Love Life With Matthew Hussey

As a strong woman, you may think, “I don’t want to make myself vulnerable in love. It will make me seem weak.” But is that really true? In today’s LOVE Life, I explain the difference between vulnerability and weakness, and show you why being open to getting hurt is actually the most courageous thing you can do. If you want true love, let down your guard and listen to this episode… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re dating a fantastic new guy and things are going great. It’s time to take the next step and introduce him to your crew. There’s just ONE problem: Your super-hot friend. What if your guy meets her and thinks, “Wow – she’s gorgeous. I picked the wrong one?” In today’s episode of LOVE Life I’m going to break down two important things to consider in this tricky situation, and the #1 way you can keep him hooked long-term, no matter how many beautiful women he comes into contact with every day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Arguments in relationships are unavoidable. But if the guy you’re dating is more interested in winning them than solving the underlying problem together, chances are good he’s a toxic person. In this episode of LOVE Life, I’m laying out 5 distinct signs that the man you’re dating is toxic, so you can identify the behaviors and get out now before you get in too deep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I actually hate today’s topic, if I’m being honest. But sadly, it happens far too often: Married men (or men with girlfriends) take women on dates and masquerade as single. Let’s not let them get away with it, ladies! Today I’m revealing 3 subtle clues that give away your date’s secret status so you can kick his sorry cheating butt to the curb. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s really no such thing as a “good” breakup, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t ways to make it a little smoother and less painful for both of you. I’m going to give you my 3 Do’s and 3 Don’ts to help you make your case, prevent an argument, and keep you from losing your nerve and going back to a relationship that isn’t right for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Waiters make their tips based on good service. But regardless of what we do for a living, we all serve others in one way or another. So the question becomes: When presented with a complication, do you use it as license to complain, or an opportunity to show your value to others? In other words, do you “earn your tip?” The right approach can create incredible opportunities, and we’ll explore how to do that in today’s episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For any woman, it’s extremely tricky to answer a guy’s question, “So…how many men have you slept with?” But what if you’re a virgin? How do you tell a guy you like without making it weird or freaking him out? I get asked this question a lot, and today I’m going to tell you just what to say, how to say it, and – most importantly – how to respond to his reaction. Oh, and by the way, we’re also going to talk about why being a virgin isn’t a B(ig) F(reaking) D(eal) to begin with. So relax already! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when you hurt your man and he loses trust in you? Can you ever what you had together? My answer is yes, but it can’t happen overnight. In today’s episode, I share my 3-step process to help you hit “reset” on your relationship and prove that you’re worthy of his forgiveness and, once again, his trust. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How should you communicate with a guy you like in between dates? If you think texting is the only answer, then this episode is for you. I’m going to reveal a surprisingly simple – yet incredibly sexy – way to keep in touch that builds way more connection than sending emojis. Do this and he’ll be dying to take you out again! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There are a lot of ways men show affection through chivalry – holding doors and bringing you flowers are a couple of the classics. But what are some gestures women can do to show love in return? That’s what our caller, Angela, wants to know today. Listen in as I give 5 simple yet surprising ways to show your guy you care, and how to strike the right balance so you keep it authentic and don’t go overboard trying to impress him. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may relate to today’s caller, Diana. She doesn’t have much trouble dating, but then she can’t seem to get past the first few months where she officially becomes the “girlfriend.” I reveal the ONE thing that keeps relationships moving forward (hint: it ISN’T love), and two quick tips anyone can use to keep men coming back for more. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode of LOVE Life I’m sharing a quick tip that ensures you’ll stay top-of-mind when you meet someone new. It’s an old-school networking tool, but even in today’s mobile world, it still works… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re over the “bad boys,” but you don’t really want the boring “Mr. Too Nice” either. So what should you be looking for? A “good guy!” In today’s episode of LOVE Life, I’ll tell you the two traits all “good guys” have, and how to tell if the man you like has them. The next guy you give your heart to will treat you well, but still keep you interested in the long run. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You have the power to be a charismatic, captivating conversationalist… and all it takes are the two simple tricks I’m handing you today. Make sure you listen to the end of the episode, because I’m giving you access to a free guide that will forever transform the way you interact with people and reveal the secret to getting everything you want out of life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you reward yourself for putting in hard work? Is it with a glass of wine, a new pair of shoes, perhaps binge-watching your guilty pleasure show on Netflix? You definitely deserve to treat yourself, but today I’m sharing why I believe that the best reward of all is an internal one: your effort in and of itself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ever notice that the people you want to be around most are the ones who make you feel great about yourself? I’ve got a simple technique for making others want to be around you, and it takes very little effort on your part. It’s one of my top secrets of charisma, and in this episode I’ll tell you how to get your hands on all of the others that will make you an expert with people. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“I’m going to finish this work project in one hour.” “I’m going to clean out all of the clutter in my house today.” “I’m going to lose 10 pounds this week.” I hate to break it to you, but as soon as you commit yourself to a grandiose plan, you doom yourself to fail. You know what I’m talking about: You get so overwhelmed with the big picture that you end up doing nothing at all. Well, I’ve got a plan of attack for you that will help you actually get things done…so you have the confidence you need to get even more things done! It all starts with a first step… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Most of us put a lot of pressure on ourselves to find our “one true passion.” The truth is, it’s almost always an impossible feat. In today’s episode, I’ll explain why this is (the answer is actually good news). I’ll also tell you what is really important to focus on and reveal the one way to ensure success no matter which path you choose in life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ll never agree with everyone all of the time. But how you choose to vocalize your differences in opinion can mean a breakdown of communication OR a moment of true connection. In today’s LOVE Life I’m going to give you my 3 tips to charmingly disagree in a way that draws people closer to you every time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you too shy to speak to guys? If you’re afraid of rejection, that’s only natural. But today, we’re going to get past that fear together with a little tough love from yours truly! I’ve got a shocking message for you, but you can handle it… AND I guarantee it will stop you from holding back so you can finally let your true self shine through. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you feel about making mistakes? If you’re so afraid of screwing up that you never take action, today’s episode of LOVE Life is for you. I’m going to show you why mistakes actually make you great, and how to reframe your association with failure so that you can learn, grow, and go after the things you want most in life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nobody – woman or man – appreciates being objectified. Whether you are being judged on the size of your breasts or your bank account, it is offensive because you have so much more to offer the world than something so superficial. But what if you are the person doing the objectifying? This behavior is also dangerous for you. It pretty much guarantees that you’ll never meet the kind of men you’d actually like to attract. I explain why, and give you one simple trick that will help you connect with the real person you want most.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You like a guy. I mean, you really, really like him. So you get carried away and sleep with him before you’re actually dating. Next thing you know, you’re just “friends with benefits.” Is there any way to turn things around and move toward a real relationship? That’s what today’s caller, Natasha, wants to know. Well there is one way to do it, and it all depends on how you act from this moment on. Listen in as I give you and Natasha an actual script to use on Mr. Booty Call to gain his respect, attraction, and get him to give you what you really want.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you don’t have a lot of experience in the dating world, how are you supposed to find the perfect guy? My answer: You’re NOT. Listen in as I explain how making mistakes in dating takes the pressure off and opens you up to ultimately find the guy who’s right for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Angie has gained some weight, and her insecurity has stopped her from dating. How can she get “out there” again when she doesn’t feel confident? I tackle this issue in today’s LOVE Life. No matter what your size, I know you’ll relate because we all have excuses that can keep us from going after the love we want (if we let them). Listen in as I give Angie an action plan to get fit both physically and emotionally, so she doesn’t have to wait for a certain number on the scale to enjoy the dating life she deserves. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you first start dating someone you like, it’s not uncommon to want to spend all of your time together. But eventually your inner voice of reason says, “Being with my guy’s awesome, but I still need to go to work/sleep/catch a yoga class from time to time/oh yeah, and eat something.” But what happens when your guy doesn’t feel the same way? Or worse, he gets hurt when you gently try to explain that you need some time apart? Today I take a great call from Jessica and coach her through this tricky issue. I even uncover a bombshell confession that even she didn’t see coming! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The big proposal could come at any moment… but is there any way to know WHEN- exactly – a man’s going to drop to one knee and pop the question? If you’ve been dating your guy for a while you may be wondering this yourself. And if not, you’ve probably taken part in the female sport of speculating when your friend’s boyfriend is going to put a ring on it. I’ve been getting asked about this a lot lately, and in today’s LOVE Life, I finally give my answer. You may be surprised to hear what I have to say… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re intrigued by a cute guy you’ve met, but you don’t know him very well. Is there a clever way to test the waters to see if he’s interested in you too without coming on too strong? Why yes, there is…and I’m going to tell you exactly how to do it in today’s LOVE Life! My simple plan is completely risk free and allows you to 1) get talking to him 2) create a spark and 3) give him incentive to pursue you by letting him know he’s got a chance with you…MAYBE. Because as I’ll explain, men live for the “maybe.” Just wait until you try this one out – get ready for instant results! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Do what you love,” we’re always told. And if we’re fortunate, we get to pursue a career doing the things that bring us the most joy. But have you ever noticed what happens when you take an activity that you love and start to associate it with “work?” It sucks the pleasure right out of it. Before you know it, the things that once brought you happiness now feel like a chore. In today’s LOVE Life I’m going to teach you the most important life skill you could ever have: how to derive enjoyment in life without having to change your situation, putting you in control of your happiness every day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do when your co-worker is impossible to work with? Especially when management doesn’t seem to notice or care? That’s the question today’s caller, Crystal, asks. She’s looking for my advice on how to change the situation, but I show her how the real relief will come from changing her mindset and her actions. If you’ve ever dealt with this situation (and who among us hasn’t?), you’ll want to catch this episode where I reveal the 3 secrets to being “so good they can’t ignore you.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How do you start over again after ending a long-term relationship? In today’s episode I take a call from a lovely woman named Christina who thinks she’s ready to get back “out there” after she and her boyfriend of 5 years called it quits. I give my best tips for getting stronger, keeping perspective, dating again without burning out, and my surprising secret for dealing with the pain while your heart is still healing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How many hours, days, months – dare I say it – years have you wasted trying to make things work out with the wrong men? How much precious time in this beautiful life has been squandered pining over an ex? Life is short and, sadly, that is time you can never get back. But what if there is one ex that you can’t seem to get over because you’re sure, in your heart of hearts, that you belong together? If I’m talking to you right now, then I want you to listen to today’s episode, because I am going to reveal a plan to get your ex back and make your relationship stronger than ever…OR get over him for good so you feel confident and excited to find your real Mr. Right.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A lot of women ask me whether I think it’s a good idea to be friends with an ex. My answer is, it depends on your motive. In today’s LOVE Life, we’ll take a look at your reasons behind wanting to hold on to a former flame, and how it could impact your future relationship with the man who is better suited to make you happy in the long run. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you in a long distance relationship, or considering one? If so, then today’s episode is for you. I’m giving you my honest opinion on “LDRs,” asking you some tough questions, and sharing my 4 unbreakable rules to follow if you want to make sure your relationship works – and is worth it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s easy to be happy when you’re surrounded by happy people. But what happens to your mood when you encounter a rude waiter, a cold neighbor, or a cranky person working behind the desk at, say…the DMV??? You have a choice – you don’t have to let grumpy people drag you down. Listen in on today’s episode and I’ll tell you my secret trick for maintaining your positive state in a sea of negativity (using a fun piece of advice from my very own mum!). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re at a friend’s party, and across the room, you spot him: The hottest guy you’ve ever seen. What’s your first thought? Let me guess: “He’s out of my league. I could never talk to him.” If I’m right, then I want you to listen to today’s episode of LOVE Life. I’m going to reveal a shocking fact about 99% of the “beautiful people” out there, and give you a piece of surprising advice that will have you approaching Mr. Perfect in no time flat. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How soon is too soon to take the plunge and move in with your boyfriend? Should you wait until marriage is on the table? That’s what our caller Amber wants to know in today’s episode of LOVE Life. I give her – and you – my (somewhat controversial) opinion about the significance of this “milestone” as well as some concrete advice on the risk-free way to move your relationship forward without freaking him out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Imagine it’s your first date with a guy you’re really into. You’re sitting across the table from him in a romantic, candlelit restaurant. You make some small talk, share a nervous laugh, and then, suddenly…you can’t think of anything to say. It’s the dreaded Awkward Silence, where one minute feels like 10, and you don’t know how you’ll recover. WAIT… before you get yourself in this situation in the first place, I have 3 simple secrets that will make your date fun, effortless, and full of the sparks that build a connection. (Don’t miss this episode, if for no other reason than I guarantee Secret #2 is something you’ve never thought of before!) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You: “How are you?” Him: “I’m good… How are you?” You: “Good.” Have you ever gotten stuck in a boring conversation like this? We all have. But guess what? You are just as much to blame for this dead-end dialogue as the other person is. But I’m going to help you fix it. In today’s episode, I’m going to teach you the difference between “conversational tennis” and “conversational basketball,” and three quick tricks that will make you a confident, fascinating, and charismatic conversationalist in 30 seconds or less.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When we get into a new relationship, we all have that one issue or experience from our past that’s difficult to share. In this week’s LOVELife… I take a call from a brave woman named Rhonda who is getting back into the dating game after an 18-year hiatus from sex. How should she bring up this tricky subject to the new men she’s meeting? You may be surprised at my answer… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes in life, when you do something too much – even something you love – you can forget why you do it. I had a small, but nonetheless life-changing encounter with one of my personal idols recently that helped me recapture my sense of childhood wonder and passion for my calling. I’m sharing the story with you in today’s episode in hopes it will encourage you to look to one of your heroes for inspiration in your own life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you think back on your past romantic relationships, what do you feel? Regret? Disappointment? Shame? You may be surprised to hear this, but dating lots of “Mr. Wrongs” is actually the best thing you can do to prepare yourself for your Mr. Right. I explain why in today’s episode of LOVE Life… Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all encounter obstacles that stand in our path to the happiness we want and deserve. But whether those roadblocks will stop you dead in your tracks, or serve as a catalyst to motivate you to fight for the things you want most in life, is completely up to you. Today I’m going to teach you how to reframe your negative experiences as opportunities to fiercely pursue your dreams. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You’re at a party when you notice your guy across the room talking to another woman… and she happens to be gorgeous. Suddenly, your cheeks get hot and flushed, your breathing becomes more rapid, and your heart pounds in your chest. You even start to feel tears welling up in your eyes. It’s that awful, ugly feeling – jealousy. What can you do to stop it? In today’s episode of LOVE Life I’m going to teach you a trick that will immediately stop your feelings of jealousy and put you back in a confident, high-value state of mind. This is something that you can tell yourself every time you feel insecure that will instantly remind you why your man is attracted to you the most. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When you’re dating someone, it’s hard not to wish that everything you do together would be a “first.” The truth is, your guy had a life before you. In today’s LOVE Life I share my advice on how to accept that fact and create new experiences together that will be meaningful for both of you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You find a man sexy…but you don’t want to have sex with him just yet. If you flirt with him, does it make you a tease? In today’s episode of LOVE Life I coach a caller named Lauren who is hesitant to let guys know she is attracted to them because she is saving sex until marriage. I show her the secret to communicating desire and her standard at the same time so men feel validated while still respecting her boundaries. If you need help pacing your relationship – whether you’re waiting for your honeymoon or your third date – this episode is for you! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Remember that old saying, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression?” It’s corny, but true. Today I’m handing you 5 seemingly obvious - but constantly overlooked - tips to send the message that you’re likeable, capable, and confident the moment you walk into any room, whether it’s for a job interview, an audition, or an important first date. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you do if your guy has every quality you want – attractive, funny, smart, loving – but there’s just one thing missing: he’s not satisfying you sexually? You really want to make it work, but how do you improve the situation without crushing his masculinity? I tackle this tough topic in today’s episode, telling you exactly when, how and where to talk to him about sex (hint: it’s not in the bedroom). When done right, your man will actually end up thanking you for it (and you’ll be pretty pleased yourself)! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If a guy were attracted to you, would you be able to tell? Sure, some signs men give are obvious, but many of them are much more subtle. In this episode I reveal 7 foolproof – and sometimes surprising – ways to be sure he’s totally into you Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, I want to talk to you about the power of compliments… But not in the way you might think. I don’t want to focus on GETTING compliments and how that improves your self-esteem, but rather how GIVING compliments can create rapport with men and dramatically improve your love life. Make sure you listen until the end, because I’ve got a challenge for you, and I’ll also hand you 3 quick tips to make you instantly more attractive to everyone you meet. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.