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Put it in a bubble

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The Weight Nobody Sees

May 13, 202617 min

You Know Better. So Why Is It Still Hard?

May 6, 202614 min

The Bubble Reset

Apr 29, 202610 min

Letting Go of What You Carry

Apr 22, 202615 min

Rest Is Not a Reward

Apr 15, 202612 min

S3 Ep 11Your Inner Voice Matters

The voice you hear most is your own and it has more influence over your life than you may realize.In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, we explore the power of your inner voice and how the way you speak to yourself shapes your confidence, decisions, and growth.Negative self-talk can keep you stuck in doubt, hesitation, and fear. But when you begin to shift your inner dialogue, even slightly you create space for confidence, resilience, and forward movement.This episode breaks down the difference between negative and supportive self-talk, how your inner voice is formed, and simple ways to begin reshaping it in your everyday life.Because the goal isn’t perfection—it’s learning how to speak to yourself in a way that helps you grow.In This Episode We Talk About• How your inner voice shapes your daily experiences • The difference between negative and supportive self-talk • Why negative thoughts feel stronger and more automatic • How small shifts in language can change your mindset • The power of adding the word “yet” • Using affirmations in simple, real-life waysnegative self talk positive self talk inner voice mindset how to stop self doubt mindset and motivation self talk awareness build confidence mindset personal growth podcast affirmations daily put it in a bubble podcast

Mar 25, 202612 min

S3 Ep 10The Power of Small Wins

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In a world that celebrates big breakthroughs and major achievements, it’s easy to overlook the small steps that actually create meaningful progress.In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, we explore the power of small wins and why incremental change is one of the most effective ways to build momentum in your life. When we learn to recognize small progress, motivation grows, confidence builds, and the path forward begins to feel possible again.Small changes may not look impressive in the moment, but they accumulate over time and can transform the direction of your life.You’ll learn why big changes often fail, how small actions reduce mental resistance, and how recognizing daily progress can help you build lasting habits.If you’ve ever felt discouraged because progress feels slow, this episode will remind you that every step forward matters.In This Episode We Talk About• Why people often overlook progress• The power of incremental change• Why small changes are easier for the brain to accept• The science behind habit formation• How small wins build momentum and motivation• Simple ways to begin recognizing progress in your daily lifeExamples of Small WinsSmall wins can be incredibly simple, such as:• Drinking more water• Writing down your goals• Taking a short walk• Organizing one small area of your workspace• Turning off notifications to focus on your workThese small steps may seem minor in the moment, but over time they create powerful momentum.Reflection Questions• What small win did I experience today?• Where in my life am I overlooking progress?• What small step can I take today that moves me forward?• How can I celebrate effort instead of waiting for perfect results?Final ThoughtProgress doesn’t always happen in big dramatic moments.Most growth happens quietly through small actions repeated over time.When the journey feels slow, remember that small wins are the building blocks of lasting change.When life feels heavy, overwhelming, or uncertain…Put it in a bubble. 🫧small wins mindsetincremental changehow to build habitspersonal growth motivationbuilding momentum in lifesmall changes big resultsmindset podcastself improvement tipshabit formationput it in a bubble podcast

Mar 18, 202613 min

S3 Ep 9Returning When You Fall Off Track

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Life doesn’t always move in a straight line. Sometimes we start something with the best intentions—whether it’s a goal, a habit, or a personal commitment—and then life gets busy, overwhelming, or exhausting. Before we know it, we’ve fallen off track.In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, we talk about something that almost everyone experiences but rarely talks about openly: how to begin again without shame.Falling off track doesn’t erase your progress, and it doesn’t mean you failed. The real growth comes from learning how to return with compassion, flexibility, and a willingness to start small.This episode explores why consistency isn’t always perfect, why shame keeps us stuck longer than necessary, and how gentle steps forward can rebuild momentum.Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is simply decide to begin again.In This Episode We Talk About• Why progress rarely happens in a perfectly straight line • The hidden shame that prevents people from restarting • Why falling off track is a normal part of growth • How to return to your goals without overwhelming yourself • The power of starting smaller than before • Reconnecting with the reason something mattered to you in the first placeGentle Steps to Get Back on TrackIf you’ve stepped away from something that mattered to you, try this:• Start smaller than you were before • Focus only on the next step, not the entire journey • Let go of the pressure to “catch up” • Reconnect with your original reason for startingMomentum returns through small actions, not perfect ones.Reflection Questions• Is there something I’ve been avoiding restarting? • What small step could I take today to return to it? • What pressure or expectations might I need to release? • How can I approach this with more compassion toward myself?Final ThoughtYou don’t have to fix yesterday.You only have to begin again today.Returning matters more than never stopping.If this episode resonated with you, consider sharing it with someone who might need the reminder that starting again is always possible.And remember… when life feels heavy, overwhelming, or stuck—Put it in a bubble. 🫧

Mar 11, 202611 min

S3 Ep 8The Flexible Mindset

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Life rarely goes exactly as planned. In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, we explore what it truly means to develop a flexible mindset, the ability to bend without breaking when life shifts unexpectedly.A rigid mindset keeps us stuck in fear, perfectionism, and all-or-nothing thinking. A flexible mindset opens the door to growth, resilience, and possibility.In this episode, you’ll learn:What a flexible mindset actually is (and what it’s not)How rigid thinking increases stress and self-doubtWhy adding the word “yet” can change your perspectiveHow to reframe failure into learningPractical steps to build mental flexibility dailyReflection questions to strengthen your adaptabilityIf you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or frustrated because things aren’t going “according to plan,” this episode will gently guide you toward a new way of thinking.Because success isn’t about perfection, it’s about persistence and adaptability.🫧 When rigid thinking feels heavy… put it in a bubble.Reflection QuestionsWhere in my life am I thinking in black and white?What outcome am I gripping too tightly?How can I reframe one recent setback into a lesson?What would change if I added the word “yet” to my self-talk?

Mar 5, 202626 min

S3 Ep 7Carrying Other People’s Emotional Weight

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Episode DescriptionDo you ever leave a conversation feeling drained — even when nothing dramatic happened?In this episode, Marilyn explores the difference between empathy and emotional absorption, and how many of us quietly carry other people’s stress, moods, and expectations without realizing it. From the pressure to be the “strong one” to seeking validation in everyday life and on social media, this conversation helps listeners recognize what truly belongs to them — and what doesn’t.Through reflection, writing, and a gentle Bubble Method practice, this episode offers permission to care deeply without being consumed.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:The difference between empathy and emotional absorptionWhy certain roles (caregiver, leader, parent, “strong friend”) increase emotional loadHow validation and social pressure contribute to overextending yourselfThe subtle ways we seek approval at the cost of our own wellbeingA Bubble practice for returning emotional weight to where it belongsA simple writing exercise to sort what’s yours to holdKey RemindersYou can care without carrying.You can support without absorbing.You don’t need constant validation to justify your boundaries.Your nervous system needs safety — not applause.Reflection QuestionsWhose emotions am I managing without realizing it?Do I feel steady inside myself — or am I adjusting for approval?What expectations am I carrying that aren’t mine?

Feb 26, 202614 min

Knowing the Difference Between Healthy and Harmful Dynamics

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Not all unhealthy relationships are loud or obvious. Some feel confusing, draining, or heavy over time — even when there’s love involved. In this bonus episode, Marilyn gently explores the difference between healthy and harmful relationship dynamics through a calm, parent-style lens focused on awareness, not judgment.This episode helps listeners recognize warning signals in relationships, understand controlling and manipulative behaviors, and learn how to trust their internal cues without rushing into decisions. The focus is on patterns, impact, and emotional safety — not labels or blame.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:Why “red flags” are better understood as signalsWhat healthy relationships typically feel likeCommon signs of controlling behaviorSubtle forms of emotional manipulationHow guilt and confusion show up in unhealthy dynamicsA gentle Bubble Method check-in for relationshipsReflection Questions:How do I feel before, during, and after time with this person?Do I feel more like myself — or less — in this relationship?Am I choosing freely, or adjusting to avoid consequences?Listener Reminder:Someone can love you and still not be healthy for you.You don’t have to label or decide anything today — noticing is enough.How This Episode Can Help:This conversation is meant to support awareness, self-trust, and emotional clarity. It is not about diagnosing or assigning blame, but about helping you understand what feels safe, respectful, and sustainable in your relationships.#PutItInABubble #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalBoundaries #RelationshipAwareness #SelfTrust #EmotionalWellbeingSupport & ResourcesIf this episode raised concerns or questions about a relationship, confidential support is available:National Domestic Violence Hotline Call or text 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | thehotline.orgLove Is Respect Text LOVEIS to 22522 | loveisrespect.orgRAINN rainn.orgSupport can be quiet, confidential, and taken at your own pace.

Feb 14, 202611 min

S3 Ep 6Boundaries That Don’t Feel Harsh

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Setting boundaries doesn’t have to feel cold, confrontational, or guilt-ridden. In this episode, Marilyn explores how to create boundaries that protect your energy while still honoring who you are. This conversation reframes boundaries as acts of self-respect—not rejection—and offers gentle, realistic ways to set limits without over-explaining or shutting people out.If you’ve ever avoided boundaries because you didn’t want to disappoint others or create conflict, this episode offers a calmer, more sustainable approach.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:Why boundaries often feel uncomfortable or “harsh”The difference between walls and healthy boundariesHow unclear boundaries lead to resentment and burnoutRecognizing where you’re stretching past your capacityQuiet, compassionate ways to protect your energyReflection Questions:Where in my life do I feel most drained right now?What am I giving too much of without realizing it?What small boundary could support me this week?Listener Reminder: Boundaries don’t make you difficult. They make you sustainable.

Feb 12, 202611 min

S3 Ep 5Making Decisions When You’re Emotionally Tired

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When you’re emotionally tired, even simple decisions can feel overwhelming and big choices made in that state often lead to regret. In this episode, Marilyn talks about decision fatigue, emotional exhaustion, and how to pause choices without falling behind.This episode offers permission to slow down, protect yourself from burnout decisions, and recognize when rest, not action is the most responsible next step.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:What emotional decision fatigue really looks likeWhy tired minds struggle with clarityThe difference between urgency and pressureHow to pause decisions without avoiding responsibilitySimple questions to guide choices when energy is lowReflection Questions:What decisions feel heavy right now?Which choices can wait until I feel more rested?What would it look like to pause without guilt?Listener Reminder:You don’t have to decide everything today.Clarity comes more easily when you’re rested.

Feb 4, 202614 min

S3 Ep 4The Quiet Pressure to Be “Okay”

Many of us feel an unspoken pressure to say we’re “fine” — even when we’re tired, overwhelmed, or unsure. In this episode, Marilyn explores where that pressure comes from, why pretending to be okay can be exhausting, and how to be honest without overexposing yourself.This conversation is about removing the emotional mask, recognizing the difference between privacy and pretending, and learning language that protects your energy while staying true to yourself.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:Why we feel pressure to appear “okay”How minimizing your feelings adds to emotional exhaustionThe difference between being private and pretendingGentle ways to be honest without opening heavy conversationsA simple writing practice to release internal pressureReflection Questions:Where do I feel pressure to be okay?Who do I automatically reassure instead of myself?What might it feel like to answer honestly — even quietly?Listener Reminder:You don’t owe anyone a performance of wellness.Being honest doesn’t have to be loud to be real.

Jan 28, 202611 min

S3 Ep 3Everything Feels Like Too Much

When everything starts to feel heavy, overwhelming, and just plain too much, it’s often not because one thing is wrong — it’s because too many things are being carried at the same time. In this episode, Marilyn talks about emotional overload, why it builds quietly, and how to recognize the signs before it spills over.This conversation isn’t about fixing or pushing through. It’s about slowing down, sorting what you’re carrying, and creating space to breathe. Through a gentle bubble practice and simple reflection, listeners are invited to notice what truly needs their attention — and what can be set down, even temporarily.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:What emotional overload really looks likeWhy feeling overwhelmed is not a personal failureHow emotional weight builds over timeA simple bubble practice to sort what you’re carryingWriting as a tool to release pressure without solving everythingReflection Questions:What feels heaviest for me right now?What am I carrying that can wait?What doesn’t actually belong to me to carry?Listener Reminder:Feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean you’re incapable.It means you’ve been capable for a long time without enough space to rest.#PutItInABubble #EmotionalOverload #OverwhelmSupport #MindsetPodcast #SelfCompassion #EmotionalWellbeing #Season3

Jan 21, 202611 min

S3 Ep 2When Your Mind Won’t Slow Down

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When your body is tired, but your mind won’t stop racing, it can feel frustrating, exhausting, and hard to explain. In this episode, Marilyn explores why racing thoughts happen, especially during quiet moments, and why it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you.You’ll learn gentle, practical ways to calm your nervous system, including how writing things down can help your mind feel safe enough to rest. This episode is about softening, not fixing — and giving yourself permission to slow down without pressure.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:Why racing thoughts often show up when things finally get quietThe connection between a busy mind and an overloaded nervous systemWhy calming the body matters more than controlling thoughtsHow writing things down helps reduce mental overloadSimple ways to give your mind a place to restPractices Shared in This Episode:A gentle breathing and grounding exerciseThe “mental parking lot” writing practiceUsing the Bubble Method to contain looping thoughtsLetting go of the need to solve everything at onceReflection Questions:When does my mind tend to get the loudest?What might my body need in those moments?What can safely wait until tomorrow?Listener Reminder: A racing mind doesn’t mean you’re failing at rest. It usually means you’ve been carrying more than you realize.#PutItInABubble #RacingThoughts #MentalOverload #MindsetSupport #EmotionalWellness #Season3

Jan 14, 202610 min

S3 Ep 1A Gentle Start to the New Year

The beginning of a new year often comes with pressure — to set goals, make changes, and become a “better” version of ourselves. In this opening episode of Season 3, Marilyn invites listeners to step away from that noise and start the year gently instead.This episode is about slowing down, releasing expectations, and giving yourself permission to begin where you are. Through reflection and a calming bubble practice, Marilyn encourages listeners to notice what they’re carrying into the new year and decide — without judgment — what truly belongs with them right now.This is not about reinvention.It’s about intention, clarity, and breathing room.In This Episode, You’ll Hear About:The pressure that often comes with a new yearWhy you don’t need to reinvent yourself to move forwardHow to notice emotional and mental weight without fixing itA gentle New Year Bubble practice for reflectionStarting the year with clarity instead of overwhelmReflection Questions:What am I still carrying from last year?What feels heavy that may not belong to me anymore?What would feel supportive right now?Listener Reminder:You don’t have to rush into this year.You don’t have to have it all figured out.A gentle start is still a powerful start.Connect & Learn More:🌐 Website: www.PutItInABubble.com🎧 Subscribe & Listen on your favorite podcast platformHashtags:#PutItInABubble #GentleStart #NewYearMindset #EmotionalWellness #IntentionalLiving #MindsetSupport #Season3

Jan 7, 202610 min

S2 Ep 15Boundaries and Balance During the Holidays

The holidays can be beautiful—and overwhelming. In this episode, we talk about setting kind, clear boundaries that protect your time, energy, budget, and peace. You’ll get simple scripts you can use word-for-word, a 3-step boundary framework, micro-habits that reduce stress, and a short guided exercise to define your non-negotiables.What You’ll LearnA simple 3-step framework: Notice → Name → NegotiateWord-for-word scripts for time, money, food/body talk, travel, hosting, hot topics, and last-minute requestsMicro-boundaries that prevent overwhelm (calendar buffers, two-yes rule, “leave while happy”)A quick Guilt Detox reframe to stop second-guessingA 5-minute Holiday Non-Negotiables exercise you can repeat all seasonLinks & Free ResourceFree One-Pager: Holiday Boundary Script Sheet — copy/paste scripts, plus the Non-Negotiables template.Share this episode with a friend who needs permission to choose peace over perfection.Follow & ConnectSubscribe to Put It in a Bubble for weekly mindset tools.Connect with Marilyn on social for episode updates and prompts.#PutItInABubble #HolidayBoundaries #MindfulLiving #StressLess #MentalWellness #PositiveMindset #SimplifyTheSeason

Dec 10, 202520 min

S2 Ep 14When the Holidays Don’t Feel So Merry

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The holidays are often painted as a season of joy — but what if they don’t feel that way this year? In this heartfelt and grounding episode, Marilyn Barker opens up about the quieter side of the holidays the grief, the loneliness, and the pressure to make everything perfect.Through honest reflection and gentle guidance, Marilyn reminds listeners that it’s okay if the holidays look different this year. She shares ways to set boundaries, honor your emotions, find small moments of peace, and create new meaning when old traditions feel heavy.If the holidays stir up more stress than sparkle, this episode offers a comforting space to breathe, reflect, and rediscover what truly matters.Key Takeaways:It’s okay if the holidays don’t feel “merry.” You’re not alone.Lowering expectations can make space for genuine peace.Grief and joy can coexist — and that’s part of being human.Boundaries protect your energy and peace of mind.Find your own meaning this season, even if it looks different than before.Quote from the Episode:“Peace doesn’t come from the perfect table setting or the right playlist. It comes from within from giving yourself permission to be exactly where you are.”

Dec 3, 202514 min

S2 Ep 13Finding Peace in the Pause

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Episode 13: Finding Peace in the PauseIn a world that never seems to slow down, taking time to pause can feel impossible — or even wrong. But what if the moments of stillness you resist are the very ones that bring you peace, clarity, and strength?In this episode, Marilyn dives deep into the power of the pause the sacred space between the doing and the being. Through personal reflection and motivational insight, she explores how rest can become your greatest source of renewal, how slowing down can actually move you forward, and why peace isn’t found in the noise… but in the quiet in between.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or disconnected, this episode will help you breathe again.In this episode, we’ll talk about:Why we glorify being “busy” and how it drains our peaceHow pausing can shift your perspective and restore balanceThe difference between rest and avoidanceSimple ways to create intentional moments of stillness in your dayHow to redefine productivity through presence and peaceTakeaway:You don’t have to earn your rest or prove your worth through exhaustion. The world won’t fall apart if you slow down and you might just find the clarity you’ve been searching for when you do.Remember:When life gets loud, put it in a bubble, take a breath, and let it go.✨ Listen now on Captivate, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your favorite shows.#PutItInABubble #MindsetMatters #PeaceInThePause #MotivationalPodcast #SelfGrowth #MentalWellness #WomenInBusiness

Nov 26, 202511 min

S2 Ep 12“The Gift of Letting Go”

In this heartfelt solo episode, Marilyn explores the powerful and freeing process of letting go — not just of people or pain, but of control, guilt, and expectations that keep us from peace.As the holiday season approaches, Marilyn opens up about her own journey of release — learning to let go of what no longer serves her in both life and business. Through personal stories and gentle reflection, she reminds us that letting go isn’t about giving up — it’s about making space for something new.You’ll learn how to identify what’s weighing you down, why it’s okay to grieve what’s gone, and how to use mindset tools to practice emotional release and renewal.Take a moment to breathe, reflect, and put what no longer serves you… in a bubble, and blow it away.Key Takeaways:Letting go is not weakness — it’s an act of wisdom and peace.Learn how to separate memory from meaning and guilt from growth.Practical mindset tools to help you release emotional and professional clutter.Discover how creating space allows clarity, peace, and new opportunities to flow in.

Nov 19, 202514 min

S2 Ep 11Navigating Change Without Losing Yourself

🌿 Episode SummaryIn this heartfelt solo episode, Marilyn explores one of life’s most universal experiences—change. Whether it’s a career shift, a relationship transition, or a personal reinvention, change challenges who we believe we are.Marilyn shares personal reflections and guiding mindset shifts to help you stay grounded, centered, and true to yourself, even as the world around you evolves. Through compassion, calm, and perspective, she reminds us that growth doesn’t mean losing who you are—it means becoming more of who you were meant to be.💭 What You’ll LearnHow to anchor yourself in your core values during major life transitionsWhy pausing and creating space for reflection can restore clarity and peaceHow to reframe discomfort as a sign of growth rather than lossThe power of connection and community when everything around you changesA gentle visualization exercise to help you release fear and find calm🪞 Key Quote“You don’t have to lose yourself to grow. You can evolve and still remain grounded in your truth.”💜 Put It in a Bubble MomentTake a deep breath, imagine your worries about change floating into a bubble… then blow it away.You don’t have to carry it all just take the next step forward in peace.📬 Join the ConversationShare your story of navigating change in our Put It in a Bubble Facebook community.Connect, reflect, and remember—you’re never alone in your journey of becoming.

Nov 12, 202512 min

S2 Ep 10Shift Happens..with Bobby Newell

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🎙️ Episode 10: SHIFT Happens with Bobby Newell, LCSW, SEPAir Date: Wednesday, November 5, 2025Guest: Bobby Newell | Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Somatic Experiencing Therapist, Executive Business CoachTopic: Navigating Burnout, Nervous System Regulation & Embodied Leadership💬 Episode SummaryIn this insightful conversation, Marilyn sits down with Bobby Newell, the founder of Mindful Collaboration and author of SHIFT Happens: A Workbook for Stressed-Out Professionals. Together, they unpack what it really means to experience burnout, how the body keeps the score when stress piles up, and how to reclaim balance without walking away from the life you’ve worked hard to build.Bobby shares the foundations of somatic awareness, the science behind nervous system regulation, and how small, consistent practices can shift you from survival mode back into calm and connection. She also opens up about her journey as a clinician and coach — and how learning to “listen to the body first” transformed both her career and her clients’ lives.Listeners will come away with practical, evidence-based tools they can start using immediately to manage stress, avoid burnout, and lead with authenticity.🧠 Key TakeawaysWhat somatic experiencing really is — and why it matters for professionals under pressure.The hidden signs of burnout and how to catch them early.How to re-regulate your nervous system during busy or stressful days.The power of embodied leadership and setting healthy boundaries.Why self-awareness is the first step to sustainable success.📘 About the GuestBobby Newell, LCSW, SEP is a licensed clinical social worker, somatic experiencing therapist, and executive business coach based in Raleigh, North Carolina. With over two decades of experience in trauma-informed mental health care, she helps individuals and organizations rebuild from the inside out through nervous system regulation, embodied leadership, and authentic connection.She is the founder of Mindful Collaboration, a group mental-health practice dedicated to helping clients heal from trauma and stress through both traditional and body-based therapies.Bobby is also the author of SHIFT Happens: A Workbook for Stressed-Out Professionals — a practical, somatic guide designed to help high-functioning professionals recognize burnout, regulate their nervous systems, and restore calm — without quitting their jobs.Outside of her professional life, Bobby lives in Raleigh with her husband and two fluffy cats and is the proud parent of three adult children.🔗 Resources & LinksFree Workbook: Get your complimentary workbook at https://bobby-newell.kit.com/regulateandresetConnect with Bobby: Mindful Collaboration WebsiteBook: SHIFT Happens: A Workbook for Stressed-Out Professionals💜 About the ShowPut It in a Bubble is a mindset and personal-growth podcast hosted by Marilyn Barker, designed to help you let go of stress, find clarity, and move forward with purpose. Each episode brings practical tools, heartfelt stories, and powerful conversations that remind us all to put it in a bubble — and blow it away.#PutItInABubblePodcast #MindfulCollaboration #SHIFTHappens #SomaticHealing #BurnoutRecovery #StressRelief #EmbodiedLeadership #WomenInBusiness #MindfulnessAtWork

Nov 5, 202521 min

S2 Ep 9The Seasons of Life

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In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, Marilyn explores the seasons of life and how each one shapes our growth. Just like spring, summer, fall, and winter, our lives go through cycles of new beginnings, growth, letting go, and rest. Instead of resisting, we can embrace each stage for what it has to offer.You’ll learn:How to recognize what “season” you’re currently in.Why rest is just as important as growth.Practical ways to embrace new beginnings, transitions, and endings.How to find peace in knowing that no season lasts forever.Take a deep breath and reflect: What season are you in today?

Oct 29, 202515 min

S2 Ep 8Boundaries Without Guilt

How many times have you said “yes” when you really wanted to say “no”? We’ve all done it — whether it’s taking on too much at work, hosting when we’re already exhausted, or staying in draining friendships out of guilt. But here’s the truth: boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re a powerful act of self-respect.In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, we dive deep into the art of setting boundaries — and how to do it without guilt. You’ll hear why boundaries matter, what makes them so difficult, and how to start protecting your energy in small, practical ways.What we’ll explore together:🌱 Why boundaries protect your mental, emotional, and physical well-being.⚖️ The myths and guilt traps that make saying “no” so hard.🛠️ Practical tools for setting boundaries with family, friends, and work.💔 How to recognize and step back from toxic friendships.💡 Reflection prompts and scripts you can use right away.🌈 Why releasing unhealthy connections creates space for healthier ones.This episode also includes personal stories, journaling prompts, and even a guided visualization to help you let go of what’s weighing you down.✨ Remember: Boundaries are not walls. They are bridges to healthier, more authentic relationships.

Oct 22, 202515 min

Who Moved My Cheese? Adapting to Change Before It Stops You

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Episode Summary:Change is inevitable — but how we respond to it determines our growth.In this bonus episode of Put It in a Bubble, host Marilyn Barker reflects on the powerful lessons from Dr. Spencer Johnson’s classic, Who Moved My Cheese? Through storytelling, reflection, and practical tools, Marilyn helps listeners explore how to let go of fear, adapt with confidence, and find new “cheese” in every season of life.Whether you’re facing a shift in work, relationships, or your personal goals, this episode offers insight, calm, and motivation to embrace change before it stops you.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:The simple but powerful parable behind Who Moved My Cheese?What the characters Sniff, Scurry, Hem, and Haw can teach us about mindset and flexibilityHow to recognize when your “cheese” has moved — and what to do nextTools for adapting quickly and letting go of what no longer serves youReflective questions to help you apply these lessons in your daily lifeWhy curiosity and courage lead to peace in times of changeReflective Questions:What’s the “cheese” in your life that may have moved recently?How do you typically react when faced with unexpected change?What fear might be holding you back from taking your next step?How can you reframe this moment as an opportunity for growth?Memorable Quotes from the Episode:“When life moves your cheese, don’t stay stuck wondering why. Take a deep breath, put your fear in a bubble, and blow it away.”“You can’t control if the cheese moves — but you can control whether you take that first step toward finding something new.”“Change is inevitable, but growth is optional.”Resources Mentioned:Who Moved My Cheese? by Dr. Spencer Johnson(Available wherever books and audiobooks are sold)Connect with Put It in a Bubble:💜 Website: www.putitinabubble.com💜 Join the Conversation: Put It in a Bubble Facebook Group💜 Follow on social media: @putitinabubblepodcast#WhoMovedMyCheese#SpencerJohnson#PutItInABubblePodcast#MindsetMatters#EmbraceChange#AdaptingToChange#PersonalGrowthJourney#MindsetShift#GrowthMindset

Oct 19, 202516 min

S2 Ep 7Everyday Mindfulness — Staying Grounded in Stressful Times

In a world that never slows down, how do we find our footing when stress takes over? In this episode of Put it in a Bubble, we explore the practice of everyday mindfulness — not as something lofty or complicated, but as a simple, practical tool to help us stay grounded in the middle of life’s chaos.Through personal stories, beginner-friendly techniques, and even a guided practice, you’ll discover how mindfulness can help you pause, reset, and meet stress with steadiness.🌿 What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeThe real meaning of mindfulness (and why it’s simpler than most people think).How a 10-minute practice can transform stressful days.Everyday strategies like the Three-Breath Pause, 5-4-3-2-1 grounding, and the Bubble Visualization.Why mindfulness works — from lowering cortisol to reshaping negative thought patterns.A guided practice you can follow along with to experience mindfulness right now. Key TakeawayMindfulness isn’t about perfection. It’s about noticing when your mind wanders and gently coming back — again and again. Even a few moments of mindful awareness each day can shift how you experience stress.🔗 Resources & LinksDownload the free Episode 7 Companion Worksheet → [Your Website Link Here]Learn more about the Put it in a Bubble podcast → www.putitinabubble.com

Oct 15, 202517 min

S2 Ep 6The Power of Community

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Who you surround yourself with shapes your mindset, your courage, and your future. In this solo episode, we’re diving into the power of community—family, friendships, accountability groups, and spiritual circles—and how they can either lift you up or hold you back.You’ll hear:Why community is so influential in shaping your mindset and habitsThe different types of communities and how each impacts your lifeHonest truths about toxic relationships and draining circlesA simple “Community Audit” exercise to evaluate your circlePractical ways to find uplifting, supportive people who help you growThis episode is about making intentional choices in who gets access to your energy—and creating a circle that helps you rise.✨ Companion Worksheet: Download the free Community Audit Worksheet to reflect on your circle and take action steps toward healthier, more uplifting connections.

Oct 8, 202518 min

S2 Ep 5Women Helping Women in Business with RoseMary O’Malley

In this inspiring episode of Put it in a Bubble, Marilyn is joined by RoseMary O’Malley, entrepreneur and advocate with L’Bri Pure and Natural, a skincare line rooted in the healing power of aloe and botanicals. Their conversation goes beyond skincare, focusing on how women can lift each other up in business and in life.Listeners will hear:How RoseMary built her journey with L’Bri Pure and Natural and what makes this company’s mission unique.Why supporting women-owned businesses creates a ripple effect of opportunity and empowerment.The role confidence and self-care play in showing up as your best self — personally and professionally.Practical tips for women who want to grow their own ventures while building community instead of competition.This episode is about more than products or business strategies — it’s a reminder that when women support women, everyone thrives.Guest Links:Connect with RoseMary O’Malley and explore L’Bri Pure and Natural: www.ShoppingwithRosemary.com

Oct 2, 202529 min

S2 Ep 4Lessons from Failure — How Setbacks Shape Success

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Failure. Mistakes. Wrong turns. We’ve all faced them and most of us have tried to run from them. But what if setbacks weren’t meant to define us… what if they were meant to teach us?In this episode of Put it in a Bubble, Marilyn explores how failure is never final — it’s feedback. Through personal stories and practical steps, she unpacks how mistakes can become lessons, why adopting a growth mindset changes everything, and how to move forward wiser, stronger, and more resilient. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why failure isn’t the opposite of success, but part of the journeyThe power of a growth mindset when facing setbacksHow to extract the lessons hidden in mistakes and wrong turnsPractical ways to forgive yourself, reframe failure, and rise againWhy progress matters more than perfection Key Quote:“Failure isn’t final. It’s feedback. And when you choose a growth mindset, every setback becomes a steppingstone.”If you’ve ever felt weighed down by your mistakes or fearful of failing again, this episode will encourage you to shift your perspective, learn the lesson, and keep moving forward.🎧 Listen now and discover how to turn your setbacks into your steppingstones.

Sep 24, 202517 min

S2 Ep 3Popping the Bubble of Fear, How to Push Past Doubt

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ear and doubt have a way of creeping into our lives. They whisper, “What if you fail?” or “What will people think?” and before we know it, we’re stuck — afraid to take the next step.But what if fear isn’t as solid as it feels? What if it’s just a bubble… and bubbles can pop?In this episode of Put it in a Bubble, Marilyn explores how fear and self-doubt hold us back — and how to reframe them as fragile bubbles we can release. Through personal stories, practical tools, and a short visualization exercise, you’ll learn how to face fear with courage and move forward, even when it feels uncomfortable.✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:The difference between fear and doubt — and why both can feel paralyzing.The most common “fear bubbles” we all carry (fear of failure, judgment, success, and the unknown).Practical tools to pop those bubbles and take action anyway.A simple visualization exercise to release fear in the moment.Why courage doesn’t come before action — it comes because of action.✨ Key Quote:“Fear isn’t a cage it’s a bubble. And bubbles can pop.”Whether you’re starting a new chapter, chasing a dream, or just trying to quiet the voices of doubt in your everyday life, this episode will help you see fear in a whole new light — and give you the confidence to move forward.🎧 Listen now and start popping your fear bubbles today.

Sep 17, 202513 min

S2 Ep 2Finding Calm in a Chaotic World

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 Life can feel overwhelming — the noise, the pressure, the negativity we carry around with us. But what if you didn’t have to hold onto all that stress? In this episode of Put it in a Bubble, host [Your Name] shares how to use the “bubble method” to let go of negativity and create space for peace, clarity, and growth.Discover how to: ✨ Put stress and negative thoughts into a “bubble” and blow them away ✨ Protect your personal bubble of peace through boundaries and habits ✨ Practice simple tools like the 3-breath reset and bubble check-ins ✨ Apply this method to daily life — from tough conversations to sleepless nightsThis episode blends practical strategies with encouragement, helping you step out of chaos and into calm.Because when you let go of what doesn’t serve you, you make room for what truly matters.

Sep 10, 202518 min

S2 Ep 1Welcome Back to the Bubble

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After a break, Put it in a Bubble is back — refreshed, refocused, and ready to help you release stress, negativity, and fear so you can live with more peace, growth, and joy.In this very first episode of the relaunch, host Marilyn Barker shares the vision and heart behind the podcast: a simple but powerful practice of putting what weighs you down into a bubble… and blowing it away.You’ll hear:✨ Why the podcast took a pause and what’s different this time✨ The true meaning of “put it in a bubble”✨ What to expect from upcoming episodes - weekly stories, strategies, and inspiration✨ An invitation to join a growing community focused on letting go of stress and focusing on what matters mostThis episode sets the tone for everything to come. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, encouragement for your business journey, or just a moment of calm in your week, Put it in a Bubble will meet you right where you are.

Sep 3, 20256 min

S1 Ep 9Optimistic

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Today we talk about be optimistic. Journaling, laughing and changing your mindset. Depression can be a dark cloud but we must try to see some light and change our perspective to an optimistic one.

Oct 6, 202419 min

S1 Ep 8Living in the Now

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Living in the now may sound like a New Age concept for, but it can be one of the most powerful tools for living your best life once you start to practice it.  Let go of the past. Don't live in the future. Focus on the now. We talk mindfulness and using mediation. You can live your best live now!

Aug 31, 202429 min

S1 Ep 7Ryan Rittenhouse from Sparkle Heart Holistic..your energy

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Today we talk to Ryan Rittenhouse from Sparkle Heart Holistic. How healing your inner child can help us be happier adults and more.

Aug 24, 202430 min

S1 Ep 6Broken..a little bit of my story

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Today we talk about how being broken can be healed. We hear a little bit about Marilyn's story and learn there is hope to overcome trauma. In this short 15 min episode we learn that Marilyn was able to come to grips with abuse and bad decisions. This is just a small insight to how she became the person she is today.

Aug 11, 202415 min

S1 Ep 5PTSD: A serious mental health condition

Today we are talking about PTSD, what is it, how to help someone suffering from it. PTSD is a serious mental health condition that happens when a person experiences a life threatening event.

Aug 3, 202418 min

S1 Ep 4Positive Affirmations..they do work.

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Today we talk about Positive Affirmations and the power of your mind. What are positive affirmations? How do you use them? What are some examples? Using positive affirmations can change your mindset, the vibration you put out in the universe and a whole lot more. You are not alone, its hard to withstand all the negativity out there. Learn how to counteract all that negative with positive.

Jul 27, 202415 min

S1 Ep 3Its all about your mindset Negative vs Postive

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Fixed mindset, flexible mindset, negative vs. positive Mindset is a big thing and its not always easy to be in a positive mind. You are not alone. Focusing on the positive is not just a saying, it truly can change your life and your perspective. Take a listen and get a few tips on have a more flexible positive mindset.

Jul 20, 202417 min

S1 Ep 2Lets talk about Self Talk..

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In this episode of Put it in a Bubble, Marilyn Barker talks about self talk and how it affects are mindsets. Sometimes we need to "talk ourselves through the day". Learn some techniques to help you take one day at a time.

Jul 13, 202418 min

S1 Ep 1Introduction and Overview with Marilyn Barker

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Welcome to Put it in a bubble. Episode one is an overview of what to expect with this series. You are not alone. Lots live with depression, anxiety and other mental health issues. Listen as Marilyn talks a little bit about why she is starting this podcast and what Put it in a bubble means to her.okGns3d6nHJsVV8PwBCu

Jul 11, 202411 min