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Scarlett is a writer, teacher and wild woman with 20+ years in polyamory. Money & Poly Sex & money don’t mix, or do they? How you think about money and relationships impacts how your relationships grow and intertwine. It’s just as important that we consent to our money relationships as we consent to our romantic / sexual / kinky relationships. When do you speak up about how you relate to money? The negotiation skills we learn in our communities can come in handy when you’re dealing with money. A healthy relationship with money starts with your own wallet, expressing expectations and limits, and what to do when things go awry.

Welcome beginners, old-hats, onlookers and those who are curious. 4X4, KianteWench, German and Aria lead this Q&A discussion on Polyamory and its many forms in a basic and straightforward way with the key goal of educating and enabling people who want to start or enhance their Ethical non-monogamy journey. The hosts can be reached via Fetlife.

Doctor D and Doctor Peggy Sue are back for another round of the intersection of kink and actual medicine know-how sprinkled with improv comedy, sarcasm, double entendres and disturbing photographs taken with our night vision cameras in the dark room that will have you laughing and itching all at the same time. If you haven't been to our panel yet, where the fuck have you been?

I'm an artist, and when I was in college, I met two Dominatrixes that drew me into the BDSM scene of the San Francisco Bay Area. I released several calendars of my Femdom art, and moved to Los Angeles to be with a new lover. In 1999, I was recruited to work at Adult Video News and worked in the art department. My job there was to gather artwork to go with news stories and press releases running in the magazine. This put me directly in touch with publicists in the adult industry.

Join Katt on a journey through chastity in mental and physical forms. We go back to Roman times to try to understand the origins of chastity devices. About Katt… I have been in the BDSM world off & on for over 10 years. I started out as a bottom/submissive but quickly discovered my dominant & primal personality would not allow me to fill those shoes. One of my biggest passions within life is education. Luckily, I have been able to travel the world & share that passion on a wide array of both BDSM & mundane topics.

PosionIvey has been working to create a safe space for people to discuss their mental/emotional conditions without fear of judgement for a little over two years now. Being diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder and major depressive disorder, she has had to work hard to smash the stigma that many automatically associate with it. Her brother’s suicide, due to misunderstood and untreated diagnoses as well as negligence from the hospital system, has only fueled the fire to encourage others to speak out and seek help for their mental disorders, disabilities, or circumstances. She works hard to encourage open conversation and provide people with the resources and community available to help them live a judgement free, joy-filled, kinky life.

BLOW JOB. Oral sex. Lip service. Facefucking. Throatfucking. Cocksucking. Oral fixation. Whatever you choose to call it, I love to do it. Morning, noon, and night – I LOVE using my mouth to please a Dom. Sloppy, rough, deep, punishing, restrained, head-off-the-bed, on my knees, laying down, bent over, slow and sensuous while watching some hockey. . . yes. In every room of the house, the park, the car, beach, snow, parking lots. . . more yes. It actually rises to a level of need sometimes, barely tampered down when it’s just not possible to get that chosen person in my mouth.

Housewifenheat has been on the forefront of interracial sex (Black men/white women) for over 20 years. She currently resides in Dayton, Ohio, where she focuses on meeting Black men with the goal of giving them the ride of their lives. One of the very early members of Fetlife, she has started many interracial groups there, and owns the largest exclusively Black man/white woman group on Fetlife. A model who has done pinup, boudoir, and porn modeling for over 20 years, she has been featured in magazines, calendars, posters, and was voted 2014 Queen of Spades of the Year by Queen of Spades Magazine, as well as being featured as the March 2016 Queen of Spades of the month by Spades Magazine. She has been having sex with men outside her marriage for over 25 years.

In Alicia’s own words: "First, I am a masochist. Pain allows me a release that can't be found any other way. I have this profile mainly to share my pain pictures. The marks, and blood, are my favorite fetishes.The images are meant to be scary, yet beautiful. It's been fun just creating my own personal style. I have always wanted to share my love for pain, and the beauty of it, with everyone here.” "The images on my profile are of beauty, and our bond. Many people here have embraced the positive side of it, and the support for us has been amazing. I ask that you friend me, so we can continue to show the world how glorious all of our fetishes can be. Authorities may try to silence us. But we are all so powerful, even in silence.”

What happens when an s-type (submissive, slave, or any other “right sider”) has no owner? Many have speculated that you cannot be a slave without having an Owner, or be a submissive without a Dominant. Is this true? Where does this philosophy come from? Join Lady Steele as she shares her very personal journey as an unowned slave and shows how she has educated and enriched herself so that she will be ready for her next power exchange relationship. She will cover how to stay engaged as a slave with the community, with yourself, and how to play with others as a slave without a collar.

Come learn in this hands on talk/demonstration what a Violet Wand is, and why you might like it. Is there a reason for you to be scared? Come to this session and see how you might change your mind. You’re invited to watch and learn as many different ways to use a violet wand are demonstrated. Listeners will hear the sensuous side, the pain side, and much, much more! In this class, Traveling Fool/Jay will teach a section, do a demonstration. Traveling Fool/Jay will be your guide and help you have some hands on fun. For those who have wands just sitting in the closet, and want to learn more, please bring them. Don’t have a wand? That’s okay! He’ll share his toys and you can become part of the fun too! He’ll even talk about what, and what not to buy, when getting a wand.

It’s dirty. It’s raunchy. It’s fun. We all love the booty, but how much do we really know about it? We’ll be talking about everything you do, and don’t, want to know about anal sex. This class will cover stretching, lubricants, cleaning, adapting, training, toys, medical information, enemas, and so much more. You’ll walk away from this class knowing more about the booty than you ever thought possible.

This class has everything you ever wanted to know about edging, orgasm denial, orgasm control, and forced orgasms. Learn the how, the why, the training, and the uses. It also shows how it can fit into various dynamics and the long term effects that it can have. So, if denial is up your alley, come and learn all about the various ways you can tell someone no!

Fear. Shame. Humiliation. These are things we avoid. They make us uncomfortable. We actively try to push them to the side. What if we didn’t avoid them? What if we embraced them instead? This class will teach you how to explore, negotiate, play with, and embrace the things we try to hide from. So, come, hear about the basics, learn what you can, and then watch as those same principles are brought to life in a fun and completely humiliating demonstration.

This week Woody, Leigh and Nurse Ratched tell of their trip to Frolicon in Atlanta. With an attendance of over 2000 kinksters, gamers, furries, littles and polyamorousists, fun was had by all. We took our Nurse Ratched to the virgin sacrifice and enjoyed her getting sacrificed! We had the KinkyCast table in the ‘fan’ area and greeted many new and longtime listeners. Shakir Rahsaan and Page Turner offered collectors item “proofs” of their new books to raffle to those that visited the table. Most of all we recorded sessions and booked guests for upcoming shows. Check out what we were up to and get a preview into coming shows on the KinkyCast!

(Recorded live at Frolicon) Most gatherings of polyamorous and kinky people are very white, upper middle class, homogeneous affairs. Black people and other POC often feel left out and unwelcome in larger gatherings within our community. In this class, we'll discuss WHY this separation happens, and have an open forum discussion on what we can do to create inclusive environments. How can community leaders craft events to appeal to a more diverse crowd? Being your questions, no matter how "un-PC" they may be, and we'll discuss them. Everyone is invited and welcomed to open up a conversation about diversity and inclusiveness within our community. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/229---chanee---inclusivity.html

When I first started in D/s, it felt like a missing piece of my soul had finally fallen into place. I felt for the first time like someone validated every desire I’d ever had. And then there were the rules! Such titillating, filthy rules… But something was missing. I couldn’t understand what it was. I was in a 24/7 dynamic with the rules and structure I craved. And I could feel his ownership in every moment, through my dripping arousal. Edging in the bathroom at work, wearing a plug on appointed days, using my body when he wanted in whatever way he desired. And this was a man that I loved deeply and had a long history with. But still, the dynamic didn’t sate me the way I had imagined. (Read more and hear her show, follow the link) http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/228-kneelingwaiting---meat-.html

This week Woody & the Beast found a very interesting young lady that has experienced something we all have wanted to do. Meet Seven, a young professional who has been exploring the world of kink for 9 years. With a busy work schedule and an uncompromising sexual appetite, Seven started doing what a lot of us have thought about but most of us wouldn't dare to do. While the risk is a thrill she is always careful to make sure everything is scheduled and her partners know the rules of office playtime. Given the circumstances, she strives to perfect her techniques to get and give maximum satisfaction in the shortest amount of time. The risk, exhibitionism, and the urgency of it all make for an explosive experience every time. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/227---seven-on-sex-at-workt.html

#226 - Whips & Chains - Listener requested Dungeon implements tourThis week Woody & the Beast gives an alphabetical tour of implements and kinks found in your local dungeon. This is an hour long visit into many of the user requested glossary of kink. The show logo, depicts some of the discussed items and to see more with labels, (see show page). Each of the hosts have been in the scene for 25 years and have seen most all of the terms used and have their own experience in public and private play. Each new item starts with a tone, so, happy listening.

Laura Bradford Coleman, Ph.D. Is a Board Certified Coach, National Certified Counselor, Certified Clinical Mental Health Counselor. Her emphasis is on walking your journey with you as you work toward realizing your dreams, hopes, wishes, and goals. Laura believe’s in your power to find your own answers. As a coach, she understands that you’re not broken and do not need an authority figure to fix you. Instead, you can find your own personal power and direction in your life. She works with adults, children, and couples in my Murfreesboro office, online with video conferencing, and on the telephone. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/225---laura-coleman-phd--.html

Prolific author Shakir Rahsaan is back with his latest novel. In his new book “Samois” the story is told from Neferterri’s point of view. She's taken control of the NEBU compound and set up a Female Dominant controlled fantasy weekend. During the weekend, those who have male submissive signed off on a stipulation that they would temporarily release their property to be of service to the Dominant who wins them in a silent slave auction. During that weekend, a few of the Female Dominants with other agendas threaten to disrupt the debauchery of the weekend. This is the fourth installment of the Nubian Underworld series, with two more to go before closing out the series. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/224---shakir-rashaan--.html

Trinity (you can find her as writer girl on Metlife) is a writer and an editor of sometimes weird, sometimes mainstream, sometimes kinky shit. She holds a M.F.A. in Writing Popular Fiction and learned more in that program than she can comfortably fit in her head. Duct tape works nicely here. She has worked in the publishing industry for ten years, mostly behind the scenes as a developmental and content editor. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/223---trinity---author-.html

#222 - Tori & Jeff of the The Leather History Preservation Foundation, was created to provide an accountable, transparent, fiscal entity for the ongoing production of events concentrating on recording and preserving the culture and traditions of the Leather adult alternative sexual sub-culture. November 2 - 4, 2018 LHPW will be a weekend of shared journeys, camaraderie and fellowship, with multiple presenters sharing their experiences. In the tradition of the best of Leather events, there will be cocktails, play time, vendors, networking and FUN! Visit KinkyCast.com for details! http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/222---tori--jeff-of-the.html

Do geek and kink go hand in hand? You better believe it! Listen in as Woody and the Beast talk with Autumn about some of their crazy adventures and experiences within the geek and kink communities and discuss just how well these communities blend together. See our show page for a lot more about Autumn! http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/221---autumn-orange---geeki.html

Tonya Jone Miller is an actress and playwright from Portland, Oregon. Tonya likes to tell stories, usually of the naughty variety. She also teaches workshops and offer one-on-one and couple's coaching on talking dirty and role play. Meet Your Aural Courtesan ”What makes an extraordinary lover is not what is between a person’s legs, but rather what is between their ears.” ~Tonya "I live my life openly and freely. I am a creative performer and passionate provider of phone sex. For me, phone sex often transcends mere sexual gratification. Getting to share in the pleasure and relief of my callers and give them, even for a short amount of time, simple acceptance of who they are…It is an honor and a gift. Every day I learn more about myself and humankind through the genuine connections I make with people.” http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/220---tonya-jone-miller--.html

Page Turner, author, blogger and practicing polyamorist, brings her latest book, A Geek’s Guide to Unicorn Ranching: Advice for Couples Looking for Another Partner. Here is a look into her new book… Unicorn hunters get a bum rap in polyamory, despite being very common, especially among poly newbies. A “unicorn” is a polyamorous, bisexual woman who will date both members of a couple. The couple that opens up a previously closed relationship and is looking for this unicorn to form a 3-person relationship, they’re the unicorn hunters. This sounds all fine and good, right? And it should be. Except it can be a difficult (even scary) thing to come in as a new person to an already established relationship. For starters, you are literally outnumbered. It’s 2 on 1. Read More at KinkyCast.com. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/219---page-turners-new-book.html

KohanaKoa has been a practicing Dom for over 20 years. He is proud to have a wonderful babygirl in his Keiki. She is the light of his life. Their relationship is very special and both of them couldn’t be happier. One of their many dynamics id Dady babygirl. Kiki is an avid masochist and takes her roles seriously. KohanaKoa works hard for a living and Keiki is working hard on her college degree. They enjoy and welcome new friendships and are always happy to give back to their lifestyle community. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/216---frolicon-may-17-20.html

Franklin has been ideologically kinky and polyamorous his entire life, functionally kinky and polyamorous since 1984, and writing about BDSM and polyamory since 1996. He started practicing non-monogamy from the moment he started becoming aware that boys and girls are different. Along the way, he's made just about every mistake it’s possible to make in polyamorous relationships. Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from poor judgment. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/217---franklin-veaux-more.html]

Master Ron K, has been in the Leather DsBDSm lifestyle for just over 40 years at this point, he started young and lied about his age. Master Ron has enjoyed a few slaves, many bottoms and a few Mentors/Tops. All of these people have contributed to him as a human and a Master during the process of life until now. He is a product of these experiences. This week Master Ron talks are a subject brought up at a MaST meeting last year, on the subject of “Who can consent?” This intrigued us at the KinkyCast and so we got him on the line to explore the subject. Master Ron has had a long and enduring commitment to giving back to the Leather community. He wrote a monthly column for the Leather Journal in the mid 90's, presented at Living in Leather X, presented at the 1999 Master slave Conference in Atlanta, delivered many workshops in his local areas and was honored to be named San Jose Master 1995. He continues to speak on Master/slave relationships whenever and wherever he is asked. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/215---master-ron-k---who.html

Frolicon is the unique juxtaposition of the geek and kink worlds celebrated in glorious fashion in the heart of downtown Atlanta. Each Spring we celebrate our unique sense of fun and frivolity with 2000 of our closest friends. What’s your poison? We’ve got it all. Kink. Gaming. Burlesque. Music. Costuming. Parties. Lots and lots of parties.At Frolicon we pride ourselves on providing a safe and comfortable place where you can be you. With tracks of programming with focuses on LGBTQIA, erotica and sci-fi/fantasy authors, photography, dance, polyamory, psychology, and so much more we are positive that you’ll find your happy place and maybe discover a few new ones. See you in the Spring! http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/216---frolicon-may-17-20.html

Ben focuses on providing legal support to families, especially LGBT/GSM and polyamorous families, utilizing a variety of techniques, ranging from cohabitation agreements and parenting plans to estate planning and preparing to obtain cohabitation rights via alternative mechanisms. Ben can also offer tax advice, especially as relates to pre-nuptial agreements. Ben works with clients to make sure that the fees he charges are reasonable, and will work with payment plans. Ben is admitted to practice in Maryland and Washington, D.C. He is a member of the D.C. Bar Association Family Law Community, the Family Law Section of the Maryland State Bar Association, and the Alternative Families Committee of the Family Law Section of the American Bar Association, as well as of the DC LGBT Bar Association and the National LGBT Bar Association. For more info, go to the KinkyCast page. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/214---ben-schenker---poly.html

Master KAOSMaster KAOS is a musician residing in Austin Texas, USA. He is a practitioner of SM techniques and M/s relationships and has a strong passion for teaching locally and even globally with his recent participation at the M/s D/s convention. He approaches BDSM and M/s from a place of informed consent between adults in a risk aware fashion and will be competing in the 2018 Heartland Person of Leather Competition, a regional feeder for the International Person of Leather contest. Master KAOS is the founder of the BDSMwiki.info and owner of the Fetlife “Ask and Answer” forum. He is the head of a poly M/s household that participates regularly in MAsT. Additionally, he is presently working to finish his first book “The Master/slave Manual” which features multiple authors and teachers. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/213---master-kaos---bdsmwik.html

AMischiefManaged (Ron) is a relatively new face to the kink scene. Even though his journey has taken him to hundreds of events in 10 different cities, most may only know of him through his writings, which are beginning to rival some of the most prolific writers on the fet platform. His particular writing style brings an unexpected sense of authenticity, openness with his flaws, and thought provoking perspectives to his own journey as well as the journey of those around him. Those who are new to the scene can find a library of these writings on his profile as well as a recommended class progression to take someone from knowing absolutely nothing to being fairly comfortable and integrated with their local scene. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/212---a-mischief-managed--.html

Ben Hopper is a fine art photographer working mainly in the performing arts. Since 2007 he has been working closely with local and international artists, companies and venues to produce both promotional imagery and material for creative projects. His clients and partners include Cirque du Soleil, The Roundhouse, The School of Dance and Circus (DOCH) at Stockholm University of the Arts, The European Federation of Professional Circus Schools (FEDEC), Les 7 deigns de la main (The 7 Fingers), DV8 Physical Theatre, and more. Hopper’s photography has been featured by a wide range of organizations across the arts sector, including acclaimed publishers / exhibitors 125, legendary event producers Secret Cinema, and a variety of cultural venues and festivals including Jacksons Lane in London and CIRCa Festival in France. Hopper’s photography has also reached a wide online audience through media outlets including The Huffington Post, BuzzFeed, ELLE, The Guardian, The Daily Mail, and GQ. His controversial project ‘Natural Beauty’, has reached millions around the world after going viral in April 2014. Since 2010, Hopper has participated in over 30 exhibitions, and following a successful Kickstarter campaign in 2013 his first major solo show ‘Giving Something Back' was attended by 5000 people. In 2016 Hopper exhibited his project Transfiguration in Paris at Festival Mondial du Cirque de Demain following a 2nd successful Kickstarter campaign in late 2015. The Paris exhibition was followed by 2 London shows: In April at The Roundhouse (London) as part of their contemporary circus festival CircusFest and in May at The Truman Brewery in the heart of Brick Lane. The London exhibitions were supported by the National Lottery through Arts Council England. The Transfiguration exhibitions were attended by over 35,000 people. Ben Hopper lives and works in Hackney Wick in London but often travels and works around the globe. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/211---ben-hopper---fine.html

This week Woody & the Beast learn why “Size Matters” when FlutteryGirl explains it. One day she was just reading someone’s writing about dick size and how it’s body shaming for men. True enough. It occurred to her that often women say "size doesn't matter" (also true) but never tend to explain why this is. So Fluttery thought she’d give a little insight. Size does matter but not in the way guys think. Yes, most girls if not all will at some time talk about a big cock they have had and how nice it was. What you don't normally hear is that a lot of the time women don't enjoy a larger cock. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/210---flutterygirl---size.html

Do you have someone new in your life? Do you have that heady feeling of euphoria when you think of your new love object? Billy Holder presents his view of New Relationship Energy, recorded live at Frolicon. Billy Holder is a Polyamory activist, educator, and community organizer who helped found and manage the Non-Profit Organization Atlanta Polyamory, as well as Atlanta Poly Weekend. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/209---billy-holder-on-new.html

This week Woody & the Beast focus our mic on Raleigh NC. NookieNotes, known by most as Nookie, grew up in the lifestyle and around people of every color and bent. Her primary fetishes are communication and behavior modification. She's a lifestyle dominant who runs her relationships and enjoys switching in the bedroom. She’s an author and the creator of Dating Kinky. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/208---nookienote-on-persona.html

Molly Devon discusses her nearly 30 years in the community and what drove her to publish the seminal "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" with her late-partner Phillip Miller. Still speaking and educating Molly talks about motherhood and her early journey that led to self-publishing Screw the Roses and distributing it from the back of her car. This book is a landmark in the BDSM world and a must-read. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/207---molly-devon---author-.html

This week Woody & the Beast brings Robert Dante to the studio. Robert is a, Bullwhip Performer, Whip Teacher and Presenter of Workshops, Demos and Author of “Let’s Get Cracking! The How-To Book of Bullwhip skills. Producer/performer in erotic/instructional DVD, Bullwhip: Art of the Single Tail Whip. Author of the bullwhip chapter in “Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns." Featured on HBO’s Real Sex, Playboy's Night Calls, and many more TV shows and podcasts. Four-time Guinness World Record holder. "The best whip master we have seen!" Skin Two Magazine. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/205---robert-dante---whipma.html

So you just stuffed the last bit of pumpkin pie in you mouth and conversation breaks out. “Oh, I hope they don’t mention the dreaded three subjects, politics, religion or sex.” You utter under your breath. Come on, we’re the KinkyCast, you know we will! Eight members of the cast and crew sat down to clear the air of these subjects. We reserve the last show of the year to state what’s on our minds and get it out, so we can get on to the new year with a fresh start. Like any family dinner table conversation, it get’s heated and a rant or two will pop out. Join us for this year’s round and as always, feel free to comment on our Facebook or Fetlife pages. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/204---kinkycast-crew-new.html

This week Woody & the Beast have their annual talk with Susan Wright of the NCSF. With all the news of high profile men, finally having to admit the sins of their past and as the result, they loose their jobs. High profile jobs, news anchors, senators, movie actors and producers. How’s next the President? Susan gives perspective on this sign of the times. Susan Wright spends the bulk of her time acting as an educator and advocate for people who have been persecuted for their sexual preferences. She does this through her work with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom — which she founded — and through a multitude of other projects. In the other half of her life, she has published over 30 novels over the course of her writing career, many of them sexually charged fantasy novels. Considering her output, you’d assume she’d have no time left over after she finished plotting out storylines, writing manuscripts, and making her way through the editing process. Note: This show was recorded just before Senator Franken stepped down. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/203---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

This week the Beast joins Venus Queen. Discussing what has drawn her to be a committed Queen of Spades, but more importantly join her for her discussion of her mission to develop a cuckold relationship. What does she expect and what she offers. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/202---venus-queen---looking.html

This week we delve into a controversial subject, non-consensual play. This WAS play that was negotiated and went astray. When a top ignores your safe word or if you can’t utter RED, then all hell breaks loose. Today’s show hears from 6 women that have had their consent violated. Some came out with marks, another with a detached retina and in todays final report, the victim could not tell us about her consent violation, because she died at the hands of four ‘tops’, that scolded her for a housekeeping issue. Her ordeal lasted four hours and yielded a lifeless body. We have advocated safety ever since episode one, now we are at 201 and the horror stories still come in. This episode is a lesson in checking a play partner out, in advance. Check references, check training, know something about your potential play partner. Have a safe call to bail you out if things go wrong. Listen to these stories, they are all real, from the lips of the victims, except for the last one. Please visit the KinkyCast show page for important links! http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/201---bdsm-nightmares-true.html

As we cross the threshold of 200 shows, we are humbled by the wonderful guests that have passed by our microphone. This week we visit with six guests that you have heard from the past, to catch up with and hear what’s going on in their minds today. We sample a verity of lifestyles and issues that affect all of us on a daily basis. Listen for the next hour and we check in with our friends to see what’s happening. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/200---200th-gala-show-with.html

This week we invite our old friend Terek, back into the studio to hear about this experiences driving people around the city. Sound dull? Nope! This is the first time Woody ever saw the Beast’s jaw drop. join us for Terek’s top 8 experiences, picking up passengers for a ride service. You will hear about couples, singles, cougars, party girls… a wedding… a nudist sub division and more. We could not believe what we heard! I think the Beast is putting on his chauffeur’s hat now. If you ever fantasized about what goes on in the back of taxies, wonder no more! http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/199---terek---pickup-play.html

Dr. Elisabeth Sheff is one of a handful of global academic experts on polyamory, and the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families. Specializing in diversity and underserved populations, Sheff is an expert witness, relationship consultant, public speaker, and author. Her first book, The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families (2014 hardback and ebook, 2015 paperback and audiobook), details Sheff’s findings from the first 15 years of the Polyamorous Families Study. Stories from the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families (2015), Sheff’s second book, is an edited collection of stories from people in polyamorous families. Sheff’s third book, When Someone you Love is Polyamorous: Understanding Poly People and Relationships, is a brief introduction to polyamory using empirical evidence to start a conversation.With a PhD in Sociology, Sheff is a pioneer of the academic study of polyamory. Sheff has also published over 20 peer reviewed articles and chapters in academic journals and books. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/198---dr-elisabeth-sheff--.html

This week Woody & the Beast invite Nurse Ratched to the KinkyCast studios to talk about “Shit You Should Never Do” in BDSM play. We talk about bondage, tying and circulation lose among many other things you will find in the dungeon. She has been a registered nurse for over 40 years and has seen it all, including some interesting sex accidents. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/197--nurse-ratched---shit.html

This week Woody & the Beast welcome Malicious Moon to discuss Dom Myths. When we came into the kinky world we all had expectations either as a top or bottom. In this cast three dominants talk about the myths we were sold on entering as dominants. Ms. Moon offers a female perspective to the Dom myths. This show was based on a real exercise we did at a MAsT meeting. Many times the myths are obvious, but we still swallow them hook, line and sinker! http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/196---malicious-moon-on-dom.html

#195 - Alice Toye on Consent Violation and Personal Responsibility This week Woody & the Beast call on Alice Toye from Houston Texas. Alice has been active in the scene since 1999 and has presented at all Houston local groups on a wide variety of topics including negotiating, poly, bottoming skills, and a variety of forms of psychological play. Co-presented on interrogation at 2016 SouthPlains Leatherfest. Because negotiation forms part of the basis for consent, I believe that it is an essential skill for every player. I've heard a lot of people say, "I don't know how to negotiate" or "I don't negotiate well." If you are unable to negotiate effectively, I believe that you are playing above your skill set and putting all of us at risk. We are all responsible for evaluating our skills and doing what's necessary to improve. Attend a class. Ask for help. Invest the time to think about yourself as a player. You wouldn't say, "I'm going to whip someone tonight, and learn proper whip technique later", would you? Take responsibility for yourself, your consent and your safety. And then go have FUN! http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/195---alice-toye-on-consent.html

Mistress Cyan is most well known as the founder and organizer of the BDSM Conventions DomCon Los Angeles and DomCon New Orleans. She produces The Lair at Adult Entertainment Expo in Las Vegas. She also runs Sanctuary LAX, one of the largest dungeons in Southern California. She was introduced to The Lifestyle in 1989, and through years of commitment to helping others and grow the scene, has since become a well respected leader in the Los Angeles BDSM and leather communities. Early on, Mistress Cyan would organize holiday fundraisers for local charities. She was constantly presenting at classes, and mentoring others. She is still a serious fundraiser for charities inside and out of the leather community. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/194---mistress-cyan-in-los.html