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#388 - Life in Denver as a Poly Triad The KinkyCast looks for all types of alternative relationships. Today we found a triad in Denver that came together by our changing times of Covid. Meet, Nikki, Minxy, and Jack of the Poly Triad. They are a polyamorous triad that formed a couple of months before the pandemic! The hard work they’ve put into our relationship through our individual and group therapy has been paramount to our success as a triad. "We’ve gone through quite a journey together including starting our own successful OnlyFans account, to traveling together and scuba diving in Honduras. We’ve spent nearly every waking moment together and somehow… We haven’t killed each other yet. This is our journey into the poly life, BDSM, and becoming content creators.” Links here! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/388---life-in-denver-as-a.html

This week Torch the Witch returns to address the word SLUT. Why is this such a big issue with vanillas and the non-kinky? Torch is a Stand-Up Comic in addition to her efforts to be a sexual being. Here is how it unfolds… I started stripping at 18, became a Jesus Freak at 34, and at 49 I got into kinky sex. So basically, my life is a Jesus sandwich on slut bread. With extra mayo. I had many adventures in Stripperland and Jesusland. Fetlife is where my Kinkland adventures manifest. My sexuality has always been tied to my identity.(Read more here)https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/387---torch-the-witch---did.html

Kissing….UGGHHHHHH Ok boys and girls, time to talk about a passion of mine: Kissing. I wrote about kissing before. It was funny that some people got perturbed and called it the least kinky thing ever. Well, I tend to disagree. In this four-part essay, I will write about. Why kissing is the best fucking thing ever. What constitutes a good kiss. Why you are probably doing it wrong. How to get better. Kissing is the basis of sex. Can you have sex without it? Yes, you can have sex without a lot of things. For me, they are intertwined. Because my kink and D/s is sexual, therefore logically follows that I can't have kink or D/s without kissing. Logic!! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/386---ropetigerdaddy---all.html

"Submission takes many forms. Sometimes it’s strict, Gorean protocol. Sometimes it’s complicated “scenes” with rope, fire, wax, and an array of scary looking - particularly to the untrained eye - implements. It’s not always passive, but it’s not always complicated. —- Sometimes it’s just eating a waffle with strawberry jam.” So says Anna, a Kitten searching for home, love, and happiness. She travels the Tarot cycle from the Fool to the Sun to the World— and along the way finds her affinity for strong men, beautiful women and yummy dessert inexorably leads to something more than a relationship. And that the ties that bind are deeper than anything she has been taught before. She travels the full Tarot cycle from the Fool to the Sun only to learn that the most durable binds are ones we create for ourselves. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---kitty-st-valentine--.html

Lady Katie one of East Tennessee’s top Femdoms. Since beginning her kink journey and exploring more than a decade ago, she has since became a well known Female Dominant. Her commitment to educating others, to the local community, to her play partners, and private clients care keep people coming back again and again to her. The Sapphire is a 3,500 square foot dungeon located in Knoxville Tennessee that is owned and managed by Lady Katie. This is a Members Only dungeon; however you can receive a guest membership from either a member or attending a few open vanilla events to be vetted, like munches, classes, and etc. (For more info, click here)https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/385---lady-katie---the.html

Imagine a public place for all to learn about the kinky world we know… Our Mission as a non-profit organization is to increase acceptance and understanding of BDSM culture in the public perception. We pursue this with a permanent, publicly accessible facility in the service of society and its development, which procures and preserves material and immaterial testimonies from people and their environment to the cultural object BDSM for the purpose of study, education, encounter and experience, researches, makes known and exhibits. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/384---bdsm-museum-hamburg.html

MksThingsHappin (Makes Things Happen), or Peter is one of Chicago’s own presenters. He has been a part of the Chicago kink scene since 2012, and has a love for many types of play, including impact, needle play, rope, and more. He serves on the presenter selection committee for Kinky Kollege, and is a presenter on rotation for Super Tasty, a local stage cabaret talk show. He has also been a guest moderator for the Power Exchange Roundtables. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/383---mksthingshappin--.html

Details, details, details! As a sighted person Woody takes a lot for granted. This week Woody talks with Alluring Onyx. Why Alluring, listen and find out, you will learn a lot about blind people, and even more about this week’s guest. Onyx is a 28 year old 6’4 cisgender queer and polyamorous Black woman living in Oakland. She is also blind. Curious about how she uses FetLife? Want to be her submissive or Daddy Dom to “take care of her,” because she’s blind? Into sensory deprivation and turned on by the fact that blind people have more heightened senses? Please exit stage left immediately. Any ableism in her inbox will be shut down swiftly. If you are genuinely interested in getting to know Onyx, there will be plenty of time to understand blindness. There is no need to lead in with just your curiosities when there are much more tantalizing things you and Onyx could explore. . . https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/382---alluring-onyx---blind.html

This week Doc V and Woody get down to a vast collection of questions sent in by listeners. Some of the highlights are: Teen sex, STI, Hook Ups, Birth Control, Community, Consent, Safety and more! Doctor Vanilla went to a mid western land grant university and earned a masters in human development and family studies and a masters in sociology. She is a feminist scholar with area of emphasis on the sociology of family as well as family policy. Her current interests include trans rights and racism. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/381---woody--doc-vanilla--.html

Sissification is a kink role when a male submissive takes on a feminine role out of submission. Sissification can be different from being trans or being a cross dresser because the sissy may not identify as a female or wanting to be female. Being a sissy is also often paired with being locked in chastity. Chastity is often required in a Female Domme/male submissive dynamic so that the male sub can give up all control over his sex life and orgasms. Sissy kimee (kimchi-kimee on fetlife) is a submissive sissy who serves a Dominant Female and is locked in chastity as a requirement of his submission. By being locked in chastity, sissy kimee can focus all of his sexual energy and frustration in serving his Domme through domestic service and oral worship. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/380---sissy-kimee---sisifac.html

Sir Ezra identifies as a Polyamorous Pansexual Dominant Sexual Sadist. He specializes in edge play, including fire play, knife play, electroplay, whips and mindfucking. He is the Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX as well as a BDSM Life Coach. His book “Mindfucking Mindfully: a Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism” is available at Amazon.com after May 21st. (Click here for more info. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/379---sir-ezra---mind-fucke.html)

Kurt Krueger was born in a small steel town in Pennsylvania in 1952 and has had a camera in his hand since the age of 13. After studying in California, working in NYC, he now lives in Florida working on his photo books. Kurt founded his adult greeting card company “Brazen Images, Inc.” which specialized in erotic and naughty sexual images offset by humorous captions and gag lines. Kurt was featured on television shows such as Phil Donahue - and The Playboy Channel did a feature story on him for their show “Sexcetera”. (Read more and links here!) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/378---kurt-krueger---art.html

Lord Jericho and Epona Camelot hope to make tomorrow's world slightly better than it was yesterday. Please support their stance: Children & Animals are incapable of giving proper consent. Pedophilia and Zoophilia/Beastiality deserve no home within a Kink community. We must shed light on the years of its existence in the dark corners of our communities/ websites and expunge it. Lord Jericho now writes on Medium, and is forming a house based in M/s and volunteerism. Epona-Camelot is a horse enthusiast, longtime rider/trainer, and will soon hold a masters degree. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/377---lord-jericho--epona.html

Meet Ragnar Northman, a 37 year old, edge player from the twin cities. For the majority of his waking life, he's had an interest in the more extreme side of kink and sex. A Master to two beautiful slaves, and operates a Twin Cities Edge-play group on discord. Starting off as a local group of people and have branched out to host members from around the world. This group calls the Discord group server our Creepy Cottage in the woods. Ragnar is a very outgoing person and enjoys talking with people and hearing their stories. So hit him up and tell him a story in the (digital) cottage. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/376---ragnar-northman--.html

MnMorningWood and GingercurlyMWood are a committed couple and keen observers of the intersection between kink and sensuality. They are voyeurs of both the physical and metaphysical sides of the kink community. Both are active participants in events in their local scene. They talk this week about their voyeuristic embrace of all things kink while looking for a deeper understanding of the multi faceted world of sex and sensuality. (Read more on the show page) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/375---the-woods-on-voyeuris.html

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes in making sex education fun and engaging and has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, KinkAcadamy, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/374---rain-degrey---a-year.html

This week we meet Dr. Emma Logenberry a qualified Clinical Psychologist (DCl in Psych) and a Professional Dominatrix based in the UK. She qualified as a Clinical Psychologist nearly 20 years ago and transitioned to working as a full-time Professional Dominatrix over the last few years. Understanding the importance of relationships, work therapeutically, and flexibility within a BDSM-friendly context. She offers individual and couple sessions - drawing on flexibility within psychology and kink to offer exciting, therapeutic, and innovative sessions. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/373---dr-emma-logenberry--.html

This week Serena Red crossed our path all the way from London. The kinky, exhibitionist hot redhead next-door. She calls herself a masochistic slut who will brat for beatings. (To read more about her, follow this link) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/372---hotrednextdoor--.html

What do you get when you cross a Sexologist and an Author? You get Megan Stubbs and her soon to be published (May 11, 2021) book on Playing Without A Partner. Megan holds degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology. Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/371---megan-stubbs---playin.html

This week we connect with Mary Jane. A few words in her profile caught our attention. Words like ‘demisexual’ and ’sapiosexual’. Mary Jane is a lovely woman living in the south of the USA, and is a real brainiac. Her Fet profile is “Mary_Jane_Needs” and we were curious what she needed. Listen to Mary Jane as she lays out her needs, desires, and getting along in todays world. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/370---mary-jane---intellige.html

EDGE PLAY is a universe beyond Fifty Shades of Grey and The Big Short, set in the most elite, twisted circles of Wall Street mega-power and S&M. Amy Lefevre dives into an underground realm of Big Swinging Dicks only to find that, in this arena, the women wield the whips and the men submit. She rides the extreme edge of business and pleasure. But what are the ultimate consequences of aiming to dominate in both? To learn more about the author, follow this link: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/369---jane-boon---edge-play.html

Today we present a special edition of the KinkyCast, it’s a little out of our lane, but think you might get a few ideas on how to utilize the information our friend TK is bringing to the show today. KinkyShottz is part of the (ALDSX Games) the next evolution of adult XXX sports for the lifestyle and the participants of it. KinkyShottz is a sexual, active sports competition, gameshow, masturbation, intercourse all wrap into one it is pure energy from the beginning to the end. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/special-edition---tk--.html

Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the US (and Canada!) while maintaining a private practice in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Click on the link to read more about the book. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/368---stella-harris---the.html

This week is the 7th anniversary of the KinkyCast! We are celebrating with Phoenix Soul, an old friend, that attracted our attention last December when she took out an ad to look for a romantic suitor. In this episode, we take a deep dive into the process of finding kinky love in the time of Covid in Australia. Join us to see how it all unfolded.

This week we bring you, two powerhouse presenters on upcoming virtual conferences. Here what Lady D and Sir Phoenix Black have to say about these events. Therapeutic Scenes ain’t Therapy, is a dual moderated class Lady D & Sir Phoenix Black will discuss how a Therapeutic scene may provide relief for or may reveal to deep physical or psychological trauma. Sir Phoenix will discuss how the biochemistry and neurology behind an intense scene can unearth memories and trauma. Lady D will discuss how these epiphanies and memories can and should be used as a springboard to true mental healing. Be prepared to fully geek out on hard science and embrace mental healing. The Thrive Conference is April 23-25, 2021. Additionally, we are presenting individually at Flame Conference Feb 19-21, 2021. Both are Virtual Conferences. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/366---lady-d--sir-phoenix.html

Check out Joanna’s newest project, Club 42, a choose-your-own-fantasy, interactive book! Joanna Angel is a powerhouse in the adult entertainment industry as an adult film star, director, producer, author, and founder of the BurningAngel Empire — the company known for the emergence and prevalence of tattooed women in the adult film industry. On February 9, 2021, she releases her second choose-your-own erotic fantasy book, Club 42. It’s a sexy read both men and women can get on board with, and something we think everyone will enjoy from the comfort of their own home this Valentine’s Day.

The Goddess Indigo and Dr. Bob just came out with two new books - one on communication and one on creating magic in the dungeon. They both have long histories of being community educators at various conferences and dungeons internationally. For more info about the two new books, click below! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/364---goddess-indigo--docto.html

Episode 363 - Today’s show brings Dr. Craig Webster to the mic. Webster headed an international search of Munches. These published papers represent many of the factors that make a successful munch. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/363---dr-craig-webster--.html

Another one for the record books. The year 2020 will be remembered for generations to come. As a community we found it hard to get our ‘kink on’, and we were isolated from our friends and family. Poly families were split up and extended families stopped seeing each other for pure safety. How will the affect our psyche? Today we take a look back at the year and real at it’s ability to knock us all down a notch. Today’s show is an hour-long and unlike the normal end of the year show, we couldn’t sit around the table and chat, so we did the next best thing… Zoom it! We were able to bring friends from across the country, to talk about what has happened to them in this crazy year. Included in this show is a revealing look into a poly family being outed by an undisclosed source. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/362---kinkycast-year-end.html

At this time each year, we invite Susan Wright of NCSF to go over a list of what happened in our alternative sexuality world in 2020. Susan is a long-time friend of the KinkyCast and this year’s list is long! Here is a sample of the list: Covid-19 and the impact on our communities, supporting virtual events, the Black Lives Matter movement, NCSF’s Consent Counts project to decriminalize BDSM, NCSF 2020 Consent Survey research data, Incident Reporting & Response, and the kinds of reports NCSF are getting from our communities, Polyamory Day and Metamour Day, and how to get involved. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/361---susan-wright---ncsf.html

The Bonding Project seeks to answer a common question: how do we bond? For centuries, the mainstream answer has been simple: We bond in sexually monogamous pairs. Yet we are in a time of incredible change and re-thinking: Relationships, community, race, political norms, civic life, even what it means to be human are all shifting from old norms to new possibilities. In recent years, unconventional relationships have become more mainstream. Long time monogamous partners are discussing “opening” their relationship. Some people are choosing to be “single” forever. Others are creating multi-partner family units. So many possible configurations can make navigating intimate relationships both exciting and confusing. The Bonding Project’s goal is to help people identify their bonding preferences and connect with partners with compatible bonding styles. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/359---dr-elizabeth-eli.html

Hop on for a fun ride on the hypno train! We have all watched a hypnotist do their thing with a willing participant. I have watched group hypnotism at Frolicon and had some of the deepest belly laughs as a dozen people do odd things that seem out of character. This week we bring you Pretty Fantastic, a professional hypnotist that spends his day job helping people with smoking cessation, weight loss, and other vanilla human conditions. In his free time, our guest moves to the darker side and will consensually hypnotize a kinky subject. We have always heard that you won’t do something that you normally would not do in real life, under hypnotism. Find out how this sorts out in this week's episode. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/358---pretty-fantastic--.html

This week we talk with swingers, Dahlia and Rich. How do you keep a swinger group in Covid times? We learned it’s about community. Here is what these community builders have to say. “We look to bring together sexy like-minded people in a safe and fun atmosphere. We specialize in hosting parties that cater to the adventurous who enjoy erotic experiences and expanding their horizons. (You only live once!) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/357---dahlia--rich-styles--.html

XGoddessSophieX also known as ALittleHunnyBee and her partner Physics are an experienced, polyamorous, and pansexual kink couple who are passionate kink educators and enjoy exploring the overlap between BDSM and spirituality. Between them is an age gap of 20 years, but that hasn't stopped them from wild experiences traveling the country in their kinky school bus throughout this pandemic. The two of them enjoy sharing stories, love, and experience with like-minded kinksters and joined KinkyCast to talk about Sex Magick, Chi, Squirting, and their experiences and adventures together. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/356---bee--physics---on-the.html

This week’s festinating guest is an upcoming social media star! She is a prime example of not letting Covid get you down. Olive Apple lost her job in March, due to closings. When lock-downs happen it’s time to turn on creativity. Armed with an iPhone and watching TikTok for ideas, she started making adult versions on some Tiktok videos she had seen and then turned up the volume! Listen to this entrepreneur turn a lack of work into a full time job with financial reward. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/355---olive-apple---making.html

This weeks guest as a “strong, independent, intelligent woman that enjoys nurturing, exploring, and expanding my submissiveness.” In the last few years she has embraced the role of photographic model. At 47 years old she is getting a late start in modeling, but she is killing it with creative poses that turn heads that have a sense of humor. Erato says, "One of my new found desires is exhibitionism. I very much enjoy sharing the moments of my journey with you all and appreciate thoughtful and respectful comments. While I may flirt a little from time to time, it’s generally not my thing.” https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/354---erato---a-photographe.html

Most of us know who John Baku is, but for those who don’t, John is the brain behind FetLife.com. This is John’s fourth appearance on KinkyCast and we haven’t spoken in a while. As with everyone else, 2020 has brought challenges to running any business. Today John speaks about how he spread out his site creators and operators around the world, before the pandemic. We ask how John and his crew are communicating and keeping the site, not only running but thriving! FetLife is approaching 10 million users and is a force in the sexuality websites. Today Woody and John wander over what’s going on in kinkdom and how players are dealing with the inability to personally socialize. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/353---john-baku---locked.html

In this show we had the opportunity to speak with Mike of Utmost Restraint. Mike’s imagination takes him to the woodshed to build lots of fun toys for adult play. Here are Mike’s own words on how he feels about BDSM… "I love the sight (and the feel!) of bodies molded and shaped by rope. While total immobilization is magnificent, I especially adore ties that leave some freedom of movement - although the more pathetic and ineffectual these remaining movements can be, the better! My happy place is when a body (mine or someone else's) is squirming and writhing, straining against bonds and struggling with exertion in a futile exploration of the constrained movement its present confinement allows.Life moved on, I got busy, and I put my kink interests on the back burner for a few years. Sad! I couldn't continue to do that - I needed some kinky fun back in my life. So, over the last few years I've started revisiting my BDSM interests. I had a blast attending Midori's Rope Dojo, events at the SF Citadel, and I'm looking to mingle with like-minded friends in the bay area." https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/352---utmostrestraint--.html

Stepp's fantasies about BDSM started very early. When he was 6 years old he wanted to tie up the PE teacher. He certainly would have had no idea what to do with her once he had her tied up. So the years passed… Stepp has a passion for suffering, his partners have a passion for suffering, also. "It completes us - It makes our lives whole." He admires and respects all of his partners for having the courage and trusting Him to bring them the places we need to go to really feel complete. A trip to the dungeon is an adventure. It's the job of the Dom to control and guide the experience. Having an intense scene with someone who really suffers, it's like sharing something special. It's really that connection in those most intense moments. The real. The raw. The primal. Building a home dungeon offers the ability for concentrated intense play without interruptions. Converting a basement space for playspace is a great way to pass the time of Covid. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/351---stepp---home-grown.html

JustRob (He/Him) and JustKaren (She/Her) are from Jacksonville, FL. They have been together and active in the BDSM and Leather communities since 2008. He identifies as a reaction junkie dominant and She identifies as a voyeuristic bisexual switch. They are Leatherfolk, educators, advocates, community organizers, leaders and just all round fun to chat with. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/350---just-rob--just-karen.html

This week we visit with a great human being with a strange monicker, he goes by “Hi There Catsuit”! We have to know how and why he got that name. He is also associated with our friends at DatingKinky.com, and has a new podcast. His new cast is, What Women* (*and other wonderful Humans) Want podcast is a fun and frank discussion about the way people get to know each other from first impressions to building a relationship, whether that relationship is romance, friendship, play partners, or any other kind of relationship. The show is being presented by DatingKinky, a wonderful site founded by my friend NookieNotes which brings together information, education, and connections for non-traditional relationships. As she says, it’s kinky done differently. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/349---hi-there-catsuit-this.html

Join hosts, M3ssalina and Phoenix for this book club turned podcast. They discuss all books and writings related to kink, BDSM, and fetish culture. They offer monthly readings and special episodes with interesting things in the kink world. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/348---from-book-club-to.html

Join the Paddle Priest Lord Jericho, and Kinkycast, as we try to create a few laughs and inspire a bit of early Christmas spirit in the chaos of 2020. Lord Jericho seeks balance in life and to inspire both himself and those around them to become the better versions of themselves each passing day. This week, we seek to balance the darkness dwelling inside your twisted kinky minds. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/347---lord-jericho---dear.html

Here we are in the autumn of 2020 and kinky event promoters and wondering what’s next. How do you plane an event in a time of uncertainty? Master Cecil and Darcy talk about the steps to move forward into the brave new year. Their annual big event is FIRE - Florida Intense Rope Experience, one of the larger rope events in the US. Planning is underway for the 2021 event. We discuss how to get from ‘point unknown’ to point ‘I hope so’. Dealing with booking hotels with contingency plans and dealing with the potential attendance with an unsure populous. We try to get back to a new normal with our friends and community. We delve into the possibilities of online events in the time when we can’t gather in a physical place. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/346---master-cecil-and.html

Impact - what’s that? Impact has been part of the Memphis/Mid-South BDSM community since 1997. It is a 5000-square-foot facility complete with a gigantic main dungeon, three smaller play rooms, a social area separate from the dungeon/play areas, a coat room, a reception area, a small kitchen, and 2 restrooms. St. Andrew's Crosses, whipping posts, spanking benches, beams for suspension bondage play, cages, and a ton of other dungeon furniture are provided. Any cuffs, collars, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, ropes, etc. you will need to bring with you. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/345---gray-from-impact-in.html

Feeling a little locked in? Doing it for yourself is what this show is all about! Slaveara is a DIY kinkster based in Memphis, TN. She’s been a part of the fet community since the moment she turned 18 and has been an active member of the Memphis kink community for a year and a half. When she’s not devouring kinky literature or spending time at her local dungeon, she’s experimenting with different kinds of play on herself. Her adventures in self-topping have included wax, needles, predicament bondage, clamps, impact play, and more. Join us for a view into doing it for yourself! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/344---slaveara---diy-play.html

This week we visit with Pet and Purr, aka: Pet Cimon, in Calgary Canada. Pet is a remarkable woman that has lived several lifetimes in her short 41 years on this earth. Adopted as an infant, her Mom passing at 8 years old, drugged up Dad, on her own at 13. She was sex trafficked, bought and sold, and the list of unstable youth situations formed this wonderful woman. Pet battled here weight most of her life and was forced to “look good” by her captors. Here diet plan was drugs. Fast forward to a person that cares deeply and is a warrior for social justice. She started a group that is all about supporting and empowering women of all sizes. To build each other up and to support each other on our bad days as well. This group will have daily topics and fun challenges. "Let’s come together and build each other up." https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/343---pet-and-purr---a.html

What is being a Hotwife all about? It’s a two-parter… Hot and Wife. In this show, we take you off to Texas to talk with a newly formed Hotwife and how she is honing her skills in this time of social distancing. She was brought into the lifestyle via a swinger husband and quickly ‘came’ up to speed. Just when her new found fetish was getting going, we all locked ourselves in our homes. She needed to figure out safe ways to still meet people and play. She says, “We are looking for everything ranging from a bull to a trans woman, to a girlfriend/boyfriend, that loves the cuckold lifestyle and who loves having fun as much as we do.” We spoke on how unreliable guys were to show up and stick to the agreed plan. She records her exploits to share with hubby. Sounds like fun to me! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/342---cum-whore-wife--.html

As we sit at home trying to get out kinky-on… What do you do when there is no one to tie you up? We asked our friend, Linworth what she would do. She had a list of possibilities. Linworth is a “rope human” with a very creative eye for finding like-minded people to share experiences. Listed in the link below, are a plethora of possibilities to find classes, demo, and social media about rope. This is a great resource for rope newbies to advanced players. Be safe and have fun! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/341---linworth---got-ropeas.html

We first heard from this weeks guest back in 2015, episode #61. We thought we’ed get caught up! Bruisedtonsils is a woman of a certain age, submissive babygirl, living 24/7 in the lifestyle for over ten years. She also performs burlesque and drag in the Knoxville community. Her current project is Gabbing Girl Time, a podcast for women juggling vanilla life and kink. The conversation went to everyones question, “What the hell is going on in the scene?” With play spaces either closed or very limited access, a lot of people are putting their kink on hold. Tune in and see what Bruisedtonsils has to say about this very current subject. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/340---bruised-tonsils---the.html