episode you'll have your leather chaps strapped on and whips ready. Emily and sexologist Dr. Nikki G talk about Valentine's Day-- what you should do and what you should buy. Hint: the best things to do don't have to cost money and the best things to buy vibrate (Go to sexwithemily.com/goodvibes for the best V-day gifts). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is about why people cheat and the best Valentine's Day Gifts to buy her. (Heck, if you're single, I'm talking about the best gifts to buy yourself.) There are many theories about why people cheat, including fear of intimacy, unfulfilled desires in a relationship, and the need for validation from others. Some people think they can get away with it and have no intention of sleeping with one person, no matter what they committed to their partner. Ultimately, a lot of people cheat because they’re afraid, weak, or simply do not possess the skills to confront their partner about problems in the relationship. Instead of breaking up or working on a relationship, people have affairs. No matter if it’s bedroom boredom, a lackluster relationship, or the sexy barista, there’s no excuse for cheating. In this show I address why people cheat, how to spot the signs of cheating, and what to do if your partner cheats on you. I also talk about the best vibrators for couples and the best vibrators for all the single ladies. Why get roses and chocolate for Valentine’s Day when you can give her multiple orgasms? .Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mia Isabella is a transexual porn star with a lot of great sex advice. She’s known as the “Cutest Little TS Chick with the Biggest Candy Stick.” How big is Mia Isabella's Candy Stick? 10-inches long. Mia Isabella is a transexual that dates straight men. Most people are under the misconception that only gay men date transexuals. Mia Isabella does not define her sexuality in such narrow terms. She answers questions on the show about her sexual identity, dating, and of course- sex.Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone has been asking me about threesomes. What rules should you follow to have a successful threesome, and how do you even have one in the first place? What divine intervention needs to take place to end up with two hotties in your bed? Other topics: Reverse cowgirl, using the magic wand during sex, and your penis (or lack there of). Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

85% of men are under the misconception that the population’s penis size is larger than it actually is. An average erect penis is 5.5- 6.2 inches. No matter what penis size you're packing, you can find sex positions that work with your willy. I'll tell you what to do with a small, medium, bendy, large, or gargantuan penis. Other topics: cyber sex, robot hand jobs, men who hate condoms, male-male-female threesomes, overly sensitive penises, internal orgasms, antidepressants, and cunnilingus. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Comedian Brad Williams is a little person with a very big and crazy sex life. Brad Williams is on a mission to change the way people think about little people with his comedy and his penis. He’s out to prove that little people are wonderful, well-endowed, lovers. Here’s what we cover on the show: How to pull her hair completely pain-free, how to spank with style, how to explore choke play during sex without completely freaking her out, how big are little people’s penises? Why doggie style is the best position for a little person, Jennifer Lawrence’s butt plug collection, anal sex tips for the first time, women who can have orgasms exclusively through anal sex, having sex with a woman while her husband watches, getting punched in the face by a woman while she orgasms. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The male G-spot is the prostate. Yes, men have a G-spot too and it’s in their butt. The time has come to leave your fears behind, and go on an adventure through the backdoor. My guest Charlie Glickman, author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners, explains how to pleasure the prostate, from finding it to stimulating techniques. Before you Poo-poo the idea of prostate pleasure, have an open-mind (and a open behind). If men stopped resisting everything they think challenges their masculinity, they could be free to experience a lot more pleasure. Plus, a dude who’s actually secure with himself and his sexuality won’t be worried if something he’s doing is considered manly or "straight" enough. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2014 is all about having better relationships, and of course having better sex. Here's what I cover on the show: tips for having a successful threesome, how to communicate proactively with your partner/lover, how to bring up issues with your partner, how to plan fun and romantic dates, and how to kiss… it's new years after all. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get organized. Start exercising. Stop drunk texting your ex. It’s a new year, which means it’s time to make some changes in your life- especially in your love life. So let the sexual resolutions begin. For better sex in the new year: tips for more foreplay, better make-out sessions, different positions, toy play, and more adventurous sex. Also, how to have tantric sex, what to do if you want sex less/more than your partner, and why you should take a man shopping. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm answering your biggest sex and relationship questions on my show. What do you do when you just can't give your girlfriend/wife/lover an orgasm? How do you ask someone to be in a polyamorous love circle?Should you send naked pictures of yourself to anyone? Are swingers healthier than monogamous couples? What do you do when you're partner loves morning sex and you just want to sleep forever/chug coffee? Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Sadie Allison, Pleasure Coach and author of best sellers Tickle His Pickle, Ride 'em Cowgirl, and Tickle my Tush, gives hands-on sex tips. Her books are extremely straight-forward and are filled with illustrations on how to pleasure your partner with proven techniques. Get her books at Good Vibrations: www.sexwithemily.com/goodvibes and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off (some exclusions apply). Expect detailed instructions on how to give a blow job, how to find her "other" erogenous, how to give a prostate massage, how to pleasure his taint, how to have good anal sex, how to handle his balls, how to talk dirty, and how to give women orgasms. Lots of them. Plus, the best positions for her orgasmic pleasure. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My new intern who has never had an orgasm talks about her sexual experiences thus far. I give her (and all the men in her rotation) advice on how to achieve orgasm. And not just any orgasm- a delicious cocktail of clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Women are sold the fantasy from the time they're young that "someday my prince will come and I'll come too." Forget the prince in shining armor and get a shiny new vibrator. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: www.sexwithemily.com/goodvibes. and get a vibrator for yourself or the woman you're trying to please. Also, why does everyone break up during the holidays? Why doesn't everyone just masturbate all the time? And how to introduce anal sex into your relationship without being a pain in the ass. Special Discounts: use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com, and coupon code EMILY for 20% off my Aromatherapy Massage Candle and DownUnder Comfort at Emilyandtony.com. Also, check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This year the incredibly sexy Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston are hosting the AVN awards, where I will be giving the keynote speech. AVN is the Oscars of porn and both adies are nominated for best female performer of the year. I'll be giving away tickets to the AVN show on January 18th in Las Vegas (worth $200 a piece) . Follow me on Twitter @sexwithemliy to participate in the upcoming contest. Also, use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Now back to the porn stars: Chanel Preston gives advice on how to have extremely pleasurable anal sex. She would know, anal sex is the easiest way for her to orgasm (every man's dream). Samantha Saint is more of a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl. She shares how she orgasms through clitoral stimulation and of course, the Original Magic Wand from Good Vibrations (go to sexwithemily.com/goodvibes and use coupon code EMILY for 15% off the greatest vibrator of all-time.) Samantha Saint, Chanel Preston, and I discuss how to mix up your orgasms to have more powerful and consistent orgasms. One way to make her orgasm is through oral sex. The girls discuss cunnilingus tips, including how to suck and push on her clitoris. The conversation quickly switches to penises and how to give the best blow job while cupping the balls. The porn stars describe the cup, twist, and suck method for a job well done.Finally, Samantha Saint and Chanel Preston answer the question: what is one thing men could improve on to be better in bed? There answer isn't what you expect. They don't actually want to have sex like a porn star. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some women can have orgasms from breast stimulation alone. The same part of the brain that brings sensations to the vagina brings sensation to the breasts. I'll show you how to give her immense pleasure with nipple nibbling, breast cupping, light pinching, and licking. Don't twist her nipples, jiggle them, or slap them, unless she's into that sort of thing. It's time to play with breasts like a grownup (motor-boating being a sometimes fun exception). I also answer an email from a guy who can't orgasm during sex (it can happen to guys too!) and a man who wants his wife to be more adventurous in bed. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Check out my new vibrator store: www.sexwithemilyovo.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex has changed dramatically in the 21st century. Midwestern housewives are reading 50 Shades of Grey and half of all women own vibrators. Social media and online dating has created a lot more dating options, making monogamy a less desirable option. People are getting married later and more and more couples are making up their own relationship rules. It's a crazy, exciting world out there. Here's how to survive 21st Century sex with your dignity and hopefully an orgasm...or three. Special Discounts: Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations: http://bit.ly/19rLghs. Use coupon code EMILY25 for 25% off at crazygirlproducts.com and coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emilyandtony.com. Emily also answers listener's emails about telling white lies, office affairs, and choosing between the stable relationship and the romantic fling. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tonight’s special guest is Susan Pinsky, the First Lady of Loveline, and host of the new podcast Calling out with Susan Pinsky. Susan gets intimate about her sex life with her husband, Dr. Drew Pinsky, host of the Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, and Dr.Drew on Call. Although they have an amazing sex life now, it wasn’t always that way. After having triplets(!), Susan completely lost her sex drive. Her hormone levels plummeted after giving birth and she couldn’t figure out how to reinvigorate her sex life. Her problems were exacerbated with the onset of early menopause. Susan shares her journey to reclaim her sex drive through bioidentical hormones. Finally she found the solution that worked for her and shares how she got her sex drive back right when they received the devastating news of Dr. Drew’s prostate cancer diagnosis. We even talk to Susan’s doctor, Dr. Jennifer Park in Pasadena who specializes in hormone pellet therapy. Mismatched libidos is one of the most common problems in relationships. One partner is enthusiastic about being sexually intimate while the other is subdued. And this takes a toll on the relationship. 48% of people say they are satisfied with their sex life. That’s not enough people. There are many reasons why people’s libido change over the years: Stress Depression Age Lifestyle choices, including: alcohol, drugs, sleep, diet Medication, including antidepressants Lack of sexual enjoyment during sex And of course, kids. You’re bound to fall into one of these categories at some point in your life. Susan and I discuss what you can do if your partner wants more or less sex than you. We end the show with a special call from Susan’s psychic Rebecca Fearing. She gives me an amazing psychic reading on my love life and things to come in the future. Use Coupon Code EMILY for 20% off at Emily & Tony, coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations (some exclusions apply), and coupon code Emily25 for 35% off at Crazy Girl. Check out Promescent for lasting longer in bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Manscaping is perhaps the most underrated beauty ritual. No Shave November is coming to a close, gentleman. While women are told over and over again to have hairless bodies, most men traipse around like hairy beasts.A man might say his hair makes him masculine and rugged. Don’t get me wrong, I want to pet Jon Hamm’s chest hair all night, but a lot of women aren’t into hairy balls.I’m not saying you should shave yourself bare or shave an arrow leading to your penis (please don’t), but I recommend spending time taming the mane and manscaping.In the show I interview Anthony Sosnick,Founder and CEO of Anthony Brands, on the best manscaping techniques, from trimming to shaving. Also, what horrible thoughts do men think of to prevent premature ejaculation? Also, will letting a woman paint your toenails help you get lucky? Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily & Tony. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BDSM means six things: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism. My guest, fellow sex podcaster Sex Nerd Sandra, and I are ironing out the kinks in your relationship, whether you’re new to the BDSM or waiting for the perfect time to whip out the ropes and assless leather. First, we discuss women having less orgasms than men during one-night-stands. SHOCKER. We talk about why women aren’t orgasming like crazy, and why some guys don't know how to please women... yet. I know guys talk about their penis a lot, but how often do they talk to their friends about how to pleasure a woman? Le sigh, if only all women could orgasm at the drop of a hat or click of a camera. Wait, there is a actually a woman who insta-orgasms when she hears the click of a camera. She must really like taking selfies. If you can’t give a woman an orgasm by whispering sweet nothings in her ear, we will tell you how to do it. Next, Sandra and I take callers and give our advice about BDSM and humping inanimate objects. Then we answer the question, should I stay with my boyfriend even though he loves me a lot more than I love him? When should you cut your ties... and when should you get tied up? Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: BDSM with Guest Sex Nerd Sandra If you want to change your love life check out: Emily and Tony, Promescent, Crazy Girl, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code EMILY for 20% off your first purchase at Emily and Tony. Use coupon code EMILY25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl. Use coupon code EMILY for 15% off at Good Vibrations (some restrictions apply). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pro Dominatrix and Author Jaeleen Bennis shows you the ropes on bondage play. She mixes massage with kink, showing couples how to have more adventurous sex. She created the practice of Bondassage, which mixes erotic massage with bondage. Start by lighting up my Emily & Tony Massage Candle (when lit it turns into the most luxurious, warm massage oil) and pour it onto your partners body. Relax them with a back massage... and then the real fun begins. Bring out the straps and floggers, and start exploring your partner's erogenous zones. We explain how you can tell if your partner likes what you're doing. Hint: If their toes are moving around like crazy, you're doing something right. Jaeleen also gives tips on how to give men an anal massage. Gentleman, it's time you invited someone into your backdoor. Remember to always establish a safe word like "pickle" for when things get out of hand. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So you want to have a threesome? I'm laying down the law on how to do it right. It has to be her idea, and I'll tell you how to make that happen. Do not casually suggest that you have a threesome with her best friend. She's not going to like it. If you want to have a threesome, you must be extremely strategic and cunning. I'll show you how to do it without having it end in a jealous hot mess. Next, I talk about men who prefer to wear women's panties (have no shame, women's undies are just better). Then I answer the question of who I'd rather sleep with, Mike Catherwood or Dr.Drew? And lastly, I tell all the ladies how to have an incredible orgasm during sex, because that's what I'm here for. If women start having more orgasms, I know I'm doing my job. Enjoy your weekend whether you are having a Menage a Trois, exploding with orgasms, or traipsing around in ladies underwear. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A guy calls into the show for some advice on how to perform cunnilingus. He realizes that every woman is different and he shouldn't go straight for the clitoris, but wants to know specifically how to lick it. Also, do heels prevent women from having orgasms? Does sitting in chairs turn you on? Is the clitoris actually bigger than a penis? Does having a hang-over make you want to do it, or just curl up in the fetal position and question your existence? Some food for thought while you're waiting for your main course of the show. Cunnilingus, it's what's for dinner. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to navigate your sex life as a single person, because single people want to have sex too…sometimes more than people in relationships. I'll also tell you how to find the right person whether you are looking for casual sex or a committed relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyday someone asks me how that can last longer during sex, or how they can get their BF to last longer during sex. Everyday I get an email from a woman who wants to orgasm during sex, but doesn’t have enough time or clitoral stimulation to do so. This podcast will get your/his penis in gear and ready for sex. No matter if you’re a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation, or just someone who wants to have longer, more intense sex, this podcast is for you! My guest Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, gives tips for lasting longer that don’t involve pinching the penis, the stop-and-start method, or thinking of your grandma naked. Promescent is a desensitizing spray that helps delay ejaculation and take your sex life to the next level. Guys can finally stop thinking about boring/gross/disturbing things to last longer, and focus on the hot woman they’re having sex with. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Naughty and freaky sex can be fun. Embarrassing sex? Not so much. Awkward and strange things will happen during sex that you will have no idea how to react to. I'm here to tell you how to navigate this strange and confusing world of queefs, moans, howls, blood, and liquid explosions. Here's how to survive with your dignity and an orgasm. I think you'll have a good laugh as well. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn Star Joanna Angel gives an Anal Sex Seminar with pointers on how to make it less painful and scary. Then she talks about double penetration, because apparently that makes anal sex less scary? This punk princess has really done it all. She gives tips for dominating men and women, and tying them up. Then she gives tips for giving both him and her amazing oral sex. Lastly, she tells you how to talk to your partner in bed. Dirty talk doesn’t work if you censor yourself. You just have to let all your sexual desires out and do you! Speaking of doing you, Joanna talks about the importance of masturbation and why every woman should masturbate all the time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Porn Star Kiara Mia, "the Kim Kardashian of porn", gets intimate on the podcast, sharing her best moves for having sex with men and women. Naturally, she starts with oral sex on a woman (how every great relationship starts) and describes how to lick a woman to make her orgasm. Start by kissing and licking around her clitoris. Once she’s really warmed up, her clitoris is hard and she’s thrusting her hips up, go in for her clitoris (Kiara tells you exactly what to do to pleasure her clitoris and G-spot at the same time). Kiara also describes her first orgasm, and how women can experience more pleasure in their sex lives. She shares her favorite sex positions and how to move during sex. Move back-and-forth, grind, lean forward, lean backwards, and have lots of orgasms. The more you enjoy sex as a woman, the better you will be at having sex. Kiara talks about why she’s so good at sex. You need to really connect with your partner during sex, and I’m not just talking about connecting penis-to-vagina. Tantric sex can expand your sex life. The show ends with Kiara and I answering your questions. How do you stay in shape? What do women look for in a man? How do you pleasure a beautiful woman on the first date (someone’s presumptuous)? After you listen to the podcast, you will be ready to pleasure sexy men and women… if you’re willing to work for it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a sexually confident woman... or man? If you aren't instantly seducing men and women with your piercing eyes and sly smile, this podcast is for you! I'm going to transform you into a Sex God(dess). First, I give advice to a woman who wants to try S&M (Sadomasochism). I'll teach you how to be the dominant or submissive, and how to talk to your partner about trying S&M. The next time you have tea and crumpets with your partner, I want you to look them in the eye and say, "bend me over the table and F*@% me." Or you can take a more subtle approach, explained in the podcast. You'll be tied up and spanked in no time! Next, I'll share how guys can keep an erection! Hint. It involves putting a ring on it. Make no mistake, marriage will not solve your sex problems, but a vibrating ring just might! The show ends with ten ways women can be more sexually confident. Here's a few tips, ladies: 1. You should dance naked in front of the mirror a lot. Learn to love your body. 2. If he doesn't want to see you naked, he wouldn't try and take your clothes off. He's having sex with you because he thinks you're attractive. Own it. 3. The more pleasure you experience during sex, the better you will be at sex. True confidence comes from focusing on your own sexual experience, and not just making sure he's satisfied. 4. Give him directions! Someone has to teach these guys what's what. If it doesn't work out between the two of you, you'll be doing the next woman he dates a favor. 5. Don't fake orgasms. A truly confident woman will genuinely express her pleasure. Make him keep trying until he gives you a real orgasm. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Questions answered: Are you bicurious? Should you give up your marriage because you aren’t having sex? What happens when his baby mama catches you having sex with him in his trailer? How do you date if you have social anxiety? Should you tell women they are beautiful when you first meet them? Why do some people seek relationships with people who are unobtainable? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I don't think you're having enough kinky sex. When I say kinky sex, I don't mean you have to do it chained to a spinning apparatus. I just think you should leave your bed once in a while and experiment. This podcast will show you how to have sex outside your comfort zone and try new things with your partner, from butt slapping to sex in the bar bathroom. Okay, maybe you should just start by having sex in your bathroom at home... then you'll be ready for some serious sexcapades. I'll show you how to have sex with your partner in a completely different way. You'll feel like you're doing it with a sexy stranger you met at a bar, and not your husband Bob or your wife Susan. I'll also show you how to sext like a romance novelist, without using the term quivering member (ew). How serious do you need to be with someone before you sext them? Rule of thumb: If they haven't seen you're penis yet, don't send them a picture of your penis. Also, how specific should you get with your sexting. What's better? I want to suck your c@*%, or I want to suck your c@*% under the desk? Once you learn how to sext and seduce your partner like a stranger in the night, I'll demonstrate how to talk dirty. Talking dirty means letting loose, which may make you feel uncomfortable initially. Find your dirty talk voice and stay away from clinical words like penis. If you want him to know that you like his pickle, tell him you like his c@*% (you know what I'm saying). I'll tell you how to get started and open up, so you don't feel incredibly awkward getting your dirty talk on. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Become charming and confident, even if you no idea what to say and have no confidence whatsoever. Jordan Harbinger is a lifestyle coach. He teaches men the art of charm (no natural charm required). He starts by identifying any situational confidence a man may or may not have. If a man is extremely confident in his work as a doctor, Jordan shows him how to channel that confidence into talking to women. Talking about your favorite band and alcoholic beverage of choice will become as easy as talking about scalpels and stethoscopes. Jordan explains how men can shift their body language to change how women perceive them. If a guy doesn’t have any situational confidence, they have to start from scratch. Men must unlearn all the negative things they think about dating and women. All that negativity is extremely unattractive and hinders men from having the relationships they want. Women can sense when a guy isn’t being genuine. If you want to attract women you have to find out what you bring to the table, and bring it! Jordan also talks about how men can deal with rejection. Some men would rather feel like a comfortable failure than put themselves out there. With low risk comes low reward. A word from the wise, don’t linger by the bar bathroom because you’re afraid to approach her when she’s with her friends. You don’t want to be the creepy guy lurking by the women’s bathroom. Just walk up to her and start a conversation (Jordan will tell you what to say). Once you get the number, Jordan tells you what to text her. Unless you want to be watching Men In Black II alone on a Saturday night, avoid “Hey, What’s Up?” He even tells you where to go on a date. Whatever you do, don’t go to a dinner and movie. To sum it up: what most men are doing, just isn’t working. Unless you want to be the creeper lingering by the bathroom, listen to this podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m giving tips for changing up your sex life. I’m going to turn you into a finger sucking, nipple pinching, penis rubbing, sex machine. Or at least I’ll inspire you to do something other than missionary position with reruns of 7th Heaven playing in the background. Do men like getting their nipples pinched? There’s only one way to find out. The next time you feel like pinching his cheeks, go straight for his nipples. nipple pinching Also, what if people were completely honest on their Match.com profiles? (BTW you go to Trymatch.com and get 7 days free. “Hi, I’m Emily. In my free time I like to organize my sex toys. Sometimes I like to organize them by color, and other time by size.” Would you date me? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The iconic Porn Star Nina Hartley talks about making porn, feminism, non-monogamy, and how to give a woman the perfect hand job (there is some light pulling and pinching involved). Nina Hartley also talks boldly about the butt. Nina says, “Butts are like cats. They have to be coaxed and seduced every time. They are moody and you can’t fool a butt into liking you, or feeling relaxed. Butts know when the thing touching them is paying attention, or being a jerk.” In other words, if you want to get down and dirty with anal sex, you must have open communication with your partner and feel genuinely comfortable with your butt (and what’s going on inside of it). While drunken anal sex might seem like the greatest thing in the world, it’s better to be fully aware of what is happening and be cognizant of hygiene rules. Before you even get to anal sex or intercourse for that matter, you need to find out what kind of relationships you’re looking for. Are you monogamous and looking for one mate, or are you non-monogamous and ready to land in more than one place? Nina talks about her sexual identity and how she embraced a non-monogamous lifestyle. When we're younger, we often make the same mistakes over and over again. Sleeping with people who don’t care about us, and getting in relationships with people who don’t want the same things as we do, and feeling guilty for having a love life that falls short of a romantic comedy. You have to figure out what works for you, and not anyone else. Some people enjoy random sex, other people don’t. Nina enjoys doing porn because she likes having sex with people without having to date them. Other people find that having sex with strangers makes them feel empty. Find out what kind of relationships makes you happy, and don’t look back. Finally, Nina Hartley gives descriptive directions on how to pleasure a woman with your hands. You’ll learn how to lightly pinch and pull her clitoris and make it move. Nina gives great foreplay tips, because unless she says, “do me right now you sexy beast,” you’re going to have to get her warmed up for sex. Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: Freak In The Sheets If you want to change your love life check out: Emily and Tony, Promescent,Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Emily and Tony is a premium, intimate personal-care brand that believes intimacy should be fun, flirty, sensual and natural. Our products: Aromatherapy Massage Candle, Personal Naturally Hydrating Lubricant, and DownUnder Comfort for you sweaty nether regions. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Things that I don’t tolerate and you shouldn’t either: cheaters, selfish lovers, and fake orgasms. Don’t fake orgasms! Don’t try to put on a sexy face and give a porn star moan when you don’t mean it. Instead of faking orgasms, find out how you can really enjoy sex. It helps if you have a tall, dark, and handsome companion, but you need to do the work on yourself to find out what feels good. Show him what you like, instead of putting on a show to satisfy his ego.How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? If you have to ask whether your boyfriend is a cheater or not, then he’s probably a cheater. I’ll show you how to know whether he’s a cheater or not, without going through his cell phone in the middle of the night.How much should you talk about sex on a date? As a sex expert, I probably talk about sex more than the average person. I can’t help bring up sex when I’m out on a date, but should you talk about sex on the first date? Also, what do you do about a selfish lover? If he’s not going down on you, what is the best plan of attack? Withhold oral sex from him? Steal his video game controls? Or maybe you should just communicate with your partner that you want oral sex? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

According to Loveline Host Mike Catherwood, real men give oral sex (if only all men shared Mike Catherwood's definition of a real men *sigh*). If you don't genuinely want to please women and you don't want to give them multiple orgasms, listen to another podcast! Real men: Don't become irrationally angry about their girlfriend's sexual history. Instead of obsessing about your partner's past sexual experiences, focus on making your present relationship pleasurable. Just like you've desired other women, they've desired other men. What matters now is that you desire and enjoy each other. Real men don't pound away like a jack hammer during sex. Real men follow Mike Catherwood's three amazing oral sex tips on women (they're good ladies!). Real men understand that sex isn't just about technique or how long you last, it's about having confidence and a good attitude (even if you orgasm in 15 seconds). Real men use vibrators during sex! Real men try to make sex interesting in long-term relationships. And finally, real men don't call women sluts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Female Ejaculation- it is intense and it is real. With your finger on her G-spot and your thumb on her clitoris, give her a crazy, squirting orgasm. I’ll tell you how to warm her up, find her G-spot, massage her G-spot, and pleasure her clitoris until she gets to the point of female ejaculation. Before I bequeath you with the secrets of female ejaculation, I give listeners advice on how to have the sex and relationships they want. I help: The guy who needs a new sex position. The husband who won’t stop inappropriately poking his wife. The woman who needs to dye her hair a crazy color and have more confidence. The guy who needs to get pegged with a strap-on. And of course, the woman who wants to squirt. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Swingers Holli and Michael from Playboy Radio’s SWING share everything about living sexy— The swingers parties, dealing with jealousy, and of course the sex. Almost everyday someone asks me, "so what's the deal with swingers?" No, they don't all have ponytails, and they aren't all "crazy." Unless your definition of crazy is having open communication with your partner, and admitting that monogamy doesn't always work for you. Swingers put everything out in the open— they share their fantasies with their partner, ask for consent before trying to have with someone, and tell their partner everything. Swingers have so much trust in their relationships because there is nothing to hide. There is no cheating and lying. Although swingers are largely perceived as "crazy," they have some of the most realistic and unrepressed relationships I've ever seen. Even if you don't want partake in the Swingers lifestyle, there are a lot things people can learn from Swingers and people in open relationships. The great part about open relationships is that you get to create your own rules. You decide on things like, are you allowed to kiss another person? If you go sleep with someone, does that mean you spend the night? Setting up rules forces the couple to communicate about what they expect from the relationship. Enough about relationships, let's get to the sex. Holli and Michael give their best sex tips. Holli, a bisexual swinger, and Michael, who has gone down on A LOT of women, give advice on giving women oral sex. Michael even shares how he gives women multiple orgasms, because why limit yourself to only one orgasm? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm answering Sex With Emily listener's relationship questions, with a few sex questions sprinkled in for good measure. In this show, Menace and I debate the male and female perspective on people's most common relationship issues. We tell you when to move on from an unhealthy relationship and when to stop licking your wounds in a bad breakup. We also teach how to have courage to change, and have better relationships. Sex with Emily listener's Relationship Questions: When should you let down your guard and commit to someone? How many times do you try to make a relationship work before calling it quits? How do I get over the girl I'm still in love with? What do you do when you and lover can't agree on places to meet? Is is worth it to wait to have sex? When is the right time to lose your virginity? How many dates should you go on before having sex with someone? Why do women like giving double blow jobs so much? (someone has been watching a lot of porn.) Why does eating certain things make semen taste differently? Girls like the chase, right? But when is it an exciting pursuit and when is it stalking? When should the guy give up ? When is his pursuit cute and when is it creepy ? When should he fear a restraining order? (FYI. Throwing rocks at her window in the middle of the night isn't cute, unless you're a character in a teenage Romantic Comedy.) What do I do if I queef? (Hint: Do not run away screaming or hide under a rock) Sex isn't neat and tidy. It's messy, just like relationships. You can't run away the second you start feeling vulnerable or exposed. On the other hand, you shouldn't stay in a relationship because you think you'll be lost without it. Great change requires some personal struggle. The key to relationships is finding the right person to let yourself be vulnerable with, and having the courage to leave when things no longer fit. Oh, and try not to stalk anyone. As much as women like the idea of "the chase," we usually make time for people we are interested in. If you want to change your love life check out: Promescent, Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How does a porn star have sex when he's not on a porn set? Does he pump away for hours with his chiseled abs glistening with sweat? According to porn star Joey Ray, porn star sex isn't all it's cracked up to be. No one wants it to last that long, that hard. Porn focuses on performance, not pleasure. You might learn some fancy moves from porn, but you're not going to learn how to truly pleasure a woman. So, how do you please a woman? Ray is all about female pleasure. He talks about how to last the right amount of time during sex. Hint: It's about how long it takes her to orgasm. He also talks about how to find out what turns on different women. The same techniques don't work with every partner. You have to pay attention and really get to know her body, instead of obsessing about your own performance. The more you make sex about her, and the less you try to act like a porn star, the better the sex will be. The take home message: Have sex like a porn star, but only when they aren't having sex for the camera. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices