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Anafiel House is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing services to survivors of intimate partner violence without regard to gender or sexual identity. The pilot office in Ringgold, GA will provide referrals for counseling, therapy, legal assistance, educational and employment resources, provide emergency food and clothing, and more. Anafiel House plans to have a secure main campus located on in a rural area within an hour of downtown Atlanta by the year 2023. The campus will provide safe housing agritherapy, equine therapy, and craft therapy in addition to counseling education, and a structured environment for recovery. Anafiel House is privately funded by donations from individuals and organizations. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/291---mark-warner---anafiel.html

Let's talk about jumping off the relationship escalator and breaking through the monogamous mindset. We have a great deal of holdover ideas from monogamous culture that can be toxic or limiting to polyamorous / Consensual Non-monogamous relationships. But how do we define successful relationships if we aren’t using society’s measuring stick? https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/290---scarlett-ross---jumpi.html

What is DVP: The Domestic Violence Project was initiated in 1998.The vision of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project is to create a national network to provide information, appropriate referrals, resources, and safe shelters for those in the world community who have been subjected to abusive and violent BDSM relationships and who are seeking a way out of those relationships or who require a more extensive support network than is otherwise available to them. www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-arc…hate---nlai.html

This week’s Frolicon recording deal with Age Play and the Obstacles life throws at you. Our presenters are, Mr. Ace (he/him) and Auddie (she/her). Here is a bit about the presenters: Mr. Ace is a 36-year-old, Female to Male (FTM) transgender, poly, Daddy Dom. He and his babygirl (Auddie) have been active in the Atlanta kink community for 6 years. Auddie is a 43-year-old queer, plus size, female, submissive little. She and her Daddy (Mr. Ace) have been active in the Atlanta kind community for 6 years. For more info: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/288---mr-ace--auddie---age.html

Fire extinguisher please!?! That’s what Woody needed after talking to this weeks guest, Ms_J. An educator of fire play and many other sadistic distractions (like recording this cast). We really did try to keep it on the rails. Here are a couple quotes from Ms_J’s Fat profile… "Sensually slowly reaching my hand up and across a woman’s breast, gently along the side of her neck, grabbing a fistful of her hair, with the barest of a whisper “Ima fuck you up!", withdrawing my hand from their hair and back down the breast…..all the while making it look like something sensual, soft, and elegant. YUP, I do that too.” "Ask me to slap your face, bite you while I pull your hair, or do rough body until you ugly-cry; especially if you have blond-hair, blue eyes, and an innocent looking face. You make the best ugly-criers! I also love it when my rough body bottom yells out “Mother-Fucker”……it means I'm doing my job right!!!" https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/287--ms_j-on-firefire-extin.html

This class will focus on defining service and what it means to anticipate the needs of another, show how to develop anticipatory skills and apply them to any form of service, whether it's in a D/s dynamic, serving your community, and even how to incorporate it into your vanilla life! It will also go over how a Dominant can communicate desires and teach a submissive how to serve them within a dynamic, whether that dynamic exists for an hour or for a lifetime. Coffee, anyone? https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/286---anticipatory-service.html

A few weeks ago we took a road trip to Orlando Florida. The destination there is the Woodshed, a fabulous public dungeon with a great community that supports it. Today we bring Master Cecil’s story of how it came to be. No one ever said building a public play space would be easy. The mission of the Woodshed is education and the space is ideally set up for education and great play. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/285---so-you-want-to-build.html

Abduction and Interrogation, a discussion on how to set a scene, what are the key elements to an effective interrogation, how do you start it and how does it end. We review the safety aspects, both physical, emotional and possibility of trauma. Discussion includes examples of past interrogations including cause and effect of the scene start and what added to the headspace of the scene. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/284---abduction--interrogat.html

Arc_Ulfgrim (they/them/it/that) has been in the kink community for over a decade in Tallahassee and the larger southeast region. They are an animal identifying primal player, who also identifies as a Top. They have been educating others on Primal Play within the larger kink community for five years. This includes classes taught for Black Monday Society in Tallahassee and Frolicon in Atlanta. Arc regularly travels to primal event in the Southeast and acts as a coordinator for the primal offerings at Frolicon. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/283---the-primal-show-with.html

How does being on-air affect a writing career? How do you get to be a guest on a podcast? What should you do once you're there? And what about creating your own podcast? Join our panelists, Trinity, JJ Rose, Shakir Rashaan and Woody (KinkyCast) for the answers to all these questions and any others you might have! We'll spend some time talking about why you want to be a podcast guest, as an author, what to do (and not do!) and then we'll move into how to create your own! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/282---podcasting-for-writer.html

This week we have a real treat. Meet Xanadu K. A fourty-something pint-size powerhouse that is a true fet-leberty. Check out her extensive writings. We stumbled across two of her writings that peaked out interest. The Courtesan and Guys, I Get It, I Get It! To give you a bit of insight into this complex woman, check her Fet profile below… I'm 5'2.25" and fully convinced that .25 rounds it all up to 5'7". Just…go with it. My Amazon Wish List: Real doughnuts that make you lose weight, grow 4.75", and transforms a lass into a blonde sex goddess named Helga. I’m pretty sure that can be found somewhere on Amazon… I have a weird sense of humor or humour (translated). You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make a slut suck his dick… I don't understand idioms… You know that saying about having your cake and eating it, too? What the fuck else are fuckers doing with their cake!? Again, idioms… I'm insatiable about many things. A good conversation. Reading. Learning. Sharing philosophies. You might be surprised that I didn't mention sex. I just did. Please try to refrain from asking if I'm Oriental. I'm neither a lamp nor a rug. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/281---xanadu-k---courtesan-.html

What is the difference between polyamory (more than two loves) and polyfuckery (non-monogamy)? Does sex have to be a part of polyamory? Does love have to be a part of non-monogamy? What forms do these very broad concepts take? Do these concepts overlap at times? Join Master Inferno, Sir Odin, and Lady Steele as they discuss the differences and confusion surrounding polyamory and non-monogamy. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/280---lady-steelemaster.html

Lilah Rose (she/her) is a fetish model and performer, educator, consent consultant, pro-switch, and disability and sex worker rights advocate. Her fetishes tend toward the heavily masochistic, and her classes focus on consent, communication, mental health, coping skills, and bottoming skills. When she is not juggling her many professional hats she can be found crafting, gaming, reading (mostly fantasy) and wishing she were at the barn with her horse. You can follow her on fetlife as LilahRose, and twitter as LilahRose_Model. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/279-lilah-rose---model--.html

Ever assumed that if you shared your kinky activities with a mental health professional that they would slap a diagnosis on your file faster than you could say "Freud?" Would you be surprised to know that if they did, they would likely be acting unprofessionally & contradicting the guidelines for diagnosis set forth by their professional bodies? Want to know about some recent changes made to these guidelines that significantly de-pathologized many forms of kink? Let’s talk about it!— https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/278---rachel-anne-kieran.html

Christian V is a Leatherman who is passionate about making information on the Leather lifestyle and BDSM available to all. As President and Educational Coordinator of the Academy in Georgetown SC he has worked to create a place where people of all orientations can feel confident in the information they receive and comfortable in putting it to use in the play area. He has presented classes across the country on a variety of subject matter from the fundamentals of BDSM scene etiquette and negotiation to more technical classes in electrical play, 'toy-less' play techniques and others. Coming from a varied and colorful background, having worked in areas as divergent as professional music production, technology development, and hypnotherapy, his presentations are both entertaining and highly informative. His plans for world domination are proceeding as scheduled. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/277---christian-v---leather.html

Doctor D and Doctor Peggy Sue are back for another round of the intersection of kink and actual medicine know-how sprinkled with improv comedy, sarcasm, double entendres and disturbing photographs taken with our night vision cameras in the dark room that will have you laughing and itching all at the same time. If you haven't been to our panel yet, where the fuck have you been? If you want to get a good idea what we are like, listen to one of our podcasts from a few years ago. This year is funnier than the other ones, and that we are two doctors in the scene that love to answer the ungoogleable medical questions they might not be able to ask their doctors about and providing good advice how to deal with vanilla doctors. This years questions are: STI’s, Rimming, Piss Play, Circumcision, Vaccination and more! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/276---2mds--a-microphone--.html

WhyTrustTomHanks (Rory) spent a decade and a half thinking of lust as shallow, boring, and stupid—entirely separate, in other words, from his obsessive semi-academic enthusiasms. When he learned that lust could be interesting and deep, he promptly dropped the Russian theatre he was studying to consider vastly more universal topics, such as boners and pretty people and the immortal thrill of a good tease. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/275---rory-aka-why-trust.html

Ever feel like Alice in a strange new place? Ever find yourself wandering without any idea what in the world is going on? Ever see strange, ritualistic behavior and feel out of place because you don’t understand it? Well Miss Bettie is here to help uncover some of those mysteries. Here, you’ll learn about groups, parties, rules, roles, definitions, and anything else you can think to ask. This class is shaped mostly by what you want to know. So many of your questions were answered. Bring an open mind. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/274---miss-bettie---bdsm.html

It is called HELL! for a reason. BrutalMaster.com is celebrating it's 20 year anniversary as one of the most extreme reality-based BDSM websites on the 'net. It is the go-to place online for intense torture of all kinds, especially extreme tit-torture, tit nailing, and skewering. BrutalMaster is the driving force and creative talent behind the site, a lifestyle Master and sadist with decades of experience. His website is not for the faint of heart, but for those who seek a level of consensual sadism and masochism that rises above the more mainstream kink offerings, BrutalMaster.com is a must. With a wide variety of submissives, slaves, masochists, and exhibitionists called "The Slaves of HELL!," no aspect of the Pain-Arts is ignored. BrutalMaster.com — The Official Website of HELL! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/273---brutalmastercom---20.html

Join Autumn and her crew for an insightful look into body positivity. Body positivity is a social movement rooted in the belief that all human beings should have a positive body image, in doing so it challenges the ways in which society presents and views the physical body. The movement advocates the acceptance of all bodies no matter the form, size, or appearance. The goal of the movement is to address the unrealistic beauty standards and to build the confidence of oneself and others. The body positivity movement addresses the unfeasible about self-acceptance, beauty, and self-esteem. The movement sets forth the notion that beauty is a construct of society, and poses that this construct should not infringe upon one's ability to feel confidence or self-worth. The idea surrounding the body positivity movement is centered around the notion that people need to love themselves to the fullest, accepting their physical traits. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/272---the-body-image-panelj.html

With the help of some fucking amazing people, @mr_O turned the "House of O" into "The Compound of Horrors". It's hard to even describe everything that happened that weekend. I can only recount the things I witnessed or was a part of. There is so much more I missed. I will likely write another more personal and reflective piece as I begin to process everything. We started with a short briefing in the garage. Soon we were hooded, numbered, and one by one, put on the block to be disrobed and inspected. The rules were explained. We were here of free will. We could leave anytime with a simple "I quit". Otherwise we would be expected to comply. For 48 hours, 6 participants were put through brutal physical tasks, isolation, humiliation, discomfort, sleep deprivation, mosquito hell, torture and interrogation. We were held in a barn with nothing but cement, chains, and a numbered cinderblock for company. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/271---mr-o---the-selection-.html

This week Woody talks with Sir Phoenix Black. With a diverse background on Kink and Leather, Sir Phoenix talks about an upcoming workshop, at “Beyond Leather", on “The Biochemistry of Play”, In this moderator lead discussion we discuss the biochemistry, hormones and altered mental states behind subspace, topspace and drop. Tips on how to manipulate it, enjoy it and survive it. Also how you may want to alter your play and or aftercare based on pre existing conditions in your bottom. The conversation gets deep into how to enhance play and story from the past. Show page: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/270---sir-phoenix-black--.html

Frolicon is the unique juxtaposition of the geek and kink worlds celebrated in glorious fashion in the heart of downtown Atlanta. Each Spring we celebrate our unique sense of fun and frivolity with 2000 of our closest friends. What’s your poison? We’ve got it all. Kink. Gaming. Burlesque. Music. Costuming. Parties. Lots and lots of parties. At Frolicon we pride ourselves on providing a safe and comfortable place where you can be you. With tracks of programming with focuses on LGBTQIA, erotica and sci-fi/fantasy authors, photography, dance, polyamory, psychology, and so much more we are positive that you’ll find your happy place and maybe discover a few new ones.

Chain. We know what it is. We've all seen it. Meet the man who can teach you how to play with it! Papa Bear, the very first International Person of Leather from 2015, has been teaching for several years. If you want to learn all about chain and the different ways to play with it, listen in and have fun!

I am BlaqLex or Lex, a long time member of Fetlife and California native, Lex is an alpha dominate master and trainer and educator. With over 30 years of experience in the realm of BDSM and kink. My specialty is black sexuality, interracial relationships, the art of difference between a Dom, stud bull, and master training guide where he lectures and holds discussion groups with college and adult audiences.Lex finds that interracial connections remain one of the most taboo and fascinating dynamics of all sexual and adult oriented relationships be it vanilla or kink. In his interview with KinkyCast’s host Woody, Lex discusses a range of issues from his experiences and the attraction of interracial sex and kink to why Black men are drawn to white women.

With sadism and masochism no longer seen as inherently pathological, scientists have begun to think about these as traits that everyone might possess (at least a little bit). In “Why We Hunger for Hurt,” we’ll take a look at research that links masochism to eating chili peppers, riding roller coasters, and climbing mountains, and sadism to Internet trolling and delivering noise blasts in a laboratory game. We’ll also explore whether these types of “everyday sadism" have anything to do with the consensual sadism we see in the BDSM community.

Hello Lovely Kinksters! We have the incredibly pleasure of having "aemok" with us! She is going to talk about Mental Health and Kink. Why is it important? What role does it play in kink? What are some great tips? Tune in to find out, folks!!!

Hello Kinky People! Welcome back to KinkyCast. The hosts of the cast had the immense pleasure of talking to the very first International Olympus MX titleholder Matt O'Toole, aka Perrin, about the wonderful exploration of the Galaxy of Gender. :) So, if you want to learn about all about gender, and have a few laughs along the way, join our motley little crew as we find out all about this fascinating topic.

In 2018 Carmen Rough’s (Rough_n_Tough) unique Beat & Bury scene left a lasting impression on the community as her antics surfaced online with a short video featuring her being buried head first up to her torso wearing only a gas mask and breathing hose with her supple ass exposed for an eager sadist to leave his mark. She was beat and brutalized in front of an awestruck audience. Bearded Prince: Filmmaker, photographer and bondage freak; this bearded wonder has stumbled into the BDSM community to find his true passion mixing his unique style of storytelling and kinky shenanigans. With over twenty years of experience in the mainstream television and motion picture production Bearded Prince has work with some of the most notable organization in the entertainment industry.

Part One - Hello and Welcome Back Kinksters! We have a special guest with us all the way from Salt Lake City, Utah. He is the producer of the Rocky Mountain Puppy and Trainer Contest. He is here to tell us all about the contest, pet play, and his life in the kink world! So, come join us and have a little bit of fun along the way! Part Two - Welcome back for another glimpse into the giant umbrella we call kink! We have the immense joy of having Tig with us to discuss a femme perspective on puppy play! Join us as we discuss pups and handlers, hear all about femme space in pup play, and have a pun-tastically good time! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/262---a-glimpse-in-to-pet.html

Part One - Hello and Welcome Back Kinksters! We have a special guest with us all the way from Salt Lake City, Utah. He is the producer of the Rocky Mountain Puppy and Trainer Contest. He is here to tell us all about the contest, pet play, and his life in the kink world! So, come join us and have a little bit of fun along the way! Part Two - Welcome back for another glimpse into the giant umbrella we call kink! We have the immense joy of having Tig with us to discuss a femme perspective on puppy play! Join us as we discuss pups and handlers, hear all about femme space in pup play, and have a pun-tastically good time! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/262---a-glimpse-in-to-pet.html

Who knew? The KinkyCast would go on this long. Our kinky crew had their fingers crossed that it would. This week we highlight our five most listened shows, plus a bonus. With thousands of plays each, our listeners have chosen the subjects and guests they like. We chat with each for a few minutes and reference their episode in a link. Listen to what these 5 guests are up to now and reflect on their original show. Here are the shows: Five Year Anniversary Show https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/261---five-year-anniversary.html 1. Venus Queen #202 - Looking for a Cuckold Relationship https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/202---venus-queen---looking.html 2. D20Domme #143 - Revisiting BDSM 101 https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2016-archive/143---november-4-2016--.html 3. Kinky Abby #140 - All About Anal https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2016-archive/140---october-7-2016--.html 4. Terek #132 - Cuckolding, BBC & Gang Bangs https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2016-archive/132---august-12-2016--.html 5. Fire Child #232 - Anal 101 https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/232---firechild---anal.html Bonus: BDSM Nightmares #201 https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/201---bdsm-nightmares-true.html

Rainbow_Kitten7 (Fetlife) is a stay at home mother of seven who delights in directing her children’s education through homeschooling. She has been married for 23 years to UnicornHusbandry (Fetlife) who is not only a chef professionally but loves spoiling her with cooking at home. You can often find her in long, deep, intimate conversations about philosophy, theology, or kink with friends over coffee or wine. Her favorite is an intertwining of the three. She loves reflecting and writing about her journey on Fetlife. Realizing that she was not alone in her new found libido at 40, she has set out to be a voice to other women in her same shoes. Embracing a more nontraditional hotwife scenario, her voice is unique in having such a long term, loving relationship while simultaneously embracing her inner slut. This page was removed last year do to a community outing. You can find out what happened in the 2020 Year End Show.

A Faerie Tale Once there was a Princess who had pretty boobs, shapely feet, and a way with words. She had kissed way too many frogs in her life (none of them French, she’s not rude like that, to call people cruel names, unlike the evil ruler of her country), so, she had just about given up hope of ever finding her prince. Then one day, a handsome gentleman with courtly manners showed up and asked her to dance. Filled with wonder, she said, “fuck, yes!” To be continued … And so it goes. This week we visit with Maggie LaFae, yes you have heard that name before back in episode 169. Maggie and her soulmate ATI join us to tell the real life story of their courtship. Maggie details the event on Fetlife in a multi-chapter story, part fiction, part reality. When a woman of 64 years and a man of 52 get together and light a romantic fire that burns so brightly, all we can do is applaud. Sit back and hear the story of two lovers and the modern way they found each other. Link to the Faerie Tale: https://fetlife.com/users/3653792/posts/4796535 Link to the show page: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/259---maggie-lafae---when.html

Page Tuner is a prolific writer and share her thoughts on Fetlife and her site Poly.Land. Below is a link to the writing that caught our eye, because it so personal and so relevant to our fellow Kinksters. Page has been a guest on the cast several times in the past and always brings perspective to polyamorous relationships and those looking to start one. For more information of her writings, visit Poly.Land on the web. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/258---page-turner---an-open.html

Mistress Tulsa has been involved in the Atlanta BDSM community since the mid 90's, having been a regular at PEP Atlanta and Sanctuary of the Dark Angel. Although her background is in classic D/s-M/s and heavy sadomasochism, she has an affectionate solidarity with the local leather community and various lifestyle niche groups. Over the years, she has been involved in two long-term M/s poly relationships as a slave, but is now happily in a long-term monogamous relationship, with Mr. Stripey Pants in service to her. She loves her role as Mistress, but feels very strongly that every couple should make their relationship uniquely suited to their needs. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/257---mistress-tulsa--.html

Every year at this time we gather members of the KinkyCast crew and sit around the dining table to discuss the happenings in our world. This year’s topic is Mainstreaming. We once had an exclusive little club called Kink. It didn’t matter if you were LGBTQ+, swinger, poly, straight, BDSM practitioner, or any of the other flavors for kink that make the crazy quilt that we are. We stayed underground, because it was safe. The fewer outsiders that knew about what we did, the better. Time goes by and now it seems everyone you meet is kinky in some way. They read a book, saw in on TV, or were surprised by it in a movie. Curiosity blooms. Follow the links below for a lot more info. Mainstreaming is the main theme, but we go off in the corners and talk about kinky education, where to get it and the make-up of a kinkster. Our panel of seven discuss what’s going on and how to stay safe in style. We also bring in our old friend Master Cecil for perspective. Join, Woody, Leigh, Autumn Orange, Terik, the Beast, Professor Vanilla and MissTress for a look into “Mainstreaming”. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/256---kinkycast-crew-new.html

Every year at Christmas time we sit down with Susan Wright of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSFreedom.org). We talk about what’s in the news that Kinksters, polyamorists, and the spectrum of players that we call friends. With the many changes in the presidential cabinet, we wonder what was changer in 2018 and what might change in 2019. What rights we may loose, current freedoms that will be less free and the just plain fucking us that is so irritable. This is always an informative show and this year is loaded with some gems that you may not have noticed, in your daily life… Yet! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/255---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

In our exhausting search for new and different things to bring out listeners, we stumble onto some pretty interesting people and some downright hilarious writings. Tonight we bring you, Is Mostly Evil’s slightly tilted world of lazy Domming. How did IsMostlyEvil (aka IsMe) get here, you need to listen to this wild ride into a lazy world… But first, a disclaimer of sorts... I do want to point out to those who don't quite get the concept of satire and humor: This is for entertainment purposes only. This is not an actual guide to anything. Yes, many of the ideas and concept in the following writings do actually work, but as a stand alone thing, you'd be a complete shit of a person to treat someone this way. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/254-ismostlyevil---the-lazy.html

WTF? Consent Apps? A do-it-yourself, grab your phone, and get consent for whatever you want/need. These 'said to be legally binding' apps will simply not get the job done in a court of law. In the show we describe several types that include everything from recording a video together giving both participants' ‘permission’ to debauch. Others have a check list of BDSM kinks and what will be strictly followed by the people involved. Long time friend of the Cast, Lady Steele, Lawyer to the Kinksters, brings a legal perspective to the app and what you should expect as a participant. Lady Steele has served in the Leather community since 1999 and has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/253---lady-steele---consent.html

Bella LaVey spent five years as the highly sought-after dominatrix and erotic wrestler known as Evil Kitty. Through her own sexual awakening, she learned that there is nothing more powerful than bringing one’s darkness into the light and owning your story. Bella believes we must become unshameable around our sexuality to become sexually whole and empowered. She is a holistic sex and relationship coach and facilitates several workshops in the domains of embodiment, tantra, intimacy and erotic polarity at her studio, Temple Shakti in Austin. Her book, Fetish Girl: A Memoir of Sex, Domination and Motherhood was be published on November 13th. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/252---bella-lavey---author.html

Over the course of our history we have had the privilege to talk about polyamory with so many of our guests. We have had a lot of insight into how all of the pieces can fit into a working poly relationship. So, when we were approached by longtime friend of the cast, AutumnOrange, with the idea of an inside look at poly relationship we were happy to do so! When we last checked, this popular polycule’s recent video from Extreme Love had 16 million plus views within just a few short days. So, please join Autumn, Woody, and the Beast as they get the inside scoop from Ken, Vanessa/Bela, and Daniel as they tell us all about their poly relationship, their lives, and a little bit of everything in between. Follow the show link to to get all the info, like see the video!

“How Do You Deal With All These Angry Comments?” Journal Entry “I just saw your latest entry,” goes the text. “Holy shit, how do you deal with all of these idiots leaving snarky comments?” So I thought I’d share my official Tips For Handling FetLife Comment-Storms: Tip #1: Be A Dude. As with so many other things in Western culture, if you can manage to be a dude, and preferably perceived as a cis one, then your comments will immediately become 70% easier to deal with. People sure do love hammering on women on the Internet, so if you’re perceived as a girl, you’ll have some more work to do. Now. This isn’t to say that you’ll receive no comments as a duderino. In fact, I can hear the menfolks saying, “MEN HAVE IT SO MUCH HARDER ON THE INTERNET! I MYSELF - “ how you can survive. Good luck. (Read more on KinkyCast.com)

I do the things they say shouldn't be done. Whether it's hangings or crucifixions, it is not for the faint of heart. I do tend to enjoy play that involves a bit of an edge. Some of the pics are from ideas I and/or one of those wonderful playmates had in mind. I like playing with a wide variety of styles and interests. Yes the pics show mostly the more edgy stuff (that's what catches people's eye), but that doesn't mean I won't equally enjoy what a new playmate wants to try. Maybe I have inadvertently scared off a few prospective folks when they see some of the pics. The one thing they fail to see is those extreme scenes are done with people I have played with, usually, for years. A first play, like a first kiss can be equally rewarding with its potential for exploration and revelation. I guess that's the teacher in me.

This week we explore Pushing Limits, the good, the bad and the ugly! Our guest is Ropetigerdaddy is a frequent writer on Fetlife as well as the author of several books with the intent of helping guide new people to the lifestyle. He lives in the rural midwest on a small farm with his babygirl.

#247 - Ascending Phoenix - Author AscendingPhoenix is a certified hypnotherapist, a Master NLP practitioner, and a Master Shaman. After beginning his kink adventures in Atlanta in 2002, kink has became a core part of his life. He has been involved in erotic hypnosis since 2007, and has been active teaching in the kink community since 2010. His presentations tend to cover the mental and emotional aspects of BDSM, usually including an emphasis on healing and headspace.

Tonight I had sex with two men. I was tied up, spanked, humiliated, degraded. My tits were bruised, my face was smacked. I have marks on my ass and thighs. Every hole I have that could accommodate a cock was used. I came over and over, until I lost count. My cum soaked the sheets. My body still aches from the use and abuse. This is an example of the dirty, nasty things I do. I top. I bottom. I like cock. I like pussy. I enjoy pain. I enjoy giving pain to others. I love sex, I love BDSM and I have a drive that any 18 year old male would be proud of.

Hi there I’m Angelknightxxx on fetlife and angelic_knight on IG. Feel free to send me a message and check out my portfolio. I have been modeling for 2 years and enjoy it very much. I have collaborated with some talented individuals and I know just how blessed I am. I have been in the lifestyle for about 5 years now and have been more active in the last year. I am a bonafide pain slut and rope enthusiast. Whips are my friend as well as canes. I enjoy the art of Kinbaku and Semenawa as its torture in rope with beautiful suffering.

It may be in the news, but how does it affect you? More people than you could imagine have been sexually attacked. Guest Host, Miss_Tress visits with Doc Cinnamon to layout how personal an attack can be. These two well informed women give you a political view for current news in the Me Too movement. This is an important special edition that will make everyone that listens, rethink their own past.

Race: I’ve been active in the Leather scene since 1973. Initially, apart from being a bartender in a sleazy kinky bar, I was essentially a lone maverick player. Then around 1980 I got deeply involved with various clubs, organizations and projects that changed that lone wolf status. Since then I’ve been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker and activist in the LGBT, leather/kink, polyamory and HIV/STI prevention realms. I’ve authored a well-known BDSM book, been published extensively, spoken to hundreds of audiences, created the world’s largest kink-friendly psychotherapist and medical referral service (Kink Aware Professionals), was a leader of The DSM Project that led to a beneficial change in the way psychotherapy views BDSM, founded a groundbreaking alternative sexuality publishing company (Daedalus Publishing Company), been an internet radio sex talk show host, received national and local awards, appeared in numerous documentaries, and currently am the Leather/kink columnist for the Bay Area Reporter http://www.ebar.comwww.ebar.com I also have a blog at http://www.bannon.com and there’s more information about me there for those who might be interested.